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Dating After Divorce--The_Cheshire_Cat--/r/Divorce_Men23/08/24 01:55 PM
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Same here,... after our divorce I was almost completely on my own. I first spent a lot of time just working on myself, get my life in order and comfortable with myself. After a while I figured it is about time to make new friends as I was tired of doing activities always on my own (I'm 42M). Funny enough, I made 2 friends with women that I had a few dates with. We weren't compatible relationship wise, but got along very well and became friends. On the other hand I started to meet new people thro…
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/26 12:05 PM
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We've been together almost 20 years, 12 years married, 3 kids. Got (kinda amicably) divorced about 5 years ago. She found a new partner who is very nice and I actually like a lot, I've been on and off relationships ever since. But, I am happy, she is happy, everyone is happy. We still have a very good relationship, the whole family including new partners can sit together during events like birthdays, etc. and have a good time. I enjoy these moments very much. I do sometimes get a bit emotional, …
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/25 08:01 AM
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This. It helps if you have a good relationship with the co-parent of course. I've been through that a few times with my ex gf's, never has been an issue to change my schedule to be able to match the free time with my potential new partner. What makes it easier as well I guess is the fact, that the new partner of my ex-wife has no schedule per se as he has no kids.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/25 07:25 AM
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It feels great, doesn't it? Since my divorce I got so much attention from women like never before in my whole life.
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/24 12:22 PM
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She’s definitely not a shitty person. But definitely wasn’t mature enough for her age
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/24 10:15 PM
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Oh I definitely did set my boundaries. And after they were broken I ended it.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/24 10:13 PM
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Good point
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/24 08:41 PM
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Same here, never had a ONS in my life. I can’t be with someone who I’m not genuinely into.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/24 02:49 PM
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I guess the whole post was more of a rant than anything else
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/24 02:46 PM
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Oh,.. I see
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/24 02:45 PM
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Just gotta find you lot out there!
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/24 02:44 PM
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not sure what "stbx" means, but still - wtf
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/24 02:19 PM
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Good to hear I'm not alone with this... :-) Also reassures my decision to stay away from women with no kids
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/24 02:19 PM
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