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17

Smile with your eyes for now.
/r/seduction18/11/20 09:13 PM
3

Yeah it seems that way. I'll give this girl a little bit of credit though, at least she was honest and straightforward about her intentions. A lot of people, men and women, lead people on in these dating apps.
/r/seduction12/10/20 10:22 PM
21

So she's basically just using the app to get validation and some form of approval from men.
/r/seduction12/10/20 08:03 PM
5

I dont think that's the issue most people have with it. I see two things in this picture that upsets people. He's trying to respect her boundaries, which is normally fine. But the artist makes him seem like a weak man. If anyone saw this in real life, you'd feel sorry for the guy, especially when it's his kid that has to validate him. This is a mostly male populated sub, and guys dont want to feel weak. Why do you think they're here? It's not to reinforce the idea that men are weak, that's for s…
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:27 AM
4

Moralizing with a pinch of lecturing. No one likes it.
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:04 AM
6

This is propaganda lmao
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:01 AM
1

I didn't downvote you bud
/r/seduction14/08/20 11:45 AM
5

It changes as they get older. The dating world becomes far more difficult for women as they age out of the market and compete against hotter 20 somethings. As for men, it get's easier. If a man takes care of himself he can peak at 40. OP still has a chance, but only if he's smart about it.
/r/seduction12/08/20 11:12 PM
5

I wouldn't focus on rejection that much. It seems like you're putting your happiness in the hands of other people, namely the women. "If I get approved, I recieve validation and am content." "If I get rejected, I sit in a pool of despair and feel angry." This tells me something is wrong, because a healthy approach to life wouldn't result in this. If you were living on your purpose and getting for your best life possible, then rejections should bounce off of you like getting hit with a pillow. Su…
/r/seduction12/08/20 10:55 PM
1

No prob bro, be high value.
/r/seduction11/08/20 08:24 PM
2

I'm gonna give you this video. Hope it helps.
/r/seduction11/08/20 07:55 PM
1

Ah, I don't stay too close to girls that act this way. If I were in your shoes, I'd mentally check out and move on. Stay friendly but stop giving her the satisfaction of your puppy like attention. A man of high value doesn't have time for this bullshit, so act like it.
/r/seduction11/08/20 07:45 PM
1

Oh bruh, she's fucking around with you as her plaything. She knows you're not gonna get it but wants the attention and satisfaction of your attention to feed her ego. Dont play into this, especially because it's making you look and feel weak. The frame for a man from beginning/middle/end of the interaction with any female should be this: You are a man of high value. Does a man of high value stick around a woman that isn't giving him what he genuinely wants? I say no. If you can, say "Hey nice kn…
/r/seduction11/08/20 07:03 PM
1

Yes. Before you go out to date other girls, you have to first understand where the hesitation lies and why it's happening. Some self reflection is important here. In fact, I'd say it's necessary for you because sexual intimacy, or having "that fire" that keeps a relationship fun and sexy, is needed for a long term relationship. Most potential relationships will die without it. Here's what I'd do. First I'd stop calling myself a pussy repeatedly. I would simply accept that I've got more work to d…
/r/seduction11/08/20 06:26 PM
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What The fuck Are you doing by saying all this self defeating shit? If I were next to you I'd shake your shoulders and tell you to knock it off. This self hating talk will not do you any good. Sure, you realize now that you need to be more assertive. Good. Now stop the bitching and complaining and do the internal work that needs to be done so you can become the sexual man women not only want but will experience.
/r/seduction11/08/20 03:13 PM
8

The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida Also, reading isnt enough. You have to apply what you read or it's all useless to you.
/r/seduction11/08/20 12:29 PM
1

No there isn't. There are STD's that currently do not have a cure. Human Papillomavirus, hepatitus, HIV, and a few others cannot be cured. However, medication is available to manage the symptoms.
/r/seduction03/08/20 11:02 PM
2

Currently in Medical school actually.
/r/seduction03/08/20 10:55 PM
7

That is total bullshit 😂
/r/seduction03/08/20 06:17 PM
10

Women are temporary, the glory of Rome is eternal.
/r/seduction02/08/20 09:28 PM
1

As a 31M, I wouldn't really care. Sure, I expect that it wont be the smoothest experience, but if I liked the girl enough I wouldn't care at all.
/r/seduction02/08/20 08:47 PM
3

I know what you mean. Trying to approach a girl is hard enough. Girls that do this make it 20X's harder then it has to be.
/r/seduction30/07/20 09:20 AM
2

Desperate and pathetic that you like someone? There's nothing pathetic with telling someone that you'd like to go out with them because you're interested. You're thinking too deeply into it. Simply go and ask and you'll receive your answer. If he say's yes, then cool. If it's a no, then just be chill and say, "Alright, no probs," and continue on as if there wasn't an issue.
/r/seduction30/07/20 06:05 AM
4

Jesus... I'm just going to give it to you point blank. Everything you've done and said (or didn't say) to him tells him that you aren't interested. You may have your reasons and etc, but the end result is him assuming you don't like him. If you really want to try something with him, simply be direct. You've squandered time and confused him, so you're best approach is to simply talk to him and tell him what you think, because as it stands he has no idea what's up with you.
/r/seduction30/07/20 05:20 AM
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But the writer did make a distinction as to when it was ok. Places where she is totally alone: Not the best spot Places that are full of people, like a party: Totally fine From the perspective of a female, any man is a potential threat, so even if you have no intentions of hurting a woman in anyway, they dont know that. All they see in that moment is a man who is likely bigger or stronger than her talking to her when they're both alone.
/r/seduction24/07/20 12:22 PM
5

Fuck no, are you kidding? If I went on a date and she was bitchy, I'd leave her.
/r/seduction18/07/20 09:33 PM
19

Let me correct you. The ones that dont care may give you both an STD and Covid. They're idiotic.
/r/seduction12/07/20 09:41 PM
0

Don't you think that rape should be called out?
/r/seduction03/05/20 09:08 AM
15

So I'm just gonna copy and paste this on my wall lol
/r/seduction03/05/20 12:48 AM
1

Hopefully you don't rape someone like he did.
/r/seduction02/05/20 09:31 PM
3

^ This guys going to be in a cell receiving one day
/r/seduction02/05/20 09:27 PM
1

ully learn how to break through my sticking points since my strategy of trying to learn everything by myself was clearly failing. Not gunna lie, your comment almost made me spit me food out lol
/r/seduction02/05/20 09:21 PM
2

Simple simple, like just saying, "Hi, I want to have sex with you now."
/r/seduction16/03/20 07:12 AM
2

Throw out the idea of being physically closer to them without outright saying it near the end of the date. By this time you should have already crossed the touch barrier. Obviously look outbfornsigns ofbinterest during the date as well. If she looks bored or uninterested the entire time then dont be surprised if she declines the offer.
/r/seduction23/12/19 12:42 PM
5

Subtly is sexy.
/r/seduction23/12/19 01:42 AM
2

That's pretty eye opening. There are a lot of guys who think online dating is their only chance.
/r/seduction05/12/19 03:04 PM
4

Men know what they want. We can figure very quickly if we want to sleep with someone. If he isn't even trying to physically be near you and keeps throwing that line to you, I'd move on.
/r/seduction06/10/19 01:52 PM
2

So I've been reading a few of your comments in this post. I can see you're confused and really frustrated. I can tell you feel like time has been wasted or spent and that you feel like you missed the boat. Your mental state about all of this is in the wrong place. You don't need to nail down your 20's in order to have a stellar 30's or 40's. My mom, for example, was a nail salon lady until she was 36. She said "fuck this, I'm going to school." Within six years she attained her masters and after …
/r/seduction12/07/19 01:19 AM
1

I was 29 and fucked 21 year olds. My female friend fucked a 40yr old guy when she was 18. He looked average and she was hot for 18. Dude you're not too old.
/r/seduction11/07/19 11:30 PM
1

Take the time you need. Just don't stay stagnant.
/r/seduction25/06/19 02:51 AM
3

Drop her man. Also, there are legitimately good women out there that are actually pretty decent. It's just that sometimes you wouldn't know it unless you spoke to them.
/r/seduction24/06/19 10:19 AM
1

Oh, I'm just honest. I tell them why I don't want to see them again and then leave. Sure they get pissed, but someone has to tell them lol!
/r/seduction24/06/19 04:00 AM
2

If you cut her off you'll be dodging a bazooka.
/r/seduction24/06/19 03:58 AM
3

They all make themselves seem innocent. I spoke to a sweet girl the other day who looked totally normal. She was nice and fun, and it turns out that she used to be a stripper for several years. She quit to do other things, but she currently had a sugar daddy who sends her money out the "kindness of his heart." Her boyfriend seems fine with this arrangement. Had she never told me, I would have thought she was sweet and innocent too.
/r/seduction24/06/19 03:56 AM
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I'd say that was a little strong. Maybe try to be a little "harder." Instead say, "hmm, well I'll have to see which one I'd like." This way, if they're interested, they'll have to work for your attention.
/r/seduction25/02/19 11:22 AM
8

Just be upfront with her and tell her the god damned truth. "Hey, I'm interested in you and I wanted to spend time with just you." Why are you complicating this. Whether she's interested or not, she'll let you know with her answer.
/r/seduction25/12/18 05:07 PM
18

Slowly move into position. For example, if you're both sitting down on the bench, scooch over to her so your sides are touching. As you're talking, keep you eyes on hers and gradually turn your body a bit towards her. Do this slowly over a few minutes. That's how you position yourself to kiss her if you want. This way it will feel/seem more natural and not out of nowhere. Look at her eyes and read them. If she looks engaged, and she glances at your lips occasionally, then it's on.
/r/seduction09/12/18 06:11 PM
1

Depends specifically on the behavior, but keep it short and simple. Don't get emotional. "Hey, I dont know what's going on, but I don't like this attitude. It's ok if you wanna end this. No big deal." Say it as if it's not a big deal. Never let her see you pine for her to change. In your mind, you can find another person to date.
/r/seduction26/11/18 05:09 PM
1

I tend to write extra for those who may need it. Also, if you didn't care then why pose your thought in the first place?
/r/seduction26/11/18 02:21 AM
1

And why should he care? Lmao he's not supposed to care about her feelings or thoughts. He isn't concerned for her approval or disapproval. He's supposed to be passed it the moment he denies her.
/r/seduction26/11/18 01:36 AM
4

Does it matter? She sucked.
/r/seduction25/11/18 07:17 PM
8

Next time call it out within the first few minutes. Let it be known that the behavior is unacceptable. If she doesn't change then say, "Hey look, I appreciate the fact that you came out to see me, but our values are really different. I don't see how this will work out, but thanks." Then leave.
/r/seduction25/11/18 07:16 PM
1

God DAMN
/r/seduction30/04/18 08:09 PM
-1

That would work on the worst kind of girl lol
/r/seduction30/04/18 08:09 PM
-7

That's not that short... she's being silly.
/r/seduction11/04/18 07:30 PM
5

"Yessssss, destroyyyy yourselfffff..... hisss!"
/r/seduction02/04/18 09:59 AM
9

Tell me about it. A lot of these techniques and routines are ultimately designed for short term/lazy success, and to see a bunch of men clamoring together to learn these tricks like they'll save their soul is a real gem.
/r/seduction28/03/18 01:54 AM
1

Just ask her out and see if she goes.
/r/seduction12/03/18 08:23 PM
1

Set up an elaborate pyramid scheme like him.
/r/seduction15/02/18 02:28 AM
6

She isn't interested. If she were it'd be obvious.
/r/seduction14/02/18 03:36 AM
2

Ahh ok, I see now. I don't know why I was being downvoted to my question but oh well. Glad I asked.
/r/seduction20/06/17 03:52 PM
0

Question but how do you know she won't accuse you with some crazy accusation? Like, what if she later goes, "I told him to stop but he wouldn't so I felt pressured into it..."
/r/seduction19/06/17 07:02 PM
1

Don't do it homes. You're in Uni, there's plenty of fish out there. You're only asking for trouble mate.
/r/seduction19/01/16 07:34 AM
2

I looked into it, and I think I'll get a copy. I really dislike most of the PUA shit that get's thrown around by people who think they're "guru's", so perhaps a different perspective is at hand. I like his thoughts on just being really honest and authentic. I just hope he doesn't mean being honest to a fault. Like, "Hi, I came to this club to fuck girls and I just want to fuck you." Haha I'll give it a read.
/r/seduction15/12/15 07:15 PM
1

What?
/r/seduction15/12/15 04:28 PM
6

Your problem is that you're seeing your self worth is decided upon having a woman. Stop that shit. Work on yourself first, and confidence will naturally grow. Then get the girl.
/r/seduction15/12/15 03:30 PM
7

Why not just try the age old advice of the mystics? Something about being your authentic self or something... The problem with the styles of pick-up is that they morph you into being someone who isn't really being authentic. Girls eventually see through all this stuff and most of them will cut you off or stick around because you offer one or two things for them. Why do you think most guys who go through these things have relationships that are short lived? But if you're looking for quick stuff, …
/r/seduction15/12/15 03:15 PM
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