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I'm eastern European and was raised orthodox Christian. The name of Mary is "Bogoroditsa", which literally means "godbirther". This is all you need to know about how women are treated. The way I was treated made me start to express atheist beliefs at a very young age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 02:49 AM
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As women are levelling up and not willing to put up with scrotes, the number of incels grows. These pathetic forms of existence see us only as sex dolls, and when we go on our own they do everything they can to show us how much they hate us. There has been an increase of incel terrorist attacks in recent years. They will only keep increasing. At this point I'm 100% done with men, I feel really bad for all the teen girls who have to put up with this kind of vile behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 01:23 PM
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Yeah, that's totally valid. The advice I received from these women however was along the lines of "don't spend too many years at school, you need to give birth and you're not getting any younger".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 07:20 AM
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I generally don't take any advice from women decades older than me if they're not living the life I'm hoping to live at that age. They grew up in a totally different era and have no idea what it's like for women in their 20s and 30s these days. I used to work with women like this during my summer job too, and they kept giving me advice even tho I didn't ask for any. They thought that just because I'm younger than them they're much wiser and smarter than me, even tho they got in an arranged marri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 10:44 PM
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Yeah, it's the porn addiction. Porn has fried their brains to the point where they lack basic empathy and they don't see us as people, only as places they can stick their dicks into. This guy sounds like a psycho, if he expects this god knows what else he's capable of doing to women. He should be on a watch list..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 05:06 PM
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I was texting this guy, and I really liked him and had fun talking with him. Until I told him that I'm a neuroscientist and he started sexualising my profession, he said it was really hot how I wore glasses and was both smart and sexy. And that's how I knew he was a sexist scrote. I didn't even reply to his message, it was an instant block & delete. I worked really hard to get where I am and I won't be anybody's p0rn fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 01:12 PM
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This idiot has no idea how female anatomy works. It's very obvious that the only place he's ever seen a woman is p0rn. Smh. Males can get away with bs like this, while us here can't even say "I want a man who can look after himself and do his own laundry" without scrotes screaming "reee miSanDry" and invading our DMs..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 03:55 PM
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Preach it sis! 👑 Thanks for sharing. I tried downloading tiktok, but all I saw were a bunch of pickmes dancing naked and bending over backwards for male attention, so I deleted it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 01:21 PM
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Note that almost nobody mentions men's issues outside of debates about women's issues. They only exist as a means to undermine our oppression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 02:07 PM
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Oh yes there is. I'm from a developing country, moved to the west a few years ago. Men treat me like an exotic animal. They think that feminism doesn't exist outside of the west and non-western women will happily submit to them and put up with their bs. Nah dude. I moved to this country to be a strong independent woman. If I wanted to be a bangmaid to a man old enough to be my grandpa wouldn't've bothered moving across the continent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 03:29 AM
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Nothing makes my day more than a scrote getting triggered over me being active on this sub and going out of his way to stalk me on totally unrelated subs and comment "fDs bAd, uR eVil". Stay mad, scrotes! We'll keep levelling up and living rent free in your porn addicted brains!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 06:19 PM
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When men are able to make thousands of dollars by selling worthless dick pics to women, and get their reputation ruined to the point where nobody else will want to employ them and their family would be ashamed of them, only then will I support it. Funny how only women get this treatment, and no woman cares about buying dick picks, a lot of us even get them for free without asking for them. Sex work is based on gender inequality and misogyny. There will never be gender equality in a society that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 11:14 PM
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My very first job while I was working at a hotel. Scrotes would chat me up and then start to hit on me. My usual reply would be "I'm 17" (which I really was at the time). And some of them wouldn't care at all. One of them, who was old enough to be my father was like, "we can hang out when you turn 18". No you fucking creep. Stay the hell away from me. He was a regular at the hotel bar, so I tried to avoid him as much as I could. A few months later a woman who worked at the hotel told me that he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 08:58 AM
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I live abroad, so I start speaking in my native language and pretend I don't understand them. They can't take it personally, so it works like a charm. Never underestimate how dangerous a broken male ego can be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 01:19 AM
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Kudos to this bartender! It's funny how men never have to deal with this and problems that women experience on a regular basis are just theoretical to them. And when women speak up about these things they whine and feel opressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 01:21 PM
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This is because they feel entitled to us. Their way of thinking is "I treated you like a human being, therefore you're indebted to me and I'm entitled to you. And if another man mistreats you you deserve it because you rejected me". Just because they're not abusers and murderers doesn't mean they're not mysoginists. It's really scary how low the bar for male behaviour is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 12:58 PM
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There are a lot of men who fetishize virgins, they see it as "marking their territory" if they're someone's first. They really think that their worthless pps have the power to fundamentally change us as people. Never disclose to any man that you're a virgin until you've fully vetted him. Whenever a man starts being nosey about my sexual history I block & delete immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 06:39 AM
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The only reason that men accomplished all of those things is because they all had opressed women taking care of them and helping them thrive. This is just another way how the patriarchy takes women's unpaid labour for granted. None of those men would've accomplished anything had it not been for the women in their lives taking care of everything else for them and letting them fully focus on their careers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 09:53 AM
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When my grandma passed away, my grandpa kept bragging how he never hit her once during decades of marriage. He really thought that it's something to brag about. It's really sad how decades later things are exactly the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 04:37 PM
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Of course most of us were naïve, it's only natural. We were raised in a patriarchal society that doesn't value women as human beings, only as breeding mares that produce workers and taxpayers. We were brainwashed into being pickmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 02:08 PM
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This is brilliant. I love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 01:24 PM
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Hmm that makes sense. I once had a scrote harass me in a thread, he basically mansplained to me, a biologist, how women are weaker than men and that feminism was denying this. He really thought that feminists are fighting to rewrite biology textbooks, lmao. He also mentioned Jordan Peterson, so I assumed that he's a classic conservative mysoginist like Shapiro and Steven Crowder. I'm glad that's not the case, it's good to see a man calling them out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 01:49 AM
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The first time I was exposed to porn was when I was at school in 7th grade. I was sitting in the last row of the classroom and the boys who sat in front of me were watching it during class. I caught a glimpse of it and i was traumatised from the things i saw being done to that poor woman. And these boys would often harass girls and make sexist jokes. This is why porn should be illegal. All you have to do is click "yes" when it asks if you're over the age of 18. The things those poor women are co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 12:00 AM
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One of these talents is Maria Anna Mozart, Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart's sister. She was a talented musician just like him. According to New Grove, "from 1769 onwards she was no longer permitted to show her artistic talent on travels with her brother, as she had reached a marriageable age." There were as many talented women musicians as there were men. Just imagine the music that these women would have composed if they weren't opressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 03:52 PM
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All of my girlfriends wouldn't shut up about this movie so I gave it a shot. Everything else wrong with the movie aside, the dialogue was so cringe I couldn't make it to the good bits. Are you lost, baby girl? I'm not a bag of potatoes that you can transfer without my permission! Yeah, no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 12:53 PM
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Bro code: not telling your friend's gf that he cheats on her Girl code: pretending you know a girl to help her get out of a situation where a scrote is preying on her This is everything one needs to know about men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 11:39 AM
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A few years back I used to text this Indian guy, even tho he was 4 years older than me he sounded very immature. One time I asked him if he knew how to cook anything he said "tea and coffee" lol. We used to send eachother selfies and I didn't really think anything of it, until one day he told me that he showed the photos of me to his mom, sister, friends and cousins and told them I was his girlfriend. Obviously I freaked out and told him that I will no longer text him, and he said that I was onl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 01:14 AM
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Science is very sexist. Throughout history most of the research on pregnant women was mostly done on the fetus rather than the woman carrying it. Until very recently there's been a lack of data about the changes a woman's body goes through while being pregnant. The patriarchy takes our ability to bring children into the world for granted. If a woman doesn't want to go through that horror she's an "eViL feMiniST".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 02:30 PM
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When men get to go through pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding and having their body permanently changed just like women do, only then I'll agree to 50/50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 02:42 AM
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Thank you for sharing. I'm sorry you had such an experience, seems like it's pretty much the same all over the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 07:41 PM
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I'd like to hear about this from Scandinavian/nordic women. Northern Europe is the best place to be a woman, so I've been wondering how the dating culture works there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 10:38 AM
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Omg high five! 😍 I haven't decided on a PhD yet, but I'm thinking about computational neuroscience, I'm really fascinated by brain mapping! I've been interested in brains from a very early age and I'm really interested in the mechanisms of processing and storing information. But I can see myself going into cellular/molecular neuroscience too. Thanks for the encouragement! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 02:06 AM
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If he feels intimidated by it, he's not worth your time. He knows that you're doing well on your own and can't make you financially dependent on him and turn you into a bangmaid. Also beware of gold diggers, if he's too enthusiastic he's probably looking for a sugar mommy to leech off of and/or wants a trophy to show off to his friends and family. I'm in neuroscience, and all it takes is for me to start talking about the cool stuff I'm studying, and their fragile little egoes shatter immediately…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 01:35 AM
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I always have my dms locked. If someone wants to dm me they tell me and I request the dm. Or I enable them for a short while until I receive the dm and I lock them again. This keeps scrotes really mad, I've had them attack me in the comments of totally unrelated subs, their fragile little egoes are really offended by this sub, they have an urge to find a way to degrade us to make themselves feel better. Stay mad scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 09:08 PM
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I was a pickme during my teen years too. Before I found FDS I believed in the "sEx wOrK iS eMpOweRing" liberal bs. This sub introduced me to radical feminism and opened my eyes to how women are being brainwashed into doing the same oppressive things they've always done for men throughout history, only this time society slaps an "empowering" and "my choice" sticker on it. So thank you FDS for radicalizing me and making me realise what my best interests are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 08:50 AM
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My grandmother's widowed neighbor got scammed, the guy lied to her that he would take her to his country, she even packed her suitcases and bought a plane ticket. He ended up stealing 10k € from her and ghosted her. But sure, it's the women who are gold diggers. Smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 11:26 AM
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I started it but couldn't watch it, it hit too close to home and it triggered me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 02:25 PM
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This is a classic Madonna-Whore Complex. Men with this complex desire a sexual partner who has been degraded while they cannot desire the respected partner. Freud (who was the first to talk about this) wrote: "Where such men love they have no desire and where they desire they cannot love". And unfortunately this is still prevalent to this day. They think their pps are so powerful and mighty they can change our value as human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 10:30 PM
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This has happened to me more times than I can count. Once the entire sub of my country (which mostly consitsts of porn addicted incels) attacked me on a completely unrelated post and tried to cancel me. If any of y'all stalkers are reading this, I'll keep posting and commenting on this sub. Stay mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 05:51 PM
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I'm eastern European too. One way eastern European men might show HV traits at first is that they will act as gentlemen (opening doors, paying for dates etc.), but bear in mind that it's a cultural norm. In eastern Europe men pay for most of the things and women do most of the housework and looking after the kids. Eastern European men tend to be more traditional in this way, but a lot of them are mysoginists and a lot of them are alcoholics. In fact, the mysoginy is so bad that I lived there for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 10:48 PM
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I stopped reading after "25f" and "40m".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 11:15 PM
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I wish a movement like this would happen in the Balkans too. Balkan women are brainwashed into being pickmes from a very young age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 10:50 PM
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Wow, reading this was so satisfying, thank you for commenting! You're a real badass! I was always afraid to do that because I was afraid that they might use physical strength and attack me and I wouldn't' be able to defend myself. And I still feel the same way when men catcall me on the street. I've never confronted them because I'm afraid of ending up in a fight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 11:02 PM
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Aw I'm sorry that happened to you too. I wasn't really thinking about the way I was dressed, but I was ashamed of my body for some time. I remember one time I was solving a math problem on the blackboard, the chalk fell from my hand so I bended down to pick it up, and some boys looked down my shirt and started laughing. It was such a dehumanizing experience. But it was a long time ago, I'm over it. I stopped letting men make me feel guilty and ashamed for having a healthy, properly developed hum…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 08:47 PM
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Sure, I just did!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:02 AM
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Of course, feel free to PM me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:05 PM
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Yep, the STEM equality is due to communism. Back during the days of Yugoslavia women had rights and held positions of power even then. Here's a map of women researchers throughout Europe, the Balkans have the highest numbers. Huh, had no idea UK men were like that. I knew about the paying 50-50 thing, but I've always expected western European men to be more liberal and not be afraid to help with the housework.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 11:52 AM
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Country: North Macedonia (south eastern Europe) Even tho women hold a lot of positions of leadership, they're still expected to be mothers and do household chores. Men to women ratio in STEM is pretty good (I believe this is due to communism). In fact I was surprised when I moved to France and noticed a lot less women in STEM, there were only 4 girls in a class of 150 IT students. But men still do most of the rough jobs, like truck and bus drivers, construction workers etc. Surprisingly enough, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 11:27 AM
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I'm glad you snapped out of it. Sending you virtual hugs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 06:07 AM
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It's the "cool" new thing liberal feminism made mainstream and failed women yet again. "BeinG vaNiLLa iS sO laSt seAsoN, I'm sO kinkY, stOp kinKsHaminG mE, iT's noT abUse iF it'S conSensUal". No honey, you're not sexually liberated, you're being gaslighted and abused. Try working on your low self esteem and don't let psychopaths take advantage of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:44 PM
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Of course he called her a fake gamer girl, it's not like women can genuinely be interested in geek culture or video games, we only do it to get male attention.. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:26 PM
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Lol that's only the harassment we get online. To get the full experience he should get a woman's makeover and take a walk down a block full of construction sites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:30 AM
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I'm from a very mysoginistic country in eastern Europe. My best friend in high school got pregnant and wanted to get an abortion. Her boyfriend didn't want her to do that, but she was very persistent, so he beat her up. She had a miscarriage. Only me and another girl knew about this. She didn't want to go to the police, but me and the other girl somehow convinced her, and all 3 of us went. The guy spent a night in custody and was released the day after. We were only teenagers, we had no idea wha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:23 AM
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Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry. A normal person can't keep that mask on for so long, he's most definitely a sociopath. You may subconsciously blame yourself for being naive enough to fall for his lies, I know I did in the past, but none of it is your fault, it was his decision. I have never considered suicide before now. This is no joke. If you can't talk to any friends/family members you should most definitely go to a therapist. Dealing with this kind of shock isn't easy. I'm sending you lots of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:33 PM
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Dear good lord, that second photo. Looks like the safest option is to remain single for the rest of your life and never be at the risk of something like this at all. You can never be too sure if it's going to happen on the first date, or your 10 year anniversary. Now cue all the angry offended man-childern calling us "fEmaLe iNcelS" for not wanting to get murdered by a significant other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:20 AM
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I tried it once, I wasn't really looking to date anyone, I just installed it to see what all the deal was about. I put in my age and name, added a few photos of myself, but I accidentally clicked the "create profile" button before adding my bio, so I went back to add it. After I finished it I noticed I already had 14 likes. I opened their profiles, and oh dear lord. One of the guys was 2 decades older than me. Another one had his 2 kids in the photo. Maybe 3 or 4 of them were my age, the rest of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:20 PM
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I'm just so sick of hearing this. If you say a man has caused you harm you're automatically labelled as a misandrist. This is why I like this sub so much, i can vent off all my frustrations without men getting butthurt over them replying with "nOt aLL mEn aRe liKe tHat" or "mEn eXpErIeNcE tHaT tOo". That being said, I need to vent a little. I'm pretty active in a male dominated sub. Things were going great, I was like "hey, maybe reddit isn't such a bad place for women". Nope. These guys went th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:55 PM
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Liberal feminism is just the patriarchy wolf in a pink sheep's clothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:28 PM
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Lol what can you expect? They're taught from a young age that having good taste in aesthetics and fashion is "gAy" and they think that letting you know they want to stick it in you is a "compliment". The only real compliment I've ever received from a man was when my best friend's hv bf complimented me on the jacket I was wearing. All the other "compliments" I've gotten from men were them sexualziing me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:01 PM
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This hits close to home. I remember being a teenager, and even though I liked having long hair and wearing dresses I absolutely hated makeup and thought there was something wrong with me for being this way, I felt like I wasn't a real girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:57 PM
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Honestly, they're pathetic. They have no legitimate excuse to hate on this sub so they're like "FDS aRe aLL goLd diGgErS". Please honey, I'm living all by myself, and I have a stable income. If all you can offer me is your wallet I have absolutely no use for you, thank you very much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:18 AM
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I'm in a similar situation, I'll be pursuing a PhD soon too. I would never take my potential husband's last name, and I despise my dad from the bottom of my heart. But I've decided to make the last name I have my own. He's not the only person with that last name, it was also my grandma's last name, and she was such a tough strong woman, may she rest in peace. It was also the maiden name of my aunts, who are both very successful. So I'm not going to let my scrote dad ruin my last name for me. It'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:41 AM
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the encrypted social media platform 'Telegram' THIS! There was a scandal in my country called "Public Room" where a bunch of scrotes shared nude photos of women and underage girls, some were even photoshoped. The thing got so disgusting that even the ministry of internal affairs got involved. After it happened I don't trust anyone who uses that platform.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:50 AM
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I feel sorry for those women, I really do. Imagine your sense of self worth depending on random creeps on the internet jerking off to your photos. So sad. I really hope these women realise they have the potential to achieve many great things and they're so much more than their body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:13 PM
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I was texting this guy once, and he couldn't understand why I got so mad and stopped talking to him after he called me a "sex doll" and a "cum dumpster", he actually thought it was flattering. Porn literally fries their brains and makes them unable to act as human beings. Don't waste a single second of your precious time with porn consumers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:21 PM
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Not long ago I expressed my childfree stance in a sub mostly with men, and I had a bunch of men mansplain motherhood to me, how what I was saying was "sad", how a woman not wanting kids is "unnatural" and how there's something psychologically wrong with me for thinking this way and I should seek help. And only other women stood up for me, not a single man agreed with me. But sure, let's hear more about how not being able to tell a woman how fuckable she is is a form of male oppression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:40 AM
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The real question here is why this man is preying on someone a decade younger than him and doesn't date someone his own age. And the answer is that no woman his age would want to date a porn addicted lowlife like him. The term daddy was popularised by porn. Even 16 y/o teenage boys are more mature than this "man". I'm not trying to shame. Oh you poor thing. Yes you should be shaming, and you should be doing it loudly and clearly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 07:15 AM
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That's hate fucking, a lot of men have a fetish to have sex with women they don't agree with. For example, there are a lot of trump supporters who hate AOC, but they keep saying how they want to hate fuck her. There are men who can't stand women having different opinions or disagreeing with them, so they they think having sex with them will degrade them. It's pretty messed up. I've had something similar happen to me, I come from a country that has some political problems with this other country,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:23 PM
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This is giving me flashbacks, I've literally had this happen to me, only instead of 16 I was 17. This creep older than my dad that worked in the same place as me was hitting on me and the way he talked to me was one of the most dehumanizing experiences of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:43 PM
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My mom raised me all by herself so I spoil her on both Mother's day and Father's Day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:18 PM
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You go girl! Makeup has a lot of chemicals that can be harmful if you're constantly exposed to them. I only wear makeup 2 or 3 times a year if there's a wedding or a formal celebration I need to attend. I never wear it when going out on weekends. If guys can go out without makeup and still be considered handsome so can we.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:46 AM
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It's really confusing being a young woman these days. On one side you have lib fems saying that dressing sexy is "empowering". So you start dressing sexy and get all kinds of nasty comments. You witness all the victim blaming going around, how "she was basically asking for it by wearing that". You start to think it's because of the way you dress, so you start dressing modestly but this time you get called "not feminine enough" and a "prude", and the nasty comments are still there. And you start …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:05 AM
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Unrelated, but I absolutely love your username lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:42 PM
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I wouldn't recommend it in high school as this is a vulnerable time where your personality develops. But afterwards, as soon as you feel emotionally and mentally mature. Here's what I mean by that: -You love yourself, you are confident and have a good sense of self worth. -You feel like you're mentally developed enough to recognize emotional abuse, manipulation, gaslighting and you're able to deal with these things accordingly Everyone develops this kind of maturity at a different pace, some get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:49 PM
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We were still in high school, he was hardly a 'man', but that's no excuse. He was really irresponsible, he would often skip classes, go hang out with his buddies and post about it on social media. Then he would lie to the teachers saying he had a "family emergency" or a doctor's appointment and brag about getting away with it. He told me that he wasn't a virgin (I didn't ask, he brought it up himself), but later said that he was but was too embarrassed to admit it because apparently "girls don't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:12 PM
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When I was a teenager I was talking to this guy and he told me that he liked seeing women being in discomfort for his pleasure. And the worst thing is that I thought it was a normal thing to say because of all the "sEx pOsItIvItY" libfems are brainwashing young girls with. That should've been the first red flag. Luckily he showed some other red flags too so I was smart enough to ditch him before we got too close.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:57 PM
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When I started college I met this guy who I had a lot in common with. He was doing a similar major like me and we had the same sense of humor. A lot of the guys in our friend group would make sexist jokes, but I never heard him join in (that was just him being a decent human being, not something to be applauded for, I know). I really liked him, he was the most perfect guy i had ever met. We would often hang out together at parties and we really enjoyed each other's company, he said it himself th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 09:03 AM
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I hate this. I've always had to lie and say I have a bf because when I say I'm single what they hear is "you can f*ck me". They never ask "are you looking for a relationship?", it's always "are you single?". They look at you as either another man's property or an object they're entitled to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:13 PM
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I listened to Lana Rhoades' podcast where she talked about her experience in the industry, how they groomed her into agreeing to do things she didn't want to do. She went into detail about a particular scene that was so disturbing that I was in shock for quite a while and had to watch a bunch of cute animal videos to calm down. And there are men out there who like to watch this kind of stuff, women pretending to like being abused and humiliated. It's very simple. You catch him watching porn - yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:49 AM
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How come a FDS member has never gone on a man murdering rampage? I thought we were the ones who are "radical" and "sexist". Oh that's right I almost forgot. Double standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:59 PM
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Ah yes, women looking out for eachother, sharing experiences with abusive partners and striving to improve themselves = sexism. Also all of us have brightly colored hair, wear cateye glasses, are overweight and no man will ever settle for us. In other news, the sky is blue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:39 PM
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The 2 arguments MRAs have about any topic related to women's issues: BuT nOt aLL mEn aRe LikE tHaT ThAt hApPenS tO mEn tOo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:15 PM
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guy who is doing it right versus a female It's because they see other men as equals and us as "females", they don't even want to call us women, they use the biological term because that's all we are to them, walking baby factories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:40 PM
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none of them are much of a prize No sweetie, I'm not a prize, I'm a person working on myself and levelling up every day. FDS isn't about attracting men, it's about prioritizing yourself and lot letting men walk all over you. Not long ago I had a scrote reply to a comment of mine on a post in a different sub that got really popular, he said "look at her post history, she's a FDS member". The things I had posted here were about how I was abused by my dad. These incels and scrotes read those posts …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:26 PM
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Men only talk about men's issues as a response to women talking about theirs. They never bring up men's rape statistics, or men being abused by their girlfriends as a stand alone topic. It's always: Women: We just want men to stop assaulting us Men: oH bUt mEn gEt aSsAuLtEd tOo, yOu fEmAlEs dOn't cArE aBouT uS Women in general are more understanding of men's issues than men are of both men's and women's. There are still men out there stuck in the bronze age who like to make fun of men who like d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:49 PM
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Lol is there any benefit to get married as a woman in this day and age? I'm looking forward to being an old cat lady.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:41 PM
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Ah yes the 2 genders, females and gentlemen. Scrotes think they're hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 12:40 PM
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Right? I hate it when guys are like "I don't watch porn and I would never expect you or ask you to do any of those degrading harmful things men do to women that have somehow been normalised". I'm like "Dammit dude, I just wanna pegg, what does a girl have to do to pegg you??"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:33 AM
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When I was working a summer job selling ice cream a few years ago I literally had a guy older than my dad hit on me telling me how hot I am after telling him I was 17. He said and I quote "We'll be able to hang out once you turn 18". The ice cream fridge was recently fixed so there was a screwdriver nearby. I grabbed it and held it behind my back, ready to stab this scrote in the eye if he dared to touch me. Men who date women much younger than them are predators and nothing more. This is why my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:04 AM
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JFC, my life was so much better before reading both parts of this story. This is literally nightmare stuff. You really can't trust anyone these days. That guy is very obviously a psychopath and a potential threat to other women, he needs to go to jail. I wish I could unsee this, excuse me while I go wash my eyes with holy water.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:46 PM
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Meanwhile the media still slut shame Taylor Swift to this day even though she's been in a relationship for 4 years. Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:41 PM
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Oh no, random incels on the internet think I have an expiration date after which I will no longer be able to exite their pps, let me go cry in a corner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:26 AM
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I'm not Russian, but I'm from eastern Europe and was raised orthodox. Orthodox christianity is very misogynistic. They ask women to cover their hair and wear a long skirt. That's why old ladies (babushkas) and matryoshka nesting dolls can often be seen with red scarves around their head. I remember my mom forced a headscarf on me when we were visiting this monastery once. They didn't even let in women on their periods, but luckily the priest was cool about it and said that "it wouldn't be a sin …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:10 AM
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Lol he probably thought that after the payment you would agree to have sex with him. The audacity..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:21 PM
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FDS: "We want a financially stable guy." NVMs: "FdS aRe a bUnCh oF gOlD DigGeRs, I tOtAlLy fIt tHeiR sTaNdArDs bUt I wOulDn'T dAtE tHeM, i'M sO aWeSoMe". "I'm 6' and make 6 figures and I wouldn't date those women!" If that's all you have to offer you're a LVM sweetie, we wouldn't date you either!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:54 PM
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Yeah that's true, he should say those things to his coworkers irl. Most men don't even acknowledge mysoginy, let alone call it out. How sad is that..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:06 PM
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They want us to be tradwifes while they keep being modern men, that's what they want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:55 AM
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Because they're happy about it. They're the ones who commit hate crimes against women. MRA is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard, what rights do men not have?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:40 AM
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Yep, I was talking to this guy once and he kept asking me to send him selfies "because he wanted to see me" but when I requested a video call he always refused. I didn't see it as much of a big deal and sent him a selfie every now and then. Then all of a sudden he started asking me for nudes. I immediately blocked and deleted. If he really wants to look at you that much he can do it over a date or a video call. But nope. They only want to see us as mute objects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 12:53 PM
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And then you have LibFems who defend this and say it's women's empowerment. Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:06 AM
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Good lord this is pathetic. They really only see us as objects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:00 AM
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This is very true. My dad used to do this, he would hit my mom and break a bunch of stuff around the house, and then he would start to cry and say how difficult everything is for him and how nobody understands him. And then he would tell her how much he loved her. I grew up witnessing this on a daily basis and it really messed me up. Luckily it has also made me recognise this kind of behaviour from miles away. I'm almost 22 and I've never been in a relationship. I won't tolerate 1% of what my da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 05:39 PM
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If the first thing a man says to you is that you're beautiful and that he wants your number it means "You seem like a nice place I can stick it into." Run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:02 PM
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This is why my age limit is max +3 years. They always use the excuse "mEn mAtUrE lAtEr tHaN wOmEn", like no dude, society allows men to behave like idiots no matter their age and women are raised a lot more strictly and they're constantly judged and told how to behave. They call women who date younger men "cougars" and when an older man dates a young woman it's totally a normal thing. They really want us to believe that a 35 year old man has the same emotional maturity as a 25 year old woman and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:22 PM
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Absolutely disgusting. Poor girl, I'm almost 22 myself. I would rather commit suicide than do anything like this. Sex work is the most dehumanizing work anyone can do. Just imagine how advanced society would be if all these lowlifes advocating for sex work advocated for women staying in school and pursuing higher education.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:15 AM
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Jesus lord. Apparently not wanting to date an abusive psycho mysoginist man-child who lives in his mom's basement makes us misandrists. The way they twist our words and make us the bad guys is hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:37 AM
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Lol the gold digger argument I can't even. Guys who complain about gold diggers are the ones who want a tradwife that does everything for them, but as soon as it's time to buy her a gift or pay for dinner they're like "I bElIeVe iN eQuAlItY, sHe cAn pAy fOr hErsElF".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:09 AM
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This is very true. I remember watching an interview of a sex therapist who said a very common problem her male patients have is that they can't get aroused by their gfs/wifes because apparently they "respected" them too much and couldn't look at them in a sexual way. The average straight man's brain has been so fried by porn that for them sex = degrading women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 06:58 PM
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Usually when male animals behave like this they get castrated, I suggest we start doing the same instead of brainwashing young impressionable women that being degraded is empowering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:15 PM
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Thank you so much!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 09:40 PM
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That makes a lot of sense, thank you for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 06:39 PM
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I guess you're right, I never thought of it that way. Thanks for pointing it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:32 PM
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Can someone link me the part of the Handbook that explains why men should always pay? I searched but couldn't find it. I've always been a 50/50 person, a man paying for my stuff makes me feel like a gold digger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:38 PM
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There was this post of a girl saying how she didn't want kids and the guy said to her "You wouldn't even know it when I get you pregnant", so I recommended this sub. You wouldn't believe the replies I got. Apparently this sub and every woman who participates in it are "trash", and "it's just women whining about men". And mind you, these replies weren't from men, but a gay woman and a bisexual woman. We often praise good men who treat women right, but everyone likes to turn a blind eye to that. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 06:35 PM
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You go girl! We love you too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 06:23 PM
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Good that he blocked you. The trash took itself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 07:57 PM
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I was born in eastern Europe in '99, my mom said the gynaecologist who delivered me (a man) hit her because she was screaming too loudly. She said it like it was a normal thing. I was like "Mom, what the actual fuck?!" And she just said "It happened to every woman". I.. I just don't even know what to say. Apparently hitting women while they give birth is normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:57 PM
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I'm so sorry that happened to you ~hugs~. My dad did this to my mom a lot, he would always say how she's overreacting over small things and make himself the victim. I grew up witnessing this kind of behaviour and I can recognize it from miles away. But it also made me hyper vigilant, I'm terrified of ending up in the same situation as my mom and I try to avoid men as much as I can. Hope you heal from that trauma, sending you lots of love and good vibes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:46 PM
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It was a LOT more than 3 or 4 times tho..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:54 PM
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Amen. I dumped him as soon as he mentioned it. This is him begging me to take him back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:31 PM
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Oh I was done with him a long time ago. He decided to contact me again and whine to take him back. Like I'm stupid enough to do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:22 PM
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Exactly. Why are men empowered when they have a nice car, a big house and a successful career but women are empowered when they sell their bodies, dance around almost naked and cater to men's wishes? I don't see any men feeling powerful by being degraded by women. They even tend not to like it. But it's fine when women are the the ones being degraded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 06:08 PM
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Never used a dating app in my life and never will. There are 3 times more men than women and 95% of them are only looking for a place they can stick in into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 07:55 PM
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My ex said he liked how my face looked young and also how i looked like i was 16. He liked how you look like an underage girl?? Red flag right there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:51 PM
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Pretty close, it's France. Brtts and Frenchies aren't very different tho. I once had a Brit old enough to be my dad dm me on social media. He kept saying how british women are all bad and he's looking for a foreign wife. I guess not willing to put up with a man's bs makes you a bad woman now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 10:26 AM
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Yep this is the sad reality. And the men who say these kinds of things aren't some strangers on the internet. It's the guy who works at your local grocery store, or the classmate/coworker you sometimes hang out with. Give a man a mask, or in this case an anonymous account on the internet and he'll reveal his true self. Now excuse me while I go drink some unsee juice to forget those comments I just read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:15 AM
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I need to wash my eyes with holy water after reading this. I feel sorry for his daughter and the mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 11:21 PM
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Why is height such a big deal anyway, if he's a hvm I'll take him no matter what his height is. I feel like a lot of men are too focused on it and are turning it into an insecurity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:03 AM
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Oh yes indeed. "She needs to have a low body count, preferably a virgin, but also needs to give amazing blow jobs and fulfill all of my sexual fantasies".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:20 AM
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But if you ask them what they look for in a woman they'll say: "Big boobs, big ass, educated but not more educated than me, earns a good salary, but not more than I do, is willing to do all the housework and pick up after me while I do nothing but watch football and drink beer. I also expect her to please me in the bedroom while I do nothing to do the same for her, women parts are too complicated to work with."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 09:58 AM
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This is why I'm wgtow. The only person you can trust 100% is yourself. I feel so horrible for this poor woman..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:19 AM
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Isn't that the bare minimum tho? How low does the bar need to be for a man to be applauded for being a decent human being?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 03:46 PM
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