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And y’all say it's women who are shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:16 PM
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No wonder so many fat bitches are mean as hell for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:50 PM
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No one said you were, fool
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:47 AM
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The irony..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:34 AM
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Most of your examples weren’t sexual assault, they were sexual harassment. It ain’t cool when anybody does it and most socially inclined people don’t do that shit. And to say women don’t face as much sexual harassment as men is disingenuous AF. You’ve never been a woman with thousands of sexually charged messages in your inbox which starts when we ourselves are children. Not to mention the older guys who do that shit irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:28 AM
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I picked the high value non cheater lol. Y’all act as if there’s only those two options you listed. Let the desperate bitches have them cheaters
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:21 AM
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These guys treat everything as if it’s so transactional. It’s not about “using leverage” to find a top 10% mate. It’s about finding someone compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:18 AM
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Ah yes, it’s everyone else’s fault that the socially awkward 35 year old can’t find a willing partner. Nothing wrong with him at all..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:15 AM
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Most married couples were actually introduced by friends or were friends of friends lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:49 AM
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Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:32 AM
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It’s funny how they love to throw around how feelings based women are. Except when it comes to dating. Apparently we don’t care how men make us feel and we don’t care about enjoying ourselves or actually having fun on dates. We just want the tallest guy around and nobody else will ever be good enough for us no matter how good he makes us feel according to these guys. Can everyone just admit we all want to enjoy ourselves and enjoy our dates ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:25 AM
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Your name is fitting btw
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:46 AM
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Pray tell, do all these bunches of women just tell you they’re settling for you? You don’t gotta lie to kick it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:45 AM
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Dating gurus who sell “courses” do the same thing. They need their supporters to keep coming back. If they were actually successful at dating after buying the course then they wouldn’t have to come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:57 AM
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Oh yes, women are out here falling in love with men who abuse, cheat on them and treat them like shit on the first date. Dammit women..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:51 AM
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Nah he doesn’t know who’s settling for him. Just wants to look tough on the internet and pretend he’s actually in a position to reject a bunch of women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:47 AM
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She said everybody bro. That means she knows she’s no unicorn and nobody else should either lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:45 AM
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The only difference isn’t his money lmao. Men in their 30s tend to want something more substantial than a random one night fuck buddy, more than men in their 20s do anyway. And are more realistic with their expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:15 PM
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Men in their 20s usually don’t want something serious. Personally I never desired sleeping around so I dated men who were looking for LTRs, and those were older men. I made good money on my own at 21 already, had my own house and my own business, I wasn’t looking to fuck random men my age who felt like kids with no responsibilities in comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:10 PM
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Sound like some fucking simps
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:35 AM
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My husband does all of those. Except sometimes he needs extra hands for his handy work. Selling men short if you really think men are only capable of one of those at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:29 AM
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Well whatever you’re from, women aren’t good looking bro. Condolences
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:21 PM
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You probably live in the south where everyone is overweight. Up north a lot of people have athletic bodies and look better than those toothpick runway models
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:18 PM
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Why do y’all think it’s either work of sit at home and do nothing? I don’t have a 9-5 and have a lot of things to fill my free time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:41 AM
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Bro. OP is talking about a specific situation that actually happened and making shit up like she didn’t face consequences like getting arrested and having her reputation completely fucked to the point she unalived herself. Just to victimize and oppress himself of things he didn’t even go through. The desperation is pretty sad man, I kind of pity you socially inept weirdos
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:24 AM
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The imagination part is you claiming there’s no consequences for women who do this when the woman you’re talking about got arrested for it then killed herself. Ahh, no better freedom than getting arrested and unaliving ourselves.. Such liberation..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:31 AM
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Game is rizz fool. Pretty sure I’m more socially inclined than you are, including having a bit of charisma. I don’t even have to lie to form relationships lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:25 AM
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Wrong person derp. This is my first interaction with you. I’m not the one claiming I need truth or sex to survive lmao. Then expecting others to give it to me for my own sake lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:09 AM
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Dude really thinks he invented lies in his effort to get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:00 AM
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If no sex is killing you, that kind of sounds like your problem and not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:58 AM
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Dude just has no game and doesn’t know how to interact with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:55 AM
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You’re dating hoes expecting them not to be hoes then getting mad at hoes for it? Have you tried not dating hoes?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:46 PM
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Cluster b personality types in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:39 PM
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Eh. I don’t like hookup culture, even though I could have did tf out of that casual sex stuff and had no shortage of suitors. I just found it disgusting personally, that’s all. I don’t care if others do it though, that’s their business, just not for me personally. I don’t regret not sleeping around, I missed out on nothing of worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:25 PM
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A house wife is a house wife regardless of children. And a house husband is a house husband regardless of children. Fym
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:11 AM
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I make good money, enough that my husband wouldn't have to contribute financially if he didn't want to. I'm lucky I have extended family around more than willing to help with the house and kids and I could afford to pay for help when family isn't around. Housework sucks ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:07 AM
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Modern women? Some mothers have been like this throughout human history. Some overbearing fathers too. It's not new. And your wife doesn't represent every mother out there, I haven't given a single fuck about matching socks in my life. Let along wanting to manage everything when everyone in the house is capable of managing themselves, it's less work for me ffs. Your wife is a control freak
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:54 AM
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Or you know, be a sane, reasonable human being with reasonable standards, reasonable boundaries, reasonable expectations, reasonable behavior and communicate with your partner like a normal, well adjusted person? And see each other as individual human beings rather than part of some monolith? Naaaah let's just stay single because being somewhat competent at having healthy human relationships like that is too much to ask...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:45 AM
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"But she can just allow a bunch of men she doesn't even like to use her for sex so.. She's lucky and she can't really be lonely."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 10:12 PM
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It's not our fault y’all have no standards lmao. I never had a shortage of options but I never met an option I actually wanted until I met my husband. Think of it this way, imagine every offensive looking, unlikable, offensive behaviored elder lady on Earth slides into your DMs, objectifies the fuck out of you, doesn't see you as someone to respect and just wants to use you for her own desires. Is she really an option if you have no desire whatsoever to date her but she'd date you because she's …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 10:01 PM
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It's still western culture where we fixate on what masculinity is and what it's not. All over our media and social media. It's western platforms where discussions like this very one happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:07 AM
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Lack of facial hair doesn't mean high estrogen lmao tf. I'll take my clean shaven Asian man who still has his entire hairline over some guy that grows a gigantic beard, shaves his head and thinks that makes him a man thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:25 AM
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This is the ickiest list. You win
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:20 AM
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That's what's up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:17 AM
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Yeah I never bought that being domineering was a masculine trait, just a trait for domineering people. Not everyone is born to lead, that's why most of us are happy with these hierarchies where we're told what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:16 AM
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Lol. Nothing is more icky than someone who hits on everyone. And fails lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:03 AM
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You gotta run if he says all his exes were crazy. He's turning you crazy next.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:00 AM
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That girl raped you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:44 PM
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I believe I'm demisexual yeah. I don't have any sexual desire for anyone outside my marriage. But that doesn't mean I don't want sex at all and that I don't want sex with my husband, it just means I don't want it with everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:34 PM
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You act like all marriages are happy and full of attraction for each other. A lot of them aren't. And a lot of people change after marriage or quit trying altogether. People don't realize marriages take a lot of work and cooperation from both people to remain healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:31 PM
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His girl won't fuck him and he thinks it's because she wants Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:16 PM
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I mostly agree with you but we don't really want that from everyone we find attractive. There are a lot of people I can acknowledge are physically attractive, both other women and men, as a straight woman, and have no sexual or romantic desire for them and wouldn't want their desires for me either. It's not as simple as just needing to find someone attractive for most women, our sexualities are more reactive than random and having some kind of deeper bond is necessary for a lot of us. Yes I want…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:14 PM
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Respect over attention any day. Not all attention is good attention but all respect is good respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:58 PM
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I mean something that's easy to get has little value right? It's easy to get a man's sexual desire as a woman, we get it thrown at us our whole lives, it's something of little or even negative value. And men are told their whole lives that their value is in providing and protecting rather than being some good looking object of desire. So, being wanted for the resources you provide is of little or even negative value. Also, the Madonna/whore complex exists. A lot of people can't love, respect and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:51 PM
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Building your own PC for the first time is exciting as hell. Now I'm learning to build my own custom loop for liquid cooling. You're never done building your PC trust me lol. And FPS is the best genre there is fr
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:47 PM
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Video games aren't a just a male activity anymore, everyone games to some degree these days. It's only a turn off if your entire life revolves around a game and you neglect everything else for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:43 PM
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Yet the vast majority of married couples have sex more than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:30 PM
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If that bs was true, 80% of you would be single lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:01 PM
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For real. Ain't no reason to be alone with a man who isn't my relation or my husband. There never was. Not even when I was single. Male friends and coworkers and acquaintance can hang in group settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:11 PM
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It's not misogynistic, it's just delusional lies lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:06 PM
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You guys act like you either show no romantic interest at all and get into the friend zone or be sexually obnoxious when she hasn't even so much as shown any interest in you. You guys know there's a middle area right? That middle area is where the men we actually respect reside
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:04 PM
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Not with you obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:44 AM
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So women can't possibly just enjoy sex? It has to be women just love being used?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:41 AM
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So attractive women don't get used as sex objects? Lol ok. All those men trying to holler in my DMs aren't trying to give me no kidney lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:35 AM
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Why do you say that all relationships men enter result in a dead bedroom situation? That’s objectively untrue.< For real. Most of us relationshiped folks are having more sex than those single people trying desperately to get some tail at the bar every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:33 AM
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A shitty option is like having no option, except they'll probably fuck up your life if you actually date them. Y’all wonder why these women would rather be alone than date some shitty options, there's why..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:30 AM
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Being sexually attracted to 20% of men is a lot . I'm not even sexually attracted to 1% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:26 AM
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Did you approach all those millions of women? Did all those millions of women reject you? Or do you just expect those millions of women to approach you then blame all women when nobody approaches?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:42 PM
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No I'm saying you're playing hard to get when you're kind of hard to want. If all a woman needed in a potential partner was money, then she would be happier dating me, a woman, even if I meet none of her other needs and desires, just because I likely make more than you do. Why does she need you for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:21 AM
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You don't bring anything special. Why does she have to lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:17 AM
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Nobody wants a Rihanna with billions in the bank and high status. They want a wife with no worth to stay home and be their baby making and meal machine and no autonomy of her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:07 AM
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In modern relationships, both partners bring income to the table. I don't know why y’all think it's some kind of plus that you have employment when she also has employment lmao. She could just date another employed dude and your employment wouldn't even matter
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:02 AM
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I do that every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:40 AM
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Man: I hate when women dress provocatively, women need to dress modestly. Same man later that night: Cheats on his modestly dressed girlfriend with a provocatively dressed woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:37 AM
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Amen. Finally you quit bitching and live happily ever after. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:06 PM
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Porn really fucked up people's minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:02 PM
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I love my country. Nobody is forcing you to stay here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:53 PM
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Do any country that restricts women's rights and autonomy. Wonder how those lucky Palestinian men are doing right now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:40 PM
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Dudes tend to check out of marriage but not initiate a divorce. The marriage was done for years, he was done for years and the woman tried but finally files for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:04 PM
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Go be an asshole to every woman you meet. Tell me how many women you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:54 PM
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Dude really thinks we watch crime documentaries like him with the porn he watches.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:48 AM
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Exactly. Good people want to attract good people. Bad people want to attract bad people. No good little virgin church woman is looking for a player, serial killer, gang banger, bully or other bad characters. “Equally yoked” or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:44 AM
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No shit. Being a decent person is bare minimum. If you have no other redeeming qualities then why would anyone want you even there’s decent men with other redeeming qualities out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:27 AM
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Yet many women in the burbs are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:19 AM
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You have no idea how female sex drive works lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:36 AM
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A lot of men who take ashwaganda regularly say it kills their desire for a lot of things, including their desire for sex. A lot of antidepressants also kill libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:34 AM
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Bitch I'd rather some guy tell me no for a date than end up dead, raped, coerced into sex I don't want or pregnant with some fuckboy who love bombed me for years and wasted years of my life just to meet a dead end but okay lmao. Y'all live in delulu land
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:30 AM
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That's not how that would work. A woman having a higher libido won't mean she wants sex with more people, just more sex with someone she already likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:25 AM
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If I was single, I'd rather "risk" getting rejected by somebody I approached that I haven't even developed deep feelings for yet than risk wasting years and investing feelings and getting pregnant with the wrong dude or risk violence, abuse, coercion or force. If you and I could trade risks, hell yeah I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:20 AM
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Most antidepressants absolutely kill sex drive and they're still out there. The reason male birth control options are so hard to get approved is because any minor side effect would rule them more of a health risk than they're worth since getting some chick pregnant isn't really a health risk for men. Meanwhile, all kinds of female birth control options with harmful side effects pass because pregnancy is a bigger health risk. The approval process is flawed bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:07 AM
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Sociopaths might not feel sadness but they don't feel happiness either. Sounds miserable as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:52 AM
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Sociopaths might not need any of that but humankind in general desire to love and be loved, have social lives, respect and be respected, appreciate and be appreciated. I grew up with 5 brothers, a dad, a bunch of cousins and their male friends and all my male sports teammates. None of them are just sex machines who have no purpose in life besides sex lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:51 AM
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Compare crime rates and hate crimes between single men and single women.. And no, school shooters are usually bullied kids who have terrible social lives. Women tend to have richer social lives in general and need relationships less to fill a social void. There's a reason most single women are single by choice and most single men actually want relationships. Not to mention the statistics of life expectancy, health and happiness index between married men and their single, divorced or widowed coun…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:52 PM
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When women start going on killing sprees and takeover mainstream media with hate groups then get back to me on who’s having a harder time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:01 AM
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What kind of social structure? Sounds like taking women’s freedoms to me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:56 AM
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We’re talking about physical attraction no?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:37 PM
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Ugly men cheat (or they try to and fail to get want willing suitors) too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:34 AM
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I mean if you're gonna be put on child support, you can request a paternity test and then it becomes mandatory
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:25 AM
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Fuck sake. I’m so glad I never have to date again. If anything ever happened to my husband, I’d rather just stay single for the rest of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:31 PM
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That dude sounds like my sister’s ex husband. She’s the most gorgeous woman I know, very feminine and sweet and she’s a great mom and was the sole provider in her marriage because he didn’t work. Everyone who meets her likes her. She started dating this skinny gremlin when she was in junior high and he was a junior, I never knew what she saw in him. He got her pregnant when she was still in school and they got married when she turned 18. He never held a single job, never helped her with the hous…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:30 AM
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I’ve seen some gorgeous women get their hearts broken by some questionable creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:16 AM
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I don’t know. I’m a straight woman and still think most women I meet are more attractive than most men I meet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:19 AM
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According to statistics, we really aren’t rare. Married couples have more sex than any of you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:54 PM
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I feel called out. “Insatiable” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:06 AM
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I’m not worried about this in my marriage. A decade and 2 children later, we still desire each other just as frequent. In fact, the intimacy is better now than it was in the beginning. And I want to keep this until the day I die
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:58 AM
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Yes it does, it applies to anyone who elicits unease in someone else. Men shouldn’t be around women they think are creepy, so why approach them? No one is forcing you to interact with those women. And approaching a woman who’s alone in the dark where no one else is around isn’t just a “simple interaction,” don’t be disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:34 AM
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Are you serious? Having to “be on guard” is something you do when you’re creeped out. Perhaps it’s just you misunderstanding what “creepy” actually means. You’re alone and feel trapped between this person you don’t know expressing interest in you and traffic, in the dark, and you don’t see how that’s creepy? Even if he didn’t intend foul play, a lot of people would find that creepy. As in illicit some fear in someone. You don’t know this person’s intentions, whether he wants to mug you or just h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:29 AM
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It’s not justification honey, it’s just facts. My opinion changes shit. I’m not even advocating for or against anything lmao tf
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:19 AM
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By that logic, we shouldn’t blame mean people for being mean either
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:14 AM
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The answer is compatibility. Perhaps she prefers men who aren’t short but if she met a short man she’s compatible with when 99% of other men aren’t then his height isn’t really relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 11:50 PM
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You definitely can hate all you want. And others can definitely be turned off by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 11:19 PM
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For real. I’ve been approached by men of all walks. Handsome, ugly, wealthy, broke, charismatic, socially awkward. 99% got turned down why? Because 99% weren’t compatible with me, not because they weren’t good enough. Maybe they’re compatible with someone else and that someone else could even be better than me. The dude himself could be better than me and it wouldn’t matter, I didn’t base my dating life around comparing people’s worth, compatibility be damned.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 11:04 PM
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You’re making it sound like this is just a recent issue lmao, that’s why history is relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:58 PM
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Yeah that fat chick should definitely lower her standards so some undesirable dude could use her as a hole. And be grateful he found her fuckable enough to use lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:54 PM
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I mean if you look at geneology and it’s history throughout humankind, most men never got the opportunity to pass on their genes through offspring. Whether that was because they couldn’t find a willing mate, died in war or had personal complications with fertility and performance or just couldn’t provide for a partner or their offspring. What do you suppose we do? Force women to bang men they aren’t attracted to for your sake?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:49 PM
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Well you see, those men want to be that special one she completely becomes a freak for. But for no one else. I mean women like that exist (me with my husband) but I doubt he’s the special one women would feel that way for
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:37 PM
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Bro it’s only a problem when male whores with loose standards themselves feel entitled to virgin women. No they don’t share values, it’s just a double standard full of hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:31 PM
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The point is to devalue women so women feel worthless enough to want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:25 PM
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How is it a double standard when you’re claiming both do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:22 PM
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Well yeah. Everyone should have reasonable standards and boundaries. And they vary from person to person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:20 PM
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It’s all in our hormonal chemistry baby. Men have more vasopressin receptors than women and bond more through vasopressin release than women do. Vasopressin gets released through things like doing or providing for your partner or solving problems together. Meanwhile women bond more through dopamine and oxytocin release which gets released during things like kissing or other intimate and romantic acts with your partner. It makes total sense that some men prefer bonding through being a trick rathe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:43 PM
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I think they’re both delusional AF on some issues and want someone to blame for their personal shortcomings and problems
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:40 PM
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So why are incels so mad society doesn’t give a shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:23 PM
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I don’t give a shit about either of them and their lack of getting laid. One of them expects society to give a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:19 PM
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But you should never believe a woman when she says what she wants according to TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:51 AM
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For real. Let’s say one person had only had a few options but one of those options were quality as hell. And the other person had a sea full of options but they were all trash. Which one would you rather be?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:34 AM
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My god lol. My younger sister is gorgeous and she married an ugly ass gremlin. Turned out he’s abusive, never works, never helps with the kids, does drugs, alcoholic, tries to isolate her from everybody, is controlling AF and accuses her of cheating when he’s the one that tries so damn hard to cheat with women that don’t even want him lol. She gave him everything, a good house, a good car, 4 beautiful kids, cooked and cleaned for him, made money for him, treated him like a king. Can’t turn a fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:10 AM
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Facts. I don’t behave that bad but when I do, people give me a pass. Pretty people privilege is real
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:03 AM
1

Do the opposite of what every woman says she likes and report back on how many bitches you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:47 AM
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In Alaska, 6’ men are rare as hell. Yet men here have to problem dating women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:10 AM
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I think Russian women are beautiful. Definitely more beautiful than us U.S. or Korean women. Tougher too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:39 AM
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They probably aren’t rare, they just aren’t out here chasing tail all the time and we only get exposed to those that are
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:36 AM
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I mean, asking a woman what she likes and finds attractive is definitely better than listening to a bunch of hateful dudes who have no success with women. If their advice worked, they’d be getting women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:19 AM
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I wouldn’t sleep with any of them but I’d probably set them up some OF accounts where they sell their pics if they were really the most handsome men on earth. Maybe film a series of their life on the island. And we’d all share their earnings and build a dream island if we really had to be stuck there for 2 years. And form a gang so we run this shit when we come home lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:54 AM
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Yeah the real fantasy for women would be one man she’s super into being just as into her in return. And they go on a vacation to an island together rather than being stuck together there. And nobody else is involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:48 AM
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Men: It’s just a talking point that any man would take advantage of a woman. Also men on a video where a female bodybuilder was attacked at her apartment complex gym and fought off her attacker: It was her fault for opening the door for this guy from her apartment complex in the first place! Was she supposed to assume all men are rapists or something and not let any man into a gym they share? Why do they expect her to assume all men are rapists and that he was there only to rape her?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:37 AM
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This sounds like a fantasy I’m down for. What better way to make use of a team of 50 men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:20 AM
3

You get it. I’m the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:11 AM
3

My island would have my husband on it and he’d be the only one I’m interested in fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:10 AM
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Something like one third of men under 30 are virgins yet one third of men aren’t incels. Being an incel is a whole mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:34 AM
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Bro. Nobody has to have organ failure in order to feel hungry lol. Hunger is a normal ass thing all living creatures experience. So is sexual desire in mature creatures. The difference is how tf you handle it, that’s what separates virgins and incels. Y’all are weird fr
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:09 AM
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Haven’t we all lol. I don’t make it my entire personality and post hateful shit about my hunger all day online though and search communities full of other hateful, hungry people to complain about my hunger with and blame 50% of the entire population for it. There’s probably a bunch of other hungry people I interact with everyday that I have no idea are even hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:03 AM
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No we don’t. The average virgin guy just acts like an average guy and we can’t even tell he’s a virgin. Because you know, he isn’t making that his entire ass worth and personality as a man..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:42 AM
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Not really. There’s a difference between the average virgin guy and an incel who’s chronically angry, creepy, hateful and misogynistic online.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:24 AM
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I’m talking about staying in shape lmao
/r/seduction05/09/23 05:26 PM
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Hit the gym man. It’s easier for shorter people to get and maintain aesthetic proportions. I never had an issue
/r/seduction05/09/23 05:11 PM
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I’m 5’2” lol. Both my parents are short so no wasted tall genes though. All 5 of my brothers are below average height too but they have no issue picking up chicks
/r/seduction05/09/23 04:44 PM
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There’s also going to be a huge difference between average men who have healthy social lives, are around women frequently and approach a lot of women and an average guy who has no social life, isn’t around women frequently and doesn’t approach a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:39 PM
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Probably not. Plenty of men have higher social value than her. She’s also going to be around people of similar socioeconomic status.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:35 PM
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Well you have history with those guys and you know their mannerisms and personalities and maybe they’re really charismatic or just fun to be around so that brings up their attractiveness to you. He’s just another regular guy to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:14 PM
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Unfair and discriminatory? Don’t lie, you’d prefer Stacy over Helga, all other qualities being the same besides their looks and they were both equally attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:05 PM
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Don’t be disingenuous. Using one random woman’s “fantasy romance” novel isn’t what the average woman expects from a partner. The average woman doesn’t even consume those things as much as men consume porn and those have less visuals. And even those “fantasy” men had to make an effort to make her feel good, not just sit there and look pretty. Just like men’s fantasy pornstar sex partner isn’t what he expects his partner to be. Those aren’t bare minimum standards, those are the most ideal fantasie…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:28 AM
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Considering I don’t find any other man sexually appealing, yes he’s the one I fantasize about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:24 AM
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I have no sexual desire for any man that isn’t my husband yet I get along with most males I’ve interacted with in the real world. My male classmates and teachers back in the day, my sports teammates, men who work at my business, male friends, males I don’t know, my friend’s male partners, gaming buddies, male cab drivers, male waiters, male TSA agents, my kid’s teacher, male doctors, some random male walking by. Those are all men I have no desire to fuck but I treat them like anyone else, like a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:09 AM
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Skinny men are unattractive to us like fat women are unattractive to you. We definitely prefer a guy who weights more than us to someone who weights less than us.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:39 AM
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The OF girls you follow don’t count my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:11 PM
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My husband rarely cries, neither do I but we’re both really considerate of each other’s emotional wellbeing and know how to “read the room” for each other’s emotions and react in a healthy way. He’s probably even more emotionally intelligent than I am. We’re also not scared to be vulnerable around each other because we trust each other not to misuse each other’s vulnerabilities. It actually takes courage to allow yourself to be vulnerable with someone and it’s the only way any healthy relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:15 PM
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How many women do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:00 PM
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You’re not Tate bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:49 PM
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My husband is the same. But he’s hard those rare times he needs to be. I love him so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:48 PM
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Btw: In 2018 being in a troubled relationship accounted for 42% of suicides while the next leading causes were crisis events, substance abuse, health issues, job/financial, legal problems, and loss of housing. Being in a crappy relationship actually puts one at a higher risk of suicide than being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:26 PM
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You still aren’t more attractive as a douchebag bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:25 PM
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Most of you don’t have his charisma, manipulation skills, money and fame. Being a douchebag won’t make you any more attractive lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:12 PM
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Ah yes, he punched her, cheated on her, controlled her and isolated her from everyone else on the first date. Then she fell madly in love and they lived happily ever after.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:51 PM
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Someone in the comments said “He sounds like a villain that is always getting defeated” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:49 PM
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Finally some good advice in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:31 PM
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Yeah anyone raised with a mentally healthy dad or brothers knows men have the same ass emotions we do and it only gets toxic when they bottle it in then snap in anger. I’m so glad I had so many brothers, it made me understand that men are just humans who want love, respect and appreciation just like me. And I’m a better wife for it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:19 PM
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You didn’t have friends? Family? Being single doesn’t mean you live isolated. See you have a choice when it comes to suicide as well, meanwhile the highest risk of becoming victims of homicide for women is during relationships. Also the highest risk for abuse. Also the highest risk for being isolated from everyone else. No tf it isn’t better to be with someone shitty than it is to be alone tf
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:00 PM
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Fat bitches ain’t cute bruh, neither are fat men. Fucking Americans man. It’s y’all weirdos hyping them up for being “thick” lmao. It’s not my fault y’all would sleep with a whale
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:33 AM
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Sounds miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:28 AM
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Complaining about assumptions when you made assumptions about my age and your entire post was assumptions. Then blame women for not liking you lol
/r/seduction30/08/23 03:14 PM
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That OF girl you support doesn’t count dude
/r/seduction30/08/23 03:02 PM
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And asking women on a date and paying for it is a male’s way to compete with other males in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:57 PM
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Harmful? Why ask someone on a date if you can’t afford it? It was you who asked her out correct? You already knew you liked her before asking her on a date, she said yes because of the potential of maybe developing feelings for you. She’s going out of her way to go on a date with someone she isn’t even sure about yet. You want her time, her company and her body. It’s you who has to convince her to like you. It’s not on her to impress you, you already like her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:35 PM
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Yeah no shit you would never go on a date if you didn’t do the chasing. Know why? You already knew you liked her before dating her so you ask her on a date, the woman says yes because of the potential of maybe developing feelings for you. You asked her to go out of her way to spend time with you and get to know you. It’s not you who needs to be convinced into liking her, you liked her already. Why is she the one that needs to cater to you? If you can’t afford to pay for a date then don’t ask peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:56 PM
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The person who asks the other person on a date should pay. They’re the one trying to get the other person to date them, not the other way around. I’m going to assume it was you who asked them on a date since most women don’t do that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:44 PM
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And then everyone clapped
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:44 AM
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Also, more women in this age range are open to dating other women than men in this age range are open to dating other men. Only around half of them identify as straight. You’re wrong about side pieces though, women in that age range are dating multiple people more often than men in that age range are. Another discrepancy might be what people consider a “relationship.” Men and women probably see that differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:04 AM
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Yeah man. That’s the average American household.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:49 AM
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Most women are average. Most men are average. Most of us are average. Most of us are surrounded by average people with average ass partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:45 AM
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In the US? The average person is overweight. The average dad is overweight. The average husband or wife is overweight. More than 2 in 5 adults are obese. More people are overweight than fit and athletic. Somebody who goes to the gym 3 days a week is literally in better shape than 99% of Americans. That’s how low the damn bar is for the average American
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:41 AM
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I could tell you don’t spend time with women irl.
/r/seduction30/08/23 03:41 AM
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Yeah sure all of that would be better, but these exist and incels are still a thing. I don’t think it’s the lack of sex that’s the problem here, it’s their mental illness and mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:14 PM
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The infertile cat lady mad the rest of us can find a mate and procreate and live normal ass lives
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:31 PM
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No shit smooth brain. Living creatures want to make more living creatures and pass on their DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:22 PM
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No shit people can choose not to find a mate and procreate. No shit some people are infertile. Like I said, some people diverge. None of that changes the natural ass biological drive and desire most people have to find a mate and procreate. The most natural ass desire you can have as a human being. And who tf said it should dictate every move you miserable mf
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:44 AM
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Plenty of women stay with crazy men as well. DV and other forms of abuse are pretty common.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:39 AM
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Women aren’t the only problem shy girls have socially. Shitty people in general tend to be attracted to shy girls thinking we’re more vulnerable, more submissive, easier to manipulate and less likely to address their bs. I managed to fit in everywhere and have a lot of friends despite my introversion just because I was pleasant to be around and probably had some “pretty girl privilege” as well but that just made me a shitty people magnet. Learned young I don’t want to date around because of that…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:06 AM
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I mean there’s plenty of sugar baby sites and escorts that are basically the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:45 AM
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Also I’m adhd and have sensory issues so I can’t stand people who talk too much Girl same. Especially if it’s about meaningless shit like small talk. Or if they talk to me while I’m hyperfocused on something, I can’t focus on both so I have to stop what I’m doing for the dumb ass little conversation they just couldn’t wait to have. Introvert and ADHD gang
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:35 AM
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I mean it’s kind of a big biological drive most people have. Even if it’s just subconsciously. Since the dawn of human kind, this isn’t a new thing at all. We’re meant to find a mate and procreate. Some people diverge but they’re the odd ones out. All other species on Earth also have these drives. Not having them would be what actually destroys “the future of humanity” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:04 AM
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I mean men are less selective all around when it comes to dating. That’s kind of what happens when women control the supply and men control the demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:53 AM
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Every workplace has a harem huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:38 AM
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Yeah I don’t know why some men revolve their entire self worth as a man around his ability to get women. Confident men make their own self worth regardless of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:27 AM
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I mean the actual original post was about men in relationships. Not the men who have some low standard horny hoe with no dignity who’s desperate enough to chase men she doesn’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:23 AM
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Not most men, just my man. Why do I have to be attracted to most men in order to be attracted to mine? Tf
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:05 AM
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I mean, couples who aren’t having sex probably aren’t out here holding hands and looking happy together. Sounds miserable as hell to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:56 AM
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The honeymoon period doesn’t end for some of us. Who better to share intimacy with than the person you care deeply about and knows how to please you better than anyone else? My desire only grows the more he gets to know me. Anyone else would be disappointing AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:51 AM
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Kind of ironic as rp gurus tell their audience to get their money up to attract women instead of teaching them to be decent partners. They make their only redeeming quality their money then wonder why they attract women who only like their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:36 AM
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Exactly. It’s like me as a straight woman acknowledging another woman’s beauty without feeling any romantic or sexual desire for her at all. Same thing with men. I can acknowledge some guy’s beauty but there’s nothing else there, no desire for more. Meanwhile my hubby is more desirable than anyone else to me while some other woman probably wouldn’t feel the same about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:36 AM
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Bro. I’m aware attraction can be more than just physical, in fact I said men who aren’t physically attractive can attract a woman in other ways lmao. It’s the dude above saying any guy who isn’t physically attractive is fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:33 PM
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No survey in history has surveyed “all” of anybody, that’s expensive and impossible as hell. It’s called a sample size and it’s a pretty accurate representation of the whole. If only good looking men got dates then why tf do I see so many ugly and average as hell men in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:08 PM
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Being ugly isn’t the end of the world for guys. Get the fit and swag on point and your rating is going up fr
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:36 PM
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If they’re really calling you a creep every time, the problem might just be you honies. Plenty of men and women socialize everyday without someone being called a creep. Maybe self reflect and see where you might be going wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:30 PM
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Always somebody who blames everyone else for their inability to get their dick wet. There’s no magic place where girls just bust out for you either, that’s not how that works honies. Unless it’s the strip club but they ain’t touching his pee pee there either
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:25 PM
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I mean if that were true then 80% of men would never get a woman. The average woman doesn’t find 80% of men physically attractive. Most of y’all gotta attract women in other ways
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:11 PM
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I never said it was just about sex, I mentioned romantically as well. Male inmates regularly make wives out of other male inmates, that’s kind of what happens when you have no access to your preferred choice. Some men on the outside really make it sound like their access to women is just as non existent so why not exercise the options you do have like inmates do? This wasn’t about all single men either, we’re talking about single men who hate women here. Why limit themselves to dating women when…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:19 PM
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Aww don’t shame those guys who nut quick. I think a lot of men are like that with new partners, it’s not in their control. Only the ones who think it’s finished when he finishes deserve the shame
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:28 PM
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Well even times where women want it, it’s usually the man who pursued it and is the one doing the thrusting. It’s something he did to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:24 PM
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I mean, those women who didn’t care about their pleasure and just lay there like dead fish aren’t doing anything right? It’s something the man is “doing to them” correct? They aren’t really participating and probably weren’t even that interested in sex but gave it up anyway. So what’s the issue with calling it what it is? Something a man is “doing” to her, she’s not doing anything
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:05 PM
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I mean, if every woman that ever dated you pushed for sex when you didn’t want it and you didn’t even have an emotional connection or feelings for them yet, you too would feel like women just want “one thing” from you. Also, 80% of women can’t even orgasm with their partner, that number is probably higher for one night stands who only want to get theirs off. Meanwhile, most men finish and think sex is finished when he finishes. If you didn’t enjoy sex with any of these women you felt pressured i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:58 AM
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Yeah I think it’s fucked up how expendable society treats men. All the wars where millions of men are just sent to their slaughter. I don’t think it’s because individual women don’t love individual men though but because eggs are the bottleneck rather than sperm. It would be harder for countries to repopulate if they lost as many of their women as they did their men in wars. It wasn’t women who made these rules, women in most places weren’t even allowed to fight in wars of past, even those willi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:11 AM
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I agree. I think more men should be open to dating men. It would be better for men, women and society in general for lonely men to stop being so sexually and romantically frustrated. No reason you have to deal with women you hate so much. A lot of girls have open minds to date other girls, men can too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:23 AM
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Going to be 10 years on the 22nd. We’ve been on a decade long honeymoon period. And yes I made love to him before marriage but I already knew I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him and I knew I was his
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:08 PM
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Nothing. But why should someone fresh ignore all her options who are also fresh to prefer a prune who has a 1 in 3 chance for ED, looks gone, probably low libido and sperm that is more likely to make children with Down’s syndrome even if his junk still works like he’s 25? You can’t play with your children with the energy a 30 year old can and she’ll probably have to care for you a lot sooner and then spend her older years alone because your ass died of old age when she was in her 40s. Why would …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:45 PM
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Maybe because those below average women aren’t swarming your DMs with nudes, making degrading sexual comments about you and even assuming and demanding sexual things from you. But a lot of below average looking men tend to do that and it’s repulsive. I’m still polite to unattractive guys but that politeness ends the moment they express any sexual desires for me. I don’t know why anyone even thinks that’s okay when I’m married and never expressed any desire for them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:40 AM
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Why do they higher divorce rates then? Almost as if women who receive as well as give are happier than those trad women married to men who don’t reciprocate that care and service because they view it as a woman thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:23 AM
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The original gold diggers. They gave up their dignity, autonomy, potential and happiness to be financially taken care of by that man who has no other redeeming qualities but his money. Boomer women divorce their husbands more than any generation today, by far. Gee I wonder why they weren’t happy in their marriages?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:15 AM
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Because most good looking 21 year olds with a bunch of options weren’t thirsting over someone’s grandfather
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:21 AM
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You weren’t hunting lions m, you were hunting deer lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:02 AM
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You want them to trade it for free when they can get more from someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:54 AM
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I married Chad and he never treated me like that. My beautiful sister married a gremlin ass looking dude who had no employment and had to live off her and his insecure ass abused and cheated on her then tried to take her house when she finally left. Insecure dudes do that, not Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:21 AM
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Athletes train our assess off. Yes we are more athletically inclined naturally but there’s other “natural athletic talent” out there that trains harder than me so I have to train harder than them to earn my spot. Mayweather wasn’t born an undefeated boxer, he trained harder than everyone else for his money. Bro would jog home after going out with friends to the club. Of course women find someone like that more attractive than some slob who doesn’t put effort into his looks or career then complai…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:59 AM
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Casual sex isn’t a prerequisite for love lmao. I never casually fucked around, not even with my husband. The sex only came when I loved him first. Most people don’t have a fulfilling sex life like ours this far into a marriage, let alone any of you single people. It was worth the wait and waiting just made it more delicious
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:45 AM
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Yeah according to statistics, women don’t find 80% of men physically attractive. But how much of that is because the majority of women put more work into their looks than the average man? And there’s plenty of average looking men out here in relationships with women who look better than them because a man’s value really isn’t in his looks to begin with like it is for women. There’s definitely more pressure on women to look good but we have more tools to accomplish that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:22 AM
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That’s just nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:12 PM
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Ask yourself this though. Let’s say you have great friends and an adult daughter. Would you want your daughter dating any of your friends? They’re great friend material but are they great relationship material?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:05 AM
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Personal connection and expectations. I’m not into women but I know some really attractive women and I get along great with them. I could admire their beauty and who they are without feeling like I have to form a romantic or sexual relationship with them. Same for men. Even when I wasn’t married, there was always guys I shared interests with that were good looking that I just couldn’t see a long term relationship with so I keep it platonic. I grew up with a lot of brothers, guy cousins and their…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:03 AM
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No we don’t lmao. It would go against our biology to want a man that isn’t a master of himself and his urges. We like competent men, that includes his competence in being picky about his sexual partners and his competence at having platonic relationships with other women. A man with a lot of choices is definitely competent but his ability to turn them all down and choose the right one is even more competent than all them playboys who brag about banging a drunk 3 every weekend. Insecure women mig…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:35 PM
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Yes they do lol. People wanting to take advantage seek out people like that intentionally. They know the rest of us aren’t taking their shit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:37 AM
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Bro, I grew up in a Christian household, I prefer someone who didn’t throw themselves around whether by choice or not. Went through high school and college ignoring all the attention I got from fuckboys and married my husband who didn’t have a high body count instead. I suppose if you want to date the hot slut then you being a hot slut yourself would actually matter
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:02 PM
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I’m not promiscuous. I’ll judge people who revolve their entire personality around how much (or how little) they get laid. If a virgin constantly complains and blames society for their lack of being able to get laid then yeah I’m judging them. People who are virgins by choice and don’t make it their entire personality are cool with me. But I also judge promiscuous men and women who make their body count their entire “worth” as a person. I don’t care about you enough to care how much or how littl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:52 PM
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Lol. Nothing I said in that first comment had anything to do with size. It was about how reciprocal and attentive the men in those videos are and how “unmanly” and beta that men think men like that are. Of course women also care about how attractive their partner is, but attractive doesn’t equal “alpha male” or super manly and it isn’t the main thing when it comes to a pleasurable experience. A pretty lady pleasing another pretty lady is the least manly thing out there, yet most women enjoy watc…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:26 PM
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Who knew “women like being pleased too” was such an unbelievable concept..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:35 AM
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Tall shredded dude who’s intimate and sensual and cares for her pleasure. Different from the tall shredded dude in porn for men who doesn’t do any of those things. Btw, a map of Europe was released recently that showed what kind of porn women were consuming, and most women in those countries were consuming lesbian porn, even when they themselves aren’t lesbians. Know why? It’s more intimate and sensual than straight porn, it’s like the man or his build or his “alpha manliness” isn’t the main the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:35 AM
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You all blame beta males for men not being able to have sex but go look at porn made for women and the type of dudes women prefer on those videos. Dudes on straight porn made for female viewers are softer and more sensual and intimate and care about her pleasure as well, typical beta males. Totally different than dudes on straight porn made for male viewers that depict alpha male Chads who are rough and degrading towards women. Why are women fantasizing about sexual encounters with softer men if…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:45 AM
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The vast majority of women are under 5’8. And the vast majority of women prefer someone around 3” taller than themselves. Most women are just average height and the average height for men is around 3” taller than women so average height men have more options than both taller men and shorter men when it comes to the average woman. Only men who could really blame their height for not being able to attract women are men well below the average height for men and are shorter than the average woman. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:29 AM
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I remember reading somewhere that 30% of Gen Z women are into other women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:09 AM
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Let’s pretend I’m single for a second. If some dude approached me and I thought his skinny ass with a weak jawline was ugly, I’m not going to be a bitch and treat him like I’m too good to be in his presence just because he doesn’t look good. Who cares what he looks like, I’m not out there for arm candy, I’m out there to socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:40 PM
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Nope. Never said that. A study shows women don’t find 80% of men attractive. We really aren’t physically attracted to most dudes who approach us, they might not be ugly but they aren’t attractive either. You think we have to be physically attracted from the get go to give a man the time of day, maybe on dating sites but that shit isn’t real life where people can actually interact and base judgement on those interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:22 PM
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Being your best self helps. Good hygiene, good haircut, put effort into your fit, social intellect, good humor, be easy going, smell good, being more confident in yourself, those are all good. Women like a package. Let her enjoy her time with you, that’s pretty important too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:13 PM
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What the hell is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:02 PM
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You said “If most women thought like you then more men would be getting women out here.” No. No they wouldn’t. If women thought like me then even less men would be getting women. Because I don’t find most men charismatic or physically attractive. Everyone gets a chance at my respect but not everyone wins. I’d rather be around an ugly ass dude who I actually enjoy being around than some Chad I don’t enjoy. But I don’t base my self worth on what my man looks like..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:56 PM
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Most men aren’t charismatic, they definitely wouldn’t be getting more women out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:50 PM
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I already have. An unattractive charismatic dude over the attractive charismatic dude any damn day. How you approach matters more than what you actually look like unless you’re extremely good looking or extremely ugly. When I was open to dating and going out, I wasn’t just waiting around for Chad, I was just meeting whoever and finding out what I actually wanted, and it wasn’t the asshole Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:44 PM
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You know damn well most couples consist of a more attractive female lol. Because a man’s value doesn’t just lay on his looks. You’re the one missing my point, you think women discount you just by looking at you and not finding you all that attractive. A straight man’s value isn’t primarily his looks like a woman’s primary value is her looks, you’re projecting how men find attraction on the average woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:36 PM
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Ask yourself this. Look around. Do most couples consist of an attractive female with a less attractive male or an attractive male with a less attractive female? There’s probably some girls out there that base their self worth on how their men look and date only Chads as a flex but for most of us, an average or slightly below average looking dude is okay because we don’t fall in love just by laying eyes on someone. A handsome dude is a handsome dude, doesn’t mean he’s what I want or good for me, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:26 PM
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You think women won’t give a man who isn’t handsome any time of day. I got news for you honey, the average woman views 80% of men unattractive. If women never gave any unattractive men an opportunity to bond then 80% of you wouldn’t be fucking anyone or getting married, but that’s not the case. Charisma is a big factor in “attractiveness” itself, something you can’t tell just by looking at someone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:08 PM
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See you have a hard time believing that men and women usually develop attraction differently. The average man knows who they’re attracted to just by looking at them, men are the pursuers after all. The average woman on the other hand doesn’t normally develop feelings for someone just by looking at them, there’s other factors to consider before investing any feelings. Sure we might think some dude looks hot but that alone isn’t going to make me trust the guy and invest in any desire to go home wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:56 PM
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I’m polite to anyone I don’t know, until they themselves show me that they aren’t deserving of my politeness. When my husband first approached me I didn’t think he was my type, but he was respectful with my time and boundaries and his charisma made him the hottest man on earth to me that day. How could you not like someone like that? Especially when everyone else just seems to lack social intellect and ques and just isn’t mindful of your boundaries? He’s the only man I feel any sexual attraction…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:35 PM
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stoic • \STOH-ik\ • noun. : one apparently or professedly indifferent to pleasure or pain. Merriam-Webster dictionary. You have to be vulnerable to show affection to someone. You have to be vulnerable to show someone they give you joy. You have to be vulnerable to get intimate with someone. You have to be vulnerable to build any meaningful relationship with someone. Perhaps if you’re just looking to fuck someone you don’t know that well, it helps not to look like you’re going through something b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:39 PM
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Exactly. An ugly dude who’s dripping in charisma is so much more relationship/hookup material than a good looking dude who lacks charisma. Charisma is under personality, not under looks or money or height or whatever tf else
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:36 PM
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You’re comparing children to adults lmao. Adults aren’t on Tik Tok respecting dumbfucks who make meaningless content. You’re describing a whole lot of emotions and calling that “stoic” just because crying is excluded from it lmao. Perhaps look up what it actually means. It’s pretty powerful when a man does have an emotional moment that isn’t just anger or cockiness. People are moved when a man cries like they wouldn’t if a woman did. I know it meant a lot to my husband when he had moments like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:26 PM
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You say that as if your don’t care about looks or money. Bro, looks and money are desirable to have. Is it the only thing that matters or defines what a desirable partner is for everyone though? No. I got my own money and looks, I’m not looking for the same thing an insecure fat woman or broke desperate meth user is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:15 PM
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Most people don’t like emotionless sociopaths or straight up assholes. Who are the most revered artists, content creators, community figures and fathers? Those who show their emotions, evoke other people’s emotions and show that they’re real people with real people struggles who work to get through them. It’s good for a man to be confident in his leadership abilities and not look insecure about his abilities but having leadership qualities doesn’t mean never showing you’re an actual human being …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:57 PM
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he simply chose to live the single life Guess you just totally ignored the part where I said “no interest in building meaningful relationships.” In fact, I used myself as an example because I used to be one of those people..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:00 AM
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No it doesn’t lol. Stay home and don’t develop social skills then, you’re going to get maaad bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:48 PM
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How does that contradict anything? If you aren’t good at socializing with women then yes, they don’t want to teach you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:44 PM
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Because you aren’t as charming as all those men who socialize every day of their life and know how to socialize women..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:40 PM
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And you aren’t in a relationship because you don’t socialize. I was a no life gamer and poker player in high school and my social life struggled. You need to get out more, they aren’t coming to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:37 PM
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Who cares, as long as you aren’t acting antisocial
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:33 PM
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The answer is be more social
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:30 PM
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Never said it changes anything. You still lack the socializing aspect to even meet people, let alone developer relationships with them. That’s the cause of why you have no bitches, not the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:21 PM
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That’s exactly my point. You don’t socialize for the sake off socializing and you don’t bother because your whole focus is getting women with no value for socializing when you do go out and socialize
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:17 PM
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Well I’m assuming since you don’t like going to bars, you don’t like meeting women online, you don’t like group shit like church. Why do you have to attract women at bars to make it worth it? Don’t you have friends you’d enjoy socializing with anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:13 PM
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Your proficiency at talking to people isn’t the problem in your social life my guy, it sounds like you lack opportunities where you even talk to prime at all. You don’t seem to enjoy going out to socialize and meet New people, you aren’t attracting people there and have no interest in just going to socialize. They aren’t going to come to you my man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:09 PM
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Your problem is you aren’t very social. Do you have many guy friends? If no then your social life in general is lacking, not just with women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:58 PM
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Everyone’s on their best behavior in the beginning, especially the manipulative ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:47 PM
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Exactly. Nobody wants to be the girl that gets caught having a ONS with a known bad lay or the dude who has a history of poor standards and getting involved with a bunch of low value women. Cheapens her value and makes her look desperate just like it would a man getting involved with a loose woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:45 PM
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You’re comparing two different things though. You’re comparing someone who fails at a bunch of relationships to someone who hasn’t been in one at all, trying to make one demographic look worse than the other in your comparison. People do judge women who have a dating history full of relationships that never worked out, look at how much hate Lori Harvey gets for dating around and moving on. The dude who has never had a girlfriend on the other hand doesn’t get hate exactly, but people might questi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:39 PM
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They’re both red flags. Either they aren’t really interested in sharing their life with someone, they haven’t met anyone worth investing in or they suck at building meaningful relationships. It’s mutually beneficial to leave those people alone. I was the second type in high school because all my options then were trash, and I wanted people to leave me alone. Don’t waste your time on those people because you probably aren’t the special one that’s going to change their mind
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:29 PM
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Women want to spend more time with men who make them feel comfortable. That’s not just a “fleeting” thing. A man who doesn’t lead with the intentions of sex right off the bat is more comfortable to be around than the man who does, unless she’s looking for some meat from strangers herself. A man who makes her laugh brings her an easy going, light hearted and comfortable environment, unlike the man who doesn’t make her laugh. A man who doesn’t seem like he has an agenda is comfortable to be around…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:21 PM
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Lol. You’re annoyed that some women have the same standards for partners you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:59 PM
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Thanks. That’s why I married who I married, he wasn’t a cheap whore with low standards
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:52 PM
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Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:50 PM
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It’s gross when men do it too. I’m not committing to someone with a history of low standards and sleeping with 3s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:47 PM
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Nah 30+ year olds trying to get with teenagers is creepy AF, your personal feelings don’t change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:42 PM
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You mean 30 year old men don’t have 30 year old women to lay?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:35 PM
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Nah 30 year olds hitting on me before I was ever 18 were creepy AF. My 14 year old brother is dating an 18 year old who graduated high school in May, that bitch is creepier than all the creeps who’ve ever creeped on me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:12 PM
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Yeah. Old dudes who act 21 aren’t it. They lack both the youthfulness of 21 year old men and the stability and maturity of older men. What a shitty combo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:45 AM
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One is creepy, the other is being mature. Same standards would apply if an older woman was exclusively into 18 year old boys, except it would be even more creepy if a woman did it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:28 AM
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Not all guys bald when they hit 30 you know? And not all 20 year old men are spared from balding. If balding is your main concern, you know that 20 year old you settle with might someday go bald and pass those genes into your sons? Just about men with balding genes if that’s your main concern..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:27 AM
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It depends really. Some of us partied and had all our fun and invested in our future in our early teen years and were ready to move onto the next stage of life at 21 while everyone else your age was just starting their independent lives. We have more in common with 30 year olds yeah? Then you have those 30+ year old men who who have none of the youthfulness of 21 year old men but act 21 themselves, which is counterproductive to the few things that make 30+ year olds attractive. They got the wors…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:18 AM
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Sexy AF
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:10 AM
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Heartwarming story. All these “leaders” without leadership qualities need to be drained
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:59 AM
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Condolences to you for having to deal with 20 year olds all day in your 30s. I could barely relate to other 21 year olds when I was 21. Whole different places in life.. Even though I always looked like the baby of the group, I was like a 30 year old in my soul
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:41 AM
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Yuck. The worst thing is a 30+ year old who acts 21. Bro you aren’t no spring chicken, shouldn’t you be raising grandchildren or something? The only thing that makes older men appealing is their life experience and maturity, and those older men who even lack that are just a hard no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:38 AM
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Older men are more emotionally mature and tend to have better social skills usually. And they provide a more stable life. Younger men are encouraged not to settle and sleep around instead. Women in their early 20s could be in the same place in life and want the same things as the older man who’s more ready to commit and take responsibilities in a relationship. At 21, I was already a homeowner and already had some successful investments in businesses. Money was no concern and I had more in common…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:23 AM
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Charismatic people make people around them feel good about themselves. In our minds, that = good. Women want a package of multiple good qualities, being a genuinely good person is part of that package for women who are also “good.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:31 AM
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Nah, you’re focused on sex. I doubt you’re trying to have children with every one night stand you’ve ever slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:17 AM
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Women who like their men subjugating subordinates probably have narcissistic qualities themselves. She thinks she’s special and better than those people so he’d never treat her like that right? I never get women who build relationships with men they stole from someone else, as if he’d never cheat on her because she’s so special. Nah girl, you’re just kind of stupid and vain
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:06 AM
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You’d think it was common knowledge that making people feel comfortable and actually making them enjoy being around you attracts sexual mates, but so many people think doing the opposite is what will do it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:00 AM
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Kinda crazy how the narcissist is one of the only people actually telling the truth here. Thanks for your insights, genuinely interesting stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:55 AM
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Yes it is. Charming people are good or pretend to be good mixed with confidence and charisma, that’s what makes them charming. Y’all act like mentally abusive psychopaths are mask off from date #1. Even they’re on top game and their best behavior in the beginning. That’s how they pull you in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:38 AM
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They don’t really act normal. They tend to be more charismatic than most.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:28 AM
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Yeah man. Women everywhere are just dying to have children with a walking headache
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:27 AM
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Because most of you aren’t charming. Something psychopaths are usually good at due to their manipulative nature
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:23 AM
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Women rarely make the moves or take leadership over advancing the relationship, in the beginning. It’s not even really a conscious choice we make, it just never really dawns on us to lead in that aspect. For both societal norms and biological reasons, we leave it up to our suitors to take charge in the beginning. If they don’t then we assume they aren’t that interested and move on. Men advance the relationship, women take pick of the litter, always been that way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:02 AM
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Nah it’s just truth 101
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:37 PM
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Elliot Roger? You mean the rich kid who wasn’t even bad looking but never approached women and killed people because women didn’t approach him just because he had a luxury car. That Elliot Roger? Such a romantic..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:31 PM
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Is it women who keep you from being affectionate with men or is it other men? Last I checked, they don’t even like you being affectionate with women even..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:16 PM
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Being an asshole does affect your dating prospects lmao. It’s a net negative when you have very little else to offer to begin with. Being an asshole doesn’t make you more likable to anyone except other assholes. Nikolas Cruz was a known asshole, why wasn’t he slaying bitches?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:12 PM
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Stay on topic. You said they want him because he’s an asshole. The thing you don’t get is women want a package. The more you have to offer on one end of the package then the more forgiving they’ll be on others. Go out there and be an asshole to every girl you meet and you’ll be swimming in pussy in no time..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:45 PM
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You actually think these women are attracted to state BECAUSE he’s an asshole? Or you think they deal with it because he has money, clout and looks more decent than 80% of men out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:38 PM
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Explain K-POP fans and women around the globe infatuated with those feminine dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:33 PM
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“Tate is an asshole and has 4 girls so that means women love assholes”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:32 PM
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You don’t have money and clout Tate does. Some broke, ugly asshole is undesirable to everybody, he ain’t getting 4 girls lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:24 PM
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The meanest women I’ve ever met were the older ladies who aren’t attractive. And young overweight women. The older women who aged gracefully are more self assured and don’t need to make others feel bad for self validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:49 PM
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Yeah society seems nicer in general, but some other women are going to hate you just for existing because of it. Or see you as competition when you don’t even give AF and don’t even want the men they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:39 PM
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Not really. There’s no “positive reinforcement” in knowing a bunch of guys want to fuck you. Where’s the value in that? Meaninglessness attention and compliments from guys I didn’t even like were of no value, I knew they just wanted me for something I wasn’t willing to give them. They didn’t even care about my accomplishments and honors in school and sports, or that I was generally kind and reserved growing up, they just wanted to fuck. Felt degrading and dirty honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:22 PM
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So how are women dating men they’re attracted to ruining society? Don’t you date women you’re attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:48 AM
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Perhaps actually read what you wrote big dawg
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:44 AM
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That’s what you said dawg, not me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:40 AM
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So you’re admitting women don’t want every flavor of dick out there? Maybe edit your post to “women only want good dick from men they’re attracted to and I feel insecure about it” then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:37 AM
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That’s not what you said in your post. You said women want all kinds. Don’t play dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:32 AM
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I thought they wanted all kinds of dick according to your post? Not just 10%?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:24 AM
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Obama seems more content and self validated than any NBA star, and he doesn’t need to get pussy he doesn’t even like to be assured in his self worth
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:38 AM
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Have you been alive for the past 5 years? Men complain they can’t get pussy on Tinder. Where’s the buffet of pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:44 AM
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You mean the place every man complains they can’t find these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:37 AM
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No whore has ever ruined my life. If they couldn’t love you because you’re not great in bed, that sounds like a you problem
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:35 AM
2

So they aren’t actually hunting down every sample of dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:32 AM
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What kind of women you around that are out there looking for every type of dick to sample? The fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:28 AM
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Then don’t marry a whore..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:25 AM
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You sound pretty insecure tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:23 AM
2

But you can judge a woman’s dating experience by being a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:00 PM
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Pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:11 AM
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I’m not raising boys so I’m not the one you have to give this advice to. But if I was, I’d raise him to be like his daddy. And teach him that leadership qualities are the best way to lead, people will let you lead all on their own terms when you have leadership qualities. No force or aggression is required to get what you want when they’ll willfully oblige to you if you’re a good leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:09 AM
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I’m pretty damn happy married. Having to date and meet new people whenever you need some intimacy when the dating market is full of unsavories sounds like a lifetime of misery to me. What are most men’s complaints about women? Not being able to find dates, let alone quality ones. What are most women’s complaints about men? That they’d rather be alone than date anyone in their cesspool of options. The fortunate ones get past that with someone they actually like
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:48 AM
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I don’t want aggression from my husband either. I like my husband being confident without having to pound his chest and use force to validate his selfworth thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:40 AM
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“My marriage sucked so marriage bad”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:34 AM
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He says Korean women are taught men are superior in all ways. Men having authority over women “in all ways” in the hierarchy is part of patriarchy. Which isn’t the case in South Korea like he claimed it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:08 AM
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The man said we were taught that men are superior to women, that’s patriarchy. Except that’s not what’s really happening in Korea.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:25 AM
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I never did hookups, never found anyone sexually appealing until I met my hubby. I guess he represents both for me, and he’s not 6’ thank God
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:01 AM
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Korea is very hierarchical in general. Patriarchy takes a back seat to elder and superior authority. A younger man has less authority than women his senior. If she’s younger than your friend, it makes sense she views his opinion as authority over hers. Having sons is very important in Korea, not because of patriarchy exactly but because in our culture, offspring are responsible for taking care of their parents in their later years and sons are expected to be the earners. That saying at the botto…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:11 AM
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Easy going people who are friendly with you and make you feel comfortable around them are very likable people. To everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:46 AM
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Exactly. It’s cringe when men brag about being 6’+ like they’re better than every other option you had. When really, that’s all he has to offer and I preferred men closer to my own height with better body proportions anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:43 AM
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Korean dating norms are something else. Asking someone to be your girlfriend is just as serious as asking to marry them in South Korea. When I started dating my Korean husband, I learned what “il-il” was and that we were expected to text and call each other all day when we were away from each other. Goes from 0-100 real quick. Korean women tend to be much more demanding for time and resources because their men are expected to give it to them. You have to invest a lot more from the start just to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:59 AM
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Only 30%? That’s A LOT. Lol. That’s like 1 in every 3 people. That’s pretty bad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:29 AM
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We do have obesity issues here though. I can’t find XS women’s clothes anywhere but 3x large women’s clothes are absolutely everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:26 AM
5

Same. Avoided dating until I met my husband. American dating is cheap and temporary, and full of a bunch of unsavories.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:55 AM
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We aren’t taught that men are superior to women, men are more valued in our societies and families though. We’re taught that men pay for everything, and that’s what Korean men do. Korean women are quite gruff and demanding contrary to popular beliefs, I’m part Korean and grew up in the US and I’m more easy going than any first generation Korean woman I’ve ever met lol. Anyone who tells you Korean women are quiet and submissive by nature has never actually dated one, and they expect a lot more th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:30 AM
16

The average American man is just as overrated. Are women in Spain, Italy, Argentina, Eastern Europe and Chile dying to be with the average American man? They have much better looking men in their home country. The value of the average American man was once his wallet but that’s not really the case anymore, y’all are struggling like everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:22 AM
2

Puerto Ricans are beautiful as hell girl
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:11 AM
1

Yeah. Do women actually approach men first? It’s not us who fall in love at first sight breh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:55 AM
2

Yeah, I did sports my whole life, really lean legs and glutes on my tiny waist and average chest. It was always the overweight women and men with no shape who would try to make me feel bad about my petite, hourglass shape. Them people are insecure, that’s their problem, doesn’t ruin my day at all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:47 AM
1

Well I’m pretty petite so that would be weird. He’s based though because I don’t like fat bitches either, mean spirited as hell for no reason. Still wouldn’t date him though, he’s probably an extremely skinny guy if he actually thinks I’m fat, and skinny dudes are just as insecure and mean spirited as fat bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:09 AM
0

Eww a home schooled weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:27 PM
-1

I’ve seen women go away for: dating a guy literally TWICE her age Older men tend to have more resources and have more time and will to properly court a relationship with someone. was pushed away in favor of a narcissist who messed with her head Manipulative people are hard to spot until you’re in deep already, and you still aren’t sure then that they’re actually bad people because they’re manipulative. and finally a girl who decided to stay with a physical and psychological abuser that didn’t ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:09 AM
0

Most 9-5 jobs are when the children are in school. Teachers are raising your kids during those hours whether you have a job or not unless you’re homeschooling your children. There’s no benefit to homeschooling over public and private schools, your kid doesn’t learn the social skills they need in that environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:55 AM
1

Polygyny and polyamory are two different things. You’re conflating the two. Men marrying multiple wives was never the majority, and we weren’t biologically built that way with the population being a 50/50 split. The exceptions could marry multiple wives, not the average man, it just isn’t possible when there aren’t enough women for everyone to have multiple unless women were also having multiple partners. Most men not being able to pass on their lineage is still a thing today, a third of all men…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:42 AM
0

Both those people are famous. And most people would agree to what type of person they are. Post Malone doesn’t have conventional good looks and neither does Keanu Reeves or Danny DeVito, yet they have plenty of women who adore them and men who would sit and buy them a beer. They’re likable people. Elon Musk on the other hand is pretty good looking, and he’s one of the wealthiest men on Earth and some women would still steer clear of that sociopath. Rihanna left a good looking, wealthy Arab princ…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:53 AM
1

You have great taste
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:06 PM
3

Based Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:50 PM
-1

I don’t blame incels for being bitter towards a world that was bitter to them. They’re allowed to be miserable assholes online. But damn, if people don’t like you because you’re miserable then you aren’t entitled to them liking you. I’m treated with favor just for being “pretty” I guess, pretty girl privilege exists, but even I got treated like shit by some miserable people. Of course I didn’t like them after. If they actually want people to like them then they have to actually be likable
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:45 PM
-1

Not all assholes are ugly like Trump. They still look insecure as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:16 PM
-2

No we don’t. When I think of someone confident and charismatic, it’s men like Obama. He’s truly likable by people and doesn’t brag about his accomplishments and doesn’t try to make others feel like shit. He’s confident enough in himself that he doesn’t have to do those things. You can’t honestly say most women would prefer dating some overcompensating asshole like Trump over someone like Obama. Assholes come off insecure AF, not confident at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:08 PM
4

Pretty important to me as a woman too. Any signs of assholery and all interests I might have had just vanishes. But in my experience, some men and some women just don’t care about how “nice” their partner is, we aren’t some monolith who all value the same things. Something I’ve noticed though, people tend to mistreat “nice” people. It’s not a man or woman issue specially. I’m always taken aback though by how some of the meanest, most demanding women who aren’t even that attractive get men to sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:52 PM
1

No it isn’t lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:14 PM
1

It wasn’t though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:21 PM
1

Some rulers and some layfolk practiced polygyny in history. All the broke commoner men didn’t marry multiple women. That’s called being the exception
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:41 PM
1

No it wasn’t. Only select men had multiple wives. The common folk definitely didn’t have multiple wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:24 PM
2

Polygyny definitely isn’t the norm, very few actually practice polygyny. It’s the exception, not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:17 PM
1

Exactly. Do people actually settle down with someone they aren’t satisfied with in multiple ways? Sounds depressing to me, I’d rather be alone. Perhaps people who push that theory are bad in bed and need someone who doesn’t know what a satisfactory sex life is like, so they view women with experience as undesirable because she wouldn’t enjoy sex with a bad lay like them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:10 PM
1

Make up sex is the best sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:48 PM
2

Yeah even before I got married, I never saw the big deal in sleeping with strangers. Just seems like a bunch of unsatisfying, disappointing and potentially dangerous sex waiting to happen. Something we wouldn’t have to worry about as much with an FWB or an ex or someone you knew from the past or something. More men would be successful in the bedroom if they actually established some kind of connection and trust first rather than just pushing sex the second someone replies back to them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:47 PM
3

but no expectation of being monogamous when you’re not in a relationship. That’s just about everywhere dawg. Dating isn’t a commitment phase anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:40 PM
1

Pretty sure monogamy is just nature in human beings. We have a 50/50 split of male and female populations for a reason, except if you live in China. Of course there’s exceptions to the rule, but they aren’t seen as “natural” for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:38 PM
3

Yeah, we’re wired to be attracted to healthy looking mates. Things like being fit, smelling good, grooming yourself, posture, having good teeth and clear skin, healthy hair, facial symmetry and wearing clothes that fit right go a long way in looking healthy in general. But individual features are subjective, some people like button noses and others like prominent ones. Some people like the skinny bitches, others want the thick ones. Some people like Asian eyes, others don’t. All my friends think…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:25 PM
1

Confidence is good. I never thought a man confident in himself was thinking too highly of himself. That changes once it goes to cocky territory or expecting everyone else to think you’re as attractive as you personally think you are though. And that’s okay, nobody is attractive to everyone else on Earth, attraction is subjective. You might be the juiciest peach but someone out there still doesn’t like peaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:39 PM
2

Honey, we all have preferences and needs that need to be met before we find anyone sexually appealing. Even the horniest of men do. I find some women attractive but there's no desire for intimacy there, by your logic of horniness I would be open to fucking those women if I were hornby enough just because I thought they looked good. It doesn't work that way, for me at least
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:46 AM
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Sexual assault and sexual harassment are two different things honey, and catcalling itself isn't even harassment on it's own lol. I even made a distinction between all three on my comment. Rape isn't even the only for of SA either, Google is free sweetheart
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:28 AM
4

I can't think of any specific thing that gives me the icks but I can tell you what it feels like. It's like when you have already said you need to go and the person you're trying to ditch is still following you and talking your ears off, oblivious to what you want. Just want to be left alone to go on my way and it feels like a major inconvenience and invasion of my space by someone I didn't even welcome around. Any person I'm not sexually attracted to who shows they're sexually attracted to me g…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:13 AM
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1 in 5 women will be a victim of SA in their lifetime. In my state, it's 1 in every 2 women. And this is in a country with decent women's rights and laws like the US. Every girl will have experienced some forms of sexual harassment by the age of 18. This shit isn't rare lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:54 AM
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I used to think my libido was low because I didn't find anyone sexually appealing. Then I met my hubby and realized my libido is actually higher than the normal person, but only for him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:41 AM
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Y’all are going to have to share women and settle for a partner with a high body count and probably some step children if women started just fucking everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:31 AM
7

This isn't true. Women don't have lower libidos. Most people might not turn us on and we're more selective but we have pretty active sex drives for people we actually are sexually attracted to. I might not want your dick but my hubby's dick is a daily essential
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:28 AM
4

Dating with your logical approach and a bit of vetting. Makes too much sense
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:46 AM
2

Women get more dick than you get pussy, your dick personally isn't special to anyone but you. It's you who expects people to put their own needs aside to cater to yours and manipulate people into getting it. It's you who makes dating so complex. Good lord lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:47 AM
1

No surprise that even loose women want a dick she's familiar with over foreign dick. Less likely to be flat out disappointing or dangerous dick. Like you said, having fwb is the way to go to get constant no strings attached sex with women who also want sex. Sokuch easier to just build a sexual relationship with multiple people than it is to try and trick every last date who doesn't want that into giving it up just for you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:39 AM
2

no girl will ever agree to go with FWB or hookup with an average dude, but she doesn’t need to know it is a hookup, basically. Now that's just lies lol. There's a bunch of community hoes and desperate bitches out there, they just aren't the most attractive ones. Plenty of women are "for the streets," in fact, according to studies, women on average have a lot more sexual partners in their lifetime than males do. Some women just want to fuck. Most women just prefer having those intimate moments wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:31 AM
1

You don't have to give anyone anything, neither do they have to do that for you. Know what most women do when someone they're dating doesn't meet the criteria of what they want? They move on. That simple. That date isn't the only one in the world, there's more suitable mates for what you want out there than the one you have to drag ass to even get bare minimum from. Indeed having a bunch of fuck buddies is the way to go. Some women also want dick on speed dial and would rather have that than com…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:19 AM
1

So you expect women to give you what you want but put aside their own desires and expectations. Then get mad that women don't let you. No wonder dating sucks for you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:49 AM
1

Well because i honestly like to deal with same coins, as in you aren’t getting to any fancy place if you don’t split the bill, i don’t waste half my salary in calorie powder for nothing, i just want the sex and i offer exactly that in exchange You don't need a "fancy place" at all to get some gushy lmao. I don't care how much you spend, it won't force women to sexually desire you more and sexually obligate themselves to you if sex with random dudes isn't even what she wants. Most women aren't ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:33 AM
1

And women aren't into being your blow up doll and getting shitty sex from someone who bought them a coffee. Women not obligating themselves to you and not desiring you with their whole soul after you gave her a little attention in the DMs is something normal AF, it's actually healthy for people to have boundaries and standards lmao. I think it's you who expects way too much with dating and thinks his attention and desire for sex is so much more valuable to women than it really is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:06 AM
1

Being a trustworthy person, how complex.. Lol Building trust in someone just takes time and being reliable lol, there's no shortcut. It's only hard when you aren't a trustworthy person or just expect people to instantly trust you after buying them an icecream lmao. Women can tell when you're being disingenuous and trying to trick her into trusting you just to get that gushy and it's a big turn off. My hubby won me over just by being genuinely interested, being consistent and allowing our bond to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:12 AM
1

I think for a man to bring value to a woman’s life is very hard, like actual value that is worth something. Not really. Being mutually beneficial in a relationship really isn't hard to achieve. The problem is a lot of people view dating as something transactional they should gain quick from and are entitled to instant gratification rather than a vetting phase where both should be seeing if they're even beneficial or compatible being involved with each other. Neither of you will meet expectations…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:44 PM
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Yeah, women are kind of experts at detecting disengenuous acts. We learn from a young age we can't just trust and obligate ourselves to everyone who does something nice for us once.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:55 PM
2

Exactly. Even marying "those other Asians" is taboo. Can't imagine a South Korean marrying a Japanese partner lol, that's probably even worse than marrying a non Asian tbh. And if you're an Asian American who's "too American" then that's bad too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:49 PM
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I think they’re just lashing out because Asian guys probably get treated the worst in the dating market, but that obviously doesn’t make it right. East Asian men who live in their home countries or are first generation immigrants or have first generation immigrant parents have strong expectations to only marry their own. I'm part Korean myself and even I'm not Asian enough for traditional Asians to accept as their own. Racism is strong at play here, people have no idea how racist Asian culture r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:37 PM
0

Women are more selective, both for biological reasons and societal norms. Women have more to lose by choosing the wrong mate, it takes time for most women to even gain attraction towards a mate whereas men can feel attraction at first sight. Imagine the mess if women stopped vetting sexual partners and were out here fucking and making babies with every man who ever showed the slightest amount of interest in them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:17 PM
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The thing is, you view it as you competing with every other man trying to get with her but really you're just competing with her personal time and whether she likes it better with you in it or not. The vast majority of men who approach her aren't even options she'll consider because she feels life is better alone than it is with them. Do you bring value of some sort to her life rather than liabilities? Then you're already doing better than those 99% of other guys in her inbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:50 PM
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I feel like where you're from makes a bigger impact. Those in small towns have fewer decent options than those in the city, and everyone knows your dating business. I hated dating in my hometown. Being conventionally attractive only filled my option pool with shallow people tbh, I avoided dating until I left my hometown because dating norms here were trash
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:50 PM
3

You have to lead. In order to avoid being stuck in the friendzone once she already knows she likes spending time with you, it’s on you to set the pace and advance the relationship. No matter how much a woman likes you, if you don’t take the lead in advancing the relationship then it will never advance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:51 AM
1

I know plenty of women married to men I personally think look like gremlins and Shreks. I get it though because those men they married are genuinely likable human beings who don’t act like your average fuckboy. And height is relative, a 5’ woman prefers someone just a couple inches taller than her over some 6’5 dude. Average height dudes have more options than the tallest and shortest of men because of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:33 AM
0

In my experience, better looking people tend to treat people better. They get treated well by everyone they interact with and they act accordingly. Unattractive people get treated with less favor and tend to be treated worse, they also act accordingly. Idk where this stereotype that good looking people have more trash personalities than unattractive people came from but in my experience, it’s the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:21 AM
1

That’s kind of disturbing. No wonder I always felt underweight in this country, despite having a normal BMI for my height and being pretty fit due to sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:15 AM
7

Yeah I’ve never looked at a man and thought “damn he’s hot I have to fuck/date/marry him.” For women, it’s mostly the feelings that come first before attraction, I think my man is hot AF because his face and body is attached to the man I fell in love with and no other man could ever compare to the attraction I feel for him. Sure some other guys might be easy on the eyes but they’re just some random dude I have absolutely no feelings for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:08 AM
1

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:33 AM
1

Isn’t that what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:59 PM
1

You're sort of an anomaly though She’s not though. Most people want someone who has standards for themselves and makes good decisions for themselves. Those who bang a bunch of 3s they don’t care about are a red flag to potential partners. They aren’t more likely to get the most desirable chicks just because he has a wrap sheet full of 3s under his belt. Banging a bunch of chicks might impress his friends and other men though Men who can attract and get sex from at least some women are more value…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:36 PM
1

You're sort of an anomaly though She’s not though. Most people want someone who has standards for themselves and makes good decisions for themselves. Those who bang a bunch of 3s they don’t care about are a red flag to potential partners. They aren’t more likely to get the most desirable chicks just because he has a wrap sheet full of 3s under his belt. Banging a bunch of chicks might impress his friends and other men though Men who can attract and get sex from at least some women are more value…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:35 PM
2

You're sort of an anomaly though Not really. I agree with her. Most people want someone who has standards for themselves. The ones who bang a bunch of 3s they don’t care about are a red flag for being cheaters. He’s not more likely to get the most desirable chicks just because he has a wrap sheet full of 3s under his belt. It might impress his friends Men who can attract and get sex from at least some women are more valued in society Because those men who can get women tend to already be success…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:30 PM
0

No wonder no one wants to talk to you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:01 PM
-1

You aren’t gigachad, that’s why women don’t trip over themselves to reply to your “hey” in their DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:59 PM
-1

You said women don’t even like talking to the vast majority of men. Then said we would if they were all gigachads. You answered your own problem then, the vast majority aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:56 PM
1

The vast majority of men aren’t “gigachads”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:52 PM
2

women don't even want to talk to the vast majority of men You know how time consuming that would be? If I talked to every man who ever approached me before I got married, I’d spend my whole life just talking to men. Then be called a whore for entertaining and investing interest in them all. We definitely like talking men, just not all of them. Not every “hey” is worth 2 minutes of my day responding, there’s a hundred others of them. Damned if we do, damned if we don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:48 PM
2

men not caring about women's politcal opinions abortion is an easy example Around half the pro choice protesters around the country have been male. Almost as if it’s not just a women’s issue
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:34 PM
4

I’d rather be judged by 12 than carried by 6
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:26 PM
9

Under 30, the male and female sexless rates are about equal, as they should be. Where are you getting that from? Women on average are having more sex than their male counterparts and have more intimate partners than their male counterparts for their age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:23 PM
3

Male suicide in the US is already the highest in the developed world That would be Japan and South Korea. By far
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:03 PM
4

The thing is, studies show women on average have more sexual partners than men on average, for almost all age groups. Men are conditioned by other men to think their value as a man comes from the amount of women they can bed, meanwhile women prefer a partner who isn't a hoe with with low standards that gives his body to just anyone. Men feel pressured to want a bunch of women to impress other men in their life even though it really isn't fulfilling because fucking randoms lacks meaningful intima…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:43 AM
-3

Ah Nordic countries, where women wear the pants in the relationship. No wonder
/r/seduction20/08/21 02:32 AM
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Oh so you’re screwing women that other men respect and want to tie down? Be real, you’re bedding women those men don’t want which is why they’re dealing with you walking headaches in the first place. There’s hot single moms out here, being “hot” doesn’t mean they aren’t unwanted leftovers. Women with financial security and have plenty of options living in developed countries aren’t out on the streets looking for men to change lmao
/r/seduction20/08/21 02:23 AM
2

You aren’t bagging a Rihanna or Beyoncé, you’re getting the leftovers that don’t have decent options. Enjoy them though
/r/seduction20/08/21 02:14 AM
3

If the majority of women around you are this way then it sounds like a shithole with weird social power dynamics. “Changing” someone sounds like a whole lot of unsatisfying work, I could never deal with someone that needs “changing” in order to be ideal. Why would anyone in their right mind drop their self peace to deal with a walking headache when there’s decent human beings out here lined up? Only LVW are going to deal with fuck boys, they can have you
/r/seduction20/08/21 02:11 AM
1

Hell yeah. Being warm and inviting emits a certain kind of likable confidence.
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:50 AM
3

Bruh, you ladies who think you can change people by fucking them are either manipulative and get mad when you fail at manipulating them or naive and think men will fall in love with you just because you put out. It’s embarrassing. The only way men will want a long term relationship with you is if he respects you and has to invest in you in order to get what he wants, you sleeping with someone you don’t want to sleep for ulterior motives is the opposite of that.
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:37 AM
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I just record short videos then screenshot a good frame and delete the video on my iPhone 12 Pro Max. It makes even bad lighting decent and photos don’t really need enhancing. Sometimes I’ll blur the background to make the photo look like it was taken in portrait mode, that’s about it.
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:18 AM
1

I mean guys get rejected a lot in real life too. It’s all about how you approach someone, whether it’s in real life or through social media and other apps. A lot of guys would do better if they put effort into making girls feel comfortable and safe around them then taking the lead in advancing the relationship rather than testing boundaries right off the bat or expecting her to do the chasing. I’m so glad I’m married and never have to worry about dating anymore, so many entitled asshats out ther…
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:02 AM
2

The gorgeous women I know don’t see themselves as “attractive” or are harder on their own looks than others are. We also have seen ourselves more than some stranger has so we don’t appreciate our own looks like they can.
/r/seduction23/01/21 03:33 AM
6

I’m straight af but I still appreciate and admire a gorgeous woman when I see one.
/r/seduction30/11/20 02:47 PM
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I dated older guys exclusively from 18-25, not because I was “physically attracted” to them but because I thought they were more mature. Guys my own age are more attractive tbh but that’s not my first priority in a partner. Power dynamic and manipulation is definitely a factor there.
/r/seduction23/10/20 12:37 PM
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So a man having a shitty attitude by not respecting her is due politeness from her or she’s the bitch? He wasn’t polite or came correct in the first place but he’s owed it in return? Lol. Nah fam, respect and manners are something you give if you want to receive it in return.
/r/seduction09/08/20 05:34 AM
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