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Yeah don’t feed the trolls, everyone knows this is false. I only want my guts rearranged figuratively, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:08 AM
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Sure… at the same frequency that you two like to go for coffee or every now and then? (Hypothetically)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:29 AM
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I can’t imagine if I went on normal dates with someone and then, after sex, they suddenly started lavishing me with gifts. Maybe I wouldn’t notice. Maybe if feel like they were paying me for something? Oof man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:40 PM
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Definitely because no one person can fulfill all of that and at the end of the day, the love of one person won’t heal whatever it is that’s prevented finding connection in all the other aspects of life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:48 PM
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It fully is. I think this advice is meant for the people who are utterly dependent on having a partner for happiness and just jump from partner to partner to fill the void. There’s a large scale between needing someone because you hate yourself and wanting someone because you recognize it can enrich your life but would be okay alone. Then there are people who avoid relationships because they’re afraid of losing themselves and don’t know how to have a relationship without compromising themselves …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:28 AM
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This is something some people will nope out of and other people won’t but framing is important and will affect how many nope out. When you share issues you know you have but also specific tools you use to navigate them then it sends the message that you’re still an adult who is responsible for himself and can communicate well (a turn on, not a turn off)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:27 AM
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Or at least mutual and repeated eye contact
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:50 AM
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So we need more people and we want them to be raised well but we don’t want to provide time or resources (maternity leave) to do it unless the child has a father?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:37 PM
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Women don’t need men to have children either though…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 05:52 AM
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Silly victims keep letting themselves be victimized /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:46 PM
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Look, if you don’t think you’re hot it’s just because you’re not your type. Men I’ve dated always seem to think I’m hotter than I do, but my “type” when I check out women is a lot more petite than I am. Basically I wouldn’t fuck me. I have a lot of female friends who, when they see my type of dude, say “ew” too skinny/ not enough squish. There are girls out there who like the squish. Maybe the dudes with squish need to learn to love their bodies and get on onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:58 PM
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Not a fetish, just good taste
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:44 PM
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Oh please, tell me which exercise makes your hips wider or your rib cage narrower
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:43 PM
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I agree with whoever said that watching a man move and move well makes him 100000x more attractive - I will ogle all day if a man is well muscled and is coordinated. I also become more likely to appreciate a man’s body if I already associate him with good sex. Like, I love the divot where the shoulders and chest comes together but I’ll only be really staring if I already have slept with and want to sleep with that person
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:31 PM
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It’s an analogy, it’s not literal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:19 AM
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In OP’s analogy single men are also the employers, not the overworked people resigning
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:49 AM
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I met my ex on tinder and though it’s over now I think this still holds. He was very passionate about his particular interests and liked to challenge norms but not in a dickish way. He was very honest about who he was and how he’d come to that point in his life (travelling the world and then becoming disillusioned with the lack of genuine connection and community that can happen when you’re rootless). He also didn’t treat me like a strange and exotic creature, he was very comfortable around me s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:52 PM
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I had a guy say his type was “smaller”… and it was true, all the girls he dated were absolutely tiny with no body fat and I’m not that way so it was kinda 🤷‍♀️ moving on…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:08 AM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:25 AM
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I think not knowing if they’re being creepy. It’s gotta suck to not know how to control giving other people the “ick” factor. As for responsibility… not sure about that one. Could be societal as I assume lonely men in general are the creepiest…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:32 AM
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I realized a while ago all my male friends (and most successful partnerships) have had at least one sister. I think they learn how to talk to women early and be a good friend in general
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:02 PM
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What the list is? Apparently women are expected to cook, clean, work, and raise the children so I’m not sure what this long gender-specific list of yours details
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:27 PM
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I think I might need to see this list of gendered expectations you seem to have… because I’m confused lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:50 PM
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Maybe they don’t ask for much because they don’t have to. Ask a woman to have a college degree? Why ask? Most of them do. Ask a man to have a college degree? That’s an actual ask these days. Ask a man to cook? You have to ask because you don’t know if they can or not. There are some things women ask for because they also expect to do those things but men don’t seem to find them standard-issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:44 PM
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Not sure if I agree with this premise. Men who are trying to attract men put in way more effort than men who are trying to attract women. Also, the amount of time and resources women are expected to put in into being attractive verses the amount that hetero men do is also way off. This suggests that men are actually pickier than women in choosing a partner as far as looks go. Women might be pickier insofar as personality though…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:41 PM
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Yes and no. It can feel more exhilarating with a new partner who you don’t know well but it’s after knowing and trusting someone a while that you can get into the really adventurous stuff. But also, not feeling judged by a new partner because they don’t have preconceptions about how you “normally” are can be very liberating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 11:36 AM
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Needing connection, being too cowardly or not knowing how to go about it with their partner
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:02 AM
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I think dating men under 35 seems a waste if you want those things unless you don’t mind waiting a while. (Obviously a generalization, some men want to settle down early but many just want to keep playing around) And, just like you aren’t chasing after 20 year old men (probably) many men in their 30s would also see that as predatory. Many don’t but… do you want those ones? So, in some ways, you’re dating at the perfect time. Also, the sex just keeps getting better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:14 PM
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*you don’t need money to date if your paradigm of romantic relationships isn’t based around a provider/providee dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:41 AM
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I use the phrase “romantic friendship” a fair amount, my husband pointed out that all of my long term friendships have a degree of romance within them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:38 AM
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Being abandoned sucks. It’s nice to feel that wont happen or at least they’re not planning on it happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:51 PM
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Line cook (crazy hours, no career advancement)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:18 PM
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2 years (men really weren’t that interesting for a while)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:15 PM
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Interesting,,
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:20 AM
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Or just likes sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:13 AM
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Has this simping lasted a LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:09 AM
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What I thought you were going to say was that men would start going to start going to college again, stop letting women do all the work in group projects, and therefore meet women naturally in environments where they can get to know each other over time and form genuine connections based on respect and mutual attraction Edit: removed a typo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:20 AM
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His age since she probably has the experience not to freak out about it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:03 PM
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Men who care about a high n-count aren’t “high-value”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:24 AM
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I’m not saying it’s even hate, you don’t have hate something to dehumanize it and that might even be worse. (Also I think you mean due, not “do,” FYI)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:44 PM
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Neither of them are seeing women as people- just as something to satisfy their needs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:24 PM
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I’m so sorry, that’s completely unfair
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:30 PM
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I don’t know if it’s openly said but I think it’s implied enough that it can be one of the first feelings you feel when it happens, at least it was for me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:32 PM
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Oh definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:41 PM
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The best for how long? LTR sex can’t match how it was when it was new and exciting. Also I know men who like to say crazy girls fuck the best… well women often feel the same about men and are willing to accept that a more stable partner comes with slightly less wild sex. Also it can be good in other ways, someone who you feel safe enough with to try a lot of different things can have better long term potential
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:14 AM
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If he’s a good dad then yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:23 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:21 AM
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This is another post where the gender could just be replaced with “people” to make it actually true. Too many people have really low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:05 AM
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Maybe, but I’ve met a lot who get really insecure about it and it’s a turn-off
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:41 PM
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No, just dating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:00 PM
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Been thinking about this recently as I’ve been seeing this guy recently who’s my height (5’6”ish) but dude is soooo confident and doesn’t give a fuck that it’s really not an issue. The thing is- he’s not from the States where it’s “average” to be a giant so I really wonder if not having the cultural expectation saved him from the baggage of being “short.” His lack of self-consciousness and baggage is really what makes it a non-issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:40 AM
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The last guy who helped me pick up a washer and drier in his truck and installed it for me was someone I used to sleep with. I offered him burritos when I asked, he said “yep”, we had burritos and beer and chatted a while, he went home. We repeated this a few times since he is a truck owner and we were still friends and it definitely definitely was not anything about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:05 PM
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This corner of the internet is so twisted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 12:59 PM
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One exception doesn’t disprove a general rule. Especially not when the target demographic in the question is different than your example.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:21 AM
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Moving to another country isn’t that hard
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:53 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:17 PM
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For some reason they don’t believe in unicorns either
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:12 PM
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Intelligence can also be demonstrated by asking questions and integrating new information into old schemas. If you don’t demonstrate this she might think all you can do is recite what you’ve read on Wikipedia
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:49 PM
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If you really want to know what’s going on, maybe ask one of those former partners why you weren’t coming across as datable. Only if you really want to hear it of course and still have a good relationship with them in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:16 PM
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