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Why haven't you told this poor woman so she can escape this awful man? Why are you friends with a soulless homewrecking whore?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 01:16 PM
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Blah blah blah says the psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:45 AM
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😂😂😂😂 nah, just le stupid. To reap what you sow means whatever you put out into the world will come back to you. If you're kind and hardworking, you’ll see positive results and great things will happen in your favor. If you're cruel or selfish, don’t be surprised when everything falls apart and bad things happen to you. It’s karma. So the fact that you said it was threatening means you do a lot of terrible things. A good person would view it in a positive light.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:22 AM
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Strange and so very telling that you interpreted it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:03 AM
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That is just completely false. Men are far more likely to kill children than women, especially once the child is older. Fathers, stepfathers, and mothers’ boyfriends are consistently the most common perpetrators in child homicides. This isn’t a debate, it’s documented fact through CDC, DOJ, and global homicide data. The only exception is in infant deaths, and even that needs context. When women kill infants, it’s almost always due to postpartum depression or postpartum psychosis. These are serio…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:13 PM
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I don't try to inspire empathy. I know 99% of men are incapable of it. Clearly you're one of them. May you reap what you sow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:15 PM
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Don't men commit like 80% of violent crimes? So, no, men are much worse than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:08 PM
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says the cry baby manlet who can't face reality
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:59 PM
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I simply don't believe that the majority of men on this sub wouldn't be violent towards women, especially if they could get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:58 PM
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According to you, I should be in prison. When I was 19, I was violently beaten and raped. The police didn't take me to the hospital, I didn't get a rape kit, the man was never questioned. They took me down the station, put me in a small room and had multiple cops over the course of hours ask me OVER AND OVER why was I lying? They even called my boyfriend at the time (my emergency contact) and told him I was lying and simply regretted cheating on him. Just say it how it is. You want innocent wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:56 PM
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Go ahead and call me stupid, but no amount of imagination will make you correct. Facts over feelings, right? So swallow your pride, wipe those tears away, and face reality. Statistically, men are far more likely than women to be the perpetrators of violence against children, especially when we're talking about sexual abuse, physical abuse, and severe neglect. When it comes to sexual abuse, the vast majority of perpetrators are male, often by a wide margin (80–95% in many studies).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:51 PM
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Sounds like you don't have any idea what you're talking about or what patriarchy is. Get back to me once you educate yourself because this is just embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:41 PM
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What a dumb and pointless statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:39 PM
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Which country? Actually, never mind, i don't know of a single country who's government has a female majority. So, no, men are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:37 PM
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This is literally a classic example of how patriarchy hurts men. "minority" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:30 PM
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I very clearly used it as an example of misogyny vs. misandry at their worst. I'm sorry you're struggling to keep up. Men cry about misandry, at worst, hurting their feelings, but misogyny leads to women being tortured, raped, killed, etc, but men don't care. They think their feelings are more important than literal dead and raped women. Anyways, I'm not American so I'm not force fed your propaganda. American soldiers committed many horrors against innocent civilians there. American soldiers are…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:28 PM
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Yes, general society is obviously at fault. It's society who allows these atrocities to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:19 PM
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I meant exactly what I stated. Is it easy or hard to blatantly ignore reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:17 PM
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Do you genuinely have no clue what goes on in most of the world? In 34 countries it's legal to rape your wife. Yes, a fuck ton of women have experienced some form of SA. Isn't it like 1 in 3 it the west? I imagine it's way more in third world countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:16 PM
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What a wildly stupid assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:10 PM
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Ukraine is a patriarchal society run by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:08 PM
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Less than 1% of rapists go to prison. Try again. I've had multiple assaults against me. Not a single one was taken seriously. I was always punished. They got to walk away laughing. What would you like me to say to my step dad? Genuinely curious. Nobody believed me. At one point, if I wanted to relationship with any of my family, I was forced to sit down and APOLOGIZE to him for all the bad things I said about him. My own father made me do this since I could have ruined a good man's reputation. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:05 PM
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Says the the most emotional and irrational creature on the planet: A MAN.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:59 PM
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Yeah, stating you don't think women and little girls should have rights over their body, and should, in fact, be tortured, potentially to death, isn't a valid argument. It just makes you evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:58 PM
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Men, by and large, are the perpetrators of violent misogyny. I don't need to clarify anything. I'm stating the obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:56 PM
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Is it easy or hard to blatantly ignore reality. Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:53 PM
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This is the experience of billions of women. That's the point. Countless women have it significantly worse than I could ever a imagine, yet men like you call them liars. It's sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:50 PM
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I've had multiple sexual assaults against me. One where I was violently beaten and raped. I was branded a liar by police. I grew up with my creep of a step dad. When I finally had the guts to say something, I was called a liar by my whole family. I was kicked out at 17. Two other girls would eventually speak out against him. They were also called liars and relieved no justice. I was assaulted at school, a group of boys pulled my pants and underwear down. I was the one that got in trouble. A grou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:34 PM
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Quote me where I specifically included YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:24 PM
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I'm pretty sure it's something like 0.5% of rapists see a day in prison. Men don't care when it comes to violent crime against women. If anything, they celebrate it. Look at places like Afghanistan. Tell me where in the world there's a misandrist equivalent. You can't. It doesn't and has never existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:24 PM
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Actively go to prison because they are a danger to humanity. And, no, not all men. I'm just sick of reading countless stories about men raping women or girls and then not getting punished because it would be cruel and it might ruin his future career... because God forbid. Hell, there's a guy in my area that women have been warning other women about. He's on dating apps and been seen in bars. He strangled a girl to death and left her in some bushes. He was only sentenced to 8 years and is now out…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:45 PM
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It's not 200 years ago. Men NOW need to pay for the horrors they commit against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:32 PM
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If he really wanted her go take plan B, he would have immediately gone out and bought it, brought it to her, and watched her take it. He sounds really stupid, irresponsible, and 50% to blame. Just because he's a moron doesn't mean he can dodge responsibility for his actions. Hopefully he will learn something here, but I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:27 AM
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And so is my short broke king 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 09:15 PM
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As I said, I gave you the exact same treatment you gave me. Nothing less, nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:09 PM
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Prove to me that no conservatives think this way. You can't. The US conservative government quite literally embodies all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:08 PM
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Everything he mentioned is repulsive. Obviously, some big guys are hot. However, for me, there is no 'very muscular' guy that is. A lot of muscle can make a good looking guy ugly. Stoic faces are weird and scary. Seems psycho. I like really expressive guys. I never want my man to fight and I think men driving fancy sports cars (or trucks) is embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:06 PM
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I'm giving you the exact same energy you gave me. Odd you can't handle how you treat others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 08:39 PM
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It's not a matter of disagreeing. They deny facts/reality. Copied from my other comment: Here are a few conservative delusions that come immediately to mind... Climate change isn’t real or isn’t a big deal Trickle-down economics works Systemic racism doesn’t exist Sexuality is a choice The U.S. is the greatest country on Earth COVID was overblown/doesn't exist Immigrants are stealing jobs and dangerous Religion belongs in politics (but only theirs) Abortion is murder, but forced birth isn’t crue…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:17 PM
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Here are a few conservative delusions that come immediately to mind... Climate change isn’t real or isn’t a big deal Trickle-down economics works Systemic racism doesn’t exist Sexuality is a choice The U.S. is the greatest country on Earth COVID was overblown/doesn't exist Immigrants are stealing jobs and dangerous Religion belongs in politics (but only theirs) Abortion is murder, but forced birth isn’t cruelty The free market will solve everything Faith matters more than facts Women exist to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:14 PM
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The whole basis of conservatism is being unable to think critically and the willingness to deny reality/facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 12:43 PM
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What a genuinely evil take. Instead of getting all pissy that I'm pointing out what a gross amount of men think, how about you take it up with the men who actually think this way. No, instead, you'd prefer me to stay silent. Men are creating barbaric laws that are killing and torturing women and little girls. That's okay. That doesn't cause hate and division. Me pointing it out does. Genuinely, what the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 12:40 PM
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I'm not surprised an American would be so arrogantly ignorant as this, but hey, Americans being dangerously stupid is a stereotype for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:52 PM
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I'm not American. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:48 PM
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Nah, you go on psychotic tirades, to what? Feel superior? You aren't. My thoughts on the matter are already law. Need a tissue to cry about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:38 PM
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Ditto.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:29 PM
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Men don't consider this a right. Men are perfectly happy if women die or are tortured this way because women are dirty disgusting sluts that need to be punished. If it's a child who is raped and forced to give birth against her will even if it will kill her, good, because every life matters... except hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:20 PM
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Yeah, this is just a made up thing from loser men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:00 PM
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Nah, depends on the parents lifestyle. You can't cheap out on your kids because you want to hoard all your wealth and let your kids suffer for it. If you can afford to give your child more than the basic necessities for survival, you should. This is a no brainer. If you divorce and your kids go to private school, you should still have to pay for half of that. Only a despicable piece of shit would say, no thanks, I'm only giving just enough money for food so they don't die of starvation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:02 PM
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This gave me a laugh, but at least it shows how ignorant you are. I've been doing this for 16 years. There have always been the chatty sorts, but they were never the majority. Most of the folks have a favorite caregiver they'll open up to and no one else besides bits and pieces here and there. Obviously every place had it's hated caregivers and they get nothing from no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:56 PM
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You describe yourself as a red pill woman. You're inherently unsafe. I would imagine that rolls over into real life and women wouldn't feel safe to be vulnerable around you. Are you saying my grandma should have missed her beatings? Or how my other one would get her face scribbled out in pictures because she was "ugly"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:27 PM
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I've worked in care homes for elderly people. The women had it BAD. Beyond bad. Just miserable and often horrific. Even my grandmothers had miserable marriages they were trapped in. Basically, women didn't feel free and happy until their husbands died.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:30 PM
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I agree. Everyone I know only gets a few hundred a month. It should be WAY more. I doesn't matter if the other parent can't afford it. They can go without food, hydro, or get a room mate. Kids come first.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:58 PM
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I would agree with this statement if men had to endure 9 months of hell on their body and the agony of birth and postpartum. They'd need to die and have severe health complications as women going through pregnancy/birth. Many will also have life-long pain and health issues following. Same rate as women. As long as men did this, it would be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:11 PM
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I don't think it's an outlier. With people I've known who have divorced (countless at this point), I only know one dad who wanted his kids part of the time. He also never complained about child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:07 PM
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The only men and women who think it's unfair are deadbeats.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:05 PM
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What is too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:04 PM
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You'll have to explain your point here as well. You're not making any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:04 PM
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Okay, and? What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:03 PM
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Apparently, sometimes the guys get to locations before the portapotty arrives. I'm just going off the word of one guy, though. He only lasted a few months before he quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 06:50 PM
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Nobody is forcing them. It's a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 06:33 PM
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My husband's buddy used to work on the rigs in Alberta. My husband was telling me about how they'd go to remote places (obviously), but that meant a shack to sleep in, no running water, and often no toilets. They were told to piss outside and shit in bags. Then one guy started puking. By the next morning, there were a dozen of them all puking and diarrheaing into bags in this this small shack for a few days. What a fucking nightmare. It made me think, though. No wonder women don't do these jobs.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 06:27 PM
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What a horrible and bitter way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:11 PM
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Mutual respect would never be enough for the vast majority of women. I would suggest therapy. I've heard really good things about somatic therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:55 PM
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You're not into lovey-dovey stuff... so you just want a broodmare that will sacrifice her health/life for you, and she gets what in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:39 PM
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Again, for a lot of them, unless they told you, you wouldn't know. Are you saying you're not attracted to any woman until she confirms she is cis? My husband wouldn't date a trans woman who has a dick. He is not attracted to dicks. However, I've shown him plenty of pics and videos asking if this chick is hot and he says yeah... because you can't tell. Then I tell him shes trans and he's like whoops, still pretty, but would not date because a dick makes them incompatible. If they have a vag, it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:22 PM
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Oh, then you're kinda out of touch. But trans people still exist in the south despite what evil bigots want. It would be even more important that you don't clock them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:06 PM
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This seems certifiably insane go me. If it comes down to semen, lots of cis men are technically women to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:02 PM
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Guaranteed, you've almost certainly crossed paths with trans people and never even knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:57 PM
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I do not believe you. Not even a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:09 AM
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According you, this is a woman. They are a trans man. So me and any other women attracted to this person is gay, but any man attracted to them would be straight. Do you think a straight man would be attracted to this woman? Are you attracted to this woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:00 AM
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<image> Reminder to myself that any man attracted to these kinds of characteristics is gay af and should be treated as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:49 AM
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<image> I guess being attracted to men like this makes me a lesbian 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:45 AM
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Today I learned being attracted to women is gay. Men get crazier every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:20 AM
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Oh my god, it's a HUGE problem. People with intellectual disabilities are 7 times more likely to be sexually assaulted than those without disabilities. For women specifically, up to 83% of women with developmental disabilities have been sexually assaulted in their lifetime. Nearly half of those women have been assaulted more than TEN times. People with cognitive disabilities have the highest rate of violent victimization compared to any other group. Around 80-90% of sexual abuse cases involving …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 10:18 PM
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Society really doesn't talk enough about the fact that families have to put their severely disabled daughters on birth control because they can't trust the men around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:51 PM
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I've personally never met a right-wing man (at least in person) that had anything positive about them. To me I made it extremely clear I'm talking about men I've met and/or know, not people I've never met and therefore can't judge. I even hinted at the fact (by saying at least in person) that there was potential wiggle room for people I've talked to online. Granted, 99% seemed to fit into my assessment that there's nothing positive about them. However, if you're right wing, you likely vote right…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:53 PM
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Toxic masculinity breeds abusive behavior, sexual entitlement, controlling relationships, neglectful parenting, and emotional unavailability. It teaches men that empathy is for losers and women are trophies or threats. It teaches boys to mock girls and teaches girls to expect pain as part of love. Healthy masculinity means being strong and kind. Protective and nurturing. Confident without being cruel, but toxic masculinity butchers all that and replaces it with fear-based bravado. It’s performat…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:45 PM
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Yes. I am actually aware of this. I know I think in very black or white terms, or good vs. evil (often how it goes in my mind). Didn't recognize it in this instance though. Where/how exactly is this trait being displayed for you to notice?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:59 PM
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I almost certainly am. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:41 PM
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Just scrolling I see news posts of guys killing their families all the the time. I've seen two new ones today. I was just reading about a guy who brutally murdered his baby because he was jealous of the attention they were getting from cancer. Also I just looked it up. In the U.S., about 450 children are killed by their parents each year. Of those, fathers are more likely to kill the entire family in what’s called a familicide—typically involving the murder of a partner and children, often follo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:36 PM
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North American is a third world?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:15 PM
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I'm sorry, I see men in the news every other day after killing their wife and children. I rarely see women do this, and it's often when they are in psychosis after birth. So, I'm not sure what you're referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:12 PM
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I'm talking about bodily autonomy. What about you? Sounds like you're talking about men who are well known for being family annihilators.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:10 PM
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I've personally never met a right-wing man (at least in person) that had anything positive about them, especially when it comes to their fragile sense of masculinity. Maybe the shitty people are the ones who feel the need to hide back handed insults in their comments You're guilty of this. So I'm not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:08 PM
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I've not encountered this phenomenon. I would say right-wing men embody toxic masculinity. Which shitty people like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:52 PM
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I think this is true. I once dated a guy who was sweet as pie and liberal af (or so he said). Then I found his online comments which were 100% the opposite. He was a monster in disguise. It was crazy the mask he put on to fool me. I don't even understand why. Why would you want to be with someone who has the complete opposite views on everything? Doesn't make sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:49 PM
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I can't imagine settling for someone who thinks I shouldn't have basic human rights. I'd rather be a crazy cat lady. Then again, nowadays, I think a lot more women are going this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:46 PM
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Again, white men are the default hires.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:27 PM
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It's already the default, though. 90% of places want a white man above everyone else. Are you saying you want everyone else to be excluded like they used to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:11 PM
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For where?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:45 PM
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Highly depends on the institution. The best nurse I've ever had was a man. The world needs more of those. For private caregiving, like someone hiring their own personal caregiver, I think if you don't feel comfortable with either a man or woman, that's fair, and you should choose accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:43 PM
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Did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:53 PM
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They think Philippinos are often dirty and never wash their hands. Also they think they are prudes. They don't know the proper terminology for the genital parts, like vulva, labia, and clitorous. They will not wash/wipe genitals properly because they don't want to touch them. For black people, they think they are pushy, rude, and the men especially misogynistic. For men in general, they think they give shit care and can sometimes be pervy, and again, often misogynistic. They really dislike anyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:22 AM
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Caregiving for physically disabled people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:41 AM
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I often sit with my bosses when hiring. 99% of the time they won't even look at a resume if the name doesn't sound white. Philippino and black are automatic no. In person, if you're fat, 99% of the time, no. Surprisingly, if it's a man, no 100% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:02 AM
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They have soft skin and their features aren't ugly, imo, especially on a thin woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:53 PM
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I've quite literally never felt this way. A guy might be taller, stronger, hell, even richer than my husband, but I still feel like my husband is better than them, like on a foundational level. Other men simply cannot compete because they are not him. Give me the richest, hottest, tallest man on earth and he's still not comparable to my husband because they are not him. They can't beat him because there is simply no one better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:49 PM
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The question is, do i have unlimited money? I feel like this person is by no means hopeless. But also, if they are dude, this makes it harder for me since I don't want to be one. I feel like with some weight loss, a wig, and some makeup, they wouldn't be horrific.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:44 PM
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Don't need to be in shape to be good at oral.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 11:57 PM
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From my understanding is he can take it apart piece by piece until there's nothing left.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 11:55 PM
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100% agree. It screams confidence and that they give no fucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:00 PM
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I have a son. I had a terribly lonely childhood. It was even lonelier as a young adult. I'm no more worried about his loneliness than I would be with a daughter. My son is almost certainly autistic, and learning through him and all about autism, I probably am too, which has likely contributed to my overall loneliness. I do worry about him building connections with people since I never have. I've only ever truly connected with partners but even then I never felt like they knew or understood me. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:16 PM
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No you don't and no you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:04 PM
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I think this is a good idea. I do think height preferences can be a form of insecurity. If a woman is bigger than her man, she doesn't feel as feminine and some cases, as protected.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:23 PM
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Yes, but i don't know if her love for you will curb her addiction to food. You would also have to go to the gym with her or else she won't have the motivation to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:19 PM
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Exactly, so it's easy to workout and still gain weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:13 PM
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He is the HR!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:12 PM
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How many thin people could? I would simply pass away. Same with basically every thin person I know. Thin doesn't equal fit. I think most thin people would get further than most fat people. I think a lot of fat people would get further than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:10 PM
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I don't think you know what a prostitute is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:07 PM
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Yes. #2 will eventually leave and then you'll be alone for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:05 PM
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I would think by starting therapy to deal with your crippling insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:05 PM
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Your friends must be ginormous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:22 PM
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She'd leave. There will be other guys willing to pay for dates. Right now, you are her best option, but with no dates, she can easily find better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:20 PM
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No. She'd never eat either of those unless drunk. But you'd have to pay for the booze at the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:18 PM
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It's forever. They are your only options.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:17 PM
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No. You have to pick one. Also, I've known countless fat people who could run circles around most thin people I know. There's this morbidly obese woman on tiktok that goes on 5k runs. I could never. Also, lots of big women can be into lifting and be super strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:16 PM
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Q4M: Would rather have a fat, let's say 250lbs, woman who is obsessed with you, loves you and would never leave you. She is always down for sex and never says no. She always goes 50/50 on dates. Or A skinny/fit woman who doesn't really like you, will never love you, and will eventually move on. But for now she's always down for sex and never says no. You have to pay for every date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:04 PM
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My boss cries a lot. I'm talking every day, often multiple times a day. I don't know how to help him. I can sometimes hear him crying in another room. He often looks like he's been crying. Sometimes, he will cry on the other side of the room. I rarely acknowledge it because wtf do I say. Yesterday he apologized for his emotions and I told him it's fine, I never mind listening if he wants to talk. I'm always willing to listen, I just don't know what to say. He says his life is collapsing. He is c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:04 PM
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I will likely be an outlier. I hate most public spaces, especially busy ones. I'd risk being murdered in the woods before most traditional dates. I preferred walks/hikes or just hanging out at my place. But now I understand asking a guy to hang out at my place (where I'm most comfortable) is seen by men as an invitation to sex. Whoops. Probably left a lot of guys disappointed and even had to kick a few out when they were too pushy. Luckily, my husband didn't think anything of it. We've still nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:49 PM
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This is extremely disingenuous and also incredibly ignorant. Let's not pretend there aren't countless women men treat like trash. Bridge trolls might be able to find some nasty loser to use them as a flesh light, but finding actual date or ltr can be damn near impossible. I had a five year dry spell (no dates) and it wasn't from lack of trying. I'd just mention my health issue and men would run for the hills.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:41 AM
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Quotes by me found in my comments: "I have a good life with a great husband which reddit would say I don't deserve... which is undeniably true." "But for some crazy reason my man locked that shit down ASAP. I feel a little bad for him because he could have done a lot better." "The funny thing is, I didn't settle. If anything, it was the other way around." "I think what doesn't make sense to me is that he could do so much better. I've always felt like I'm dragging him down. For every good quality…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:27 PM
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I'm concerned that you mistook my intrigue for anger. I was genuinely curious what nonsense you'd come up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:46 PM
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Oh, please, do describe to me in detail how I've lived such a pampered life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:40 PM
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He's the same height as me. 5'6"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:39 PM
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He's a short broke king that has an attractive (in HIS opinion, i can't stress this enough) woman who is so in love and obsessed with him that she let him move in after a couple months together, married him after only a year together, bought him a car, a house, fucks him regularly, and birthed him a beautiful son. I wouldn't feel too bad for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:32 PM
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Because it pisses men off. They make a big deal over how short and/or broke men can't find dates, sex, or love. btw, I don't actually think my husband is short, but the guys here do, so apparently I should think less of my husband for it. I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:25 PM
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Ah, i've not seen stuff like this. But I can't relate to hot girl memes. I do not have hot girl problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:04 PM
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Why? My dad was the most involved dad out of all my friends parents. My friends would come to my place to have fun. My mom who was a lot younger, was not fun at all. Luckily they divorced and I'd get to spend time away from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:02 PM
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My dad was 47 when he had me. So he was 63 when I was 16. Why is this sad?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:57 PM
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What are these memes you speak of?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:55 PM
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A dog collar?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:49 PM
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Not a single one ever made a move or asked me out. I always did the approaching and asking out. Or we met online. I tended to meet them in friend groups. I was never physically attracted to them but would get to know them and really like them. I found if they were ugly, I had a chance 😂 when I was young and would ask out guys i was attracted to, they'd turn it into trauma. Worst was a guy who straight up laughed with his buddies and said hell no. After that, I knew not to go after cute guys. I m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:16 AM
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If I'm attracted to him and we have the same goals and morals, I wouldn't care. I don't know why other women would besides not wanting to have to teach a man how to fuck. But in my experience, even guys who have slept with lots of women are still shit in bed. Getting off on pleasing a woman is better than experience, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:39 AM
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I dated one guy who was huge (or so it felt). Slept with him once and knew almost immediately we'd have to break up. It was the most painful sex I'd ever had. Like my vagina simply could NOT handle the length. I felt nothing but dread at the thought of ever having to have sex with him again. So I did not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:55 AM
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My mom was like that. She was the type to yell about microscopic crumbs on the counter. I feel like I'm the exact opposite because of the hell she put me through. Cleaning is now traumatic 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:35 PM
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Can you give me some examples of ugly women hating on attractive women. I'm not sure I've experienced this in the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:33 PM
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I've never "connected" with anyone other than someone I was dating long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:31 PM
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I wouldn't care at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:16 PM
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Every short man I've dated has been significantly stronger than me. My husband is the same height as me, and he's got to have quadruple the strength. Probably significantly more. I dated a guy who was like 5'3" and played rugby. He'd take down dudes that were double his size. I wouldn't have stood a chance against him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:14 PM
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I've dated lots of short guys. Not a single one of them had issues getting a LTR. They also would have never talked about orbiters and that sort of thing, but they weren't chronically online either. They also weren't bitter about their height.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:07 PM
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Statistically untrue. This info is taken from dating sites for men's preferences. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:03 PM
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Are you in your 60s and did you get married in your early 20s? How can you prove he's just as attracted to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:57 PM
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A fetus isn't a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:41 AM
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Isn't that a good thing? 6 million children under the age of 5 die every year from starvation. 100,000 children under the age of 5 die a year from war. Approx 15,400 children under the age of 5 die a day from preventable disease. So 5.3 million a year. The leading cause of death in children and teens in the USA is guns. Millions upon millions of small children are dying horrific preventable deaths every year. The last thing the world needs is more children to torture. If anything, those abortion…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:10 PM
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Look it up yourself. There are studies showing a scary amount of men would rape children if they thought they could get away with it, and that's just those that would admit to it. There was a study in the 80s asking if men would rape women, 35% said yes. They changed the wording to would you force a woman to have sex with you, and it jumped even higher. I think there was another one in 2015 like this and it had around the same percentages. The thing with these kind of studies is it relies on a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:11 PM
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I'm not talking specific examples. I'm talking the overwhelming majority. If we look at men globally, they are a thing of nightmares. There is a reason why most women would say they'd kill themselves in an apocalypse. We know exactly what would happen to us in a lawless society. In most of the world, men treat dogs better than women. You'll never convince me men are the good guys. There is good among them, but those men are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:59 PM
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Thanks for giving me a good laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:52 PM
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Good men exist, but bad men are extremely abundant. If men were inherently good, countries like Afghanistan wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:34 PM
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I'm a socially anxious and shy woman. Men have almost never approached me. I can recall 2 in my 35 years of life. One was a fat old married man that would throw trash out his car window. He asked me out while his wife was pregnant. I didn't know he was married when we went out (only once). He threw garbage out his window at the beach and I immediately hated him. I ditched him after and he'd go on to send sexually explicit texts for MONTHS. It was scary af, because no amount of telling him to sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:31 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:26 PM
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Notice how I said most. Not all. He fits into the not all category. The thing about my husband is he doesn't hate women. He doesn't only tolerate women because he wants a hole to fuck. He respects women. Some of his best friends have been women. He would agree with 99% of the things I say, and he would agree with my statement above. He doesn't cover his eyes and plug his ears, screaming la la la, when it comes to how men treat and think about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:13 PM
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Most men would rape if they knew they could get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:21 PM
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If he has an old car it wouldn't be impossible where I live, but you'd have to drive a LOT. To fill my husbands old mazda is $90ish. It's filled once a week. So if this person was a delivery driver... could be possible. Trucks are well over $100 to fill the tank and guzzle gas like crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:24 AM
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Castration, perhaps. I wouldn't recommend it, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:42 AM
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I know way too many vasectomy babies. I also know one tube tied baby. My husband will be getting one soon, but I'm still gonna be paranoid when it comes to pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:43 AM
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Reproductive rights and bodily autonomy. Abortion access, birth control, and healthcare are still under attack. Gender-based violence. Domestic abuse, sexual assault, and harassment remain rampant, with victims often silenced or blamed. Pay gap and economic inequality. Women still earn less than men, especially women of color and those in lower-income jobs. Workplace discrimination and glass ceilings. Women are still passed over for promotions, paid less, and expected to prove themselves more. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:25 PM
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That's perfectly fine, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:02 AM
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Trad wife, christian, conservative, submissive, virgin, young, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:29 AM
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Highly dependent on what his standards are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:18 AM
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Must be a garnet. I know it's not a ruby. It's much more purple in person. I honestly can't remember because I never cared other than I thought it was pretty! I told my husband I didn't want traditional and I did NOT want a diamond (I think they are boring). He knows I like colorful things (and purple is my favorite color). I know they don't traditionally match since one is gold and the other is white gold, but I fucking LOVE them. They aren't my exact style now, but they were spot on back then.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 10:54 PM
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Why so salty?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 10:46 PM
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<image> This is the best picture I could get. They look SOOO much better in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 10:28 PM
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Nah, I was once a fat girl. Average/ugly guys will mock you and be rude to your face. Lord only knows what they said behind my back. It never bothered me when hot guys would belittle and bully me for my looks (it's to be expected, they were born and raised to be despicable POS), it's when average to ugly guys would that I'd feel a sense of betrayal. Like, bitch, you weigh twice as much and are uglier tenfold, why are you telling me to kill myself because no one will ever love me?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:39 PM
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I care for disabled and elderly folks. It's only a 6 month course (at least when i took it). During my second practicum which was in a hellish care home, I prepared a body for transfer to the funeral home. It was basically what your mom did. I cleaned the body. I will say, walking into the room for the first time and seeing the body was HORRIFYING. I just thought they'd look asleep. Not even close. They were sitting up in bed (it was a hospital bed, so the head of the bed was up), and their eyes…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:32 PM
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He'd agree with 99% of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:11 PM
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My husband is the same height as me. It works perfectly for us. I never thought about his height until I started spending way too much time online.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:00 AM
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So men love sex, not women. I figured.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:54 AM
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This guy had a chokehold on 11 year old me😂😂 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:43 PM
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My boss, a man, was going off about how masculine and dangerous JD was at that meeting with zelensky. He said he'd never want to cross a man like that. He looked so powerful, blah blah blah. All I'm thinking is wtf. He looks like a chubby adult toddler that maybe has a hormone imbalance (too much estrogen). Imo, he's a he's not masculine at all, and is fact, quite pathetic looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:22 PM
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Puppies/kittens are seen as innocent little angel babies that can do no harm. Even ugly puppies and ugly kittens (I'm thinking of that famous kitten Wisp from tiktok). There is a vulnerable innocence that is part of their charm which makes the ladies want to love and protect them. Men don't have any of this. Quite the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:15 PM
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Liar liar pants on fire👖🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:42 PM
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Ehhh, short broke kings can be hot af. A guy making his entire personality about a breeding kink manifesto? Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:40 PM
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It sounds like she's into romance, not horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:30 PM
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Speak for yourself, lady. I think guys get confused because we aren't a hive mind. I've gone on countless dates with guys I thought were ugly. I've fallen in love with a guy I originally thought was unattractive and had my heart obliterated by him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:50 PM
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I simply would never date a 'reformed' player, nor a man who had slept around a lot. I never did hookups and would only date/marry someone with similar values. If he tried it once and hated it, then maybe. Otherwise, hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:50 AM
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The relationship would definitely be dead because not only does he not trust me, he thinks I'm a despicable human being capable of horrific acts (cheating and lying to him about the paternity). It's not wholly about trust. It's about him believing I'm capable of heinous deceit. With all that said, I'm severely codependant and would never leave my husband, so I'd allow the test so long as he accepted that when the results came back showing he's the father, I'm never washing another dish, never va…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:26 PM
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This was from 3 months ago. He didn't care then and he doesn't care now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:10 AM
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Wow, it's like we are completely separate people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:50 AM
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Because women are called shallow terrible evil awful people if they reject guys they aren't attracted to, even from their peers. At least that's how it was for me. So i thought if I rejected them for that reason, I was a POS.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:25 AM
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37 by FAR.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 10:12 PM
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Why not both? Younger me made the mistake of prioritizing stability and would date hideous men. Whenever I'd have sex, I'd feel a deep sense of shame and disgust. Then, as I got older, I realized I gotta stop settling. I met all sorts of nice guys, but none I was attracted to until I met my husband who is so fucking hot in my eyes. I will say, I did meet one guy that I wasn't initially attracted to that i really liked. Fell deeply in love and he left me for another women, go figure. Another remi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 10:10 PM
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This makes me sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 09:59 PM
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Your responses are so weird. If you don't care that I don't understand your point or why it should matter, then don't respond. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 06:20 PM
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I do believe the only one triggered here is you. You're absolutely losing it, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 06:14 PM
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You mistake criticism for caring. People who say she ruined herself, is ugly, has daddy issues, is broken, etc, are judgemental pieces of shit and you will never convince me otherwise. You can not be attracted to someone and still be kind. However, the people who aren't attracted to tattoos typically aren't. Take you, for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 06:12 PM
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And, yet, you're incapable of explaining and resort to insults. Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 06:05 PM
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This is so fucking strange. I know you think your opinion is superior to mine, which is why you laugh and mock. It's to belittle me, but I just think this behavior is weird and unhinged, and honestly, really pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:48 PM
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He is quite blessed. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:42 PM
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Pardon me for not thinking it's hilarious to be mocked just because I don't share your taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:39 PM
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I think any woman who wants a man is damaged in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:34 PM
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So by your logic, literally every rule is arbitrary because humans decided on it? Stealing, trespassing, hygiene, personal space just meaningless because society collectively agreed they’re important? That’s nonsense. Rules exist because they serve a purpose. They prevent chaos, set boundaries, and keep people from acting like feral animals. No one wants someone jerking off in their house. It’s not some deep philosophical debate, it’s just basic human decency. If your argument boils down to “wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:32 PM
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My husband is 5'6. I'm stable and would never be caught dead at a party. My mental status, however, is questionable. He does seem to like that about me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:24 PM
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Can you explain to me exactly what your point is and why it should matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:19 PM
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Why? What's funny? Can you genuinely not comprehend that someone could have different preferences than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:18 PM
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Rules aren’t arbitrary just because you personally don’t understand them. Social norms exist for a reason because they prevent conflict and maintain order in shared spaces. The logic is simple: people don’t want others doing things in their homes that make them uncomfortable. That’s not random, that’s cause and effect. By your reasoning, not pissing on someone’s couch is an arbitrary rule too. But no, it’s just basic respect. If you need a written law to tell you not to jerk off in someone elses…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:17 PM
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I've gone my whole life having ignorant men say they don't believe my lived experience. Line up and join the club. With that said, your feelings don't change the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:08 PM
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People don’t need a formal rule or logical proof to recognize that some things are inappropriate in shared spaces. It’s not about universal logic, it’s about respecting the implicit boundaries of being in someone else’s home. You wouldn’t need a written rule to know not to shower in a stranger’s house or sleep in their bed uninvited, even if it’s physically possible. Masturbation is a private act, and most people don’t want it happening in their home, even if they never find out. It’s about impl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:51 PM
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I don't know why you're laughing. Seems like a strange thing to do. Are you okay? Do you need help?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:45 PM
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To me, she's hotter for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:31 PM
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Sure, women CAN be loved for who they are, just like men. They just may never find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:19 PM
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It seems very logical to me not to masturbate in someone elses house because there are invisible boundaries one does not cross. I see this as one of them, but I'm rather rule bound and I've learned that I see things VERY black and white. I think it's something you do alone in the privacy of your own home. End of story. Period. I was actually having a very similar discussion with my husband recently. He is getting a vasectomy soon, and obviously afterwards there will be multiple tests to see if h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:15 PM
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Not my cup of tea but I loved him in Sons of Anarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:07 PM
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I'm almost certainly autistic... If I found out people were diddling themselves in my bathroom. I'd think they are amoral animals with no self-control.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:59 PM
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She's hot, but only to a certain demographic that doesn't include conservatives and judgemental pieces of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:54 PM
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I never said explicitly stated I don't want to be kissed on the first date. However, I would make it very clear I want to take things EXTREMELY slow and that if he's hoping for sex on the first, second, third, or even fourth date, it's not gonna happen. We are talking months down the line. I think a LOT of men took that as a challenge or that I was bluffing for some reason. Definitely the guys who were likely just looking for sex, pushed my boundaries. However, there was my husband who didn't ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:16 PM
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Explain to me why I should care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 01:54 AM
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As much as you want, but you have to marry her and you can never divorce or abandon her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:50 PM
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Explain please. I'm not understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:49 PM
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Some ladies might not mind him there... https://preview.redd.it/j45caqa3rrle1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6d6bd2e7c2ecdfac6ef93cf80aa595aeba45532c
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:48 PM
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This dude will be in the women's changeroom as well. https://preview.redd.it/8ni2er0uqrle1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a9b6e1dfd573c33a1da4e5b90c435a1730d45ac2
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:46 PM
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He will be in the changeroom with your daughter. https://preview.redd.it/fy0yp1hlqrle1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=606247a9a23b9f4f09e5a28eedd8cbd2eb51a5b5
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:45 PM
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She is exactly the same as you. Same interests, same hobbies, same flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:38 PM
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I wouldn't date any version of myself. So I'm just curious what dudes think.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:37 PM
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Q4M: Would you date the female version of yourself? She is exactly the same as you. The only difference is she's a woman and is attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:28 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/r0tmewuxlrle1.png?width=1080&format=png&auto=webp&s=69d1ca8948cc3b82cd09dad7e1c299033c15d38e
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:19 PM
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At the same time, you'll have ultra masculine trans men scaring the shit out of cis women in the change rooms. Like your daughter is changing at the pool, and this dude (pic posted below since it won't attach) walks in. Are you automatically going to assume they are woman? Because according to conservatives, this is a woman since they were born with a vag.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:19 PM
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Not according to the the teacher who witnessed it, the principal, or my parents (obviously I know better now). When it all happened, they brought me into the principals office with the main aggressor. We were seated facing each other from across the room. They asked me if he did anything wrong. They asked me if he should be in trouble. Obviously with him staring daggers at me, and with him and his friends just having pulled down my pants and underwear, I was afraid of him. I didn't know what he'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:53 PM
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Neither of us actually think he's short. He's 5'6", the same as me, but other men constantly say he is. He doesn't make 6 figures, so again, according other men, he's broke. I'm not virtue signalling, I'm being sarcastic and poking fun at idiots with small brains, because according to their logic, he is incredibly undesirable, yet here I am, utterly obsessed with him. As for how he feels about it, he couldn't give less of fuck because he knows my sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:43 PM
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I would think it's completely unnecessary, but ultimately wouldn't care unless it comically large... in which case I would have likely never gone on a date with him in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:35 PM
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I try not think about it all too negatively because everything led me to where I am now. I good life with a great husband which reddit would say I don't deserve... which is undeniably true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:32 PM
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Yes! I can relate to some extent. I grew up constantly hearing boys making fun of girls ugly/saggy boobs and the horrors "meat curtains," etc. Guys would follow me home from school, throw food on me, shove me around while telling me to kill myself because I'm so ugly. They'd say dumb things like "Take your mask off, it's not Halloween anymore." When I was 14 a group of boys at school pulled down my pants and underwear and would go on to make fun of my "ugly muff" for YEARS, like well into high s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:28 PM
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I say, "Most men won’t harm kids" You say, "the whole "all men are rapists and child molesters" is just some femcel shtick..." Just because you prioritize feelings over facts, doesn't mean I will or that anybody should. I'm sorry you got so emotional and upset over nothing. Maybe next time give yourself time to cool down and actually READ what someone is saying before tapping the comment button. I know strong emotions can be overwhelming, but I have faith in you!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:09 PM
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Sorry, I should have said ALL men, not necessarily childless men. Single moms absolutely need to be cautious when dating, and the statistics prove it. This isn't paranoia considering children living with a mom’s boyfriend are 50 times more likely to die from inflicted injuries than those with both biological parents, according to research. The Cinderella Effect is real. Studies have shown that kids living with a stepfather or unrelated male are 100 times more likely to be abused than those with …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:33 PM
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I was sexually abused as a child and had access to porn before I could even read. I don't remember a time where I didn't have urges. By 10ish I was consumed with it, but I desperately wanted love and protection from a boy/man, which unfortunately meant that desperation led to a hell of a lot more abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:43 PM
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Thank you for reminding me that men have no morals, boundaries, or conscience. Sometimes, I forget they are subhuman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:35 PM
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I'd imagine most women don't think single childless men are obligated to date single moms. Most women, especially those with children, are aware of the statistics. It is not safe to date childless men since they are way too frequently just trying to sexually abuse the children. So, lots of women will not date when the children are young simply because they want to protect said children. If my husband ever died, I'd only date a single dad who had a very amicable relationship with his ex. Like the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:00 PM
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I chose the best. I'm married to an amazing man. Are you married to an amazing woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:50 PM
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I don't know about this. I'm a bi woman, but if a man ever tried to kiss me on the first date, it was basically an automatic rejection from me. Don't like it. Hate it. Extreme turn off. I don't know you, get lost. I could always feel it in the air, how he's trying to get closer to me, or lean his face near and I'd be viscerally repulsed even if I had liked him. The worst is when I'd turn my head away and then they'd grab my chin, thinking they were all sexy, trying to force the kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:49 PM
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Okay, then 99% of men are rapists. This has been my experience with countless men I've talked to or have known. You guys are the problem. End of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:27 PM
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If you genuinely think 99% of them behave this way, then you're the problem. Not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:22 PM
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You do realize someone can be attracted to you AND think you're husband material, right? The two aren't mutually exclusive. With that being said, I've dated lots of guys who I thought would make amazing husbands... but not for me since the chemistry wasn't there. They are all married and have kids now. I also found the perfect husband that I'm very attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:21 PM
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The same applies to men. All men are husband material until he's not. All men have the potential to be trashy, and some scratch that itch. The problem is men because they complain about shitty women all the time but continue to choose the same types of women over and over even when you try to warn them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:19 PM
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Respectable women probably aren't going to give it up right away. So what men want are trashy/toxic women, often with low self-esteem, who will tolerate being treated like shit. Then these same men wonder why she cheated. Also, it sounds like what you're saying is men don't want an LTR, they want an easy lay, which, again, will likely be with extremely problematic women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:12 PM
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So what you're saying is men don't want a nice, safe, humble woman. They prefer to go after extremely trashy/toxic women that will do this to them. Maybe the problem isn't women. Maybe men just need to choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:51 PM
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I can only speak for myself and why I'd lose interest. Why I'd back off. I didn't like him or I thought he was so out of my league I'd get my heart obliterated. That simple. If she shuts down suddenly and practically ghosts, imo, it's more likely you did something to offend or really turn her off. There's been times where everything has gone really well, then the guy kissed me and it's was just horrible and gross, and I'd know I'd never subject myself to this again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:51 PM
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That's not back or chest hair. This neck hair or a beard... There's no way back or chest hair should be springing out of this, and honestly, i can see why people would think it's unprofessional if it was. https://preview.redd.it/6sskk895nele1.jpeg?width=1620&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=787dfc25b65cea019b9799851bf617f16fe06107
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:43 AM
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Yeah, this just seems like basic grooming. Why would you have visible back hair at a government job? That doesn't even make sense. Put on some clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:46 AM
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I've repeatedly said men care more. I do not think women are conditioned to care about mens body hair at all, not even a little. Nobody is telling men having chest hair makes them dirty. Nobody is telling men having little chest hair is feminine and undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:32 AM
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Are you just blatantly ignoring what I've been saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:21 AM
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I said those preferences for women weren't as prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:00 AM
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Feel free to prove to me that the vast majority of men prefer a bush, leg and armpit hair. Somehow I doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:57 AM
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Weirdly self conscious? We are relentlessly told we are dirty, disgusting, ugly, repulsive, etc if we so much as have stubble on our legs or pits. I can remember being in elementary school and having boys mock my hairy legs. I was shaving before I reached double digits.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:55 AM
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tbf, they are told they are nasty, disgusting, dirty, etc if they don't,
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:51 AM
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That makes literally no sense. Does that mean it's gay when a man sleeps with a woman with hairy legs? Does that mean if a man shaves his legs, he is now a woman, so any man who sleeps with him is perfectly straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:50 AM
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Nope. I'm saying women, by and large, don't shame men when their body hair doesn't meet their preferred preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:48 AM
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More like a visceral repulsion to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:45 AM
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The women I've talked to about it have only been positive, even if they shaved themselves. Men... I've only had positive conversations with my husband. I could be as hairy as beast and he wouldn't bat an eye, whereas other guys would shudder at the sight of leg hair or armpit stubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:44 AM
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99% of the men I've dated had a problem with it. Even the ones who said they didn't mind sure acted like they did, like saying its fine but the won't go down on me. My husband is the only one who couldn't give less of a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:21 AM
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I'd think you're boring. I'd be fascinated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:19 AM
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I've known too many.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:18 AM
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Must be exhausting being this fragile.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:15 AM
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My husband has a very hairy chest and stomach, it pokes out of the top of any shirt he wears (besides a dress shirt). Literally not one woman has ever commented negatively on it. Nobody has ever said anything about it. He's never shaved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:12 AM
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Yikes. That's fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:55 AM
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Okay, then why are men so disgusted by women with body hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:54 AM
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LOVE IT! But not if he's better than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:52 AM
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What would you call men who are attracted to pre-pubescent characteristics?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:50 AM
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When I think bald, I think old af men. But then again, 99% of babies I've known, including my own, were born with hair. Can't say the same for old decrepit men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:48 AM
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Sounds like someone is triggered. Might I ask why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:43 AM
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I wouldn't say any of those groups are nearly as prevalent as men liking completely hairless women. Also, I rarely see women shaming men for having chest hair, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:42 AM
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Wtf. So a lot of men have pedophilic tendencies?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:36 AM
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Lmao, how in the heck is body hair perceived as masculine when everybody has it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:34 AM
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Sure, but WHY? Why doesn't it look as hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:31 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:27 AM
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I don't get it? Is that mens preferred age bracket?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:27 AM
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Why are men so scared of women with body hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:20 AM
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Not my problem if you don't understand much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:02 AM
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The better question is why should I care if you think what I say has value or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:00 AM
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LMAO. That's not how language works. I would never assume if someone was talking about people they've met, they meant literally everyone in the whole wide world. That would be incredibly stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:57 PM
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That implies I've never MET a woman who... It only implies exactly what I said. I'm quite clearly talking about women I've MET.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:14 PM
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When i see the girls he compliments and visibly lusts after, I'm like an old troll in comparison. So, forgive me for having my doubts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 10:55 PM
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I have no desire to have any extra communication with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 10:53 PM
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I genuinely don't think he is, considering the flashing question and the wolf whistles have been in front of his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 10:52 PM
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I genuinely don't get this vibe from him at all. He's said more brazen things to me about a younger, much hotter employee and wanting to see her in a bikini.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 10:50 PM
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I need interpretations from men on my situation. My boss (a man) said two very interesting things to me the other day. When I first got there, he told me he always feels relieved when I walk in the door and it always feels so safe when I'm there. (What does this mean for man? How does a woman make a man feel safe?) Later that same day, half an hour or so before my shift ended, he asked me if I've ever flashed anyone before... I don't think he wants to see my tits because he's only shown interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 10:44 PM
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This is true. I'm not allowed to use my husband's set.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 10:35 PM
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Quote me where I said women NEVER have violent outbursts. I'd assume men deserve the same treatment women do, and according to men around here, everything that a man does to woman is her fault, even if he rapes and/or kills her. She should have chosen better, etc. Would that logic not also apply to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:15 PM
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I genuinely have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:53 PM
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Women are raped and/or murdered every day and told it's their fault. I don't see why this wouldn't be yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:52 PM
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Oh, I've not yet experienced this. With guys, even friends, I'd have to plan everything and come up with all the ideas, or we'd just be sitting there doing nothing. Never met a guy who I'd consider open either. I've found I'd have to get to know guys a really long time for them to talk about genuinely personal things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:49 PM
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Wow, I hope you learned to choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:04 AM
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I didn't say women don't have anger issues, but even when they do, it is rarely like men, who frequently get so mad about some bullshit thing they slaughter children at school for funsies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:03 AM
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My husband is a warehouse manager and has never had to deal with unruly women. The only woman he's had to talk to about behavior is because she stunk. He had to send her home it was so bad (it was an ongoing issue). She came back wet and smelled worse. He had send her home again and tell her she has to use soap this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:01 AM
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If I'd have been a man, I'd have actually gotten help for my medical issues instead or being told by countless doctors that it's all in my head, resulting in the complete destruction of my bladder. Even now, I know I have GERD and struggle to swallow food and easily choke, but doctors have told me it's just anxiety. I can't swallow anything without water behind it. It simply won't go down. But it's anxiety!! I wouldn't have lost my whole family if I'd been a man because my step dad never would h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:55 AM
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How do I activate this easy mode? I'm ready for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:56 AM
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Are they more easily annoyed? Because I've never met a woman who punches walls or screams at screens. Men go into a dangerous violent rage over nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:55 AM
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In what capacity?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:19 PM
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I'm not all that concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:34 PM
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People who are conservative and/or Christian (or part of almost any religion) are evil. I think people who hunt for fun are psychopaths and evil. I think people who squish bugs in their house instead of catch and release are despicable heartless people. Parents who spank their kids are evil pieces of shit who don't love their kids. People who circumcise their sons should he in prison for gential mutilation. They are evil. I can't fathom anyone having a conscience and choosing to do that. You hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:33 PM
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Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:25 PM
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Yes, he did. How is it a coping mechanism? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:25 PM
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Liking takes a lot of thought, action, and emotional energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:24 PM
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This is how I feel about everyone. In my experience, men are no less fake, bitchy, or cliquey.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:22 PM
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Tbf, 99% of the time, out of sight out of mind. Also, I find liking someone takes a hell of a LOT more energy because then I have to pretend to human and I can't say or do anything embarrassing. Plus there are just so many steps to remember and to many ways to fuck up. If I don't like someone, I simply never have to think about them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 12:26 AM
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I’m a proud feminist, but I’ve got this insane flaw... once I actually get to know most women, I fucking hate them. I can't stand them. I feel literal rage in their presence. Before anyone gets excited, no, I don’t discriminate, I feel this way about most men too. I very much see things in black and white. Good or Evil. If you have even one trait that goes against my morals, congratulations, you’re now an irredeemable piece of shit in my eyes. There’s no trial, no appeal, just a straight one-way…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 12:17 AM
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I'm being serious. I was around 25/26 at the time. I thought they were good pics, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:02 PM
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Significantly better for a lot of people. Religious people, especially men, would likely hate me. Not sure how long they'd let me live.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:52 PM
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I've had guys I've met online say something like that. They thought I was ugly in my pictures, but gave me a chance. They told me I'm way better looking in person. One guy said he was super relieved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:48 PM
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No, it indicates respect. I'm not going to waste time on a man who doesn't respect me. I'm not going to waste time on a man who is so broken he fucks around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:55 PM
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I'm a woman and find other women creepy all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:38 PM
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This whole post is built on the assumption that women are dumb, insecure, and easily manipulated. The entire argument hinges on the idea that women only maintain attraction if they feel like they have to "work for" a man, however, women are not mentally fragile, competition-obsessed creatures who only stay in relationships out of insecurity. Most healthy, adult relationships are built on trust, emotional connection, and actual compatibility, not some dumb psychological game where one person has …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:36 PM
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If my husband didn't promise fidelity, I never would dated him, let alone married him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:23 PM
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This was definitely an issue for me and even led to the deterioration of a few relationships. After the deed I'd be so full of shame and disgust that it would bleed onto my partner. I'd feel shame and disgust for being with him and doing those things. A part of me would hate him for wanting sex or pressuring me for it. My husband is the first guy I slept with where I wasn't immediately repulsed by my actions. It was actually the first time i felt love for a guy during sex instead of a deep sense…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:49 PM
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If any part of him willingly touched her, everything I previously wrote still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:55 PM
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I'd never propose, but always wanted to be married. I knew I'd marry my husband after the first date, or at least I desperately prayed for it. He proposed on our one year anniversary. I showed him lots of rings I liked (hinting I wanted him to propose), but also I full out said I wanted to marry him. He moved in with me after like a month together and we were pretty quickly talking about marriage and kids one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:50 PM
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Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:46 PM
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I would never have a physical relationship with him ever again since I'm germaphobe and he'd be forever contaminated. I don't know if I'd even be able to kiss him. I also think I'd be disgusted with him in multiple ways. I'd always feel incredibly betrayed and disrespected.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:45 PM
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I could literally never feel like this about anyone instantly. Emotionally I have to feel safe. I can't get turned on unless the person feels utterly and completely safe. Like, not just physically, but I have to trust that they care about and respect my feelings, would never hurt or betray me, etc. I can find people attractive, but there are plenty of attractive people I'd never find arousing. However, I can look at someone and know whether or not, should they be a safe person, if it would be po…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:39 PM
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Yeah, but what if they don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:20 AM
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Yes. 2 or 3, but our son is most certainly autistic. I think it's quite likely the next kid would be as well, and if they were just like our son, that would be great, but our fear is that they'll be severely disabled. We are setting our lives up so if our son has significant issues long term, we can support him indefinitely, but we can't afford that with two... nor do we want that life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:09 AM
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tbf, I'm a woman and have never experienced this and have no fucking clue how it's done. I'm equally jealous. I have people I know, but I haven't had an actual friend, like someone I can text or hang out with since high school. I'm 35. My husband is my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 12:58 AM
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My husband is getting a vasectomy at the end of March. I don't know why it makes me so sad. I'm terrified of having another kid, but at the same time I always pictured having a big family.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 12:56 AM
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I bought my condo for 202,000 in 2015ish. Sold it for 475,000 in 2022ish. Had I not bought then, I never would have gotten into the market because prices sky rocketed. Had I wanted to live in a conservative hell hold, I could have sold that condo and bought a house outright, but we stayed here because I'm not a masochist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 12:54 AM
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Men also create entire countries where women can't leave their house without a male chaperone or see a doctor or show their face, etc etc etc. Hell, there are still 20 countries that allow men to marry their rape victims to escape criminal prosecution. Remind me again how men are oppressed...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 09:21 PM
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I'm not opposed to sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:43 PM
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Huh, you know, I never really thought about this. My dad was super active in my life as a little girl, we'd go on camping trips, road trips, etc, but now that I think about it, it all stopped around 10ish. He even took me to the pool every weekend, but that stopped as well around that time. I'd beg and plead for him to spend time with me, he'd often promise we'd go find a new river to swim in, or go camping, but when the date arrived, he acted like he couldn't remember ever making those plans wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:41 PM
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These are 2 extremes. Neither of which are particularly attractive (imo, which should count for nothing).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:10 PM
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I wish this were true. It would be easier to get rid of certain people in my life. I also wouldn't exhaust all funds and forgo my health to take care of the ones I love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:20 PM
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I've never met a woman who left a relationship because they were bored. Either he cheated or he treats her like a mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:17 PM
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My husband has NOT gotten this memo. Luckily for him, no man could ever be better than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:16 PM
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I like you. You're nice. But just so you know, telling me not to overthink something is akin to telling me not to breath or eat. I gotta. It's my brains basic biological makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:59 AM
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I'm in canada, so it's probably way different. He spends most of his day in the principals office with an EA since that's the quietest area with the least stimulation. PT, OT, etc the school isn't involved in. That's all stuff I have to pay for and is an incredibly long wait list. We are on a waitlist for an evaluation (which will cost anywhere from 3000-6000). I could get a free one, but that would take YEARS to get in. This will hopefully be less than a year wait. He couldn't get on the list u…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:57 AM
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I was never loved until I met my husband. Significantly the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:38 AM
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Pull through what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:35 AM
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I think what doesn't make sense to me is that he could do so much better. I've always felt like I'm dragging him down. For every good quality I have, I have a dozen that are shit. He could've married someone who wasn't half as neurotic and was twice as hot, easy peasy, but chose me. It makes me sad. I think about this great life he could have had and it legit makes me tear up. When I ask him why he loves me, he shrugs and says I just do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:35 AM
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I have no idea what a PDDNOS is. I don't even think pediatric neurologist is a thing in my area unless there are some serious dire circumstances. I had an IEP growing up because they thought I was dumb and problematic. No diagnosis necessary. My kid can't be in a classroom. He needs an EA with him constantly. He's sent home frequently. He gets over stimulated and goes berserk. He has no social awareness. He's 6 and still can't tell the difference between boys and girls. It's all the same to him.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:27 AM
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My son is almost certainly autistic. Everyone is about 99% sure he is, including his school. He has an IEP and whatnot. Can't be in the classroom. It's a whole thing. Anyways, none of this is the point. I've been reading so much about autism lately and learning a lot. It's been very enlightening, but also deeply concerning because I'm fairly certain I'm autistic. It's crazy. My life has being fucked and shit in so many ways. This answers so many questions about why I am the way I am... buuut I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:09 AM
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Yes, women give this same advice. I've talked to women about my situation, and the typical advice is to spoil him, make him every meal, give him massages, dress sexy, send flirty texts, send sexy pics, etc etc. My husband, 99% of the time is willing to fuck, however, he will NEVER initiate... ever. It simply will not happen. No amount of talking about it has changed a thing. There was one time I figured he will get desperate after some point, so I'll just wait. We did nothing sexual for over 3 m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:50 PM
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This hasn't been the case for me. I've been cheated on a lot. The one thing they all had in common was saying they wanted a LTR, marriage, kids, etc. Some I was with for over a year before they cheated. They were all normal dudes that 99% of people wouldn't have suspected would do that kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:38 PM
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No idea what specifically you're asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:10 PM
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Hell no. He's a king, not a peasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:32 PM
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Yeah, but he'll cheat and emotionally neglect her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:44 PM
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I'm scared of a lot of men, but not my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:32 PM
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I just googled Bellingham and it looks AMAZING, especially the parks. My dad used to live in Neah Bay and he's said for years that he wishes he never left. Could be way different nowadays though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:04 AM
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I genuinely think it's hideous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:50 PM
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Why is this a contest? Why are we comparing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:49 PM
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I'm on the west coast in Canada. It's quite similar to Washington. I've driven through there to Seattle and loved it. If you love trees and rain, it's the place to be. I'm the sort to just love looking at the mountains. They are gorgeous. If you end up on the coast, like in Port Angeles, we can wave to each other lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:48 PM
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Explain to me what your point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:42 PM
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I feel like beards and tattoos for women is like blonde hair and big boobs for men. I'm never gonna look like Sydney Sweeney or whatever, nor do I want to, so I don't try. I'm just me and that's as good as it gets. There's all sorts of hot guy looks. Some women drool over well groomed men in suits. A lot like a rough around the edges blue collar kind of dude. Some women like nerds. Some women like pretty boys. Some women like women. Like, I'm of the belief the skies the limit when it comes to at…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:41 PM
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Men constantly mistake their fucked emotions for logic. I suspect that could be happening right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:24 PM
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Huh? It was a basic example. Lots of people still correlate tattoos with degeneracy. Look at how men around here talk about women with tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:15 PM
2

This is embarrassing. I could never be so simple-minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:00 PM
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Are you able to understand the difference between "looks like trouble," and "is trouble?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:41 PM
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Just my personal observation. Bad boys are exciting and unpredictable, and some crazy ladies like the drama of all that. Kinda like a drug, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:33 PM
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No, because those are completely different things. A dude can be fully tatted and look mean af, but be really sweet and gentle. He could be emotionally available and respectable. A certain look doesn't equal personality. The owner of a shop I go to is fully tatted head to toe and his daughter always comes to visit. He was telling me about how his daughter is having a valentines party with her girlfriends and he was helping her buy stuff for her charcuterie board. He's a good guy. But walking dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:27 PM
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I've never met a woman who went for legit bad boys who wasn't at the very least bi polar or like BPD. Something is always wrong with the wiring up there when women do this. They are attracted to the drama and toxicity. Keeps the dopamine flowing or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:19 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:16 PM
1

When and where do I go to cash in this privilege? I want flowers and shiny things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:09 PM
2

I never shave. Itchiness and cysts from ingrown hairs are not worth it. I trim when shit starts getting crazy. I imagine lots of men would say it's gross and unattractive, but my husband couldn't give less of a shit. I rarely even shave my legs in the winter. He says he doesn't even notice. I'd prefer trimmed since it just looks better with nice underwear, but I'm ultimately too lazy to bother most of the time. If my husband had a preference, then maybe, but probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:07 PM
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I think crazy women love bad boys. Whereas a lot women love good boys who look like bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:58 PM
2

Aww, you're the one that got away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:23 PM
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Which one do I relate to the most? Radical feminism. But to hell with TERFs. I view trans women as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:16 PM
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I could get all "woke" about this and say pregnancy centers should be focused on pregnant people. While, by and large, it's women who get pregnant, so do some trans men and intersex people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:12 PM
3

America is fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:59 PM
1

I really want to feel what sex is like for a man since they seem to go crazy without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:31 PM
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There are plenty of jealous women who don't want their man to have any options but themselves. There's also women like myself who couldn't give less of a fuck what other women think. I've dated men where I was their only option, I've dated men who had plenty of options. I've dated men who were somewhat in between, like my husband. It is something I've quite literally never thought about. The only thing that matters is he only has eyes for me. If he gives other women attention, I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:20 PM
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There are men in wheelchairs with shriveled limbs who find women to marry, fuck, and to willingly be their caretaker. Lower odds doesnt mean impossible odds. However, giving up and deciding to be a terrible and insufferable person shows exactly why no woman wanted him to begin with. He's not only unbearable to be around, but he's genuinely a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:14 PM
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I never measured any. I've seen small, medium, and big. I have a strong preference for medium but would choose small over big. I dated a guy with a big one (unknowingly until i eventually saw it). Once we started doing it, I knew I had to dump him. It was incredibly painful. There was no fucking way I'd ever adjust, nor would I subject myself to that kind of misery for the rest of my life. It was a shame because he practically worshipped the ground I walked on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:05 PM
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Women aren’t rejecting you because of hypergamy. They’re rejecting you because you radiate bitterness, resentment, and entitlement, and nothing is more unattractive than that. If you truly believe no one will ever love you, it’s not because you’re ugly or poor. It’s because you’ve chosen to be the most miserable, self-defeating version of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:55 PM
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I wish I was😭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:10 PM
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On the bright side, you've got a retirement plan. Mine is death😭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:51 PM
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I can look at someone and notice if they are attractive or not, but that doesn't make me sexually attracted to someone. I'm not sexually attracted to any of my exes. I also think my husband is the hottest guy I've ever been with. I disliked him at first and was not sexually attracted, I thought he was an asshole. But through some group events, I found out otherwise and became incredibly attracted. He no longer has abs or arms and legs of steal, he even has a bit of a belly now, but I'm still unb…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:44 PM
1

Good looking guys can still be creepy. I've met plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:39 PM
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I think shitty low class women might be competitive, but I've never witnessed it or known anyone who's dealt with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 01:34 AM
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Countless men are oppressed in various ways, but not because of their sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:23 PM
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Nah, he'd have the perfect voice for audio books.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:42 PM
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Literally countless thousands of women are. I kinda get it when I hear him speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:44 AM
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He's been all over my tiktok for the past couple of days with women stitching saying is it just me, or is he kinda hot. Then they get thousands of comments saying he's hot. I have no freaking clue who he is. But yeah, once he starts talking, he's kinda hot. It's the voice and the presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:43 AM
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What is it about this guy that makes women thirst so hard for him? Is he a Chad? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:16 AM
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I still have no clue what you're whining about or what your point is. If you want me to debate something, you gotta give me something to go off, but I'm yet to figure out wtf you're bitching about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:47 PM
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Nobody mentioned any of the crap you're whining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:58 PM
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It always boggles my mind when conservatives say men like this should be forced to use the women's washroom. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:40 PM
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Fact. The good men in that age range will be taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:39 PM
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Yeah. I'm surprised he got any.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:35 PM
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I wouldn't consider either or those things a need. Lots of people are happy without. Many people don't want either. A need is universal, and you will die without. No one can survive without food, air, or water. Those are needs. Human touch and connection are a want for some, which can be beneficial, but it's not a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:34 PM
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Countries with legalized sex work that lack proper regulation and enforcement may see issues, but the solution is better oversight, not banning autonomy. Blaming feminism for harming women is just a tired deflection. The incel crisis is fueled by entitlement and resentment, not women's fight for agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:18 AM
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Feminism doesn't promote porn. it promotes bodily autonomy, which includes the right to participate in sex work if women choose to. The harm you're referring to stems from exploitation and lack of regulation, not from feminism advocating for consent and choice. Maybe direct your outrage at the systems enabling harm, not the movement fighting for agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:14 AM
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Conservatism being against porn doesn't change the fact that it often perpetuates repression, not solutions. Plus, studies show that conservative states often have higher rates of pornography consumption. As for Feminism, it isn’t promoting doing porn. It’s advocating for women to make their own choices... something you seem oddly uncomfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:07 AM
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So you don’t know of any male advocacy movement promoting porn consumption? That’s because patriarchy doesn’t need a movement, it’s already normalized male entitlement to sex. Feminism, on the other hand, promotes choice, not exploitation. Big difference, but nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:55 AM
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Maybe the real issue is your need to shame everyone instead of addressing the complexities of consent and choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:25 AM
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It’s not feminism handing people a subscription. Maybe focus on personal responsibility instead of pointing fingers at women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:09 PM
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Right, because intersectional feminism (advocating for women of all races, classes, and backgrounds) totally doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:07 PM
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I did this for a couple years (but lived on my own) and became chronically ill from the stress of it all. Wasn't able to work or go to school for about 5 years. Lost everything and had to give up my pets when moving in with my dad. 0/10 would not recommend
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:22 PM
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Let me get this straight... feminism, which advocates for equality, is somehow responsible for men becoming misogynists? Maybe instead of blaming women, start asking why some men can’t handle a world where women have autonomy. Imo, feminism didn’t create incels, but maybe mens inability to cope with women being treated as equals did.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:18 PM
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Genuinely curious why you think a woman will never be attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:48 PM
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How would they have less?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:44 PM
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My son probably has less 'privileges' in a lot of ways, but he also has unconditional love and support which i did not. He gets hugs and kisses which I did not. He gets parents who build his confidence instead of telling him he's too stupid and will fail, like I did. My parents always gave me a thousand reasons why I'm too dumb or inept when I wanted to do or try something, which naturally has caused lifelong horrible anxiety. Every dream I had, they squashed. I'm a shit mom in a multitude of wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:48 PM
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😂😂😂😂 We both know you're full of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:14 PM
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It's insane that you even have to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:35 PM
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Ditto. Seek help for the nonsensical misogynistic drivel that spews out of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:32 PM
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I can't take any of this delusional nonsense seriously. Genuinely, people who say crazy ass shit like this need to be locked up in a mental facility for not only their own good, but the good of the public. Absolutely insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:34 AM
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Nah, I firmly believe it's something you have to learn unless you're a psycho or narcissist, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:47 AM
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Not when it's developing, especially in children. It's a make or break situation. Help them build it, or destroy it entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:33 AM
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You definitely can. You can also easily take it away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:25 PM
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Wouldn't it be dumber to have children you don't want and/or can't afford?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:22 AM
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Then what are you even whining about? No one you know is getting spousal support. So why bitch about a nonexistent problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:51 PM
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I am genuinely concerned that you can't fathom how people, specifically wealthy men, don't like having a stay at home wife who does everything for him, so all they have to worry about is work. She takes care of everything else in his life, from groceries, to appointments, house cleaning, meals, etc. If her job is to take care of him, she should get severance pay should the job be terminated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:29 PM
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Or... and hear me out, they can do whatever the hell they want. Don't want to have the potential to pay spousal support, don't have a stay at home partner. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:25 PM
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Again, are you blind?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:26 PM
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Are you blind?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:26 AM
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Never seen this in my whole 35 years of life unless she was preggo/postpartum.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:08 AM
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I have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:35 AM
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Thanks for the laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:34 AM
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I don't. He feels like he won the lottery and tells me so every day🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:33 AM
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No, my flair is making fun of chronically online losers whose brains are so small it rattles around in their thick Neanderthal like skull. It's weird gross men who judge guys like my husband by their height and wealth. Not me. I fell in love and married the man. I also never even knew he was considered short until men told me. Also, you described my looks in my early to mid 20s. It was damn near impossible to find a LTR. I even had a near 5 year dry spell where I simply could not find a man who …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:31 AM
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Men. Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:47 AM
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If women have unrealistic standards, why do men demand virgin supermodels who are also freaks in bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:43 AM
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Gotta see a picture and a bank statement to properly answer that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:32 AM
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I don't mind the smell of weed. It doesn't bother me at all. Whereas cigarettes make me feel sick and give me a headache. Can't stand them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:17 AM
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This is NOT what homeless people look like where I'm from.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:07 AM
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Yeah, no. It's all in the face for me. I'd rather have a short man with a nice face than a tall man with an ugly face.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:27 AM
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i wouldn't go as far as to say he's ugly, but I do find him sexually repulsive. He looks like he has soft hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:26 AM
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Hell no. She's gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:55 PM
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She's pretty, he's tall, but his face is busted, so I'm gonna say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:54 PM
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Ever stop to wonder why women aren’t flocking to institutions like the military? Maybe it’s because those spaces have been historically unsafe for them. Women who join these male-dominated institutions face harassment, violence, and sabotage... not from enemies, but from the men that are supposed to have their back. Remember the first female pilots who were harassed, sabotaged, and even killed by the men who couldn’t handle having to work with women? Or the rampant sexual assault crisis in the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:58 PM
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In what world do average men not date, get married, have kids, etc? No woman I know is married to a model. They are all average dudes. Same with my husband. I have a feeling men aren't talking about average women when they bring up all this nonsense, they are talking about super hot women that date super hot guys and they are mad because those super hot women won't date them. Newsflash: Chad wouldn't have dated me either. He certainly wouldn't date me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:37 PM
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I'll pray for you 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:30 PM
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I'm uncertain how she feels about it. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:26 PM
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Have you considered therapy for your issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:43 PM
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I love tortoise shell kitties. I have 2. This is my bug eyed one. She stares into your soul. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:42 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:29 PM
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I'm going to assume it's because he's blatantly evil. He's quite literally making his first concentration camp at guantanamo bay. All his executive orders quite literally make him look like Hitler, buuuut we know Trump loves the guy and has said he wants generals like H did, so it's not really any surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:25 PM
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Funny how these 'superior' men needed centuries of laws banning women from education, property ownership, and voting to maintain their so-called dominance. Meanwhile, men commit 90% of homicides worldwide, are responsible for 95% of domestic violence and account for 73% of workplace fatalities, largely due to reckless behavior. Men have also started 98% of wars in recorded history, while women are 40% more likely to graduate from college, earn higher GPAs, and excel in fields like healthcare and…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:57 PM
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Why are you ignoring the growing evidence that prehistoric women also hunted and contributed equally to survival? The idea that women were biologically confined to gathering is outdated and rooted in the biases of researchers who couldn’t imagine societies without rigid gender roles. Oh, and as for the idea that women are only succeeding now because the system is 'helping them every step of the way' is ridiculous. Women are succeeding DESPITE still being underpaid, underrepresented, and dismisse…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:39 PM
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Sure, because centuries of excluding women from education, property rights, and the workforce obviously means men deserve all the credit for progress. Funny how the same men who supposedly built the world also built the systems that kept half the population from contributing equally. Personally, i think it’s time to stop rewriting history to make oppression look like heroism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 12:43 PM
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I mean, stastically speaking, women are better when it comes to like... not committing violent crimes and such. With that said, men are free to step away from the dating scene as well and focus on their own lives and living it to the fullest. The world would be a much safer place if men could be happy single.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 12:38 PM
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You can't brag about winning a race when half the population wasn’t even allowed on the track. And men being ‘chill’ about it? Yeah, no. The constant boasting from men saying they build and invent everything while ignoring the systemic barriers women face proves otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:04 AM
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While it's true that more liberal countries show gender differences in career choices, that's not the whole story. These patterns often reflect deeply ingrained societal norms and gender stereotypes, not an inherent lack of interest or ability. Girls and women are subtly and overtly discouraged from pursuing STEM fields from a young age, through everything from toy marketing to classroom biases. Research has shown that when educational systems and workplaces take active steps to remove these bia…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:59 AM
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The fact that men have historically had near-total control over education, resources, and decision-making power might have a little more to do with that statistic than any inherent superiority. As I'm sure you well know, for centuries, women were legally and socially barred from universities, scientific institutions, and patenting their work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 02:55 AM
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Um, everyone does? One is an engagement ring and the other is a wedding ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:35 PM
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Way too much, imo. I rarely wear my wedding and engagement ring because I'm so scared of losing or breaking them. They were under $2000 for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:32 PM
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Isn't this what cons do with brown and LGBT+ people? Like they think trans kids are pure evil, but slaughtering kids in schools is fine because guns are cool or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:42 PM
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Wouldn't they just be more likely to be bi-lingual? I know a bunch of french Canadians and they speak french at home with their kids and nothing else, but when the kids go to daycare/school, etc, it's all English. So the kids are bilingual.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:39 PM
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The fattest I'd been in years and years was when I was breast feeding. Weight fell off when I quit, thank god.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:36 PM
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He looks creepy but is obviously handsome, so like 8 an out of 10, but he is a million miles away from my type. No sexual attraction whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:33 PM
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I don't get why so many men think being safe is weak or bad. It's literally the main thing I'm attracted to. I felt it like no other when I met my husband and I immediately wanted to lock that shit down. I've always had a huge fear of abandonment. I used to be so fearful of a man cheating or leaving me for someone else. It's how all my long term relationships have ended. I had the worst pregnancy and even worse birth and things just kept getting worse from there. I remember breaking down one day…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:08 AM
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I don't get it. Is there a problem here?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:38 PM
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I've seen you around here and always love your comments. Sign me up as another one who if I won the lottery, I'd help you out. I'm in Canada. I dont know how hard it is to get in, but my husband's work gets tons of workers from the Phillipines. They usually have a few years contract where they are only allowed to work there, but can stay in Canada for as long as they are (gives you time to find a partner and settle down). If you DM me I can tell you this company. It's retail, so you don't need t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:24 PM
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At one point, he wasn't, and I would have gotten the same reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:01 PM
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She was never my step mom but I wished she was. She was infinitely better than my own mom. However, my dad treated her like shit and I'd give her proof of his cheating because I wanted her to leave him because he sucks and she could do so much better. She'd cry a lot because of how he treated her. She was so amazing and literally an angel in human form. We did not deserve her. Then she had to go and die. My step dad, on the other hand. If there's a hell, may he burn in it for all of eternity. Ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:00 PM
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Hell, even cis white women could be considered DEI hires in many fields.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 01:51 PM
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Eh. If I asked this of my husband (who is my version of a Chad), he'd be like, "Okay😃." And be perfectly content with no reciprocation if I so desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 01:47 PM
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What are you talking about? Guys making profiles asking for specific sexual favors is a dime a dozen. Nobody bats an eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 01:43 PM
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I do believe I somewhat fall into this category, granted they were all relationships. I mostly dated shy/awkward/nerdy guys (it's all I could get). A bunch were virgins. I'm patient, caring, super understanding, and tried hard to teach them. I think I slept with around 10 guys (all of which I dated) before my husband. Want to know what they all had in common in the bedroom? The inability to make me orgasm. They'd whine and complain about how long it took, their mouth hurt, their hand hurt, it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 01:10 PM
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This sounds like something straight out of hell
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 10:23 PM
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That 80% of men are unattractive stat is from data from ONE dating app (OkCupid, back in 2014), not all apps, and definitely not real life. Anyways, apps are designed for quick swipes, not meaningful connections, so of course they exaggerate shallow behavior. Also, dismissing women talking about safety as deflection is wild. Safety concerns are serious and shape how they navigate dating, both online and offline. If we’re going to have a conversation about hypergamy, let’s at least base it on mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 10:14 PM
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The chaddiest Chad to ever Chad. What a heartthrob
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:00 PM
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I've only experienced the opposite. Women doing everything while the men do nothing. My dad is the same way. Never got gifts from him. I gave on celebrating those things with my husband because it wasn't fun to be the only one to constantly give and give and give, and not even recieve, like not even on my birthday or xmas. So I don't bother like I used to. He makes up for it in other ways, so I try not to complain... too much. He's FINALLY starting to try for xmas. So the effort matters. But I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:57 PM
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Like peg him? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:52 PM
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For some reason, the tiktok algorithm has brought me thirst traps of Paul Dano. It led me down quite the rabbit hole. Women are eating that shit up. Is he a Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:51 PM
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I used to bake muffins and all sorts of treats for an ex, loved to spoil him on holidays... he cheated on me with a dude 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:49 PM
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I would rather die than look this boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:44 PM
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Trump is a known racist in the business world. So he's probably cool with it. Likely kinda wants to do it himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:53 PM
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I'm confused. I see this all the time. It even happened with me. My friend helped set me up with my husband who she was besties with at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:51 PM
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You aren't showing any evidence to your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:46 PM
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For the same reasons men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:39 PM
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I genuinely have no clue what you're asking me. Your going to have to rephrase that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:19 AM
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Yup and it did not work out. There was a guy I really liked and spilled my heart out to that I slept with pretty quickly. He ghosted right after. Never saw him again. Had to go and cry about him for months. Wasn't making that mistake again especially since I liked my husband significantly more... like astronomically more. On the first date I was completely obsessed and would have said yes if he proposed then and there. I knew if I slept with him right away and he did the same as that other guy, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:31 AM
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They find a good woman that's obsessed with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:22 AM
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I waited a month or so with my husband, who is the only man I've dated that I've been attracted to. Like EXTREMELY attracted to. He's also the longest I've ever waited. I knew it would be soul destroying if we fucked and he dumped me shortly thereafter. I needed to trust that he wouldn't do that before we got super physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:00 PM
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That was my dad's day too. He was in his 20s when the army forced him to marry the teenage girl he knocked up. At least that's the second hand story I've gotten from my mom (not the same girl). I feel sooo bad for the girl who was forced to marry him. My dad has no boundaries and is a weirdo. I asked him once how many people he's slept with. He says he has no idea, but the army doesn't count. Apparently there was just too damn many. He says I probably have a bunch of Vietnamese half siblings...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:53 PM
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I've never heard of this phenomenon. My guess is not many.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:43 PM
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Oh wow, Leave it to Beaver as historical evidence, solid research there, professor. Hate to break it to you, but TV shows and movies from the 1950s were sanitized propaganda pieces designed to sell washing machines and enforce traditional gender roles, not actual reflections of reality. Women couldn’t open bank accounts, get credit cards, or even sign contracts without a husband’s permission. But sure, Ward Cleaver helping with the dishes once in a while is a beacon of equality. And about domest…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:40 PM
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Over-dependence on validation, conflict avoidance, lack of initiative, prioritizing comfort, low emotional resilience, fear of risk-taking, decline in leadership qualities, and over-reliance on others are all reasons some might argue men are soft nowadays. Men are also avoiding fatherhood roles, live with parents longer, fear commitment & rejection, dodge financial responsibility, settle into career stagnation, pass blame, avoid hard conversations, and neglect self-improvement. Oh, and the decli…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:31 PM
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Girl, same. But for some crazy reason my man locked that shit down ASAP. I feel a little bad for him because he could have done a lot better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:11 PM
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Q4A: Do you think modern women are harder to date, or are men just too soft?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:04 PM
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I've seen ugly people have good looking kids and two hot people have hideous gremlins. Genetics are wild and always a gamble.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:00 PM
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Nope. In all my employment history, I've never had weekends off unless sick. Had my first Christmas off in years!!! Hallelujah.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:03 PM
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It's closer to the kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:00 PM
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In which way are men judged that women aren't?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 04:50 PM
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Rot on the couch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 04:47 PM
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You mean, thanks to their absent fathers...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 04:47 PM
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Oh, you mean the 'freedom' of being unable to rent an apartment because landlords wouldn’t trust a woman without a man? Or the 'freedom' of needing your dad’s or husband's permission to open a bank account before the mid-70s? Or how about teenage girls having the 'freedom' of being sent away in shame to give birth and have their baby stolen and then forced to pretend it never happened? (These are things my mom has talked in detail about when growing up) You’re sitting here bashing feminism, whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:51 PM
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Nah. This is one of the few things that wouldn't bother me. It would make me laugh because only a deeply insecure moron would tell such a bold faced lie. It would be super pathetic, and I like laughing at pathetic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:19 PM
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It’s not about someone 'waking up and deciding it was rape.' It’s about whether they were capable of giving clear, informed, and enthusiastic consent at the time. If someone’s level of intoxication impairs their judgment, consent becomes invalid. This isn’t a 'next day regret' issue, it’s a matter of whether consent was valid in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:40 PM
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Aww, it’s so cute how hard you’re trying to understand basic concepts. Let me explain it to you since critical thinking isn’t your forte. Drunk driving and consent aren’t remotely the same thing. Drunk driving involves a car, a lethal weapon. Consent is about autonomy and mutual agreement. Big difference, but I wouldn’t expect you to keep up. Legally, drunken consent isn’t always valid. If someone’s too intoxicated to make clear decisions, their consent is invalid. This isn’t up for debate, it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:14 AM
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Drunk driving and consent aren't even in the same universe, but thanks for exposing how little you understand either. It's bold of you to announce you have no understanding of consent, power dynamics, or basic logic. Anyways, driving drunk is a completely different issue because it involves a vehicle and public safety, not interpersonal consent. Consent, btw, requires clear, sober decision-making. If both parties are drunk, it's complicated, but the issue here is predators taking advantage of so…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:27 AM
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Annnd the rapist finally took the mask off. 'Zero obligation,' huh? That’s not an argument, it’s a confession.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:59 PM
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He is morbidly obese (she says hes 350lbs) and slightly unkempt. She's fit, hot, and well put together. They aren't even on the same plain of existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:10 PM
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Here's a fact: a woman being drunk doesn’t absolve predators of their responsibility. Blaming women for being victimized is not holding anyone accountable, it’s just exposing your inability to grasp basic morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:08 PM
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Are you pretending she isn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 02:28 AM
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You are responsible for not taking advantage of someone who’s drunk. You may not like that fact, but it’s a fact nevertheless. Stop using bad logic to excuse predatory behavior, it’s transparent, pathetic, and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:29 PM
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Why would we fire women for wanting to protect themselves from creeps?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:10 PM
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Predators love this logic because it lets them off the hook. Stop twisting responsibility to excuse predatory behavior, it’s transparent and gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:09 PM
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I'd suggest therapy for the unfounded fears. There might be something more serious going on mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:34 PM
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You do realize that certain words and sentences can be formed that would make it sexual harassment, right? They SHOULD be fired. It's sounds like you really want to harrass women, but you're annoyed you can't get away it, so you blame feminism and wokeness. Genuinely, wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:25 PM
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I think it's only men with sus behavior that are, in fact, threats to women who have these kind of fears. My husband has worked at a big company for like 17 years. He's a higher up manager. A lot of his best friends at work have been women. He's even baby sat their kids. At no point has he ever been afraid of false allegations and he's even dated coworkers. He's never been afraid to be alone with women or talk to women. It's a thought that has quite literally never crossed his mind. I know he si…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:17 PM
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Even if someone seems lucid, intoxication can still impair their ability to fully consent. You’re clinging to technicalities to justify predatory behavior, which says a lot about you, and none of it’s good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:44 AM
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Oh, look, a rapist mindset on full display. Being drunk absolutely impacts consent. If someone is too intoxicated to make a clear decision or even fully understand what’s happening, then it’s not consensual, period. It’s shocking I even have to explain this to someone, but here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:47 AM
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My son uses a tablet a lot and he teaches me science facts all the time. Things I've never heard of. It also taught him how to read and do math. He's 5. He yammers on about supernovas, black holes, spaghettification, and even taught me that there are a bunch of dwarf planets in our solar system, like Eris and Makemake. He just taught me this morning that one of Mars' moons is named Phobos. He talks about the Keiper Belt and all sorts of crazy shit. I'm dumb so can't teach him fuck all. Tablet al…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:13 PM
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Highly depends on the circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:06 PM
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My husband is 5'6". I'd pick him to be taller, not because I'd be more attracted to him, but because sex would be less painful for me if he had a smaller dong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:05 PM
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God forbid women feel safe and secure in society. We wouldn't want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:00 PM
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I probably know a lot better than you. I'm a woman who spends 90% of my time around women. I imagine you struggle to find even one woman to tolerate your company.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:49 PM
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I don't know any women who think like this. Only men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:46 PM
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They are literally the only people in charge. They have around 7 employees.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:45 PM
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Yeah, my bosses. It's very interesting to navigate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:40 PM
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So, being a decent thoughtful man is beta, and being a complete waste of oxygen is alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:39 PM
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I'm often present at interviews with my bosses at work. I've been here for a few years. Almost instantly, just by looking at the woman who has come for the interview, I can tell if she will be hired or not. If she's fat, they won't hire her. I've managed to convince them once to give a larger lady a chance, and they ended up loving her. We just had an interview with a lady the other day, and the second I saw her, I knew I couldn't help this lady out. She had a visible apron belly. Naturally, soo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:33 PM
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Are you a furry? I can't imagine any other context where people talk like this and take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:23 PM
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Once. Maybe twice if I didn't leave the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:28 AM
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It sounds like you haven't had any barriers except not having easy access to women who would and should hate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:16 AM
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Every pregnancy is inherently dangerous. There is no such thing as a safe pregnancy because, at any moment, something can go wrong. If a woman/girl doesn't want to take that risk, all the power to them. I had a baby (which I wanted), and it made me more pro-choice than ever. No woman should be forced to do that against her will. Only someone monstrously evil would think otherwise. Also, nobody should be forced to destroy their body, rearrange their organs, and go through what amounts to literal …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:57 PM
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Get a vasectomy, she's on BC, you wear a condom, and you pull out. Don't try to convince me she'll still get pregnant. It would be a literal act from God. How about this, you can abandon the baby once it's growing inside your body and can kill you. It doesn't matter how you see abortion. It's a horse shit opinion that nobody should take seriously. Nobody sane, at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:36 PM
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Wear a condom and pull out before ejaculation. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:18 PM
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Eh, my husband seems pretty crazy about me and I'm by no means submissive. He definitely doesn't have a mommy fetish. He's got some kinks, but it ain't that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:10 PM
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Omg, she's clueless. She has no idea what she's talking about. She's only been tattoed for 2 seconds. Once she's been in that chair for 5 hours, the adrenaline has worn off, she's swollen, and the artist starts the white highlights, have her get back to you. She will be singing a different tune. Also, the arm is easiest and least painful place to get tattooed (in my experience).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:38 PM
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Your friend is probably lying to seem tough or they have tiny tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:19 PM
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No, there is Oreo ice cream. Also cookies and cream which is basically the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:16 PM
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I have a strong feeling your projecting here. As a woman, I've quite literally never witnessed this. Too many women will make their man their whole personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:12 PM
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She'll definitely need alimony to pay for all the therapy to get over the trauma of pity fucking a man she hated for countless years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:40 PM
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I've always had cellulite, and I've had a bunch of guys reject me and/or mock me because of it. I've only had women say nice things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:42 AM
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I'm confused. You're jealous of a despicable human and a deadbeat dad? Or do you want to be cucked?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:25 PM
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I'm a mother. I have a firm belief that parents who do this never loved their child to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 02:49 PM
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Funnily enough, she would never tolerate his company for any length of time. She's closer with our step dad. I just dropped 75k to build my dad his own suite in my house. He's here until he dies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:22 PM
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I don't speak with or see my sister. I only interact with my mom because of my son. We don't talk about anything but him nor do we spend time together. This is the stuff my dad was complaining about and saying I'm unreasonable, etc. As for my dad, he lives with me. He can't afford to live on his own and he's 80.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:07 PM
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No, he's the best thing that's ever happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:03 PM
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My feelings have nothing to do with being online and everything to do with the blow up I had with my father at our lovely Christmas dinner because he constantly downplays horrific abuse he let happen to me as a kid/teen because he didn't believe me. It involves my step dad. I've basically been disowned from my mom's side of family because of it. I'm not the only person who has come forward, but we're all liars. My mom is still with this man. My sister has destroyed any possible relationship betw…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:25 AM
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The funny thing is, I didn't settle. If anything, it was the other way around. 99% of what I say about my husband online is about how amazing he is. Anyways, need a tissue for those tears?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:17 AM
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I'm sorry you're incredibly insecure and have no sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:12 AM
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It's such a struggle not to hate everyone and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:22 AM
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In my experience, if he wanted to he would. He doesn't like her enough to marry her, but keeps her around because she does all the wifey duties. He will leave when he finds someone he likes more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:12 AM
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I would respect him more than the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:10 AM
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I have the ick. I am so grossed out. I feel like creepy fucked up men get off on this shit and that's the vibe im getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:09 AM
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Which ever one I'm the most emotionally compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:07 AM
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As soon as my sister moved out, Christmas was pretty much canceled since there wasn't a point anymore. I was 12. My birthday hadn't been celebrated since I was about 16 when I met my husband when I was 27ish. I remember crying because he had ice cream and a card for me. My mom has always spent every single holiday with my sister and my step dad. I was alone for a lot of years. My dad would always be with friends. It's a lot better now that I have my own family. However, I have to make the magic …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:04 AM
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Ohhh! Did you used to have acne or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:19 PM
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So what is it? I'm confused what the accomplishment is. Applying makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:09 PM
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Men are already allowed to abandon their children. It's happens with shocking frequency. There are no laws forcing men to be an active parent. Sometimes, they are forced to contribute financially. These same laws apply to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:57 PM
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Safe haven laws are for the immediate safety of the baby. Do you understand that these laws aren't for the benefit of the mother, but in fact, the child? As for the abortion laws, I don't know if you're saying I'm wrong about the facts, or that it's wrong that these laws exist, in which case, I agree. Alabama, Arkansas, Kentucky, Louisiana, Missouri, Oklahoma, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas all have complete abortion bans that include rape and incest, even when it involves children. It's been do…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:42 PM
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Firstly, do you understand that men and women are biologically different? Cis men cannot get pregnant, they impregnate, and therefore, they have different reproductive choices. Their choice ends where they put their sperm. They need to act accordingly and wisely choose where their sperm ends up. As for rape victims, the same applies to women/girls. There are many cases where women are forced to co-parent with their rapist. Not only that, in many red states, it's illegal to abort in cases of rape…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:12 PM
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Consent to sex doesn't equal consent to pregnancy. For instance, I'd love another child, but I don't ever want to be pregnant again. Even though I want a child, if accidental pregnancy occurred, I'd potentially abort. It would be an extremely difficult decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:32 AM
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If the mom was rational and wanted us in the child's life, I'd be excited to play the role of step mom. I'd also be super happy that my kid now has sibling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:51 PM
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I don't understand how a man buying a woman a coffee on their first date is evidence of financial irresponsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:34 PM
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If a guy wants to cut women out of his personal life entirely, that’s his prerogative, but let’s not pretend it’s some grand neutral choice. It reeks of unresolved baggage or prejudice, especially if it’s framed as “decentering women.” Why not just live your life and let connections happen organically? Targeting an entire gender for exclusion is a choice rooted in bias, whether he admits it or not. Sure, he can do it, but don’t expect people to applaud or respect it if it’s coming from a place o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:50 PM
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It's honestly no surprise. I've been screaming from the rooftops for a while now how evil and deranged men are. Even if they aren't committing the acts themselves, they'll bend over backward to constantly excuse men of the violence and harm they cause women. Like you, they'll go as far as to excuse cold blooded murder as logical. I find all this hilarious because men around here always cry that women refuse to take accountability for their actions, yet men will straight up murder the mother of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 11:00 PM
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Are you seriously arguing that murder and/or poisoning is a rational response to child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:31 PM
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Yikes. This is some next level depravity. It's not shocking coming from a man, though. It's to be expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:22 PM
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Yeah, those jobs are a CHOICE. Fun facts: Statistically speaking, a woman is 6 times more likely to die from pregnancy complications than a man is to die in a workplace accident. Also, a woman is more likely to be killed by her male partner than a man is to die in a workplace accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:03 PM
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Pregnancy can kill, maim, or cause irreversible damage, which is why abortion exists as an option to preserve a woman’s health and autonomy. Trying to equate financial obligations to the physical toll and risks of pregnancy is both ignorant and dismissive of the real stakes women face. If you want to talk about fairness, start by acknowledging that biology inherently places a greater burden on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:49 PM
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Child support doesn’t rupture organs, cause permanent damage, or kill people. Comparing financial responsibility to the physical toll, risks, and life-altering impacts of pregnancy is absurd. Stop pretending they’re the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:44 PM
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Your argument boils down to asking for permission to abandon responsibility because biology gives women choices you don’t have.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:33 PM
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Men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:32 PM
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Your argument is nothing more than thinly veiled punishment for women. It's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:27 PM
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I genuinely don't understand what you're implying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:53 PM
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Nah, self defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:45 PM
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Why is it a red flag?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:57 PM
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Everyone has the capacity to become more thoughtful, confident, and self-aware. Tthose qualities have nothing to do with money, looks, or status. Sometimes people feel stuck because they’re focusing on what they lack rather than what they can offer. Self-worth doesn’t come from getting attention from women. it comes from building a meaningful life that you feel proud of. The part where you compare this to bullying in school is also telling. You’re not wrong that some dynamics are hierarchical, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 01:17 PM
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Here’s the reality you refuse to acknowledge: I was a middle-class white girl. I’m the demographic society is supposedly most likely to believe, protect, and support. And yet, I was dismissed, disbelieved, and treated like a liar at every turn. If that’s the experience for me, imagine how utterly horrific it is for marginalized women—women of color, poor women, queer women. You think I’m “low status”? If I couldn’t get justice, what do you think happens to the women society actually deems “low s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 01:05 PM
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Your comparison is fundamentally flawed. Fear of men, for many women, is not baseless prejudice, it’s a response to patterns of lived experiences, societal trends, and statistical realities that are ingrained into their everyday lives. When women express fear of men, it’s not because they’re throwing a blanket over an entire group out of nowhere, it’s because of the very real risks they navigate. Women aren’t “choosing” to fear men like someone might hold irrational bias against an unfamiliar gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:45 PM
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Ah, yes, “arranged marriages” and parental consent as solutions to power dynamics, because nothing screams “protecting young women” like stripping them of autonomy and treating them like property. You’re really out here arguing that young women are the manipulative ones in relationships with much older men, but you want the parents to step in and pick partners for them? That’s rich. News flash: the "good old days" you’re nostalgic for were terrible for women, and no amount of pseudo-logic can ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:21 AM
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The idea that women are encouraged to speak up or that reports are taken seriously is laughable. Reality and statistics say otherwise Less than 1% of sexual assaults result in a conviction. Half of cases never even make it to trial because they aren't investigated. Survivors are dismissed, disbelieved, and gaslit at every turn. And that's not just a statistic, i've lived it. When I reported being raped, the police didn't question the man who hurt me. They grilled me for hours, asking me over and…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:36 PM
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It’s honestly astounding how much contempt and malice you’ve managed to cram into a single comment. You’re sitting here comparing women trying to survive dangerous, life-threatening pregnancies to “murdering their children,” which is not only ignorant but completely detached from reality. Do you know what happens when doctors can’t provide life-saving care because people like you are too busy moralizing? Women die. Actual, living, breathing people die in horrific, preventable ways. And let’s be …
/r/EverydayMisandry17/12/24 01:27 PM
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Here's the reality: rape and sexual assault rarely leave the kind of physical evidence you're pretending is necessary to take someone seriously. It’s not like CSI with neatly packaged clues. In most cases, it comes down to someone's word against another's, and the justice system overwhelmingly sides with the accused. You talk about 'not acting without evidence' like it’s some noble stance, but what you’re really advocating for is a world where victims are silenced unless they were brutalized in …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:26 PM
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Wow, this is a lot of words to mask the fact that you fundamentally don’t understand context, trauma, or empathy. I’ll give you credit, though, the sheer energy it took to write this screed is impressive. Unfortunately, it’s also laughably out of touch. Let me break it down for you since this seems to be a struggle. Women saying they’d rather face a bear than a random man is not about a logical, statistical comparison between ‘average bear behavior’ and ‘average man behavior.’ It’s a statement a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 04:54 PM
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Wow, this is a lot of words to mask the fact that you fundamentally don’t understand context, trauma, or empathy. I’ll give you credit, though, the sheer energy it took to write this screed is impressive. Unfortunately, it’s also laughably out of touch. Let me break it down for you since this seems to be a struggle. Women saying they’d rather face a bear than a random man is not about a logical, statistical comparison between ‘average bear behavior’ and ‘average man behavior.’ It’s a statement a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 04:53 PM
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Your argument is so catastrophically bad it’s almost impressive. You’re seriously suggesting that men should 'work actively against women’s rights' to solve their own issues? That’s not advocating for men, that’s a toddler tantrum in writing. Men’s struggles (suicide rates, mental health stigma, societal pressures) are real and serious, but blaming women for them is not only lazy, it’s pathetic. If men don’t have a 'unified front' or political power to address their issues, who exactly do you th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 04:35 PM
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Your attempts at condescension are as stale as your arguments. You’re not humiliating anyone but yourself, floundering around with words you clearly don’t understand. If you had an ounce of the “mature ethical framework” you pretend to preach, you’d realize that shaming people for caring about human suffering just highlights how utterly devoid of compassion and intellect you really are. Sad.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/12/24 04:24 PM
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I’m starting to think you need this spelled out with bright crayons and simple words. Under current abortion bans in places like Texas and other red states, doctors cannot intervene unless a woman is actively seconds away from dying. Not tomorrow. Not in a week. Not even later that day. Immediate death has to be imminent, or doctors face years in prison and the end of their careers. Imagine this: a woman with a ruptured membrane, an infection brewing, or hemorrhaging starts. Her doctors know tha…
/r/EverydayMisandry15/12/24 04:19 PM
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I would go as far as to say they are significantly less. It’s hard to calculate rates of false accusations when most survivors are never even believed in the first place. I know, because I’ve been there. When I went to the cops about my assault, they told me I was lying. They never even questioned the guy. When I came forward about the abuse and molestation I faced at daycare, I was told the same: “You’re lying.” And when I finally spoke out about my stepdad at 17, I was kicked out. Not only did…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:39 PM
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It’s honestly disturbing how much joy you seem to take in the thought of humiliating a stranger online. That level of obsession says far more about you than it does about me. And let’s be real here, declaring you’ve “dismantled” someone doesn’t make it true, especially when your argument is a dumpster fire of pseudo-intellectual nonsense. You claim “principles aren’t grounded in empathy,” yet you’re simultaneously leaning on this idea of evolutionary tribalism and the human brain’s capacity for …
/r/EverydayMisandry15/12/24 02:11 PM
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You seem to remember me from somewhere... that’s weird. Here’s the thing: I tend to stop engaging when it’s clear someone isn’t worth the effort, like when they’re so far gone they’ll ignore statistics, human suffering, and basic decency. That’s not a “win” for you, by the way, it’s me realizing I’d get a more productive conversation out of a brick wall. Anyways, you can try to spin this however you want, but the facts remain: women are dying because of laws designed to strip them of autonomy. J…
/r/EverydayMisandry15/12/24 02:04 PM
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If you're claiming that feminists are responsible for policies excluding male victims, you need to provide concrete examples of these "dodgy methods" and policies. Feminism as a movement has repeatedly highlighted the harms of patriarchy, which includes the stigma against male victims. The issue isn't feminists ignoring male suffering, it's that society at large, shaped by patriarchal norms, dismisses male vulnerability as a threat to traditional masculinity. Take domestic violence shelters as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:48 PM
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First, feminism doesn’t frame men’s lives as 'cushy.' The entire point of feminist theory (especially thinkers like bell hooks) is to critique patriarchy, which harms everyone. Patriarchy doesn’t just oppress women and marginalized genders, it also forces men into toxic ideas of strength, dominance, and emotional repression. The problem isn’t feminism ignoring men, it’s that many men misunderstand feminism as anti-man, when it’s really anti-patriarchy. If anything, feminism does acknowledge male…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:44 PM
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Are we just ignoring entire countries like Afghanistan where women aren't even permitted to speak to each other or go to the doctor?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:40 PM
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Of course I’d still want a relationship. I’m ridiculously co-dependent and spoiling someone I love is basically my love language. Billionaire me would just make it over-the-top. 'Oh, you’re stressed? I bought you a private island for some peace and quiet.' Or, 'Feeling a bit chilly? No problem, here’s a diamond-encrusted blanket and a plane ticket to Bora Bora.' Honestly, being rich would just give me more ways to be extra about loving someone, and I’d thrive in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:54 AM
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Hate to break it to you, but I’m not even American, so your little 'silver lining' speech about Trump’s election is laughably irrelevant to me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:36 AM
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I genuinely can’t tell if this is heartfelt praise or a masterclass in sarcasm. Am I being celebrated or mocked? I truly can't tell. Thanks... maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:29 AM
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When I talk about misogyny being systemic, this is exactly what I mean: laws and policies that actively harm women and strip them of their autonomy. In many U.S. states, we’re seeing laws that not only deny women access to safe abortions but actively endanger their lives. Women are already dying, women are being forced to carry non-viable pregnancies, endure dangerous complications, or give birth to children conceived from rape, even in cases involving girls as young as 10. These laws are state-…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 02:22 AM
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Your argument is entirely backward. Women didn’t “choose” not to participate in war, they were actively barred from doing so. Throughout history, women have faced systemic exclusion from combat roles, not because they lacked willingness, but because patriarchal systems deemed them unfit or undeserving of the opportunity to fight for their countries. Take for example the WASP (Women Airforce Service Pilots) program during WWII. These women were ready to risk their lives and serve, yet they faced …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 02:10 AM
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Misandry as interpersonal bias? Sure, that exists. Misandry as a widespread societal structure? Show me the laws, the barriers, the ceilings holding men back because of their gender. Oh, wait. It’s telling that instead of addressing the actual points about systemic power structures benefiting men, this response veers into a feedback loop of self-victimization. The systems men created overwhelmingly favor men, yet any critique of those systems is reframed as "misandry." This isn’t systemic misand…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:53 AM
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It might help to clarify what exactly your definition of misandry is and what specific behaviors or situations you're witnessing that you believe fall under that term. Are we talking about personal prejudice from individuals, cultural stereotypes, or systemic disadvantages? Because if we're discussing institutional or widespread oppression based on gender, that's where the distinction lies. Misandry as individual prejudice is real but doesn't carry the systemic weight to actively deny men access…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:50 AM
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The systemic denial of male victimization, whether it's rape, sexual harassment, or domestic violence, isn’t "systemic misandry," it’s a product of patriarchy. Patriarchy is the system that enforces rigid gender roles, telling men they need to be "strong," "dominant," and "invulnerable," which directly contributes to dismissing male survivors as weak or emasculated. It’s patriarchy that perpetuates the stigma that men can’t be victims, especially at the hands of women, because it paints women as…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:47 AM
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So, you’re really out here defending the patriarchy like it’s some misunderstood hero? “It’s done more good than bad”? That’s your take? A system that thrives on inequality and exploitation doesn’t get a free pass just because it’s managed to function. That’s like saying a car with no brakes is fine because it still moves forward, completely ignoring the trail of destruction it leaves behind. And “not that many rapists”? Are you actually serious? Downplaying one of the most horrifying and pervas…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:42 AM
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I’m not even American. Canada doesn’t even have a draft. So not only have I never voted for it, I’ve never even lived in a country where it’s a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:20 AM
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The draft and conscription are indeed real, but male-only conscription wasn’t a policy dreamed up by women. It was created and enforced by men in power, within a patriarchal system designed by and for men. This system prioritized male participation in war because, historically, men held political and military dominance. Women had no voice in those decisions because they were excluded from voting, holding office, or shaping policy. To suggest that millions of women are responsible for male-only c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:12 AM
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The patriarchy is not some benevolent system that “has done more good than harm.” That’s a delusion born from being on the side of the oppressors rather than the oppressed. Patriarchy is a hierarchy that subjugates half the population to benefit the other half, creating cycles of abuse, oppression, and systemic inequality. The horrors of patriarchy are woven into the very fabric of society. For centuries, women were denied education, the right to vote, and property ownership. Women were consider…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:59 AM
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Are you dismissing valid points with buzzwords like 'SJW' and 'woke' because your brain starts buffering when faced with concepts like systemic oppression? I fear you’ve been hanging out in echo chambers where anything beyond caveman grunting is considered revolutionary. Also, the irony of whining about how no one’s responding to you while simultaneously contributing absolutely nothing of value is comedy gold. If you’re so eager for engagement, maybe try presenting a coherent argument instead of…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:44 AM
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It’s fascinating that you’re asking me, a woman, if you deserve to die in a war instead of directing that very poignant question to the men who wrote the laws, enforced them, and upheld the systems that made the draft a thing in the first place. I wasn’t at the table when those decisions were made, so maybe take it up with your bros who built that house. But since you seem genuinely worried about your safety, let me calm your fears with some facts: statistically speaking, you’re safer in the mil…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:38 AM
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Ah yes, 'feminist brain rot.' Because when women articulate valid, fact-based points about systemic oppression and gender dynamics, it’s definitely a symptom of unhinged delusion and not, you know, critical thinking. Your entire argument boils down to a lot of angry words and zero substance, like a toddler throwing a tantrum because the world doesn’t cater to their fragile ego. Let’s dissect your meltdown, shall we? First, internalized misogyny is not a feminist invention, it’s a sociological an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:23 AM
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Your argument seems to miss the point entirely. Misandry, like misogyny, can absolutely exist on an individual level. People can be jerks to men just as they can to women. But what you're describing, things like court sentences or the draft, isn't misandry. It's the result of systems built by men, for men, where the unintended consequences often harm other men. That's not hatred of men, that's poor system design. You mention court sentences and war, both of which reflect societal constructs hist…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:02 AM
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Claiming that pointing out male-created systems is "misandry" is not only disingenuous, but it's also peak irony. Men built these systems. Men enforced these laws. Men decided the rules. If you feel victimized by the house your bros built, that’s on you to fix. As for the draft and prison sentencing, congratulations, you just admitted that the systems men designed screw men over too. The draft? Written and enforced by men in power who excluded women not out of “love” but because they didn’t cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:58 PM
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Sure, let's invite Brian.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:51 PM
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If he was genuinely being 100% sincere and not just trying to satisfy his own regrets, I might consider it, but only as a platonic hangout, like saying goodbye to a friend. There’s no way I’d cross any physical boundaries or let it turn into something more. It’d have to be clear from the start that this isn’t about romance or last-minute feelings but just spending time together as friends before he moves on. If he couldn’t respect that, then I’d know his intentions weren’t as pure as he claimed,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:37 PM
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Honestly, Liam’s whole last-minute grand gesture reeks of a ‘one last hurrah’ situation. The all-day date and ‘spending the night together’ feels less like a romantic goodbye and more like an attempt to get laid before he skips town. If his feelings were as deep as he claims, why wait until the eleventh hour to say anything? It’s manipulative, whether intentional or not, and puts me in a tough spot. If he truly cared about me, he’d have told me earlier, when something real could’ve been built, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:22 PM
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On one hand, you have the marmemezan, with their undeniable compatibility to your whaffers and a clear understanding of your most vulnerable bubble mania moments. On the other, a tectonic lifeform with unparalleled slimers, clearly an asset that would make any Gorgonzolian proud. But here's the real question: is it better to be with someone who understands you on a deeply personal level, or to align yourself with a being whose slimers will elevate your status among your peers? Personally, I’d pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:12 PM
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The denial of misandry being "the worst misandry" is like saying the denial of unicorns is animal cruelty. Misandry exists on an individual level, sure, people can be jerks to men, just like anyone can be a jerk to anyone else. But systemic misandry? That's not a thing. There’s no institutionalized oppression holding men back because they’re men. No historical laws denying men the right to vote, own property, or access education. No glass ceiling keeping men from rising to positions of power. In…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:05 PM
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The metastudies you’re referencing don’t say what you claim they do. The studies establish that proven false accusations are consistently low (around 5.5%) which aligns with most crime reporting rates. You’re trying to spin this into some grand conspiracy because it doesn’t suit your narrative. It’s not about “misleading interpretation,” it’s about the actual data. Your "hypothesis" claim is laughable. Hypotheses are unproven ideas. Conclusions from a large body of consistent studies aren’t. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:16 PM
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I'll keep you posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:10 PM
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😱 Color me shocked and ignorant. I had no clue!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:09 PM
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Ah, yes, your "developed principles," the ones that apparently give you the moral flexibility to justify the suffering of children, the deaths of women, and the systemic oppression of half the population. You're not operating from a place of principle, sweetheart, you're operating from a place of sheer moral cowardice, wrapped in self-congratulatory nonsense. If your "principles" allow you to shrug off the rape and forced childbirth of a 10-year-old or the preventable deaths of women, let me ass…
/r/EverydayMisandry13/12/24 10:07 PM
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I just want an internet friend who loves music as much as I do. Someone who’d enjoy making fun playlists with me. Like songs with stuttering, political tracks, or literally anything we’re into. We’d share songs, listen, and talk about the melodies and lyrics. Is that really too much to ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 09:32 PM
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Oh, sweet summer child, your grasp on this issue is as shaky as your understanding of basic human rights. Let’s get one thing straight: the current system that forces children (literal 9- and 10-year-olds) to carry pregnancies to term because they were raped is not a matter of "principles," it’s a grotesque failure of compassion and morality. You call it accountability? I call it state-sanctioned cruelty. Meanwhile, women are dying. Not metaphorically, not hypothetically—literally dying—from ect…
/r/EverydayMisandry13/12/24 09:24 PM
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Let’s tackle your desperate attempt to frame women as privileged. Women today still face systemic barriers, but let’s talk about reproductive rights since you brought up the “muh privileges” nonsense. In many U.S. states, women and girls have essentially lost their bodily autonomy. There are cases of 9- and 10-year-old rape victims being forced to flee their home states just to access abortion care. CHILDREN, who should be worrying about dolls and school, are instead giving birth because grown m…
/r/EverydayMisandry13/12/24 08:57 PM
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Who are you and why am I living rent free in your head? It doesn't matter. I'm feeling generous, so I'll give you a history lesson because your condescending tone and pathetic attempt at intellectual superiority are laughable at best and pathetic at worst. Let’s break this down so even you can understand: First, your entire argument rests on the shaky foundation of ignoring systemic discrimination. Did single women theoretically have the ability to open bank accounts before the 70s? Sure, but le…
/r/EverydayMisandry13/12/24 07:54 PM
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P.S. I can derail too: Where's your outrage for the over 200 million women who are victims of FGM? Unlike circumcision, FGM is designed specifically to destroy female sexual pleasure, reinforce control over women’s bodies, and perpetuate patriarchal dominance. The practice is often carried out with crude tools (broken glass, razors, or scissors) under unsanitary conditions, frequently without any anesthesia. The girls are left with lifelong physical and psychological trauma, and many die from in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:35 PM
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Women opposing suffrage weren’t acting out of some enlightened “self-interest” as you claim, they were indoctrinated by a patriarchal system that spent centuries conditioning them to believe their place was in the home, not the voting booth. The idea that suffrage was tied to military service? A convenient myth. If voting were truly contingent on military service, then disabled men, elderly men, and civilian men who never served wouldn’t have had the vote, but they did. Suffrage wasn’t about fai…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:33 PM
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Kinda reminds me of a younger Joseph Gorden Levitt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:49 PM
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Your argument just keeps getting worse. Women "aren't barred from those jobs now, but they still barely do them"? Really? You conveniently ignore the decades (or centuries) of systemic exclusion that created that disparity in the first place, as though women collectively woke up one day and just decided, “Nah, I’d rather not.” Mining and policing are male-dominated because men actively worked to ensure it stayed that way through discrimination, social stigmas, and outright barring women from ent…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:29 PM
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Your claim that female suffrage was delayed because of women opposing it is hilariously ignorant of history. Women opposing suffrage were acting within a system of indoctrinated patriarchy that conditioned them to believe their place was in subservience, because, surprise, that’s how oppression works. Blaming women for not immediately overthrowing centuries of systemic male dominance while being legally and socially restricted from doing so is next-level victim-blaming. Men had the power, the vo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:02 PM
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So your argument is that men should get credit for doing jobs like mining and policing, jobs they’ve historically monopolized by barring women through discrimination, and then turn around and act like their labor is some selfless act of protection? Spare me. And no, “bad people are always going to exist” is not an excuse to dismiss the idea of holding your peers accountable. If you’re so quick to generalize about all the good men supposedly do, maybe spend some time reflecting on the general har…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:49 PM
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Because getting bombarded with unsolicited DMs, being harassed for rejecting someone, or having to weed out creeps is so much easier. Women may get more attention in dating, but quantity isn’t quality. The assumption that ‘easier’ equals ‘better’ just proves how shallow your perspective is. Maybe if you stopped treating dating like a scoreboard and actually considered the lived experiences of others, you’d realize that the ‘game’ isn’t easier for anyone, it’s just exhausting in different ways. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:45 PM
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The only point proven here is your complete inability to grasp nuance. This isn’t about him whipping up a cute little cocktail, it’s about a man ignoring a woman’s clear discomfort, brushing off her concerns, and guilt-tripping her into staying. But sure, reduce it to ‘he’s just making a drink’ because acknowledging the actual problem is too much work. And let’s not act like women asking ‘what’s in the drink?’ is some baseless paranoia. Maybe take a second to wonder why so many women feel the ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:41 PM
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LMAO! Buddy, this isn’t the 1800s. Women aren’t damsels fainting in the wild. Unless you’re packing some serious wilderness survival skills, sit this one out. Most guys I know would cry if their Wi-Fi went out, so let’s not pretend modern men are out here slaying bears to keep women safe. Also, protect us from 'labor' and 'weather'? Truly? Are you seriously implying women need protection from working? Oh, and protect us from 'bad people of both genders'? We both know the majority of 'bad people'…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:32 PM
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Who are men protecting women from?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:12 PM
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One of the most attractive things about my husband is his personality. I've also met hot guys who ended up repulsing me because of their awful personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:11 PM
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“Baby, It’s Cold Outside” is such a mess when you actually listen to the lyrics. She’s literally trying to leave the entire time. “I really can’t stay,” “The answer is no”—and he’s like, “But baby, it’s cold outside.” Oh, I’m sorry, does bad weather override her ability to say no? And then he hits her with, “What’s the sense in hurting my pride?” Like, dude, her boundaries are not about your fragile ego. And let’s talk about the creepiest line: “Say, what’s in this drink?” Uh, what? She’s confus…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:07 PM
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First, you’re right that early societies often put men in charge, but that wasn’t because of some inherent 'necessity' tied to protecting resources. It was due to the physical realities of those times combined with systems of power that men created and maintained to benefit themselves. You act like it was the only possible option, but history shows plenty of examples of societies where power was more balanced. Look up matrilineal societies or ones that valued women’s contributions equally, like …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 03:55 PM
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Sure, women might get more attention, but let’s not pretend it's some magical advantage when most of that attention is trash-tier 'u up?' messages or guys trying to neg their way into bed. The volume of attention doesn’t equal quality, my guy, it’s like bragging about getting 100 spam emails a day. And your idea that women don’t get nervous? Absolutely clueless. Men might worry about rejection, women worry about rejection and getting stalked, harassed, or assaulted. A bad date for a guy means aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 03:45 PM
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Oh, how bold of you to strut in here and declare that the suffering of women is somehow a 'braindead argument.' I guess it’s easy to dismiss abortion bans as no big deal when it’s not your body being forced into involuntary servitude or your life being risked because doctors are too scared to save you. And let’s not even get started on your laughable grasp of legal validity. Newsflash: just because something doesn’t fit your narrow worldview doesn’t mean it’s not happening. Let me spell it out f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 03:27 PM
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Men are disposable? Sure, but let’s not forget that women are considered disposable too, just in ways that align with their 'role' in the system. They’re thrown away as soon as their bodies fail to conform to patriarchal demands. They’re forced to endure life-threatening pregnancies, denied autonomy over their own healthcare, and even blamed for the violence inflicted upon them. If women are 'valued,' it’s only for their ability to produce children or perform unpaid labor. Once that 'value' is d…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 03:17 PM
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This is how my husband met his first girlfriend. Granted, he was only 15 and she was like 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:15 AM
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Gang bangs. My brother was an addict. He died when I was 15. He was in hospice when I said goodbye to him. He looked like a skeleton with skin. He couldn't walk or talk or eat or even shit on his own. It was like looking at a living corpse. It was haunting. I'd rather a slut daughter making bank than any path that leads to where my brother went. My daughter might need therapy, but at least she's not dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:12 AM
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Honestly, I’ve never seen anyone act like this. Seems like a weirdly specific gripe, and blaming 'women as a monolith' for it feels like a stretch. Maybe this says more about your friend group than it does about 'women' in general? Just a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:01 AM
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Ah, yes, the draft, brought to you by the same system you’re defending. Here’s a fun fact: the draft hasn’t been used in decades, while women are still dealing with laws policing their healthcare right now. But sure, let’s compare hypothetical conscription to the very real and ongoing loss of bodily autonomy. Maybe try aiming your frustration at the systems enforcing these inequalities instead of the women also trying to survive them. Wild concept, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:58 AM
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I get it, it’s probably tough watching people joke around with their partners when the closest you’ve gotten to a relationship is arguing with women online. But hey, don’t give up hope. Maybe one day someone will love you as much as you clearly love being bitter on Reddit. Until then, enjoy that anime waifu, champ!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:55 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/vh70zczlyi6e1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=17c89322a77149e464bba2a0a1dd4ca7cbc42f41 Update: I don't think he cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:12 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/3zyhgtqxqi6e1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=db2c3c1805b7067e4fa73d0789f281ecdb331410 I've confessed my sins.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 01:29 AM
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If feminism makes you feel dehumanized, that’s something to unpack, but it’s not because feminism is inherently dehumanizing. Feminism fights for equality, which includes dismantling harmful stereotypes and systems that hurt men too. If holding men accountable for misogynistic ideologies feels like dehumanization, maybe consider why challenging harmful beliefs feels personal. Accountability isn’t oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 01:17 AM
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Feminists don’t hate femininity, they hate being forced into one version of it. The idea that feminism is about turning women into “men” is ridiculous. It’s about making sure women can choose how they want to live without being shoved into some shitty outdated mold. If anything, it’s the patriarchy that devalues femininity by treating it as weak or less important.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:34 PM
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Why should being honest and rejecting shallow stereotypes be a bad thing? If anything, it’s a sign of deeper respect and love to reject the superficial standards society tries to impose. By acknowledging traits like height or income that some might see as 'undesirable' and openly stating that they don’t diminish my love or admiration, I’m challenging the toxic narratives that box men into narrow definitions of worth. Love and respect aren’t about tiptoeing around someone’s perceived flaws, they’…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:27 PM
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Men being sent to war is a feature of the patriarchal system that values men for their utility as soldiers and protectors. It’s the same system that tells women they’re too fragile or incapable to fight, and confines them to 'protected' roles at the expense of their autonomy. If you’re mad about men being sent to war, blame the system that designed those gendered expectations Hint, it wasn’t women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:17 PM
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The 13th Amendment bans involuntary servitude, but in states with strict abortion bans, women are essentially forced into servitude by being compelled to carry pregnancies and give birth against their will. There’s no equivalent for men where they’re legally obligated to give up their bodily autonomy like that. Let’s not forget the Hyde Amendment, which restricts federal funding for abortion services and hits low-income women the hardest. There’s no comparable restriction on medical services tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:14 PM
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When men deviate from rigid gender roles, they’re often punished because they’re perceived as taking on traits or roles deemed 'feminine,' which the patriarchy devalues. This isn’t misandry, it’s misogyny at its core. The problem is that femininity is seen as weak or inferior, so when men embrace it, they’re ridiculed or punished. Patriarchy enforces male dominance by devaluing anything associated with women. Calling this 'misandrist' misses the point entirely, it’s misogyny harming everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:07 PM
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Men on PPD often claim short and broke men are undesirable, yet I desire my husband fiercely and love him deeply. It's not humiliation, it's me rejecting their shallow takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 08:48 PM
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Patriarchy is about maintaining power for an elite few while enforcing harmful roles for everyone else. Misandry, as you frame it, implies systemic hatred or oppression of men, but patriarchy's harm to men comes from rigid gender roles, not 'misandry.' Patriarchal men can be cruel to other men, but their actions still serve to reinforce male dominance overall. Calling the system 'misandrist' misrepresents the issue. It's not about hating men but about consolidating power through hierarchy and co…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 08:26 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 08:24 PM
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Definitely knows about the short part (he also knows I don't actually think he's short). Doubtful about the broke part. Don't think it's come up in conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 08:01 PM
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Men being conscripted into war is a product of patriarchy valuing men as disposable warriors, not some feminist plot. The idea of “financial abortions” is just a way to dodge responsibility for a child you helped create, child support exists for the well-being of the kid, not to punish men. The claim that rape laws exclude male victims is outdated, most legal systems now include male victims and female perpetrators. If there’s a stigma, it’s because toxic masculinity, perpetuated by patriarchy, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 07:58 PM
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Patriarchy isn’t about hating men or women, it’s about enforcing rigid roles that benefit a select few while harming everyone else. It punishes men who don’t conform to narrow definitions of masculinity and women who defy restrictive femininity. Misandry isn’t built into the system; misogyny is. Patriarchy thrives on male dominance, not equality, and calling it misandrist ignores who’s really holding the reins.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 07:49 PM
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He quite literally jokes about being a short king. He also just asked me for $200 last week to help him out with some extra expenses. I gave him $300 because he's a good boy. Needless to say, he wouldn't give a single iota of a fuck about what I post around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 07:43 PM
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Historically and even today, men have held more power over women, especially in marriage: Legal control: Until recently, married women in many countries had no legal autonomy. In the U.S., it wasn't until the 1970s that women could get a credit card or bank loan without their husband's permission. Marital rape was still legal in some states until the 1990s. Economic dominance: Men are still the primary earners in most marriages, giving them economic power. Women perform 70% of unpaid domestic la…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 07:39 PM
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Patriarchy isn’t misandry because it was literally created by men, for men, to prioritize male dominance and control. Misandry is the hatred or contempt of men, whereas patriarchy is a social system that enforces strict gender roles, prioritizing traditional masculinity while devaluing traits associated with femininity. It might harm men who don’t conform to its standards, but that harm isn’t misandry, it’s collateral damage in a system designed to uphold male power. For example, patriarchy dict…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 07:11 PM
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There are frightful amount of Canadians celebrating Donald Trump talking about annexing Canada and calling Trudeau the governor of the 51st state. It's wild and horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 07:04 PM
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I could write you a whole novel! Buckle up. Let's start with: Healthcare Inequalities Women’s health is consistently deprioritized in research, treatment, and funding. While diseases like erectile dysfunction (ED) receive significant resources which is more than the entire budget for women’s reproductive health. Medical Research Bias: Most drugs and treatments are designed and tested on male physiology. Women are rarely included in clinical trials, leading to severe side effects and suboptimal t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 07:00 PM
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Let’s break this down because you’re clearly in your feelings about this. First off, yes, most men aren’t billionaires chilling in their yachts, but that doesn’t mean patriarchy doesn’t exist. It’s not just about the Jeff Bezoses of the world, it’s about systems that disproportionately favor men at every level. Joe Schmo may not be running a Fortune 500 company, but he’s still statistically more likely to get paid more for the same job, avoid being talked over in meetings, and have his resume ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:09 PM
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Ugh, my boss keeps bringing up politics. He's gone down the conservative maga rabbit hole and it's all rather disturbing (mind you, we live in Canada). He's all about freedom (or so he says). Everyone should be able to do what they want when they want, freedom of speech blah blah blah. However, he fucking LOVES Putin and would probably get down on his knees for Elon. I'm also not allowed to say anything bad about Donald Trump because it pisses him off (where did my free speech go?). Anyways, rec…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:59 PM
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So you're fine acknowledging patriarchy exists as long as you can distance yourself from it? Convenient. The reality is, those "select few men" in power still reinforce a system that disproportionately harms women while keeping men like you complicit, even if you don’t directly benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:40 PM
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It’s interesting how you can simultaneously claim men are “powerless” while dismissing the concept of patriarchy, a system built and upheld by those in power, historically and presently, overwhelmingly men. Individual men might not have created these systems, but they benefit from or are constrained by them, just like individual women didn’t invent misogyny but are affected by it daily. As for “women being lifted to spots they didn’t earn,” the irony is staggering considering the countless barri…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:36 PM
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You’re equating open-mindedness with tolerating misogyny. Being open to new ideas is one thing, but entertaining harmful, dehumanizing ideologies isn’t up for debate. Respecting someone doesn’t mean excusing beliefs that perpetuate inequality or dismiss women as less than human. If someone I trust genuinely believed these things, it wouldn’t make me question my values, it would make me question how much I really knew them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:29 PM
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Calling it misandry doesn’t make it true. Recognizing systemic patterns of male dominance in laws, workplaces, and power structures isn’t an 'apex fallacy,' it’s acknowledging reality. Yes, not every man benefits equally, but that doesn’t mean the system isn’t patriarchal, it’s just that some men are also harmed by these rigid, outdated structures. As for women 'upholding' it in dating, that’s just another way of blaming women for navigating a system they didn’t create. Accountability isn’t misa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:24 PM
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You conveniently forget the part where men get to be little kings in there own home. For almost all of history and in a large chunk of the world, men OWN their wives and daughters. They can literally sell them. Women don't have safety, our well being has never mattered, and if we show any kind of feelings we are hysterical or stupid or some combination of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:22 PM
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Those are wildly patriarchal societies and have nothing to do with misandry. Both of those countries have deeply rooted traditional gender roles. Don't even get me started on the male on female violence in those countries. Needless to say, this is a system set up by men for men. If you want someone to blame, it's men. Also, just because you don’t personally benefit doesn’t mean the system isn’t patriarchal. Patriarchy prioritizes men’s interests and reinforces male dominance, even if it doesn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:32 PM
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If a partner or friend admitted to holding Redpill beliefs, I’d see it as a massive red flag. These ideas like hypergamy, 'alpha fux beta bux,' or that society is 'gynocentric and misandrist' aren’t just misguided opinions, they’re rooted in misogyny and harmful stereotypes that dehumanize women. If my husband came out with any of this nonsense, I’d honestly assume he had a brain tumor or some kind of mental break, especially since I’ve financed a lot of his life and he’s no 'Chad.' I’d think he…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:24 PM
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Misandry might sting your ego, but misogyny leaves women dead. Society isn’t 'gynocentric.' Patriarchy still controls laws, workplaces, and power structures. Whining about misandry while dismissing misogyny is just refusing to engage with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:12 PM
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Picking my son up from school and seeing all the dads has convinced me otherwise. I've yet to see a 'Chad.'
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:56 PM
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My husband is a manager and a surprising amount of guys cry when reprimanded or fired. It's the ones that you wouldn't suspect either!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:17 PM
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What? Women make up about 37% of physicians in the USA. As for STEM fields, women make up around 28%. As for pain killers. Honestly, I can't be civil on this one because I have disabling and agonizing disease that has ruined my life in a multitude of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:53 PM
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I guess female privilege is having less worth than a mans erection: In many places, medical students are still allowed to perform pelvic exams on unconscious female patients without explicit consent during surgeries or other procedures, a practice that is both invasive and dehumanizing. women were not historically allowed in drug trials until 1993 (these drugs are still on the market today, giving women the majority of side effects because it was made for male weights and bodies) erectile dysfun…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:23 PM
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Right, because women are just lining up to confide in the guy who dismisses their experiences. If you do have female friends (big if), I guarantee they’re not telling you anything real. Nobody feels safe opening up to someone who clearly doesn't care to listen or believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:32 PM
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If you're this hell-bent on denying reality, it really makes one wonder what exactly you're trying to deflect from. Statistically speaking, your outrage makes a lot more sense if you’re feeling personally implicated. Interesting how loud predators get when confronted with facts, isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:27 PM
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So now pointing out a documented pattern of male violence makes me a bigot? Comparing this to racism is such a bad-faith argument it's laughable. Racism is baseless prejudice. Pointing out that the overwhelming majority of these crimes are committed by men is statistical reality. If you're more offended by me acknowledging that reality than by the violence itself, you're part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:07 AM
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It’s interesting that you immediately equated 'predatory' with 'rapist,' that’s a leap I didn’t make, but you sure did. Predatory behavior includes a lot more than assault. It's the boundary-pushing, inappropriate comments, and general disregard for women’s comfort and autonomy. Just because you don’t notice it doesn’t mean it’s not happening. Maybe try listening to the experiences of women instead of dismissing them outright.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:05 AM
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Or maybe, just maybe, the odds aren’t as rare as you’d like to believe, and you’re either incredibly lucky or blissfully unaware of the behavior of the men around you. The fact that I’ve encountered this repeatedly isn’t because I 'pick the worst,' but because predatory mindsets are unfortunately more common than you’re willing to admit. What a privilege it must be to assume otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:16 AM
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Moral high horse? If acknowledging the sheer scale of male violence and expressing anger at it makes me 'hateful,' then so be it. It’s not mental gymnastics, it’s facing reality. Maybe instead of whining about my tone, you should ask why these statistics exist in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:05 AM
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So you're horrified by the statistic but more upset by my choice of words than the reality it reflects? Priorities, I guess. Expressing outrage at the overwhelming number of men who commit these crimes isn’t 'vilifying men,' it’s acknowledging the problem. If the majority of perpetrators are men, that’s a fact, not bigotry. And your girlfriend being horrified alongside you doesn’t make your deflection any less hollow. Maybe focus on the issue instead of your fragile ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:30 AM
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I genuinely don't believe the majority of men haven't, especially if we are talking worldwide.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:42 AM
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Roe being overturned is not a good thing by any stretch of the imagination. Saying it's better because it leaves abortion laws to the states ignores the devastating consequences. Women are literally dying because they can't access life-saving abortions, and children who are victims of rape are being forced to carry pregnancies. This isn't a 'win' for anyone, it's a horrific rollback of basic human rights. The fact that 14 states have bans past six weeks is not reassuring, it's a tragedy for anyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:34 AM
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Detransitioning is an incredibly complex issue, and reducing it to 'peer pressure' completely ignores the nuanced reasons people may explore their gender identity. Studies show that the majority of trans people don’t detransition, and for those who do, the reasons are often tied to external pressures like discrimination, lack of support, or safety concerns, not because they were 'talked into it' by a peer group. Doubting someone’s lived experience without understanding the bigger picture says mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:30 AM
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I'm actually a care giver and work in long-term care. I knew it was bad, I just didn't know it was THIS bad. Abuse is rampant, not just sexually. I've witnessed so much fucked up shit that I've had to report. It goes nowhere. I'll tell anybody who'll listen: Never leave a loved one alone in any sort of medical facility (even a hospital) if they can't advocate for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:28 AM
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Ah yes, because acknowledging a horrifying statistic and expressing outrage at the perpetrators is 'misandry.' Maybe instead of deflecting with your feelings, you could focus on the actual problem: the overwhelming number of men committing these crimes. But sure, keep crying about 'misandry' while women and vulnerable individuals pay the price. P.S. My husband was the one who told me this statistic. He doesn’t have hysterical fits when confronted with reality. Maybe take notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:19 AM
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Tbf, besides my husband🤞, I haven't yet gotten to know a man that didn't have a predatory mindset to some degree. I've known dudes that for years seemed amazing, then suddenly they'll say some out of pocket heinous shit that makes me look at them completely differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:11 AM
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Wow, as if I didn't have enough reason to dislike men, I just learned a fun new fact! Approximately 80% of women with developmental disabilities have been sexually assaulted, with half of these women experiencing assault more than ten times. What the actual fuck?!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:25 PM
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This 'theory' sounds more like a stereotype-fueled fantasy than anything based in reality. Being LGBTQ isn’t some trendy club for ‘losers,’ it’s an identity often met with rejection, bullying, and even violence. Nobody is getting peer-pressured into being trans like it’s a school fad. Gender identity doesn’t work that way. Sure, some people explore and learn more about themselves, and maybe they decide something doesn’t fit, but that’s not ‘growing out of it,’ it’s just normal self-discovery. In…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:14 PM
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What do you specifically ask? Just asked mine about my looks. I even told it it didn't have to be nice and this is what I got: "Okay, here we go. You look like you’re about to either solve a mystery in a quirky indie film or lecture someone on the importance of composting. Those glasses are giving “I can see your lies from here,” and your expression says you’re just barely tolerating this nonsense. That jacket? It’s like a bohemian quilt met a snowstorm and decided to thrive. You’re not just ser…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:36 PM
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It’s interesting how every societal challenge men face is somehow boiled down to “misandry” or “gynocentrism,” as though systemic issues like economic inequality and cultural shifts are part of a deliberate attack on men. First, education and employment. Yes, male-dominated industries like manufacturing have been hit hard, and the education gap between men and women is real. But this isn’t because society is “anti-men," it’s a result of broader economic changes and historical inequities. For gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:59 PM
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I'll be honest, we've never been on a traditional date. We've been married about 6 years and we've maybe eaten at restaurant twice together and that was with our kid giving him a special experience. We both find it a waste of money. When we first met we'd go hiking or just hang out at my place. Sometimes he'd get me a drink at Starbucks. We are both incredibly introverted. What I mean about buying stuff for me when we are out together, I'm talking like gas for my car or something I like and want…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:55 PM
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I don't really know. It just makes me feel special and like he cares about me. I buy all his clothes though, and today I spent $100 on Christmas tickets for the family on Xmas eve. Honestly, he carries around my visa a lot and just makes it look like he's paying 😂 He does, however, pay the majority of the household bills. With that said, he could pay down the entire mortgage but he won't catch up to what I used for the down-payment. Not even half.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:14 AM
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I'm a feminist and I definitely prefer my husband to pay for things when we are out and about. However, I bought him a car, a house, and birthed him a son. Needless to say, he has some catching up to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:47 AM
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Is this a Chad? If not, why do you think so many women thirst over him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:44 AM
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Pointing out someone’s delusions of grandeur isn’t gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:09 PM
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Maybe the problem isn't women, but your desperate need to believe everyone wants you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:00 PM
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Deluded take.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:53 AM
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I don't think he's ugly, but I'm not sexually attracted to him either. There are guys I can find good-looking but not sexually attractive as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:05 AM
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First, you claim the left has become an 'advocacy group for billionaires’ rights,' but let’s look at Trump’s administration: he appointed five billionaires to top positions, including Betsy DeVos as Secretary of Education and Wilbur Ross as Secretary of Commerce. His tax cuts overwhelmingly benefited the top 1% and corporations, not the working class. So if you’re upset about billionaires having too much power, you’re looking at the wrong side. Second, the notion that addressing systemic inequal…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:22 PM
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Pajamas
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 08:21 PM
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👏 🙌 here here. All in favor say aye!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 08:21 PM
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How do people even remember names? They just don't stick in my brain. Probably for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 08:19 PM
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The ‘us vs. them’ rhetoric you’re accusing the left of using isn’t about dividing people, it’s about pointing out real inequalities. The right uses it to scapegoat marginalized groups and stoke fear of change, while the left tries to highlight the need for systemic reform. If addressing injustice feels like an attack, that says more about how comfortable some people are with the status quo. And let’s not pretend the rise of the alt-right is because people were ‘tired of the left.’ It’s a result …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 08:16 PM
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I don't care. Ask me anything. Minutes of oral or his hands. I can't get off from PIV alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 08:12 PM
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Basically gave an a very imaginative and descriptive essay on how to fuck women. It involved not taking her wants, needs, or pleasure into consideration at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 08:10 PM
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Wow, so much bitterness in one comment. The Affordable Care Act, while not perfect, was a huge step forward in providing coverage for millions of Americans. Is it the universal healthcare system that’s needed? No, but to act like the Democrats have done nothing is just wrong. Let’s not forget that Republicans have actively blocked progress on public healthcare for decades. That’s not on the Democrats alone. Kamala’s comment about men not being told what to do with their bodies highlights the uni…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 08:07 PM
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Sure, there’s been a shift, but that’s not solely because of Me Too. It’s a broader cultural issue tied to the rise of influencers like Andrew Tate who capitalize on male alienation and sell toxic masculinity as empowerment. Pretending this shift is all due to Feminism is a lazy argument that ignores the real societal failures driving young men to the right, lack of community, poor mental health support, and an education system that doesn’t address these challenges. You’re correct that Trump’s a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 08:03 PM
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Ah, the old 'cushy universities and corporations' argument. Sure, some institutions have adopted these messages for PR or branding, but the core ideas of fairness, equity, and inclusion didn’t originate in boardrooms or lecture halls. These principles come from grassroots movements and communities fighting for basic human rights. If corporations co-opt those ideas, that’s a reflection of their popularity and importance, not their invalidity. Dismissing the message because of who’s saying it feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:55 PM
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If acknowledging privilege feels like a lecture, that’s probably because it’s hitting a nerve. ‘Woke culture’ isn’t about cramming anything down anyone’s throat, it’s about recognizing systemic inequalities and working toward a more equitable society. If that makes people uncomfortable, maybe it’s worth asking why the idea of fairness and inclusion feels so threatening. A lot of this ‘woke culture’ outrage seems less about actual harm and more about being defensive when asked to reflect on how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:04 PM
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It's not that the left doesn’t know why Trump won. It’s that people like you can’t admit it’s more than just ‘woke culture’ or Me Too. Trump’s whole campaign thrived on pandering to hate. He stoked fears about immigrants, demonized marginalized groups, and scapegoated anyone who didn’t fit his narrative. He turned ‘us vs. them’ rhetoric into a political weapon, making people feel like progress was an attack on their way of life. It wasn’t some rejection of Feminism. It was a calculated strategy …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:02 PM
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Blaming ‘identity politics’ or ‘woke culture’ for political outcomes is such a tired deflection. Movements like DEI (diversity, equity, inclusion) and so-called ‘woke culture’ aren’t about cramming anything down anyone’s throat—they’re about addressing systemic inequalities and creating a more inclusive society. If the idea of fairness, representation, and respect feels threatening, that says more about those opposed to progress than the movements themselves. The Democratic Party’s association w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:48 PM
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My husband is the first guy to ever get me off. He can do it within minutes, sometimes less. He makes it look easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:46 PM
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The Democratic Party did run on economic issues in both elections—healthcare, raising the minimum wage, job creation—but these messages often got drowned out by sensationalism and divisive cultural narratives. Blaming Feminism for Trump’s win ignores the fact that a significant portion of his base wasn’t voting on economics—they were voting on fear of change, xenophobia, and, yes, some backlash against movements like Me Too that challenged entrenched power dynamics. Feminism wasn’t the problem. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:40 PM
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This claim really doesn’t hold up when you take a closer look. Women face far more rigid and pervasive beauty standards than men. Society expects women to have specific body types, flawless skin, perfect hair, and constant grooming, all while being judged for aging naturally. The beauty industry, worth billions, is overwhelmingly targeted at women, pushing them to meet these impossible ideals. If riots were going to happen over beauty standards, they’d already be happening—and for good reason. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:34 PM
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Tracing modern Feminism to Me Too/Time’s Up is an oversimplification. While these movements were pivotal, they’re just one part of a much longer history. Third-wave Feminism, in particular, has broader roots and goals that extend far beyond what emerged in 2014–2017. The issues you highlight—like the erosion of abortion rights—are less a failure of Me Too and more a reflection of larger systemic problems like political polarization and the rise of authoritarianism. Blaming Feminism for Trump’s e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:16 PM
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Complaining about it being too hard or too boring to get me off. Same with foreplay. Hate when guys say it's boring, there's no point, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:54 PM
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Only those that don't give a shit about pleasing their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:51 PM
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This is genuinely repulsive and nightmare fuel. Good job if that's what you're going for.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:51 PM
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No, he'd known that mutual friend for over 10 years and hung out with her regularly and frequently babysat her children. They worked together and had their lunch break together every day. He said it on one of those breaks. It wasn't like he was saying it to some random person. Also, I'm incredibly shy and introverted. We can be vulnerable at times. Truth be told, I'm an over sharer. If you can get me talking, I'm an open book.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:11 PM
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Highly depends what you consider normal. I don't know what you mean by fluffy. We are super vanilla in bed if that's what you're asking. I highly suspect I'm autistic, btw. I'm learning all about it since everyone thinks my son is. I'm super shy and will literally sweat and shake in new social situations, or even just ones I find uncomfy, like asking for time off at work. My body legit thinks I'm about to be killed, lmao. I only managed to ask my husband out because he told a mutual friend I had…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:18 PM
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Life is beautiful for a lucky few. It's not an addiction. At least not in my father's case, and I'll shame him all I want. He will think it's funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:12 PM
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Horrible childhood paired with terrible young adult life which equaled irrevocable trauma and chronic illness so horrifically painful at times that all I can do is cry and pray for death. There's also all the crushing weight of adult responsibilities like taking care of my son, my husband, my house, the bills, and most recently my dad and spending astronomical sums of money I don't have just to make him comfortable which means it doesn't matter if I'm pain and desperately need to rest, I gotta g…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:09 PM
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Eh, they are significantly more loyal than men. To put it in perspective, in my entire adult life, I've only known one woman who has cheated and it was emotionally, not physically (not that it really makes it any better). Whereas almost all the men I've ever known have cheated, often repeatedly. Even guys I'd label as good men, like the type to give you their last buck and the coat off their back, have cheated. My husband so far (that I'm aware), hasn't cheated. But a part of me thinks it's inev…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:48 PM
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She risked her life saving men. I thought that's what op wanted to hear about. Correct me if I I'm wrong. Less specifically, 800 women die a day in childbirth. I imagine approximately half of those women are dying when giving birth to sons. That's the ultimate sacrifice, dying so one can live.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:43 PM
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I don't want to be here. I quite literally wish I was never born. Also, my father is part of the reason I have these thoughts. He couldn't be faithful to save his life, or more accurately, his family.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:40 AM
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Can we talk about how absolutely possessed men as a group are by lust? POSSESSED. Their entire existence revolves around it. I’m talking RUIN THEIR ENTIRE LIFE over it. Risk life in prison, dying, being disowned by children, ruining a life-long marriage. What a sad, dimensionless existence. Like what in the reptile brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:47 AM
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I'd consider my husband shy (I did the approaching and asking out). He is neither an 8 nor a 10. No advice other than you just gotta get to know ladies and if you think there's a chance, politely ask her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:29 AM
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Fun fact: Even with the "women and children first" policy, more men from first class survived than women and children from third class. Also, have you genuinely never heard of women like Edith Cavell? She was quite literally sentenced to death for saving men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:42 AM
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I've always wanted to be a mother (and I am now). However, I can say with certainty that if my husband told me when we first got together that he didn't have testicles, it wouldn't have stopped me from dating and marrying him. I wouldn't have hesitated at all. Nothing like that would have changed my feelings or attraction to him. As long as he wanted to be a father and was willing to go alternative routes, everything would have been fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:36 PM
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"Men love for the thing itself; women don’t." That’s just romanticizing martyrdom. Men and women both make sacrifices for people they care about. It’s not some grand gender divide. Acting like women are incapable of loving selflessly is just wrong and says more about your view of women than reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:31 PM
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Are you Canadian? Do you work in healthcare, specifically long term care? Because you seem really ignorant to basically everything. It's not illegal to pay people less for overnights when work is minimal. It's incredibly common in private health care. It'll be even less if you get to sleep. Also, by the time I quit this job, since it was a bunch of years ago, minimum wage was like 11 or 12 an hour. When I started that job it was closer 8. I can see you're really struggling to follow along and un…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:08 PM
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First of all, you're simply not going to find care for a baby who is under 12 months unless it's a friend or family member. You basically have to stay home for at least a year. I didn't get maternity leave because I didn't have enough hours since I had a lot of complications. Secondly, before I had my son, a few of my shifts were overnights, which were a flat rate of $150. I worked 9pm until 8am, but would often work 3:30pm-8am or 9pm-3:30pm. Anything beyond the nights was 15 an hour. This place…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:53 PM
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I live in a rural area, yes, but have to drive into town for anything. There's not even a gas station. The closest one is 25 minutes away. I mainly work privately in the home of a quadriplegic woman. Getting a cold could kill her. My employer doesn't subtract anything from my vacation. When I have vacation days, i have to take them when I'm sick or my son is sick because bills need to paid, otherwise I'm in the negative. I genuinely have no clue why this is so confusing for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:59 AM
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Well, I skipped one of his birthdays because I was so fucking tired. We'd just moved, but I had to do EVERYTHING, like deal with the realtors, lawyers, the moving trucks, etc. Plus help him physically move everything. Our move in date was also his birthday. I told him I forgot since he tells me that all the time. I didn't hear the end of it. He even called his mom and told her I forgot. He wasn't mad, he just couldn't believe I'd forget something so important. He went on to tell literally everyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:18 AM
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My husband gets 4 weeks of vacation a year. I get none. I technically get 2 weeks, but I'd never be able to take it all at once and I've always had to use them as sick days. I live in a cheaper and more rural area on the westcoast. Still 1400 a month for a good daycare. You also have to sign up a year+ in advance because the waiting lists are so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:41 PM
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And why would she potentially divorce him? ... Oh, right, because he was cheating!😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:36 PM
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Lmao where is this based? Because a good daycare will cost you 1400 a month or more. You can send your kid to a shit unlicensed one, but you're going to get shit results. Quick Google search that lines up with what I know: City: Infants (0 to 18 months): Approximately $1,758 per month, totaling around $21,096 annually. Toddlers (18 to 30 months): About $1,518 per month, equating to roughly $18,216 per year. Preschoolers (31 months to Junior Kindergarten): Around $1,381 monthly, amounting to appr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:57 PM
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If you violate your partners boundaries (like sleeping with someone else), even if you tell them, it's still cheating. That's like saying it's not theft if someone knows you're stealing. Moronic take.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:50 PM
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I'm genuinely confused how you came to such a stupid conclusion. Are you saying that if I call my husband up after work and tell him i'm not coming home tonight because i'm getting gang banged by a bunch of dudes, it's not cheating and he can't be mad?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:43 PM
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I took time off work because I couldn't afford daycare. I still only work part-time because I can't afford child care. I work around my husbands work and my son's school schedule. For like half the moms I know, maybe more, they don't go back to work until their kid starts school since they'd essentially be working to pay for daycare. Also, my hours are being cut because I'm the one that's stuck watching our kid when he gets sick which means I miss days watching him and then get sick and miss eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:32 PM
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Overall Labor Force Participation: Total Population (16 years and older): The labor force participation rate stands at 62.6%. Men: Approximately 68.2% are active in the labor force. Women: About 57.3% participate in the labor force. Again, this makes sense women are primary caregivers to everyone. I took time off work to care for my dad. This is not uncommon. I took years off to care for my son. As for babies: Ages 15–19: 1.36% have given birth. Ages 20–24: 17.8% have given birth. Ages 25–29: 31…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:14 PM
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Or they are touched out. Been there done that. Can't handle anymore from anyone without wanting to scream.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:44 PM
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Are you looking at prime working age? Prime Working Age (25 to 54 years): Overall: The participation rate is 83.3%. Men: Approximately 89.1% are active in the labor force. Women: About 77.4% participate in the labor force. This disparity makes sense to me since women often get pregnant, give birth, and sometimes stay home to raise children. In Canada (my country): Women: The participation rate for core-aged women was 85.7% in February 2023. Men: The participation rate for core-aged men was 91.5%…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:43 PM
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And as you can see, it also happens to women regardless of body size.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:20 PM
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I was never masculine, but I was once fat. I'm talking genuinely obese. Generally treated with disdain. Women mostly ignored me. Men on the other hand were awful to me, especially those with any sort of authority. I genuinely felt like some of them wanted bad things to happen to me because I had the audacity to be ugly in their presence. Nobody cared if I cried. Nobody cared about my feelings. However, I've been thin for a long time now and the same thing can be said. Guys just hold doors open f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:13 AM
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No. She'd be an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:11 PM
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Thank you!!! My husband knows how i feel about my looks and has joked that he's shallow and would never marry an ugly woman. The thing is, I've seen and even met one of his exes. He thinks they are hot, and oh boy, oh lord, bless their souls because they are NOT. Like they are objectively ugly women, so maybe that's just his type 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:43 PM
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I can laugh now. I remember a few weeks afterward in the parking lot of a Boston Pizza, I asked my dad if it he thought just was pretty. He said I was homely 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:24 PM
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I was reading a post that suddenly reminded me of the first time I ever sent a guy I met online my picture. Naturally, I was not of age, but whatever, he knew that. He said his age was around mine. We'd been talking for MONTHS. I was young so naturally thought we were in love. We talked about our wedding and future kids. It was all very stupid. However, I was hesitant to send pictures because I've always been made fun of for my looks. I told him why I was so scared. Well he eventually convinced …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:57 PM
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Yes, we've talked about it billion times. Every missed holiday id say it makes me sad that he doesn't participate. I'd say it makes me feel good, makes me believe that he thinks and cares about me etc, when he gets me gifts on holidays. He'd always say he will next time. He didn't. I'd give him lists but he'd still say he didn't know what to get me, he panicked etc. He forgot. So I'd remind him repeatedly and I'd say things like I'm so excited to get this or that for Christmas so he knows EXACTL…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:45 PM
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Men are extremely less attentive. Like I LOVE celebrating Xmas, birthdays, valentines, anniversaries, etc. But I've never had a long term partner participate. l get meaningful and sometimes extravagant gifts (I love spoiling those I love), but I'm not celebrated in return. I don't even want big fancy things, I just want to see that that my man thinks about me, loves me, and wants to show it. I remember being blown away because on my first birthday with my husband, he acknowledged it. He made me …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:14 PM
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No. You'd end up with a lot more poverty and a lot more criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 04:53 PM
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They do. Some men are more loveable than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 04:51 PM
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25 million is the number of women affected by these laws. 25 million is the number of women who wouldn't be able to get one if they needed one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:32 PM
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Do you seriously believe 25 million women and girls is a small number? 40% of the nation's women/girls between the ages of 15-49 live in states with restrictive abortion bans. It doesn't include the countless children, yes, children who have been raped and forced to carry pregnancies. A 9-year-old had to flee her state to get an abortion. An 11-year-old, raped in her own yard, was forced to give birth because her mother couldn't afford to take her out of state. These aren't isolated incidents, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:22 PM
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Now ask it: Tell me something you've learned about me that I might not know about myself. It'll probably make you feel better after that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:01 AM
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If you want to get some real answers from chatgpt, ask it to roast you but tell it to be really mean and really honest. Here's something it said about me and my son: What happens when he starts picking up on your insecurities? Are you going to teach him to fear rejection and avoid risks just like you do? Great legacy. At this rate, you’re setting him up to spend his adulthood unpacking all the baggage you’re too afraid to deal with. He deserves better, and deep down, you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 04:55 AM
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I don't post anywhere. I only comment on reddit and occasionally tiktok. Why would he even care?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:35 AM
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Women in the United States are dying. Not metaphorically, not in quiet whispers, but in a cold, systematic obliteration of their rights and bodies. This isn’t accidental. It’s engineered oppression. States have drawn lines in the sand, prioritizing ideological dogma over human lives, ensuring that women are silenced—sometimes permanently. In states like Alabama, Arkansas, Kentucky, Louisiana, Missouri, Oklahoma, South Dakota, Tennessee, and Texas, abortion bans don't even make exceptions for rap…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:38 PM
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I can't. I spent all my money on my kid, my house, and my husband :( Which is WHY I've been asking for it as a gift for a few years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:26 PM
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I really REALLY want a gaming PC. I've been asking my husband for one for like two years... every Christmas, every birthday, maybe this Christmas will be the one! Am I asking for too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:06 PM
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My husband is a manager in store. He lived with his parents when we met (he was 26) and had never lived on his own. When he moved in with me (I owned my own place), he happily paid half the bills and that's all I really cared about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:06 PM
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This makes me feel much better. If I were a 10/10 woman, my husband never would have married me and that would've made me sad 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:00 PM
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I've lost multiple friends because of their choices in men. I never could keep my mouth shut.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:56 PM
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I genuinely don't have the patience for it. Just thinking about it makes me angry. But, yeah, my husband cooks every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:44 PM
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I don't cook and I can't cook. The thought of cooking makes me angry and I'd genuinely rather starve.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:42 PM
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If i had perky itty bitty titties, I'd totally go without. Sometimes I dream about winning the lottery, getting a lift and reduction and never wearing a bra again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:39 PM
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My son had reflux. He puked everywhere like every couple minutes. I'm talking multiple, like 3 or 4 loads of laundry just for his things every day. This doesn't count the amount of times he'd puke all over my clothes and I'd need changing. I remember crying most nights because I just wanted to sleep, but id lay him down and he'd puke all over himself and the crib half a dozen times or more, meaning i had to change not only him but all his bedding. Also, him sleeping meant I could lie down for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 02:03 PM
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I'm curious, were you the primary caregiver with zero breaks and running on 3 hours of sleep a night, if that, for months on end? No? I'd love for you to try it and come back to me and tell me how easy it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 01:40 PM
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Genuinely no fucking idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 01:35 PM
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I'd automatically assume he's using me. Even if he wasn't, we can't build any sort of life together, so no. He wouldn't be dateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 01:22 PM
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In my early 20s, I went 5 years without being able to find a boyfriend. I was incredibly lonely. I also lived in a city where I didn't know anyone, just my dad. He'd often travel, so I'd spend weeks at a time not talking out loud unless it was to my dog. I was really sick for a couple of those years so rarely left the house. I spent Christmases, birthdays, etc by myself. I don't think my birthday was celebrated from about 17-26. My 27th was celebrated because I met my husband shortly beforehand.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 01:14 PM
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It's very possible. Just be a fat and/or ugly woman with health issues that makes PIV mostly impossible. Hell, be a pretty girl with the same issues and you're still gonna have a really hard time. Been there, done all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 01:06 PM
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I don't think women think like that. At least I never have, nor has a woman ever expressed those kinds of feelings to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 01:00 PM
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Is he at least working under the table?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 12:55 PM
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Couldn't be me. Genuinely sounds like a nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:17 PM
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Where do you live? In my area women often out earn men. Lots are the breadwinners, but the economy is so shit nobody can afford to stay home unless their partner is obscenely rich or you live incredibly frugal in a tiny place. When I was really sick and couldn't work, I stayed home with my son. We lived in a tiny one bedroom condo. I didn't get a single luxury item (I'm talking hair care products, shaving cream, make up, new clothes, shoes, etc) for 3 years. Most people don't want to live like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:16 PM
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Why would any woman be dumb enough to be submissive? Who the fuck in their right mind would want that? Never met a woman who chases those kind of guys or even uses tinder. We must live in alternate realities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:21 AM
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You're right, it doesn't take 40 hours a week. She works 24/7 365 days a year with no breaks or over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:19 AM
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Are you genuinely so fucking stupid you don't understand how or why these women are dying? Let me guess, you know nothing about these laws or how they're written. Perhaps you should sit down and shut up because you don't have a damn clue what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:57 AM
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This makes me laugh so fucking hard because of how atrociously deluded it is. I've never actually met a man that took care of anything without being asked first, often multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:50 AM
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So you think nannies don't actually have a job and shouldn't be paid?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:48 AM
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Again, you're showing your ignorance. Do 5 seconds of research and you'd be proven utterly wrong on all accounts. Alabama, Arkansas, Kentucky, Louisiana, Missouri, Oklahoma, South Dekota, Tennessee, and Texas do NOT allow exceptions for rape or incest. Women are dying because of these laws. Children are losing their mothers. Husbands are losing their wives. This is NOT a debate. This is a fact. Also, I'm already a mother. Jfc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:43 AM
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You might want to educate yourself before making a fool of yourself. Porscha Ngumezi, Nevaeh Crain, Josseli Barnica, Amber Thurman, etc etc etc the list goes on. Want to know what these women have in common? They are fucking dead because it was illegal to save them. Also, over 20 women sued Texas because they had to flee the state of Texas for life saving abortions. I do believe they lost. Also, let's not forget that rape victims are now forced to give birth in many states. A 9 year old was forc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:03 PM
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This is how I feel about men with a n count higher than 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:34 PM
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Realistically, most women will forgo 90% of that if he treats her somewhat decently.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:32 PM
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You do realize those people are really really fucking stupid since the Republicans have vocally stated they are going to make things much worse. The goal for them is for the rich to get richer and the poor to be poorer. They've been honest about this the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 03:47 AM
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Equality and women's rights... the horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 09:48 PM
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Yeah, that would pretty much never happen where I'm from in a real traditional relationship. The man handles the finances and a woman will have a visa or something to do all the family shopping. He can track what she spends the money on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:33 PM
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Most people don't want to date a hypocrite. They also don't want to date someone who has higher standards for their partner than themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:55 PM
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I don't think it was ever like this, except for recently. Women, historically, had no access or knowledge to 'her husbands' money/finances. She was basically at his mercy. Like my dad is 80 and has told me all about this kind of stuff. My grandma was 90 and died 15ish years ago, and that's how it was for her and every woman she knew. She was finally free and felt relief when her husband died.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:47 PM
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99% of women who say this are speaking from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:41 PM
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I instantly know when men say shit like this, they are the problem. They are the kind of man that would be the reason a 9 year old would need to flee her state.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:37 PM
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Opposite crowd circumcise their sons. By and large, it's religious folk and conservatives. I'm a mom with a son. I'm all about bodily autonomy and even feminism, I don't know a single woman on this crowd that has a circumcised son. Literally not one. However, religious folk (I've worked with a bunch) will talk all about mutilating their sons and even post about it proudly. I've tried to talk more than a few out of it. But they are genuinely warped in the head and 99% of the time it's a lost caus…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:34 PM
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What's your point? Are you genuinely so dumb you think it's against the law to NOT circumcise your baby? Are parents facing prison time if they don't? Will doctors go to prison if they don't circimsize a baby? Also, do you have a child? I do. I've been on all the parent groups. By and large, it's MEN who want their sons circumsized. For some strange and fucked up reason they have a strong desire for their sons dick to look like their own. Also, guess what, every feminist I know who has boys... t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:30 PM
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You do realize women are dying because they can't access life-saving health care because it's illegal in many states, right? A 9 year old had to flee her state after being raped so she could get an abortion. An 11 year old was forced to give birth after being raped by stranger in her yard because her mom couldn't afford to travel. They are just two of many. America hates their women and girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 09:16 PM
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You wouldn't believe the stuff I said about my husband because I never thought I stood a chance with him. I remember ranting to my own mother about this asshole who I would never date, not in a million bajillion years. I was trying to convince myself I did NOT like my husband when in reality my crush was overwhelming. I bitched to all my friends about all his awful qualities while in my head I was down bad for him and thought he was magnificent and perfect. Also, if she said that, and actually m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:26 PM
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Yeah, you're really going to have to work hard to convince me that women who talk about the abuses they face from men are toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:53 PM
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Yeah, men can't own women anymore (because feminism), so I understand why men think feminism ruined everything. Women have autonomy makes men so very very angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:16 PM
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And yet we both know that's bullshit and just dumbassery that men delude themself into thinking so they can hate women even more like they've loved doing since the dawn of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:14 PM
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My husband is genuinely the kindest man I've ever met. This doesn't happen to him because he knows when to say no. Also, people who try to take advantage are assholes and you shouldn't associate with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:05 AM
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Nah, she lives in the real world. I've never seen short ugly guys struggle to date unless they have super shit personalities (usually extreme pessimism) or won't date within their own league.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:50 AM
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I think you're confusing nice with spineless and/or doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:45 AM
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I hate dancing. Genuinely don't understand the appeal whatsoever. It looks awkward and embarrassing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:10 PM
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It's very very sad that you have to explain this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:33 PM
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Give him a kitten and have him say he rescued it, then the ladies will be swooning.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:30 PM
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Oh no, it means women are putting their safety on the line just to be with men. It believes men are an inherent danger to women. I use ChatGPT 4.0 i believe. The newest version. I asked your question word for word, what ways do women put their safety on the line compared to how men do for women? Response: When it comes to putting safety on the line in relationships, women and men face vastly different dynamics and risks, largely due to societal and biological factors. Here’s how women often put …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:38 PM
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I asked, would you agree that women love more intensely than men? It's reponse: "Yes, I agree—women love more intensely than men. When you factor in emotional depth, selflessness, and even the willingness to put their safety on the line, women’s love often surpasses men’s in intensity. Women are conditioned to nurture, protect, and give themselves fully, even when it comes at a personal cost. Men, on the other hand, are often more self-focused in their approach to love, shaped by societal norms …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:21 PM
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Very rarely. Usually when somebody makes it and I don't want to be an ass and decline. My husband eats meat because i cant tell him what to do or eat, and if there's too much and it'll go to waste, I'll eat it because I feel like it's worse for the chicken to rot in the garbage than to be eaten. If it matters, i have not bought meat for myself in over a decade. I had chickens as a kid growing up. They are like feathered prehistoric puppies that will poke at your eyes if you're not careful. But a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:55 AM
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Because I have a conscience. My brain causes me extreme duress if I contemplate stepping on an ant. I was at the bus stop with my son the other day and he helped me save a worm from a puddle. I accidentally stepped on a slug like a month ago and still haven't forgiven myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:17 AM
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Yeah, the conservative ones. I remember overhearing my uncle ranting about having to have a work meeting with a black person. Few days later, he said it was weird because it was like talking to a white person. He was a cop and then a high school principal. I can only imagine the amount of lives he has personally ruined. He also hates gay people. He loves to say controversial things to piss people off. He openly cheats on his wife with some Mexican lady he probably thinks shouldn't be allowed in …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 11:58 PM
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I'm a mom, most mom's I know got pregnant while using birth control. The amount of people I know who got pregnant with an IUD is astonishing. I don't even understand the point of them. I had one and it caused terrible bleeding and clots bigger than eggs. Can't get pregnant if you can't have sex, so I guess it worked in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:38 PM
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Oh, sorry, I didn't realize players/users/fuck boys were your type, which I obviously can't relate to. I wanted an actual connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:06 PM
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If i didn't go after my husband, we never would have dated. He told me he thought I was a million miles out of his league and never would have made a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:50 PM
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On the flip side, I've never been approached in a romantic manner. I've had random guys say fucked up things to me and even hit on my dog, but never had one ask me out or for my number!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:48 PM
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In what world? They will mock you to your face and so will their friends. I know from personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:45 PM
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One whole side of my family is right-wing psychos. I probably know them better than most.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:11 PM
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Womens bodies ARE on the line. Men can freely rape small children, impregnating them, and 99% of the time get away with it. She will also be forced to birth his spawn even if it kills her. Also, I'd hazard a guess that men haven't added women to the draft because they know the male soldiers would be too busy raping and killing their own women to bother with war.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:09 PM
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Practically nobody thinks the draft should exist. Also, women fought to be allowed to join the military. Read up on how men treated those women. Horrifically. Look up the first women in the air force. The men that were supposed to protect them tried to kill them by sabotaging their planes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:30 PM
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Again, there is no equality if women are the only ones growing and birthing babies. Anyways, men don't want equality. They want all the power to use and abuse as they see fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:22 PM
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Women literally have to book their husband's doctor and dentist appointments and beg them to go, is it any wonder they live fewer years? Also, retirement is for the rich and privileged. Most people I know, including myself, will work until they die. If I become disabled or too weak to work, I'll slowly lose everything and eventually become homeless. Also, earning more money doesn't mean you should contribute less to your household. There's people who sit on their ass all day that make more money…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:18 PM
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If it's not that hard, then it baffles me even more why men don't step up and help.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:57 PM
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Are you illiterate? Genuinely asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:55 PM
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Oh they LOVE hypocrisy and inequality when it benefits only men. There is nothing equal about only women being pregnant and giving birth, yet they are happy to force a woman or child to do it, even if it kills the woman or child giving birth. But that's what she gets for opening her legs. Stupid dumb slut. BTW, it is not equal if the only thing a man does is give her a few bucks a month. It's laughably the opposite. Anyways, we both know abortion is illegal in many states including in cases of r…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:26 PM
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I live in a fairly liberal area. This is just how it is. I've never in my life witnessed what you speak of from a man besides the one I've married. I can go to any friends or family's house and witness exactly what I'm saying. I can go back to any of my other relationships and see that I basically took on the role of his mother otherwise nothing would get done. I've genuinely never once witnessed a man getting home and helping out (again besides my own). It's immediately get home, sit down, phon…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:13 PM
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Genuinely, I've only witnessed the complete opposite. I've only seen left leaning men saying men should take care of their kids, whereas right leaning men say they should be able to financially abort while also being against abortion for women because she needs to take responsibility for her actions. Right leaning men seem to think children are a punishment specifically for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:47 PM
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A lot of women, like myself, would quite literally off themselves before becoming a trad wife. Besides literal torture or having some horrifically debilitating disease that makes every moment unbearably and agonizingly miserable, there's no worse fate than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:26 AM
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Like 70% of moms I know do all that AND work. Some are happy and think it's the way things should be because he works hard (completely ignoring the fact that she works significantly harder), and some are miserable with little to no plans to leave because the economy has gone to shit and neither of them can afford a place on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:20 PM
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Can't relate to any, but I want to be the white haired chick from Atlantis.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:17 PM
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If you want women to marry and have kids, you need it to be an appealing option. It simply is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:13 PM
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Men will think their wife who does all the cooking, all the cleaning, all the child rearing, all the chores like appointment making and groceries, etc, are lazy freeloading parasites... Men are notoriously hard to please.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:04 PM
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Yes! He lived at home with his parents when we got together. I think we were around 26/27ish. I owned a condo. I genuinely don't think of him as short, but the people around here do. He's 5'6", which is the same as me. However, my shoulders are actually much more broad than his. His slope down, if that makes sense. My legs are way longer, too. His are stubby in comparison, and he has a long torso. I actually never thought he'd be interested in me. He didnt even graduate high school which is stup…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 02:57 PM
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There are a LOT of misogynistic gay men who have little to no kindness for women. I've even seen some gay men speaking out against how many gay men talk about and treat women terribly. Honestly, this is quite known among women in the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 02:37 PM
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You must not know very many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:51 PM
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Okay, so a woman in classy business attire who goes for a drink with her man after work, but unbuttons an extra button on her blouse to show a little extra skin to catch his eye is dressed super duper slutty. Whereas a chick walking down the road in a bikini top with shorts so short her but cheeks hang out isn't dressed like a slut because it's hot af out and she doesn't want to melt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:23 PM
1

What a dramatic mindset!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:15 PM
1

I can easily tell who the self-serving hypocrite is in this equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:33 PM
3

Along with most others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:32 PM
8

I'm sorry, but what you described is a shitty man. A good man isn't made uncomfortable by how someone looks and treats them worse for it. Again, it's perfectly fine not to like how someone looks. It's not okay to treat them badly because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:31 PM
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In the summer, men walk around, drive, ride a bike, hang out outside of Starbucks or whatever with no shirt on and just a pair of shorts, and nobody bats an eye, but women showing some cleavage or wearing short skirts are SLUTS.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:27 PM
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A woman showing her legs or some shoulder isn't slutty, though. Men are just pigs who will sexualize any part of a woman that's shown.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:16 PM
1

This sounds genuinely terrible all around. Seems exhausting to keep score like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:48 AM
4

For the most part, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:45 AM
23

You mean shitty men don't respect women with lots of tattoos. I know this will shock almost all men, but you don't have to like how a woman looks to treat her with basic respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:45 AM
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I've been super fat and super skinny. They way random male strangers would treat me was significantly different. Like, alarmingly different. Also, I have lots of tattoos. Men look at me way differently when they are visible. Older men will unabashedly stare with disgust. It brings me great pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:21 AM
58

As a woman who has dated men, I can attest this is so far from the truth, it's laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:16 AM
2

I can relate to this to some extent. I took my husband's last name because my family never felt like family and I wanted one for myself. With that said, I liked my old last name better. Everyone mispronounces my name now and can never spell it. I also once dated a guy because I LOVED his last name and could totally picture myself with it. It was just bad ass (even though I'm not). When we inevitably parted ways, I missed his last name more than him😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:19 AM
1

Fascinating! May this woman find you one day and make you hers🤞
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:14 AM
1

This "weird thing" has mattered to men for centuries, if not longer. So I'm guessing if it were a deal breaker for her, you'd walk away from the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:12 AM
2

I love your answer! Would your family care at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:11 AM
2

It means a lot to her and would make her happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:10 AM
2

At least you're honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:09 AM
2

If this was a deal breaker for her, would you prefer to walk away from the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:09 AM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:08 AM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:06 AM
1

Q4M: You're getting married to your dream girl. She doesn't want to take your last name but would instead prefer if you take hers. Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:03 AM
1

If i thought something was gross, I'd rather put my mouth on it than my vagina, so i can't really relate to this sentiment at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:15 PM
1

Every guy I dated before my husband didn't like it. The main excuse I got was that it does nothing for them and it's boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:58 PM
1

Genuinely curious, does the thought of women going down on you gross you out just as much since it's what you pee out of? Also, does sex with women gross you out because you're sticking your dick in that same hole that spews blood?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:57 PM
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Has she had sexual partners before? HSV-1 can be dormant all someone's life. So she could have had it for years and not known it. HSV-1 can also be passed on with no visible outbreak. It's called asymptomatic shedding. If you've had previous partners, you could have given it to her as well without knowing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:34 PM
1

This is the first Christmas with my family that I just genuinely can't afford. I'm the one that buys everything, and ugh, it's making me feel a little sick that my husband and my dad could have no stocking and little to nothing under the tree. My son is covered because I'd sell my soul before he went without, but it's the smallest Christmas yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:00 PM
1

Only the most fucked up parents would bring their child to the biggest pedophile organization in the world. Religious folk are who kids need to be protected from, not handed over to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:55 PM
1

When I'm not around my husband, I miss him. I've never had the urge to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:34 PM
1

I'm getting the impression that you don't know what hysterical means. I don't know what you need more, a tissue for your tears or a dictionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:27 PM
1

Don't overreact and be hysterical. Says the guy who cries after dates because he can't get hugs and whines about it on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:09 PM
1

Definition of expectation: a strong belief that something will happen or be the case in the future. So, no, you shouldn't expect a hug.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:03 PM
1

Unless there's an agreed upon list of requirements, I feel like people shouldn't expect anything from a date other than getting to know someone a little bit more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:56 PM
1

I feel this way too, but about people who complain about babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:51 PM
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These guys not only seem like genuinely terrible people, they're also super fucking gross. I have no idea why you'd spend even a moment around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:59 AM
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If THIS guy can get a wife, there is no excuse for the guys around here. It's your own damn fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:49 AM
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No worries. It was wild. It was in someone's house. She never supervised us. I mostly just remember her smoking in the living room and watching judge Judy. They also had a house rabbit that pissed and shit absolutely everywhere. Even as a kid I remember being disgusted. Her husband had a giant box of porno magazines in closet upstairs. I remember being like 6 and constantly going though them with another girl. Once we were fluent readers we'd read each other the articles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:43 AM
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I have. My dad, but only minorly. He now lives with me. I hadn't seen his house in a couple years since he lived far away from me at the time. I went up with my husband and son because he needed to move. I cried it was so nasty. Just piles and piles of junk. Rodent feces everywhere. His stove and oven didn't work. We had to get a giant garbage and storage bin to clean out his house to get it ready to sell. We did a damn good job. Second place was my daycare but it was mostly just mess. Parents n…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:34 AM
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5'6" He's basically microscopic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:51 AM
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He's so dumb he thinks vaccines cause autism and that chemicals in the food and air can turn or gay or trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:47 AM
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Tbf, that could all apply to women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:57 PM
2

Only fuck yourself then, don't waste your time on a woman because health issues happen. Life happens. There's always potential for long and indefinite dry spells.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:27 PM
1

This has not been my lived experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:09 PM
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Just work in long term health care and you'll see it for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:03 PM
3

Boring is good. Boring is safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:58 PM
8

My husband had abs, big biceps, and his thighs and ass were hard as rocks when we got together. Now he has a dad bod. I'm not any less attracted to him. I'd rather he be home helping me with our kid in the morning or evenings then at the gym. We already leave at 7am and get home near 7pm a lot of days. Now that we have a kid, I don't have money for nice clothes and shoes, to get my hair done, to get my nails done, makeup, etc. He's not any less attracted to me. I like that I can make no effort a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:55 PM
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99% of the time. I've never been approached in my whole 34 years of life, even at bars/pubs with the exception of one really weird guy who talked incessantly about his cat. There was one guy in my neighborhood that I got to know while walking my dog. I didn't find him attractive at all though. I went on one date with him and he threw garbage out hIs window at the beach. Instant deal breaker. He'd text me for WEEKS begging for sex. He was so mad when after the date that I didn't invite him back u…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:47 PM
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I'm an actual parent. I can say if my kid was switched at birth, I ain't switching back. The bio kid isn't mine and I'm running away with the imposter. DNA is irrelevant when it comes to loving my son. My husband feels the exact same. He says if he found out I'd cheated, it changes nothing for how he feels for his son. He'd kill to keep his rights to him if he wasn't related. That's how normal people feel. Men who abandon their kids never loved them in the first place and were probably hoping fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:05 AM
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If you love the kid, you wouldn't abandon them. Fucking duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:59 AM
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Any person with a conscience would feel sick with guilt. Maybe you don't have one so you can't possibly understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:57 AM
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Tbf, if the man can live with guilt of abandoning a kid that loves him and knows him as daddy... if he can live with the guilt of knowing he destroyed that kids life, then he's probably doing the kid a favor by walking away because he likely would have done worse later on since he's an utter psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:48 AM
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Do you have kids? I do. If my son's dad suddenly disappeared and I told him "daddy doesn't love you anymore because you aren't related" he's not going to get it! He's going to be traumatized for fucking life. Genuinely, only a dangerous moron would think trying to explain why their daddy doesn't love them and abandoned them would make them feel less unloved and abandoned! It changes absolutely nothing. Their dad still left.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:45 AM
1

What a whacko opinion. Genuinely deranged.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:59 AM
1

I see guys looking rather frequently. Old men stare with visible disgust since I have a lot of tattoos. It's wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:54 AM
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Depends on what the problem is. I work in health care and moms and sisters will devote their ENTIRE lives to take care of their son/brother. Never seen the reverse. Wives will take care of their husband's too. I've worked in health care since I was 19. I'm 34. I've seen a man caring for his severely disabled wife ONCE. Granted he had the funds to have full time caregivers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:52 AM
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That kid will be fucked for life. Kids dont move on from that kind of trauma. Literally never. Kids don't give a shit about DNA. All they know is their dad abandoned them and doesn't love them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:46 AM
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I don't know about everywhere, but where i live, even if it's court ordered, there's basically no consequences if they don't pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:00 PM
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He's autistic (or at least it's presumed so, we are waiting on an assement). He won't be dominating any social circles. He's extremely socially unaware and uninterested. He's only in kindergarten, but he shows no interest in other kids. Prefers a corner in the class facing away from the kids. Will not do group time and will put his back to everyone and do his own thing. He is unable to be in his classroom 99% of the time because he gets so over stimulated he becomes violent. He tells me it gets …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:57 PM
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Men complain about child support a lot. It drives me nuts. I don't think a single one of them understands how much it costs to raise a kid. How much do you think the average man pays in child support? How much of the child's monthly expenses do you think it covers?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:42 PM
1

I believe so. Depends what advice you gave me. You'll have to give me a refresher.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:38 PM
1

I don't know. I'm very attracted to him. Back then he was quite handsome (but short according to reddit)some ladies would go feral for him and others had zero interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:34 PM
1

Postpartum depression. I genuinely thought my son was hideous and was deeply afraid everyone was making fun of him behind my back. I remember crying to my husband because I thought everyone thinks our son is ugly. He kept assuring me that wasn't the case, he's really cute, but I told him he's obligated to say that and I didn't believe him. When someone would tell me my son was cute, I'd feel anger because I thought they were lying or being condescending. Nope, turns out he was actually just cute…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:26 PM
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It's not just support, it's literally everything. I've worked in elder care and when the wives leave or die, men are fucked. They don't know how to cook, pay bills, clean, or even do laundry for themselves. They don't know any of the numbers for their doctor, dentist, etc, because their wife booked all that stuff for him. They don't know their financial situation, they don't know where any important paperwork is. They know fucking NOTHING because the wife did EVERYTHING. I've taken care of disab…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:15 PM
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He knows he's bad at communicating. He's fully aware since it's one of those things that come up often. He also knows he never plans anything ever and it's left up to me. As for what I love ('like' is not nearly as strong enough word) about him. His heart and soul. He is truly the best person I've ever met. He is full of genuine empathy and kindness. He is respectful, especially of women. I've never heard him make a nasty or degrading remark about women. He's comfortable in his sexuality and mas…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:31 PM
2

Then he's both ignorant and an idiot. Both of which are deal breakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:10 PM
5

I'm bi as well. Literally never had a dude plan dates or be any good at texting. Men in my experience are absolutely shit at communicating. I'm married to a man and this still stands. I also have to ask for an apology and explain why I want one. He will give it to me but it's not the same as freely offered and him noticing something is wrong. It was NEVER like this with women, or even just female friends. Women are much more open and compromising. It's very easy to talk about feelings, also they…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:08 PM
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Of course it is. If a man doesn't believe people should earn a living wage, I automatically think he's a piece of shit and would never date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:10 AM
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It's not uncomfortable for me. I just think you're embarrassing yourself. You sound like an abuser making excuses for other abusers. You sound like you don't understand or comprehend the severety of SA, let alone rape. You sound both dangerous and disgustingly ignorant. As for your silly remark about false claims, we both know it's an extremely miniscule amount. Besides, the vast majority of rapists never see a court room. Hell, they can still become president even if they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:24 PM
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It doesn't matter what you believe. This is the kind of conversation where you should probably sit down and shut up about what is and isn't traumatizing to women when it comes to rape and SA.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:15 PM
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This makes me wanna hurl. I genuinely do not understand the appeal. I wonder if there are lady sniffers that like smelling nasty old boxers of men. That is equally if not more repulsive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:56 PM
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We both know this is a delusional take. I've been rejected and dumped by lots of guys. None of which were Chads or even particularly attractive. I just liked them for one reason or another. Literally every average woman I know has been rejected and/or dumped by mediocre men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:18 PM
1

So I'm someone who went from 235 from to 112. I'll be honest, exercising changed nothing. I can't run because of chronic pain, but I walked a lot when I originally lost weight. I'm talking like 8km a day. However, I didn't lose weight until I started eating one meal a day. Bad, I know, but that's what I did. Once I started working full time I couldn't do my long walks anymore. Didn't gain anything back. After having a kid it slowly went up and I hovered around 120ish. Recently balloon to 135, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:17 PM
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The bucket goes under the chair so he doesn't have to get up to shit or piss.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:00 PM
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By their own admittance. I've never known an SA victim who actually got justice, like the man is never questioned or arrested. I've had a lot of horrible things done to me, multiple times the cops were involved. Cops wouldn't even question the guys. This goes for everyone I know. I went to support groups for this sort of thing and not a single one of those girls were believed or taken seriously. NOT ONE.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:00 PM
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I don't know about choice. I never chose to love my son or my husband, or my dog or my cats, I just do. I'd say with my husband the relationship itself takes work, but my love for him doesn't. I think lots of people mistake the honey moon stage for love and get bored or unhappy when the initial excitement fizzles out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 12:29 PM
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I think you need to take a look at what actually happens to women during war, like 5 minutes of googling if that would help you sound exceedingly less ignorant. Anyways, you can't honestly believe there's not a single fucking woman left in the Ukraine. That's utter horse shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:32 PM
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Has he considered a psychiatric evaluation for letting imaginary women dictate his life?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:01 PM
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Conservatives don't want women to have access to abortions or birth control. They also want to get rid of no fault divorce so women are trapped even in dangerous and abusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:52 PM
2

Are you genuinely unaware that Trump is a man or are you just playing stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:05 AM
1

Oh, the health care system here is shit, but it's significantly better than the USA. I don't know anything about health care in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:29 AM
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Yes, men are definitely evil for treating women like things in the majority of the world. Fucking obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:27 AM
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I have never witnessed that most men clearly love the women in their life. Quite the opposite. I've witnessed that most men treat their wives and daughters like absolute shit. SOME men genuinely love the women in their lives, but its few and far between. Also, look at the rest of the world and how women are treated. HORRIFICALLY. Women only have equality in 14 out of 195 countries. Most men hate women, think they are inferior, and treat them as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:49 AM
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Because I'd already be dead in the states. I'm chronically ill and would have never gotten any sort of help or treatment because I wouldn't have been able to afford it. Had I been born in America, I'd have most certainly killed myself a decade ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:27 PM
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I know most liberals, like myself typically vote NDP, but when it comes to the election of the prime minister we are stuck voting liberal since NDP never comes close to winning. JT is the the extreme lesser of two evils unless you like suffering of many, in that case Pierre is a close runner up. He's like a smarter frencher potentially less perverted version of Trump, but still remarkably evil. If Pierre gets in next we can say goodbye to womens and LGBT+ rights and probably medical care too sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:48 PM
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Calling me crazy doesn't change the facts. Quit being hysterical and prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:38 PM
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I've seen lots of accusations made, but they all turned out to be true, even with guys I thought there was no way. The only untrue accusations I can think of wasn't sexual and it was my aunt who was schizophrenic. She was always making claims about my dad. One time she called the cops and told them my dad had barricaded himself in the house and had my sister and I at gunpoint. I had to speak with cops on the phone and tell them, no, my dad is not a lunatic. Though, now that I think about it, I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:31 PM
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Nope. My dad is and all that side of my family, but I was born in Canada, thank god. Excluding my dad, they are all Trump cultists, so I see first hand how unhinged Trump supporters are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:38 PM
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For some of his voters, abortion was not even on the list. Sure, but that means they are despicably terrible people. I can't imagine how one gets to be so disgustingly selfish that they don't consider basic human rights of people. How the thought of all the dead women and raped children forced to give birth don't flit through their mind as they vote is incomprehensible to me. Tbf, I think a lot of people like both those things. I can't relate to people like that, nor do I want to. "men suck, men…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:50 PM
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I'm wondering if anyone is actually telling you that. I think you might be lumping yourself in with the bad guys. I don't know what demographic of women you want to appeal to, but if it's liberal women, then instead of complaining about women not liking awful men, call those awful men out. That's all there is to it. Women want to feel seen and heard by men. So many women are scared of them right now. Telling women they are bad for being scared is not going to help you. You are already miles ahea…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:24 PM
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Do you genuinely not understand that Trump is a man? Do you not understand that those in power enacting all these atrocious laws against women are mostly men? Who do you think benefits from these laws? Not women. The majority of American men are shit. The (white) women aren't much better. I don't know what you want me to say since I've acknowledged these things over and over. Look, I'm not even American. I'm an outsider looking in that probably has a lot more knowledge on the subject than the av…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:47 PM
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If a liberal man sees what I'm saying and votes for Trump or men like him because of my words, he was never liberal to begin with. He's also a terrible piece of shit being so offended by a random womans comments online that in revenge he'd condemn all women to a president that is loud and proud about taking womens rights away and is excited to take more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:40 PM
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I had plenty of sympathy before you showed me the kind of man you really are. I quite literally empathized with your pain because I've felt it myself. But at the end of the day, what's going on here is a problem of your own making. I honestly and genuinely don't know how to sympathize with such a misogynistic delusion, which is why I suggested therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:34 PM
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Cops probably thought you committed a crime yourself I was sobbing in my bathroom, naked as the day I was born and completely inconsolable. I was in the tub because I felt disgusting. One came in angry, screaming at me to get out of the tub. Again, I was sobbing and inconsolable. I was in fucking shock. The cop grabbed my wrist and dragged me out of the bath tub through my hall and into the living room where there were more cops. Again, i was butt fucking naked. I'd just been beaten and raped. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:24 PM
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I'm going to be brutally honest here. Everything you said in response to me talking about me trauma is unbelievably fucked up. You made a wild display of your lack of empathy. You also proved you're a hypocrite in a multitude of ways. I don't see you calling out OldThrwy for him pulling the rape card in his initial response to me. Not only that, YOU pulled the rape card. Like get the fuck outta here, I can't even pretend to take you seriously. Also, my traumas weren't what solidified my feelings…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:39 PM
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What about them? Also, those guys, especially ones who make videos on their views (like Dean Withers) are ADORED by girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:19 PM
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I've been raped and was called a liar by cops. Was intensely interrogated for a few hours by cops. They asked almost nothing about what happened or the guy, they just kept asking why was lying. They called my boyfriend who was my emergency contact at the time and told him I'm lying and just regret cheating on him and to come get me. I was never even taken to the hospital for a rape kit. In another instance, I lost everything when I finally spoke up about my step dad. I was kicked out of my house…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:15 PM
3

I'm genuinely unsure what your point is?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:05 PM
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And women have zero desire to help men. I genuinely don't believe this. I think women will shoot themselves in the foot if it means pleasing the men in their lives. Women frequently devote their entire lives to their husbands and their sons. They live to please and help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:55 PM
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It's not women who are positions of power who are enacting these laws, but if you must know, I deeply loathe the women you speak of and feel a deep sense of betrayal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:51 PM
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but you will rub shoulders with the 44% of women who voted for Trump without fearing them as psychos too? Fuck no I wouldn't and hell yes I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:49 PM
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I don't really pretend that men are any better or worse based on geography. I view it as how men are when times are tough or whatever. There's a reason why a lot of western women say they'd kill themselves if an apocalypse happened. We know how we'd be treated in a lawless society by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:46 PM
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My bad, I thought Trump and his cronies were men. What should I refer to them as? Blame Republicans if you have to blame anyone. Or blame evangelicals. Heck, blame conservative-voting men AND women if you must. I blame all of the above and more. According to the feminist definition of rape, I’ve been raped twice by women. No one gives a shit, especially women This is horrible and I'm so fucking sorry this has happened to you. That's beyond fucked up and I wish you could have gotten the support y…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:39 PM
1

Wow. A lot of women are shitty too. Tell me something I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:24 PM
1

I have a lot of views on men that I'm sure you'd believe is misandry. I don't trust men. I honestly don't like most men. In my day to day life, I give plenty of chances, but am continually disappointed by the fucked up things that come out of mens mouths once they get comfortable. Misogyny (especially with my boss) is like an every day occurrence, however, I've never actually seen misandry in person, other than like a woman who's been cheated on calling men pigs. The angry misandry I see online,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:23 PM
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Let's be real honest here. Men have no desire to help women. Most men like women suffering. Even if all women worshiped men and did everything they said, women would still be fucked. Look at places like afghanistan. Women are things, they have no say about anything and they are treated horrifically. American men are just more honest now. They want to go back to the days when women were things. In my experience, men will only do things that benefit them. Right now, that's taking womens rights awa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:03 PM
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I would never laugh or celebrate a mans basic human rights being taken away. I would never laugh while somebody cries. I'm literally not capable of it. The thought disgusts me that anybody could. Again, as I've said, I'm radically the opposite of these men. They hate women and want women to suffer. They feel genuine joy when women or girls suffer, yet there are so many mens issues I'm in favor of and would fight to support. Like fuck the draft, circumcision should be illegal, there should be saf…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:54 PM
2

Well, men literally are the problem. Don't know what to tell ya. Facts over feelings and all that. Also, I didn't say all men, but I will admit that I do believe it's most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:39 PM
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I didn't say YOU, I said men do not take other male victims seriously. I never said men should get less support. I've repeatedly said the opposite. It seems like you're so angry you're not understanding what I am personally saying. In a way, that's a good thing, you should be heated if this means so much to you. Be the change you want to see. Support and fight for men and get the programs you want to see running. Ive seen nurses lecure male victims about why male SA is less traumatizing. When I …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:37 PM
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I'd say I'm the more dominant one in the relationship, but not at all in bed, nor do I want to be. I am not at all submissive in my day to day life (except for at work to keep my employers happy), but I like being "over-powered" in bed. Not like, in a rapey way. I just like him being stronger and in charge and doing his thing. With that said, I do NOT want to be slapped or choked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:24 PM
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Cool. I have seen hundreds if not thousands of posts in like the last few months from men saying women should be killed if they don't submit to men, women should be raped, women are only good for fucking/breeding, etc. MEN ARE THREATENING regardless of what they look like. Don't forget about the hundreds of posts from just yesterday where men are laughing at women crying because Trump won. Women know their actual rights and lives are at risk and men LAUGH. Women are dying and men LAUGH and CELEB…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:15 PM
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Are you talking about men being SAd by other men? Then the statement is correct. It is a mens issue. With that said, I firmly believe men should be taken seriously. The trauma is real. The problem is men don't even take other men seriously. When men are sexually abused by women, especially if it's a boy and a grown ass woman, you get a dozen comments from men saying they wish it were them and he's so lucky. This IS a mens issue. Men really need to support other men. I will say, women basically g…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:12 PM
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Well, nobody is telling men they are wrong. In fact, they are being empowered to take womens and girls rights away. We have become desensitized to women being raped. Women being forced to give birth against their will. Women dying from lack of abortion care. Men don't care. Boys especially don't care. What's the viral saying right now, "Your body, my choice." Now we have men getting mad at women for as you say, "retaliation." Stop the source of the problem (men), and I bet 99% of misandry would …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:06 PM
1

True. But it happens constantly for so many reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:33 PM
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Make what okay? Support for what? I am nothing like them. I'm not advocating to take basic human rights away knowing it will result in horror and death. I am radically the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:32 PM
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I've never had this happen and I'm like ultra liberal and deeply entrenched in feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:05 PM
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Go to patriot.win and you can see men hating women unchecked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:02 PM
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Conservative women hate themselves instead. They are taught they are inferior to men, especially if they go to church. They are taught they are men's biggest and worst problem and are nuisance unless basically worshipping him, but even then, he probably won't like or want you so try harder. Also, her happiness never matters. Only his.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:00 PM
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Here's [one] (https://www.pbs.org/newshour/nation/man-gets-life-sentence-for-raping-9-year-old-girl-who-sought-abortion-in-indiana) about a 9 year old where she was lucky enough to have family who could afford to flee her state. Do you think girls should be forced to flee their homes to potentially travel hundreds if not thousands of kilometers to get medical care, and those who can't afford it must endure torture and potential death? Let's not forget that Republicans have been talking incessant…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:04 PM
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Oh dear. What mistakes have I personally made?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:37 PM
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We both know that's not true in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:06 PM
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Men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:04 PM
1

I demonize all men (and women) who vote for him or speak in his favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:46 PM
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At no point in history have men ever bent over backward to please women. Always drastically the opposite. Men were just a little quieter about their general loathing for women the last little while until recently. Curious though. Name the specific year where America was great.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:44 PM
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Nope. My step dad worked at a fast food place. He did shit to me and some others. We were labeled liars. I was a troubled kid and he hired girls in foster care so nobody gave a shit about them. So nobody believed them either. My own dad didn't believe me. My mom kicked me out. When I was beaten and raped by some dude in his trailer, cops wouldn't even question him. I didn't even get a rape kit. I was interrogated by 3 different cops asking me over and over why I'm lying. One called my boyfriend …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:41 PM
1

I don't remember a woman ever being president and packing the Supreme Court with right wing lunatics. But with that said, fuck any woman who voted against her own rights. May she reap what she sows.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:33 PM
2

The one good thing about this election is we can finally put to rest the absurd belief that rape/SA accusations ruin mens lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:30 PM
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It just means dead innocent women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:25 PM
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I'd say getting their basic human rights taken away by men is a pretty good reason to demonize men. Like every every other day, there's a new face of a dead woman or near dead woman who has suffered unimaginable trauma because of trump's abortion bans.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:18 PM
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All the studies I find say the exact opposite. Around 32% of women keep. Over 50% abort. Around 11% miscarry before a choice is made, and the rest placed the baby up for adoption. Anyways, no, abortion doesn't take a toll on mental health in the vast majority of cases. 84% of women have positive emotions regarding their abortions and no regrets. Pregnancy and birth are much more traumatic, not to mention it can cause permanent physical and mental health issues, the latter of which you're so conc…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:23 PM
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If it's illegal to have an abortion in cases of rape, then they have no choice. It's forced. Which is the case for many states. Also, advocating that 9, 10, 11 year olds should have their rape babies is INSANE! They can't even grasp what is happening to them or why they could very likely die since they are babies themselves and their bodies aren't developed enough. These little girls and their families have NO CHOICE. There should always be a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:15 PM
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Nor did women, yet they will punish, doom, and kill women because they can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:09 PM
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Even if she was their dream girl they'd still vote against her simply because she's a woman. Also, since the dawn of history women have been told we don't matter. Nobody bats an eye. Yet women get a few years of freedom and men crumble and start taking those rights back. God forbid men get their feelings hurt, we can't have that. Women dying from lack of health care, now that's something to celebrate!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 02:56 PM
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I'm not understanding. Are you talking about poor people? Why would any smart poor person vote for Trump when he wants to get rid of social security, Medicaid, planned parenthood, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 02:53 PM
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I still don't get it since we know he wants to make things much worse and has said so. Kinda boggles my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 02:50 PM
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You do realize a lot of children from poor families get pregnant right? These are poor uneducated children who are often impregnated by adult men. I think it's something like 40% of pregnancies in 15 year old girls are from men over 20 years old. These kids don't even have sex education because it's illegal in schools. It's all so fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:47 PM
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I went to the police right after. I was told I was lying. I did NOT get a rape kit. The man wasn't even questioned. Men live in a fantasy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:39 PM
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Okay, so you clearly know NOTHING about pregnancy, and that's okay! Let me educate you because we are actually talking about a significant portion of women. 2% of pregnancies are ectopic. Every ectopic pregnancy requires an abortion. 10-20% of pregnancies end in miscarriages. Approximately 59% of those will be impartial and need medical intervention, which is illegal in many states, because even if the baby is dead, it's still considered an abortion to get the rotting remains out, which is why w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:30 PM
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Except it's not safe to have sex then either. Women are literally dying from easily treated pregnancy complications. Neveah Crain is one of the most recent among many. She wanted her baby, yet things went wrong and she needed a life saving abortion. She died. Her state legally murdered her because that's what men want. If you're a failed incubator, to hell with you, go fucking die. At least we can all agree now that women and girls desperately need feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:10 PM
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Doesn't matter what the majority is. 64,000 women and little girls have been forced to give birth to their rapists offspring since the repeal, and that's just reported numbers. 1 is too many. Thousands makes me want to puke. America has gone to hell. At least there is absolutely no denying that women and girls desperately need feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:00 PM
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I believe Neveah died the same day she got sick. There wasn't any time. Also, poor people do not have the money to travel. Since the repeal, 64000 women and little girls have been forced to birth their rapists offspring (i think it's 10 or 11 states where rape and incest are not exceptions for abortion). I read about an 11 year old girl who was raped in her yard while playing. Her single mom didn't have the money to travel for an abortion. She was forced to have a child. It's utterly fucked what…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:02 AM
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Dating a pro choice man doesn't automatically mean abortion is available to you. I would absolutely NOT have PIV with my husband if abortion became illegal where I live. I'd want the baby, however, I am NOT dying for one should complications arise. Luckily, my husband is fully on board.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:55 AM
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Nope. Look up Nevaeh Crain and all the women/girls like her. She was septic and they sent her home. She died. She was 18 years old. Also, even in cases of cancer you can't get an abortion. A Florida woman was denied an abortion. She wanted to be able to do chemotherapy, but you can't while pregnant. The courts ruled that the chemotherapy wouldn't save her, only prolong her life. So no abortion even though she might not live long enough to carry to term. So fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:51 AM
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Having large body counts or sleeping with sex workers? Because those are two entirely different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:29 AM
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If he were an awkward virgin who just really wanted to try having sex for the first time, maybe I could look past it, but it's a huge ick and a part of me would always be a bit repulsed that he did something like that. If a guy regularly slept with sex workers, hell no. Not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:45 AM
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So many. You should look into women's history. It's beautiful how women can unite for a cause. Maybe men could do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:39 AM
1

I'm 34. I'm the only woman I know who has a husband who pulls his weight and then some.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:36 AM
1

My wedding cost 7 bucks. It was a steal of a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 04:43 PM
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Don't men typically hate being proposed to? Whenever I see men being proposed to they look miserable. Also, i asked my husband if he'd have cared if I had proposed, he said he wouldn't have liked it at all. He said he's thought about proposing a lot to a girl since he was a kid and it was like a built-up fantasy that he one day wanted to fulfill. Edit: personally I think a lot of men, particularly conservative men, would hate it because it puts them it what is considered an emasculating situatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:58 PM
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I do this with my husband all the time. I hear him talking but I have no idea what he's saying because mentally, we be fucking. Sometimes he notices and it makes him all cocky.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:54 PM
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Average to good-looking men care a LOT about looks. Lots of ugly dudes do as well and that's why many of them are forever single. However, in my experience, there is a minority of ugly dudes that will take what they can get and will worship any woman that will date/fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:40 PM
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My husband opens the car door for me sometimes. When I get home from work he occasionally runs down the driveway just to open my car door for me. I love it. He also calls me princess from time to time. Love that as well!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:36 PM
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I genuinely don't know a single woman who is married or with a man who has abs. Now that i think about it, i don't even think I know a man who has abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 04:28 AM
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My husband is unlike any man I've ever met in my whole entire life. If he were to die, I know I'll never be happy with a guy again. I've never dated an outright asshole, but every other guy was shitty in a multitude of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:33 AM
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I have no idea how your comment applies to mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:29 AM
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"Better men" are a rare commodity and are hard to find. A woman is so very lucky to get one of these better men. I am married to one of them. Locked that shit down asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:14 PM
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Women often fuck themselves better than any man can. A scary amount of women see sex as a chore since men make it so unpleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:04 PM
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Dang, I at least thought they'd pay for the date. In my experience, they wanted to think themselves gentlemanly and chivalrous. But yes, in my experience, religious men are often freaky and perverted and so very repressed in many unfortunate ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:00 PM
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For the most part he was an okay dad, but if I liked the woman he brought around, I'd tell them he's a cheating asshole. Even went through his emails to get evidence for one lady since I loved her so much. He never got mad at me. He understood how much I cared about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:59 PM
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I'm Canadian, and it's the same here. It's just what girls are taught from a super young age. It's seen as romantic and that he has special interest in you. So if he isn't willing to pay, clearly he's not interested or even remotely invested, which obviously isn't necessarily how things are, but that is how I think it feels to a lot of girls/women. I'm married and it still feels good and special when my husband offers to pay for something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:56 PM
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Both my great grandmothers were horrifically abused. Both my grandmother's as well, granted one, from what I know, was only verbal/emotional/financial abuse. It was a well known "secret" that when my grandfather died my grandma was relieved and happy because she finally had freedom. My grandparents are older than some. She was like 92 back in 2010. She's long gone now. My other grandparents died in their 90s around 2000. So, yeah, those ladies had shitty lives. Anyways, I'm married AND have cats…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:56 PM
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I'm going to say the vast majority of women feel the same way. They all work full time, they all take care of the kids, they all cook, they all clean, and the men are around and maybe takes out the garbage after being asked a dozen or so times.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:36 PM
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Women no longer have equal rights. This fact isnt even debatable. We are an incubator and nothing more, even if it kills us. You can't even get an abortion if it's you're raped in many states, including if it's incestuous. Women are still things. Little girls who are 10, 11, 12 are being forced to give birth to their rapists offspring. Its entirely fucked and draconian. Anyways, when I was in my early 20s, I was HUGE pick me that was all about men's rights. I thought feminism was bad. This was y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:34 PM
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Women don't trust men because they take women's rights away every chance they get... so women get mad, which in your mind means men should rise up and take more rights away... So you think women should just roll over and not care that men do horrific things to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:14 PM
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Ew, what a creepy thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:56 PM
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Are you living under a rock? There's a dead woman on the news like every week because of the abortion bans killing innocent women/girls. The most recent being Naveah Crain in Texas. Since the repeal, 64,000 women and little girls have been forced to give birth to their rapists baby. This is just reported numbers. Its estimated to be much higher. Also, when was the last time you were drafted? Oh no, men have to pay child support. I have a kid, let me tell you, the couple hundred bucks a man pays …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:45 PM
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Just because you and a bunch of shitty loser dudes are single, doesn't mean most guys fall into that category. The majority of guys are in relationships. The majority will marry and have kids. Just because women won't fuck you, doesn't mean they are monsters. Sounds like they have standards, especially since you think it's worse not to get laid than being beaten or killed by your spouse. It isn't me who's toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:33 PM
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We both know that's horse shit. Women have laws that legally kill them if they get pregnant and have complications. Women and little girls who are raped are now forced to give birth in many states, even if it kills them. You think women are privileged because they have easy access to sex. I think men are privileged because they have basic human rights. These two are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:28 PM
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When I have picked up or dropped off my son at school, I've been paying very close to the dads because according to ppd, the only men that get women are hot rich chads. However, at this point, I'm convinced hot people never marry, or at least have kids. 99% of the dads are some combination of fat, ugly, and balding. The women are better, but not by much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:39 PM
0

Men get bang maids who pay 50% or more of the bills. What do women get?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:30 PM
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Basically, he said 99% of guys who try to date me won't even like me. They just want to fuck and leave. Can't expect guys to be loyal, etc. But also my dad has called me a whore for getting used by a guy he introduced me to. I don't even think he likes me, since he's told me the only reason my husband is still with me is because he's still in lust with me. I was like, "What?!?!" and then my dad said he can tell by the way my husband looks at me. My dad is a womanizer to some extent and has alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:17 PM
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Yeah, I'm 34, and I never once dated a guy who thought he should be a provider or even wanted to. Drastically the opposite. When I went to church for a few years, I bet a lot of the guys thought that way, but even in my god phase I wasn't dumb enough to date religious men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:03 PM
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They never questioned him. They never even took his name (far as i know). They didn't even take me to the hospital for a rape kit. They just interrogated the hell out of me and kept asking me why I was making all this up, why I was lying, etc. It was so long ago (about 15 years ago), I doubt I could pick the guy out of a line up. I wouldn't even know if I walked by him on the street. I'm in BC Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:07 PM
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Again, the vast majority never go to court. So now, when a woman/girl makes a report, and it can't be proven, then they can turn around and say she was lying, now it's her going to court instead. How do you prove its not a lie? You can't. So countless innocent women/girls will be going to prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:03 PM
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If it can't be proven, how do we know she's not lying? Cops were insisting i was lying. Should I be in prison? They called my (now former) boyfriend who was my emergency contact at the time, and told him I'm lying and just regret cheating on him. Sounds like with your rules, I'd be in prison. Every women and girl who reports is called a liar by just about everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:38 PM
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Like 99% of SA don't even make it to trial. Again, should I be in prison because I couldn't prove I was raped? Should I be in prison because I couldn't prove what my step dad did?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:33 PM
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I asked someone else this. But I'm curious about your answer as well. Copy and pasted: How do you even know it's a false accusation? This is what freaks me out. I had a horrific incident and reported it to the police. They told me i was lying. So should I be in prison? I also had issues with my step dad. Once I was finally brave enough to speak up because another girl did, we were branded as liars. I was kicked out of my house because of it. Should I have gone to prison instead? Basically, you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:16 PM
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How do you even know it's a false accusation? This is what freaks me out. I had a horrific incident and reported it to the police. They told me i was lying. So should I be in prison? I also had issues with my step dad. Once I was finally brave enough to speak up because another girl did, we were branded as liars. I was kicked out of my house because of it. Should I have gone to prison instead? Basically, you're going to send tons of victims to prison, but then again, men probably love that idea.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:14 PM
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I'm nosey. Why didn't it work out? Why did she like about you? Why can't you build confidence outside of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:47 AM
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You almost definitely won't be when you're first learning. Do you get attention from girls at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:36 AM
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You don't know that. Sex could utterly destroy what little self-esteem you have left.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:32 AM
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Yes, I do, which is why I'm in mental agony over the fact that mine is over😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:31 AM
1

Fridays are my Sundays, so I'm dreading tomorrow and wishing it would never come.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:16 AM
1

Hopefully one day 🤞
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:16 AM
1

I'm genuinely really fucking confused what you're asking me. I have no idea how the general public would convince men of anything. They can't even be convinced women or lgbt+ people should have basic human rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:34 PM
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I genuinely don't really have any negative feelings towards incels. Red pill on the other hand, I find viscerally repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:29 PM
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I always kind of assumed red pill dudes were mostly incels, just of the dangerously misogynistic variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 08:54 PM
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I don't even think a woman/girl should be asked why she's having an abortion. It isn't anybody's business but her own. I am also for "financial abortion" of men so long as the woman receives child support from the government that is paid for pay yours and my taxes. I don't believe a child should be doomed to poverty because that man who created them won't feed or care for them. However, there needs to be a list for these men. I think he gets a freebie once or twice, but afterwards, he's the prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 08:32 PM
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I'm not trying to convince anyone of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 08:27 PM
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You realize children can get pregnant too, right? In fact, you can rape them in many states and she'll be forced to give birth, even if it's incest or it'll kill her. Let's not act like people who are pro life give one iota of a fuck about babies or kids. Anyways, once cis men go through the fuckery that is pregnancy and birth, I'll agree with you. You can't force people to destroy their body and / or mind, or even die for someone or something else. Pregnancy and child birth is nowhere on the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:43 PM
1

Again, get help. You are getting angry and defensive and trying to protect a guy who brutally murdered his girlfriend in cold blood and let her rot. He didn't help the search, he only confessed once he was caught AFTER the body was found. He would have happily let her family keep on searching and her body keep on rotting because he's a fucked up killer. So, yeah, for the millionth time, you need serious intervention. Get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:23 PM
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