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| 3 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingAgreed. There comes a point when you just have to go out and take your lumps. Nightclubs are actually good practice for this, but you have to be able to "cold start" a conversation with someone, or ask them to dance, and that's not always easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 11:27 PM |
| 11 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingDon't buy into the hypergamous hype. I live in Dallas, and for every dude driving a BMW or Corvette, there's 10 driving a beat up Corolla or a turn of the century pickup truck. The bar isn't as high as you think. Successful people might flock to big cities, but that doesn't mean big cities are full of successful people. There are financial opportunities here, but the vast majority of people don't have the keys to access them. Women know that. Your supply of paycheck-to-paycheck women is also a l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingThanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingThanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 08:14 PM |
| 6 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingYou have to go where people in your stage of life are. That’s pretty simple when you’re still in high school, since everyone there is pretty much in the same stage. After that, college helps, if you pick the right one. After college, you’ve got to work harder and do more research…..mix online dating with nightclubs, meet-ups, church, health clubs, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 07:10 PM |
| 33 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingMy 3 pieces of advice as an older guy….. 1) Go to college. If you can’t score in todays 3-2 women to men universities, you’ve got issues. 2) When you get out of college, move to a city or metroplex with at LEAST a million people. Both your career and social life, will thank you. 3) Research and make use of the nightclubs in your city. Women in nightclubs actually WANT to be approached, especially on weekend evenings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 06:32 PM |
| – | Question for Women - Are the Majority of Men too ugly to date or hook up with?Nobody is denying that there are variations in individual attraction, but playing in an arena where both the odds (male/female ratio) are against you, and the referees and dungeon masters (algorithm, membership level, etc) are often against you as well, doesn't help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 11:06 PM |
| – | Question for Women - Are the Majority of Men too ugly to date or hook up with?Admittedly, we are a sweat pants, tank top and flip flops culture, and that's not even counting what you see at Walmart. It seems "pajama pants" have taken over too. "You look like you just got out of bed" used to be statement regarding hair....now it's clothes too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 08:50 PM |
| – | Question for Women - Are the Majority of Men too ugly to date or hook up with?These guys don't seem to realize that more often than not, it's the MATH that's "defeating" them, not the preferences of the women. Tinder is 4 to 1 men to women in the US, and a staggering 9 to 1 in the UK. Even if there were no such things as "Chads" and all men were equally attractive to women, most are going to lose out, due to the math. Then they swipe right on everything with a pulse and vagina, which pretty much ensures that most women are going to get all the matches they can handle, bef… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 08:40 PM |
| – | I think progressive capitalism is ruining society and making finding partner harder for men and womenI agree, the "voluntary matrix" is gradually sucking everyone up into it, and nobody seems too concerned about it. Everyone is spending more and more time online now, and more and more of life's activities have been moved online. At least with us Gen-Xrs and older Millennials, we grew up before the internet, so our "base reality" is still the "physical world". It's the younger Millennials and Gen-Zrs that I worry about, as their "base reality" is much more likely to be the net. Your base reality… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 09:28 PM |
| – | male and female attraction are fundamentally different and that’s why things like dating apps flat out don’t workNo worries....You too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 09:02 PM |
| – | male and female attraction are fundamentally different and that’s why things like dating apps flat out don’t workI think it’s part of the whole “Women want bad boys and quickly get bored with good guys” mentality that’s going around these days. Some guys try to carry it over to the bedroom, and porn definitely doesn’t help. Old fashioned “touchy feely” porn may not have promoted the best bedroom skills, but at least it didn’t promote violence and abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 08:53 PM |
| 2 | male and female attraction are fundamentally different and that’s why things like dating apps flat out don’t workYeah, I even did a whole post several months ago, on the topic of men's bad behavior, both online and in the "real world", turning women off, and making things a LOT harder for other men who behave reasonably well. Lots of women agreed with me, but most guys said, "It's not my business how other men behave" or "Those women are exaggerating the hassles and dangers". https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/xvrto6/when\_it\_comes\_to\_mens\_fortunes\_in\_datingthe\_few/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 09:18 PM |
| 4 | male and female attraction are fundamentally different and that’s why things like dating apps flat out don’t workI’ve been trying to tell these dudes, that many of their dating issues are caused by the behavior of other men, but nobody ever believes me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 12:57 AM |
| 1 | male and female attraction are fundamentally different and that’s why things like dating apps flat out don’t workSure, but it's still another selling point for clubs vs apps. Less of chance for her to get "post-estrus clarity", and decide you're not the one! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 10:40 PM |
| 12 | male and female attraction are fundamentally different and that’s why things like dating apps flat out don’t workResearch companies have various ways of "scraping" the data now.... https://www.netimperative.com/2019/04/05/online-dating-trends-men-outnumber-women-on-tinder-by-9-to-1-while-grinder-wins-for-age-diversity/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 10:18 PM |
| 4 | male and female attraction are fundamentally different and that’s why things like dating apps flat out don’t workWell, that FULLY explains why my stripper act where I dress like the guy behind the counter at Burger King didn't do so well! Even shouting "Have it your way!" didn't help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 10:12 PM |
| 5 | male and female attraction are fundamentally different and that’s why things like dating apps flat out don’t workManaging a matchmaking service is a pain in the ass, since you're basically "stuck" to your clients, and are responsible for everyone. Everyone complains about everyone else, without taking a good look at themselves. If I were doing it as a business, I'd rather do one-shot things like speed dating, or some other meet-up thing. You just get a venue, load it up with people and snacks, do speed dating or some other rotational activity, and then just let everyone go when it's done. Nobody can blame … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 10:00 PM |
| 1 | male and female attraction are fundamentally different and that’s why things like dating apps flat out don’t workIt's not just a matter of preferences, but some women's sex drive in general, can vary greatly, during the month. It's a weird thing for us men to wrap our heads around, since our "cycles" are daily, rather than monthly. It's not that unusual for a girl to swipe left on dudes for weeks, than go to a bar, and chat up a dude who looks like a potato, during "that week" of the month. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 09:49 PM |
| 6 | male and female attraction are fundamentally different and that’s why things like dating apps flat out don’t workYep. I can't really blame some dudes for just plain being unattractive, but I can blame all the dudes that aren't "staying in their lane", ie., the MUCH older guys trying to pull college girls, the "married but looking" dudes, 300 lb dudes looking for 110 lb fitness models, scammers, intentionally bitter trolls who just want to "take women down a peg", etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 09:35 PM |
| 7 | male and female attraction are fundamentally different and that’s why things like dating apps flat out don’t workLOL....sounds like yet another example of men ruining dating for other men. If a woman encounters 10 creepy dudes in a row, you can't really expect her to be as enthusiastic, as she otherwise would have been, for the 11th! :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 06:23 PM |
| 9 | male and female attraction are fundamentally different and that’s why things like dating apps flat out don’t workI don't know what generation you are, but I think we Gen-Xrs just got "spoiled" by the nightclub environment. We're just used to things happening so much faster, being more exciting, and getting a full assessment of someone in person. As a man, the whole process of creating a reasonably competitive profile, engaging in dull, sober (LOL) conversations, getting ghosted, waiting for the right time to meet in person, etc, just sounds like torture LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 05:36 PM |
| 6 | male and female attraction are fundamentally different and that’s why things like dating apps flat out don’t workAs a bit of a "nightclub veteran", I admit that they've never really been easy for men, but I think they provide opportunities for men that get "drowned out" on the apps. I can usually "clean myself up", go to a Dallas nightclub on a Friday night, and turn a few heads, and often make a connection or two, while at 5'8", I get about as much attention on dating apps, as a Honda Civic sitting in a Corvette lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 05:24 PM |
| 5 | male and female attraction are fundamentally different and that’s why things like dating apps flat out don’t workI'm also a Thomas Hobbes fan. He had it right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 04:43 PM |
| 3 | male and female attraction are fundamentally different and that’s why things like dating apps flat out don’t workLMAO....as a man, I find that to be an incredibly depressing view of things! 🤣 Still, men's and women's "love languages" do differ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 04:39 PM |
| 19 | male and female attraction are fundamentally different and that’s why things like dating apps flat out don’t workI think a lot of guys still view the dating apps as "neutral" environments, when they're really not. Match Group gets 85% of it's revenue from membership fees, not ads, which means they don't make money, unless people PAY. The algorithms greatly disadvantage free riders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 04:26 PM |
| – | male and female attraction are fundamentally different and that’s why things like dating apps flat out don’t workEven disregarding any neurodivergence, this sub, like many places on the net, is always going to be heavily weighted towards introverts. The internet in general, is always a flawed microcosm of society, for this reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 03:51 PM |
| 65 | male and female attraction are fundamentally different and that’s why things like dating apps flat out don’t workWomen have been leaving the dating apps in droves during the past 5-10 years, but the effect is just now being noticed. Europe always seems to be a little ahead of the US in social trends, and right now, Tinder is down to a dismal 9 to 1 men/women ratio in the UK. With those odds, you might as well look for women in a men's locker room! Capitalism causes problems, but it also eventually solves them, if given enough time and demand. I think in-person services like speed dating, and "just lunch" m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 03:43 PM |
| 4 | Women generally want men desired by other womenHollywood plays a HUGE role here, in controlling people's attitudes. When was the last time you watched a movie with an Asian male lead, that wasn't a kung fu film? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 09:26 PM |
| 16 | Women generally want men desired by other womenI have had more than one woman tell me, that women usually agree on which men rate as 1-3, but they start to diverge as to who is a 4-7, and there is wide disagreement, as to who is an 8-10. In other words, women widely agree on who is ugly, but they widely disagree, on who is handsome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 09:12 PM |
| 10 | Women generally want men desired by other womenI think a lot of the things which make someone attractive, are NOT necessarily sexually dimorphic traits. Things like good skin, nice eyes, good hair, good posture, reasonable body weight, reasonable proportions, decent fashion sense, etc. I know the "It's over for me, because I don't have Chad's shoulder width" crowd, will disagree, but I'll stand by that statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 08:57 PM |
| 7 | Debates without numbers are pretty pointlessThe only "numbers" that ever seem to get referenced often here, are those from the tired old OK Cupid survey, that happened.....what....15 years ago? Those women weren't rating men, they were rating PHOTOS of men, during the peak of the "Bathroom mirror selfie and dude holding a fish" era, well before guys even gave ANY thought to their photos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Are women actually attracted to toxic men?She was actually a couple years older than me at the time. I was just out of college and 23, she was around 25, if I remember right. It's been a couple decades since then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 02:13 PM |
| 6 | Are women actually attracted to toxic men?A lot of it will depend on how well, he maintains his boundaries. You can be a "sweet guy', but still maintain strong boundaries.....say "NO" to her now and then. A lot of men, start out as strong bachelors, but becomes hopeless simps after marriage. You can't be afraid to lose her.....at ANY time. It's like negotiating for a new car.....no matter how much you might love that car, you have to be prepared to walk off the car lot, if you don't like the deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 08:14 PM |
| 5 | Are women actually attracted to toxic men?I think the terms "toxic guy" and "bad boy" can vary considerably in their definition, depending on the setting, the guy's actual behavior, and the woman's prior experiences. Sometimes, just setting strong boundaries, and sticking to them, will give you a "bad boy" image for some women. When I first moved to Dallas out of college to get my first "professional" job, I met a woman in a nightclub, and we sort of had an FWB relationship for about a year and a half. Back then, I was more concerned ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Pleasing a man sexually as a woman is so much easier than pleasing a woman sexually as a manLmao….I wish! 🤣 thanks for the shout out! When I got out of college, and moved to Dallas for my first “professional” job, I had an affair with an older woman I met in a club. She taught me a LOT about women’s preferences. It was “find the clit now…..or else!” 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 02:26 AM |
| 13 | Pleasing a man sexually as a woman is so much easier than pleasing a woman sexually as a manIf you really want to please a woman, try taking intercourse OFF the menu for an evening. Limit the activities to those involving fingers and tongues. You might find yourself connecting in a whole different way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 04:09 PM |
| 2 | CMV Women rating 80% of men as unattractive just proves women find different things attractiveI've been telling these dudes the same thing. The women rated PHOTOS of men, not the men themselves. I've always had a pretty reasonable amount of success, meeting women in night clubs. I can put in a couple of hours of work in the gym each week, put on some decent clothes, and cologne, and go turn women's heads in Dallas nightclubs on most weekend nights. Of course, being good at starting conversations helps. But I absolutely can't take a good photo of myself, to save my life. I can guarantee t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 11:41 PM |
| 5 | CMV Women rating 80% of men as unattractive just proves women find different things attractiveThe piece you're missing, is that women's preferences CHANGE, based on their experiences. They undergo "Boyfriend oscillation", alternating between one type of man, and another, as a result of bad experiences. I've been told by two different women, without any solicitation on my part, that the thing they most loved about me, is that "absolutely nothing about me reminded them of their ex". Now, I don't know if their exes were "Chads" or "non-Chads", but obviously, they wanted something different,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 08:02 PM |
| – | Q4W: is ignorance bliss for women?Yeah, the inexperienced haven’t yet learned that there is a lot of nuance to sex. It’s not just “tab A in slot B“. People attitudes, hang ups and fears can make or break the experience, and the added pressure of trying to “make it work” after marriage, doesn’t help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 03:19 PM |
| – | Q4W: is ignorance bliss for women?I think he’s implying that women are more likely to be satisfied with their BF’s and husbands, if they don’t know that there are better lovers “out there” 😂🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 03:02 PM |
| – | Q4W: is ignorance bliss for women?I agree with your mom. I can’t think of anything more risky, more filled with uncertainty, and more set up for failure, than marrying someone without determining if you’re sexually compatible first. I’ve never understood the obsession with virgin women on this sub. Seems like a risky venture to plan a life with a woman who has never had sex, and may not even like it…..or may not like it with that specific guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 02:47 PM |
| 2 | CMV : women genuinely want attention and affection from their man, and attention and affection genuinely causes attraction towards that man to dropYep, that’s why attraction stays strong when you’re dating, but tends to wane when you’re married or living together. You spend an appropriate amount of time together, while still having your own space. It gives you a chance to miss and long for your partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 12:33 AM |
| 6 | CMV : women genuinely want attention and affection from their man, and attention and affection genuinely causes attraction towards that man to dropSo she can’t speak for all women, but YOU can? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 12:30 AM |
| 1 | The way the manosphere express their preferences is far more problematic than the preferences themselvesYou're free to put out whatever message you want, but there will always be men who want to have sex, and don't want to get married, as well as guys like me, who were married once, and have no intentions of ever doing so again, but still enjoy having sex, to counter your message. It's not a matter of whether you can personally get away with shaming anybody, it's a matter of whether it's going to have any effect, when the guy right next to you, and the guy on the other side of you, is saying somet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 09:20 PM |
| 1 | The way the manosphere express their preferences is far more problematic than the preferences themselvesWouldn't you avoid someone who is apt to shame you for something? Especially if it's a vaguely hypocritical double standard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 07:54 PM |
| 0 | The way the manosphere express their preferences is far more problematic than the preferences themselvesCurious, would you consider trying if you had a desktop vaporizer? This eliminates most of the issues with smoke (e.g. tar and various particulate) as well as greatly reducing the smell. Probably not....Perhaps I just have a "recreational substance bias", but that's fine.....there are people who don't like alcohol as well, but they aren't trying to get me to stop drinking, so I'm happy to return the favor for weed and tobacco smokers, as long as there are no 2nd hand smoke issues. I've tried a f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 07:51 PM |
| 0 | The way the manosphere express their preferences is far more problematic than the preferences themselvesThe "Men should be experienced....women shouldn't" double standard doesn't fly anymore. For one thing, the math simply isn't mathing. Women will simply avoid men who think this way.....as they should. For another thing, shaming isn't effective, except in the most rural, podunksville environments, where everybody shops at the same store, goes to the same restaurants and bars, and shows up hung over to the same church on Sunday morning. In an urban environment, these things aren't even factors, pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 07:28 PM |
| 3 | The way the manosphere express their preferences is far more problematic than the preferences themselvesWho gets to decide where this "equilibrium" resides? As a divorced man, I enjoy sex outside of marriage.....I'm certainly not going to get married again! As such, I'm certainly not going to shame women who enjoy it. I enjoy alcohol and gambling. I choose not to smoke weed for personal preferences, ie, I don't like the smell, and I'm not comfortable with inhaling any foreign substances into my lungs, but I'm not going to keep others from doing it, as long as 2nd hand smoke is regulated. Do you th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 07:09 PM |
| 9 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.Don't let these guys get to you. I'm a divorced Gen-Xr, and my attitudes towards women are WAY healthier than some of the guys here, some of whom have never even had a date, or kissed a girl. I can understand having bad attitudes toward the opposite sex, if actual experiences have given you reason to feel that way, but some of these young men are turning into members of "the He-Man Woman Haters Club", before they've ever had a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 09:54 PM |
| 3 | CMV: TRP romanticizes men and demonizes womenI think what she is trying to say, is that we are all changed, by the people we date. We all learn from our experiences. Someone who has had bad experiences with the opposite sex, is going to approach the opposite sex very differently, than someone whose experiences have largely been positive. Men and women constantly shape and mold each other. Nobody's attitudes towards the opposite sex, are the same by their mid 20's, as what they were in high school. TRP never accounts for people growing, cha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 05:36 PM |
| 11 | CMV: TRP romanticizes men and demonizes womenFeelings change over time. I certainly loved my wife, when we first got married. Over time, we drifted apart. By the time we divorced, I no longer loved her, although I still wished her the best, as she did me. That doesn't change the fact, that I loved her at one time. There is a REAL danger on this sub, with people who have NEVER experienced the realities of marriage, trying to impose their own interpretation upon it. If you have never been married, then you have NO IDEA of the sacrifices, com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Women still need men, maybe more than ever, but not in the same wayWomen aren’t stupid. If they get pumped and dumped, they generally look for something different next time. “Boyfriend oscillation” is a real thing, I even did a recent post on it, and the women’s answers were surprising. Ultimately, we ALL settle. Nobody gets their perfect mate, no matter what romcoms and Disney sitcoms tell you. We all have memories of the one that got away, and there’s no hard evidence that women are any more “haunted” by them, then we men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 03:22 PM |
| 12 | Women still need men, maybe more than ever, but not in the same wayThese dudes assume every woman has Chris Hemsworth, Elon Musk and Keith Urban on speed dial. You mean....you don't??? 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 11:33 PM |
| 4 | Women still need men, maybe more than ever, but not in the same wayI can vouch for the fact that meeting women is a LOT easier after age 40....as long as you're OK with women your own age. Competing for the much younger ones, is of course, going to be more difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 11:26 PM |
| 39 | Women still need men, maybe more than ever, but not in the same wayI used to frequent a political discussion board, where many battles occurred between Democrats and Republicans, and conservatives and liberals. One of my buddies there is a black man, who once said something to me, that really got me, as a white guy, thinking......he said..... "The Republican party absolutely excels at getting poor white people, to vote for things that only benefit rich white people!" The more I think about it, the more I think he might be right! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 11:15 PM |
| 6 | I believe that women have it easier than men in many waysMeh, I can spend 2-3 hours a week in the gym, and get a decent body, it's not that intensive, unless you're looking to get to "beach model" level. Far and way, the biggest mistake most men make, is just not eating enough protein. People talk about the 0.75-1 gram of protein per lb of bodyweight rule now and then, but most people just don't realize how much protein that actually is, on a daily basis. Your body can't break the laws of physics, it needs something to work with. Stick to your routine… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherThis is probably going to sound a bit funny, but sometimes I think it honestly comes down to whether somebody reminds you of your siblings or not. Blonde cheerleader types always reminded me of my sisters, and reminding someone of their siblings, is NEVER sexy! LOL 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 07:10 PM |
| 8 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherMy old wingman and I used to joke that we were the two least likely men in the world, to ever fight over a woman, because our tastes were so different. I like curvy, somewhat petite brunettes, and he likes skinny blondes, that to me, looked like they had just escaped from a prison camp with a serious food shortage! I just can't into a woman that looks like she's all elbows, knees and ribs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 06:41 PM |
| 13 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherI have heard it said by more than one woman on this sub, that women are largely in agreement on which men are 1-3, but they start to diverge on who is a 4-6, and they tend to widely disagree on who is a 7-10. So women are largely in agreement on who is ugly, but tend to disagree on who is fine LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherI would say Schumer was a solid 5 at her peak, but that was a few years ago. Here she is at what I would call her peak, during her first major comedy special..... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H7igsMQ-Dts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Since we live in artificial times why don't we implement artificial solutions? Make a dating app which allows women 50 swipes per day while men are only allowed 1 swipe per day.As a guy with a pretty good face, but who is only 5'8", I'm one of those dudes who gets completely drowned out on the apps. I was even getting drowned out on the old laptop dating apps back in the 2000's, before things became as bad as they are now. Yet somehow I tend to do much better in clubs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Since we live in artificial times why don't we implement artificial solutions? Make a dating app which allows women 50 swipes per day while men are only allowed 1 swipe per day.You're probably right about some of these guys, but others may simply be down on themselves, from so many negative experiences on the dating apps. The apps can be soul crushing, for dudes that have never tried any other way to meet women, and have never had any luck in high school or college. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 07:54 PM |
| 4 | Since we live in artificial times why don't we implement artificial solutions? Make a dating app which allows women 50 swipes per day while men are only allowed 1 swipe per day.Well I’m my case, I met my ex-wife as a friend of a bar girl, but she wasn’t really a bar girl herself. Of course, we still wound up divorcing, so that’s probably not a great endorsement. Keeping a woman happy in the long term, requires an entirely different set of skills, than finding and charming one. Ask one of the guys here that are still married! LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 07:20 PM |
| 4 | Has anyone else noticed a lack of "mixed gatherings" post Me too?LOL...there are definitely some things that I can only eat when I'm drunk. Come to think of it, seemed like everybody I was introduced to, was either an alcoholic or 300 lbs! :))) If the South is known for unhealthy lifestyles, then New Orleans is the worst! lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone else noticed a lack of "mixed gatherings" post Me too?LOL...I dated a woman that grew up in a suburb of New Orleans, and we went there to visit and party with some of her friends and relatives. We drank lots of hurricanes, and ate tons of raw oysters and soft shell crabs with their legs sticking out of the batter LOL Apparently we sang karaoke too, although I don't remember it. We slept on a water bed at her ex-mother-in-law's house (I know....weird), but we didn't have any fun on the bed, as we were too drunk in the evening and too hung over the n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone else noticed a lack of "mixed gatherings" post Me too?Yeah, I've dated a few Texas Latinas, and they all love to go out and drink. One difference I've noted between Latinas and Anglo women, is that Latinas like to drink beer, whole Anglo women are more into wine and mixed drinks. I had an ex that could empty a longneck in about 2 minutes! She could drink me under the table, even though I had about 60 lbs on her! 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 06:28 PM |
| 4 | Has anyone else noticed a lack of "mixed gatherings" post Me too?It’s going to take a while longer for things to return to normal. I can’t speak for other cities, but here in Dallas, bars and nightclubs were among the hardest hit by COVID. Many had to shut down, and haven’t reopened. Entertainment venues like movie theaters, bowling alleys, arcades, etc were hit hard too. People complain about a lack of venues, but for every venue, somebody has to put a lot of money on the line, and take a big risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 06:14 PM |
| 29 | Since we live in artificial times why don't we implement artificial solutions? Make a dating app which allows women 50 swipes per day while men are only allowed 1 swipe per day.Save your breath, I’ve been telling these dudes that for over 2 years now. I can go to any decent size club in Dallas on Fri/Sat night, and get significantly better odds. These guys keep returning to the desert, and then complaining there’s no water! Multiply the 4 to 1 Tinder ratio by the mass right swiping the guys do, and every women is going to get swamped, while the guys are going to feel like there’s nobody out there. They’re fighting math, before they ever get to a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 05:46 PM |
| 5 | CMV: As long as men refuse to call out other men, male issues will never be taken seriously.The whole "Choose better" thing, isn't as simple as people make it out to be. When you're just dating, you pretty much only see each other at your best. You generally don't see each other at your worst. You don't burden each other with your day-to-day problems, and you don't really see how your partner handles those problems. When you're dating someone, you're not really dating them, you're dating their "representative". When you're married, it's a whole different ballgame. You see each other un… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 09:34 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The fact that Red Pillers still want their daughters to be educated girlbosses is hypocriticalJust stop with the "White Sharia" BS. I spent 2 years battling alt-righters on the Federalist boards, I'm not going to convert now LOL. There are better solutions out there, and as another poster said, many Muslim nations are experiencing the same drops. If anything, Muslim nations are becoming more liberalized. Saudi Arabia is one one of the most OPPRESIVE nations on the face of the earth, but guess what? Not only can women drive there now, they are also becoming Uber drivers. They are also try… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 07:00 PM |
| 10 | CMV: The fact that Red Pillers still want their daughters to be educated girlbosses is hypocriticalWe’re still in the process of throwing off the chains of Christian fundamentalism. We’re not going to replace them with the chains of Muslim fundamentalism. Posts like yours, make me a lot more sympathetic to feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 06:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The fact that Red Pillers still want their daughters to be educated girlbosses is hypocriticalYeah, I’m going to pass on removing any rights from my daughter, my nieces, or any other women. Unlike you, I have great optimism, in our ability to solve any birthrate issues that come up, and even if we didn’t, it’s not worth sacrificing basic equality and human rights for. Also, who said I wouldn’t allow my daughter to come back home for ANY reason? She and her kids will always be welcome with me. That doesn’t preclude a good career. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 06:38 PM |
| 5 | CMV: The fact that Red Pillers still want their daughters to be educated girlbosses is hypocriticalIdeally, a woman should go back to work from time to time in a marriage, just to keep her skills and resume fresh. I've got a few years before my daughter is going to college, but I hope she chooses a field that can be left and re-entered, relatively easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 04:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The fact that Red Pillers still want their daughters to be educated girlbosses is hypocriticalLOL Burn! If this were a sitcom filmed in front of a studio audience, everyone would be going "oooooooooooo!!!" 😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 04:50 PM |
| 62 | CMV: The fact that Red Pillers still want their daughters to be educated girlbosses is hypocriticalI'm sure I'll get the "white knight" and "feminist dad" downvotes, but as a purple-pilled father of a daughter, I have to agree. I want my daughter to be secure in her career and education, and have a sound financial backup plan, just in case things don't work out in a marriage. And since 50% of marriages don't work out, I think that's a good philosophy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 04:08 PM |
| 9 | Are men far more accepting to neurodivergence than women when it comes to dating?I think the threshold is going to be highest at the beginning of a relationship, during the approach and charm stage, because that's when women are most on their guard, and at their most skeptical. It really doesn't take much during the approach phase, to turn a woman off. At that stage, women are looking for flaws. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 04:24 AM |
| 4 | Are men far more accepting to neurodivergence than women when it comes to dating?It could....it may depend on the type of neuro-divergency, and how emotionally needy and insecure her male partner might be. Some men require a lot of reinforcement and ego stroking, while others don't expect that much from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 04:18 AM |
| 14 | Are men far more accepting to neurodivergence than women when it comes to dating?Emotional labor is something that is usually expected after the relationship is established though. At least women are in a better position to get a relationship started. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 03:59 AM |
| 78 | Are men far more accepting to neurodivergence than women when it comes to dating?This is definitely an underrated comment. Anything that impacts social skills, is going to have much more of an effect on men, than women, due to the expectation that men will the ones to approach and charm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 02:33 AM |
| 2 | do you think men interested in men’s rights and protections will ever form a cohesive movement?Oh it's definitely a combination of things. We also need waaay more male teachers in the early grades, to serve as role models, especially for boys with absent fathers. We need to quit "glamourizing" teachers of the higher grades, and remember that kids are forever "lost" or "found" in grades 1-3. Grade school teachers should be paid MORE. I was just making the point that girls tend to enter grade school, already "pre-disciplined", while boys often don't. You've got to break a wild horse, before… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 08:29 PM |
| 1 | do you think men interested in men’s rights and protections will ever form a cohesive movement?In my opinion, the only way to get boys to do better in school, is to bring back good old-fashioned negative reinforcement. Boys do well in school, when they are MADE to do well in school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Women giving dating advice to men doesn’t work because guys ask for vague advice.Agreed. I think too many men here are just forever stuck in the "analysis" phase. There's a point where analysis becomes over-analysis. There's a point where data gathering needs to end, and action needs to begin. These guys are like people who have read every book there is on body building, but have never set foot in the gym. You may have read every book on chemistry there is, but if you've never even touched a test tube, you're going to be breaking shit all over the place, the first time you e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Women giving dating advice to men doesn’t work because guys ask for vague advice.Let's be real though.....this sub DOES have a very high percentage of neuro-divergent people, and in my opinion at least, it can greatly affect the conclusions drawn here. I do think it's good to remind everyone here from time to time, just how non-typical this sub really is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 07:42 PM |
| 6 | Women giving dating advice to men doesn’t work because guys ask for vague advice."Which I think is a waste of time and it's why so many guys are frustrated with the beauty standards they have placed on themselves." Most people would like to be attractive to the opposite sex, but it's important to make assessments based on real world standards, rather than TV and social media, where the "beautiful people" and "perfect people" tend to dominate. A simple trip to Walmart (especially in the South), or even your local pub, does wonders for this. Every time I go to Walmart, I find … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Are men today too fixated on attracting women?I’m arguing from decades of personal experience, as well as statistics and human nature. That ship has sailed. Once a form of personal liberty and independence becomes common place, it’s pretty hard to take it away. I tell everyone I can, to avoid that meat grinder. Cohabitation is OK, but make NO mistake, attraction comes with an expiration date. Be prepared for that day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Are men today too fixated on attracting women?I think what handicaps a lot of men, is their vast over reliance on dating apps. They’ve driven most women off the apps, but they still hang around. It’s a bit like the guy who volunteers to stick around and take down the decorations in the gym, after everyone else in the high school dance, has gone out for a late night burger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 03:38 AM |
| 0 | Are men today too fixated on attracting women?Good luck getting people to marry again. Especially those of us who tried it once, and didn’t like it. I can’t speak for other men, but I got a lot more sex with your “Fisherian Runway” than I ever got in my “Frigid Cold-Fisherian Marriage”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 03:23 AM |
| 7 | Do men actually have it better dating wise ?I’m sort of in the same boat you are, I’d probably rate myself about a 7/10, certainly not a Chad, but I can get women if I really WORK at it. I tend to avoid the dating apps, as they are pretty much “woman deserts” for any guy below an 8. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 01:29 AM |
| 6 | How much resistance to the Red Pill is just resistance to the politics and presentation of the Red Pill i.e. how would you feel if concepts like looksmaxxing, preselection, The Wall, etc. came from a neutral or left-wing perspective?As long as the matrix is telling him that the steak is juicy and delicious, does it matter if it really is??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 08:21 PM |
| 3 | How much resistance to the Red Pill is just resistance to the politics and presentation of the Red Pill i.e. how would you feel if concepts like looksmaxxing, preselection, The Wall, etc. came from a neutral or left-wing perspective?Yep. CMV posts can be especially challenging, since everyone who agrees with you gets deleted, and all the posts attacking you stay! 😂 lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 07:07 PM |
| 5 | How much resistance to the Red Pill is just resistance to the politics and presentation of the Red Pill i.e. how would you feel if concepts like looksmaxxing, preselection, The Wall, etc. came from a neutral or left-wing perspective?Sure, but it also emphasizes the aspects of a man's appearance, that are under his control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 06:01 PM |
| 5 | How much resistance to the Red Pill is just resistance to the politics and presentation of the Red Pill i.e. how would you feel if concepts like looksmaxxing, preselection, The Wall, etc. came from a neutral or left-wing perspective?LOL....this joint poisons your mind enough during the week! 🤣😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 05:51 PM |
| 4 | How much resistance to the Red Pill is just resistance to the politics and presentation of the Red Pill i.e. how would you feel if concepts like looksmaxxing, preselection, The Wall, etc. came from a neutral or left-wing perspective?Thanks! I'll probably post it sometime next week. Too much hassle for a Friday! LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 05:46 PM |
| 28 | How much resistance to the Red Pill is just resistance to the politics and presentation of the Red Pill i.e. how would you feel if concepts like looksmaxxing, preselection, The Wall, etc. came from a neutral or left-wing perspective?We need to take a NUANCED view towards red pill concepts. Some of them are quite valid, some are BS, and all of them often come wrapped in bitterness and resentment. I agree with the following TRP concepts: 1) Women are waaaay more looks oriented, than many men think they are. 2) Women really don't respect weakness in a man. They may tolerate weakness in a guy, but only if it's temporary, and he has a plan of action to move forward. 3) A guy who self-improves to a certain extent, can afford to t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 05:38 PM |
| 3 | The bro code is logical fallacy, most women have someone, so you're taking her from someone, one way or anotherI’ve always lived by the notion that commitment starts with the engagement ring. Anything else is fair game. If she ain’t wearing a ring, she’s public property. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Can you list and describe all your “types”?Just the syndicated ones I can remember from all the crap my daughter and niece used to watch….Gordo finally gets Lizzy Macquire….Nerdy guy finally gets Zoey on Zoey 101….that wimpy guy that dated the tough blonde girl on iCarly, etc If you want to go earlier to the 90’s…..Steve Urkel finally gets Laura after 10 years on Family Matters….Cory gets Topanga on Boy Meets World, and she’s like WAY out of his league. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Can you list and describe all your “types”?A lot of the Z'ers and younger Millennials grew up with the Disney Channel "Nerdy guy FINALLY wins the pretty girl over, in the 4th season" trope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 10:53 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: Can you list and describe all your “types”?LOL....there isn't anything wrong with your height preference, but it tends to offend the short guys, who want the short girls to themselves, and the tall girls, who want the tall guys to themselves. 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Whats ideal female body and face for you?Google old pics of Gina Lollobrigida. Not as well known as Sophia, but still pretty hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Based on these videos of nightlife in Thailand, could you honestly blame a man for wanting to experience it?West coast Asian-American women can be pretty spoiled, just like white women from that area. My ex is from San Francisco, which along with L.A., probably produces some of the most spoiled women around. Then again, her bothers were pretty jaded too. One of them bought an expensive house to try to flip, right before the mortgage crisis, and then complained that he didn't qualify for enough help for being underwater LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Based on these videos of nightlife in Thailand, could you honestly blame a man for wanting to experience it?Since I speak Spanish reasonably well (grew up in south Texas), I'd probably try Latin American countries, if I wanted to find something other than a "bar girl". Having just gotten out of a decade long marriage, I'm content with Dallas FWB's and MILF's....at least for now. Sexcations aren't that much of a risk, as long as you wear a condom, but trying to find an actual wife in a foreign country, is a roll of the dice. Cultural differences can seem "exotic" when you're dating, but they have a way… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Based on these videos of nightlife in Thailand, could you honestly blame a man for wanting to experience it?I can't speak for other big cities, but there is plenty of this here in Dallas, although it's zoned to certain parts of the city. I used to hang in this space, when I first moved here out of college, until I realized these chicks only wanted money. I even went out with a dancer a couple times, thinking I could "save her" LOL. Look, I've got nothing against "sexcations", if you can swing them, more power to you. When I was younger, Brazil was the place to go, and a couple of my wingmen and I, eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 05:38 PM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.Quite honestly, it pretty much just happened by accident, like I said in my comment below on this thread. I wasn't looking to make a friend, we just had a good time, and kept hanging out. I think some of these guys on this sub want to control every aspect of their lives, like it's a video game, but life isn't like that. Opportunities come randomly, and you just have to be open to them when they come. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 05:04 PM |
| 8 | CMV:Passportbroism,not the BP,RP or BlkPl is the solution for men to become happy.He wants to find a woman in a cereal box, and then get the ring there too! 🤣 No matter how you dress it up....cheap sounds like cheap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 02:06 AM |
| 6 | CMV:Passportbroism,not the BP,RP or BlkPl is the solution for men to become happy.Yep, it's not easily balancing everything out, when you both work....finances, chores and housework, hobbies and time spent together, etc. There's a lot of ways for things to go wrong in a marriage. You really have to make the marriage your absolute priority, and that takes a lot of compromise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 12:55 AM |
| 4 | CMV:Passportbroism,not the BP,RP or BlkPl is the solution for men to become happy.Lol….these dudes want a 1950’s woman, but they don’t realize the burdens carried by 1950’s men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 12:38 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.Not sure what to tell you, dude. My best friend of 25 years is a woman. She knows me better than any girl I’ve dated or married, or any one of my male buds. Friendship is where you find it….you do you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 12:20 AM |
| 11 | CMV:Passportbroism,not the BP,RP or BlkPl is the solution for men to become happy.Yep, they think Asian and Latina women are pushovers, but those women expect to run the house with an iron fist after marriage, and they expect you to give them everything they need to do it! 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 10:37 PM |
| 10 | CMV:Passportbroism,not the BP,RP or BlkPl is the solution for men to become happy.Look dude....I just divorced an Asian-American woman a couple years ago. They are NOT the squeaky, submissive girls from anime and porn, that you think they are. You ever see the TV show, "Fresh Off the Boat"? The "Asian Tiger Mom" on the show, is a pretty good representation of Asian women AFTER marriage, and it's not even exaggerated. That woman practically folds her poor husband like a handkerchief! You think you're getting a better deal, but you're really not. If you're just looking to take … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 10:25 PM |
| 16 | Men Desire Romantic Relationships More Than Women DoWell said. NYC is so far removed from most people's experiences, even in other large cities, that it's not a good standard of comparison. It used to be just Manhattan, but Brooklyn and Queens are outrageously priced now too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 10:11 PM |
| 7 | Men Desire Romantic Relationships More Than Women DoI think it's going to take a while for both men and women, especially men, to make the adjustment from gender role-based relationships, to "touchy feely" emotion and activity-based ones. With everyone "independent" these days, it stands to reason that real connections will be fewer, and farther between....because they CAN be. It's no longer a question of whether you NEED me, but rather whether you WANT me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, how big of a factor are bad memories from your last BF, when it comes to your choice of the next one?Hey no biggie....it just means I wound up losing my virginity at a late 19, instead of 16 or 17. I think high school winds up sucking for a lot of people, in various ways. It's like a teen meat grinder for your self esteem! 🤣😂 Fortunately, I had a group of equally clueless and dateless dudes that I hung with, so it wasn't just me. I was fortunate not to experience any tooth discoloration from the treatment. I've always had pretty good teeth. I was one of those kids, whose parents DRAGGED him to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Should women be nice to beta males?Death by snu snu! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 05:15 PM |
| 11 | Should women be nice to beta males?At this point, it’s a single Chad that women keep in a cage, and have constant sex with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 04:34 AM |
| 3 | Western men deserve to get a girl more attractive than them CMVI don't think he really wants his view challenged! 😂🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, how big of a factor are bad memories from your last BF, when it comes to your choice of the next one?Thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 07:42 PM |
| 6 | Western men deserve to get a girl more attractive than them CMVDude....Asian women are NOT submissive. I should know, I just DIVORCED one! You ever watch the TV show "Fresh Off the Boat"? The mom on the show, is a pretty good example of an Asian woman AFTER marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 07:41 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men want women who have has less sexual experiences because they want to gatekeep pleasure and ecstasy.You're about to get a lecture on the whole 80/20 thing, and how the "Chad Warlords" monopolize all the women, and skew the averages. It's all bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, how big of a factor are bad memories from your last BF, when it comes to your choice of the next one?Damn, girl, these boys put you through the ringer! :))) Most of my experiences with women have been pretty positive, except for a couple of examples of women lying to me, way back in my early 20's, but people in their early 20's tend to do dumb things. I did have one time where I got into an argument with a girl that I took to a nightclub, and she wound up going home with another guy, but given it was only our 2nd date, I can't really call that "cheating". It still hurt though 🤣 I didn't get any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 03:29 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, how big of a factor are bad memories from your last BF, when it comes to your choice of the next one?Oh man, I’m so sorry that happened to you! :(( Men often forget that women have very good reasons to be much more careful in their dating selections and vetting. When things like that happen, I don’t blame you for taking an entirely different of view of relationships than we men do. Once again I’m sorry. I hope fate kicks him in the ass for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 04:07 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Do you actually like a confident guy if he is physically unattractive to you?LOL....I really like your point logic. 😂 I think it was you, who told me that women tend to be very much in agreement about who is a 1-3, but then they start to diverge from 4-6, and opinions vary widely on who is a 7-10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, how big of a factor are bad memories from your last BF, when it comes to your choice of the next one?What people are planning on doing, and where they are planning on going, can be big factors in uni, just as they can be during your senior year in high school. It sucks when you could be facing the prospect of your relationship becoming a long distance one in a year or so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, how big of a factor are bad memories from your last BF, when it comes to your choice of the next one?I don't know.....I don't put much faith in astrology either, but my ex-wife is a Gemini, and she shows ALL the classic negative characteristics of a Gemini. Sometimes you have to wonder...... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 11:56 PM |
| 26 | Beauty standards for men are far more unrealistic when it comes down to datingYep, advising anyone to undergo any type of invasive cosmetic surgery is irresponsible. If people want to do it for themselves, that's fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 10:09 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, how big of a factor are bad memories from your last BF, when it comes to your choice of the next one?These guys on this sub won't believe you. They think you're just waiting for your next 7 foot tall Chad! :))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 09:11 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, how big of a factor are bad memories from your last BF, when it comes to your choice of the next one?LOL...it's like trading in cars, each one is supposed to be a little better than the last one. You can't settle for the Corolla, when you've had the Jag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, how big of a factor are bad memories from your last BF, when it comes to your choice of the next one?LOL....what kind of "invasive species" are we talking about....besides the guys I mean? :)) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, how big of a factor are bad memories from your last BF, when it comes to your choice of the next one?Too bad you can't "Build-a-Bear" parts together from different ones! :))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 08:46 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, how big of a factor are bad memories from your last BF, when it comes to your choice of the next one?Yeah there is a lot of truth to the old sayings, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" and "Familiarity breeds contempt". Studies have shown that attraction starts to slowly fade when you move in together. I've been divorced for about 2 years now, and enjoying my freedom, but if I ever consider getting married again, it might be one of those "separate house marriages" that older people are getting into. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, how big of a factor are bad memories from your last BF, when it comes to your choice of the next one?They all wanted to move in??? Wow, times have changed....I definitely valued my SPACE as a young bachelor. It's like....I'll fix you a cup of coffee the next morning, maybe buy you breakfast, but after that.....um.....I've got things to do.....do you mind leaving? LOL 😂🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, how big of a factor are bad memories from your last BF, when it comes to your choice of the next one?How long were you guys together, and how much weight did he gain? I often hear stories of husbands and wives gaining weight, but that usually takes a few years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, how big of a factor are bad memories from your last BF, when it comes to your choice of the next one?Were you going out with guys you weren't actually attracted to before that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 08:01 PM |
| 6 | current trends in Purple pill subredditYep, you always have to be careful to not let insecurity warp the TRP principles. Some of these guys act like you have to be a Mad Max warlord to get women, and anything less, is just waiting for a warlord to come steal your woman. I think sometimes these guys confuse the idea of women WANTING abuse from a handsome guy, with the idea of women PUTTING UP with abuse from a handsome guy. Is she with the dude BECAUSE of the abuse, or IN SPITE of it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 07:38 PM |
| -1 | current trends in Purple pill subredditWomen may pick, but they also suffer a lot of "dating fatigue". Stories of women's bad experiences on the apps abound on the net, and the number of them increases every second. Many of them don't even take the apps seriously anymore, it's more like a video game to them. At this point, men are still trying to take the apps a lot more seriously than women do. Women are undergoing a steady shift away from them, but it's taking men longer to notice and adapt. The guy with even moderate offline socia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 07:30 PM |
| 8 | current trends in Purple pill subredditMen are often too quick to jump from red to black. The moment they hear, "Women place more emphasis on looks, than we thought they did" they immediately jump to "Well, I'm not a male model, so I'm screwed". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 07:21 PM |
| 3 | current trends in Purple pill subredditMost men on this sub are overly dependent on the dating apps, which GREATLY magnify the power of the relatively few women still on them. The old OKC stats and even the Tinder stats, are still taken from the dating app universe. Tinder is 80/20 men/women in the US, and a dismal 90/10 in the UK. If you insist on hanging out in the desert, you can't really complain about a lack of water. Women are always going to be picky as they can get away with, and the women on the apps, can get away with a lot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 07:06 PM |
| 11 | current trends in Purple pill subredditIt's not just this forum, TRP ITSELF needs a fair amount of moderating. Don't get me wrong....I support certain TRP ideas, ie., women respect strength, looks are more important to women, than they are willing to admit, etc. However, TRP has a tendency to overstep it's boundaries, both in terms of what is acceptable in personal relationships, and how TRP should be applied to societal policy, ie., women's choices and right to vote, etc. TRP has certainly been known to jump in bed with the alt-righ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Tradition for dating was a good idea that made perfect sense, but it is not enforceable anymoreReformation and cultural renaissances tend to lead to greater liberalization and democratization, at least in the Western world. We've been moving in that direction for some 800 years, since King John signed the Magna Carta....at the point of a sword. You want to know what eventually destroyed traditional hierarchies and rules? Two things.... 1) The decline of religion - People are no longer afraid of a lightning bolt from the sky, if they do the "wrong" thing. They aren't terrified, every time … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 06:20 PM |
| 9 | Tradition for dating was a good idea that made perfect sense, but it is not enforceable anymoreCorrect. It was the invention of the automobile, that transformed "courting" into "dating". The car provided both distance and privacy, from the watchful eyes of mothers, and the suspicious eyes of fathers! LOL The struggles that pre-20th century men went through, just to secure a little time alone with a woman they were courting, were far greater than anything faced by men today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 06:05 PM |
| 6 | Andrew Tate was right, he shouldn't let his women drive his car. Andrew Tate taught us more without saying anythingOk, now you’re just wondering around aimlessly on the debate board. Intelligence is definitely largely inheritable 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadChange is a constant threat to a marriage......either because you wanted your partner to change, and they didn't (a view often held by women), or you didn't want your partner to change, and they did (a view often held by men). People always picture themselves and their partner as being "frozen" in time, but events can begin to undermine things, even at the beginning. You have to commit not just to the person your partner is TODAY, but to the person he or she may be years from now, even if that p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAs a divorced guy myself (just once), I can tell you that MANY aspects of a typical marriage, are beyond an individual's control. Granted, failing to make 3 marriages work, is not the same as failing to make one marriage work, but at the same time, you can't control what your partner says and does. People tend to enter into marriage with a misplaced sense of optimism....that everything will just "take care of itself". In reality, a marriage is more work, than just about anything else in life you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Is "chasing" women that said no to your date advances ever worth it?I've sort of learned that chasing isn't worth it, in most cases. It's always been my experience that the chemistry is either there, or it isn't. If it's not there, nothing I say is going to change it. Real life isn't like Steve Urkel, who pursued Laura Winslow for 10 years, and she finally said "yes", after things failed with practically every other guy. LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 10:02 PM |
| 8 | Is "chasing" women that said no to your date advances ever worth it?As a man, I agree. It's always been my experience, that when I meet a woman, it's either extremely easy, or impossible.....there's almost never any middle ground. If she likes me, there's almost nothing I can say to mess it up. If she doesn't, there's almost nothing I can say to win her over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floorBe honest though….are you more attracted to “picket fence” relationship-oriented guy, or the guy who is “more of a challenge” in hopes that “you can change him”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 06:03 PM |
| 4 | Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationshipsI think it's also a matter of financial priorities. I certainly enjoy nice cars, clothes, watches, electronics, etc., for their own sake, not just for attracting women. But I've always made sure other stuff was in order first, ie., retirement fund, rainy day fund, bills paid, no high interest debt, etc. Get that nice car, but make sure your other shit is in order first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 05:15 PM |
| 10 | Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationshipsI think going out on real "dates" is a must, even if you've been married 50 years. The problem is, it's just so easy to forget about doing it, when you're dealing with kids, finances, health issues, family drama, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 05:09 PM |
| 13 | Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationshipsYep, the "Men don't want woman to change, but they do, and women want men to change, but they don't" wisdom has been around since the 1950's. With marriage on the decline, I think it's less a matter of "progress the relationship" and more a matter of "Just keep her guessing". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 05:03 PM |
| 1 | My daughter’s dating/marriage prospects ?I think she's calling the men on this sub in general incels! 🤣😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Would you date these "overweight" women?I'm white, and I dated a black woman for almost a year. She was certainly....um....passionate, but she did seem to thrive on drama. Any time we'd get into an argument, she would always play the "I'll bet you wouldn't try to pull that shit on a WHITE WOMAN!!!" card! 😂🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 03:55 PM |
| 1 | This guy basically breaks down how harem works and why 63% of men under 30 are singleI've never felt good about splitting my time time, energy and emotions between more than one woman. Some men do it better than others | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 05:12 PM |
| 2 | This guy basically breaks down how harem works and why 63% of men under 30 are singleThis is just starting to sound like FWB's to me. I've had FWB's where I didn't tell them about my other dates, and they didn't ask. I also didn't ask about theirs. On the other hand, I once tried actually DATING just TWO women, that didn't know about each other, and it nearly drove me insane, with the lies and excuses I had to come up with. The fact that it happened over the holiday season didn't help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 03:46 PM |
| 2 | I've had 40 Hinge dates. I firmly believe a woman's initial interest in a man has a window of time to it.The 3rd date rule was popularized by "The Rules" and "Sex in the City", both of which, were creations of the 1990's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 03:39 AM |
| 3 | I've had 40 Hinge dates. I firmly believe a woman's initial interest in a man has a window of time to it.I think this is why we Gen-Xrs came up with the "3rd Date Rule". The 3rd date rule sort of gives both sexes a guidebook. It gives women time to evaluate a guy, and it lets men know when to make a move. It sets expectations for both sexes, and lets everyone know what to expect. It's not a perfect solution for everyone....some people may want to move faster, some slower, but it's better than nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 10:09 PM |
| 15 | How to get over how easy it is for women to have sex?LOL...don't you know the rules? You're supposed to be remain a virgin, until the day you meet ME, and only THEN can you become an insatiable tiger! /s :)) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 08:18 PM |
| 25 | How to get over how easy it is for women to have sex?Trust me....you don't want to cross an ostrich LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 08:12 PM |
| 2 | How to get over how easy it is for women to have sex?I know that....just remember that a lot of these PPD dudes are young and inexperienced, and don't represent men in general. I'm not faulting these dudes for that....after all, we all start out that way, but they probably aren't the best source for info on a mature man's emotions. Then again, some men develop Madonna/Whore complexes, because when they DID have BOTH the love and sexual feelings for the SAME woman.....they got their hearts broken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 08:07 PM |
| 2 | How to get over how easy it is for women to have sex?No problem. I think both men and women will often do "temp" relationships, while still holding out for the "perfect" one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 08:00 PM |
| 5 | How to get over how easy it is for women to have sex?I'm going to assume you're too young for this to be a WKRP in Cincinnati joke, but yeah, the wild ones do, for short distances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 07:42 PM |
| 4 | How to get over how easy it is for women to have sex?OK, let's be clear about something....we men fall in love just as deeply as women do, it's just easier for us to separate sex and love, than it is for women. Also, not all men WANT to separate sex and love, we would REALLY like the sex and love to be with the SAME woman LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 07:39 PM |
| 4 | How to get over how easy it is for women to have sex?Better than with Stacy! LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 07:33 PM |
| 5 | How to get over how easy it is for women to have sex?Well, I don't have problem with your views, but you are fighting some steep odds, unless you look for your "maiden" in a highly religious environment, and then proceed to marry her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 07:09 PM |
| 3 | How to get over how easy it is for women to have sex?Yep, remember what that gas station sushi did to Fry on Futurama. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 07:02 PM |
| 3 | How to get over how easy it is for women to have sex?I'd still MUCH rather be a guy, even if we have to go to a bit more trouble for sex and relationships. I can go just about anywhere, do just about anything, without worrying too much about personal safety or harassment. I'd hate to be a woman here in Dallas.....I've just seen too many women hassled at gas stations and intersections. When it comes to sex and dating....I like a little bit of challenge....as the Kuma Sutra said, "Men are apt to despise that which is easily acquired". I think that's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 06:43 PM |
| 1 | I’m (M21) mad and confused when a man equals obesity to unattractiveness in womenYounger Anglo-white women are certainly picky, no question about that. Latin-American and Asian-American women tend to be more open to dating short to medium size guys, possibly because their own men tend to run shorter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 04:42 PM |
| 3 | I’m (M21) mad and confused when a man equals obesity to unattractiveness in womenMy views on TRP have always been mixed. Some of it's conclusions are sound, and fit with my experiences, ie., women are more looks-oriented than men realize, women don't like to see weakness of any kind in men, etc. However, I have always felt that TRP greatly underestimates the effects of socialization on both men and women. A good or bad experience with an ex, can greatly affect what type of person you look for, or what you avoid, the next time around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 04:29 PM |
| 6 | I’m (M21) mad and confused when a man equals obesity to unattractiveness in womenPreferences change all the time, based on prior experiences, people just don’t realize it. One of my ex-GF’s used to tell me all the time, that she loved the fact that nothing about me, reminded her of her ex-BF. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 03:59 PM |
| 4 | I’m (M21) mad and confused when a man equals obesity to unattractiveness in womenDating as a short to medium size white guy can be an ….odd experience though. You tend to do reasonably well with most races of women….except your own. Anglo white women are notoriously picky when it comes to height, and will tend to disregard guys under 5’10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Relationship status in the 18-24 demographic isn’t as important as that among 30-34. By that point, studies still show most men and women have found LTRs.What would you consider a "waste"? If I sampled several flavors of ice cream, before finally settling on pistachio, were my other experiences a waste? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 08:47 PM |
| 5 | Relationship status in the 18-24 demographic isn’t as important as that among 30-34. By that point, studies still show most men and women have found LTRs.LOL...they're also afraid of sexual comparison. God forbid her ex-lover had an 0.01 inch larger penis! 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Relationship status in the 18-24 demographic isn’t as important as that among 30-34. By that point, studies still show most men and women have found LTRs.Even dual income couples get tested, when it comes to money. Sometimes having MORE of it, means you argue MORE about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Relationship status in the 18-24 demographic isn’t as important as that among 30-34. By that point, studies still show most men and women have found LTRs.You obviously haven't heard all the "Buuuuut she's ONLY settling for me at age 30, because she couldn't get CHAAAAAAAAAD!" whining. 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Relationship status in the 18-24 demographic isn’t as important as that among 30-34. By that point, studies still show most men and women have found LTRs.That's a very naïve viewpoint. As a divorced guy, I can tell you that differences in attitudes when it comes to money, and various arguments and stresses involving money, are MASSIVE contributors to divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Do ugly women really have it harder than pretty women?LOL...."Can we REALLY be sure water is wet?.....I mean....it FEELS wet.....but how can we really know for sure???" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 08:00 PM |
| 8 | I hate to say it but a lot of the ideas you have about finding partners and relationships is the result of being chronically onlineAgreed! I have a longtime lady friend who once told me, "Women make big lists of what we want in a man, but then we throw those lists away, when we feel a spark". I think real world encounters allow a much greater chance for a spark, than online ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 06:48 PM |
| 7 | I hate to say it but a lot of the ideas you have about finding partners and relationships is the result of being chronically onlineIt's not so much a matter of doubting or supporting anyone else's personal experiences, it's simply a matter of pointing out that SOME guys can benefit from trying more "real world" techniques. Obviously...your mileage my vary. I think I'm a perfect example of this...I'm only 5'8", but I do have a pretty decent face, at least from what I've been told. Because of my height, I tend to get "drowned out" on the apps, especially when women filter for height, but I'm able to turn women's heads and mak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 02:50 PM |
| 2 | People on this subreddit completely overlook how the boomer generation has caused maladaptive socioeconomic conditions for today's young adults that play a causative role in the dating, marriage, and fertility trends we’re seeing todayOK, if you want to get personal, my parents divorced and split up the "wealth", long ago, about the time I went off to college. My dad got a "new" family with a new wife, and didn't have much contact with the old one after that. The house was sold, proceeds split up and my mom moved into a cheap condo. My sisters and I each got about $50,000 in money and utility stocks when mom died, no homes were passed down. An OK amount, but definitely not a fortune. I was already middle-aged at the time, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 05:58 PM |
| 1 | People on this subreddit completely overlook how the boomer generation has caused maladaptive socioeconomic conditions for today's young adults that play a causative role in the dating, marriage, and fertility trends we’re seeing todayYou seem intent on turning this into a discussion on race, but I'm not going to take the bait. What I CAN tell you, is that I can walk out my front door, and without even stepping off my front porch, I can see homes owned by Asian-American, Mexican-American and Muslim (based on the wife's dress) families. Yes, practices like "redlining" and "steering" were problems in the past, but they have been greatly reduced in scope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 05:39 PM |
| 1 | People on this subreddit completely overlook how the boomer generation has caused maladaptive socioeconomic conditions for today's young adults that play a causative role in the dating, marriage, and fertility trends we’re seeing todayYou're venturing into centralized, government control of housing development and allocation, which is obviously going to spark the whole capitalism vs socialism debate in that area. Good luck on that debate! Listen....I KNOW things haven't always changed for the better, I've been facing the threat of having my own job offshored for almost 20 years now....I've just learned to deal with it, and put it out of my mind. Globalization and automation are the biggest threats to jobs, and they have hit t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 05:04 PM |
| 3 | People on this subreddit completely overlook how the boomer generation has caused maladaptive socioeconomic conditions for today's young adults that play a causative role in the dating, marriage, and fertility trends we’re seeing todayI have no problem admitting, that if you add up my 401K, taxable investments, home equity, vehicles, and personal property, it comes out to a little over $1 million, but you have to remember....I'm pushing 50 years old, and I've been contributing 10-15% of my salary to my 401K nonstop, since I was in my mid 20's. One million is no big deal for the Dallas cost of living, it's about as unimpressive as it would be in San Francisco or Manhattan for a guy my age. You keep going back to zoning, but th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 04:32 PM |
| 5 | People on this subreddit completely overlook how the boomer generation has caused maladaptive socioeconomic conditions for today's young adults that play a causative role in the dating, marriage, and fertility trends we’re seeing todayAs a Gen-X-er myself, I hate to break this to you, buddy, but most of what you’re complaining about, came about as a result of technological change or competition, not policy. Improvements in communications and transportation made it easier to offshore factory jobs. Email and internet made it easier to offshore white collar jobs. Those things were GOING to happen, nobody could stop them. Competition drove more people to college, along with the glamorization of the “party” college fraternity/soro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 03:42 PM |
| 2 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....Sigh....it's confession time....I have to admit that when I was younger, I did sort of run "parallel" searches for "Miss Right" and "Miss Right Now" myself, and I tended to classify women as one or the other. I know....shame on me! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 12:44 AM |
| 1 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....They're just pissed, because they think "Chad" gets "special delivery" sex, and they don't. 😒 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 12:40 AM |
| 1 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....But aren't a lot of colleges like 3 to 2 women to men these days? Do these dudes ever hit any of the college hangouts or student union? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 11:06 PM |
| 5 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....If it's been 3 years, what the heck are they doing to meet women....looking for them in men's locker rooms??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 09:46 PM |
| 2 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....I'm an older, divorced guy getting back into the singles scene again, but this place has helped me understand women a little better. You have to filter out all the toxic stuff tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 07:14 PM |
| 1 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....Damn girl, you're on fire! Ripping these men a new one! LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 07:02 PM |
| 9 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....So guys have to take any woman that comes along, regardless? Nah, as a guy, I don't believe that. We hand too much power over to women. Make your own choices, even if takes a bit longer for a man to replace a woman, than it takes for a woman to replace a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 06:36 PM |
| 13 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....Great response! We are ALL heavily influenced by the society we live in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 06:28 PM |
| 1 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....LOL....hey, if I were vanilla ice cream, and I'm in love with you, I would definitely try to keep you out of a Baskin Robbins! 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 06:26 PM |
| 3 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....You're one of the more reasonable men on this sub! 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 05:51 PM |
| 3 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....LOL....hey being faithful is just as "noble", when you don't have any other options.....right? 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 05:50 PM |
| 11 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....I agree, but some of the dudes here, are implying that women are "forever marked" by the things they do when they are young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 05:34 PM |
| 5 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....LOL..but then when these women DO turn a guy down, he's wondering in the back of his mind, "Did she give it up to the LAST guy?"....or at least that's what a lot of these guys seem to be wondering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 05:31 PM |
| 6 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....LOL Unfortunately, modern dating makes everyone fear that as soon as the person they're dating thinks they can "do better".....they will. You may be "faithful" to your Snickers bar on a deserted island....but will you still be faithful to it in a candy store??? 🤣😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 05:19 PM |
| 2 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....You DO realize that sometimes women are actually quicker to have sex with a guy they DON'T care much about, right? It's the whole "Cruise ship romance" thing. If she doesn't value his opinion, or doesn't expect to see him again, then she's not going to care if he considers her to be a "hoe". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 05:03 PM |
| 7 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....Yep, especially since people are waiting a lot longer to get married these days. Two virgins marrying at 19 is believable....two virgins marrying at 29, is a little more far fetched. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 04:42 PM |
| 4 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....LMAO...you're a gem to have around, Astro! 😂🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 04:36 PM |
| 24 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....Now that I can understand, but wanting a woman to suddenly transform from "nun" to "bedroom tiger", just because it's YOU, is a little bit unrealistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 04:21 PM |
| 23 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....So once a woman has sex, she is FOREVER governed by different rules??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 04:19 PM |
| 7 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....Of course they aren't the same people, but from a collective standpoint, the inconsistent messages are still going to cancel each other out. Women are going to conform to the message they encounter most often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Average men gain nothing from being sex positive and against purity culture.Maybe I'm just too liberal for my own good, but I simply CAN"T IMAGINE marrying someone, without being intimate with them first. I can't imagine anything more risky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 04:00 PM |
| 4 | Average men gain nothing from being sex positive and against purity culture.Yeah, I'm not as active as I used to be on this sub, since I've realized just how "non-typical" a lot of these people are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 03:42 PM |
| 8 | Average men gain nothing from being sex positive and against purity culture.LOL You realize that none of this makes any sense from a mathematical standpoint, right? You can't expect women to care about remaining "pure", when the next 3 guys she encounters will dump them after 3 or 4 dates, if they don't get sex. If one gender wants the "party phase", they have to allow it for the one as well. If nothing else, sheer math will force that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Average men gain nothing from being sex positive and against purity culture.Thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:55 PM |
| 5 | Average men gain nothing from being sex positive and against purity culture.These guys tend to ignore everything that happens after the 1950's, and before 2000. All you have to do is look at pictures of the Beetles and Beach Boys in 1962, and then look at pictures of them in 1972, and you can see huge changes LOL. We went from poodle skirts and malt shops, to Woodstock and unwashed people in VW buses. LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Average men gain nothing from being sex positive and against purity culture.Well said! As a father of a daughter myself, these guys definitely don't want ME evaluating them, as my eye will certainly be less kind than my daughter's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:39 PM |
| 5 | Average men gain nothing from being sex positive and against purity culture.LOL Nope, liberty requires high T. Nobody is telling you what to do, and nobody is bailing you out if you fail. It's ALL on you. Living like a conformist sheep is low T. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:33 PM |
| 9 | Average men gain nothing from being sex positive and against purity culture.Personal liberty requires a bit of tolerance, understanding and empathy. A highly authoritarian society that requires everyone to do exactly the same thing, has no need of tolerance, because there is nothing to tolerate, but few of us would want to live there. Western democratic societies aren't perfect, but at least they are open to change and social evolution, and at least they give EVERYONE a voice. Liberty comes with no guarantees, but at least it lets you shape your own destiny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:21 PM |
| 17 | Average men gain nothing from being sex positive and against purity culture.You're displaying exactly the "sour grapes" emotions that the young woman that started this thread, is talking about. Live and let live. Find someone that fits your views, but don't disparage those who take a different view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:11 PM |
| 2 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.LOL...it's a good thing I weigh 300 lbs, work at Taco Bell, and keep hamsters in those little expandable tube cities, that you just keep buying more segments for! LOL....just kidding! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 11:24 PM |
| 2 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.LOL....Checks dating app notes..... 1) No six pack 2) No puppy 3) No doctorate Got it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 10:59 PM |
| 2 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.LMAO! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 10:54 PM |
| 3 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.Oddly, the stats are saying that Bumble isn't much more popular with women than the other apps, even though it's "The dating app designed BY women, FOR women!" LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 07:08 PM |
| 2 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.Yep, guys sometimes don't realize how picky we are, because we never deal with the women we don't find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 06:49 PM |
| 5 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.Exactly, I've also said that nobody ever sees the filtering that we men do, because we do it BEFORE the approach, while women do their filtering AFTER the approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 05:48 PM |
| 2 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.As a guy, I can relate to glow-ups. I had REALLY bad acne in high school, the kind where you go to a doctor to have cysts drained with a needle, but a course of Accutane, cleared me right up, and practically changed my life. You really find out just how shallow everyone is LOL My college life was completely different than my high school one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 05:36 PM |
| 0 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.I believe it. The thing about Dallas and Houston, is like a lot of Western cities, they don't have a "big city" feel, they're just an endless string of suburbs and strip malls, except for a small downtown portion, and businesses that line the expressways. I think the managers at small startups try really hard to be "everyone's friend", to build relationships. Moving from a small company to a large one, really surprised me as to the culture change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 05:32 PM |
| 0 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.It was actually in the middle of Dallas lol. It was a relatively small company at the time though. I think a lot of it depends on the executives and manager's attitudes, and the percentage of young single people, vs older and married folks. Startup companies tend to be pretty casual, and let people do what they want, since turnover at that stage can hit a small company hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 05:20 PM |
| 5 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.True, there is a bit of a selection bias there. Clubbers tend to be a bit more confident and outgoing, and that probably stems from physical attraction, at least to some extent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 05:14 PM |
| 2 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.LOL....a guy in his 20's can go from horny to "eww" back to horny, quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 05:06 PM |
| 3 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.LOL....given that my boss is a guy, I'm going to pass on that perk, and maybe make a trip to HR! 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 05:02 PM |
| 6 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.I think both men and women are guilty of it, but women are more likely to admit to it, while us guys want the women here to believe, that we would give EVERY woman in the world a chance LOL. It's not true. I think if you took the average guy, and walked him through a mall on a Saturday afternoon, and counted his "would hit" and "wouldn't hit" numbers, he would be more picky than you might think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 04:45 PM |
| 1 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.Oh man my old company's happy hours were outrageous, I've never seen anything like it, before or since.....we'd all go get drunk every Fri like clockwork. We'd grab a big table in the back of the bar. Women would actually sit in the guy's laps, and then on Mon, everyone would act like nothing ever happened LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 04:40 PM |
| 4 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.Yep, nothing bonds people together like complaining LOL, and every job has complaints. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 04:32 PM |
| 3 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.You're preaching to the choir here. When I was in my 20's, and a bit more stupid LOL, I dated no fewer than 4 women I worked with. Never women from the same dept, but the same company. At my old company, we had a big "happy hour culture" with a lot of single people, and it definitely promoted office romances LOL. I wouldn't date anyone I work with today though, you eventually learn your lesson. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 04:31 PM |
| 7 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.LMAO.....most of time, I seem relatively picky, compared to a lot of the dudes on this sub. Honestly, I think a lot of these guys are subconsciously dismissing a lot of women, without realizing it. They might THINK they're attracted to every woman, but they're really not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 04:20 PM |
| 3 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.I'm relatively introverted as well, and I admit that it took a while for me to become a good "conversation starter". There are generational aspects as well, I think younger people are less comfortable talking to strangers, than the older gens were. It's not their fault, it's just the way the digital world is right now. Also, the pandemic didn't help, it came at the worst possible time for a lot of young people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 04:18 PM |
| 18 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.Agreed. As a guy, and as a software developer, I often delve into work-related topics fairly soon into a first date, depending on how similar my date's occupation is to my own. "Office people" are going to have some experiences in common, regardless of industry, that "blue collar" folks don't have, and it doesn't hurt to find that common ground. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 04:11 PM |
| 12 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.As an older guy, I'm not sure I agree. Maybe it's because I pretty much "grew up" in the Dallas nightclub environment when it comes to my experiences with women, but I've always liked being the one to make the decisions on who I approach, and who I don't. I'm also a bit "picky"....at least by guy standards. When I enter a room of women in my age group, I might only find about 1/3rd of them attractive, and for me, being approached by the 2/3rds of women that I'm NOT attracted to, would be a bit a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 04:08 PM |
| 1 | If she’s into you, it’s painfully obvious. If it’s ambiguous, you’re an option at best whether she’ll admit it or notAlso, you clean your mirrors immaculately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 07:31 PM |
| 2 | If she’s into you, it’s painfully obvious. If it’s ambiguous, you’re an option at best whether she’ll admit it or notThey’re always a “hell yes” after I take them to TX Roadhouse, but then we’re too stuffed to do anything except complain about being too stuffed! 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 06:40 PM |
| 2 | If she’s into you, it’s painfully obvious. If it’s ambiguous, you’re an option at best whether she’ll admit it or notShirtless bathroom selfies and fish pics not your thing? LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 05:17 PM |
| 5 | If she’s into you, it’s painfully obvious. If it’s ambiguous, you’re an option at best whether she’ll admit it or notIt does sort of minimize the importance of "game", although I still think game is important, once you pass the looks threshold, for holding her interest long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 05:09 PM |
| 7 | If she’s into you, it’s painfully obvious. If it’s ambiguous, you’re an option at best whether she’ll admit it or notI think this is part of why the move to online dating, sort of disrupted things for both sexes. Women are tuned into a lot of things, that don't really come across online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 04:59 PM |
| 13 | If she’s into you, it’s painfully obvious. If it’s ambiguous, you’re an option at best whether she’ll admit it or notYep, for me it's always been either absolutely effortless with a woman, or absolutely impossible.....there's almost never any middle ground. If she's into me, there's almost nothing I can say, that will blow it. If she's not into me, there's almost nothing I can say that will win her over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 04:47 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanDon't forget that dating app algorithms and ELO scores are anything but "natural", which gums up the statistics a bit. "Premium" paying guys get priority over non-paying guys, in terms which profiles get shown to new women first. I checked, and the vast majority of dating app profits in general, come from user fees, rather than ads, so you want the paying guys to have a better experience than the non-paying guys.....and KEEP them paying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:31 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanIt does seem like the much lower swipe right rate for women, invalidates at least some of the OP's arguments. I'm curious as to what she has to say on it. Another issue, is how representative online dating is of "real world" dating. Is it just a speeded up version of it, or are there different factors at play. Are women more picky online, because they know they CAN be, based on the 80/20 percentage on apps like Tinder? Are women more "forgiving" in the real world? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:00 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanLOL...everyone's preferences are "you things". Your tastes change based on your good and bad experiences. I once had a women tell me, "You know what I really love about you???....there's absolutely NOTHING about you, that reminds me of my ex!!!" I wasn't sure if that was a compliment or not. 😒 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:29 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanPerhaps, but it often comes down to what experiences you've had with a specific type of "look". When I was in my early 20's, I had a couple of back-to-back BAD experiences with white, blonde girls....basically Hayden Panettiere-types. Those experiences involved both lying and cheating, and they left a bad impression on me. For years after that, I tended to shy away from girls that had that specific type of "cheerleader look". I know it's wrong to assume personality traits based on appearance, bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:17 PM |
| 3 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanI don't see this as a man vs woman thing, rather more of an experience issue. Let's be real here.....we ALL start out ignorant about the opposite sex. We ALL start out shallow and superficial. Find me a "deep" high schooler, if you can. We ALL start out trying to shoot "above our league", or for that matter, not even knowing what our "league" is. Without experience, it stands to reason, that people will tend to assume that those who are beautiful on the outside, will also tend to be beautiful on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:02 PM |
| 7 | Do men become "Beta Bucks" after kids?The transition from an agrarian economy, with "ancestral homes" housing multiple generations, to an industrial economy, where everyone is a "work chaser" moving from city to city, can be blamed for much of this, not that there's much that can be done about it. As a Texan, I try to help out my sisters, nephews and nieces in Oklahoma, but there's a limit to what I can do from here. Every one of my nephews and nieces can 't wait to get out of the house as soon as they're 18, and nobody ever seems t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 06:40 PM |
| 8 | The reason the manosphere is mad about AF/BB is because, while, even though the majority of women may not fit the archetype, it is a really smart stratergyThis also plays into the idea of dividing your life into chapters, with a "Have Fun" chapter being a part of the mix, something I talked about a while back here.... https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/zathvx/theres\_nothing\_wrong\_with\_dividing\_your\_life\_up/ There's nothing wrong with designating a part of your life for exploration without commitment, provided you keep your overall life's goals in mind, and don't get "stuck" in the "fun chapter" for too long, assuming of cour… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 12:25 AM |
| 5 | Would you date a man who is deformed *if* he had the most amazing personality on earth?Based on our recent posts, we need to the find meth addict women, and the deformed guys, and get them together! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Would you date a man who is deformed *if* he had the most amazing personality on earth?He's probably like that guy in "Shallow Hal" who loses interest in a woman, because one of her toes is too long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 07:47 PM |
| 0 | Passport Bros prove that Women’s Hypergamy isn’t the issue but the fact that some men can’t do the same.Yep, vast oversimplification of very complex human interactions, is kind of a hallmark of this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Passport Bros prove that Women’s Hypergamy isn’t the issue but the fact that some men can’t do the same.You’re forgetting one important thing…..it takes TIME for both men and women to learn who is in their league, and who isn’t. When I was in high school, I was obsessed with cheerleaders and Pom Pom girls, but I had about as much chance of getting with one of them, as I did winning the lottery. It took time for me to get a good idea of which women are in my league. It’s the same for women, the only difference is, the guys who are out of their league screw them first, and THEN dump them. If you thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 10:25 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Men want relationships (romantic) with women more than vice versaSpeaking as a an older, divorced man, the risk simply isn't worth it. Honestly, I usually don't go all that long between GF's, or at least FWBs, but even if I did, I wouldn't consider getting married again. There are simply way too many forces acting against happy marriages these days, it's a poor gamble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 12:13 AM |
| 2 | What does ‘feminine’ mean to you?"No the church is quite cucked, as it should be." You obviously haven't spent much time in the southern U.S. They don't call it the "Bible Belt" for nothing. Christianity is in very rapid decline in the US, but there are still pockets of real power. And those pockets are attempting to consolidate that power through politics and restrictive legislation. As a Texan myself, I am in the epicenter of the battle to stop it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a meth addict?Hey, relax……what’s the worst that can happen???? 😂🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 02:32 AM |
| 7 | Would you date a meth addict?And the Quagmire Hold-her Downer 5000 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 07:58 PM |
| 5 | Would you date a meth addict?Suddenly, working in a senior living center....doesn't seem so bad! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 07:50 PM |
| 32 | Would you date a meth addict?It's an intellectual race to the bottom. I'm waiting for store mannequins, crash test dummies, goats, sheep and donuts with just the right size hole, to enter the running. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 07:28 PM |
| 4 | Change my View : Location is a very Big factor, in terms off sexual success, there are Playboys in a certain region who would be incels if they moved to a "harder" region."What's tough is smaller towns. Small towns are difficult." Yep, and it's not just the lack of places in small towns, it's also the "fishbowl" nature of them. Women behave differently when they know everyone is going to be up in their business, about who they date or have sex with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 09:30 PM |
| 12 | How many people know guys that have women on a “rotation”?I agree. Guys tend to forget, that "Chads" are flesh and blood, just like the rest of us. They have to deal with work hassles, finances, health issues, family stuff, and normal chores. Women are demanding and they're not stupid....They know a dude who sees them only during the week, or every other week, has other things going on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Change my View : Location is a very Big factor, in terms off sexual success, there are Playboys in a certain region who would be incels if they moved to a "harder" region.I can't speak for the other cities on your list, but as a native Texan who has been around the state, I've always done reasonably well in Dallas and Houston, especially in nightclubs and bars. Truthfully, I would consider myself about a 7/10, maybe 6.5 on laundry day. They are very spread out cities, and you do have to drive around a bit, and so some research, to get to the best spots. Some guys here complain about big cities, and say there is less competition in smaller towns, but I grew up in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Does "average people are in relationships" says anything about women's issues?If you found TRP at 18, then you're definitely a lot younger than me. Good for you, but a lot of people, both men and women, still wind up making a lot of mistakes when they're young, and you can't hold all of that against them. Both men AND women, can easily fall into the "Well he's/she's not perfect, but I think I can change him/her" trap, especially when you're young. If you forgive men for our mistakes, then you need to be somewhat forgiving of women's mistakes as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 05:07 PM |
| 6 | Does "average people are in relationships" says anything about women's issues?Dude.....you have to allow women some time to make mistakes and wise up a bit. Nobody graduates from high school knowing much about the opposite sex. I dated no less than 4 women I worked with, from the time I was 22 to the time I was 30, before I finally realized that dating someone you work with, is a BAD idea. Any one of those encounters could have affected my career greatly, and this was even before the "Me Too" thing. I also dated a dancer in a topless bar, thinking I could "rescue" her fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 04:59 PM |
| 2 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"I’m always telling these guys to go to malls, movie theaters, bars, even Walmarts, to remind themselves that most people are pretty “mid” and “fugly” and they still find dates. When you’ve never been in a relationship or even dated, you tend to develop an overly idealized view of things. You think nobody ever makes a mistake, or says the wrong thing, and everyone is always beautiful and at their best. Yes, it does help when a guy actually LIKES women. I was fortunate in that my first dating and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 05:30 AM |
| 1 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"I think “internet life” has really done a number on young people, but I think it’s been worse for boys, since they tend to be less social than girls to begin with. The combination of less real world socializing, coupled with distorted images and standards from social media, has isolated a lot of young men, without them even realizing it. Once you get past high school, and maybe college, it becomes harder to meet people, because you no longer have a “captive” group of people that you have somethi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 04:57 AM |
| 3 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"LOL...these dudes think nobody can be bad company, as long as they don't have a horn growing out of their forehead! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 09:25 PM |
| 6 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"I've always said that a dating relationship is like a concert....looks may be your ticket to get in, but bad behavior can still get you thrown out. These guys would think I'm crazy, if I told them to apply those same rules to a man. When I walk into a nightclub, I might find maybe 25-30% of the women attractive enough to approach....so I'm supposed to approach the ones I'm not attracted to, because it's the "right thing to do"??? I wouldn't do it, so I can't really expect a woman to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 07:10 PM |
| 6 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"Women are HEAVILY influenced by the society in which they exist, just as men are. Also, people change their preferences over time, both men and women. You have to give people time to LEARN what's good and what isn't. I dated no less than 4 women that I worked with in my 20's, before I finally realized that dating someone you work with, was a bad idea. I wouldn't do that now, but it took me time to learn that it was a bad idea. The same thing applies to a lot of other dating preferences. Everyone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Theory: dating apps have irrepairably damaged Collective Unconcious Sexual Selection (CUSS) health.Possum is just giving you big picture facts. Meanwhile you don't seem to be capable of contributing anything, except schoolyard level insults. Just in case you ARE more thoughtful, than I'm giving you credit for, let me give you a piece of advice.....always support personal freedom, ultimately, it leads to the most happiness, for the most people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 08:51 PM |
| 0 | New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for themActually things have turned around in colleges lately. Lots of colleges are giving preferential treatment to young men, to help keep the ratios balanced. A highly skewed student body doesn't help anyone, and makes the college look bad. https://www.businessinsider.com/college-affirmative-action-boys-admissions-gap-2021-10 https://hechingerreport.org/an-unnoticed-result-of-the-decline-of-men-in-college-its-harder-for-women-to-get-in/ https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9966167/Affirmative-act… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 06:33 PM |
| 0 | New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for themExactly how is the game "tilted"? Yes, more women than men are going to college these days.....a LOT more. Whose fault is that? I don't see any "No men allowed" signs on universities. Hell, I wish college was 2-to-1 women to men, back when I went. Yes, college is a lot more expensive if you go NCAA, but you can still go to an NAIA level school, like that one I graduated from, for around $200/credit hour, especially if you go to one in your own state. I know this for a fact, because I've research… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 06:10 PM |
| 0 | New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for themGen-X member of the "geezer crew" checking in here. You seem to forget that technological change has both good sides and down sides. Yes, technology made it easier to automate and outsource jobs, but it also lead to a high standard of living, and longer life expectancy. Technology will always be a disruptive force in society, but it also provides great opportunities for those who are able to adapt. I've spent the past 30 years as a software engineer, working in an air conditioned office, drinkin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 05:48 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of men wearing shoe lifts to appear taller?That seems like a better option than wearing something that lifts you up inside your shoes, and makes you feel like you're about to fall out of them! 😁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 09:55 PM |
| 21 | What do you think of men wearing shoe lifts to appear taller?The trick is leaping out of your shoes, directly into bed, and then leaping out of bed, directly into your shoes again! It takes practice! 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 09:43 PM |
| 5 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why?I think the trick is coming up with some kind of "pretense" or excuse to talk to someone. Getting the conversation started, without appearing too forward, is the toughest part. You can't be afraid of "imposing" on people, if you want to meet new friends and lovers. My nightclub experiences really helped me in this area, but the same thing also applies to hobbies, college, etc. You still need a way to get the ball rolling, a conversation starter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 06:29 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think dating gets easier for men in their 40’s and beyond.LMAO...from a medieval castle to a pirate ship. That gives me an idea, you could start a series of novels about a maiden who keeps jumping around in time. She's always on the verge of "giving it up", but never quite does it LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 04:05 PM |
| 3 | I don’t think dating gets easier for men in their 40’s and beyond.You're forgetting about the bodice ripping....there always has to be bodice ripping! I'm not even sure what a bodice is.....but I know you HAVE to rip one! :))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 09:39 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think dating gets easier for men in their 40’s and beyond.Calories cannot legally enter your body without your consent. LMAO That's not true! Calories enter my body without my consent all the time! :)))) Seriously though....I know what you mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 09:29 PM |
| 2 | I don’t think dating gets easier for men in their 40’s and beyond.LOL....you have a career waiting as a medieval romance novelist! :))) "Courtly love" usually meant from afar though. The thing about courtly love, is that it can last for years and years, because the knight and the maiden never spend enough time with each other, to realize just how lame the other one is! 😂 Once the "dagger" pierces the "maidenhead", it's no longer courtly. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 09:18 PM |
| 2 | I don’t think dating gets easier for men in their 40’s and beyond.There have been so many cultural and health changes in the past couple decades, it's going to be interesting to see what happens when Gen-Zrs get old.....not that a Gen-Xr like me is going to be around for it. You got explosions in obesity and pre-diabetes, lack of exercise, dropping testosterone levels, dropping sperm counts, porn addiction, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 08:59 PM |
| 8 | I don’t think dating gets easier for men in their 40’s and beyond.LOL You're like me.....you may be physically attracted to women in their 20's, but having to actually TALK to one, is like nails on a chalkboard! 😂🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 06:36 PM |
| 9 | I don’t think dating gets easier for men in their 40’s and beyond.I think social media distorts so many things for young people today, it's honestly hard for them to know what's real and what isn't. Real world experience, even if it's just going to a mall, restaurant or a nightclub now and then, and seeing "mid" people happy with other "mid" people, is important. Some of these guys are convinced that only Chads get women, but I see dudes who look like potatoes, with women every weekend, just because they happen to be at the right time and place, and they were … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 06:25 PM |
| 18 | I don’t think dating gets easier for men in their 40’s and beyond.Yeah, that's a good point, I did sort of assume that everyone would be dating someone around their own age, in my post. I've never dated a woman more than 7 years younger than me, so not sure how easy "trolling the colleges", would be for a guy over 40. Even now at 50, I would set 8-10 years as maximum age gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 06:15 PM |
| 27 | I don’t think dating gets easier for men in their 40’s and beyond.As a guy who's been around a half century, it DEFINITELY gets easier, assuming that you take even MODERATELY good care of yourself as a man. I've honestly gained a lot of ground against other men, just by maintaining myself over the decades. By 40's and 50's women become a lot more comfortable around men, and a lot more comfortable in their "own skin". They are more social, and more comfortable being approached. A lot of the "OMG....that guy is looking at me.....what do I do!!!" spazziness is go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Why is attraction important when selecting a life partner you will spend 50+ years with?It's OK for the man to be Shrek, but every man wants pre-ogre Princess Fiona! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 10:22 PM |
| 4 | Why is attraction important when selecting a life partner you will spend 50+ years with?Embrace the "AND". Hold out for someone who is attractive, AND a good partner and parent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 10:18 PM |
| 9 | Why is attraction important when selecting a life partner you will spend 50+ years with?It does sort of seem like the questions keep getting stupider and stupider.... Why is water wet? Does the sky REALLY have to be blue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 10:10 PM |
| 1 | The officially published and recirculated data on female breadwinners is not only wrong but also deliberately misleading.I think we have for the most part, but there will always be women that complain about little things. Any time I hear somebody say, "We are not naturally equal", I have to wonder what else is up their sleeve, and what this "natural inequality" should justify. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 08:28 PM |
| 3 | "Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate"With a current US birthrate of 1.64 births per woman? I don't see how that's mathematically possible, unless they are taking into account a lot of immigration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 04:55 PM |
| 6 | The officially published and recirculated data on female breadwinners is not only wrong but also deliberately misleading.We need a balance, a minimum social safety net should still be provided, and it will. We do not need to increase payments to single mothers, that shouldn't be encouraged. We do need to address our currently fucked up abortion situation, so that a woman who doesn't want to have a baby, doesn't need to. Making abortion easier, not harder, to obtain, will help to reduce welfare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 04:32 PM |
| 2 | The officially published and recirculated data on female breadwinners is not only wrong but also deliberately misleading.No two people are equal, but we should all have the same opportunities in the eyes of the law. That's really all you can do. The rest is up to fate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 04:18 PM |
| 11 | "Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate"We could definitely use a population reduction in the US. The Western US is rapidly running out of water, the entire Lake Mead water system is at record lows, levels not seen since Hoover Dam was first built. I'd like to see a reduction in the US from 350 million to around 200 million people, which is going to take time, even with current birthrates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 04:12 PM |
| 5 | Do women understand men?"You can guess what they earn by the way they carry themselves...the appearance of a luxurious livestyle" LOL Sorry....I had to climb back into my chair, after falling out of it laughing! The next time I see my buddy's BMW that he financed at 8% on a 7 year loan (they actually do those now), I'll remember your statements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Playing hard to get worksI find that just limiting your time with a woman, whether you limit your time together on purpose, or just incidentally, seems to succeed in making you the "unobtainable bad boy" and keep her interested. When I first moved to Dallas out of college, and got my first "professional" job, I was working a lot of hours to impress my boss, and I was often stressed and tired. I met a woman in a nightclub during that time, and we sort of had a part-time FWB thing going on weekends. I wasn't even limiting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Men should enter marriage as virgins to increase the stability of the marriage and their marital happinessNo problem. Incidentally, the woman I married, wasn't one of the women I met in nightclubs, but she was a FRIEND of a woman I met in a nightclub. Two women can have very different values, and still hang together, if they have a mutual interest or two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Men should enter marriage as virgins to increase the stability of the marriage and their marital happinessYou're implying a link between N count, and physical attractiveness, and that would seem to make a lot of sense. Attractive people, both men and women, are going to have more sexual opportunities with other, more attractive people, and are probably more likely to have a higher N count. Sometimes low N count means "purity", but it probably more often means....."Can't get a date". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 04:18 PM |
| 4 | Men should enter marriage as virgins to increase the stability of the marriage and their marital happinessYou have to be raised in church for it to feel natural. It's one thing to raise a child in a church, it's quite another to convert an adult. I have a lot personal experience in this area, as I married a woman much more religious than myself. She was raised in a strict church, and I was raised with much more liberal values, more or less without any religion. I joined her church when I married her. It never felt right, and I felt "fake". We divorced for other reasons, but I didn't continue in the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Men should enter marriage as virgins to increase the stability of the marriage and their marital happinessMarrying your 3rd sexual partner isn't bad, but the prospect of marrying ANYONE that you haven't had sex with, is a pretty scary prospect. As a reasonably experienced, older man, I would say that's it's kind of a coin toss, as to whether you are going to "click" with someone in bed, regardless of how well you get along outside of bed. It only takes one sexual hang up to really ruin the mood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 04:01 PM |
| 8 | Men should enter marriage as virgins to increase the stability of the marriage and their marital happinessYou can't just "embrace" religious values. People tend to have faith, or they don't, unless you're OK with just going through the motions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Women Aren't Lying, They are just being PoliteThat’s actually a very good observation! I had one girl tell me, that she loved the fact that absolutely nothing about me, reminded her of her ex. Women may even alternate between different types of men, for that very reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 01:51 AM |
| 30 | Women Aren't Lying, They are just being PoliteI find that you're better off asking women what kind of men they HAVE dated, in a historical sense, rather than asking them what kind of men they would LIKE to date, or what kind of men they think they would be attracted to NOW. For instance, in post after post, LOTS of women on this sub freely say they have dated men a lot shorter than the "Tall Chads Only" mentality prevalent on this sub. But if you asked the women what height they would PREFER, they would probably give a taller answer. Any qu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 09:57 PM |
| 14 | How do you solve the "The Fatherless Crisis"?Well they do have this new-fangled thing called “birth control” now. You can actually bump uglies WITHOUT having a kid! It’s a pretty new invention, like rotary phones and black and white TV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Is hypergamy a real concept?I think women will eventually adjust to the changing pay scales and new reality. When it comes down to it, hypergamy is really just an "I've evaluated him, and decided he's fuckable" Jedi mind trick. If it's not social/economic status, it will be something else. There are already some exceptions, like male teachers. Even though teachers make relatively crappy pay, women tend to like them, for their "nurturing" qualities, and often make an exception. I think the exceptions will continue to grow, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 06:07 AM |
| 0 | Curious, who here was reading red pill content pre 2018?So exactly what action is red pill supposed to spur.....full societal change? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 05:54 AM |
| 8 | Curious, who here was reading red pill content pre 2018?I examined it in 2016, mostly for it's role as something of a "pipeline" for the alt-right, at least among tradcoms. TRP is supposed to be nothing more than a set of INDIVIDUAL dating and relationship guidelines, but back then, some guys were using it as an excuse to propose public policy. Fortunately, I think the alt-right's "fall from grace" alleviated much of that problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 09:36 PM |
| 0 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?I should probably expand my lesbian couple research, beyond watching Family Guy. We also tend to assume that one of you always has a U-Haul trailer waiting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 05:21 PM |
| 0 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?We straights always assume that one of you dresses like a lumberjack, and opens beer bottles with your teeth! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?That's what happens when the "girl inches ruler" gets replaced with the "ex-girl inches ruler". The "ex-girl inches ruler" is pretty harsh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 05:07 PM |
| 0 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?Would you say you're the Ellen or the Portia? I know that's a stupid and probably inappropriate question, but when I encounter a lesbian, I always feel the need to ask it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?Anything but Polident or Dentu-Creme is fine with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?I've dated a woman named "Stacey", but I think most of the men here would classify her as a "Becky". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?Sounds like you're dating Adam Driver! :))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadRatings from this in-person speed dating study were much closer, with men rating women an average of 6.5 out of 10, and women rating men as 5.9. https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/X3jz5mriJeWi2uLdF/how-subjective-is-attractiveness A lot factors could be at play.....such as men posting bad photos, or women paying more attention to things that aren't discernable online, such as scent, voice, posture, mannerisms, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI disagree with a lot of TRP findings and conclusions, but one that I definitely DO agree with, is that it's NOT usually a good idea, for a man to show too much emotional weakness and vulnerability, in front of his significant other, whether it's a GF or wife. I have a very close lady friend, that I have been friends with for almost 25 years. We act as each other's therapist when needed. We've seen each other through a lot of BF's and GF's. There are some topics, that are just better left for fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 01:43 AM |
| 1 | It’s finally happening! And I need advice!That fact that you need to actually HAVE HAD SEX, to give good sexual advice, would probably disqualify a lot of guys on this sub! 😒😂 I'm here all week.....remember to tip your waitress! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 01:29 AM |
| – | Should it be acceptable to take actions at the personal level which destroy society at the macro level?People should become parents by CHOICE. Anyone forced to be a parent, is going to be a bad parent. Improve the economic conditions and let people choose. Anything else, and you provoke rebellion. In a democracy, votes substitute for bullets. If the votes don’t settle the matter in a way that pleases most people, the bullets will. Birth technologies are improving by leaps and bounds. In 50 years, NO women will be “having” children, because we will be growing them in artificial wombs. Pregnancy ir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 01:06 AM |
| – | Should it be acceptable to take actions at the personal level which destroy society at the macro level?This is just another, “Give more men sex, or bad stuff is gonna happen!” post. These kinds of posts used to be noteworthy, but now they’re like leaves on the trees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 10:39 PM |
| – | Should it be acceptable to take actions at the personal level which destroy society at the macro level?Oh HELL no…..you don’t get to tell my daughter, my nieces, or any other woman in my family, what they “owe humanity”. We aren’t an ant hill or beehive. There are no castes here, and there are no appointed roles, based on your skin color, or what you do, or don’t have hanging between your legs. Personal liberty needs to come first. If it doesn’t, people will simply battle, until it comes first again. The best thing about the advent of democracy, is that it forces people to come up with solutions … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 10:23 PM |
| – | Benefits of Waiting Until MarriageYou’re obviously more socially conservative and religious than I am, which is fine, the world needs all kinds. Like many, I was “force fed” Christianity early in life, which sort of turned me off to it. As long as the “institutions” are voluntary, non-discriminatory and still allow men and women the same freedoms, I can deal. However, when it comes to “turning back the clock”, you can’t just take one puzzle piece from yesterday’s jigsaw puzzle, and insert it into today’s society. You find yourse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Benefits of Waiting Until MarriageThere are certainly limits to libertarianism, especially in the modern, urban world, where people are necessarily more interconnected. I can stomach a certain amount of social safety net, but when entitlements make up such a huge part of the government budget pie chart, it is time to re-examine things. I can also stomach tax incentives geared to get people to do “productive” things, within reason. I don’t like “rock and a hard place” legislation, such as Texas outlawing abortion, while at same t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Benefits of Waiting Until MarriageOh I hear you! I’m pretty libertarian, which means it’s usually only a matter of time, before either the Democrats or Republicans piss me off, the Dems for reaching into my wallet, and the Repubs for reaching into my personal life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 02:20 AM |
| 3 | Benefits of Waiting Until MarriageYes the SPLC does have a “hair trigger finger” when it comes to accusing various groups of various things. I tend to think of them as a “canary in the coal mine” early warning system, rather than a definitive word on anything. Still, even if your smoke detector goes off a little too often, you should at least make sure it’s not lying, before you dismiss it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 01:54 AM |
| 12 | Benefits of Waiting Until MarriageAh yes, the IFS....labeled a hate group by the SPLC, ties to the Koch Brothers, ties to the right wing State Policy Network which seeks to change state policies. Ties to the flawed 2014 study on same sex parenting. Marrying someone without having sex with them, is equivalent to buying a car, without ever test driving it. Yeah.....I'm going to pass on that. I can't even think of anything, that would create more uncertainty and anxiety. The Institute for Family Studies, has a lot of axes to grind,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 12:16 AM |
| 14 | Tell me your stories of heartache.My wife and I just drifted apart, day by day, week by week. We were both pretty stubborn and not big on compromise, and we just argued too many times, about too many things....finances, parenting, in-laws, weekend priorities, etc. Sex was good, until all the fights outside the bedroom, started to affect things in the bedroom. Over time, we just wound up saying too many hurtful things, that you can't really take back. In movies and TV, marriages always end because of some "Big Event"....adultery,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 10:22 PM |
| 14 | Tell me your stories of heartache.That surprises me, Mrs_Drgree. For some reason, I always pictured you as being pretty socially conservative, and more or less happily married. Maybe you were, before this happened. In any case, I'm sorry that happened to you. My wife went through several rounds of IVF, before we finally had our daughter (we married pretty late in life, and weren't exactly fertile spring chickens), and I know how exhausting and emotionally draining the process is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Male SMV has the greatest potential to peak at 21-25 NOT 35-50Socialization plays a HUGE role though. Allow me to control what TV and social media a girl consumes, during her teens and early 20's, and I'll hand you back a girl who will PUSH ASIDE the jock, to get to the nerdy guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 08:35 PM |
| 5 | Are we dating the same guy/girlThe "If you're not doing anything wrong, you've got nothing to worry about" defense has been used to justify every government intrusion and breach of privacy in human history. I can't believe anyone actually still uses it!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 04:44 AM |
| 2 | Bluepillers are right about personality, but only thatYeah, there's a "sweet spot", where you're loosened up, but still close to 100% on conversation skills....you just have to find it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Bluepillers are right about personality, but only thatLOL....that's actually a very good point, when you're dealing with someone, for whom English is a 2nd language, autism may not be nearly as apparent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 07:06 PM |
| 10 | Bluepillers are right about personality, but only thatI'll probably get downvoted for this, but I'm going to suggest alcohol, as a short term "fix" as well, for certain social situations. I'm not going to lie....drinking played a part in helping me lose my virginity, and in my first few sexual adventures. It got me "over the hump". I'm not saying it's the right solution for everyone, but it damn sure helped me. I'm not autistic, but I was REALLY shy when I was young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 06:50 PM |
| 5 | Are we dating the same guy/girlWell, here's what happened to "DontDateHimGirl" per wikipedia. The site still exists today, but they removed their "ratings". In 2006, Todd Hollis, a Pennsylvania attorney, filed a suit against the website owner as well as two alleged posters and five unidentified women for various claims posted about him which he asserted were false and defamatory. The lawsuit was initially dismissed in Pennsylvania for a lack of personal jurisdiction. In 2007, Hollis filed a second lawsuit in federal court in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 05:27 PM |
| 19 | Are we dating the same guy/girlYep, the potential for abuse alone, makes it an unacceptable tool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 04:44 PM |
| 22 | Are we dating the same guy/girlThese kinds of sites are inevitably going to be subject to legal action, and shut down or modified, just like the old version of "Don't Date Him Girl" was years ago. Anything that doxes people, and criticizes without adequate proof or rebuttal, is living on legal borrowed time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 04:32 PM |
| 13 | What do people think about Kevin Samuels?The thing is, Kevin was always as tough on men, as he was on women, but his toughness on women, is what earned him his controversy. I've seen him rake men over the coals, for not "having anything to offer". I guess we men are USED to people telling us we're crap, and we need to improve! LOL :)))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 04:25 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, how big of a role, would you say that socialization plays in the psychological, emotional and behavioral differences between men and women?LOL….you’d hate some of the men here in Dallas. We have urban cowboy bars filled with guys who wouldn’t know a horse, if it sat on their face! 😂🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 05:48 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, how big of a role, would you say that socialization plays in the psychological, emotional and behavioral differences between men and women?LOL, you’re talking to the father of a soon to be teen girl, you don’t have to convince me of the need for a few warnings to girls. Nevertheless, how those warnings are delivered, makes a big difference, as many of the women on this post pointed out. We’re talking psychology here, not utility. Whether or not men and women NEED different messages regarding sex isn’t the point, the effect of those warnings is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Do you like the opposite gender?I think some men may start out genuinely unlucky, but then lose sight of what's a healthy response to their bad luck, and what's an unhealthy response to it. I couldn't get any dates in high school, but I could always point to exactly what was wrong with me.....extremely bad acne. Once Accutane "cured" me in my first year of college, I was able to gain confidence, get dates and maintain a healthy view towards women. Even then, it took about a year for my brain to "catch up" and not think of myse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, how big of a role, would you say that socialization plays in the psychological, emotional and behavioral differences between men and women?It's not a "chicken or the egg" issue, or even a matter of whether the "warnings" are needed. It's simply a matter of what the constant barrage of warnings actually do. Too much naivety is not a good thing, but neither is an abundance of suspicion and contempt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 09:40 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, how big of a role, would you say that socialization plays in the psychological, emotional and behavioral differences between men and women?It's not that simple though, estrogen and progesterone also play a part in regulating a woman's sex drive. Also, women have different numbers of T receptors in cells, than men do. And no....the experiences of trans people flipping from man to woman, and women to man, are NOT good gauges of relative sex drive. I'll probably take some heat for saying this, but even post surgery, 99% of you, is still the same sex you were before. This whole, "Well she changed to a man and found out that........." b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, how big of a role, would you say that socialization plays in the psychological, emotional and behavioral differences between men and women?LOL....I always feel like such a wuss, when I've eaten all my bread, and they haven't even brought my steak yet! It's like...."What kind of man are you???" 😂🤣 Yep, raising an opposite sex child is tough enough, without having to do it without a partner. Kids need a same sex role model. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, how big of a role, would you say that socialization plays in the psychological, emotional and behavioral differences between men and women?LOL....."Misty, there's two things in life, that will lead you to ruin.....boys, and the bread at TX Roadhouse!" 😂 I think one of the advantages of a two parent household, is you can get a more balanced set of views. We could always ask the other parent, and get a different answer! LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 08:07 PM |
| 6 | Ladies, how big of a role, would you say that socialization plays in the psychological, emotional and behavioral differences between men and women?It can be hard to know, how much of what makes you....you, is your basic urges, and how much is the "brain washing" of society. When you're very young, you tend to assume that everyone else has more or less, exactly the same childhood as you. It's only when you get older, that you realize how different the childhood of others can be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, how big of a role, would you say that socialization plays in the psychological, emotional and behavioral differences between men and women?It sounds like you got a very "modern" upbringing. My parents also stressed modern, egalitarian views for most things, with the exception of sexual behavior for teens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, how big of a role, would you say that socialization plays in the psychological, emotional and behavioral differences between men and women?Yep, it's not just parenting, it's media, school, church, peer group, work culture, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, how big of a role, would you say that socialization plays in the psychological, emotional and behavioral differences between men and women?Good point....Even a single, profound message like that, can have a major effect on one's lifelong interaction with the opposite sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 07:16 PM |
| 7 | Ladies, how big of a role, would you say that socialization plays in the psychological, emotional and behavioral differences between men and women?I'm sorry to hear that. It sounds like you received some of the same messages my sister did. I think parents sometimes think in the short term ("Protect my daughter!"), while not thinking about the long term consequences of those messages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 07:12 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, how big of a role, would you say that socialization plays in the psychological, emotional and behavioral differences between men and women?I know the differences in the way that sex was presented to boys and girls were pretty profound for my generation (Gen-X). I wasn't sure if it's still the same for younger generations, or if sexual socialization has become more gender neutral. I've tried to present a balanced set of views to my daughter, but at the same time, emphasize reasonable caution. She's a pre-teen, so I still have a while before I have to worry about it LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 07:08 PM |
| 9 | Ladies, how big of a role, would you say that socialization plays in the psychological, emotional and behavioral differences between men and women?It's good that you had the strength to resist society's "picket fence" expectations, and carve your own path. Unfortunately, not everyone does. Being an avid reader, and having a curiosity about the "outside" world, and opinions different than what you were told growing up, certainly helps. Fortunately, the internet has given people access to far more varied views, than before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 07:01 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, how big of a role, would you say that socialization plays in the psychological, emotional and behavioral differences between men and women?Thanks for your response! It's good to know that not every woman is raised with negative messages toward the opposite sex. I think it's sometimes hard for people to gauge the effects of socialization on themselves, because you don't have a basis for comparison. You don't have another version of you, that was socialized very differently, that you can compare notes with, and see how differently, you could have turned out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Do you like the opposite gender?As a man, I certainly do. I enjoy hearing their insights and points of view, and marveling at how different they often are, from ours. Women often spend more time thinking and worrying about people, while we men are often centered on more abstract ideas, concepts, and the "big picture". Women have been socialized to observe emotions, hints and body language more closely, while we men tend to assume, that if someone's got something to say.....they'll say it. The differences in communication style… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 05:31 PM |
| 5 | Here is why traditional women/wives are becoming more and more rareYou’re living in a 19th century Jane Austen world that doesn’t exist anymore. Extended family are largely a thing of the past, and close communities rarely exist outside of rural areas. Without those, this “vetting” is impossible. Marriages can be tracked and researched, because they are a matter of public record. Relationships that don’t involve marriage are another matter, and subject to here-say, differences in interpretation, and overall bitterness. You can’t get an accurate assessment of AN… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 03:24 AM |
| 10 | Here is why traditional women/wives are becoming more and more rareI hope you’re joking about this “vetting council”. All of the wingmen I used to hang with, looked great “on paper”, and were excellent liars. This isn’t an 19th century Amish community. . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 02:47 AM |
| 3 | The long and short of it is as a man you need to be attractive and high value and if you refuse to do that or simply can’t then unfortunately life is unfair and you will miss outI was in the nightclub scene for many years, and many guys tend to stick with an FWB, when they find one, at least for a while. I always found sex more enjoyable with a woman that I've already had good sex with before. Also, some guys had "parallel searches" going, one for a short term relationship, and another for a long term one, sort of the "Miss Right" and "Miss Right Now" thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 08:30 PM |
| 2 | The long and short of it is as a man you need to be attractive and high value and if you refuse to do that or simply can’t then unfortunately life is unfair and you will miss outI like to combine ALL the bad photo memes.....I take a shirtless selfie, from too low of an angle, while holding a fish, with a lot of unidentified women in the photo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Why do men give dating advice to women more than vice versa?Well, men are still expected to take a more active role, in approaching and initiating the relationship. Things often get a bit more equal later on, at least in my experience, but in the early stages, men are expected to do more. When you're the sex that is expected to do more, then it stands to reason, that you are more likely to make a mistake. Therefore, advice is going to seem more valuable to men, than it does to women. Then again, women's magazines like Cosmopolitan, used to be FILLED with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 08:02 PM |
| 0 | How were you first introduced?I first heard about the Red Pill, through it's connection with the Alt-Right, on a political message board that I used to hang out at. Those guys didn't have very high opinions of women, and often advocated removing women's right to vote, hold certain jobs, hold political office, etc. The arguments there would get pretty intense at times. When they shut down my favorite political board, I sort of drifted over to Reddit, and then a post from PPD appeared on my FYP, and I checked it out. At first,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 06:48 PM |
| 6 | Women Are Significantly More Likely To Lose Interest In Sex In Long Time Relationships In Spite Of Age, Relationship Satisfaction, Sexual Satisfaction, and Child Rearing Status.It’s not the reading of these studies that’s really harmful, it’s the apathy, anxiety, trepidation, uncertainty and hesitation that they produce in many young men, especially those without a lot of real world dating and relationship experience. There’s a point where data collection becomes counterproductive to action. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 11:53 PM |
| 5 | Women should definitely be shamed for settlingNah, i would say that I’m honestly a decent 7/10, maybe a 6.5 on laundry day, and I won’t even touch a 2/10. When I walk into a nightclub, I find maybe 1 out of 3 women attractive at most. You are GREATLY overestimating the amount of “slumming” that a 9/10 does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 08:22 PM |
| 4 | You’d be pretty guarded and picky too if everyone from the opposite sex who approached you was trying to penetrate youAs a man, I tend to agree. I'm a longtime nightclubber, and that's pretty much the only place, that I've ever tried to cold approach a woman in a real life situation. Approaching a woman in places like a health club, laundromat, sidewalk, etc, definitely seems awkward, as is approaching one at their place of business. Approaching one in venues where they are physically "trapped", ie., elevator, train or subway car, bus, plane, etc., is even worse. I've always stuck to nightclubs and online datin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 01:43 AM |
| 4 | You’d be pretty guarded and picky too if everyone from the opposite sex who approached you was trying to penetrate youThe funny thing is, women from Latin American countries often say that American men are some of the most timid men around, in terms of approaching, flirting, even eye contact. I guess it all comes down to culture. And if you think American men are timid, try spending some time in London. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 01:27 AM |
| 6 | How are men supposed to meet women these days?I'm always afraid of getting hit with a meteor when I walk out my front door! I had three meteors narrowly miss me last week! :))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 10:21 PM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to meet women these days?Context.....we're talking about dating and approach methods here. It's reasonable to assume that he doesn't mean serious law breaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 08:08 PM |
| 7 | How are men supposed to meet women these days?You're attempting to use the "Appeal to Extremes" logical fallacy, by taking the other person's argument, and extrapolating it far beyond what the other person intended. Don't do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 08:03 PM |
| 9 | How are men supposed to meet women these days?Thanks for your response! Yeah, I always say, never burn a bridge, if you can help it! There have been times when I danced with a woman, and she said "Thank you", so I let her return to her table alone, and then later, she would come to the bar and talk with me. There are lots of reasons why a woman might say "No" at first, and then come around later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 07:31 PM |
| 4 | How are men supposed to meet women these days?LOL...thanks, with the guys on THIS sub, it's a full time job! 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 06:33 PM |
| 3 | How are men supposed to meet women these days?Hello Doll! These dudes just don't know how to deal with rejection. I once got pepper sprayed, and had a drink thrown in my face by the same woman! I just said..."OK, OK....I can take a HINT!" :))))))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 06:11 PM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to meet women these days?Yep, strange as it may seem, if the place has a steep cover charge, that's usually a good sign. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 06:00 PM |
| 5 | How are men supposed to meet women these days?Yeah, my ex-wife was a friend of a friend. She's a good woman, we just weren't compatible in the long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 05:29 PM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to meet women these days?Thanks! :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 05:19 PM |
| 3 | How are men supposed to meet women these days?Yep.....been there, done that, wrote the post, bought the T-shirt! 😁 https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/xvrto6/when\_it\_comes\_to\_mens\_fortunes\_in\_datingthe\_few/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 05:12 PM |
| 43 | How are men supposed to meet women these days?Urban Tex's nightclub tips and guidelines...... Day of the week - Friday and Saturday nights are best. Lots of people still work regular business hours, and they like to party on weekend evenings. That is especially true for women. Women tend to loosen up, and are more open to interaction on those nights. Plus, a woman that is unaccompanied on a weekend evening, is less likely to have a BF, because a lot of people still consider Fri/Sat to be date nights. Time of the evening - Early evening is a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 04:57 PM |
| 2 | No, the 80/20 rule does not existLOL....I was always at least in the top 15-20% (around 2-3 women a year) throughout my entire bachelorhood, but I never felt all that "lucky". Then again, I tended to be a "serial monogamist", so I wasn't always out there looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 09:13 PM |
| 0 | No, the 80/20 rule does not existLOL...you obviously never saw me in high school! Sure, it all counts, but it only takes one bad thing, to fuck the rest up. My only point, at that I was definitely nothing special in high school. If I could have landed a girl or two if I wanted, even a very mediocre one, then high school girls can't be all THAT hypergamous! LOL Perhaps the hypergamy develops later.....high school is a pretty insulated environment. College can be too, especially in insolated "college towns". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 09:01 PM |
| 2 | No, the 80/20 rule does not existHard to say....the primary difference between OF and "old school" free porn, much of which was made looooong ago, is that they can actually message and interact with the girls. Whether that represents just an "augmented" porn experience, or an actual attempt to try to get with some of these girls, may depend on the guy. The skillful girls probably have ways of making every fan, feel like he's "the only one", but I really pity any guy that falls for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 08:25 PM |
| 4 | No, the 80/20 rule does not existMy anecdotal experience counters that. I had acne so bad in high school, my face could literally have stood in for a pepperoni pizza. I used to go the doctor to get the cysts on my face drained with needle. Nevertheless, I still had girls interested in me, I just wasn't interested in them. I was young and stupid, and cheerleader obsessed at the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 08:21 PM |
| 5 | No, the 80/20 rule does not existAs an older guy, my only conclusion, is that younger men are STUPID. Paying money to admire and interact with a woman that has 1,000 other men paying to do the same thing, isn't exactly a good ROI. Don't get me wrong....I've looked at my share of porn over the years, but at least all of mine was FREE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 08:14 PM |
| 4 | No, the 80/20 rule does not existIt only takes a slightly smaller percentage of men failing to reproduce in each generation, in comparison with women....say 90% of men reproducing vs 95% of women, repeated over the course of many generations, to result in male Y chromosome diversity, being only a fraction of female mitochondrial chromosome diversity. I actually plan on doing a post on this topic in the near future. The whole 17 to 1 thing is treated like a "Warlord Chad Orgy".....it isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 08:10 PM |
| 6 | Living apart together....commitment without cohabitation....is it the wave of the future?Not to mention those awkward, "Ummm.....you've been at my house for 4 days and nights now.....maybe it's time for us to.....recharge a bit?" conversations LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 08:08 PM |
| 4 | Living apart together....commitment without cohabitation....is it the wave of the future?LOL....but is that because you find men hard to live with, or because YOU"RE hard to live with? LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 08:06 PM |
| 0 | Living apart together....commitment without cohabitation....is it the wave of the future?Meh, humans aren't really monogamous by nature, anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 07:01 PM |
| 4 | Living apart together....commitment without cohabitation....is it the wave of the future?The "cheating imperative" is no worse for women, than it is for men. Relationships in an egalitarian society are always going to evolve, as people determine what works best for themselves, as well as what can be negotiated with their partners. Trial and error is the basis of determining what makes you happy. If you've never been in a cohabitational relationship, you don't know if it will work for you. As a divorced man myself, I can say that the "picket fence" life, leaves a LOT to be desired, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Living apart together....commitment without cohabitation....is it the wave of the future?LOL...that seems like maladjustment, rather than adjustment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Living apart together....commitment without cohabitation....is it the wave of the future?"Absence makes the heart grow fonder!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Living apart together....commitment without cohabitation....is it the wave of the future?LOL....I can see where this arrangement might require a bit more trust! 😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Holding yourself to some unachievable standard of what it takes as a man to get laid is a recipe for disappointment and resentmentLMAO.....that's brilliant! The more these guys see women as a problem to be solved, the more daunting and intimidating, women are going to seem. They are better off seeing them as buses.....didn't catch this one, go after the next. Of course, I've always been an egalitarian....we men are buses too, but we're often already seen that way! LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Holding yourself to some unachievable standard of what it takes as a man to get laid is a recipe for disappointment and resentmentI've always gotten a lot more action, from a nice haircut, some decent clothes, a bottle of tequila, and an IDGAF attitude, than all the analysis in the world. You REALLY CAN overthink this stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Men: Would you rather be with a woman who has a relatively high N-count, or a woman who has an N-count of 1 (LTR), but he was an amazing sex partner?It really is, nothing determines your happiness or unhappiness in life, like your choice of partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Men: Would you rather be with a woman who has a relatively high N-count, or a woman who has an N-count of 1 (LTR), but he was an amazing sex partner?Thanks for your response, that is an interesting viewpoint. You're very blessed to have found "The One" relatively early in life. Some of us search for a long time, and STILL wind up marrying the wrong person! 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 10:02 PM |
| 3 | Men: Would you rather be with a woman who has a relatively high N-count, or a woman who has an N-count of 1 (LTR), but he was an amazing sex partner?Yep....if a guy makes you orgasm all the time, and he's your first, you probably won't think he's anything special. On the other hand, If you've had 30 lovers, and he's the first one to make you orgasm, you might have much more regard for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 08:57 PM |
| 7 | Men: Would you rather be with a woman who has a relatively high N-count, or a woman who has an N-count of 1 (LTR), but he was an amazing sex partner?"I've only dated one man in my entire life.....his name is Clark Kent!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 08:40 PM |
| 12 | Men: Would you rather be with a woman who has a relatively high N-count, or a woman who has an N-count of 1 (LTR), but he was an amazing sex partner?I've got to hand it to you, OP, you've really turned the "N Count" issue upside down with this one, and made people think! Good show! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 08:36 PM |
| 1 | If it were more normalized for men and women to be friends, subs like this wouldn’t existIt was my first "professional" job out of college, so I was just trying to get my foot in the door for a couple years. Banking and insurance tend to have lower pay scales, but you get the experience in your field, and you can do the 2 year job switch for higher pay, which I did. Traditionally the banking and insurance industries are dominated by women. Lots of dating opportunities, if you don't mind "crapping where you eat" so to speak, when it comes to dating women you work with. It can be risk… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 07:30 PM |
| 3 | If it were more normalized for men and women to be friends, subs like this wouldn’t existI think men and women can be good friends, but it often takes a unique set of circumstances to throw them together. One of my best friends of 20 years, is a woman. We went on a blind date, but I wasn't attracted to her....not sure about her attraction to me. However, we just have such a good time talking about things, that we just kept meeting for lunch. You hear a lot of stuff from a female friend, that you don't hear from women you're dating. It's a different world. I experienced something sim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 07:19 PM |
| 6 | If it were more normalized for men and women to be friends, subs like this wouldn’t existI would say this is true to some extent. One of my best friends is a woman, we've been pals for over 20 years. She definitely does not like weak, indecisive men, and she does consistently try to shoot above her league. To her credit, she does take commitment very seriously, once she does decide to commit to a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Not only does the D.E.N.N.I.S. system work, it should be the ultimate blueprint for any man seeking to date women casually.Well, a version of her, that not's a relative. i was just referring to her slow evolution during the course of the show, from "the voice of reason", to someone as fucked up as the rest of them! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Men who want to improve their dating lives need to drop the video gamesNever cared much for weed, but definitely did the whiskey thing. Even spent a night in the Lew Sterrett Hotel for public intox, way back in my 20’s. Learned my limits after that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 05:58 AM |
| 8 | Men who want to improve their dating lives need to drop the video gamesI think it comes down to making a plan to do something constructive, otherwise, you just wind up replacing one time waster, with another. Time wasters tend to be easy, enjoyable activities, which is why they tend to waste so much time! LOL Having an actual agenda for the day or week, sounds pretty nerdy, but it actually gets me to do useful things. Some people swear by the "Do one thing per day, you don't really want to do" method. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 01:15 AM |
| 8 | Not only does the D.E.N.N.I.S. system work, it should be the ultimate blueprint for any man seeking to date women casually.Yeeeaaaaah.....I'm going to have to call BS on this one. This has too much of a 1980's "Penthouse Forum Letter" feel to it. As a longtime nightclub veteran, I've hung around with some pretty charming "wingmen", and even the best of them, has to work at it. Even in upper scale Dallas and Houston clubs.....never saw the "pack of dogs" thing, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Not only does the D.E.N.N.I.S. system work, it should be the ultimate blueprint for any man seeking to date women casually.If I use these methods, will they get me a wonderful woman like "Sweet Dee"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Men are an average of 70% of dating app users in the US and 85% in Europe, with women a small superminority in bothI don't think younger Millennials and Gen-Zrs view nightclubs and alcohol the same way, that older gens do. A trip to a club at least once a week, was pretty much a standard for us Gen-Xrs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 07:07 AM |
| 2 | Men are an average of 70% of dating app users in the US and 85% in Europe, with women a small superminority in bothAs a long time nightclubber, I agree, but everyone else here, is going to downvote us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 06:53 AM |
| 10 | Men are an average of 70% of dating app users in the US and 85% in Europe, with women a small superminority in bothHe's got a point though. As a guy who practically "grew up" in the Dallas and Houston nightclub scene, I've always had MUCH better luck in clubs, than online. Then again, I'm only 5'8" or 5'9", depending on what kind of shoes I wear, but I do have a pretty good face, hair and skin. I get completely filtered out on the apps, due to my height, but I can usually make a good impression in person, where women aren't obsessed with "the numbers". I think there are actually a lot of guys out there like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 06:47 AM |
| 3 | CMV: At this point, this sub is the red pill lightMany Texans accept far right ideology, largely because of a combination of religion, fear of “gun grabbers”, and a general suspicion of anything “urban” in nature. As for the red pill guys on this sub, they want to revert to more “traditional” rules and lifestyle, because they think it will give them the subservient wife they want, and some fantasy 1950’s sitcom family. Both groups are delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 07:42 AM |
| 1 | CMV: At this point, this sub is the red pill lightI’m a libertarian and egalitarian. The libertarian part means I think I think people should be able to manage their own lifestyles, relationships, sexuality, education and career. The equalitarian part means that I think libertarianism is for EVERYONE, regardless of their skin color, gender, etc. Not everyone in Texas is a right wing religious nutbag. I usually vote Democrat, not that it does much good in Texas. I’ve been those things my whole life, and a divorce isn’t going to change that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 07:27 AM |
| 3 | RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to *seriously* date?LOL OK I see your point, but high schools really should be off limits to those over 21 or so, due to differences in maturity. A 17 year old hasn't had time to mature.....a 40 year old woman has. Even the "Romeo and Juliet" laws only give a 2 year grace period, for most states, maybe 3 at the most. The European formula solves some of this problem. Take the man's age, divide by 2, then add 7.....that's the minimum age woman, that the man should realistically date. Hey, by that formula, I'm allowed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 12:47 AM |
| 1 | RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to *seriously* date?I thought sarcasm was the /s or s/ symbol though. Oh well....my bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 12:15 AM |
| 4 | RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to *seriously* date?LOL...at what point, does it become not creepy? If Duncan Macloud is 400, and the woman he dates is 390....is that still creepy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 12:04 AM |
| 1 | CMV: At this point, this sub is the red pill lightWhoa, let's not lump us Gen-X men in with this crowd. We grew up as one of the most egalitarian generations. Even as a divorced man, I still have enough self awareness, to realize that I was equally at fault for my divorce. I may no longer believe in the concept of marriage, but that's because I believe that men and women are equally unsuited, for monogamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 11:52 PM |
| 3 | CMV: At this point, this sub is the red pill lightTRP is supposed to be all about what MEN should do and think. It's not about telling women what they need to do and think, either for the good of themselves, or for the good of society. The recent abundance of implied, "Give men more sex, or society will collapse!" posts is WELL beyond the scope of TRP, and well beyond the scope of this sub. TRP is a "take it or leave it" recipe for men to manage their PERSONAL relationships, it's not a social/political instruction manual for managing a society.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 11:36 PM |
| 3 | RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to *seriously* date?I can just imagine that conversation with my daughter.... "Honey, you remember that nice girl you roomed with during your first year of college? Well....we ran into each other a few weeks ago and.....um....." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 10:35 PM |
| 1 | RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to *seriously* date?I won't have a problem with her dating awkward dudes her own age. But when dudes in their late 20's are "trolling" high schools, it's time to take a stand LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 10:19 PM |
| 1 | RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to *seriously* date?My pre-teen is young enough to take my suggestions on things.....but I know that won't last long! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 09:43 PM |
| 1 | RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to *seriously* date?I can certainly see the quantitative advantages. It's a lot easier to date one 300 lb woman, than it is to date two 150lb ones, or three 100 lb ones! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 09:30 PM |
| 1 | RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to *seriously* date?What's your current weight range, possum? Are you still a "If she ain't 280, she ain't a lady!" guy? :))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 08:20 PM |
| 4 | RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to *seriously* date?Lol….psych!!! Seriously I’d feel like a total perv, just dating anyone under 40. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 07:59 PM |
| 2 | RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to *seriously* date?If she’s not a Def Leppard fan….it’s off! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 07:45 PM |
| 2 | RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to *seriously* date?LOL….I’ll pass. Bringing her home to my daughter, who is only a few years younger, would be….awkward lol. Also, I like to have something to talk about. Ever try discussing the First Gulf War or Chernobyl with a 19 year old? Lol I won’t even get into music choices! Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Study finds that sexless people are just as happy as sexually active people.Let's be honest.....a good portion of the excitement around sex, is the anticipation of it. It's a bit like Christmas for a kid....you hope the actual event, matches the buildup. Or as a guy once said...."The most fun I ever had with my Corvette, was the day BEFORE I got it". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 06:24 PM |
| 1 | RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to *seriously* date?I could give you one of my 48 year olds.....but you'd be robbing the cradle! 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 06:16 PM |
| 21 | RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to *seriously* date?Well, I just hit the half century mark, but I won't go over 25, although I'd prefer 18-21. Just kidding!....40-52. :)))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 06:05 PM |
| 5 | Is it worst for a married man to get another woman pregnant, or for a married woman to get pregnant by another man?Fuck anyone's "lineage", we're talking about right and wrong. They are equally bad offenses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Are red pill fathers contradictory when raising daughters?Nothing wrong with being tradcom, but always have a secure and up-to-date financial backup plan. As a divorced guy myself, I can vouch for the fact that people really do change after marriage, and cohabitation itself, brings to light a lot of things, that you don't learn about that person, when you're just dating them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Are red pill fathers contradictory when raising daughters?The ideals of 50 years ago, aren't the ideals of today. The realities of 50 years ago, aren't the realities of today. We live in an age of independence, self-centeredness, and ever-present divorce. Financial self-reliance is an absolute must, and I emphasize that in my daughter. Always prepare for the worst, whether you get it or not. 50% of marriages end in divorce, it's silly to assume that will never happen to you. You can only control yourself and your options, you can't control another pers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Women ghost after sex just as often as menThat's because none of the women he sleeps with, ever come back, apparently. When nobody ever comes back for a 2nd round, you're probably going to work up a high body count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 06:00 PM |
| 1 | How many men on this sub would benefit a lot, from simply being more relaxed around the women you're attracted to?I think it just comes down to being comfortable in your own skin, while still having some charm skills. Be you....but be the best "you". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 05:57 PM |
| 1 | How many men on this sub would benefit a lot, from simply being more relaxed around the women you're attracted to?Well, for me, it was just a matter of good experiences with women resulting in more confidence and relaxation, and more confidence and relaxation resulting in more good experiences with women. It's sort of a feedback loop. After a while, you just get comfortable in your skin, I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 05:18 PM |
| 1 | How many men on this sub would benefit a lot, from simply being more relaxed around the women you're attracted to?LOL....and we all know, that NO woman, has ever been guilty of that exact same thing! :))))) Hey.....it was high school, I was young and stupid......cut me some slack! LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 05:15 PM |
| 3 | How many men on this sub would benefit a lot, from simply being more relaxed around the women you're attracted to?Well said. I think this sums up what I was trying to say, pretty well Honestly, I think relaxation in a lot of different environments where you meet women, is half the battle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 05:12 PM |
| 1 | How many men on this sub would benefit a lot, from simply being more relaxed around the women you're attracted to?LOL I’m not one of the ones on this sub complaining EVERY DAMN DAY about not getting women. I’m usually here to counter RP half truths, and provide advice that sometimes only an older man can give. But enough about me….what about YOU? What are your qualifications to dispense advice, and judge others here? What’s YOUR experience level? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 06:12 AM |
| 2 | How many men on this sub would benefit a lot, from simply being more relaxed around the women you're attracted to?I wasn't implying that any group of women, or any individual women, are better than any other, it's all subjective. Also, I wasn't implying that any man should use one woman as "practice" for another. I was simply noting that attraction can leave you tongue-tied, when you would normally have a certain level of charm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 10:38 PM |
| 3 | How many men on this sub would benefit a lot, from simply being more relaxed around the women you're attracted to?This "frame" is simply an IDGAF attitude. If you DGAF, then you're going to be yourself, you're not going to be anyone else. Everyone switches "modes". You don't behave the same in a business environment, as you would in a nightclub, or on a deer hunting trip with your buds. The guy who can only adapt to one environment, has to STAY in only one environment. You can hold your "frame", but your behavior needs to fit the circumstances you're in, to be successful. You can be a "bad boy" in a biker b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 10:34 PM |
| 4 | How many men on this sub would benefit a lot, from simply being more relaxed around the women you're attracted to?Spare me the Red Pill Tate jargon Of course, I was clueless, I was in HIGH SCHOOL, dude! In my case, that was 30 years ago. I made up for lost time in college and beyond, with a lot of help from Dallas, and the lively nightclub scene here. It's the best "trial by fire" method I know, for honing your social skills. As I said, I learned to "be myself" regardless of who I was around, but it didn't come immediately. Also, if you think people always behave the same around everyone, you're mistaken, r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 10:14 PM |
| 3 | How many men on this sub would benefit a lot, from simply being more relaxed around the women you're attracted to?Yeah, I tend to avoid approaching women at their place of business as well. It just doesn't "feel" right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 09:55 PM |
| 4 | How many men on this sub would benefit a lot, from simply being more relaxed around the women you're attracted to?That's a good point.....I was always taught not to approach women in venues where they don't have a physical "escape" avenue.....elevators, subway and train cars, buses, planes, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 09:22 PM |
| 6 | How many men on this sub would benefit a lot, from simply being more relaxed around the women you're attracted to?Alcohol always worked wonders for me....unfortunately, they tend to frown on you using it during business hours! :)))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 09:04 PM |
| 6 | How many men on this sub would benefit a lot, from simply being more relaxed around the women you're attracted to?It's that, "I've only got about a minute, to say something charming and witty!" pressure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 08:56 PM |
| 3 | How many men on this sub would benefit a lot, from simply being more relaxed around the women you're attracted to?They HAVE to treat you well.....it's the law! 😂🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 08:54 PM |
| 6 | How many men on this sub would benefit a lot, from simply being more relaxed around the women you're attracted to?The things is, you don't even have to come off "bad".....just aloof or not interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 08:53 PM |
| 5 | Sexual Emancipation EqualityYeah, I don't see the connection....if you're unattached, then feel free to play around with any consenting adult you want. If you're attached, then respect your commitment. This is just repackaged whataboutism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 07:27 PM |
| 12 | Sexual Emancipation EqualityThe ability of some men on this sub to somehow connect completely unrelated issues, is amazing. It's like, "You got a pony for your birthday, so it follows that I should get a motorcycle on Good Friday". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 07:23 PM |
| 5 | When men are unable to get a wife, ultimately they will resort to betraying their tribe, this is how Ephialtes betrayed spartans, it is because he couldnt get laid.Hey it’s a unique set of skills they have! Getting drunk at a bar with a girl is tough, but overthrowing society? That’s easy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 12:29 AM |
| 13 | When men are unable to get a wife, ultimately they will resort to betraying their tribe, this is how Ephialtes betrayed spartans, it is because he couldnt get laid.Actually, young men are becoming OBESE. Check the rejection stats. The military doesn’t need men that have to be rolled across the battlefield. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 12:23 AM |
| 10 | When men are unable to get a wife, ultimately they will resort to betraying their tribe, this is how Ephialtes betrayed spartans, it is because he couldnt get laid.I’m certainly not planning on standing still, and letting my daughter and nieces be “standard issued” to a blackmailing incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 12:07 AM |
| 21 | When men are unable to get a wife, ultimately they will resort to betraying their tribe, this is how Ephialtes betrayed spartans, it is because he couldnt get laid.There’s at least one “If I don’t get pussy, something BAD is going to happen!” post here a week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 12:01 AM |
| 7 | Not feeling desired is what makes most men (including me) have problems with women.The BIGGEST reason women don’t compliment men more, is because men read too much into it. Even as a guy myself, I’ve seen this happen. It’s like dude……when a woman says she likes your shirt, it means she LIKES YOUR SHIRT….not anything else. Take the compliment gracefully, and maybe you’ll get more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 01:46 AM |
| 4 | Young men provide in peace their labor to the society, in war their blood; in exchange they get to get a wife to have children and he is deeply invested in the well being of society, modern society destroyed this social contract and expects young men to uphold a society that gives them NOTHINGYep, if a woman has her own career, she’s “too independent”. If she wants a man to take care of her, she’s a “gold digger”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Young men provide in peace their labor to the society, in war their blood; in exchange they get to get a wife to have children and he is deeply invested in the well being of society, modern society destroyed this social contract and expects young men to uphold a society that gives them NOTHINGLOL Thanks! Becoming a parent to an opposite sex child, really changes your perspective. Unfortunately, Texas has more than it’s share of hard right wing nutbags, so be careful! Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 07:52 PM |
| 17 | Young men provide in peace their labor to the society, in war their blood; in exchange they get to get a wife to have children and he is deeply invested in the well being of society, modern society destroyed this social contract and expects young men to uphold a society that gives them NOTHINGWhen you have very few choices, you’re going to consider the choices you do have, to be “acceptable”. It’s only when all the choices are presented, that critical thinking and an informed decision can be made. Do you really think the caged bird is happy?…..or just resigned to his fate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 09:41 AM |
| 20 | Young men provide in peace their labor to the society, in war their blood; in exchange they get to get a wife to have children and he is deeply invested in the well being of society, modern society destroyed this social contract and expects young men to uphold a society that gives them NOTHINGYawn….another thinly disguised “Give men sex, or we’ll topple society” threat. As a father of a daughter, and an uncle to several wonderful nieces, you’re not taking any of their rights away…..Got it? Millions of other fathers feel exactly the same way I do. That’s really all that needs to be said here. Find a solution that everyone can live with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Societal contribution and reproductive access.This all sounds incredibly slackerish to me. I'm a software engineer, primarily because I enjoy being a software engineer, the good pay is just a bonus. I've wanted to be the best at what I do, since I was a little kid. What happened to simple things, like the satisfaction of a job well done? Don't you want a decent car? Decent clothes? Good lord.....who wants to live with their parents any longer than they have to? I loved my parents, but at times, they were insufferable. Everyone should strive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Societal contribution and reproductive access.I'd upvote you a 1,000 times for this comment, if I could, Bats! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 01:13 AM |
| 5 | Our ancestors did not get laid for centuries, we threw sh*t at each other and waged tribal warfare in the African savannah until someone figured out that guaranteeing everyone a wife thought monogamy would mean every man has a reason to cooperate and maintain society, this now has been brokenEnforcing monogamous marriage worked well, in small towns and villages, where everyone knew everyone else, sexual activity outside of marriage was hard to hide, and people died within 50 miles of where they were born. Urbanization brings anonymity.....as a Dallas resident, I can date two women who live a mile apart, and they most likely would never find out about each other, unless I did something really stupid, or I just didn't have time/money to keep both of them happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 12:05 AM |
| 1 | If a guy had 'gay' experiences...Sure, but without sounding TOO hypocritical, knowing about HER's, and telling her about YOUR's, are two different things. If you've got an experience in your past, that for whatever reason, is going to "disqualify" you with a lot of women, it's probably best to keep it under wraps. That night in Bangkok with 3 women, a lady boy, and a goat, should probably be kept out of the resume. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 11:23 PM |
| 1 | If a guy had 'gay' experiences...In my case, it would depend on my "intentions". If she's just an FWB, then I probably wouldn't care. If she's someone I might marry (which given my recently divorced status probably won't happen for many years), I would have to wonder, if she could decide to "leap back over the fence" at some point in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 11:17 PM |
| 2 | If a guy had 'gay' experiences...No good ever comes from talking about past lovers. If you were with a guy, she's going to wonder if you really like women. If you were with a slender woman, and your current GF is plump, she's going to wonder if you really prefer thin women, and she's just a temp. If all your past GF's were college graduates, and she's a "blue collar" girl, she's going to wonder if you would prefer someone more educated, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 11:03 PM |
| 13 | “Low libido” litmus test.A lot of people don't realize that what goes on OUTSIDE the bedroom, has a huge impact on what goes on in the bedroom. My ex-wife and I fought over finances, parenting styles, in-laws, work hours, even weekend priorities, and we both wound up not wanting to have sex.....oddly enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 10:57 PM |
| 10 | “Low libido” litmus test.I think a lot of guys here don't realize how much a woman's sex drive can fluctuate each month. My ex-wife's certainly did. That's another one of those things you find out when cohabitating, that may not have been a factor, when you were just dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Men like to complain that women always end up with “bad boys,” but it’s unfair to criticize women for that. You have to get to know someone before you know what they are like!There are no guarantees. In my personal case, I married the woman who LOVES sex, and still wound up divorced, due to all the fighting we did OUTSIDE the bedroom. You know.....all that other stuff....finances, parenting styles, in-laws, career differences and choices, etc. Perhaps things are different between men and women in this area. Men can be excited by the meek, mousey, librarian in the baggy, beige sweater and frumpy pants. Women probably can't say the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Men like to complain that women always end up with “bad boys,” but it’s unfair to criticize women for that. You have to get to know someone before you know what they are like!Nobody is saying that physical attraction isn’t important, but you have to manage your expectations. I certainly enjoyed a few “Miss Right Nows” while I was looking for “Miss Right”, but I never expected them to be the same woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Men like to complain that women always end up with “bad boys,” but it’s unfair to criticize women for that. You have to get to know someone before you know what they are like!Well, the “I think I can change him!” mindset is part of the delusion. If he hasn’t changed for anyone else, then he probably won’t change for you….unless you catch him while he’s still 19 years old maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Did Red Pillers Became Richer Or Started Getting More Laid After Being Red Pill?This is going to sound terribly blue pilled, like Disney level blue pilled, but I honestly think that one of the reasons I've done reasonably well with women, is because I genuinely LIKE them. I like spending time with them, I like talking to them, and I find their views interesting. I don't know if there really is a substitute for that. When you enjoy someone's company, you're going to come off better, and appear more charming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 06:43 PM |
| 1 | OLD is to real life dating what e-commerce is to shopping malls.You're still facing 4 to 1 odds against you, as a man on Tinder in the US, and a dismal 9-to1 odds in the UK. If you live in a major urban area, I still suggest "supplementing" your online activities with nightclubs. Facially, I'm an attractive enough guy to turn women's heads often in nightclubs, but my 5'9" height tends to get me filtered out of the apps, unless I lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 09:10 PM |
| 0 | OLD is to real life dating what e-commerce is to shopping malls.Well, as a Gen-X guy who practically lived in nightclubs throughout the 90s, and early 2000's, there was a NEVER a time, when chain restaurant bars were good places to meet women. Most of those were just places to have a drink while couples were waiting for their table, and where a single person can eat a meal, while sitting at the bar. The "dedicated" bars and nightclubs, with dance floors, live music, pool tables, cover charges, drink specials, etc., were always the "singles bar" places. Tradi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 09:03 PM |
| 3 | What reasons would you NOT date a fellow PPD user?Thanks! My divorce was 18 months ago, so it's ancient history now. I actually find dating a lot easier as an older guy, than I did when I was younger. Maybe everyone's expectations just get more reasonable as they get older, or maybe they just mellow out. Maybe I'm just more relaxed these days, with more of an IDGAF attitude, but somehow it just all seems easier. I'm a work from home software guy, so I do my share of surfing when I'm ahead on my deadlines. The debate on this sub can be addicting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 04:01 AM |
| 1 | What reasons would you NOT date a fellow PPD user?"....a negative, fun-draining leech of a woman" Sir, honor demands that I inquire, as to how you came to know my ex-wife so intimately! :)))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 09:41 PM |
| 2 | What reasons would you NOT date a fellow PPD user?As a recently divorced man, I am genuinely happy to be divorced! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 09:22 PM |
| 9 | What reasons would you NOT date a fellow PPD user?I'm always interested in how people wound up here LOL. I think that says a lot about them. In my case, a political forum I used to hang out at, was closed down, so I came over to Reddit. Then, I happen to see a PPD post on my home page that interested me, and just sort of got hooked on the sub. Also, as a recently divorced guy, I'm always up for a little bit of analysis, and retrospection on what I did wrong LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Men should appreciate better what porn has done for themWhoa, let's back up a few steps here.....I don't lack empathy, I've certainly got nothing against porn or weed, and I didn't realize that we were specifically dealing with men on the spectrum. My advice is for your average guy, who maybe did OK in high school or college, but who never has any luck on dating apps, which is a LOT of average guys these days. Obviously, autistic men and others with socialization issues would have to be considered individually. Some solutions are broad, others are mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 04:55 PM |
| 6 | Men should appreciate better what porn has done for themThey always do! :)) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Men should appreciate better what porn has done for themAnd yet, I sense a "but" coming. Obviously, he's looking to limit somebody's options in some manner, or there would be no changes. Political proposals are usually all the same.....you hear the virtues first with a shout, and then the cost comes later.....with a whisper. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 08:45 PM |
| 0 | Men should appreciate better what porn has done for themGood luck on that.....every woman has a father. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Men should appreciate better what porn has done for themNo thanks, I'll take individual freedom and constitutional rights for 100, Alex. Also, I'd prefer that my daughter be able to live the life she wants, which means getting the education and career she wants, and not being forced into any "wife contracts". Not every guy is looking to go backwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 06:58 PM |
| 4 | Men should appreciate better what porn has done for themLearn some social skills, and get off the apps. I'm 5'9", and I've scored more than my share of women in nightclubs. I've seen guys who look like potatoes, score in nightclubs, simply because they were at the right place, at the right time. It's a different world offline, you aren't automatically "filtered" by your height, and you're in a better position to show yourself off in a 3D environment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 05:39 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The most misogynstic thing men can do is worship women.You’re ignoring the VAST effects of socialization on women’s sexual drives, thoughts and expression. Society still suppresses women’s sexual expression to a huge degree. Think “nurture” not “nature”. We are ALL what society makes us. You wouldn’t even recognize another version of YOU, if that other version was socialized in a different environment. That’s how powerful socialization is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 07:55 PM |
| 4 | CMV: The most misogynstic thing men can do is worship women.Dude…..women are just people, with bad breath, body odor, stinky bathrooms, and a few other bodily discharges of their own. Pregnancy is just another biological function, another form of cell division in a specialized chamber. Don’t make more of it, than it is. There’s nothing spiritual or mystical here, and you aren’t doing yourself, or women, any favors, by implying there is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 07:33 PM |
| 4 | The modern equivalent of a "strong, independent" women is unattractive to menIt’s easier than ever to ACCESS women, but that doesn’t mean they will accept your invitation. As for sex, maybe it’s not quite as easy as it was 30 years ago, when the pre-internet nightclub sexual marketplace was at it’s peak, but it’s still a whole lot easier than it was 100 or 150 years ago, when just getting permission to be alone with a girl, was a thing. The sexual revolution always had its share of interruptions, such as the onset of HIV in 1980’s, when people were afraid that one sexual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | which MOC Men of color face the worst difficulty in dating?Yeah, I just checked a couple of sources, and adjusted cost of living in Singapore is actually 15-20% higher than the US. Definitely seems like the most expensive place in South/East Asia. Probably more similar to Japan/Korea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 09:42 AM |
| 2 | which MOC Men of color face the worst difficulty in dating?LOL....now that you mention it, that could be it. They probably think they can get a better "white guy deal". Having grown up in south Texas, I've always done better with Latin American women, then again, I sort of grew up with them, and learned a lot of Spanish early on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 09:34 AM |
| 2 | which MOC Men of color face the worst difficulty in dating?Isn't Singapore extremely money-oriented? I've heard the cost of living is pretty high there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 08:57 AM |
| 0 | which MOC Men of color face the worst difficulty in dating?I'll have to take your word for it. I can say that my track record approaching Asian women here in the US, isn't great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 08:43 AM |
| 1 | which MOC Men of color face the worst difficulty in dating?Most of my personal experience has been with Anglo (white) American and Latin American women, but I did date an Indian-American woman a few years ago. She was born and raised in the UK though, and raised Catholic, not Hindu, so not sure if she really "counts". I remember she was pretty Americanized. Differences in religion can present huge difficulties, so I'm not sure about what things would be like dating a Hindu, Muslim or Buddhist woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 08:38 AM |
| 0 | which MOC Men of color face the worst difficulty in dating?Well, I don't know about India or China, but I've definitely seen videos from white guys who took a chance on moving to Japan, thinking the place was going to be one big "Geisha Girl Porn Paradise", and let's just say they were unpleasantly surprised. Japanese culture is a big iron box, just because you can see it and learn about it, doesn't mean you'll get invited inside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 08:24 AM |
| 1 | which MOC Men of color face the worst difficulty in dating?LOL....yep, that's my point. Let's screen out the other factors. Let's say, I lived in India, China or Japan, and I was only about as successful as your average native male. Also, I wasn't going anywhere, so I'm not a "passport to America" prospect. How well would I expect to do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 07:53 AM |
| -2 | which MOC Men of color face the worst difficulty in dating?But aren't men that belong to racial minorities, more likely to have a problem in ANY nation? I'm white, so obviously I have an edge in the US and Europe, but I wouldn't do nearly as well in India, China, Japan or South Korea, all high population, very racially homogenous nations. Granted, there are some "sex tourist" nations, such as the Philippines and some parts of Thailand, where white guys are often seen as a meal ticket, but I'm not sure that should really count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 07:31 AM |
| 0 | Just how weak is the average woman's sex drive?LOL….that’s a good point. If you define sex as “oral”, I’ve known women that would practically never get out of bed! 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 04:47 PM |
| 11 | Just how weak is the average woman's sex drive?Yep, these guys always ignore the studies that show that men's and women's sex drives are more similar than we thought..... https://www.webmd.com/sex/features/sex-drive-how-do-men-women-compare | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 03:10 AM |
| 5 | Female erotic plasticityAs an older, more experienced man, I keep trying to tell these guys, that socialization plays a huge role in shaping women’s sex drive, but they never believe me. It’s always, “Women no have testosterone, women no like sex!!!…..ooga booga!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 03:16 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards.Dude, you're being a bit of a wuss here. I've done wrestling, jiu-jitsu and basketball, been hit in the nads many times.....it's hardly the show stopper you think it is. Quit making men look weak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | This is the worst time in human history to be dating.I like to polish rocks in those little barrel tumblers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | The damage caused by the sexualization of women is substantially greater than any benefit.I'm not sure....governments have certainly passed restrictive legislation before, but not so much in the recent Western world. You can certainly find examples in medieval Europe, but a lot of that was religiously based. Now Eastern societies like China, and Middle Eastern Muslim societies, are a different matter altogether. It's hard to fight cultural ideas that are 1,000 years old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Ppd posters are outliers, their answers are pretty much redundant at best and by the numbers virtue signalling at worstThat's still a big sample size. What's more important, is HOW people got to this sub, and what KEEPS them here. There is something addicting about discussions that involve dating and sexual interaction between men and women. Yeah, your average "blue collar" girl, who works as a waitress, nurse or mall store salesperson, and then hits the clubs after hours, probably isn't spending much time on Reddit, but your geeky college graduate girl might. I'm a guy, but I wound up on PPD thru a series of ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 09:55 PM |
| 1 | The damage caused by the sexualization of women is substantially greater than any benefit.I'm not missing voting at all, which is why I mentioned "democracy". Personal restrictions tend to be unpopular, and politicians will seldom propose anything wildly unpopular in a democratic republic. Western nations have been liberalizing for the past 800 years, starting with the signing of the Magna Carta. I doubt that trend will change. Obviously the majority is always going to rule, but the majority, at least in Western nations, usually favors liberty, at least as far as it can be taken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 09:31 PM |
| 4 | Ppd posters are outliers, their answers are pretty much redundant at best and by the numbers virtue signalling at worstTrue, but without determining what the good sample is, we don't really know how far off PPD girls are. Somewhere, there's a "perfectly generic" 20-something girl....but where is she, and what does she think about men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 07:14 PM |
| 7 | Ppd posters are outliers, their answers are pretty much redundant at best and by the numbers virtue signalling at worstI think we need to back up a bit here. If we agree that PPD women aren't representative, then we have to decide who is. First, we have to decide which group we are trying to "sample", is it just 20-something girls, or are 30-something girls included? Sure, there are a lot of interviews on Youtube, with "girls on the street" giving very shallow answers as to who they would or wouldn't date......height, race, penis size, income, etc. Usually it's a group of "hot" girls outside a nightclub, often i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 06:52 PM |
| 21 | Ppd posters are outliers, their answers are pretty much redundant at best and by the numbers virtue signalling at worstAs a reasonably experienced guy in life and sex, I'm not sure that you're going to find a "representative" sample of women, in any one specific venue. I was a big nightclubber for many years, and the women I met in clubs, were very different than the women I met through friends, work, hobbies, etc. Things get more complicated when you take online venues into account. I actually see a lot of the things that women say here on PPD, confirmed on places like TikTok or Youtube. I frequent a variety of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 05:35 PM |
| 3 | How much of a role does being fit and muscular play in a man's attractiveness?Yes, for women at least, a pear shape always beats an apple. As long as a woman is "little in the middle", she can store some fat above and below. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 05:17 PM |
| 7 | How much of a role does being fit and muscular play in a man's attractiveness?That's a very important distinction, one that often gets ignored. Women have "good" places to store fat, ie., hips, breasts, butt, etc. There really aren't any "good" places to store fat on the male body. Fat storage itself, is something of a sexually dimorphic characteristic, and it doesn't enhance male sexually dimorphic traits, like it does in women. For men, it just makes you more apple-shaped, and if it gets bad enough, can bury your penis LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 05:10 PM |
| 10 | How much of a role does being fit and muscular play in a man's attractiveness?Yeah, the importance of this can't be overstated. Just going to the gym regularly makes you feel better about yourself, which affects your interaction with others. I think this becomes even more pronounced as you get older, and you see others failing to maintain their health and fitness over the years. You think a fit 20 year old guy feels good about himself? Try talking to a fit 50 year old LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 05:05 PM |
| 2 | The damage caused by the sexualization of women is substantially greater than any benefit.There is a big difference between hospitalizing insane people for their own protection, and the protection of others, and telling sane adults what lifestyle to lead. Without a "God" in the mix, then it becomes your opinion vs mine. Or in a multiple religion society, it becomes your God's wishes, vs my God's wishes. Then, in a democracy, it becomes how many people agree with me, vs how many agree with you. Liberty tends to have an edge in these discussions, because in the Western world, people te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 04:53 PM |
| 3 | The importance of eye contact in dating and relationships.....Even NT people can be uncomfortable with eye contact in certain situations, like attempting to flirt. The natural tendency is to look away from a stranger, even if you find him/her attractive. Holding a flirtatious look with someone new, can be excruciating for anyone LOL. It's why people take turns looking at each other, and then turn away when the other person looks at them LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 11:50 PM |
| 2 | The importance of eye contact in dating and relationships.....I see what you mean. I'm not always good at maintaining eye contact with everyone, when I'm talking to a group of 3 or 4. I tend to pick out one person, and focus on them, which can make others in the group feel alienated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 11:31 PM |
| 1 | The importance of eye contact in dating and relationships.....I think the gendered differences can be fairly significant in some situations, but not so much in others. A lot of men can see sustained eye contact as an attempt to intimidate or dominate, when done by another man, depending of course, on the context of the conversation. Then again, we men tend to pay less attention to mannerisms and unspoken gestures in general, which is another reason, why an ND woman may be at less of a disadvantage, to an ND man. Men tend to assume that if someone has somet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | The importance of eye contact in dating and relationships.....That's actually not a bad idea, I may have to try that. Sometimes I find myself switching between one eye and the other LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 11:23 PM |
| 1 | The importance of eye contact in dating and relationships.....Nightclub interactions helped me a lot, when it came to these types of things. Clubs are basically "trial by fire" when it comes to communication and approach skills. On the plus side, you get more or less immediate feedback, on how you're doing, so it's good practice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 09:56 PM |
| 2 | The importance of eye contact in dating and relationships.....Yeah, for neurotypical people, I think it's often just a matter of not realizing it's importance, or being conversationally "lazy". Sometimes people think they are coming across as casual, when they actually appear disinterested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | The importance of eye contact in dating and relationships.....For me, when I was younger, it was a just a combination of shyness, and not realizing it's importance. I just didn't bother that much with eye contact in casual conversations, but it makes a huge difference, more so when talking to women, than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 09:44 PM |
| 6 | The importance of eye contact in dating and relationships.....I think it's importance is underestimated by many. When I was younger, I was a bit on the shy side, and I sometimes didn't engage in eye contact as much as I should. As I got older, I learned the importance, and make more of a conscious effort to do it. I found that it improved my personal and professional relationships immensely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 09:40 PM |
| 5 | Who are better in bed, genuine good guys or toxic guys?Thanks, you're still the moderator of my dreams! :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Who are better in bed, genuine good guys or toxic guys?u/Mrs_Drgree can you check on the status of my eye contact post? I think it got stuck somehow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 09:12 PM |
| 11 | The damage caused by the sexualization of women is substantially greater than any benefit.Trying to control anyone's sexuality in the modern world, without religion, is a fool's errand. Without religion, there's no "You're being watched all the time" failsafe on behavior. Religion is the foundation of conservative government. Without it, you can't counter a "Why should I let YOU run my life?" response, and people will just form opposition liberal/libertarian parties to oppose restrictive policies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 08:30 PM |
| 3 | The damage caused by the sexualization of women is substantially greater than any benefit.Liberty is always going to lead to some bad outcomes, as it gives people the freedom to make bad choices, both for themselves, and for others. If you take away liberty, and have everyone "do what's best", then you have to determine what's best. Also, you have to determine WHO gets to decide what's best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 08:26 PM |
| 0 | Is having mental illness or being neurodivergent the most unattractive trait a man have?The funny thing is, I was only in that boarding house about 5 months, but I met 2 other college guys who were in about the same situation as me, and an older dude, that sort of served as our "Dallas guide", although not a very good one. In that short 5 months, one friend got stabbed with a screwdriver at a dance bar, another guy got hit in the head with a beer bottle at a local pub, and we had more beer bottles thrown at my friend's car in the parking lot of a Tejano bar, because they didn't lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Is having mental illness or being neurodivergent the most unattractive trait a man have?When I first moved to Dallas out of college to get my first "professional" job, I stayed in a boarding house for a while, until I could afford a real apartment. I pictured something out of a Disney sitcom, but the place was filled with drug addicts, hookers and disabled army vets on meds. One night the guy in the room next to me had a shouting match with a hooker over her price, and she ran out of the room screaming, while pulling her pants up. Things like that hastened my desire to move into a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 07:13 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most guys don’t know what good sex is or looks like.This is sounding like BS, buddy. In my half century on this planet, which includes nearly 25 years of nightclubbing, I’ve met many women with sex drives that equal or exceed my own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 11:54 PM |
| 7 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.The fish analogy breaks down as well, for one simple reason….fish don’t WANT to be caught….women do. Women actually WANT men to do BETTER….the fish does not want the fisherman to do better. You’re assuming a somewhat adversarial relationship where none exists. The relationship should be cooperative. Yes, a women’s advice might be tailored to “catching” women like her, but that’s why you don’t rely on just one women‘s advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 01:31 AM |
| 0 | There's nothing wrong with dividing your life up into "chapters".....I agree with moving the voting age back to 21, but then you wind up getting all the 'Well if you're old enough to serve in the military, then you should be old enough to vote!" arguments. I don't necessarily see the connection, but some do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 09:47 PM |
| 0 | There's nothing wrong with dividing your life up into "chapters".....Actually, I think a lot of the bitterness on this sub comes from young men, who for one reason or another, feel locked out of "modern dating practices". As for those actually dating, it's a pretty random thing.....you can date 10 different people, and not have any really bad experiences, or you can date one person, and he/she can screw up your whole life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 09:06 PM |
| 3 | There's nothing wrong with dividing your life up into "chapters".....Well said. Until you've driven a sports car, SUV, truck, sedan, etc., you might not know what you really like, and "automotive needs" change throughout life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 09:00 PM |
| 3 | There's nothing wrong with dividing your life up into "chapters".....Yep, Young MC had it right.... "Got no money and you got no car Then you got no woman and there you are!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 08:57 PM |
| 0 | There's nothing wrong with dividing your life up into "chapters".....Could it be that you're allowed in the restaurant, but you just don't like what's being served at your price range? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | There's nothing wrong with dividing your life up into "chapters".....I've always had a thing for older women myself. I've always said, if you can't rob the cradle......rob the coffin! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 07:36 PM |
| 1 | There's nothing wrong with dividing your life up into "chapters".....Dude....we're ALL trainwrecks in our early 20's! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 07:21 PM |
| 6 | There's nothing wrong with dividing your life up into "chapters".....That's a pretty offensive stereotype! < Slides pizza box under sofa > | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | There's nothing wrong with dividing your life up into "chapters".....Cool....I'm going to go with "Extended Hoe Phase" as a band name, and put together a mediocre group of women. "Daddy Issues" could be the first song name. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 06:58 PM |
| 4 | There's nothing wrong with dividing your life up into "chapters".....I said "explore", I didn't say park yourself under a bus. Obviously, look after your physical and mental health, avoid "hard" drugs and use the "social" drugs in moderation. Tattoos are a matter of taste. I like little butterflies, goldfish and bumble bees on women, but a biker's cross that extends from one shoulder to another, is probably over-doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 06:46 PM |
| 4 | There's nothing wrong with dividing your life up into "chapters".....There REALLY needs to be an all-girl band, named "Hoe Phase". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 06:41 PM |
| 2 | There's nothing wrong with dividing your life up into "chapters".....True....and there's no law that the walls between chapters have to be made of stone. If you're in the playing around phase, and you happen to meet "The One", then adjustments can be made. There should definitely be a FIRM bottom floor age for commitment though....don't follow your high school graduation, with a marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 06:38 PM |
| 4 | (Q4All)When did men first have to be desirable/likableOne of the benefits of age, is historical perspective. When you're young, you tend to assume that the recent past is mostly the same as it is now, or it was somehow "better". When you've actually experienced the recent past, you get a better sense of the challenges that people faced in the past, vs the ones they face now. It's why older generations constantly spout "Walked to school in 2 feet of snow" stories, and younger generations constantly roll their eyes at them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 05:46 PM |
| 9 | (Q4All)When did men first have to be desirable/likableIn the Western world, matches were still evaluated on the basis of economic and social class. Also, the vast majority of fathers worked with their daughters in finding an appropriate match. You've never heard the term "dance card"? Such dances were organized for men and women to find appropriate matches within their social/economic classes. The fathers did have the final say, but no decent Western dad is going to drag his daughter kicking and screaming to the alter. As a father of a daughter mys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 05:02 PM |
| 10 | Women are indeed incredibly complicated to understand.Empathy really is the key here. You have to remember, that men and women are socialized quite different. They are given different expectations and guidelines. If you don't want to listen to women, listen to us older men, who have been around long enough, to learn that women aren't really all that different from us. My very best friend of 25 years, is a woman. We've seen each other through boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands and wives, and all kinds of challenges. When you date a woman, you don't s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 01:52 AM |
| 1 | How many disagreements here could be understood by just revealing personal experience?The thing is, those of us with a lot of personal experience to share, tend to be from older generations though, and the automatic, "Well things are different now!" tends to come into play. Also, there's a strong bias against any conclusions that are drawn from experiences that occur outside the online dating apps, because those are seen as "old-fashioned"....even though over 60% of couples still meet outside the apps. https://www.statista.com/chart/20822/way-of-meeting-partner-heterosexual-us-co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 11:02 PM |
| 0 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to one type of men - those out of their leagueNah, I'm a longtime nightclubber....it's nothing like the apps. The ratio in a reasonably busy club on a Fri/Sat night in a decent size city is around equal. Women's hypergamy is situational, it's not a fixed quantity. Bubba, the head cashier at the Circle K does fine in a small town. He won't get much tail in the big city. Also, women's sex drive varies GREATLY based on the time of the month. Women will reject men when they are in "meh" mode, and go home with a potato-shaped guy in the nightclu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to one type of men - those out of their leagueNightclubs are a lot of fun, if you approach then with the right attitude. Some of it is cultural, some of it is generational, some of it is locale. The night life is always very different between a big city and a small town, and since I grew up in one, and now live in the other, I'm in a position to compare the two. Dance bars are always a good bet on Fri/Sat nights, but you have to be able to approach a woman, start a conversion, or at least ask her to dance. Those things seem to scare the hel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to one type of men - those out of their leagueOK, then, the average guy needs to get off the apps. I would say I'm a solid 7/10, maybe 6.5 on laundry day, but I've had far better luck in nightclubs, even since the pandemic ended, but results are going to differ by locale (urban areas are much better for clubs than rural), economic class, and age group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 06:47 PM |
| 0 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to one type of men - those out of their leagueI think the comparative sexual agencies of men and women are extremely different and one sex has a clear advantage over another in today's dating market. Spending too much time on dating apps, tends to give men a scarcity mindset towards women. Tinder is 4 to 1 in the US, and 9 to 1 in the UK, obviously women are going to be more picky there, because they CAN. Get off the apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 06:43 PM |
| 4 | It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experienceA lot of young men really are crap though. If you’re 25 and still a working an unpaid minimum wage job with no skills, college or certification under your belt, then….you’re crap. Then again, I’ve always been a bit of a classist. This time of year makes me want to put on my stove pipe hat, and walk around yelling, “Are there no prisons?….Are there no workhouses?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Being the hornier sex (the guy) is such a gigantic weakness for hetero sexual dating dynamics.A man's sex drive adds so much to life though. It fuels passion and dreams. It gives you something to look forward to. It can be channeled and directed towards physical and/or mental pursuits. It allows you to strengthen both your mind and body in wonderful ways. Younger men just need to learn patience and self-discipline. I think this is an area where a lot of young men suffer today, due to a lack of older male guidance. In the past, men often went very long periods of time, without even any wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 11:47 PM |
| 5 | Being the hornier sex (the guy) is such a gigantic weakness for hetero sexual dating dynamics.You bring up some good points, Misty, but you're wasting your time with these dudes. They assume that if a woman's sex drive is driven by different chemicals, has different triggers, and involves different fantasies, then it can't be as strong as a guy's. It's basically a "Men's sex drive is the ONLY sex drive" mentality. Red pillers are also notorious for minimizing the effects of socialization on men and women. Even today, men and women are still socialized differently, when it comes to their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Being the hornier sex (the guy) is such a gigantic weakness for hetero sexual dating dynamics."I don't think in any point in time has the daily landscape set it up easier for men and their horniness" That's because you haven't found ways to channel your sex drive and other aspects of masculinity in constructive ways. The sex drive ISN'T JUST FOR SEX. Testosterone gives you a competitive drive, the energy to do whatever you choose to do, better than others. It gives you the drive to dominate, become the best at whatever you choose to do. Ask any older man, who has decided to use testoster… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Are some women simply "Chadsexual" while most are not?I did a post a while back on the harm done by social media. The selective nature of who posts, and what they post, tends to make everyone else seem more perfect and beautiful, than they actually are. After all, nobody is going to post something that makes them look bad. It hurts everyone's confidence, both men and women, but due to the nature of dating, a lack of confidence is always going to affect men more than women. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/t4hopp/how\_social\_media… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Are some women simply "Chadsexual" while most are not?LMAO.....no. But as a kid, I've heard it referred to by just about everything but "penis"!!! LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 10:03 PM |
| 4 | Are some women simply "Chadsexual" while most are not?As another Gen-X older guy, I actually agree with you, that "Chad" doesn't have nearly as much power in the general population of women, as many of the younger guys here think he does. Many of them seem absolutely obsessed with him. Young men who have never even attempted to pursue women outside the apps, are going to have a skewed, scarcity mindset, towards women in general. As for the women here, I think some of them are just reacting to the "rawness" of your terminology, but your post was mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Are some women simply "Chadsexual" while most are not?That's when you get the medical names though.....my penis was a "tallywhacker" prior to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 09:45 PM |
| 0 | Men are having less casual sex than ever. And it's a good thing.It is for a lot of men though....unless you happen to be an actual 9.5/10 Chad. The 9.5 guy can walk into a bar, stand around, and women will make some kind of excuse to start to converse with him.....I've seen it many times. One of my "wingman" buddies was a 9.5 guy.....I could practically write a book about this dude's experiences. On the other hand, even a 7-8/10 guy, has to approach, to make it happen. Sure he'll get glances, but usually no more than that. He has to have the confidence and p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 08:45 PM |
| 6 | Men are having less casual sex than ever. And it's a good thing.Nah, it all comes down to the reduction in alcohol usage, for both men and women, the linked study mentions it several times, and considers it the biggest factor for both sexes. Alcohol goes a long towards negating women's hypergamy. Women go home with men in bars, that they would never even THINK of entertaining online. I used to see it every weekend. Practically every, "What is SHE doing with HIM???" pairing you see, started out with alcohol. Both men and women have "barriers", when it comes t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Do Hallmark style romantic movies endorse TRP Views?It’s not Hallmark, but just copy the Wedding Planner formula. JLO and Matthew McConaughey….and Judy Greer! Although here it’s Matthew who’s about to marry the “rich asshole”, and “simple and low maintenance “ JLO rescues him. Not that JLO was ever really “low maintenance”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 08:47 PM |
| 11 | Do Hallmark style romantic movies endorse TRP Views?Wow, you’ve got it down! Don’t forget that the first impressions between the guy and the girl are always bad, but then they “warm up” to each other later on…….usually while trying to solve a crisis. Also both the guy and the girl must have “sidekick” friends, to convince them to “give this person a chance”. The woman sidekick used to always be played by Judy Greer, but then she got a little too old for the role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 08:27 PM |
| 6 | There aren't enough attractive women to go aroundSo which is it? I thought the problem was that men weren’t attractive enough for women? It’s the other way around now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Single Men vs Single WomenWell, I've been telling men two things for the past 2 years here.... 1) Get off the apps, don't let the apps give you a "scarcity mindset" when it comes to women. It's easy to let Tinder, which is 4-1 men/women in the US and 9-1 in the UK, distort your views on the value and scarcity of men and women. 2) Men in Western society tend to place way too much emphasis on women's validation. A lot of men in Eastern societies would laugh at us, for basing so much of our self-esteem, on the views of "fic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 09:24 PM |
| 2 | PPD would be far more neutral if people would stop turning general statements into personal attacksIt's not just women, the younger men here don't want to listen to us older guys either. They always say our ideas are "outdated" and we just don't know what younger men go through, when it comes to dating these days! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 09:08 PM |
| 10 | Single Men vs Single WomenYep, and on top of that, the homicide rate in the U.S, is well below what it as in the 90's, and the overall violent crime rate is way down. It last peaked around 1993 or so.... https://www.brennancenter.org/our-work/research-reports/myths-and-realities-understanding-recent-trends-violent-crime | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 08:34 PM |
| 0 | Single Men vs Single WomenShould be easy enough to create the "wife model".....the one that only sleeps with you about once a month or so..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Single Men vs Single WomenWell, if they can just get the nagging, emotional abuse, silient treatments, pouting, and temper tantrums down, they can at least simulate the conditions in marriage! Sorry....my divorced side comes out every now and then! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 08:12 PM |
| 4 | Single Men vs Single WomenAs opposed to what though....."allocating"women? If all it takes are some counseling services to tell men, "You're still a worthwhile guy without a woman!", then I'm all for it. If we have to say it 100 times a day, to men who don't have a woman, that's fine. Over and above that, there isn't much to be done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Single Men vs Single WomenFor the majority of men, it's a lot easier just to improve their game, then go off the deep end. The so-called "20%" really isn't that hard to achieve for most....get a decent job, apartment, car and get fit...or at least don't be fat. Maybe add some decent clothes, and spend more than $10 on a haircut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 05:50 PM |
| 3 | Single Men vs Single WomenYep, it's really the only solution in a free society. You can't bend society to accommodate a few disgruntled people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?I would like to caution you against making too many conclusions about men, based on what you read here. A lot of the men here, are neurodivergent in some way, some are also physically handicapped in some real, or perceived way. There is a lot of frustration here. Of course, whether that frustration is justified or not, is another matter. I don't think this sub represents the male population in general. Most men really want to make a relationship work, with just one woman. We want to love, and be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Complaining about high N-count women is a fundamental misunderstanding of the red pill principles.Yeah, but he did imply that tradcom and religious women should be treated as a separate group, which is fair. The thing is, you can take a woman with a count of 10, and some groups of women will call her "relatively pure", while others will look at her like she just spent the night hooking. Women tend to use their friends as "barometers" for their own behavior. If a woman has a BFF with a count of 50, she's going to blow through her first 20 dudes, like she's at a Golden Corral buffet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Complaining about high N-count women is a fundamental misunderstanding of the red pill principles.Sourced or not though, he does have a point about the sub-groups differing. Traditionally, alcohol and casual sex went together. Girls who drank, had sex.....girls who had sex, drank. As a longtime nightclubber, I always "classified" the women I met in nightclubs very differently, than the ones I met outside of them. It's a different class of women, with a different standard of behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 07:27 PM |
| 0 | Complaining about high N-count women is a fundamental misunderstanding of the red pill principles."The 3rd Date Rule" was always a pretty big thing with Gen-X and older Millennials though, even in the US. I have a body count of around 20 (including a few LTR's and a marriage), and only around 3 times, did I ever wait past the 3rd date for sex. Most X and Millennial men would assume a women isn't really physically attracted to them, if she didn't "put out" by the 3rd date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Complaining about high N-count women is a fundamental misunderstanding of the red pill principles.Also, there needs to be several classes of "exclusions", including drunken, "Went to bed at 2 with a 10, and woke up at 10 with a 2" encounters, fumbly high school stuff in a car, and non-penetrative, "Bill Clinton Sex". Once those exclusions are all satisfied, the remainder can be applied to the "official" N- count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Complaining about high N-count women is a fundamental misunderstanding of the red pill principles.Fellow Gen-Xr here.....yeah, it was all just a blur to us. At least we had our standard, "morning after" conversation...... "What was your name again?" "Do you have a coffee maker?" "I'm sorry......what was your name again?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 06:57 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about guys wearing shoe lifts?I don't know....you might have to go with a smaller lift, since the shoe is already kind of elevated. I just like "spongey" athletic shoes for their own merits....never tried shoe lifts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 11:21 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel about guys wearing shoe lifts?No, but here are some sneakers that add a bit of height on their own.... https://onpointfresh.com/shoes-for-height/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 11:15 PM |
| 3 | How do you feel about guys wearing shoe lifts?I don't see how any guy could wear these, without his shoe coming off, or falling over... https://www.amazon.com/Height-Increase-Insole-3-Layer-Cushion/dp/B07CYZGB3G/ref=asc_df_B07CYZGB3G/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=533468711706&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=6396312419822213465&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9026815&hvtargid=pla-758515849415&psc=1 A guy is better off with just hiking or cowboy boots. Nobody ever gives urban cowboys crap about THEIR 3 inch heels! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 11:06 PM |
| 7 | How do you feel about guys wearing shoe lifts?Hiking and cowboy boots can definitely add a couple inches, on their own, without insoles. Sometimes it's cultural, you're going to feel like a midget in a Texas C&W bar, if you're the only guy not in boots and a hat LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Is a girl damaged if she starts calling herself a slut and a whore while we have sex?I hope for that every day! She deserves better, than a younger version of her old man! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 03:06 AM |
| 5 | Just a personal observation, I’m noticing more and more above average and good looking guys with chubby and overweight or below average girlsFor women, it depends strongly on how the fat is distributed. Pear shapes are better than apple shapes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 12:17 AM |
| 10 | What does a modern woman bring to a relationship?Well, less than 1% of American young men serve in the military today. If you go back a few generations to the WW2 one, the percentage of men having served was a lot higher, of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Is a girl damaged if she starts calling herself a slut and a whore while we have sex?I'm torn.....as a divorced bachelor, I want to laugh. As a father of a daughter, I want to introduce you to a chainsaw! :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Is a girl damaged if she starts calling herself a slut and a whore while we have sex?You mean his DAMAGED sex life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel about a prospective partner if you found out they were an avid redditor?Immediate dealbreaker! Reddit is a huge waste of time! :)) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Women do not like male virgins and prefer men with skill and experience in bedLOL...back when I was married, my wife and I used to hang at a sushi place (I know....it's one of many reasons we divorced! LOL). We'd go there like once a week, and a former coworker of my wife's used show up there every week with a different woman.....even though everybody knew this dude there....we all acted cool LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 08:24 PM |
| -1 | Women do not like male virgins and prefer men with skill and experience in bedLOL....just got to get the bartenders to keep their mouths shut when you've been there too often! "So what happened with that OTHER girl?....Are you still going out with that OTHER girl?....You like this one better?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Women do not like male virgins and prefer men with skill and experience in bedAww man....I love TX R-house here in Dallas....and the rolls are great. They also serve a better steak than Outback. I've had bad steaks at Outback, never had a bad one at TX. The porkchops are good too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 08:08 PM |
| 11 | Women do not like male virgins and prefer men with skill and experience in bedLOL...are you saying I would have lost my virginity earlier, if I didn't insist on using the 2-for-1 coupons at Appleby's? :)) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Women do not like male virgins and prefer men with skill and experience in bedLOL....these dudes want a formula that works for all women! They don't want to have to alter the formula at all....no substitutions allowed! LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Women do not like male virgins and prefer men with skill and experience in bedEach person is a different person though. LOL....this seems incredibly self-evident, but we keep having to repeat this on this sub! :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Women do not like male virgins and prefer men with skill and experience in bedWell said! I envision you opening up a sex temple at the top of a Tibetan mountain, and men have to climb it, to get your advice! :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Women do not like male virgins and prefer men with skill and experience in bedYeah, there was a slight misinterpretation on my part......my bad. It can take a few sessions to get the hang of it. The most important thing to remember, is to experiment and listen to the woman's responses. If she moans louder, keep doing the new thing. If she doesn't, then switch back to whatever you were doing before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 06:56 PM |
| 13 | Women do not like male virgins and prefer men with skill and experience in bed"No way. It takes way longer than that to eat her out enough to make her orgasm." Absolute nope....As an older guy, my record for eating a girl to orgasm is like 2 minutes and change, and other sessions were nearly as close. With the right stimulation, women reach orgasm as quickly as men do. Hell, that's even been scientifically proven. The worst thing you can do, is use porn as an instructional video. In porn, the guy sticks his tongue out like 3 inches, so the audience can see it. In real lif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 06:09 PM |
| 2 | What are your actual dealbreakers?If she's got hips and booty, I might be able to overlook the other two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 03:54 PM |
| 5 | Women, why do you want to work?Well, I'm not a woman, but I am a father of a daughter. I'm going to tell you the same thing I tell her....never be 100% dependent upon someone else, and always have contingency plans in place. Everyone, both men and women, should already have a career, and should be able to stand on their own two feet, before they get married. Become a full version of yourself, before you merge with someone else. Bring something to the table, in terms of experience and skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Study: Size matters: Men perceived as more masculine if they are taller and heavier, regardless face https://medicalxpress.com/news/2014-11-size-men-masculine-taller-heavier.htmlThe funny thing about being a white guy at or below 5'9" though, is that the group that you're going to get the least play from....is often white women, since a lot of them are very picky on height. That's especially true on the apps. Seriously, I can often turn an Asian's or Latina's head, but I could set myself on fire, and not get most white women to look at me! LOL 🤣 Height is a factor, since Asian men and women, and Latino men, are often shorter than Anglo whites, so a 5'9" guy seems a bit … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Study: Size matters: Men perceived as more masculine if they are taller and heavier, regardless face https://medicalxpress.com/news/2014-11-size-men-masculine-taller-heavier.htmlI think men of the majority race always have a major advantage in any country. As a white guy, I doubt I'd do very well with women in China, Japan or India. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Men without money hit the wall way harder than the average womanYep, the constant movement stresses the joints and ligaments, which makes it harder to build the muscle, when you want to. You're better off saving your "reserves" for max weights and reps to exhaustion....but certainly not all day, every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 10:56 PM |
| 3 | Men without money hit the wall way harder than the average womanHey, no worries! And you're right about physical fitness and obesity being an issue for desk jockeys. An office worker that works long hours, is always under stress from deadlines, and hardly ever sees the sun, is not exactly ideal either. It's all a matter of balance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 05:29 PM |
| 16 | Men without money hit the wall way harder than the average womanYep, moderation is key. Lifting weights a couple times a week builds muscle. Doing it 8 hours a day, is eventually going to hit your back and knees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 05:17 PM |
| 8 | Men without money hit the wall way harder than the average womanThey're both important. Since the subject of this post is "men hitting the wall", we're not just talking about serious sun-related conditions, but also external appearance. As an older, divorced guy myself, one complaint I hear literally ALL THE TIME, both in person and online from older women, is how men start to really look old after 35-40. The sun accounts for a big chunk of that. Women are generally a lot better at protecting their skin than men. You would be surprised at how much power an o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 05:13 PM |
| 7 | Men without money hit the wall way harder than the average womanEven a brimmed hat helps a lot. Cowboys don't just wear hats, because they look good at Gilley's on Saturday night....although they do look good at Gilley's on Saturday night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 04:47 PM |
| 15 | Men without money hit the wall way harder than the average womanLong term sun exposure is far and away, the overriding factor for external physical aging, and occupation is far and away the most important factor for sun exposure. A guy who works outside, even part time, is going to have many times the sun exposure over a period of years, than an office worker. Obviously, a lot of other factors come into play....race and skin type, climate and location, sun protection (hats and sunscreen), etc. You're right about physical fitness, which is why it's important … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 04:42 PM |
| 8 | im gonna prove right with a very simple argument that the dating market is not fairIf all these guys are with “less attractive” women, then who is with the attractive women? Your logic for sorting everyone out, seems a bit flawed. Also, you’re placing way too much importance on woman’s validation. Live your life and shoot your shots….women will either tag along, or they won’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 05:44 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm going to go way back on this, before your time, and even before mine. I give you, Gina Lollobrigida. She was like a slice of Italian heaven.... https://imgur.com/gallery/UZ5ef85 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 09:33 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think prior gens had more of an "unwritten contract" between men and women. The women's rejections were always extremely polite, and the men took the hint after just ONE rejection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 09:19 PM |
| 10 | Study: Size matters: Men perceived as more masculine if they are taller and heavier, regardless face https://medicalxpress.com/news/2014-11-size-men-masculine-taller-heavier.htmlThat only counts if you happen to be the leading actor in a James Cameron film about a sinking ship! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Study: Size matters: Men perceived as more masculine if they are taller and heavier, regardless face https://medicalxpress.com/news/2014-11-size-men-masculine-taller-heavier.htmlAs a guy, I've honestly never understood Kylo's appeal to women. Then again, I don't understand Loki's either! :))) LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Study: Size matters: Men perceived as more masculine if they are taller and heavier, regardless face https://medicalxpress.com/news/2014-11-size-men-masculine-taller-heavier.htmlIt's a big factor in the US, with such a substantial portion of the male population overweight. Just being "not fat" is kind of a bonus here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 08:39 PM |
| 7 | Study: Size matters: Men perceived as more masculine if they are taller and heavier, regardless face https://medicalxpress.com/news/2014-11-size-men-masculine-taller-heavier.htmlDon't forget that being overweight also distorts the face quite a bit, making it more rounded, not to mention adding extra chins LOL. Just being lean, tends to make a man's face more masculine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 08:36 PM |
| 9 | Study: Size matters: Men perceived as more masculine if they are taller and heavier, regardless face https://medicalxpress.com/news/2014-11-size-men-masculine-taller-heavier.htmlI would have to agree with that, and I'm a 5'9" guy, whose "classical" Caucasian facial features, are probably my biggest selling point. In terms of overall OLD/IRL success I'd rank them.... 1) Race....Just being white seems to help more than anything, at least in the US. 2) Height 3) Face | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 08:19 PM |
| 1 | There is no such thing as 'winning over a girl'. She either likes you or doesn't."He pushed back a date last minutes? That means he didn’t care because he has more options anyway. His schedule seems to be always full and we can only hangout when planned way in advance? Again? He’s got a ton of other girls he has to spend time with." LOL....now come on, part of that is just insecurity, especially if you wouldn't have those same concerns, with a guy who is less attractive. Do you really cut a guy less slack in these areas, if you suspect he has more options? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | There is no such thing as 'winning over a girl'. She either likes you or doesn't.Sure, but the "Halo Effect" will make everything he says and does, seem somehow....."better". It's a bit like an American woman talking to a guy with an English, or even better, with an Australian accent. As long as he doesn't say something terribly stupid, everything he says will seem....."better". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 06:49 PM |
| 2 | There is no such thing as 'winning over a girl'. She either likes you or doesn't.After I ask her out, she certainly does. However, there's no denying that someone with whom you share an instant attraction, has the edge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 06:34 PM |
| 5 | There is no such thing as 'winning over a girl'. She either likes you or doesn't.But admit it.....there have probably been men that you were instantly attracted to, for whom, winning you over, wouldn't have been necessary.....right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 06:30 PM |
| 5 | There is no such thing as 'winning over a girl'. She either likes you or doesn't.Hey u/Mrs_Drgree has already made herself open and available to you for this conversation....what more do you expect??? 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 06:26 PM |
| 7 | There is no such thing as 'winning over a girl'. She either likes you or doesn't.That is a possibility. Admittedly, a good chunk of my experience with women, comes from the nightclub environment, where things tend to be "accelerated". In those environments, it tends to be "GO" or "NO GO", and I'm not so much talking about one night stands, as just getting someone's number. Also, I think I'm a little better at reading body language than other men, so it sort of leaps out at me, whether she's interested or not. For me, it's always been a better use of time and energy to find a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 04:51 PM |
| 11 | There is no such thing as 'winning over a girl'. She either likes you or doesn't.The OP's experiences and conclusions pretty much match mine though. It's always been my experience that a woman is either 100% into me, or 100% NOT into me. There's almost never any middle ground. Most people make a physical attraction assessment very quickly, within seconds or minutes of meeting you, and it doesn't change. There is always the Disney trope of the guy pursuing the girl for multiple seasons, and finally winning her, but it usually doesn't work like that in the real world. In fact,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 04:39 PM |
| 1 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!Not sure about “social outcasts”, I’m just a recently divorced X-er guy reveling in his new found freedom, with a little too much time on his hands. Let’s talk about YOU though. After a quick browse of your history, you seem pretty negative. Why is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 01:17 AM |
| 1 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!Unfortunately, some of the guys on this sub, are very far from “loosening up”. They’ll still complain that a woman doesn’t bust down their door and drag them to the bedroom, because they said “Hi” on a dating app. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 10:23 PM |
| 1 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!I’m not the one on here whining ENDLESSLY about women being “hypergamous” and “lacking in empathy for the poor menzzzzz”. JFC….the crap on here turns my stomach, and I’m a guy. I can only BEGIN to imagine the effect it has on women. The men on here embarrass men as a whole, on a daily basis. Anything I have to say on this sub, is the LEAST of these guy’s problems. Dating and sex is a free market, either improve what you’ve got up sell, or step aside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 10:10 PM |
| 1 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!LOL….well I certainly wouldn’t want to be accused of acting “obsequiously” 😂🤣 It’s OK to put the thesaurus down now and then, and have a little fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 09:59 PM |
| 1 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!Who do you hang with? I’ve been to lots of parties where a pipe or bong was passed around, and nobody’s taking names or checking gender. Maybe you hang with an uptight crowd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 09:40 PM |
| 1 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!No need to be insulting, especially about things you don't know anything about. I think we're done here. If you want to let fear control your life, that's up to you. I've never had a single bad experience with women, at least not anything like you seem to be afraid of. Bolder men will always win out, it's always been that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 03:32 AM |
| 1 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!I've been there....I'm a recently divorced guy myself. One thing that always worked for me, is to never keep alcohol at home. I pretty much only drink when I go out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 02:49 AM |
| 0 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!For instance, a man won't go to jail for asking out a coworker but HR could get involved. A man who cold approaches women could be labelled as a harasser. And so on. A few common sense rules go a long way here. "Don't shit where you eat" is one of them. I've always avoided workplace romances. Even when they go well, they still end awkwardly....it's not worth it. Let's be clear here....alcohol is not an excuse to behave ungentlemanly. I don't grope women, I don't pressure them, I certainly don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 02:46 AM |
| 2 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!It's more smoke than fire. Your chances of being struck by lightning are statistically greater, than your chances of encountering a false rape allegation. You are 230 times more likely to be raped YOURSELF, than to be accused of rape, but I don't know ANY MEN who are afraid of being raped. I know guys who don't like to get on a plane, but they have no problem riding around on a MOTORCYCLE, in Dallas traffic. Humans are notoriously bad at accessing risk. Everything in life is a statistical risk, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 02:09 AM |
| 0 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!Yeah, the whole "me too" thing changed society more than anyone intended it to...perhaps more for the younger generation, than us stubborn older folks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 01:32 AM |
| 1 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!People definitely have some different ideas about what constitutes "social drinking". I was probably in a bar or club virtually every Fri/Sat night during my entire adult bachelorhood, when I wasn't taking a woman out, anyway. Since being divorced, I'm right back at it, although a bit less intensely. But then, I hardly ever kept alcohol at home, during that whole time, not even beer. Something about drinking at home, always seemed kind of sad and pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 01:30 AM |
| 5 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!When it comes to nightclubs, I've found that safety and security are big issues for women. Here in Dallas, the clubs that bring in lots of women, are the ones with valet service, good bouncers, and well lit venues. Of course, all those things cost money, and usually result in a cover charge. Being in a nice, manicured, suburban neighborhood also helps too, as does having a good selection of wines, fruity drinks, and a good sized dance floor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!As a longtime clubber, I think the "power boost" takes a while to learn to manage. There's a definite "sweet spot" in the amount you drink. Also, it's not just about us, it's also about the beer goggles that make us see OTHER people differently. It's like that old joke...."I don't drink to make ME more charming, I drink to make YOU seem more charming!". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 10:20 PM |
| 0 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!Whew! It's a good thing I'm flawless in every other way! :)) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 10:13 PM |
| 2 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!Well said. I think I benefitted from my ability to "compartmentalize". I was always out drinking every Friday and Saturday, but at the same time, I was "all business" during the week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 10:11 PM |
| 2 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!So if my name is "Vinnie" and I wear a gold chain, is that a bad sign? :))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 10:05 PM |
| 6 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!There's a happy medium between beer goggles and "This usually doesn't happen to me!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 09:30 PM |
| 2 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!That's true...alcohol can lower your T levels, and certainly mess with your ability to "stand at attention" in too large of an amount. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 09:27 PM |
| 10 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!Well said! It's like these dudes want girls in bikinis, but hate the pool and the beach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 09:26 PM |
| 1 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!It's too bad there's not a removable brain/mouth filter. You could take it out at night, and then put it back in, before you go to work in the morning. Don't forget to put it back in! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!Yeah, it's different for us older folks. As long as I can remember her name the next morning, and she's got a coffee maker, I'm good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 09:20 PM |
| 1 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!Just remember to download one of the consent apps. "Before we have sex....finger sign here, please!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 09:15 PM |
| 2 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!Yep, it makes you more charming, and everyone else more beautiful! :))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 09:11 PM |
| 3 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!True, but maybe he's internally interesting, and just has trouble letting it all out! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 08:58 PM |
| 11 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!Interesting viewpoint. I'm going to start a "Lower your inhibitions!" campaign. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 08:55 PM |
| 9 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!Me too! :))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Which celebrity is considered a sex symbol, but you just don't see it? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADMargot Robbie.....she just seems sort of.....bland, to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Women do not need to be sympathetic to mens dating strugglesAutism can certainly be a social crippler, I didn't mean to minimize the challenges you've faced in that specific area. I'm sorry that you've experienced abuse as well. My comments were more directed towards those without any significant social handicaps, who haven't tried other venues. I was looking at your comments as being representative of Gen-Zrs as a whole, and I probably shouldn't have done that. My bad. Do you feel that your abusive experiences have harmed your social confidence more tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Women do not need to be sympathetic to mens dating strugglesOK, Well, let's take a look at my experiences. I didn't even get a date in high school, much less a kiss or any other action. I had acne bad enough to require trips to the doc to drain my face with needles. My face literally resembled a pepperoni pizza. My friends would actually tell me, when it was time to get my face drained. Some thing in college....no dates, not even group ones. No fraternity beer bashes for me. I finally got a break at age 21, when I underwent Accutane, a drug that permanen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 05:47 PM |
| 4 | Women do not need to be sympathetic to mens dating strugglesA brick wall? Well, I'm about to ADD to the tally of people who don't sympathize with your troubles, because it's not just women who don't sympathize, it's also us older men (Gen-X and older Millennials) who don't sympathize with you either. I'm going to spare you most of the generational rant, but I really don't see young men doing everything they can do, and certainly not everything that WE did, to meet women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 05:26 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The idea that women "share" the most desirable men is perfectly plausibleA lot of them are being "shut out" because they never developed any social skills for pursuing women, outside of messaging them on apps. The UK is a model for where the US is heading, with Tinder now 9 to 1. If they want to keep playing musical chairs, with 1 "chair" for every 9 guys circling, they can't really complain. It's reached a point, where complaining that there are no women on the apps, is like complaining there aren't any girls at the high school dance, the next morning when the dance… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 04:59 PM |
| 7 | CMV: The idea that women "share" the most desirable men is perfectly plausibleYep, you can’t draw too many conclusions about male/female dynamics from online dating, it’s too artificial and the ratios are just too warped at this point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 07:01 AM |
| 47 | CMV: The idea that women "share" the most desirable men is perfectly plausibleGenerally speaking, women only share, when they don't KNOW they're sharing. Women are just as prone to jealousy and insecurity as men are. Online dating has made it easier for men to "spin plates" without any "plate" knowing about the others, but that doesn't mean women have changed. The exodus of women from online dating actually has a lot to do with that. I've been around for over a half century, and had my share of GF's, FWB's and a wife. Even the FWB's will typically take off, once they sens… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 06:07 AM |
| 2 | How easy/hard is it for you, in your opinion, to 'get'* casual sex?I can speak to this a bit....50 year old, male, recently divorced in Dallas. I certainly find that dating and hookups get easier as you get older, as long as you're willing to date women in your own age group. When you try to date much younger, that's when you face a lot of competition from the younger guys, as you would expect. I'm not saying it's impossible, but it's much more of a challenge. As long as I stick to women 40-50, and I'm not terribly picky, I can meet them fairly easily online or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 11:00 PM |
| 7 | Most women on OLD are low quality.Since you mentioned it, I do believe that the decline of alcohol usage and nightclub attendance among Millenials/Gen-Zrs does play a big role. Alcohol has long served as a "social lubricant" in human society, practically since the beginning of human civilization. There's a lot of truth in the old, "Ugly and shy people would never get laid, if it weren't for alcohol" trope. For better or for worse, alcohol has often played a big part in helping men find their "courage", and in helping women to "r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 08:47 PM |
| 9 | Is online dating devaluing men in women's eyes? Has online dating ruined dating?It’s never been easy, but it’s easier than online dating. Women are leaving OLD in droves, Tinder is now 4 to 1 in the US, and a dismal 9 to 1 in the UK. The guys here keep drawing their conclusions based on OLD. They think OLD is the whole world. Are they going to KEEP thinking that, when Tinder is 20 to 1? 40 to 1? At some point, you have to leave OLD behind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 02:59 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Do you think most men are ugly? Do you think most women are attractive?Fat distribution plays a big part with women though. Some women are pear-shaped, and some are more apple-shaped. The pear-shaped ones are definitely more attractive to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Can Sexual/ Physical Attraction be Developed Over Time?That's good to know. I've seen a fair amount of variety among women, as to what different women find attractive, but I've always assumed that each woman had a "type". Variety in preferences between women is one thing, but within the same woman? That's a different animal. I could maybe see preferences changing over time, especially if a woman has good or bad experiences with a certain type of guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Can Sexual/ Physical Attraction be Developed Over Time?That's interesting. I've known people who are attracted to six packs, and I've known people who are attracted to bellies, but usually not both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 07:08 PM |
| 9 | Can Sexual/ Physical Attraction be Developed Over Time?Women's attraction tends to be more "pliable" than men's. I've heard many women say that they didn't become attracted to a guy, until later on. I don't think I've ever heard a guy say that about a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 07:05 PM |
| 3 | Can Sexual/ Physical Attraction be Developed Over Time?Well, as guy who has had his share of nightclub-related hookups, you'd be surprised how much vetting women can do in a couple of hours. Maybe the rules are different when it comes to dating apps. I've had women question me pretty intensely at the club, although nothing ever seems that intense when alcohol is involved LOL. Alcohol is a huge factor here....since online meetings don't involve it, I would expect more vetting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 06:54 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many......Yes, there's definitely a difference between a known, ongoing abuse situation, and an encounter witnessed on the street. I think sometimes the same mentality comes into play for men though, that "Should I get involved?.....Maybe I'm misunderstanding the situation" mentality. I wish there was a "magic button" that women could secretly press, when they want a 3rd party to get involved, but unfortunately, there isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many......Yes, there is certainly a need for men to police other men, but it's hard to determine what to do, how far to go, and when to get involved. When I first moved to Dallas out of college, I used to hang around at my friend's apartment complex now and then, even though it was in sort of a bad neighborhood. He was a maintenance man there, so he knew a lot about the tenants. One time, my friend told me about a woman in the complex who was getting physically abused by her BF. He felt bad for her, and h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 05:58 PM |
| 6 | Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculousYep, it's a combination of men behaving badly, and driving women off the apps, which screws up the ratio, coupled with guys swiping right on everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculousThe net always seems to bring out the worst in people. I’m old enough to remember people complaining about internet toxicity all the way back in 1996. I’m not surprised that behavior extends to dating apps. It’s a never ending downward spiral, women leave the app….remaining women get pickier as a result….men get frustrated with the ratio and act badly….more women leave the app….remaining women get pickier…., | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 05:05 PM |
| 6 | Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculousNo, we men are largely to blame for the situation. I covered it here in this post, a few weeks back.... https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/xvrto6/when\_it\_comes\_to\_mens\_fortunes\_in\_datingthe\_few/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculousPeople aren't profiles. Sometimes good people have really bad profiles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Women's perceived extreme selectivity does not track with realityIn urbans areas, you do, I can't speak for small towns. Given the number of nightclubs here in Dallas, I'm always amazed at guys here on PPD, who are always saying that nightclubs are going "extinct". The pandemic definitely hit a lot of nightclubs, bars and restaurants, but they are making a comeback. I think many here underestimate the desire of some people, especially women, to meet people off the net. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 03:32 PM |
| 11 | even if a guy understand a girl's hint towards the girl being attracted to them they may not reciprocate out of fear of misjudging the initial signalI solve the problem by walking around with the assumption that every woman is completely in love with me! It eliminates a few misunderstandings.....and creates a whole bunch of others! :)))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Women's perceived extreme selectivity does not track with realityDo the beagle tent peek, but with a dragon head. https://www.tiktok.com/@aelenegibbens/video/7159223075710438698?is\_copy\_url=1&is\_from\_webapp=v1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Women's perceived extreme selectivity does not track with realityPlace one just inside the tent, and then zip up the tent entrance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Women's perceived extreme selectivity does not track with realityLOL...sounds like you should hang out a Scarborough Faire! :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Women's perceived extreme selectivity does not track with realityBigger dragons too.....place them outside the tents to scare animals! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Women's perceived extreme selectivity does not track with realityI don't know if I've ever met an outdoorsy nerd. I know a few nerds, but they're definitely not outdoorsy! LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 08:50 PM |
| 1 | How much weight do you place on the age a man lost his virginity?Unless he makes a blatant, "Whoops, it goes here and not there?" mistake, it probably won't leap out at you....so to speak! LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 08:43 PM |
| 3 | How much weight do you place on the age a man lost his virginity?Unless of course, he's had extensive "flight simulator" experience, by watching a TON of porn, in which case, you can put 175 on the bar! LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 08:40 PM |
| 5 | Women's perceived extreme selectivity does not track with realityOh there's no doubt the numbers of women are inflated. It's reached a point where some guys think they're talking to a bot, even when they're not. It's like a throwback to mid-90s internet, where nobody believed that anyone on the net was an actual woman! LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Women's perceived extreme selectivity does not track with realityLOL...but they can't get over the fact that their GF ONCE had a Chad. She's now forever spoiled for non-Chads. To put it in Monopoly terms, they think they're just a stop in Baltic Avenue, on the girl's way from Marvin Gardens to Park Place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 06:35 PM |
| 10 | Women's perceived extreme selectivity does not track with realityThese dudes all walk around with the assumption that their GF has been with 10 different Chads before they met. They think they're just the "cereal filler" between Chads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 06:19 PM |
| 7 | Women's perceived extreme selectivity does not track with realityYeah, I could maybe see that number, if it included a couple of hookups, but otherwise, that's like 6 BF's from high school on, each one lasting about a year. Seems a bit unrealistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 06:13 PM |
| 7 | Women's perceived extreme selectivity does not track with realityAgreed. A lot of women seem to try being very picky on OLD, wind up with a couple of bad experiences, and then give IRL dudes more of a try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 06:09 PM |
| 11 | Women's perceived extreme selectivity does not track with realityAmerican men haven't yet come to the realization that Tinder is total crap for men, even though the ratio is only slightly better at 4-1 here. You get a different view from the big city nightclubs....I see guys who look like potatoes, going home with women all the time. It's often a matter of being in the right place, at the right time, with the right amount of alcohol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 05:53 PM |
| 0 | Both men and women look for love / intimacy in the wrong places. It’s pretty funny how almost no one points out this elephant in the room.Nightclubs are gateways to meeting people. My wife was a friend of a woman I might in a club. Of course the marriage didn’t last….but that’s another story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 03:29 AM |
| 9 | What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage?A woman on a post I did a while back, told me that women are very much in agreement, as to who is a 1-3, but there is less agreement, as to who is a 4-6, and wide disagreement, as to who is a 7-10. In other words, women generally agree on who is very unattractive, but widely disagree on who is attractive. Would you, as a woman, agree with that statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Women are too extremely fickle and flakey for regular guys to have a chance in this day and ageLol….don’t be too hard on yourself! Sex and dating are learning experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Question for Men: Should ugly women glamorize themselves to look nicer and ultimately do better in the dating world, or should they stay in their lane?Thanks, right back at you! 🎗️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 08:59 PM |
| 15 | Women are too extremely fickle and flakey for regular guys to have a chance in this day and ageNow that you mention it, I do tend to walk around, assuming every woman is in love with me! I really need to quit that! 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Women are too extremely fickle and flakey for regular guys to have a chance in this day and ageWell said! If you're not the selector anyway, then don't base your self esteem, on something that is not certain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Women are too extremely fickle and flakey for regular guys to have a chance in this day and ageIn all fairness, I do tend to think that men in Western societies place too much emphasis on women's approval. Women are supposed to be gravy, but Western men treat them as the entrée. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 06:26 PM |
| 92 | Women are too extremely fickle and flakey for regular guys to have a chance in this day and ageYour real assessment as a lover, is based on how eagerly women RETURN to your bed, not how quickly you were able to get them there, the first time. When you buy a new product off the shelf in a store, you're likely doing it based on the packaging and hype. If you buy the product again, it means that the CONTENTS of the package were worth buying again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't looking for wealthy guys, they are looking for guys that splurgeI drive around in an Aston Martin, but I take women to McDonalds. It really blows their mind! I tell them that's how I can afford the Aston Martin! :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 04:58 PM |
| 8 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationThat's always the risk you take on PPD! 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 04:26 PM |
| 12 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationActually, the last I heard, women beat men in IQ tests for the first time. It was only by like 0.5 to 1 point in difference, so it's basically equal. https://abcnews.go.com/blogs/health/2012/07/16/women-beat-men-on-iq-tests-for-first-time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 04:23 PM |
| 12 | Question for Men: Should ugly women glamorize themselves to look nicer and ultimately do better in the dating world, or should they stay in their lane?Everyone has two looks....the everyday look, and the dressed up look. You should make it a point to include examples of both in your photo set. The everyday look is what we see most of the time, but the dressed up look, helps to remind us of why we fell in love with that person! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 04:12 PM |
| 1 | "As long as it's legal" is a common response whenever the subject of significant age gaps in relationships comes up. Is it an adequate response?As a father of a daughter, I have this sudden urge to call the FBI for half the posts on this board! On 2nd thought....a chainsaw would solve the problem much more effectively, than the police would! Things are also much easier to hide, when they're in pieces! :)) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 02:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Guys on Reddit love to claim that only an incredibly low amount of women can cum from penetration because they don't want to blame themselves.Dude….after a quick browse of your post history, I would say you should consider other hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 03:34 AM |
| 15 | What do women gain from having relationships with red-pilled men vs. blue-pilled men?You're confusing RP'ers with Chads. The guys that women choose when they're young, don't need TRP. The potato-shaped, 5'6" RP'er can learn all the TRP he wants, but he's still not getting the girl before she's ready to settle down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 09:42 PM |
| 3 | the income pillThis girl will have to play by free market rules, just like everyone else. If she has the qualities to land a guy in a better "class", then she will. Even if she is beautiful, she will be at a disadvantage, compared to women who have a college degree, and women in urban areas, where many more wealthier men are found. If she's a small town girl, and stuck there due to family ties, then she may have to settle for a guy who at least can run and manage a small business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 02:39 PM |
| 6 | Why you all make conclusions about the world with a lack of experience?I’m a Gen-Xr, nearly 2 decades of experience pursuing women in clubs, nearly a decade of marriage and raising a daughter. I’ve also experienced the pain of divorce, and the trials of “getting back out there” after marriage. There certainly are a lot of inexperienced young people here, but there’s quite a few of us older folk too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 01:57 AM |
| 9 | CMV Why Red Pill is Dumb Series Part 2: The Myth that Women Don't Want Vulnerable MenYeah, I’m usually pretty critical of the Red Pill, but I have to agree with TRP on this one. I honestly believe that showing too much vulnerability to my wife, contributed to the end of my marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 09:07 PM |
| 2 | "Women are more attractive than men" is just socially acceptable misandryLOL...why was I downvoted, did I say something wrong? Let's be real here....women do the "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with!" thing, just like men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 07:07 PM |
| 5 | "Women are more attractive than men" is just socially acceptable misandryLOL....no guy is having sex with a woman he doesn't want. It's more like you can't afford a steak, so you have a burger instead, with the option of getting the steak on another day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 06:50 PM |
| 5 | "Women are more attractive than men" is just socially acceptable misandryShe is definitely NOT below average looking. She is at least a 6.5...maybe a 7. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 06:32 PM |
| 2 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....Here you are.... https://ifstudies.org/blog/more-faith-less-sex-why-are-so-many-unmarried-young-adults-not-having-sex This study has been brought up several times on this sub, and men always say, "Well duh.....if women are sexless, it's their own fault!", which is really a pretty STUPID point to make. A lot of the reasons for men's and women's sexlessness are the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 03:12 PM |
| 1 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....LOTS of reasons. People change over time. Circumstances change, as you become more committed. You don't really see the whole person, when you're just dating, you only see the "nice" person. You don't really know someone, until you see them under stress, until you try to WORK with that person to accomplish something. Also, you have to learn about YOURSELF first...your desires, your needs, what you REALLY want in a partner, vs what you THINK you want. You don't really know ANY of that, when you're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 03:06 PM |
| 1 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....LOL....well I think we can all agree that "settling down and then having access to casual sex" would be a bit disruptive to society. The next best thing, is to try to "get it out of your system" first, and then settle down. Lots of things in society, represent an attempt to achieve a compromise between men and women, and a compromise between having fun, and doing something productive for society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 03:00 PM |
| 1 | do you think you have perpetuated toxic masculinityWell as a guy who is around 5'9" in shoes, I've always had my best luck approaching women in the 5'2" to 5'5" range, leaving at least 4 inches for "night club heels". I've only dated a woman taller than me once, but I have it admit.....it did take some getting used to. You always think it's going to be a cool, Nicole Kidman / Tom Cruise kind of vibe, but in reality, it can be a little awkward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 04:09 AM |
| 3 | do you think you have perpetuated toxic masculinityI get the feeling this post isn't about finances, it's probably another "Give the ugly guy a chance, he's got a heart of gold, and Chad is a creep" post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 03:51 AM |
| 4 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....Don't impose YOUR ideas of "degenerate behavior" on others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 02:30 AM |
| 8 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....As she said, having an abortion IS TAKING responsibility for your actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 02:29 AM |
| 6 | Why Red Pill is Dumb Series Part 1: Women and the TableIt's not that the differences between men and women aren't real, it's that a lot of them are actually driven by the differences in socialization, rather than genetics/hormones. TRP puts WAAAAYYYY too much emphasis on the "lizard brain". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 11:08 PM |
| 4 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....Yeah, I don't understand why they haven't done more research into barrier methods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:12 PM |
| 2 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....You might be right, bats, I'll have to look it up. I figured it might violate the 10th too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 09:33 PM |
| 9 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....Dude....it's time to leave the 80/20 thing behind. The OKC data NEVER really supported that, and it's pretty out of date at this point, anyway. The latest stats actually show women's sexlessness rising faster than men's. I'm 5'8" or 5'9", depending on what shoes I wear, I wear thick glasses, and have a dad bod. Never had any problems meeting women. Get off the apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 09:32 PM |
| 2 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....LOL Don't forget about that scarlet letter that goes on your chest! 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....Tell him the next time he complains, you're going to make him wear a FULL BODY condom! 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 08:59 PM |
| 2 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....LMAO....OK we're done here! Nobody is pushing for the "recreational abandonment" of children! 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 08:57 PM |
| 8 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....It is pretty amazing, that they can go through a complex process, and still wind up with running people as uncharismatic and unexciting as Hillary and Biden. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 08:33 PM |
| 2 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....Yep, I may be giving these guys too much benefit of the doubt, but I think sometimes people just forget how certain political issues can actually affect their life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 08:25 PM |
| 8 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....LOL...Chad manages to worm his way into every conversation on this sub! 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 08:18 PM |
| 3 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....LOL....things have gotten a bit off track here....you can't abandon children, if there aren't any to abandon! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....I was just noting that the risk of "impregnation" is one freely accepted and taken by both parties. You made it sound a bit like men where having sex with women who didn't know the dangers of "the birds and the bees" LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 08:13 PM |
| 22 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....I do miss the days when Democrats were all about unions, labor rights and better wages. They haven't done much to win "rust belt" states these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 08:06 PM |
| 2 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....LOL....Well, in all fairness, it will improve SOME guy's odds of causal sex.....others, not so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 08:04 PM |
| 2 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....LOL....if only it were that simple! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....Thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 07:47 PM |
| 2 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....Thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 07:46 PM |
| 2 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....I'm certainly not advocating for non-consensual sex. If you hold more conservative views, than that's fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 07:45 PM |
| 4 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....Agreed. Sex can be pretty emotionally charged, and people don't always think clearly when it comes to the repercussions. Of course, the involvement of alcohol and other drugs doesn't exactly help in that regard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 07:40 PM |
| 6 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....Huh? I'm trying to avoid anyone have any children they need to "abandon". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 07:35 PM |
| 2 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....That certainly sounds reasonable enough. Religion has traditionally played a HUGE role in maintaining conservative rules and lifestyles, but it's losing it's power today, and we all need to adjust. I agree that BOTH abortions for women, and financial "disclaimers" for men should be on the table. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 07:33 PM |
| 5 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....I'm actually targeting men who in engage in casual sex, while STILL wanting to limit women's access to abortion and any kind of funded birth control Believe me, I known quite a few of those, they aren't rare.....ESPECIALLY here in Texas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 07:29 PM |
| 3 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....I would tend to agree, but there are some, that still haven't made the connection, it doesn't hurt to remind them now and then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 07:23 PM |
| 2 | The standards red pilled men have should not even be considered slightly controversial.It's not really a matter of whether you're standards are "controversial", it's more of a matter of where they are statistically realistic. You can't complain about being "lonely" if only a small portion of the women in society meet your standards. Also, you can't expect women to make a special effort, to meet your standards, when they don't confirm with statistical trends in society. Of course there is also the matter of hypocrisy. If you're 300 lbs and you puff like a steam engine after climbin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:36 PM |
| – | Can we agree that both men and women fucking suck and that humans are terrible in general?LOL….now that’s a statement I can get behind! I do think people in general are more selfish, self-centered, short-sighted and less social than ever, and I’m not just talking about young people….us older people are getting that way too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?Dude…..you are WAY off on this one. I’m an old, paranoid, Gen-Xr. I don’t even like putting in my CC number to order a friggin pizza. I sometimes get awards, because, as a father of a daughter , I actually take the time to consider women’s point of view. Believe what you want, if it makes you feel better. Feel free to browse my “White Knightish” post history. You might learn something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 09:26 PM |
| 0 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?I’m a guy, but I am a father of a daughter, so you can call me a “White Knight Feminist Dad” if it makes you feel better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?I have no idea what you’re talking about with “bought votes”. My karma is high, simply because I’ve been on Reddit a while. I seldom buy ANYTHING off the net, and I’m definitely NOT going to buy anything with a credit card off of Reddit LOL. This site is actually classified as “dark web”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 08:39 PM |
| 6 | Male cognitive dissonance has not taken over this subYou're definitely in the minority....most people here hate that rule LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 12:50 AM |
| 10 | Male cognitive dissonance has not taken over this subThe whole CMV rule is just dumb. Every post contesting you gets left, and every one agreeing with you gets removed. It paints an inaccurate picture of the consensus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 12:45 AM |
| 11 | Male cognitive dissonance has not taken over this subWhat are you talking about?.....My post over there got DECIMATED....it looks like an abandoned building lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 12:35 AM |
| 3 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?I think total gender egalitarianism was inevitable at some point in human history. Society has been heading towards various forms of equalitarianism since King John signed the Magna Carta, over 800 years ago. Back then, it was about the king sharing power with the nobles. Later it was about the nobles sharing power with the commoners. In the 20th century, that finally trickled down to include women. It may still be possible to set up certain informal guidelines that are a bit different for men a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 10:51 PM |
| 6 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?True, it's not everyone that holds cognitive dissonance, there's really two levels here.... 1) Individuals who hold conflicting views. This makes it difficult to hold a rational conversation with them, and come to any useful conclusions. 2) Conflicting views as held by a community/society. This makes it difficult to set widely accepted social rules of conduct, or guidelines for dating dating, relationships and sex. Dating, sex and relationships are easier, when people know how to act themselves,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 09:37 PM |
| 6 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?I've already responded to this argument, like 3 times on this board.....read one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 08:59 PM |
| 4 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?Sorry, pal, but you either meet someone's attractiveness threshold....or you don't. This sounds like more of the entitled, "Give the bridge troll a chance!" rhetoric that we're always getting on here. You're the one that's "dense", if you don't realize that physical attraction HAS to come first, before other factors can even be considered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 08:57 PM |
| 6 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?Ultimately, liberty has to win out. Liberty is never "fair" in the sense that some will make good choices, and others will make bad ones. All you can really provide, is a certain amount of equality of opportunity, but even that's not going to be 100% due to the circumstances of birth. Some are dealt a better hand than others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 08:54 PM |
| 7 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?But given that a woman can't really discern character and how well she'll be treated, until she gets to know the guy, she may as well start by filtering on the other characteristics. I think it was Marilyn Monroe who once said...."It's just as easy to love a rich man, as it is to love a poor man!". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 07:01 PM |
| 15 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?Yeah, I've never understood the obsession with sexual history here. People change, and what they are willing to do, changes too. Like if a woman had anal sex years ago with a guy and hated it, do you want her to have it with you too....and hate it with you too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 06:53 PM |
| 7 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?Fair enough....but who is likely to treat a woman better?.....the "blue collar" guy or the "white collar" guy? The guy who went to college, or the guy who didn't? Are marriages more likely to last and be happy, if the financial resources are greater? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?LOL....dammit! I l forgot to feed my karma chickens, and the award pigs are getting away through a hole in the fence! Seriously though....it's not just a matter of individuals having conflicts, society needs to come to some sort of consensus, if anything is to change. Rules and guidelines tend to make everyone feel better.....but what should they be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 06:23 PM |
| 8 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?I agree that capitalism in the modern world isn't what it used to be. I used to be a strict free market advocate, but I've softened at bit on that. They don't call it "Late Stage Capitalism" for nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 06:07 PM |
| 15 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?And then when the donut DOES keep it's legs shut, and doesn't give it up by the 3rd date, it's labeled "cold and frigid". LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 06:01 PM |
| 19 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?LOL....everybody wants the untouched donut....but they want to touch them all!!! :))))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 05:57 PM |
| 12 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?LOL....that's another one! Women are "dried up" at 30, but we men are still "in our prime" at age 50! LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 05:54 PM |
| 27 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?You bring up some good points.... For #1, it's like Disney/cartoon logic at play....the handsome guy is always the "creep", while the plain/ugly guy is "noble" and "deserves" the girl. For #3, it's like every man wants to go into a donut shop, take a bite out of a donut, and put the donut back on the shelf without buying it. But when they are ready to "buy" a donut....they insist on having one that nobody has bitten into! :))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 05:05 PM |
| 5 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?Sure....but it still makes it tough to come to some sort of societal consensus, on how women are supposed to behave, or what values they are supposed to hold. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 04:58 PM |
| 7 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?I would say my marriage followed the usual pattern.....sex was very frequent at the beginning, like every day. Later on, it dwindled to a couple times a week, then once a week, once every 2 weeks, etc. In our case, we allowed allowed external conflicts over finances, careers, time spent together, parenting styles (we have a daughter), to build up resentment, which tends to suppress sexual desire. You could be the two sexiest people on earth, but you're not going to get along INSIDE the bedroom, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 04:42 PM |
| 27 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?In all fairness, moral character is pretty hard to discern, on a dating app. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 04:32 PM |
| 8 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?Fair enough....usually a criticism of the "high value" label is directed towards women, but you have a point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 04:31 PM |
| 4 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?I see what you did there! :)) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 04:27 PM |
| 13 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?LOL wrong.....I'm a guy, and recently divorced to boot, so I'm definitely not "blue-pilled". Perhaps different men ARE saying some of these things, but they're still conflicts are far as society's expectations. I know everyone is going to have different opinions, but you can't expect anything, without at least SOME level of consensus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?LOL....just pick one! :))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Women don't feel love or want sex. These things are an insurance policy to them. Don't fall for the white knight mentality and get used by them, work on bettering yourself for you not for them.You DO realize that the clit extends about 4 inches inside the body right? It lies against the upper wall of the vagina…..where the G spot is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 03:39 AM |
| 5 | Women don't feel love or want sex. These things are an insurance policy to them. Don't fall for the white knight mentality and get used by them, work on bettering yourself for you not for them.You’ve obviously never done 69 with a woman. Believe me, when your face is pressed against her…you can tell. You know these kinds of posts only serve to tell on YOU. They tell us you’ve never pleased a woman, and you cope with it, by telling yourself that NO man can please a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 03:33 AM |
| 3 | Men on reddit are being systematically disinformed.Well, technically, it CAN come from wheat, but you have to pass it through a "cow filter" first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Porn do more good than bad, given the current status of relationshipsIn my opinion as a Gen-Xr, It's not just dating and relationships, but all areas of life, where younger people are more passive, than us older guys were. My dad and I didn't see eye-to-eye on a LOT of things, but if there is one good thing he instilled in me, it was a "hunter's mentality"....the idea that NOTHING in life was going to come knocking on my door. If I wanted anything in life.....romance, financial success, fitness, lots of friends, fame, etc, I had to go out and get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 06:37 PM |
| 14 | Men on reddit are being systematically disinformed.A rejection rate of 85% vs 65% for guys 6 inches taller, is hardly damning. I would actually have expected the differential to be far, FAR larger than that.....like 85% vs 25%. I think this study is actually GOOD news for shorter men, when you break it down. A rejection rate of 65% means you had to approach 3 women to get one. A rejection rate of 85% means approaching 6-7 women to get one. Hardly a death sentence. From a night clubbing standpoint, it's like may 4 visits to a big city club for th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Porn do more good than bad, given the current status of relationshipsIf you're white and of more or less average height, and not overweight in America, you have to be pretty awkward, to reach the age of 30, and not have some experience with women. I'm white and of average height, and I was so shy in high school, I couldn't even talk to a girl, but I still managed to get a GF by 21 in college, after my severe acne was cured LOL. Are you sure there is something about your friend, that you're not telling us? College environments practically smash men and women toget… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Porn do more good than bad, given the current status of relationshipsAt the risk of appearing non-politically correct, what is the race/ethnicity of your friend? I know we're not supposed to ask these questions on this sub, but it matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Porn do more good than bad, given the current status of relationshipsThese men base their opinions entirely on online dating. The idea of doing things in the real world is entirely foreign to many of them. I'm a longtime night clubber, and I see guys who look like potatoes, taking home women all the time, just because they happen to be at the right place, at the right time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Porn do more good than bad, given the current status of relationshipsPorn destroys your ability to become sexually aroused by normal sexual stimuli. It trains your brain to rely too much on visual stimuli, while ignoring touch, scent, etc. Over time, you require greater and greater visual stimuli to become aroused. It literally rewires your autonomous stimulation pathways. This may be hard to believe, but throughout much of human history, people actually had sex with the lights off, visual stimuli didn’t play nearly as big a role. When you finally do get in bed w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 03:23 PM |
| 1 | dating is easier for women is a mythThe whole 80/20 thing has been stretched so far from the OKC data it sprang from, it’s become like a campfire legend around here…..Big Foot and the Loch Ness Monster appear in all the ghost stories, but when pressed for proof, everyone points to the same conveniently blurry photos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 02:59 AM |
| 1 | People who complain about the pull yourself up by your bootstraps philosophy will still use it for dating.Your vague analogies and goalpost moving non-withstanding, I'll stand with one of the greatest economists to ever draw a chart....Milton Friedman, on the subject of excessive government spending and debt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 10:49 PM |
| 1 | People who complain about the pull yourself up by your bootstraps philosophy will still use it for dating.Don't hand me any Keynesian bullshit. The US debt has now exceeded the GDP for the first time since WWII. The word of the day is AUSTERITY.....learn it, live it, love it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 05:00 PM |
| 3 | People who complain about the pull yourself up by your bootstraps philosophy will still use it for dating.Every cent the government spends, is either TAKEN from someone else, or just never accounted for at all. The US is now $31 trillion in debt. We've ALREADY spent more money than we are ever likely to catch up with. It's time to cut back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 10:03 PM |
| 7 | The reason women have largely not been given as many rights as men across a wide array of cultures and time periods is because women are not as responsible as men and not some male conspiracy to systematically oppress women for their own gain.Tall people have social/political advantages, because of how OTHER people view them, not because their logical abilities are any better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 05:31 PM |
| 1 | The reason women have largely not been given as many rights as men across a wide array of cultures and time periods is because women are not as responsible as men and not some male conspiracy to systematically oppress women for their own gain.The Titanic, "Women and machinery just don't mix!" vibes are strong with this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 05:29 PM |
| 5 | The reason women have largely not been given as many rights as men across a wide array of cultures and time periods is because women are not as responsible as men and not some male conspiracy to systematically oppress women for their own gain.60% of NBA players are broke within 5 years of leaving the court. That whole height-logic connection has a lot of holes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 05:27 PM |
| 5 | The reason women have largely not been given as many rights as men across a wide array of cultures and time periods is because women are not as responsible as men and not some male conspiracy to systematically oppress women for their own gain.LOL....well, it's lazy boy chair and popcorn time! The 60% of college degree earners, would like to have a word with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: If dating apps largely favour women, why is it disproportionately men who are on them?You're greatly underestimating the importance of the restaurant and bar scene. Stats from 2017 show that bars and restaurants were the only other method of meeting people, that rose between 1995 and 2017, which is saying a lot, because the 1990's were a very heavy nightclub decade. https://www.statista.com/chart/20822/way-of-meeting-partner-heterosexual-us-couples/ Don't confuse the recent effects of COVID, with the whole "Me Too" thing. I can't speak for other cities, but here in Dallas, lots o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 04:14 PM |
| 7 | Women do NOT experience attractionThere's an increasing tendency of black pillers on this sub, to project their feelings regarding women, to the male population at large. It's one thing to hold black pill notions regarding your OWN chances with women, but to assume nobody but the top 2% of men is getting much action, is just insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 06:07 AM |
| 6 | Women do NOT experience attractionYou obviously haven't spent much time in nightclubs. I see men who look like literal potatoes, taking women home all the time, simply because they happen to be at the right place, at the right time. It's not that women aren't attracted to a wide variety of men, they simply need a catalyst to release that desire. Alcohol serves that purpose for many. I've always done well in night clubs, and I'm a 7/10 on the best day I ever saw, more like a 6.5 on most days. I'm definitely not a "2%-er". Good lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 05:57 AM |
| 4 | Why shouldn't a man feel insecure?Dude.....take it from a guy who practically "grew up" in the Dallas bar scene. After about 7-8 partners, you really don't remember that much about each person you're intimate with. You guys are WAY overestimating the amount of comparison that anyone actually makes. Not to mention the fact, that other details surrounding the encounter, tend to "color" what memories are there. For instance, if I had great sex with a woman, but things went south later on, my overall memories of her, aren't going to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 05:22 AM |
| 8 | There is nothing hypocritical in male preference for low N women. The only hypocrisy is whining about male unfair preferences, while having your own unfair preferences.Double standards won't fly in the modern world, regardless of whatever lizard brain "Me Tarzan you Jane" excuses guys on this sub want to come up with. Cheating is cheating, buddy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Why single women are happier compared to single men ??What example would you give of "non-MPC" advice? Specific therapist names and numbers? Should she tell him exactly what hobbies to get? What type of pet to adopt? What type of friends to seek out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 10:30 PM |
| 22 | There is no evidence to support that 80% of women are sleeping with 20% of men. There never wasThat might be true, but I think women just get "worn down" from the abundance of bad encounters on the apps. In "real life" things tend to move a bit slower, and it's harder to "catfish" and be something you're not. Also, women are more sensitive to things like body language, mannerisms, scent, posture, movement, etc., that don't show up on the apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 05:42 PM |
| 44 | There is no evidence to support that 80% of women are sleeping with 20% of men. There never wasI did a post on this a while back.....women have been leaving the apps for 5-10 years now, due to persistent harassment of women on the apps, an abundance of secretly married men, scammers, and dudes who are unable to accept even a very polite rejection..... https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/xvrto6/when\_it\_comes\_to\_mens\_fortunes\_in\_datingthe\_few/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather get the amount of attention women get, or amount of attention the average men get?In all fairness though, Tourette's can be pretty jarring to "normies" who don't fully understand it. It's not the responsibility of a normie, to be entirely politically correct when describing these encounters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 09:39 PM |
| 7 | The Philippines Is A Potential Solution For Loveless Men To Find A RelationshipIt's all becoming so polarized, and dating is turning into just a "pastime", like sports, shopping or bowling. Everyone is down on marriage, not wanting to get "stuck" longterm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 07:13 PM |
| 2 | The Philippines Is A Potential Solution For Loveless Men To Find A RelationshipI think "love languages" play a role too. I used to not believe in them, but now I give them some credit. I was a "words guy", but my ex was an "acts of service girl". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 07:11 PM |
| 4 | The Philippines Is A Potential Solution For Loveless Men To Find A RelationshipWhen it comes to social issues, people usually tend to listen more to someone of the same sex. It's the same with political parties. If you're a Democrat, you often dismiss things that Republicans say, but you'll listen to another Dem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 07:07 PM |
| 4 | The Philippines Is A Potential Solution For Loveless Men To Find A RelationshipYeah, it's easy when things are going well. What's difficult is remembering to priortize your relationship during tough times. When people handle stress differently, it's easy to think they're becoming distant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 07:01 PM |
| 7 | The Philippines Is A Potential Solution For Loveless Men To Find A RelationshipThanks. Being a father of a daughter also helps. When you become a parent to an opposite sex child, it can really change your views. The "battle of the sexes" is always so clear when you're a bachelor or bachelorette, but once you're a father with a daughter, or a mother with a son, things get very "fuzzy" LOL Suddenly, the "rape culture" jokes aren't so funny anymore. It goes both ways.....Some of the best men's advocates I've seen, are mothers of sons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 06:59 PM |
| 4 | The Philippines Is A Potential Solution For Loveless Men To Find A RelationshipOn some level, I think we'd all like the "princess treatment" from a spouse, but once real life problems creep in, you see each other at your worst, and you have to deal with it, and love them anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 06:50 PM |
| 4 | The Philippines Is A Potential Solution For Loveless Men To Find A RelationshipThanks. Honestly, I don't know ANY happily married couples under 60 these days, and I have my doubts about the ones over 60. I think people just aren't patient enough, or committed enough to deal with marriage in the modern world. People are pretty self-centered these days....both men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 06:48 PM |
| 5 | The Philippines Is A Potential Solution For Loveless Men To Find A RelationshipThanks.....I think it's just age and experience....I'm also one of the older ones LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 06:45 PM |
| 20 | The Philippines Is A Potential Solution For Loveless Men To Find A RelationshipLOL....hard to believe huh? It's called self-awareness.....I wasn't the perfect husband either. She's not a bad woman, we just weren't compatible. These dudes are looking for a wife on "easy mode". Filipinas AIN'T it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 06:35 PM |
| 27 | The Philippines Is A Potential Solution For Loveless Men To Find A RelationshipWell, as a man who just divorced a Filipina-American woman about a year ago, I can tell you it's not all it's cracked up to be. My ex grew up in the Philippines, and had lived in the US for about a decade when I met her. Nevertheless, the cultural differences are significant, and not easy to deal with. Make NO mistake....women RUN things in a typical Filipino household, and the power struggles are real. Filipino men are often treated as children in their own homes. There is a Filipino term calle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 06:30 PM |
| 2 | The true irony of this subreddit is that the vast majority of the men considered desirable by attractive women are red pilledNah, at least some parts of red pill have been known for generations, such as the idea that women don't respect weak men, woman want leaders, they are attracted to confidence and physical prowess, etc. Here's the famous, "Bully kicks sand in your face on the beach" ad from way back in 1953.... https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charles_Atlas#/media/File:OutOfTheNightNo11pp34A.png Notice the guy didn't win the girl back, by becoming a "better person", or even by treating her better. He won her back by… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 10:52 PM |
| 10 | The true irony of this subreddit is that the vast majority of the men considered desirable by attractive women are red pilledI blame a lot of it on online dating, and the net's atomization of society. People are isolated, and becoming more and more trapped, in the thing that isolated them. Men and women are just becoming more.....awkward, around each other these days, because real life interaction, is so different than online. You can't talk with a date in real life, and be sitting around in your pajamas, unshowered, distracted, and making weird facial expressions and mannerisms, LOL. In real life, you have to bring i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 09:06 PM |
| 13 | The true irony of this subreddit is that the vast majority of the men considered desirable by attractive women are red pilledThanks, I suppose I'm in the minority, in that in my case, I was the one to file for divorce, not my wife. The guys here always make a big deal over the fact that women file more often, but in my case, my wife and I had pretty much devolved to roommates, and it wouldn't have mattered much, which one of us filed.....SOMEBODY had to. We weren't hostile, we just didn't love each other anymore. What a lot of these guys don't understand, is that a marriages usually don't end suddenly. By the time the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 08:48 PM |
| 7 | The true irony of this subreddit is that the vast majority of the men considered desirable by attractive women are red pilledYou bring up some good points about the "pills" overlapping, and people spouting ideas that aren't really a part of the "pill" they think they subscribe to. I think one of the bottom lines here, is that TRP is always going to be depressing, to men who feel they will never measure up. The Red Pill gives rise to the Black Pill, not the other way around. You can't really have Red, without the Black. The thing is though, TRP shouldn't really be concerned with the Black Pill. If you're writing a book… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 08:38 PM |
| 23 | The true irony of this subreddit is that the vast majority of the men considered desirable by attractive women are red pilledYou've provided no evidence to back up your claim. There are NO statistics backing up the effectiveness of TRP, and such "evidence" would be subjective in any case. Also, you're largely misunderstanding the animosity towards TRP on this board. TRP is supposed to be mostly private advice for MEN, in dealing with women. It's supposed to be a "First rule of fight club....don't talk about fight club" thing. It's not supposed to be an attempt to get women to lower their expectations, make them feel g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 07:51 PM |
| 3 | How can women both be too picky, have too high of numbers, yet you are also not willing to wait?You bring up some very good points here. Redpill should be an entirely "private" practice, based on the perceived behavior of women. It's how YOU choose to cope with how you believe women are. The moment you say, "Women should......", or "Women shouldn't.....", or "Women shouldn't be allowed to......", then you've gone beyond TRP, and you deserve whatever blowback and insults you get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 04:43 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women are initially attracted to more than just a small handful of menYep, women want to be “swept off their feet”…..but not until they have decided who is going to do it, and how. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 05:28 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women are initially attracted to more than just a small handful of menLOL....I think that's where the "He looks better in person!" meme comes from! 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are initially attracted to more than just a small handful of menLOL good wingmen are hard to find these days....it's a lost art! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are initially attracted to more than just a small handful of menLOL....I admit that it does seem like a bit of a contradiction at first. If I had to come up with an analogy, it's a bit like a warning light coming on, when you start your car. If you've never driven a car before, you probably won't notice it. If you're used to driving that car, the light will leap out at you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 02:52 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Women are initially attracted to more than just a small handful of menI did a post about that very topic a while back.... https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wwrkow/ladies_how_uniform_and_consistent_do_you_find/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 The responses I got from women, would seem to support your view. Women will often agree on which men are unattractive, but their opinions can vary widely on who is attractive. One women put it in mathematical terms....she said women will always agree on which men rate a 1-3, but 4-6 have some disag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 02:46 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women are initially attracted to more than just a small handful of menPart of the issue, is just knowing when to pick up on a woman's signals. Women can be quite obvious.....if you know what to look for. Nightclubs are always good practice for this, as alcohol lowers inhibitions in both sexes, and the signals get more aggressive. A "cold approach" in a nightclub or party, should never really be "cold", more like "warm". My wingman group used to have a saying....."It's not who you're looking at, it's who's looking at you". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 02:38 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many......That's a good point. I'm sure a lot of other women feel the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:19 PM |
| 5 | When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many......LOL...you never know....that very LAST non-virtual girl, could be on there somewhere, waiting for me, and only me! 😁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:36 AM |
| -1 | When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many......I disagree... women just dont have much interest in men. LOL....speak for yourself, buddy! I get plenty of interest from women.....and they're not passive! 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:28 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many......Yeah that was my first thought too :)))) It's like dude......seriously? Although I have to admit, my ex really loved their onion rings! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 11:49 PM |
| 6 | When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many......Wow, I think this is the best response so far. This is the "world" that I was trying to get across with my "thought experiment", but you worded it better than I did. I always hear guys always complain....."There are never any women here!"...or...."Why are women always so guarded?". You make it seem self-evident. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 11:32 PM |
| 10 | When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many......Thanks for your response! As a guy, I can see both sides to this. We live in a "Mind your own business" world, and sometimes, it's hard to know when to step in, and how. Here's an article about what one "Hooters" restaurant did, to provide women with a "way out" of a bad date.... https://www.thesun.co.uk/living/2615179/hooters-bad-dates/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 10:59 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many......I always just associated frequent use of "like" with a west coast speech pattern, like guys saying "duuuuuude!". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 10:38 PM |
| 4 | When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many......Baby steps help. Some states have passed laws fining unsolicited dick pics. Also, some dating apps have greatly restricted the number of daily right swipes and likes, which tends to slow things down, and "small town-alize" the app. More nightclubs and restaurants here have valet parking and umbrella services than a few years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 10:23 PM |
| 6 | When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many......I imagine it can be a self-fulfilling prophecy for some people. They have bad attitudes towards the opposite sex, which can't help but show up in their interactions with them, which leads to unsatisfactory interactions and outcomes, which in turn, leads to more bad attitudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 10:11 PM |
| 4 | When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many......It's not always about solving the problem, it's about understanding points of view. When you understand the difference in perceptions regarding security and comfort, you are one step closer to understanding women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Most of men's dating woes are due to the factor of imbalanced male-female ratios in their social environmentsThat makes sense. Of course, in a college environment, finances are probably less of a factor, especially if there is some question, as to which dating relationships are likely to continue once people graduate, and who is likely to be able to score a job in their chosen major/minor. Like high school, college tends to be it's own little world, especially in "college towns". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Most of men's dating woes are due to the factor of imbalanced male-female ratios in their social environmentsThat's a good point, and it illustrates the differences in behavior between men and women, when they are in a perceived "advantageous" environment. Probably the only missing piece of the puzzle, is how often the women in a women-advantageous environment, will "trade up", when presented with an opportunity to do so. A lot of the men here, assume that women are always in "upgrade" or "monkey branching" mode, in such an environment, even when they may not be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 04:54 PM |
| 13 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menYeah, I think that surprises a lot of people, since the "black stud" and "latin lover" stereotypes are so prominent, but white men do tend to get the most responses of any group of women, except for black women. When it comes to the women, Asian women get the most responses from all groups of men, except for, oddly enough....Asian men. Asian women seem to have almost magical interracial attraction abilities LOL https://qz.com/149342/the-uncomfortable-racial-preferences-revealed-by-online-dating/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 06:46 PM |
| 17 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menBased on my many years of nightclub experiences, I have to agree. I'm only 5'8"-5'9", depending on what shoes I wear, and I'm slightly chubby, and wear glasses to boot. However, I have good "classical" facial bone structure, good skin, decent hair and I'm white. I've never had any trouble getting women's attention in nightclubs. As for glasses, I think they help with some women, and hurt with others, it's a bit of a toss up. Some women like the "studious" look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 06:25 PM |
| 5 | Most men should work on looks, money, and status when it comes to getting women instead of game and cold approach.You can study PUA tactics (if that's what you want), and improve your social skills and confidence with trips to nightclubs and other social venues, while continuing to work on your career and your body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 02:03 AM |
| 12 | Most men should work on looks, money, and status when it comes to getting women instead of game and cold approach.They're not mutually exclusive, you can work on all of them. Some things, such as building your finances, and your body, can't be done overnight anyway, so might as well multi-task in the mean time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Every pill fails at properly addressing the biggest issue guys face when dating. Anxiety.Dude.....EVERYTHING about my life has been "rare" LOL. As for age differences, I dated multiple women 5-8 years apart, so I don't think it's that unusual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Every pill fails at properly addressing the biggest issue guys face when dating. Anxiety.Not true, I have a beautiful daughter now. My wife was about 7 years younger, so fertility wasn't an issue. Yeah we're both part time parents now, but I still consider it better than having never been a dad at all. Life doesn't always hand you exactly what you want, sometimes you have to make compromises. That's something the Disney sitcoms never tell you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Every pill fails at properly addressing the biggest issue guys face when dating. Anxiety.Well, in my case, I didn't wind up getting married until I was 38, and my marriage still ended after 8 years. There are no guarantees, I'm afraid. I moved to Dallas after college. I met a lot of FWB's and one night stand girls here, but finding "THE GIRL" is a whole lot different than finding "A GIRL". I thought I had found "THE GIRL" but it turns out I was wrong. I give guys advice on approaching and meeting women on this sub, but I don't have the credentials to tell anyone how to find exactly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 09:37 PM |
| 5 | Every pill fails at properly addressing the biggest issue guys face when dating. Anxiety.Well, you could try some of the more old-fashioned "full screen" dating apps, like E-Harmony and Match. I've heard they are more relationship-oriented, but they usually require a fee. Have you tried Hinge or Coffee Meets Bagel? They are supposed to slow things down, by limiting matches, likes and right swipes, so people give more thought to the process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Women are far crueler to men than vice versa, especially regarding looksI don't know....the guys here are always saying that even the "Chads" slum with the fat and ugly women. They just don't stick around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 06:46 PM |
| 5 | Every pill fails at properly addressing the biggest issue guys face when dating. Anxiety.In alcohol's defense though, it can get you over the "humps" (no sexual pun intended) when it comes to approaching women. My first couple of sexual experiences were with "cougars" in nightclubs. They weren't exactly "Take home to mother" women, but they taught me a lot, and greatly increased my confidence for approaching women my own age. The secret is compartmentalization. I've always only drank on Fri/Sat nights, and then usually no more than 3-4 drinks in an evening. I've never even kept alco… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Women are far crueler to men than vice versa, especially regarding looksBut fat women aren't really poisonous.....they're just embarrassing! It's more like getting a McDonald's cheeseburger, from a McDonald's in a really bad part of town, until you're able to afford steak again. It ties you over, but you don't really want to make a habit of going there. Also, sometimes you have to convince the cheeseburger, that it's the only food in your life, even though it's not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Women are far crueler to men than vice versa, especially regarding looksLOL....well I don't like raisons and mushrooms, but if I haven't eaten in a few weeks.......that raison and mushroom salad is starting to look pretty good! 😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Women are far crueler to men than vice versa, especially regarding lookshttps://www.someecards.com/usercards/viewcard/fat-girls-are-like-mopeds-theyre-fun-to-ride-but-you-dont-want-anyone-seeing-you-riding-them-90f9a/?tagSlug=flirting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 01:06 AM |
| 6 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenHonestly, it's very situation dependent. A lot of guys tend to get "drowned out" on the apps, especially guys in the 5'6" to 5'9" range, who refuse to lie about their height. I'm only 5'9", but I am white, and I have pretty good facial features. Despite that, I tend to still get lost in the crowd of guys on the apps, while I seem to "present well" in clubs, for whatever reason. Maybe it's just the effect of alcohol on my inhibitions and confidence. Maybe I just haven't perfected my online profil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 11:42 PM |
| 9 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenYep, they want all the men REMAINING on the app, and depressed enough to pay a monthly fee. It's weird when you look at it that way. They want you to PAY for NO service, only the promise of service. It's like a car detailing service, that wants you to keep paying them a monthly fee, in hopes that they MIGHT detail your car one day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 04:58 PM |
| 22 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenI've been telling dudes to get off the apps and hit the bars for 2 years now. Besides the gender ratios, the algorithms are designed, via the maintenance of the "ELO", to further separate the average guys from the "Chads", for the purpose of getting the average guys to pay for premium service. Not only does "Chad" have a natural advantage, but his profile gets shown to more women, if his ELO score is higher. Things are NOT equal and random on the apps, they are designed to make men depressed eno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Women are far crueler to men than vice versa, especially regarding looksThis is an informative post. I think we men often forget that there is jealousy and competition between women, perhaps because you ladies are better at uniting for social/political causes, and presenting a more "united front", than we men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 03:21 PM |
| 10 | Women are far crueler to men than vice versa, especially regarding looksNah....you're confusing pump and dump sex, with an actual "Be seen in public with her" relationship. I'm a guy too, and the old joke comparing fat women to mopeds, is a brutally honest assessment of how men often feel about overweight women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Apparently, women were seen as the hornier sex for much of HistoryI think some people tend to assume that if the rest of the relationship is good, then the sex will just automatically "work out". It's not always that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...Seriously? You're advocating that we return to a colonial London world, where as many as 1 in 5 women were prostitutes? I'd rather not "sacrifice" that many women. There's nothing wrong with liking sexually dimorphic physical characteristics, but sexual behavior is another matter. If you have to force women to do something, or NOT do something, if you have to shame them to get them to stop doing what they are doing, then by definition, it's not a naturally occurring, sexually dimorphic behavior.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 12:36 AM |
| 0 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...When it comes to n-count, it's not just a matter of hypocrisy though....it's also simple dysfunctional mathematics. It's simply impossible, to have a society where every man is sexually experienced, and every women isn't. Also, double standards promote an adversarial, distrustful relationship between men and women. You can't keep walking into a donut shop, and taking a little nibble out of every donut, putting it back on the shelf, and then refusing to buy any donut that another man has "nibbled… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...LOL.....as a divorced man myself.....that's a terribly unfair question to ask of a marriage! 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Apparently, women were seen as the hornier sex for much of HistoryI'm saying the same thing, that I think she is saying....that a woman who hasn't been "sexually awakened" by a good partner, may not express a high sex drive, the same way a person who has only had vanilla, may not be a big fan of ice cream. If your experiences with men have largely been negative, it's going to impact your desire, even for "the next guy" who may not have done anything wrong.....yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Apparently, women were seen as the hornier sex for much of HistoryShe does have a point though....the quality of sex can vary greatly between partners, both for men and women. I've had a few "starfish" women, and they admittedly weren't much fun. As a man, I certainly like taking the more active role in sex, but being with a 100% "pillow princess" kind of sucks....and not in a good way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 11:37 PM |
| 0 | Apparently, women were seen as the hornier sex for much of HistoryI'm not comparing women to men, rather I'm comparing women to a more "free state", with the assumption that some suppression of women's sexuality still occurs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Apparently, women were seen as the hornier sex for much of HistoryI've also had a fair number of women with very high sex drives, but unlike possum, I'm less concerned with how women's sex drive compares to men. Rather, I'd ask how much of women's sex drives is still suppressed by society and socialization. Have the old concerns about assault, harassment, pregnancy, reputation, sin, etc, been largely removed, or do they still greatly influence women's views toward sex? If the external environment is still "hostile" to sex for women, then that is a significant … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 11:19 PM |
| 9 | Apparently, women were seen as the hornier sex for much of HistoryThis sub always seems to negate or diminish the vast effects of socialization on sexual expression, especially when it comes to women. When you've got one gender that is told, "All sex is good sex" from the time they're kids, and the other gender constantly being warned about assault, harassment, pregnancy, disease, reputation, sin, etc.....it's bound to have a cumulative effect over time, both consciously and sub-consciously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 11:12 PM |
| 10 | How are women finding dates in 2022?I think more and more women are becoming disillusioned with online dating, than the guys on this sub realize. They all think it's a "candy store" for the women, but matches don't mean dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 05:12 PM |
| 2 | How are women finding dates in 2022?This is an underrated comment. I MIGHT be able to accept that women are having hookups with a small percentage of dudes, but dating relationships??? Women are DEMANDING in relationships, it's difficult to date multiple women at once. These "Chads" aren't going to be able to manage it, unless they're geniuses and millionaires, as well as good looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 04:52 PM |
| 5 | How are women finding dates in 2022?Well, I'm not a woman, but as a longtime Dallas nightclubber, I can say that nightclubs in general, are on the decline, as is the approaches that men make in them. Younger Millennials and Gen-Zrs were never as big into the nightclub scene as we Gen-Xrs were. I've recently re-entered the nightclub scene after my divorce, and I can see why young men don't approach as much as we used to. Most women just aren't as approachable as they used to be, even in my generation. It's even worse with the young… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 04:25 PM |
| 2 | I think this sub often ignores the importance of local/regional factors, when it comes to dating and sex....Culture and generation do play a big role. It was easier for us Gen-X guys to approach women, because Gen-X women were more comfortable being approached. Both sides played their part well. The women always declined politely, and the men knew how to take "No" for an answer LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 05:26 PM |
| 2 | I think this sub often ignores the importance of local/regional factors, when it comes to dating and sex....That's a good point. Here in Texas, we have an unusually large ratio of rural to urban people, because it's such a large state, despite the fact that we have DFW, Houston, and San Antonio. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 05:12 PM |
| 4 | I think this sub often ignores the importance of local/regional factors, when it comes to dating and sex....I saw a Youtube a while back, where a guy explains that the percentage of men who cold approach is actually very small, but the ones who do it, do it a LOT, so it can seem to women, like they are always getting cold approached everywhere LOL It's like when you walk into a room with 10 guys, and one guy cold approaches you, and then you walk into another room with 10 guys, and one guy cold approaches you, it can seem like it's every guy, but it's more like 5-10% LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 05:01 PM |
| 3 | I think this sub often ignores the importance of local/regional factors, when it comes to dating and sex....Yep, at least parts of the Southern US, still have a "Talk to whomever you're around" culture for certain things, although that's dying out with the older people as well. The cool thing about Dallas/Fort Worth, is there is something for everyone here, but you've really got to go out and look for it. It's got over 7 million people, but it's a geographically huge place, it's not densely populated, like some Eastern cities. Everything is very spread out, and you're screwed without a good car. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 04:49 PM |
| 2 | I think this sub often ignores the importance of local/regional factors, when it comes to dating and sex....I think people are always searching for convenient generalizations, to categorize everything and everyone. The thing is, there's so much individual variability, that I'm not sure it's always a worthwhile endeavor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 04:37 PM |
| 5 | I think this sub often ignores the importance of local/regional factors, when it comes to dating and sex....Agreed. As a software engineer, I always knew I'd have to move away after college, so it wasn't a big surprise for me. It's amazing how your views and perspective change.....whenever I go back to my home town to visit relatives, everything just seems so small and slow LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 04:34 PM |
| 2 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.LOL....in my case, that was a long time ago, but I definitely made up for lost time. Moving to Dallas helped a lot too. Physical location is still one of the most important factors, and big cities are definitely better than a small towns. Small towns "trap" you into the same places, same people, same ways of thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 04:04 PM |
| 2 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.I have kind of a "baby face", but I have always found that a day or two of "action movie hero" stubble helps a lot, with making your face more chiseled looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 03:52 PM |
| 6 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.Agreed. I was a "late bloomer" with women, due to bad acne in high school and college, and accompanying lack of confidence. When my acne was essentially cured by Accutane in college, I discovered I actually had reasonably good facial bone underneath all that....pus. The thing is, it takes your brain a while to "catch up", you still subconsciously think of yourself as ugly. However, the more success I started having with women, the relaxed I got, and the more success I seemed to have. When it com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 03:49 PM |
| 2 | The vast majority of male problems in getting casual sex or relationships stem from an overwhelming fear of rejectionLOL....there could never be enough to eliminate the whining on THIS sub! :))) Still, as a Gen-X guy, I've encountered a lot of women who enjoy casual and FWB sexual relationships, as long as you make sure they orgasm. Of course, I've always been into the nightclub scene, so my experiences may not be typical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 01:15 AM |
| 8 | TRP tries to reduce the value of women by lowering their self confidence making them accessible to the RP demographicUnrealistic expectations are usually their own punishment though, just like paying too much for a stock, and selling it for a loss later. In fact, you could make an argument, that everyone gets punished exactly the right amount, for their unrealistic expectations in dating, since expectations determine disappointment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 09:48 PM |
| 7 | TRP tries to reduce the value of women by lowering their self confidence making them accessible to the RP demographicI think it's a matter of everyone wanting the easiest solution/excuse for their issues. Instead of the old, "It's not you....it's me" line from Seinfeld, it's more like.... "It's never me....it's always you" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 09:18 PM |
| 24 | TRP tries to reduce the value of women by lowering their self confidence making them accessible to the RP demographicAn over-reliance on statistics, rather than the REASONS behind the statistics, is also a prominent phenomenon on this sub. Man: "Dammit! The Tinder ratio is 4 men to 1 woman!" Woman: "Lots of women have left online dating, due to harassment, liars, married men, plate spinners, scammers, other security concerns, etc." Man: "It's got to be a conspiracy to make men feel bad!" Man: "Women just never seem as interested in casual sex as men!" Woman: "The men on this sub just degraded women for having … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 09:10 PM |
| 21 | What is the worst thing about being a man?LOL Wow, somebody woke up on the sympathetic side of the bed this morning! :))) Still, whether it's bad or not, is going to depend on which man you ask. The handsome but poor guy, would rather men be defined by their looks. The rich but ugly guy, would rather men be defined by their wealth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 08:19 PM |
| 1 | The recent overturning of Roe vs Wade is not an indication, that we are headed back towards the "patriarchy" or increased sexual conservatism....We shall see! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 08:11 PM |
| 1 | The recent overturning of Roe vs Wade is not an indication, that we are headed back towards the "patriarchy" or increased sexual conservatism....You're no fun, WK! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | The recent overturning of Roe vs Wade is not an indication, that we are headed back towards the "patriarchy" or increased sexual conservatism....They won't succeed. Abortion has always been constitutionally "ambiguous", but election procedures are a different matter. Another factor to keep in mind, is that Christianity is rapidly declining in the US. Both Catholicism and Protestantism are in rapid decline. Without religion, conservatism loses much of it's "bedrock" foundation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 08:06 PM |
| 2 | The recent overturning of Roe vs Wade is not an indication, that we are headed back towards the "patriarchy" or increased sexual conservatism....Oh believe me, as a Texan, I know the power of GOP gerrymandering, it's a reality here. Still, red states don't control the nation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 07:59 PM |
| 2 | The recent overturning of Roe vs Wade is not an indication, that we are headed back towards the "patriarchy" or increased sexual conservatism....Agreed, and that's coming from a Gen-Xr. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 07:56 PM |
| 7 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingIt is a little hard to take this guy seriously at times. His alleged "shadowy" swingers background, coupled with an "I do everything better than you do" attitude, makes you not want to take his advice, even if he is sometimes right. His primary message always seems to be, "I'm beautiful......and you're not!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Are women happy with the current state of dating?I'm going to step in here, and tell you what other guys will not.....when it comes to commitment, it's less about the woman a guy is dating, and more about TIME. It's more about where he sees himself, in terms of life stages. If a guy has reached a point where he's ready to settle down, he'll pick a woman and settle down. If he hasn't reached that point yet, then NO woman is going to be good enough to settle down with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 11:01 PM |
| 5 | Are women happy with the current state of dating?"I'd rather the weak men just give up. Makes it easier for the rest of us who don't quit." Wow...those are harsh sentiments, even by MY standards, and I'm known for giving men tough, "Pull yourself up by your own bootstraps" advice on this sub. There's no harm in helping the collective now and then, the question is how to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 10:41 PM |
| 6 | When will things finally start looking better for men?Yes, we'll all pay the price for the Dem's complacency in 2016 for quite some time. Ginsburg was a fine justice, but she was stubborn and short sighted. She would have been better off to retire during Obama's terms, but she stayed on and passed away during a Republican presidency. Nevertheless, the backlashes will come. People probably won't feel them in deep red states, but in purple states, and in nationwide trends, the backlashes will come around. In fact, the Repub's response to Lindsey Grah… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 06:30 AM |
| 53 | Having hypocritical standards is fineHypocrisy isn't a problem in relationships, as long both partners are reasonably happy. If the fit man is happy with a BBW, then that's fine. If the player guy is able to land a virgin church lady and keep her happy, that's fine too. However, hypocrisy IS a factor, when people COMPLAIN about relationships, on boards such as this one. If the fat man COMPLAINS that he can't get fit women, then charges of hypocrisy become a legitimate response. If the player COMPLAINS that he can't find a virgin, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 05:52 AM |
| 9 | When will things finally start looking better for men?Wrong! The overturn of Roe was a fluke, due to Trump appointing an exceptional 3 conservative justices during his one 4 year term! All recent polls show the majority of Americans being in favor of legal abortion, and that number becomes significantly higher, when you only look at those 30 years of age and under. The demographic and age trends are towards pro-choice, not against it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 05:45 AM |
| 4 | Is it a deal breaker if she does not want to ever try anal?I’m very much an “ass man” in terms of attraction, but never had any urge to go in the “out door”. Now if she’s clean, I’ll play around down there, but outside’s fine for me LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 06:07 PM |
| 3 | The idea that “if you were truly good looking/socially savvy you wouldn’t be struggling” is a huge fallacy here. Due to women’s inflated egos, even attractive men struggle.Don't sweat it, nobody ever looks at men's moves on the dance floor. Just have a good time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 12:43 AM |
| 3 | The idea that “if you were truly good looking/socially savvy you wouldn’t be struggling” is a huge fallacy here. Due to women’s inflated egos, even attractive men struggle.LOL....I don't know about you, but I'm just old and experienced. I think bars and nightclubs have gotten a bad rap with younger guys, because they require more work, preparation and balls, then messaging women online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 12:26 AM |
| 6 | The idea that “if you were truly good looking/socially savvy you wouldn’t be struggling” is a huge fallacy here. Due to women’s inflated egos, even attractive men struggle.Yep, when women share a guy, it's unintentional. The apps provide "players" with secrecy and discretion, the real world doesn't. What these guys don't get, is that with 4-to-1 odds in Tinder (9-to-1 in the UK), even if the women chose men completely at random, like with a dartboard, 3 out of 4 dudes are still going to lose out. Add in the hypergamy factor, and these guys might as well look for women in a men's locker room. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 12:10 AM |
| 7 | The idea that “if you were truly good looking/socially savvy you wouldn’t be struggling” is a huge fallacy here. Due to women’s inflated egos, even attractive men struggle.Yep, these guys whine about "Chad", but Chad is at his strongest in the apps. In the real world, he's just a guy, who can't be in more than one place, at one time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 12:01 AM |
| 14 | The idea that “if you were truly good looking/socially savvy you wouldn’t be struggling” is a huge fallacy here. Due to women’s inflated egos, even attractive men struggle.I've been telling these guys to get off the apps, and hit the bars, for 2 years now. They'd rather compete in the "Mad Max Dating Wasteland" of Tinder, and fight Immortan Joe and Lord Humongous, for a drink of water and a gallon of gas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 11:55 PM |
| 5 | The idea that “if you were truly good looking/socially savvy you wouldn’t be struggling” is a huge fallacy here. Due to women’s inflated egos, even attractive men struggle.Are you saying most women don't pay their own bills? I think you're confusing real life with "The Girlfriend Experience". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 11:51 PM |
| 5 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....That's right, if you're doing it right, her clit is literally inside your mouth, and the "audience" wouldn't be able to see a damned thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 10:19 PM |
| 1 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....Huh??? That came out of left field! I wasn't comparing women to dogs, anymore than I was comparing men to dogs, except that the purposes of the discussion. If it makes you feel better, we can easily substitute "person" for "woman". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 09:44 PM |
| -1 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....Good point, there could be some selection bias here. I think it's more useful to think of it, of what to do or not do, while you're getting to know the woman (or dog) than what to do, once you know them well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 08:58 PM |
| 22 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....LOL...sounds like a path to vomit or teeth....neither are good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 06:19 PM |
| 14 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....They tolerate it because they love you. That's like marriage in a nutshell! :)) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 06:08 PM |
| 4 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....LOL...based on the way things are going between men and women these days, we're all going to be spending more time with our dogs, so this stuff is really important! :)))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 05:54 PM |
| 2 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....If that's the case, then he certainly sees you as a protector. Maybe smaller dogs take a different view towards it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 05:42 PM |
| 1 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....He may like it, if he's learned to see it as a protective measure! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....For some reason, I could never convince my ex-wife of that! :))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 05:35 PM |
| 2 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....That's true....you have to differentiate between a woman who is returning for the sex itself, from one that is just having "duty sex" to maintain the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 05:29 PM |
| 18 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....Well said!!! A bigger flex than "I get a new woman in my bed each week" is "I don't have room for a new woman in my bed.....the old one won't leave!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 05:23 PM |
| 9 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....LOL....unfortunately, when you're married, it's often the other way around.... "Take out the trash, UrbanTex....gooooood boy!!!!" :)))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 05:18 PM |
| 3 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....That's true, and responses to a post I did on "violent sex" a while back, confirms that women often do like "forceful" maneuvers, although they may not always match those in porn, ie., being thrown on the bed vs choking, hair pulling etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 05:14 PM |
| 4 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....LOL If we can't educate you on the opposite sex, we can at least educate you on dogs! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 05:10 PM |
| 25 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....You can still pet your dog's front, back and sides firmly. Think of it as hugging with your hands, rather than your arms! :)) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 05:07 PM |
| 8 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....That's a good point.....the dog may like it better, if he feels less "trapped". It's not like it's a "deal breaker"....we all put up with irritations from people we love, and dogs are the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 05:02 PM |
| 4 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....Sorry, didn't mean to alter everyone's dog world view! :)) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 04:58 PM |
| 4 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....LOL I know....it blew me away too! It's tough when our precious ideals from childhood, are ripped away! :))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 04:48 PM |
| 8 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....Good point, but sometimes it's hard to separate true desires, from performative ones. If she brought it up completely out of the blue, with no mention of it whatsoever from you, then I concede it may be a true desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 04:44 PM |
| 9 | Do men appreciate male beauty/attractiveness more than women?When I was younger, I was so bad at reading hints, that I used to joke that a woman could sit on my sofa nude, and I would just assume it was her laundry day! :))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 04:00 PM |
| 2 | A few men are basically controlling all social interactions and sex between genders, rather than women"They want kids, and they'll have kids." LOL....OK.....you should tell Korean and Japanese women that. I'm sure they'll listen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 06:29 PM |
| 3 | A few men are basically controlling all social interactions and sex between genders, rather than womenLOL….I’m sorry….I really DIDN’T mean rape 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 06:21 PM |
| 5 | Nick Cannon having 9 kids with two more unborn is proof women would rather share a rich man of status than settle with "average"I don’t why all this is so groundbreaking all of a sudden. 30 years ago, nobody was arguing about Fabio and Tom Selleck getting more women than the average dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 06:19 PM |
| 2 | A few men are basically controlling all social interactions and sex between genders, rather than womenLOL….it doesn’t mean a lack of consent, just arousal, like “duty sex”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 06:12 PM |
| 8 | A few men are basically controlling all social interactions and sex between genders, rather than womenIt’s just a euphemism for having sex without bring aroused | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 06:04 PM |
| 7 | A few men are basically controlling all social interactions and sex between genders, rather than womenIf you want to push “Me Tarzan, you Jane” arguments from 2000 years ago, be my guest, for all the good it will do you. Just remember, that a LOT of men, would resist a return to these vaguely defined “old times”, as well. Women having a bit more agency, is a tiny, TINY price to pay, for the wonders of modern life. I work at home. Before that, I worked in a plush office for 25 years, making 6 figures. I wouldn’t give that up, and shoe horses in an Amish community, so some socially deficient borde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 06:02 PM |
| 3 | A few men are basically controlling all social interactions and sex between genders, rather than womenWell, given birth rates, fewer and fewer of them are doing that. Single and childless women have been topping the "happiness index", although how they determine that, I'm not sure. I think you're just hopping around, trying to find fault, and find ways to not consider women as equals, buddy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | A few men are basically controlling all social interactions and sex between genders, rather than womenMan.....Where have you been? Women have been outdistancing men in college for the past several years, and women under 30 now make more than men in many large cities, despite historically lower pay scales. If you're going to look for trends, you have to limit the data to people under 30.....and I'm saying that as guy pushing 50 myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 04:34 PM |
| 1 | A few men are basically controlling all social interactions and sex between genders, rather than womenI know lots of women that make more money than men. Stop it with this BS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 04:27 PM |
| 9 | A few men are basically controlling all social interactions and sex between genders, rather than womenGood point. If women get nervous, they can grab a bottle of lube, and "push a rope" if they have to....we men can't! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 04:25 PM |
| 18 | Nick Cannon having 9 kids with two more unborn is proof women would rather share a rich man of status than settle with "average"Using celebrities as an example for almost ANYTHING, is usually a statistically bad idea. Their lives are so far removed from ours, it's like looking at aliens from another planet. Even Hitler had teenage girls screaming, as his car passed by in parades, it doesn't mean anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 04:15 PM |
| 13 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.Women have been leaving OLD for the past few years though. Tinder went from 60/40, a ratio of 1.5 men to 1 woman, to a dismal 80/20 (4 to 1) in the US, and a terrible 90/10 (9 to 1) in the UK, just from 2015 to 2020. I can post some supporting links, but a lot of women aren't even taking OLD seriously anymore. Too many abusive guys, dick pics, married guys, plate spinners, penpals, scammers, etc. Women aren't stupid....they know that getting 1000 matches, doesn't mean crap, if EVERY women gets t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 11:34 PM |
| 28 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.But how much of this is really anything new? When I was in high school and and college in the 90’s, I knew tons of guys who never even got a date, usually due to being short, overweight or bad acne, probably because I was active in “nerdy” D&D and chess communities at the time. I was one of the bad acne guys myself, until I got an Accutane treatment. Are there more sexless, dateless dudes now than there used to be, or are they just more visible now, because they have a forum to complain? To put … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 03:33 PM |
| 2 | The people screaming the loudest about how messed up dating is; are the ones with the most unrealistic standardsFrankly, that's the man's fault, for not enforcing the "3rd Date Rule" or whatever they call it these days. I don't remember ever going more than 3 dates without sex, because I didn't ALLOW it to happen. A woman can only string you along, if you let her. Dealing with a woman, is a lot like dealing with a car salesman.....you have to be prepared to walk away, at any time during the process, if you feel you're not getting a good deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 09:14 PM |
| 5 | The real reason why marriage is on the declineI agree, Biker, but remember that you're dealing with a bunch of under-socialized young men, who think that talking to an actual woman in a bar, is some long lost "magical" ability, like shoeing a horse, driving a stick shift, or rebuilding a carburetor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 08:36 PM |
| 16 | What are some major changes in the mainstream perception about dating that you think happened in the last 20 years?Well said. It makes no more sense to use Belle Delphine as a meaningful example, than it does any other celebrity. It's like complaining about Scarlet Johannson's "star power". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 06:18 PM |
| 4 | What are some major changes in the mainstream perception about dating that you think happened in the last 20 years?Wow....this is the best post I've seen in a long time from any man under 30. You've captured a big part of what seems to be "off" about young men. As an older guy, I've always said that men in Western societies center women too much in their lives, and that trend seems to be even more pronounced, in men under 30. Women are supposed to be just "gravy", not the meal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 05:37 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: What would you do if your marriage ended up being like this...As a non-autistic person, I'm not sure if I'm allowed to agree, but it does seem like he went to great lengths, to carefully craft a very unique, contrived situation, to get to some kind of very specific answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 04:31 PM |
| 11 | Q4W: What would you do if your marriage ended up being like this...Dude, as a divorced man myself, this isn't the way it works. Marriages fail, because of problems OUTSIDE the bedroom. What happens outside the bedroom, affects the bedroom. Believe me, in many cases, the husband doesn't want to have sex with his wife, anymore than she wants to have sex with him, because of the built up resentment. It's not as one-sided as you're making it out to be. Quit making up bizarre situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | It’s so unfair for straight women how male biology worksYou DO realize that for people under 30, women have recently caught up with men, when it comes to the statistics on cheating, right? It seems that women have their own equivalent of “autonomic erections” when it comes to infidelity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 03:01 AM |
| 1 | The rate of women never married is increasing significantly. What effects will we see if this trend continues?I suppose you could say, that any marriage that ends in divorce, was a result of marrying the "wrong" person. We dated for 2 years before marrying, it wasn't a sudden thing. Sometimes people change, sometimes you just don't know them as well as you think you do, if you haven't really seen them under stress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Granny admits that the biggest mistake of her life.....is getting married! Ladies, what and who needs to change, to get men and women back to committed relationships?LOL....hey, don't look at me, since my divorce, I just date and FWB women.....I don't try to "manage" them anymore! :))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Granny admits that the biggest mistake of her life.....is getting married! Ladies, what and who needs to change, to get men and women back to committed relationships?LOL...ballsy statement, my guy! If this were a sitcom, everyone would be going, "oooooooooo" right now! :)))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 10:14 PM |
| 4 | Granny admits that the biggest mistake of her life.....is getting married! Ladies, what and who needs to change, to get men and women back to committed relationships?Now that you mention it, I have heard at least one white guy say, that he thinks black men often do a better job of "handling" or "managing" their women. I don't know if he was referring to them bending women to their will, in terms of dating/living arrangements, or just keeping women's expectations reasonable in general. Of course, one man complementing another for "handling" their women, doesn't mean that the women he's "handling" are happy! LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Granny admits that the biggest mistake of her life.....is getting married! Ladies, what and who needs to change, to get men and women back to committed relationships?I think it always was easier to compromise, when there were external forces, ie., kids, economics, social expectations, etc., MAKING you compromise. The "lighter" (less consequences) we make the commitment, the less people are likely to stick around, when they don't always get their way. Maybe increased personal freedom is just destined to lead to fewer committed relationships, and there isn't anything anyone can really do about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Any man in the US can work hard to become a 10/10 if they had enough disciplineSome of it is age-related though, as to how much you have to do, to stand out. A lean, somewhat muscular guy in his 20's doesn't stand out that much, it's sort of expected. A lean, muscular guy in his 40's does. Same deal with hair, it's not whether you're keeping your hair, it's whether you're losing it slower than your peers. Of course, all of this sort of assumes that you're dating women your own age, and not trying to compete with 20 year old guys, for 20 year old girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 07:37 PM |
| 6 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?LOL I think you just packaged and bottled up PPD in one sentence! :)))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Any man in the US can work hard to become a 10/10 if they had enough disciplineThis is another "Grab some popcorn and a comfortable chair, and watch the action" post. I expect several, "Not if you're 5'5"!" comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 07:21 PM |
| 7 | Granny admits that the biggest mistake of her life.....is getting married! Ladies, what and who needs to change, to get men and women back to committed relationships?Yep, I think "serial monogamy" is a more natural arrangement, based on human desires. Of course, it may not be the best arrangement for raising kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Granny admits that the biggest mistake of her life.....is getting married! Ladies, what and who needs to change, to get men and women back to committed relationships?LOL....it looks like I'm going to have to re-examine my restroom habits! :))))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Granny admits that the biggest mistake of her life.....is getting married! Ladies, what and who needs to change, to get men and women back to committed relationships?So we eliminate the "Baskin Robbins 31 Flavors" problem, by just giving people vanilla? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 06:51 PM |
| 8 | Granny admits that the biggest mistake of her life.....is getting married! Ladies, what and who needs to change, to get men and women back to committed relationships?LOL....Tonya takes on everybody. You should check out her reaction video to Chris Rock's "Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally" sentiments. It's on her channel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 06:38 PM |
| 7 | Granny admits that the biggest mistake of her life.....is getting married! Ladies, what and who needs to change, to get men and women back to committed relationships?TRP used to be pretty much a white thing, but Tiktok is now chalked full of black men echoing Samuels and Tate sentiments, and black women firing back LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 06:33 PM |
| 12 | Granny admits that the biggest mistake of her life.....is getting married! Ladies, what and who needs to change, to get men and women back to committed relationships?LOL I'm a white guy, but I find a lot of her Youtube videos to be both entertaining and informative, both the videos themselves, and the comments. In some ways, the "war" between men and women, is even more intense for African Americans, than for other groups, with black men like Kevin Samuels stirring the pot, and black women not being afraid to speak their mind as well LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 06:28 PM |
| 11 | Granny admits that the biggest mistake of her life.....is getting married! Ladies, what and who needs to change, to get men and women back to committed relationships?Eh....I don't know about that. Prior to the modern world, men used to engage in lots of things that kept them away from women for long periods of time. I think suitable outlets for masculine energy, other than porn and video games, would help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Granny admits that the biggest mistake of her life.....is getting married! Ladies, what and who needs to change, to get men and women back to committed relationships?True, a relationship is like a community, you need an efficient division of labor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 05:17 PM |
| 9 | Granny admits that the biggest mistake of her life.....is getting married! Ladies, what and who needs to change, to get men and women back to committed relationships?There has been a lot of upheaval in men's and women's roles, goals and expectations in the past 50 years. Both sexes are sort of drifting around, confused as to what they want, what they should do, and what they THINK they should want. "You can have it all" might seem empowering, but all too often it comes with, 'You're not doing it right, UNLESS you have it all". You're right about the economy, our offshoring and automation of good jobs, first blue collar factory jobs in the 70's and 80's and t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Granny admits that the biggest mistake of her life.....is getting married! Ladies, what and who needs to change, to get men and women back to committed relationships?That's a pretty pessimistic viewpoint, but as a divorced man myself, I have to agree with much of it. If you had asked me 10 years ago, I would have said differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 04:41 PM |
| 5 | The rate of women never married is increasing significantly. What effects will we see if this trend continues?True, there is at least one study, that shows that it's the act of cohabitation, rather than the legal act of marriage, which reduces women's attraction to their partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 04:04 PM |
| 19 | The rate of women never married is increasing significantly. What effects will we see if this trend continues?If you don't want to take it from the never-married guy, then take it from the divorced guy.....even though I got a wonderful daughter out it, I sometimes wish I had never married either. It made my life many times harder, and messed with my self-esteem in my ways I'm still dealing with. My advice to ANY young American, man or woman.....DON'T get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Why are people against "fetishiszation" when online dating is exactly that?OK, not to be a "board Nazi", but that WAS a bit uncalled for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 03:43 PM |
| 3 | This sub just doesn’t believe in loveI like to cover all the bases, by wearing 5 types of cologne! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 05:16 PM |
| 1 | How big a deal is it if your partner never initiates sexThat's a pretty big leap in logic. He may simply be inhibited in some way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Would Short Men (Under 5 ft 5) Have More Dating Opportunities In A Country Where The Average Woman Is Shorter?Especially since your short legs will make it harder to run! Oh man....did I just say that??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 10:41 PM |
| 18 | Would Short Men (Under 5 ft 5) Have More Dating Opportunities In A Country Where The Average Woman Is Shorter?Tiktok is mostly just people trying to piss off other people these days. Short women who date very tall guys, flaunt it because they know it pisses off.... Short guys, who want short girls to be "reserved" for them Tall girls, who want tall guys to be "reserved" for them It's like a 2-for-1 troll sale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Women if they want marriage have an obligation to start seriously looking for it from a young age and not waiting around, sleeping around, or "focusing on their career" in the meantime.It doesn't, but it NULLIFIES what you said, in the interests of women. Their security comes before your preferences. NOBODY should be marrying before age 25. I'd give the same advice to a son, that I give to my daughter......get EXTREMELY good, at taking care of yourself first....then and ONLY then.....commit to another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 09:59 PM |
| 6 | Women if they want marriage have an obligation to start seriously looking for it from a young age and not waiting around, sleeping around, or "focusing on their career" in the meantime.I agree completely, and as a father of a daughter, I don't care how "white knight" I come across. These guys want women to have no margin for error in judgement, no experience to make that judgement, and no backup plan, in case things fall apart. SCREW them....I have always told my daughter to secure her education and career FIRST. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Women if they want marriage have an obligation to start seriously looking for it from a young age and not waiting around, sleeping around, or "focusing on their career" in the meantime.It's not just about the guy....everyone needs a backup plan, both men AND women. Marriages end....sometimes very unexpectantly. You have to have the skills to take care of yourself in the job market. I will make sure my daughter has a sound career, before becoming involved with a man, who may, or many not, stick around a long time. To add to the risk, statistics show that early age marriages, are at a greater risk of divorce. Be prepared for EVERY relationship to end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneYou have to decide up front, if the relationship is going to be romance, pure friendship or FWB. It's difficult to flip from one to another, in an ongoing relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 08:36 PM |
| 10 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneLet's not go overboard here....the vast majority of men haven't been in a fight since grade school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 08:23 PM |
| 6 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellThat's your problem. You don't trust statistics, and you listen to hard won experience either. Also, it's "Gen-X". You can't rely on the experiences and advice of dudes your own age....not on THIS sub anyway! LOL :)))))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 10:06 PM |
| 6 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellWell, then you can trust my 30+ years of anecdotal experiences as a Gen-Xr, and life long nightclubber.....women are still less likely to cheat, than men. I know women aren't angels....I've been pepper sprayed, had my tires slashed, money borrowed and never paid back, beer bottles thrown at my car (don't make a Latina angry), not to mention a woman sending her big brother to come after me! LOL They are still less likely to cheat, than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 09:57 PM |
| 8 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellThe statistics don't support that. Every study I found, says men still cheat more. Women may be catching up, but they haven't surpassed us yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 09:33 PM |
| 0 | How much do you think a man has to earn annually to make up for having a below average penis or below average height, if it's at all possible to do so?Whoops, sorry, forgot to post it under the automod post. No worries! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | How much do you think a man has to earn annually to make up for having a below average penis or below average height, if it's at all possible to do so?I don't think you can cross-substitute those attributes. For instance, I like a nice, round butt on a woman. It's not a must, but it's a definite bonus. Her having money, isn't going to make up for the lack of booty. In fact, even her having big boobs, isn't going to make up for the lack of booty, despite the anthological theories that human breasts grew as "sexual display substitutes" for the buttocks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 06:44 PM |
| 3 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellPoint taken, but I think the reasons are important here. Cheating for lack of affection from your partner, isn’t the same as cheating for novelty/excitement. Of course, everyone always says “Something was missing” in the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 06:28 PM |
| 11 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellI’m not accusing Gig of lying, but if his claims about his background are true, his sampling is hardly typical. It’s a bit like spending a day in a bowling alley, and then assuming that everyone loves bowling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 06:22 PM |
| 12 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellI think you're a bit jaded, Gig, not everyone lives in an "Eyes Wide Shut" world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 05:39 PM |
| 3 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellTo begin with, it's a false separation. Humans have EVOLVED, to be highly SOCIALLY influenced. It's not "Lizard Brain" vs "Television Brain".....Lizard Brain evolved to let Television Brain in big time....ESPECIALLY in women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 05:33 PM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellYou can be nice guy, and still take charge during sex. I have found that women tend to like it, when you come up with ANY plan, in just about ANY situation, both in bed and out of it, even if the plan isn't a particularly good one. If a woman has confidence in you, she knows you will adjust things, as needed. Also, oral sex works wonders. I enjoy both giving and receiving, and never had any trouble making a woman orgasm. My ex-wife and I used to to 69 a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 05:22 PM |
| 5 | Men should give up on western women and go overseasCensor you? You just came "alive" 2 hours ago. Red Pill already has a bad rep....you ain't helping it on this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 02:03 AM |
| 8 | Men should give up on western women and go overseasMods, this is a 2 hour old, obviously troll account. Draw your own conclusions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 01:56 AM |
| 16 | Men should give up on western women and go overseasAs a man who married and divorced a Filipina (already in America), it's not what you think it is. Asian women aren't as submissive as you think, and they're definitely NOT submissive after marriage. In a lot of Asian cultures, women RULE things in the home. You're chasing after a "yellow fever" fantasy. Sure, go to the Philippines and Thailand, and have FUN, but don't bring any back, and definitely don't MARRY one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 01:38 AM |
| 7 | The average man isn't attracted to the average woman either.I know, I'm just being facetious. I'm insinuating that most men who get fat, never lose the weight again! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: Obesity is not the insane problem that it is made out be here and the average person is not obeseYou're still building a lot of conditions, and excluding a lot of people here. What RP focuses on, is whatever the user wants. When I was in my 20's, I had a couple of affairs with women in their late 30's and even early 40's, and they were great. Some of the best sex I ever had. Having fun is one thing, starting a family is another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 10:41 PM |
| 5 | The average man isn't attracted to the average woman either.LOL Thanks, the feeling is mutual! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 09:40 PM |
| 5 | The average man isn't attracted to the average woman either.What can I say, that’s just how I am! 😎 Oh wait…..you’re taking to HIM! 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 09:11 PM |
| 5 | The average man isn't attracted to the average woman either.Memory foam mattresses are the answer, otherwise you're just a small moon, caught in Jupiter's gravity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 08:26 PM |
| 6 | The average man isn't attracted to the average woman either.You just have to scoooch out of the way, and let her collapse on the bed....takes practice! :)))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 08:10 PM |
| 8 | The average man isn't attracted to the average woman either.Every wife and GF possum has had, has been over 200 lbs. He keeps a seatbelt extender in his car! 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 07:04 PM |
| 40 | The average man isn't attracted to the average woman either.And men lose an inch of penis for every 40-50 lbs gained. Millions of inches of penis have been lost…..never to be seen again! 🥺 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 06:57 PM |
| 10 | The average man isn't attracted to the average woman either.That’s AFTER orgasm though….sleepy afterglow! 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 06:47 PM |
| 14 | The average man isn't attracted to the average woman either.I was forced to upgrade from a Ford F-150 to an F-250, before picking up my last GF! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 06:46 PM |
| 4 | What will happen to current dating situation in the future ?I'm not sure if the apps and the rest of the internet has made a lot of guys this way, or if there has always been guys like this, but they never had a place to complain, before the internet, so you never heard about them. I'm a Gen-Xr, and I've been meeting women off the net for 30 years, but things have changed a lot, since I was in my 20's. People don't go out to nightclubs and restaurants as much now, and COVID didn't help. Young men know that the rules are changing, and they aren't sure wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 03:16 AM |
| 6 | What will happen to current dating situation in the future ?I think online dating has discouraged a lot of men, and made them bitter. It does sort of put a lot of men at a disadvantage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 02:52 AM |
| 5 | What will happen to current dating situation in the future ?Oh it gets worse….some guys here want to remove women’s right to vote, have a career, and choose their own way of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 02:18 AM |
| 5 | What will happen to current dating situation in the future ?Only after reading some of these posts! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Tinder Outcome Related Data Puts the 'Chad Harems' Notion Into QuestionI realize I'm a bit late to this particular post's party, but I just wanted to commend you on your informative comments on the ELO. A lot of guys don't realize how much their ELO can make or break them on the apps. I think it's important to get that knowledge out there. The whole thing really is geared to make men pay for premium service. Women are the "product". If you're a guy, and a non-paying customer, then you're like a guest who complains about the weeds on a golf course, when you're not e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 11:17 PM |
| 9 | What will happen to current dating situation in the future ?This sub is a real cringefest for us older guys too. I've been pepper sprayed, chased around an apartment by an angry BF carrying a hammer, hit with a beer bottle at a Tejano bar, and had my tires slashed by an angry ex, and I still never whined like these dudes. It's like they're made of paper mache. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 09:38 PM |
| 23 | What will happen to current dating situation in the future ?Well, it has been about 24 hours since the last “Give us women, or we’ll revolt” post, so we were probably about due 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 07:33 PM |
| 3 | The shameful Natasha Aponte experiment, "The Tinder Trap", shows just how desperate men are and how much choice women have.Seriously though...if your skin's that thin, you probably shouldn't be on Tinder. This is roughly equivalent to buying a lottery ticket with 1 in a million odds, and then getting upset that you don't win. Like the song says, the world is going to roll these guys, they're not the sharpest tools in the shed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 06:33 PM |
| 16 | The shameful Natasha Aponte experiment, "The Tinder Trap", shows just how desperate men are and how much choice women have.Tinder is 4 to 1 men to women in the US, and a dismal 9 to 1 in the UK. It is the "Mad Max Wasteland" of dating, at least for men. If guys want to compete with "Immortan Joe" and "Humungus" for a cup of water and a gallon of gas, that's on them. There are much better ways to pursue and meet women. My sympathy is REALLY limited for these guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 06:17 PM |
| 4 | How strong is the intersection between the Red Pill and the Alt-Right?That's one of the best responses so far! I've always said that TRP assumes that everyone is entirely governed by their "lizard brains"....genetics and hormones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 07:41 AM |
| 1 | How strong is the intersection between the Red Pill and the Alt-Right?Well, Zerk, you're just going to have to get used to living in a world, where everyone else's interests, are just as important as yours are. including women and people of color. I know that sucks, but we'll work it out. Have a good night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 03:47 AM |
| 1 | How strong is the intersection between the Red Pill and the Alt-Right?LOL.....OK, if you're going to start justifying slavery, I think we're done here. I will make a little deal with you though....just for fun....I'll re-institute slavery for a while, if whatever gender, color and ethnicity that YOU happen to be a part of, is the one that goes into the chains. Deal??? Seems fair to me! If you're happy with a society while you're wearing the boot, then you should be just as happy with that society, when you're the one UNDER the boot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 03:33 AM |
| 1 | How strong is the intersection between the Red Pill and the Alt-Right?It's funny how the words "stable society" always seem to be used by those at the TOP of the current hierarchy. There's no doubt, that WHITE MEN would have considered the society to be quite stable in pre-Civil War America. Now if you had asked others, namely women and blacks, they probably wouldn't have agreed with this "stability". It all began, when King John was forced to sign the Magna Carta, all the way back in 1215. That transferred power from the king to the nobles. Only later, would powe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 03:13 AM |
| 1 | How strong is the intersection between the Red Pill and the Alt-Right?LOL....thanks. Before I came to Reddit, I used to hang out on the Federalist boards, where I debated with a lot of alt-righters. These guys all want to set the clock back, and put back power back into the hands of those who had it in the 1700's. The only difference, is that most of the guys I debated with on the Federalist, would throw "white" in with "male landowners with children". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 02:55 AM |
| 1 | How strong is the intersection between the Red Pill and the Alt-Right?Wrong. Politics is always inherently conflictive. Voting substitutes for bullets in a democratic republic. If you can't vote, then you will be constantly VULNERABLE to the whims of those who can. Your rights, your living conditions, your very EXISTENCE, is at the mercy of those who make the laws. Constitutional amendments are the last defense against "two wolves having the one lamb for dinner", but even constitutional amendments can be revoked, if the people they benefit CAN'T vote, and the stat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 02:41 AM |
| 1 | How strong is the intersection between the Red Pill and the Alt-Right?I can understand your feelings, but you've got to shine a light on things now and then. I'm a father of a daughter myself, and I certainly don't want her to lose any of her rights. I think that putting a little political scare into women now and then, is a GOOD thing....it gets them out to the voting booths, and stops complacency. Women need to vote like their rights and liberties depend on it....because they do. Complacency led to the election of Trump. Trump appointed THREE Supreme Court Justi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | How strong is the intersection between the Red Pill and the Alt-Right?I'm just trying to get him to expose himself. I'm laughing because it's a bit unusual to find a guy so openly, politically hostile to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 11:36 PM |
| 3 | How strong is the intersection between the Red Pill and the Alt-Right?Well he does…..but you can’t hear him! 😂🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 11:18 PM |
| 3 | How strong is the intersection between the Red Pill and the Alt-Right?He's known for liking really LARGE women though.....they squash him if he gets out of line! :))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 11:09 PM |
| 1 | How strong is the intersection between the Red Pill and the Alt-Right?LOL I was hoping someone with your views would show up! What is it about women, that makes them "bad" voters? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 10:40 PM |
| 5 | How strong is the intersection between the Red Pill and the Alt-Right?Agreed, I think political groups have a tendency to fragment over time, as the hardliners get dissatisfied with lack of action. and the moderates lose interest, and move on to something else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 10:05 PM |
| 6 | How strong is the intersection between the Red Pill and the Alt-Right?Trump certainly did better with white women, than anyone expected him to, especially considering what a "white woman icon", Hillary was supposed to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 09:51 PM |
| 8 | How strong is the intersection between the Red Pill and the Alt-Right?That seems to be the case with a lot social/political groups....Tea Party, Occupy Wall Street, Black Lives Matter, etc. Maybe the public's attention span is just too short, to keep anything going for too long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 09:44 PM |
| 6 | How strong is the intersection between the Red Pill and the Alt-Right?Good point. The Manosphere certainly contains a variety of different groups, complaining about different things.....Red Pill, Alt-Right, MGTOW, MRA, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Men who only LTR exceptionally low n women while being promiscuous themselves generally make for bad partners.Sorry buddy, but equalitarianism is the future, and hypocrisy, is hypocrisy. You can wave the "Me Tarzan, you Jane!" BS around all you want, but it's not going to change modern views. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 08:28 PM |
| 0 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceThese guys want to have it both ways, first they complain that "all the women are on the apps", then they complain that "men outnumber women on the apps". Make it make sense! It is physically impossible for one guy to DATE 5-10 woman on a regular basis. I once tried dating just TWO women on a regular basis, and I damned near lost mind because of it. It's stressful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceLOL….l’ve been there, just be careful. A few seconds with a key, can really mess up your paint job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 06:51 PM |
| 1 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceMen have a tendency to overrate our general attractiveness. I'm guilty of it too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 05:12 PM |
| 4 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceYou can't be serious....that literally screams, "I never leave my house". Chased women for almost 2 decades in nightclubs, never even came close to getting into a fight with another dude. Got sprayed with pepper spray by a bartender once, but that was an entirely different matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 04:43 PM |
| 2 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceIt's called "sarcasm", dude. I'm 5'9", with a stocky build, and I wear thick glasses. If I'm a Chad, then the Chad standards have dropped radically. If you want to complain that the 6'4" guy on this thread has it easy, be my guest, but I don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 04:38 PM |
| 3 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceMeeting a woman without a social circle, would be so weird as to be offputting. I've never even met a woman, who doesn't have a big social circle. Women bond instantly, they can walk past each other in the mall, notice they're both carrying the same handbag, and go to lunch together. We men don't do that sort of thing. I get around that, by having platonic lady friends. My best friend is a woman, and we've hung out for over 20 years. I think she would like it to be more, but I'm not strongly phy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 04:26 PM |
| 0 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated advicePersistence is important, especially for men. These guys probably tried a nightclub once, didn't have women crawling all over them, and declared it a "failure". They probably went to the mall, or did a meetup event once, didn't have women crawling all over them again, and again declared it a "failure". When I'm single, I'm "out there" every weekend, and many weeknights, at the health club, the nightclub, the mall, restaurants, etc. Then again, I live in Dallas, so I probably have a lot more opti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 04:18 PM |
| 1 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceThese guys are making way too big a deal out of the difficulty level. I've met women while standing in line, at the food court in the mall, and I'm 5'9". They need to go out to a nightclub, have a few drinks, get out on the dance floor, and get "outside of themselves". Your own inhibitions are your biggest prison. Make arrangements for an Uber or designated driver, and go out, get a little buzzed, talk to people you wouldn't normally talk to, and say things you wouldn't normally say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 03:22 PM |
| 20 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceWell said. Too many people fail the "Would YOU date YOU?" test. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Women, what do you think the average man's dating life looks like?Oh sorry. I was always able to limit my drinking to just Friday and Saturday nights. If you’ve had a drinking problem in the past, then please ignore my advice. I never saw alcohol as a long girl term solution, just something to get me past my first couple of encounters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Women, what do you think the average man's dating life looks like?As an older guy, I’m going to give you some unconventional, unfiltered, non-politically correct advice, based on what worked for me, in my early 20’s……..alcohol. A little bit of “liquid courage” can go a long way. I just hung out in bars and nightclubs, made sure to look my best, and talked to anyone and everyone around me. Eventually, I met an older woman, had sex with her while we were both drink, and we clicked. She taught me a lot about women and sex, and boosted my confidence greatly. From … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Men & Women OptionsOnline dating has tipped the scales in favor of women when it comes to both, but a growing number of women are becoming disillusioned with what they find on OLD. My position has always been, that a willingness to pursue women using offline methods, shifts some of that power back to men, but you have to have the skills and boldness to do it. Living in a large city, also helps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 04:26 AM |
| 5 | Alternative theory as to what caused the increase in autism. In a nutshell theory is women in universities.I have evidence that baby switching actually happens! My well behaved daughter, has recently been swapped with a rebellious 13 year old! 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 10:15 PM |
| 8 | Alternative theory as to what caused the increase in autism. In a nutshell theory is women in universities.This!…,Older parental age in both men and women, is linked to autism. Doctors are much quicker to diagnose kids with just about anything these days….ADHT, hyperactivity, depression, etc. Mild cases of autism probably didn’t get diagnosed in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Evolutionary psychological findings on sex differences could be interpreted socioculturallyGuys on this sub… “Woman’s orgasms just aren’t biologically necessary or important!” Also, men on this sub….. “Why can’t I get laid more often???” 😂🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 07:31 PM |
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