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It probably gave a bunch of other men the idea to start too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 02:36 AM
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I love this post. I’m three weeks post op from my sterilization and the relief is indescribable. I hope yours goes as smoothly as mine did! I think I saw it on the childfree forum, stories about men using sterilization as an excuse to not use condoms, etc, and so the women encourage keeping their sterilization a secret. But that’s always kind of bothered me because it feels like it clashes with FDS principles. After all, if a man isn’t conscious of and proactive about STDs, that’s an LV trait an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 05:22 PM
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I broke up with my ex because his two favorite “songs” were by U2 and Brittany Spears, but he would never actually say a favorite song of theirs. Maybe he just meant them in general. All of the other music he listened to was, verbatim, whatever his mom liked. And then the occasional rap song. Obviously broke up because of other reasons, but his music taste honestly sketched me out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:59 PM
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Exactly. Someone who is always looking to put others down is just unpleasant to be around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 07:39 PM
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This is a question for your lawyers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:10 AM
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AND it’s completed?? I know what I’m doing tonight! Thank you! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:24 AM
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He doesn’t see women as people. He doesn’t care at all about the “person” he would be with. He just wants A woman. Any would do. How dehumanizing. How absolutely disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 05:13 AM
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But not even about entertaining a romantic prospect. Just in life. I can’t block my boss or my co-workers or my mother or my classmates. And you’re not always in a position to use the block button liberally. There has to be a way to defend against this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 07:05 PM
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This is it!!!! It makes me so mad! It makes me crazy! Do they really think they can overwrite the narrative?? How are they not embarrassed? How do they not get laughed out of room?? Why do so many of them do this, and how can you push back against it? Of course interally I know they’re full of it, but is there a way to just, flip the script on them? Not match the crazy. But shutting them down. I don’t have any tools to use against this situation other than know for myself that it’s nuts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 05:06 PM
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This is the most succinct explanation I’ve ever seen thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 04:54 AM
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Thank you so much. That blog link was a great read. I can’t believe there are real adults out there who resort to actual name calling. How are they not embarrassed? I don’t think I’ve called anyone a name since I was in elementary school! That would be crazy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 11:15 PM
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His one other partner was foreign too (we’re 22). I remember thinking about that and questioning myself about it but totally brushing it off because “trust is all you need for love to succeed” or whatever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:20 PM
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Your comment really, truly helped me last night. Thank you. Now that I’ve slept on it, I can’t feel anything other than disgust. You don’t intentionally hurt someone’s feelings you actually love?? The cognitive dissonance is so strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:09 PM
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Yes!! How succinct. I can’t quite articulate why or how yet, but this post dovetails so perfectly with the Slow Fade post from five days ago!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 09:10 PM
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After he said I was his priority, etc, I scribbled out all of my angry responses in my notes app. “In what world have I been your priority?? etc.” I could have gone on and on about this instance or that, this example or that. I could have explained everything to him in excrutiating detail. Instead, I pulled as much grace as I could muster and told him, “If this is how you treat someone who is your priority, then we must be incompatible and searching for different things.” He kept saying, “I’m so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 09:06 PM
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I second this. You can go anywhere in the entire world to hear about good deeds men have done. I really don’t need to hear about them in the sole women-only space on the internet that’s already been bogged down by ego-boosting “story times.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:30 PM
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Can you rec any books on healing your inner child?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 05:08 AM
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In my experience this also happens a lot around the 3-6 month phase for people who don’t really know exactly what they want out of a relationship, including myself (22). We go all in into a relationship, banking on the hope that this is The One, and we have to accept the whole person no matter who they turn out to be. That’s when the cognitive dissonance sets in, and we realize what they promised and what they said don’t match up to reality in any way. I’m experiencing this at the one year mark …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 07:07 PM
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Oh my GOD. I’m so tired of being told that I’m being too much, too angry, too RATIONAL of all things! when I’m communicating something that bothered me. I don’t raise my voice. I don’t get petty. I state facts—what happened and how it affected me and how I felt about it. Jesus Christ. I’m so over it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 01:44 AM
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YES. This post came at such the right time for me. I am SO unbelievably pissed off. This guy’s only life plan is to go to grad school. I didn’t realize that meant he had absolutely no career (or otherwise) aspirations at all. AND THEN, this whole semester he would say he sleeps through this one class on (my country’s) Government, or he’ll pick up the phone when he’s in that class (I didn’t memorize his schedule; as soon as I realize it I hang up). Now, he has finals coming up and has the absolut…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 10:48 PM
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I like quizzes and personality tests as much as the next guy, but if your mbti type is one of the first things I learn about someone as a person, that’s an instant pass. Especially INTJ, or INFP lol I mean for real, how can talking about your personality type be the main thing you want to talk about compared to anything else? AKA is talking about mbti the heights of how interesting you are as a person?? Super sus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:11 AM
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Right?? Is there a way to, like, say, “This is not acceptable.” I’ve been with this guy for a year, and I have five usable photos that I can actually look back fondly on. He will literally ruin the others. Not in to make me look bad—it’s not about me at all. He does it with his sports team and all his friends too. I feel bad for them—imagine looking back on photos from when you were young and some dude had to scrunch up his whole face?? We’re not 5 or 13 anymore! It’s not cute anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:51 AM
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WEIRD FACES I couldn’t have put it better. The guy I’m seeing will NOT take a decent photo (didn’t meet on OLD, but still relevant). Not can’t, but won’t. I’m very close to calling it all off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:38 PM
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I don’t think I could have put it into words better, and we’re not even talking the same operation despite having the same experience. I was in so much pain I couldn’t talk let alone think. How much longer? How much higher will the pain rise before it’s over? I felt so violated I was up until 5am that night just crying because every time I tried to stop thinking about it and sleep I would just have this pain induced panic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 08:14 PM
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When I read online that people were offered muscle relaxers and meds that let your cervix dilate, I was so angry. I wouldn’t have said yes to same day insertion if I had known! I KNEW it was going to be painful, and I would’ve taken those meds had I known about them. The real kicker? I can’t take ibuprofen. Guess whose doctor’s office doesn’t carry tylenol??????? Guess who had to wait until her MOTHER came to pick her up and bring tylenol FOR her, THREE HOURS later when I was coherent enough to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 03:11 AM
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Exactly! I’m so sorry you have to go through this too. I went on it to control painful periods, but this is almost worse! At this moment (aka because I haven’t moved in a few hours) I’m painless but extremely bloated, and I just keep thinking to myself, what if this is all in my head? I made such a big fuss about it, of course I don’t have to take it out. I hope if you decide to remove yours you’ll feel as good as I’m about to feel tomorrow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 03:08 AM
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Honestly, I’d rather have all the dumb things scrotes say on a separate sub. I like reading them and laughing sometimes, but I hate that even in this female-only space we still have to give brainpower up to thinking about LVM. I just want to be around girls and see things about how incredible they are. Can’t believe no platform will let us have that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:09 PM
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Every time a woman posts a comment like this I swoon. “Men playing video games is lame” is music to my ears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:53 PM
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I’m honestly so excited to (hopefully?) grow old. The amount of contentment that I’ll have, having done and chased after everything I wanted to experience. Wow, I can’t wait to be 56 and look back on my life and just say, “Wow, I’ve really lived.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 02:55 AM
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FDS seems to blow my mind at least once a day. It’s posts like these that really slap me upside the head and realign how I was thinking of things. Thank you for this comment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 02:49 PM
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This really hit me in the heart. Thank you for writing this today
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:25 PM
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The fetishization of asian women by these weebs is TERRIFYING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:26 AM
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This is honestly disgusting. Don’t encourage board game players to join an app like this??? Pick an audience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 09:38 PM
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It’s honestly so hard to be a) just a normal person who has relocated to Japan and b) a woman interested in Japan. Every online space discussing learning the language, moving there, etc is filled with cat-girl obsessed, overweight, self-absorbed men who haven’t learned more than the basics even though they’ve been “studying” for three years. The amount of men who declare x is y and expect me to take their word for it when they haven’t even visited the country DISGUSTS me. I wish there were space…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 06:16 PM
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Anyone have any advice for this for long distance (long term) relationships? Wondering how to do “online dates” or doing activites based on FDS principles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:43 AM
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Something here struck a cord with me, and I can’t quite put my finger on it yet. I’m very thankful for you taking the time to write out this response. You seem to have very warm and gentle loved ones. I can only hope to have this one day as well, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:53 PM
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There’s such a double standard too. Just today! I got told by my father that my younger brother is already an adult (discussing a drastic decision he made), and yet my big life decisions are ALWAYS criticized because I’m “still a child.” It’s either “you should’ve known better because you’re older” if my younger brother acts up OR “well you’re just a child” while he gets a free pass to live however he wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:22 AM
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I guess I’m also trying to reconcile how it would work with marriage. All my older relatives have been married for life, like definitely past 50 years and the longest being 75. All fairly happy and in love. The way I was raised was that you mainly rely on family, and friends are there but mostly for catching up every few months, or kind of come and go. I’m the first generation where OLD is a thing and where I haven’t been married by 22 let alone probably 25 or even 30. So I’ve gone into looking …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 11:38 PM
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I love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:16 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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