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No. Either there is consent, or there isnt. Drunk or underage = no consent. Giving in? Saying yes reluctantly? Consent. Not hard.
/r/MensRights26/07/26 10:40 PM
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Everyone who wonders how this can happen, its the same reasons as when the genders are reversed... with one exception: No one believes, respects, or cares about him when he comes forward.
/r/MensRights13/07/26 03:13 PM
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From most groups studying rape using the definition of forcible penetration, often requiring a phallus. So rape of men can't happen outside of male on male. Forget forcible envelopment. Forget the many ways you can force a male to get/stay erect, or that erections =/= consent. The GOAL is men are perpetrators of rape, women are victims of it.
/r/MensRights09/07/26 09:02 PM
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Stop caring what others think so much. Write those stupid NPCs off. You will feel better.
/r/MensRights04/07/26 03:34 PM
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Please look up statistics, don't rely on feelings and anecdotes, which are almost always wrong. Example: ~650 women die in childbirth per year. Over 5000 men die in workforce per year (near zero women). Most men are fine with heinous penalties for sexual assault... IF false accusations carry the same penalty. Until they do, hell no... and most women resist equal accountability, as you should well know. As for facing forward... no. A lot of things in the past WORKED. Rejecting wisdom because it i…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/26 06:13 PM
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Go rogue. Mgtow. Work on yourself for you, and avoid women. And realize that you have your whole life to grow and become better, while most modern women? They peaked at 18, and everything after that is sour grapes. In 10+ years, they will beg for your time, and you won't even want them.
/r/MensRights17/06/26 04:43 AM
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That need fir power and control always destroys society, and then men rebuild, regaining power via competence and hardship.
/r/MensRights13/06/26 05:34 PM
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Yes. If you are fair, intelligent, 6'+, well spoken, you get a LOT of unrealized advantages in the US. Also 'pretty privilege' is a thing.
/r/MensRights06/06/26 11:43 PM
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“Most world leaders are men!” ...primaried and elected by women. Women have plenty of influence over power. That being said, most don't want a woman leading. Most men AND most women prefer a male boss, for example. This extends to politics.
/r/MensRights05/06/26 08:30 PM
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I first read that as "women and their meds", and upon reflection am keeping my reading.
/r/MensRights31/05/26 05:55 PM
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Disclaimer: I am an MRA. Attitudes expressed below are those of others, not mine. How do people not know that, when accounting for forced to penetrate, men are roughly as likely to be victims of non-consensual sex? Doesn't fit the narrative, so they don't care. How do people not understand that men face more stranger violence than women do? Men are workers and slaves, disposable to the end. Plus, it's mostly men hurting them, so who cares. How do people not consciously acknowledge that a major r…
/r/MensRights24/05/26 01:05 AM
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Jesus that title. Dating is awful today, and it's all men's fault? Specifically red pill men, those who are actually awake to womens' natures and don't buy into blue pill delusion? Those men? OMFG. No. Men largely haven't changed. But since the sexual revolution, and with faster and faster speed, women have moved further and further left, embracing all forms of empowerment and rejecting more and more responsibility - because they can. No-fault divorce, abortion on demand, legitimization of sex w…
/r/MensRights20/05/26 11:03 PM
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You can be a traditional wife without being feminine. You can be feminine without being a traditional wife. To be feminine is a way of deportment, appearance, and attitude. It is embracing the nature of femininity - beauty, support, softness, caring, loving, etc. To be a traditional wife... depends upon what country/culture. Tradition is a cultural word. Protestant culture (western culture) means love, honor, and obey, cook, clean, and cleave to your husband who is also the head of your househol…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/26 03:49 AM
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We should definitely take away no-fault divorces.
/r/MensRights12/05/26 03:41 AM
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Historically, love had been the LAST thing that marriage was about. A "Love match" is a special type of marriage where it's based on love, not on other factors like wealth, status, etc. It's widely acknowledged outside of the West as a less stable, less desirable relationship. Seriously. Go read a book on the history of marriage.
/r/MensRights12/05/26 03:40 AM
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If you both make near the same amount of money You are statistically more likely to divorce the higher her pay is compared to yours. Women who earn equal or more than their husbands almost always divorce them. Hypergamy, mate. Women marry up. If you aren't up, you aren't married... for long.
/r/MensRights12/05/26 03:37 AM
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I suspect they're throwing shit at society's disregard for and disposable treatment of men.
/r/MensRights11/05/26 04:14 AM
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Hypersensitivity to criticism isn't helpful when you've already come here asking what you're doing wrong. But it's quite telling as to part of your issue. Also, when everybody is treating you poorly, maybe it's not them that are the issue...
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/26 06:47 PM
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Oh look, it's the Brainless Bimbo Bot Brigade (BBBB) opening their yaps. Yawn.
/r/MensRights24/04/26 09:55 PM
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Why, because women don't have problems getting sex, if that is all they want.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 07:58 PM
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Tl;dr. Paragraph breaks will get you more interaction.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/26 06:25 PM
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If you want more paid leave, start a company and GIVE more paid leave. And for the record, some have and do. You don't. STFU. So many damn economic illiterates in this world
/r/MensRights15/04/26 08:55 PM
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1 Stop caring what others think. 2 live well out of spite. Make them envy you. 3 realize they hate you because they need you, not the other way around. 4 make some male friends. Get some dude time. It helps.
/r/MensRights12/03/26 11:29 PM
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So... not too familiar with western feminism's Marxist roots which treat all gendered support as a zero sum game, are ya? Boys are actively discriminated against, even when they are outnumbered by women in a program. Feminism isnt just a zero sum movement, it's a supremacy movement.
/r/MensRights06/03/26 10:18 AM
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There is a difference between SMV and RMV for a reason.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/26 08:45 AM
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I love people who take the worst things out of context to attack a speakers character instead of the content of their comment. Well done. Wisdom has long chased you but you have always been quicker, haven't you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/26 08:43 AM
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Nope. It's 18. well into adulthood with some experience under her belt This is RMV criteria. SMV is purely sexual. To the extent that a 23 year old is more attractive than an 18 year old, that is solely because most 18 year olds don't take care of their bodies yet, so they haven't hit the gym, and 23 year olds have usually discovered exercise by then. But an optimal 18 year old will always beat an optimal 23 year old on purely sexual attractiveness.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/26 07:27 PM
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Purely for SEXUAL market value, it's 18. It's possible to have a hotter body in your 20s/30s if you neglected yourself in your teens, or only discovered the joys of gym membership later in life. But your peak potential physical attractiveness is at 18. Your peak fertility is at 18 too, and fertility and SMV directly correlate. Now, plenty of factors go into RMV, and maturity, (non-jaded, non-sexual) experience, wisdom, demeanor, modesty, a LOT of things go into RMV to make women who don't have p…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/26 07:20 PM
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neither of those women were keepers No shit. When you stop looking at women through the lens of worrying about getting laid, and instead come at them with abundance mentality and don't settle for nutjobs, your dating pool shrinks tremendously but what are left are sane, comforting women.
/r/MensRights13/02/26 05:55 AM
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That being said, there's a cultural consensus that male genitalia are at a minimum unsightly, and usually gross and disgusting (especially uncut, at least in the US). Which is ironic, given that most women look like a roast beef sandwich, and not in a good way, down there.
/r/MensRights13/02/26 05:52 AM
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Women attempt suicide 4x more than men. Men succeed at suicide 4x more than women. It's a big gap, and there are easy, gendered reasons to explain why: For most women, suicide is performative. It is a cry for help/attention/validation. And because they are women, they mostly get it. For most men, suicide is practical. It is an attempt to end suffering. Part of that suffering is because men have no access to help/attention/validation. Men blow right past performative suicide because no one cares.…
/r/MensRights01/02/26 11:25 PM
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I will do that and if he reacts bad then it’s a good thing after all I *guarantee* that this guy, whether a good person or a bad one, will see a rejection of sex after you agree to stay in the airbnb as "leading him on". If you don't put on the table that sex isn't in the cards ahead of time, he'll be right, too.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/26 12:43 AM
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There are plenty of differences. Men are more willing to have rigid schedules, work overtime, work nights, work doubles, etc. Women are more likely to work less hours, seek flexibility over long hours and bonuses, etc. Feminist Wage Gap theory ignores ALL of that. That's the point. When you actually control for the relevant multiple variables, the so-called wage gap in favor of men disappears.
/r/MensRights25/01/26 05:41 AM
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Immaterial. If you're looking at the so-called wage gap, you have to do it honestly, which Feminists never do. You have to look at people's worked hours, skills and experience, and job position, and only compare apples to oranges. If you're looking at the medical field, you can't compare men and women generically since most of the women are nurses and most of the men are doctors. You have to compare JUST male and female surgeons, or JUST male and female CNAs, etc. Once you do that, once you appr…
/r/MensRights24/01/26 09:37 PM
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There are suppressed research/anecdotes that infant circumcision permanently damages male empathy. Yet it's still done, without anesthetic on non-consenting newborns, all the time, in so-called enlightened first world countries.
/r/MensRights21/01/26 03:25 PM
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In addition, these sorts of people are also either Marxist-influenced or actual Marxists even if they don't realize it, and Marxism is a zero-sum game. Anything that isn't resources devoted TO women, is taking resources FROM women, in their eyes. Their insanity makes a lot more sense once you know that.
/r/MensRights21/01/26 03:23 PM
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You spelled "Only men have accountability" wrong.
/r/MensRights19/01/26 04:31 AM
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Simple: ask how anything an MRA is fighting for takes away from what women have, or promotes inequality. They can't. But you sure can with feminism.
/r/MensRights13/01/26 09:14 AM
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Could be worse, you could be a bi male and get hate from EVERYONE.
/r/MensRights05/01/26 01:04 AM
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That'd be valid if the people being arrested didn't match up by demographic to those also being accused, and those being convicted. Stats aren't just taken regarding who is arrested, sir. They are taken based on witnesses, or on who is accused, or on who is convicted. You can follow the stats all the way down the rabbit hole. Example: Say 90% of your population is Red, and 10% is blue. Just seeing that 50% of convictions are blue doesn't necessarily mean that 50% of crimes are performed by blues…
/r/MensRights01/01/26 02:54 AM
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Dude, you're right.
/r/MensRights29/12/25 10:05 PM
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Come on some feminists are so delusional and their whole personality is about men. Feminism is a cult. You know this by, amongst other things, blind devotion to the tenets of their faith. They speak in absolutes about men and women; ALL men do X, when anybody who has had logic 101 knows that a single negative case (you never doing X) means the statement is wholly false. But they can't say SOME men or MOST men because if they do that, then we filthy MRAs will retort with, "So what percentage is i…
/r/MensRights29/12/25 10:01 PM
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BMI is junk. You want a .7 waist to hip ratio.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/25 08:59 PM
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Embrace the power of AND.
/r/MensRights27/12/25 05:54 PM
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If you are responsible for vehicular homicide while drunk, you are responsible for sex. Same reasoning.
/r/MensRights27/12/25 05:53 PM
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There's a few reasons for that, too.
/r/MensRights18/12/25 08:06 PM
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Honestly the US is pretty good, so long as you stay out of blue states/big cities. Feminism is definitely getting more and more pushback in the US these days - we're turning a decent amount of it around, unlike Europe which is hellbent on civisational suicide.
/r/MensRights18/12/25 06:59 PM
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It's a localized problem to specific countries, and qualifies as an anti-law activity that is proscribed for obvious reasons. Also, most Western nations don't have conscription, and Reddit is heavily Western.
/r/MensRights18/12/25 06:56 PM
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Feminists HAVE started their own companies. Some quite notable. Their failures are legendary.
/r/MensRights16/12/25 07:13 AM
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Can attest - i married a feminist before I knew better. What a shitshow. (No longer married)
/r/MensRights14/12/25 11:27 PM
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Feminism just loves and cares for women like White supremacy just loves white people. Forget the damage they do to all other groups.
/r/MensRights14/12/25 11:26 PM
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All boomers for sure. Many GenX, however, have a clue.
/r/MensRights11/12/25 08:38 PM
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When questioned "If you could only have one, Love or Respect," women overwhelmingly choose love, and men overwhelmingly choose respect. Ironically, men can explain why women choose love, but women can't explain why men choose respect. And this is why women can't properly raise boys (and why our feminized Western culture is screwing them).
/r/MensRights11/12/25 05:02 PM
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Blind testing has proven that female teachers give boys lower grades for the same work that girls hand in. Women getting better treatment for the same behavior has been demonstrated both anecdotally and scientifically in both schools and in the justice system.
/r/MensRights11/12/25 05:00 PM
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Her name was Norah Vincent. Wrote a book called Self-Made Man. Was actually a good read, and very relevant even today.
/r/MensRights11/12/25 04:58 PM
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You need to clearly establish and label your boundaries, and make him be accountable for his family and his defense of them. But make sure they're boundaries; they must define what you will not tolerate, and what you will do (not proscribe behavior by others). Let him then adapt. Example: "If your mother calls me a bitch, I will take the car and go home. Is this acceptable?" This is a reasonable boundary; being called a hurtful name means you leave the environment. If he thinks you being called …
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/25 04:49 PM
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Child support only applies when two people create a child together. Sperm donors - both amateur ones, and professional clinics - have been sued for paternity and child support and women have WON those cases. Being a sperm donor (even in the purest, spooge into this cup and never meet the woman sense) does NOT protect a man from a paternity suit. There's a reason smart athletes take their used condoms with them.
/r/MensRights10/12/25 06:43 AM
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OOOOH OOOOH OOOOH can we hold women to this standard too? If a woman says she's on birth control but conceives/tries to baby trap, can the man be released from all responsibility? Realistically, we all know the answer.
/r/MensRights02/12/25 06:41 PM
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Misandry is worse because it is treated as a joke, or not real, or no big deal. Misogyny is seen as wrong by default.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 11:15 AM
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End no-fault divorce. Default 50/50 shared custody. Allegations of abuse without a conviction are inadmissable in divorce court and treated as slander. Similarly, red flag laws are made illegal nationwide. Mandatory paternity testing at birth. Alimony reduced to a maximum of 3x the poverty level. The "lifestyle I am accustomed to" conceit ends; it is reduced to survival only. Same for child support. ALL of the above are fair and unisex. ALL would help marriage tremendously. And virtually all are…
/r/MensRights26/11/25 02:16 AM
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Anecdotal. I know plenty of servers who HATE serving black women because they get no tip and all grief.
/r/MensRights24/11/25 08:40 AM
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I do agree that evidentiary standards for death penalty cases need to be stronger. That said, there are plenty of "beyond a shadow of a doubt" people who sit on death row for 30 years with dozens of appeals, and that is wrong, too.
/r/MensRights23/11/25 06:38 PM
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Fair punishment for pedophiles is to execute them. You mess with the future of our kids, you don't get a future AT ALL. Disclaimer - I'm a father of two
/r/MensRights20/11/25 08:11 PM
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Not college-educated white women. THEY skewed 65+ leftwards, the biggest demographic that voted Dem.
/r/MensRights20/11/25 08:07 PM
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And because it's Reddit, they don't get banned for TOS violations like autobans, either.
/r/MensRights20/11/25 06:58 PM
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For the same reason ANTIFA claims to be anti-fascist when they are anything but.
/r/MensRights20/11/25 06:57 PM
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Some people are just vanilla, and some aren't. Not everybody is sexually compatible. His need to degrade, however... Normally I'd assume he's got some issues to work through. Maybe a life change, and a lessening of stress so he's not transferring his frustration/stress/anger out on you (which isn't fair to you, even if you were into that, which you aren't).
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/25 05:33 AM
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You didn't say no to sex, you said no to his KINK. Not the same thing. You BOTH need to understand that, and to resolve it - probably with help of a therapist.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/25 05:27 AM
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The best way for women to feel safer, especially considering their insurmountable physical disadvantage vs. men, in a world where we don't vet populations for their values (i.e. unfettered immigration from barbaric cultures), is to give them tools that actually DO make them safer. As the saying goes, "God made men, but Samuel Colt made them equal." Firearms are a great equalizer. Just look at all the tyrants who have taken them away before genociding whole populations. Being anti-gun is very Eur…
/r/MensRights18/11/25 07:12 PM
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My definition of equality is the ability for humans to communicate using their souls without any other barriers to consider. What kind of lacy underpants language is this? Equality in this sub is quite clear: equality between men and women under the law, first and foremost. The current punishment for men misusing their physical strength is going to prison (physical punishment for a physical crime), and the punishment for women using their feminine form inappropriately is being mentally punished …
/r/MensRights18/11/25 06:45 PM
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You think people intentionally keep these clowns around? Jesus on a pogo stick, YES, men do this all the time. Men often don't vet their male friends, either. You'd be surprised.
/r/MensRights18/11/25 06:35 PM
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It always astonishes me how many men are fine with having immoral buddies in their friend circle, as if that won't bite you in the ass someday.
/r/MensRights18/11/25 02:59 PM
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Don't get married, UNLESS two things are true: You have vetted her extensively, and You want kids. That's it. Those two points MUST be true or else marriage is madness.
/r/MensRights17/11/25 08:34 PM
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GTFO with this low-effort victim-hierarchy crap.
/r/MensRights17/11/25 08:32 PM
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There's a reason homeschooling is so popular on the right.
/r/MensRights11/11/25 06:52 PM
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What are some major lies and myths pushed by feminism? Everything they stand for. Want proof? Just ask them to debate ANY of their positions; they can't, will call you names, and storm off. If they DO debate, it inevitably descends into emotions and "Well *I* feel like" statements of opinion. They cannot and will not engage with objective facts; in fact, they are rooted in postmodernism, which rejects even the concept of objective facts. No, Feminism is a RELIGION. As such, it has dogma, apostas…
/r/MensRights09/11/25 01:50 AM
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Don't be upset by this. Just use it for the free vetting of crazy and low-value women from your life that it is.
/r/MensRights09/11/25 01:47 AM
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How do I feel comfortable around women again? You don't. In current western culture they're an unredeemed threat. You allow only women whom you've vetted near you, and avoid/mistrust the rest.
/r/MensRights07/11/25 07:19 PM
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Why are men shamed for their preferences? Because men having preferences takes power away from women's ability to tell us what we must accept. If men can have preferences, then they can say no to fat women.
/r/MensRights06/11/25 03:28 PM
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You can't change your mistakes in the past. You can only up your value in the present.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/25 11:55 PM
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No. Too often these days, people think a family means you, your partner, and maybe some fur babies (I hate that term). Very common thinking in Liberal circles. To me, to many people, start a family means having kids. But that understanding is by NO means as common as it used to be. And how did I come to this conclusion? I suddenly want to build a home, make a family, and live a softer, slower life. When I told him that, he immediately shut it down. He said it's unrealistic for a woman to stay ho…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/25 08:26 PM
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I will get bored and need an occupation Being a mother is can be that fulfilling. We need to get back to grinding to save up for childrens educations (he wants us to pay for them to get into one of the worlds top universities, to ensure their success) Most schooling prior to high school is better done at home. And college - that's something you can save for now that will easily be attained by then, 20 years from now. If I take for example, more than two years off for raising children he said it …
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/25 03:06 PM
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Hear me out All right, let's go. This should be good. Modern loneliness is fake. You’re not lonely you’re addicted to validation and chasing people ,society has trained you to need attention like oxygen. Great men in history thrived in silence, not chasing approval or false love Loneliness is fake? Yeah no. It's stupidly harder to make and maintain actual, flesh-and-blood friendships nowadays. Even for people (like myself) who aren't married to their phones, everybody ELSE is. SOME great men thr…
/r/MensRights28/10/25 03:01 PM
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I'd like to point out that your original post doesn't mention wanting kids. That EXTREMELY changes the context of your post, and really should be added to it. Wanting to be a SAHM is a different discussion from you just wanting to be a homemaker. Is he against having kids? Does he not realize the time/body commitment to having them? Does he actually believe public schooling is a good thing? Etc.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/25 02:51 PM
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Unless you have a large house and an active entertaining schedule (i.e. upper class wife with social obligations) being a homemaker but not a mother is... a questionable choice to most men. Managing, let's say, a middle-class home without kids is NOT a full time obligation, and your fiancee is right to question that desire. So I'm going to reiterate: DO you want kids and to be a SAHM? Or do you (as he would rightly protest against) just want to laze on the sofa eating bon-bons all day?
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/25 02:39 PM
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Being a homemaker makes little sense unless you want to be a SAHM. Do you?
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/25 04:21 AM
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Because many churches are liberal/leftist/feminist in their behaviors, which just promotes more blue pilled failure.
/r/MensRights27/10/25 05:28 PM
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Relevant from the wiki: For the theft, DeFriest was sentenced to four years in prison. Followed by Subsequent escapes led to a life sentence
/r/MensRights27/10/25 05:25 PM
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TBF not everybody has (or can afford) an attorney, and plenty of men assume their wives won't be pieces of scum to their kids. That said, this sounds like ragebait. 45 years - for "tool theft"? To what is probably a first time offender? Who is the son? I call bullshit.
/r/MensRights27/10/25 02:11 PM
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Stopping paternity fraud would take away some measure of women's power, and inflict responsibility on them. As Feminism is a female supremacy and empowerment movement without shame or limit, this is unacceptable
/r/MensRights26/10/25 09:03 PM
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I wanted kids as a teenager, even though I knew (at that time) I couldn't afford them.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/25 07:12 PM
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51 man, had my first child at 47, with wife age 30. Wanted them all my life, but I didn't have the right wife until 2016.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/25 06:55 AM
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They are to feminists, who see rights as marxists do, i.e. as a zero sum game.
/r/MensRights24/10/25 05:17 AM
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You think being male and gay is overlooked, try being a bi Male.
/r/MensRights24/10/25 05:14 AM
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we wanted to enjoy our independence from kids and free time together while we young This is a common lie sold to young people today. Don't fall for it. You have two options: Spend your youth poor, single and partying, then try to have kids (often at ruinous expense) in your 30s or 40s, and have them out of the house not much before you retire. Then it's downhill coasting until retirement homes and death, with not a lot of years to enjoy grandkids, esp. if your kids follow the same pattern. Spend…
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/25 07:53 PM
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all men are evil and i will continue to use them as objects until one proves me wrong Even saying this in jest is toxic AF and does your mindset no favors.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/25 07:45 PM
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I used small-C for a reason. Current culture recognizes the rights that men traditionally had with regard to marriage, children, and relationships to be the "old ways". Conservative people - small and big-C - value these, either because tradition (Tradcon) or because they WORK (redpill). Whereas liberals/leftists reject these as old ways that can/must be improved upon. I was using it a definitional sense. I've often defined modern Conservatives and Liberals as follows: that to be conservative is…
/r/MensRights23/10/25 07:30 PM
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Don't forget that any RP or RP-adjacent sub will get bad faith actors and false flags in order to silence them. Any sub that isn't liberal is under constant threat; look at who gets quarantined or banned. I mean, MGTOW banned? Really?
/r/MensRights23/10/25 05:39 PM
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Sex work is voluntary sexual activity for compensation. When it's compelled/coerced/involuntary, it's sex SLAVERY. People need to stop being afraid of that word. I am not against sex work when it's voluntary, by a consenting adult. As one author quipped, "Prostitution involves two things: sex and capitalism. Which of these are you opposed to?" But when you start bringing in coercion, trafficking, underage, etc. then you don't have free trade, you have compulsion and enslavement/indentured servit…
/r/MensRights23/10/25 05:25 PM
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Because MRAs and Men's Rights are perceived as conservative rights, and most LGBT+ folks lean liberal.
/r/MensRights23/10/25 05:20 PM
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You will never be too much for the right person. This is cope, and not good advice, just like HAAS is not good advice. This assumes that everybody has a right person just waiting for them and they need not work on themselves, and that simply isn't true. You have to work to be your best person, because who you start off as isn't who you need to be to get a great partner.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/25 03:17 PM
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unless dating is detrimental to your mental health, it seems worth exploring. If you're dating while having untreated/unmanaged mental illnesses such as BPD/borderline, this is detrimental to your partner's mental health, and doesn't bode well for any relationship's health or longevity.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/25 03:14 PM
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It really depends upon the illness. If it's something quirky but which doesn't destroy your rationality, like Tourettes for example, many men can deal with that. Some may even find it interesting. But if it's one that makes you a problem/burden - BPD, borderline, narcissism, or severe depression - yes, those make you very hard to match with, and MUST be treated first. Those, if untreated, put you deep into the "crazy" portion of the hot v. crazy matrix. EDIT: The issue I see is that you've been …
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/25 03:11 PM
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Why do we use it? Because saying a woman can't land a husband, only buy cats, IS an insult. Especially when you consider that it's "cat lady" not "dog lady": cats are independent, don't love you, and you serve them. Dogs love you and are affectionate, but you have to earn it/maintain it. Cats are indifferent. Owning a happy cat proves nothing; owning a happy, healthy, well-trained dog does. Which is why these women have cats. IOW being called a cat lady is an insult of competence, similar to cal…
/r/MensRights23/10/25 02:56 PM
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Women constantly underestimate the power of RBF. Seriously, getting rid of it is the single biggest positive you can do to your attractiveness if it's something you suffer from. No one other than losers and those with abundance will take a shot at a (perceived) bitch.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/25 07:30 PM
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Let the fisking commence! (Also Paragraph Breaks, son!) The life of a normal man is a life of almost no control and powerlessness Says whom? You control where you sleep, what you eat, where you work, how you spend your free time, same as anybody else (at least in the West). Your powerlessness is perception, not reality. and self improvement doesn’t do much. In regards to... what? Lifting weights makes you objectively healthier, happier, and more attractive. So how can these human beings stay act…
/r/MensRights21/10/25 04:41 PM
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Couple issues to clarify. 1 - Both the omega bottom feeders, and the top tier guys, hit on any woman they want. The bottom guys, because they might luck out. The top guys, because plenty of women will respond. It's the cautious middle ground who've been trained to not pursue women. 2 - to this end, you may have to ask guys out. Men today are wary of me too, AWDTSG, gym doxing, etc. and regular guys want no part of it. Online dating is toxic; avoid it, and go places IRL to meet good men. Where, y…
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/25 01:32 PM
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Ingroup/outgroup dynamics, polarization through villainization of a victim, alpha preening/hierarchy reinforcement, reputation destruction, take your pick.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/25 08:36 PM
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It's my belief that autistic women tend to see and act from truth, which work well with most men, who tend to be in jobs/fields where if you don't embrace truth, the calculations don't work and things collapse (STEM). That's why STEM is the only field that is woke (i.e. communal lie) resistant. Intelligent women can also, despite their genetics/society, work past the lies and see the world for truth. But it's work and has to be learned/practiced; it doesn't come naturally. Furthermore, going bac…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/25 08:33 PM
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If you have trouble lying/faking it in social settings, you may be ND. Masking is an acquired skill for the ND, but somehow built in for everybody else. NDs can't comprehend lying as easily as breathing, let alone wanting to be that way.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/25 06:55 PM
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I'm going to answer you honestly, brutally so, and politically, because it's inextricable. Most women are intrasexually-competitive, average IQ, liars. They are this way because it is in their long term mating strategy to be so. The flatter intelligence curve of men works for them, to promote winners and losers and innovation; the taller curve for women works for a group that doesn't need a high IQ to bear children. Yes, this is ev-psych. Yes, it proves out across species, too. There are some ex…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/25 06:46 PM
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Dennis Quiad is literally the only major male character in the movie who is definitively stupid and/or evil. I don't even see him as evil. Stupid and shallow, maybe. But he knows what the audience wants - youth and beauty. Elizabeth no longer has those, but her young self does. Picking her to replace Elizabeth is smart, not stupid. Choosing to upgrade the show from an aging 50-year old to a hot 25-year old is no more immoral than changing your roofer from a 70 year old man to a 25 year old man -…
/r/MensRights16/10/25 03:21 PM
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What about the guy who offers her The Substance, who is old later in the movie? He’s not really a villain either He can be seen as one of two things: 1 - a true neutral plot device. The rules of the Substance are explicit, literal, and unforgiving, just like reality. There's no morality or subjectivity here, just reality. 2 - a Devil metaphor, tempting people with a power they aren't meant to have and which can predictably be expected to destroy them. Both of those are plausible. The Devil metap…
/r/MensRights16/10/25 03:14 PM
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I don't think it was misandry. It think it was a hate letter to Hollywood, coupled with a realistic portrayal of starlet beauty standards that are completely internalized by actresses. Note that Demi's character wasn't told to get smaller/younger/prettier, she was just pushed aside by the search for youth, as happens for EVERYBODY (the aging that affects us all). And Dennis Quaid's character didn't destroy Elizabeth; she destroyed herself. She literally first is driven insane by seeing her young…
/r/MensRights16/10/25 03:08 PM
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It's actually sickening how much the 'Investment Community' attempt to facilitate all women Companies. How is a company wanting to make their competition unviable not make sense?
/r/MensRights14/10/25 02:53 PM
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Or a quick, "Get back to the old folks home, harridan!" Or "Begone, witch! Get thee behind me, Satan!" if you want a real laugh.
/r/MensRights11/10/25 04:06 PM
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We'll be taking a walk and an apparent older woman will ask me if she's my daughter. "Well, she does call me daddy right before I blow her back out." The older woman doubles down with "how I should be ashamed of myself" "Opinions are like assholes, everybody has one, and most of them smell just as bad. Fuck off, lady."
/r/MensRights11/10/25 04:04 PM
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Sorry, us old farts from the last century forget that things go out of fashion/memory.
/r/MensRights09/10/25 03:43 PM
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Dadt was the old Clinton military policy of Don't Ask Don't Tell when it came to gays in the military.
/r/MensRights06/10/25 04:57 AM
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DADT ended years ago, bro. Whole new world.
/r/MensRights05/10/25 01:16 AM
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feminists do see boys being helped in school as sexism against girls Because Feminism is Marxist-originated and Marxism is a zero-sum game, for the record.
/r/MensRights02/10/25 08:02 PM
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Sounds like you two need to work on communication. Also, he needs to own his shit. You sound like you have accountability; if he doesn't start taking some, this isn't going to work. As for diet and religion, why does he CARE what you prefer, so long as it doesn't conflict with his? Why TF does he care if you don't eat shellfish and pork for moral reasons, or just don't like the taste/texture? Aside from you not sharing certain dishes with him, it does not matter! Similarly, if you're both differ…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/25 07:57 PM
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Men caught on to it. Why go spend $300 on buying women drinks when they just want your money and maybe sex. It’s easier to buy a hooker if you want sex. Why do you think prostitution is illegal? It's not to protect sex workers (regulation protects people; illegality increases the danger to them). It's to protect regular women from having their one asset devalued. After all, if a man can pay for it, why would he date/marry it? As the saying goes, "You don't pay a prostitute for sex, you pay her t…
/r/MensRights02/10/25 07:46 PM
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DNC needs to throw the base under the bus Until they stop picking the 20 in 80-20 issues, this can't happen. Given that the Democratic Liberal left currently embraces feelings over rationality, I don't see them ever recovering from their current course until a) society collapses, or b) the party is declared a Terrorist organization/RICO and dissolved.
/r/MensRights02/10/25 07:44 PM
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It ends like it IS ending now: with men withdrawing from supporting and provisioning women. When sexbots and artificial wombs become practical and affordable, the demise of any power women ever had over men will be complete. Right now it's still on life support.
/r/MensRights02/10/25 07:40 PM
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Dude, LEAVE. Get out. Just bail. That, or get her arrested and out of your life.
/r/MensRights02/10/25 07:37 PM
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"Should the retirement age for women be lower than for men?" No, it should be higher. Fun fact: Social Security Retirement Age was always intended just to support those who lived beyond expected life expectancy. As in, "Oh shucks, you lived longer than you should have? Guess we should help pay for those bonus years." In other words, in 1940 your SSRA was 65, and so was your life expectancy. Now, people (well, women) live much longer than that. Retirement for SS should be your gender's life expec…
/r/MensRights02/10/25 07:35 PM
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Can you "identify" as a woman for the purposes of the test?
/r/MensRights02/10/25 06:18 PM
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Conservatives are so afraid of women being equal to them. Nope. But liberals are terrified that women aren't equal to men in anything. Their egos can't handle it. So they try to do it all, and as a consequence do a mediocre job at everything. Men know that they have to specialize, that they can't do it all. But women? Forget it. SO much female ego these days.
/r/MensRights02/10/25 06:17 PM
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To equalize that requires cheating in women's favor. Affirmative action and quotas. Gotta love 'em. (Not)
/r/MensRights02/10/25 06:04 PM
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Good luck, mate. OP is wedded to his beliefs and will not waver.
/r/MensRights02/10/25 06:02 PM
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it is worth asking what role feminism is playing now It's role is to cause the downfall of Western Civilization. Given that many Feminist thought leaders have and do preach Marxism, post-modernism, and eugenics as well, this is unsurprising. asking whether being part of the movement is productive. It's productive if you want to demoralize and destroy the Christian West and all of its accomplishments.
/r/MensRights02/10/25 06:00 PM
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It's fantastic so far. I wish you well also.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/25 05:54 PM
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I've read those studies too. Men and women overlap in personality, cognitive ability, and leadership. They aren't the same, however. The differences are profound at the margins. Example: Is the average IQ around 100 for both men and women? Yes. But men have a much flatter bell curve; by the time you get 2 standard deviations in either direction from the average (both morons and gifted) men outnumber women around 5 to 1. Or look at who is most violent. Physical violence in the US is actually fair…
/r/MensRights02/10/25 05:37 PM
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There are always exceptions. I never had kids because I never had the right woman in my life - until recently. Now I have a 5 and a 1 year old, and I'm 51. Wife is 34. I also assumed I couldn't handle kids/hated them before they could talk and reason. But I find that I love my kids even in their first months. They're fascinating!
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/25 05:32 PM
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You have every right to have the views you want. But when they conflict with reality, they are going to cause the heartache you currently suffer. And yeah, you should not care what others say as a measure of your self worth. But to think you can't gain wisdom from others - especially those with differing opinions - is the height of egocentricism and not helpful at all.
/r/MensRights02/10/25 05:23 PM
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Won't happen. RPW is premised upon bringing truths to light in order to help women find lasting, healthy relationships. Problem is, most men who want LTRs these days (especially marriage) want them for the one solitary reason that actually benefits them: children. There's NO benefit from marriage for men aside from kids. As a side note, there's a big difference between being childfree and joining the Childfree/DINK community. The latter tend to be highly disparaging (of "breeders" and their "cro…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/25 05:19 PM
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Biology. Men and women are different physiologically and neurologically. We want different things genetically, we develop differently, everything. Jordan Peterson - Studies in Scandinavian Men & Women Scandanavia actually disproves a lot of your beliefs. Moving there will not achieve what you think it will.
/r/MensRights02/10/25 05:01 PM
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Congrats, this is the perfect example of what happens with men who were raised and formed by feminism. Yep. OP is a lifetime bluepilled "Nice Guy" who is just looking to matter. The tragedy of it is painful.
/r/MensRights02/10/25 04:56 PM
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"Islamist rape" that you keep talking about is primarily a fabricated or distorted narrative Jesus. Tell that to Tommy Robinson. There are none so blind as will not see.
/r/MensRights02/10/25 04:55 PM
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Correct. OP is not willing to change his beliefs, he's looking for a place where his beliefs are reality. And since they are blue pilled (i.e. delusional) they don't exist anywhere, and he's upset about this. But like most blue pillers, he's also unwilling to change his beliefs and values, insisting that they're valid rather than wrong. So he's doomed (like most American Liberals), because he can't admit to being wrong.
/r/MensRights02/10/25 04:45 PM
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Men and women AREN'T equal. That's a delusion that is holding you back.
/r/MensRights02/10/25 04:44 PM
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So I'm a 52-year-old Caucasian male that unfortunately lives in the United States. Unfortunately? If you think it's unfortunate you're not paying attention. I was raised by two lesbian feminists, back when feminism was less toxic, and I call out sexism wherever I see it. Feminism has always been toxic; it just used to have better press, the Big Lie about it being about equality was better marketed. Since it gained power, its true colors have become apparent: female supremacy without limit. I'm t…
/r/MensRights02/10/25 04:41 PM
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Oh, you can't avoid people gossiping. But if you don't interact with them, they can ONLY fabricate behavior, which is slander and, depending on what they fabricate, an anti-gay hate crime for OP.
/r/MensRights01/10/25 02:01 PM
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Treat them like a Feminist: minimal/no contact, assume completely untrustworthy.
/r/MensRights30/09/25 05:26 PM
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Must be Thursday.
/r/MensRights28/09/25 04:45 PM
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I would not respond, just start an employee newsletter with sections stating "who we are" and "what we believe ". Then post it to the company intranet (or to clients, as escalation) anonymously if possible, with the comment, "recordings available on demand. We are loud and proud here, however; who would be ashamed of what they proudly proclaim?" Then watch the fireworks. BIG DISCLAIMER: Not a lawyer, I take no responsibility for the delicious karma this advice would generate.
/r/MensRights28/09/25 05:35 AM
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The Childfree movement is primarily a juvenile, narcissistic, and ultimately nihilistic movement predicated on either "saving the planet" from overpopulation (we're headed in the opposite direction) or just in hedonistic partying with no thought of long-term meaning or late life happiness. They often are long-term cohabitators because both kids and marriage are too much of an obligation for them. They have acronyms like "we're DINKs" (Dual Income No Kids) and they tend to be fairly obnoxious whe…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/25 02:59 AM
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Your third paragraph did nothing but villainize and generalize all women. Not at all. It explained that American liberal women (Americans being heavily represented on Reddit but not its only audience) currently skew heavily towards emotionality. This can easily be seen in cultural studies, or in psychological profiles such as the Big Five where they score highest in agreeability and neuroticism of all demographics. It was also very clearly emotionally charged, as supported by your last two sente…
/r/MensRights26/09/25 02:52 AM
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It isn't about class, it's about power. Ah, you mean women as a protected class that is in power (but pretends it isn't). Got it.
/r/MensRights25/09/25 06:46 PM
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I am an experienced physician currently on rotation in a female-led ward/department. There's a reason why men and women BOTH state in surveys that they prefer male to female bosses.
/r/MensRights25/09/25 06:42 PM
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politics clearly trump fairness. So much for progressive policies. Progressives are all about power, not competence. So power/connections trumping competence/truth is wholly unsurprising.
/r/MensRights25/09/25 06:41 PM
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Hottake: We should seperate every media in "Male Oriented" and "Female Oriented", like Asians do. It'll never happen in the West until sanity returns and everybody accepts that Men and Woman are biologically different again.
/r/MensRights25/09/25 06:33 PM
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It should therefore be obvious that even having granted to make some very liberal figures for demonstration purposes, that it isn’t and never was ALL MEN Anyone who reasons logically instead of emotionally already knows this. The problem is that a large portion of the populace aren't logical reasoners, they reason with emotion alone. This is encouraged by mainstream media and many political parties, as emotional reasoners are much easier to manipulate, and much harder to sway from their opinions…
/r/MensRights25/09/25 06:30 PM
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This is why it feels almost impossible for my generation to find a partner who’s truly loyal and respectful. Not because we’re “childish” or “jealous,” but because porn, dopamine-chasing, and validation culture have destroyed the foundation relationships should stand on. Porn has turned the world into a place where people don’t care about the most important things – loyalty, respect, responsibility – but obsess over the most meaningless ones. That’s not freedom. That’s cowardice. Put another way…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/25 06:16 PM
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Don't forget rape is THE biggest sexual fantasy for women.
/r/MensRights24/09/25 07:38 PM
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And they ignore places and people where it IS systemic, too! (Bacha bazi and Islam, I am looking at you)
/r/MensRights24/09/25 07:37 PM
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Hey, some people are ace. If you are, embrace it; build friendships instead, and watch as you are stupidly more energetic and rational than your libidinous bretheren. You'll take flak from women who call you gay or weird for your disinterest (you aren't subject to their manipulations) but you'll learn that that behavior is a mark that what you're doing is working. Now... if you AREN'T ace... denying your nature and urges is a harder, and more questionable, path. Most who go down it do it for eit…
/r/MensRights23/09/25 11:49 PM
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Takes an ND to know an ND.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/25 04:54 AM
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I only questioned your definition of high value because you come across kind of neurodivergent. Again, like my wife. And the men she finds high value are significantly different from the traditional masculine, stoic, high-earning charismatic men you might assume all women seek. A girl who likes "geeky" might see a man who loves conventions and gaming as a positive, where many women would see that as a negative. And while you don't have to game with such a man yourself, being able to enjoy hearin…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/25 09:51 PM
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Hobbies— Right now it’s binge-watching shows, scrapbooking, making Pinterest boards, blogging (for fun, not seriously), baking, and doing deep research on random topics I enjoy (I can go for days or weeks the last one I studied was prehistoric humans and epigenetics) so I do know a lot of fun facts but I don’t talk about it unless I’m specifically asked.(I know my geekiness can sometimes be my downfall) Okay. The parts in bold above aren't going to help you in dating. Baking is good when you mak…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/25 02:58 PM
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Very good advice. Also, the grounding is even better if it's bare feet on actual grass.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/25 02:02 PM
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The women can address if he's cheating or not. I have a related, relevant question for you: Are you meeting his sexual needs? This isn't a defense of him, understand. I don't excuse cheating at all, and I can't stand it. On the other hand, to quote Chris Rock (he does a great routine on this) "But I understand". You do need to reassess what, if anything, you may be doing to either a) encourage this behavior, or b) seek men who are inherently unfaithful. Because too many women today believe it's …
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/25 02:01 PM
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I really want to give back to him and allow him to have his time to unwind/relax after working so hard and just for being the man he is (I often tell him how much I appreciate everything he does — but these words just don't seem "enough" for me, to really show him how much he means to us all). You sound almost exactly like my wife, in similar circumstances, so let me comment as to what I've received and what I appreciate. 1 - A home-cooked meal that I love (in my case, a big batch of made-from-s…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/25 01:51 PM
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I don’t know when women on this page will get the message that it is not all about looks. You say “I’ve done it all” and then you talk about things you’ve solely done related to your looks. THANK YOU. It's sad that too many women, even in this sub, think it's about looks when what sets an RPW apart from the average blue pill woman is the esteem she holds her man and the positive ways she supports, loves, and interacts with him.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/25 01:31 PM
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Bang maid? LOL I'm stealing that term. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/25 01:28 PM
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The high rate of Divorce is one factor, financial insecurity is the other. You say that like one doesn't directly cause the other.
/r/MensRights21/09/25 07:22 PM
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Body Positivity's sole purpose is to remove any shame or responsibility from WOMEN for the sad state of their bodies, full stop. Just as feminism's dual practical purposes are to give women power and remove their responsibilities. What's shocking are that commenters actually supported the man - and he should never have apologized.
/r/MensRights19/09/25 03:14 PM
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One other tip. You may want to try something like this: "Honey, I love you. As part of our marriage, I enjoy being physical with you. This is both a want and a need for me. But because you've been depressed, we haven't been intimate. That's hard for me; I feel unwanted and unneeded and unloved. Please consider getting therapy because your poor mental health is impacting both of us; I have needs going unmet, and you are very much suffering as well, and I hate to see that. I want us both to be the…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/25 03:01 PM
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Depression kills libido, and if untreated can kill relationships. Get him help.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/25 04:07 AM
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Autonegators are toxic. Get better friends.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/25 04:04 AM
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Google comes up quickly. I just googled "non-reciprocal domestic violence comparison men versus women" In non-reciprocal domestic violence, women are more often the perpetrators and men the victims, with women initiating violence in over 70% of these cases, according to multiple studies, including those by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) and the National Institutes of Health (NIH). While men can also perpetrate non-reciprocal violence, women are more frequently responsible f…
/r/MensRights18/09/25 06:05 PM
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I've read that lesbians commit the highest rates of domestic violence, and men are less likely to report being victims of abuse. Any data on women being violent in general or violent against men Various grades of Lesbians make up about 1-5% of women. Say it's 3% of women. Imagine they have a violence rate of 20%, or 1 in 5. Now imagine 5% of men are violent. Do the math. If you have a population of 1000 women and 1000 men, you have 30 lesbians, and 6 are violent. You also have 200 violent men. W…
/r/MensRights18/09/25 04:58 PM
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The ends are what matter not the means Did you really just say "The ends justifies the means?" GTFO.
/r/MensRights17/09/25 05:04 AM
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Typical of the "zero tolerance" leftist crowd. If you get punched and punch back, you BOTH get punished. F that. You punish the person who started shit, not the one who ends it.
/r/MensRights16/09/25 08:25 PM
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Women want gender equality but can't take the heat when the kitchen gets hot... When you are raised with privilege, equality feels like oppression.
/r/MensRights16/09/25 08:23 PM
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Welcome to Reddit, sir. The pool is open, with hot and cold running misandry. AITA-style subs always favor women, just like blue-pilled society. This is Reddit, after all; balanced and fair subs are usually quarantined and/or banned after a while. I'm honestly surprised this one still exists, given that places like MGTOW of all places are banned. EDIT: the more I think about Jessica's behavior, the more I'm convinced it's a form of whistling past the graveyard. She has to tear down someone who i…
/r/MensRights16/09/25 08:21 PM
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Ask him for help. He'll love to do so.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/25 07:42 PM
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I have hobbies I like to do but by the end of the day, I’m so worn out from surviving at work Then cut back on your obligations. Downsize. Reduce your burdens, both at work and at home. Get a maid instead of cleaning. Throw money at places that you would normally do things, to free yourself of some of the load. Change jobs. You have too much on your plate; cut back so it doesn't choke you.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/25 07:40 PM
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Once you've been in fight or flight mode for a long time, it becomes a habit. The longer it goes, the harder it gets to break... and the more you start to get used to it, even find comfort in it. Lotta people like that, they can't relax anymore, it has become their default and being calm is unnerving to them. Solution: therapy. Seriously. Get professional help. This is the kind of issue that randos on the internet are less qualified to help with.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/25 07:39 PM
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All your red flags become green when it's just for a short fling. Literally this. Some men will seek out odd-hair-colored, tatted-up, aggressive women for hookups because they know they're DTF; they'd never LTR them for the same reasons.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/25 07:27 PM
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Maybe the better question is, does this guy have lots of options? Because guys who do, often have trouble settling down unless settling down is something they've always wanted.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/25 07:07 PM
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Nicely said. Nothing to add.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/25 07:05 PM
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Was he single for 8 years (no dating) or just not in a committed relationship during that time? VERY different types of men.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/25 04:55 PM
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we had similar views on feminism, politics etc. Are you sure? Or was he agreeing with you to get into your pants, and then decided it wasn't worth the work? EDIT: And are you a feminist? Because if you are, you're going to have a very hard time landing an "alpha" male. I found him an alpha, so I guess alot of other girls are speaking to him. I don’t know if he is just trying to spin many plates, It's possible. Do you consider this guy to be higher status than you? As in, were you shooting out of…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/25 04:53 PM
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They'll never reach equity in women's presence in leadership, because not enough women WANT to be leaders. They've forced every even marginally capable and interested woman into that role, and driven lots of men OUT of such roles and that's why the slowdown. You can't achieve parity, because men and women are not interchangeable. They are different in their needs and goals. And commies/leftists/postmodernists don't get that. We are not interchangeable with women; we are biologically different.
/r/MensRights14/09/25 06:27 PM
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1 Abundance Mentality. Stop chasing women (it's unsexy), work on yourself. 2 Get competent at something, look competent (work out, better clothes, fix your hair/skin/etc) and a non-zero number of women will be open to your charms. 3 Bonus points for joining a group like Toastmasters where you learn to talk fast and glibly to strangers (again, competence/confidence). Learn an instrument (guitar or voice) and get good - great in social settings.
/r/MensRights12/09/25 08:32 PM
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No, dude. Even the trolls can still find a thirsty man. Keeping him, that's harder. But they can hook them initially, usually with sex.
/r/MensRights12/09/25 08:21 PM
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in fact they don't even get called "losers" Women are held responsible for NOTHING, even by other women. If it's negative, women are a victim, not a cause, of their failure. The irony of this is that this is a form of objectification that women - even and especially feminists - perform to objectify themselves. Remember the Feminists' beloved "Subject-Object Dichotomy". Because you're either a man (Subject who acts) or a woman (Object to be acted upon). And they don't comprehend that to be a Subj…
/r/MensRights12/09/25 08:20 PM
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Oh, so you know my ex-wife?
/r/MensRights12/09/25 08:15 PM
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A female loser is a woman who cannot secure and maintain a long term relationship. They always self-sabotage in some way and/or blame the failure on their partner. Just as male losers are InCels (Involuntarily Celibate) female losers are InSings (Involuntarily Single, my term).
/r/MensRights12/09/25 08:14 PM
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Firstly, women do not have nightmarish lives. Ah, but they FEEL like they do. Surveys have shown steadily declining women's happiness across the western world since the 1960s. Secondly, why is it bad for a woman to be a 'wage slave', but it is ok for a man? Because society only cares how women feel. Men are disposable. Thirdly, the whole 'wage slave' slogan is Marxist nonsense. Is it? We do not live in a post-scarcity economy. We work to feed ourselves, or we starve and die. We are a slave to ou…
/r/MensRights08/09/25 09:19 PM
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Paging Hillary Clinton...
/r/MensRights08/09/25 09:14 PM
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Or, alternately, address the issue, see if the BF is willing to admit it, let alone work on it (i.e. therapy). If he is, there's a possibility for growth and a future. If he is closed to admitting and redressing personal fault/flaws, THEN he isn't going to change and OP then needs to move on. If you go into it with the attitude of "If the horse can't jump the hurdle, shoot the horse" and you aren't willing to see if the horse can be trained to jump the hurdle, you're more likely going to run out…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 09:11 PM
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If any help you offer (solicited or unsolicited) is viewed as a lack of trust or respect in him, he has low esteem/ego issues that need therapy.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 09:08 PM
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Okay. That's the lynchpin in getting him to chill TFO. External validation. My recommendation to you is to get him Jordan Peterson's 12 rules for life, with emphasis on rule 4: "Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today." If he honestly learns to do this, to value how he is progressing, not how he stacks up to others, he'll develop an internal source of satisfaction and joy that can't be taken away from him. Otherwise he'll always be striving, always be compari…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 09:05 PM
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Okay, if that's the case then your BF is the one who needs to take a breath and probably some therapy.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 08:55 PM
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Disrespect isn't the same as a lack of respect. Yes, love and respect should both be present, but which do you value more? Which do you need more? It's a valid question.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 08:54 PM
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What's your issue with that? Is it that they agree that women shouldn't be seen as objects? Or that they are against harassment, domestic violence, and rape? 1 - plenty of women seek out self-objectification. And plenty of feminists objectify other women all the time. 2 - Domestic violence, when non-reciprocal, is committed by women more than twice as often as men. But nobody suggests women should be taught not to commit DV. And most rape statistics require penetration to be called rape - often …
/r/MensRights08/09/25 08:49 PM
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male-identified aspiring allies I'm about to gag on all the ideological DEI-speak.
/r/MensRights08/09/25 08:44 PM
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Feminists don't truly want men to be that They absolutely do. But here's a good challenge for you. Go to any feminist, and ask them to give you an example of a masculine trait that isn't toxic. It's hilarious (and sad) that most can't.
/r/MensRights08/09/25 08:42 PM
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No, it always was. An equality movement would have sought equal authority AND equal responsibility. But it has always rejected responsibility, even shed it, while aggregating more and more power to women. And all of this without limit or goal, with the nebulous excuse of The Patriarchy. Fortunately, the only way feminism spreads is via cultural contamination, as it's self-eliminating from the gene pool otherwise. We just need to burn it out of the schools to clean it up in a generation.
/r/MensRights08/09/25 08:40 PM
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I notice you didn't answer the question.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 08:34 PM
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Not heated at all. But your entire post and responses are about him, with virtually zero mention of yourself or your contributing factors. I can't tell if you acknowledge your own faults or not, but I do know that the majority of women DON'T. Take the constructive criticism for what it's worth.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 08:33 PM
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Hmmm. Several thoughts on this one. The feeling it leaves me with is he thinks he is better than me... in fact he admits he does think that and he thinks he is better than most people. It's not ego if it's true. IS he better than most people? Is he a high-performer, A-type, going places type of guy? Then this attitude is probably somewhat valid. He struggles to relax and wants to constantly be working, working out, or doing something *he deems* productive. Part of this for him is an ego thing, h…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 08:31 PM
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Quick question: does he treat you like he trusts you in all things, or is he guarded? Second question: HAS he been badly burned by a dark triad woman in the past?
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 08:08 PM
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In EVERY relationship each person will hurt the other. In a healthy relationship this is done almost always unintentionally, because we are flawed creatures, trapped in a box of meat and bone and not harmonious, psychically linked beings of pure energy like in some fantasy novel. Hurt is unavoidable. How you react to it, that's up to you.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 08:05 PM
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Citation needed for this misandric statistic, please.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 08:03 PM
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I have found that my man has major blind spots in certain areas. Then help him to see, address, and grow beyond such issues, if they are valid issues. Only an immature, insecure man will reject such advice. If you want to double your chances of him doing this emotional work, offer the same to HIM: he can help YOU find your flaws and blind spots so that you can work on YOUR weaknesses, too. Do that, honestly be vulnerable to admit you are flawed too and in need of work, and you might just get the…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 08:02 PM
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In the example of a party, are men ever thinking “I should get us there on time so I have a fun and flirty wife, not a cranky one”? YES, because time blindness isn't a gendered behavior/trait. And on top of that, what's easier to change: your attitude or your partner? Now if you just want to be self-righteous and find reasons to pick fights without addressing the underlying causes and to make both of you miserable and eventually sabotage the relationship, go ahead and just expect him to figure o…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 07:58 PM
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men don’t like unsolicited advice because it communicates you don’t trust them. No offense, but this is a typical statement from a woman who doesn't understand how men think and what they value. Trivia question: a survey asked men and women, "If you could only have one, which would you rather have. Love or Respect?" What do you think the answers were? What is yours? Be honest. Men overwhelming wanted Respect. Women overwhelmingly wanted Love. But do you know how that translates? For a woman, if …
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 07:55 PM
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So here's a funny thing: I used to believe Incels weren't a thing. That it was obvious what a man needed to do to break free of celebacy and get a girl. You know the list - dress better, confidence, lift weights, good job, etc. But it took me a while to realize why the label was actually dead on - INVOLUNTARILY celibate. As in, they're celibate and can't fix it because they're DOING everything they believe that they're supposed to (taught by BP culture) and it still isn't working. This is becaus…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 07:39 PM
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I personally believe that addiction is genetic, Bit more nuanced. Some addiction is genetic (physical/biological), and some is psychological. They are very, very different to deal with. Biological addiction causes physical withdrawal - that can even kill you in some cases with some drugs. It warps physical and mental responses to the drug in question. It's a rough road to go down. (I know, I kicked cigarettes. 25 years later, I still want one sometimes). Then there's mental addiction. This is bo…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 02:34 PM
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Women's radio station? NPR and other public funded broadcasters (because they can't survive without men's subsidies).
/r/MensRights04/09/25 04:31 PM
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Board games. Or stay digital and play Mario Party together.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/25 02:02 PM
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Sarcasm aside, this is very true. Don't seek external validation; only do what is right to you and for you, and disengage from women and their feminized world.
/r/MensRights19/08/25 03:42 PM
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Everyone is telling men they need to work hard, everyone telling us what needs to be done , but never how? Because it doesn't need to be spelled out. You can figure out a lot of these just from stopping and honestly praying/meditating for the answer. The answers are easy: - Gym - Diet - Meditation - Cut loose toxic people, cling to healthy mentors - Focus on yourself. Don't compare yourself to others today, compare yourself to you yesterday. - Pursue what is meaningful, not what is expedient - C…
/r/MensRights19/08/25 03:41 PM
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Most men settle for an obese woman, and copulate with her due to men's not inconsequential sex drive on average. But that's despite her obesity, not because of it. That same man will be more attracted to her if she's fit. We are in a celebrate marriage, but I don't think leaving will actually serve my goals. I want to be loved and desired I assume you meant celibate? And no, leaving won't serve your goals unless you want to remarry to a chubbychaser - of which there aren't enough to meet the dem…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/25 03:36 PM
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Cameras and the internet make this a much harder thing for abusive families to perpetrate. Not impossible, but harder. Also, you have my sympathies. I do think it's not worse today, it's better. Women's insanity, entitlement, and abusiveness is in public now. Before you'd not even be believed. Now... yeah, lots can and do believe you. Is it perfect? No. Could it be tons better? Yes. But it's not worse, it's better. For what that's worth.
/r/MensRights15/08/25 06:46 PM
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I try. I also do it because it's a way to get MYSELF motivated. I see the words my fingers type, and I'm like, "Damn, I should take my own advice". EDIT: Or my wife's advice - I got a great one. (wasn't easy, and she's actually RP and chill)
/r/MensRights15/08/25 04:48 PM
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1 - pick up more physical hobbies. If you can't do physical strength (building a shed), do finesse manipulation (painting miniatures). And do them in social spaces where you can make physical friends. 2 - Career - if your job is that easy, ask for a promotion/raise. If your org values you, they'll make it happen. if not, you can do better elsewhere. You need CHALLENGE; if you're doing 8 hrs work in 2 hrs, you're stagnating. Can't stress this enough. Personal parable - I've been with the same com…
/r/MensRights15/08/25 04:42 PM
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I don't even hate all cleaning. I just hate doing floors. I'll do all the laundry start to finish, cook meals - I'll even clean the shower. But floors just ick me in ways I can't express. I hate hate hate cleaning floors. Sometimes spending a little bit of money on a QOL improvement really is the best option.
/r/MensRights15/08/25 04:26 PM
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Not true. I am strong, confident, and capable and I also like myself. Methinks you're projecting.
/r/MensRights15/08/25 04:21 PM
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Oh yeah, didn't even mention that part. Once money is less of an issue, throwing money at problems really helps. Maid/cleaner is a big one. But OP sounds like he's younger, looking to break out of the 20s rut that men find themselves in. Which means he likely doesn't have that money. Also, doing these steps are a good foundation; maid is a luxury. You need to learn how to clean your own crap up first.
/r/MensRights15/08/25 04:13 PM
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Low-effort troll post. Boo.
/r/MensRights15/08/25 03:55 PM
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Brother, time to disconnect. Get offline, don't date, just focus on your home, your body, and your career. Home - clean that pigsty up. Organize. Get rid of baggage, chaff, and unwanted ideas. Clean up your home and embrace a hint of asceticism. Body - get to they gym. Lose the weight, improve your posture. Learn a martial art (BJJ). Stop drinking soda or alcohol, stop eating out. Learn to cook if necessary. Try other diets, like keto/paleo. Physical health and confidence are key. Career - witho…
/r/MensRights15/08/25 03:51 PM
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Women as a whole only care about men who are useful to them. You don't mourn a broken tool, you go out and get a new one. Because there are always more. This is also why men who are of lower value are invisible to women.
/r/MensRights15/08/25 02:45 PM
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He then flipped it and got upset that I didn’t thank him enough for not raising his voice or losing his temper, with me or his daughters (not my kids). I left the conversation feeling guilty, like I failed him somehow, but now I’m sitting with it and feeling unsettled. Okay, I was sympathetic with him being stressed and overworked until this part. "Thank him for not raising his voice or losing his temper"? Not only no thank you, but FUCK you. Those aren't things to thank that you don't do, they …
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/25 02:25 PM
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My relationship is probably pretty close to what you believe you are seeking. I (M51) have a supportive, submissive wife (F34) and two small children. She makes me lunches and is a SAHW. She also has her own ambitions, business goals (she's very entrepreneurial), and is not a passive doormat without her own interests in ANY way. She supports and uplifts me all the time; encouraging me, making sure I take my vitamins, backrubs, etc. And in return, I do all kinds of housework (more than she does),…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/25 02:18 PM
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You can hate anybody you want to. It's actions that are criminal. At least if you live in the US. Pretty sure thoughtcrime is the next de-evolution of the British legal system about to come out.
/r/MensRights12/08/25 06:03 PM
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Help him either make new friends or connect with old ones. Does he game? Get him to set up gaming nights online with his buddies. You can even encourage them to reach out to HIM. (One year, I was kinda depressed around my birthday and my wife contacted a bunch of my guild buddies and had them all call me to wish me happy birthday. Blew me away.) Find some social activities you can both pursue that will make friends and have fun. I used to go boardgaming with my wife on Friday nights before our k…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/25 04:59 PM
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Encourage him to do things WITH you, not you do things FOR him. He's your partner, not your child. He wants a cheerleader and someone who helps him to be the best man he can be, not a mommy. Or at least, I hope that's the case. If he really doesn't want the help, all he as to do is say "Stop". But likely he knows that he needs it, and so will stay silent and go along.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/25 04:54 PM
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Without treatment, depression often doesn't get better. You said you were seeing a couples therapist; you may want to instead get him therapy to treat his depression, because that condition is f'ing insidious. Trust me, I know that personally. My wife (17 years younger, too) manages me and makes sure I do the things that help with my depression so I don't get stuck. Things like cute notes in my lunch, insists I listen to music and sing, cooks healthy for me, and what not. Little, steady encourag…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/25 04:21 PM
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He sounds depressed and demotivated. How's his mental health?
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/25 02:46 PM
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This is my divorce theory. It's simpler than this. Just consider two truths: 1 - Government and bureacracy always want to expand and gain power. 2 - Women need help to raise children. Both are satisfied by demolishing extended and nuclear families, so that women turn to the state (men by proxy) to support them. State gets the control of not just women, but of raising children, allowing them to be sculpted as the state wishes.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 04:00 PM
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pathological destructive individualism That's what you get in spades from single mother households. Funny how outcomes are so much better in two-parent and single-father households.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 02:04 PM
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AITA is notoriously anti-male (blue pill).
/r/MensRights11/08/25 01:59 PM
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Most female therapists suck dealing with men. Ask around, find one who isn't a leftist soy male, and you can actually get help. But it takes some looking.
/r/MensRights10/08/25 12:40 AM
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Yeah, but you have to recognize it, and have a partner who accepts and encourages you to grow out of it rather than just dumping you for it. Plus, many women grow INTO it, rather than enter the relationship from it. A related condition I've seen many women develop is the "automatic no" syndrome. Or worse, "husband can do no right" syndrome. That last one hurts my soul. I remember watching a clip of a husband and wife picking tomatoes at the grocery store. Every time she put one in the bag, he (o…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/25 08:24 PM
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Yeah, we get a lot of people in RPW who don't understand what submission is and isn't. Lotta people think it's being a doormat or passive, when it's anything but. What it means is HIERARCHY - following his lead when it matters. Or in other words, not being an argumentative bitch when it isn't necessary. And it usually isn't necessary, with the right Captain anyways.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/25 06:28 PM
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Don't confuse submission with helplessness or fragility; it's neither, and nowhere in RP lit are those qualities encouraged. You as first mate (and all other crew, i.e. family) submit to the leadership of the Captain. You aren't helpless or fragile; you are useful, competent crew members appreciating the Captain's leadership, focus, and guidance.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/25 05:49 PM
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Submission is fine as part of the relationship's dynamic. If it's forced or pure manipulation? Unattractive. If it's because she's really just a pushover without boundaries? Unattractive.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/25 05:48 PM
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Submission is something that can be broad or deep as your comment implies. It should be something that you lean into more as the relationship progresses. But it should also only be to a man who will reciprocate with proper leadership. As the relationship deepens, so should your submission but also so should his leadership. Plenty of women submit too much or too early, to a man who is unable or unwilling to lead. They don't do proper vetting, or think that just by submitting they will make him in…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/25 04:05 PM
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You will never be lonely - granted. No woman will be lonely, unless she's incandescently toxic. You aren't; you're just run of the mill toxic. So likely you'll land a simp of a man, who will partner you for 5-10 years until you get bored with him. Good luck with that, since you seem to be wholly unsympathetic to RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/25 10:44 PM
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I can see that the red pill stuck in your craw a bit. That's fine. You don't have to swallow. Your frantic flexing of your blue pill desirability tells me my shots of truth landed. Reject everything I said, I don't care. I was trying to help you, but whatever. Just make sure to bookmark this thread. Come back in five years, reread it, and update us with how wonderful your life has turned out. I dare you.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/25 06:48 AM
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All that to say idk how to manage my expectations surrounding marriage whenever it comes for me. Respectfully, you're a poster child for everything wrong with modern women and dating. You went to college, racked up debt, pursued a high value career, and only now in your early 30s (the Wall) are you looking around to secure a man, maybe have kids, get married. And no man, that you want, will have you. Well duh. Let me explain WHY this is. Firstly, men DO NOT CARE ABOUT YOUR CAREER. The only caree…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/25 02:13 PM
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Legal action, unless you like the idea of suicide. Because these kind of monsters can and do drive men to suicide.
/r/MensRights30/07/25 09:05 PM
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Honestly, it kinda sounds like OP's BF might actually mean "just hang out" rather than coded request for sex. He sounds sweet. I don't think she should just outright assume.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/25 04:35 PM
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I was thinking oh no way a guy like that was monogomous and I don't want to be caught holding the bag. So you preemptively self-sabotaged and ended it. Brilliant. Turns out he wasn't seeing other people and fair enough, he got really upset because of that like it turns out he took it more seriously rhan I did. But yeah major fumble by me Ya think? Is there a reason you, at 21, are so mistrusting? I think your value system is whack. If you're going to lean into asian culture, LEAN IN. Don't look …
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/25 04:08 PM
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You don't pay a sex worker for sex, you pay her to leave afterwards. Sounds like you have it figured out.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 08:33 PM
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What 12 year old even thinks about shit like that as opposed to, y'know, being a goddamn kid...which they are. 8-1 odds she comes from a single mother household.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 08:29 PM
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I don't think I'll be getting public transport again and stuff. That really hurt man Seriously? Why do you care what a bunch of stupid, know-nothing gossips think? They have no value, class or worth; stop giving it to them, unearned. Learn to have a spine, and (metaphorically-only) spit in their eye next time. Or learn some comebacks. Like, "You wish. You're so ugly I wouldn't do you if YOU paid ME." Take them down a peg. Then ignore them, or just smirk as they try to argue with you. "Why are yo…
/r/MensRights29/07/25 08:27 PM
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It can only work if it's a) for a short, defined duration, and b) you visit each other regularly. Otherwise your relationship is just a fantasy.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/25 08:13 PM
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Why? Because men. Because China is Asshole. Take your pick.
/r/MensRights27/07/25 10:11 PM
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Because old women need their face creams (made from the removed material)
/r/MensRights26/07/25 04:03 PM
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Feminist subs will autoblock you just for having ever posted here, regardless of content.
/r/MensRights26/07/25 03:31 PM
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You could say it is insulting. But saying a woman stinks isn't a threat. Threats require a suggestion of action. Unless you said it made you hungry and you reached for your rice, soy sauce, and knives, it isn't a threat. So stupid.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 03:36 AM
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Honestly I think this is fine, IF they allow for ALL filters. i.e. if you can filter for men or women, black or white or hispanic, etc. Because Freedom of Association. Let market forces decide. Because news flash: if you exclude men from your uber drive, you're gonna have a MUCH longer wait for the drive. Let people ride with whomever they choose. They can pay for their prejudices, or not.
/r/MensRights23/07/25 05:03 PM
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But sexual attraction is just cultural conditioning! There's no biological reason for women to be more attracted to trim, fit men! Or for men to be more attracted to slender, young, curvaceous women! /sarcasm All inherited wisdom is rejected by these imbeciles. Then they reject the research and facts that further reinforce it. Being blue-pilled through ignorance is one thing; choosing it, as liberals/feminists do, is pure narcissism and denial of reality.
/r/MensRights22/07/25 07:38 PM
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Look at how many stood up to mandatory vaccination of kids and others at near-zero risk. A LOT of people go along to get along. I bless Covid for breaking the spell, finally, of people's absolute trust in the medical profession.
/r/MensRights18/07/25 01:37 PM
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I already prewarned my wife (and she is in full agreement) that if we have a boy, there will be a sign in the delivery room stating, clearly and in bold, that if the child is taken to be circumcised against our will, I will *%&$# the shit out of all parties involved. Clear line, clear penalty, no ambiguity. Not a threat, just a promise.
/r/MensRights18/07/25 01:35 PM
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Ignorance can be forgiven. Malice cannot.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 05:49 AM
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Agree, those doctors (the first one to come to mind is Dr. Money, may he rot in hell for the damage HE did) who do this to young boys/babies while knowing better? Who benefitted financially from it? Yeah, they're at fault. And in an era where John Q. Public had no really available information to the contrary, no internet, etc. to vet things and had to trust their doctors? I don't really blame parents prior to the 21st century. Or the average doctor who just knows his piece of medicine, and doesn…
/r/MensRights16/07/25 06:58 PM
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The gap exists, and it is at least in part biologically wired. What you do from there? That's up to you. I like to address any gendered situation where I'm having a disagreement with someone and just challenge them with the scenario with flipped genders. Tends to shock them into silence at the very least, and sometimes it does make them think.
/r/MensRights16/07/25 06:41 PM
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To be fair, most parents back in the day didn't understand that it wasn't required medically. It's still a bit of voodoo science that mandates it at all. Plenty of people just trust their doctors. Not so much these days, and for good reasons like this. Plus, thank you Doctor Google. Which isn't fully trustworthy, but... I'll take what I can get.
/r/MensRights16/07/25 06:38 PM
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Good advice. My reaction stems from more recent personal issues which were the culmination of a long string of conflict. Sometimes a verbal punch in the face is warranted; however, you are correct that it should NOT be your first choice. :P
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/25 04:31 AM
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Oh I agree with you, I just wanted to balance the argument.
/r/MensRights14/07/25 08:47 PM
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The problem with this is that it ignores cultural mores and changing attitudes. I haven't studied it, but I would be very, very surprised if female violence wasn't drastically on the rise (due to societal permissiveness in certain cultures) even as male violence is on the wane. I could believe that men were more physically violent in relationships the 1950s, but today it's certainly not true, statistically or anecdotally.
/r/MensRights14/07/25 08:45 PM
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Finally, in 2012, the FBI revised its definition and focused on penetration, with no mention of female (or force). To my knowledge, that definition still requires the perpetrator to do the penetration. If a man is forced to penetrate (i.e. envelopment) it's not rape, it's sexual assault.
/r/MensRights14/07/25 08:42 PM
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A lot of studies/surveys in pop culture suggest that men think about sex much more often than women do. I don't think that's terribly controversial. Now if u/MaleEducation1 suggested that's also overlapping pedophilia - and to be specific, we're using the correct definition of pedophila as sexual attraction to prepubescent children - then no, there's no evidence this is normal or widespread in men. Attraction to pubescent girls? Sure. Dating/marrying/reproducing with those was normal to varying …
/r/MensRights14/07/25 08:37 PM
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“Men will stick their dick in anything for a little funsies” Um... I've known personally a disappointing number of men like this. Though "anything" is usually anything "willing", to be specific. "Don't stick your dick in crazy" is a phrase crafted for men for a reason.
/r/MensRights14/07/25 08:32 PM
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More children are killed by their own mother than women are by a man they do not know Most rape victims know their rapist, too. Stranger danger has long been overhyped.
/r/MensRights14/07/25 08:29 PM
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Women make up 100% of newborn murderers (babies killed in the first 24hrs of life). There has never been a recorded incident of a man killing a newborn. To play devil's advocate, how much opportunity does a father have to kill a newborn? Especially in the first 24 hours, is it ever not with the mother/nurses?
/r/MensRights14/07/25 08:27 PM
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This makes sense of why raw aggression is not sex-specific. Women are as violent as men. The only thing that differs is the way in which that violence is expressed. THIS. The only difference in aggression is that males are generally physically aggressive, and females are generally passive-aggressive. But both are aggressive. This is very easy to see played out in high school.
/r/MensRights14/07/25 08:25 PM
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If her husband was me, I'd have stood up and said, "If my wife asks me to hold MY CHILD, I will do so. Your opinion is antequated, belligerent, and unwelcoming. Keep it to yourself." Then he can harrumph his way out of the room, and everybody will be happy to see him leave.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/25 08:18 PM
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You can fix old and crazy when it's family. All you can do is shrug and say, "You live your life, and let us live ours." If he can't respect that, he can be removed from your life. Very, very simple. In other news, old man yells at sky, sky ignores him. He's a piece of work. I'd've confronted him if ANY relative said something like this to my wife, but I'm a confrontational SOB. I've also cut people out of my life because you only get one and I'm not wasting it on assholes.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/25 08:17 PM
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how to differentiate between a player/a man who doesn't want to commit to any woman yet vs a man who just doesn't see you as the "one"? Does it matter? You're not getting him either way. I was not sleeping with him since we weren't exclusive and he made fun of this boundary Any man who doesn't respect this boundary isn't high value and isn't LTR material. he told me he had his heart broken by a woman in the past who he was with for 4 years and it took him a year of therapy to get over it and wor…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/25 08:13 PM
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No, it's considered a pussy move by feminists like you. Being kind is valued by high value men. Also, the opposite of being kind is not being a pushover (which IS weak), it's being unkind (which is douchey instead). Kindness is an attitude and is esteemed by most people. The only folks who view kindness with disdain are sharks and predators. Are you one of those? The fact you're considering OF somewhat suggests it.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/25 08:05 PM
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OF will significantly lower your chances of finding a good man that will lead. And it damages the perception, mindset, and values of the women who do it. Sexwork is not consequences-free. It lowers your value even if men never find out you did it because it changes how you think, see, and interact with the world, in ways that men mostly dislike.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/25 08:02 PM
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That's the part that alarmed you the most?
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/25 05:46 PM
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Downvoted just for the wall of text.
/r/MensRights14/07/25 05:38 PM
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Why do you think mental health resources for men are still so scarce or ignored in society? Do you care about the mental health of your wallet? Your automobile? Your lawnmower? Of course not. Why would you care about the mental health of men? Men exist to serve women. Just ask any modern woman, she'll tell you. Or look at the war headlines past and present. They basically go like Hillary's famous line (which I'll misquote): "War kills their men, and this is why women are most impacted by war." Y…
/r/MensRights14/07/25 02:03 PM
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There is a difference between submitting to a man's leadership and being his hand puppet. He can speak as he pleases, and you will do the same. I do expect my wife to trust me and to follow my lead, but not blindly. I learn from her just as she learns from me. I would not expect my wife to parrot anything that I believe... or to outright dismiss anything I believe, either. If she doesn't see what I see in a situation, that's an opportunity for us BOTH to grow and learn. Too many people hear "sub…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/25 05:32 PM
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Yes, that is often the case. But again, it comes down to good managers vs. average/bad ones. Good managers/owners pay their people what they're worth, and understand that good employees are EXPENSIVE. But they also understand the Pareto principle, and that 20% of the people you hire do 80% of the work. So you either improve or fire the 80%, and only work with the 20%. Whereas average-to-bad managers and owners ignore everything. Like the cost to hire and train. Or that no raise for a year = you …
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/25 05:05 PM
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Oh, don't I know it. I don't usually check post history either until after it' academic, but.... wow. And please, please God save me from the "Pick me" COPE that blue pill women use to try to detract from RP reality. Like, YES, these women want to be picked as not psycho feminists but instead as supportive dynasty-builders. YES, they want to be picked as loving, supportive spouses and not as nagging future divorcees. FUCK YES they want to be picked by good men. What are you, jealous? The answer,…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/25 01:28 AM
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This level of mistrust without any basis/cause is not something we on the internet can help you with. Get therapy.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/25 06:39 PM
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Holy crap. I just looked at her comment history. Talk about projecting when she said I needed to touch grass...
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/25 06:36 PM
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Two things. Not a girl, a man. And an endorsed contributor. Brain worms? All I know is what I've experienced here. MULTIPLE subs that should be apolitical have banned me SOLELY because I comment on right-leaning or redpilled subs, including this one. Every time I make the mistake of clicking the Popular feed instead of my Home feed, I get inundated with unhinged leftism. Unfiltered Reddit is leftoid cancer. I touch grass - so much so, my wife and I have turned our yard into a food forest for the…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/25 06:28 PM
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Maybe be less of a bigot and learn a bit, like a LOT of left-leaning subs ban people for posting ANYTHING in any of the right-leaning subs, INCLUDING RPW. Seriously. Go post on a supposedly-neutral-seeming sub like InterestingAsFuck and watch the autoban roll in.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/25 05:37 PM
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which i find ironic tbh because there are super racist spaces on here Exactly. I would expect racism from a liberal site, what with the racist and discriminatory policies that liberals embrace such as affirmative action, quotas, equity, "disparate impact", the Duluth Model, and so on.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/25 05:35 PM
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Or the cost of acquiring and training new talent is otherwise prohibitive/difficult. Most managers neither know nor care about the time and money it takes to train up a new employee. But the good ones are highly aware, and take that into account. But good managers also tend to pay better in the first place.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/25 04:24 PM
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Sounds like he died from an adverse reaction to the anesthesia. Which is something, given most babies don't even get anesthesia when getting mutilated.
/r/MensRights08/07/25 07:53 PM
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Yeah, and it gets false flag events too. RP subs have had to watch out for bad faith posters trying to get the subs banned. I still can't believe they banned TheDonald. Or MGTOW.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/25 01:30 PM
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Actually, they ARE intolerant. I know, I was banned from Conservative for being a trump-supporting paleoconservative (their words). Which is 70% accurate. The left is the party of intolerance currently, but they do not have a monopoly.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/25 03:18 PM
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Funny thing is, autobans are against TOS. But Reddit being Reddit, that means only right-leaning subs can't autoban. Not that they want to.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/25 01:46 AM
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The leftist bubble when you go to your popular tab, rather than your home tab, is night and day. Yes, Reddit's general pop are disconnected nuts. You're not alone.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/25 01:45 AM
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So that we don't get hiring policies like, "Coloreds need not apply". That's why discriminating based upon immutable characteristics like sexual orientation, gender, race, etc. is prohibited. Sure, if you aren't the best fit because of skills/experience/competence that's one thing. But because you don't like that they're black/male/gay alone? Prohibited. This isn't complicated.
/r/MensRights04/07/25 05:27 AM
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You support trans rights - what does that mean? - The right to exist? Nobody in the West has an issue with that. - The right to force others to address you a certain way? Yeah, you're going to get justifiable pushback there on compelled/free speech grounds. - The right to transition before 18? Yeah, kids do dumb things. Transition before adulthood doesn't help and usually hurts, statistically speaking. Especially in light of desistance rates of about 80%.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 05:31 PM
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Duluth Model for the lose. There's a reason MGTOW exists.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 05:11 PM
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You are shocked why?
/r/MensRights03/07/25 05:03 PM
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He said she said is always stacked against you. Recordings don't lie. And if you don't bring it up immediately, you may even get circumstances like, "Well we say we didn't discriminate, and now we're bringing countersuit of defamation!" Where defamation allows you to use single-party-consent recordings whilst the regular discrimination suits don't. It's very lawyeristic. See a lawyer. See what you can do. Because modern day gynocentric bigotry needs to be fought wherever it is encountered.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 05:00 PM
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Just watch hoe_math's youtube videos if you want to understand modern women.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 04:57 PM
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And that's why you should Always Be Recording.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 04:55 PM
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Not every man is masculine. There are very masculine, butch gay men, and very effeminate straight men. If you have a preference for more traditionally straight/masculine men, cut him loose.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/25 04:52 PM
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What. The. Fuck. "Men always act like a wrongful conviction is gonna destroy their lifes. Like not even a rightful conviction does." Okay, first, Who hurt you? Second, bitch, you think a wrongful conviction does no damage? BURN IN HELL.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 12:08 PM
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You're going to have to spell this one out for me because I honestly do not follow. Maybe because of vodka. But help a brother out.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 09:40 AM
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What did men gain from granting women voting rights? Nothing but headache and a swing of the voting polity towards socialism. Look it up. For the potential downvoters, what did women do to deserve it? Because men, mandatory service/conscription/selective service, we have our duties. What do YOU have?
/r/MensRights29/06/25 05:15 AM
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MGTOW is a thing for a reason.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 05:12 AM
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Fantastic to hear. Keep up the good work, and best wishes.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/25 04:17 AM
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What is confusing about this? It may be common behavior for women to hold men to standards that the men never agreed to, but that doesn't make it healthy. To clarify, when you break up, all expectations of fidelity, loyalty, monogamy, etc go out the window. The relationship is BROKEN. Period. Sleeping with another woman while broken up betrays NOTHING. It isn't a good look, I grant that. But he didn't cheat because YOU HAVE TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP TO CHEAT. This isn't complicated.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/25 05:51 PM
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On the plus side, there's a real chance in this day and age that you can get alimony from her.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 07:59 PM
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And perhaps some things are genetic or epigenetic and can't be changed. Maybe it's fixed like sexual orientation, and the only remedy is willpower not to act on it.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 07:18 PM
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You assume rehabilitation is possible. Pedophilia has one of the highest recidivism rates of any crime.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 06:32 PM
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Let us know WHEN, not if, things improve, okay?
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/25 08:08 PM
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No problem. This is a sub where we really do want to help. And the meds thing - both bipolar and major depression are nothing to F around with, as you know. They can both also sneak up on you, and affect you much worse than you realize, sucking the joy out of your life and demotivating your (depression) and making you an unpredictable witch to live with (bipolar). Either of these can and do kill relationships. So if you're still having all the issues you describe, then of course I'm going to sug…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/25 07:55 PM
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If you're seeing a psychiatrist plus therapist, that's fine. I only recommended the psychologist because your issues are a bit heavier than the average therapist is equipped to handle. But if you have a psychiatrist (which is basically a psychologist who can dispense meds) then you have it covered. It helps that they confer with one another too. Do you feel like they're helping? Giving you goals to work towards?
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/25 07:31 PM
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I was diagnosed with major depression and bipolar disorder. You aren't going to get anywhere until you get these addressed. And the only ways you are going to do that is by better eating, physical exercise, and a psychiatrist and medication. No other advice is applicable because these will foil everything you try. You have to find a way to get to the gym. Yes, personal trainer, but since you have $$ I would recommend having them come to your home. It may cost more but it'll be worth it until you…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/25 07:14 PM
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Agree. But I think most people are not a zero (exclusively hetero) on the Kinsey scale. They just repress/ignore/never explore those inclinations if they're a 1 or a 2, or had a discouraging upbringing.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 07:08 PM
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Estimates are that between 5-10% women are bi to varying degrees. She may prefer men but said "eh, why not?" in frustration. Heck, after my divorce I was *this* close to swearing off women the same way (I'm like a 1-2 on the Kinsey scale). But then I found my (female) love of my life and the rest is history.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 07:06 PM
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Occasionally a woman who has a male child will suddenly realize what an arse she's been. But usually no.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 07:04 PM
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You don't need a therapist, you need a psychologist. I see multiple reinforcing issues that are aggravating your situation, centered around your low self esteem and unhealthy relativism regarding your performance at life. Get off social media, and get help.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/25 06:02 PM
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I am reminded of a street survey that may be relevant. Interviewer asked men, "If you could find a woman who has 80% of what you're looking for in a woman, would you be happy with that?" Every single man said HELL yes. He then asked random women the same question, and the vast majority said no, they want 100%. Even when their lists have contradictory items on them, women today want EVERYTHING. They have lost all concept of compromise, partnership, acceptance, humility, and grace. Not all women, …
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/25 05:25 PM
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One thing that happens is to present what you want to attract. Don't wear revealing, trashy, or flashy clothes; wear classy, understated ones that reflect maturity, elegance, poise, purpose, and effort. Speak with purpose and clarity; take singing lessons if necessary. Learn to walk and move like a lady. Elevate your apparent status/quality and the higher value man you seek will be more likely to notice you amongst the tatted-up, overweight 304s so common in the dating pool. Once you've got your…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/25 04:07 PM
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You keep giving mixed signals. I get that you love this guy. But you also don't trust him. And I think you're looking for an excuse to break it off with him. Sleeping with another girl while you're broken up with him isn't a good one. But you know what is? Then I saw in his notifications bar several messages of women that he is talking to. For example one time I've read that some Susie girl "ask him to give her his Instagram account to sent him memes" What I think is that he is getting close to …
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/25 03:55 PM
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On the other hand, if he knew that she'd be irrational about what he did when he was NOT in a committed relationship with OP, his reluctance could be explained by that. Or by youth, since I get the impression they're both young. Never assume OP is unbiased.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/25 03:50 PM
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If he slept with another woman when you two were not together, it's not cheating. Full stop. It might be a bit lawyerly, but men think in terms of rules and promises. And when you break up, all bets are off. You can dislike it, you can decide you don't want to get back with him, but you can't in all fairness call it cheating. Knock that off. If you have other reasons not to trust him, that's fine. But this wasn't cheating, this is insane girl logic whereby a man who IS NOT CURRENTLY IN A RELATIO…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/25 03:48 PM
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Jesus. When somebody shows you their red flags instead of hiding them, they're... well, if not proud of them, then at least accepting of them. You've seen his true colors. You know that you can't change a man. So just leave. There's MUCH better out there.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/25 03:44 PM
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We've all heard it a thousand times. "Men commit 99% of rape/sexual assault/crime/murder etc." And it's complete BS, too. Whenever you hear this, immediately fire back with: - if the FBI classified forced envelopment of a man as rape, men and women rape almost evenly. So long as it can only be rape if there is penetration BY the rapist, the statistic will always be artificially skewed. - Violent crime - i.e. ACTIVE aggression - is easy to measure and see the damage. Nobody measures PASSIVE aggre…
/r/MensRights25/06/25 03:27 PM
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Feminism, being heavily informed by postmodernism, loves to make everything subjective and relative. It's why they reject biological essentialism, like there are only two genders, and like men of ALL ages find healthy, slender, 18-21 year old women with a 0.7 WHR the most attractive of all. They can't stand it. They want to force men to love their fat, self-hating, self-mutilated feminist bodies as much as the pretty young girls that they never were. They push things like fat acceptance and body…
/r/MensRights25/06/25 03:14 PM
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I would love to have had that question lobbed at me, because I know the DV statistics. Dipshit Prof would be in for a rude awakening.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 02:54 PM
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I learned pretty quickly that I had to give milquetoast essays to the prof and just shut up because nobody wanted to hear from me. I finished the semester and immediately dropped that line of inquiry and classes and focused on my major instead.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 02:50 PM
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I took a couple classes towards a woman's studies minor, back in 1998. Even then the intro work was just like one of my text's titles: "Race, Class, and Gender". It was toxic as hell. The only other men in the class (2) were required to be there (social work degrees). The profs, the students, all were women, and none of them were remotely sympathetic to hearing a man speak or ask questions. Dismissive, impatient, condescending... I dropped that line of inquiry after a semester. I was there to le…
/r/MensRights24/06/25 07:10 PM
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You define Feminism based upon the actions of those who practice it. And when looked at in toto, it's a female supremacy movement without limit. It seeks to give women all the power and authority while stripping them of responsibility and accountability. And it does this cloaked in the illusion that it's helping them while it destroys their sanity, happiness, and future through encouraging women's feral basic needs to rule them. And it's always been like this, since 1st wave feminism. It just wa…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/25 05:19 PM
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Honestly man, you need to go to where men congregate and just jump in. Find a Men's Shed, or a local board gaming group, GO TO THE GYM, or something. Do active things, and just talk to the folks while doing them. Friendships will arise organically. Biggest problem to making friends these days (I'm guilty of this too) is staying home, staying online. Forget it. Go out into the real world, do real world things. Get offline. You'll make acquaintances, which can turn into friends.
/r/MensRights23/06/25 03:26 PM
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You are part of the problem.
/r/MensRights23/06/25 03:11 PM
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Easy way to shup them up when they ask "Where's mom?" "She's DEAD, and thank you SO much for reminding me of her passing. The empathy and care you obviously possess is truly breathtaking to see."
/r/MensRights23/06/25 03:10 PM
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As a fantasy, absolutely. Not real, "stranger in a dark alley, beaten and raped and left for dead" rape, to be clear. Very few (but some damaged women) want that. It's the bodice ripper fantasy. A strong, virile man can't help himself, and he 'takes' her. It's common enough to be a wikipedia entry. a study published in The Journal of Sex Research from 2009 using a survey of 355" undergraduates, 81% of whom were between the ages of 18 and 21 indicated that "62% of women have had a rape fantasy". …
/r/MensRights20/06/25 01:38 PM
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There is a reason why RAPE FANTASIES are the NUNBER ONE FEMALE FETISH. It isn't even questioned by anybody, just... ignored as irrelevant. When it is anything but.
/r/MensRights20/06/25 04:28 AM
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Name a few respectable ones who do, or step the fuck off. Edit: To be clear, I'm sure there are some fringe 'right wing' subs that autoban. But only are autobans permitted and widely used on lefty subs like feminist and political subs. Only right-leaning subs are banned based on content like r/thedonald.
/r/MensRights20/06/25 03:12 AM
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WHAT? But men are advantaged over women in every single scenario!!! /feminist
/r/MensRights19/06/25 03:30 AM
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Closest to free speech is the US. No blasphemy laws, and unlike the UK you can criticize the govt or report on child predators without going to jail.
/r/MensRights19/06/25 03:25 AM
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It really is case by case. Some people know what they want when they are young. I knew I wanted kids when I was a teenager, and when I finally got them many years later (after multiple failed relationships), and was with the right partner, kids were (and still are) just as delightful as I'd hoped. If you want to be a traditional wife, present yourself as such appearance- and demeanor- and decorum-wise and aggressively vet men for it - and go to the circles where you'll find them, don't wait to b…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/25 08:09 PM
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Since you can't afford a good wig, try a hat. Or draw a blue arrow on your forehead and tell people you're cosplaying. Or say you are so amazing in the sack you blew all your hair off. Have fun with it.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/25 07:53 PM
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From a legal perspective yes the rights are pretty much the same in a western country Full stop. So you grant we have the same legal rights. So what, then, are you speaking of? but I am referring to how much a woman gives and gives up when raising a family, and the man tends to thrive more. "Tends to"... got it. You realize you're just talking about feelings, right? Not facts. Feelings. Now I get that there are plenty of unhealthy relationships out there. And plenty of crappy men. But virtually …
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/25 07:49 PM
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No, it does not.
/r/MensRights18/06/25 07:17 PM
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But right-leaning subs don't autoban. They can't; it's against TOS. But it's permitted or ignored on left-leaning subs because it suits Reddit's owners/mods. It's also why nonviolent subs like TheDonald or MGTOW get banned.
/r/MensRights18/06/25 07:17 PM
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All pigs are equal, but some are more equal than others. Reddit has always been left-leaning, and leftists love them some speech controls. The days when they were pro-free-speech died after the 1960s when they started really coming into power.
/r/MensRights18/06/25 07:15 PM
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Feminists deny your experiences because everything they believe is based upon their feelings, not facts (hello, Wage Gap!) Your feelings don't matter because they don't feel right/true to them, and don't validate their worldview.
/r/MensRights18/06/25 07:14 PM
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EEOC complaint. Sex discrimination complaint too. File charges. LET THEM fire you. Dare them, even. Just record everything first.
/r/MensRights18/06/25 07:12 PM
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"If some ugly 50 year old creep touched your butt, you'd hit him with mace, yes?" "Sure?" "Is it because he's ugly/creepy, or because you didn't consent?" "Both!" "Well, I don't consent here - and you ain't that pretty, either. So fuck off."
/r/MensRights18/06/25 07:07 PM
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Feminists usually don't, or won't, define The Patriarchy (tm) because then it can be debunked and rhetorically destroyed. But even when they do define it, invariably it can be destroyed by pointing out that it almost invariably suffers from the Apex Fallacy. Society/Nations/Tribe has always been ruled by mostly men... but a tiny % of men, and that tiny group is in power over not just all women but virtually all other men, too. Most men have zero power. But men without power are invisible to wome…
/r/MensRights18/06/25 07:03 PM
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I’ve been seeing A LOT of content that speaks about marriage only benefitting men, marriage being a humiliation ritual for women and a tiny part of me agrees?!? Oh really? And you believe this unequivocably? All right, let's test this hypothesis. I assume you are in a Western country? Tell me this: What LEGAL rights do men have, that women do not, in your country? Not customs, not mores, LEGAL rights. How does marriage benefit him at your expense? If you live in a Muslim country, I could see thi…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/25 06:56 PM
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They can. But drug use should be a red flag already. And she doesn't sound great sober. There is no official list of men's commandments, but I swear "Don't Stick Your Dick In Crazy" is like #1 or #2.
/r/MensRights13/06/25 06:56 AM
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One challenge is that there are RPW but there aren’t as many YOUNG RPW. Well of course. Just as men come to TRP after being divorce-raped or otherwise being mistreated by women, most women come to RPW only after blowing through their 20s with nothing to show for it despite Feminism's promises and only at 30ish (the Wall) do they stop and ask, "Well I tried that, it didn't work, now what?" What's shocking to me is how many women never come to that pause and reflect moment. They just doubledown on…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/25 03:05 AM
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Because the strategy for women will always be at odds with the strategy for men. Of course it will. Unless you live under the leftist insanity of 'gender is a social construct' instead of the RP reality that we're born male or female, you already know this instinctively. You are a woman or a man, and you want different things because of that, full stop. So your strategies will be different from man to woman - this should be obvious. Is there overlap? Of course. But we are different - and vive la…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/25 03:02 AM
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he’s not entirely wrong - at least not in the way he describes his opposition to the idea of red pill women. But I think maybe he misunderstands the purpose of red pill theory in context of female sexual strategy. “Red pill” means uncovering the truth. Men can use that knowledge for their benefit, why wouldn’t women be able to benefit from the truth as well? Article's a bit of crap. I am SO sick of RP being misued or misconstrued as being about behavior. It isn't, full stop. TRP is about embraci…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/25 02:59 AM
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And this is why you don't do drugs or date those who do. JFC.
/r/MensRights13/06/25 02:52 AM
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Like, I can see a teenager consenting at a bris. But on a newborn? Fuck right off with that.
/r/MensRights11/06/25 06:42 AM
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The eventually was for the reveal of how many boys were killed. The numbers kept going up, but weren't published or spoken of much at the time. They came out EVENTUALLY... and nobody cared.
/r/MensRights11/06/25 06:41 AM
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Eventually. At the time, it was still more but not THAT much more. And still no one in the media/power cared.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 11:46 PM
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I have never understood the policy of giving a rapist the child from the rape. Which is what that is. She should be declared unfit to be a mother (rapist/sex offender) child seized, offered to the dad, or put up for adoption, and her parental rights terminated. Especially given sex offender recidivism rates.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 08:26 PM
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From what I've seen, the daughters of feminists tend to HATE their mothers and feminism both. That tells me most of what I need to know about it.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 08:01 PM
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Routine infant circumcision, aka Male Genital Mutilation. Some doctors have suggested, with some anecdotal evidence only - because studies won't touch it - that circumcised infants show a decrease in the empathic centers of the brain, and that this alteration persists. Which, given that the snip is often done without anesthesia, soon after a LeMans birth, is quite comprehensible.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 07:31 PM
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Find a notable figure in MRA circles, look for their willingness to debate a feminist. Watch them. Then look for notable feminists. Look at their willingness to debate anybody they perceive on the right. These are not the same. MRAs (and conservatives, some overlap) are willing to debate ideas and bring facts and figures to the conversation. Feminists, by and large, are not. And Feminists tend to use emotive language, subjective facts, rather than objective facts, to argue, which means they aren…
/r/MensRights10/06/25 07:07 PM
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Why is this double standard so acceptable? Why is feminism allowed to separate itself from its radicals while men’s movements are defined by theirs? Because Feminism is all about removing all power from men and all responsibility from women, and flipping those. So men are responsible for everything (i.e. Patriarchy) and women are responsible for nothing (i.e. Objectification), while men have no power (biased family law, divorce, child custody, incarceration rates) and women have all the power (n…
/r/MensRights10/06/25 06:59 PM
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Except the literature doesn't prove that out. But feminists have been lying to themselves and others for 55 years, so...
/r/MensRights10/06/25 06:56 PM
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I think we've derailed this thread enough, but I will say in ending that you're not wrong. Nontrad presenting people get it rough. Hell, anybody who breaks norms will draw ire from the majority who obey them. I get that. And it sucks. But that's always going to be the price of being different. Human beings are hard-wired to mistrust the strange, the different, the Other. Oikophobia, I think it is? Usually it isn't anything more than mistrust of the other, plus ignorance. I mean, look at gay as a…
/r/MensRights10/06/25 06:53 PM
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When discussing modern men’s issues, relationship and marriage statistics, or broader societal trends, some people are so blissfully unaware—or perhaps so uncomfortable—that they reflexively deflect the topic onto you personally, even when you’ve made it clear you’re referring to research and societal patterns. This deflection—often unconscious, I’d imagine—extends well beyond just these subjects. What I have most encountered is that liberals - and it's not restricted to them, but it's by far mo…
/r/MensRights10/06/25 06:36 PM
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Yeah, I've seen that study too. It doesn't paint a good picture. And you're right, odds are not great today. As for the harems, yeah that's somewhat happening now too. A great guy to watch on Youtube about everything we're talking about is a horribly-named channel called hoe_math. The best-reasoned videos all about modern male-female dynamics I've encountered yet on YT. Note, however, that polygamous societies inevitably collapse due to a much higher incidence of internal violence, due to the to…
/r/MensRights10/06/25 06:32 PM
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By everything I mean financial stuff, leading, and protecting. So you mean traditional MALE gender roles. Got it. And men are still expected to do their roles because of the patriarchy and toxic masculinity again, you'd have to fight to make a change just how women fought for feminism They aren't expected this because of patriarchy. Or toxic masculinity, which I DARE you to define by starting with what healthy masculinity is, and how it differs from healthy femininity. Also, note that you sound …
/r/MensRights10/06/25 06:21 PM
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I agree with most of your conclusions, even if I think your percentages are off. I think the majority of men can put in the work and make it. But I also accept and admit that there's a sizeable percentage of men - 10%? 25%? who aren't going to make the cut. Because life isn't fair. So they can either step up even harder (i.e. figure out how to succeed despite additional handicaps) or fail to reproduce. There are plenty of men at the bottom who never make it in relationships/reproduction. That pe…
/r/MensRights10/06/25 06:09 PM
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XD sir, the expectation that men should provide and do everything in the relationship is a conservative/traditional viewpoint, not a progressive one, You've got to be kidding me. You have to be an AI, bot, troll, something, to think that's the definition of traditional relationship. The man never did everything. He provided the money to support the family; he did NOT do most of the homemaking. Women had a multitude of gender role expectations on them to uphold their place in the marriage; it was…
/r/MensRights10/06/25 06:02 PM
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"Don't forget us ladies too" Yes princess. Because everything everywhere must be about women at all times. My favorite example of this was the Boko Haram kidnappings. Remember that? The internet does. 300(?) African schoolgirls kidnapped by terrorists. What do they omit? The anywhere from 900-1500 African schoolBOYS murdered, burned, chopped up, or otherwise killed by those terrorists at the same time. We have heard you. God, have we heard you. Only women's lives matter. But I'm reminded of a tu…
/r/MensRights10/06/25 05:53 PM
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Well, let me be the first to offer "perfectly average dudes" a ray of hope. You may be born average, or even below average, but you don't have to stay there. Being average is more than what you are, it's what you DO. And we all know what it takes to make a man - any man - higher value dating-wise. - Good job. Or better yet, start a business - which isn't hard if you're in the trades. - Good looks, which starts with dressing and hygiene. Muscles help, as does fitness. - Signs of status. The above…
/r/MensRights10/06/25 05:40 PM
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Hold on. Let me parse this. Let me restate your phrase without the negatives. "You get all of the negatives if you abide by traditional gender roles and go for traditional women." Yep, sounds just as deranged as I thought it was. You're saying relationships are better with non-traditional, modern women than with traditional wives and traditional gender roles? Yeah no. The substantial decline in marriages, marriage quality, and women's overall happiness coincides with all of the wonderful things …
/r/MensRights10/06/25 05:32 PM
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Assuming they're actual on the spectrum and not claiming it for clout or their YT channel, yes. Spectrum posers are a real thing and obnoxious AF. Like, "No ma'am, you're not an 'aspie' or quirky, you're just an inconsiderate asshat."
/r/MensRights10/06/25 05:20 PM
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Agree wholeheartedly on most relationships being not great. In large part because they start off from lust/love/hormones. Yes, I believe in arranged marriages. But in the West, and especially today, you have to aggressively vet your partner and their family/friends, ruthlessly cull for red flags, and even then you're playing roulette. But if you vet well... you can keep it from being RUSSIAN roulette.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 05:14 PM
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From my prospective there really isn’t a point in a man being in a relationship with a woman unless he wants kids but even then it seems single dads do better than single moms. That's the rub of it. But IF a man wants kids, he's better off with a supportive wife than solo. Otherwise, in the current culture, it's all negatives for men in relationships except for the very few at the top who pick out power wives to partner (and I do mean partner) with. Western women have lost the plot on what they …
/r/MensRights10/06/25 04:51 PM
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To be fair, misogyny is also baked into a certain religion that is common in both SE Asia and the Middle East.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 03:54 PM
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Yeah no. I mean, it's funny in a very general way, but... no. I refuse to apologize for ANYTHING I didn't do, even in jest. I watched women pull this TV down on their collective heads ('That'll teach em!') and while they haven't learned yet, I'm still hopeful. Two of my important life rules are: Never apologize when you did nothing wrong. Always apologize when you do. And note that most women don't follow EITHER of those rules; they apologize for nothings, and never apologize (i.e. take responsi…
/r/MensRights10/06/25 03:00 PM
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Australia is a horrible place for men for ANYTHING. I wouldn't visit if you paid me, just on the politics side. Add in that the envionment and wildlife are trying to kill you, and... yeah no.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 02:44 PM
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Love him. My starting point was reading an mrm essay called, "your feelings and why they don't matter." Christina Hoff Summers isn't bad. Or read the archived works of Judgybitch or GirlWritesWhat. To name three women who got it.
/r/MensRights08/06/25 04:22 PM
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Ridiculous.
/r/MensRights05/06/25 03:10 PM
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Something like 40% of men and 80% of women reproduce historically.
/r/MensRights01/06/25 05:23 AM
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It wasn't an illusion pre-sexual revolution.
/r/MensRights31/05/25 05:52 PM
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Ban infant circumcision? All for it. Open up male gender role? No. It is already open. You are free to do all that. And men and women are free to mock you if you do. You can't change human nature; you can only find people who deviate from it in ways you like.
/r/MensRights31/05/25 05:47 PM
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Google Valerie Solanas SCUM if you think this HAS to be trolling.
/r/MensRights31/05/25 04:34 AM
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Oh, I agree about us only seeing one side. But from what is presented, this really doesn't belong here, and I don't get the sense that she's blatantly one-siding it either.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 09:20 PM
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I care because this WHOLE POST isn't a men's right's issue. This should not be here. This is a woman validly complaining about her husband. This should be in r/relationships or something. It's NOT A MEN'S RIGHTS ISSUE.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 05:10 PM
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Are you serious? Not all human beings are worthy of respect. He is entitled to an acknowledgement of his human rights; but respect is EARNED, and he hasn't done the work to earn it.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 02:05 PM
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Nobody knows exactly what they're getting into when they get married. She made a lot of mistakes. Staying was one of them; thinking she could change him was another. But that said, it does sound like she tried.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 02:45 AM
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They're married for 17 years, but their only kid is a toddler. She could have bailed for over a decade without cost. Hell, he's quite likely to get alimony, in some states more than she is given today's standards.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 02:44 AM
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You're a monster if you bring up weight, but she's “just being honest” if she critiques your hairline, habits, ambition, or physique. Yeah, how DARE you criticize something she CAN change, or complain she's tearing you down over something you CAN'T (height, pocket rocket size)
/r/MensRights30/05/25 02:40 AM
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Other studies suggest that, when violence isn't reciprocal, women batter men at 2x the rate that men batter women. Men just do more (physical) damage* because hello, male upper body strength. *If there was a way to measure emotional damage inflicted, guarantee women would be off the charts compared to men.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 02:36 AM
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Dude's wife is an idiot, OP, but not for the reasons you suggest. She's RIGHT: his boss IS taking advantage of him and not paying him what he's worth. And I can only guess that he's a very agreeable, non-confrontational man. This is something she MUST know about her man after 17+ years; it's not going to change now. Her stupidity is in staying with him for 17 years, expecting him to change. The lady's husband is also a COMPLETE idiot. Forget his not having ANY ambition or idea of his own self-wo…
/r/MensRights30/05/25 02:07 AM
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Ah, little European Texas. It's a nice place to live, for sure.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 07:44 PM
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Yes, because incarcerating babies who have committed no crime (incapable of it) makes perfect sense. But then, Feminists are also the ones who LIKE men getting circumcised at birth, who LIKE the prison/crime gender disparity, and who LIKE abortion. Hateful shrews, with virtually no exceptions.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 07:35 PM
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Plenty of men like - some even prefer - skinny, plain, and tomboyish women. Ones who didn't grow up beautiful, with the expected attached entitlement. Majority of men would be fine with pursuing you under normal circumstances. But circumstances aren't normal. There are two things you must do: 1 - You have to pursue, too. Put yourself out there. Show men you're open to being approached - bluntly and obviously, because subtle doesn't work on most men. Say hello, smile, be open and welcome. 2 - You…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/25 07:27 PM
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Not off the top of my head, but it's not the kind of document that hackers plant viruses in. I never had a problem finding a copy. It's worth purchasing, however.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/25 02:10 AM
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They're similar. Fascinating Womanhood is free, too. Plenty of places to download it.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/25 07:31 PM
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FUCK no. As the "men understanding women" joke goes, "Women understand other women and they HATE them."
/r/MensRights15/05/25 08:10 PM
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Kids are something you will *NEVER* be ready for. They blow your socks off the moment they arrive. Then their unceasing demands infuriate you even as you rush to meet them because a baby is never wrong. Then... they smile at you. They learn to hold a bottle from you. Whatever weird quirk you have they mimic back. And they have you. A little you who isn't you is in the world, and wants nothing but care and love. That is what being a parent is all about. And it is villified and pooh-poohed by the …
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/25 07:28 PM
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We are both unsure if we want kids. There is no perfect time to have kids, except for "The sooner the better." Age makes it... more trying to raise kids. I know because when my first was born four years ago, I was 47 (wife was 29, yes big age gap). Kids are absolute joy. I was also adopted. I know, unlike 80-90% of other kids, that my parents absolutely wanted me. Do it. Finally, on the job front, my suggestion to you is maybe do engineering consulting work instead of a 9-5. That lets you be a S…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/25 04:10 PM
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He just pisses me off A LOT. We're both strong personalities and butt heads a lot. When you disagree, is it over truth or opinion? That is to say, when you disagree, is one of you RIGHT and one WRONG? Or is it about taste/preference, like where to eat or color to paint a room or how to load a dishwasher? Ah, you commented below: I just feel like he thinks his opinion will always triumph mine. To be fair, you kinda sound like you feel the same way. That route doesn't lead to harmony. He thinks th…
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/25 03:39 PM
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That is fair. It sounds like you two are communicating decently. That is a very good sign. But... maybe you both need to remember that "the better is the eneny of the good". That is a phrase used, amongst other places, in military procurement. Don't let the striving for better bodies and lives and such get in the way of celebrating the good ones you have now. There is a whole lifetime to see improvement ... and to share in striving together. (Yes I am optimistic for you two) That said, I would s…
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/25 03:18 AM
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It... might not be that. Look, men today who are RP are aware of all the BS and the looksmaxing and the babytrapping and the unfair court systems. They do NOT see much in it for them regarding marriage. "So what do you offer this guy, that he wants, and that other women do not?" If you can answer that question, you can quote this whole interplay to him and it'll shut him down and turn him receptive. But if you CANNOT answer this question, then... he's probably in the right to hold you at arm's l…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/25 09:24 PM
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Much of the RP-inspired advice in the manosphere is geared toward the primary male goal of getting laid, unlike RP-inspired advice for women, which is geared toward the primary female goal of getting a relationship. This difference CANNOT be overstated. You may want to ask your BF something like this: "I love that you are seeking self-help and self-improvement after your messy divorce. That's great, I get it, so am I. All I ask is that as you do so, consider that some self-help advice is geared …
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/25 02:44 PM
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Alternatively just judge people not on whether or not they are male or female but on their character. Good advice, but OP also made clear that almost immediately these women turned out to be feminist, man-hating women, not just women. And at her age, and esp. around colleges, she's going to run into a LOT of feminist women. The point is it's kinda not a bad idea to assume that women she runs into are feminist by default and to act cautiously until proven otherwise.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/25 02:28 PM
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Enough comfy seating around kitchen/living spaces, and a clean and welcoming bathroom. Not really a RPW question.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/25 07:53 AM
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I have never fully told the story to anybody, and never will. Suffice it to say that it involved a schizophrenic woman (undiagnosed), a firearm, her boyfriend, and a brilliant but emotionally immature 19 year old man who had no idea of what evils people were capable of. And he was healed by a lovely, lush Wiccan gal though the power of care, acceptance, and copious sex.
/r/MensRights04/05/25 07:50 AM
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Gorilla, full stop. Gorillas are pretty peaceful, actually. You don't mess with them, they don't mess with you. Whereas the woman may very well pick a fight with a stranger, they're unpredictable AF.
/r/MensRights04/05/25 07:45 AM
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"Am I a therapist, let alone your therapist? No? Then knock it off. I am prepared to comfort you, but I'm not your emotional tampon." Is the only proper response. You can use more tact if warranted, but... yeah, nah fam. Forget that BS.
/r/MensRights04/05/25 07:44 AM
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No, complete honesty is the BEST* way to go. *But with TACT, since just because you're being honest doesn't mean you have to be an insensitive blundering arsehole about it. You can phrase truths in ways that are not intentionally hurtful.
/r/MensRights01/05/25 05:26 PM
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It is very common for men to be charged with rape when both sexual partners were drunk. Your logic - which I agree with, mind you - is almost never applied, because somehow women are different. It's wrong, but it's also very common to see.
/r/MensRights30/04/25 03:36 PM
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Most men want a supportive partner. The want a soft place to land when they come home - and yes, they want a home, not just a house with you in it. They want calm and quiet. And they don't want to be treated like an ATM or like a woman. I mean, maybe you DO know your actual SMV/RMV. You appear to have done the readings; maybe you do have a clue. If so, you're 1 in 100. Talk to 20-something women anywhere in the Western world these days (especially in blue cities), and most have no clue what men …
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/25 03:34 PM
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it's not like I'm delusional about my smv You don't have to be delusional. Plenty of women today simply don't have the tools/wisdom to accurately calculate their SMV. They are working off bad (BP) data and ideologies to calculate their SMV, so they literally aren't equipped to do it. Think about it. Most women conflate sexual desirability with relationship desirability, and they think their looks are the sole property they need. When a 5 minute conversation with a mature man would disabuse them …
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/25 09:02 PM
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The name's kinda awful but he's spot-on in RP truths.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/25 08:26 PM
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A lot depends upon your dating pool. Are you in London? Get a hijab and learn Arabic. In eastern Europe? Probably not doing too bad if you act conservative. Paris? RUN. Non-US cultures are very different. Advice varies wildly from country to country. Watch some videos by Hoe_Math if you want to understand why 99% of women in the Western world have zero grasp on their actual SMV/RMV value.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/25 07:08 PM
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I’m also confused. While i agree that many couples would thrive in the captain/first mate dynamic; I also strongly believe that this should all stay out of the workplace. You're confused because you still think that RP is a dating strategy. It isn't. RP is about seeing the world for what it IS, not what you want it to be. It is about acting without delusion. This often inspires various dating strategies, but those strategies are RP-informed, not RP in and of themselves. Example: being dominant, …
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/25 07:04 PM
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How to navigate being among feminst women Easy: DON'T. Ignore them. I get truly nervous in groups of women. As you should. Nobody will turn on you faster, and sabotage you worse, than a Feminist who thinks you're challenging her worldview by being exceptional while not being feminist. How dare you. So here arose the conflict: How to act among these feminist women spewing trash? Don't engage. Stay silent. If pressed, simply act with class: "I don't gossip about men," and drop it. Don't let them n…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/25 06:50 PM
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I am not at all attracted to anyone unless they're naturally dominant / masculine/ confident. Okay, and? You act like a shocked feminist discovering her biological needs trump her sociologically constructed pseudo-reality. Like literally no interest if I feel like he's simping, texting too often, can't flirt due to lack of confidence, etc. Duh. Nobody wants these men. Women become the Sahara desert, and other men shrug and turn away from them. I turn heads everywhere I go but I am only attractin…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/25 06:44 PM
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Crazy how involuntary infant circumcision is still allowed to happen in the developed world FTFY. I don't begrudge the idiots adult men who consciously, voluntarily choose it.
/r/MensRights28/04/25 05:22 AM
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Anybody who blames capitalism, doesn't know what capitalism IS.
/r/MensRights28/04/25 04:21 AM
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Ironic part is, autobanbots are against tos. But that is only enforced against right leaning subs.
/r/MensRights27/04/25 10:56 PM
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If you want to fix this, the first step is to a) apologize and b) get him to understand. You haven't shared all the details, but it might go something like this: "Honey, I need to apologize. You tell me that I disrespected you, and I wholeheartedly apologize for that. I never, ever intended to do that to you. I hold you in great esteem." "I also want to avoid ever disrespecting you again. My family didn't teach me how to respect a man; just the opposite. I was never told things that are crucial …
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/25 04:10 AM
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IM sick of the lie That body count means nothing Just recognize it for the cope that it is and move on, and be glad that one more woman is exposing her 304 ways.
/r/MensRights22/04/25 02:08 PM
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I mean I doubt she’s stupid enough to walk into a Ferrari dealership with $5000 and say I want a new Ferrari. She absolutely is this stupid. Because women today think (extending your metaphor) that just because they can RENT a Ferrari, they can afford to BUY a Ferrari. But the 5k you need to rent one (SMV) isn't the same as the 500k you need to buy one (RMV). Women get the two confused all the time.
/r/MensRights22/04/25 02:07 PM
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I think the more important issue is that whether misogyny is actually rising or just feels like it is, the reaction to that perception is very real. Tell me you're a woman (or just very feminine/liberal) without telling me. FEELS LIKE IT? Don't give us FEELS, feels don't matter. FACTS matter. Which is a core difference between men and women, btw. So even if misogyny isn’t technically rising, resentment is. And that’s what people should really be paying attention to. So even if the entire premise…
/r/MensRights21/04/25 03:15 PM
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Misogyny is rising. That much is obvious. No it bloody well isn't obvious. People do not hate women for being women more now than they used to. They may hate woman-adjacent things like: - Women's entitlement to everything - Women's unearned privileges (no draft, body integrity) - The 'Women are Wonderful' effect and so on. But actual hatred of women themselves? As demonstrated through actions (not words, talk is cheap)? Nah, I'm gonna need a citation for that one. You're right that boys are acti…
/r/MensRights21/04/25 03:12 PM
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Because it's any excuse to bash men. And I do mean any.
/r/MensRights20/04/25 11:49 PM
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How is this confusing? When you understand that Feminism is a movement to a) give women all power, BUT also (and more importantly) to b) absolve them of all responsibility, then you understand why they won't violate b and simply ARM THEMSELVES.
/r/MensRights20/04/25 11:49 PM
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I know I have my duty towards my wife and my mother, I will definitely perform my duties but I am trying to be emotionally detached from both of these persons, As a second-gen Indian, I can appreciate the concept of family duty as you intend it. But as an American, I temper that concept with a reciprocal question: "What have they done in return for you doing your duty?" Because doing your duty is a labor, a task, and it also requires that they do THEIR duty to you as son and husband. If they do …
/r/MensRights15/04/25 06:03 PM
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It should not be changed/forced. What should be forced is a wholesale HALT to feminist obstruction, defunding, and undermining of the construction of male DV shelters, as currently happens across the Western world. Building shelters to house abused men doesn't hurt feminism except in their narrative (which they are MOST sensitive to).
/r/MensRights14/04/25 08:54 PM
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Most women cannot STAND bi men. A straight guy who does men? ICK! A gay man who might show interest in her? UNSAFE! ICK! Bi men are the worst of both worlds to most women.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 08:50 PM
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Women take gay men for granted, and stick them in the "safe" category. Imagine how bi men must feel. (I don't have to imagine btw) Bi men get it worst, honestly. We're "faggot" when women want to insult us, "Fence sitters" by the LG community, and even pedos (WTF?) by the general population. But yes, being gay sucks (non-ironically). Even my bi-wife sometimes takes for granted/is inconsiderate of her "gay best friend", which I have to sometimes point out to her. Though we all cut her autistic/AD…
/r/MensRights14/04/25 08:33 PM
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When what men can wear is infringed upon and restricted by government policy, such that policy or laws impact our Right to Free Expression, THEN this will be an issue about men's rights. Ya know, kinda like in some countries women can be killed for wearing immodest clothing. But what men can wear in the west? It's in no way a "rights" issue. Maybe go post this in ShowerThoughts or MildlyInfuriating or something.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 04:05 PM
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resisting arrest is not a capital offence It absolutely can AND should be. Anybody who knows the police system (and Floyd as a veteran criminal sure did - it's why he like an idiot swallowed his drug stash rather than have it be found) knows that once the police decide to arrest you, they will continue to apply escalating physical force until you are in cuffs and no longer resisting. It may go slowly over a few minutes from hands to tazer to baton to pistol, or it may go fast when you charge a c…
/r/MensRights09/04/25 02:08 PM
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I'm pretty much forced to hang out with the people who accept me which tends to be the left I'mma call BS on this one. Most conservatives DGAF what your sexuality is as long as you don't hit on them or flame. If you act like just another dude, they will treat you as such. Liberals/leftists will tend to be more accepting, yes. But they'll also tokenize you heavily. And women of all stripe will often fall into treating you like the "Gay Best Friend". Which I assume you don't want. Just go to the g…
/r/MensRights09/04/25 03:06 AM
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In Afghanistan is started with American and British soldiers being ordered to kill all the military aged males they encounter. Reputable citation needed.
/r/MensRights09/04/25 02:58 AM
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1) Feminism is informed by Marxism. (Seriously, look at the Postmodernists and the original suffragettes) 2) Marxism is a zero sum game. To give time, space, or energy to anyone else's movement, yours has to LOSE. 3) Feminists will not sacrifice, admit, or give up anything because it's not just Marxist, but a supremacy movement cloaked in the illusion of equality (go test this). Knowing the above, it's obvious why most of Reddit (a mostly leftist cesspit) would hate us. We are taking away from w…
/r/MensRights08/04/25 01:34 PM
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Why is it so hard for people to acknowledge that there are bad actors in both camps? NO ONE says that there are no bad male actors. But get the leftists/feminists to admit that women can hurt/harm/abuse/rape men. Go ahead, I'll wait. There are men who travel for sex also known as sex tourism and so do women. Yeah, but using prostitutes is mostly a male pursuit, for gendered reasons. Just as OnlyFans is mostly women exploiting themselves, again for gendered reasons. I’ve also acknowledged that so…
/r/MensRights04/04/25 04:52 AM
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Most men DGAF about women's money. Money is only attractive when men have it. Men and women's goals that they seek in high value partners are radically different, especially in the west.
/r/MensRights03/04/25 11:58 PM
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That undersells it. Western women, especially feminists, are (intentionally) the polar opposite of feminine, submissive, loving women; they have learned to ape the behaviors of men instead. So they sleep around, are loud, aggressive, assertive (in the wrong ways), and don't bring anything to the table that men actually want in a partner. I post on the RPW forums too, and I always ask the women there one question: "What do you offer men, that they want, and that other women don't?" They can never…
/r/MensRights03/04/25 11:57 PM
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Western women are beautiful and have a lot of money. Poison arrow frogs are beautiful too, but I'm not going to kiss one. And most men DGAF about a woman's money because they'll never see any of it; whether she works or not, he'll be expected to work. Plus they're entitled, narcissistic, boiling with mental illnesses at historically unprecedented rates, and are grossly unfeminine. Most Western women have nothing to offer other than their looks, a sour attitude, and a high body count. No thank yo…
/r/MensRights03/04/25 11:52 PM
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No, she EXPLAINED why it's easier for female teachers to manipulate boys into sex than the other way around. She didn't defend it - did you even read her last sentence?
/r/MensRights01/04/25 08:46 PM
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Nope. I don't want a man in a foxhole with me who doesn't want to be there and doesn't believe in the cost and reward involved. In other words, Service Guarantees Citizenship.
/r/MensRights01/04/25 08:15 PM
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Simple solution, going back to historical precedent. If you want the vote, you have to sign up for the draft. Apply it to both men and women. EDIT: Let's not forget that the US has pioneered the all-volunteer army. A volunteer army is 10x or more effective vs. conscripts. The draft is for when you are losing and on your heels.
/r/MensRights01/04/25 02:05 PM
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Height only matters when dating women. It doesn't factor in anywhere else except basketball. At 5'9" you're fine. Your height is mostly an in-your-head issue because you're still going to be taller than 90% of women who aren't in heels. Any woman who cares about those three inches isn't worth your time. If it bothers you that much, wear shoes with lifts - you can get stealthy ones in tennis shoes these days.
/r/MensRights01/04/25 02:02 PM
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Wasn't necessarily a false report This is literally what happened. Cameras completely contradicted her story. You can't confuse "He propositioned me" with "He flashed his junk at me and asked me if it measured up." That's not an oopsie. That's outright lying. Grow a brain stem and learn from your downvoting into oblivion, apologist.
/r/MensRights30/03/25 09:10 PM
4

I have a boyfriend of 1 year and a half (both 26) and he says he loves my body but I’ve made comments about getting a boob job before and he doesn’t voice his opinion on it, he’s just like “ok” lol. Well duh. There's no safe answer to this statement. If he says yes, get the boob job, the insecure reply is "Why, because my flat chest isn't enough for you?" If he says no, it's "Why are you so controlling?" or "Do you like me better as a prepubescent girl?" It's like asking a man if your jeans make…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/25 04:39 AM
1

Yes. Erections can be forced. Consent can be withheld. Men can be forced. Do NOT ask me how I know.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 10:28 PM
2

Apologist? lol. First off, just because women are less capable of physical violence doesn't mean that, statistically, they aren't MORE physically abusive. Read the literature. you still dare to defend these abusers saying it’s reciprocal Second, I'd not defending ANYONE, you hysterical toffer. I'm putting things into context. For example, many, MANY women seek out abusive relationships because they themselves ARE abusive. Read up on Erin Pizzey's disturbing revelations about her opening multiple…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/25 10:25 PM
9

Finally a use for a body positivity spokeswoman.
/r/MensRights14/03/25 10:32 PM
6

It does really bother me that women are allowed to have problems with men and air their grievances, anywhere that tries to allow men the same consideration get shutdown as bigoted. Thank you for that. Most men don't even get that acknowledgement. I get that when men get riled up they can act with physical violence towards women, but it’s not like women aren’t violent too, they just do it differently, No, they actually don't. 1/3 of domestic violence in the US is reciprocal; but of the rest that …
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 08:07 PM
1

Respectfully, women USED to choose the winners before the battle began. They stood by their men. Nowadays they stand at the finish line, choosing the winners.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 07:31 PM
4

Historically, it was only the upper class women that required marriage for sex. Untrue. All women until the 20th century more or less required commitment before sex because it always came with the price of a baby, and a baby to an unwed mother was a guarantee for scandal and poverty. The women people from the lower classes were far from protected. FTFY. They just had different things they needed protection from. Getting sex from them was easy because no one valued peasants back then, especially …
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 04:07 PM
3

Classes? Peasant Girls? Um... what part of the world are you from? Or what year?
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 01:44 PM
6

Respectfully, the top 10% players are focused on 304s, because they can be. That's who you see. The rest of the men - the 'good men' - are simply not dating, as they are invisible to most women and fear being crucified as creeps for even approaching a woman politely.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 01:43 PM
2

Most of the current delusion is women thinking they're 10s when they're 5s. Society has so overinflated women's idea of their worth, it's unreal. The OKCupid study, where women rated 80% of men as below average, is a stark reminder of this current trend. (The men rated women on the expected bell curve).
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 01:33 PM
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Used to be, men had to get married to get access to sex. Societal contract broke there. Used to be, women had to be feminine to get access to marriage. Societal contract broke there. You want to understand how things broke, go watch some videos by Hoe_math (Yes I dislike the name even as it is devastatingly accurate) on Youtube.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 01:31 PM
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Now there are a lot of men there just to air their grievances with women. To be fair, where else CAN they do this? Male-only spaces are all abolished, male role models are all silenced as Toxic Masculinity, and the Girl Power, You Go Girl message is all we ever hear. If you aren't a man you can't even fathom how much routine abuse, neglect, and disdain most men experience every day. EDIT: I mean, you realize MGTOW was banned, right, and TRP for men has been quarantined for years? MGTOW.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 01:25 PM
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Broken men? No. But hurting, misled, lied to, and taken advantage of all their lives, and thus angry and lashing out about it? Very much so. Difference is, they may recover and heal and still have healthy relationships and kids. Most 304s never will before they hit the Wall. This isn't my opinion, either: the rising trend of single, childless, miserable women has been going upwards ever since the 1960s and nothing has slowed it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 01:21 PM
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You can't compare the two groups. Here's why: Most RPW come to RP because they have had few or unfulfilling relationships, want to take ownership of the problem, and then seek to improve themselves in pleasing and supportive ways to land a better class of man or to salvage a relationship with one. Most RP men come to RP because they have been spurned/rejected/hurt by women and are angry that BP society's teachings have misled them. They seek to learn techniques to get past BP untruths and women'…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 01:17 PM
11

Go back in time and watch how many THOUSANDS of women in power applauded and laughed at the act of Lorena Bobbitt.
/r/MensRights12/03/25 01:14 AM
4

Right. So your man has been taught that he cannot rely upon women to take care of him, even when it is expected. He has made himself an island, self-sufficient and capable despite his scars. And you come along and tell him, NO! Your mother was wrong, let me take care of you, let me do the things you were trained and forced to do for yourself. You aren't capable, I will do this for you. Trust me, I'm a woman! I just want to care for you! There's probably a lot of unresolved issued in his psyche. …
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/25 08:19 PM
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Did she TEACH him to be independent and self-sufficient, or FORCE him to be? Because if his early life lesson was that he had to take care of himself, that he did not deserve pampering and care, I can see two responses: 1) I can see him viewing your care and love as suspect, even predatory 2) I can see him taking pride that he DID become self-sufficient, and so pampering him is disempowering and smothering. Dude didn't have a normal childhood or emotional upbringing, sounds like. His triggers ar…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/25 07:27 PM
1

Nope. Wrong. Feminism, going all the way back to 1st wave, was always a Female Empowerment (Supremacy) movement. It has never been about equality except in sound bytes (propaganda). If it was about equality, Feminists would welcome the accountability and responsibility that comes with authority. But in fact and practice, Feminism has always shed women of accountability and responsibility while clawing for ever more authority (power). ANd feminism only sees hierarchies on the basis of power, neve…
/r/MensRights11/03/25 07:23 PM
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I would put a lot of effort into buying him video games, getting things for him while he is sick, cooking etc, He doesn't want to be provided for. To him, it's a statement that he can't do that for himself. He needs to be valued, so ask him to help you to do things. Show your need/want/desire for him, not your love. He knows you love him, I suspect. Women often don't get this point. Men desire respect over love; women are the opposite. Show him you need and respect him; that tells him you love h…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/25 07:19 PM
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Does your man have an overbearing mother? Or is an only child? Raised by a single mother? He sounds like someone who was smothered or pampered even when he didn't want to be... so you doing too much for him makes him feel invalidated. If you want to build him up, don't do things for him, NEED THINGS from him. "Honey, can you open this jar for me? I can't!" Or "can you lift this box, it's too heavy!" Need him to do things, then thank him. Appreciate him. He knows you love him. He wants to see tha…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/25 07:16 PM
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"How do you write women so well?" "First I start with a man. Then I take away reason and accountability." - Jack Nicholson, Something's Gotta Give (movie)
/r/MensRights11/03/25 05:13 PM
4

The difference between the past and "the future is female" is unconscious/subtle preferences for women vs. blatant sexism in favor of women.
/r/MensRights11/03/25 04:58 PM
12

Men commit suicide to end their suffering.
/r/MensRights09/03/25 04:25 PM
10

Just make sure mom can't get her claws into it.
/r/MensRights08/03/25 06:13 AM
1

Do they really have no any real arguments, so they have to resort to outright deception? Yes. Remember what DOGE has been exposing; it's all lies and a propaganda machine, has been for decades, all committed to the grift that is modern leftism's current incarnation. Or put another way, it's just the latest incarnation of communism slowly killing its host wherever it's tried (since communism, while a beautiful idea, ALWAYS fails and is a power/wealth grab that kills people and destroys nations).
/r/MensRights06/03/25 04:16 PM
2

How does society even accept all that shit? Easily and with a smile and a request for seconds. Just look at any American blue city or state. Point to cities like Chicago, where they've had uniparty rule for decades, and they DARVO. It's all appearance, grift, and power. Parasites on the body politic, and the host's health is failing.
/r/MensRights06/03/25 04:13 PM
2

Really? You're surprised this passed in the same country where speaking the demonstrable truth about RAPE GANGS can get you in prison (Tommy Robinson)? Or where hundreds of people are arrested per year for MEMES? England is done. I thought they had a chance when BREXIT passed, but they're only doubling down, with no DOGE and no meaningful Constitution to fall back on.
/r/MensRights06/03/25 04:09 PM
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We really are watching in real time and slow motion the saying, "Civilizations aren't killed, they commit suicide."
/r/MensRights06/03/25 04:06 PM
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They don't repel it, they just refuse to operate with them in the equation. It's all emotion and appearance.
/r/MensRights06/03/25 03:59 PM
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Just google youtube videos of women trying to date as men on dating apps because "It's so easy for me, you must be doing it wrong". The subsequent apologies are hilarious. Or try this video of a woman who is bisexual, and what she went through when she dated women. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y4E8qEDi_xg
/r/MensRights06/03/25 03:56 PM
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Speaking up is important. But knowing just how many people will think less of you, or will villify you, for your experience, is also critical. Because usually, in today's shite culture, it ISN'T worth it to disclose your abuse as a man. Don't ask me how I know.
/r/MensRights04/03/25 06:25 AM
2

Evangelicals are a subset of conservatives. They haven't been the majority since the "moral majority" of the 1980s. Hell, a lot of the Christian churches are liberal these days. But I'm not going to argue with someone who thinks The Patriarchy is a thing.
/r/MensRights04/03/25 01:51 AM
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Because modern liberals are bigots who hate people for their immutable characteristics, unlike conservatives who generally hate on people for their harmful actions.
/r/MensRights03/03/25 11:47 PM
5

This soft and squishy language is ridiculous and doesn't help anybody's cause. "Decenter"? No. Try "Take them off their pedestals". Being a woman is not superior to being a man - or worse. It's different, full stop. EDIT: Start with forcefully asserting that there are only two genders. Also try teaching men to be men, BY men. Step up for other men - don't let single mothers and a feminized, mostly-female education system do it for you, or you'll continue to lose. Support male activities that are…
/r/MensRights18/02/25 09:53 PM
1

Pedophilia isn't intrusive thoughts but it is similar if your base nature is to find the attraction/thoughts abhorrent. There are plenty of gay men, for example, who due to religion, upbringing, or other issues find their attraction to men something they do not wish to pursue. Thus, such urges/thoughts are intrusive upon the identity they've chosen to have. if someone has thoughts about pedophilia and doesn't do what these thoughts tell them and realize it's wrong, they should get therapy And ma…
/r/MensRights18/02/25 05:46 PM
1

Sounds like you best bet is to skim the men at your gym.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/25 07:50 AM
1

Like, I don't care what you dream/imagine/fantasize about. If you hurt kids but dream of ponies, you die. If you help kids but dream of molesting them, that is sad but fine.
/r/MensRights16/02/25 07:46 AM
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Example #4: L's said pedophiles are not bad people unless they act on their desires. I agree, and I'll die on this hill. Thoughts don't matter; actions do. If thoughts mattered, every person with intrusive thoughts would be executed.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 08:15 PM
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If women can vote, why can't they be drafted in some societies? Because despite liberal insanity, the biological reality is that there are only two genders, and only one of them (plus a handful of lucky males) has to carry the next generation of children forward. It isn't more complicated than this.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 05:26 AM
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Am I the only person who saw her name was TRANYELLE Harshman and thought, "yeah, that's the name of a psycho who would do this."
/r/MensRights13/02/25 01:58 AM
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The pithy answer is that even women can't stand other modern women. The actual answer? Women since 1970 have abandoned what works in relationships, opting to act with the worst of men's traits. There's a reason that the average lesbian is described as "Butch" (i.e. masculine). Ironically, the more feminine lesbians (i.e. lipstick lesbians) are widely derided by the community. Which is hilarious.
/r/MensRights10/02/25 06:59 AM
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Most of those who call themselves "MGTOW" are more accurately referred to as "MWGUODAISTLBAWOTI" (Men Who've Given Up On Dating And Instead Spend Their Lives Bitching About Women On The Internet) Yeah no. Way to slur a whole bunch of men who've been raised by a feminist society and who are frustrated that the way they've been trained/raised to treat women doesn't work, like at ALL, to get one. I was born with Asperger's No joke. I could have a heart attack and DIE from not surprise. from the out…
/r/MensRights10/02/25 03:36 AM
6

You want a great encapsulation of the difference between men and women? Just google the video, "It's not about the nail".
/r/MensRights10/02/25 03:31 AM
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This is one of the many reasons why I am glad I'm gay. The most hilarious statistics to come out in recent years are the divorce rates of various types of couples. Who divorce most? Lesbians. Followed by heteros, followed by gay men. It's women (by and large) causing their own problems all the way down. It's why women's happiness has been trending relentlessly downwards since the 1970s. I just laugh.
/r/MensRights10/02/25 03:30 AM
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How your partner dresses reflects upon you, and upon how they see/view/value you. If they dress trashy, they see you/themselves/your relationship as trash and should be dropped like any other red flag.
/r/MensRights28/01/25 06:25 AM
3

And op's gaming group would likely call them "enlightened self-interested". Snort.
/r/MensRights22/01/25 08:03 AM
4

Many men are not wired to relate/caretake for young children. They simply don't instantly connect and focus on young children, and feel very burdened by their needs. So... instead of focusing on what you cannot change, focus on what you can. Bring your quandary to your husband, and present it as a list of everything that must be done to keep your family afloat. Then look at who is doing what share of everything. If he's fair, he'll see the imbalance. That's kind of abstract, though, so I'll tell…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/25 09:17 PM
1

Women are smarter, IF you view smart as "average or better IQ". A very normal position to have, if you start with women as a baseline to measure from. With men's greater IQ variance, you get a LOT more men who are dumb than women because of men's flatter IQ distribution curve. But what feminists always ignore is that this also means there are many times more male geniuses.
/r/MensRights12/01/25 04:34 AM
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Women and men tend to test roughly the same IQ (variance is 1-3 points) at the center of the bell curve, if you adjust for race. The main way men and women differ is in the spread of the curve. Women's bell curve is very high; most women are average IQ. Whereas men's curve is much flatter, so there are a LOT more men who are imbeciles and geniuses than women. THis is why, incidentally, that most criminals are men (low IQ), and most geniuses are men (high IQ). Because at the extremes, men outnumb…
/r/MensRights12/01/25 04:33 AM
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This guy's an imbecile. It's not mysogyny that women prefer tall men because that's more masculine and short men are 'feminine'. Way to miss the logic. There's two issues here. 1) Yes, height correllates to masculine-feminine. Granted. Men are taller than women; a man who is shorter than most women isn't seen as very masculine. That being said, women don't want feminine men. Not because femininity is devalued, but because it is desired in WOMEN, not MEN. YES femininity is undesirable - in men, j…
/r/MensRights12/01/25 04:29 AM
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Wholeheartedly agree. I'm fine with Feminism's move to free women from the *obligation* to have kids. But to tell them that they're better off without them, or that they can have them later? The biggest lie told in the 20th century.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/25 08:38 PM
1

1) Send a bouquet of flowers to his workplace with a short, loving note. Men DO like flowers, sparingly. 2) Put a cute love letter into his lunch, which you prepared for him. I love my wife's notes in my lunchbox.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/25 06:08 PM
6

As for not liking kids, I still don't. I don't want to hold other people's babies. I don't want to talk to their toddlers. Their kids are gross and annoying. Mine are wonderful and totally worth giving up my career to care for 24/7. One of the biggest mistakes we make as a society is to tell women they have to adore children to be maternal with their own. Not true. I have no idea what to do with other people's babies, toddlers, or kids, but I love being a mom. It's my reason for being on this ea…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/25 06:02 PM
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My wife did not really want children. She was afraid of them having health issues like she did... or of her abusing them like she was abused. But she loved me, and wanted to try. And after several hard miscarriages, we have our daughter. She's over the moon. Loves her, can't imagine life without a child. Great parent, great mom. Four years later our daughter is healthy and thriving, and her only real health issue is her eczema (she gets that from me). Some health issues are genetic. But postpart…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/25 05:58 PM
2

Judging him on being uneducated instead of how successfully is in spite of that education is what makes you wrong. Judging based solely on education is where many modern women make a huge mistake, granted. Especially with the devaluation of expensive, worthless degrees, education doesn't mean jack. BUT. They aren't just uneducated. They're ALSO unemployed. You ignored that factor. This is the classic Stripper's Boyfriend, a parasite who only takes, has nothing to give. This kind of boyfriend nee…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/25 04:49 PM
6

Yes, you're right in that it isn't your job to choose for your friends - especially in matters of taste. But that doesn't mean it is your duty to support their brain-dead choices, either. If your friend is making an obvious, counterproductive, destructive mistake, your job as a friend is to bring it to their attention. If you support your friends' bad choices, you suck as a friend.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/25 04:45 PM
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Men are infrastructure, props, and disposable. Nobody cares. If there were male children, some would care. But a single woman? Trumps all of them in aggregate. Because of course it does. A woman is an object, incapable of protecting herself and thus worthy of sympathy. Whereas the men must have done something to land themselves there, since only men have agency. THAT is their mindset. The whole "subject-object dichotomy" that feminists love to bloviate on? THey are the PERPETRATORS of its existe…
/r/MensRights10/01/25 03:43 PM
4

Quite simply, if a man can rape a woman by nonconsensually inserting his penis into her, then a woman can rape a man by nonconsensually inserting his penis into her too. To deny it as rape is to willfully skew the statistics in favor of women. And furthermore, to call it sexual assault is demeaning to men's experiences; because sexual assault covers everything from catcalls to a slap on the ass to an unwanted kiss to groping on a train. It belittles what men who have actually been raped have bee…
/r/MensRights28/12/24 06:16 AM
6

Please do.
/r/MensRights27/12/24 08:52 PM
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"I love your tits and ass, I just can't stand the immature emotional brain attached to them," is the proper response.
/r/MensRights27/12/24 08:11 PM
13

More abortions, most likely. Women abhor personal responsibility. If their cucked partners won't accept it, the state must. Else they just kill it. I am not black pill, but I have seen how degenerate modern women are. I worry.
/r/MensRights26/12/24 06:18 AM
2

"Live by the sword, die by the sword." Karma, beeatch.
/r/MensRights26/12/24 05:42 AM
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It'll last for a quarter at best. When the perfidy of women is exposed, it'll get hidden again. Nobody wants to see how awful women treat men. BANK on it.
/r/MensRights25/12/24 06:11 AM
1

No. Periods of time where the top echelons of men bed most of the women, while a large minority of men are single/ignored, have historically been very, very violent times. Polygamous societies (in practice or in law) tend to be crazy violent/warlike. In other words, it has been historically demonstrated that Men in service to a healthy relationship/marriage are productive, defensive members of society; men with no such bonds tend to act out aggressively. And we're seeing this play out in the red…
/r/MensRights23/12/24 04:16 PM
2

Tldr. Holy Paragraph breaks, batman.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/24 01:08 AM
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In current hypergamous society, the 10% of Chads can service all women, don't you know. All we need are some useless wars to kill off all the low value males (i.e. non chads, i.e. the other 90%)
/r/MensRights22/12/24 01:07 AM
1

So... typical feminist bot?
/r/MensRights22/12/24 12:51 AM
1

No, but Koran verses would fit right in. Just Google Aisha...
/r/MensRights22/12/24 12:51 AM
4

I have had three female bosses, and two were toxic. All three were competent... and all three were neurotic AF. I will take my current male, chill, boss any day.
/r/MensRights22/12/24 12:49 AM
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Good observations. There are fairly straightforward reasons for what you're seeing, but if you want the short explanation, Feminism. POLYAMORY Poly is on the rise because women have become wholly untethered to their actual RMV due to social media. When every woman is taught that they can have a HVM for sex, and *do not know the difference between who men will fuck and who they will marry*, you get women who all sleep around regardless of their value. Then when they want to settle down post-wall,…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/24 12:54 AM
1

Feminity is inherently considered inferior to masculinity though. By whom? Liberals? Because HV conservative males treasure it. it is liberalism/feminism that has devalued - even degraded - the value of femininity. I believe the reason feminism came into existence in the first place is because feminity was not respected. Nope. It came under the guise of giving women the vote. It stayed to give women more and more power with less and less responsibility. Because such behavior would naturally dest…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/24 07:06 AM
1

Their point was that Feminism encourages women to act like men; they see masculine power/authority as unearned or unequal to what women have, without seeing the cost/responsibility that comes with it. And what's worse, Feminism actively seeks to shed women of all responsibility, seeking ONLY power and authority, so it's not about equality at all; it's a pure empowerment/supremacist movement. Which does nobody any favors. Men don't want to date men in women's bodies, they want to date feminine wo…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/24 06:10 PM
1

Stop living a lie. Be yourself, and let those who are only pretend-openminded to fall away like the liars they are. Don't let pretend, shallow so-called friends keep you from improving your life.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/24 06:07 PM
1

Women who claim that they can have it all, my standing challenge is to "Show me what that would look like." Seriously, try it: write down what your life would look like if you DID have it all. Show me what a day, a week, in that life looked like. Then tell me what that life would look like 20 years later. Then another 20 years later, when you're in your 70s. How will your days be filled? What will your legacy be? What will be your deity's opinion of you be when you pass this world? How will you …
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/24 06:06 PM
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Women couldn't vote, couldn't own property in some places, couldn't have a credit card, When you say stuff like this, everybody knows to ignore you. By the time actual credit cards existed (arguably 1958-1973), there were zero gendered restrictions on banking. Try again.
/r/MensRights24/11/24 02:41 AM
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If anything ever goes wrong in your life, just stand up and exclaim, "BUT I AM A WHITE MALE!!!" Disclaimer: may not work if you are not a white male Second Disclaimer: Doesn't work if you are a white male, either.
/r/MensRights24/11/24 02:38 AM
1

wasn't the prussian model suppose to help poor people get an education? Yeah, and socialism is supposed to help everybody. Yet instead it kills millions and only benefits the fat cats at the top. Funny, that. marxisits and communists wanted it like that? why where there goals overlaping att that time? At the time, Marxists wanted good, obedient workers to overthrow the capitalist system. Industrialists wanted good, obedient workers to function as cogs in the dynamically growing American Industri…
/r/MensRights21/11/24 03:24 AM
5

US education system is designed to make docile factory workers. It's based on the Prussian model. From jail-like buildings, bells, sitting at desks all day, obedience to authority, everything regimented... it's designed to knock the creativity and rebellion/curiosity right out of you. Not really a conspiracy theory. US education system since early 1900s has been designed to do this to us, by two groups: industry, and marxists/communists, whose goals (at that time) overlapped
/r/MensRights20/11/24 08:53 PM
3

While there are rare medical issues that could develop the risks and drawbacks are not worth the benefit. AND occasionally KILLS the infants, don't forget. Rare but not zero.
/r/MensRights20/11/24 04:50 PM
5

Yeah, I like to do this with some democrats I meet, only about race. "Which party was Confederate and pro-slavery? Which ended it? Which opposed civil rights? Which founded the KKK?" Blank stares every time. Things in the US are as screwed up as they are primarily because people are so freaking badly educated (intentionally, criminally so).
/r/MensRights20/11/24 04:49 PM
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They exist. My first wife was a closet feminist until we married, then became virulently so. That was... I would not recommend. Current wife is completely rational and fair, and a champion of men's rights (anti-circ, agrees with mandatory paternity testing, etc.) They exist. Just rare.
/r/MensRights20/11/24 04:46 PM
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Completely false. Women got the vote without a shot being fired. It was mostly other women who were against it - until they learned that the concordant responsibilities that men shouldered in order to vote, would not also be passed onto them. Then men gave the women what they asked for with little quarrel.
/r/MensRights19/11/24 01:52 AM
6

Don't feel sorry for them. Today's women wanted more power and less dependence on men. Well, now they have gotten it, good and hard.
/r/MensRights18/11/24 05:27 PM
4

I tried going to AA meetings but I there was this older woman who kept following me at the end and rubbing my back. If I did that to a woman participant, I'd be kicked out. I never went back to AA. Please go back, my brother. Just accept that for such women, the proper response is to bark, "DON'T TOUCH ME!" and let her die of shame. The more public (and therefore undeniable) your outburst, the better. You aren't there to be pawed, you're there to recover.
/r/MensRights18/11/24 05:26 PM
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Feminism makes perfect sense, when you realize that it was never about equality (that was a cover) but about female empowerment. "But how is female empowerment not about equality?" Simple. Female empowerment is about giving women power. Nowhere in there are limits, responsibilities, or duties. Just power, more and more power to do what women want, all without apparent cost (that comes later). By the time Feminists hit the wall and realize their lives are empty, they have long since been cast asi…
/r/MensRights18/11/24 05:17 PM
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You cannot catch sharks in a pond. If the only men you meet aren't of the quality/type you ultimately desire, then maybe you need to look elsewhere. For example, if you live in a blue/liberal city you're going to have a harder time finding quality men. If you're using dating apps, same. It honestly sounds either like it's a dating pool quality problem, or you have issues vetting men, or possibly you have a poorly calibrated SMV/RMV yardstick like most modern women do. Hard to tell which it is wi…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/24 04:48 PM
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Homeschool groups, SAHM groups, Homesteading groups, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/24 01:43 AM
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Yeah, I'm always getting the guy's name wrong. Meant Nick Freitas.
/r/MensRights07/11/24 02:36 PM
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Wrong. RP is a sexual selection strategy based on biological reality, not blue pill delusion. There are two types of RP men who date. Those who are short term (trying to get laid) and those who are long term (similar to RPW - want a lasting relationship). Many RP Men who just want to get laid are quite willing to nail an overweight woman. But the ones who want a relationship - yes, many will filter for overweight women because that says something about the woman's character, willpower, genetics,…
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/24 02:12 PM
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One word: modesty. Weird colored/cut hair, piercings, garish makeup, tattoos, revealing clothing - in short, what you see on any resident of Austin or Portland - makes people have assumptions. Shaved armpits. Well-cared for hair. Minimal jewelry. Oh, and demeanor. More than anything, carry yourself with class and poise. EDIT: Biggiest liberal tell I know of is a septum piercing.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/24 02:06 PM
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Ya think? glances at all the leftist subs with AUTOBANS that are allowed despite violating TOS -
/r/MensRights07/11/24 02:45 AM
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Vance/Gabbard '28. Or Cruz, or DeSantis, or Fuentes...
/r/MensRights07/11/24 02:44 AM
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Yes. And it's awful and should be illegal.
/r/MensRights01/11/24 04:39 AM
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Thought. Experiment.
/r/MensRights31/10/24 03:44 AM
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I envy your friend's certainty and confidence, even as I doubt it.
/r/MensRights30/10/24 01:27 PM
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There is no true way to give a mother the inherent insecurity of not knowing if the child is hers the way that all fathers experience. But this is a strong step in that direction.
/r/MensRights29/10/24 10:35 PM
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Yeah, but that's not the point. The point was, if this was how hospitals worked, with a real chance that a mother's child would not be returned to her, she'd want it tested before she left the hospital, would she not?
/r/MensRights29/10/24 06:39 PM
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Estimates from blood bank workers and paternity testing services tend to run about 30% "not the father" when averaged out. It's quite high.
/r/MensRights29/10/24 02:43 AM
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If your comment starts with "sometimes" you haven't met enough of them.
/r/MensRights24/10/24 03:46 PM
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It's fine if your man also has a high sex drive. It'll be a big issue if he does not.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/24 04:06 PM
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They’re simple like that I suppose. But it causes a lot of conflict and sometimes straight up kills the relationships. The men spending their free time this way isn't killing the relationships. Modern toxic women having no boundaries and thinking that they're entitled to micromanage their men's lives kills the relationships.
/r/MensRights22/10/24 03:39 PM
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only 1 girlfriend doesn't like him. But I don't care ! Her love life has been a mess upside down ! You have to vet your friends too. You don't (generally) trust the love advice of a woman who has a mess of a love life unless she has a cogent, concrete reason to red flag the dude. But likely she doesn't, she just has a bad picker.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/24 10:06 PM
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You have to ASK. Get your friends and family to help vet any partner because you see with love goggles. They do not. Then adjust their input for their own biases. Love goggles make relationships pleasant but often, short.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/24 07:52 PM
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I agree, but for a different reason. VET VET VET is pure RPW mantra and needs to be adhered to, or ignored at OP's folly.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/24 07:51 PM
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what could I do or say to reassure him ? Any advice here from women who have this kind of age difference with their partner ? My wife is 17 years younger than I am. I am currently 50, she is 33, and we have a second child on the way. We've been together 9 years, but known each other all her life (family friends). So I can empathise. Your age gap is a hard thing for many people (not me) to grasp. At times it is literally a generation gap. You don't get each others' memes and values, songs and idi…
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/24 07:50 PM
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I feel like a helpless freak at times. You sound either bipolar or dark triad. That said, you have one HUGE thing going for you that gives me hope: you have a problem, you know it, you admit it, and you want to change it. Most women in your shoes don't do any of those things, which is why such conditions are so hard to treat. Honestly, go see a psychiatrist. Get evaluated. Then, in all likelihood, get medicated. Because feeling like a "helpless freak" at times is more than just simple childhood …
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/24 11:37 PM
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How do I reciprocate with dating? I have grown so accustomed to not paying on dates Schedule a date where you say up front that the date is YOUR treat. He can pick up the following one. Lots of men are weary and wary of women who expect them to always pay because a lot of women use men as literal free meal tickets. He may just want to see that you are invested beyond his wallet.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 09:08 PM
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I'm a big believer in the idea that people tend to tell on themselves. So let's look at your post, shall we? Perhaps I've gotten too used to being alone I guarantee you have. somehow I'm exuding "strong independent woman who don't need no man." It's not that you exude this. Feminists who give off bossbabe vibes are actively repelling men. But there's a lesser version of the competent woman who simply doesn't ask for, or reach out to, other men. Maybe think "self-sufficient" vibes. You might tell…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 09:05 PM
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A blog I used to read (defunct now) was one by "Dr. Sanity", which talks about shame vs guilt (back in 2005!!!) I found it insightful and useful then, and it really explains a lot of otherwise confusing behaviors in the world and underpins a LOT. Also has a lot of citations and is quite scholarly but not dense or hard reading. https://drsanity.blogspot.com/2005/08/shame-arab-psyche-and-islam.html
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/24 08:36 PM
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The need to appear to be right, rather than to actually BE right, is quite prevalent in shame cultures. The need to BE right is quite prevalent in guilt cultures/meritocracies. I don't overly blame/bash people for coming from a shame culture/mindset, as long as they are willing to grow and overcome its rejection of reality. Many aren't willing to grow. A great example of this without getting political is to look at the concept of Machismo in latino culture. It's a toxic bravado, a facade of masc…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/24 06:14 PM
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If it's something inconsequential, I don't often argue with anybody. But if it's something semi-important, with someone I care about, but they're touchy? I ask them a question. "Do you want to win, or do you want to be correct?" And make them answer. If they want to win, concede the point and let them 'win'. If they want to be correct, then they're open to taking your information/advice. This also forces them to confront their own behavior - and to admit if they're seeking to win over being corr…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/24 04:44 PM
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You can't even long-term cohabitate without potential financial consequences.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/24 04:21 PM
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Apparently now women aren’t taken seriously enough in healthcare and men get better medical treatment according to femcels. What even!? Correlation isn't causation. I would suspect, knowing no other facts, that two factors contribute to this: 1) Men generally only go when they HAVE to. Women go a LOT more than men do. So they get seen as quite likely less important. 2) Assertiveness. Known biological difference between men and women. Assertiveness means you demand better care and attention; wome…
/r/MensRights19/09/24 12:36 AM
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Okay. Basics 101. Sit down with a pad and pen. Answer the following questions: 1) What do I realistically want from life? 2) What's the purpose of my life? What do I want to leave behind? 3) What skills or acts will further my goals in 1 and 2? Or you can go the Jordan B Peterson route. Sit on your bed. Close your eyes. And ask the Universe, in all sincerity, to tell you how you can improve your life. It'll be small, it'll be attainable, but a little voice will tell you how to improve your life …
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/24 01:49 AM
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What do red pill guys call a girl who keeps a bunch of guys on social media as a back up Pump and dump material. I see women doing this constantly pictures of themselves half naked, selfies saying “ oh don’t I look cute” and they are either married or in relationships doing it for the attention of other people which I don’t understand why they do it Sure you understand it. You said why they did it - for the attention. They do it for validation. Women are hard wired to seek external validation, a…
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/24 05:07 AM
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In an ideal world, yes. And I'm not a die-hard pro-death-penalty person. If I ruled for a day, I'd simply permanently expel all repeat offenders from the country, with automatic death penalty only if they return. Remove those who will not follow the law from the country (I don't care where to) and you fix the crime problem, as most crimes are by repeat offenders.
/r/MensRights31/08/24 06:03 PM
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NO punitive penalty can be fully reversed. YOu can't undo false imprisonment, or the damage being incarcerated does. Money doesn't fix it, it's a consolation prize. I think it's barbaric that a man who rapes prepubescent children is allowed to live a single day after his DNA is found inside a child, but here we are. "Barbaric" is relative.
/r/MensRights31/08/24 05:49 PM
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That he death penalty costs more than life in prison is an efficiency issue, because of all of the appeals involved. Have a more effective and transparent prosecution system, with better standards of evidence and procedures, which would obviate many of the appeals, and suddenly the death penalty is a lot more affordable. EDIT: https://www.themarshallproject.org/2014/12/17/six-reasons-the-death-penalty-is-becoming-more-expensive Explains it. When you see WHY it is more expensive, it's not hard to…
/r/MensRights31/08/24 05:40 PM
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That's just an efficiency issue. It doesn't have to.
/r/MensRights31/08/24 05:27 PM
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So Ted Bundy should not have been executed? Instead to live to old age in a cage, at ruinous taxpayer expense?
/r/MensRights31/08/24 03:53 PM
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Well yeah, of course. Because men are judged based on competence, and if you fail at suicide, you failed even at that task.
/r/MensRights31/08/24 03:46 PM
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"Women attempt more" because most women attempt it to gain attention. "Men die more" because men commit suicide to end their suffering. We are not the same.
/r/MensRights31/08/24 03:44 PM
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AWFULs are a thing. And gay men who are tired of being women's emotional support tampons are well aware of it, even if those women are not.
/r/MensRights31/08/24 03:38 PM
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SUBMISSION IS EARNED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SUBMISSION IS EARNED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SUBMISSION IS EARNED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SUBMISSION IS EARNED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *pant pant* This isn't rocket science. FFS.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/24 04:25 AM
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Wow, okay, this one is going to be a doozy. I can tell. I’m 26. The Wall is in less than 4 years. I’m Muslim The wall doesn't apply as much when you have arranged marriages. Attraction (SMV) doesn't matter as much, much more importance on compatibility and relationship skills (RMV). They also question my commitment to my faith, as I have been Muslim for less than four months. Even less than four months, actually, since I have stopped being Muslim a couple of times since praying was too hard for …
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/24 04:24 AM
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my fault too but please be gentle LOL no. You KNOW this is your fault? Then you take responsibility. And you take your lickings from the commenters. Because you came here for them, don't lie to yourself. You WANT your paddling. Here it goes. People pleasing background here Learn to be disagreeable. Learn to have a spine. Or you'll be the pump-and-dump of every virile jackass until you're over the wall and cast aside. literally never want to do anything but appease a man and make him feel like a …
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/24 12:49 AM
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Eventually. Also had a kid, and stopped doing porn with men. Interesting case, as she had options given she had a net worth of 12mil.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/24 02:32 AM
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Or the Whatever podcast.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/24 04:22 AM
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You post in subs like nomonogamy and femdom, then wonder why your interactions with men aren't like everybody elses'. Maybe stop to consider that interacting with men transactionally BREAKS your ability to interact with them naturally. And men can sense this: a normal, average man doesn't want to be scanned like a pricetag. You have a wildly odd sexuality, yet wonder why you have difficulty meeting men. Go look up the interviews that Reily Reed(sp?) did recently about how hard she finds dating. …
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/24 01:31 PM
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(It’s basically what The Red Pill is based on.) No. It isn't, full stop. The Red Pill literally means seeing the world for what it actually is, not for delusion/illusion a la The Matrix. To be Red Pilled means to see women (or men) operating based upon actual biological and psychological motives rather than how we imagine or want them to be operating.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/24 12:56 AM
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An example would be of the talented Sabrina Carpenter — She's young, youthful, traditionally attractive, and healthy/fit — but the biological reality is that she's under 5 feet tall, and that's not a trait that is generally bred for. Da fuq? Men don't "breed for" traits. They tend to seek women shorter than themselves; and she fits that. Worrying about height as an exemplar of fitness is mostly a FEMALE tendancy. And really, no one is perfect. Though, for all intents and purposes, she's essentia…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/24 12:51 AM
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What is something that would horrify the Feminist way of thinking? Most Feminist talking points aren't rooted in biological (or demonstrable) truth, so almost everything RPW says is antithetical to them. What aspects of "traditional" do you think fit or don't fit into the modern world? I have always loved the phrase, "Tradition is peer pressure from dead people." I think that any tradition that is unquestioned, is idiotic and becomes dogmatic. Listen to tradition, sure; don't make the mistakes o…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/24 03:16 PM
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Modern entitled women often reply snarkily with "I bring this", gesturing to themselves. Well yeah, but there's always a younger and hotter woman out there. My question is meant to challenge women who don't think beyond the modern narcissistic attitude of just needing to show up with a hot body and DTF to get and keep a man. edit: And smart, put-together 23-year-old women CAN have a LOT to offer a man that most women don't, because more traditional feminine wife/GF traits aren't taught, or are e…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 06:58 PM
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What do you think a woman should 'bring to the table' and how important are those qualities to men? My most common question to women posting here is, "What do you offer, that men want, and that other women do not?" Simple question, hard to answer. You have to know a) what you DO offer, b) what you CAN offer, c) what MEN want, and d) what other women (but not you) are unwilling to offer in category C. Most modern women think men want what they, women, want. Common mistake and the biggest one in e…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 04:24 PM
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Fiancé lied about talking to another girl when I had proof BRIGHT RED flag. But let's see if it gets better. I’m a 30 year old woman engaged to my fiancé who is a 23 years old man. Ooof. Not a good sign. A 23M isn't very established, and a 30F should be much further along. This is an uncommon and concerning matchup. Maybe he's HV, sure. But I doubt it. I was stuck in an abusive relationship with a drug and alcohol addict. Ok, so you should be aware that your man-picker is broken. Are you? Needle…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 12:43 AM
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"Bless your heart." or more aggressively: "How would you know? You can't score dick if you paid men."
/r/MensRights09/08/24 02:37 PM
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Systemically? I always laugh hysterically at this, right before looking at my circumcision scars. SMH.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 12:04 AM
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Motives? Ask the lawyers or the ABA.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 04:18 PM
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Okay, responding as I read. I met a guy randomly and now I can't stop thinking about him You got the tingles over a complete stranger. Okay. That's nice. I see girls with bouncy racks that stir my loins all the time. So what? but I have a boyfriend , how should I act? How is this a question? You take your temporarily inflamed lust out on your BF. Go jump his bones. Imagine the strangers as you ride your BF. But when you big O, open your eyes and fixate your BF in the fantasy's place. Because tha…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/24 12:03 AM
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This is fantastic advice, very useful and concise. Hell, I'd recommend stickying this for a while.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/24 11:39 PM
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Why would it be fair for a person that makes $1m/yr to be forced to give half of the money they made to some person that is dumb as rocks and works as a barista for example And this is when reasoning by analogy fails. Because your example really doesn't happen outside of Fifty Shades novels. While two people are single, their efforts are legally and morally theirs. Each person works towards the betterment of their own life, and then often to their family life, then their community, etc. Yes? But…
/r/MensRights06/08/24 11:25 PM
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That's fine. He has every right to protect his assets. But you aren't looking at it from her side. She's not a stupid barista, she is the potential mother of his children and life partner. Is her time, her life, and her body/health somehow worth less than his? Is her potential contribution to a marriage as wife and mother less than his financial contribution?
/r/MensRights06/08/24 11:15 PM
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I agree. So it comes up to you: can you live with his trauma-informed behavior and lack of trust, can he/will he seek therapy/change, or do you look elsewhere?
/r/MensRights06/08/24 11:13 PM
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It’s probably to do with the fact he may of heard 80% of women initiate divorce and by disclosing what he makes and putting your name on property you’ll take it from him. Just a guess. This would be a lot more likely if he was trying to protect his pre-marriage property, like with a prenup. This guy is trying to protect his POST-marriage property. Marriages are shared-property legally because of shared contributions... only he doesn't want to share. That isn't kosher legally or ethically.
/r/MensRights06/08/24 06:32 PM
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am I the problem here, or is he being dishonest with me? He's either being dense or dishonest. For example: He doesn't want joint property and insists on a marriage agreement stating that any property bought after marriage belongs solely to the person who bought it and won't be shared. A prenup (because that's effectively what this is) exists to protect what each person had PRIOR to their marriage. Their UNION. Marriage changes ownership to common/shared because of that union. His ask is nonsens…
/r/MensRights06/08/24 06:26 PM
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What's hard for me is that I would've broken up with him if he told me back then. Yes. Thus, his reaction: And that he hid it. He hid it because you have very staunch standards. Not judging, just describing. It's really really pissing me off ahahah. What would you gals do? Forgive or leave. Up to you. Others have already pointed out that this guy has made other mistakes. It sounds like your standards and his behavior don't go together. But you know him better than we do.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/24 01:53 PM
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Exactly. You have an easier (and more respectful) path to say you're withholding sex until marriage from the start. Once sex is on the table, it only leaves with serious injury/medical condition or breakup.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/24 08:39 PM
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how to tell my boyfriend I don't want to have sex with him anymore? "I'm breaking up with you." Seriously. You don't go from having sex with a man, to not having sex with a man, and keep the relationship intact. That isn't a thing except in women's fever dreams. End it.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/24 07:49 PM
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AWFUL (Affluent White Feminist Urban Liberal) is an acronym for a reason.
/r/MensRights03/08/24 05:47 PM
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Wow, nice writeup. Saved me the effort. OP has screwed up, more than once, but it's salvageable, maybe. She's just... kinda clueless, and may very well simply not be experienced/mature/clued in enough to hold his interest. 22 is very young to hold a 36 year old's attention; the experience/maturity gap is pretty sizeable. Not that it can't be done. My 8-year strong marriage is a 17 year gap. But it'll take a LOT of catchup work on her part. OP really does need to put in the extra effort. This guy…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/24 10:00 PM
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Why the fuck should I care about what a cheater gets in return? Words do not warrant violence. ANY society that tolerates the equation of words to violence is one on the fast slope to complete collapse. And yes, I'm quite aware that many liberals equate the two.
/r/MensRights31/07/24 06:46 PM
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Not shocking at all. Lorenna Bobbitt was praised just as much or more, and her husband did significantly less to earn the same treatment.
/r/MensRights30/07/24 07:09 PM
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Agree to drop the watch, but NOT on the medical stuff. What she needs to do is to reframe it. As it is, she's nagging him to do stuff about HIS body. Men will dig in their heels on stuff like this even if it's good advice. ("Don't boss me around, woman!") Instead, reframe as, "Honey, we're a team. We work together, and our accomplishments even while alone reflect on the both of us. Me cooking means WE are fed; you working means WE have food to cook. It's all team effort. So when one of us is sic…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/24 07:05 PM
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Is it wrong for me to keep bringing up that gift since it is his and just let it go. I just felt I worked really hard for that. Absolutely it's wrong. You are fishing for validation from your "gift"... but you're not treating it as a gift. A gift doesn't have strings or obligations attached; yours does, namely that he use it and praise you for it. This is all your butthurt ego talking. So YES, you need to let it go. Some gifts miss the mark.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/24 07:01 PM
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You are really arguing against points I never made. Take a breath and touch grass, brother.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/24 05:40 AM
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Any bias I have is rooted in biology. I've talked to enough fertility specialists: women's fertility drops off faster than men's. This isn't news. Yes, men have fertility issues too, granted. But men are fertile for life, if at a declining rate. Women's fertility peaks from 18-25, and declines at an increasingly fast rate after that up to menopause. This isn't woman-hatred, it's facts that most fertility doctors can tell you. Not sure where you're getting bias from.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/24 03:58 AM
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Sperm count and quality does in fact decline with age, but not nearly so badly as a woman's number and quality of eggs. A man who lifts, has good general health, and who takes supplements, can easily father healthy children into his 50s or older. Women after 40? Good F'ing luck without IVF, and even then... (Edit: yes women can get pregnant naturally after 40. But the odds are stupidly low. It's called a Geriatric Pregnancy for a reason.) And this isn't an intellectual case for me, btw. I have a…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/24 01:18 AM
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No man of worth gives a damn about your work. It's irrelevant; he's the one who is expected to provide. HE DOES NOT CARE about your job... unless it would impact your relationship, by taking you away from spending time with him, or doing your part of the relationship. Like being a female doctor working 80+ hour weeks, or a long-haul truck driver. What you should be focusing on is my favorite question: "What do you bring to the relationship, that he wants, and that other women do not?" Other wome…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/24 10:57 PM
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There is one indisputable fact, women are much more likely to be violently killed by their husband or boyfriend. It does happen the other way around, but not near as often. So? All that means is that men are physically more capable of violence. Bigger, stronger, etc. Thank you, testosterone. You know what age is the most violent of all ages of human development? Toddlers. You laugh, but they are by far the most violent. They're just also the most physically INcapable of violence. Reported interp…
/r/MensRights27/07/24 10:53 PM
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And the black piller arrives.
/r/MensRights27/07/24 04:16 AM
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I could EASILY assert that women report less often when a man abuses them because they fear they will be abused worse or killed. But very little evidence supports that. Talk to case workers, or police officers - those who would KNOW who is underreporting - and they will confirm that men by far are the underreporters. Talk to psychologists and they'll even tell you why. You can make assertions, but some are actually backed by field reports. And some aren't. Going just on reported statistics, men …
/r/MensRights27/07/24 04:12 AM
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I’m hoping what is currently frugality doesn’t turn into just being cheap or stingy in the future. How does he treat wait staff? Waiters, bartenders, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/24 07:57 PM
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Your BF is weak and has no integrity. He lies, he denies, he's cowardly... and he admits this. But I didn't hear him say he's trying to become stronger, better. He isn't putting in the work. I wanted to break up but it was too much and he conviced me he would change, again. "Aww, come on baby, I can change, really!" said every abuser, ever. And thus, you lose trust in him. Time to find a better man. But also, as others mentioned your boy-picker sounds like it's broken, if you are seeking abusive…
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/24 07:51 PM
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That's fair. But when you look at areas that are very liberal, where the... "masculine code of silence" for lack of a better term shouldn't keep gay men from reporting, the numbers come up but not nearly as much at the margin of difference between men and women. Also, part of that silence is the embarrassment of being abused by a woman. I don't think a gay male would have nearly as hard a time of claiming abuse from another man. There's no imbalance of perceived physical power.
/r/MensRights26/07/24 07:45 PM
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And if you consider sex a need, then what is a need and what isnt is subjective. Would you say that chocolate, or music is a need? Many people use music as a coping mechanism and might get depressed if they dont have it. That doesnt make music a need per se, if anything the need here is getting rid of such depression. Correlation isn't causation. Heck, *I* use music to improve my mood regularly. I would be sad not to have it, and my life is better with it. My wife tells me to go listen to music …
/r/MensRights26/07/24 03:43 PM
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link fixed
/r/MensRights26/07/24 03:32 PM
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It's real. She just has mental health issues (she freely admitted it, I'm not casting aspersions).
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/24 03:29 PM
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he’s short. He’s roughly 5’4.5 (half inch taller than me). I truly don’t care about it Uh huh. Pull the other one, it's got bells on it. I know this post makes me come off as superficial Ya think? I can’t stop thinking about this and don’t want to bring a life here only for him to suffer due to something out of control So... a couple of logical questions for you. 1 - do you think height solely comes from the father? You would contribute height to kids, too, and you're closer to average height. 2…
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/24 03:26 PM
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I think you're being very disingenuous, playing with the definition of need. Initially you denied sex was a need because you would not die without it. Now you're saying it's not a need because nothing bad happens if you don't have it. The second is patently, demonstrably untrue. https://www.news-medical.net/news/20190902/Lack-of-sexual-activity-in-older-adults-linked-to-health-problems.aspx Takes seconds to find articles about it. Sex has plenty of positive effects on health. And if B is greater…
/r/MensRights26/07/24 03:11 PM
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Took seconds to google. https://www.webmd.com/sex/ss/slideshow-effects-stop-sex Edit: stupid website links
/r/MensRights26/07/24 03:01 PM
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Something doesn't have to kill you with its absence to be a need. Humans NEED interaction with other humans. Solitary confinement is considered abusive by many. But you (probably) won't die from it. Humans need food diversity too. The same meal every day and we lose appetite, sometimes to starvation, even though the need for nutrition remains. Food ennui is a thing. But is diverse food a need? By your definition, no. "You could just force yourself." Same with sex. Oh, and those monks you're so p…
/r/MensRights26/07/24 02:36 PM
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realistically, if people are so frightened by incels this is the best solution. The BEST solution to incels is to teach them RP knowledge. Currently an entire civilization (the West) is being indoctrinated into BP thinking, which does NOT work to get you laid, or happy, or fulfilled, or...
/r/MensRights26/07/24 02:28 PM
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Name checks out.
/r/MensRights26/07/24 02:24 PM
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Men yearn to love and be loved too, it's just not really something that is granted to most of us There's a reason the saying goes, "Men love women, women love children, children love dogs, dogs love men."
/r/MensRights26/07/24 02:22 PM
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If that were true then why do lesbian couples have the least sex? A woman should know exactly how to push the right buttons in her partner yet that's clearly not the case. Then the fact that gay male couples have the most sex is very telling as well. That demonstrates that men do have higher sex drives. They (Lesbians) also have the most interpersonal violence of any type of couple. Gay men have the least, straights in the middle. What does that say about women?
/r/MensRights26/07/24 02:21 PM
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No because they get bullied off the internet. Best example is what happened to judgybitch.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/24 12:47 AM
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Yeah, I get that fear. That's fair. I'm 50 with a toddler and I worry about how much time I will get with her, but I don't let that stop me. We could be taken at any time; all we can do is prepare them as best we can. They'll never be ready to lose us unless we've driven them away... and sometimes not even then.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/24 01:46 AM
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How seriously do you expect a 20 year old male to take anything?
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/24 01:18 AM
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Husband's age is MUCH less important than wife's age, due to women not producing new eggs. Something like 95% of your eggs are dead and gone by age 35. It's why woman's age, much more so than man's, determines things like Down's syndrome.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/24 11:56 PM
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Her BF is 20. In case you're unaware, that means he's almost assuredly a low-ranked enlisted (think E-2, Private First Class or equivalent) with very little leave and an unpredictable schedule. Don't make assumptions, and try to give at least a little benefit of the doubt.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/24 10:58 PM
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Okay, let's first dissect your history. We have been together through university. If you refer to my post history, you can understand the potential incompatibilities of our relationship, which are mostly my fault. We'll see. But to summarise, I have lacked commitment in my relationship. My boyfriend was very adamant he wanted a woman who wanted children and to stay at home to look after the children. I was 17 at the time and I had a completely different outlook on life. I was very passionate abo…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/24 04:58 PM
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Plenty of men still think with their little head.
/r/MensRights24/07/24 04:25 PM
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WTF happened? Democrat immigration policies, mostly. The controlled demolition of American culture.
/r/MensRights24/07/24 04:25 PM
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Married Red Pill isn't very active, and it's really incoherent and inconsistent with its messaging. I never found it terribly useful to visit. Honestly, I find RPW the most helpful and positive, but I'm a long-term thinker. Lots of guys on TRP are either wounded, or just looking for short-term gratification. Honestly, guys who want a quality LTR are better served here in RPW. TRP can start you with the basics, like "lift, bro". But TRP long ago was corrupted by the fact that most men just wanted…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/24 04:22 PM
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It’s very easy to get sucked into “men suck” content Or the opposite. There's a reason I mostly post here and not on TRP.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/24 02:20 PM
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"The good is the enemy of the better." When perfectionists comprehend this phrase, it breaks them but in a good way.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/24 01:52 AM
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When you are dating, and meeting/interviewing/chatting new prosective boyfriends for the first time, the fact that you are a woman saving your virginity for marriage and can claim with a straight face to be a virgin at 30 will do two things: 1) it will cause all men seeking sex to ghost, immediately 2) it will cause marriage-seeking men to cautiously consider you That that for what it is - a great vetting tool. Perhaps make it clear that you are not frigid - no withholding kisses, cuddles, etc. …
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/24 01:50 AM
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Anyone who brings up Kavanaugh is wholly laughable, full stop, disregard them. don't know when it happened don't know where it happened don't know what exactly happened trained in lying on a lie detector politically motivated all supposed/potential witnesses deny seeing anything resembling the crime Biggest political nothingburger I can recall in recent history.
/r/MensRights24/07/24 01:43 AM
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The stress over fertility and just simply the energy level of 24 vs 31 is night and day. THIS all the way to the bank. Every year gets progressively harder/more complicated to conceive. Don't squander your most fertile years.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 10:54 PM
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Every PARENT feels that, forget gender.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 10:54 PM
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There IS no good age to have kids. You will never quite feel financially secure enough. The right time is now. Do they make life harder? Yes. But they also make life eminently better and more fulfilled. And the longer you wait, the harder they are to have (and raise).
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 10:52 PM
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5) Men all Bad, Women all Good, is not only untrue, it's unhelpful. We look at each gender's positives AND negatives, without cherry-picking. Women aren't all-powerful, strong, caring, and flawless, and men are not all potential rapists, walking wallets, and worse than the bear. RPW is about using RP (aka TRUTH) to discern what women need to work on, and it looks at what they need to seek in men, when trying to build a positive and lasting relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 10:51 PM
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That doesn't matter. The hell it doesn't. Men that women don't want, don't matter. We're talking desirable men. If the men women want are not easily obtainable as husbands, then those men's control of relationships IS all that matters. Nobody cares about how easy it is to land a simp or beta. When women were forcibly economically dependent, they benefited. Now women can make their own money so why get stuck with another child (the beta husband)? Many women are making more than men now. Off topic…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 04:45 PM
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Removing no-fault divorce. Default 50/50 custody Male Genital Mutilation treated like FGM. Removal of "penetration" requirement for r*pe charges, or inclusion of "envelopment"
/r/MensRights23/07/24 04:22 PM
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Avoiding hormonal birth control THIS. Unless your periods are crippling, do not go on hormonal birth control. VERY bad for your mentally and physically. Go with a copper IUD.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 04:17 PM
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the fear of rejection gives me anxiety, even from men who don’t meet my standards. This screams "I'm insecure and need therapy." Why TF do you give a rats arse about low status men's opinion of you? I mean, I know that women, being highly social compared to men, caring about their relationships. You care about how you are viewed. And you care because your locus of self worth is located extrinsically, not intrinsically like most men's is - which incidentally is why social media is so much more to…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 04:15 PM
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Get a stir fry cookbook and a wok. Easiest way to make quick, cheap meals that are tasty. Rice plus frozen veggies plus some form of protein (tofu, meat, fish, don't care) = a quick tasty healthy meal every night. Plus, as others mentioned, get a rice maker. SO nice just setting it and forgetting it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 04:03 PM
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Women easily get marriages with "simps" or betas which are MOST men. But they don't want them. If you can't easily get what you want, you don't control access to it. Only 20% or less of men have commitment that women WANT TO WORK FOR and are therefore "gatekeeping." The men that women want - all women, at all levels - are not easy for them to land. Sure, it's selection bias, but it still means men gatekeep relationships. Even THEN many women are now passing on marriage since it offers women fewe…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 02:43 PM
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If women gatekept relationships today, there wouldn't be record numbers of women unable to secure the marriages that they desire in their 30s or record out-of-wedlock children. Women are GREAT at getting dates or getting laid, but suck at closing the deal with anybody other than simps because so few of them have anything to offer beyond sex. Which is also a big part why RPW exists - to teach women what they can/should/must offer beyond sex to secure relationships. Whodathunk it?
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 02:22 AM
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Unfortunately, when a group is 11% of the populace but half of the offenders, it's hard to see even those with short/no rap sheets as anything other than problems and to disproportionately punish. It isn't fair, but it's very comprehendable.
/r/MensRights22/07/24 10:04 PM
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Oh boy. Time to dissect the BS. I love him dearly, and really want to make this work. But he's really been dropping the ball recently. What obligation or promise, pray tell, has he broken? I vocalized and have cried to him about how much I'm drowning and how stressed out I am and he just hugs me and says "you can do this." Is it wrong to wish he would do more than that? Wrong? No. Stupid and self-sabotaging? You bet! he is also a little lazy and will lay after work and complain about having to r…
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/24 09:52 PM
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If oral is rough on you because he's large, I suggest using toys. A fleshlight-like toy wielded by you can be quite intimate.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/24 09:32 PM
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I am reminded of a funny comedy routine and will paraphrase it here. Wife: the doctor said he doesn't want me to have vaginal sex until I heal down there. Husband: Great, and I agree! Wife: You do? Why thank you honey! Husband: Absolutely, my dear. So what did your dentist and proctologist say?
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/24 09:31 PM
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Why is this sub not similar to actual Red Pill at all? Because men's needs and women's needs are very, very different. Or as u/metajenn said very well, "This is lived red pill from successful couples. Not incel theoretics." I don’t think I need to explain what Red Pill is. You may think so, but I disagree. MOST people don't fully get what red pill is. And that stems from people overthinking it. Red Pill (at least to me) is truth, pure and simple. It is a willingness to see the world, and human i…
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/24 03:56 PM
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A man who has a future plan laid out and is investing in his future, will not keep a woman who is a hindrance on that journey. But a man who has no future path, will keep others around him who also have no future because it's better than being alone.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/24 01:46 PM
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No, OP's problem is, after some digging, all the things that she left out of her post that I found in her recent history. Exhausted Single Mother Abusive Ex/babydaddy, who is still in contact Tried OF/Sugaring KINDA relevant.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/24 08:02 PM
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Correct. But it is definitively provable that being slim rather than fat improves your chances for a relationship. And while relationships usually mean happiness in the short term, they take a LOT of work and care to bring happiness in the long term.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/24 05:45 PM
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fat people are finding love and she isn't. I think it's more basic than that. She's assuming that marriage/kids = love or a healthy relationship. That's a big assumption based upon facts not in evidence. Hell, I challenge OP to define love. OP is the common denominator in all of her relationships. She's either dating out of her league or has some serious character flaws, that I'm not going to assume off one frustrated internet rant. Whatever the happy fat couples are doing that she's not is the …
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/24 05:05 PM
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Many feminists compartmentalize their thinking. They are often supportive of family members as long as they are in the "family" category, but when they do something that reminds the feminists of their gender, when they "become" male, that's when they get villified. It's just one more way many Feminists live deeply within cognitive dissonance.
/r/MensRights19/07/24 04:11 PM
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How can fat people find love and I can’t?? You're assuming they're finding love. They can find sex - there are plenty of chubby chasers. And they can find relationships - there are plenty of LVM and idiots who get babytrapped. Doesn't mean they're finding love. I was scrolling through Facebook and seen this woman in my town who is visibly obese, post her wedding photos. She is about 10 years older than me. I’m a 23F. What the hell is wrong with me? I’m 5’5”, long brown hair and I am a size 8 UK …
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/24 04:07 PM
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Would an attractive guy really want to keep in contact with a girl he met at a bar that’s not dating him? In the 2024 dating climate? Yes, if he's ready to grow up, get a career and a wife and a marriage - or is looking forward to that eventuality. Not many guys seek power and pussy to the exclusion of married life; a LOT of men still want marriage, it's just that most women SUCK at being wife material. That's why RPW exists. Because inherited female wisdom is no longer being passed down from pa…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/24 03:44 PM
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Not really. Most women these days think short term. Average woman thinks only of tingles and Chad Thundercock. Then her biological clock goes off at 30 (the Wall) and she is ready to settle down (but NEVER settle) and is bitter when no man wants to wife up her single mother tattooed ass. Whereas wise, long term women, look at men with potential. They don't commit early, this is key, but they don't stupidly close the door on long term investments either.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/24 02:20 AM
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Imma be contrary and say that he is a Wait And See. Stay in contact but just be pen pals. Be supportive but commit nothing. Be the "interested relative". Just watch, don't overshare. He either will muddle and go nowhere, and you can let the connection fade. Or he is actually getting going, and you can get in on the ground floor of a man with a future for the price of a few letters/emails. The other gals in this thread saying move on are not thinking potential long term or investment opportunity.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/24 02:03 AM
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Most sexual assault victims who are past the age of puberty experience sexual arousal while being raped. You're open minded and positive on this subject, and you STILL haven't gone far enough. Fun fact: a male doesn't need to be aroused to achieve erection, any more than a woman lubricating indicates arousal/interest. Erections can be forced through stimulation while the male is zero percent aroused - or even frightened/terrified/revolted. Not only is this known clinically, I can attest to it pe…
/r/MensRights18/07/24 05:21 PM
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Before you can get a good man, you need to work on your attitude towards yourself. No one wants a woman who has self-hatred; if YOU hate you, then why would THEY expect to love you? 1 - go Nun mode for a while. Work on yourself. Therapy would be helpful. 2 - hit the gym. Tone up, lose some weight, TRACK and SEE your improvement. Find something to be proud of. 3 - Change your wardrobe. A slight image change will help you accept that you are becoming a different person. Maybe try clothes that are …
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/24 01:39 PM
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https://psychcentral.com/blog/recovering-narcissist/2018/07/6-dark-traits-of-the-female-sociopath#1 Female sociopaths and narcissists are dangerous precisely because their manipulation often flies under the radar. Although there is an ongoing debate about the definition of “sociopath” versus “narcissist,” it’s safe to say that both types exhibit the following: A callous lack of empathy. A tendency to manipulate and con others for their own gain. A sense of egocentrism and excessive entitlement a…
/r/MensRights17/07/24 05:49 PM
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Now that was a powerful and good presentation of the topic. Well done.
/r/MensRights16/07/24 09:09 PM
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You don't. But that's my point. There are two current religions that are inimical, destructive, corrosive, and antithetical to Western Civilization, and Feminism is one of them. I say this because the more you practice/believe in either religion, the more toxic you get and the more willing you are to harm others not in your religion. The other religion should be obvious.
/r/MensRights16/07/24 08:58 PM
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They love to say the bad ones ruin it for the good feminsits like themselves I have never met a staunch feminist worthy of respect. Have you?
/r/MensRights16/07/24 02:31 PM
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Best way to deal with a narc? Grey rock strategy and no contact to avoid the destruction and choas they often create and we are seeing men as a group do this And the best way to see that this is working, is by listening to the hyseria from women/Feminists about the MGTOW movement. They are finally realizing they've shot their futures in the foot.
/r/MensRights16/07/24 02:29 PM
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I've read that Narcissism is basically just how Sociopathy manifests in women.
/r/MensRights16/07/24 02:27 PM
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Would you classify modern feminism as a cult? I have for a long time. It has flawed leaders, indulgences, sacred unquestionable precepts, punishment for those who leave it, and an echo chamber from which no outisde thoughts are tolerated.
/r/MensRights16/07/24 02:26 PM
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Is it just me or do many feminists seem to literally have Narcissistic Personality Disorder? It's not just you. And remember; mental illness amongst young white liberal women currently stands at 56%. https://wibc.com/108211/pew-study-white-liberals-disproportionately-suffer-from-mental-illness/ There's a reason the AWFUL acronym (Affluent White Female Urban Liberal) exists. But it isn't just narcissism. Lots of BPD/borderline too. And add to that the widespread use of hormonal contraception... y…
/r/MensRights16/07/24 02:23 PM
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My mom says that it's more common for 50/50 or the woman taking the lead in a relationship UNTIL he can trust you, probably. Women are no longer entitled to a strong male leader and husband; they must earn it. They must demonstrate that they are trustworthy with that; that they will be a submissive supportive feminine woman in return. It's not likely to happen for me You miss all the shots you do not take. This is a self-fulfilling prophesy. do you think it's how male and female relationships na…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/24 02:45 PM
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Well, yes. But then, both Feminism and Marxism as they are executed are inherently illogical/irrational and self-contradictory. That's never stopped people from practicing one or both.
/r/MensRights15/07/24 03:34 AM
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Remember, Feminism is Marxist, which means it is a zero-sum philosophy. So anything that is pro-men, sympathetic to men, MUST draw resources away from women. That's why they always whatabout. If you say/do anything pro-male, you must want to detract from the time/love/attention that women get. Most of them don't understand why they themselves act this way, only that they must protect their female privilege. But that's exactly what they are doing, and why they get so unhinged in the process.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 02:53 PM
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You must not have much experience with antisemitism. I'm not Jewish but I see it - a lot. It's also, by percentage of populace, the most common hate crime in the US by several factors. You really telling me you've never heard anyone complain about how the Jews own banking, or hollywood, or whatever? You've never heard all the stuff the conspiritards spout online?
/r/MensRights10/07/24 01:48 AM
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You can't invent anything if you're a diversity hire instead of a merit hire, either.
/r/MensRights09/07/24 05:26 PM
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In fact, I don’t even think these statistics are very useful. It’s just - if you’re going to say that men commit 90% of the crimes, then this is fair game. They AREN'T very useful - if you study the underlying metrics instead of the clickbait. Examples: 90% of crimes are committed by men. BUT 63% of those crimes are committed by roughly 1% of the male population. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3969807/ Or you can look at the well-debunked wage gap. Women in aggregate earn 78 cents …
/r/MensRights09/07/24 05:25 PM
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Why do gentiles get triggered when they hear Jews have earned 90% of all Nobel Prizes? I mean it's just a fact, I don't see any credit taking. Why do blacks get triggered when they hear that whites have IQs one standard deviation (85%) higher than them? I mean it's just a fact, I don't see any credit taking. When things are presented like this, it's easy to see why groups are bothered by it. They're facts (well, the % for Jews is exaggerated but not by much), but they're presented in an inflamat…
/r/MensRights09/07/24 05:20 PM
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Yes, attend. And meet many men. And when you do, after you introduce yourself, STFU and listen. Be a receptive audience, appreciative, and make it all about them. Be the quiet, interested supporter that most men dream of.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 01:41 AM
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So she has evolved, finally, into a less intelligent, more hot headed form that is no longer compatible with you. This happens. People don't always mature and become wiser. They can go the other way.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 07:48 PM
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Busy protesting the Patriarchy and buying cat food.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 07:43 PM
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One more emotional ditz to cut out of your life. No big deal. I see this all the time. I mean, FFS, you are a doctor. The definition of a medical authority on the subject. SMH.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 07:29 PM
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Raping men isn't as traumatic as raping women. Right until you realize that majority of folks are hard pressed to admit males can BE raped. It is hard. I, personally, know.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 06:41 AM
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No. You do not. You can still object.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 06:33 AM
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Read that again. Do you hear how pathetic it sounds?
/r/MensRights06/07/24 06:32 AM
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Welcome to female privilege. You will never see anyone mauled as badly as a male stripper at a ladies night. Which partially explains why most male strippers are gay btw.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 06:31 AM
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Some men? Sure. Most men? No. They want peace, and a woman they look forward to coming home to. They want a soft place to land. They don't want to walk on eggshells, or try to interpret their abuser's moods.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/24 03:54 AM
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No, that is generally a woman's issue, not a man's. Men want peace; it is usually women who crave drama. Now Boring is bad. But nice? Unless that is code for naive, boring, and vanilla, that isn't an issue, and even then many men are okay with ît.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/24 07:03 AM
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Op also commits the No True Scitsman fallacy repeatedly.
/r/MensRights18/06/24 06:06 AM
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That being said, there are a LOT of used-up pre-26 year olds. Ones who embraced a slut phase, for example. Yes, youth is important for a family. But experience can be negative too, depending on what it is (like riding the CC), and can also make you unattractive to HVM. "It isn't the years, it's the mileage."
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/24 07:39 PM
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Okay, I feel like I need to put a male spin on this, just so it can fully set in. They want problems solved. No, they want SOLUTIONS presented. They do not want to talk endlessly about the problem. They can SEE the problem. They're intelligent, they can already conceptualize the issue and begin to find ways to deal with it. What they want are options, fully formed (or refineable) solutions, to the problem. Women want to talk issues to death, or just to jaw jaw jaw. Men want to DEAL with problems…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/24 12:26 AM
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Does she have OnlyFans? Did you LOOK at her botoxed, injected, plumped, filled, spraytanned face? Of course she does.
/r/MensRights12/06/24 10:40 PM
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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/498858/ Sex differences related to behavior in the barrier frustration were highly age specific. As previously reported in Goldberg and Lewis, at 1 year of age boys cried less and made more active attempts to get around the barrier than girls.
/r/MensRights12/06/24 10:31 PM
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How do I handle this without coming off as an insecure beta? You tell her that her flirting behavior is disrespectful, knock it off, or you bounce. Then follow through. Yes, you will lose her as a GF - at least initially. She may crawl back, she may not. Either way, you're better off establishing and holding boundaries (frame).
/r/MensRights12/06/24 03:36 PM
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Better the danger they know than the risk of what's worse. No one who actually knows what a bear is capable of would choose one. Women are choosing out of ignorance, arrogance, and virtue signaling, full stop.
/r/MensRights12/06/24 03:33 PM
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No, won't work. "You can't reason someone out of a position they did not reason themselves into."
/r/MensRights12/06/24 03:30 PM
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A - she doesn't see you as a real man. You aren't interested in women, therefore not a man, to a her. Which is why she chooses the bear. Bears aren't interested in her sexually, either. Only hetero men are. Huh. That just... explained a LOT to me. This experiment just shows how insulated from physical threat women are, that they evaluate this meme solely upon SEXUAL threat. Because women are SO protected from physical threats, they don't even worry/see the bear as one, they only evaluate it on s…
/r/MensRights12/06/24 03:27 PM
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It's not an inherently divisive topic, it just points out how fucking bigoted people are against men. It also goes to show how absolutely shite women are at threat assessment. Despite men being twice as likely to be assaulted as women, men don't live in fear - women do. Because they're wired to be for understandable biological reasons, to a point, but still. It comes back to a baby experiment I read about. Let a baby crawl towards its mother. Put an obstacle in the way. Boy babies will try to cr…
/r/MensRights12/06/24 03:22 PM
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Start by just having some canned statements ready that will help you not react. For example, if he’s making a recommendation to you, instead of trying to defend why your way is right, you can say something like: - That’s interesting, I’ll give it some thought. - Tell me more about why you think that? - I’ll consider it. - I never thought about it like that. Also, and here's one that drives home the point, go play some co-op board games. Go play a game of Pandemic together. If you don't work toge…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/24 08:47 PM
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I... sort of get what you mean by that, but... honestly, I'd expect more... hoonish... behavior from someone with a hot hatch or RWD, not an AWD car. I used o have an FRS, and let me tell you, you can't not drift one of those. It's too easy. I still miss mine. Now that chassis is fantastic. But also 2-door and family-unfriendly, so... c'est la vie.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/24 08:45 PM
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I think... try to reframe your perception. Do you want to win, or do you want to be right? Winners are very lonely, and often wrong about things (and too stubborn to admit it). Whereas to be right... is to be able to admit to being wrong, and to making mistakes. If you have people in your life who actually want the best for you, just pound yourself with, "Will what they're saying help me be right, or help them win?" If it's to help you be right, stab your ego in the eye with a pitchfork and take…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/24 09:53 PM
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Maybe also try to see how you can have BOTH your cake AND eat it too, in some circumstances. I'll give a personal example: Want sexy fun car, but Want useful, reliable family four-door Answer: Subaru WRX. AWD, 4-door-, RED, turbo, 268hp, quick, affordable, holds whole family. Sometimes, SOMETIMES, you can have it both ways. Cherish those moments. For the rest, it's compromise and therapy.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/24 09:49 PM
4

You must not be familiar with the concept of ARRESTING draft dodgers. Some countries treat it as treason and shoot you.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 05:53 PM
8

Really. Men didn't have to? Methinks you may want to google some realities of conscription worldwide. And before you say "But American men could say no in WW1/2" (which is convenient) I would point out Vietnam as a counterpoint... and suggest you're minimizing just how damaging, coercive, and dangerous the tactics used against men who refused to fight were in WW1/2 as well.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 03:05 AM
8

If it's a feminist country, you may not have a choice.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 12:40 AM
11

It was a romp. A fling. Nobody was hurt. It was innocent. It was love. Oh and pay me child support. (She'll get it, too. But no prison time; she's an expectant mother!) I hate the current state of affairs in the Western World.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 09:35 PM
2

Wow. Grammar and punctuation, brother. Seriously. Your message will be better conveyed if you use some. Second, I am reminded of a pithy saying I once heard: "If you don't want to be treated as a whore, don't wear the uniform."
/r/MensRights11/05/24 08:52 PM
5

I used to think that until I looked closer. Did you know that most WOMEN opposed suffrage? And most men just went with what the women wanted? It was only AFTER women were reassured that none of the OBLIGATIONS and RESPONSIBILITIES that men had incurred as the price of their vote, would be placed onto women, that they all supported it. In other words, Women's Suffrage only passed when women were reassured that the power of the vote would NOT come with the commensurate responsibility that men paid…
/r/MensRights11/05/24 08:45 PM
21

Feminism is about empowerment, not equality. And it has ALWAYS been that way if you look at their behavior. That's because equality can limit women when you encounter ways they have it better than men. But empowerment? Giving women more power and less responsibility? The only limit to that is when it causes societal collapse. Then they suddenly turn conservative and flock to the strongest men they can find.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 01:41 PM
10

Because Marxism posits that everything is a zero-sum game. And it is, when you think solely in terms of power instead of competence.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 01:39 PM
6

Is this real? Has anyone experienced this shift this quickly? You got out of your own way and experienced how you would have been if you had not experienced trauma. Congratulations. You got a sneak peek at a healthy, whole YOU. Consider yourself blessed and strive for it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/24 12:26 AM
25

Being fit doesn't guarantee success. But being a fat unfit slug virtually guarantees failure.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/24 01:50 AM
3

What exactly happened? I never heard about this. I just remember his voice getting quiet.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 08:23 PM
3

Beautiful takedown.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 08:16 PM
5

Or are trolls/false flags. That's a thing too.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 08:09 PM
5

Disagree. The MRM owes a lot of its existence to him.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 08:08 PM
12

Marxism is a (bullshit) zero-sum game, and Feminism is predicated on many Marxist ideals.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 08:07 PM
7

Ah, but they self-objectify (without admitting such) and you have to prove that point first. Otherwise, they'll blame men's negative outcomes on personal choices while women's outcomes are externally imposed (objectification). Pointing this out usually breaks their brains (Feminists generally can't logic, or they would not be feminists). If it doesn't, you might have found the 1 in 100 who can be deradicalized.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 08:07 PM
11

No Feminist I've ever met or heard of came to her position logically. And as they say, "You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
/r/MensRights07/05/24 08:03 PM
36

There's a reason TrueOffMyChest exists.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 08:02 PM
5

Sad thing is, this is actually a true statement. And it came into being to protect women from themselves. Evidence? Look at modern societies where women are no longer proscribed from acting out their baser instincts. They self-destruct.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 07:59 PM
3

Oh, there very much is winning. I remember one debate where a feminist said, "Most assaults are by MEN! What should we do about that?" Then a black man stood up and said, "Assaults are disproportionately by BLACK men, not white men. What exactly are you suggesting?" She shut TF up. Because this kind of tribalistic classism always is self-defeating.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 07:58 PM
9

And since most schools are female-led/feminist, and most shooters are male, makes you wonder what they're doing to boys/men to drive them to kill? It isn't patriarchy because students have zero power; all the power is with the admins/teachers. Why do the boys lash out? Why don't the girls?
/r/MensRights07/05/24 07:54 PM
13

She is a female supremacist You spelled Feminist wrong.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 07:51 PM
9

"Racism isn't a problem, it's a response." "Sexism isn't a problem, it's a response." "Antisemitism isn't a problem, it's a response." Do you hear how stupid that sounds? It's blaming the victim. Mistreating/hating on ANY group because of the behavior of a few individuals of that group is always bigotry and indefensible.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 07:50 PM
0

I agree, but that's in large part since Disney bought and took over direction of them... of Star Wars... of Pixar...
/r/MensRights07/05/24 06:58 PM
1

Honestly I'd rather be with a bear than watch man-led superhero movies woke Disney bullshit at this point. FTFY.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 02:50 PM
1

They say it's just the "bad apples" of feminism but when I hear it from my literal girlfriend it just shows me how bad it is getting. I hate it, I cannot stand it. I can't stand it either, but I have come to realize over decades of living that a large portion of the populace are NPCs. And you can't wake them up. All you can do is surround yourself with awake, smart, rational people. They're out there. Grab on and network. There are even rational, intelligent women out there. I married one. (You …
/r/MensRights07/05/24 01:27 PM
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I mean, she definitely holds feminist values /AwIt'sRetarded.jpg That's enough. Pick another woman.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 01:23 PM
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That should tell you that her stance is more about the theatrics of giving the answer for the sake of signalling than in seriousness. Let's say, like some responders suggest, that she's just signalling with her response, she doesn't mean it. Isn't that enough to indicate she's not a keeper? Do you want a partner who chooses that kind of toxic theatric?
/r/MensRights07/05/24 01:23 PM
2

You can't talk to feminists. You can only talk at them. They don't operate on reason.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 01:21 PM
8

I'd rather be with a bear than watch women-led superhero movies. That recent Marvel trash will kill your brain for sure.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 01:20 PM
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If you go on about how stupid women are or how they don't "get it" you are part of the joke. Oh, they get it, they get it all right You are giving women too much credit.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 01:18 PM
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I just don't understand how I should feel. Honestly? The emotion that it's healthiest to feel is disappointment. This test simply shows that most women aren't terribly bright or informed, they don't know statistics, are disconnected from non-urban reality, and are emotional reasoners. When you look at it that way, are you surprised? Look at the forum you are posting on. Men here tend to be at least somewhat redpilled to reality, often forcibly. She hasn't been. She doesn't know that women's emot…
/r/MensRights07/05/24 01:16 PM
2

I'd rather deal with aggressive men because at least they're honest about it. Women are naturally just as aggressive, it's just that they're PASSIVE aggressive, not actively/physically aggressive. And that's harder to defend against because it can be played off or damseled.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 01:24 PM
1

I just disagree that the only way to be masculine is that you need a father in your life because a lot of fathers these days are weak-minded and have no boundaries. I agree that unfortunately many men are weak these days. That said, I'd rather have a weak father than none at all. In point of fact, I HAD a weak father with crap boundaries (and a weak mother, but that's par for the course) and I paid for it until I learned to be strong, later in life. But then I look at child success statistics fo…
/r/MensRights30/04/24 01:19 PM
0

You just described a non-masculine man. Boys need masculine role models. Being a man is part biology but part learned; further, learning from a strong, successful, masculine man will help you to avoid mistakes growing up (like caring what femboys think).
/r/MensRights30/04/24 03:44 AM
3

Here's an idea. It will likely crystallize a few things and possibly end your marriage, but if it does, it's for the best. Record him. Blatantly. When he is yelling. He will protest. Simple explanation: "why does recording bother you? If this is proper behavior, if how you are speaking to me is right, you should be proud to be recorded. Only a man who is acting less than his best is afraid of being recorded. A hero does not fear being seen and heard." Honestly, a man who only yells in private, a…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/24 05:11 AM
6

Perhaps once your meds are working you could volunteer in a "big sisters" type organization, and find an outlet for your maternal urges that you can step away from on your bad days?
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/24 05:58 AM
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Worst interpretation: you will be a $33/night on-call girl plus babysitter. Sounds like a GREAT deal... for him.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/24 01:10 AM
6

That is why I wrote it like that. I've known lots of men like that, who really just need a clue to be better, more desirable, more decent. Fun fact: I used to think that 'Incels' weren't a thing, because any man can choose to change his behavior, to be better, to seek out and learn how to be a better, more desirable man. Then I thought about it, and realized that blue pill bullshit has so infected schools, culture, and the (often single-) mothers raising boys that they are completely indoctrinat…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/24 07:42 PM
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Probably because women almost ALWAYS have options. Men often don't. Losers generally are those who have run out of options, and see no way out of their circumstances but death. Which is why men commit suicide so much more disproportionately.
/r/MensRights21/03/24 06:15 PM
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If you wanted to be safe, just block him. But if you want to be kind, clue him in, then block him. SOmething like this: "Look, X, you're nice, decent, we have common interests, etc. Granted. But you're way too enthusiastic about me, texting me constantly, and already talking about flying out to see me after only 5 days. That's way too forward and it makes me - and most women - uncomfortable. Furthermore, when I said I don't want a relationship, you pushed and pushed for us to be friends: despera…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/24 06:12 PM
5

It's not the best part of town and mail gets stolen. Side note: rent a post office box. They're cheap. I'll be spending 2-3 nights a week on business trips. Situation resolves itself. Put ALL of your belongings in your room, put a padlock on the door. Spend time when in town at BF's house; you aren't "moved in" to allay that concern, but you're also not in the apartment to suffer this girl's BS. Bide your time, and then leave. Alternately, check your rental agreement. Locales are VERY different …
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/24 09:07 PM
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1 use your daily moisturizer, and don't tell him. Just do it. 2 foreplay. More = more lubrication naturally. 3 anal. Try it. Many women enjoy it, it requires lube, and most men like it too
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/24 03:58 AM
1

Why do you care so much how other mens' dicks look?
/r/MensRights18/03/24 08:06 PM
5

Without consent or anesthesia, and is irreversible.
/r/MensRights18/03/24 08:04 PM
2

Because it is 1% positive with 99% harm and only affects men.
/r/MensRights18/03/24 08:04 PM
13

Sigh. Okay, let's do this. Just broke up… why does this keep happening? This is now the second time where I (29F) have faced the end of a struggling relationship (31M), and he owes me money at the end of it. Once is unlucky. Twice is bad luck. Three times and it's you, not them. You act like you're unsure of the cause, but I'm pretty sure it's you - or more specifically, your man-picker. I don’t even expect anything back at this point. I should hope not. You never loan anything you can't afford …
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/24 02:05 AM
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I'll say this. I was a pack-a-day smoker for 5 years. Then I decided I was done with smoking: I had learned why people did it, enjoyed it for a while, experienced the negatives, and now I was done. I chose to be a nonsmoker - I identified as a nonsmoker on day 1 of quitting. I never said "I am quitting", or "I quit", I said, "I am a nonsmoker now." And while it was hard initially, I have not had a single cigarette in the 23 years since that day. Your chosen identity matters.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 08:13 PM
3

Depends upon what values and tech he teaches. If he teaches PUA? BIG red flag, as they are just out to get laid. If he teaches how to be a confident HVM like RPW does for women? It is likely fine.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/24 06:26 PM
3

Shouldn't we be actually building up male strengths and even adjusting classes or grades to make up for female bias in schools? How about we do blind testing of all teachers, with similar essays with highly gendered names, and for any teacher with a substantial bias found, FIRE THEM? If there were consequences for being sexist, less would be.
/r/MensRights06/03/24 03:57 PM
30

Men commit mass suicide, women most affected, news at 11.
/r/MensRights06/03/24 03:55 PM
19

Legal Paternal Surrender should be a thing, yes.
/r/MensRights06/03/24 01:28 AM
4

And 5 in 6 men are NOT PAYING ATTENTION.
/r/MensRights05/03/24 09:50 PM
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It could also qualify as Reproductive Coercion depending on how she weaponizes her 'condition'.
/r/MensRights03/03/24 01:30 AM
11

Google "ingroup preferences". Both men and women favor women by default. It is genetic.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 02:25 AM
3

Fix why you disrespected him. My toddler learned early on to tearfully apologize, but it meant nothing; only by understanding WHY she had messed up, could she begin to take responsibility for it. In other words, you have to show him that you understand how you screwed up (disrespected him), AND how you will try to avoid the same mistake in future, or an apology by itself means nothing.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/24 10:17 PM
1

Lots of men can't see past getting laid.
/r/MensRights17/02/24 04:05 PM
1

The learning tower in the kitchen really helps. My toddler loves being included in everything.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/24 04:03 PM
2

Feminists are virtually always resistant to reason because feminism is not a logical position, it is a religion rooted in feelings. You can't reason someone out of a position they did not reason themselves into.
/r/MensRights17/02/24 03:58 PM
4

Yep. Unless he wants a false rape allegation.
/r/MensRights17/02/24 03:55 PM
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Dopamine and external validation are a hell of a drug. ...but like all drugs, they destroy you.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/24 04:04 PM
2

My point is: men have a lot of well-reasoned fears in our modern society, and they want to be able to talk openly and vulnerably about those fears with their soft place to land/partner/first mate. If he is not a violent person, is it possible to see this as more of him venting about the issues men face with women in modern times? This. Men are twice as likely to be assaulted, but nowhere near as fearful of it happening as women are. Women are hard-wired to be more fearful than men are, and cultu…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/24 07:04 PM
2

And that's in the US - though I am not American. I know the reality is the same re: the stats from where I'm from. Most studies are woefully underreporting female-on-male DV in large part because men underreport abuse from women, cross-culturally. Whereas there's very little shame in reporting your man beat you up. Cops often won't even listen to a man reporting DV - or worse, under the Duluth model, they will arrest HIM. One thing to keep in mind.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/24 07:00 PM
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Two big contributors: being overweight and alcohol. Is he fat or does he drink? Either can make snoring a problem. If he's a skinny tetotaler, then he needs a sleep study. (I've looked into this. When I dropped weight from 255 to 225, and don't drink alcohol, I'm silent at night. When I gain weight or have alcohol, the train returns to the station.)
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/24 02:50 PM
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Was he actually defending domestic violence? Or was he looking at it like a lot of male culture does below: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AikupCpxvb8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J8TqhBIEbWA And MRA/RP research into domestic violence turns up statistics other than what you think. In the US, of all the relationships that are violent, about 1/3 are reciprocally violent. They both hit each other. But of the ones where only one partner is violent, 2/3 of those are violent WOMEN. In current femi…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/24 02:37 PM
2

Can you name 1 country where men are not allowed to serve in the military? She says that like it's a privilege to serve, rather than a lethal duty/obligation, in most countries. My reply to this one is, "Can you name 1 country where women are required to serve (drafted) in the military alongside the men?" Only one springs immediately to mind, and it's a toxic answer for her to admit. Can you name 1 country where men and boys were routinely sectioned and had their reproductive organs removed beca…
/r/MensRights17/01/24 10:30 PM
1

I appreciate it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 09:36 PM
2

It's a pet peeve because not being specific on the difference between redpill truth and redpill-derived action is how the MSM gets to tar all RPers with the same "misogynist far-alt-right abusers" brush, when RP itself is nothing more than truth. But then again, the modern left hates truth in any form, so...
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 07:00 PM
92

It's easy to see in things like the Match.com survey, where women rated 80% of men as below average looking. Yeah, princesses, that's not how average works...
/r/MensRights16/01/24 05:15 PM
67

Hey, he's just calling a whale a whale.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 05:13 PM
37

Are they aware the height of the average man is 5'8"? of reality? Usually not.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 05:12 PM
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If she's over 130lbs she's not a woman. I love reversing the logic on them. "But but but..." Best part is, having a weight requirement is actually reasonable (not just appearance, but health and fertility-based, and in 99% of cases is a CHOICE). Whereas height is an immutable characteristic.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 05:10 PM
7

a traditional man(redpill) man One quibble. Traditional =/= redpill. To be Red Pilled is to see truth, no more no less. To be or to act traditional is to ACT on that truth in a certain way. PUAs and many men on TRP use redpill truth to get laid, but that isn't red pill. No action is redpill; redpill is about knowledge and truth, not a single path of action. It's a pet peeve, perhaps. But it's why describing how many "redpilled" men act badly should not be blamed on the red pill; because to be re…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 05:03 PM
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Yeah it's the fresh and fit types that have upset me. It's seems lots of men agree with them. I'm afraid it will become to new acceptable thing Fresh and Fit are very, very good at showing how most modern women bring nothing to the table but expect a traditional, high value man. I've long asked a question on this sub that few, if any women can or are will to answer: "What do you bring to a relationship, that he wants, and that other women do not?" If you can answer that question, you can answer …
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 04:58 PM
9

I struggle to understand what men find valuable in a woman other than her beauty and sexuality. One day I will inevitablely grow old and become ugly, then what? This upsets me so much. Sigh. I don't blame you, I blame media and the past two generations for systematically rejecting all inherited wisdom regarding happiness, gender roles, and meaning. So let me take you down a Socratic path. What is the meaning of life? What is the greatest purpose? I mean this quite seriously. To you, what is the …
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 04:55 PM
1

Women wear dresses and makeup and high heels because of biology? You keep bringing up clothing and appearance and conflating it with gender. Clothing isn't derived from biological drives. Being a hunter vs. a gatherer, being object-oriented vs. people-oriented, having more or less upper body strength and following jobs that use/don't use that accordingly, those are derived from biology. Then why call people who deviate from them a "virus"? No, transgenderism spreading through the youth is a meme…
/r/MensRights16/01/24 04:48 PM
1

When you call anybody who doesn't conform to the stereotype a "virus" it sounds like you're in favor of the rigid gender roles With respect, you can't read. Nothing in what I've said mentions gender roles. I'm talking biology. XX-XY. There are only two sexes - male and female. The tiny proportion of intersex aren't a third sex, they are abnormalities that deviate somewhere between the two. And from there, it's easy to see that much of your "rigid gender roles" are caused by biology. Testosterone…
/r/MensRights16/01/24 02:49 PM
1

How so? Edit: if by siding with the vast majority I'm siding with stereotypes, then I am, and proudly. I'm not going to kowtow to the 1% and sacrifice the 99%.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 01:45 AM
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I think a large part of that is because I was so desperate for love and companionship that I pursued them and dumped all my emotions on them. This is half the problem. The other half is, "You can't catch a whale in a pond." You must first go to where the type of fish you wish to catch actually swims.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 07:16 AM
2

Why do you think so many people are identifying as non-binary or trans? Because genders other than reality (male and female) are memetic viruses that are socially popular. They aren't real, they're trends. If they were real, there wouldn't be an 80%+ desistance (people who detransition after starting transition) rate worldwide . But you don't hear about that, do you.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 07:14 AM
3

I wonder, what else there is other than male and female? Mental illness.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 07:11 AM
1

Extremely rare genetic abnormalities don't count as another gender. Usually severely intersex people are sterile; at best, they're somewhat fertile on one side. True hermaphrodites (can impregnate or be impregnated) are more or less just futanari wank stories, not reality. Learn biology.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 07:11 AM
4

DON'T be politically correct. Living by their terms instead of embracing reality is how you give them your power.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 07:09 AM
3

How are men the problem again? They aren't.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 07:08 AM
4

I worked in at a super progressive book publisher and the women did not treat the effeminate guys well. Of course they didn't. Effeminate men are seen as weak. Often they are, too, because they tend not to embrace masculine (read: tough, physical, aggressive) activities so when push comes to shove, they tend to get shoved. They focused on this one guy named Nick who was a 6'4'' lacrosse player. The whole time they shit on guys like him to his face but Nick would just smile then fuck them later. …
/r/MensRights15/01/24 07:07 AM
2

I feel like men today are expected to live up to a stereotype while other genders women can express themselves freely FTFY. I have been called a faggot for much of my life by straight women. When I engage or enjoy anything that's not stereotypically masculine I am absolutely judged. You need better friends. If your sisters were doing this, F them. Walk away. You don't need such a hateful family. Vet who you hang with, regardless of their connection to you. Keep quality people, and blow off the r…
/r/MensRights15/01/24 07:04 AM
2

Approach all you want. But don't touch without asking, take no for an answer and stop for an order. Fairly simple, really.
/r/MensRights13/01/24 12:26 AM
1

I'm an american male, and if any stranger, male or female, touches me ANYWHERE without my permission, I take great exception. Friends are different; store workers are strangers, period. Of course I make allowances for necessary situations - a trainer showing me how to lift correctly, etc. - but most of the time touching is neither necessary nor desired.
/r/MensRights13/01/24 12:25 AM
5

As far as the Lowes guy goes, that sounds like a Grey area to me. It's possible that he's on the spectrum or has some sort of behavioral/learning impairment and in those cases I think we should have a bit of consideration for them (not saying that was the case in your situation but it could be.) Also where did he touch you? If it was around the elbow I don't really see that as being threatening. NO. Flat no. If he's that far down the spectrum that he doesn't understand that you KEEP YOUR HANDS T…
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:16 PM
3

I have had an employee from Lowe’s touch me Why this did not elicit an immediate and loud "GET your hands off me sir!" I don't know. and proceed to follow me around the store, putting things in my cart even though I was clear I wasn’t interested in his help. And you said nothing. I went to the customer service counter and their response was, “oh him? Yeah we’ll have a manager talk to him again.” And you left it to them to fix. "Again? If this is a repeat problem, I'm pressing charges unless you …
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:14 PM
1

He makes me feel like I am the only woman in the world, but of course I can't help to think that he wished his mariage had not ended. Well of course he wishes it had not ended. He likely married thinking it would be to a wonderful woman, 'til death do us part.' Then she betrayed that, shit on it and threw it in his face. He likely wishes it had not happened, and blames himself at least a little. It may suggest that he may move too quickly, trust too easily. But other than that, it likely isn't a…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 06:58 PM
1

Men have to learn to appreciate the art of cunnillingis in ways that aren't as natural as fellatio - a man's external genitalia is like a lolipop to many women, whereas a woman's... isn't. That said, beyond unfamiliarity/cultural revulsion reasons against it, men's main objections to it are usually it being unkempt or the smell. Men have differing hair preferences, and virtually all men like women smelling clean and fresh down there. If your partner can't or won't go down on you, ask why, and ma…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 06:52 PM
1

feminism is about letting women do what they want, whatever that may be without responsibility or accountability Fixed that for you. Modern feminism is why most women can't find a good man. You are aware of the saying, "Chivalry is dead because women killed it"? Change it to feminist women and you're even closer to the truth. Go watch the Whatever podcast if you want to open your eyes to the modern female delusions in dating. Then do the other. i want to do the same thing: go back to college, st…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 01:44 AM
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/MEME ItDepends.gif Is a body count of three a lot? Dead bodies? Yes. People slept with? No.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 04:32 PM
5

To paraphrase Jordan Peterson, it's about the outliers. It's not that men are more violent than women, it's that at the end of the bell curve - the most violent - they're all men. And since men are more capable of physical violence, the worst, most violent men do a LOT of damage. But most men? Not violent at all. The best men are capable of violence, but choose not to be. They are warriors in a garden, as opposed to modern liberal male thinking of being gardners in a war. And again for emphasis,…
/r/MensRights23/12/23 04:35 AM
5

OF is a way to capitalize on your youth, apparent fertility, sexuality, and energy in a way that is "apparently" liberated from being in service to a company or a husband. It is "freeing". And women being women, too often they cling to their feminism and don't admit they were wrong until it's too late, and they have an illegitimate kid/tats/high notch count and nothing to offer a HVM... or they have frozen eggs and are staring at low-to-zero fertility in their late-30s or 40s. EDIT: Before criti…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 11:17 PM
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1) Don't be one more easy girl for him to bed. We've raised you to be above that, but now it's your turn to actually both actually be that person and signal it to the guy. He must see you as a future wife, not one more girlfriend. HVM do things that are hard, and win. If you are sexually easy, a HVM will not respect or value you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 09:20 AM
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RPW is about more than just getting the ring. That's FDS territory. RPW is about building quality lasting relationships. That's a journey, not a goal. Which is why we tell women to build themselves into better versions of themselves, constantly and perpetually, and to vet vet vet their men. To be an RPW is a choice you make every day, not a bar to reach.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 09:19 AM
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Not really. For a HVM in the 21st century, being able to have one new sexual partner per month, for just over eight years, (8*12), will get you to 100 partners easily. And guys who are rich, handsome, and charismatic, in up and coming areas like the Bay Area, can easily score ten times that in the same period. It's not absurd at all. And once the man's tired of the bimbos, wanting to settle down with a more real woman, a partner and a lifemate and potential mother to his children, while unlikely…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 09:13 AM
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So I guess I’m wondering, when a man says he doesn’t want children, is he actually just saying ‘I don’t want children with you’? Sometimes. The more certain he doesn't want them, the more it's not about you. The more wishy-washy he is about having them, the more likely it's his partner who is influencing his decision. But if he said he flat out doesn't want any, that's that. Either way, if it's him or you, it's time to move on, and quickly. But it's likely him.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/23 01:26 AM
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My question is, who's afraid to get their hands dirty? Is that a thing now? Is my GenX hose-drinking self showing? Because I don't know anyone my age who hesitates to get their hands dirty when necessary. Dirt washes off, FFS.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/23 01:19 AM
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I kept telling him I'm scared please hold the ladder and he ignored me. First red flag. it turns out he didn't want to get his hands dirty. So your clean, WASHABLE hands are more important than your wife's safety. People DIE falling off of roofs and ladders, sir. The least you can do is man up and help. he apologised to me but it really made me feel digusted at him. He is a very nerdy bloke Nerdy doesn't preclude being masculine. Don't make that mistake. What makes him unmasculine is being a mod…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/23 01:17 AM
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If people would stop watching their bullshit it will eventually end but no. Disney is losing BILLIONS pushing this stuff. It's not about if people watch, it's about sculpting the world culture at any cost, about pushing The Message. People already HAVE stopped watching. They're losing money. Yet it ISN'T stopping.
/r/MensRights11/12/23 07:18 PM
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The Babylon Bee and Not The Bee should NOT (in an ideal world) be valid as websites. Instead they've proven to be prognosticators and news reporters, respectively... which is simply a commentary on how far society has fallen.
/r/MensRights11/12/23 07:16 PM
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Or are you suggesting that they need to own up to it? That their virtue signalling etc. is all hollow bullshit? QFT.
/r/MensRights11/12/23 06:34 PM
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Because the immediate assumption is always that we are opposing women's rights; opposed duality is a deeply embedded social meme. Feminists oppose men's rights because they know that Feminism is actually Female Supremacy, full stop. And since they project how THEY operate on others, they can't stomach what they expect/interpret as a male supremacy movement.
/r/MensRights06/12/23 08:42 PM
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So should it be placed more on the women to defend their traditional men from feminists? Yes. The easy response from the wife to the feminist is, "My body, my choice, so back off, dear."
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/23 03:36 PM
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Feminists can be bad. You say that like most aren't. I'd argue that feminists can be good, but most are not. At best they're dupes to a toxic ideology, and at worst they're female supremacists and haters on an institutional and genocidal level. Yes, genocide. PLENTY of big names in feminism have advocated for male genocide/decimation. Yes, talk is cheap, but to Feminists, words ARE violence. Hold them to their own (stupid) standards.
/r/MensRights01/12/23 07:16 PM
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Because narcissism is inherently self-destructive and stupid, sacrificing long term thriving for extreme short term benefits. And before any "but men are narcs too!" women's core goal is a LTR; men's is sex. This is biological reality for most humans. And thus, a man who sacrifices his long term opportunities for short term goals is still succeeding, more or less. Whereas a woman who does that, ends up a failure in her goals. Thanks, btw. Your off-the-cuff gripe really helped me to formulate thi…
/r/MensRights01/12/23 07:14 PM
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In case it's real, perhaps this lady has a rap sheet of being a conwoman, and it will help him. Her rap sheet would never come to light in a sexual assault case. Yeah, if this story is real it sounds like she's done this before.
/r/MensRights01/12/23 07:10 PM
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File a police report now. Get it all on the record. Hell, tell them you're prepared to press charges on: a) filing a false police report b) blackmail or coercion c) slander if necessary to address this. And get legal counsel - at least talk to one, and maybe get them to write a cease and desist letter, outlining all of this to them, and go no contact. Feminists. Not even once.
/r/MensRights01/12/23 07:09 PM
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It could be a form of Dread game. This gives me a "Look at me, I have options, respect me!" kind of vibe. It could also be social awkwardness. Too little info to tell. Is he otherwise mature?
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/23 02:58 PM
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Never underestimate the power of walking away. Can't stress this one more. There are plenty of women out there, and there is nothing wrong with walking away. Don't get stuck in the Sunk Cost Fallacy. As an aside, women use this all the time to lock a man down in a relationship. Not just Sunk Cost Fallacy. This also ties in to Abundance Mentality. Only if you're scared of giving up what little you have, does it hold power over you. When you know there are always more (and better, and younger, and…
/r/MensRights29/11/23 02:54 PM
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I don't know the details of either case very well, and any combination of true or false is possible, but it bothered me how the people who keep screaming these mantras don't actually adhere to them when something inconvenient happens. This is what happens when you realize that Feminism isn't scientifically arrived at, but rather a cult with doctrine and ideology that cannot be questioned.
/r/MensRights29/11/23 02:50 PM
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The beauty of conservative ideology is that it based upon what has been proven to work to everyones' benefit over time. Too many people see conservative as a curse word, completely detached from its origin. To be a conservative is, quite literally, "to conserve that which has been proven to work." Similarly, I embrace the actual definition of liberal, rooted in the word liberty, which is simply "to be open to the adoption of new ideas". Both can be held by the same person without conflict, but t…
/r/MensRights29/11/23 02:45 PM
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black American and African. I’m a 28F and I keep meeting men that tell me that it’s natural for men to want to spread their seed or be with multiple women. It's pure rationalization. American black men often use "that's our nature" as an excuse not to do better. I hate the term/phrase, but "Internalized Racism" really does look like this.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 12:55 AM
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What? Men's consent matters? OMFG call the Mods, an MRA is in here! /sarcasm Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 12:50 AM
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Damn near already in a sexless marriage once a week isn't shit You have a nursing child and are bitching about once-a-week sex. JFC. That's the most post-partum narcissism I've heard all week.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 12:49 AM
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Sigh. Im just the worst right, for wanting to be intimate with my husband? Terrible me. First, LOL. Hand Staple Forehead. Second, whut? Intimacy doesn't equal PIV. You can get it by snuggling, hugging, cuddling, and more - and that's ALREADY assuming you're talking about physical intimacy. No, you're being very specific - wanting performative sexual intimacy - on demand, from your husband. Which is MUCH less reasonable, and you KNOW that. So you, like many women, cloud it in vague, deniable term…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 12:47 AM
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To be well regulated, we need to regulate how much we cum. My wife and I actually call this her "receiving her hormone injection". If she doesn't get regular injections she gets moody and sad. lol
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 12:43 AM
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So seek him out for something that he CAN provide without being in the best emotional state. Ask him for a full body massage. You get your physical affection, and he doesn't have to feign an emotional state.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 12:42 AM
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You brought up that you flashed them out and expected him to get hard… and he didn’t. Because appreciating your wife feeding your children isn't usually arousing. I know that anything that invokes my toddler daughter KILLS my (and my wife's) sex drive. YKINMK. OP doesn't get this.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 12:38 AM
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You don't NEED to be in the mood to have sex as a woman... your vagina doesn't just seal up if you're not in the mood. Plus, lube is always an option. It's easier for a woman to have sex when she's not in the mood compared to a man, is all I'm saying. EXACTLY. Unlike a woman who can, to use an old adage "lay back, close your eyes, and think of England" men have to actually WORK at it to have sex. Or they go limp. They need to be aroused. They need to be seduced... or they need to want to have se…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 12:37 AM
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I know all we really have to do is spread our legs... No, you DON'T know that. You THINK that because you're a sexist idiot who believes bluepill lies like "all men want it all the time". STOP THAT. Many men need wooing. They need foreplay. They need YOU to put in the work. You sound like those Thots from the Whatever podcast who think they can show up with a 50-item demand list for a boyfriend, but when asked what THEY bring to a relationship, they just gesture to themselves and say, "This". OM…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 12:34 AM
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As long as someone is above you, they can (and will) be slandered with impunity. People always slander their betters.
/r/MensRights27/11/23 12:31 AM
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They want to force men to take hormones that make them feminine, weak, and asexual. At a mass scale. This is alarming. What do you think modern western farming (fuck you, Montsanto) and water treatment and materials science already does? Alex Jones ranting about "turning the frogs gay" was idiocy, but he's not 100% wrong. Forever chemicals, estrogen-mimicing substances, the lasting mental damage from hormonal birth control on women, and so much more... yeah.
/r/MensRights27/11/23 12:29 AM
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Why? Because many women lack empathy and are only capable of looking upwards, never at those beneath them.
/r/MensRights23/11/23 07:31 AM
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Anecdotally, male productive autistics particularly have great marriages with women who are neuro-weird in their own right to some degree, such as ADHD, but are at high risk for a mutually emotionally painful experience if they end up paired with a neurotypical. They have a high desire to "do well" even if they don't as easily understand how. Good candidates for therapists who specialize in social skills interventions for HFA. Can attest to this. You have described my marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/23 03:13 AM
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Honestly, it's possible that he's somewhat body dysmorphic. If he's obsessed about his body, especially due to it used to being unhealthy-looking, he may be overcompensating. Just keep an eye on him and, to the extent it doesn't interfere with otherwise living his life, leave it alone. Address it if it starts to consume him.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/23 06:04 PM
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To learn, to love, to live well, and to leave a legacy. To make the world a little better than I found it, and to continue the experiments in knowledge and growth that are the Universe, God, and ourselves (same thing to me).
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/23 07:13 PM
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Go read up about Norah Vincent, and her book Self Made Man. You'll see what you're in for. It's not for the faint of heart (but not in the way you might expect).
/r/MensRights13/11/23 02:38 PM
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Innocent until proven guilty, period.
/r/MensRights11/11/23 07:55 PM
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INFO: Part of the timing question is age. If you're in your early 20s, moving a bit slower makes more sense for you to come into your own as an adult. Waiting makes a bit more sense. If you're in your late 20s+, you're done cooking and ready to jump ahead - and if he isn't, it's time to find a man who will. But then, he's 9 years older. He should know his mind. So either he thinks you're a keeper, or you aren't. "Trial subscription is up, buddy - buy a copy or uninstall."
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/23 05:32 PM
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I'd vote for Pinochet if he was running.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 04:55 PM
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Easy response to accusation of looking at them. "I was just wondering why a woman as ugly as you is wearing something that revealing." Mic drop, walk away. You'll short circuit their brain.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 04:40 PM
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Know where this is also reflected? AI. Ask an AI about what sucks about men, you get a detailed list. Ask an AI about what sucks about women, you get an admonishment that misogyny isn't to be tolerated. SMH.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 04:36 PM
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Depends upon local law on recording. But even then, there are exceptions. For example, heard of one case where recording required two-party consent. BUT the guy said in court that she had consented, and even described what she said graphically, and she said that was slander. And his defense to her slander accusation got the recording into evidence. Laws/lawyers/courts are weird. They don't work how you'd think they should, and are very jurisdiction-specific. Personally, if I was dating I'd recor…
/r/MensRights10/11/23 03:56 PM
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No, quite the opposite. Ouch, bright red flag.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 08:36 PM
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Read sidebar.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 08:35 PM
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and generally don't GAF what you look like either. Yeah, this is NOT RP advice at all. Men certainly care about how a woman looks. They want her to be attractive, for a whole host of reasons including the obvious, such as her beauty makes him look higher value (i.e. arm candy), or her appearance turns him on. Yes, men want a woman who is a supportive wife/homemaker. But they most certainly do care about appearances. They just don't care as much as some think they do.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 08:35 PM
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The more false-looking they are, the more they are a turnoff, I can tell you that right now.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 08:31 PM
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A doctor may have the standard of not dating a woman who isn't a doctor because he'd never see her otherwise. Only another doctor would understand his schedule and work within it. Or he just wanted an excuse not to date you.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 08:30 PM
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Do you want to raise your SMV/RMV or to raise your employability? A degree will not help - AT ALL - with finding a husband. Whereas some cosmetic adjustments to increase your attractiveness, as well as your confidence, will.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 08:28 PM
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Google is your friend. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0192513X231155673#: This immediately came up. Don't recall where I saw the study that showed it by # of partners claimed. This one mostly just shows a difference betwen 1-9 partners and 10+. Other studies conflict, as this is a very politicized, sensitive subject for obvious reasons. EDIT: Found a good list of supports here, for what it's worth. https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/premarital-sex-and-greater-risk-of-divorce/
/r/MensRights09/11/23 07:23 PM
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The 1950s got a few things right as we're learning today, given the steady decline in overall womens' happiness since then.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 06:55 PM
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Well said.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:52 PM
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cock carousel So despite the statistical fact that the chance a marriage will last decreases with every single sexual partner the woman (but not the man) has had, you think the CC has no effect on women?
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:49 PM
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Women are more influenced by social circles and social trends. This isn't stereotyping, this is easily demonstrable by any knowledge of personality traits and the Big 5 test, for example. It's also why FTM transitioning is a memetic virus that infects certain cliques of young girls. "Rapid Onset Sexual Dyspmorphia" isn't a thing; it's just a label for women being more susceptible to a specific type memetic capture - in this case, "any discomfort with your biological sex must mean you're really a…
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:46 PM
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They give plenty of insight into mental illness. The more piercings, tattoos, weird hair colors and haircuts a woman has, the more likely she's nuts and not a safe LTR.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:43 PM
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Why do women keep asking where all the good guys at? Because they cannot take responsibility for creating the problem they face. So they must look for an external cause of the lack of suitable men. Like, "I'm wonderful, so the great men should be lining up for me to date; this isn't happening, so great mystery and HELP!" I have seen many women asking the same question over and over, multiple times. Where are all the good guys with good moral values? Married to women who didn't whore around in th…
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:41 PM
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My question is, does your RMV warrant a better man? Or are you where you should be on the pecking order? If you are, then you'd be better off trying to encourage and uplift your man into becoming the best version of who he could be, rather than hunting for a new one.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 05:38 PM
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Do not flirt with women at work. Do not socialize either, other than what is absolutely necessary. No one-on-one meetings, no mentoring, no favors. NEVER give compliments. If at all possible, do not go for any after hour entertainment if women are going to be in the company. Don't shit where you eat is the common phrase. Date only women within your social network. This can be hard if your network is small, but if that's the case, then maybe work to expand it first. It's much harder for a woman t…
/r/MensRights09/11/23 03:40 PM
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That argument doesn't really hold up when looked at in context. For a soundbyte I'll grant you; but when you can hear/see 10 minutes of progressively more engaged fooling around, it's hard to argue coercion when he finally says, "Wanna do it?" and she agrees.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 03:36 PM
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Don't tell a man what he is feeling or thinking, ASK. "Well, you're just saying/doing that because of X." Like, bitch please, you don't know what goes on inside my head. Don't pretend you know my heart and soul better than I do. I see it a LOT in women, especially those who have been deluded into thinking they're the more "sensitive, empathetic gender".
/r/MensRights09/11/23 03:33 PM
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Are all women Gaslighters? Most people are, regardless of gender, but it does skew female. Why? Biology. Women have two inherent traits with a stronger prevalence than men do: the avoidance of responsibility (passive aggression), and more emotional thinking. Combine those two, and you get a gender that is virtually designed to see reality as it wants it to be, not as it is. Women tend to be emotional reasoners, living in the daydream of their desires and not the harsh reality of truth. And why n…
/r/MensRights08/11/23 08:50 PM
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It sounds like you're torn between listening to your family's feminism and your bf's desire for a traditional wife. Until and unless you can commit to him and not them, I can see him being reluctant to fully commit too. Worth discussing with him.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 04:09 PM
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I’ll give an example for the sake of putting this into perspective. We spent the afternoon together. We came home, relaxed on the couch. He put something on the TV and was on his phone for two hours, not making conversation. I stayed there just to be near him. Finally I got tired of waiting for him to engage with me so I got up and left to another room. He tried making conversation at that point but I was over it. Two more hours later he heads to bed, tried again to warm up to me. It makes me fe…
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/23 05:32 PM
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Shredded is a look that many men simply can't attain. For those who can, it requires a rough diet, dehydration, and/or steroids. Chris Hemsworth (Thor) looks great shirtless - after months of training, and just for a few days - before he's rehydrating and losing the definition again. Just listen to any natural (non-steroid) bodybuilder - they will tell you what is and is not reasonable. I mean, plenty of people due to their fat and muscle composition more-or-less can't get a sixpak, even with 5-…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/23 04:44 PM
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>Just because the obligation is not enforced, that does not mean that the obligation does not exist. For starters, any obligation that is not enforced, in practice DOES NOT exist. And further, is ripe for exploitation via its being selectively enforced against certain non-protected classes.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 02:34 AM
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You really need to learn English. Misandry is hatred/bigotry towards men men because of their gender. I don't hate men in general, or op; I just do not respect him as he acted weak and useless and ineffectual, i.e. beta. There is a time to be nonconfrobtatiobal and this was not it.
/r/MensRights02/11/23 04:46 AM
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Nope, I reject your tone policing. Beta simply means passive and nonconfrontational in this situation, rather than acting to keep frame and integrity intact. I stand by it and F off.
/r/MensRights02/11/23 02:19 AM
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". I again let it pass but I got so angry that I limited my communication with her for some days and I think she noticed, as she send me a message asking "you okay?" To which I answered with a simple "yes". There's your mistake. You lied and said you were okay. BETA. I'm still waiting for an apology, but nothing after a few days. Keep waiting, ain't gonna happen. You already told her her behavior was acceptable.
/r/MensRights02/11/23 12:00 AM
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If you have the time, you might even consider taking up singing or voice training. And yeah, moderating your diction and cursing a lot less would help.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 08:31 PM
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Well, let's start with the obvious. Appearance-wise: go to the gym. Tighten things up. Start a skin care regime, especially for your face. If you still smoke, stop. If you still drink, STOP. None of that is good for your health or appearance. Voice-wise: stop talking. Whenever you want to speak, wait three seconds. See if they're really done speaking first. Then, if you still need to respond, do so, but at HALF the volume you planned to use. This will sound more feminine, AND it'll rein in your …
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 08:18 PM
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First question: What are you trying to achieve with being more feminine? There are plenty of threads on how to be more feminine/submissive on this forum already; why are YOU doing it? What do you want out of it? Do you know?
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 08:11 PM
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Being 22 and Russian... ouch. I feel your pain. Your options aren't as open as they might be in another country. Plus dealing with mental illness... my heart goes out to you, brother.
/r/MensRights01/11/23 04:22 PM
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Because women want to jabber and men want to find solutions.
/r/MensRights29/10/23 04:13 AM
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See, I still disagree with your interpretation. Reading it as "I won't rape/force you" out of "there's no pressure to do anything you don't want to do" is simply not what I get. I get a guy saying literally that: that he won't pressure her to do anything, period. No awkward "are you warm enough," no "wanna fool around" once she's comfortable, no innuendo or sales tactics. Just, "sleep there because it's a long drive home, anything that happens will be at your instigation". Saying there's no pres…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 06:30 PM
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I don’t like him saying “there’s no pressure to do anything you don’t want to do” - I get rape-y vibes from this comment. “Don’t worry, I won’t murder you” What else is he supposed to say? The exact words, please. Because I feel like you're projecting and nothing he could say would not feel "rapey".
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 06:03 PM
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Good basic advice is intermittent fasting, and radically reduce your carbohydrate and processed foods intake.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 05:37 PM
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And that's why this whole post is toxic IMO. Because being able to pull a guy like this is a low-probability chance even if you're redpill-aware. There just aren't enough guys like this. And note from her comments, he's not exclusive with her, either. You want monogamy too?
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 05:33 PM
1

I disagree with yours too, but at least you're civil. That's refreshing.
/r/MensRights25/10/23 03:50 PM
1

By myself, no.
/r/MensRights25/10/23 03:39 PM
1

Alienating men, and damaging women.
/r/MensRights25/10/23 03:38 PM
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Jody is eternal.
/r/MensRights25/10/23 03:37 PM
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That's very conspiratorial thinking. I really don't think upper class guys are consciously plotting like that. You don't think people at the top ever sabotage those beneath themselves in order to stay in power/remove potential threats? Um... you don't know human nature very well, sir.
/r/MensRights25/10/23 03:34 PM
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Way to stereotype a whole gender for the behavior of a portion of them... the blue-pilled portion raised in a steadily feminised culture. I used to think Incels didn't exist, we all had choices as to how we live our lives and how we turn out, right? Then I thought about it... and realized most people are the product of their upbringing. They don't even know another way can exist. THey do what they are told to do... and fail. Because society doesn't care about them succeeding. Incels are MADE, by…
/r/MensRights25/10/23 03:32 PM
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Every. Single. Time. Reminds me of that ad, "One in Four homeless people are women!" Funny way of saying that you don't care that 3/4 of homeless are men.
/r/MensRights25/10/23 03:24 PM
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if men are allowed to work less hours Oh, we're allowed to work less. But no woman is going to respect/date/marry a man who earns less. Most men work long hours to attract/support others, not themselves.
/r/MensRights25/10/23 03:06 PM
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When there are complaints, it's usually because the hiring practices are pure sexism, based on gender rather than competence. Personally, I don't let it bother me too much. Statistically, the more women you add to your workforce (and ESPECIALLY to the board room), the more chance that company will fail. So I just laugh.
/r/MensRights25/10/23 03:05 PM
3

Apex fallacy is common amongst leftists.
/r/MensRights25/10/23 03:03 PM
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Feminists hate womens' choices. In other news, dog bites man.
/r/MensRights25/10/23 03:03 PM
3

anytime anyone mentions the wage gap i immediately know to take everything else they say with several grains of salt. Salt hell. I assume they're young, stupid, ideologically possessed, or some combination of the three.
/r/MensRights25/10/23 03:02 PM
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RPW is for women who are looking to find men who represent a certain set of traits/characteristics . Not... exactly. RPW does not laud one set of traits or characteristics. To quote the sidebar: This community was created as a harbor for RP minded women whose goal is to build a lasting and happy relationship with a great man. This may, or may not, include traits you are lauding. RPW is not tradcon, though there is much overlap. Those traits/values that you love may not apply, because (again, the…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 01:22 PM
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how should i handle this? should i continue to ignore him or be honest with him and tell him i don’t want to see him anymore this weekend? Should you ghost him like he ghosted you? Hmmm. Gee, hard question. NO. Tell him that because he ghosted you without a word yesterday, you have taken that as a sign he's not a match for you and you will be cutting contact and blocking him. Then do so. No big deal.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/23 06:47 PM
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Honestly, if you don't have kids or other ties, the one advantage of being a childless couple is the ability to go anywhere, to travel and explore and do stuff. All the trappings of the nuclear family tie you down; without those, you really are free to move about. And if that's your passion, say travelling the world, then this would actually be a plus. And if OP and her hubby are in the laptop class, they could theoretically travel and live quite well abroad, seeing all the sights, eating all th…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/23 06:45 PM
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I try to be kind, but I also call them like I see them. It feels very like "whistling past the graveyard".
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/23 05:47 PM
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half naked woman There's a big difference between this and a gym thot. You don't need hyperbole to address this problem.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/23 04:45 PM
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this situation triggered me because I used to be with a porn addict. This would have been helpful to know in the main post. I was wondering why you were coming across as unusually insecure. Answer: you have trauma. Got it.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/23 04:44 PM
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I would never date a guy who follows/looks up random girls on ig. Pretty sure OP said he’s searched up his female friend So he knows her. And if the worst she's showing are gym booty pics... that's not necessarily a red flag. If he's doing it a lot, or with lots of strangers, then maybe. Maybe not. But don't automatically say it's a dealbreaker. Look closer. The reason I know my boyfriend (24M) would never look at Instagram models isn’t because he’s in a relationship with me, it’s because that’s…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/23 04:42 PM
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True and false. Having kids - happy and well adjusted ones - is quite possible, even on a working class salary. You just have to manage your standard of living. People want a certain standard of living which is hard to achieve on one salary. This is like saying "Having a $150,000 lifestyle is hard on a $75,000 middle class salary." Well no duh. You can't have it all, so you make choices and sacrifices.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/23 04:37 PM
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Respectfully, this entire post reeks of cope. Unless you are working towards something that is creating a legacy of some kind - be it a business, a work of art, or yes, kids, anything you do is just killing time. There's no meaning to it. Honestly, taking kids out of the equation brings up the question of, "Why get married at all then?" Marriage is to provide for legacy. To create something enduring. I'd focus your attention less on whether you should be a working or homemaking wife, and more on…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/23 04:34 PM
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If I go away for a week, when I come back I can see the toilet and bathroom have not been cleaned at all since the last time I did Newsflash. Any man who cleans his own bathroom one a week or more often is just doing it to impress his boyfriend. Holy crap men do not care. Yes, the dishes not being done is disgusting, and if the clothes are mildewing in the washer that's bad too. But this is a guy who simply doesn't do home maintenance stuff. Up to you if that's a dealbreaker or not. Maybe he can…
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/23 07:47 PM
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it made me feel uncomfortable like I'm a pick-me, This is one of the worst, most toxic coping mechanisms that Feminists use against other women to police their behavior. It's literally criticizing women for doing things that will make them desirable to men rather than unhappy, lonely, feminist footsoldiers. You do realize that, right? What do you think RPW does? It gives you the tools to land the HVM you desire. And not through toxic FDS-style manipulation of others, but through self-improvement…
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/23 07:07 PM
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Biology.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 11:36 PM
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Women do not know what they want. They think they want a female man partner, but that dries them like the Sahara. You must be stoic, stronger, capable, period. Women do not respect vulnerability even as they clamor for it.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 12:20 AM
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Seriously? Men are expected/required to be strong. Tough. Women are not. A man who shows vulnerability is a weak man.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 12:17 AM
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See, I don't necessarily agree. Sometimes we do things in the past that we're not proud of, and don't want to dwell on. Can't change the past, can't undo it, can only move forward and focus our vision to the future. I don't talk about that era of my past because it won't help my relationships. It won't win me respect; if anything it'll lose me respect. Needing to talk everything to death is not the only way to view our lives. And yes, I know that bottling things up also isn't healthy. But "leave…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/23 04:57 PM
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What are his favorite elements of camping? For me, it's the fire: making it, lighting it, burning... everything. So if this was my relationship, first thing would be for my wife to buy extra firewood just for me to burn. THen she'd probably bring bacon so I can have a campfire BLT (mmmm bacon). And then she'd let me unwrap my present, which is her in lingerie. If THAT combo didn't get me into a better mood, I don't know what would. EDIT: If you just want to help his stress levels, get him a tick…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/23 02:24 PM
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“a man does not need to know everything about your past. What’s before him is before him therefore is irrelevant to the now with him.” Unlike some posters, I actually agree with this, but with a caveat. If you don't want to bring up certain histories, you simply say that you refuse to talk about it. Never lie. Personally, I have one period of my history, let's call it my Nutso Schizo Lot Lizard period, where I dated a woman who... damaged me. I refuse, to this day, to talk about the specifics of…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/23 02:21 PM
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I’ve been a stripper, a sugar baby and for about a month I did straight prostitution (only with men I was reasonably attracted to). Okay, so you have a certain type of damage and likely see men transactionally. Got it. Does this mean that I would be more compatible or deserve to be with someone who has a porn addiction and goes to strip clubs occasionally, maybe who has paid for sex in the past? I am a murderer. Does this mean I would be more compatible or deserve to be with another murderer? NO…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/23 02:13 PM
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I remember reading JudgyBitch's blog long ago (now defunct due to RL death threats). When she was in college she and several other women were pursuing a HV man (now her husband). The way she made him realize she was a keeper? She washed, dried, and folded all his clothes. She didn't do something flashy, she did something that simply made his life easier and better, that the other girls would not even think of. Of course, this example is more about standing out from the thots (selection). Just...…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/23 01:59 PM
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If you open up to him about making decisions together, that will further bond you together, too.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/23 05:17 PM
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I think your wants and your needs are at war, and you haven't thought through how things will come together OR spoken enough to your BF. You have no real plan, with or without him, so you're in limbo and don't like the sensation of freefall. And justly so. So here's what you need to do. 1) Involve him, in ALL of this planning. Nothing you decide on your own will be helpful when you're determining a life path for the pair of you. 2) Get him to figure out some plans for his career future beyond "I…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/23 04:41 PM
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should be mandatory at birth IF a man's name is going onto the birth certificate, or being invoked for child support purposes.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 04:28 PM
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50% is a lot of slags Strong, Independant Women.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 04:27 PM
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Yeah, I know about deceptive cutting and misinterpretations. This reminds me - do you remember that video of the woman going about NYC for six hours, looking to see if she'd get catcalled? And the outrage and fauxtroversy about it? And then when people looked closer, they a) realized that a lot of the "catcalls" were simply people saying hello in passing, and b) that pretty much all of the actual catcalls were from poor-looking blacks/latinos, which hurt their narrative so the whole thing disapp…
/r/MensRights19/10/23 03:42 PM
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Without that child's limited capacity for consent, no.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 03:39 PM
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I think it's a great concept to bring up. You can force all kinds of women to agree with you. "Do you believe you should have bodily autonomy?" YES! "Do you believe no one should modify your body without your consent?" YES! "Do you believe in 'My Body My Choice?'" YES! "Do you believe this should apply to everybody?" YES! Great! Will you sign this petition to end infant male circumcision, for all the reasons you just agreed to?
/r/MensRights19/10/23 03:35 PM
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think an important step would be to bury that bogus claim of how cutting off parts of genitals would prevent VDs. Don't bury it. Let them keep it. Just point out that circumcision for this purpose is insanity; let men cut, or not, when they're adults and are actually able to consent and to legally have sex. Unless the pro-circ crowd WANT to have sex with infants?
/r/MensRights19/10/23 03:30 PM
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Do you not care about self-pleasuring either? Removal of the foreskin has been equated by some as the removal of a woman's g-spot. You lose more than half your nerve endings in the process.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 03:28 PM
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And it's so weird that feminists have a strident absence of regard for men's bodily autonomy on this subject, but care so much about FGM.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 03:26 PM
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There is medical rationale if you are in a country with poor access to medical assistance, antibiotics, or with a high incidence of HIV. Poor access to medical assistance and antibiotics has nothing to do with if you are cut or not. How would it? As for HIV, if a male is worried about it, and believes the questionable literature about circumcision's benefits regarding it, then let that male get circumcised CONSENSUALLY as an ADULT. You know, when he's also legal to HAVE sex? Even accepting your …
/r/MensRights19/10/23 03:24 PM
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Jumping to rash conclusions from one video is just going to give feminists more fuel to say that mens rights activists are just misogynists. And if that's what we were doing, you'd be right. But this video is simply representative of what men see at all levels of society, mass media, news, schools, and the general culture. The entire thing is corrupted and toxic with feminists, female supremacy, and gynocentricism and a general disregard for, if not active hate of, men and male well-being.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 03:00 PM
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https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/hillary-clinton-victims-of-war/ Hillary Clinton once said that "women have always been the primary victims of war." Not the men who DIE, screw them, it's the women who depend upon them who suffer the most. SMH.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 04:27 PM
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Learn to move with grace and deliberation, and to see the world with childlike wonder. Perform actions and hobbies that enhance these. Take up dancing, birdwatching, deportment. Go look at 'charm school' curriculum. Because it does sound like you have male mannerisms/exposure. You need to slow and soften your presentation.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 03:54 PM
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You aren't wrong. My wife and I buy a cow and a pig annually to fill our freezers because of that
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 02:37 AM
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Actually, I was more thinking about the orthodox Jewish rabbis who SUCK the blood off newborns.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 02:31 AM
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I read that once someone forms an opinion it takes astronomically more evidence the other way to get them to change their view than it did to form their view in the first place, which is of course why people want to get their word in first. A better saying is, "You cannot reason someone out of a position that they did not reason themselves into." Most people don't circumcise their kids for rational, conscious reasons. They do it because they're sheep being told what to do, or what is normal, or …
/r/MensRights17/10/23 08:40 PM
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My personal theory is that it reduces HIV only because circumcised men have less nerves (you removed most of them) so sex is less pleasurable and therefore they seek it less. Less sex = less chance for STDs.
/r/MensRights17/10/23 08:38 PM
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Reasons why circumcision continues, in no order: Pedophile priests who perform them Bizarre mothers "wanting their son to look normal" like it's their business Idiot traditional religionists who ignore medical facts about it People who don't understand bodily autonomy Average ignorant go-with-the-flow arseholes Cosmetics industry who buy foreskins to make products from them Because nobody cares about boys, and people somehow differentiate FGM and MGM.
/r/MensRights17/10/23 08:36 PM
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Quit all grains, bread and white rice from my diet and in just 3 days, my anxiety vanished. I felt like a new person! I went from a sensitive, neurotic guy to calm and collected in a matter of days. Low/no carb is a real thing. My wife does carnivore to manage her inflammation and ADHD, and it works amazingly. Refined sugar, HFCS, and wheat/corn will kill you over time after long suffering. Keto/paleo for life.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/23 08:13 PM
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there's a world of difference between being confident and stuck up/egoistic Yes, there is. And men know the difference. But many, many women do NOT, due to the current cultural programming of "women perfect, men bad", of unearned awarding of female status. The whole self-esteem movement is rife with telling people (usually women) that they are amazing and strong and capable - without any proof, any requirements, any demonstration of it needed. Unearned confidence also leads to disastrous consequ…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/23 07:32 PM
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Dead bedrooms can also come from aging, having kids, serious alcohol consumption, stress, etc, especially if many of those combine. It is possible for there to be one aspect of the relationship to be heavily neglected while others still get attention and care. A dead bedroom doesn't necessarily mean the relationship is dead, but it does mean it's in poor shape overall.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/23 07:26 PM
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you should be aware that a large part of feminism pushes marxism Oh, quite aware.
/r/MensRights17/10/23 02:04 PM
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would you marry a woman who didn’t graduate college? Yes because college doesn't make a woman interesting or educated, it just makes her employable. I don't need her employable, I need her to be an interesting, educated companion for my life. As a side note, my wife did NOT complete her college degree - she was wasting money on a degree she didn't need and would not use. Now she's ecstatic as a mother of a toddler. Wouldn’t she have had to have done something else that qualifies as “successful” …
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/23 02:03 PM
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"upper middle class men do care if you have an education" They do and they don't. Source: I am an upper middle class man. Men at this level want a woman to be educated; this does not mean credentialed. They want her to be intelligent; this does not mean entitled. You don't need a career or a degree to show that you are educated and intelligent; point in fact, college and a career don't indicate either. Your ability to discourse, to handle a budget, to be reasonable, to manage your emotions and t…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/23 12:59 AM
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On the other hand, you have some men saying that intelligence and women who have high(er) incomes make her too masculine and unable to submit to a man There's intelligence and intelligence. The intelligence that makes a woman arrogant re: men makes her toxic AF. But other women are intelligent enough to realize what men actually want, and don't let their intellect inflate their egos. THOSE women are the intelligent women whom you want to marry. Sadly, western society is hellbent on making intell…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/23 12:55 AM
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You can provide things that make him want to marry you, without acting like a wife. IOW, you give him a taste; you don't act like a wife 24/7, because he has not wifed you. You act like a girlfriend, with treats of being a wife so he knows what to expect. Some (they're getting rarer) Christian women will offer various non-sex acts to show they're interested in the man, but not offer sex before marriage. Which is a valid tactic, so long as she does NOT withhold sex after marriage. If you make pro…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/23 12:41 AM
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OLD is great for getting laid, but not so great for finding a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 08:10 PM
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However, before I deleted my dating app earlier this year, I had close to 100 matches who met this criteria. LOL you think all the profiles and matches on OLD are real? Seriously? The services themselves have been shown to radically manipulate it to get people to subscribe. It's mostly targetted at men, but those "attractive 18-30 year old women near you waiting for you to swipe!" are almost always nonexistent. For women, men will swipe damn near half of all matches; women, about 5% if that. It'…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 07:52 PM
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He says its okay for a men to sleep around IN A RELATIONSHIP if they are honest with eachother. Okay, time for devil's advocate. Your friend, or at least your retelling of his argument, is fairly incoherent, but let me explain one, narrow area where he is actually correct. There is a biological difference between men that is not terribly comprehended or spoken about. Men seeking sex is a primarily physical act, not requiring emotional connection/relationship. Women often use sex to form/strength…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 07:35 PM
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If a man is complacent in the relationship - comfortable, happy with where things are, rather than either uncomfortable (unhappy) or astonished at his good fortune (not taking for granted how well it's going) - then he has no incentive to rock the boat. People don't change unless they are made uncomfortable. That discomfort can either come from actual unpleasantness (an alcoholic giving up booze only AFTER hitting rock bottom), or it can come from fear of unpleasantness (having a wonderful partn…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 04:58 PM
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They do not want equal outcomes because that would mean equal negative outcomes, not just equal positive outcomes. You think they want as many women incarcerated as men? Committing suicide? Working as bricklayers and plumbers? NO. They only look upwards, at the C-suite and politics - you know, places of power.
/r/MensRights16/10/23 02:52 PM
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What makes "equality" & "parity" for a feminist? When everything is centered around womens' needs. You have to come to understand that equality and parity mean 'total supremacy of power and zero responsibility'.
/r/MensRights16/10/23 02:50 PM
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Depends upon how comfortable he is, and when a situation arises to either a) remind him of how much less he'd have if you weren't there, or b) how much more he DOES have when you are. If you're complacent, it can take years (if ever). If you really go the extra mile, coupled with periods when you're not there so he can feel your absence, then it can be weeks or months... IF you're truly a HV RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 02:48 PM
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I heard from my raging feminist sister How do you know a feminist is talking out her ass? Her lips are moving. that when IT started out it was a low paid women's job but it changed be be higher paid men's job. The reason for the change was according to her was misogyny. Snicker. If you want to go WAY back, maybe sorting punchcards was a woman's menial job. But the first coders/IT guys were geeky, intellectual men because women didn't want the sort of work that involves peering at computer boards…
/r/MensRights16/10/23 02:23 PM
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You cannot goodwife yourself out of a situation where the problem isn't you. It's not like you can work around your spouse... and taking more control of household scheduling, in essence overriding his control, will just emasculate him.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/23 03:25 PM
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I like to lead these hypocrites down a simple logic path. 1) If a big guy punches me, can I defend myself by hitting back? Especially if I cannot easily escape the situation? yes, of course 2) If a short, small, aggressive guy punches me, can I defend myself by hitting back? Especially if I cannot easily escape the situation? yes, I guess 3) Now change the genders. Why should my answers change? And watch her flail and get angry rather than answering.
/r/MensRights13/10/23 03:23 PM
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He honestly needs more, targeted therapy for his attachment issues. It's not really a RPW issue (beyond this being his flaw/weakness, lowering his RMV, and stressing the relationship), it's a psychological one.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/23 03:20 PM
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Not much. This isn't helpful advice.
/r/MensRights12/10/23 05:40 PM
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Just look at the demographics of those working at the US Post office for this.
/r/MensRights12/10/23 02:52 PM
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Exactly. Single dads put the responsibility onto themselves where as single mothers push it onto their kids anyone they can. Which is why women cross-culturally vote more socialist than men. They want provisioning from anywhere, anyone, but their own labors.
/r/MensRights12/10/23 02:48 PM
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Because women are always the physically and morally weaker and outright-aggression- and confrontation- disadvantaged sex for some reason. Mainstream society loves the damsel in distress narrative almost as much as they love Disney movies. FTFY. Also, it's funny, because people are mostly coming to hate current Disney movies, too.
/r/MensRights12/10/23 02:46 PM
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This past week I bought this up during a disagreement that we had about how he tell me he wants to marry me but when I ask for a timeline, that’s something he can’t give me. He said his reasoning for that is he doesn’t want to let me down. That reasoning concerns me. But he just tells me to trust him. He has a vision (that he hasn't shared with you) about how where imagines he wants to be before he's ready for marriage. When all his ducks are in a row, and he's perfectly placed to say, "Yes! Her…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/23 02:13 PM
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Some will see it as trashy, some won't. But trashy or not, it does suggest to most men that you are VERY concerned/focused on your looks, and are probably a shallow, insecure person because of it. Not saying you ARE shallow or insecure. I'm suggesting a lot of guys will expect that.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/23 02:05 PM
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Sometimes we just don't get a good reason. Most peoples' decisions are irrational, emotional, and instinctive, and we rationalize our reasons for them after the fact - and we do all that without realizing it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/23 02:03 PM
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I may not know who you are or ever meet you in person, but as one human to another, I care about you, brother. I wish you well.
/r/MensRights11/10/23 05:45 PM
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Why is this a surprise? Do you not remember the EXACT SAME THING with Boko Haram? The savages who killed (machete and fire) whole villages worth of boy children but kidnapped the girl children? Remember "Bring Back Our Girls?" And crickets regarding the boys?
/r/MensRights11/10/23 03:02 PM
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Any other pressing issues which might require a female spokesperson and champion? All of them. It's why GirlWritesWhat had such a following in her day (her videos are still relevant).
/r/MensRights10/10/23 06:52 PM
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by not allowing him to sleep with other women, I am making him less successful because if he would be allowed, he would be more motivated to achieve more in life. He's full of shite. You strive for your family and for your own advancement and achievement and pride, not for your side piece. NO. This guy wants all the benefits of marriage without the monogamy. And I'm in a poly marriage. I am not one to shoot down a nonmonogamous marriage. But it sounds like your man will not be happy in anything …
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/23 06:32 PM
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When do you start paying, if ever? Simple: you pay him in things he wants and needs. Most men don't want or need your money. They have your own, and it's their chosen role to provide it. They want other things. THings that make you the woman he chose. Your personality, your affection, your care and concern for his well-being. The little I love you post-its you slip into his lunchbag. The surprise backrub while he's reading. The wake-up oral he never expected. That's how you "pay". You pay with w…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/23 06:27 PM
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It gets a little easier as the oldest kids start helping more around the house with chores and childrearing. Maybe take a year off from popping out more kids, let them mature just a bit, before resuming?
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/23 06:24 PM
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this subreddit is a shadow of itself sadly. Related quarantines and bans, general censorship, and heightened societal oppression of men's issues (they used to ignore them, now they actively suppress them) tend to aggregate together into an oppressive presence. Can't take that out of the equation.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/23 01:27 PM
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A lot of the current problems stem from basic faulty assumptions in the psychological community. Their values have become politicized and corrupted from honest science. Anybody who has looked at the basic studies can see that a) men and women are different (gasp) and b) that they have different needs. Anybody who objects to this is an unscientific, unempirical moron. Once you get that point established, looking at HOW the sexes are different is instrumental. One study I keep coming back to is th…
/r/MensRights10/10/23 01:22 PM
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But it could be most Western "liberal" countries. I was half expecting it to be NYC or some other blue leftist shithole.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 01:17 PM
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This is a well rehearsed process for many women psychopaths. FTFY. Sadly, mental illness has been heavily on the rise, especially for, but not limited to, women. Stay safe out there, people.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 01:13 PM
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What would an intervention intended to improve the “mental health” of boys look like if created by experts who actually understand males? It would be hands-on, active tasks involving channeling emotions through tasks that learn, test, and demonstrate competency, giving the boys solid, tangible anchors to base positive self esteem around, since men value RESPECT over LOVE. Shop class and some old biker dudes teaching it, for example. That'd do them a WORLD of good compared to this feminine tripe.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 01:10 PM
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why would my ex be suing for full custody of our daughter? It's hard to say without more info on why he cheated on you. I can speculate about him being a control freak or sociopath, but there's not a lot to go on. Maybe he just decided he's a better place/person to raise your child. Maybe he's lashing out at his ex. Maybe it's Maybeline. Can't tell.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/23 01:06 PM
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Feminists have convinced far too many young women that they have no agency There's a reason for that if you understand that Feminism isn't an equality movement, it's a supremacy movement. It doesn't want equality because equality means equal right and equal responsibilities. Feminists only want the rights, but have been busy shedding what responsibilities women had for decades. So anything that takes away the consequences of women's bad behaviors, they embrace. From abortion on demand up to 9 mo…
/r/MensRights09/10/23 08:45 PM
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More specifically, the hugely more common negative outcomes for children that come from single mother households, are avoided by being raised by married couples OR single father households - the single father households performed similar to married couples. Only single mother households destroyed the children that came from them. One wonders why. (I have a theory - just a theory, as to why, btw. Western culture is so feminized, children get all the maternal treatment they need even when a mother…
/r/MensRights09/10/23 06:04 PM
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Women make less money because they are forced to choose between their career and their children. No one PERSON is forcing this upon them. REALITY is forcing this upon them. You can't work a full time job, and be a full time parent, unless you have a time turner, and Harry Potter's universe is fiction so there you go. And remember, we humans have excelled from our hunter gatherer days by specializing. A core way we specialized, both socially and biologically, is our sexual dimorphism. Men labor o…
/r/MensRights09/10/23 05:57 PM
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the follow up foot stamping is "how come fathers don't have to give up their careers?" Because someone has to focus on earning money to support the family, and men are more inclined to do so and to pay the associated price of not being around the family because of it. eyeroll
/r/MensRights09/10/23 05:53 PM
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And then there’s the “Mattress Girl” (whose “brave protest” is still “celebrated” by The Feminist Daily, aka The Guardian) and her fellow (my truth) accuser. Ah, Emma Sulkybitch, I haven't heard her mentioned in quite a while. I remember that drama. Or remember the Duke Lacross case right before her?
/r/MensRights09/10/23 05:49 PM
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Hard to tell. Anecdotally, lots of cops will tell you that at least half the ones they hear on the ground are obviously false.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 05:48 PM
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It is a literal fucking agreement with signature on it. You'd think that, but Judges regularly throw them out across the world. It's almost like courts are biased against men or something. ... nah, The Patriarchy(tm) would never permit that.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 05:45 PM
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“it’s what people do”. This is what drives MOST people. History is full of sheep/NPCs/followers. As for why men get married, historically it has been to a) start a family, b) get laid, c) to build alliances/family bonds, and d) have someone to come home to. Varying degrees of each of these, YMMV. And let's not forget that until the 20th century, the brides often had premature babies, aka "wedding night" babies, aka she got pregnant and they married to cover it up, aka shotgun weddings.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/23 07:25 AM
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Around 40% if I’m not mistaken, so that means that natural harems have already been the norm to some degree in early human history. Correct statistic, incorrect conclusion. About 40% of men and 80% of women have historically reproduced is the actual statistic. That is to say, out of every 10 men and 10 women, 4 men had surviving children and 8 women had surviving offspring. It doesn't mean that every man who did have kids, had them on two women. It means that a LOT more men died (in wars, common…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/23 07:20 AM
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The first biological goal of men AND women is to procreate. Period. Full Stop. Men being broadcast procreators works for top men because they have that option. Also this can be the best option when mortality rates are high. But for all other men, pairbonding is more advantageous because he can ensure his line continues via a dedicated partner. And that applies to all men who aren't the top 1%. It's not emasculating unless you think any man who isn't spraying his seed like Chad Thundercock is ema…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/23 07:14 AM
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Your base premise is that men are broadcast procreators, made to inseminate a lot of women, in order to further their line. And if we were just animals, that'd be... well, not a great strategy, but A strategy. Seemed to work for Ghengis Khan, right? But we are the creature that THINKS. Keeping one (or more) dedicated mates ensures that those women he sleeps with, bear HIS children. Monogamous marriage is a form of mate guarding and ensuring procreation. A man isn't just getting sex, he is gettin…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/23 07:07 AM
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The problem is how current society defines AI. AI may be SUPPOSED to stand for Artificial Intelligence, but in practice it is actually AGGREGATED Intelligence. That's why it threatens crappy jobs and crappy people (those whose output is below average) but doesn't threaten high-performers at all. Because current AI is an averaging of positions, skills, opinions, etc. It cannot create anything new, or anything exceptional. It can only create average or below-average.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 02:48 PM
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Have you guys noticed that for all these years men have been blamed if a woman can't orgasm? or if a woman doesn't know herself sexually, men get blamed for it. Yes, because women are objects, not actors. Feminism/women self-objectify, which is the most tragic thing about them. Not only we have to do the hard work of becoming a rare exception of a man to attract a woman If it's possible. You can't work yourself into being 6' or 6", and for many men becoming a high earner simply isn't in the card…
/r/MensRights03/10/23 02:15 PM
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Okay, just did the math. He owes her, over the next six years, $444,064 (6 years of 4362/mo, + 130k) She owes him 750,000. That's a win for him.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 02:07 PM
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What's so horrible and degrading about being desired by your husband? Nothing. That's not what they're protesting. They're protesting being held to a standard where they actually owe something to the relationship and their partner. That just as the man is EXPECTED to provide provisioning, the woman is EXPECTED to provide sex. In today's Feminist culture, which embraces all the power and freedom for women with NONE of the responsibilities (because Feminism is an empowerment movement not an equali…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/23 01:59 PM
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As soon as I saw that this was a Buzzfeed article, I refrained from clicking the link. Don't do it. Nothing will be gained.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 01:34 PM
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If you truly believe that, why are you still here?
/r/MensRights29/09/23 12:40 AM
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And? They may not be 100% autobiographical but they are still fairly representative of concepts, values, and behaviors of the time. If you can't draw value from that beyond entertainment, that's on you.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/23 05:22 PM
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https://www.tennessean.com/story/news/politics/2023/09/12/tennessee-house-bill-2698-paternity-parentage-law-dna-testing-child-birth/70830681007/ Parkinson filed a similar bill to HB 2698 during the 2023 legislative session, under the current 113th Tennessee General Assembly. HB 253/SB 331 was signed into law by Gov. Bill Lee on April 24. The law says that anyone who establishes a person as the biological parent of a child with intent to deprive the actual biological parent from their parental ri…
/r/MensRights28/09/23 02:48 PM
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What if a guy lost his genitals in an accident or was homosexual, whats going to be his purpose now since women are out of the equation? What is his purpose WITH those? Not to snark, but what is the meaning/purpose of life? Do you have one? Reproduction (and the sex urge that ensures it) isn't the only purpose in life, but it's a core one. A lot of meaning (NOT all) in life goes away if you aren't having kids. Sure you can 'leave something behind' but... how many men actually do? Invent somethin…
/r/MensRights28/09/23 02:39 PM
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You get it, then, and why I recommended them. Very traditional, not because "that's how it is" or "Muh patriarchy" but because IT WORKS. Feminists and other BPers are ultimately pathetic in my eyes because they reject reality. I can't comprehend people who do that.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/23 02:35 PM
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Try reading older books with healthier, more traditional relationships. One of my all time favorite series to read is Little House on the Prairie, for example.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/23 12:24 PM
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Getting called an incel or gay simply illustrates how bigoted the speaker is. Full stop disengage, because you can get nowhere with such a person. Anyone who judges others on immutable characteristics such as height, race, sex (yes it cannot currently actually be changed), etc. is a bigot. Immutable = cannot be changed. Beating someone up for things they cannot change is just cruel. Now take Incel. Why does everybody miss the "Involuntary" part of it? Like all the other traits above, if you're i…
/r/MensRights28/09/23 12:22 PM
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And if you actually paid attention instead of having a knee-jerk reaction, you'd see I ADDRESSED THIS you pedant. That's why one sentence started "when you marry an arab" and the other, "If they're muslim". Because no shit, not all muslims are arabs and not all arabs are muslims. And even if HE isn't religious, the family's religion often does matter, ESPECIALLY if they're devout. Because if she marries a (lapsed/nondevout) muslim, and then does something to shame the family, some of the more re…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/23 11:54 PM
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What do you mean? You're not saying they LIKE having those crime rates as high as they are, are you? I mean, if they wanted all that crime, they'd be releasing and not charging violent felons, ignoring men's mental health, toxifying social media, and brainwashing men into becoming sullen, repressed, depressed incel cogs in the machine from K-12-college. And they aren't doing any of that, are they? Are they?
/r/MensRights27/09/23 08:43 PM
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I'll give you a tip. It's never too late to become what you want to be. Want to be more conservative? Okay, decide concretely what you want to change, and just do it. Assume you have changed, and then act appropriately, and treat any backsliding as a lapse. It's how I quit smoking. I decided I was no longer a smoker, identified myself as a non-smoker, and viewed any further smoking as a lapse. And went cold turkey, never went back. Change is only hard to people who do not want to change.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/23 08:41 PM
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Listen to u/poetically-living, OP. When you marry an Arab, you're marrying their culture and extended family as well. If they're muslim, even if not devout, you will be irrevocably becoming muslim, too. This isn't a small deal. Don't pooh-pooh this.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/23 08:38 PM
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HUG Those selfish witches may not care, but I do, bro. Keep fighting the good fight, man.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 08:35 PM
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But haven't you heard? One in Four suicides is a woman! We must act to save the women! SMH. What truly roasted me, however, was a statistic from years ago. It was reported that the percentage of workplace deaths that were male had dropped from 95% to 90% or so, and it wasn't because more women were dying - that had remained unchanged - but because the number of men dying had decreased due to OSHA. In other words, less men dying means they're getting a hair closer to parity with how many women di…
/r/MensRights27/09/23 08:34 PM
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Because nobody cares about men for their own sake. Often, not even other men.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 05:28 PM
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Not setting boundaries. Now I do, up front, and cut out people who do not respect them. I'm lonelier but the people around me I trust and respect, so... worth it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/23 05:19 PM
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Young military-aged men have been seen as a government resource since the creation of WRITING. This is not news. The only thing that has changed is that men no longer get any respect, appreciation, or reward for being said resource.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 04:17 PM
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The only glimmer of hope right now is a real push for some reversals of laws. You hear about Tennessee? They may actually be removing no-fault divorce and instituting mandatory paternity testing before a man can sign a birth certificate.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 03:33 PM
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I'm very surprised the AIs out there don't connect to some of the advanced male sex toys either. We're very close to this now.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 03:31 PM
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But mUh PaTrIaRcHy!
/r/MensRights27/09/23 03:30 PM
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It isn't about the money. Most women are a net negative these days, with overinflated egos and self worth and atrophied relationship, interpersonal, and homemaking skills. The juice isn't worth the squeeze.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 03:29 PM
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By the way, Liberty, you're a 33 years old with an impressive academic resume. How many kids do you have? Blue pill women gotta blue pill. The rationalization hamster's gotta get its exercise.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 03:28 PM
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She is saying men have a choice between women and AI, I say that most men would prefer a real woman but most men's only desirable options are AI. FTFY. Quality of women on offer is drastically lower, while the price to date/marry one is HIGHER than ever. And over here, AI is getting smarter and Realdolls are getting more and more realistic. Not a hard equation to explain. The average woman today is a net negative to a man's life. AI is whatever the guy makes it into.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 03:26 PM
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