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He's also a cop who got fired for beating a black guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 06:32 PM
18

Context includes him shooting her dog when the dog got hit by a car
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 06:05 PM
67

And then you're added to a pool of broken women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 10:38 AM
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No kink shame, no kink same. If the kink doesn't match you don't use it. Tough shit. Thems the rules... Otherwise it's coercive, degrading, violation for one partner. Enthusiastic informed consent is the goal and they don't have that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 07:58 AM
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I need the Etsy account name....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 07:50 AM
74

I guarantee that $200 went right back to supplies for the "hobby"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 07:46 AM
138

I had to wear my brothers hand-me-down winter coats forever as a child. A six year old girl didn't want the bullying that came with a batman winter coat in the 90s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 07:44 AM
67

This is my least favourite thing. All my friends that have children complain their identity is reduced to "child's name's Mom". They're not a person anymore and that is just another layer of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 11:34 PM
11

The charts they use for female fertility is based on birth rates from France watch this Adam ruins everything It's ridiculous. Your doctor requires retraining. If we all got married at 13 of course we'd do everything we could to avoid pregnancy at 35.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 11:13 PM
107

Man has age appropriate date. Remind me why this is news?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 11:46 AM
16

Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 04:17 AM
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Nothing stopping you setting up a second discord account and using him for his method. This time you're a 24 year old British guy called Philip who likes Warhammer and DnD. Profile picture is an angry dwarf with an axe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 06:00 AM
42

...why doesn't the husband shower?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 11:54 PM
9

At the moment the cost is the loss of deposits. If you go through with it the cost will include lawyer bills and half of everything you've built. It's an expensive lesson I'm sorry you've had to learn but it's money you'd have spent either way. At least you can get out of it before he owned half of everything. Besides, nothing is stopping you using those deposits for an amazing party celebrating you. Call it a family reunion, a birthday party, or nothing at all. All you have to tell people is th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 12:16 AM
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I had an ex list me as a guarantee on a loan he didn't ask me about. I got a phone call from the loan company and told them I was a student and had no method nor will to pay and then claimed I didn't recognise the name and got him listed as a fraud risk. Because fuck him. That's why. Even a decade ago I gave no shits. I froze my credit and dumped him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:38 AM
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Desperation. He wanted the last word and to win the argument. Instead he confirms, again, that she was perfect until she dared reject him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 07:25 AM
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Guess I'm a gold digger. Funny. I thought I wanted an equal partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 12:35 PM
95

What did he think would be the outcome? The maid would do the job to the same standard for free? Does he really think his dick is that good? Delusional and entitled much?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 12:58 AM
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I wanted to lean on the generous side because in dating app's I always kept my filters as tight as possible to eliminate as many "hard no" men as possible. They wouldn't get in the bar if they didn't fit education etc requirements
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 07:43 PM
12

Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 07:15 AM
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Okay. Let's pretend dating apps were a bar. If there were 500 men in there I'd find maybe 100 physically attractive. Of those maybe 10 would be worth a first date. There's still no guarantee that I'd find someone worth marrying. However I'm now in a bar with 490 men I've rejected. What are the chances I'm getting murdered? Raped? Think I'll stay home, thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 07:04 AM
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In the UK 16 is the age of consent. Emma Watson had a countdown to that too. Tell me it's ok to be a paedophile without telling me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 11:41 AM
28

"huh, so you don't do any aerobic cardio exercise... That's a new way to admit you're a shit lay."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 01:01 AM
3

I'm hanging on for another decade and then the youngest will be 18 and able to make their own decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 09:16 AM
7

😹I'm good sis I don't need to shit myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 10:45 PM
12

She married my brother when they were 20 and then forgot to grow up. Being married and a "boy mom" and a "boss babe" is her personality. She's harsh, stubborn and insecure. It's hard work but she's a non optional part of my life if I want to see my nieces and nephews.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 10:42 PM
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Friends don't sell friends diet products/make up/exercise programs/insurance/jewelry............ Unless they're qualified to do so, have a legitimate independent business and were asked about it. Also; on a personal note: what the fuck Louise? Never start a sales pitch for tea that'll make me shit myself by asking if lockdown has knocked me into the overweight category.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:32 PM
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Love bombing is always suspicious. If he feels the need to flood gifts he's covering up something heinous. No one is that intermittently generous without reason. "You can't be upset at me look at all the lovely things I've done for you!!! Ungrateful b!" True generosity is a consistent predictable behaviour that comes without strings and assumption.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 09:53 AM
3

My kitty buddy is 16 this year. He lives in my house. He's a good cat and I love him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:19 PM
31

"i destroyed my property and relationships because I'm too emotionally immature to have healthy coping mechanisms when I'm frustrated" Fixed that for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 08:41 AM
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"I hate your cat" He was annoyed my cat clocked he was an asshole. Good cat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 10:59 PM
81

This is a lesson I wish we didn't have to learn the hard way. If you wait they always show who they are. Especially if they don't think women are people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 10:05 AM
41

Step penultimate: Paedophile is added to the LBGTQ minorities Step ultimate age of consent is removed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 07:27 PM
470

Dear Prudence. My husband physically assaulted me in a way some of my friends and family found amusing. Divorce? ...no shit. Divorce. Also they're not your friends and you need new family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 10:59 PM
57

Hey, I'm cool with this if I can be Moroccan Hummus. That's stuff is delicious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 06:24 AM
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Especially when they don't know it means nonsexual physical touch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 10:51 PM
46

He had four teenaged kids and a long term marriage. He should have gotten a vasectomy years ago, but no of course the birth control was on the wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 08:35 AM
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Damn, my first aid certificate is expired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 08:24 AM
339

Women worry about finding quality Men think they're a heart beat away from an Icelandic super model with neckdown alopecia when they'd be lucky to get anyone at all because they're so babied they have nothing to offer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 11:49 PM
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For the price they charge I'm getting two to put on my brother in law's Houdini husky but also yes. Horrified at the sinister application
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 06:18 PM
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$29 is terrifyingly cheap to know exactly where someone is without their knowledge EDIT android smart tags can be had for even less
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:36 PM
20

Lessons I've learned is that although it's fun to complement people the consequences of complementing some men makes it not worth doing so. In the meantime hell yeah I'm going to tell a random woman I think her coat/hair/bag etc is awesome; a random man isn't getting the same treatment. If I don't know them they're not safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:03 PM
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He didn't get what he wanted and is now annoyed the shiny new toy can't be his and the toy at home isn't good enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:49 PM
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"my husband is a paedophile what do I do?" Get a really good divorce lawyer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 09:06 AM
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I used to do similar things in the sims. I would start a family with 6 people. Two were the favoured Sims who got to have jobs and their needs met. The others were constantly making garden gnomes and painting to make money for the sims I liked. I also let sims turn fires on and then surrounded the fireplace with furniture to burn the house down. I was pushing boundaries and accept this behaviour wasn't healthy. However I was also 12 and in an unhappy home. I've worked on myself and had therapy s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 04:24 PM
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When my Grandmother died my Grandfather found a bank account she'd opened. She'd squirreled away 10%of the family income for 45 years. She had a fortune in her name but lived like a pauper. That was the lesson I needed in compound interest. My Grandfather sadly liked to gamble and she was sensible enough to build that escape fund but dumb enough to stay with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 08:46 AM
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If he isn't it's because the student is smart enough to use him for his contacts and hasn't fallen for his "charms" He will cheat. As soon as he has the opportunity and I guarantee he has already cheated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 06:01 PM
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Never gamble what you can't afford to lose is gambling rule one. She deserved better and thank god for his hubris that put the prenup in place that's protecting her now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 06:38 AM
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I've not been ID'd for alcohol in 5 years and I'm sad about it. The cashier always hits "clearly over 25". I always list my age as 36 because I am 36. I don't see why men in their 40's can't do the same. Grow up. We all have to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 10:17 PM
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Strong enough to make dinner and clean up after? Strong enough to write a list to ensure we don't run out of the things we've used? Strong enough to do all the laundry, washing, drying ironing and putting away? The chores are never ending but a partner is welcome. A burden is not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 10:17 PM
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Or he asks for an open relationship and the usual thing happens. She finds someone and he doesn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 08:50 AM
103

Rail thin trash eating teenagers who have their metabolism catch up with them and gain 50lb or more because their eating and lack of exercise catches up with them were not and are not attractive. Men don't understand that they too can be the victims of their mistreated bodies stealing their vitality and good looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 07:25 PM
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We need an FDS protect yourself thread with ways to set up your devices for your safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 10:29 AM
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https://www.technipages.com/android-phone-only-allow-calls-from-contacts That is a thing and here's an article that shows how to do it. I can only find the function on Android phones so I'm sorry if OP has an iPhone u/warinmymind94 I hope this helps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 08:09 AM
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Bad sex is exceptionally easy to find. Good sex is rare. Men don't seem to understand that they're never going to be as good as a vibrator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 12:43 PM
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Dying a mad cat lady is definitely one of my life goals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:38 AM
262

If he can't have her no one can isn't romantic, it's attempted murder. People who think this is romantic need their head examined.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 11:30 AM
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Men fear rejection. Women fear being raped and murdered for daring to have an opinion about who would make them a suitable partner. Men: "being rejected is worse"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 10:54 PM
30

So like idiocracy but actually positive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:23 PM
84

This is why weddings need security
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 04:42 PM
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Allowing someone 50% of the DNA of your child shouldn't happen without a full financial, legal, emotional, physical commitment to making the relationship work permanently. You don't want to be at your child's wedding in 30years when the ex shows up with his 4th wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 12:47 PM
35

"My friend is a paedophile and I'm not doing anything to help his victim." Am I close?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:12 PM
4

Yay! Can I 0.01%of the gross profit for the idea?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 09:23 PM
4

Me either 😥 ah well... Can't have everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 11:29 PM
6

Dare you to write the screen play
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 11:22 PM
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Can I have a movie where the protagonist has a cat sanctuary and finds them all happy homes? "The only love she needs is waiting for her to open the cat snacks"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 04:37 AM
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https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0002YUX8I/ref=cm_sw_r_awdo_navT_g_RT0QKMSYX3ZKSQKR7K33 If you can't have locks a door jammer will at least give you peace of mind. You can't save your sister but you can protect yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 12:31 PM
35

"AITA my otherwise low maintenance amazing and perfect girlfriend requested one thing ONE THING and I actively did the opposite" I think I got it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 07:25 AM
3

My Mother always told me to take the first man I could tolerate. She's currently on a diet and my step father is actively sabotaging her. He's the kind of man who wants a medal for doing any kind of house work. They're both retired and he's just becoming more and more of an arsehole. No thanks to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 05:15 AM
15

I dated a man 14 years older than me in my 20s and this is the dumbest thing I ever did. Even now that gap is too big and I can't imagine it ever being ok. A 10-15% gap seems to work. At 20 that's around 2 years and so forth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 10:10 AM
71

Yeah! Now you won't give him oral in the parking lot! ... He wants a pickme who is happy with a dollar menu drivethru
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 03:50 PM
78

Second family?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 12:55 AM
62

I have a cat. I'm not dying alone..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 05:18 AM
16

"I'm bad at sharing my toys" was not an acceptable answer to a polyman who suggested my partner and I open our relationship. I then had to tell him I found him unattractive which hurt his feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 07:55 AM
23

No way is his name really Maury. Scum. Why can't people just shop in peace?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 02:14 PM
154

Men are six times more likely to leave their wives after a cancer diagnosis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 05:46 PM
25

No product is a toothpaste/shampoo/conditioner/body wash/shaving foam/moisturizer without consequences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 04:05 PM
13

A house of quesadillas... This would be a cool restaurant name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 11:16 AM
14

Additional bonus is the protection in case they stomp on your feet to make it harder for you to run away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:04 AM
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I have had better trained dogs. I left a turkey on the side overnight (exhausted, forgot to put it away) and a husky, a whippet and a Staffordshire bull terrier all successfully ignored it. If a dog can behave men should be able to too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 04:43 AM
21

Stepford just before being swapped for a robot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 11:36 AM
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"it's time you settled down" "So, you settled, how's that working out for you?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 06:58 AM
15

They're not falling in love with the waitress etc. They're in love with what they imagine her to be at best and in lust at worse. On the pedestal she goes until he realises how normal and boring the real person is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 06:11 PM
74

Intense: you actually have goals and a personality! This makes you harder to manipulate! Ooooh nooooo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:35 AM
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He got the prize he deserved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:34 AM
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How I explained dating to my gay sibling: If I walk in a room with 100 men I would find maybe 5 to be long term relationship material, not one night stand, not just dating, actual relationship. Let's assume that maybe 1 of them feels the same. Great. However I'm now in a room with 99 men I've rejected. How likely am I to be (r)aped? (M)urdered? Why would anyone date under those circumstances?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 05:09 PM
16

Team mains operated with an extension cable for manoeuvrability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 06:33 PM
470

Another reason the birth rates are dropping
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 01:18 PM
9

This was about 11 years ago but I remember a string of text messages ending with being called a dumb bitch. He clearly didn't want a relationship and was annoyed he'd been denied an easy lay. I text to let him know I was home safely and didn't think we'd work out but thanks for an interesting afternoon. Then I ignored him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 09:43 PM
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One date I let get waaaaay ahead and I texted him to ask where he was while I turned around and did something else. I got my car and went home. It was a first date and we were walking to a second venue. If I'm boring enough not to notice you're 20ft ahead then I don't want to be interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 10:06 AM
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My maternal grandmother died at 58 years old. Her final child had left her unable to walk. A year bedridden and forcing herself to learn to walk again is a nightmare I desperately wish to avoid. My eldest aunt quit school and got a job in a pharmacy before marrying the neighbour who was 22 years older than her. My maternal grandfather made it to 83 and died of lung cancer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 07:00 AM
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I'm cool being a noob. I've had enough bother from scrotes. It's why I deleted a post about the murder of woman who was married to a cop too many years older than her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 07:51 PM
3

Montague Murder Mittens is the best cat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 07:04 AM
29

Corgis are freaking adorable. I'll allow it! That and spider and snake and just pet people in general. They're all good creatures Bront.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 09:03 PM
30

cat tax cat tax?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 08:30 PM
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"you'll die a sad lonely mad cat lady" How many cats can I have? Seriously though. That sounds awesome. I can do exactly what I want when I want and get to play with cats the whole time? Still better than someone in my house complaining about minor bullshit. (Had an ex complain about the cereal I bought, like mate, you know where the shop is...)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 08:16 PM
3

38 and wants a barely legal child. Paedophilic traits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:14 AM
34

My Mum 3 kids and a divorce by 35, had a mortgage and a paid off car while keeping a spotless house... My Dad does dishes once and is upset at the lack of a parade
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:09 PM
27

I think of Alpha males the same way I think of software. Unstable and unsuitable for public use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 10:40 PM
56

Overdraft because of face wash? I wish that was her real problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 05:00 AM
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Would "unsubscribe" also work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 07:35 AM
87

"Caring about her" - doing the absolute minimum required to live without hiring staff because; for some reason, she doesn't want to be a maid/chef/personal assistant/nanny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 06:28 AM
19

The other way is to file for divorce and press criminal theft charges. Or he could accept he fucked up but that would require personal insight and respect for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:47 AM
69

I switched to a moon cup and reusable pads a while a go and have saved a fucking fortune
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 10:59 AM
282

The pharmacist also has the right to refuse citing their own religious beliefs and the prescription should have no refills so every time he runs out he has to go through the whole damn thing again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 10:53 AM
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Viagra should only be available with the wife present at an appointment signing off on it and then the prescription given to her. It will prevent slutty useless men whoring around and ensure the maintenance of the institution of marriage. Unmarried men don't need Viagra because after all sex outside marriage isn't a thing in the universe conservatives and probirth people are trying to create.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 10:29 AM
39

Taking my 15 year old cat hiking would be less stress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 04:08 AM
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but it's clearly the women are wrong! My mother says I'm a dreamboat Excuse me while I go meal plan, I'm an adult. I look after myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:16 PM
8

The book is the Satan Seller and they brutalise it and the author lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 02:01 PM
37

Avoid these spunkpuppets. You deserve better and thankfully you know it. I'm currently listening to the "you're wrong about" summer book club and my favourite quote is "the world is full of lovely women you can woo with a fake story and a package of peanut butter cookies and we deserve better"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 11:11 AM
5

Binge watching Downton Abbey and cuddling with the cat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 09:04 PM
97

6 weeks pregnant is a single missed period, some pregnancies don't even register on a standard pee test at that point. The only 100% way to ensure a pregnancy doesn't happen is not to have sex and if Texas women have any sense that's the path they will take until this law is lifted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 06:47 AM
108

My favourite is "whore". I get that most when I refuse to sleep with some one. It's contrary as fuck. My "body count" as incels insist on calling it is lower than the moon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 07:55 AM
7

I live on a road which is single track with dry stone walls on both sides. Bet that'd freak him out more than you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 07:32 AM
280

It's also a matter of respect. You set the level and he met it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:25 PM
3

I recently broke and purchased jeans, my phone didn't fit in the pocket. Does fucking now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:13 AM
6

It's a skill worth learning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:01 PM
19

Love when my autocorrect does that. I have pockets in everything too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 08:43 AM
118

Step 1: learn to sew Step 2: add pockets to all my pants Step 3: realise I now have the skills to make my own clothes Step 4: use baking paper to copy the clothes I have and add pockets to the design Step 5: screw the clothing industry I now have pockets I'm everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 04:53 AM
4

NTA the landlord lowballed and expected her to cave and you damn well he'll "negotiate" every tiny imperfection until she has to drop the price further. That behaviour bsays he'll be a shit landlord and she's doing to universe a favour. That said they're are too many red flags on the fiancé. Not his flat. Not his money. I wouldn't buy with him because the moment she does everything is his money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:51 AM
65

And yet when I've been single I've been approached by married men who wonder why I turn them down. I don't share.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:30 AM
81

Pff TVs have low resale and are awkward to carry. I'm taking the guitars
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 03:39 AM
27

It's an obvious; and I apologise, Shit post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:30 PM
9

If you want. I give you permission to give yourself permission, do whatever the fuck you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 10:53 PM
23

I'm sorry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 10:06 PM
11

There's no cover on the duvet either; he doesn't need a wife he needs a maid, chef and a personal shopper
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:21 PM
224

it's a mattress without a sheet, crackheads live better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:21 PM
37

There's no cover on the duvet either; he doesn't need a wife he needs a maid, chef and a personal shopper
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:20 PM
393

There's no cover on the duvet either; he doesn't need a wife he needs a maid, chef and a personal shopper
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:20 PM
97

Oh golly gee. Women won't sleep with men unless they have a net positive effect on their lives when they can satisfy all of their own needs financially, physically and emotionally? Funny that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 02:54 PM
18

My niece is 13 and looks older than her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 05:57 AM
9

Back when "child care" was a Catholic orphanage and "divorce" (in the UK) required an act of parliament and it was easier to leave your wife in an institution for her "hysteria"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:03 PM
69

I once broke up with someone and was told my reason for breaking up with him wasn't good enough. I wasn't looking for permission. I was just doing him the favour of not just ghosting. It's important to be happy. It's also important to know what you're willing to accept in a relationship. There will always be give and take. It's just ensuring you maintain your personal boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 07:14 PM
54

My guess is they're not really an ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 06:09 AM
7

It's important to me that you're safe and that he gets what he deserves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:41 PM
29

Perhaps you should make a report to social services to ensure this vulnerable adult has the care he needs and also the police for the stalking, time to nip this in the bud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:33 PM
36

He needs a grown up and he's trying to make you responsible for his nonsense. Nah. 😹🖕that lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:11 PM
34

I find that when I'm in a relationship I get a song in my head. With my ex it was "I quit" by Hepburn. At the moment it's "head over feet" by Alanis Morrisette. The one thing I've learned in my 35 years on the planet is it's sometimes worth listening to the songs I get stuck in my head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 11:04 AM
32

My favourite is remembering "No." Is a sentence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 09:25 AM
12

Worth being friendly with just long enough for sex to fall out and then ghost her because she's easy... Men like this are just awful and they lack the self awareness to realise how little they're worth and how lucky they are that we tolerate their existence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:55 AM
6

The dumbass thinks she wants someone else like him. Nah. Girl needs an upgrade not bargain bucket
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:49 AM
39

"It's her fault she doesn't find you attractive because you're minging. Leave her alone. Go find someone else to bother ya mental." Can we blame her like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 06:49 PM
103

"this is totally awkward but have you tried not being an asshole who expects being 'nice' to be rewarded with sex?" Wouldn't have made it past the editor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 06:43 PM
136

Men like this don't seem to understand the concept of friendship. It's a wonder he hasn't been charged with assault at the minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 04:47 PM
97

If they'll cheat with you they'll cheat on you and other reasons my Uncle is on wife 5
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:27 PM
157

Accurate. Ew. Vaccinate against HPV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:25 PM
2

Yay! I need more friends. Mine keep getting knocked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 03:36 AM
211

I delayed having kids because I didn't meet someone I'd be ok with risking 18 years minimum on. Then I got a cat. Cats are great. Thus far we're 15 years in and I love him and he tolerates my nonsense. I'm definitely not having children. Kids though. When I get some land I might get some kids. Goats are adorable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:52 AM
2

https://www.reddit.com/r/Eyebleach/comments/mjgciq/am_guardian_of_the_window_good_cat/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share he's a good boy, very well behaved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:12 PM
544

I have a 3 bed town house I bought from a family. When I was asked about who I was buying it with I said it was for me and my 13 year old... I have a cat. I wasn't going to mention the not human side. I have played this game before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:49 AM
5

I don't drink so none. Drive by complements happen sober
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:39 PM
160

I love boobs! Women are just so damn beautiful. I also have my own boobs and know how annoying it is to be bothered when you're just trying to have a day. Basic good manners is leave people the fuck alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:35 PM
15

It's ok. You're allowed to need comfort. DV isn't always physical. It isn't always between partners. I'm sorry your parents felt the need to make your life difficult while you needed to concentrate on another member of the family who was ill. I hope you find the exit you clearly need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:09 PM
32

I'm sorry. Poor baby knew you loved him and you did the right thing by him. My old boy is 15 in August and has hyperthyroidism. Vet says he wouldn't survive being knocked out to remove the thyroid and the thyroid suppressant pills will give maybe another year. He's happy and he's gained some weight back but I'm sad about knowing the inevitable betrayal his body has waiting for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:16 PM
184

You know what's never hurt me? My cat. Team "cRaZy CaT lADy"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:22 AM
10

Poignant and terrifyingly accurate. My father was a depressed alcoholic who treated me like a bar maid and Prozac combo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:04 AM
265

Click to expand the second image. The most heart breaking quote is "she knew if she left him she would be killed."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 06:59 AM
12

And now I know. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:43 PM
28

Where can I spend my Reddit karma and why do people care about their points?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:55 AM
156

"My boyfriend keeps trying to murder me. What do I do?" Leave? You should leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:43 AM
10

Expensive? I don't see the bit where he paid the bill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:00 PM
15

r/homesecurity are damn useful but yes deadbolts, wifi cameras, change every lock and add privacy net curtains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:37 PM
16

Lonely... How can I be lonely when I have a cat?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:38 AM
35

If you wouldn't put used undies on after a shower don't have sex with the ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:27 PM
34

My favourite thing about wearing a mask is never has my resting bitch face been so rested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 10:32 AM
83

At my age my mother had 3 kids and a divorce. Having no kids and a house and car paid off was just a better deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:15 AM
36

I'm still pissed off with the little Mermaid. B settle down. You know nothing and you can't fuck the first human you fancy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:05 PM
32

What is it about the mothers. I had one ex whose mother insisted that I keep a perfectly spotless house whilst I was a full time student with a full time job and I worked probably 60 to 80 hours a week. He works 40 hours a week and didn't understand that he lives there too and was an adult capable of making his own damn food and cleaning up after his damn self. Then he surprised me with a puppy which he also expected me to take care of, train and essentially make into the world's best dog... Nee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:20 AM
167

"do you promise?" And "finally, some peace and quiet" are also acceptable responses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:33 PM
23

Oh, oh my god. What a fucking rabbit warren to go down that was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:46 PM
29

Thank you! BRB..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:26 PM
6

Men's chores vs woman's chores make sense when you're running a farm pre birth control. He's got the animals, making sure fences don't fall over and everything that includes a tractor... Essentially they are benefiting from a system which they no longer have anything to do. The correct response to their nonsense now about them not sharing the mental, physical and emotional labour of running a home is: "you live here too, idiot"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:24 PM
32

I like gardening. Mowing the lawn is literally a 10 minute job with 2 minutes of that getting the mower out and setting up. Sorting the recycling is zen as fuck. I'm a messy bitch but I'm cleaning up my own mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:49 AM
138

I don't understand the victim blaming. Being bossy doesn't mean that you deserve to die neither does being in MLMs or annoying. Cause for divorce? Perhaps. An excuse to cheat? Absolutely fucking not. He's in the wrong and it's cruel to the wife and children he murdered to try and justify his choices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:30 PM
110

The phrases "stone cold bitch" and "useless whore" were used. Whores get paid to see that shit. I'm still owed money. I'm only a slut when I'm not fucking them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 11:09 AM
101

My favourite always used to be sending random cat pictures for that request. Then acting confused and explaining the anatomy of the female genitalia with extreme accuracy to fully understand what exactly they want a picture of before denying the request. Dick pictures were sent comparison pictures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:30 AM
15

Dating an asshole who is lovely only to you is a fun trap that leads to domestic abuse. Do not recommend. 0⭐'s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:19 AM
59

My favourite thing about mask wearing is my resting bitch face has never been so rested
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:44 AM
2

That's 5'6". If he was 5'10" he'd round up to 6'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:26 PM
2

Agreed. It just needs that context
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:19 AM
2

Funny? I'm not laughing. What's the context? Was that a kidnapping? Do we know if they're still alive? Injured?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:15 AM
3

Oh. No. No thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:46 PM
44

There was a tinder/bumble screenshot here a while back of a 48 year old who was "ready to start a family". Awesome. I see you there with your increased risk of offspring with schizophrenia and autism. Sperm has a best before date. Egg's just stop being released.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:26 AM
104

So I can be murder raped in a random park? Why would I make it easier for them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:07 PM
39

It's annoying how not unconditional it is; they can't understand that being required to be an equal partner is not a big ask. It's a minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 12:01 PM
6

I guess I should redo my kitchen in order to add a dishwasher. What was I thinking!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 12:26 PM
236

I know this is controversial but I own plates. Could use those, eat together and enjoy the view.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:40 PM
2

Or he has t-rex arms
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:42 AM
93

Mr is a Gemini "Professional at Corporation". Bless his misogynistic cotton socks. Mommy forgot to tell him that he doesn't get a Scarlett Johansson level woman without being a similar level man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:09 PM
18

Team do you I don't give a fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:46 AM
5

The thing that is bothering me is his teeth are shifted slightly left and it took me a minute to realize why they looked off. Probably had a shitty orthodontist. No pets is good by me. My cat Monty has to be the only pet. He's the only fussy arsehole I let in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:13 PM
38

cool.... ​ www.lovehoney.com new vibrator it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:03 PM
2

Damn that's a gorgeous necklace
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:13 PM
8

When I was in my early 20s I dated a man 12 years older than me. I regret the wasted time. He was manipulative. His mother hated me. I wasn't "good enough" for her "boy", I was a full-time student with a full-time job who didn't cook and clean enough. At least not to her standards. As soon as I got my degree I escaped. I regret not doing it sooner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 06:23 PM
23

Where would a cover up even begin?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:52 PM
46

Names that are ok to tattoo on yourself: Your children✔️ Your pets✔️ Otherwise no. Just don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:46 PM
19

Oh. Oh dear. He's "ready to start a family"? Maybe 25 years and 50lbs ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:39 AM
7

Thankfully it's lockdown and my plans include steak potatoes and a lovely bottle of red wine watching Netflix with the cat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:14 AM
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