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| 67 | FDS teaches you to protect yourself from all this! Dating disasters from hell 🤢The first guy... That's a classic narcissistic creep. Also, she didn't even finish the movie. She did end up wasting her time on him, and had to face some abuse over "texting". Can he repay her for that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 09:49 PM |
| 8 | Diamonds Are ForeverThanks, I'll have a look. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 09:31 PM |
| 84 | Bizarre pickme post in another subreddit: woman so excited that the office "hot guy" flirts with her that she goes out to celebrateBro he winked at you and your husband high-fived you and bought you two cheesecakes. It's really funny to me haha. Poor lass, like she said she used to be in an abusive relationship and thinks this is positive. Damn, women have been brainwashed. I wish her the best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:29 PM |
| 28 | This sh*t right here!!Wooow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:16 PM |
| 18 | Diamonds Are ForeverRomantic love is a scam sold to women by the patriarchy. 100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 04:58 PM |
| 5 | Diamonds Are ForeverIt doesn't have to be a diamond, it can be another thing of value. I understand your point and thank you for bringing awareness to the dark side of diamond-mining. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 04:38 PM |
| 18 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorGreat analysis. I stopped watching movies because of all the scandals coming out of Hollywood. Also, anytime female-positive films would come out, it would not make as much money and people would whine about 'feminist propaganda". What about all the oversexualization and infantilization of women in films? That hasn't stopped their success. Society is hypocritical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Diamonds Are ForeverMe too <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 04:30 PM |
| 18 | Diamonds Are ForeverThat depends on the color. I think Pink Diamond is super rare. Rubies, jade, emerald, opal, alexandrite, gold, silver, platinum. There's so much choice, it doesn't have to be diamonds. Shiny, sparkly, beautiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 04:28 PM |
| 30 | Diamonds Are Foreverwomen who want one are gold-diggers. I'd Be haPpY wIth aN OniOn rInG!, bleats the pick-me. Girl, "golddigger" shaming is a complete scam. Golddiggers Smart women climb up the social ladder, face no shame, but gain more privilege. There's no award for rejecting a wealthy man. We've all been duped by society into accepting the bare minimum. Also, you made me burst out my tea once I read "onion ring" hahaha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 03:56 PM |
| 19 | Diamonds Are ForeverWell, it doesn't have to be diamonds. There are so many other precious gems and metals out there. Topas is my favorite but unfortunately there is no song about topas :(. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 03:50 PM |
| 31 | Diamonds Are ForeverBe it a diamond or other precious gem, I can’t resist the urge to hoard them like a dragon protecting its shinies lol. Girl I'm the same way haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 03:48 PM |
| 14 | Diamonds Are Forever^_^ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 01:30 PM |
| 56 | lowkey don’t even care at this point if a guy wants to screw around with my feelings like that i simply just do not have the time and resources to deal with it - block and deleteWe're done with the patriarchy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 09:01 AM |
| 10 | Frauds on datingsites/appsOMG fellow Dutchie here. Wat goed! But yes, men who take advantage of women financially exist and we have to spread awareness about them. It almost happened to me as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 08:50 AM |
| 2 | Reminder: Dont be with a man like thisAmen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 01:14 PM |
| 31 | Another FDS hate post on the frontpage of LV males frothing at the mouthPeople with lives wouldn't waste their time on issues that don't concern them. It's like me following a sub on life in Antarctica and getting in arguments with penguins. But to me it confirms that there is an inherit and active hatred for women and these people need fuel for their sick worldviews. It's proof that mysogyny is well-alive. This sub really opened my eyes to that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 09:32 PM |
| 73 | Reminder to not idealize any ethnicity of man (I'm talking to you, kpop boyband stans)This sub opened my eyes about the patriarchy. It helped me realize all the bs men put us through. Btw you're really good at drawing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 09:28 PM |
| 11 | Reminder: Dont be with a man like thisEverything you said, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 08:15 PM |
| 39 | Another FDS hate post on the frontpage of LV males frothing at the mouthWhy do incels lurk this sub anyway? Can someone give some insight into their psychology? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 07:23 PM |
| 155 | Guy dumps his GF over not enthusiastically having oral and not doing anal, and gets hailed as an upstanding guy for doing this in the commentsYou know I read some posts about love. When men love their women, they stay even if she's "bad" in bed because as a couple you have years to grow and learn to please each other. You don't just dump someone over this. It just means he wasn't in love, like she thought. Of course she's being gaslit again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 05:12 PM |
| 175 | Reminder: Dont be with a man like thisPlaying games when you're an adult. It's fucking pathetic. Edit: the incels are downvoting me. I'll say it again: GROWN MEN PLAYING VIDEOGAMES ARE PATHETIC. I have never come across a high value man who plays them. I stand by my opinion. I'll never date a grown man who plays them. Also, scrotes lurking on female-only subs are even worse. Losers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 04:53 PM |
| 49 | I wish men were required to watch this video before dating womenVery true words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 08:37 PM |
| 9 | Jonathan Ross Points out Lewis Hamilton on His BSHe is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 07:48 PM |
| 63 | Woman in Denial About being in an Abusive, "open" Marriage.Top notch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 08:17 PM |
| 21 | Even during this social experiment the men that overheard saw how low value the guy (actor) was.Yes we need to raise our standards and stop accepting LV behavior from men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 06:14 PM |
| 17 | Next time a man interrupts you…OMG me too >_< | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 12:06 PM |
| 149 | Sometimes I feel like all hope is lost.39% masturbate at work?! EWwwwwwwww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 07:14 AM |
| 29 | "Next time you feel sad because you don't look like another girl, remember that flowers are pretty, but so are the Christmas lights, and they look nothing alike"Yes we are are all beautiful in our own way. No need to compare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 08:34 AM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on changing your name after marriage?I am not changing my name ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 05:54 AM |
| 5 | Your Legal Name is a Commodity- Protect It!I've been using a pseudonym for years! Great advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 05:52 AM |
| 11 | Just broke up with a sweet, funny, kind and attentive guy, because he works a minimum wage jobBuuut does that mean that, if you’re a high achiever, you need to find someone who is equally high-achieving or you’ll lose some of it in the relationship? You WILL 100% lose some of yourself in a relationship like that. The decision in that case is yours to make: are you willing to sacrifice that part of yourself or not? I speak from experience. I've known people who could be in a much better place, but they chose not to go after the opportunities they had. In my book these people are losers. P… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 06:32 PM |
| 63 | Just broke up with a sweet, funny, kind and attentive guy, because he works a minimum wage jobOkay I think I know the type we are dealing with here. This may sound a little woowoo, but the way I see the world is in terms of energy. We can manifest a great deal with intention and vision and direct our hard work towards those goals. Everyone is capable of success or greatness. He is, what I call a thermostat. Basically what a thermostat does is, it has a little sensor. When you set the temperature of a room at 68 degrees F, the sensor keeps it that way. If you open a window and the tempera… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 04:33 PM |
| 102 | Mamabaiting 101: Beware of the manbaby! How LVM trick you into taking on the leadership role in a relationship 👶 🍼 Watch out for these red flagsOMGGGGG. I have heard every single one of these lines before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 03:51 PM |
| 68 | Just broke up with a sweet, funny, kind and attentive guy, because he works a minimum wage jobIn order to better understand the situation, I have some questions I hope you don't mind answering: May I ask what you mean by manchild? What specific behavior revealed that he was that? (like is he playing videogames all day, he can't keep his house clean, can't cook, etc?) What do you mean by him "getting his shit together". Do you mean that he could easily get a better paying job? Do you mean that he has a degree he's not utilizing? More details, please. Also, why do you think he is capable o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 03:30 PM |
| 7 | One slight problem though; roaches can be pretty darn cute. Men often aren't, unless they're little kids doing little kid things.Me too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 06:49 AM |
| 27 | We all want to feel wanted but there's a huge difference between being CHERISHED and being DESIRED. The first develops and lasts a lifetime, the second burns fast and leaves you empty, even feeling discarded. Doctor Ramani gives us a very important lesson!Sounds like my last relationship 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 04:25 PM |
| 48 | We all want to feel wanted but there's a huge difference between being CHERISHED and being DESIRED. The first develops and lasts a lifetime, the second burns fast and leaves you empty, even feeling discarded. Doctor Ramani gives us a very important lesson!That's a good one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 04:17 PM |
| 74 | Normalize telling men they don’t turn you on anymoreBeautiful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 03:06 PM |
| 675 | Normalize telling men they don’t turn you on anymoreI was watching a video on Youtube about why women lose interest in men they are married to. One woman said this: In my experience… The reason I lost attraction to my husband was because the dynamic in our relationship changed. I felt like his mother… I felt like if I didn’t manage everything about our life it just simply wouldn’t get done. Because that’s what 15 years of experience taught me with him. So when he became child like it was, and this might sound really weird… Almost incestuous to ev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 01:40 PM |
| 6 | LVM vs. HVM from traditional, patriarchal culturesNo, look. This is a case of major incompatibility. Having different viewpoints on religion, being from different cultures is gonna have a major impact on your relationship. maybe he wants to raise his childeren Muslim? It's not going to work if they have a Christian mother. Same as a very conservative man and very liberal woman. Some rare cases find a way to make this work, but you're gonna bump heads on issues. You were not compatible, that is all. He didn't see you in his long-term vision. For… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 08:16 AM |
| 60 | Thought I met someone I really liked, but recently he's ignoring me. Last night, I mourned my loss. I deleted his number so I wouldn't be tempted to reach out to him. Then I came to this sub to remind myself that I made the right choice. Thank you all for being my rock 💓I hate that shit, honestly. I hate it especially when you don't see it coming. It seems like the two of you are really hitting it off. There are no signs that he's not interested and then one day the slow fade begins. It's really disrespectful. I kept track of how often I do that to others. I never do that to others. I always give men a reason for why things wouldn't work between us. I always express when I don't agree with them or even what I don't like about their behavior before ceasing conta… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 09:14 PM |
| 66 | 🎄👻It’s that time of year for the annual Holiday Hoover from your scrote ex, again! Beware! Don’t get sucked in by their sentimental bullshit!👻🎄Good luck to him, I changed my number. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:59 PM |
| 277 | Don't let the man downgrade you!Don't worry honey, this has happened to all of us. Lesson learned. Remember, how he treats other women is usually foreshadowing of what will come to you. He told you he is extremely picky with other women over an accent, teeth, and 10 minutes late. He sounds like an absolute narc to me. Also, he was calling you "intriguing" to make you feel special/stroke your ego. The "you're so different from other women" line. The pulling away is part of it because now he wants you to chase him. He just wants… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:56 PM |
| 46 | Never wait around for a man who doesn’t treat you well to change. Leave him and level up.That's right! Have an abundance mindset ladies! There's so many guys out there. Don't be hung up on a man if he proves not to be right for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 06:24 PM |
| 57 | Is it a red flag? i need your advice pleaseSorry hun, I'm not feeling this 🤷🏻♀️. Like the other ladies already pointed out. Also, in the past I've flown out many times to meet the guy I loved. I don't do that anymore because that's kinda pickmeisha behavior. But my point is. If you love someone, you want to be around them. You'll do anything to get close to them. There are three main motivating factors in us humans: the drive for sex. the drive for power. the drive for money. You are his source of sex/intimacy. Why does he not want to s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 06:14 PM |
| 28 | Pickmeisha spotted🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 06:08 PM |
| 55 | How come ladies say you don’t want to be the “ride or die” woman to a man who grew to be successful with you?Yes! Basically a male golddigger. I know countless other stories of men taking advantage of women in other ways/forms. This is why we need to spread awareness and maintain platforms like FDS 💪. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 11:49 AM |
| 13 | How come ladies say you don’t want to be the “ride or die” woman to a man who grew to be successful with you?Haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 11:45 AM |
| 42 | How come ladies say you don’t want to be the “ride or die” woman to a man who grew to be successful with you?Middle Eastern | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 11:30 AM |
| 2 | Adult man baby can't drive himself.He is indeed a useless barnacle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 10:59 AM |
| 4 | Adult man baby can't drive himself.Exactly what you said. He knows exactly what he is doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 10:48 AM |
| 9 | Adult man baby can't drive himself.I hope she comes to her senses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 10:01 AM |
| 6 | Adult man baby can't drive himself.Very manipulative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 10:00 AM |
| 71 | red flag: "I can't cook"in vain hopes some pickme with motherly instincts swoops in to let him suckle at her teats for all of time. Good on you for not falling for it LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:32 AM |
| 115 | How come ladies say you don’t want to be the “ride or die” woman to a man who grew to be successful with you?I know two women who were playing housewives for two immigrant brothers, while they were getting settled in the country they were immigrating to. They studied and worked, meanwhile these wives helped them get accustomed to the new culture, traditions, processes, while cooking cleaning, studying, and PAYING for these men's lifestyles. After the men graduated and got jobs, they went back to their homeland to get a virgin bride. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:31 AM |
| 47 | You really are the prize. Don’t let the media and the patriarchy convince you otherwise.💪💪💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 06:52 PM |
| 40 | Beware of men who engage in avoidance, intimidation, infantilisation, or emotionally abusive manipulations when you bring up a concern. The very moment he displays any of the following (& more), DROP him! Do not let men damage your health.Hollywood and their bs 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 06:50 PM |
| 86 | Beware of men who engage in avoidance, intimidation, infantilisation, or emotionally abusive manipulations when you bring up a concern. The very moment he displays any of the following (& more), DROP him! Do not let men damage your health.Or men who act like we are dogs and they can use certain tricks on us. Especially those pickup artist losers. Like there's a fucking code or something. It's not like we are individuals with individual personalities or anything. No we are dogs and all they have to do is learn the tricks that will hack into our system and they are guaranteed a lifetime supply of coochie. /S | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 06:48 PM |
| 173 | Low effort flirting and low effort dates I have been shutting down all weekGoing on cheap last-minute dates puts you at an immediate disadvantage. I'll tell you what will happen and spare you the drama. If you go on cheap, last-minute dates: The bar has been set low from the start. The guy treats you as disposable, followed by you feeling anxious because deep down you know if he really really liked you, he would show more effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 08:54 AM |
| 154 | Lmao at his whiny edit. The holidays really bringing the scrotes out.They both got a laugh at her self-esteem's expense. This isn't just a "joke". Grow a fucking spine and defend your wife and her quirky habits, instead of pointing fingers at her and laughing at her for being different. Men like him are cowards. If ever the woman demands a divorce, he pulls a surprised pickachu face, becomes a red pilled scrote complaining about how women are not subservient anymore. Wahwah. He killed romance the minute he laughed at her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 07:15 AM |
| 12 | What are the most ridiculous pick-me opinions you had before reaching the age of reason?"I can heal him from his wounds and help him build up his life, this is destiny putting us together cause I have what it takes to fix him, now it's my obligation, I have this responsibility" 🤢🤢🤢 Are you my twin? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 12:25 PM |
| 13 | Does anybody else never click links posted here for security reasons?I agree with you. Unless it's obviously TikTok or Youtube, I'm also very careful about clicking on links. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 09:23 PM |
| 72 | Real love is effortless, it's giving, it blesses everything. A man who loves you will do everything for you.When you truly love someone, you would want to see them happy. You make time for them, you invest in them, etc. No excuses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 06:14 PM |
| 47 | Woman posts about her LVM in 2015 . . . and then updates SIX years later about leveled up lifeThis bright a tear to my eye. I'm so happy for her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 05:15 PM |
| 52 | My husband told me to choose between him and my businessThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 09:23 PM |
| 18 | Have Low-Value "Couples" Ever Tried to Degrade You As a Single Woman?I understand, but in that case maybe it's best to work out on zoning people out. Because we can't control people and their thoughts and ideas about us. There isn't a trick out there that would make the Pickme or LVM suddenly come to their senses. There isn't a word we can say or a look we can give that would make these people change. It took decades and decades of conditioning to turn into whatever they are. We can't do much about it. I wish I could "tshhh" them like Cesar Milan, but I can't. Th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 08:50 PM |
| 61 | Have Low-Value "Couples" Ever Tried to Degrade You As a Single Woman?I've become particularly good a "pheripheral" vision. I see everything in my pheripheral and have trained myself to avoid eye contact with anyone and everyone in public. I think maybe on occassion you've made eyecontact with the Pickme, even for a split second. To these over-inflated ego types that alone works as supply to validate their delusions. Don't make eyecontact and if you do, avoid it for the remainder of the time you have to spend with them. I've also, unfortunately become less "polite… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 08:25 PM |
| 434 | My husband told me to choose between him and my businessCongratulations. Whilst reading, I was thinking to leave a comment telling you to leave him. But you've already done so. I'm happy for you. In my household my mom was the main breadwinner of the family. Because of her, we were able to afford a comfortable lifestyle. My dad never once said anything bad about it. In fact, he was praising her a lot, even til this day. My dad was a bit of a "househusband". He was the one who was making us lunch, breakfast, he'd comb our hair and put it in pigtails (… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 07:41 PM |
| 20 | Scrotes Be ScrotingThis is really sad, but not surprising. It also validates what we've been preaching about men not thinking a woman has value unless she is fuckable to him. Edit: I think us women just KNOW. Like, I've experienced this myself. Whenever I go through some physical transformation men are just nicer to me I noticed. Like when you overcome acne, or maybe get in shape, or maybe when you wear makeup more often, or improve your style, etc. I just noticed that. Not just with me, but also the women around … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 05:01 PM |
| 88 | Disappointed by my date todayThe way I see it, he is horny and so he is trying to butter you up to give it up sooner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 11:19 AM |
| 357 | My mentor confessed to me. He's 24 years my senior.How backwards in society are we, that OP now bears the burden of how to handle this totally inappropriate situation; so SHE doesn’t face any consequences……seriously. I know! I'm so enraged by this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 12:10 AM |
| 81 | My mentor confessed to me. He's 24 years my senior.Thank God he's not grading you. In that case I agree that avoiding him is best. And like the other comment said, it is a good idea to keep a screenshot of the conversation just in case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 12:06 AM |
| 307 | My mentor confessed to me. He's 24 years my senior.Oooff. This is a difficult one. Jesus Christ. 24 years?! 24?! The audacity. FFS. LET YOUNG WOMEN BLOOM IN PEACE WITHOUT TRYING TO LEECH OFF THEIR YOUTH. Ughhh. We should have age difference laws too, not just age of consent laws. Omg... First of all, I'm glad you realize the depravity of this man and don't entertain this clownery. Second, realize that people don't do things once. He's been hitting up young girls many, many more times before you. The behavior we see in people is a manifestion of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 11:38 PM |
| 81 | Is FDS a new take on dating or just the pendulum swinging back?Yeah, see here's the difference between me and the writer of that article: I don't want to get married 3 times. I could've been married if I wanted to. Heck, I could get married this year. Instead, I want to get married once and successfully with the right guy and the right guy only. Why would I rush to take myself of the market with a so-so guy? That article is invalid for multiple reasons, but the main one being: Each of us has been dealt a unique set of cards in life. We're all at different p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 09:02 PM |
| 9 | Always remember your mannersWhen's the last time a murderer was deterred because his victim smiled?🤔🤔 Exactly! There are so many illogical sides to his statement. If men are so fucking RaTiOnaL, they ought to realize how invalid that remark is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 08:38 PM |
| 107 | Lvm telling on themselves: "sex work is a valid profession" and yet he would "never touch that sk@nk with a 10 ft pole"Exactly true. Also, I have always been under the idea that if a man wants his future wife to be a virgin/have low body count, he has to match that energy as well. Otherwise it's pure hypocrisy. And hypocrisy has never worked as a solid foundation for any relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 08:29 PM |
| 32 | Always remember your mannersNah this is a poor attempt at concealing his victim blaming. It's like those people that start their insults with "Not trying to offend you, buuuut..." and then follow up with offensive insults. nOt JuStiFyiNg HiS aCtIoNs At aLL. Well you kinda are. You can't say homophobic shit and deny you're a homophobe. You can't say racist shit and deny you're a racist. You can't say sexist shit and not expect to be called a sexist. God I hate these people. They think that a disclaimer like that immediatly … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 08:14 PM |
| 119 | Just found this and I am so shocked! Nobody can tell me that this isn’t some form of abuseI'm so embarrassed of having entertained scrotes in the past with their abuse fetishes. I remember years ago when a guy I was talking to first tried to introduce me to a sub/dom dynamic. and I was initially so intrigued. I thought he would basically introduce me to this whirlwind adventure. Instead, it was just pathetic abuse. These are loser men who have little control/understanding of the real world. I'd see him in public settings as this fucking loser and behind closed doors he'd call me his … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 08:02 PM |
| 317 | Let me start by saying that cheating is terrible, but I cannot help but wonder if this "Wife-Girlfriend" of 10 years has utterly given up on him. I also like the "I guess" there at the end, suggesting a general passive-aggressiveness."pushed me into an alcoholic relapse". Means he's not taking responsibility for his own actions. Don't play the victim, once you become an adult own up to your negative habits and exert some discipline. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 01:10 PM |
| 59 | Thanksgiving blues..Girl. Here's my advice to you: Think about what you want in this life. Make a plan. Stick to that plan. For example, I know what I want in a man. I know my value. I want to find someone to spend my life with. I also want kids at some point in life. If I don't find that man I'll go the artificial insemination route. Idc what people along the way of my plan say to me. Nobody can shame me out of my intentions. This is my plan and I'm sticking to it. When I didn't have a plan or didn't know what I w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 10:29 PM |
| 120 | Why do men manipulate even when they already get what they want?A guy friend once told me this years ago (he's not my friend anymore but for different reasons). He treated women exactly as you put it and he said: "I will always be on her mind, she will never forget me". This was a guy who would also sleep with women, then ghost them and brag about them "chasing" him (I now realize they wanted closure/understanding about his change in behavior). So I asked him about it once, I said why do you do that then? And he told me that quote I put up. It's a strange ki… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 10:08 PM |
| 129 | I see posts like this weekly - thank god the comments unanimously say GTFO ASAP. But how heartbreaking that this woman WITH AN MBA has resorted to CAMMING and is putting up with this for some scrote she's dated for 5 WHOLE MONTHS?!?!?!??!WOW. I don't understand why she tolerates this behavior from someone she's known 5 MONTHS. I mean, I understand people in abusive relationships who were slowly manipulated into it over years. He showed her he's crazy AF not even half a year in. That's when you run. Anyway, I'm not trying to victim shame. I just hate reading stuff like this and I hate it when women think so little of themselves to tolerate such BS. That caveman of hers is insane and he's testing the waters here. The endgame of ab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 09:50 PM |
| 24 | If you won’t bother checking the FDS handbook before posting your question, at least ask yourself this…Recognize you worth, queen! Good luck out there xx. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 08:39 PM |
| 160 | If you won’t bother checking the FDS handbook before posting your question, at least ask yourself this…I stopped comparing myself to others. We have all been dealt a unique set of cards in this life. And as cliche as it may sound, if someone doesn't recognize the value I bring to the table, then it's simply not gonna work between us. Because it's only when they value your worth that they start to treat you like you deserve to be treated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 07:38 PM |
| 18 | Sarcasm is a Sign of NarcissismI'm happy you realize that :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 07:05 PM |
| 77 | Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum!I know right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 04:46 PM |
| 21 | Cautionary TaleWe need a flair for women who leave situationships, like a celebration flair. And I'm sooo happy for you! I was in a similar situation until it dawned on me: "if he wanted, to he would". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 04:16 PM |
| 26 | Sarcasm is a Sign of NarcissismWe dated the same type lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 04:07 PM |
| 138 | Men’s Rights and TeachingHis brain is fried by red pill rhetoric. You did the right thing. Stick to the plan and steer clear. We call that stonewalling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 03:45 PM |
| 39 | Sarcasm is a Sign of NarcissismYes I agree with you. It's also about intent. Me and my best friend call each other the b word sometimes. But we're both being playful. And we've earned the right to be that way with one another after years of friendship. I know that's not sarcasm, but you can feel when the intent behind words/phrases/jokes is just playful and when it's meant to be underhanded. When sarcasm is done correctly, it could be funny, but it's walks a fine line between that and being passive agressive. So yes, I agree … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 02:25 PM |
| 368 | Do you think most of us were very naive when we were younger?I can honestly say that FDS has helped me SO much. I am so grateful for this sub of beautiful, uplifting women helping me realize the importance of vetting. If it wasn't for this sub, I'd be in terrible relationships. Now, occassionally I slip and become more flexible with my vetting and boy does that bite me in the ass afterwards. But that's okay, I'm still learning and sometimes we have to take a few steps back before we can take one step forward. You don't have to go around ACTIVELY trying to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 02:11 PM |
| 49 | Sarcasm is a Sign of NarcissismYup! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 01:05 PM |
| 74 | Sarcasm is a Sign of NarcissismIt's covert abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 01:05 PM |
| 7 | This is it. I've found the neg to end all negs.Haha true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 10:03 PM |
| 17 | This is it. I've found the neg to end all negs.I swear they are sometimes (toddlers). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 06:24 PM |
| 529 | This is it. I've found the neg to end all negs.WTF is wrong with these fucking scrotes. Dear God wtffffffff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 12:14 PM |
| 4 | Is This A Case of Too Good to Be True?Very very true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 07:25 PM |
| 5 | Is This A Case of Too Good to Be True?When you're in a situation yourself, it's hard to see reality. Your mind starts playing tricks. Usually when other girls ask advice, I know how to answer them, but when it comes to me I don't know. That's why I'm happy with the sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 07:24 PM |
| 11 | Is This A Case of Too Good to Be True?What you’re experiencing is a personal blind spot; your rational and gut instinct are being hazed by your emotions…..aka a blind spot That is exactly what is happening. I'll walk away from him. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 06:32 PM |
| 24 | Is This A Case of Too Good to Be True?I had that hunch, but you confirmed it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 06:30 PM |
| 29 | Is This A Case of Too Good to Be True?I'll run. What I meant by "too good to be true" is that in the initial courtship stages, he outshined other men I've been on dates with. That's why my perception is skewed and I asked this question. But it's clear that he will not be a good man, so I will pass on him. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 06:30 PM |
| 26 | Is This A Case of Too Good to Be True?he sounds likes a coddled baby with his temper tantrums. YUP. I will be walking away from this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 06:28 PM |
| 74 | Is This A Case of Too Good to Be True?OMG you ladies raised valid points. I had my doubts, but you verified those doubts. I will be walking away from this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 06:27 PM |
| 65 | Is This A Case of Too Good to Be True?And texting he hates her, and her defining it as childish? No. He’s testing the waters to see how much abuse he can get away with. Block! Yes you're right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 06:24 PM |
| 15 | Is This A Case of Too Good to Be True?English isn't my first language, I thought working girl was a more friendly way of putting it. Sorry about that, I'm not judgmental and there was no intent behind it. What I mean by "too good to be true" is the fact that he is serious about a potential relationship, and he has a good job, high social status, etc. Most guys I meet just want a forever girlfriend or can't take you on a proper date, etc. I understand, though, from reading the comments that this isn't a good man to end up with. But h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 06:22 PM |
| 23 | Guys love it when they have an excuse to hit a woman.No, it wasn't women. It was a guy filming and you could hear him laughing in the background. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 05:12 PM |
| 30 | Guys love it when they have an excuse to hit a woman.This! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 11:49 AM |
| 1 | I thought having same taste in music indicated compatibility and was always so flattered and proud when guys were impressed by the genres/bands I like... facepalmOmg it totally is! They pretend to be anything just to get into a girl's pants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 04:55 PM |
| 62 | "in sickness and in health" must have a fine print clause that says something like: "except menopause of course". Because so many men abandon their wives during middle age it's astounding.its like once there no longer interested in a relationship they don't think they need to treat you like a person anymore. I can sooo relate to that sentence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 04:47 PM |
| 8 | she must be on FDSI'm glad you're free now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 04:46 PM |
| 116 | Amazing response by a woman who was prepositioned by an LVM to be his side pieceI fucking love this! Amen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 03:01 PM |
| 324 | "in sickness and in health" must have a fine print clause that says something like: "except menopause of course". Because so many men abandon their wives during middle age it's astounding.You know why women initiate the majority of divorces? Because fucking men never learned how to break up properly. They are emotional cowards. They pull every stunt they can to drive you to do the dirty work for them. I have never in my whole life had a guy give me a proper breakup and the closure that comes with it. They deflect, ghost, then come back, they start to get disrespectful, etc. They treat you like a bone they can bury in their backyard to come back to later, like dogs do. That is why… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 01:42 PM |
| 154 | How much talent has the world lost due to sexism?I was watching these Red Pill videos on YouTube with an open mind initially, but they are a cesspool of toxicity. In one of these videos they were making fun of women always being nurses or secretaries and not being able to strive for much else. But the truth is women are bullied and not taken seriously constantly. Men see us as a body and not much else. When I finished uni and I started working an office job (I work in construction now), the guys were always talking about women's looks and appe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 01:32 PM |
| 48 | I thought having same taste in music indicated compatibility and was always so flattered and proud when guys were impressed by the genres/bands I like... facepalmOof. I grew up on Dragon Ball Z when I was around 10 I used to binge watch that show. A guy I went on a date with was wearing a Goku shirt on all his social media and I asked him where he'd got that (I think Uniqlo). Then he asked me about it and I said "yeah that was my childhood show, I grew up on that". Then he proceeds to quiz me about it and I barely remember stuff about that show because fucking newsflash, It's been fucking 15 years already. I don't remember everything and I'm not going to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 01:12 PM |
| 58 | she must be on FDSMy parents are pressuring me to get married, but I am so content with my life now, honestly. You want to find someone who adds to your life, not someone who subtracts from it. Unfortunately, until I find that man I would rather be alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 08:26 AM |
| 55 | When David Attenborough is asked about how his wife's death affected him, all he could bring up was how his daughter had to move in with him because he can't cook. Timestamp 16:40-17:50. This man is often thought of as a HVM because of his loves for animals. He is not.Yes for sure! I'll even timestamp the exact moment: Jessica Chastain - at the 00:55 mark he does that weird move (she's visibly uncomfortable). Cameron Diaz - at 00:14 he leans in and is staring down her chest. Even the comment section noticed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 10:06 AM |
| 117 | When David Attenborough is asked about how his wife's death affected him, all he could bring up was how his daughter had to move in with him because he can't cook. Timestamp 16:40-17:50. This man is often thought of as a HVM because of his loves for animals. He is not.Dude I knew he wasn't shit when he was on Graham Norton and TWICE made both women uncomfortable af. Once he was staring at Cameron Diaz's tits and got way up in her personal space. The second time he was talking about some animal's mating ritual and started flicking his hand in Jessica Chastain's face as a euphemism for something. She was uncomfortable af. I knew then and there that he was a dirty old man. Old people are not always fragile and innocent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 08:25 AM |
| 175 | I will let you guys tear into this one 🤣 keep in mind that the screenshots are NOT from a dating app so that makes it even worse. This app is solely for writing letters to people in different countries and making friendsThese are the type of men that are controlling af and get super negative, draining, and angry when you do something spontaneous. They envy women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 08:16 AM |
| 52 | A reminder just in time for Christmas.No I think the picture is taken from the side. The face of Santa isn't visible because the person turned the shape around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 09:25 PM |
| 29 | Just a bunch of memes💛"Women: \enjoys anything** Men, on their way to call us hoes:" - Too accurate, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Dating outside of your raceWell yes, it isn't about race, but I guess it's difficult for you to comprehend. I'm Middle Eastern. There's a lot of people here who look different. There are people with Euro-centric features, people with olive skin, and people with darker complexities. I'm olive skinned with black hair, some of my cousins are fair-skinned blondes with blue eyes. I don't mind dating a black Middle Eastern man and I don't mind dating a blonde Middle Eastern man. They share my culture. I get along much better wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 01:35 PM |
| 167 | Today I actually realised that "if he wanted to, he would"If he wanted to, he would. That's true. Especially if he knows you like flowers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 03:50 PM |
| 130 | New guy feels the need to talk shit about a dead HVM. Smells like LV/NV from where I'm standing.I'd break up. He is diminishing something that was once the source of your comfort and happiness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 02:19 PM |
| 39 | Dating outside of your raceI highly agree with all the other comments in this thread. It's not about race, it's about culture. You have to understand the culture and know which culture you want to date. If you want to date outside of your culture, you're kind of treading on unkown waters. It isn't a bad thing; however, you need to do more research in regards to what you are getting yourself into. It brings more factors into the equation that doesn't necessarily make the equation impossible to solve, it just makes it more … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 01:16 PM |
| 33 | Dr Ramani has our back on setting boundaries and dodging scrotes. She calls it what it is, people enabling others by insisting on giving the 'benefit of the doubt'. Keep on raising your standards!!!She opened my eyes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 05:37 PM |
| 116 | I left a perfectly good man because FDS made me believe I could do better. And you were rightSooo nice to hear. That's exactly how I feel about it too. Romance is so important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 12:37 PM |
| 1 | The mystifying "logic" of a pick meOof the thing about Pickme's is that they see other women as competition for male validation, hence why they can never be friends with women. You see her competitive streak shine through in other areas of her life, like how she thinks she is hot shit for the field she is working in. I would highly advise against being friends with anyone who thinks they are above you and don't listen to you. Because they are disregarding you and your voice and you don't need that kind of energy in your life. Als… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 06:44 PM |
| 1208 | Chris Pratt continues to be the worstAna is so beautiful, sweet, and funny. She gave Chris Brat a chance when he played that insignificant character on Parks and Rec. After he rose to fame, and she took a break to take care of their home, he was seen flirting shamelessly with Jennifer Lawrence in every interview as if it were a big "fuck you" to Ana. Their marriage broke up shortly after. I haven't liked him since. What an opportunistic loser. Who throws their family under the bus to climb the social ladder? This guy does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 09:40 AM |
| 180 | Part 2 of the sh*t scrotes say about women vs. how THEY look, inspired by a previous postI can't stop laughing. No text, just a lot of zooming in says more than words will ever say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 05:59 PM |
| 225 | Dont mention your standardsAgreed or people stuck with LVM will hate you for wanting someone the opposite of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Finally Someone is Exposing Leonardo Dicaprio's Creepy Dating HistoryDamn, that's messed up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 10:55 AM |
| 31 | Just saw a guy entering the subway with a bag of laundry…Oooof you are giving me major flashbacks. I too met a guy in his 20's who was like this, so when I met a 34 Y/O with a really well-paying job, car, his own place, etc. I thought he'd be more mature. Instead he was all whiny constantly, but I stayed around "just to make sure". At some point he keeps sending me pics/videos of his dinner, which was just really just PATHETIC. It was sliced cucumber at one point and at another it was a bowl of yogurt in really really tacky plasticky dinnerware under … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 08:32 AM |
| 153 | I’ve been blocked by male friends on social media for getting a boyfriend 😂This is sooo true though. If a guy wants to get in a girl's pants he acts sooo different than how he usually is. And I mean day and night different. Suddenly he is "considerate" or has "empathy", when typically he's an indifferent asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 08:13 AM |
| 38 | My family and friends push me to be a pickme & tell me I’m being too picky if I don’t want to date men I don’t find attractive.As a vegan, I can 100 relate to your story. People always try to get me back to eating meat and stuff and I'm like "no thanks, this works just fine for me". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 08:09 AM |
| 201 | My last creative project was in elementary school, and it stays this way.Compare your first date to a restaurant. It's like you wouldn't eat at a restaurant that was a work-in-progress: walls unfinished, floors not put in yet and as you wait by your table, you see you're left hanging by wait staff, so you approach reception to ask wtf is going on, and they say they're still conducting interviews and haven't hired any waitstaff yet - but you're free to go into the kitchen and ask for a meal yourself. He says "our chef is great, you don't have to judge our restaurant o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 07:52 AM |
| 38 | Finally Someone is Exposing Leonardo Dicaprio's Creepy Dating HistoryGood point! When I was 19 I was with a 40 Y/O groomer (my mom pulled me out of that relationship, she saw the red flags I didn't). He would always say we were like Aaliyah and R.Kelly and at the time I thought that was romantic. I shudder when I think about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 09:42 PM |
| 17 | Finally Someone is Exposing Leonardo Dicaprio's Creepy Dating HistoryIt is creepy yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 09:28 PM |
| 15 | Finally Someone is Exposing Leonardo Dicaprio's Creepy Dating HistoryMakes sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 09:26 PM |
| 14 | Finally Someone is Exposing Leonardo Dicaprio's Creepy Dating HistoryAgreed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 07:51 PM |
| 61 | Finally Someone is Exposing Leonardo Dicaprio's Creepy Dating HistoryI know that article, but I meant I'm glad someone in the mainstream is talking about how creepy that data is as well as him potentially grooming camilla since he knew her when she was only 11 years old. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 07:51 PM |
| 46 | Please carve my eyes out of my head nowI'm DEAD. That is so true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 04:03 PM |
| 46 | I just called the caretaker of my building to do some maintenance in my apartmentBleeding the radiators is easy, no need to ask for his help. Also, it's good to teach yourself how to do things on your own. I use YouTube a lot. Unless absolutely necessary, do I call someone to fix something for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 01:51 PM |
| 35 | Pick mes are delusional at this point. Some sisters can’t be saved 🥴Pickme's are delusional af. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:05 AM |
| 247 | Make it stop. 💀So basically act like you're too cool for school, while secretly hoping your situationship will magically turn into a relationship by itself? Yeah good luck with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 07:07 PM |
| 25 | Facts. Straight up facts.That's why we can't let go of that one guy who CAN make it work. We don't want to let go of that good dicc, but he's usually full of red flags. Life is so unfair sometimes. 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 09:46 PM |
| 44 | What's a 🚩red flag you encountered this week?When I told a male coworker I'm going on a trip and he kept pestering me to do a lot of work and I finally said "I can't, I'm flying tonight" and instead of wishing me a safe trip abroad, he replies with "hmm ok". Like wtf? That is so bizarre. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 09:44 PM |
| 12 | Ladies and gentle..ladies, welcome to Tinder! There is literally one line in my profile text. Solely stating where I’m from.I've gotten "how old are you?" Multiple times when my age is literally there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Games Scrotes PlayMe too I'm not sure I'm following. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 09:36 PM |
| 292 | Saw this little gem on Instagram today....This is exactly why I NEVER tell men why I'm not interested, I do the fade, block, delete instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 07:47 AM |
| 32 | Men will develop entire complexes over women who rejected them in high school. Then use that as motive to abuse women for the rest of their lives.Yes I have noticed this as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 06:06 PM |
| 468 | A little dating satire based off the platformsI once posted on Reddit asking for advice. A male friend of mine made me walk home while I was under the influence of a certain new agey substance. I was really scared and he wouldn't take me. I knew him since we were 7 so I trusted him to do the trip with. Nothing physical took place. Anyway he wouldn't drive me home and made excuses so I had to go all the way home by myself. Scared and disoriented. I got off the tram a stop too early and got back on the tram heading in the opposite direction. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 04:46 PM |
| 121 | Men will develop entire complexes over women who rejected them in high school. Then use that as motive to abuse women for the rest of their lives.I have olive skin and black hair too <3. An yeah I've faced discrimination over it, but I never turned into a hateful psycho. I dunno what it is with some men. I think it's the way they're raised. I feel like parents are wayy stricter with their daughters than their sons. I could be wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 04:36 PM |
| 45 | You can’t be treated like a king if you can’t act like a kingLike a Disney princess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 04:20 PM |
| 115 | A woman is told to lower her standards.He was wearing makeup in Titanic and he was just being a romantic guy. No wonder lots of young girls had a bit of a crush on him. Now, he's just morphed into this gross sleazeball and yeah most women don't find him attractive anymore and that's fine. Why are guys simping over Leo? They probably don't want to admit that a major part of womankind does not want to date old scrotiums. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 04:18 PM |
| 16 | A brag? Advice? Saw this and thought of FDS straight awayWow... Is this serious? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 10:52 AM |
| 42 | It’s a myth when scrotes justify cheating and poly with ‘It’s biOlOgY’In my country in the past it was common for men to take on multiple wives. The reason for this my mom explained was that lot's of our men had perished in war and you could not survive on your own since life was kind of simple at the time. In the past you needed a family unit to rely on/survive. Men would mary multiple women for that reason, to be a protector for the single ones. In my culture this tradition has since diminished. Occassionally you'll see the really wealthy ones with two wives, bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 07:45 AM |
| 194 | LOL. This one clearly has never been with an actual woman, to the point that he's convinced himself he needs to "pick out the red flags" to spot FDS members. What besides "trying to manipulate women into sex" would he be avoiding, with these "red flags"?Damn they're so stupid. If a woman is FDS she is already avoiding you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 07:39 AM |
| 610 | Men and their hypocrisy🙄 notice how he expects women to build men but doesn’t expect men to do the same. And of course pickmeishas will try to do it every time EVEN THOUGH he admitted men think pickmes are dumb for building them up🤦🏾♀️I've never seen a man be with a woman at her lowest either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 10:47 PM |
| 29 | Sick of male attentionwith tits dragging across the floor DEAD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 09:35 PM |
| 159 | Sick of male attentionYou know when men say we should feel flattered we're still being checked out or catcalled or fucking whatever, what they don't understand is that it feels fucking grosss when it happens. How would they like it if some guy did it to them? If that grandpa was staring them down in a sexual way, wouldn't they be grossed out? Or if some giant dude started whistling at them and making innapropriate comments, wouldn't they hate it? Of course they would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 09:14 PM |
| 70 | STOP THE VANILLA SHAMING!No I think it's just collective brainwashing. I mean look at music around us and and what the mainstream media tells us to do (like WAP: I wanna gag, I wanna choke). Girls don't want to feel left out or feel like a prude. Thankfully forums like FDS are speaking up about this. Honestly, though, vanilla sex is the best kind. Kisses and cuddles and love and intimacy is far more beautiful and far more superior than being handled like an object. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 09:06 PM |
| 136 | STOP THE VANILLA SHAMING!Lol I broke up with a guy once who was heavily into BDSM and he started to get worse and worse with his demands. But the final straw was when he started to tell me I should lick his butthole, I blocked him and his number and never looked back. That really grossed me out so muuuuch. He has tried to contact me even years later but I just block again. Lol fuck thaaaat. I wish I knew FDS strategies back then, I never would have entertained such a deprived mind in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 06:44 PM |
| 63 | Scrote sexually fantasizes about maid of honor DURING HIS OWN WEDDINGI've been in situations where I couldn't get over a guy before and guess what? I didn't get into any new ones until I got over my ex. Why get into a relationship, why even propose to someone if you are so hung up over another woman?? Make it make sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 06:27 PM |
| 105 | Am I the only woman tired of men acting like the entire world around them is a 24/7 offline dating service?One time I was walking all the way home from the city center in a very liberal city in Europe. I did this because it's so busy you can't take your car there and I didn't get enough excerise for a week or so and I thought a couple hour walk would do me good to make up for the days I lost not working on my glutes. Anyway along the way I had to pass like 2 construction workers. I was fucking tired by that time and they were staring at/ facing me on the small sidewalk kind of blocking the way. And i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 09:50 AM |
| 52 | Location- How much of a factor in finding a HVM?Look where individualism is heavily encouraged, and realize that your chances of finding someone ready for marriage or something serious are much more slim. People there are in a very me, me, me mindset. Areas of the world that are more collectivist or areas where people rely on each other and each other's communities will have a higher rate of men looking to settle down. Because they've been kind of forced to think outside of their sole needs and take other's needs into consideration for the be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 09:39 AM |
| 92 | I hate it when LVM approach me in publicIt's like looking at a piece of bbq coal and rejecting it to have any worth and the coal says "How can you say no to me, I might be full of nuggets of gold!" Chances of that are more miraculous than Moses splitting open the red sea. You'll just waste your time and your youth on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 08:14 AM |
| 287 | Scrote Translation: I’m going to wait for other men to work and erode your standards first, then swoop in and take advantage of you ;)"leave each other alone most of the time" AKA He will not fullfill your emotional needs. We want to feel loved and cherished, so this ain't it chief. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 08:06 AM |
| 96 | Don't give ugly scrotes a chance. They will neg you and disrespect you.Yes this happened to me. Sigh... I helped him get a job and everything and he verbally abused me and envied me. I thought I was a good person for looking past someone's looks. I mean, sure, I don't expect men to look like Francisco Lachowski, but the guy I knew looked like a literal toad. Everything about him was repulsive down to his very core. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 08:02 AM |
| 9 | As a woman all you can do is create the oppurtunity for the guy to make his move.Giving someone an in kind of depends. If you're at the stage where you both have already exchanged numbers or each other's Snapchat or whatever, that's already the in. But when he takes a whole day to respond to you, or doesn't offer follow-up questions to give the conversation momentum, and when you pull back he suddenly shows up again to get you chasing, it's simply not worth it. If you run into this guy in real life like maybe he's a mutual friend or whatever, a smile, saying hi, small talk a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 10:20 PM |
| 17 | As a woman all you can do is create the oppurtunity for the guy to make his move.Exactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 08:02 PM |
| 41 | As a woman all you can do is create the oppurtunity for the guy to make his move.I understand where you're coming from, I also used to be very shy. Working in marketing really changed that for me, though. What I mean is, if you are receptive, and friendly, and you have had a chat or two with the person, or you've already exchanged numbers with each other and it feels like with every step of the way you have to do the heavy lifting, or it is completely one-sided, just let it go. It is not worth the effort. I think I'll make a separate post going in much more detail about this… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 08:02 PM |
| 43 | Great pre-date tip for new FDS members: tell your gay male friend or female friend that “knows” how some men can be subtly manipulativeAlso, take advice from women older than you. My mom would always criticise my boyfriends and she turned out to be right about them. Sigh... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Moving on from an LVM ex who turned out to be someone I didn’t know…I can really relate to what you are saying. Here's the thing though, for years you have been building him up in your mind. At least, that's what I did since I also knew my crush since childhood. I idealized him a lot, so on a subconscious level I was programming myself to become attached to him/ love him unconditionally. Which one should never do. When the time came where my rational mind knew he wasn't right for me, I wasn't able to move on with my feelings. Logically and by my actions I did mo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 08:53 PM |
| 97 | She says she hopes she won’t have to deal with this for years to come… sadly, she’s likely mistakenPlease update us when she gets the divorce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 07:53 PM |
| 79 | Angry scrote literally admits that only 25% of men are dateable and women aren’t settling. Proceeds to get roasted by one of our queens 😂OMG that woman hit the nail on the head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 09:08 PM |
| 5 | Making excuses for men not approaching me (if he wanted to, he would).That's completely fine, it's okay to do so, but pay attention to when it becomes a pattern. I've been in situations where it ended up becoming very one-sided with me doing all the heavy lifting. It's okay to remain friendly and talk and who knows, maybe it will lead to something. Keep on the look-out for any patterns that prove him to be consistantly passive. Is he like that with texting too? What if you do break the ice, does he remain like that? Do you have to break the ice a second, third, fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 08:44 PM |
| 6 | Why do men leave yellow stains on the sheets?Hi, yes I totally agree with all of what you said. For guys it's probably their own grease that stains the sheets. I stopped going 100% natural because that lifestyle is very difficult to combine with modern life. For body lotion I use Paul Penders lavender, smells good and spicy, is absorbed nicely by my skin and does not leave stains. For my face I use the Italian brand Argital Allergen-free Violet Cream and Chamomille Yarrow and Marigold cream. Argital runs out quickly, but I'm really satisfi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 05:08 PM |
| 74 | Making excuses for men not approaching me (if he wanted to, he would).When you are constantly putting in effort or initiating interaction, you end up in a one-sided situationship where you are constantly making excuses for the guy. I have come to terms with the fact that it just isn't worth it. It makes you feel undesirable af and gives you so much anxiety. If you have to chase him from the beginning, you'll have to keep chasing him til the end. The end is usually a day where you wake up from it all and doubt whether he even likes you. It really takes a toll on yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 04:56 PM |
| 166 | Why it always seemed like that one mean friend always gets the best boyfriend…Bitches always get the best guys. I've picked up on that as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 02:47 PM |
| 228 | Scrotes wanting to split the bill always make me laughDon't go 50/50. Ask for separate bills. Pay for your own stuff and leave then when you go home block and delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 02:47 PM |
| 33 | Why do men leave yellow stains on the sheets?That's most likely body grease. I used to rub my body in castor oil and flaxseed oil and destroyed my linen that I has to throw away. I even destroyed my pillow since I put the oil on my face. It was part of my extreme natural lifestyle phase where everything I used had to be 100% natural. It was experimental and turned out to totally not be for me. Anyway, after I destroyed my linen, I threw the oil away and replaced it with a nice smelling, organic body lotion and facial moisturizer. It's more… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 02:03 PM |
| 8 | Lovely bit of standard shaming by TikTok Pickminique 🙄IKR I'm cringing so hard rn. She's the female simp. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 10:38 AM |
| 3 | I learned quickly that if I have to chase you, I don’t want you anymore.You said it so well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 07:30 PM |
| 55 | I learned quickly that if I have to chase you, I don’t want you anymore.I totally do agree with you, it's kind of like money. Some people never have enough money. They have this endless greed for more and more no matter how much they have. Some men feel the same about women, no woman is ever good enough to give his all to. I wasn't saying that women aren't good enough, don't get me wrong. I was trying to say that if a man fails to see you as good enough, simply move on. It's his loss. But sometimes I get my emotions invested and it's difficult to leave, so when I re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 10:09 AM |
| 184 | I learned quickly that if I have to chase you, I don’t want you anymore.I keep telling myself this if I feel I have to keep initiating a lot of interaction with can't-communicate-corey: He doesn't like you... enough. Simple as that. If you're constantly initiating, putting in effort, asking questions, and he is responding to you, but takes long to reply or has some bullshit excuse for why he takes long to reply then it's simple. He likes you, but not enough to make you his gf or wife or whatever. He's not too worried about you going anywhere, you've validated him so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 08:33 AM |
| 116 | Doctors are performing pelvic exams on anaesthetised women without consent. If you’re going into surgery you need to explicitly state you don’t want one. Stay safe out there.I had a painful lump in my right boob and I went to my GP to get it examined. I also had some freckles on there which were new and I don't sunbathe so? They always preach that for any strange thing going on with your breasts you need to be checked right? Anyway, my regular female GP wasn't available for 3 weeks, but there was a male GP available. I scheduled a phone meeting (due to Covid everything is by phone) and he forgot to call me back. Anyway he called me the next day and when I said my bo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 07:18 AM |
| 6 | Why do they do this?I have a pic of me as a kid as my profile pic on Instagram. I copied Gigi Hadid she has that too. Then this narc I was seeing for a little while copied me too. But it's just an asthaetic. If it's on OLD like Tinder it's kinda weird gotta admit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 08:56 AM |
| 8 | On women seeing red flag! So accurate 😂Ain't that the truth lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 09:05 PM |
| 30 | Men always want to tell women how to feel about a problem they causeI just quit my job because someone was treating me like this/verbally abusing me at my PARENTS' COMPANY. I quit and I feel so betrayed by my own mom who took his side over mine. On top of my complaints, we had a number of other complaints from other people too (men and women). She was praising him so much and saying how much we need him at our company, which is really not true. I told her I can't work with him he's so disrespectful to me, or at the very least let me work on the projects alone an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 09:14 AM |
| 41 | Rejected a man due to his height - family are giving me second thoughts +gaslighting me!I know it's a preference thing, but I personally love shorter men or men with soft hands. I don't know lol it's just my preference. I don't like taller men. But it could be because I'm Middle Eastern and the majority of men here aren't tall anyway. Here's the thing: If the looks are an absolute deal-breaker for you, then it's not going to work. But only if they are a deal-breaker for you personally. Because beauty is in the eye of the beholder, what I'm attracted to isn't something you're going … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 10:37 AM |
| 472 | Literally every guy I meet that I’m nice too thinks this. It’s why they hate women who are snarky. Unkind women are the worst thing on the planet according to them.This is sadly so true. When I smile at men or talk to them they think I want to sleep with them. I don't act snarky to them I just try to avoid interactions as much as possible to be honest or seem as indifferent as possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 05:06 PM |
| 33 | Woman posts about fiancé who refuses her request for help carrying something while she’s on crutches. He admits that he doesn’t feel empathy, and many comments telling her she needs to help him. Also, my reply triggers angry scrotes.What's the point of a relationship/marriage anyway if they can't do this small thing for you? That's nothing to do with empathy. It has everything to do with you wasting your time with the wrong person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 04:33 PM |
| 1 | The fallacy of the nice guy : The men of Big Bang TheoryThere is no such thing as a "nice guy". They're all the same. A handful are high value, but it's in the minority. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, how are you treating yourself this Valentine's day?Music, roses, dancing, it's gonna be wonderful because I love myself <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 03:37 PM |
| 3 | Example of a HWMThis made me tear up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 03:34 PM |
| 17 | “She is 18 ‘legal’ so I’m not a pedophile.” Way of thinking needs to stop!!Wow damn that is fucked up. She was younger than I thought. Thank you for correcting me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 10:14 PM |
| 18 | Imagine being with someone whom human porn does not do it for him anymore. Imagine that his dick only gets hard if he thinks you are a cat or a raccoon 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢Apparently 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 06:01 PM |
| 27 | Imagine being with someone whom human porn does not do it for him anymore. Imagine that his dick only gets hard if he thinks you are a cat or a raccoon 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢Just whyyyyyy 😖😣😫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 05:20 PM |
| 32 | Imagine being with someone whom human porn does not do it for him anymore. Imagine that his dick only gets hard if he thinks you are a cat or a raccoon 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢Yes I meant them. I mean the weird guys who need strange sex in order to get off. It's so bizarre. Furry sex are you kidding me? Actual humans are boring now? And then spending thousands of dollars on a furry suit. I'm just confused. Like I have no words other than what's wrong with these men. I have no words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 05:18 PM |
| 25 | Imagine being with someone whom human porn does not do it for him anymore. Imagine that his dick only gets hard if he thinks you are a cat or a raccoon 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢Dude. What the hell is wrong with ppl? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 04:39 PM |
| 120 | The REAL reason men are on dating sites often isn't to find a date.Just block the assholes that send you angry messages. It's a waste of time to argue. I mean what kind of low life man would be on a woman's sub anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 04:09 PM |
| 145 | “She is 18 ‘legal’ so I’m not a pedophile.” Way of thinking needs to stop!!Btw what's even creepier is that sleazy leo knew camilla and was friends with her family when she was 11. Meaning he had his eye on her since she was young. And who knows maybe they were dating before she was legal, but only made it public when she was of age. I mean it's not the first time we hear about pedophilia in Hollywood. Same with kylie jenner and tyga. He knew her when she was 16 but when she was 18 it became public that they were dating. Same with rockers/bands and groupies. Groupies a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 03:54 PM |
| 60 | Thank youQueeeeeeen 👸👸👸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 12:12 PM |
| 158 | The number of comments saying that the man acted this way “because he really likes her”. 🙄 this is not about affection - what you’re seeing here is the very early stages of controlling and abusive behaviour.Yes that is absolutely the early stages of creepy and controlling behavior. RUN! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 10:53 AM |
| 32 | Single LVM expects to be married by doing the bare minimum. The audacity.Which isn't that impressive because he wants her to be hard-working too I mean wtf. So why should she be perfect and hard-working and he gets to be boring and have one job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 09:49 AM |
| 37 | Single LVM expects to be married by doing the bare minimum. The audacity.Most men nowadays are boring and entitled. That's true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 09:47 AM |
| 47 | Single LVM expects to be married by doing the bare minimum. The audacity.And he'll dump you the minute he finds something better. Yes this is scary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 09:45 AM |
| 127 | Former SWer looking for input, advice, wisdom, etc. from FDS on how to move on with my life & heal.First I want to say I'm so proud of you 👏👏👏 and the efforts you are taking to take a different turn in this life. In regards to any "shame" or "regret" you may have, I want to seriously emphasize the following: we all make choices in this life that we end up regretting in the future. Literally all of us do. The only ones who don't are people who've either lived in isolation or are rare lucky ones (as rare as lottery winners). So there's no need to beat yourself up about it. Trust me, none of us … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 01:09 AM |
| 2 | From another thread. And the scrotes are butthurt 😂. I don’t support playing games but when SO many men flat out LIE about what there looking for on OLD, this is what women are resorting to... smhThank you for telling me I feel so dumb haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 12:14 AM |
| 55 | From another thread. And the scrotes are butthurt 😂. I don’t support playing games but when SO many men flat out LIE about what there looking for on OLD, this is what women are resorting to... smh😔 Karma will get that loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 12:12 AM |
| 36 | From another thread. And the scrotes are butthurt 😂. I don’t support playing games but when SO many men flat out LIE about what there looking for on OLD, this is what women are resorting to... smhListen more talk less! Great advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 12:11 AM |
| 24 | On Raising men....She speaks nothing but truth 🙌👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 03:44 PM |
| 11 | Why is mainstream dating advice like this?? 🤢🤢🤢I used to binge these videos but it's just terrible. It makes you second-guess yourself constantly. The best advice is to work on yourself and your growth as a person. Level up. If you find someone that's great and if not that's no problem either. Be self-sufficient. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 10:45 AM |
| 9 | I found this thing called MDS.It's so fucking hypocritical. If a man believes a woman is "ruined" after a one night stand, then by his own logic he shouldn't have one night stands either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 11:39 PM |
| 18 | I found this thing called MDS.Exactly! This is so infuriating! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 10:21 PM |
| 85 | I found this thing called MDS.Wow that's creepy. Why are they so obsessed with this sub anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 09:15 PM |
| 49 | Men on dating apps looking for casual sex:Ain't that the truth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 12:35 PM |
| 380 | Men on dating apps looking for casual sex:I mean it's basically the same if they want to keep things "casual" or "are not looking for a relationship". I mean. There's no room for bonding or getting to know each other whatsoever. Nothing can come out of this, not even a friendship. That's a terrible deal to a woman. You are just used for your body. Tinder is full of this bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 11:16 AM |
| 2 | FDS Vs. The Rest of Reddit♥️💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Pickmeisha friend is helping me weed out all the NVM/LVM in my lifeYeah be careful with who you trust omg. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 04:35 PM |
| 1 | FDS Vs. The Rest of Reddit👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 11:37 AM |
| 52 | Girls, this is why you don't accept no effort datesMost guys don't look like their pics either | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 11:36 AM |
| 3 | FDS Vs. The Rest of Reddit♥️♥️💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 10:46 AM |
| 3 | FDS Vs. The Rest of Reddit100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 10:44 AM |
| 2 | FDS Vs. The Rest of RedditAhaha next time I'll do a LOTR version | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 10:44 AM |
| 8 | FDS Vs. The Rest of Reddit♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 11:51 PM |
| 4 | FDS Vs. The Rest of Reddit😊♥️💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 11:50 PM |
| 9 | FDS Vs. The Rest of RedditYeah u corrected me haha. But yeah it's definitely a safe space here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 10:47 PM |
| 15 | Why do guys defend violent games???😔 man u are so right my eyes are opening up the the deception all around me. I used to sympathize with men and make excuses for them. I swear if women would run the world it would be a better place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 10:45 PM |
| 25 | Men casually admitting that they are willing to lie about their intentions just to get sex. Nothing surprising...I think you're right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 09:36 PM |
| 24 | Men casually admitting that they are willing to lie about their intentions just to get sex. Nothing surprising...😓😨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 08:40 PM |
| 13 | FDS Vs. The Rest of RedditOh man that's so true it's always perverted somehow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 08:31 PM |
| 19 | FDS Vs. The Rest of RedditThey're like ninjas, nothing slips by. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 08:30 PM |
| 175 | Men casually admitting that they are willing to lie about their intentions just to get sex. Nothing surprising...I know right I'm so upset. Like does love, bonding, all that stuff exist at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 08:28 PM |
| 22 | The whole TikTok account is her SO saying “Bitch, what’s for dinner?” And she gets mad at people in the comments 🙄I was thinking the same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 07:25 PM |
| 5 | FDS Vs. The Rest of RedditYou're right, there are some lovely subs out there, but I meant the other dating subs can be a little toxic. Anyway yeah let's stay positive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 07:14 PM |
| 10 | FDS Vs. The Rest of RedditSame me too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 06:24 PM |
| 15 | FDS Vs. The Rest of Reddit<3 <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 06:24 PM |
| 23 | FDS Vs. The Rest of RedditThat happened to me too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 06:24 PM |
| 13 | FDS Vs. The Rest of RedditMe too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 06:24 PM |
| 8 | FDS Vs. The Rest of Reddit^_^ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 06:23 PM |
| 11 | FDS Vs. The Rest of Reddit<3<3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 06:23 PM |
| 23 | FDS Vs. The Rest of Reddit<3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 04:09 PM |
| 68 | DO NOT SHARE YOUR TRAUMA: Men will turn your pain into entertainment, or a way to get another woman.Don't worry, karma will get him one day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 04:06 PM |
| 26 | FDS Vs. The Rest of RedditMe too ^_^ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 03:59 PM |
| 51 | INCELS and guys with anger issues need to read this. Your inceldom is not an excuse to unleash your abuse while calling it "the red pill rage"You're right, I read the meme and title too fast. I thought it was about an Incel putting people with mental health issues down, but it was about this redditor named Quill saying that mental health is not an excuse to walk all over people? In that case I agree with Quill. And yes I've always been appreciative and kind to my sister. Never did I put her down and I would never do that. Mental health is not an excuse to treat people badly. Thanks for clearing it up. Boundaries are important and we d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 03:58 PM |
| -4 | INCELS and guys with anger issues need to read this. Your inceldom is not an excuse to unleash your abuse while calling it "the red pill rage"I had some issues with my mental health. I had a burn-out from work because I had been working like a horse without any breaks for a few years in a row. My job ended right after Covid hit and I hit such a deep level of depression I became suicidal. My sister took me under her wing. She took care of me, cooked for me, did the groceries, she cleaned around the house, while I was in my room all day long doing unproductive shit because I was so demotivated with life. I was never like that before, bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 03:40 PM |
| 40 | FDS Vs. The Rest of RedditUnicorn Paradise Vs. Toxic Wasteland. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 02:46 PM |
| 16 | Not sure if this was posted before, but I feel most of us can emphatize...Ya'll I'm dead whahah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 11:19 AM |
| 108 | Pickmeisha friend is helping me weed out all the NVM/LVM in my lifeI used to have an awful PickMe friend who used to be overly sexual in the most innappropriate situations. Like forreal it was so bizarre. She used to talk in this overly forced breathy voice, it was so unnecessary, and then push out her chest and butt, sit on someone's desk or something. She craved male attention like an addict. She'd flirt with every single male she came in contact with. I just fucking hated her, but all the men loved her and when I exclaimed my concerns about her behavior to o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 10:44 AM |
| 29 | This artist's work hit me hard! @violetclair on instagramI'm dead at the last image | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 10:31 AM |
| 3 | When men say "men are better than women..."Thank you sorry about that haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 10:29 AM |
| 19 | When men say "men are better than women..."Vive le résistance! Edit: 💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 10:49 PM |
| 333 | Not sure if this was posted before, but I feel most of us can emphatize...Hahaha omg I can relate so much to this. One time I was with a guy. We just met in real after talking online for a while. I swear he started humping my leg. Our clothes still on. I had no intention of having sex with him. It was random too, like no buildup whatsoever. I was like wtf. I gtfo of there. Dude this memory is still wtf. 🤦🏻♀️ Omggg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 10:48 PM |
| 117 | Is this just an American thing?No, it's definitely not just an American thing. It's a global thing. However, I think it's due to fiction, movies, series, soap operas, etc. They instill this fantasy in us to want someone who will love us and be our partner in crime in this tumultuous life with many challenges. We don't want to take those challenges on alone, we want someone to hold our hand while we face the great big monster of uncertainty and look it square in the eye. We want that comfort, but if that seed of romance had ne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 02:03 PM |
| 34 | imagine wanting to expand your family with your husband and he says this shit to you...Look this is what bothers me. The thing called "unconditional love" that all us girls always fantasized about and wanted, it seems not to exist, or at the very least it's extremely rare. This isn't love. One day the ageing process is gonna catch up with them anyway. And then what? You're no good? They don't care about the time, effort, energy you invested in them? You only mattered cause you were beautiful? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 10:55 AM |
| 23 | Ever get angry that FDS works?In the beginning I didn't want to believe FDS. So I kept making the same mistakes over and over again, until I decided I had tested it often enough to know it works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 10:52 AM |
| 15 | Queen Energy!!I need to watch Charlie's Angels again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 10:46 AM |
| 58 | The cognitive dissonance men suffer from never ceases to astound meWow he is so repulsive and people just buy that "mysterious and shy guy" persona. 🙄. Such predatory behavior. A woman is only a compliant object in his mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 12:06 AM |
| 110 | The cognitive dissonance men suffer from never ceases to astound meI agree with you. Women are "hoes" and "sluts", but men are worse and never get shamed for it. I want to say something about Johnny, unrelated to abuse, just in general. Johnny left his loyal wife and mother of his childeren for a younger upcoming actress, Amber. Kind of a dick move if you ask me. It's really superficial how all these actors go for younger gfs/wives. Really disheartening. I mean what's the point of a connection/bond anyway? Is there such a thing as love if it is all dependant on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 10:46 PM |
| 141 | The last thing he did. Rest his soul.You did well honey, no time to be wasted on scrotes. You saw right through his bullshit. I'm taking notes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 10:31 PM |
| 338 | The importance of learning to think "not my problem" when a man tries to make you responsible for any of his issues or mess or dickThis is why the men we aren't into chase us the hardest and the men we bend over backwards for take us for granted. This stuff works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 10:08 PM |
| 3 | When Men Are The Ones To Be Objectified in Music - Oh How The Turntables ...dead xD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 09:58 PM |
| 64 | Conservative women call submission to men a sign of strength & character, Liberal women call submission to men liberation and empowerment. Conservative men will abuse their wives and call it their right as a husband, Liberal men will abuse their wives and call it a kink.Yeah this is why I'm wary of politics. Anything that's polarized I stay away from. Zoom out, look at the bigger picture and see how something affects all sides. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 09:25 PM |
| 45 | If you can’t afford the lifestyle that I’m providing for myself, then you can’t have me!Queeennnnn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 05:10 PM |
| 84 | Valentines Day is an Excellent Vetting Opportunity....don't let it go to waste!I agree. I used to think it was all just MaRkEtInG. Bullshit. It's a day when everyone remembers who they love/care about/think about constantly. If he really likes you, he would take advantage of this day to let it be known. Btw, My ex never mentioned anything to me on Vday. Then one day we were talking about gifts and exes (I was a little younger). He showed me a pic of what he gave an ex of his. It was her named spelled out in chocolate, and 20+ roses. I didn't show him at the time, but on th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 05:09 PM |
| 6 | When Men Are The Ones To Be Objectified in Music - Oh How The Turntables ...xD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 05:05 PM |
| 30 | I don't understand jealous pickmes that tear other women down 🤦🏾♀️This is a mysoginistic world we're living in. When a woman does something accomplished, she is torn down like "sit in your place". Smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 04:27 PM |
| 75 | ZUBY goes RedPill and gets big mad when FDS CORRECTLY👏 DESCRIBES👏 his fan base.Wow really shows his true colors. Insulting people on their appearance. How superficial. That's all he got to say "if you're not fuckable, you don't get to voice your opinion". The Red Pill teaches men how women are the superficial gender and are out to get their money. Okay so according to them women are superficial, but then they tear women down based on their appearance. Isn't that worse? I mean bodies change, break down, age, etc. Money comes and goes. How are we living in a society where it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 04:19 PM |
| 27 | Not all men anology... spot onLove it. Great analogy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 03:55 PM |
| 74 | Another reminder why not to reproduce with NVM video game playing manchildren.Saw the video on Youtube. Makes my blood boil. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 03:40 PM |
| 24 | Time after time there’s articles that prove that women are HAPPIEST when they’re unmarried and have no kids YET scrotes constantly try to shame women who don’t want to fulfill the trad role because deep down they know we’re happier without them and want us to continue serving them.I hope she found peace too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Y'all belong to the streets"Porn corrupts the mind, it ain't good for you, with that being said, Reddit is far to dangerous of a place when wanting to be nut free, even if you have the nsfw tab off, starting February, I'm leaving all social media's except for YouTube. Wish me luck" You're exactly the type of man FDS warns for. You have no control over your limp noodle dic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 01:58 PM |
| 7 | Decisions To MakeExactly right, he wants you to put your life on hold while he is leveling up. Because unlike men, we value men who pursue higher education and a good career. He'll trade you in as soon as the options start pouring it. Just giving it to you straight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 01:54 PM |
| 7 | Decisions To MakeOhhh honey. Holy shit. 6 years before you secure this man? I would NOT take on those odds. They are definitely not in your favor. I've known many women who would cook/clean/support men who were studying for their bachelor's/master's/PHD. The minute they had their degree or some form of independence, the woman was traded in for a newer thing. Sooo. This is big no from me. If you are hesitant to just dump him, then here's a suggestion: meet other men. Play the field. Don't settle for exclusivity u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Y'all belong to the streetsYour name is your worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 01:42 PM |
| 6 | I always wonder .. How can they not notice ? Then remember how often I ignored red flags...Ooffff. Now his reputation is forever tainted on the Internet for everyone to see. That's what happens when girls have each others' backs instead of fighting over a toad like him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 01:41 PM |
| 11 | When Men Are The Ones To Be Objectified in Music - Oh How The Turntables ...;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 12:44 PM |
| 9 | When Men Are The Ones To Be Objectified in Music - Oh How The Turntables ...:) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 12:16 PM |
| 84 | The wordiness of this sweatshirt makes me just *feel* the mental and emotional stress of being in denial about an abusive relationshipOkay... barf? Edit: yes, it IS denial and it's giving me PTSD flashbacks omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 11:54 AM |
| 19 | I have no words.Holy shit. Fuckkkk. This is sooo painful to read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 11:53 AM |
| 157 | Time after time there’s articles that prove that women are HAPPIEST when they’re unmarried and have no kids YET scrotes constantly try to shame women who don’t want to fulfill the trad role because deep down they know we’re happier without them and want us to continue serving them.I know a woman who is in her 50-60s. All her childeren are grown up and out of the house. A couple of years ago her husband died, up until that point they had been married for decades. He was her first and only marriage. We used to cross paths all the time and he always seemed very friendly to me. When he died, she didn't grief for long. She was single for a while and now has a boyfriend whom she visit every once in a while. Before COVID hit, I ran into her at an event. We talked for an hour, bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 10:36 AM |
| 44 | "Just Ask"It's been my experience that when you teach men how to treat you, they take notes, still give you a subpar experience, and somewhere down the line when they meet a new woman, they treat her the right way. Because you were their practice dummy. Sigh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 09:47 AM |
| 9 | What’s your opinion on Jordan Peterson?Hmmm. I personally came to the conclusion that he is not the right one for me to follow, in terms of rolemodel or something. My experiences in this life and my background are just way too different for me to resonate to him. There are some positive things to be said about him. He has a good relationship with his wife, and he tries to bring a proper message across about getting your life in order. But he is not for me. With regards to politics, right and left. I don't like either side. I don't kn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 08:11 PM |
| 27 | Why society’s insistence that women loosen their boundaries made it possible for me to meet a murderer through OLDYeah same. When I was 19 I met a guy on OLD who was 37 or something. Just like the reasons you stated, I was ashamed at the revulsion I had towards him because I did not want to be that "judgmental bitch". He was very manipulative and the interaction I had with him did affect me and I only became aware of that years later through therapy. He was into BDSM and a master-slave relationship where I had to call him "daddy" (barf). I really knew how to pick them. A lot of what he said was veryyyy ques… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 07:25 PM |
| 15 | The bar is in hellWhahahahaha ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 07:04 PM |
| 30 | PATRICK, what is u doing honey???And who knowd maybe he IS married, I mean why else hide your face? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 06:17 PM |
| 29 | What's with the spreading of complete lies about fds?You hit the nail on the head _^ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 05:40 PM |
| 14 | What's with the spreading of complete lies about fds?Thank you xx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 05:19 PM |
| 11 | What's with the spreading of complete lies about fds?Thank you xx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 05:19 PM |
| 19 | What's with the spreading of complete lies about fds?Thank you so much ^_^ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 05:18 PM |
| 34 | What's with the spreading of complete lies about fds?Thank you queen xx sorry you had to experience that like me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 05:18 PM |
| 790 | What's with the spreading of complete lies about fds?Look, if you listen too much to these people, it'll get to you. You'll let your guard down, you'll become more forgiving. You don't want to be associated with anything negative. But it's been my experience time and time again that once you do that, it'll have negative consequences on you. Nobody is coming to save you or help you through this life. So learning about self-defense to take on men's mind games and protecting yourself is nothing to be ashamed of. People who shit on FDS have no clue. E… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 12:26 PM |
| 41 | "Most women dont have a problem with their boyfriends watching porn" - 27yo MI just don't understand men who have girlfriends and they still watch porn. You are with an actual woman! Smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 11:04 AM |
| 1 | This Sub Changed My LifeLikewise if you ever need a listening ear :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 10:49 AM |
| 53 | Boundaries are for you to be protectedOkay, I'll say this. One thing I have learned over time is that how people feel on the inside will manifest itself on the outside. A jealous person will not know that they are being jealous because if they did, they would stop being jealous. The same goes for someone being self-absorbed, egotistical, narcisstics, a know-it-all, lazy, etc. When you see those traits in yourself, you cease to be that. Most people are unaware of their individual traits. Nobody want to be identified with negative tra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 08:58 PM |
| 64 | Save time: Picture-based vetting on OLDGive me a minute while I take notes. Thanks queennnnnn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 08:20 PM |
| 131 | There is no Dream GirlThis really puts things into perspective. You're right. There is no dream girl. In fact, we all come with our flaws, but we are supposed to learn from each other and grow with each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 08:17 PM |
| 240 | I’m tired of porn affecting my relationships, and I broke up with my boyfriend last night. How can I obtain a porn-free man if it’s so normalized, I’m 23 years old.Yes it is unnatural. I'm sorry you had to go through this and I hope you get through this break-up. Breaking up is the best thing to do because the fact that you will never look as unnatural as women will eat away at you. If he has a live woman in front of him, why is he still getting off on unnatural porn? Damn. I used to have similar exes in the past and it would eat away at me whenever I'd witness them lurking at women who did not resemble me in the slightest. There is a man out there who wil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 05:16 PM |
| 6 | I found a podcast episode that centers the impact of porn on women and addresses some of the common ways that anti-porn women are silenced.So true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 05:04 PM |
| 3 | This Sub Changed My LifeIt changed my life too. I am leveling up thanks to this sub. This sub has meant more to me than all the people in my life, who were just programming me to be a Pickmeisha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Omg this triggered me. This is such a common interaction I have with men...We are so tired.She resembles Jenna Marbles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 10:38 AM |
| 2 | You don’t want to be anyone’s space filler or time killer. Priority or bust!Needed to hear thisss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 10:37 AM |
| 14 | my GOD am i thankful i found this subWelcome ^-^ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 10:18 AM |
| 687 | Client Sent Me A Nude At WorkA client once offered me a project in return for sex with him. I'm so pissed still. I left my job. Anyway, make sure you have a replacement job before you leave. You can start searching in the meantime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 10:15 AM |
| 40 | I found a podcast episode that centers the impact of porn on women and addresses some of the common ways that anti-porn women are silenced.He's just a fucking empathy-lacking, brain-stunted sociopath. I used to think porn was okay, but think about it. What normal woman would put herself and her body out there for the world to see without any guarantee of exceptional benefit? No woman. There is and endless supply of porn out there, yet I know of not one who is in that industry. Prostitution is a different story because you retain your anonimity in a way. The majority of women on porn sites are trafficking victims, not to mention the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 10:13 AM |
| 121 | Do LVM’s ever change?I already placed this comment on another post, but I will comment the same thing her as well to give you some perspective. Guys do not break up with girls easily. They can string them along for years. Why? Try this experiment: When I go on Tinder (and I don't anymore) and I swipe right for a few minutes, I get 40 matches easily. This is followed by a barrage of conversation starters by all these men. Some try to be funny, others witty, all to get my attention. Don't be fooled, though, this is qu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 11:37 PM |
| 131 | “Men fake entire relationships”This sounds too familiar. I don't know why men do this. I have a theory for it, though. When I go on Tinder and swipe right for a few minutes, I get about 40 matches a day. I've even tried it with blurry face pics and it still works. Btw I don't use Tinder and certainly don't meet men on it (thanks to FDS), but I was curious. Anyway, back to the story. Even on blurry pictures I get matches, followed by a barrage of texts. I can literally pick whoever I want to date. There's no quality here, only… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 11:20 PM |
| 23 | Why do men refuse to break up with you when they are not into you?Makes perfect sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 09:57 PM |
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