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MOOD FOR LIFEshecreatedherdream/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 01:36 PM
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It’s not in context, the video is very different than this screenshot.. I like having my father, brother, or significant other do some of these things for me. It makes my life easier, I can do it myself, I do these things myself most of the time, but when they help, it’s appreciated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 07:21 PM
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Hug. I know how you feel… let’s make 2022 the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 12:34 PM
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I’m thinking of doing a no date 2022. I’m over it. My fitness always declines when I’m dating. So does my family and career focus. It’s just, fun, sometimes… eurgh..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 12:33 PM
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Built myself a home gym. I love being in peace, don’t have everything I need though, I would love a good gym, but nothing appropriate close by. When in public spaces I wear headphones, wear baggier things, and put less effort in my looks. I don’t like all the insta and tiktok fitness booty photos, and the overly sexy posss. Search yoga on tiktok, I was sad when I was looking for poses and saw what came up. They demotivate me. Most times their personality content and voice are good. They are free…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 07:34 PM
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I am against surprises. I don’t do them, I try not to accept them. Too stressful and risky for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 05:53 PM
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Oh my god! I completely forgot that. Always remembered Meredith saying it. Great catch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 05:50 PM
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Somatic self care - thank you Learned something new
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 06:26 PM
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Thank you for this post. I have been reading it daily since you posted it. It made me feel empowered and I feel I can respect myself more. More importantly, it fixed my stupid persistent crush. I’m finally over it. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 06:23 PM
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Reading this was cathartic. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 01:44 PM
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Great level up strategies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:37 AM
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Great going momma.. Feel proud,, and your kids will be proud of you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:37 AM
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That’s a great level up goal,, May I suggest herbal teas,, they are fun.. And there is a community of people who replaced drinking with tea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:36 AM
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That’s inspiring ! Thank u
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:30 AM
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Good luck. I leveled up so much after my divorce, even though it didn’t feel like it then. I’m better in every way now, I’m a better mom too. Keep doing the workouts, they were instrumental in getting me better by the day. I wish you the best, be strong, it passes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:27 AM
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Hello dear What works for me is to get busy with things that are good for me and make me feel good. The thought become; I’m fierce, did an AM workout before my job. My legs got stronger, instead of how they look in yoga pants. My eyeliner is done nice instead of, my eyes are a little uneven.. And so on..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:25 AM
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I’m happy for you! Show the world your talent !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:22 AM
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I’m so happy for you. I’m in a very similar boat and your happy story gives me such hope and determination.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:22 AM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:16 AM
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Thank you! Ahhh the sense of relief. I’m happy for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:16 AM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:15 AM
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I’m happy for you, wish you good luck at your new job
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:15 AM
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Thank you, I wish you the best
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:14 AM
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Job hunting. My job is killing me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 06:18 PM
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I think I’m done with any kind of ‘meeting someone’ during holiday. Especially a family holiday. Eurgh the time I wasted, could have been having fun, or bonding w my family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 05:19 AM
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You are amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:06 PM
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Thank you for sharing. That’s me. Single mom. Kids will never know I’m dating, not planning on marriage anytime soon. I hope it impacts my daughter well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:52 AM
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Slow clap... That’s a great realization.. I’m right there with you.. Loneliness or Freedom? It’s what you make it. I consider it freedom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:59 PM
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I’m sure I did feel the same way, once. But now, it’s not even a memory. I hope with time you can let it go, must have been terrifying..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:45 PM
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The Fall - Netflix
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:42 PM
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:-)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 06:03 PM
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That’s what bothered me, why did she expend so much effort??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:29 PM
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Oh, I have one tip: Don’t buy anything you don’t usually eat, you will avoid it, and it will still be in your cupboard for months and months..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 10:26 AM
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I’m using this as a good time to shop my pantry and use up what I have, be more creative with my current supplies. I added some comfort foods just to feel more comfortable and happy with my children, especially on movie nights.. I also made sure I have:: Panadol, feminine hygiene products (for me) and for my kids: kids-adol, and long life milk. Our tap water is not drinkable, so a little more water than usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 10:20 AM
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Oh my god. This makes me feel ill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 07:22 AM
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Oh my god .. so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 01:49 PM
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I won’t date till this is done. My health and my kids are more important. The man I was talking to wouldn’t sit still at his place, always from coffee shop to restaurant to I don’t know where. His selfishness and inability to just sit still turned me off and I’m over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 11:23 AM
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Well done for having self respect. I would have done the same. You are not in competition, they deserve each others games. Something better will come along for you (with or without a man!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:38 PM
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Yessss!! I am fascinated about how i am finding all these books too. It’s like they have an allure. The cautionary tale as you said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 04:35 AM
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I read gone girl - the wife between us - and behind closed doors ! Yes ! Since we have similar tastes read: Blood Orange - I am sure you will enjoy it. It was a rollercoaster of emotions for me! And I’ll read your recommendations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 04:26 AM
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No. No. No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:23 PM
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I like that you made a post about this. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 07:08 AM
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Once you start you level up. It becomes part of how you live and carry yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 12:48 PM
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You are cleansed. Well done. Don’t give anyone that mind power again :-)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 02:48 PM
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That’s sweet :-) I wish you the best
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 12:45 PM
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Thank you for a great answer Personal info part I especially like. Why do they want to know everything early on??? Also picking up something, why do they ask... it’s so awkward. Do you have a specific way of handling these requests? Do you ignore them ???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 12:21 PM
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You are most welcome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 06:38 PM
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Great message Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 08:15 PM
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Entrepreneur.. euuuuh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:48 PM
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Don’t send letter. Send clothes silently. I wouldn’t even bother sending anything really. That’s more of a power move. Letter will be shown on Snapchat and to friends, don’t send letter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 04:01 AM
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JOMO JOY OF MISSING OUT Block and be happy. No more wondering if he text or changed his display pic. Like a nervous tick. At least now, YOU control the contact, not him. You blocked him, not he decided to stop pursuing you. Block hiiiiiim. You will feel cleansed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 12:16 PM
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Enjoy your own company, find good activities, build your life, grow your intellect. Save, invest carefully, take care of your beauty and health. Go pleases you like, eat food you enjoy, watch movies, listen to music, read books. Make your home beautiful. And see where things go. But PLEASE never tell a man you are financially comfortable, never, ever. Someone will try to exploit you, and sometimes they are very good at the act. If you are sure you don’t want kids, use some form of medium term bi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 12:09 PM
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You are so honest, and thoughtful. Thank you for sharing. I connected with what you wrote. No more. It’s a new better chapter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 11:26 AM
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I’m over it. I just want to be left alone and live a content, happy, luxurious, beautiful, rested life for myself and my kids. Nobody else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:24 AM
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You up? How are you? Had a dream about you? Would you like to meet for coffee? I love you. Hey Out of the blue. From different people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:50 AM
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N is Negative for me. Negative value, the one that messes life up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 02:14 PM
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Block him. Don’t feel weak. Be happy in your own world. Sending you good vibes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 05:45 PM
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Ah! Hug! Sorry you went through that. I’m angry on behalf of you. I am happy you got out, survived, healed, and are successful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 02:54 AM
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Thank you. Sending good vibes to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 03:14 PM
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Ask yourself this: what are my standards if I fall for every man who takes me out once? Don’t you want to choose too? Are you only something to be ‘selected’ tasted and discarded??? Give yourself time to see if YOU want this man. Watch this: https://youtu.be/EbmhSkF3kss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 12:41 PM
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As long as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 12:38 PM
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Well done! Glow up ! It’s a good look!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 12:38 PM
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Hi. I used to fear singlehood after my divorce, was so desperate, so pick me, so compromising. The bad experiences and users and assholes have hardened me real good. I used to think to myself, say, no, I will keep faith, assume the best of everyone, etc. it was an excuse to allow bad behavior. The things I experienced along with this sub and focusing on myself have made me stronger. Fuck a relationship if it makes me worry about a fuck boy, or stress my heart, or ignore my responsibilities, or m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 12:26 PM
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Let his ex win. You win. He is so whiny. Block, and move on. Don’t check, don’t stalk, move on. Focus on yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 12:19 PM
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Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 10:12 PM
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Thank.You.So.Much!!!!! For this whole comment. I RELATE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:05 PM
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Well done. Happy new year. What style of makeup did you do? I love it when a professional does my makeup. I enjoy working out at home,, that’s how I lost 15 kilos and got much fitter. Enjoy your home gym, make it a fun happy habit, have your music, dress fun for yourself. I’m staying sober , celebrating calmly with my family around me. I look forward to 2020. I would love to visit NZ one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 04:19 PM
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Well done! I hope you manage your health issues successfully and that you do well with all your goals!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 05:17 PM
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The resource I want to focus on this year is TIME. 1- spend more quality time with my kids, and mother 2- maintain 40 mins cardio daily 3- sleep 8 hours/night 4- no binging 5- save (pre-determined amount) 6- take my family on a short holiday 7- grow hair and nails 8- one-in-one-out 9- finally get to my ideal weight (9 lbs to go) 10- read, write, draw, be silent otherwise 11- STAY single, celibate, and peaceful 12- stop complaining
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 05:15 PM
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YouTube Start with: Shallon Lester Winter Glow Up And enjoy, make small changes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 02:29 AM
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I enjoy my femininity in the way i like, no pressure, but I like the girly things. Try it,, see what u enjoy. Get manicures, or don’t. Do your hair, try lashes, how about some nude lipstick? Go WILD, try red ;-) or don’t. Dance, run, workout, burn a candle, get yourself flowers, or a cotton stem, or (my favorite) dried lavender. Listen to music, use Pinterest, hum to yourself. All these things make me feel feminine, wow, I really wanted to share.. Listen to wild woman music, or to industrial bea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 03:04 PM
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Happened to me a few weeks ago. I FREAKED OUT. Blocked him. I have minimal info on there, no photo, but come on.. why!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 05:50 PM
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Oh yeah! Commencing leveling up! Hard!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 05:35 PM
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Deleted all time wasters. No exceptions. Rather be alone living my peaceful life doing what makes me content, even, happy. Better than agonizing, overthinking, justifying, or being in uncomfortable situations, losing time, family time, and money over fu*kboys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 06:12 PM
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