"Men grow cold

As girls grow old

And we all lose our charms in the end

But square-cut or pear-shaped

These rocks don't loose their shape

Diamonds are a girl's best friend"

- Marilyn Monroe

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I want to talk about the women I have known in my life. Now, this isn't a scientific study or anything. It's just my personal pov from my meat sack of a body. If you don't agree, I'd like to hear why and I'm happy to learn.

I've worked at different places. I work in marketing now. What I do is me and a colleague of mine visit large companies to sell our comapny's services and we get a cut/percentage of the profit of whatever we bring in. It is very lucrative, but highly competitive.

When I was being trained by this marketing firm, I was temporarily being trained by a woman who looked like Miranda Kerr and that look of hers helped bring in a lot of clients (the Halo Effect). She always looked on point, the hair, the nails, etc. She had a mirror with her at all times and she'd look at her face to make sure she was immaculate. She was shamelessly flirtatious and highly confident, but always, always, always with CEO's or Directors. Within a couple years of meeting with these people on the personal side (which was against company policy, but nobody cares), she quit her job and now lives in a mansion, multiple cars, maids, drivers, guards, etc.

At this company was another woman. She was also very flirtatious with her looks and had a billionaire (a politician where I live) fall in love with her, and chase her. Except this billionaire was married. He wanted to get a second wife, but once his first wife got a whiff of what was going on, she put a stop to it.

Another friend of mine married a billionaire. What she did at the time was hang out at all the clubs and events where the elite of our country gathered, and now she's married to him.

I have so many more stories like these. I live in an oil-rich region, so you're gonna run into people like this more often, but I want to get to the point I'm making:

I used to think of these women were "golddiggers". I thought how sad of them to be so enchanted by money and materialism and overlook the good in guys. Why can't they focus on finding love instead? But I look at these cases and they ARE truly happy together. They grow together and form a bond. There's a difference between finding a high status man to settle with and chasing after boys for materialistic gifts every now and then.

I also had a post a while back about my family being very politically involved and so I am somewhere inbetween. And I get to experience and observe both worlds.

When I look at women who stuck around to give men a chance, I see unhappy women. Again, not all, but the ones I know. They're miserable.

What did I get in the past couple of years of dating?

I experienced ghosting, fading, manipulation, gaslighting, abuse of some sort for being a "good person" and giving a guy a chance to see how he is on the inside. Which is just a lie we've been sold. A lie just like Twin Flames, Soulmates, etc.

Only recently did I become stricter about who I was going out with and I went out with a director of one of the largest steel factories in the Middle East. I went out with the son of the owner of one of the biggest food distribution companies in this country (he had some possessive traits, so I took a few steps back from him). I also went out with one of the founders of a food delivery app here, which is similar to Deliveroo. We went to the same school, and he started this with his friends in the final year of high school.

They all treated me really well during the date. And I'm not saying money equals class, because there are a lot of people out there who have money but are still low value. I'm just saying, if you are involved in the higher classes of society, you are going to run into people who have a growth mindset, a success mindset, and don't have time to waste on playing games or other stupidities. These men and women also learn to be very diplomatic and calculating in the way they interact with people because of these circles. Sometimes we're just not compatible, but there's respect, communication, and I feel looked after.

My stupid ex? Always stoned out of his mind, hustling, and was never direct or clear about his intentions. I would be waiting for a text back. A TEXT. While my friends are getting 3 million $ houses and cars and fairytale weddings and amazing honeymoons to exotic places. My clown-ass was waiting for a TEXT.

There are no rewards for rejecting a billionaire. It does not make you morally superior.

I'm signing up for the equestrian club, get into horseriding because I know that's where our high society hangs out. I'm gonna look beautiful at all times and I'm gonna delete these stupid OLD apps and start dating these types. And I'll be sure to keep you ladies updated.

Men are shallow in that they follow scantilly-clad Instagram models, simp out and send all their hard-earned money to women with OnlyFans. They cheat by watching porn (the Bible says "But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart."). It is the norm in our society for men to sin. But women are Jezebels, golddiggers, etc. for wanting a good man, a good and stable life. It's all a lie. And I realize that now.