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| 3 | What do you all think about the Johnny Depp v Amber Heard trialI have been back and forth with this one. My intuition tells me she probably isn’t completely innocent, However, Johnny is a strange moody alcoholic with a sketchy past so it’s hard to tell who is responsible for what. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 10:11 AM |
| 2 | is this creepy or is that me? Why doesn't he trust her?This man aside, I think it’s great when men do acts of service for their wives and GFs like this. Door opening, gas pumping, paying for everything etc. I literally never open my car door or pull out my wallet, ever. It just shows that they see you as feminine and valuable to them, they want you as comfortable and happy as possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 07:50 PM |
| -1 | Don’t let men (or women) shame you for leveraging your looks.Interesting and valid. The way i see it, it’s an engrained pattern in society and with men that won’t disappear. I don’t think it’s necessarily a product of the patriarchy, it’s more just that men value beauty in women in general, as well as society as a whole valuing it. The problem with it is when it becomes the ONLY measurement of value for a woman, in which it becomes a bit dehumanizing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Don’t let men (or women) shame you for leveraging your looks.At the heart of it, it can suck at times. But like we all know, it’s just how things are, and we might as well make the most of it and capitalize on it! There is a complete night and day when you dress down or put no effort in vs even a little bit of effort to the highest end of the scale. Heels and dresses will always get attention and favors no matter who you are! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Don’t let men (or women) shame you for leveraging your looks.Thank you for noticing, I assumed people may misinterpret my entire post as being a “cater to men’s appeal” type speech, but that’s not exactly it. On one hand I guess you are, on the other hand it’s a tool to leverage your own success based on their desires and the visual lust society will always be in. And I love seeing women live to their highest potential, whatever that specifically means to them. Our individual ideal is different person to person, but overall there are general human things … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 04:08 PM |
| 6 | Don’t let men (or women) shame you for leveraging your looks.I agree! Other women’s decisions with their appearance isn’t my business, at the end of the day it’s all about having a lifestyle you truly enjoy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 12:13 AM |
| 5 | Don’t let men (or women) shame you for leveraging your looks.Sometimes I do yes. Men harass me all the time. Sometimes I don’t mind, others it can be scary. Once I had a man follow me into the fitting room area and film me dressing under the stall. Another man was watching me in the gym, followed me to my car, asked for my number, and when I said no he began swearing and getting aggressive. I got inside and locked the doors but he hovered at my door staring in. Also a few months ago I had a stalker at my work. I believe FDS is about honesty and elevation,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 12:11 AM |
| 4 | Don’t let men (or women) shame you for leveraging your looks.Exactly! It’s never about “love”, it’s like they want to play out a movie for themselves to watch and enjoy. Even considering the money, the woman still loses out of things don’t work. You wasted time on an older scrote that you can’t get back, meanwhile money can always be replenished, especially with wealthy men. So rinse them like mud covered dog in the shower LOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 12:06 AM |
| 6 | Don’t let men (or women) shame you for leveraging your looks.THIS. I was thinking about this heavily the other day. I absolutely see no problem and completely support women using their looks to secure a man with money. Like you said, it’s a system “hack” they try to make forbidden because they know it works. Old scrotes like that have a fantasy lust mode for younger women that can easily be exploited, and I feel the women that have decided to put up with them should rinse them for everything they can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 07:43 PM |
| 8 | Don’t let men (or women) shame you for leveraging your looks.This holds weight. There are many different looks and styles that are appealing. You can also use targeted styling if you have a goal in mind (a date vs interview for example). Certain colors and textures illicit different responses from people, especially men. People highly underestimate the power of clothing, makeup, and grooming, and not just purely in an aesthetics way. It can completely morph how people view you on a deeper level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 07:36 PM |
| 3 | I’m tired of scrotes trying to mask their attraction to minors.Wow that’s the worst response available. You can literally look at a Megan’s law map and see that 99% of the offenders are male in any given area. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 08:53 AM |
| 46 | I’m tired of scrotes trying to mask their attraction to minors.Please report back if they DM you about this one. I feel like they will still have something to screech about. “Muh youth and beauty”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 10:14 AM |
| 6 | Spotted this ad under "housing" on craigslist 😬They are literally everywhere, animals on the prowl. Some man called the hotel I work at pretending to be one of the franchise owners sons, and told me they have another property that they need a manager for. This man literally started asking what I look like, my bra size, etc. it actually scared me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 08:45 AM |
| 7 | Spotted this ad under "housing" on craigslist 😬A few years ago I posted on Craigslist that I was looking to move out of my place and I wanted to become someone’s roommate to save money. I made the mistake of saying I was a young female (I know I know). I got copious replies from men offering a similar situation. They said it would be “free” and they wanted a “companion”. One even offered me the glorious opportunity to live on a boat with him! I shamed myself into being smarter after that lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 05:42 AM |
| 27 | Right as we are about to get a place, I found out my boyfriend lied about his income.Yes it was. We were absolutely talking about take home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 02:15 AM |
| 96 | Right as we are about to get a place, I found out my boyfriend lied about his income.Damn they really downvoted my previous reply LOL I’ll take that as a sign I was acting foolish. Kind of off putting but it’s ok, tough love. You ladies are right though, it would just be a snow ball effect over time. Damn I really was starting to settle and I blinded myself to seeing it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 02:11 AM |
| 25 | Right as we are about to get a place, I found out my boyfriend lied about his income.I get what you’re saying. The figure he had been giving me was supposed to be his net. His gross was actually less than the net he told me leading up to this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 02:07 AM |
| 11 | Right as we are about to get a place, I found out my boyfriend lied about his income.I’m so thankfully for FDS omg. Some of the responses can be harsh but I need it. We put in the application for the unit but no official pen to paper to close The deal. They were literally reviewing our app when I discovered this BS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 02:03 AM |
| 50 | Right as we are about to get a place, I found out my boyfriend lied about his income.I cannot disagree at all. I’m pretty sure he is hiding something behind the “nice guy” appeal. Very disappointing but hey, most men are vipers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 02:01 AM |
| -80 | Right as we are about to get a place, I found out my boyfriend lied about his income.I’m sorry but I disagree when it comes to net VS gross. If you’re speaking about gross income it’s extremely common to say “before taxes” when you give that figure, this wasn’t the case. When he told me his income he meant that was his take home in our original conversations many times before. I understand what you’re saying but this isn’t the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 01:23 AM |
| 184 | Right as we are about to get a place, I found out my boyfriend lied about his income.They lie SO much, even the ones who appear to be upstanding and respectable. The biggest shame they carry is getting caught. That’s perfectly said, action always kings the words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 10:06 PM |
| 33 | Right as we are about to get a place, I found out my boyfriend lied about his income.They don’t take out that much in taxes in this area, even his lies ate each other and made it worse! I would have had a shred of respect if he was honest the first time he was confronted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 10:04 PM |
| -79 | Right as we are about to get a place, I found out my boyfriend lied about his income.Officially dating for 8 months, but we’ve known each other longer. I’m aware it’s not wise to move in with boyfriends, But things seemed to line up aside from this. I was willing to overlook other issues but this is major to me. Thank you for your insight, I appreciate your honest and direct response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 10:01 PM |
| 43 | Do not let men of color triangulate you against women of colorGives me kitten heels Kevin S vibes, I can’t stand that man. Seriously, to be completely blunt, black men as a whole have seemingly failed black women (I’m white by the way). The “aggressive” BW narrative they have created is so lacking in context. A lot of BW have had to defend themselves from a very young age from many layers of attack, also they have to be strong and resilient enough to care for not only themselves but their siblings and family. The absent black father stereotype isn’t a joke… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 06:09 AM |
| 67 | Husband suggests she stop buying formula rather than get a job and cancel his $80+ a month subscriptions.These men are LIARS. If he cared about his family he would get a job, literally any job to bring in an income. So your “dignity” is preventing you from supporting your family? This is a void male, bellow a negative value man, the worst kind next to physical abusers. Never sleep with men who aren’t husband and father material. God this makes me sick to read.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 04:21 AM |
| 27 | Passive men are a huge turn off, and actually dangerous.And ya that one sounds useless and terrible too! I can’t believe he made you walk at night while sleeping, disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 11:00 PM |
| 48 | Passive men are a huge turn off, and actually dangerous.Great feed back, thank you! And I’m used to dealing with terrible guests, it’s normal. But in the city I live in certain men can be very aggressive and don’t walk away even when you express disinterest 😒. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 10:59 PM |
| 182 | Passive men are a huge turn off, and actually dangerous.I can see that happening on the horizon! I get irritated often with him lately. It almost forces you into a masculine mindset because they are femininely taking the backseat. It’s uncomfortable! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 10:50 PM |
| 7 | Avoid the YT comment sections on the Gabby Petito dashcam footageCorrection, it was actually bodycam footage. The interaction is worth watching. It shows them being pulled over (someone had called and reported he was slapping her) and them being questioned, as she is in hysterics crying. Meanwhile he is calm like a true psycho covering his tracks. She even blames herself out of fear of him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 01:21 AM |
| 9 | Avoid the YT comment sections on the Gabby Petito dashcam footageImagine a full grown man having to defend himself from a 110 pound girl... I also really dislike how they are applauding the police for “doing a good job”. Like where, where was the good job? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 01:20 AM |
| 8 | Avoid the YT comment sections on the Gabby Petito dashcam footageYES I just found this out as well. She is clearly terrified and doesn’t want to tell the truth for fear of retaliation from him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 01:17 AM |
| 19 | Avoid the YT comment sections on the Gabby Petito dashcam footageMy god, it really is. Most men don’t like holding other men accountable for their terrible actions, it’s like a secret society where they protect each other. How could anyone even think this 110 pound girl could ever be a physical threat to him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 01:16 AM |
| 12 | Avoid the YT comment sections on the Gabby Petito dashcam footageIt really affected me to.. it’s funny how men will jump in and defend him killing her for “self protection” (it’s totally not obviously), but never jump in for the countless times women are abused and killed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Both the “all men are bad” and “all women are bad” side face the same issue.I addressed your argument multiple times, you’re intentionally ignoring it at this point. Most AMALT posts are about the things I’ve listed (I’ve said this multiple times) not the “1% extremes” that you claim, even though those are way higher than 1%. Thats a direct response to your claim like I’ve said before yet again. You’re playing a fool on purpose at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Both the “all men are bad” and “all women are bad” side face the same issue.Most AMALT post revolve around the things I mentioned, period. The extreme things you mentioned make up maybe 20% of posts depending where you look. So you are wrong. And for the last time, the listed issues are not benign, no matter how many times you you claim they are. And honestly, even the extreme things do happen frequently around the globe, daily. In the west we just don’t see it in our faces as much. There isn’t much more to say at this point unless you have something new to bring up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Both the “all men are bad” and “all women are bad” side face the same issue.You’re contradicting the original point you made, saying our claims are “severe” then saying they are “benign” is a complete contraction, period. Having issue with women being seeing as simple pleasure objects is not semantics. I already addressed this multiple times, I’m not letting you run circles again. I’m literally calling you word for word on your back tracking. Summary: I refuted your original claim. You said most AWALT posts are valid because they are behaviors that most women have, wher… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Both the “all men are bad” and “all women are bad” side face the same issue.None of them are benign, they are serious issues whether it’s coming from a man or a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Both the “all men are bad” and “all women are bad” side face the same issue.jumping from “the severe 1%” to “benign and obvious” is a complete contradiction. Objectifying someone and reducing them to an item for your pleasure alone is not benign. For the last time, this goes beyond simply having sexual thoughts, I have said this multiple times. And not only are you using semantics, but you’re providing nothing to the conversation or any information to back your original claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Both the “all men are bad” and “all women are bad” side face the same issue.You’re contradicting yourself. first you said AMALT claims are only the severe 1% category, now you are saying we conflate them with benign and obvious things? Which by the way nothing I listed was benign, although they are an obvious, that doesn’t mean anything because it’s still terrible. And seriously, you’re trying to deflect with a not so clever phrase? And you say I’m using semantics? You’re a level one gas-lighter with that nonsense. And I directly responded to what you said, you’re actua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 10:25 AM |
| 2 | Both the “all men are bad” and “all women are bad” side face the same issue.Because we are talking about things within the sphere of AMALT, this is about negative behavior issues. And I just told you it’s not about “sexual thoughts”, are you really that dense? It’s the desire to con and manipulate women to use her body to masturbate yourself, like I said before. You’re typing a fair amount of words, but you aren’t saying much, or even making a point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Both the “all men are bad” and “all women are bad” side face the same issue.All of the traits and behaviors I mentioned are very common amongst men worldwide. Remember, we are talking about post percentages regarding “AWALT” and “AMALT” content. I would strongly argue the complaints In the AMALT camp that I mentioned are the overwhelming majority. Also, when I say using and viewing as a sexual object, I’m implying a lack of respect and recognition as a human instead of a living masturbation sleeve. Your point has vanished. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 07:03 AM |
| 0 | Both the “all men are bad” and “all women are bad” side face the same issue.Most AMALT posts are actually about behaviors like lying, cheating, manipulation, unneeded aggression, porn addiction, and viewing/using women for sexual objects. I would say 80% of men possess some or all of these. Sorry to rain on your parade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 06:29 AM |
| 29 | In shock. A post about a woman finding violent fantasies on her bfs accountsOh but anime women being violated and killed/mutilated isn’t illegal, actually that’s normal viewing material! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 06:53 PM |
| 356 | In shock. A post about a woman finding violent fantasies on her bfs accountsOmg I saw that post earlier! That was disgusting, and not surprising to see the reactions. If I see the word CoMmUnIcAtE one more time I’m going to flip. And honestly, scrolling through that awful sub today, it was literally 95% women complaining about truly awful behavior and acts men have done with like 5% petty complaints from men, no joke. Such a dumpster fire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 08:48 AM |
| 18 | For episode 20 of the podcast, we will be doing an extra-special (and extra long) listener feedback episode! Comment below with your questions/feedback for a chance to be discussed on the podcast!I eagerly await this pod every week, beautiful work ladies! I would love to hear you all break down the lore of “the wall”, and how men and society reduce our value to our youth and appearance. Much love to you all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 01:52 AM |
| 12 | Lingerie is NOT a giftThat’s how you do it 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 12:18 AM |
| 5 | The scrote and the stoneHarry scrotter hahaha 😹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 01:57 AM |
| 28 | How to Spot a PAOmg the shitsterbate.. I had an ex that did that too. One time, he was taking a particularly long “shit”, and I got the instinct to just look under the door (not that you can see much any way). I could literally tell by the way his feet were moving/toes curling that he was doing the do to himself. I actually cried. (At the time he shamed me physically a lot, found out he was cheating, etc. Looking back it makes me laugh that I cried about this scrote over this). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 09:45 AM |
| 8 | When their lame man-brags are deeply unimpressive“I AM A GOOD GUY!! I AM A NICE GUY! IM GOING TO MAKE A MILLION DOLLARS THIS YEAR!! PLEASE FUCK ME!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 02:25 AM |
| 4 | No Man I’ve been with has ever made me orgasm. EVER.Hah I also saw the “men fake it too” thing floating around! Let’s be honest, it’s not even comparable, the stats are not in their favor here. The rare times they do that are a one off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 06:03 PM |
| 26 | No Man I’ve been with has ever made me orgasm. EVER.Girl... I resonate. I would actually flex my kitty muscles, (the same way when I get an actual orgasm) twitch like a moron, make the dumb sounds. They are so fucking stupid, “durrr that was a hard cum you had, me do good job” 🥴God... I am NEVER faking again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 05:04 AM |
| 14 | No Man I’ve been with has ever made me orgasm. EVER.It’s that porn parasite attached to their brains. They literally recite porn scripts thinking we like it. He would keep saying it over and fucking over too, till it was so irritating I just wanted it to end, I gave in like “oMg YeS sO gOod”. He did not deserve the ego boost at all either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 04:55 AM |
| 30 | No Man I’ve been with has ever made me orgasm. EVER.Ah yes, the porn sickness, how could I leave this vital bit out! That “cum for me” shit is 100% porn derived and irritating. Like you saying that is actually making it significantly worse for me right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 04:37 AM |
| 45 | No Man I’ve been with has ever made me orgasm. EVER.I’ve heard pickme women parrot that rhetoric of your pleasure being your own responsibility before, shaming us for having needs .. “it’s unfair to put pressure on men to make you cum, it’s your responsibility” ok? Then it’s his responsibility to help himself out as well. I don’t want to exist as another extension of your hand to get yourself off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 10:34 PM |
| 67 | No Man I’ve been with has ever made me orgasm. EVER.Yesss let’s turn the tables on them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 10:29 PM |
| 51 | No Man I’ve been with has ever made me orgasm. EVER.I feel this in my soul. Hooking up is a complete lose on our end as women. We spend hours on makeup and hair, clothing selection, etc. all for a few minutes of disappointment. Once they are in the intimate zone with us, they show true colors the first go around. And good on you for kicking them out, they have to learn somehow. Fuck their egos. And I see what you mean with the comments! I would love to see those wet eyed scrote responses to this. #diemad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 10:27 PM |
| 10 | Thanks to this sub, I’m divorcing my extremely LVM husbandI dated an alcoholic narc as well for a bit over a year. The day I moved out was scary. He tore up the condo as I was gathering my things, it was a literal wreck in there. He then stole money from my purse, spit on my clothing, and broke some of my stuff, all while hurling insults at me and threatening me. Then he cried at the end like I was supposed to feel bad for HIM. I secretly recorded a lot of it just in case. Seriously, leave when he isn’t there! Avoid that tension at all costs, it’s not … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 10:18 PM |
| 96 | No Man I’ve been with has ever made me orgasm. EVER.“Hey I honestly feel like you thrusting for a few minutes, making weird faces, and calling it quits when you cum, then playing with me like a DJ on a Friday night set in Vegas isn’t like super cool so like please” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 08:50 PM |
| 74 | No Man I’ve been with has ever made me orgasm. EVER.We buy the cow so we can “sEe WhErE tHiNgs TaKe Us”. I’m relatively new to how Reddit works (lurking for years, just recently started participating), where are the hidden comments? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 08:45 PM |
| 9 | Today marks one year since I blocked my narcissistic, emotionally abusive, alcoholic ex. Here are all the ways my life has improved since:I did the push and pull with my ex narc a lot as well. I would block, miss him, reconnect, repeat. Block, he would reach out through a different number with sobs, sorrys, and promises. Repeat. I literally did the final block about a month ago. Honestly, I’m so much happier in ways I couldn’t imagine before. I was just dreading this process, but where I used to think of him daily, I barely think of him at all now. They take up so much of our time and identity, we don’t see it till we are out for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 06:09 AM |
| 14 | Terms and phrases scrotes use: OLD edition!“Sneaky low down cheaters”. But wait that does sound like a genuine male though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 05:55 PM |
| 21 | Terms and phrases scrotes use: OLD edition!How could I forget THIS one! Almost a guarantee he will put a “nice” mask on until you disagree on the smallest of things. Now he’s a raging asshole, and it’s all because you dared to have your own opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 05:52 PM |
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