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The mods were being spammed with child porn because some men got their little feels hurt by the content here. The admins refused to do anything about it, so they shut down the sub and moved offsite. You can use their forum and listen to the podcast for free, its not "monetized". The forum is not as user friendly as reddit, but at least no one is being subjected to child porn there so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/23 09:51 PM
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You can go to their website and comment on the forum there. The mods were being sent CP and the admins wouldn't do shit, thats not something any of us should expect them to endure. I wish reddit weren't such a shit hole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/23 01:50 PM
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They're for keeping it in place. It wants to move a little bit when used at higher speeds. I use it in bed though and keep it in place with a foot. I suspect you need the suction cups more if you use the extenders. Like maybe if you have a table at the foot of your bed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 01:10 PM
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This is what always got me. Living alone, I have almost no dishes. I hate doing dishes so I just avoid making them as much as I can. When I lived with people, they'd make so many dishes and I'm a jerk for not doing half of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 11:35 PM
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The one with balls can be adjusted to have a curve in it and I like that. Probably gonna wear it out playing with it! 😅 Also, two of those attachments are extenders and I haven't figure out why I would need them yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 05:35 PM
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I've always craved masturbation and sex separately because I associate first with clitoral stimulation and the second with penetration. After about six months celibate, I started craving penetration really bad. Sex dreams like never before. If anyone else is like me, I suggest getting something like this. I've named mine Nigel and he's wonderful. And the best part is, I've finally had an orgasm while being penetrated. It was lovely and I even had a second, which is rare for me. I was always afra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 01:38 PM
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My ex was allergic to chicken. He was never careful about it and I never saw symptoms when he accidentally ate some so I came to doubt it. I always respected it anyway though. Post break up, I've realized how much I missed chicken! I've eaten so many hot chicken wings since we broke up. I didn't even realize he was keeping me from eating chicken, but he would kinda negg people about eating it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 12:09 AM
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Nah, it was about getting a response so I could block you if you're were a woman cause I don't want to see your bad advice again, but it sounds like you are a man. If you don't want to be belittled, be better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 03:57 PM
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Girl, you have bought into male lies. It is very unlikely for a man to have ED as the result of a vasectomy. The risk women face due to birth control are much likely to happen and are more severe. Hormonal birth control basically gives women ED, it effects you libido at least, and no one gives a fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 11:25 AM
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You'd think he'd figure out where babies come from after a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 10:39 PM
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Men who don't want a vasectomy aren't childfree. I say this all the time on the childfree subreddit and the men there seeth over it. But if you won't take responsibility for birth control, you are leaving the decision of whether you're childfree or not up to the woman you're with and she may choose to keep a whoops baby. These men have no CLUE if they're going to be childfre or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 10:36 PM
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emotionally emeshed with his enabling mother Thank you for giving a name to this. I've almost exclusively dated this kind of man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 09:21 PM
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It sounded like the last time she probably just offered the women a ride if she needed one and it came up that she'd given another woman a ride.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 01:57 PM
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Men are actually suggesting that that Molly wants to fuck OP herself. They really don't know how disgusting they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 01:17 PM
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My ex lost his job and moved in with me during COVID and started cooking and housecleaning. His cooking gave me upset stomach after a while because it was so greasy. I suggest fish. I bought a grill because he didn't know how to cook fish on the stove. The grill was never plugged in, he just stopped cooking. My house was messy except when my parents were about to come over. He would clean then, but it looks pretty much just how clean I get my house by just cleaning the night before they come (I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 03:58 PM
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They're only nice in the beginning so your comfortable enough to open up about your past trauma with them. They look for women with histories like these.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 05:44 PM
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Yeah and he loves calling her wife and comparing her to other wives, completely ignoring anyone who pointed out she was not in fact his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:27 PM
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A lot of male homophobia comes out of fear of being sexualized by other men in the way that men sexualize women. Men like to say they wouldn't mind being sexually harassed by women all day long, but those same men don't like the idea of men hiting on them or just being gay around them sometimes. They know that male sexual attraction is degrading and possibly dangerous. They find it "emasculating". Ever notice how "emasculation" is just men being disrespected in a way that women are normally disr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 11:19 PM
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An old movie, but War of the Roses is probably another good test. My last ex and I ended up fighting over it. It's about a really nasty divorce. What should a man's reaction be to Gone Girl be?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 05:17 PM
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Thats what's got them so angry. They think they should be able to look like Kevin James and pull a model. The fact that models don't want them obviously means that women are evil and shallow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 06:50 PM
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Every guy I've known who thought it was their looks, it wasn't their looks. I knew a guy who had what looked a donut of fat around his neck. He's married. And he wasn't even that nice of a guy, he just married a woman in his league and actually tried to find someone instead of whining about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 04:51 PM
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Bold of you to assume scrotes own a vacuum!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 02:01 PM
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Can't wait for him to get surgery and still not be able to pull women. Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 12:21 PM
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You aren't to end up in a situationship if you don't sleep with him. You wait and sleep with him until after you've verified he wants what you want in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:16 PM
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I think men resent being expected to care about their spouse while they grieve. So many men treat a woman grieving as a inconvenience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:19 PM
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I'm gonna get the best Valentines Day present I've ever gotten this year. Went and bought a lot of gourmet chocolate this weekend and a cute new outfit. Still brainstorming for something really special.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 02:19 PM
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Thanks! I'll check them out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 08:08 PM
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Thanks for clarifying. Pretty sure my ex is a narc but very very certain he's avoidant and was having a moment in this thread where I was questioning if he was just avoidant. Knowing they go together makes a lot of sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 07:10 PM
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Also depressing when you loved a man like this though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 07:07 PM
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I've been the idealized phantom ex. We got back together and after several years long distances, moved in together. He started hating me within a year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 02:20 PM
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Make it! I love satire subs. There used to be one where primarily lesbian women pretended to be straight men and it was one of the best subs around. Actual straight men would wander in and get so confused!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 01:52 PM
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Behind every LVM is his mommy wiping his ass for him. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:36 PM
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Lockdown served as a wake up call for a lot of women. It was a perfect opportunity for of men to abuse women. You've got lots of people rushing moving in together, everyone isolated, community support for abused women limited due to the virus. It was a breeding ground for abuse or just plain shitty behavior from men. There's a boom of women getting out of shitty relationships forced by COVID to take a break from dating and they're leveling up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 11:20 PM
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So I looked this woman up and it's so heart breaking. Her account is mostly about her art and the soap she makes. She such a good artist and seems like such a cool person. But her foots been broken and healing for a year and she needs his insurance. She deserves so much more than him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 04:39 PM
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Someone let men into feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 04:09 PM
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If you wouldn't choose your pet over your partner, we wouldn't be compatible anyway. I don't necessarily think you should pick a pet that's incompatible with a long term partner (like don't go out and get a cat if your partners allergic) but if we've just met and you don't get along with the dog I've had seven years, you bet your ass I'm choosing the dog over you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:12 PM
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Well the OP misspelled disappearing, that may be your issue. You've got to quote the screenshot exactly and put it in quotes. Copying and pasting what I wrote should work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 12:51 AM
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Just FYI, any one who wants to look at the thread can find it by googling: "need advice on dissappearing from his life" reddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 09:57 PM
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What's wrong with that guys face? So much forehead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 04:10 PM
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Was wondering if they pulled their camera out to take a pic with the creepy guy still standing next to them. At the very least, staged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 01:48 PM
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So he was trying to lower his testosterone on purpose? Why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 06:23 PM
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Man, I thought I was doing better about this but just found out the character I've been lusting over in a TV show is a narc. 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 01:49 PM
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It's definitely his looks, women are just so shallow, don't you know...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 08:17 PM
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As "that girl", I personally needed to work out childhood trauma related to my father. And I'm not talking about anything I'd classify as "abuse" just not feeling loved enough and seeking out a paternal figure to give me that love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 09:24 PM
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Same thing happened my ex husband and I. It also happened with him and his ex. And during that relationship, I spent a lot of time on some of the poly subreddits and this is basically the jist of every other post. Men are so dumb, they really have no clue how unattractive they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:12 PM
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Don't trust a man just because he claims to be into self improvement though. My narc father ate that shit up. I suspect he mostly used it to manipulate people. And my ex loved to talk about the value of self awareness and how if only everyone was just as self aware as him. He was also completely unable to take responsibility for anything he ever did, it was always someone else's fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 04:01 PM
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Reminds me of this satirical "love" song, I Call That True Love. Some guy accuses me of foolin' with his wife threatens to take me apart Points a gun at me, I want you to jump in the middle and take the bullet in your own heart And as you're lyin' on the floor and dyin', I want you to look up at me and say "Hey Ray I'm sorry I messed up your rug, just roll my body out of the way" This is what a lot of guys actually want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 12:26 PM
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Fair enough. I just get a bit of a knee-jerk reaction to the idea of performing beauty rituals for yourself, because society has sold women this concept to make it seem like waxing all your body hair, spending hours on make up every day, getting lots of plastic surgery, and other harmful beauty practices are actually things we do for ourselves to make theses sometimes painful and time consuming acts more palatable when in reality we're doing it for men. Which doesn't mean there aren't harmless b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 02:02 PM
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If you were on a desert island, would you see benefit in being sexy? If you were the only person on the planet, had never even met another human being, would you even have the concept of being sexy? I don't think there's any thing shameful about wanting to be sexy, it can benefit women. But the benefit is in how others treat/view you. How a person feels about them self can and is effected by how sexy they feel, but that's because how others view them effects how they view them self. I just think…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 01:23 PM
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Recently bought one that plugs in and it seems like its got more speed than the battery powered ones too! Love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 10:21 PM
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My "hoe phase" was my self-destructive/self-harm phase. I definitely think women should get out there and see what sex with several men is like just so you don't end up with a dud like I did in my first marriage, but there are safer ways of doing that like serial monogamy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 07:18 PM
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It's not complicated. It's a biblical metaphor. It was pretty in your face with it. For something to be deep, to me it has to be thought provoking. What new thoughts did this movie provoke? A metaphor alone doesn't make something deep. She made a post saying she didn't like a movie, you disagreed, that doesn't explain your insulting tone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:40 PM
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I get the point of the movie, but I'm pretty sure most men are just enjoying watching a woman being tortured. I personally hated it. Maybe it's because I already knew God was a jackass, so it felt like I wasted my time learning this "deep" meaning when it was something I figured out at 17 just from reading the Bible. Also, I hate the patronizing tone some people take around here with others. It's just a movie, why do you feel the need to talk down to another woman to defend it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:18 PM
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This reminds me of the time my ex used my pretty dish towels to clean up black grease, staining them, and acted like I was crazy for have towels out he "couldn't use".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:01 PM
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What I'm saving the not so sexy pictures my ex sent me for.😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 08:17 PM
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Whether size matters to a woman personally or not, I wouldn't date one with a small dick anyway just because they're so fucking bitter about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 01:41 PM
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This. Even if a woman is dress inappropriately, an appropriate response would be pity or sympathy (Like for example, I saw a college kid in rough biker tattoo shop once wearing those shorts that show the bottom of your ass and she was visibly uncomfortable). But with the guys I've known like this, they were always angry about it. One even admitted it was because he assumed she'd turn him down if he approached her despite "asking for attention" by being dressed that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 05:31 PM
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"I think you'd make a really good mother" said by a guy you just met or softer stating you aren't interested in having kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 05:23 PM
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Maybe it's because they were being pickmes. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 11:22 AM
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This reminds me of a post I saw the other day. A girl gave a guy a BJ and then he asked her if she came. The top comment was, did he think her uvula was a clit? If a guy gets off on giving head, it's because it turns him on to give pleasure not because his tongue is an erogenous zone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 11:50 PM
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I'd say definitely if he's not going down on you or if you hate giving head. But I don't really see the point of sex unless you're both trying to please each other. I don't think it's pickme to want to reciprocate. After all, men don't get physical pleasure from giving head either but it would be a deal breaker for me if a guy wasn't willing to go down on me pretty much every time we fucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 07:03 PM
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I had an ex tell me he was a lot like Rick from Rick and Morty. Can confirm, he was an emotionally manipulative/abusive ass. Really should have listened on that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:23 PM
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This! Do I get physical pleasure from it? No. Do I get a deep satisfaction from the way I'm able to blow I guys mind? Yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 12:44 PM
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I've never minded BJs, but what I hate is having to ride a man especially if that's the only position. I get nothing out of it. They don't hit the right spot. It was my exes favorite position and he would act like I being lazy by not wanting to do it. Thing was, even if he didn't cum in that position, he would only have a few pumps left in him for a position that gave me pleasure which meant I was always unsatisfied afterwards. I never told him, but I was very enthusiastic to ride another ex for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 12:39 PM
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I don't mind BJs, but semen is fucking gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 12:29 PM
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As a former pickme, it pisses me off that some people are acting like once a trad wife, always a trad wife. People change and grow. That's what FDS is all about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 11:22 AM
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This is the problem with porn. The idea that it's just a fantasy is a lie. Not only is what your seeing actually happening to real women who deserve better, men want it to be real. They'll turn it into reality in their relationships if they can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:49 PM
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I would be like, challenge accepted! 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 01:14 PM
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It's not like dudes stop cuming after they get a vasectomy. Dudes are dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:08 PM
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I have such a problem with this. Part of me feels like men should treat you better when you're too good for them. But they never appreciate it. You build them up, and they tear you down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 11:20 PM
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This thread hurts a bit because my most recent ex was actually really good about picking me up quirky shit I loved just randomly, no reason needed. Like a taxidermy hog head that I named Hamlet, a large letter 'N' that came from a bowling alley sign and matched the colors of the room I was refinishing, a book of construction equipment where you could pop them out and make 3D models, etc. I still have so many of his gifts displayed in my home because they were so 'me' and I still love them so muc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 07:15 PM
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If she's lucky and he's one those who doesn want to get married. Probably the kind who thinks a woman will take all his "money" in a divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:06 PM
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I've seeing female "incels", they could usually find men who wanted to use them to masturbate into but struggled to find men who wanted to actually date them. The male incels treated them like shit because this was apparently a privilege. They did seem a little off, very hopeless like the males, but not violent. Any male incel space I've seen in inundated with fantasies about violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:12 PM
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For me its that he set another man straight that makes him HV, but maybe that should be considered the minimum too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 12:38 PM
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Why are men like this? Why do they stop treating you the same and then act shocked that you no longer treat them the same either. And it's your fault for changing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:06 PM
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How soon is too soon to ask this question?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 07:44 PM
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My NVM ex told me feeling guilty made him angry. I think thats the case with a lot of men who react like this to righteous accusations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:19 PM
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I haven't. He's been eager to contribute. Don't have to tell him things need done or anything. It was really lovely the first time I came home from work the Friday before my parents were visiting on a Saturday and the house being all ready and not having to do anything to prepare. I've been enjoying it so much, I'm not really sure I want him to go back to work full time. I'm beginning to understand why men have housewives. Haha And I still get taken out and bought nice things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:01 PM
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My mom acts like this about my SO washing dishes, cooking and cleaning. It really puzzles me because he hasn't had as much work since COVID and literally has nothing else to do some weeks. Does she think he should sit on his ass all day while I'm at work and then I should come home and clean too? No, I've put him to work cleaning and repairing my house instead. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:50 PM
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He gives me Fred and George Weasley vibes. IDK why. Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:08 PM
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This is one time I'd love to see the deleted comments in this thread. FDS mods are speedy! Removeddit shows a lot of removed comments, but all too quickly to archive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:06 PM
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Buy those things are toxic towards women, which doesn't count. FDS is toxic towards the patriarchy so that's extra bad. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:14 PM
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Both sexes try and use casual sex to fill a void within themselves. I've not met anyone who actually derives pleasure from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 03:09 PM
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It's no better in live action porn. So much plastic surgery. They make everyone look like the same woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 02:19 PM
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It's because men need women more than women need men. Men who are self sufficient rarely hate women, it usually the ones who are mad because no one wants to be their mommy/maid/sex toy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:52 PM
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What is it with men insisting on getting a shop vac? Do they have shop vac ads in playboy or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:42 AM
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All it took to gain the courage to leave my husband was three weeks of him traveling for work. Best three weeks I'd had in years. And I really felt I couldn't live without him before that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:07 PM
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I was also going through my "casual sex is empowering" phase. 🤦‍♂️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 08:08 PM
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Man, the more I delve into this person's Twitter history the more horrified I am. A post saying they want to fuck Armie Hammer now they know he's an abuser, SO much daddy shit, and fanfiction where Mort gets raped by Rick. So far I just have a disembodied feminine looking hand with acrilic nails to determine if they really are a woman. Not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:38 PM
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I want to think it's not a female, but she says she's 19 in her bio and this just feels like something a dumb porn sick pick me would say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:28 PM
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No she means literally broken. Here's a quote from the thread in response to "Getting your ribs broken isn't unhealthy." "It isn’t as long as the top knows what they’re doing. Professional sadists know how to break your ribs/hurt you without fatally injuring you."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:24 PM
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I'm not disagreeing that it's the privilege who are more likely to abuse, but I got involved with someone who stealthed me because I missed red flags that I would have noticed if he were white. Never let your guard down just because of someone's demographic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:04 PM
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It looks like all he had to do was learn hygiene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 08:08 PM
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50 cats probably smell better than some of these guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 08:06 PM
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Neither are the "unicorns" who want in on your relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 06:11 PM
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You can’t standard shame here but apparently it’s fine to insinuate that only pickmes like or are with short guys I didn't read it like that. I think they're just pointing out that a lot of women who have high standards about physical things like height used to ignore their preferences and give guys a chance but it didn't do them any good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 06:56 PM
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Maybe if she's willing to support their broke ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 01:22 AM
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I can't believe I had to get this far down to see dick size. Besides hygiene stuff, dick size is my one and only physical deal breaker. I like a man to hit bottom and that means 7 inches for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 11:31 PM
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I love blondes! But mostly because I'm the biggest sucker for blonde body hair. And blonde public hair kinda makes me swoon. I once dated a blonde only to find out his body hair was brown and kinda patchy and it killed it for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 11:19 PM
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Guys that get their brows waxed and it's more shaped up than mine are Oh my God, yes! No one wants a unibrow but I know a guy who's plucked a good 1/4 of an inch more than anyone should. Its hard not to stare. And he's a fuck boy who thinks every woman wants him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 11:12 PM
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The two balding men I've slept with were the most decent men I slept with. And had the biggest cocks. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 10:29 PM
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This happened to me! It was glorious! He accused me of being a psychopath because I didn't care about his feelings and wouldn't stop sleeping with other men while he "caught up". This piece of shit talked me into an open relationship while I was in tears, demanded a head start which lasted 3 years, was a horrible selfish lover, AND didn't want to close our relationship which I suggested, just wanted me to stop seeing other people. This was one of the things that finally pushed me to leave his so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 07:31 PM
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Nothing you do will fix it if they don't want to fix it. I worked for years trying to fix my sex life with my ex husband. He never even learned how to fingering me the way I liked. He wanted to be "rewarded" with low effort sex where I'm his fucking flesh light because he had tired hard that ONE time after we talked about it. That one time wasn't even any good. It's hard to enjoy sex with someone when you haven't enjoyed sex with that person so many fucking times before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 02:13 AM
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I've experienced this before, but I'd say it's really the worst of them that are like that. Even just plain run of the mill shitty men I've dated wanted me to be into it too. I think it's about wanting things on their terms and if you want it too it's not all about them? I think it's also about wanting it when they want it and your interest or lack of interest is irrelevant. What ever the cause, run for the hills because there are definitely better men out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:41 AM
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Mountain dew used to be a name for moon shine. As in, no officer we didn't brew moonshine, we just went out and collected the sweet mountain dew. And the Mountain Dew we know today was a mixer for said dew. I'm a little put out that they ruined such a cool name. I'm just gonna leave this here. :P
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 03:02 PM
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My ex went back to his mother's when I divorced him. The only women who deserves him. After a few months she tried sending him back to me. Fuck no!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 02:53 PM
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I was twenty and attending a Christian college and he was the only person I had met who was an atheist and a liberal like myself. And while he said he wasn't a feminist, he didn't have a problem with me being one. What a catch! No one knew I had lost my faith and was voting Democrat and I mistook the relief of finally being "out" to someone for a deeper connection. And yes, I divorced him and found a man who's twice the man he was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 10:49 PM
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My ex told me he was broken after his ex and didn't know if he could love me. He told me he was too much man for one woman and needed to be in an open relationship and he needed to "go first" because women had an unfair advantage in dating. I was crazy about this man. Begged him to fuck me. Hung out with him and the women he was trying to fuck. Married him, supported him while he was jobless. Consigned on two cars and a house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 03:08 PM
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As the kid they all thought was a loser back then, yeeeessss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:52 PM
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This was definitely my experience. I realized after sleeping with other people that I really didn't like sleeping with my ex, and I have a pretty high libido so I always kept a lover after that. Towards the end I was like, wouldn't this all be so much easier if the man I actually in a committed relationship with could meet my sexual needs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 06:35 PM
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Polygamy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 05:09 PM
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I love me some Heinlein.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/13 01:15 PM
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I don't really think it's my responsibility to correct other's misconceptions about game. When ever I see others with poor opinions of it, I usually give my high opinion of it as well, but beyond doing that I don't think you can expect me to do more. I'm not subscribed to TBP subreddit and I'm not responsible for what they say or post there. Also, I think what saintmorning was saying was that they didn't have a problem with the dating advice or "game" but rather with the way this advice is put i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/13 05:30 PM
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Sorry I wasn't clear. I know men and women are different, I was asking for proof from the more controversial things that TRP supports. Lets start with proof that women are hypogamous and men are not or that the captain/first mate relationship model is the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/13 05:14 PM
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I definitely agree with TRP that society and Hollywood (and often times men and women who are themselves deluded by Hollywood and society) lie to men about what women want and how to attract women. I think they lie to women a lot too. They feed women a lot of bullshit about romance and happily-ever-after. I don't think this is feminism's doing. I think it's the result of Hollywood trying to make money off of us by telling us what we'd like to hear. I think everyone can do themselves a favor by o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/13 12:38 AM
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If a bluepiller went to TRP and tried to correct the misinterprtations, then they would be banned. I think the reason why most bluepillers are in this subreddit are for the reasons you state.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/13 10:09 PM
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But there is scientific support for the things I believe. Then by all means, show us that scientific support. We'd all love to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/13 09:57 PM
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Men and women behave selfishly in the sexual market to satisfy their instinctual urge to maximize probability of survival of offspring. I think this is a perfectly valid statement. A problem I have with a lot of redpillers is that they demonize women for their instinctual urges while encouraging men to embrace their urges. I view this as hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/13 09:25 PM
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You make a good point. I can definitely see how having muscles would improve bar game or club game and increase your chances of getting a one night stand. I also agree that going to the dentist is good advice. Bad teeth are a deal breaker for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/13 08:16 PM
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But speaking as somebody who was small and pretty successful with women, I decided to take on body building as an experiment. I went from 168lbs to about 195lbs over the course of a year. The first thing I noticed is that women are far more receptive to me flirting with them. I get far less bitch shield (if any) than before. I definitely think you have a point. When I met my husband he was tall, confident, very handsome and clearly strong but he wasn't tone and he had a gut. I was very attracted…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/13 08:08 PM
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I know a lot of bluepillers dislike "game" but I'm not one of them. I see nothing wrong with awkward guys who don't naturally know how to interact with women learning how to be less awkward and interact successfully. I've actually read some books on seduction and for the most part I liked them and felt like they offered good advice. I'm also subscribed to /r/seduction and I really like most of the submissions there. Although I feel like the comments are often full of bitter men who seem to disli…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/13 07:55 PM
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Thank you! Our evolution was determined by natural selection and sexual selection Traits developed by the sexual selection process can help identify the instinctual preferences of the species. Patterns and trends can be known because of these factors I definitely agree with your premises. For example I think women instinctually prefer men who are taller, who look healthy, who are good with children, etc. I would even say that women prefer stronger men. I can definitely see the use in identifying…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/13 07:30 PM
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I think it has a positive effect if it's not over done. However, I've never taken into consideration what a man's chest looks like when deciding whether or not I'd date him or even whether or not I'd like to fuck him. So many other factors come into play but not this. It's not really important to me and I doubt it's important to a lot of other women. In the article that Canned_wine199 posted, it said that most women said that Ryan Reynolds had the ideal male body but weren't likely to pick him i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/13 06:02 PM
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That was a very interesting article! Thanks for the read.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/13 05:42 PM
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I think if women had to choose a mate based on what their chests look like alone, Guy B would have a slight advantage. In this unlikely scenario, I would say that about 70% of women would choose guy B. Something to think about, women tend to prefer feminine men more when they're on they're period or pregnant and masculine men more when they are ovulating. Since birth control pills work by telling women's body's that they're pregnant all the time, a lot of women are going for more feminine men. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/13 04:47 PM
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Nevertheless, I still don't get what point you're trying to make. What does this have to do with TRP? You clearly have a point that you're trying to prove. Stop playing games and just state you argument clearly. So far you've just stated well accepted facts and acted like you've proven things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/13 11:01 PM
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We also still have wisdon teeth and appendixes despite not needing either. Nevertheless, I still don't get what point you're trying to make. What does this have to do with TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/13 08:47 PM
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I don't think we can really know. And I think I society has changed so much that it's kind of irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/13 06:04 PM
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What point are you trying to make with this? I would say it's because in the past men were the hunters and thus needed more physical strength to be successful in gathering food.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/13 05:42 PM
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I was told not to change who I am, that eventually some one would come along and there would be that spark or "chemistry" and that someone would just be right for me. I agree completely with TRP that this is a lie. It's perpetuated because it feels better than the truth and because for a lot of people, like the girl who gave you this advice, it holds true. She just didn't realize that what was true for her wouldn't be true for you as well. There are men for whom this is true for as well and they…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/13 04:55 PM
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all the "betas" never reproduce but end up caring for the offspring I'm not the person you've responded to but I don't think it would work like that. The woman would have sex with the Beta/provider occasionally to make sure he sticks around. Unless he's sterile, it's likely that she'll be impregnated by him as well, thus the provider genes would be passed on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/13 10:51 PM
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That just silly. Is it immature for men to have sex after just two weeks as well? See, I think the true parallel to what you describing is a woman who wants to have sex because she thinks that it will make the planets align and it will be the most beautiful moment in her entire life just like it is for all those women in chic flics. She is immature and doesn't understand what sex is truly like. She has unrealistic expectations. Having sex with her won't end well if you want more than a pump and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/13 03:58 PM
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I understand what you're getting at. When men give away commitment too easily, women realize that they can do better, just as when women give away sex to easily, men realize they can do better. It's a fair point but I think there is more to both sides. When someone say they love another person within two weeks of dating, they're showing that they're immature and don't truly understand what love is. You can't be in love after two weeks, you have to get to know a person to really be in love with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/13 03:10 PM
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Women like hearing that they're hot, but that doesn't mean you should tell then if you want to date/fuck them.
/r/seduction21/01/13 07:27 AM
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I think it would be interesting to get the opinion of man who has actually been raped. I imagine he wouldn't agree with you at all. Spermjacking is obviously wrong and there is clearly gender inequality here, but saying it's the same thing as rape is only hurting your cause.
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