is this creepy or is that me? Why doesn't he trust her?

Buggy1218 · 2022-04-01T18:03:12+00:00

I mean this depends entirely on context.

He could be a creepy and possessive boyfriend. Or he might be leaving the house at the same time as his wife and pumps her gas for her because she hates the chore.

heythereitsemily · 2022-04-01T18:48:35+00:00

The title and caption made it sound like he was some rando lmao

halfways · 2022-04-01T18:12:33+00:00

I mean is he pumping it because he’s paying for it, I’d be ok with that.

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2022-04-01T19:09:20+00:00

I don't trust any man who looks at me like that, unless I just let one rip.

ferociouslycurious · 2022-04-01T18:45:59+00:00

So outside of California the gas pumps are often grody and have gas residue on the pump handles. You can get pretty gross pumping gas sometimes. So it really depends upon the individual situation because when I was young my dad always pumped for my mom so she could stay clean. It was not even slightly controlling.

screamingracoon · 2022-04-01T19:14:05+00:00

Hell to the no! If this is who I think it is, she’s a scammer turned Christian influencer who is anti-choice and who continuously scams women, profiting off of their need to be loved! That’s her second husband, and he’s a violent retired cop who has anger issues and lives on her dime. Every pic she posts of him, he looks like he’s about to beat her up.

She completely supports her shitty husband, and even encourages his violent tendencies because they mean he’s a manly man (most notably, they let their little dog alone in the backyard where he could easily escape from and then left the house. The dog, of course, escaped and was hit by a car as they were coming home. Instead of bringing him to a vet, the husband just shot the poor dog in the street!).

shecreatedherdream · 2022-04-01T19:21:38+00:00

It’s not in context, the video is very different than this screenshot..

I like having my father, brother, or significant other do some of these things for me.

It makes my life easier, I can do it myself, I do these things myself most of the time, but when they help, it’s appreciated.

FUBARfromLSA · 2022-04-01T18:37:37+00:00

He looks terrifying.

I just saw the other comments- shooting her dog?!? Fired cop?!? Beating up a black guy?!?

RUN

ApprehensiveGiftBox · 2022-04-01T19:02:03+00:00

Is pumping gas...hard?

thowawaywookie · 2022-04-01T18:09:58+00:00

Very strange. The only time someone followed me was when I was getting my car serviced so I get a ride back. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Besides, I wouldn't date or marry someone gross looking like that.

elainejay82 · 2022-04-01T19:31:07+00:00

I'm not really sure of the context here, but just based off the way this guy looks and looks at her, I don't think this is a positive thing.

But either way, this is a good time to talk about how this is EXACTLY what the beginnings of a controlling and abusive relationship would look like, too. It starts off with the guy seemingly doing nice things or giving nice input to her, but the underlying current is one of control. For example, "Don't hang out with those people. I don't think they are good enough for you." Notice how it seems he is looking out for you. This is EXACTLY how girls get roped into this shit (ask me how I know). You need need need to read in between the lines with acts like these because abusive control never starts outright. It starts under the guise of "helping" or "niceness" or "looking out for you." Dudes rarely ever start with, "I'm making rules on what you can and cannot wear." It is almost never that blunt. It will start with what you are seeing in this pic.

That's another thing too. The picture of the dude himself gives me a creeeeeep vibe. Ladies if you haven't done so in a while, take a look at the pics you have of your man or better yet the pics you have of the both of you together. Is he really smiling? Is he leaning into you? Is he merely "posing"? I get a lot of info about men this way from pictures and a lot of info about how he really feels about me. Even sometimes revealing how I truly feel about him or the situation, too.

-Phoenix_ashes- · 2022-04-01T19:50:04+00:00

This man aside, I think it’s great when men do acts of service for their wives and GFs like this. Door opening, gas pumping, paying for everything etc. I literally never open my car door or pull out my wallet, ever. It just shows that they see you as feminine and valuable to them, they want you as comfortable and happy as possible.

ConstantNurse · 2022-04-01T19:23:51+00:00

Gas pumps can be gross but this also comes of controlling, as in "I doubt you know which quality of gas to get and pump it correctly".

It's chivalrous if he was in the car with her or stopping at the same place for other reasons but if bro is following her ONLY TO PUMP HER GAS, he be creeping.

itsirrelevant · 2022-04-01T18:32:53+00:00

I am pretty sure it's not because he doesn't trust her, but still doubt I'd enjoy being in a relationship with someone this on top of me.

Title	is this creepy or is that me? Why doesn't he trust her?
Author	up_d00t
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Date	April 1, 2022 5:54 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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