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We...I mean honestly though, how many guys would truly grow as much as they could if they were happy? I don't mean that to be rude, I mean that honestly. The greatest periods of growth in my life came when I wasn't happy and when I was trying to get better to prove people I disliked wrong, or impress women.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/21 04:40 AM
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Dude, I don't really want to post my history on the Internet, but trust me...holy shit was I exactly the kind of guy you are talking about. Zero women interested in me growing up. Not like "hahaha, none of the women I like, like me back"...no no no. It's much worse than that. I didn't even kiss any girl or do anything growing up and was so socially awkward that I didn't even understand other people and honestly felt like an alien (or maybe a robot is more accurate). I just simply didn't get it a…
/r/seduction12/03/21 04:02 AM
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Fair fair. Tried to be as diplomatic about it as possible. Appreciate the honesty.
/r/seduction12/03/21 03:47 AM
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What?! Where did he view it as a "breast, ass, and a vagina with legs?" That's not anywhere in that book. I don't want to judge, but did you read the book? Even more so, he only defines success as being happy, not even anything to do with women. He makes the point that you can't focus on one woman, you gotta focus on yourself and having fun and living out your imagination...nothing about women as some kind of sex vessel to happiness. He literally is discouraging that exact kind of thinking.
/r/seduction11/03/21 05:21 AM
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The old forum had one rule, experience > theory. You had to try it before you could say it. That's why the "reports" were written so often, or were so popular. I feel like this sub has a lot of "armchair participants"....people who want to talk about the theory and what they think would happen and argue with other people, instead of solely focusing on real world experiences only. I don't know why, but arguing has gotten a ton more popular on the Internet in the last half a decade, not just this …
/r/seduction07/03/21 05:25 PM
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??? He's saying you'll have more success treating them like they're goofy than you would acting all proper and treating them like "m'lady". Laughter is going to work 1000x better than serious conversation at making a woman feel sexual chemistry.
/r/seduction07/03/21 05:18 PM
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You got the wrong lessons and are still bitter which means you clearly didn't read the book. You do not need status to amuse yourself (which is the ultimate lesson of pook). And if you think you need status to amuse yourself then you have no imagination which is another failure. You are bitter which means you still don't realize you have the power in your own life. Pook defines success in ONE way. "Success is happiness. Failure is unhappiness. Desire nothing but your own happiness." And furtherm…
/r/seduction07/03/21 02:29 PM
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Because you still have to put you self out there the most and get shot down, you just can't take it personally. It's the same reason the person who need the money the least usually ends up making the best deals. They have the power to walk away which is the most powerful tool for anything dealing with other people. The power to walk away is literally what leads you to the right mindset to attaining abundance, where as needing something is exactly the mind set that will push it away. I know that …
/r/askTRP04/10/20 12:26 AM
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What I wonder is if numbers were down anyways for Boy Scouts. I wouldn't guess they were gaining in popularity, and I wouldn't doubt if this is a marketing run to gain numbers. My guess is that Girl Scouts isn't as excited about this.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 07:18 AM
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I don't think people ignore them, there's been lots of posts elsewhere about it, it's just usually seen as a separate subject.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 07:14 AM
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The poster in that thread seems like it's a troll so I wouldn't doubt it. Seems overly set on what to say, and not seeking advice at all more than just factually laying out events. Most people who don't want certain advice in unsure situations still just agree and ignore, they don't usually provoke.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 07:40 PM
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You ever noticed how excited a girl gets when one of her friends has a breakup and needs a friend to cry with? Girls are addicted to that stuff.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 07:54 PM
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What's so crazy to me is that the winners for pay cuts aren't men or women, it's corporations. People get pay raises by negotiating, and you usually get more in a negotiation by being willing to risk being less agreeable. Women are less prone to be risk takers but especially when it comes to social interactions and being agreeable, and those who do reap in the benefits and show what the company was actually willing to pay. If we just use shame to make everybody take less, we aren't figuring out …
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 10:35 PM
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I'm not arguing about anyone's subjectivity being more relevant, in fact it's the opposite. I'm saying if a fact requires a narrative, it isn't about facts that are able to stand on their own (hence their need for a narrative). In fact, even arguing coercion is still supporting my original point. You're acknowledging an emotion about the event as reality. It still requires a narrative.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 09:55 PM
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As society becomes more centralized, women's way of thinking becomes more dominant in that society... The rules for males are usually applicable to territory, the rules for females are usually applicable for relationships among society. That's at least my take on it. As a man, I have to understand what territory I'm occupying and how to make sure I can dominate it. Most people can't keep up or think in that way because they are busy navigating multiple responsibilities, and women are much better…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 12:38 PM
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I remember reading a study from a Harvard researcher on differences of the sexes in management. Men tend to think about Morality in terms of Ethics (justice and rules and individual rights and the outcomes if they are applied to everyone). It leads to formal rights that are abstract and can be defined without any change for each individual but they can be reactionary. Women tend to think about Ethics in terms of Morality (relationships and competing responsibility rather than defined rights). It…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 11:12 AM
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I have noticed that! I think we see the same things happening. Another one I noticed is conscience/shaming when it comes to handling the emotion of guilt. Go read/listen/watch some old media, and notice how much they use the word "conscience" and notice now that we've don't use it nearly as much (if at all to be honest, try and find it in normal usage and it's much much harder than ever). It's been completely replaced with the word "shaming". If I feel guilty, it's not my own conscience anymore,…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 12:50 AM
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What's so messed up is that we are in a point in time where we are acknowledging the emotions about something as the actual reality of it. What a bizarre time in history.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 03:45 PM
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It's the lowest tool to bring significance to a person who feels insignificant. It's the same as thinking that being angry makes you powerful because suddenly people respond to you. It's the lowest form of significance and is always at the cost of others.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 03:32 PM
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Everything in life requires work. If you aren't putting work into it, you probably aren't doing the best you could get and there's options you are missing out on. If you don't want to put any work in that's fine, but you will sacrifice choices and be forced to accept less options (not that it's a bad thing, it's just reality).
/r/seduction27/12/17 05:50 PM
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It will always be in your best interest to have a girl fighting to keep your attention than fighting to keep her attention. What I'm saying is, instead of being worried or focusing on your girlfriend and her opportunities that she has to turn down, focus on turning down your own opportunities. Try to go out and and have situations where you are the one turning things down. The girl you're dating will be so much more focused on that problem and being the best girl for you that this other guy won'…
/r/seduction24/12/17 07:47 PM
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Fuck yeah. I always tell people I've never seen so many movies, and the absolute worst thing that happens is I don't understand a single joke or reference and they tell me I should watch a movie. If enough people tell me, then I end up watching a movie that's already highly recommended and I usually enjoy it and don't feel like I wasted my time. Honestly it started because I saw some James Bond movie that was supposed to be good and was all hyped up, and it was terrible and the whole time I just…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 06:03 PM
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Thing is though, go read about cable in its infant stages. Even Walt Disney himself thought it was the greatest thing that could happen to people because every home could have access to learning Spanish or to the best works of art and education that mankind has come up with...and yet it became the monster we see today where watching commercials is a normal experience. More people probably said they would never watch it if commercials and selective programming that's essentially gossip or garbage…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 11:42 PM
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I don't understand why people dislike net neutrality? The guy who invented Reddit literally was one of the biggest proponents of it. Reddit was a tool to help discussion and keep the Internet free. That guy is dead now, but he impacted the Internet in the last ten years more than most everyone including standards like markdown. Why the hate against Net Neutrality?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 11:42 PM
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Bahahaha, what the fuck is this. Have this conversation with a mirror next time, or maybe you already did but disliked it because the other person was talking too much. You literally say you don't like something about the average _______ then follow up by literally saying how you do exactly that thing. Zero self-awareness, or maybe (probably) a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 10:26 PM
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Cold and heat both have benefits. One isn't better than the other, it's just a matter of when to use one vs the other. Nitrogen tanks and saunas are both used at the highest athletic levels.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 12:06 AM
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Racism is the best way to divide this place. Making it men vs women makes no sense because that wouldn't divide this place. Making it white vs black is the next best dividing factor. Remember, the focus right now is to divide people. Men vs women automatically halves a population, white vs black further divides it. A divided population is so much easier to control, it's the oldest tactic to date (Divide and Conquer). Even heroes like Martin Luther King Jr. wasn't killed until he said a dream of …
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 12:20 AM
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You have to ask WHY rather than just think of incompetence. We're going through a period of dividing and conquering of the middle and lower class. Calling a place full of men "anti-women" does no good because that's not the biggest divider. The best way to divide this place is by race. If you can make it black vs white, that's the biggest line differential you can attack to divide this place. Again, in places full of all people, making it "men vs women" automatically halves the united population…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 12:10 AM
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Honestly I wonder what made her so attracted to coming here. She was here for a week on her own accord, obviously nobody invited her, and there's no requirement to stay. When I'm repulsed from a place, I leave. She stayed for a week.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 05:10 AM
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"How dare you fail at something and try to improve yourself and try again! Your attempt at improving your life and trying to find a sense of happiness is all because of a crippling power complex"
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 05:06 AM
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It's the same concept as the "slut". There's the old adage that a slut is someone who enjoys sex, but just doesn't share that part of herself with you. The same can be said about a successful guy. A misogynist is a guy who is successful, but doesn't share that part of himself with them.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 04:59 AM
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"How dare you focus on improving yourself!"
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 04:45 AM
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Temperance movement, central bank formation, prohibition, mass starvation imminent, ramping up of military industrial complex and wars. Industrial revolutions centralized work forces away from farms, cities became much more populated.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 11:07 PM
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He also had an insane relationship with a pigeon. The guys brain was crazy on a level that is not comprehendable. He could imagine things nobody else could even dream of and then made a lot of that stuff into reality. He thought on a level that is absolutely not normal. Also, he abstained from sex and thought it helped him think better. He wrote about wanting to be with a woman, but that his life demanded sacrifices as such. Also of note, Isaac Newton also had many similar beliefs, just no pigeo…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 11:05 PM
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Except that porn has literally changed the behavior of billions of men who now think they're getting laid and their body's biology is treating it as such since it can't distinguish if you used your bodies resources to form a new existence or if it's just into a tissue. The body reacts the same, releases essentially sedatives of all sorts of stuff to chill you out and shut you down. Look at any country in the modern age that has a high population of single men, and then look at its porn usage and…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 10:57 PM
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Here's my view. The most proven weapon for ruling over people is "divide & conquer". Historically it works better than any other tool for controlling a population of people. We've seen a huge shift since 2012 take place on the interne. One year google is saying "never use your real name or information online" and the next they're FORCING everyone's real name and information and accounts and trying to tie it all together with your phone number. The shift in reddit literally shutting down certain …
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 09:58 AM
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I shouldn't be surprised, but what's worrisome is that he's talking about statistics, NOT ideology, and yet it devolved into name calling so fast it's ridiculous. It's like today's version of McCarthyism and calling someone a communist, or the 2000's version of questioning war in Iraq and people being afraid of not being a patriot or saying you "support terrorism". It's just so obvious there's political agendas involved once it gets to these points, so the only question left is "who's political …
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 05:42 AM
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Don't forget, even in bonobos society, the battle is for the beta males as a resource. The different women literally collect them up. It literally is about who has the most orbiters, it starts with their children, but if I remember correctly (and I could be wrong), when one female socially displaces another in the ladder, she takes the orbiters from the other. I don't think they take each other's children, but there were instances where it occurred. Again, I could be wrong, but I do remember the…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:38 AM
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It's not that you notice changes by doing it, it's that you avoid lots of the problems that plague many others who do it. It's the same as happiness in the Buddhist sense. It's not that you have to do something to be happy, it's just this thing that shows up when you stop causing yourself suffering.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 03:19 AM
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This is both passive and deflective. What are you really trying to say.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 03:16 AM
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Even the man himself who wrote the book has talked ad nauseum about how misleading the title was. That guy works relentlessly on other stuff but is a genius at promoting and testing. The title was based on "four hour workweek" because that literally did the best in Google results. The original title was something like "selling drugs for fun and profit," but was rejected by the publisher.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 03:15 AM
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A lot of women tend to live by association first and foremost. If she's looking for different way to define herself, she's going to do it through association first, and personal change second. It's the same reason a new job is one of the biggest tests on a relationship. Usually she can associate with someone for an advantage at her workplace vs. no advantage with her relationship (lots of love but not in love scenarios...). Do a search of "cheated" and "new job" and you'll be astounded at the re…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 10:48 PM
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If you really want your mind blown, go read Nancy Friday's "My Secret Garden". It's a book from a woman that ran an advice column back in the 70's and goes over all the common things that were women's fantasies and groups them together. I grew up in a pretty small town with church going family and sex was viewed harshly, this book opened my eyes up more than even porn or the Internet did. It's literally just letters from women writing about their fantasies. It sounds so simple, but gets so insan…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 11:43 AM
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Book of Pook and Six Pillars of Self-Esteem are two books I can accurately say changed my view on everything and gave me more tools for my brain than anything else I've come across in my entire life. Literally two of the best at explaining what's going on and why, and the kind of mindset to approach life with.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 04:22 PM
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I don't think I can link to outside links, but honestly it's pretty easy, just look it up, you'll get hits from vogue, elite daily, Cosmo, huff post, Marie Claire, Jezebel, and on and on. Clicking on any one of those and reading what section it's tagged in usually takes your right down the horrible 20 somethings advice. Literally the first article I found was a girl encouraging it, and clicked on her profile and her most recent article was talking about the horror of being single in her 30's and…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 04:16 PM
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Men were just more unified and forced to cooperate. Communities have changed vastly. Think of it like the difference of a team sport vs an individual sport. In an individual sport, the difference between two guys is going to be extremely apparent, and rewards are usually the same (e.g. Gold for first and a bigger prize, and silver for second and a much smaller prize). In a team sport, the differences of rewards between first and second are minimized and even much further down the line, everybody…
/r/askTRP28/07/17 02:47 PM
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Because some see people as resources. They're the same moms that will hate on their new daughter-in-law. In fact, go look up that exact scenario right here on Reddit and you'll see tons of stories. Many women don't see men as anything more than a resource to help take care of them. Notice that even if a guy is friend zoned and a girl turned him down over and over again, that if he shows interest in a new girl, suddenly she is much more interested in him, not because he changed, but because she's…
/r/askTRP28/07/17 02:44 PM
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Women are occupying the middle. The top men are going up, and the bottom is the ridiculous amount of men completely pulling out of society and doing nothing.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 01:14 PM
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With the rise of online dating and tinder and social media (even just Facebook and Instagram likes to be honest), you have guys who in the past wouldn't have approached girls because they didn't know how or the natural fear of approaching turned them away, but essentially the amount of attention women are getting from guys has become literally 100x more than what it used to be. Like any market, that means guys have become disposable. Women get jealous of their friends no matter what it is they b…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 01:04 PM
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Right down to the "do something sexually crazy to reinforce my plummeting self-esteem" part...
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 12:33 PM
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She was probably cheered off the cliff by her friends.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 12:12 PM
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The breakup probably started with hearing stories like this from her friends and feeling jealous. They'll cheer each other into breaking up, hooking up, partying, using men, and doing drugs. Girls will cheer each off the cliff.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 12:07 PM
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One of my favorite quotes from one of my favorite authors! Here's another I literally have tried to read every single day at the start of my day for the last 13 years. "Begin at once to live, and count each separate day as a separate life." - Seneca
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 02:32 PM
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You have to examine far more than that to test for testosterone, and even then it wouldn't simply be only testosterone that you would want to test for since you are talking about differences in reaction to other hormonal factors among ethnic groups. You would have to test for both free testosterone and standing, androgen receptivity as well as enzyme receptivity (specifically 5a-reductase) since that is where you would see testosterone being transformed into DHT. Now, this is where I break off f…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 08:43 AM
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Hahaha, fair. Just my 2¢ I should have went further into depth on what type of woman, but I figured if he's asking then hopefully he has experience on what type I'm talking about. Of course not every hot girl is like that, but you know pretty quickly if they are or aren't. They're the kind that are great at first impression and terrible at lasting ones. I guess it just boils down to what kind of women and where you're from and what communities you're dating from. In the community I was in (LA), …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 10:37 PM
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Guys have their own version too. It's the Al Bundy type guy that lives in their former glory (same as girls do too). It's the guy that starts his stories with "I used to be..." or "If you think that's great, you should have seen ...." Anytime someone is focused on the past, that's when it's fucked, both men and women. But men are more enforced by law and society to share resources, where as women can take and burn things down, and leave a warpath of ruined men behind them. Progress is the only t…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 10:17 PM
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Dated an extremely attractive girl in my last relationship. In the breakup she probably went through 30-40 in an extremely quick time frame (she lost count, but it got to the point that she got kicked out of a friends group for a while and one of the girls tried talking to me). It was everything you really don't want to hear, but already probably know. Guys that are models, athletes, rock stars, gym bro's, bartenders, or just trying to collect one of every color and "flags" for traveling...essen…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 08:56 PM
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Hot women have lots of sex. Just is what it is. Just be careful and try to avoid commitment. Do NOT introduce them to your friends at all costs. It's one thing to have a lot of partners, it just is what it is, it's an entirely different story when they start going for your friends. Doesn't matter how loyal the girl or the friends say they are, it's always a recipe for disaster and hot girls have a huge edge at getting people to like them if things go sour.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 08:50 PM
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Women do collect mental disorders at a much higher rate than men. If you can get around any middle to upper class women, or just your average white woman in a big city, take a look sometime in the medicine cabinet and you'll see medicine for anxiety, medicine for depression, medicine for sleeping. Plus, how many girls have a therapist? That number is probably ridiculously high female to male ratio. It's not an epidemic, it's just another "chic" thing to be proud of like going to warehouse partie…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 05:26 PM
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"Blame it on the al-al-al-al-al-al-alcohol baby"
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 10:30 AM
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Oh, it was an event for her, but in a good way. You can bet he goes straight to the top of her dick list of people she brags about to her friends. She'll just accidentally leave out the part about cheating on her fiancé and the part about how she let him do everything he wanted and things no other man will get to do. Remember, cheating in Vegas or Miami "doesn't count". Eventually this girl will finally have the lie that fits the pain and makes her able to get past it (if the guy calls her a who…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 10:22 AM
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Well first of all just look at the amount of marketing and research groups aimed at consumer culture and specifically youth culture and it's literally gone from less than 100 to over 1800 in just the last 10 years, and that number honestly has skyrocketed even more since that study, but the point being that it's exponentially growing. Secondly, Drake may put out music about being the ultimate "beta" but seriously, that guy is so famous it's part of the fantasy that the normal average girl could …
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 12:50 PM
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Emotions, whether positive or negative, are better than no emotions for women. Ever notice how excited a girl gets to help her friend after a bad breakup? Or why garbage shows and gossip are chick crack? They don't care what the emotions are, they want more and more. A good metaphor is like sports for guys. The end score is important...sure. But most guys watch sports because it's funner when you see the ups and downs and all the pressure the guy is under when he makes that final shot or misses …
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 07:31 AM
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This is why you pay attention to the friends. If the friends have cheated in their past, you can bet "your girl" has too, or will have nothing but support and understanding if she does it to you. Same with hen parties or bachelorette parties or trips to Vegas or Miami where "it doesn't count". They all will do it, and support each other even if it the actual behavior is insane (same with seeing a group of girls all get into smoking weed together or why if one breaks up with her boyfriend, and an…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 07:15 AM
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That's what stims and "go pills" are for. Some things already hone the senses.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 05:53 AM
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Anger is predictable and sloppy.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 05:52 AM
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You my friend, have not discovered the lovely world of nootropics. If a pill exists to make a man's brain behave a certain way, then many, many men will do whatever to get their hand on it and start experimenting with it (and women, but I swear the nootropic community is 80% male). There's even people making stacks for being more social. If you tell nerds something is possible, watch them make all the experiments to figure it out and share their knowledge with others.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 05:47 AM
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White Knights usually are exactly the kind that do well at work. It's easy to handle them and not make them an issue by just remembering that they aren't competition. The white knights biggest fear isn't someone being better than him, it's being left out after they did everything right. Recognize at the heart of the white knight is some amount of not thinking they're ok. So you don't view these guys as someone to one up, but as someone who's an easy ally if you're the one to tell them they're go…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 04:19 PM
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There are tons of stories of late bloomers, but a lot of times when I see that stuff, I have to remind myself that there are literally millions of accounts in opposition of that. The general rule is it becomes harder as you get older, which just means you have to be extremely vigilant and simply cannot be easy on yourself. I was shocked after I turned 29 that slowly my body healed slower after injuries, and it's almost like now I can see athletes in professional sports who were gods at one point…
/r/askTRP12/07/17 07:20 PM
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Judge a person by the people they admire and the people they are friends with. For women, that's especially so. Her friend is pushing her to cheat and telling her it's ok. You can't make someone not be friends with someone without being controlling, but you can break up with someone because they aren't good for you.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 06:57 PM
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Honestly I don't mind people posting if they're not getting laid. I think the worse route is just people not taking action. Reading about failure is extremely useful. Solely reading success stories leads to a blind spot of awareness. Reading about great failures is a wonderful teaching tool, but requires someone to actually fail, which requires actually taking action.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 09:14 PM
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I don't know where you can buy it. Maybe look into buying the individual ingredients if Amazon or a vitamin store isn't available...availability of things in any other country is unfortunately not my specialty. Cortisol is what the body uses to respond to stress. It controls a ton of things in the body, but most importantly in this case, the circadian rhythm of the body and flow of natural melatonin. Don't forget the curcumin and turmeric, those are shown to be extremely effective at blocking co…
/r/askTRP09/07/17 08:40 PM
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It wasn't opiates for me, but addiction triggers the same parts of the mind. I only know that stuff because I've had to figure this stuff out on my own. And I totally understand using sex as another form of addiction. Finding enjoyment is weird, if we try to "push ourselves" out of doing bad stuff or towards good stuff, it never works for me. I have to be "pulled" towards good things. For me that meant scheduling awesome stuff to do or fun things and events with friends to look forward to each n…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 08:30 PM
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They sell this on Amazon too The other thing I do is take vitamin D (10,000 idu) first thing in the morning along with other things, but that's the one that is sleep related. Cortisol is what your body produces to deal with stress, too much, and you never relax, too little, and you can't deal with stuff in your life. There's a ton of studies showing how many things it effects in the body, even down to the body releasing its own melatonin naturally among a plethora of other things even including …
/r/askTRP09/07/17 08:21 PM
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I was a lifelong sleep sufferer, no joke I tried everything. Melatonins, sleep aids, sleep shades, sleep teas, Theanines, arginines, 5-htps, magnesiums and zinc... hot baths, cold baths, night masks, alcohol flasks... You get the point. I'm way into nootropics too, so I can't even explain how much I really did try everything. Anyways, the absolute single best thing I found and the only thing that has literally changed my life is buying a cortisol aid (I buy the now " Super Cortisol Support" off …
/r/askTRP09/07/17 07:48 PM
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Someone who's needy displays a single trait - they don't like themself. There's only two thing that's can happen when someone doesn't like themselves, they need rescued by someone, or they become the victim to something. If you are her rescuer, then her loving you is fine, but eventually she'll still feel bad about herself and that's when they transfer into the other category...they become a victim and need someone else to save them, and usually you are the person they are a victim of (not alway…
/r/askTRP09/07/17 07:34 PM
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You'll still be in tyrant mode and will never make it to champion mode, not that it's a bad thing, but it will limit you into thinking you have to control others, rather than letting them do awesome stuff on their own that builds towards a higher goal along with you.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 07:23 PM
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Any movie that starts with Arnold Schwarzengger putting like pizza in a blender and being sad. Fight club. American Beauty. Batman (Chris Nolan trilogy, first one, literally from "victim" mindset to tyrant mindset, and then again in the third one of going from alpha back to his old ways for a girl, and then having to do it all over again but his time for himself). rocky many others, pretty sure this question has been asked a few times.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 07:21 PM
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Kinda, except for the ending which it doubled back down on blue.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 07:17 PM
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Is this real? Haven't watched that movie and not sure if this is a joke.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 07:15 PM
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Damn, that's an inspiration man. Keep it up. There's a saying with results that we're the first to notice them, and with consistent effort, people start noticing about 4-8 weeks later. Even in weightlifting, you start noticing your veins popping out or abs showing, and sure enough with a little time, people start commenting on it or noticing the difference. People need a little time to notice differences, so just keep working and the results will eventually come.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 07:11 PM
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Block porn at the router level, or with opendns (free account), or in your hosts file. Do anything to put a barrier up between you and what you don't want, so you can eliminate it even being a choice.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 07:06 PM
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You can't fake being busy, and even worse is you actually lower your ability to persevere with decision fatigue and choice fatigue, aka, trying to "force yourself" to not do something. There's an amazing study on this that was done with cookies and radishes and impossible tasks, but the key point of the study was the people "forcing themselves" not to do something cut their perseverance abilities down in half. People forcing themselves to not feel emotions or be affected by stuff, had their pers…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 06:56 PM
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There is no substitute for action. As any community gets larger, the amount of non participants grows exponentially.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 06:48 PM
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Fill out that niche wherever it exists! There's a definition of entrepreneur that I really like that says it is someone that takes goods from one area, and sells them to another. That's it. So, just take those video skills available in one area, and offer them to another. I'm not surprised they're shit to work with. The same can be said with a lot of athletes I've known. They're incredibly talented in short bursts, but largely don't worry about details a lot of the time and have a history of peo…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 01:48 AM
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Personally, just examining all the laws behind marriage, it really would never ever make sense for me personally to marry. Just examining it completely logically, I wouldn't do it. I'm open to that possibility that a guy and girl could do that if a lot of expectations were assuaged by both the guy and girl, and then maybe it could be a possibility. But honestly, we as a society worship marriages pretty irrationally. I mean, who doesn't want a giant party where you're the focus and get all these …
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 01:41 AM
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It's never too late to start. Focus on starting. There are a few traps to keep in mind, these are simply your ego trying to protect itself, and it will never help you. You have to battle these questions (stolen from Neil fiore)... I need to do more preparation before I can start. (Lie, working has to happen either way, and you'll be more in tune with where you need to work on it by failing). At this rate, I'll never get what I want. (Lie, the beginning is always the slowest and hardest part, nob…
/r/askTRP07/07/17 12:07 AM
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Depression is like all things...it can exist, but you still have a choice on what you choose to do. When the feeling pops up, examine it, and look where it's coming from, but don't let it invade your choices and actions. You always have the freedom of what you choose to do, that is the final freedom of life. When depression comes, I like to step back and ask myself what I would do if a great friend or one of my brothers was in my position. What would I do to help him. Then I act like I'm the hel…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 11:54 PM
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Earlier than later. The saying "you get what you settle for" eventually becomes extremely apparent in your life the longer you get a chance to look back on your past from your present conditions.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 11:50 PM
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All people seek validation, but you have to remember women go through cycles of emotions a lot more than men do. Men try to validate feeling adrenaline, chill, and laughing, women run the gamut of emotions. You ever noticed that some women get excited when their friend is having a bad time? It's like they become excited that they're going to get to go be in a bad mood with them. It makes no sense to men, but many women would all just nod and think it's obvious that they get to experience an emot…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 11:48 PM
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The oldest and most proven tool for conquering a group of people is to divide them, and then conquer. Let them battle each other over some line that you can create, and then let them focus on that line that divides them and battle each other out. The truth is it is the most proven and effective method of conquering that's stood the test of time. Don't let people focus on their similarities, find the differences in the groups you want to conquer and let them battle each other first into controlla…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 11:43 PM
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I have a few lesbian friends, and every single one of them has mom issues. Every. Single. One. This could be the key point to examine in yourself. I don't know if there is a well known author or something who's a good resource for this, it might be worth looking into.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 11:38 PM
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Just don't give her any actual thing to point to, the more her mind is allowed to imagine what it could have been, the better. This is perfect, but if you go out with a specific person, or tell her exactly what it was, you're only giving her ammo to accidentally do the exact same thing back to you as payback. "Well, he went to dinner with Ashley, so I'm going to ask this guy to dinner too." She won't acknowledge that she has a crush and would allow him to escalate. She just has an excuse now tha…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 09:38 PM
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Women's first instinct is to soothe emotions and validate each other. It is not to talk about wha is successful or will actually lead to results they want. One of my favorite moments showing this was Anthony Robbins straight up correcting Oprah one time and telling her this, I can't remember where or how I saw it, but somewhere out there is Anthony Robbins telling Oprah to stop validating women.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 09:32 PM
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This is essentially advertising in a post. The only problem is you can't convince people this, they have to finally get it and feel empty to realize it. There's a saying that the key to problems in America is that everybody identifies as being rich...someday.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 08:01 PM
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Except her name won't be "The Sheriff", it most likely will be "I refound my faith" or "I've matured and know what I want and am worth."
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 07:51 PM
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Also see: Warren Buffett, literally talks ad nauseum about the power of compounded interest as the key to everything. Plus It never hurts to looks at all the counter examples of lottery winners and athletes that ended up bankrupt.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 07:44 PM
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Fake it 'til you make it This saying has been around for a very long time, it's one of the most effective ways to improve yourself and adapt mannerisms for the results you want. Eventually you realize everybody in life is usually faking it at something they want to be better at, so choose what you fake wisely, and make sure you want the things you fake yourself into becoming.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 12:58 AM
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I know you're not asking for advice, but just my two cents on the religion part since some people tend to discount everything once that word is added (it's loaded really one way or the other, and both are disadvantageous to the meaning of it here until maybe they're more into it) ... "Practice" seems much more suitable since it exemplifies the idea of an ongoing action, and has the added bonus of not being discounted. Plus you can add in a header for each part to make them separate chapters "The…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 09:11 AM
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A girl who jumps ship all the time will never be happy in a sustainable way because she gets happy only from others. Every time her next relationship starts, it's usually to tell everyone that this time she knows where she went wrong last time and this time it's different because _______ (insert whatever reason women love hearing from support for each other). And then when that relationship ends its the guys fault because ______(insert common reason for leaving like controlling or egotistical or…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 05:33 AM
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If you want just one certain woman, you won't get her. If you can get any woman (being attractive isn't a choice) then you have your best chance with previous women, but by then you usually don't want her over the other options available.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 05:24 AM
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It's something that is definitely shocking to most guys, and even most girls once they do it. There's a lot of info out there about how normal cheating is, and the chances are that the average long term relationship probably has had a partner cheat at some point. I'm sure if we all knew the truth we'd still be shocked, but it is in reality part of human nature.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 06:26 AM
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You're correct to some degree, but at the same time there are simply scenarios where you can do everything in your power and she still will cheat because of the circumstances (and will in fact be encouraged to do so by her friends or other males or even by her family like her mom or sisters). Women do tend to follow the flow of life, and when her friends are cheating and encouraging her to follow, there's a much better chance of it happening no matter what guy she's dating. This isn't saying tha…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 06:09 AM
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A SIDE NOTE TO THIS POST IF YOU HAVE A GIRL Pay attention to what social groups she attends with you. For the author, if she wants to go cheer him on at basketball or rugby as well as go with you to social events, then she is being your cheerleader. If she only goes to certain social groups, she's only using you to bolster her own social proof and is leeching off you! Pay attention to what has her attention if it's only about you in certain scenarios and groups...well that's exactly the ones you…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 08:05 PM
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When you find something that's helped addicts become more aware and change their behavior, then it clearly is a special program. We're talking literally about people that couldn't control themselves suddenly gaining control over themselves. That's a magic pill if ever there was one. I have no issues with alcohol and am not really big on people pushing God, but it's impossible to argue with something that gets results like that. It's worth it to look at the principles of the program and use it as…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 09:03 PM
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Isolation is shown to create more disorders and issues in studies on mice than any other factor. Literally mice would get addicted to drugs when isolated and those that were able to be social with other mice would never get addicted no matter how much the drug was available. Isolation is a mind killer more than any other factor...but it should be shown the opposite is also true, if you are facing addictions or can't get it together, joining groups like AA or venturing out to join social groups c…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 01:22 AM
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Not yet. Let the other girl get through the sadness months. She'll do some stupid shit, and go back and forth emotionally for a little bit. About the three month mark is where the girl is really gonna be "exploring". That's the prime time for you to make your move, especially if you laid down the prep work with your girlfriend. Don't make it a first time thing, but it could definitely be repeatable. If it's a first time thing your girl probably wouldn't be open to it at all with a friend.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 07:59 AM
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No matter what, don't forget the simple rule. You're invited around now, but girls will influence others to be single when they're single. They're competitive in their nature with each other. I would be careful with single friends around your girlfriend inviting her out for girls night out. Not because of anything with you, but everything to do with girls being competitive with each other. A few crazy experiences and your girlfriend won't help but get jealous of them and feel like she's "missing…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 07:51 AM
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I think that's the next phase in all of this, is that it's clear people are becoming more aware, and as women's behavior on the fringes gets worse, it pushes more guys into a territory of seeking male guidance. I was certainly a nerd and introverted and no friends and all that fun stuff, and learned how to break out of it as I left the town I grew up in so for me, I always knew there were guys looking for tribes to belong to, and that it was as simple as making the events you think are awesome h…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 11:33 AM
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Women want access to that mans lifestyle. That's why one of the biggest "something seems off" moments for women is if a guy never introduces her to his friends or keeps her out of a certain scenario like work or his family. They know the trick is to limit his access to other females (we're you checking her out?!) and get access to his social and work groups (you always hang out with them, why don't you ever invite me?!). When you're a man with a following, girls are the most territorial things o…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 06:06 AM
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The craziest thing to me is after you read books like sperm wars. Sperm can survive in a vagina for a WEEK. And 99% of the sperm actually aren't made to get a woman pregnant anyway, they're simply made to destroy other sperm. If you're hooking up with a girl, she probably has sperm still alive in her vagina from the past week, nature for the win. At this point, even if you have a problem with it, it's like having a problem with traffic or global warming. You're just not gonna win the battle. I w…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 04:34 AM
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My view is the more reactionary someone is, the more likely they are unable to defend or explore what they think. I think that's pretty common, almost like when you ask someone something and immediately it becomes a personal attack, no good comes from that and usually is a sign the person is hiding thoughts or at least can't unfold them....it's the same thing with anything important, most people after leaving the church immediately answer that they're atheist, and they will get angry and want an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 05:39 AM
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It's crazy. It really is. I have another account but honestly this stuff goes back waaaaaay before that subreddit got popular, even before the subreddit existed. Unfortunately as you're well aware of, relationships are in a weird stage. People definitely aren't doing better at them, we're all kinda doing worse. It's not like anyone is to blame or it's a men vs women thing, I think both sexes are getting more and more disenfranchised and more and more of us are growing up from broken families or …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 05:04 AM
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I'm sorry to say that I think that's just the way it goes. The only historical examples I can think of society valuing men for feeling emotions is as an artist, but historically there are countless examples of men being valued for overcoming emotions. There is tons of awful advice there. Tons. There's tons of bad advice everywhere, that's for sure. But only a fool takes advice from someone that they don't want to become. There are a few people in theredpill who are happy and doing well and shari…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 01:35 AM
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Awesome response. Incredibly well informed too so this was great to read. I find a lot of the points very interesting, and certainly think we'll never find a study that can conclusively give us a direct answer, or there would be no debate. I'll do my best to go through each of your points and try to raise counter points where I can, though forgive me if I miss something. In the marriage example, of someone seeking higher partners after a divorce, I understand why that wouldn't count, but isn't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 12:54 AM
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Can you help me understand that a little better? I'm not following your argument very well not because of the content but because of the layout. I just need help seeing what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 12:01 AM
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It does teach them to deal with it. That's what I'm saying. A lot of the guys there have been through similar things, so they're passing on the knowledge they have learned. That is the heart of truth of the red pill, is guys sharing their experiences with others about "this is what the world says vs. this is what my experience was". Now, on the edges that truth is perverted, but that's the reality of any community today. Every community has people trying to exploit it with the same old tricks. P…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 11:58 PM
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So if there were studies you think they're biased or that the correlation doesn't equal causation? So what factors do you think cause the rise in correlation? If there's a difference in the numbers, why wouldn't there be a difference in men vs. women? Or do you think the studies are never carried out strictly and have a purpose before they're carried out?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 10:08 PM
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I'm arguing against your saying that people with High N counts settle with the first person that decides to stay. That usually for the men with a high partner count that I knew, the chance to have someone stay was always high. The women wanted to stay and were always curious or fascinated with the lifestyle the guy had and wanted to be a part of it. Usually the guy didn't want them to be a part of it because he didn't see it improving that lifestyle. So the relationship never happened unless the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 09:52 PM
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Ok, so that's common ground we can start from, but what about the partner counts?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 09:47 PM
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Exactly, how you deal with them is all, that matters. A lot of those guys are letting out tons of anger there, which is certainly much better than holding it in. And it's better than pretending it doesn't exist. Besides that, the first post most guys who are angry get is "go to the gym" since that's a positive place to let out anger. I guess I'm curious what you think ideally expressing emotions would look like, certainly things aren't perfect anywhere but a lot of people are doing their best.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 09:37 PM
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How does it apply to High N men or women if the option to have a relationship is always available, it's just up to the person to choose if they agree. It's like a person who has a business and everyone is trying to acquire them, they can hold out for an offer they see working. But on the other side, if you have a business, it doesn't mean everyone is trying to acquire you...you might sell yourself to the first bid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 07:07 AM
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Yeah...bullshit. Personal experience so take this as an outlier at worst, or a data point at best, but the more options I had it didn't matter, all that mattered was if I saw it working out. More partner n count didn't matter and affected the decision irrelevantly. Even more so, the entire precipice has a wrong approach. Most were seeking a partnership but I didn't want one, so the choice was always there, it was just up to me when I made it (based off of seeing if it worked or not).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 07:01 AM
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Studies aside, what do you personally think/feel/believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 06:58 AM
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If that's the case, then studies aside, what do you personally believe/think/feel from your own experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 06:57 AM
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What's healthy? Aren't all emotions acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 06:54 AM
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Besides being sarcastic and ridiculously polarizing in your numbers and separation, you still admit to the difference of what reality is. Men still can be "divorce raped" by your own admission, which I'm not sure I'd even stoop that low considering marriage is something both parties agree to.... But still your point about different partners is something I think a lot of people have accepted as reality, easily understandably as enviable traits or not. I don't know if TRP argues that men can have …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 06:53 AM
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It’s something I have a lot of respect for and have participated in. - Scarlet Talking about why her opinion is based on experience in a monogamous marriage. Ok, wait a second, you failed twice and didn't make it past two years of marriage the second time. That's not participating in it, or make you some expert. That's like someone not getting past the second level in Mario over and over and giving other people advice on the game that's treated the same as those who beat it. Even better is that …
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 01:53 AM
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Aaaand that's why political loops happen. This is where I back away from the sales promotion about how we all get rich in this scheme and after two hours find out it's just a time-share.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 04:48 PM
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I'm not making a point, I'm asking you for a solution to those problems. Capitalism sucks, but it's better than most the other isms that history has. Social structures have existed forever and brought us here. What would you replace it with?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 09:08 AM
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The loud leading the wounded I think is more apt. But that's just at it's most cliched. To be honest, it has also offered a sincere amount of help. You have to remember when guys breakup a lot of women have social systems that are better setup for them, and lots of guys suddenly giving them attention whether they wanted it or not. A lot of guys go to the redpill because nobody else is there. When you have nobody, you'll turn to anyone. I don't know if there's a cure for male loneliness, the othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 09:00 AM
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I don't know. I understand what I said, but I would have to understand feminism better, which is a constantly evolving idea simply by the fact that everything is evolving. I guess my answer to that is, are those that are considered leaders of feminism living the lifestyle they advocate for and achieving it by showing there are better principles of truth that we all can learn from or promoting those living it, or are they leaders because they advocate tearing someone else down.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 02:25 AM
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And what comes after that? Has destroying a thing improved the quality of life for people? If so, how? Are there alternatives? What improves peoples quality of life the most and is sustainable at improving over a long period of time?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 02:19 AM
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Hahaha, what? First of all, robots are valuable, don't pretend they aren't. And value and focus can be charismatic if you're vision speaks to the truth in others. Weightlifting isn't always about what women prefer, it's more about treating your body with respect and getting what you want from it and improving it (which improves everything from how you think, to how you feel, to your energy levels...all those have nothing to do with women). Emotions get in the way of sharing your ultimate vision …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 02:11 AM
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The loudest or outliers do not represent the entire nature of one subject. In fact, the more controversial something is, the more it usually is just getting attention for it's controversy, that's a phenomenon across many subjects, not just TRP. That was the entire marketing approach for American Apparel, or Tucker Max's book or others. It's a phenomenon to a connected society, and definitely doesn't represent truth or the nature of a subject. More so it's just apparent that we're all idiots for …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 01:48 AM
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That's like asking if people could be jailed for using a company for it's paycheck and not for it's value. You must provide evidence. Companies change, you could have proof early, but hate the company after it changes. You might even change what you do, knowing that when you did your best providing value and thinking you were helping the company towards the values you liked, it chose to actually get worse and simply took advantage of your work, but then you were stuck there. How would strategy f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 01:42 AM
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How is Hitler extreme masculinity? If anything, he had aspects of femininity as well. He had an artistic brain, from literally painting, to giving speeches, to understanding social structures. He didn't lead by example, he lead by charisma. That's aspects of femininity, as well as masculinity, probably high in the middle. And how is mother therese extreme femininity? There's a lot of fucked up stories about the treatment of the people in those clinics, I'm not sure that's extreme femininity eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 01:32 AM
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It matters what your idea of entitlement is, from either sexes, from a large range of people from those sexes. I'm not sure how people would define male entitlement, or if they could surmise it down to one sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 01:21 AM
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not every opinion or lifestyle has value or should be tolerated That's not solely a liberal problem. Not every idea that wins in the short term serves a long term usefulness. Not every idea that serves short term value should be tolerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 01:12 AM
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The presumption here that demands are handed out, not achieved.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 01:09 AM
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No. I have experienced pain and suffering and it was miserable, my empathy tells me to prevent this from happening to others. I do not know any unicorns on the moon, but if I have a choice of whether they suffer pain I'm familiar with or to ignore it (because I'm not a unicorn nor am I on the moon), my immediate choice (which also serves to bring meaning to my painful experience) is to fight against them experiencing pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 01:05 AM
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"Be the change you want to be in the world." BUT ALSO... Just because I like steak doesn't mean I won't let others be vegetarians. Our differences on this planet make us. The only issue I have on this planet is when someone improving their life isn't good enough. When they need someone else to lose for it to "matter", then you have entered into EGO territory, and nothing is good enough. That is not what feminism is about, but it's hard not to see aspects of that rear it's head more and more. Ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 01:00 AM
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Jocko!! Dudes motto is "Discipline = Freedom"
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 01:04 PM
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Your only focus as a dude should be results, "am I less of a man" is exactly the devious question that's insidiously postured around. Man is focus and creating his version of reality (his dream) into actual reality. Having police escorted you achieved results. "Am I a real man" is a shit test from your own self comparing yourself to...others I society. There's no society, there is you, a real man because of results of your actions creating your vision. Which is literally the definition of a succ…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 07:14 PM
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Or just don't reward selfish women with a relationship. Granted...this just eliminated most the attractive women, but there is still a significant amount of awesome women who aren't selfish and trying to emasculate you because they're insecure and are used to getting their way. Don't reward selfish attention seekers. Date the quiet girls. Selfish attention seekers will leave even if you fuck her silly, the relationship simply can't stand on that and needs someone who actually wants a relationshi…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 10:33 AM
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You're not as bad as you think you are, that's the first thing you'll learn when you start tracking yourself. People vastly overestimate what they can accomplish in one year and vastly underrate what they can do in five years/decade. You haven't fucked up just yet, and I bet if you looked at the actual data of how far you've come you might just be surprised. Secondly, checkout Philip Zimbardo videos on time paradoxes. He did the original Stanford prison experiment and the marshmallow/delayed-gra…
/r/becomeaman18/01/17 08:50 AM
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When confronted with the truth, we have two choices.... Deny it, or adapt.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 06:30 AM
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Adaptation is the only rule of the universe.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 06:25 AM
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Helping captains navigate the waves. It helps give my failures worth and meaning...
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 06:24 AM
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Thanks man. Hahaha, me too. But, life is about growth. Glad the list can help, feel free to add any events you feel like I missed, maybe we can make a wiki eventually or something that couples can use. The only events I didn't include were anything with children or post children because I've never dealt with that or helped people that did enough to know anything for sure.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 02:17 AM
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We all have our patterns. I'm glad you got something from this. I'm sure there is more, but this is the most comprehensive list I know of because it's the one I've kept from everything that I've read or learned. The only one I didn't include was anything post children because I haven't been through that or helped people in those scenarios.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 02:14 AM
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Going through hardship with loved ones dying actually can pull the woman emotionally closer to you to be honest. Just matters how you tell the story and what you think you learned from it.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 02:11 AM
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I've said it's understandable, but never have said I'm ok with it. More so I just try to make them open about sharing it instead of hiding it. I would much rather break up with someone than be cheated on. I can deal with reality, but lies drive me crazy having to double think things.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 02:07 AM
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Agreed on the dirty trick part, but for some that's also just a normal part of relationships in their talking together, or when a group couple has cheated and the topic comes up. That's why I said it's a dirty trick, not something that is going to make you believe in yourself or your relationship more. The neurotransmitters was definitely not bro science whatsoever or a made up term. They're things like endorphins, dopamine, neurepinephrine, oxytocin, etc... Essentially it's just saying the part…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 01:56 AM
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This was about the natural flow that you'll face in any LTR. These are checkpoints on a map saying "many fall here and regret it". Not just with men, but with both women and men. Some people choose to go the marriage route, and they are complete badasses because of it. They might not be able to do other lifestyles that are promoted here. This isn't about hamstring anything, this is literally a checklist to keep you focused at all other times on what matters, and to know that some events that see…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 01:49 AM
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Exactly. The hardest part of a LTR is navigating challenges as they happen. You might not realize that some of the challenges are exactly the thing that ruined your relationship even if both partners wanted the relationship to continue (like someone close to your partner dying...it's an extremely common time for women to cheat and turn away from the life they have and then completely resent their actions and try to win their partner back later after they treated them awful). Some of the scenario…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 06:57 PM
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It's not easy to swallow, but it teaches you a lot. The events and influencers aren't always obvious until things are too late... And then they're painfully obvious. One thing I've learned is that your gut isn't always right about details, but is always worth listening to when things seem off.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 06:50 PM
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Thanks! I appreciate the endorsement. A lot of this is obvious after you've been through it, but a lot of this stuff I haven't seen anywhere and comes from a few hard lessons learned from making decisions with the wrong head and later figuring things out with the right one....
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 01:55 PM
6

I'm interested if something works, not so much thinking whether it's right or wrong... Just my view on life.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 01:12 PM
3

I'm not supporting marriage, I simply am giving a toolbox to those who are interested in it.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 01:09 PM
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Hey man, red pill or blue pill, a relationship is automatically by its nature going to start shifting towards the blue pill spectrum. This goes into extremes only so that everyone would have something to take from it and learn, I've learned by experience even coming from a red frame. A post that said "don't give a shit about her" wouldn't exactly be informative. There is little info pandering to the Disney blue pill frame, more so just something to learn no matter what level someone is at.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 01:05 PM
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It's more just fun to make fun of. Going to news sites every so often is like visiting the zoo, but...funner because the animals don't even realize their caged.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 11:38 AM
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REAL MEN DONT HAVE LUCKY SHIRTS Um, yeah...I'll trade my lucky shirt, but only if you force all women to stop believing in horoscopes and stop putting them on your shitty webpage
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 11:36 AM
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Haters will always hate, and dealing with it is a real struggle sometimes (old men love knocking down younger guys like a ram playing king of the hill). But the neurotransmitters, clean thinking, and energy alone are worth working out. You will literally do better work with the clearer thinking, inherent optimism, and higher energy. You will be better at your job in almost all cases.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 11:30 AM
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You just remember you're better off without her and she is only better when she's with someone. Pretty easy
/r/askTRP28/12/16 04:40 AM
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If somebody gets attention for something, don't be surprised when the threshold for gaining attention is lowered. We call it spam in any other medium, but attention whoring and narcissism when it comes to people.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 04:20 PM
3

The climb is all that matters when we push, the enjoyment when we rest.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 08:30 PM
1

I think you're right that some aspect of us want that long term pairing, but society has changed. I do think that divorce rates are significant enough to be a point of shifting our understanding of human behavior. For every 2 marriages in the last decade, there was 1 divorce. History doesn't have time periods like today, but there are significant implications on human behavior in that stat because there are plenty of incentives to getting married and not many for getting divorced. I think pairin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 03:37 PM
1

I agree that a good relationship will make your life better, I absolutely agree. I also agree that it's an investment that takes nurturing, but I think there's relatively few women that are interested in that investment or that will make someone's life better by being with them over the long term. In my experience women have been less interested in investing what it takes to nurture a relationship beyond the 2-4 years (where neurotransmitters begin to fade in human pairings). I agree with you th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 03:58 AM
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No, sorry if that came off that way, I was simply stating traditional things that might make it more apparent what I was talking about to promote the discussion, not to make a literal value based off of one thing and nothing else. I'm simply saying that the feeling of bringing something into my life that makes it better with them in it as opposed to worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 09:35 PM
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What do you get from a relationship that's more valuable? Usually it's the opposite (in my experience). Not many women bring a lot of companionship to guys. Not many women know how to do things that guys enjoy. My experience with relationships is that there is a lot more sacrifice from the guys part than the woman's until they have kids. If I'm wrong I would love to hear others experiences. When I've been in relationships, generally I am capable of doing everything for myself to my own standards…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 03:29 PM
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Well then here it is. We found the root cause of all the issues. Reading is literally someone summarizing their best thoughts into a concise, deliverable idea. Talking can't be as well thought out and edited logically as writing can unless it's a practiced speech. Reading comprehension is probably the single skill that could turn around any possible situation better than anything else.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 01:02 AM
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Or ghost them for all reasons. Just no matter what side of your brain you're in, ghosting is the answer. But the article was still good for breaking down every last reason someone's brain might make to convince themselves to not ghost. It's in those moments of weakness that the reasons become important, and in moments of strength that our concern just didn't include that person in any way anymore. Good strategies motivate with both carrots and sticks, both in weakness and in strength.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 11:46 PM
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Thanks, I could make a new post out of it. I did it on my phone, so I'll take a look on a laptop and clean up the formatting and submit it(can't tell on my phone what looks off). The time markets are the duration of the relationship with the girl. Maybe just call it "95% Breakups Will Occur During These Points"? If you have an idea on a title, I'm all ears.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 01:11 PM
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Ask how her previous relationships ended or let her talk about her exes when they come up and egg her on. If she talks shit about them, notice how and give her good reinforcement about it and call them idiots or whatever to keep her talking. Don't ask timelines directly, but ask who broke up and if it was her, I bet she has a pattern at what time of year or stressed or depressed when she did it. Lots of girls breakup either in holidays or in spring over and over, and they have reasons, but the r…
/r/askTRP28/11/16 11:34 AM
1

So you think more logical explanations than people not feeling love explains divorce? Why do people get married? Hahaha, how do breakups usually happen, why is the saying "I love you but I'm not in love with you" famous and so well known? I'm not saying your reasons are not valid, they are. I just don't think they're the number 1 cause. I think Michelle Langley wrote a book after treating women for 10 years about women falling out of love at the 3-4 year mark, there's TED talks from therapist Es…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 02:27 PM
2

I use them way too much. Reversed genders in hers with different options using parenthesis to make it easier to see. I can edit and put in brackets if you prefer it that way, but you'll have to be the one to make that call. I'm a huge fan of parenthesis and think they're better than brackets. I mean, what are brackets anyways? Squared parenthesis? What is that shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 02:15 PM
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(Women) are true romantics and love you for who you are as long as you're (passionate about a job that's an 8/10 and make her feel good about herself, even if she's a bitch, she deserves it), (Emotionally mature, I guess if you don't like sharing feelings or being passionate you should have the good sense to exile yourself into something where you can die for a bigger cause without having to be mentioned on the news and not one of those causes where they have to say "and women and children were …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 09:53 AM
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Why does a man have to keep having passion in his life or be excited to see you if you love him for who he is?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 09:49 AM
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Wow, this is all over the place, and you clearly are hating on dudes hard, and completely dismissing the fact that women initiate most divorces. Women initiate most divorces. For men looks matter, 90%. For women, feelings matter, 90%. People can get past it, and it's not always the case, but generally those are true. Generally for men, their brains are singular focused. Once he's committed, he's building towards one thing, and that woman is brought into his vision of what he's working towards. G…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 09:45 AM
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Here's a few to get started, if you're interested in more books let me know, especially what kind of books you're into. Nathaniel Branden - Six Pillars of Self Esteem This dude was Ayn Rands lover and is absolutely brilliant. Wrote a ton of stuff, but this is probably his best all wrapped up into one concise doctrine that breaks down self esteem. He was one of the most awarded psychologists and treated a ridiculous amount of people and wrote a lot. Can't recommend this enough. Eckhart Tolle - Po…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 05:27 AM
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It's funny because not taking it is like believing in Santa Claus and taking it as far as you can. Like actually working extremely hard the entire year to be the best kid for Santa's list and then seeing that a rich asshole brat got a gift that was worth 100x more than anything you got and then actively trying to adjust and think it meant the kid did the right things and trying to game the system and then doing that for another year and you still don't get as good of a present as the other kid a…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 07:26 PM
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Sorry if the context wasn't clear, it was implying that we all make mistakes. And mistakes of writing are mistakes of what...syntax? Writing in its nature is communication, and if I communicated the idea, then it served its purpose. If a few of the mistakes in there caused some people to dismiss the idea altogether, then those probably served their purpose as well. I still think the ice metaphor was perfectly in context. No straw men intended, simple metaphors were my aim.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 07:22 PM
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Thanks man, this is wonderfully poignant.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 02:48 PM
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Crazy is usually good at concealing it for a solid 3-9 months, but within that time you will see some of the craziest behavior at one point. It's the girls that are too good to be true that are usually batshit crazy, they've just gotten good at reading people (telling them what they want to hear) and hiding it. If she had punishment fetishes, you gotta ask yourself what's going on there and get to the bottom of it and 9 times out of 10 it's a poor self esteem based on childhood issues. I'm not s…
/r/askTRP01/11/16 07:47 AM
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Meditation is amazing at getting into an amazing headspace and clearing away suffering. I like to think meditation brings tranquility. I think finding a passion puts us into the flow state that's similar to tranquility, but... I don't know. It's just different. Both put us in the present moment though, and that's probably a big key to experiencing happiness. You can think about it, you have to experience it.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 05:56 AM
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Hahaha, judge someone based off their mistakes...sounds like an awesome plan. I bet the best igloo maker never slipped on ice either. 👍
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 05:44 AM
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I agree with most all of your assertions and think they are some quality subjects. But I think happiness is in the striving to get better at something. I think tranquility can bring happiness, but that aspect of improving sustains happiness over a long term. I think flow states are their own form of meditation, so if we can get into something that can cause us to continually get into flow states, that's a great place to be. It also just so happens that some of the most successful people are gett…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 02:53 AM
1

Some of us learn the easy way, some of us learn the hard way.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 02:33 AM
1

Nope, not German. Well, German background along with Scottish/Irish. But grew up a Midwest kid. I love the idea of a heavy text accent though. Are there different dialects of speech in text? That's fascinating.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 12:42 AM
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It was professionally done, sorry I didn't explain that, you're required to take a professionally administrated IQ test in my state for an ADD diagnosis. And it's been over 10 years since then. Listen if you can't accept that IQ then don't. I didn't lie, I scored genius level IQ, it's really more of a curse than you'd think. My brain is extremely good at some things and awful at others. I honestly think the high IQ in my family has more to do with negative emotions and feeling like we never did …
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 12:27 AM
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I love two things for thoughts on defining religion. First is the Buddhas. Eliminate suffering, that's where tranquility or happiness or whatever is at. He doesn't define it, because it's the undefinable, it's only experiential at best. It doesn't let your brain try to attribute something to it, and forces you to go through the experience and not rationalize or think about it. Second was the librarian Lao Tzu. "Those who know don't speak, and those who speak don't know."
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 06:12 PM
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That's a good question. Just think of this though, a guys ego can be your best or worst friend, and his best or worst friend. If you can manage to get it on both of your sides (without feeling like you're selling yourself short or not making the flirting aspect of it fun) then you managed to find the balance of that crazy dance. The girls I've given shots have always been those who praised me along with some aspect of the flirting, but they also had the patience for the other girls to fuck thems…
/r/seduction31/10/16 06:07 PM
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Religion is crazy. How can someone own God and your path to whatever the highest is? Ok, imagine an ant saying they were more important than another ant in us finding out about them? And that it was only through one certain ant that another ant could find something bigger. That's fucking dumb. Either we all have access to God or we dont. I think imagining one group is more important than another is self delusional and ego at its worst, trying to corrupt something who's very existence would imply…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 05:59 PM
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Actually I'm extremely visual brained. I literally aced the part of the test, but did lower on others. I took the test when I was diagnosed with ADHD as it was required. If you want to talk shop let's do it! I can talk quantum physics and how I think the key to free energy is being the first to hit absolute zero for the first time in history and that the Bose Einstein condensate is a key that maybe a better model for examining our universe is with fluid dynamics rather than with string theory. T…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 05:43 PM
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You will never know if he wants a relationship, but generally the less games the better and just making him feel good about himself literally will put you in the top 80% of women. It's amazing how many women don't just make a guy feel more manly but it really doesn't happen But just think of the opposite... I'm sure one of the best things a guy can do is to make you feel more feminine, it's pretty simple, but so few dudes do it, so somewhere along the way it's not simple. I don't know, check the…
/r/seduction31/10/16 05:30 PM
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Go check out the redpill women subreddit. It's literally about the very acts of getting a guy to commit.
/r/seduction31/10/16 05:27 PM
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It's actually very healthy. Cute usually has self worth without the self destruction, but that isn't always the case. Generally true, but not always true. It's worth it to find out what's true in life though, attracted or not, the best thing is surprising yourself when someone you never thought would be attractive completely blows you away.
/r/seduction31/10/16 05:25 PM
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Go off the deep end. Or just make it sexual while not making it sexual, start talking about a girl who knows how to make good meat balls but describe her giving you a blow job or something. Go over the top. Say you're only into girls who's spirit animal is a Bassett hound. If you want more advanced, pay attention earlier in the conversation to how she differentiates herself from her friends and she basically is giving you her cheat code. If she said that she hates that her friends are too uptigh…
/r/seduction31/10/16 05:22 PM
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Love it. That's a great way of looking at frame. I've always thought of it as acting to some extent, acting in tune with your principals. But honestly, what is purpose, but a frame that guides your life? Well put man, appreciate the comment
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 04:52 PM
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It's so true. I mean once you realize that the fear part of our brain was made to help us avoid actual death, like a polar bear who will literally slowly chew us to death while our body rots in the cold and we might be half conscious for the whole thing.... It's like...that system runs most people's lives. But the thing is, they respond the same way to someone sighing as they would to that polar bear... You see what I'm saying? We all convince ourselves how much failing is this life or death thi…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 04:50 PM
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Hah, I'm forming my purpose again. I'm honestly going through the process after...what I would call a reawakening. I can tell you that I'm tearing down the walls before I put new ones on top of it. You can see some of my past writing submissions for clues on new walls and thoughts I'm at. I've made as complete a post on motivation as I could think of to realize how it was so easy for me to accomplish goals. I'll probably write about purpose as I have the "eureka" moment and sit down and somethin…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 04:43 PM
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The act of choosing in its nature implies a free man. What's sad is the voluntary slavery that's subtlety taken place. Who needs an opiate for the masses when the masses are opiated staring at themselves, worrying they're not good enough. Unbelievable, yet here we are.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 04:37 PM
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That's the quote. Thank you!
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 04:35 PM
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You sir are correct. Annual fees for a card and board game nights? Nah...I'm good. I was in MENSA
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 04:33 PM
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MENSA and 154 IQ. Intelligence is a curse and causes more inaction than any other trait. All members of my family went full ride to our states top university and sister passed BAR exam in two separate states, all siblings graduated grad school... On and on, I already told you if you want the qualifications, we have those...
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 04:13 PM
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Nice! I totally understand the Longview thing. It's like shouting the most important fact you know, and having everyone tell you you're wrong and simply avoiding the points you bring up. They just don't have the energy to handle it, and that's ok (part of what I mean when I say the switch takes place, and you realize they don't care and it's depressing, but then you realize that same fact applies when you are going after something, they are going to have that same attitude).
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 01:51 PM
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Spot on! I've actually written about this very same thing, with the idea that if you have things that aren't love and overcoming, then you are controllable. If you react to anything, then it makes you manipulatable. Loving and avoiding anything that is "not love" is the only way. When someone says something offensive, it says more about them than you anyways and you don't have to accept it, you can actually choose just to ignore it and choose to be happy and stick with your own defined life and …
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 01:46 PM
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"what do I do after winning?". I felt more empty after I reached the goal than while I was in it. This is the heart and soul of this whole thing. I think the striving or flow aspect is where happiness is, and more so, I remember the most empty feeling I had was "getting" my dream girl and all sorts of other goals and having this total "is this it?!!" moment. It was so utterly deflating and depressing. I turned to drugs and sexual debauchery as a way to escape more so than enjoying things. In the…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 01:41 PM
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There's a great Warren Buffett quote on time, or maybe it's Arnold Schwarzenegger...but essentially it's if you don't schedule time to work for yourself then someone already has scheduled your time to work for them in some way whether you're aware of it or not. I wish I had the quote!
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 01:34 PM
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Even then, they cannot buy happiness and purpose, nor can they corner it and force us to buy it. I personally like the idea of tranquility as being eliminating suffering. Even meditating is clearing your mind of all the thoughts that cause desire and divert us from the happiness available to all of us. Most of us are not born a slave, but many of us end up on that path through laziness. The way out is purpose and self discipline, which are liberty and freedom in the truest sense for a relatively…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 01:27 PM
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You completely misread the article if that's what you took from it. I specifically am saying that the best things in life are free, and even if you get a ton of money, that still is only the second best things in life. Nobody can sell you the best things in life. If traveling was your purpose, then that made you happy. Traveling made you happy, not the moment you finished traveling and got to tell everyone where you went that made you happy. I'm saying happiness is in the chase, not the destinat…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 01:13 PM
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The hard part too though is realizing even university research has its own agenda on what gets published and what gets grants. But you're right, it's this constant getting better over and over every day that is literally striving to improve and having results that are measureable and give you feedback on if you did better or not. I think that really is the key to happiness, or maybe a flow state is a better way of saying it. Same as running or lifting or coding or racing or whatever it is. The s…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 01:05 PM
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Our purpose must be our prize. Having crazy sex with beautiful women won't make you happy, having all the toys and a nice car won't make you happy, having more money than everyone you considered a rival is not going to make you happy. Being more "famous" than your rivals won't make you happy. These are all cheap neurotransmitter thrills that you could have gotten from drugs (which don't make you happy, and take from you in the long your ability to be happy). Purpose must make you happy. Striving…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 12:31 PM
1

What is there to shame? Be someone your daughter looks up to? Fuck, people praise that cheesy motivational "be the person your dog thinks you are", your daughter has a higher capacity for that then a dog. Shame is paralysis disguised as advice.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 09:30 AM
1

Weed in vape cartridges. The stuff is strong as fuck and fucks with me even worse than any other form, not as in messing me up but more so in the fact that it fucks with your body and makes you feel like shit. Is no bueno.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 07:26 AM
1

Sweat it out. You'll be fine. Even worse though if it's cartridges. Make sure to sweat it out and get back to where you have to deal with boredom with anxiety and not escapism.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 08:27 AM
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Cut the weed. At all costs. Cut it for a month and sweat that shit out of your system. Weed literally is the biggest cause of disassociation...aka, changing personality.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 08:26 AM
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That's all I'm saying man. Is that in its own way you have the same options. The guys who are coming after these women aren't the ones they want. And even more so, as a dude you can go up and approach the women you want and have a chance because of how superficial things are. If a girl approaches the guys she wanted she would probably get to have sex with him at best and probably no relationship, and at worst she loses social ties because if you think girls treat dudes like they're disposable, y…
/r/seduction30/09/16 05:29 AM
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Dude, there are a ton of fat girls out there who would hook up with you in a second. Or girls with low self esteem who hook up with anybody drunk at a bar, just look for two girls out at night and one really dressed up one who's looking around everywhere and another one who isn't dressed up and looks bored (because the other girl dragged her out so she wouldn't have to be alone and "look like a slutty girl"). Or a bunch of single mom's who complain about all the guys who don't pay attention to t…
/r/seduction30/09/16 02:38 AM
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Yeah but that's just with sex, and yes, it is just a plethora of dudes when it's online. You think a model has an online dating account? Maybe just for free complements... But the thing is there will never be an equivalent of male behavior and female behavior, because it's different. Ok, I'll put it this way. You want to eat. You can either have all the McDonald's hamburgers you could ever want at the drop of a hat, just 100's of hamburgers everyday set on your table. Sometimes when you were you…
/r/seduction29/09/16 02:22 AM
1

Well guys and girls talk about things differently. No guy wants to hear about something you did with a guy, they want to hear about the act itself, not the people involved. If I talk to a friend about an awesome experience, we avoid talking about the people, and we focus about talking about the act. Next time just notice how guys talk to each other about experiences they're sharing that are positive, and I bet they don't focus on the qualifications of other people, they'll focus on the sensation…
/r/seduction27/09/16 04:43 AM
1

Weird. Almost like they both have roles and benefits and pros and cons.... Do you really think that one sex is better or worse at everything? They both have pros and cons.
/r/seduction27/09/16 04:34 AM
1

We all get whatever we practiced. So it all depends and balances itself out. Everybody deserves happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 05:55 PM
1

I think it's bigger than that. Most dudes love sexual promiscuity, they just want it with them too. I think there is some amount of women though that are averse to it to be honest. The phrase "get it out of my system" is anti slut at its core. Sexual promiscuity is great, until it isn't taking place with a partner, then most men assume things from there and the past plays a huge role at that point. Many men judge simply to avoid that point in the relationship because you learn it's hard to get p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 05:26 PM
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Dude, ok listen. You're looking at this all wrong. Women get it easy in sex, does that mean you want it like that? Women don't pick which guy flirts with them, they have to hide their flirting. Imagine if you were around all these dudes you respected and helped you accomplish your goals as a friend group, but you did one thing like talk to a girl and you got kicked out of the group. If you think girls are harsh to guys, you have no idea how harsh they are to each other. So they have to wait for …
/r/seduction26/09/16 12:11 PM
1

Guys don't hate girls being promiscuous, they just hate it if the girl was sexually open and then stops being sexually open. I think most every guy would high five sex, it's just that the sex usually changes in a relationship so guys get salty. I don't think guys slut shame so much as they get upset at the idea of "get it out of your system" or a girl saying it was fun but is in her past. But honestly the idea of getting it out of your system at its core is kind of slut shaming or anti slut in t…
/r/seduction26/09/16 11:53 AM
1

It's one thing to know, it's another to learn. You can read about getting burned on an oven and the natural instinct of every man is gonna be "I bet I can figure it out". It's another to get burned on it and have to learn to laugh in the face of temptation. That's what we all learn in the end. Just like no man is special in learning how to advance themselves, no man is special in getting burned. We all want to be the one to break past things and be special, a dangerous woman knows how to exploit…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 02:50 PM
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