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that's what i keep reminding of but it's been 1.5 years and i still feel positively stuck :( what is this why won't he go away from my head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 09:18 PM
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girl i- 💀💀💀 HANDBOOK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 11:58 AM
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uwu father ded and buried and i hate myself so much y my 3 inch unsucked still?? ? 🥺🥺🥺💓💓💓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 06:09 AM
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these scrotey mcscrotes with a pathologically low self-esteem and a history of untreated mental illnesses under their belt should be classified a biological hazard 💀💀💀 miss me with that shi homeboy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 06:00 AM
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who wanna bet he got a secret harem of wifeys lmao chud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 05:55 AM
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I am not like other girls. rly sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 10:22 AM
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Absolutely testerical! 😭😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 10:48 AM
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oh yes, as a former bubbly girl and relentless people pleaser, i can definitely say how satisfying it is to be able to have some dusty nervously shift around in my presence. (i'm 5'0 btw lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 05:10 AM
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no lmao they'll do this thing where they'll actually put their bf's first name on their bio like mark ❤️ or whoever scrote enrages me so fucking much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 07:52 AM
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ughhhhhhh i'm a gen z teenager and i see this shit all the time with ladies my age too. always rubs me the wrong way ong like miss me with that shit bro putting your boyfriend's name on your bio rlly?????? im a big believer in 'single until married' mantra can't relate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 07:13 AM
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agh I was just thinking about this today it's so disturbing when you see the yt comments praising hailey for heAling him and being such a patient & nurturing figure for him JUST NO OH GOD ALL OF IT TRIGGERS ME BEYOND POINT like???? there are THAT many people out there who actually think it's a-ok and romantic for a woman to be a self-sacrificing mommy for your fucking man-child of a husband
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 10:26 PM
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Sadly, for a while in my life, I lost my sense of self determination, and tried dating men who didn’t treat me right. Dark times. as a former "the bitch" who is once again getting in touch with her inner bitch, i relate so hard. so much of it had to do with societal gaslighting and being surrounded by pick-mes. hugs and kisses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 08:24 PM
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Because if you keep bottling up your urge to express your disgust with their behavior you are running a great risk of developing malignant tumors. no fr though i didn't do a snarky 'haha gotcha!!!' or an emotionally charged paragraph he doesn't deserve, just indifferent matter-of-fact statements before i promptly blocked and deleted him everywhere and i have to say, i do feel a huge weight that has been relieved off of my shoulders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 08:14 PM
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I was thinking about that. The phrase pickme has also been co-opted by non-FDSers. Just yesterday I overheard this absolute LVM of a guy talk about a certain woman wanting to be a 'pickme healer' and his distaste for it even though he continues to use her regardless. FDS spits nuthin but fact bombs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 05:20 AM
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did we not see this coming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 02:39 AM
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ahahahaa no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:18 AM
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The men I’ve known though, yeesh, always come off like sleazy salesmen to me. One of my exes, Mr. “I-like-to-manipulate-people-it’s-easy” said he was ENTP. PLS I KNOW. they ooze off so much glibness and happen to be obnoxious on every fucking front. my entp ex also took pride in his ability to manipulate people. ezeeeh my skin legit crawls whenever i think of him 🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 06:29 PM
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well duh. i had to sift through many different personality types over the years before i settled on mine. we can never bar ourselves from biases and cloudy self-judgments. i read up on cog functions that go beyond the simplistic binary dichotomies and introduces more nuance to the entire thing, it's been great as a tool for self-reflection and self-growth for me so far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:29 PM
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i think people who're quick to dismiss mbti with a sneer as 'muh heckin glorified pseudoscience' are completely missing the point. it stems from a skewed belief in treating logical positivism as the end-be-all method of granting legitimacy, not understanding the fact that the scientific method is only one valid research framework out of many. personality theories are inherently non-falsifiable, therefore making their argument inadequate and pointless. ay entp here by the way, luv to see my fello…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:20 PM
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entp as well. you should look into cognitive functions when you have the time, 16p is laughing stock of the entire mbti community because the site offers no room for nuance and the questions happen to be really flawed. there's a tumblr blog which goes by mbti-notes which has more or less all the mbti related information you're going to need. as jarring as us entp women can be, i don't think any type has it worser than intj women lmao so i'll save the lamentations for another time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:55 PM
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i'm so fascinated when it comes to women intj, truly the non-conformists out of the bunch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:29 PM
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always wanted me an entp bestfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:26 PM
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ikr lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 02:56 PM
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ayo fellow neurodivergent here. the part about always winding up attracting (also ND) lvms who're royally fucked in the head rings relatable for me. how did i combat this, you ask? i did not. what men end up on my lap falls directly out of my purview. isn't the whole point of being here learning how to effectively separate wheat from the chaff? agreed, us ND women have more deterrents in the way than normal. something about your post tells me you tend to hold them to some levels of expectations …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 09:18 AM
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if only i had exes who would think it best to fuck off into oblivion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 09:32 PM
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too bad male gaze is so pervasive in nearly every aspect of our lives. how do you manage to completely shake it off?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 08:07 PM
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You can acknowledge your desire for love and companionship, as is only natural if you're a living being whilst also loving your own precious company. All the zen energy you've accumulated for yourself is sacred, remember that. I don't think there is a direct answer, truth be told. It's not something that gets brought up around here often. I think it's a specific state of mind really. Just a few days back, I came across an article that detailed how romantic love is more or less a manufactured con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 09:59 PM
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It also should consume your entire life. very much so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 09:19 PM
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IKR 😭😭😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:42 PM
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ahahahahaha what a fucking clown
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:38 PM
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and still find him attractive my attraction for Don Draper had completely waned by latter half when his mystique factor had worn off and we got to see him for who he's always been - a pathetic drunk who can barely hold his own together. gave me a huge insight into my fucked-up taste in men guess it did lol i like how everyone reached different epiphanies and self-realizations for themselves, for me it was realizing that i'm only ever doing myself a disservice by rejecting who i am and not lettin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 09:01 PM
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My ex thought that scene was the epitome of Pete being a 'cool guy' No fucking wonder indeed. I'm astounded as to your ex's reaction considering he was such a weasel in the beginning. Guess that's peanut brained LVMs for ya. Good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 08:48 PM
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just about to finish the show. i have to say, there were so many incredible lessons to pick throughout. wish i could watch it for the first time all over again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 08:28 PM
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I also hate self-deprecating humor Boy I need to stop doing that It's never something I do out of the blue, just a tactic for when someone tries to 'playfully tease' me. You know I'm probably going to distance myself from them that point onwards but it works in the moment because then at least I get to control the narrative
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 03:07 AM
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I believe it might be because of the connotations the word feminine carries. And I don't blame or accuse anyone here, the systematic brainwashing is so ingrained that sometimes us women don't happen to realize it either. (Toxic)Masculine ideals are celebrated and adopting them is seen as empowering. Especially in a workplace environment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 08:54 PM
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While I can see where the contentious comments are coming from, I think it's because they're misconstruing the message of OP. It's not about exclusively dressing in frills and laces and acting meek and docile. There is such a thing as being in your healthy feminine energy that is at once characterised by being gracious and having strong boundaries. Now I understand why this might sound like a bunch of woo-woo, but I ask everyone here to conjure up an example of a HVM in their heads. Or any HV pe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 08:42 PM
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the how-to femininity sphere is hot trash ong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 08:32 PM
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did you try urban dictionary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 08:04 PM
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Meanwhile my friends can't get out of debt but rest assured--they have love. So much of it is societal indoctrination, but then art and media has always been a means of escape hence the 'love conquers all' spiel that gets thrown around everywhere. Only people start thinking this is how reality works when it doesn't. I wonder how many of them actually love each other more than they do an unattainable idea. Love is everywhere, romantic love only constitutes a tiny portion of it. I wish this sort o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 07:26 PM
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I've had this happen a couple times, where I start to wonder if I'm being too harsh after all only for me to be proven wrong over and over. All of the times I let my guard down only solidified my belief in FDS-princriples that I daren't stray away from anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:35 PM
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you're right, i would love to hold on to the hopeful stance that people can turn around their ways for the better but how often does that happen really? at least, i can speak for my dad, who's the same LVM at 50 as he was in his 20s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:31 PM
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I'm curious too but there's my sister who barely listens to music if ever, so there's that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 09:07 PM
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unrelated but your reddit avatar had me thinking you were a dude who's managed to pull a sneaky lol sick outfit though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:28 AM
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Like you said, the red flags are never present as a singular occurrence. They're always present as a cluster if you're willing to actually look and not feign ignorance. Therefore, you and every lady here stand corrected in dropping them at the first sign. And yes, yellow flags hold equal significance. No, it's not you overreacting or a case of you being too harsh. (Since you are going to be made to feel guilty by the surrounding pick-mes "just give him a chance", "you're too picky")
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 04:44 PM
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the fact that i spent 1.5 years being sucked into the cycle :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:28 PM
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oh back in my younger years i was always left so confused on why these men who claimed to never feel 'good enough' for me would turn around and suddenly make the switch to take me for granted, tugging me along like their little marionette but you see, what goes on in their head (subconsciously) is not 'blessed am I for this marvelous woman has taken a chance on me' but 'yo maybe she not all that considering she settled down for a POS like me HMMMMMM' my point, please do not ever personalize a sc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:11 PM
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like the other commenter said, you handled it so much better than I ever could. reading the whole exchange infuriated me so much, good fucking riddance loved the distinction you made between nice and good, definitely something to keep in mind! i've noticed narcs sure do put on air of superficial nicety when everything is going their way - except when it's not. then comes the deflection, passive aggression, gaslighting and whatever 50 tricks they've up their sleeves as long as it means they never…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:57 PM
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let him know he is a six piece of chicken MC-NOTHIN' plssssss 💀💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:06 AM
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lol have to love the comments on mr smol peen energy's post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:01 AM
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my thirst would increase when I felt like I couldn’t pursue my dreams GIRL SAME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:28 AM
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Is this due to too many women in the pool having low standards yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 07:05 AM
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wohoooo it's only an upward slope from here now 🥰🥰 stick around and remember to surf through FLS as well!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:49 PM
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In any case, as much as innocence seems to be valued in our culture, the innocent typically get dumped on. I think what is really valued is camped-up fake innocence. This right here. People want displays of saccharine sentimentality and authenticity in a way that doesn't step too outside the line or which does not become overbearing. People don't actually want you to be either of those. I can attest to all of it, I've had a better time navigating in and around my dating and friendship circle put…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 05:49 AM
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wow, he's being so nice despite the fact he could cause harm instead. We must all be grateful! someone postulated a theory in a comment section of a different subreddit that echoed the same thing-- that niceness is only valued insofar as much as you wield the power to be the opposite
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 07:54 PM
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a narcissist, that's all i can say
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 07:46 PM
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don't know why hearing it this way made me chuckle lol congratulations on the divorce sis 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 07:25 PM
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I always say if your feminism, if your FDS does not come with some ruthlessness, then you’re not doing it right. 🙌🙌🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 05:57 AM
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it's all the same when you step out into society and are labelled as being too pessimistic/judgy/bitter or whatever, abusers carry on in-part because of the cycle of enabling that is so prevalent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 05:44 AM
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oh boy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 04:17 PM
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i've also had the same thing happen in friendships. crazy how that works!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:58 PM
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this line of thought is also propagated by new-agey buddhism BS, the whole "you are suppOsed tO plaCe no expeCtations on your paRtner" i realize why now, all these cults and religions have benefited from absolute submission and compliance from their members and what better way to do it than by eroding their boundaries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 07:29 AM
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there are alot of differing opinions as of now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 06:22 AM
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wonderfully written ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 06:15 AM
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well what do you expect from desi m*n
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:06 PM
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love ur username
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:55 AM
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i don't know if im overthinking it but i think this might be me :/ not that i'm incapable of having genuine feelings or forming intimacy but that i struggle to imbue personal values and meaning to things which might give the impression of being detached to an onlooker
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 10:23 PM
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so many late nights wasted texting a breadcrumbing fboy☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 06:53 AM
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ladies need that kind of bluntness to be snapped out of delusional beliefs that works against their self-preservation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:58 PM
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anna bey is a grifter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 06:48 AM
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helicopter dick 😭😭😭😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 09:59 AM
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ahaaha i feel so dumb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 09:57 AM
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?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 06:20 AM
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let's not forget the time she slut-shamed britney spears publicly in order to garner cool girl points 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 09:35 PM
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love love this can't wait for your blog to gain more traction!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:38 AM
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oh my god yes I was just talking about this yesterday with a friend lol there's a sudden uptick in joe rogan-esque type of dudebros, you're right. and all of them happen to be psuedointellectuals of the highest degree. i personally enjoy reading and delving into works of philosophy (and i don't mean the pop-culture diluted bullcrap) but men like these claim to be an enthusiast when all they do is talk out of their ass all day everyday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:34 PM
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ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:02 PM
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this is such a simple yet effective question to ask yourself and it applies to any and all facets of your life, thank you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:42 PM
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My only problem is I have difficulty turning it off....so potential HVM likely won’t approach because my energy says get the fuck away from me or I’ll turn you into ice I would love if any of you sisters have any insight to share on this. Striking a balance is so hard :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:44 PM
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i understand your frustration so muchhhhh what is your cousin doing around these chimps 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:00 AM
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I want to fucking scream. I'm 19 and I hate most about everything men my age just ugh 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 sorry your post gave me flashbacks to my equally stupid friend group that was filled with LVMs, regular jokes about their dicks, calling girls their 'hoes', targeting the single guy who actually had some semblance of principles by calling him a simp. good fucking riddance 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:51 AM
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wow lol. do you have some articles or books on the topic? i'm guilty as charged of losing myself to daydreams whilst an uber romantic ballad plays away in the background. still do it occasionally :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 10:38 PM
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im 19 and this is so trueeee. i've been playing my part by trying to echo the messages and principles across(all recieved with furious nods), it's the other liberal circle that i have trouble with. i don't know, you can't really shift people's ingrained ideologies with a mere back and forth. heck i dismissed this subreddit as utter horseshit the first time i stumbled here something has to change and dismantle the system inside out. but i'd doubt that's happening anytime soon. for now, i take sol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 10:32 PM
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what even
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 10:08 PM
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Are you from India by any chance?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 10:06 PM
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I just passed my high-school and as far as I can tell, the oversharing culture is still pretty rampant among my cohort lol luckily for me my group of friends happen to share the same values and distaste for instagram culture so i don't feel too out of place or alienated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:34 PM
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sheesh this is weird as fuck ong getting the creeps all the way till here after hearing your tale
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:11 PM
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In my limited experience-- leave for a few minority who do embody everything sinister, most people generally do shitty things out of a combination of things (awful upbringing, internalization of toxic coping mechanisms, ignorance, complacency etc) which doesn't necessarily stem out of malice. HOWEVER, that shouldn't mean they should get a free pass into being allowed back into your life. A crossed boundary is a crossed one. No ifs and buts, or them negotiating your way out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:36 PM
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def man's fingers behind the post lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:05 PM
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this a hundred times!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:04 PM
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this was a great write-up, thank you! i'm 18 and i live in a very conservative small town in south asia, finding like-minded people requires me having an active internet presence which isn't ideal but i don't know how else to go about making friends who i truly get along with :/ i wish i didn't have to be so alone and not spend my prime years watching everyone have fun from the sidelines
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:17 PM
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I will hate who hates me I will live hostile to hostility Nah sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 06:49 PM
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Ah, you're Indian I assume? I agree, the entitlement among desi men is fucking baffling. Moreso, the brand new cohort of bitter desis who frequent the red pill subs and spew the same degeneracy over social medias. Also don't get me started with the whole 'simp' charade. Eugh. If you don't mind me asking, where are you from? Because here in Delhi, liberal feminism/sex positivity is rampant among the young ladies, even going as far as to be lauded - you know, the kind who'll go out of her way to b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:47 PM
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taylor and joe alwyn have been going really strong past 3-4 years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 12:14 PM
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thank you for putting it down into words what i was meaning to articulate. yeah commitment is nice but only if the man has proven himself above and beyond to be worthy of it. it's not necessarily men who get to gatekeep it. and it shouldn't be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 09:39 PM
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god I can't even imagine how awful it must've been for you. I'm glad to hear you're doing better now. You're so extremely strong for having pulled through. Please do not let any of the low-lived fuckers ever dull your shine. It's horrifying what us women have to go through. :( On a separate note, I'm genuinely confounded as to how you've managed to forgive your abusers. You truly are a strong woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:00 PM
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this is so inspiring lol i'm a teenager and i already have people(only the LVMs and pick-me aunts) try to instill the 'but u should give guys a chance!!!!!111 u'll end up alone and miserable and destitute if ur forever going to be this picky' BS. i won't really lie, back then i did pretty much buy into all of it 'maybe they're right, reLationshiPs require alot of work and atTractiveneSs doesn't evEn matter all that much' 'maYbe i can chanGe and heal him' 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢 i'm glad i got out of it. know so m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 08:02 PM
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"Boundaries are not up for discussion once they're established." Yesss🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 09:30 AM
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i really don't know the details but honestly? refrain from besmirching him for now. if your friends have 0 clue how shitty he is and have gone this long remaining in the dark, i'll assume he's some levels of superficially charismatic to have been fooling them and keeping his reputation intact. so we're looking at a NVM who probably has heaps of ego issues? all it'll do is provide him with just the way to fuel his validation (believe it or not, plenty men get off on any form of attention, even if…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:38 AM
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A convoluted loop of anger and wanting to let the vitriolic riddled memories go via forgiveness is how I've been the past 3 months so major relate. After losing my head several times, the conclusion I've come to is this : forgiveness and acceptance will come when it has to. forcing your way through it is the perfect recipe for it catastrophically backfiring. anger and feelings of spite aren't entirely unhealthy when you're channeling them into something mega productive. you're going to be so fix…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:30 PM
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this works only when you've managed to seamlessly work through the anger/resentment phase onto the acceptance stage. for most of us ladies in the sub, we're still coming to terms with all the disrespect and gaslighting we might've previously turned a blind eye to and the subsequent (momentarily) resentment that follows with the knowledge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:19 PM
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lmaoooo thanks for the chuckle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:27 PM
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so the bare minimum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 07:31 AM
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Ah hello! I'm from India too and trust me when I say HVM and HVWs here are as good as scarce. Especially when they're so heavily indoctrinated by libfem ideology and relentlessly playing the chill girl™. It's unnerving. I understand your predicament, I really do. You don't have to fret. And you certainly don't have to settle for less, knowing the catastrophic pool - a mistake I made in my younger years. I'm 18 now and I've embraced the idea of perpetual solitude and singlehood over settling for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:50 PM
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This is exactly the answer! It isn't about accommodating men. You glow different when you're truly leveling up and have a non-existent supply of fucks for matters insignificant. A HVW friend I've radiates the same energy - full of sunshine and happiness, but also isn't one to put up with any form of shit. On top of being insanely smart. Really makes me want to up my own game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 10:44 PM
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?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:53 PM
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forgive me but aren't the few initial weeks meant for small talking and keeping it light-hearted? i understand personality isn't as simplistic as the things/hobbies we adore and moreso about our individual temperament, how we react to certain things etc which can only be brought to light along the process of getting to know each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 10:19 AM
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NOPE NOPE NOPE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:16 AM
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If only scrotes partook in the same wisdom and left us alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:35 PM
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why would you want his mum to see anything when he's your ex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:29 PM
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I'm from India too and I can't tell how much it warms my heart to see more of women from here adopting FDS principles. GET THE DOUGH SIS 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 08:48 AM
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jesus fuck lmaooo why can't these scrotes find something more worthwhile to invest their time in 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 06:47 AM
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I know right ughhhh. Indian parents are so painstakingly horrid at holding their boys accountable. It's quadruple times worse when you live in a state like I do, mfkn Haryana. I don't miss my misogynistic clusterfuck of a highschool one bit. Fuck it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:17 AM
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https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1JRrdWrKx92IorKIyQbmiv?si=o8aWBWQjRe28gFyiIafOow Here you go an entire playlist for when I'm feeling myself! (practically everyday)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 07:54 PM
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plsplspls tell me he was a troll 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 03:50 PM
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fucking hell lmaooooo dRinK wAter 💀💀💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 03:30 PM
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lmaoooooo 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:52 PM
3

haven't even talked to your friend and I admire her already! thank you for sharing the anecdote, exactly what I needed to hear 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 02:20 PM
26

'Better to be feared than loved' might be my personal motto this point on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 02:17 PM
3

god I hope you're doing okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:27 PM
12

Doesn't that go against FDS principle of vetting a man long and hard before handing out our commitment? A HVM would similarly be careful in that regard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 07:43 AM
3

dang this should be higher up, for a good while i'd given up on the idea of ever stumbling on a HVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 12:31 PM
10

ugh reading all of this made me so sad and sick. is basic human empathy THAT dead in men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 12:22 PM
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