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Discussion213322/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:24 PM
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I don't necessarily date up in looks. I have no idea where I fall in terms in looks. In my eyes I'm okay. I can attract most people. But I know what I like.. and its human qualities. Like honesty, integrity, perseverance. If they won't give up on me. Romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 09:54 PM
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That sounds like you are dating from a lens of trauma. You are scared of risk. Most people have a bigger ego than that. Also I never mentioned money. That's always been irrelevant to
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 09:52 PM
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200 years isn't that long. I meant the practice is older than the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:29 AM
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Robots can never replace the primal, flesh against flesh desire that we have. They can probably help relieve loneliness or hornyness. Temporarily. But great human sex cannot be replaced.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:12 AM
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What. This is all so wrong. Women definitely do feel horny. We masturbate all the time and desire pleasure MORE than men. The capitalist housewife model didn't last long at all because Women literally lost their minds. It was horrible and horrendous. Puritanical thinking KILLED women's sex lives and soul. Also.. Women have always worked. Even if they didn't get paid by an outside force.. they tended the land, gathered and grew food, looked after everything that was necessity to survive. There wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:03 AM
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If I'm open about sex it's because the topic fascinates me and I love talking about it. I'll bring up new stuff I tried with friends lmao because I'm excited to share how AMAZING it is 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:50 AM
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Sugar Daddies have always existed. There just wasn't a popular term for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:47 AM
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It's the equivalent slut-shaming term for men. I don't actually believe in this. I'm just making a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:45 AM
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Honestly it's quite hard once you reach 16 + to avoid sexual scenarios. I would be wearing my school uniform and get hit on. Then boys of your own age suddenly become erratic at parties trying to get sex. You'd have to avoid humans in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 09:18 AM
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Lock and key analogy is absolute BS. Pussy is the natural master key 🔑 in life. Meanwhile everyone's had community dick. Nothing special. Mediocre.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 09:15 AM
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Why does that suck? I had sex first time in high-school because I couldn't wait 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 09:12 AM
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Thats the whole point of dating.. to find someone you really really like. 90% of the time you don't like each other enough to commit 🤣 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 06:12 PM
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True that. Just from what I've seen. They love to show off each the latest conquest or whatever men do 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:45 PM
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First time sex is waaaaaaaay worse that 2,428th time. When you really love and know someone.. you have the best orgasms. It's more passionate and animalistic. I love being able to just do what I want with him. There's that trust and consent. Also you know each others body language and rhythm! If all you have going for you is 'newness' then that's gonna get old very fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:37 PM
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Omg my nightmare
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:31 PM
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No its not. I've approached guys that aren't considered attractive. Because I found them funny or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:03 PM
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Target Markets are all different tho and really superficial. Its based entirely on opinion. Every guy I've dated loved to say I'm Japanese to other men. I'm half Japanese. Apparently that's makes me "higher market value" cause men love that. Meanwhile women of their own race have to fit a certain look. But it's okay to be different if you are considered "exotic". Ultimately I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:57 AM
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27F - I have never consistently swiped for a month straight.. so technically I don't know. I match with everyone that I like. I can see that loads of men have swiped yes on me. I can basically choose who I want. I roughly say yes to around 5 guys in one sitting. After I go on a date with one of them.. based on the conversation. I don't use it for a while. So it probably seems like I'm leaving the other matches hanging but I just don't think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:31 AM
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I'm glad the PUA industry is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:15 AM
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Well he's free to date who he wants lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 09:28 AM
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It's not 'unrealistic' to be gym fit and athletic. I know plenty of men like this. It just takes a lot of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:02 PM
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Sewing vaginas is NOT the equivalent of a vasectomy. Wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:21 PM
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Blame all the "single mom near you wants to fuck!!" Adverts on porn..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:18 PM
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I wear makeup because I think it looks amazing 😆 to admire myself lol The men I date also love makeup on women such as a red lipstick. I've never wanted to be with a man that goes on about no-makeup beauty. Not my style at all. I look cute without it.. but I love applying it. Its the glamour!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:05 PM
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Because of love obviously 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:33 PM
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I love my man's tears and will comfort him. As long as he's not crying cause he fucked up/hurt me and now wants me to forgive him. He can go cry by himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:31 PM
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This isn't exclusive to gender. I have cut off a female friend too who would emotionally dump on me. It was exhausting. There's a difference between opening up and using people as free therapy. One guy would dump his issues onto me. Blaming his ex. I become cold and distant obviously. Then he was like, "see this is why I don't share my problems with you" as if it was my responsibility to fix him. He was the one that pursued me. And we slept together and stuff. But he was stuck on what his ex did…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:20 PM
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Good looking according to women and gay men! Cis straight men have a very different idea from what I've seen
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:33 PM
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Hey, sex worker here. Finding a unicorn 🦄 is very difficult. That's why the most respectful way to get a woman that's into both of you.. would be a pro. We enjoy seeing couples and we get regularly tested. Unlike most civilians. ✌ I recommend it at least for the first time. The transactional aspect will create a safe boundary for you as a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:02 PM
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He's a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:58 PM
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He probably has that sexual energy/ vibe. My ex had it. Women would literally grab his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:57 PM
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Anna's YouTube channel is literally all about dating rich men and she teaches things like Etiquette. She runs a finishing school lol My YouTube algorithm started recommending her cause I watch things about femininity. She actually makes dating rich men sound boring (to me anyway) like we have to stroke their egos and be presentable as an extention of their image. Just not my cup of tea at all. For most women marriage is about love and companionship. If the financial side of things gets easier.. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:28 PM
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Manipulation is ANTI-social. Not a social skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:38 PM
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I mean, even socially skilled people fail to maintain relationships. Cause its hard. You need to be compatible and understanding. I have ADHD, no amount of social skills, will get rid of that. Only a very specific type of man will know what to do with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:37 PM
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Im currently on a dating site - here's what most men look like. Men lying in bed/dimly lit office, men looking tired AF, men looking genuinely sad, selfies taken from really unflattering angles (double chin below). It all seems so.. full of sadness. I genuinely feel worse. Meanwhile.. every 10 guys or so. There's a guy that has awareness at presenting himself in a flattering way. The vibes are so much more positive. I want to be around that.. I'm drawn to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:03 PM
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I've had very good looking men say I'm above their league and date me long term. And below average men insult my looks! Saying stuff like, my tits aren't big enough etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:32 PM
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I'm 27 and most of my friends met their husbands/fiances/LTRs at work. You clearly have no understanding of what Me Too actually represents.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:06 PM
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Hmm In my experience they see it as a conquest. They never dissappear completely. They just stop investing as much. And find a new target. That's why I no longer trust men like this anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:51 PM
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Being persued, lied too, and having to decipher someone's intentions is what makes people feel victimised. I've had men persue me for years. YEARS. Just for sex. They will do or say anything. You can't trust people's words. And it's just exhausting having to filter all these men. I don't see myself as a victim. I generally think a lot of men are insane/crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:01 PM
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Wow. My mum was so strict around lying and taught us integrity. Sorry you had to go through that. Lying is pointless. Better to face the consequences of your actions than cause more drama by lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:47 AM
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My daddy issues aren't as bad as yours. I mean, if he did that to my family dog at the time.. I think I'd do unthinkable things. My dad is a high up military man that went away a lot. He left us and started a new family with a younger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:40 AM
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Really?! I've lived in London and the east midlands
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:52 AM
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That's not true. I live in the UK, and men act all gentlemanly about paying. I have to literally race guys before they automatically pay for the bill. When they know you want to pay, they will sneak off 'to the toilet' and pay for it before you do. So you are left with no choice. I've never had to split the bill even when insisting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:59 AM
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Unless Man X is Tommy Shelby in Peaky Blinders .. just based on appearance that tells me nothing about his charisma or attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:06 PM
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hockey puck I just googled a picture of that. And not quite sure how that would be pleasurable lmao edit: my bad. You meant only girth. Not a hockey puck shaped dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:50 PM
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That's true. We do analyze everything to understand it. I forgot that neurotypicals don't 'usually' do that!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:43 PM
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Spot on! That's a very good observation! Fatherhood is one of the reasons we are still here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:11 PM
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You are correct about that. I tend to love men that are much better than I am in every way. I have adhd. The men are organised, disciplined, ambitious, hardworking, physically fit, clean eaters, spiritual and know how to save money. These are all qualities I am actively working on myself. I love dating up because I feel myself improving every time. I don't want to date people i have to fix...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:08 PM
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What? Please don't project this shit on neurodivergents. We experience love just as much, if not even more intensely than the average person. It's the 'normal' men that act sociopathic. Meanwhile us autistic/adhd people hyper focus and make our love the center of the universe. It just doesn't happen as often.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:04 PM
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Belly fat is hard to get rid of for women due to hormones and how we store fat in case of having a baby. Having zero fat causes some women to stop having periods and fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:00 PM
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ha yes. I guess that could be pleasurable. I'm weird about it!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:17 PM
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I'm really open about sex and a sex worker myself. So I've seen people enjoy anal and all the necessary steps. It's just not for everyone. Makes me feel sick for some reason. I have a strong aversion to sticking stuff up where poop comes out. (Not that I have issue with people doing it! Pleasure comes in many forms) My man feels the same, he doesn't like anal. He prefers p*ssy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:08 PM
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Don't men have a gspot up the ass? I tried anal and toys but it just feels uncomfortable for me. Not something I enjoy at all!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:03 PM
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It's easy to figure it out. They have a positive attitude towards women in general, dated older women before and a charmers towards ladies everywhere. I then confirm it by seeing porn history 🤣 Meanwhile the men I avoid say things like "tight" and young as a compliment. I'm 27 but people think I'm a teenager. I don't want to be with someone that fetishises youth. It makes me uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:57 PM
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That's true! However part of holding boundaries is not caring what they respond. You can't reason with some people. They think everything has to be on their terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:44 PM
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However if they did something that genuinely killed the attraction. I will say it. For example.. messaging CONSTANTLY non-stop. And if I didn't reply they just carry on. I find that rude and forceful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:36 AM
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First of all.. that's not usually true about it being a lie. I've rejected some of the best looking men I've seen - simply because I wasn't feeling it. You have to re-examine your views around rejection. Attraction isn't something we choose. It kind of just happens. (and it's very very lucky when its mutual!) So it's not YOU as a human being they are rejecting.. it's just them expressing how they feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:26 AM
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You don't know my age or what I look like but sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:11 PM
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Erm I'm not an idiot. And he's my source of sex too 🤣 you're all idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:13 AM
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Doesn't have to be!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:11 AM
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Lol no. Your point is rendered invalid because no one wants a perverted creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:11 AM
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We are the same age BTW. I was just saying I checked that he's not a creep before we got together.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:09 AM
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Stop fetishizing young people, creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:29 PM
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I agree that's reflective of many people's experience. However.. We experience what we attract right? The mind has a big influence. Women are bombarded with messages that our natural sex drive is not okay. Men don't seem to have those inhibitions. They are told everything goes as long as the woman consents. To the point they might do stuff they regret!! Both are distorted versions of our true desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:28 PM
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It's a male-centric view to say testosterone is the horny hormone. My body rejects hormonal pills for birth control. My natural cycle is arousal paradise. All my senses activated, so many sensations. Female sexuality is incredible. And I hate it being reduced to nothingness. When it feels like a spiritual experience. One of the reasons women SCREAM with pleasure and men only moan lightly 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:04 PM
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Just like women on contraceptives - trans women have a different experience to a woman who has natural cycles. Hormones is a lazy way to explain sexual arousal. Because then you'd just look at all the bald men with erectile dysfunction. They got that because of testosterone too!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:38 PM
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That's not a fact. It's completely male centric!! I track hormones. I'm horniest when there's low levels of testosterone. I'm most beautiful, and sensual during ovulation. But horny all the time tbh (I use natural cycle tracking to avoid getting pregnant. So a woman who's on contraception might experience arousal differently)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:08 PM
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Wow. And this is why I only pick fit, hot men that watch MILF porn. I figured this trick out at 20 years old to avoid creeps. My man actively says I get hotter with every year. I feel sorry for you lot!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:00 PM
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Looks is only part of the illusion. It's also how they make you feel. I'm attractive but that's not going to keep a man interested. I've got good game. I know the things to say to have him stuck on me forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:20 PM
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I think its different for everyone! Mediocre sex in my experience is surface performative and lackluster. I remember one guy expected me to make him hard and maintain his erection. Asking me to talk dirty and stuff before he even gave me any pleasure. It felt forced like he watched too much porn. Nothing natural or passionate at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:12 PM
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Not true. Mediocre sex makes me sad, even depressed the day after. I get a huge drop 😔 I have a high sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:51 PM
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Yes also you marry people that are compatible with you. Someone you can bounce ideas off with and share a similar vision. Otherwise its really hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:45 PM
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No. No. No. Rape and harassment has nothing to do with hornyness. These men test high for narcissistic and psychopath traits. They are literally low functioning low lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:39 PM
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Women get horny without a male stimulus tho..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:33 PM
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Some Men are more interested in mediocre sex. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:31 PM
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I don't think rich men are necessarily smart... not everyone agrees with the ethics of capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:25 PM
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I've seen pictures of my parents generation. Young adulthood in late 80s. And everyone looks good. Stylish and fit (I live in Europe) My generation of guys aren't necessarily hotter (born 1995). I like men that put in effort for grooming and style. And you do see it but then there's a lot of men that don't! That's their choice. I'm just saying purely for aesthetic. Edit: I noticed people say that men are feminine now. Some men pull that off. It's actually sexy to balance masculine/feminine energ…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:18 PM
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Polygamy is a relatively modern thing. We used to live in Matriarchal societies for the majority of human existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:29 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:03 PM
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My dad is in the airforce and flew both Afghanistan/Iraq. I grew up on airbases. I have a military perspective. We haven't been "coddled". We've been endlessly lied too and tricked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:20 PM
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Ha what. Women aren't shamed for their preferences? It's literally all I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:15 PM
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What? You clearly don't know what harassment is. Anyone is capable of being a nasty creepy pest. I get them all the time. Pick up artists fall in that category 98% of the time. Most Russian people with any sense don't want war. There's nothing Manly about killing each other for the interest of the rich and powerful. If you want to be Putin's Bitch or Biden's bitch, go fight on a secluded island and leave the rest of us out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:12 PM
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Abuse is extremely common. Abusers are perfectly Normal people at first glance. Clearly you don't know any police officers or professionals that deal with domestic abuse every single day
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:53 PM
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Harmful thing to perpetuate when it's already so hard to leave abusive relationships and people die everyday in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:51 PM
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The whole no-fap movement was started by Christian groups. Of course being addicted to porn isn't good. However nothing wrong with masturbation and watching Consensual porn. Treating people as commodities for gratification however is harmful. The main reason sex workers don't get rights - is because men in power prefer to keep it underground. Projecting their own shame onto pornstars/escorts/strippers etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:41 PM
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Yes that makes sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:55 PM
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It's odd to me that men are biologically just seen as sperm donors. Maybe its just because I had a fantastic experience with my child's father looking after our baby. He was like this big protective rock, we lived in Sweden at the time and he had a whole year off work. I feel society steals fathers in most countries. Money replaced the father role essentially, cause you can just buy food. And mothers are left alone. So people will naturally make up theories to support the mentality that mothers …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:54 PM
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It's not societal pressure for men to raise their babies. It's the most natural and primal thing in the world. When my daughter was born, she wouldn't sleep until she laid on HIS chest. He has just as much instinct as I do. He would be the one instantly jumping up if she uttered a cry at night. Obviously fathers can't breastfeed. But it would be IMPOSSIBLE for a human being to gather resources alone whilst looking after a baby. From the most basic thing.. our hands would be full just carrying a …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:43 PM
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Well you are blessed in a material sense! Probably don't lead with that.. you don't want anyone with bad intentions. I've only heard good things from men about older women. So I don't see why not. But you are very young.. chances are you'll find someone soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:22 AM
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Imagine marrying someone for looks. Then being surprised when divorce turns ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:49 PM
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I don't even know what a 3 would look like. Never seen anyone I would rate so low.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:47 PM
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One woman's mind blowing hotness might be severely below average to another. That's why. I've never found conventionally attractive white dudes attractive! In almost every movie I've been like, "how am I supposed to believe he's hot??! Why are they forcing me to believe this is peak male attractiveness ?!?!"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:18 PM
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In my experience and world view.. tends to be the married women who are most miserable.. not single 30 year olds! I'm 27 and I still get mistaken for 19 (i have child and a partner). If that theory was true, the richest man in the world wouldn't pick a partner over 30. Women get more attractive and more interesting at that age. Not less.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:09 PM
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Erm I think that's just an illusion. All men choose women that are sexually available to them. Approaching women who are minding their own business, might make you feel 'rejected'.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:48 PM
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Having sex doesn't make you a hoe. It just means you are a human being. Madonna/Whore complex is weird as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:36 PM
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Isn't this exactly the same for men? If you want casual sex, you'd find the hottest person you know. Or it just happens with someone who you feel horny with at the same time! lol Meanwhile long term relationships require compatibility. Looks aren't enough to sustain a connection. It's a bit out of our control who we end up with! Even if you love them very much and they were your 'first choice' so to speak. It's still just complete luck that they like you back enough to be together.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:23 PM
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haha good point. Watch them backtrack.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:53 PM
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If a woman has sex with more than one man (Like Bridget Jones had a baby) then the doctors will estimate a fertile window. Most women don't have sex with more than one man in those couple days we are fertile. So its quite easy to know paternity. (unless she has irregular cycles and that's out of her control)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:35 PM
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Yes. Especially in place where it's hard to get abortion. The government should help find the real father.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:28 PM
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Quite a few scientists that changed medicine for the better were love marriages. And they worked together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:24 PM
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What are you talking about? It's a RELATIONSHIP. Friendship, love, connection and a team partner. What the f*ck is this transactional BS I see on this site.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:22 PM
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You fall in love deeper with someone you've been with through thick and thin. Through sickness and health. (free to get a divorce if it's not working out)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:01 PM
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Make sure you bolt it to the wall to avoid Ikea injuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:11 PM
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Nah. That's a one way out street thanks 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:45 AM
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I meant in general. No human mortal can maintain that every night.🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:31 AM
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I want endless orgasms doggy style on the IKEA table we built together without arguing cause you've got excellent emotional intelligence. Followed by a bowl of fruit and a glass of rose as we caress each other talking about dreams, our fears, the things we love. Etc. 4 am conversations and forehead kisses. With a man that takes care of himself so I don't have too. A partner that makes life easier, not a drain.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:26 AM
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And those marriages were never about love. And it didn't work because life spans were much shorter. Society as a whole improved when romance became a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:11 AM
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Extremely transactional and narcissistic way to think. Dating has always been about getting to know someone in a fun way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:05 AM
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Well the games need to stop! Sounds stressful..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:06 AM
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We have to observe why that happens in nature rather than play the blame game. Forget societal norms for a moment. Just observe nature of animals similar to us. We have a more evolved and nuanced version of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:02 AM
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What's this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:48 AM
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The risk definitely outweighs the reward when it comes to meeting random men for sex. Therefore most women just don't do it. I would hope the "game" has more meaning than that!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:42 AM
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It really isn't hard work or talent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:20 AM
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It's a bit weird cause a woman's self-esteem is based on relationships. Rather than genuine and authentic self-esteem. These women see themselves as worthy based on how a man treats her. Especially a Prince or "High Value Man". All of the earlier Disney movies basically bombard young girls with this message. You were nothing but now you have the love of a Prince and its happily ever after.. ♥ (which is a pure fantasy) A lot of women get tricked and played this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:31 PM
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Transactional relationships aren't love either. She's codependent on his money. He's allowing her to use him for whatever reason. Don't lie. Take accountability. Don't let bad things corrupt your own morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:00 PM
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I find hypocrisy highly unattractive. 😒 your values should reflect yourself also. Otherwise that's just about control.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:52 PM
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Haha oh yes that's true too! Didn't think of it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:45 PM
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Oh yes definitely!! That's a huge one! Really grates on my soul
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:50 PM
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Ok I should rephrase it.. I'm not disgusted by men's sexuality. I'm disgusting by men doing what they want.. and then policing women's sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:49 PM
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That doesn't sound like love. It sounds like a fake relationship built on lies. Don't use your age as an excuse to lack integrity. People don't magically settle down. The worst cheaters are usually married.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:39 PM
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Only if they are very insecure OR believe in polygamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:26 PM
11

Sounds messy. She's not really your girlfriend if you are lying to her. That's consent via deception. I'm polyamorous so I'm not shaming you for having more than one lover. I hope you don't mind her having side dicks too. I pray you are all using condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:03 PM
2

That's not true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:58 PM
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Having that mindset so young is gonna harm how you date for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:56 PM
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Hypocritical men. And honestly that goes for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:53 PM
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Shes not the only one that enjoys it I guess 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:35 PM
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Not all top 10% men have casual sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:25 AM
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Yeah lol I mean it doesn't matter cause we are all unique. People have different tastes and stuff. I have noticed in my own personal life.. improving as a person has drastically changed my life. It is enjoyable being perceived as attractive just by dressing better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:19 AM
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Would you put a love spell on someone.. knowing that they didn't like you before? That's kind of the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:16 AM
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So personal development just stops? Cause someone rejected you? Find your personal aesthetic and make it work for you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:55 AM
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Yeah but in that hypothetical world.. I'd have to sacrifice my own pleasures. I like men with high sexual stamina and they tend to be very fit. That's what satisfies me. I wouldn't ask men to stop loving big boobs.. I'm aware that my small boobs aren't a preference. I'm lucky that some men like small boobs!! If no one likes me..I'd just become a monk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:42 AM
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So everyone needs to lower their standards? Why? As a woman I don't ask anyone to lower their standard. I just live my life or change if I want a different result. For example.. I started dressing better to attract the man that everyone wants. Only to find out it doesn't really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:20 AM
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Why would that be a perfect world scenario? Women aren't chicks without their own personal presence and desires. Your point makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:12 AM
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You aren't being rude cause you've not seen how I look or my friends or the men we date. I'm actually considered good looking... I make money as a model and cam girl. My partner is a professional athlete with a cute face. My friends are on the "good looking" side too. But I'm literally telling you that means nothing. I've been attracted to not so goodlooking men, but they just act different. Good looking men have more confidence, they pursue you. They aren't afraid to demonstrate their shadow si…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:17 AM
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Unless of course he is literally Henry Cavill which is agreed to be an attractive male. So we don't have to explain why our man is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:47 AM
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Women don't exclusively fall for looks. There's always a narrative. When my female friends and I talk about our partners and why we fell in love.. there's a whole story. We always say, "I swear he looks better in person!!!" When showing pictures of our new man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:46 AM
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The idea of Chad is a fallacy. Cause every woman has their own idea of what is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:29 AM
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Make your own food unless there's a 5 star restaurant is the best analogy for female sexuality 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:28 AM
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I'd say most women don't fall for looks. He's obviously a handsome man. However what makes him interesting is his quirks and energy. That's what warms a woman's heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:25 AM
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A 'look-a-like' isn't Henry Cavill. And we mainly like him when he's being The Witcher. (I'm speaking on behalf of womankind)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:21 AM
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What did I just read. Sex for me is highly satisfying and I need it. In the same way I need food. I will otherwise develop random crushes. I actually feel its 10x more intense for women. So we will stick by the wrong person for way too long. And that makes other men feel like we are rejecting them When in actual fact...most men don't make us orgasm. We need to be turned on through various stimuli. And that's different for every woman. I'll get horny looking at my partners lips. Or listening to E…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:16 AM
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It was a generalised comment. Obviously not all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:10 AM
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I see!! Could be tbh. The Dilfs tend to be the ones doing the school run ! Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:44 PM
1

What does buxxing mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:29 PM
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Im 26 and also received a few proposals. Marriage and being a wife doesn't sound appealing though. That's why in my experience men want marriage more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:19 PM
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My observations are based on the parent couples I see at my daughters school 🤣 I am the odd one out cause I had my daughter very young. They look in their mid 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:59 PM
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I've seen very attractive men be with average looking women. Because they have that warm, homely vibe that they like. So that's not necessarily true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:48 PM
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Women have ALWAYS had more options sexually.. cause men are easy. Men say yes to everyone. Tinder makes its obvious and its unnaturally discreet. However long term relationships that happen more organically. Tend to be more equal in looks. If you meet online or fall in love with someone's job or money.. it tends to be unequal cause you fall in love with a keyboard/status. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:42 PM
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This rarely happens cause these days you need 2 wages to raise a family. And being a stay at home mum is difficult. All consuming, and no time off. I much prefer being a working parent. Being at work feels like my brain can relax a bit 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:40 PM
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Bit confused.. cause you say you masturbate. Do you never masturbate whilst in a relationship? I think you are taking porn far too seriously. I'm a woman in a sexually satisfying LTR of 8 years.. we both watch porn. It doesn't change how we have sex. My partner would never pick porn over having sex with me though! That sounds like an addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:31 PM
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That would make my alarm bells ring. My partner knows that wouldn't go down with me and we live together for 8 years!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:20 PM
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Not true at all in this day and age
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:13 PM
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If you are only dating someone and offering to pay.. to have sex. Then you might as well hire a sugar baby or escort. Idiots. But you probably can't afford it. Also between friends, it's a nice thing to offer to pay too or split 50/50. Dating is no different. You're all just rude and inconsiderate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:07 AM
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Man pays for everything. Man attracts woman thats only after free stuff. Man is shocked. (I think this is an expectations VS reality problem. And bad choices) I went to West Africa, where wealthy white women pay for everything. And then they cry that the young black men used them for money. Am just sat there thinking.. duh?!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:01 AM
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My partner said he wouldn't want to create a child out there he can't raise. That it's his sperm. His flesh and blood. His child. And no amount of money would be worth it not knowing what's happening to his kid out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:25 PM
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Does using incel terms make you feel good?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:50 PM
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Erm each man that does on the street. Is a potential threat. Which is very exhausting. And one of the reasons I barely go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:47 PM
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Fuckboys run good game. But they have nothing of substance to offer. They wont take care of me if I'm sick. So therefore I'm immune to their charms.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:27 PM
1

Casanova was a predator in reality. Who targeted underage girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:22 PM
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It's not a flex. Turning people down everyday isn't fun or enjoyable. Neither is the sexual harassment in the streets. The unsolicited anger when you say no thank you. Its a double edged sword.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:21 PM
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Best way to be! I'm very honest too cause of my ADHD. Most people will appreciate it. 💯 I'd rather know what you are thinking. Than tell me what you think I want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:15 PM
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I feel men get manipulated too. Such as silent treatments and women being confusing as hell! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:13 PM
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You are spot on! Have you ever had someone use a tactic on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:26 PM
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Yep and they forget that people can sense INTENT. So if you're being nice.. to get something.. that will be repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:02 PM
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I don't doubt that at all! Lol I just meant in terms of this scenario. Best of wishes in finding the love of your life!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:58 AM
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I'd love it if the Gods made your soulmate, perfect companion and life partner... a Millionaire Single Mother. So you'd have to sacrifice such lists in order to achieve ultimate happiness. I have a feeling life will test you someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:51 PM
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I should also add that the honeymoon phase never ended sexually. I feel exactly the same holding him now as I did day 1. Despite having a child and stresses of life. He says he still feels those nervous butterflies around me. We do argue and disagree on things sometimes.. Weirdly a bit of conflict helps the passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:34 PM
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Its completely different for everyone. My partner of 8 years and I.. instantly fell in love. We moved in together straight away. His body/energy feels perfectly matched for mine. We are of different ethnicities and cultural backgrounds. With completely different interests. Our pheromones must match or something. Yin/yang type of thing. Previously, despite being considered very attractive and a "head turner" I really struggled to find a boyfriend. Was always SO complicated. With my partner we did…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:28 PM
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