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Looking out for women's safety should be the norm.

warinmymind94

December 14, 2021
1197 upvotes
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Title Looking out for women's safety should be the norm.
Author

warinmymind94

Upvotes 1197
Comments 16
Date December 14, 2021 6:38 AM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/rg1djx/looking_out_for_womens_safety_should_be_the_norm/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/looking-out-for-womens-safety-should-be-the-norm.1092531
https://theredarchive.com/post/1092531
Top posts by warinmymind94

Block and Delete Him, Sis. Otherwise he will suck you back in or try to gaslight you.

3082 upvotes
March 9, 2021
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Now that's a movie I'd want to watch!

2319 upvotes
December 11, 2021
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Men want to trick you into doing it ALL but won't even pay for your dinner or celebrate your birthday anymore. Dont fall for it.

1859 upvotes
February 5, 2021
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Divorce Him. It's not a woman's job to be your secretary and don't even let him start with the "babe where is my/have you seen my..." Men don't do this for us and it's exhausting to manage their lives for them. Run.

1724 upvotes
April 28, 2021
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My grandpa is dying in a nursing home and STILL gave me a Birthday gift- "If he wanted to, he would"

1587 upvotes
June 26, 2021
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FDS isn't "wild" it is the same standards i learned in therapy especially with how to recognize abuse

1310 upvotes
September 17, 2021
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Stop dating men that you aren't attracted to! Stop giving ugly a chance!

1270 upvotes
April 30, 2021
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Run the first time he disrepects a boundary, no matter how small

1163 upvotes
February 9, 2022
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Comments

[–]DeterminedblondeFDS Newbie 215 points216 points217 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I LOVE it! 👏🏻 good man! How smart is that? We have a code that’s unfortunately very public here called “ask for Angela”

[–]aburke626FDS Newbie 37 points38 points39 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think the code names and whatnot are way less important than knowing that bartenders have been kicking out creeps for as long as there have been bars and if you can communicate to them somehow, they will help you out. Whether it’s calling them over to pretend to order a drink and telling them what’s going on, slipping them a note, furtive gestures - don’t hesitate to tell them.

[–]Equal-Ear2312FDS Apprentice 72 points73 points74 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

how crazy it is that women everywhere need a code to deal with men who harass them. meanwhile the dirty unwashed asses hordes of men who screech "not all men" continue to ignore this fact.

women need to be protected FROM men not by men!

[–]fancy_tetrahedronFDS Newbie 74 points75 points76 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Kudos to this bartender! It's funny how men never have to deal with this and problems that women experience on a regular basis are just theoretical to them. And when women speak up about these things they whine and feel opressed.

[–]lessadessaFDS Newbie 157 points158 points159 points 4 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

Ok this is fake af but the idea is nice

[–]natalie2k8FDS Newbie 100 points101 points102 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Was wondering if they pulled their camera out to take a pic with the creepy guy still standing next to them. At the very least, staged.

[–]Inspection-CriticalFDS Newbie 73 points74 points75 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Or they took it after the guy got removed.

[–]throwaway8437764FDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's real: https://youtu.be/9TuQtqOhMkM

[–]throwaway8437764FDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It's real: https://youtu.be/9TuQtqOhMkM

[–]West-CookFDS Newbie 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you can’t/don’t want to watch the news video linked: they say the photo is staged, but the event is real. After bartender kicked out the guy, the woman asked him to pose with the note for the snap, hence how faked this photo looks.

[–]UnapologeticWifeFDS Newbie 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

Probably staged, but it sets a good example for men of how they could be allies and hold one another accountable. Ish. Some white knight shit along with it which adds some ick factor… but it’s at least showing that men can be aware of other men and not overlook shit behavior. Maybe? I’m torn about how to feel here.

[–]The_Cat_EmpressFDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Isn't that awful?

I like the idea of a man defending me when sh*t hits the fan but, like you, I'm torn in thinking "Wait...is he doing this to get in my pants?"

It seems like men rarely ever do things without an ulterior motive...UGH

[–]throwaway8437764FDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's real: https://youtu.be/9TuQtqOhMkM

[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple 24 points25 points26 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

What happened next?

[–]The_Cat_EmpressFDS Newbie 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's great that bars have code drinks in the women's restrooms...but it's also a depressing reality that women can't go out without harassment...

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