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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
39	Still believe that women will leave for better I really want OP to answer this.	/r/ExRedPill	07/04/25 06:20 PM
23	I can't stand to even look at attractive women anymore. Okay, I think your next step should be finding a way to make connections with other people. And if you're not comfortable with girls right now just stick to guys, that's fine. What's important is that you get to know the human being beneath surface level visuals. Once you see the value in others you'll be able to see it in yourself too.	/r/ExRedPill	22/02/25 09:33 PM
17	I can't stand to even look at attractive women anymore. Yes, everyone cares what others think about them but the difference is what you consider important to care about. It wouldn't bother me if someone thought I was ugly, but I would care if someone thought I was dishonest or unkind, those things are important to me. It's going to be very hard to decenter attractiveness if you're unable to prevent yourself from judging others first. Do you have any friends or close family? How important is their attractiveness to you?	/r/ExRedPill	22/02/25 09:16 PM
2	A person with no options is NOT a better option. "Chad will treat you like shit" or some variation of that sentiment appears at least once in every thread on this sub. The implication is that someone with less options than Chad would treat women better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 09:50 PM
3	How do you think porn is actually different from (stereotypically) women reading erotica/romance novels/smut? Sounds like homophobia tbh. Yeah, women are not nearly as terrified of seeing another woman's asshole as men are seeing each other's. And thank you for actually saying you don't find other women's bodies appealing, for some reason the chromosome subs love gassing up tits and how awesome they are and get annoyed if you think they're not hot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/25 06:26 PM
4	How do you think porn is actually different from (stereotypically) women reading erotica/romance novels/smut? Why would you reserve your fetishes for people you don't trust or have long term plans with? I legitimately don't get the logic on this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/25 06:12 PM
14	I am a woman and RP makes dating men impossible for me. Well on an individual level, I think about porn almost never and I've watched a lot of it. Meanwhile, I stress about redpill/blackpill degeneracy almost daily. So personally, it has had a way bigger effect on my life. Edit: Nice, the comment then block combo. That's rich to do in an argument you started yourself...	/r/ExRedPill	12/11/24 05:40 PM
29	I am a woman and RP makes dating men impossible for me. I don't think they even compare if I'm being honest.	/r/ExRedPill	12/11/24 09:21 AM
69	I am a woman and RP makes dating men impossible for me. I feel you, as a woman who grew up on 4chan content my brain is fucked. People were (and are) so worried about kids accessing porn on the internet but this kind of stuff is way worse for your development in my opinion.	/r/ExRedPill	12/11/24 08:47 AM
9	The point of life is NOT sex Without food you will die. Not even similar.	/r/ExRedPill	26/04/24 05:49 PM
1	Most of the advice women give automatically weeds out introverted men Given the grace? Unless potential partners are teleporting into their bedrooms their odds of meeting people to date are the same as an asocial man's: 0%	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 09:13 AM
-3	Why is it misogynistic to not want to be with a woman that's had casual sex? Yeah whatever 🙄	/r/ExRedPill	19/02/24 06:43 PM
-1	Why is it misogynistic to not want to be with a woman that's had casual sex? I'm not speaking in absolutes, but a lot of people know exactly what I mean.	/r/ExRedPill	19/02/24 06:38 PM
-2	Why is it misogynistic to not want to be with a woman that's had casual sex? I feel like they should be nothng wrong with high sex rate in theory, but when you actually meet people like this they are never happy and they always have trauma.	/r/ExRedPill	19/02/24 06:18 PM
0	My Experience with Redpill Ideology as a Young Man Missing the point entirely.	/r/ExRedPill	23/03/23 06:55 PM
4	The Masculinity Crisis by Cole Hastings Why are so many men so obsessed with their own masculinity? Genuine question.	/r/ExRedPill	05/11/22 04:00 PM
34	What we men have lost. I don't really understand the whole assigning personality traits as "masculine" or "feminine". Physical differences I understand, but c'mon, confidence? Does a confident woman seem manly to you?	/r/ExRedPill	21/10/22 04:50 PM
5	Seeing redpillers describe women makes me wonder what kind of women they seek out. I would much rather be forever alone than be with a guy who settled for me and isn't actually attracted to me. Vice versa goes as well, I need to be attracted to my sexual partners. Somehow, this makes men furious. I know the reason why but that will be sending me on a tangent.	/r/ExRedPill	13/05/22 12:49 PM
-1	Are women becoming more openly contemptuous and hostile towards unattractive men in dating and social situations? Who asked? I wasn't even talking to you. Go jerk one of the homies if they're so superior to women, I don't care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 02:41 PM
1	Men's standards are too low Tell me what you’re attracted to in a man which you think would get you in hot water with men? Femboys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 02:04 PM
0	Are women becoming more openly contemptuous and hostile towards unattractive men in dating and social situations? That's a lot of stuff you pulled out of your ass. Smells like shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 01:57 PM
1	Men's standards are too low Men dont want to hear what we're attracted to. When we say, they get upset and argumentative. They're not going to appeal to the female gaze no matter what we say or do, what's the point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 01:01 PM
-3	Are women becoming more openly contemptuous and hostile towards unattractive men in dating and social situations? So you're anti patriarchy, then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 11:12 AM
1	Men's standards are too low Damn. You really have no idea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 10:34 AM
1	Men's standards are too low It's like squeezing blood from a stone to even get women to admit they generally like taller men. With the way men react to that knowledge, can you blame them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 12:39 AM
5	Are women becoming more openly contemptuous and hostile towards unattractive men in dating and social situations? Well, if you're so pro patriarchy don't weak men just need to 'man up'?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 12:32 AM
2	What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”? They all think they're gonna be the rich guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/22 10:37 PM
14	How true is the phrase 'Dick is abundant and low value' Kind of sounds like you don't want women in general to lust after penis, but rather you'd like a woman too lust after your penis. The second being much more likely. Obviously I'm generalising here, but IMO women feel attraction much more holistically. For myself, I need to be attracted to the man as a person before I'm attracted to his body. After that, it's like a switch flips on and that guy's body suddenly becomes sexually enticing. I think this difference in sexuality creates that discrepenc…	/r/ExRedPill	26/12/21 01:12 PM
2	Women, is the whole "women love dominant alpha males" thing a myth? Imagine someone with the personality traits that you want. What kind of actions would they do in situations you've been in or are in now? Try and emulate a few of those actions in your life until they become a bit more natural. Work backwards by changing the actions you make, which should hopefully change your mind.	/r/ExRedPill	14/12/21 07:16 PM
1	If “pornsick” is an actual thing wouldn’t being “alpha widowed” be real too considering they’re basically the same thing? So you managed to dig up the only study that found "something". Nice. Now where's the evidence of sexual orgasm and pleasure coming from that structure? And your second source is irrelevant. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1743609517315448 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32577788/	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/21 09:05 AM
1	If “pornsick” is an actual thing wouldn’t being “alpha widowed” be real too considering they’re basically the same thing? What don't you understand?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/21 01:35 AM
0	If “pornsick” is an actual thing wouldn’t being “alpha widowed” be real too considering they’re basically the same thing? Nice evidence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/21 11:18 PM
1	Women who think their parents will invest more money in their future children are more likely to prefer men with masculine faces The article literally isn't about how malnourished you look, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/21 09:53 PM
0	If “pornsick” is an actual thing wouldn’t being “alpha widowed” be real too considering they’re basically the same thing? None of those exist except for the clitoris which is not "kinda big on the inside". It only goes around the vagina and not inside.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/21 09:52 PM
1	If “pornsick” is an actual thing wouldn’t being “alpha widowed” be real too considering they’re basically the same thing? Very well, explain to me through which organ does the woman acheive piv orgasm?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/21 06:25 PM
1	Women who think their parents will invest more money in their future children are more likely to prefer men with masculine faces The article is about masculine faces. Masculine faces literally have different bone development.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/21 06:18 PM
1	Women who think their parents will invest more money in their future children are more likely to prefer men with masculine faces So men become more masculine when they have a better upbringing? That's a big claim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/21 05:12 PM
1	If “pornsick” is an actual thing wouldn’t being “alpha widowed” be real too considering they’re basically the same thing? You're basing this on what, exactly? Your porn fantasies?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/21 05:06 PM
2	Do men value “sexual intimacy” over all other forms of intimacy? Why are you only talking about intersexual relations when it comes to platonic friendship? If having that kind of relationship with a women upsets you then have male friends. Most people's closest friends are same-sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 11:37 PM
0	Fellow men, women don't say the truth because WE get angry when they do So what.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 05:46 PM
2	Over half of young adults are obese or overweight, study says. What might the impact be on dating etc.? Add on to 3 for women: PCOS/insulin resistance death spiral. Half these fat girls have beards and their ovaries don't work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 12:56 AM
8	Low libido is but a mere excuse for low attraction He's right. Surely you must realise that with our bodies having a completely different cocktail of sexual hormones our sex drives would work differently?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 12:49 AM
-1	She did "prior acts" with her other BFs because he was an "asshole" and if youre not an asshole its your fault "Why do they call ALL unwanted sex RAPE?? Damn feminists."	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 12:44 AM
8	She did "prior acts" with her other BFs because he was an "asshole" and if youre not an asshole its your fault Which is a bit sickening because this lady's self-hate boner has resonated with a few of the guys on here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 12:42 AM
2	Women still have an easier time finding dates/relationships (on average) in their 30s+ vs their male counterparts. Then you're already attracted, clearly the chubbiness doesn't turn you off. Also, don't forget we're talking about middle aged men here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 08:56 PM
1	Women still have an easier time finding dates/relationships (on average) in their 30s+ vs their male counterparts. Anyone getting into an LTR in the hopes that their partner will become attractive someday is a complete dumbass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 06:05 PM
2	Women still have an easier time finding dates/relationships (on average) in their 30s+ vs their male counterparts. Lol just lose the weight. That means nothing. Who cares that you CAN lose the weight if you haven't already.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 05:50 PM
2	Just how easily can a girl be put off a guy she found attractive? I get what you're saying, but at the same time these are not conscious choices, there's no logic there. They're simply feelings. Probably they do have something to do with the woman's development level. I doubt a high school girl and her 30 year old self are going to have the same responses to men. Maybe as we mature we become more tolerant of the little things, but as I said it isn't a conscious process.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/21 09:43 AM
2	Just how easily can a girl be put off a guy she found attractive? It depends what their ideal is. For some they really want a masculine guy, so anything that pops that perception will ruin her image of him. Others want a guy who's carefree and chill, maybe an artistic hipster, or a vegan hippie. For me it's maturity. Anything that makes a guy seem immature or childish will ruin him for me. For example, you're into a guy, then you find out he has literally no hobbies or interests outside of video games, or he whines about eating vegetables, or he loses his temp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/21 10:12 PM
2	Are women really chasing after guys out of their league? Cumberbatch is considered attractive by a rather large group of women to the point where he should have "gigachad" status. Yes, he's rich and famous, but most celebrity men don't get that kind of female following even though they also fit better into mainstream beauty standards. Men seem to bewildered by this, though. I simply can't trust men to know what we find attractive, they're honestly clueless. They think bodybuilders are sexy. That's why these conversations always end up with us talking …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/21 09:54 PM
-1	As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be picky We don't want every date to go well... that's missing the point. It's like complaining that you have to sell yourself in a job interview and still maybe not get hired. Most women don't want any guy, they want their guy. The right one for them. That's means saying 'no' to the majority that come by. That's how sexual selection works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/21 11:50 AM
0	Men still don't know how women decide their mate. Most women aren't having kids with bums unless they're crackheads themselves..	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/21 03:32 PM
1	Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling". I don't need to tell myself anything. Maybe you do, though. The proof is in the behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/21 09:21 PM
1	Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling". Men are alone without a woman. We are not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/21 10:56 AM
6	Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling". People cant choose their level of athleticism, personability, or income?? If you actually believe that, you are pathetic and lazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 08:28 AM
3	Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling". If they want to be in a relationship with him they should at least arouse him... obviously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 08:21 AM
13	Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling". Look at how desperate these men are in comparison to us. That alone is evidence that they have much more to gain from relationships than we do. They're like energy vampires.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 08:10 AM
1	Can having sex with very attractive people "ruin" your ability to get aroused by others? ... No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/21 06:30 PM
21	Can having sex with very attractive people "ruin" your ability to get aroused by others? I need a break from this sub.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/21 12:03 PM
10	At least in the U.S., obesity is exacerbating all the other dating and birthrate issues..... Fuck bring that shit back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/21 06:14 AM
5	Are Men Incentivizing Low Birth Rates? Because biologically speaking not having babies is next to suicide.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/21 06:16 AM
5	What's your shallowest turnoff ? I think that's past the point of being a phase and is instead a permanent preference. A cultural shift, I think. I prefer prettier guys as well and I think some of it has to do with a negative association towards masculinity and toxic personality traits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/21 11:37 PM
1	What's your shallowest turnoff ? Reaching there to shave is hard Do you not wipe yourself as well?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/21 11:30 PM
2	What's your shallowest turnoff ? Holy crap, I'm glad someone else said it. I hate when I have to humor someone once they start talking about spirits/auras/religion/miracles, etc... It's offensive to oppose someone on those topics so we're forced to patronisingly go along with it. Needless to say that if I have to coddle your beliefs like a parent having a conversation with their kid about the tooth fairy, I'm checked out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/21 11:23 PM
6	What are the ways in which women enforce Toxic Masculinity? This shouldn't suprise anyone. As with all forms of prejudice, they tend to be held by most people in some degree including those you wouldnt expect. Like African Americans mocking others for having darker skin, or women slut shaming sex workers and the like. Every member of society is indoctrinated into their culture's prevailing world view which means, yes, women can and do uphold toxic masculinity. I myself have had many arguments with my mother about what makes a man an attractive partner an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/21 08:40 PM
1	Why don’t straight women like bisexual men? You sound insecure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/21 10:12 PM
1	When is "put out or get out" appropriate? You still didn't say what she went on strike for. Sus.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/21 05:21 AM
1	Most men here find this average woman attractive and would date her, most women here do not find this average man attractive and would not date him Unfortunately things being out of your control can still be a detriment to your appearance. Breast size, hair loss, or physical deformity. You can be nice by not saying it out loud but that doesn't change reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 10:40 AM
32	Do women really have that many options ? Do you think women aren't put off knowing that you only want them because you haven't got options? We can tell if a guy just sees us as some interchangeable "female".	/r/ExRedPill	05/10/21 08:29 AM
1	Most men here find this average woman attractive and would date her, most women here do not find this average man attractive and would not date him Who said anything about blame?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 08:19 AM
5	Men complain about women getting fat after marriage, while ignoring that they do the same thing Please jerk off before posting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 01:31 AM
2	Most men here find this average woman attractive and would date her, most women here do not find this average man attractive and would not date him Woman: Nice smile, clear skin, perfectly tousled full head of hair, actually has eyelashes and eyebrows. Man: Cringing expression, rough skin with acne, where's his hair?, no eyelashes/eyebrows in sight. Plus the beard is ragged.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 01:21 AM
1	To all men in this subreddit I can just smell the 16 year old festering frustration every time you comment like this, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/21 10:13 AM
2	To all men in this subreddit I'm actually baffled that guys are here saying "being unattractive makes it harder to get laid" and acting like they've just uncovered some classified government secrets.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/21 10:11 AM
2	Fact checking FDS Ok, this one's funny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/21 10:02 AM
2	Remember gentlemen: women don’t want your used up peen What? I read your link and it said that androgenised female labia can be partially or fully fused. Not "enlarged". Anyway, labia has nothing to do with tightness if that's what you're getting at.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/21 09:58 AM
-1	Fax Pathetic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/21 09:43 AM
19	Summary of every debate on purplepilldebate Nope. One time I saw a debate on here and it wasn't like the picture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/21 09:38 AM
1	Men want / need women more than the other way around She's right tho.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 09:31 PM
2	Ladies, upon meeting a new guy, at point do you develop a sexual attraction towards him? For me it's a bit different, I can acknowledge that someone is good-looking but I won't feel the butterflies until I get to know them and their personality is my type.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/21 06:37 AM
1	Ladies, upon meeting a new guy, at point do you develop a sexual attraction towards him? I don't feel attracted to anyone on first sight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/21 06:34 AM
2	Her libido genuinely being lower than yours isn’t because “she fucked a Chad before” — “Chad” is having the same mismatched libido frustration with his LTR Yeah, he unintentionally chicken and egged here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 06:12 PM
8	Why is being considered “Husband material” better than being fwb material Doesn't everyone in this world get treated differently? A supermodel woman is going to get different treatment from men versus a 40 year old overweight auntie.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/21 03:21 PM
1	Q4W: How do you/women check guys out in public and what are the things you check out? Yea I'm a woman and if she could quit doing that I'd be glad, thanks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/21 06:07 AM
2	[Q4W]Do believe average looking women get a lot of attention? I’m thinking Precious or Melissa McCarthy type chubbiness. Chubbiness? Bruh that's obese.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/21 05:18 AM
2	[Q4W]Do believe average looking women get a lot of attention? She didn't say she was ugly she said she was a 5.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/21 05:16 AM
7	Hot story in UK: "Instagram makes teenage girls feel bad about themselves." My take is Instagram simulates for teen girls what actually happens to men in the real world. You're actually shitting on children because they aren't as 'mentally resilient' as grown adult men. Your brain must be applesauce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/21 07:20 AM
24	Women don’t like men that look YOUNGER than them If you're over 25 they really look like kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/21 04:10 PM
0	How did the genders get to this point? Sure, buddy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/21 04:07 PM
-1	How did the genders get to this point? And the women who subscribe to that FDS crap, would turn into the biggest "Pickmeishas" if a guy actually showed interest in them. So simultaneously women get attention and no men want them. Got it. Sounds like shit you made up in your head to make yourself feel better tbh. A man will change for a woman he thinks is worth it. So if all you guys come across are “LVM” it’s because there’s something about you all that isn’t worthy of “HVM” behavior. I don't use FDS terminology, but isn't self impro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/21 03:50 PM
-1	How did the genders get to this point? And the women who subscribe to that FDS crap, would turn into the biggest "Pickmeishas" if a guy actually showed interest in them. Lol, you really don't know what it's like to be woman. "If only a guy would show interest in me!" Yeah, we don't have to worry about that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/21 03:03 PM
1	I don’t get mad at woman for their nature. Men should understand the rules of the game and play to win. What I do think men are completely valid in being angry about is being misled either through ignorance or outright deception for the vast majority of their upbringing about "how women are" and seeing how incorrect it was. Isn't this a generational issue, then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/21 06:31 AM
1	Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractiveness A poor person can never have that advantage. Can an ugly guy have sex? Yes, but he also will never have that advantage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/21 07:23 AM
3	Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractiveness Why are women so much more self aware than men then? By all accounts they should be even less aware of their unnattractiveness because they dont even get rejected since they don't approach.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/21 06:48 AM
0	Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractiveness Life isn't fair and everyone knows that. You're not some super mega genius for figuring that one out. Like some people are born into wealth and can start their own business at 19 years old with a grant from mommy and daddy while studying whatever the fuck they want at Yale, tuition paid. Does that also make you want to give up any effort in financially bettering yourself?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/21 06:43 AM
0	Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractiveness You say this but it is absolutely so untrue. I have met so many men in my life who think me being nice to them means my pussy's wet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/21 06:27 AM
2	Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic? Damn, you're actually fucked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 06:19 PM
1	Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic? If you get 100s of matches, why are you even here? Also, if you were born in 97 you're still in your mid 20s. How young are these girls lmfaooo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 06:04 PM
1	Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic? What is she, your slave? LMAO.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 05:53 PM
4	Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic? Just goes to show you for these types of guys a woman's genuine sexual desire is completely optional for them to be satisfied.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 05:52 PM
1	Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic? If it's just a hookup, I don't think it's that big a deal. If it's a regular thing, that's worrisome. The power dynamic between a 37 y.o. and a 19 y.o. is heavily skewed towards the older person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 05:47 PM
1	Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic? Bottom 30% women upset they can’t get chad wither so they opt out of sex completely. So... WGTOW?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 05:41 PM
3	Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic? If you're not attracted to men then you can't tell us when men are most attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 05:34 PM
1	Men having a harder time on OLD follows from simple mathematics because of the gender imbalance. Ha ha. You lose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/21 07:30 AM
4	Almost All Love Is Conditional, Those Who Display Unconditional Love Are Rarely Respected See you're just moving goalposts now. First you want me to cite sources, and now that I have you essentially claim any source would be insufficient. So there's no point arguing with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/21 06:15 PM
4	Almost All Love Is Conditional, Those Who Display Unconditional Love Are Rarely Respected https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2003-88373-006 Yes, they do. Anecdotally just about every woman I know who's moderately attractive has been approached at least once by a married man or a man in a relationship. How often does that happen to you fellas?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/21 05:38 PM
4	Almost All Love Is Conditional, Those Who Display Unconditional Love Are Rarely Respected Men's love is less conditional and yet they cheat more. Hmm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/21 04:14 PM
1	Almost All Love Is Conditional, Those Who Display Unconditional Love Are Rarely Respected "Women are human beings" Meanwhile she's washing the skidmarks out of your undies and making sure you remember your appointments and having your children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/21 04:09 PM
23	Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference? So dumb. If short men didn't get any, then short men wouldn't exist. Yet somehow those genes are still being passed down. Hmmm.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/21 07:12 PM
1	Biology versus Cultural Conditioning. Female perception of Men showing Emotion and opening up and masculine Men. How do you expect women to take care of men's emotions when men can't even stand seeing each other cry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/21 08:21 PM
13	The name of the game is brutal, painful honesty on this prompt folks. Possibly the biggest one is the aggressive policing of masculinity by men. I was thinking about this one lately. Guys here complain about how stifling male gender roles are (don't show emotions, don't groom yourself too much, need be able to grow facial hair, grow muscles, etc...) but whenever a male figure in popular media gets popular among women guys will whip out the gay/feminine card with quickness. Think Justin Beiber, Edward Cullen, BTS, and many more. So it's a bit confusing. Don't be at…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 02:59 PM
0	Have looks standards for the early 20s and below gone WAY up Sounds like it's equalizing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/21 06:14 PM
17	People that think that creepiness is based on being ugly clearly don't have any EQ nor social skills men are far more likely to be victims of crime. Yeah... by other men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/21 03:02 PM
1	The average guy you see in an LTR is NOT getting her best and most men here know that because they've seen both sides That's not gonna happen because men view long stretches of sexlessness as on par with solitary confinement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/21 12:36 PM
7	Does this figure appear plausible to you: “The research, conducted by Jay Teachman, found that women with 16 or more sexual partners prior to marriage had an 80% rate of subsequent divorce.” I would never date a guy who was into casual sex on the regular. I think for both men and women it denotes a fetish for sex with strangers. The fact that they're strangers is what gets them off. No way someone like that could ever be satisfied by monogamy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/21 10:59 AM
–	Study: Misogynists Believe They Are Unattractive to Women Pretty much every woman has been stalked, groped, or sexually harassed at some point, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/21 10:50 AM
2	In nearly all sexual relationships and encounters, men's role is active; women's role is reactive. Wait, does that mean they're not gay??	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/21 02:46 PM
3	NYT - Why American Women Everywhere Are Delaying Motherhood Of course you would have this idealised vision of childrearing, saying it has no dollar cost, when you are not the one who actually has to do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 04:47 PM
2	What argument here has changed your mind? Tbh, it sounds like something only teenagers and mentally stunted young adults do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 03:35 PM
2	The phrase “you’re not entitled to sex” Enjoy your dead bedroom with your state-mandated gf.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 10:11 AM
2	The phrase “you’re not entitled to sex” Literally just saw a guy (xXx_FireHydrants_xXx) make a comment in here like this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 10:06 AM
2	The phrase “you’re not entitled to sex” Every time a dude on here says that incels aren't woman-haters I'll make sure to direct them to your comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 09:49 AM
0	The phrase “you’re not entitled to sex” ask yourself if these tingles are really necessary for fulfilling relationship. Yes. Yes they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 09:47 AM
17	Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what? Lots of women/girls do it not because they want to but because they think they have to to be competitive in the dating market.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 11:24 AM
1	Hypergamy, female subjugation & male sexlesness. Women used to die in childbirth, in domestic violence, and also worked hard labour that could result in injuries or death. The vast majority of people were not aristocrats.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 04:25 PM
1	Men develop theories and rules about women’s behavior because that’s the way men understand social situations. It is. Checkmate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 01:30 PM
2	Men develop theories and rules about women’s behavior because that’s the way men understand social situations. Yes, "we" understand that. Problem is, in order to do change systems we have to attribute responsibility to actual human persons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 11:53 AM
3	Men develop theories and rules about women’s behavior because that’s the way men understand social situations. The human brain is the most complex system we've discovered yet. Your assertion is so hilariously off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 11:47 AM
3	Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy? They're hypermasculine. Men seem to think more testosterone -> more attractive, when actually most women have a subjective upper limit where it starts getting uncomfortable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/21 11:12 AM
2	Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy? 2 out of 3 Americans are overweight, so the average there is definitely not healthy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/21 10:58 AM
1	Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy? I'd literally rather be single for the rest of my life than have the first two guys lying on top of me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/21 10:54 AM
5	The argument isn't about "Nice Guys", the argument is about whether or not decent men are getting laid. Every woman on this sub says that physical attraction matters again and again every time this subject is brought up. Who is lying to you? This nonsense about looks not mattering sounds like broscience men invented and told each other to buff themselves up. Maybe looks didn't matter in the past when women needed to get married for a paycheck, but that cultural norm is definitely backfiring now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/21 12:07 AM
0	The argument isn't about "Nice Guys", the argument is about whether or not decent men are getting laid. You honestly thought that when people talk about personality traits they want it meant that they don't care about physical attraction?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/21 12:01 AM
5	CMV Social media and dating apps have skyrocketed womens SMV - Hollywood celebrities, billionaires, athletes have open access to pretty much all attractive slim women in their 20's So men would turn down a top 1% hot woman if given a chance?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/21 01:01 PM
1	CMV: Unattractive men are already socially relegated to mostly/all male social circles, further inhibiting their sexual behavior Do you realise there are a lot of things that are creepy not because they have anything to do with flirtation? Like someone knowing about your family without you telling them, or sitting next to you in an empty carriage, or staring at you relentlessly from across a room.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/21 02:12 PM
3	CMV: Unattractive men are already socially relegated to mostly/all male social circles, further inhibiting their sexual behavior Yeah? Don't stare at people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/21 01:51 PM
1	CMV: Unattractive men are already socially relegated to mostly/all male social circles, further inhibiting their sexual behavior Yeah? Don't stare at people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/21 01:51 PM
4	CMV: Unattractive men are already socially relegated to mostly/all male social circles, further inhibiting their sexual behavior Only if they persist after the woman shows disinterest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/21 01:46 PM
1	How sex surrogates are helping injured Israeli soldiers Btw women molest children more than men statistically That's a blatant lie.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/21 08:08 AM
5	As a man with low libido, my dating experience is way better than a normal man's. When you call someone an incel you are not insulting their virginity, otherwise people would just say virgin. It's more of a term to mean a specific kind of misogynist who is fueled by resentment. I've seen people using the term on guys who are clearly not virgins.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/21 02:33 PM
7	The genders live different realities (socially) and no middle ground can be found Most rapists aren't reported either because the perpetrator is a family member, in a position of power and well liked, or the situation is too unbelievable, or there is no evidence, or the victim is a child. Rape is difficult to get justice for in real life too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 07:07 AM
0	If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazy Again you're making it about you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 08:53 PM
1	If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazy Like I said, a lot of people don't have that kind of detachment. You aren't one of them. People think they can have strings-free sex and only to discover they feel hurt after they do. Most humans aren't perfect logical beings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 04:39 PM
3	Attractiveness Has Nothing To Do With Love; Only Lust They said love can't exist without sex full stop.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 04:35 PM
1	If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazy Sex is intimate. Intimacy creates bonding. Bonding causes hurt feelings. So just having sex because you want it doesn't necessarily stop the feeling of being "dumped". A lot of people don't have that kind of detachment. I can't believe I have to explain this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 04:23 PM
2	Attractiveness Has Nothing To Do With Love; Only Lust Well I love my family members but I don't have sex with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 04:16 PM
1	if you're an unattractive man, you shouldn't wonder why an app that lets you choose a partner based almost purely on appearance gets you no success. Please tell me you're not talking about 3 men for every 2 women China.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 12:54 PM
8	Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable? Your comment is unintentionally hilarious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/21 03:05 AM
1	There is no gender strategy and people should just work on themselves & understand their value. Women and men have different methods of reproduction, thus they require different strategies to acheive maximum genetic success. This is obvious. Every sexuallly dimorphic animal has distinct courtship behaviours between male and female.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/21 02:02 AM
0	CMV: Men should put effort into dates because they want to meet women more than women want to meet them You wouldn't, which is why OP has a good strategy for weeding out people like you who aren't interested in LTRs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/21 11:33 PM
2	CMV: it isn't that every woman is attracted to Dark Triad behaviors, but, for those who are, it is the best way to get positive expressions of sexual interest, causing these women to be overrepresented in discussions about male sexual strategy Yes, there are some very popular male celebrities that do not fit the bad boy stereotype. They're also rich and famous, though, so they have power without having to be an asshole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/21 12:30 PM
2	Why do sexual fantasies seem to deeply follow gender norms? Having briefly looked at femdom vids they seem mainly unappealing to me because while the man is being touched, teased, played with, etc... the woman is getting no physical pleasure at all save for a teensy bit of oral that hardly lasts a brief moment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 07:55 PM
2	Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options? I would argue that guys like these don't "snap". Usually they start throwing temper tantrums and escalate abuse with their partners and other women starting from verbal until finally they get physically violent with somebody. You just don't hear anything about them until they really lose it and get caught.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 01:11 AM
3	Q4Men: Are you satisfied/content with your nonsexual interactions with women? Because we have to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/20 09:29 PM
73	The “”friend zone”” So I guess this guy has sex with all his male friends, huh?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 11:43 AM
2	For Those Who Think Women "Should Care About Men's Dating Struggles", What Would That Look Like? What you described there isn't an example of being friendzoned, though. That's just ghosting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/20 09:30 PM
1	Nothing but facts I honestly think the polyamory trend is just beginning and is still on the rise in mainstream culture. It'll get worse from here, I predict.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/20 04:21 PM
1	Women are better off without men & most women don’t understand male nature. I agree with your main post but I have to disagree here and say that beauty is earned and it is not random at all. It's 2020, everything about you down to the bone can be modified by yourself or by a professional. Being ugly isn't genetics anymore, it just means you're poor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/20 03:48 PM
0	Online Dating has Changed Approaching and Women's Standards "in Real Life" you're going to be more prominent in her mind than any of them and have a chance for charm to make up for appearance. Exactly. But meeting someone IRL you're not giving them a chance to compare you to every guy in an x mile radius. Even if she uses old she's not going to be able to bring up a mental database of guys on there. In the moment, you're mostly going to recieve a smap judgement on your own merits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/20 04:42 PM
1	It's not just women or just men; no one loves unconditionally I really doubt it was just dishes and not you being a lazy slob in general.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 01:39 AM
3	Mainstream deeming men with limited earning prospects "ineligible for marriage" or "unmarriageable" demonstrates that women seek to cast aside their own traditional gender roles while continuing to impose them on men. "Unilateral imprisonment". MGTOW followers whinge so loudly and obnoxiously it almost seems as though they're begging for someone to come and rescue them from their own self determined path. Nobody cares if you're voluntarily celibate or the neighbourhood dildo except for yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 01:21 AM
1	Q4All: How true is the idea that women give “bad” advice to their male Friends/family members? You can buy therapy, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/20 10:00 PM
7	Women create "nice guys". Saving this because you're so fucking right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/20 01:59 PM
1	If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed? This take makes no sense. You might as well try for something better even if you fail in the end. Why skip to the beta male at the beginning?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/20 05:28 PM
2	I miss physical intimacy so much that I cry over it. How do you all handle going without it? Having never had sex before this post made me feel kind of sad for myself.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/07/20 01:15 PM
1	Providing for a man is not “empowering,” it’s thankless There's a difference between being supportive of a man in growth mode and providing for him 100% while he "achieves his dreams." How can you know the difference without seeing things in hindsight?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/06/20 12:07 AM
5	There's no need to over explain or reiterate your boundaries. They heard you the first time. It's called projection. People who see liars everywhere tend to be... you guessed it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/06/20 05:52 PM
5	Men aren’t angry because they realized women want Chad. They’re angry because they realized they aren’t Chad. On average women put much more effort into their appearances causing a pendulum shift of attractiveness in their direction. A lot of men are uglier than they should be because they believe that Chads are just effortlessly flawless and thus they themselves should be accepted au naturel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 12:36 AM