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| 17 | One of the worst marriage-related decisions a man can make is marry a woman under 27Why haven't you told this poor woman so she can escape this awful man? Why are you friends with a soulless homewrecking whore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 01:16 PM |
| – | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyThat is just completely false. Men are far more likely to kill children than women, especially once the child is older. Fathers, stepfathers, and mothers’ boyfriends are consistently the most common perpetrators in child homicides. This isn’t a debate, it’s documented fact through CDC, DOJ, and global homicide data. The only exception is in infant deaths, and even that needs context. When women kill infants, it’s almost always due to postpartum depression or postpartum psychosis. These are serio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 10:13 PM |
| – | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyDon't men commit like 80% of violent crimes? So, no, men are much worse than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchysays the cry baby manlet who can't face reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyI simply don't believe that the majority of men on this sub wouldn't be violent towards women, especially if they could get away with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyAccording to you, I should be in prison. When I was 19, I was violently beaten and raped. The police didn't take me to the hospital, I didn't get a rape kit, the man was never questioned. They took me down the station, put me in a small room and had multiple cops over the course of hours ask me OVER AND OVER why was I lying? They even called my boyfriend at the time (my emergency contact) and told him I was lying and simply regretted cheating on him. Just say it how it is. You want innocent wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyGo ahead and call me stupid, but no amount of imagination will make you correct. Facts over feelings, right? So swallow your pride, wipe those tears away, and face reality. Statistically, men are far more likely than women to be the perpetrators of violence against children, especially when we're talking about sexual abuse, physical abuse, and severe neglect. When it comes to sexual abuse, the vast majority of perpetrators are male, often by a wide margin (80–95% in many studies). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 04:51 PM |
| 0 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchySounds like you don't have any idea what you're talking about or what patriarchy is. Get back to me once you educate yourself because this is just embarrassing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyWhich country? Actually, never mind, i don't know of a single country who's government has a female majority. So, no, men are the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyThis is literally a classic example of how patriarchy hurts men. "minority" lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyI very clearly used it as an example of misogyny vs. misandry at their worst. I'm sorry you're struggling to keep up. Men cry about misandry, at worst, hurting their feelings, but misogyny leads to women being tortured, raped, killed, etc, but men don't care. They think their feelings are more important than literal dead and raped women. Anyways, I'm not American so I'm not force fed your propaganda. American soldiers committed many horrors against innocent civilians there. American soldiers are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 02:28 PM |
| 6 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyYes, general society is obviously at fault. It's society who allows these atrocities to happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyWhat a wildly stupid assumption. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 02:10 PM |
| 5 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyUkraine is a patriarchal society run by men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 02:08 PM |
| 4 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyLess than 1% of rapists go to prison. Try again. I've had multiple assaults against me. Not a single one was taken seriously. I was always punished. They got to walk away laughing. What would you like me to say to my step dad? Genuinely curious. Nobody believed me. At one point, if I wanted to relationship with any of my family, I was forced to sit down and APOLOGIZE to him for all the bad things I said about him. My own father made me do this since I could have ruined a good man's reputation. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchySays the the most emotional and irrational creature on the planet: A MAN. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 01:59 PM |
| 8 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyYeah, stating you don't think women and little girls should have rights over their body, and should, in fact, be tortured, potentially to death, isn't a valid argument. It just makes you evil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 01:58 PM |
| 6 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyMen, by and large, are the perpetrators of violent misogyny. I don't need to clarify anything. I'm stating the obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 01:56 PM |
| 6 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyIs it easy or hard to blatantly ignore reality. Genuinely curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 01:53 PM |
| 9 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyThis is the experience of billions of women. That's the point. Countless women have it significantly worse than I could ever a imagine, yet men like you call them liars. It's sick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 01:50 PM |
| 7 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyI've had multiple sexual assaults against me. One where I was violently beaten and raped. I was branded a liar by police. I grew up with my creep of a step dad. When I finally had the guts to say something, I was called a liar by my whole family. I was kicked out at 17. Two other girls would eventually speak out against him. They were also called liars and relieved no justice. I was assaulted at school, a group of boys pulled my pants and underwear down. I was the one that got in trouble. A grou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 01:34 PM |
| 0 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyQuote me where I specifically included YOU. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 01:24 PM |
| 7 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyI'm pretty sure it's something like 0.5% of rapists see a day in prison. Men don't care when it comes to violent crime against women. If anything, they celebrate it. Look at places like Afghanistan. Tell me where in the world there's a misandrist equivalent. You can't. It doesn't and has never existed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyActively go to prison because they are a danger to humanity. And, no, not all men. I'm just sick of reading countless stories about men raping women or girls and then not getting punished because it would be cruel and it might ruin his future career... because God forbid. Hell, there's a guy in my area that women have been warning other women about. He's on dating apps and been seen in bars. He strangled a girl to death and left her in some bushes. He was only sentenced to 8 years and is now out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 12:45 PM |
| 0 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyIt's not 200 years ago. Men NOW need to pay for the horrors they commit against women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 12:32 PM |
| 39 | Men who were clear and consistent about not wanting kids are no morally different than sperm donors to me.If he really wanted her go take plan B, he would have immediately gone out and bought it, brought it to her, and watched her take it. He sounds really stupid, irresponsible, and 50% to blame. Just because he's a moron doesn't mean he can dodge responsibility for his actions. Hopefully he will learn something here, but I doubt it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 11:27 AM |
| 5 | Why is acting macho unattractive ?And so is my short broke king 🥰 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 09:15 PM |
| – | In your country, the rights of men and women are already equal.As I said, I gave you the exact same treatment you gave me. Nothing less, nothing more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 02:09 PM |
| -1 | Believing every man claiming to be baby trapped is wild.Prove to me that no conservatives think this way. You can't. The US conservative government quite literally embodies all of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 02:08 PM |
| 10 | Why is acting macho unattractive ?Everything he mentioned is repulsive. Obviously, some big guys are hot. However, for me, there is no 'very muscular' guy that is. A lot of muscle can make a good looking guy ugly. Stoic faces are weird and scary. Seems psycho. I like really expressive guys. I never want my man to fight and I think men driving fancy sports cars (or trucks) is embarrassing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 02:06 PM |
| 0 | In your country, the rights of men and women are already equal.I'm giving you the exact same energy you gave me. Odd you can't handle how you treat others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Believing every man claiming to be baby trapped is wild.It's not a matter of disagreeing. They deny facts/reality. Copied from my other comment: Here are a few conservative delusions that come immediately to mind... Climate change isn’t real or isn’t a big deal Trickle-down economics works Systemic racism doesn’t exist Sexuality is a choice The U.S. is the greatest country on Earth COVID was overblown/doesn't exist Immigrants are stealing jobs and dangerous Religion belongs in politics (but only theirs) Abortion is murder, but forced birth isn’t crue… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 01:17 PM |
| 6 | Believing every man claiming to be baby trapped is wild.Here are a few conservative delusions that come immediately to mind... Climate change isn’t real or isn’t a big deal Trickle-down economics works Systemic racism doesn’t exist Sexuality is a choice The U.S. is the greatest country on Earth COVID was overblown/doesn't exist Immigrants are stealing jobs and dangerous Religion belongs in politics (but only theirs) Abortion is murder, but forced birth isn’t cruelty The free market will solve everything Faith matters more than facts Women exist to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 01:14 PM |
| 7 | Believing every man claiming to be baby trapped is wild.The whole basis of conservatism is being unable to think critically and the willingness to deny reality/facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 12:43 PM |
| 0 | In your country, the rights of men and women are already equal.What a genuinely evil take. Instead of getting all pissy that I'm pointing out what a gross amount of men think, how about you take it up with the men who actually think this way. No, instead, you'd prefer me to stay silent. Men are creating barbaric laws that are killing and torturing women and little girls. That's okay. That doesn't cause hate and division. Me pointing it out does. Genuinely, what the fuck? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 12:40 PM |
| 1 | In your country, the rights of men and women are already equal.Men don't consider this a right. Men are perfectly happy if women die or are tortured this way because women are dirty disgusting sluts that need to be punished. If it's a child who is raped and forced to give birth against her will even if it will kill her, good, because every life matters... except hers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/25 03:20 PM |
| – | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?Yeah, this is just a made up thing from loser men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 12:00 PM |
| – | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?Nah, depends on the parents lifestyle. You can't cheap out on your kids because you want to hoard all your wealth and let your kids suffer for it. If you can afford to give your child more than the basic necessities for survival, you should. This is a no brainer. If you divorce and your kids go to private school, you should still have to pay for half of that. Only a despicable piece of shit would say, no thanks, I'm only giving just enough money for food so they don't die of starvation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 09:02 PM |
| 5 | What is the ideal Redpill Relationship?This gave me a laugh, but at least it shows how ignorant you are. I've been doing this for 16 years. There have always been the chatty sorts, but they were never the majority. Most of the folks have a favorite caregiver they'll open up to and no one else besides bits and pieces here and there. Obviously every place had it's hated caregivers and they get nothing from no one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 08:56 PM |
| 4 | What is the ideal Redpill Relationship?You describe yourself as a red pill woman. You're inherently unsafe. I would imagine that rolls over into real life and women wouldn't feel safe to be vulnerable around you. Are you saying my grandma should have missed her beatings? Or how my other one would get her face scribbled out in pictures because she was "ugly"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 08:27 PM |
| 14 | What is the ideal Redpill Relationship?I've worked in care homes for elderly people. The women had it BAD. Beyond bad. Just miserable and often horrific. Even my grandmothers had miserable marriages they were trapped in. Basically, women didn't feel free and happy until their husbands died. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 07:30 PM |
| – | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?I agree. Everyone I know only gets a few hundred a month. It should be WAY more. I doesn't matter if the other parent can't afford it. They can go without food, hydro, or get a room mate. Kids come first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 05:58 PM |
| – | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?I would agree with this statement if men had to endure 9 months of hell on their body and the agony of birth and postpartum. They'd need to die and have severe health complications as women going through pregnancy/birth. Many will also have life-long pain and health issues following. Same rate as women. As long as men did this, it would be fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 04:11 PM |
| – | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?I don't think it's an outlier. With people I've known who have divorced (countless at this point), I only know one dad who wanted his kids part of the time. He also never complained about child support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 04:07 PM |
| – | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?The only men and women who think it's unfair are deadbeats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 04:05 PM |
| – | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?What is too much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 04:04 PM |
| 0 | Would you date a trans woman that passes well?Again, for a lot of them, unless they told you, you wouldn't know. Are you saying you're not attracted to any woman until she confirms she is cis? My husband wouldn't date a trans woman who has a dick. He is not attracted to dicks. However, I've shown him plenty of pics and videos asking if this chick is hot and he says yeah... because you can't tell. Then I tell him shes trans and he's like whoops, still pretty, but would not date because a dick makes them incompatible. If they have a vag, it's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 01:22 PM |
| 0 | Would you date a trans woman that passes well?Oh, then you're kinda out of touch. But trans people still exist in the south despite what evil bigots want. It would be even more important that you don't clock them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 01:06 PM |
| 0 | Would you date a trans woman that passes well?This seems certifiably insane go me. If it comes down to semen, lots of cis men are technically women to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 01:02 PM |
| 0 | Would you date a trans woman that passes well?Guaranteed, you've almost certainly crossed paths with trans people and never even knew. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 12:57 PM |
| 0 | Would you date a trans woman that passes well?I do not believe you. Not even a little bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a trans woman that passes well?According you, this is a woman. They are a trans man. So me and any other women attracted to this person is gay, but any man attracted to them would be straight. Do you think a straight man would be attracted to this woman? Are you attracted to this woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Would you date a trans woman that passes well?<image> Reminder to myself that any man attracted to these kinds of characteristics is gay af and should be treated as such. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 01:49 AM |
| 3 | Would you date a trans woman that passes well?<image> I guess being attracted to men like this makes me a lesbian 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 01:45 AM |
| -1 | Would you date a trans woman that passes well?Today I learned being attracted to women is gay. Men get crazier every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone else found that Right Wing Man/Left Wing Woman pairings seem more common than the reverse?I've personally never met a right-wing man (at least in person) that had anything positive about them. To me I made it extremely clear I'm talking about men I've met and/or know, not people I've never met and therefore can't judge. I even hinted at the fact (by saying at least in person) that there was potential wiggle room for people I've talked to online. Granted, 99% seemed to fit into my assessment that there's nothing positive about them. However, if you're right wing, you likely vote right… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone else found that Right Wing Man/Left Wing Woman pairings seem more common than the reverse?Toxic masculinity breeds abusive behavior, sexual entitlement, controlling relationships, neglectful parenting, and emotional unavailability. It teaches men that empathy is for losers and women are trophies or threats. It teaches boys to mock girls and teaches girls to expect pain as part of love. Healthy masculinity means being strong and kind. Protective and nurturing. Confident without being cruel, but toxic masculinity butchers all that and replaces it with fear-based bravado. It’s performat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 04:45 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone else found that Right Wing Man/Left Wing Woman pairings seem more common than the reverse?Yes. I am actually aware of this. I know I think in very black or white terms, or good vs. evil (often how it goes in my mind). Didn't recognize it in this instance though. Where/how exactly is this trait being displayed for you to notice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone else found that Right Wing Man/Left Wing Woman pairings seem more common than the reverse?I almost certainly am. Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 03:41 PM |
| 9 | Has anyone else found that Right Wing Man/Left Wing Woman pairings seem more common than the reverse?Just scrolling I see news posts of guys killing their families all the the time. I've seen two new ones today. I was just reading about a guy who brutally murdered his baby because he was jealous of the attention they were getting from cancer. Also I just looked it up. In the U.S., about 450 children are killed by their parents each year. Of those, fathers are more likely to kill the entire family in what’s called a familicide—typically involving the murder of a partner and children, often follo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 03:36 PM |
| 9 | Has anyone else found that Right Wing Man/Left Wing Woman pairings seem more common than the reverse?North American is a third world? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone else found that Right Wing Man/Left Wing Woman pairings seem more common than the reverse?I'm sorry, I see men in the news every other day after killing their wife and children. I rarely see women do this, and it's often when they are in psychosis after birth. So, I'm not sure what you're referring to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 03:12 PM |
| 0 | Has anyone else found that Right Wing Man/Left Wing Woman pairings seem more common than the reverse?I'm talking about bodily autonomy. What about you? Sounds like you're talking about men who are well known for being family annihilators. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 03:10 PM |
| 0 | Has anyone else found that Right Wing Man/Left Wing Woman pairings seem more common than the reverse?I've personally never met a right-wing man (at least in person) that had anything positive about them, especially when it comes to their fragile sense of masculinity. Maybe the shitty people are the ones who feel the need to hide back handed insults in their comments You're guilty of this. So I'm not wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone else found that Right Wing Man/Left Wing Woman pairings seem more common than the reverse?I've not encountered this phenomenon. I would say right-wing men embody toxic masculinity. Which shitty people like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 02:52 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone else found that Right Wing Man/Left Wing Woman pairings seem more common than the reverse?I think this is true. I once dated a guy who was sweet as pie and liberal af (or so he said). Then I found his online comments which were 100% the opposite. He was a monster in disguise. It was crazy the mask he put on to fool me. I don't even understand why. Why would you want to be with someone who has the complete opposite views on everything? Doesn't make sense to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 02:49 PM |
| 0 | Has anyone else found that Right Wing Man/Left Wing Woman pairings seem more common than the reverse?I can't imagine settling for someone who thinks I shouldn't have basic human rights. I'd rather be a crazy cat lady. Then again, nowadays, I think a lot more women are going this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 02:46 PM |
| – | If a woman voted against your reproductive rights, would you still want to date her?For where? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 01:45 PM |
| – | If a woman voted against your reproductive rights, would you still want to date her?Highly depends on the institution. The best nurse I've ever had was a man. The world needs more of those. For private caregiving, like someone hiring their own personal caregiver, I think if you don't feel comfortable with either a man or woman, that's fair, and you should choose accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 01:43 PM |
| – | If a woman voted against your reproductive rights, would you still want to date her?Did I say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 12:53 PM |
| – | If a woman voted against your reproductive rights, would you still want to date her?They think Philippinos are often dirty and never wash their hands. Also they think they are prudes. They don't know the proper terminology for the genital parts, like vulva, labia, and clitorous. They will not wash/wipe genitals properly because they don't want to touch them. For black people, they think they are pushy, rude, and the men especially misogynistic. For men in general, they think they give shit care and can sometimes be pervy, and again, often misogynistic. They really dislike anyon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 02:22 AM |
| 4 | If a woman voted against your reproductive rights, would you still want to date her?Caregiving for physically disabled people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 01:41 AM |
| 10 | If a woman voted against your reproductive rights, would you still want to date her?I often sit with my bosses when hiring. 99% of the time they won't even look at a resume if the name doesn't sound white. Philippino and black are automatic no. In person, if you're fat, 99% of the time, no. Surprisingly, if it's a man, no 100% of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 01:02 AM |
| 9 | Women who wants/have kids, are you worried about your sons suffering from loneliness epidemic in the future and what steps are you going to take so that he gets a healthy dating life?I have a son. I had a terribly lonely childhood. It was even lonelier as a young adult. I'm no more worried about his loneliness than I would be with a daughter. My son is almost certainly autistic, and learning through him and all about autism, I probably am too, which has likely contributed to my overall loneliness. I do worry about him building connections with people since I never have. I've only ever truly connected with partners but even then I never felt like they knew or understood me. H… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 06:16 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the inauthentic women is to get separate orders on dates.No you don't and no you don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 06:04 PM |
| 1 | What sort of first dates/outings do you prefer ?I will likely be an outlier. I hate most public spaces, especially busy ones. I'd risk being murdered in the woods before most traditional dates. I preferred walks/hikes or just hanging out at my place. But now I understand asking a guy to hang out at my place (where I'm most comfortable) is seen by men as an invitation to sex. Whoops. Probably left a lot of guys disappointed and even had to kick a few out when they were too pushy. Luckily, my husband didn't think anything of it. We've still nev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 02:49 PM |
| 8 | Is it fair to say that women can struggle in dating as well?This is extremely disingenuous and also incredibly ignorant. Let's not pretend there aren't countless women men treat like trash. Bridge trolls might be able to find some nasty loser to use them as a flesh light, but finding actual date or ltr can be damn near impossible. I had a five year dry spell (no dates) and it wasn't from lack of trying. I'd just mention my health issue and men would run for the hills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 04:41 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Quotes by me found in my comments: "I have a good life with a great husband which reddit would say I don't deserve... which is undeniably true." "But for some crazy reason my man locked that shit down ASAP. I feel a little bad for him because he could have done a lot better." "The funny thing is, I didn't settle. If anything, it was the other way around." "I think what doesn't make sense to me is that he could do so much better. I've always felt like I'm dragging him down. For every good quality… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 05:27 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm concerned that you mistook my intrigue for anger. I was genuinely curious what nonsense you'd come up with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 04:46 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Oh, please, do describe to me in detail how I've lived such a pampered life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 04:40 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵He's the same height as me. 5'6" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 04:39 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵He's a short broke king that has an attractive (in HIS opinion, i can't stress this enough) woman who is so in love and obsessed with him that she let him move in after a couple months together, married him after only a year together, bought him a car, a house, fucks him regularly, and birthed him a beautiful son. I wouldn't feel too bad for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 04:32 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Because it pisses men off. They make a big deal over how short and/or broke men can't find dates, sex, or love. btw, I don't actually think my husband is short, but the guys here do, so apparently I should think less of my husband for it. I don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 04:25 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Ah, i've not seen stuff like this. But I can't relate to hot girl memes. I do not have hot girl problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 04:04 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Why? My dad was the most involved dad out of all my friends parents. My friends would come to my place to have fun. My mom who was a lot younger, was not fun at all. Luckily they divorced and I'd get to spend time away from her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 04:02 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵My dad was 47 when he had me. So he was 63 when I was 16. Why is this sad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 03:57 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵What are these memes you speak of? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 03:55 PM |
| 36 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menIf I'm attracted to him and we have the same goals and morals, I wouldn't care. I don't know why other women would besides not wanting to have to teach a man how to fuck. But in my experience, even guys who have slept with lots of women are still shit in bed. Getting off on pleasing a woman is better than experience, imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 12:39 AM |
| 55 | If you’re going to hookup with a guy, or you get into a relationship, and you find out he’s got a larger dick, is this generally seen as a “plus”?I dated one guy who was huge (or so it felt). Slept with him once and knew almost immediately we'd have to break up. It was the most painful sex I'd ever had. Like my vagina simply could NOT handle the length. I felt nothing but dread at the thought of ever having to have sex with him again. So I did not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Women on this sub, would you date someone who had a perineal urethrostomy?I wouldn't care at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 11:16 PM |
| 2 | How do relationship dynamics changes when the woman is taller and physically stronger than the man in a couple?Every short man I've dated has been significantly stronger than me. My husband is the same height as me, and he's got to have quadruple the strength. Probably significantly more. I dated a guy who was like 5'3" and played rugby. He'd take down dudes that were double his size. I wouldn't have stood a chance against him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 02:14 PM |
| – | Men's love and attraction is conditional on a women being young and attractiveI've dated lots of short guys. Not a single one of them had issues getting a LTR. They also would have never talked about orbiters and that sort of thing, but they weren't chronically online either. They also weren't bitter about their height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 01:07 PM |
| – | Men's love and attraction is conditional on a women being young and attractiveStatistically untrue. This info is taken from dating sites for men's preferences. <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 01:03 PM |
| – | Men's love and attraction is conditional on a women being young and attractiveAre you in your 60s and did you get married in your early 20s? How can you prove he's just as attracted to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 12:57 PM |
| 4 | I’m a man and I can see it. Why are women’s standards considered problematic and isnt it hypocritical for guys to complain about them ?A fetus isn't a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 02:41 AM |
| 9 | I’m a man and I can see it. Why are women’s standards considered problematic and isnt it hypocritical for guys to complain about them ?Isn't that a good thing? 6 million children under the age of 5 die every year from starvation. 100,000 children under the age of 5 die a year from war. Approx 15,400 children under the age of 5 die a day from preventable disease. So 5.3 million a year. The leading cause of death in children and teens in the USA is guns. Millions upon millions of small children are dying horrific preventable deaths every year. The last thing the world needs is more children to torture. If anything, those abortion… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 09:10 PM |
| 0 | Majority of "misandrists" are men.Look it up yourself. There are studies showing a scary amount of men would rape children if they thought they could get away with it, and that's just those that would admit to it. There was a study in the 80s asking if men would rape women, 35% said yes. They changed the wording to would you force a woman to have sex with you, and it jumped even higher. I think there was another one in 2015 like this and it had around the same percentages. The thing with these kind of studies is it relies on a m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Shy and socially awkward women are as disadvantageous in dating as shy menThanks for giving me a good laugh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Shy and socially awkward women are as disadvantageous in dating as shy menI'm a socially anxious and shy woman. Men have almost never approached me. I can recall 2 in my 35 years of life. One was a fat old married man that would throw trash out his car window. He asked me out while his wife was pregnant. I didn't know he was married when we went out (only once). He threw garbage out his window at the beach and I immediately hated him. I ditched him after and he'd go on to send sexually explicit texts for MONTHS. It was scary af, because no amount of telling him to sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Majority of "misandrists" are men.Huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Majority of "misandrists" are men.Notice how I said most. Not all. He fits into the not all category. The thing about my husband is he doesn't hate women. He doesn't only tolerate women because he wants a hole to fuck. He respects women. Some of his best friends have been women. He would agree with 99% of the things I say, and he would agree with my statement above. He doesn't cover his eyes and plug his ears, screaming la la la, when it comes to how men treat and think about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 10:13 PM |
| -4 | Majority of "misandrists" are men.Most men would rape if they knew they could get away with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 01:21 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Castration, perhaps. I wouldn't recommend it, however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 01:42 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I know way too many vasectomy babies. I also know one tube tied baby. My husband will be getting one soon, but I'm still gonna be paranoid when it comes to pregnancy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 12:43 AM |
| 4 | Q4W who identify with feminism. Are there any priveleges that mostly benefit women you’re advocating to give up in the name of equality.Reproductive rights and bodily autonomy. Abortion access, birth control, and healthcare are still under attack. Gender-based violence. Domestic abuse, sexual assault, and harassment remain rampant, with victims often silenced or blamed. Pay gap and economic inequality. Women still earn less than men, especially women of color and those in lower-income jobs. Workplace discrimination and glass ceilings. Women are still passed over for promotions, paid less, and expected to prove themselves more. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 05:25 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: Would it be a red flag for a man to remain single because he couldn’t find any woman who met his standards?That's perfectly fine, imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 02:02 AM |
| 10 | Q4W: Would it be a red flag for a man to remain single because he couldn’t find any woman who met his standards?Trad wife, christian, conservative, submissive, virgin, young, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 01:29 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Would it be a red flag for a man to remain single because he couldn’t find any woman who met his standards?Highly dependent on what his standards are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 01:18 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Nah, I was once a fat girl. Average/ugly guys will mock you and be rude to your face. Lord only knows what they said behind my back. It never bothered me when hot guys would belittle and bully me for my looks (it's to be expected, they were born and raised to be despicable POS), it's when average to ugly guys would that I'd feel a sense of betrayal. Like, bitch, you weigh twice as much and are uglier tenfold, why are you telling me to kill myself because no one will ever love me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 03:39 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I care for disabled and elderly folks. It's only a 6 month course (at least when i took it). During my second practicum which was in a hellish care home, I prepared a body for transfer to the funeral home. It was basically what your mom did. I cleaned the body. I will say, walking into the room for the first time and seeing the body was HORRIFYING. I just thought they'd look asleep. Not even close. They were sitting up in bed (it was a hospital bed, so the head of the bed was up), and their eyes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 03:32 PM |
| – | The Real Definition of Love is Actually "Help"He'd agree with 99% of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 03:11 PM |
| – | The Real Definition of Love is Actually "Help"So men love sex, not women. I figured. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do women try to keep a non-shallow facade?Speak for yourself, lady. I think guys get confused because we aren't a hive mind. I've gone on countless dates with guys I thought were ugly. I've fallen in love with a guy I originally thought was unattractive and had my heart obliterated by him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 04:50 PM |
| 12 | How do women feel about dating reformed players?I simply would never date a 'reformed' player, nor a man who had slept around a lot. I never did hookups and would only date/marry someone with similar values. If he tried it once and hated it, then maybe. Otherwise, hell no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 03:50 AM |
| 17 | Do you not believe that a mentally sound man could want a paternity test in every single scenario where he’s informed he’s a father to a child?The relationship would definitely be dead because not only does he not trust me, he thinks I'm a despicable human being capable of horrific acts (cheating and lying to him about the paternity). It's not wholly about trust. It's about him believing I'm capable of heinous deceit. With all that said, I'm severely codependant and would never leave my husband, so I'd allow the test so long as he accepted that when the results came back showing he's the father, I'm never washing another dish, never va… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 09:26 PM |
| 1 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.This was from 3 months ago. He didn't care then and he doesn't care now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 02:10 AM |
| 1 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.I've gone my whole life having ignorant men say they don't believe my lived experience. Line up and join the club. With that said, your feelings don't change the facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 05:08 PM |
| 1 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.I never said explicitly stated I don't want to be kissed on the first date. However, I would make it very clear I want to take things EXTREMELY slow and that if he's hoping for sex on the first, second, third, or even fourth date, it's not gonna happen. We are talking months down the line. I think a LOT of men took that as a challenge or that I was bluffing for some reason. Definitely the guys who were likely just looking for sex, pushed my boundaries. However, there was my husband who didn't ki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 03:16 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵As much as you want, but you have to marry her and you can never divorce or abandon her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 11:50 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Explain please. I'm not understanding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 11:49 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵She is exactly the same as you. Same interests, same hobbies, same flaws. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 11:38 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I wouldn't date any version of myself. So I'm just curious what dudes think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 11:37 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Q4M: Would you date the female version of yourself? She is exactly the same as you. The only difference is she's a woman and is attracted to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 11:28 PM |
| -7 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.Neither of us actually think he's short. He's 5'6", the same as me, but other men constantly say he is. He doesn't make 6 figures, so again, according other men, he's broke. I'm not virtue signalling, I'm being sarcastic and poking fun at idiots with small brains, because according to their logic, he is incredibly undesirable, yet here I am, utterly obsessed with him. As for how he feels about it, he couldn't give less of fuck because he knows my sense of humor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Why do women feel single childless men are obligated to date single-moms???I say, "Most men won’t harm kids" You say, "the whole "all men are rapists and child molesters" is just some femcel shtick..." Just because you prioritize feelings over facts, doesn't mean I will or that anybody should. I'm sorry you got so emotional and upset over nothing. Maybe next time give yourself time to cool down and actually READ what someone is saying before tapping the comment button. I know strong emotions can be overwhelming, but I have faith in you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Why do women feel single childless men are obligated to date single-moms???Sorry, I should have said ALL men, not necessarily childless men. Single moms absolutely need to be cautious when dating, and the statistics prove it. This isn't paranoia considering children living with a mom’s boyfriend are 50 times more likely to die from inflicted injuries than those with both biological parents, according to research. The Cinderella Effect is real. Studies have shown that kids living with a stepfather or unrelated male are 100 times more likely to be abused than those with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 08:33 PM |
| – | How old were you when you knew whether or not you wanted to have sex with a person?I was sexually abused as a child and had access to porn before I could even read. I don't remember a time where I didn't have urges. By 10ish I was consumed with it, but I desperately wanted love and protection from a boy/man, which unfortunately meant that desperation led to a hell of a lot more abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Why do women feel single childless men are obligated to date single-moms???I'd imagine most women don't think single childless men are obligated to date single moms. Most women, especially those with children, are aware of the statistics. It is not safe to date childless men since they are way too frequently just trying to sexually abuse the children. So, lots of women will not date when the children are young simply because they want to protect said children. If my husband ever died, I'd only date a single dad who had a very amicable relationship with his ex. Like the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: "You're husband material" should be a complimentI chose the best. I'm married to an amazing man. Are you married to an amazing woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 04:50 PM |
| -2 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.I don't know about this. I'm a bi woman, but if a man ever tried to kiss me on the first date, it was basically an automatic rejection from me. Don't like it. Hate it. Extreme turn off. I don't know you, get lost. I could always feel it in the air, how he's trying to get closer to me, or lean his face near and I'd be viscerally repulsed even if I had liked him. The worst is when I'd turn my head away and then they'd grab my chin, thinking they were all sexy, trying to force the kiss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 04:49 PM |
| – | Q4M: "You're husband material" should be a complimentOkay, then 99% of men are rapists. This has been my experience with countless men I've talked to or have known. You guys are the problem. End of discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 04:27 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: "You're husband material" should be a complimentIf you genuinely think 99% of them behave this way, then you're the problem. Not them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 04:22 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: "You're husband material" should be a complimentYou do realize someone can be attracted to you AND think you're husband material, right? The two aren't mutually exclusive. With that being said, I've dated lots of guys who I thought would make amazing husbands... but not for me since the chemistry wasn't there. They are all married and have kids now. I also found the perfect husband that I'm very attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 04:21 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: "You're husband material" should be a complimentThe same applies to men. All men are husband material until he's not. All men have the potential to be trashy, and some scratch that itch. The problem is men because they complain about shitty women all the time but continue to choose the same types of women over and over even when you try to warn them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: "You're husband material" should be a complimentRespectable women probably aren't going to give it up right away. So what men want are trashy/toxic women, often with low self-esteem, who will tolerate being treated like shit. Then these same men wonder why she cheated. Also, it sounds like what you're saying is men don't want an LTR, they want an easy lay, which, again, will likely be with extremely problematic women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 04:12 PM |
| -2 | Q4M: "You're husband material" should be a complimentSo what you're saying is men don't want a nice, safe, humble woman. They prefer to go after extremely trashy/toxic women that will do this to them. Maybe the problem isn't women. Maybe men just need to choose better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 03:51 PM |
| – | What causes the sudden changes in affection and behaviour of women? Especially in the talking stageI can only speak for myself and why I'd lose interest. Why I'd back off. I didn't like him or I thought he was so out of my league I'd get my heart obliterated. That simple. If she shuts down suddenly and practically ghosts, imo, it's more likely you did something to offend or really turn her off. There's been times where everything has gone really well, then the guy kissed me and it's was just horrible and gross, and I'd know I'd never subject myself to this again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 01:51 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Wow, I hope you learned to choose better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 05:04 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I didn't say women don't have anger issues, but even when they do, it is rarely like men, who frequently get so mad about some bullshit thing they slaughter children at school for funsies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 05:03 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵My husband is a warehouse manager and has never had to deal with unruly women. The only woman he's had to talk to about behavior is because she stunk. He had to send her home it was so bad (it was an ongoing issue). She came back wet and smelled worse. He had send her home again and tell her she has to use soap this time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 05:01 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵If I'd have been a man, I'd have actually gotten help for my medical issues instead or being told by countless doctors that it's all in my head, resulting in the complete destruction of my bladder. Even now, I know I have GERD and struggle to swallow food and easily choke, but doctors have told me it's just anxiety. I can't swallow anything without water behind it. It simply won't go down. But it's anxiety!! I wouldn't have lost my whole family if I'd been a man because my step dad never would h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 04:55 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵How do I activate this easy mode? I'm ready for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 03:56 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Are they more easily annoyed? Because I've never met a woman who punches walls or screams at screens. Men go into a dangerous violent rage over nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 03:55 AM |
| 17 | A man should never publicly commit to fidelity to his SO, even if he is committed because women will lose respect for a man they don't need to "work for".No, it indicates respect. I'm not going to waste time on a man who doesn't respect me. I'm not going to waste time on a man who is so broken he fucks around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 08:55 PM |
| 13 | A man should never publicly commit to fidelity to his SO, even if he is committed because women will lose respect for a man they don't need to "work for".This whole post is built on the assumption that women are dumb, insecure, and easily manipulated. The entire argument hinges on the idea that women only maintain attraction if they feel like they have to "work for" a man, however, women are not mentally fragile, competition-obsessed creatures who only stay in relationships out of insecurity. Most healthy, adult relationships are built on trust, emotional connection, and actual compatibility, not some dumb psychological game where one person has … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 08:36 PM |
| 25 | A man should never publicly commit to fidelity to his SO, even if he is committed because women will lose respect for a man they don't need to "work for".If my husband didn't promise fidelity, I never would dated him, let alone married him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 08:23 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This was definitely an issue for me and even led to the deterioration of a few relationships. After the deed I'd be so full of shame and disgust that it would bleed onto my partner. I'd feel shame and disgust for being with him and doing those things. A part of me would hate him for wanting sex or pressuring me for it. My husband is the first guy I slept with where I wasn't immediately repulsed by my actions. It was actually the first time i felt love for a guy during sex instead of a deep sense… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 07:49 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵If any part of him willingly touched her, everything I previously wrote still stands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 03:55 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 03:46 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I would never have a physical relationship with him ever again since I'm germaphobe and he'd be forever contaminated. I don't know if I'd even be able to kiss him. I also think I'd be disgusted with him in multiple ways. I'd always feel incredibly betrayed and disrespected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 03:45 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I could literally never feel like this about anyone instantly. Emotionally I have to feel safe. I can't get turned on unless the person feels utterly and completely safe. Like, not just physically, but I have to trust that they care about and respect my feelings, would never hurt or betray me, etc. I can find people attractive, but there are plenty of attractive people I'd never find arousing. However, I can look at someone and know whether or not, should they be a safe person, if it would be po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 03:39 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Men also create entire countries where women can't leave their house without a male chaperone or see a doctor or show their face, etc etc etc. Hell, there are still 20 countries that allow men to marry their rape victims to escape criminal prosecution. Remind me again how men are oppressed... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/25 09:21 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm not opposed to sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/25 06:43 PM |
| – | Sexual fidelity to your partner and sexual satisfaction from your partner should be considered a zero sum system.Yes, women give this same advice. I've talked to women about my situation, and the typical advice is to spoil him, make him every meal, give him massages, dress sexy, send flirty texts, send sexy pics, etc etc. My husband, 99% of the time is willing to fuck, however, he will NEVER initiate... ever. It simply will not happen. No amount of talking about it has changed a thing. There was one time I figured he will get desperate after some point, so I'll just wait. We did nothing sexual for over 3 m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 01:50 PM |
| 6 | Men who have been wild in the past can they be loyal to a fault in a relationship?This hasn't been the case for me. I've been cheated on a lot. The one thing they all had in common was saying they wanted a LTR, marriage, kids, etc. Some I was with for over a year before they cheated. They were all normal dudes that 99% of people wouldn't have suspected would do that kind of thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 03:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: You should always consider divorce as an option when entering a marriageNo idea what specifically you're asking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 09:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: You should always consider divorce as an option when entering a marriageHell no. He's a king, not a peasant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 02:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV: You should always consider divorce as an option when entering a marriageYeah, but he'll cheat and emotionally neglect her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 09:44 PM |
| 0 | CMV: You should always consider divorce as an option when entering a marriageI'm scared of a lot of men, but not my man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 09:32 PM |
| 0 | Where did the whole “women love bad boys” thing even come from? How true do you think it is?Explain to me what your point is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 11:42 PM |
| 5 | Where did the whole “women love bad boys” thing even come from? How true do you think it is?I feel like beards and tattoos for women is like blonde hair and big boobs for men. I'm never gonna look like Sydney Sweeney or whatever, nor do I want to, so I don't try. I'm just me and that's as good as it gets. There's all sorts of hot guy looks. Some women drool over well groomed men in suits. A lot like a rough around the edges blue collar kind of dude. Some women like nerds. Some women like pretty boys. Some women like women. Like, I'm of the belief the skies the limit when it comes to at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 11:41 PM |
| 4 | Where did the whole “women love bad boys” thing even come from? How true do you think it is?Men constantly mistake their fucked emotions for logic. I suspect that could be happening right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Where did the whole “women love bad boys” thing even come from? How true do you think it is?Huh? It was a basic example. Lots of people still correlate tattoos with degeneracy. Look at how men around here talk about women with tattoos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Where did the whole “women love bad boys” thing even come from? How true do you think it is?This is embarrassing. I could never be so simple-minded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 11:00 PM |
| 3 | Where did the whole “women love bad boys” thing even come from? How true do you think it is?Are you able to understand the difference between "looks like trouble," and "is trouble?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Where did the whole “women love bad boys” thing even come from? How true do you think it is?Just my personal observation. Bad boys are exciting and unpredictable, and some crazy ladies like the drama of all that. Kinda like a drug, imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Where did the whole “women love bad boys” thing even come from? How true do you think it is?No, because those are completely different things. A dude can be fully tatted and look mean af, but be really sweet and gentle. He could be emotionally available and respectable. A certain look doesn't equal personality. The owner of a shop I go to is fully tatted head to toe and his daughter always comes to visit. He was telling me about how his daughter is having a valentines party with her girlfriends and he was helping her buy stuff for her charcuterie board. He's a good guy. But walking dow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Where did the whole “women love bad boys” thing even come from? How true do you think it is?I've never met a woman who went for legit bad boys who wasn't at the very least bi polar or like BPD. Something is always wrong with the wiring up there when women do this. They are attracted to the drama and toxicity. Keeps the dopamine flowing or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 10:19 PM |
| -2 | Where did the whole “women love bad boys” thing even come from? How true do you think it is?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 10:16 PM |
| -4 | Where did the whole “women love bad boys” thing even come from? How true do you think it is?I think crazy women love bad boys. Whereas a lot women love good boys who look like bad boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 09:58 PM |
| -2 | What type of feminist are you? Marxist/Socialist Feminist, Liberal Feminist, Radical Feminist, or something else?Which one do I relate to the most? Radical feminism. But to hell with TERFs. I view trans women as women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 08:16 PM |
| 2 | What type of feminist are you? Marxist/Socialist Feminist, Liberal Feminist, Radical Feminist, or something else?I could get all "woke" about this and say pregnancy centers should be focused on pregnant people. While, by and large, it's women who get pregnant, so do some trans men and intersex people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 08:12 PM |
| – | There isn't someone for everyoneThere are plenty of jealous women who don't want their man to have any options but themselves. There's also women like myself who couldn't give less of a fuck what other women think. I've dated men where I was their only option, I've dated men who had plenty of options. I've dated men who were somewhat in between, like my husband. It is something I've quite literally never thought about. The only thing that matters is he only has eyes for me. If he gives other women attention, I'm out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 07:20 PM |
| – | There isn't someone for everyoneThere are men in wheelchairs with shriveled limbs who find women to marry, fuck, and to willingly be their caretaker. Lower odds doesnt mean impossible odds. However, giving up and deciding to be a terrible and insufferable person shows exactly why no woman wanted him to begin with. He's not only unbearable to be around, but he's genuinely a bad person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 07:14 PM |
| 9 | Ladies, what was the biggest and the smallest erect penis you have seen? Which do you prefer?I never measured any. I've seen small, medium, and big. I have a strong preference for medium but would choose small over big. I dated a guy with a big one (unknowingly until i eventually saw it). Once we started doing it, I knew I had to dump him. It was incredibly painful. There was no fucking way I'd ever adjust, nor would I subject myself to that kind of misery for the rest of my life. It was a shame because he practically worshipped the ground I walked on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 07:05 PM |
| – | There isn't someone for everyoneWomen aren’t rejecting you because of hypergamy. They’re rejecting you because you radiate bitterness, resentment, and entitlement, and nothing is more unattractive than that. If you truly believe no one will ever love you, it’s not because you’re ugly or poor. It’s because you’ve chosen to be the most miserable, self-defeating version of yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 06:55 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵On the bright side, you've got a retirement plan. Mine is death😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 05:51 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I can look at someone and notice if they are attractive or not, but that doesn't make me sexually attracted to someone. I'm not sexually attracted to any of my exes. I also think my husband is the hottest guy I've ever been with. I disliked him at first and was not sexually attracted, I thought he was an asshole. But through some group events, I found out otherwise and became incredibly attracted. He no longer has abs or arms and legs of steal, he even has a bit of a belly now, but I'm still unb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Guys here think creeps dont exist because they dont want to admit women can have non-shallow reasons to not like a guy.Good looking guys can still be creepy. I've met plenty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Women can be attracted to you but until they see another girl interested have no interest in pursuing or being receptive to engaging with youI think shitty low class women might be competitive, but I've never witnessed it or known anyone who's dealt with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 01:34 AM |
| – | The Trans Debate, Physical Differences, and the Contradictions in Feminist Theory on Dating and SafetyCountless men are oppressed in various ways, but not because of their sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 09:23 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I still have no clue what you're whining about or what your point is. If you want me to debate something, you gotta give me something to go off, but I'm yet to figure out wtf you're bitching about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 05:47 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Nobody mentioned any of the crap you're whining about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 04:58 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It always boggles my mind when conservatives say men like this should be forced to use the women's washroom. <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 03:40 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Fact. The good men in that age range will be taken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 03:39 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah. I'm surprised he got any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 03:35 PM |
| 1 | “Needs Vs Wants” (The Truth of the Matter)I wouldn't consider either or those things a need. Lots of people are happy without. Many people don't want either. A need is universal, and you will die without. No one can survive without food, air, or water. Those are needs. Human touch and connection are a want for some, which can be beneficial, but it's not a need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Feminism is the reason for the incel crisis, and hurt women more than menConservatism being against porn doesn't change the fact that it often perpetuates repression, not solutions. Plus, studies show that conservative states often have higher rates of pornography consumption. As for Feminism, it isn’t promoting doing porn. It’s advocating for women to make their own choices... something you seem oddly uncomfortable with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 01:07 AM |
| 3 | Feminism is the reason for the incel crisis, and hurt women more than menSo you don’t know of any male advocacy movement promoting porn consumption? That’s because patriarchy doesn’t need a movement, it’s already normalized male entitlement to sex. Feminism, on the other hand, promotes choice, not exploitation. Big difference, but nice try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Feminism is the reason for the incel crisis, and hurt women more than menMaybe the real issue is your need to shame everyone instead of addressing the complexities of consent and choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 12:25 AM |
| 4 | Feminism is the reason for the incel crisis, and hurt women more than menIt’s not feminism handing people a subscription. Maybe focus on personal responsibility instead of pointing fingers at women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Feminism is the reason for the incel crisis, and hurt women more than menRight, because intersectional feminism (advocating for women of all races, classes, and backgrounds) totally doesn’t exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 11:07 PM |
| 14 | Feminism is the reason for the incel crisis, and hurt women more than menLet me get this straight... feminism, which advocates for equality, is somehow responsible for men becoming misogynists? Maybe instead of blaming women, start asking why some men can’t handle a world where women have autonomy. Imo, feminism didn’t create incels, but maybe mens inability to cope with women being treated as equals did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 10:18 PM |
| 1 | The parents of boys have an obligation to teach them about attracting womenI can't take any of this delusional nonsense seriously. Genuinely, people who say crazy ass shit like this need to be locked up in a mental facility for not only their own good, but the good of the public. Absolutely insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 05:34 AM |
| 1 | The parents of boys have an obligation to teach them about attracting womenNah, I firmly believe it's something you have to learn unless you're a psycho or narcissist, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:47 AM |
| 2 | The parents of boys have an obligation to teach them about attracting womenNot when it's developing, especially in children. It's a make or break situation. Help them build it, or destroy it entirely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:33 AM |
| 2 | The parents of boys have an obligation to teach them about attracting womenYou definitely can. You can also easily take it away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 10:25 PM |
| 13 | What are your thoughts on vasectomies?Wouldn't it be dumber to have children you don't want and/or can't afford? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 04:22 AM |
| – | In relationships where couples choose not to have children, explain why spousal support exists?Then what are you even whining about? No one you know is getting spousal support. So why bitch about a nonexistent problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 01:51 PM |
| – | In relationships where couples choose not to have children, explain why spousal support exists?I am genuinely concerned that you can't fathom how people, specifically wealthy men, don't like having a stay at home wife who does everything for him, so all they have to worry about is work. She takes care of everything else in his life, from groceries, to appointments, house cleaning, meals, etc. If her job is to take care of him, she should get severance pay should the job be terminated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 12:29 PM |
| – | In relationships where couples choose not to have children, explain why spousal support exists?Or... and hear me out, they can do whatever the hell they want. Don't want to have the potential to pay spousal support, don't have a stay at home partner. Problem solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 12:25 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Never seen this in my whole 35 years of life unless she was preggo/postpartum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 03:08 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I have no idea what you're talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:35 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Thanks for the laugh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:34 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I don't. He feels like he won the lottery and tells me so every day🥰 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:33 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵No, my flair is making fun of chronically online losers whose brains are so small it rattles around in their thick Neanderthal like skull. It's weird gross men who judge guys like my husband by their height and wealth. Not me. I fell in love and married the man. I also never even knew he was considered short until men told me. Also, you described my looks in my early to mid 20s. It was damn near impossible to find a LTR. I even had a near 5 year dry spell where I simply could not find a man who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:31 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Men. Obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 01:47 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵If women have unrealistic standards, why do men demand virgin supermodels who are also freaks in bed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Women are the superior gender for modern society.Ever stop to wonder why women aren’t flocking to institutions like the military? Maybe it’s because those spaces have been historically unsafe for them. Women who join these male-dominated institutions face harassment, violence, and sabotage... not from enemies, but from the men that are supposed to have their back. Remember the first female pilots who were harassed, sabotaged, and even killed by the men who couldn’t handle having to work with women? Or the rampant sexual assault crisis in the m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 07:58 PM |
| – | Women, why do you believe might makes right, but only when it comes to dating?In what world do average men not date, get married, have kids, etc? No woman I know is married to a model. They are all average dudes. Same with my husband. I have a feeling men aren't talking about average women when they bring up all this nonsense, they are talking about super hot women that date super hot guys and they are mad because those super hot women won't date them. Newsflash: Chad wouldn't have dated me either. He certainly wouldn't date me now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:37 PM |
| – | The manosphere does not care about men's issues: Trump screws over menI'll pray for you 🙏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:30 PM |
| – | The manosphere does not care about men's issues: Trump screws over menHave you considered therapy for your issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 03:43 PM |
| – | The manosphere does not care about men's issues: Trump screws over menHuh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 03:29 PM |
| – | The manosphere does not care about men's issues: Trump screws over menI'm going to assume it's because he's blatantly evil. He's quite literally making his first concentration camp at guantanamo bay. All his executive orders quite literally make him look like Hitler, buuuut we know Trump loves the guy and has said he wants generals like H did, so it's not really any surprise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Women are the superior gender for modern society.Funny how these 'superior' men needed centuries of laws banning women from education, property ownership, and voting to maintain their so-called dominance. Meanwhile, men commit 90% of homicides worldwide, are responsible for 95% of domestic violence and account for 73% of workplace fatalities, largely due to reckless behavior. Men have also started 98% of wars in recorded history, while women are 40% more likely to graduate from college, earn higher GPAs, and excel in fields like healthcare and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Women are the superior gender for modern society.Why are you ignoring the growing evidence that prehistoric women also hunted and contributed equally to survival? The idea that women were biologically confined to gathering is outdated and rooted in the biases of researchers who couldn’t imagine societies without rigid gender roles. Oh, and as for the idea that women are only succeeding now because the system is 'helping them every step of the way' is ridiculous. Women are succeeding DESPITE still being underpaid, underrepresented, and dismisse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Women are the superior gender for modern society.Sure, because centuries of excluding women from education, property rights, and the workforce obviously means men deserve all the credit for progress. Funny how the same men who supposedly built the world also built the systems that kept half the population from contributing equally. Personally, i think it’s time to stop rewriting history to make oppression look like heroism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 12:43 PM |
| 16 | Men that tell women to “just choose better”, how do you feel about the exodus of women in the dating market?I mean, stastically speaking, women are better when it comes to like... not committing violent crimes and such. With that said, men are free to step away from the dating scene as well and focus on their own lives and living it to the fullest. The world would be a much safer place if men could be happy single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 12:38 PM |
| 3 | Women are the superior gender for modern society.You can't brag about winning a race when half the population wasn’t even allowed on the track. And men being ‘chill’ about it? Yeah, no. The constant boasting from men saying they build and invent everything while ignoring the systemic barriers women face proves otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Women are the superior gender for modern society.While it's true that more liberal countries show gender differences in career choices, that's not the whole story. These patterns often reflect deeply ingrained societal norms and gender stereotypes, not an inherent lack of interest or ability. Girls and women are subtly and overtly discouraged from pursuing STEM fields from a young age, through everything from toy marketing to classroom biases. Research has shown that when educational systems and workplaces take active steps to remove these bia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 04:59 AM |
| 9 | Women are the superior gender for modern society.The fact that men have historically had near-total control over education, resources, and decision-making power might have a little more to do with that statistic than any inherent superiority. As I'm sure you well know, for centuries, women were legally and socially barred from universities, scientific institutions, and patenting their work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 02:55 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I don't get it. Is there a problem here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 11:38 PM |
| – | About "pity sex" - I'm not sure women can't help men, because I know that men CAN help women.I do believe I somewhat fall into this category, granted they were all relationships. I mostly dated shy/awkward/nerdy guys (it's all I could get). A bunch were virgins. I'm patient, caring, super understanding, and tried hard to teach them. I think I slept with around 10 guys (all of which I dated) before my husband. Want to know what they all had in common in the bedroom? The inability to make me orgasm. They'd whine and complain about how long it took, their mouth hurt, their hand hurt, it's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 01:10 PM |
| – | No one ever debunked the hypergamy.That 80% of men are unattractive stat is from data from ONE dating app (OkCupid, back in 2014), not all apps, and definitely not real life. Anyways, apps are designed for quick swipes, not meaningful connections, so of course they exaggerate shallow behavior. Also, dismissing women talking about safety as deflection is wild. Safety concerns are serious and shape how they navigate dating, both online and offline. If we’re going to have a conversation about hypergamy, let’s at least base it on mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 10:14 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵The chaddiest Chad to ever Chad. What a heartthrob | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 05:00 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I've only experienced the opposite. Women doing everything while the men do nothing. My dad is the same way. Never got gifts from him. I gave on celebrating those things with my husband because it wasn't fun to be the only one to constantly give and give and give, and not even recieve, like not even on my birthday or xmas. So I don't bother like I used to. He makes up for it in other ways, so I try not to complain... too much. He's FINALLY starting to try for xmas. So the effort matters. But I d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 04:57 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Like peg him? 🤨 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 04:52 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵For some reason, the tiktok algorithm has brought me thirst traps of Paul Dano. It led me down quite the rabbit hole. Women are eating that shit up. Is he a Chad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 04:51 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I used to bake muffins and all sorts of treats for an ex, loved to spoil him on holidays... he cheated on me with a dude 😞 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 04:49 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I would rather die than look this boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 04:44 PM |
| 2 | The reasons women show while talking against "financial" abortion is eerily similar to the same reasoning that conservatives show for banning abortion.You aren't showing any evidence to your claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 12:46 PM |
| 6 | The reasons women show while talking against "financial" abortion is eerily similar to the same reasoning that conservatives show for banning abortion.For the same reasons men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 12:39 PM |
| – | Immediate sex is not needed to prove desire. You just want sex.Yup and it did not work out. There was a guy I really liked and spilled my heart out to that I slept with pretty quickly. He ghosted right after. Never saw him again. Had to go and cry about him for months. Wasn't making that mistake again especially since I liked my husband significantly more... like astronomically more. On the first date I was completely obsessed and would have said yes if he proposed then and there. I knew if I slept with him right away and he did the same as that other guy, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 02:31 AM |
| – | Immediate sex is not needed to prove desire. You just want sex.They find a good woman that's obsessed with them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 02:22 AM |
| – | Immediate sex is not needed to prove desire. You just want sex.I waited a month or so with my husband, who is the only man I've dated that I've been attracted to. Like EXTREMELY attracted to. He's also the longest I've ever waited. I knew it would be soul destroying if we fucked and he dumped me shortly thereafter. I needed to trust that he wouldn't do that before we got super physical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 10:00 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That was my dad's day too. He was in his 20s when the army forced him to marry the teenage girl he knocked up. At least that's the second hand story I've gotten from my mom (not the same girl). I feel sooo bad for the girl who was forced to marry him. My dad has no boundaries and is a weirdo. I asked him once how many people he's slept with. He says he has no idea, but the army doesn't count. Apparently there was just too damn many. He says I probably have a bunch of Vietnamese half siblings... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 10:53 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I've never heard of this phenomenon. My guess is not many. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 10:43 PM |
| 27 | Women were treated better in most respects before 3rd wave feminismOh wow, Leave it to Beaver as historical evidence, solid research there, professor. Hate to break it to you, but TV shows and movies from the 1950s were sanitized propaganda pieces designed to sell washing machines and enforce traditional gender roles, not actual reflections of reality. Women couldn’t open bank accounts, get credit cards, or even sign contracts without a husband’s permission. But sure, Ward Cleaver helping with the dishes once in a while is a beacon of equality. And about domest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 10:40 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Over-dependence on validation, conflict avoidance, lack of initiative, prioritizing comfort, low emotional resilience, fear of risk-taking, decline in leadership qualities, and over-reliance on others are all reasons some might argue men are soft nowadays. Men are also avoiding fatherhood roles, live with parents longer, fear commitment & rejection, dodge financial responsibility, settle into career stagnation, pass blame, avoid hard conversations, and neglect self-improvement. Oh, and the decli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 10:31 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Girl, same. But for some crazy reason my man locked that shit down ASAP. I feel a little bad for him because he could have done a lot better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 10:11 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Q4A: Do you think modern women are harder to date, or are men just too soft? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 10:04 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I've seen ugly people have good looking kids and two hot people have hideous gremlins. Genetics are wild and always a gamble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 10:00 PM |
| 28 | Young chronically single men thanks to their mothersYou mean, thanks to their absent fathers... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 04:47 PM |
| 4 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menOh, you mean the 'freedom' of being unable to rent an apartment because landlords wouldn’t trust a woman without a man? Or the 'freedom' of needing your dad’s or husband's permission to open a bank account before the mid-70s? Or how about teenage girls having the 'freedom' of being sent away in shame to give birth and have their baby stolen and then forced to pretend it never happened? (These are things my mom has talked in detail about when growing up) You’re sitting here bashing feminism, whil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 05:51 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Nah. This is one of the few things that wouldn't bother me. It would make me laugh because only a deeply insecure moron would tell such a bold faced lie. It would be super pathetic, and I like laughing at pathetic men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 11:19 PM |
| -2 | Guys Usually Have Problems With Dating Because of Money, Not How They Look or ActHe is morbidly obese (she says hes 350lbs) and slightly unkempt. She's fit, hot, and well put together. They aren't even on the same plain of existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/25 03:10 PM |
| 6 | Guys Usually Have Problems With Dating Because of Money, Not How They Look or ActAre you pretending she isn't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/25 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Downplaying men fear of false allegations, make women fear of men is inconsistent.I'd suggest therapy for the unfounded fears. There might be something more serious going on mentally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 01:34 PM |
| 5 | Downplaying men fear of false allegations, make women fear of men is inconsistent.I think it's only men with sus behavior that are, in fact, threats to women who have these kind of fears. My husband has worked at a big company for like 17 years. He's a higher up manager. A lot of his best friends at work have been women. He's even baby sat their kids. At no point has he ever been afraid of false allegations and he's even dated coworkers. He's never been afraid to be alone with women or talk to women. It's a thought that has quite literally never crossed his mind. I know he si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 01:17 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI probably know a lot better than you. I'm a woman who spends 90% of my time around women. I imagine you struggle to find even one woman to tolerate your company. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 04:49 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI don't know any women who think like this. Only men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 04:46 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThey are literally the only people in charge. They have around 7 employees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 04:45 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYeah, my bosses. It's very interesting to navigate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 04:40 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADSo, being a decent thoughtful man is beta, and being a complete waste of oxygen is alpha? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 04:39 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI'm often present at interviews with my bosses at work. I've been here for a few years. Almost instantly, just by looking at the woman who has come for the interview, I can tell if she will be hired or not. If she's fat, they won't hire her. I've managed to convince them once to give a larger lady a chance, and they ended up loving her. We just had an interview with a lady the other day, and the second I saw her, I knew I couldn't help this lady out. She had a visible apron belly. Naturally, soo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 04:33 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADAre you a furry? I can't imagine any other context where people talk like this and take it seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Would you support men having the right to “abdicate” a pregnancy?Every pregnancy is inherently dangerous. There is no such thing as a safe pregnancy because, at any moment, something can go wrong. If a woman/girl doesn't want to take that risk, all the power to them. I had a baby (which I wanted), and it made me more pro-choice than ever. No woman should be forced to do that against her will. Only someone monstrously evil would think otherwise. Also, nobody should be forced to destroy their body, rearrange their organs, and go through what amounts to literal … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 04:57 PM |
| 0 | Would you support men having the right to “abdicate” a pregnancy?Get a vasectomy, she's on BC, you wear a condom, and you pull out. Don't try to convince me she'll still get pregnant. It would be a literal act from God. How about this, you can abandon the baby once it's growing inside your body and can kill you. It doesn't matter how you see abortion. It's a horse shit opinion that nobody should take seriously. Nobody sane, at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 04:36 PM |
| -1 | Would you support men having the right to “abdicate” a pregnancy?Wear a condom and pull out before ejaculation. Problem solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Which Type of Partner Do You preferEh, my husband seems pretty crazy about me and I'm by no means submissive. He definitely doesn't have a mommy fetish. He's got some kinks, but it ain't that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 07:10 PM |
| 19 | Q4W: how common is it that women masturbate without an object of desire?I have a strong feeling your projecting here. As a woman, I've quite literally never witnessed this. Too many women will make their man their whole personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 05:12 PM |
| 14 | Men improving themselves wont fix the dating market, women need to lower their standards.She'll definitely need alimony to pay for all the therapy to get over the trauma of pity fucking a man she hated for countless years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 04:40 PM |
| 6 | Do men prefer no makeup/surgery, and should women tell when they've had surgery?I've always had cellulite, and I've had a bunch of guys reject me and/or mock me because of it. I've only had women say nice things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 01:42 AM |
| 4 | Unconditional love doesn't existsI'm a mother. I have a firm belief that parents who do this never loved their child to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 02:49 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADOhhh! Did you used to have acne or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 05:19 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADSo what is it? I'm confused what the accomplishment is. Applying makeup? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 05:09 PM |
| 0 | Paper Abortions are not ethically analogous to AbortionsMen are already allowed to abandon their children. It's happens with shocking frequency. There are no laws forcing men to be an active parent. Sometimes, they are forced to contribute financially. These same laws apply to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 04:57 PM |
| 0 | Paper Abortions are not ethically analogous to AbortionsSafe haven laws are for the immediate safety of the baby. Do you understand that these laws aren't for the benefit of the mother, but in fact, the child? As for the abortion laws, I don't know if you're saying I'm wrong about the facts, or that it's wrong that these laws exist, in which case, I agree. Alabama, Arkansas, Kentucky, Louisiana, Missouri, Oklahoma, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas all have complete abortion bans that include rape and incest, even when it involves children. It's been do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 01:42 PM |
| 0 | Paper Abortions are not ethically analogous to AbortionsFirstly, do you understand that men and women are biologically different? Cis men cannot get pregnant, they impregnate, and therefore, they have different reproductive choices. Their choice ends where they put their sperm. They need to act accordingly and wisely choose where their sperm ends up. As for rape victims, the same applies to women/girls. There are many cases where women are forced to co-parent with their rapist. Not only that, in many red states, it's illegal to abort in cases of rape… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Paper Abortions are not ethically analogous to AbortionsConsent to sex doesn't equal consent to pregnancy. For instance, I'd love another child, but I don't ever want to be pregnant again. Even though I want a child, if accidental pregnancy occurred, I'd potentially abort. It would be an extremely difficult decision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 03:32 AM |
| 1 | How would you react if you found out your husband had a son/daughter from a previous woman that he was unaware ofIf the mom was rational and wanted us in the child's life, I'd be excited to play the role of step mom. I'd also be super happy that my kid now has sibling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 10:51 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: Do you think it's sexist/misogynistic/problematic for a man to fully avoid and decenter women?If a guy wants to cut women out of his personal life entirely, that’s his prerogative, but let’s not pretend it’s some grand neutral choice. It reeks of unresolved baggage or prejudice, especially if it’s framed as “decentering women.” Why not just live your life and let connections happen organically? Targeting an entire gender for exclusion is a choice rooted in bias, whether he admits it or not. Sure, he can do it, but don’t expect people to applaud or respect it if it’s coming from a place o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 09:50 PM |
| – | Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to womenPregnancy can kill, maim, or cause irreversible damage, which is why abortion exists as an option to preserve a woman’s health and autonomy. Trying to equate financial obligations to the physical toll and risks of pregnancy is both ignorant and dismissive of the real stakes women face. If you want to talk about fairness, start by acknowledging that biology inherently places a greater burden on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 09:49 PM |
| – | Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalismChild support doesn’t rupture organs, cause permanent damage, or kill people. Comparing financial responsibility to the physical toll, risks, and life-altering impacts of pregnancy is absurd. Stop pretending they’re the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 09:44 PM |
| – | Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to womenYour argument boils down to asking for permission to abandon responsibility because biology gives women choices you don’t have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 09:33 PM |
| – | Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalismYour argument is nothing more than thinly veiled punishment for women. It's pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 09:27 PM |
| – | Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalismI genuinely don't understand what you're implying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 08:53 PM |
| – | Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalismNah, self defense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Is Colorful Dyed Hair as disliked by men as it appears to be online and why?Why is it a red flag? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 03:57 PM |
| – | The truth is that we simply do not know if every men could really have a chance.Everyone has the capacity to become more thoughtful, confident, and self-aware. Tthose qualities have nothing to do with money, looks, or status. Sometimes people feel stuck because they’re focusing on what they lack rather than what they can offer. Self-worth doesn’t come from getting attention from women. it comes from building a meaningful life that you feel proud of. The part where you compare this to bullying in school is also telling. You’re not wrong that some dynamics are hierarchical, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Women are simply lying about this pretty consequential thingHere’s the reality you refuse to acknowledge: I was a middle-class white girl. I’m the demographic society is supposedly most likely to believe, protect, and support. And yet, I was dismissed, disbelieved, and treated like a liar at every turn. If that’s the experience for me, imagine how utterly horrific it is for marginalized women—women of color, poor women, queer women. You think I’m “low status”? If I couldn’t get justice, what do you think happens to the women society actually deems “low s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 01:05 PM |
| 0 | Feminists fearing and resenting men they never met is called sexismYour comparison is fundamentally flawed. Fear of men, for many women, is not baseless prejudice, it’s a response to patterns of lived experiences, societal trends, and statistical realities that are ingrained into their everyday lives. When women express fear of men, it’s not because they’re throwing a blanket over an entire group out of nowhere, it’s because of the very real risks they navigate. Women aren’t “choosing” to fear men like someone might hold irrational bias against an unfamiliar gr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Women are simply lying about this pretty consequential thingThe idea that women are encouraged to speak up or that reports are taken seriously is laughable. Reality and statistics say otherwise Less than 1% of sexual assaults result in a conviction. Half of cases never even make it to trial because they aren't investigated. Survivors are dismissed, disbelieved, and gaslit at every turn. And that's not just a statistic, i've lived it. When I reported being raped, the police didn't question the man who hurt me. They grilled me for hours, asking me over and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 04:36 PM |
| 1 | By the Same White Knight Who Made the Last Post I Shared in This SubIt’s honestly astounding how much contempt and malice you’ve managed to cram into a single comment. You’re sitting here comparing women trying to survive dangerous, life-threatening pregnancies to “murdering their children,” which is not only ignorant but completely detached from reality. Do you know what happens when doctors can’t provide life-saving care because people like you are too busy moralizing? Women die. Actual, living, breathing people die in horrific, preventable ways. And let’s be … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 17/12/24 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Women are simply lying about this pretty consequential thingHere's the reality: rape and sexual assault rarely leave the kind of physical evidence you're pretending is necessary to take someone seriously. It’s not like CSI with neatly packaged clues. In most cases, it comes down to someone's word against another's, and the justice system overwhelmingly sides with the accused. You talk about 'not acting without evidence' like it’s some noble stance, but what you’re really advocating for is a world where victims are silenced unless they were brutalized in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 09:26 PM |
| 3 | The man vs bear "debate" is a case study showing that women struggle with logic and are overly emotional, and thus not worth arguing with.Wow, this is a lot of words to mask the fact that you fundamentally don’t understand context, trauma, or empathy. I’ll give you credit, though, the sheer energy it took to write this screed is impressive. Unfortunately, it’s also laughably out of touch. Let me break it down for you since this seems to be a struggle. Women saying they’d rather face a bear than a random man is not about a logical, statistical comparison between ‘average bear behavior’ and ‘average man behavior.’ It’s a statement a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 04:54 PM |
| 11 | The man vs bear "debate" is a case study showing that women struggle with logic and are overly emotional, and thus not worth arguing with.Wow, this is a lot of words to mask the fact that you fundamentally don’t understand context, trauma, or empathy. I’ll give you credit, though, the sheer energy it took to write this screed is impressive. Unfortunately, it’s also laughably out of touch. Let me break it down for you since this seems to be a struggle. Women saying they’d rather face a bear than a random man is not about a logical, statistical comparison between ‘average bear behavior’ and ‘average man behavior.’ It’s a statement a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Men need to work actively against women's rights for their issues to be take seriously.Your argument is so catastrophically bad it’s almost impressive. You’re seriously suggesting that men should 'work actively against women’s rights' to solve their own issues? That’s not advocating for men, that’s a toddler tantrum in writing. Men’s struggles (suicide rates, mental health stigma, societal pressures) are real and serious, but blaming women for them is not only lazy, it’s pathetic. If men don’t have a 'unified front' or political power to address their issues, who exactly do you th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Women are simply lying about this pretty consequential thingI would go as far as to say they are significantly less. It’s hard to calculate rates of false accusations when most survivors are never even believed in the first place. I know, because I’ve been there. When I went to the cops about my assault, they told me I was lying. They never even questioned the guy. When I came forward about the abuse and molestation I faced at daycare, I was told the same: “You’re lying.” And when I finally spoke out about my stepdad at 17, I was kicked out. Not only did… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 02:39 PM |
| 0 | By the Same White Knight Who Made the Last Post I Shared in This SubIt’s honestly disturbing how much joy you seem to take in the thought of humiliating a stranger online. That level of obsession says far more about you than it does about me. And let’s be real here, declaring you’ve “dismantled” someone doesn’t make it true, especially when your argument is a dumpster fire of pseudo-intellectual nonsense. You claim “principles aren’t grounded in empathy,” yet you’re simultaneously leaning on this idea of evolutionary tribalism and the human brain’s capacity for … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 15/12/24 02:11 PM |
| 0 | By the Same White Knight Who Made the Last Post I Shared in This SubYou seem to remember me from somewhere... that’s weird. Here’s the thing: I tend to stop engaging when it’s clear someone isn’t worth the effort, like when they’re so far gone they’ll ignore statistics, human suffering, and basic decency. That’s not a “win” for you, by the way, it’s me realizing I’d get a more productive conversation out of a brick wall. Anyways, you can try to spin this however you want, but the facts remain: women are dying because of laws designed to strip them of autonomy. J… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 15/12/24 02:04 PM |
| – | Is The Denial That Misandry Exists The Worst Misandry?If you're claiming that feminists are responsible for policies excluding male victims, you need to provide concrete examples of these "dodgy methods" and policies. Feminism as a movement has repeatedly highlighted the harms of patriarchy, which includes the stigma against male victims. The issue isn't feminists ignoring male suffering, it's that society at large, shaped by patriarchal norms, dismisses male vulnerability as a threat to traditional masculinity. Take domestic violence shelters as a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 03:48 PM |
| 2 | How come feminsm treats men as having easy cushy lives when they are victims of the patriarchy too?First, feminism doesn’t frame men’s lives as 'cushy.' The entire point of feminist theory (especially thinkers like bell hooks) is to critique patriarchy, which harms everyone. Patriarchy doesn’t just oppress women and marginalized genders, it also forces men into toxic ideas of strength, dominance, and emotional repression. The problem isn’t feminism ignoring men, it’s that many men misunderstand feminism as anti-man, when it’s really anti-patriarchy. If anything, feminism does acknowledge male… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 03:44 PM |
| 2 | How come feminsm treats men as having easy cushy lives when they are victims of the patriarchy too?Are we just ignoring entire countries like Afghanistan where women aren't even permitted to speak to each other or go to the doctor? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 03:40 PM |
| 26 | If you were a billionaire, would you still pursue a romantic relationship/marriage? Why/why not?Of course I’d still want a relationship. I’m ridiculously co-dependent and spoiling someone I love is basically my love language. Billionaire me would just make it over-the-top. 'Oh, you’re stressed? I bought you a private island for some peace and quiet.' Or, 'Feeling a bit chilly? No problem, here’s a diamond-encrusted blanket and a plane ticket to Bora Bora.' Honestly, being rich would just give me more ways to be extra about loving someone, and I’d thrive in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 03:54 AM |
| – | Is The Denial That Misandry Exists The Worst Misandry?Hate to break it to you, but I’m not even American, so your little 'silver lining' speech about Trump’s election is laughably irrelevant to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 03:36 AM |
| -2 | Women are simply lying about this pretty consequential thingI genuinely can’t tell if this is heartfelt praise or a masterclass in sarcasm. Am I being celebrated or mocked? I truly can't tell. Thanks... maybe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 03:29 AM |
| – | Is The Denial That Misandry Exists The Worst Misandry?When I talk about misogyny being systemic, this is exactly what I mean: laws and policies that actively harm women and strip them of their autonomy. In many U.S. states, we’re seeing laws that not only deny women access to safe abortions but actively endanger their lives. Women are already dying, women are being forced to carry non-viable pregnancies, endure dangerous complications, or give birth to children conceived from rape, even in cases involving girls as young as 10. These laws are state-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 02:22 AM |
| – | Is The Denial That Misandry Exists The Worst Misandry?Your argument is entirely backward. Women didn’t “choose” not to participate in war, they were actively barred from doing so. Throughout history, women have faced systemic exclusion from combat roles, not because they lacked willingness, but because patriarchal systems deemed them unfit or undeserving of the opportunity to fight for their countries. Take for example the WASP (Women Airforce Service Pilots) program during WWII. These women were ready to risk their lives and serve, yet they faced … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 02:10 AM |
| – | Is The Denial That Misandry Exists The Worst Misandry?Misandry as interpersonal bias? Sure, that exists. Misandry as a widespread societal structure? Show me the laws, the barriers, the ceilings holding men back because of their gender. Oh, wait. It’s telling that instead of addressing the actual points about systemic power structures benefiting men, this response veers into a feedback loop of self-victimization. The systems men created overwhelmingly favor men, yet any critique of those systems is reframed as "misandry." This isn’t systemic misand… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 01:53 AM |
| – | Is The Denial That Misandry Exists The Worst Misandry?It might help to clarify what exactly your definition of misandry is and what specific behaviors or situations you're witnessing that you believe fall under that term. Are we talking about personal prejudice from individuals, cultural stereotypes, or systemic disadvantages? Because if we're discussing institutional or widespread oppression based on gender, that's where the distinction lies. Misandry as individual prejudice is real but doesn't carry the systemic weight to actively deny men access… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 01:50 AM |
| – | Is The Denial That Misandry Exists The Worst Misandry?The systemic denial of male victimization, whether it's rape, sexual harassment, or domestic violence, isn’t "systemic misandry," it’s a product of patriarchy. Patriarchy is the system that enforces rigid gender roles, telling men they need to be "strong," "dominant," and "invulnerable," which directly contributes to dismissing male survivors as weak or emasculated. It’s patriarchy that perpetuates the stigma that men can’t be victims, especially at the hands of women, because it paints women as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 01:47 AM |
| – | Is The Denial That Misandry Exists The Worst Misandry?So, you’re really out here defending the patriarchy like it’s some misunderstood hero? “It’s done more good than bad”? That’s your take? A system that thrives on inequality and exploitation doesn’t get a free pass just because it’s managed to function. That’s like saying a car with no brakes is fine because it still moves forward, completely ignoring the trail of destruction it leaves behind. And “not that many rapists”? Are you actually serious? Downplaying one of the most horrifying and pervas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 01:42 AM |
| – | Is The Denial That Misandry Exists The Worst Misandry?I’m not even American. Canada doesn’t even have a draft. So not only have I never voted for it, I’ve never even lived in a country where it’s a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 01:20 AM |
| – | Is The Denial That Misandry Exists The Worst Misandry?The draft and conscription are indeed real, but male-only conscription wasn’t a policy dreamed up by women. It was created and enforced by men in power, within a patriarchal system designed by and for men. This system prioritized male participation in war because, historically, men held political and military dominance. Women had no voice in those decisions because they were excluded from voting, holding office, or shaping policy. To suggest that millions of women are responsible for male-only c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 01:12 AM |
| – | Is The Denial That Misandry Exists The Worst Misandry?The patriarchy is not some benevolent system that “has done more good than harm.” That’s a delusion born from being on the side of the oppressors rather than the oppressed. Patriarchy is a hierarchy that subjugates half the population to benefit the other half, creating cycles of abuse, oppression, and systemic inequality. The horrors of patriarchy are woven into the very fabric of society. For centuries, women were denied education, the right to vote, and property ownership. Women were consider… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 12:59 AM |
| – | Is The Denial That Misandry Exists The Worst Misandry?Are you dismissing valid points with buzzwords like 'SJW' and 'woke' because your brain starts buffering when faced with concepts like systemic oppression? I fear you’ve been hanging out in echo chambers where anything beyond caveman grunting is considered revolutionary. Also, the irony of whining about how no one’s responding to you while simultaneously contributing absolutely nothing of value is comedy gold. If you’re so eager for engagement, maybe try presenting a coherent argument instead of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 12:44 AM |
| – | Is The Denial That Misandry Exists The Worst Misandry?It’s fascinating that you’re asking me, a woman, if you deserve to die in a war instead of directing that very poignant question to the men who wrote the laws, enforced them, and upheld the systems that made the draft a thing in the first place. I wasn’t at the table when those decisions were made, so maybe take it up with your bros who built that house. But since you seem genuinely worried about your safety, let me calm your fears with some facts: statistically speaking, you’re safer in the mil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 12:38 AM |
| – | Is The Denial That Misandry Exists The Worst Misandry?Ah yes, 'feminist brain rot.' Because when women articulate valid, fact-based points about systemic oppression and gender dynamics, it’s definitely a symptom of unhinged delusion and not, you know, critical thinking. Your entire argument boils down to a lot of angry words and zero substance, like a toddler throwing a tantrum because the world doesn’t cater to their fragile ego. Let’s dissect your meltdown, shall we? First, internalized misogyny is not a feminist invention, it’s a sociological an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 12:23 AM |
| – | Is The Denial That Misandry Exists The Worst Misandry?Your argument seems to miss the point entirely. Misandry, like misogyny, can absolutely exist on an individual level. People can be jerks to men just as they can to women. But what you're describing, things like court sentences or the draft, isn't misandry. It's the result of systems built by men, for men, where the unintended consequences often harm other men. That's not hatred of men, that's poor system design. You mention court sentences and war, both of which reflect societal constructs hist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 12:02 AM |
| – | Is The Denial That Misandry Exists The Worst Misandry?Claiming that pointing out male-created systems is "misandry" is not only disingenuous, but it's also peak irony. Men built these systems. Men enforced these laws. Men decided the rules. If you feel victimized by the house your bros built, that’s on you to fix. As for the draft and prison sentencing, congratulations, you just admitted that the systems men designed screw men over too. The draft? Written and enforced by men in power who excluded women not out of “love” but because they didn’t cons… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 11:58 PM |
| – | Is The Denial That Misandry Exists The Worst Misandry?The denial of misandry being "the worst misandry" is like saying the denial of unicorns is animal cruelty. Misandry exists on an individual level, sure, people can be jerks to men, just like anyone can be a jerk to anyone else. But systemic misandry? That's not a thing. There’s no institutionalized oppression holding men back because they’re men. No historical laws denying men the right to vote, own property, or access education. No glass ceiling keeping men from rising to positions of power. In… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 11:05 PM |
| 65 | Women are simply lying about this pretty consequential thingThe metastudies you’re referencing don’t say what you claim they do. The studies establish that proven false accusations are consistently low (around 5.5%) which aligns with most crime reporting rates. You’re trying to spin this into some grand conspiracy because it doesn’t suit your narrative. It’s not about “misleading interpretation,” it’s about the actual data. Your "hypothesis" claim is laughable. Hypotheses are unproven ideas. Conclusions from a large body of consistent studies aren’t. You… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 10:16 PM |
| 1 | By the Same White Knight Who Made the Last Post I Shared in This SubAh, yes, your "developed principles," the ones that apparently give you the moral flexibility to justify the suffering of children, the deaths of women, and the systemic oppression of half the population. You're not operating from a place of principle, sweetheart, you're operating from a place of sheer moral cowardice, wrapped in self-congratulatory nonsense. If your "principles" allow you to shrug off the rape and forced childbirth of a 10-year-old or the preventable deaths of women, let me ass… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/12/24 10:07 PM |
| 0 | By the Same White Knight Who Made the Last Post I Shared in This SubOh, sweet summer child, your grasp on this issue is as shaky as your understanding of basic human rights. Let’s get one thing straight: the current system that forces children (literal 9- and 10-year-olds) to carry pregnancies to term because they were raped is not a matter of "principles," it’s a grotesque failure of compassion and morality. You call it accountability? I call it state-sanctioned cruelty. Meanwhile, women are dying. Not metaphorically, not hypothetically—literally dying—from ect… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/12/24 09:24 PM |
| -1 | By the Same White Knight Who Made the Last Post I Shared in This SubLet’s tackle your desperate attempt to frame women as privileged. Women today still face systemic barriers, but let’s talk about reproductive rights since you brought up the “muh privileges” nonsense. In many U.S. states, women and girls have essentially lost their bodily autonomy. There are cases of 9- and 10-year-old rape victims being forced to flee their home states just to access abortion care. CHILDREN, who should be worrying about dolls and school, are instead giving birth because grown m… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/12/24 08:57 PM |
| 0 | By the Same White Knight Who Made the Last Post I Shared in This SubWho are you and why am I living rent free in your head? It doesn't matter. I'm feeling generous, so I'll give you a history lesson because your condescending tone and pathetic attempt at intellectual superiority are laughable at best and pathetic at worst. Let’s break this down so even you can understand: First, your entire argument rests on the shaky foundation of ignoring systemic discrimination. Did single women theoretically have the ability to open bank accounts before the 70s? Sure, but le… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/12/24 07:54 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADKinda reminds me of a younger Joseph Gorden Levitt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 05:49 PM |
| 8 | Women feel they don't need men despite needing men; Men feel they need women despite not needing women.Your argument just keeps getting worse. Women "aren't barred from those jobs now, but they still barely do them"? Really? You conveniently ignore the decades (or centuries) of systemic exclusion that created that disparity in the first place, as though women collectively woke up one day and just decided, “Nah, I’d rather not.” Mining and policing are male-dominated because men actively worked to ensure it stayed that way through discrimination, social stigmas, and outright barring women from ent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 05:29 PM |
| 11 | Women feel they don't need men despite needing men; Men feel they need women despite not needing women.So your argument is that men should get credit for doing jobs like mining and policing, jobs they’ve historically monopolized by barring women through discrimination, and then turn around and act like their labor is some selfless act of protection? Spare me. And no, “bad people are always going to exist” is not an excuse to dismiss the idea of holding your peers accountable. If you’re so quick to generalize about all the good men supposedly do, maybe spend some time reflecting on the general har… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 04:49 PM |
| 16 | Women feel they don't need men despite needing men; Men feel they need women despite not needing women.LMAO! Buddy, this isn’t the 1800s. Women aren’t damsels fainting in the wild. Unless you’re packing some serious wilderness survival skills, sit this one out. Most guys I know would cry if their Wi-Fi went out, so let’s not pretend modern men are out here slaying bears to keep women safe. Also, protect us from 'labor' and 'weather'? Truly? Are you seriously implying women need protection from working? Oh, and protect us from 'bad people of both genders'? We both know the majority of 'bad people'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 04:32 PM |
| 19 | Women feel they don't need men despite needing men; Men feel they need women despite not needing women.Who are men protecting women from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 04:12 PM |
| 4 | Who has it rougher when it comes to dating women or men?Sure, women might get more attention, but let’s not pretend it's some magical advantage when most of that attention is trash-tier 'u up?' messages or guys trying to neg their way into bed. The volume of attention doesn’t equal quality, my guy, it’s like bragging about getting 100 spam emails a day. And your idea that women don’t get nervous? Absolutely clueless. Men might worry about rejection, women worry about rejection and getting stalked, harassed, or assaulted. A bad date for a guy means aw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?Men are disposable? Sure, but let’s not forget that women are considered disposable too, just in ways that align with their 'role' in the system. They’re thrown away as soon as their bodies fail to conform to patriarchal demands. They’re forced to endure life-threatening pregnancies, denied autonomy over their own healthcare, and even blamed for the violence inflicted upon them. If women are 'valued,' it’s only for their ability to produce children or perform unpaid labor. Once that 'value' is d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 03:17 PM |
| – | We can at least agree that that too many women are addicted to taking pictures at the expense of ruining a momentHonestly, I’ve never seen anyone act like this. Seems like a weirdly specific gripe, and blaming 'women as a monolith' for it feels like a stretch. Maybe this says more about your friend group than it does about 'women' in general? Just a thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?If feminism makes you feel dehumanized, that’s something to unpack, but it’s not because feminism is inherently dehumanizing. Feminism fights for equality, which includes dismantling harmful stereotypes and systems that hurt men too. If holding men accountable for misogynistic ideologies feels like dehumanization, maybe consider why challenging harmful beliefs feels personal. Accountability isn’t oppression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?Men being sent to war is a feature of the patriarchal system that values men for their utility as soldiers and protectors. It’s the same system that tells women they’re too fragile or incapable to fight, and confines them to 'protected' roles at the expense of their autonomy. If you’re mad about men being sent to war, blame the system that designed those gendered expectations Hint, it wasn’t women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 10:17 PM |
| 9 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?Men on PPD often claim short and broke men are undesirable, yet I desire my husband fiercely and love him deeply. It's not humiliation, it's me rejecting their shallow takes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 08:48 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 08:24 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?Definitely knows about the short part (he also knows I don't actually think he's short). Doubtful about the broke part. Don't think it's come up in conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 08:01 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?Men being conscripted into war is a product of patriarchy valuing men as disposable warriors, not some feminist plot. The idea of “financial abortions” is just a way to dodge responsibility for a child you helped create, child support exists for the well-being of the kid, not to punish men. The claim that rape laws exclude male victims is outdated, most legal systems now include male victims and female perpetrators. If there’s a stigma, it’s because toxic masculinity, perpetuated by patriarchy, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?Patriarchy isn’t about hating men or women, it’s about enforcing rigid roles that benefit a select few while harming everyone else. It punishes men who don’t conform to narrow definitions of masculinity and women who defy restrictive femininity. Misandry isn’t built into the system; misogyny is. Patriarchy thrives on male dominance, not equality, and calling it misandrist ignores who’s really holding the reins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 07:49 PM |
| 10 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?He quite literally jokes about being a short king. He also just asked me for $200 last week to help him out with some extra expenses. I gave him $300 because he's a good boy. Needless to say, he wouldn't give a single iota of a fuck about what I post around here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 07:43 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?Historically and even today, men have held more power over women, especially in marriage: Legal control: Until recently, married women in many countries had no legal autonomy. In the U.S., it wasn't until the 1970s that women could get a credit card or bank loan without their husband's permission. Marital rape was still legal in some states until the 1990s. Economic dominance: Men are still the primary earners in most marriages, giving them economic power. Women perform 70% of unpaid domestic la… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?Patriarchy isn’t misandry because it was literally created by men, for men, to prioritize male dominance and control. Misandry is the hatred or contempt of men, whereas patriarchy is a social system that enforces strict gender roles, prioritizing traditional masculinity while devaluing traits associated with femininity. It might harm men who don’t conform to its standards, but that harm isn’t misandry, it’s collateral damage in a system designed to uphold male power. For example, patriarchy dict… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 07:11 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?I could write you a whole novel! Buckle up. Let's start with: Healthcare Inequalities Women’s health is consistently deprioritized in research, treatment, and funding. While diseases like erectile dysfunction (ED) receive significant resources which is more than the entire budget for women’s reproductive health. Medical Research Bias: Most drugs and treatments are designed and tested on male physiology. Women are rarely included in clinical trials, leading to severe side effects and suboptimal t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 07:00 PM |
| 8 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?So you're fine acknowledging patriarchy exists as long as you can distance yourself from it? Convenient. The reality is, those "select few men" in power still reinforce a system that disproportionately harms women while keeping men like you complicit, even if you don’t directly benefit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 04:40 PM |
| 11 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?It’s interesting how you can simultaneously claim men are “powerless” while dismissing the concept of patriarchy, a system built and upheld by those in power, historically and presently, overwhelmingly men. Individual men might not have created these systems, but they benefit from or are constrained by them, just like individual women didn’t invent misogyny but are affected by it daily. As for “women being lifted to spots they didn’t earn,” the irony is staggering considering the countless barri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 04:36 PM |
| 16 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?You’re equating open-mindedness with tolerating misogyny. Being open to new ideas is one thing, but entertaining harmful, dehumanizing ideologies isn’t up for debate. Respecting someone doesn’t mean excusing beliefs that perpetuate inequality or dismiss women as less than human. If someone I trust genuinely believed these things, it wouldn’t make me question my values, it would make me question how much I really knew them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 04:29 PM |
| 10 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?Calling it misandry doesn’t make it true. Recognizing systemic patterns of male dominance in laws, workplaces, and power structures isn’t an 'apex fallacy,' it’s acknowledging reality. Yes, not every man benefits equally, but that doesn’t mean the system isn’t patriarchal, it’s just that some men are also harmed by these rigid, outdated structures. As for women 'upholding' it in dating, that’s just another way of blaming women for navigating a system they didn’t create. Accountability isn’t misa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 04:24 PM |
| 10 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?You conveniently forget the part where men get to be little kings in there own home. For almost all of history and in a large chunk of the world, men OWN their wives and daughters. They can literally sell them. Women don't have safety, our well being has never mattered, and if we show any kind of feelings we are hysterical or stupid or some combination of both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 04:22 PM |
| 10 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?Those are wildly patriarchal societies and have nothing to do with misandry. Both of those countries have deeply rooted traditional gender roles. Don't even get me started on the male on female violence in those countries. Needless to say, this is a system set up by men for men. If you want someone to blame, it's men. Also, just because you don’t personally benefit doesn’t mean the system isn’t patriarchal. Patriarchy prioritizes men’s interests and reinforces male dominance, even if it doesn’t … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 03:32 PM |
| 17 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?If a partner or friend admitted to holding Redpill beliefs, I’d see it as a massive red flag. These ideas like hypergamy, 'alpha fux beta bux,' or that society is 'gynocentric and misandrist' aren’t just misguided opinions, they’re rooted in misogyny and harmful stereotypes that dehumanize women. If my husband came out with any of this nonsense, I’d honestly assume he had a brain tumor or some kind of mental break, especially since I’ve financed a lot of his life and he’s no 'Chad.' I’d think he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 03:24 PM |
| 13 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?Misandry might sting your ego, but misogyny leaves women dead. Society isn’t 'gynocentric.' Patriarchy still controls laws, workplaces, and power structures. Whining about misandry while dismissing misogyny is just refusing to engage with reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 03:12 PM |
| 11 | in the US the women are wonderful effect is on steroids and this is part of the problemPicking my son up from school and seeing all the dads has convinced me otherwise. I've yet to see a 'Chad.' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 01:56 PM |
| 4 | What are some non-mental-health related faults that you think more women have than men?My husband is a manager and a surprising amount of guys cry when reprimanded or fired. It's the ones that you wouldn't suspect either! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 09:17 PM |
| 3 | Only 14 countries have full legal protections for womenRoe being overturned is not a good thing by any stretch of the imagination. Saying it's better because it leaves abortion laws to the states ignores the devastating consequences. Women are literally dying because they can't access life-saving abortions, and children who are victims of rape are being forced to carry pregnancies. This isn't a 'win' for anyone, it's a horrific rollback of basic human rights. The fact that 14 states have bans past six weeks is not reassuring, it's a tragedy for anyo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 01:34 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADWow, as if I didn't have enough reason to dislike men, I just learned a fun new fact! Approximately 80% of women with developmental disabilities have been sexually assaulted, with half of these women experiencing assault more than ten times. What the actual fuck?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 11:25 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThis 'theory' sounds more like a stereotype-fueled fantasy than anything based in reality. Being LGBTQ isn’t some trendy club for ‘losers,’ it’s an identity often met with rejection, bullying, and even violence. Nobody is getting peer-pressured into being trans like it’s a school fad. Gender identity doesn’t work that way. Sure, some people explore and learn more about themselves, and maybe they decide something doesn’t fit, but that’s not ‘growing out of it,’ it’s just normal self-discovery. In… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 11:14 PM |
| – | Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry areIt’s interesting how every societal challenge men face is somehow boiled down to “misandry” or “gynocentrism,” as though systemic issues like economic inequality and cultural shifts are part of a deliberate attack on men. First, education and employment. Yes, male-dominated industries like manufacturing have been hit hard, and the education gap between men and women is real. But this isn’t because society is “anti-men," it’s a result of broader economic changes and historical inequities. For gen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 02:59 PM |
| – | Feminist women are much better to date than trad womenI'll be honest, we've never been on a traditional date. We've been married about 6 years and we've maybe eaten at restaurant twice together and that was with our kid giving him a special experience. We both find it a waste of money. When we first met we'd go hiking or just hang out at my place. Sometimes he'd get me a drink at Starbucks. We are both incredibly introverted. What I mean about buying stuff for me when we are out together, I'm talking like gas for my car or something I like and want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 01:55 PM |
| – | Feminist women are much better to date than trad womenI don't really know. It just makes me feel special and like he cares about me. I buy all his clothes though, and today I spent $100 on Christmas tickets for the family on Xmas eve. Honestly, he carries around my visa a lot and just makes it look like he's paying 😂 He does, however, pay the majority of the household bills. With that said, he could pay down the entire mortgage but he won't catch up to what I used for the down-payment. Not even half. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 06:14 AM |
| – | Feminist women are much better to date than trad womenI'm a feminist and I definitely prefer my husband to pay for things when we are out and about. However, I bought him a car, a house, and birthed him a son. Needless to say, he has some catching up to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed.Deluded take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 01:53 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI don't think he's ugly, but I'm not sexually attracted to him either. There are guys I can find good-looking but not sexually attractive as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 01:05 AM |
| – | Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and SocietyFirst, you claim the left has become an 'advocacy group for billionaires’ rights,' but let’s look at Trump’s administration: he appointed five billionaires to top positions, including Betsy DeVos as Secretary of Education and Wilbur Ross as Secretary of Commerce. His tax cuts overwhelmingly benefited the top 1% and corporations, not the working class. So if you’re upset about billionaires having too much power, you’re looking at the wrong side. Second, the notion that addressing systemic inequal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 11:22 PM |
| – | Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and SocietyThe ‘us vs. them’ rhetoric you’re accusing the left of using isn’t about dividing people, it’s about pointing out real inequalities. The right uses it to scapegoat marginalized groups and stoke fear of change, while the left tries to highlight the need for systemic reform. If addressing injustice feels like an attack, that says more about how comfortable some people are with the status quo. And let’s not pretend the rise of the alt-right is because people were ‘tired of the left.’ It’s a result … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 08:16 PM |
| 8 | What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex?I don't care. Ask me anything. Minutes of oral or his hands. I can't get off from PIV alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 08:12 PM |
| 6 | What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex?Basically gave an a very imaginative and descriptive essay on how to fuck women. It involved not taking her wants, needs, or pleasure into consideration at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 08:10 PM |
| – | Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and SocietyWow, so much bitterness in one comment. The Affordable Care Act, while not perfect, was a huge step forward in providing coverage for millions of Americans. Is it the universal healthcare system that’s needed? No, but to act like the Democrats have done nothing is just wrong. Let’s not forget that Republicans have actively blocked progress on public healthcare for decades. That’s not on the Democrats alone. Kamala’s comment about men not being told what to do with their bodies highlights the uni… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 08:07 PM |
| – | Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and SocietySure, there’s been a shift, but that’s not solely because of Me Too. It’s a broader cultural issue tied to the rise of influencers like Andrew Tate who capitalize on male alienation and sell toxic masculinity as empowerment. Pretending this shift is all due to Feminism is a lazy argument that ignores the real societal failures driving young men to the right, lack of community, poor mental health support, and an education system that doesn’t address these challenges. You’re correct that Trump’s a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 08:03 PM |
| – | Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and SocietyAh, the old 'cushy universities and corporations' argument. Sure, some institutions have adopted these messages for PR or branding, but the core ideas of fairness, equity, and inclusion didn’t originate in boardrooms or lecture halls. These principles come from grassroots movements and communities fighting for basic human rights. If corporations co-opt those ideas, that’s a reflection of their popularity and importance, not their invalidity. Dismissing the message because of who’s saying it feel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 07:55 PM |
| – | Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and SocietyIf acknowledging privilege feels like a lecture, that’s probably because it’s hitting a nerve. ‘Woke culture’ isn’t about cramming anything down anyone’s throat, it’s about recognizing systemic inequalities and working toward a more equitable society. If that makes people uncomfortable, maybe it’s worth asking why the idea of fairness and inclusion feels so threatening. A lot of this ‘woke culture’ outrage seems less about actual harm and more about being defensive when asked to reflect on how t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 07:04 PM |
| – | Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and SocietyIt's not that the left doesn’t know why Trump won. It’s that people like you can’t admit it’s more than just ‘woke culture’ or Me Too. Trump’s whole campaign thrived on pandering to hate. He stoked fears about immigrants, demonized marginalized groups, and scapegoated anyone who didn’t fit his narrative. He turned ‘us vs. them’ rhetoric into a political weapon, making people feel like progress was an attack on their way of life. It wasn’t some rejection of Feminism. It was a calculated strategy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 07:02 PM |
| – | Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and SocietyBlaming ‘identity politics’ or ‘woke culture’ for political outcomes is such a tired deflection. Movements like DEI (diversity, equity, inclusion) and so-called ‘woke culture’ aren’t about cramming anything down anyone’s throat—they’re about addressing systemic inequalities and creating a more inclusive society. If the idea of fairness, representation, and respect feels threatening, that says more about those opposed to progress than the movements themselves. The Democratic Party’s association w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 06:48 PM |
| 9 | What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex?My husband is the first guy to ever get me off. He can do it within minutes, sometimes less. He makes it look easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 06:46 PM |
| – | Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and SocietyThe Democratic Party did run on economic issues in both elections—healthcare, raising the minimum wage, job creation—but these messages often got drowned out by sensationalism and divisive cultural narratives. Blaming Feminism for Trump’s win ignores the fact that a significant portion of his base wasn’t voting on economics—they were voting on fear of change, xenophobia, and, yes, some backlash against movements like Me Too that challenged entrenched power dynamics. Feminism wasn’t the problem. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 05:40 PM |
| 0 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThis claim really doesn’t hold up when you take a closer look. Women face far more rigid and pervasive beauty standards than men. Society expects women to have specific body types, flawless skin, perfect hair, and constant grooming, all while being judged for aging naturally. The beauty industry, worth billions, is overwhelmingly targeted at women, pushing them to meet these impossible ideals. If riots were going to happen over beauty standards, they’d already be happening—and for good reason. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 05:34 PM |
| – | Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and SocietyTracing modern Feminism to Me Too/Time’s Up is an oversimplification. While these movements were pivotal, they’re just one part of a much longer history. Third-wave Feminism, in particular, has broader roots and goals that extend far beyond what emerged in 2014–2017. The issues you highlight—like the erosion of abortion rights—are less a failure of Me Too and more a reflection of larger systemic problems like political polarization and the rise of authoritarianism. Blaming Feminism for Trump’s e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 05:16 PM |
| 20 | What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex?Complaining about it being too hard or too boring to get me off. Same with foreplay. Hate when guys say it's boring, there's no point, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 04:54 PM |
| 9 | What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex?Only those that don't give a shit about pleasing their partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 04:51 PM |
| 5 | What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex?This is genuinely repulsive and nightmare fuel. Good job if that's what you're going for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What would you say about a man who is 8+/10 but is shy?No, he'd known that mutual friend for over 10 years and hung out with her regularly and frequently babysat her children. They worked together and had their lunch break together every day. He said it on one of those breaks. It wasn't like he was saying it to some random person. Also, I'm incredibly shy and introverted. We can be vulnerable at times. Truth be told, I'm an over sharer. If you can get me talking, I'm an open book. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What would you say about a man who is 8+/10 but is shy?Highly depends what you consider normal. I don't know what you mean by fluffy. We are super vanilla in bed if that's what you're asking. I highly suspect I'm autistic, btw. I'm learning all about it since everyone thinks my son is. I'm super shy and will literally sweat and shake in new social situations, or even just ones I find uncomfy, like asking for time off at work. My body legit thinks I'm about to be killed, lmao. I only managed to ask my husband out because he told a mutual friend I had… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 01:18 PM |
| 6 | women dont love the man, they love themselves throught their manShe risked her life saving men. I thought that's what op wanted to hear about. Correct me if I I'm wrong. Less specifically, 800 women die a day in childbirth. I imagine approximately half of those women are dying when giving birth to sons. That's the ultimate sacrifice, dying so one can live. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 12:43 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI don't want to be here. I quite literally wish I was never born. Also, my father is part of the reason I have these thoughts. He couldn't be faithful to save his life, or more accurately, his family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 05:40 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADCan we talk about how absolutely possessed men as a group are by lust? POSSESSED. Their entire existence revolves around it. I’m talking RUIN THEIR ENTIRE LIFE over it. Risk life in prison, dying, being disowned by children, ruining a life-long marriage. What a sad, dimensionless existence. Like what in the reptile brain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 04:47 AM |
| 8 | Q4W: What would you say about a man who is 8+/10 but is shy?I'd consider my husband shy (I did the approaching and asking out). He is neither an 8 nor a 10. No advice other than you just gotta get to know ladies and if you think there's a chance, politely ask her out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 04:29 AM |
| 7 | women dont love the man, they love themselves throught their manFun fact: Even with the "women and children first" policy, more men from first class survived than women and children from third class. Also, have you genuinely never heard of women like Edith Cavell? She was quite literally sentenced to death for saving men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 03:42 AM |
| 1 | How did or would you react if your partner said he was born without testicles?I've always wanted to be a mother (and I am now). However, I can say with certainty that if my husband told me when we first got together that he didn't have testicles, it wouldn't have stopped me from dating and marrying him. I wouldn't have hesitated at all. Nothing like that would have changed my feelings or attraction to him. As long as he wanted to be a father and was willing to go alternative routes, everything would have been fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 11:36 PM |
| 11 | women dont love the man, they love themselves throught their man"Men love for the thing itself; women don’t." That’s just romanticizing martyrdom. Men and women both make sacrifices for people they care about. It’s not some grand gender divide. Acting like women are incapable of loving selflessly is just wrong and says more about your view of women than reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Do you think males less attentive in relationships?Well, I skipped one of his birthdays because I was so fucking tired. We'd just moved, but I had to do EVERYTHING, like deal with the realtors, lawyers, the moving trucks, etc. Plus help him physically move everything. Our move in date was also his birthday. I told him I forgot since he tells me that all the time. I didn't hear the end of it. He even called his mom and told her I forgot. He wasn't mad, he just couldn't believe I'd forget something so important. He went on to tell literally everyo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 02:18 AM |
| 4 | No one is obligated to stay celibate.And why would she potentially divorce him? ... Oh, right, because he was cheating!😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 08:36 PM |
| 8 | No one is obligated to stay celibate.If you violate your partners boundaries (like sleeping with someone else), even if you tell them, it's still cheating. That's like saying it's not theft if someone knows you're stealing. Moronic take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 04:50 PM |
| 15 | No one is obligated to stay celibate.I'm genuinely confused how you came to such a stupid conclusion. Are you saying that if I call my husband up after work and tell him i'm not coming home tonight because i'm getting gang banged by a bunch of dudes, it's not cheating and he can't be mad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 04:43 PM |
| 15 | Women with large, masculine builds, how do people treat you?And as you can see, it also happens to women regardless of body size. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 01:20 PM |
| 40 | Women with large, masculine builds, how do people treat you?I was never masculine, but I was once fat. I'm talking genuinely obese. Generally treated with disdain. Women mostly ignored me. Men on the other hand were awful to me, especially those with any sort of authority. I genuinely felt like some of them wanted bad things to happen to me because I had the audacity to be ugly in their presence. Nobody cared if I cried. Nobody cared about my feelings. However, I've been thin for a long time now and the same thing can be said. Guys just hold doors open f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 02:13 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNo. She'd be an exception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Do you think males less attentive in relationships?Yes, we've talked about it billion times. Every missed holiday id say it makes me sad that he doesn't participate. I'd say it makes me feel good, makes me believe that he thinks and cares about me etc, when he gets me gifts on holidays. He'd always say he will next time. He didn't. I'd give him lists but he'd still say he didn't know what to get me, he panicked etc. He forgot. So I'd remind him repeatedly and I'd say things like I'm so excited to get this or that for Christmas so he knows EXACTL… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 02:45 PM |
| 0 | Do you think males less attentive in relationships?Men are extremely less attentive. Like I LOVE celebrating Xmas, birthdays, valentines, anniversaries, etc. But I've never had a long term partner participate. l get meaningful and sometimes extravagant gifts (I love spoiling those I love), but I'm not celebrated in return. I don't even want big fancy things, I just want to see that that my man thinks about me, loves me, and wants to show it. I remember being blown away because on my first birthday with my husband, he acknowledged it. He made me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 04:14 PM |
| -1 | You are not oppressed for being a woman, or a victim25 million is the number of women affected by these laws. 25 million is the number of women who wouldn't be able to get one if they needed one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 03:32 PM |
| 1 | You are not oppressed for being a woman, or a victimDo you seriously believe 25 million women and girls is a small number? 40% of the nation's women/girls between the ages of 15-49 live in states with restrictive abortion bans. It doesn't include the countless children, yes, children who have been raped and forced to carry pregnancies. A 9-year-old had to flee her state to get an abortion. An 11-year-old, raped in her own yard, was forced to give birth because her mother couldn't afford to take her out of state. These aren't isolated incidents, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 02:22 PM |
| 4 | q4w: Your boyfriend/husband tells you that you either stop using social media, or he leaves. What are you choosing?I don't post anywhere. I only comment on reddit and occasionally tiktok. Why would he even care? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 12:35 AM |
| 1 | You are not oppressed for being a woman, or a victimWomen in the United States are dying. Not metaphorically, not in quiet whispers, but in a cold, systematic obliteration of their rights and bodies. This isn’t accidental. It’s engineered oppression. States have drawn lines in the sand, prioritizing ideological dogma over human lives, ensuring that women are silenced—sometimes permanently. In states like Alabama, Arkansas, Kentucky, Louisiana, Missouri, Oklahoma, South Dakota, Tennessee, and Texas, abortion bans don't even make exceptions for rap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 11:38 PM |
| 5 | How much does a man’s finances matter to you?My husband is a manager in store. He lived with his parents when we met (he was 26) and had never lived on his own. When he moved in with me (I owned my own place), he happily paid half the bills and that's all I really cared about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 08:06 PM |
| 1 | “Can you cook?” is a valid and important question for any prospective partnerI genuinely don't have the patience for it. Just thinking about it makes me angry. But, yeah, my husband cooks every night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 11:44 PM |
| 1 | “Can you cook?” is a valid and important question for any prospective partnerI don't cook and I can't cook. The thought of cooking makes me angry and I'd genuinely rather starve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Do you actually care about not being able to go out with your tits out?If i had perky itty bitty titties, I'd totally go without. Sometimes I dream about winning the lottery, getting a lift and reduction and never wearing a bra again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 06:39 PM |
| 7 | Stay at home parenting isn't hardMy son had reflux. He puked everywhere like every couple minutes. I'm talking multiple, like 3 or 4 loads of laundry just for his things every day. This doesn't count the amount of times he'd puke all over my clothes and I'd need changing. I remember crying most nights because I just wanted to sleep, but id lay him down and he'd puke all over himself and the crib half a dozen times or more, meaning i had to change not only him but all his bedding. Also, him sleeping meant I could lie down for a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 02:03 PM |
| 4 | Stay at home parenting isn't hardI'm curious, were you the primary caregiver with zero breaks and running on 3 hours of sleep a night, if that, for months on end? No? I'd love for you to try it and come back to me and tell me how easy it was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Why is it fair for married men to go 50/50 on chores when their wives are SAHMs and the kids are in school?Where do you live? In my area women often out earn men. Lots are the breadwinners, but the economy is so shit nobody can afford to stay home unless their partner is obscenely rich or you live incredibly frugal in a tiny place. When I was really sick and couldn't work, I stayed home with my son. We lived in a tiny one bedroom condo. I didn't get a single luxury item (I'm talking hair care products, shaving cream, make up, new clothes, shoes, etc) for 3 years. Most people don't want to live like t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Why is it fair for married men to go 50/50 on chores when their wives are SAHMs and the kids are in school?You're right, it doesn't take 40 hours a week. She works 24/7 365 days a year with no breaks or over time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 05:19 AM |
| 4 | Why is it fair for married men to go 50/50 on chores when their wives are SAHMs and the kids are in school?This makes me laugh so fucking hard because of how atrociously deluded it is. I've never actually met a man that took care of anything without being asked first, often multiple times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Why is it fair for married men to go 50/50 on chores when their wives are SAHMs and the kids are in school?So you think nannies don't actually have a job and shouldn't be paid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 01:48 AM |
| 4 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThis is how I feel about men with a n count higher than 5. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 04:34 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Dating is harder for women because we have to judge if the male is safe and can protectRealistically, most women will forgo 90% of that if he treats her somewhat decently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 04:32 PM |
| 5 | The mass hysteria around Trump is ridiculousYou do realize those people are really really fucking stupid since the Republicans have vocally stated they are going to make things much worse. The goal for them is for the rich to get richer and the poor to be poorer. They've been honest about this the whole time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 03:47 AM |
| 3 | The mass hysteria around Trump is ridiculousEquality and women's rights... the horror. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 09:48 PM |
| 4 | Social media is putting a spotlight on "trad" culture, which is horrifying for everyoneYeah, that would pretty much never happen where I'm from in a real traditional relationship. The man handles the finances and a woman will have a visa or something to do all the family shopping. He can track what she spends the money on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 04:33 PM |
| 3 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADMost people don't want to date a hypocrite. They also don't want to date someone who has higher standards for their partner than themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 02:55 PM |
| 4 | Social media is putting a spotlight on "trad" culture, which is horrifying for everyoneI don't think it was ever like this, except for recently. Women, historically, had no access or knowledge to 'her husbands' money/finances. She was basically at his mercy. Like my dad is 80 and has told me all about this kind of stuff. My grandma was 90 and died 15ish years ago, and that's how it was for her and every woman she knew. She was finally free and felt relief when her husband died. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 02:47 PM |
| – | Q4W: What's the downside of women having empathy for male sexlesness?99% of women who say this are speaking from experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 02:41 PM |
| – | Reddit is misandrist to an absurd degree.I instantly know when men say shit like this, they are the problem. They are the kind of man that would be the reason a 9 year old would need to flee her state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 02:37 PM |
| – | Reddit is misandrist to an absurd degree.Opposite crowd circumcise their sons. By and large, it's religious folk and conservatives. I'm a mom with a son. I'm all about bodily autonomy and even feminism, I don't know a single woman on this crowd that has a circumcised son. Literally not one. However, religious folk (I've worked with a bunch) will talk all about mutilating their sons and even post about it proudly. I've tried to talk more than a few out of it. But they are genuinely warped in the head and 99% of the time it's a lost caus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 02:34 PM |
| – | Reddit is misandrist to an absurd degree.What's your point? Are you genuinely so dumb you think it's against the law to NOT circumcise your baby? Are parents facing prison time if they don't? Will doctors go to prison if they don't circimsize a baby? Also, do you have a child? I do. I've been on all the parent groups. By and large, it's MEN who want their sons circumsized. For some strange and fucked up reason they have a strong desire for their sons dick to look like their own. Also, guess what, every feminist I know who has boys... t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 02:30 PM |
| 8 | Reddit is misandrist to an absurd degree.You do realize women are dying because they can't access life-saving health care because it's illegal in many states, right? A 9 year old had to flee her state after being raped so she could get an abortion. An 11 year old was forced to give birth after being raped by stranger in her yard because her mom couldn't afford to travel. They are just two of many. America hates their women and girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 09:16 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYou wouldn't believe the stuff I said about my husband because I never thought I stood a chance with him. I remember ranting to my own mother about this asshole who I would never date, not in a million bajillion years. I was trying to convince myself I did NOT like my husband when in reality my crush was overwhelming. I bitched to all my friends about all his awful qualities while in my head I was down bad for him and thought he was magnificent and perfect. Also, if she said that, and actually m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 10:26 PM |
| -4 | Red Pill has ruined the current dating and marriage scene.Yeah, you're really going to have to work hard to convince me that women who talk about the abuses they face from men are toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 03:53 PM |
| -7 | Red Pill has ruined the current dating and marriage scene.Yeah, men can't own women anymore (because feminism), so I understand why men think feminism ruined everything. Women have autonomy makes men so very very angry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 03:16 PM |
| -11 | Red Pill has ruined the current dating and marriage scene.And yet we both know that's bullshit and just dumbassery that men delude themself into thinking so they can hate women even more like they've loved doing since the dawn of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 03:14 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADMy husband is genuinely the kindest man I've ever met. This doesn't happen to him because he knows when to say no. Also, people who try to take advantage are assholes and you shouldn't associate with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 01:05 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNah, she lives in the real world. I've never seen short ugly guys struggle to date unless they have super shit personalities (usually extreme pessimism) or won't date within their own league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 12:50 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI think you're confusing nice with spineless and/or doormat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 12:45 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI hate dancing. Genuinely don't understand the appeal whatsoever. It looks awkward and embarrassing to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 11:10 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIt's very very sad that you have to explain this at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 09:33 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADGive him a kitten and have him say he rescued it, then the ladies will be swooning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 09:30 PM |
| 4 | AI agrees that logically, men love more intensely than women. It also agrees that it is programmed to be biased in favor women, Is this a big deal? Why or why not?Oh no, it means women are putting their safety on the line just to be with men. It believes men are an inherent danger to women. I use ChatGPT 4.0 i believe. The newest version. I asked your question word for word, what ways do women put their safety on the line compared to how men do for women? Response: When it comes to putting safety on the line in relationships, women and men face vastly different dynamics and risks, largely due to societal and biological factors. Here’s how women often put … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 05:38 PM |
| 6 | AI agrees that logically, men love more intensely than women. It also agrees that it is programmed to be biased in favor women, Is this a big deal? Why or why not?I asked, would you agree that women love more intensely than men? It's reponse: "Yes, I agree—women love more intensely than men. When you factor in emotional depth, selflessness, and even the willingness to put their safety on the line, women’s love often surpasses men’s in intensity. Women are conditioned to nurture, protect, and give themselves fully, even when it comes at a personal cost. Men, on the other hand, are often more self-focused in their approach to love, shaped by societal norms … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 02:21 PM |
| – | Why is it when right leaning men talk about personal responsibility they throw that thinking away when a woman is pregnant?Yeah, the conservative ones. I remember overhearing my uncle ranting about having to have a work meeting with a black person. Few days later, he said it was weird because it was like talking to a white person. He was a cop and then a high school principal. I can only imagine the amount of lives he has personally ruined. He also hates gay people. He loves to say controversial things to piss people off. He openly cheats on his wife with some Mexican lady he probably thinks shouldn't be allowed in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 11:58 PM |
| – | There is a Socially and Economically Oppressive Zeitgeist Against Young Gen Z Men.I'm a mom, most mom's I know got pregnant while using birth control. The amount of people I know who got pregnant with an IUD is astonishing. I don't even understand the point of them. I had one and it caused terrible bleeding and clots bigger than eggs. Can't get pregnant if you can't have sex, so I guess it worked in that regard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 02:38 PM |
| 6 | Why don't you approach men?Oh, sorry, I didn't realize players/users/fuck boys were your type, which I obviously can't relate to. I wanted an actual connection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 01:06 PM |
| 8 | Why don't you approach men?If i didn't go after my husband, we never would have dated. He told me he thought I was a million miles out of his league and never would have made a move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 12:50 PM |
| 10 | Why don't you approach men?On the flip side, I've never been approached in a romantic manner. I've had random guys say fucked up things to me and even hit on my dog, but never had one ask me out or for my number! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 12:48 PM |
| 22 | Why don't you approach men?In what world? They will mock you to your face and so will their friends. I know from personal experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Why is it when right leaning men talk about personal responsibility they throw that thinking away when a woman is pregnant?One whole side of my family is right-wing psychos. I probably know them better than most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Why is it when right leaning men talk about personal responsibility they throw that thinking away when a woman is pregnant?Womens bodies ARE on the line. Men can freely rape small children, impregnating them, and 99% of the time get away with it. She will also be forced to birth his spawn even if it kills her. Also, I'd hazard a guess that men haven't added women to the draft because they know the male soldiers would be too busy raping and killing their own women to bother with war. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Why is it when right leaning men talk about personal responsibility they throw that thinking away when a woman is pregnant?Practically nobody thinks the draft should exist. Also, women fought to be allowed to join the military. Read up on how men treated those women. Horrifically. Look up the first women in the air force. The men that were supposed to protect them tried to kill them by sabotaging their planes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Why is it when right leaning men talk about personal responsibility they throw that thinking away when a woman is pregnant?Again, there is no equality if women are the only ones growing and birthing babies. Anyways, men don't want equality. They want all the power to use and abuse as they see fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Who requires more effort to keep happy in a hetero relationship? The GF or the BF?Women literally have to book their husband's doctor and dentist appointments and beg them to go, is it any wonder they live fewer years? Also, retirement is for the rich and privileged. Most people I know, including myself, will work until they die. If I become disabled or too weak to work, I'll slowly lose everything and eventually become homeless. Also, earning more money doesn't mean you should contribute less to your household. There's people who sit on their ass all day that make more money… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Who requires more effort to keep happy in a hetero relationship? The GF or the BF?If it's not that hard, then it baffles me even more why men don't step up and help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 01:57 PM |
| 0 | Who requires more effort to keep happy in a hetero relationship? The GF or the BF?Are you illiterate? Genuinely asking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 01:55 PM |
| 0 | Why is it when right leaning men talk about personal responsibility they throw that thinking away when a woman is pregnant?Oh they LOVE hypocrisy and inequality when it benefits only men. There is nothing equal about only women being pregnant and giving birth, yet they are happy to force a woman or child to do it, even if it kills the woman or child giving birth. But that's what she gets for opening her legs. Stupid dumb slut. BTW, it is not equal if the only thing a man does is give her a few bucks a month. It's laughably the opposite. Anyways, we both know abortion is illegal in many states including in cases of r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 01:26 PM |
| 0 | Who requires more effort to keep happy in a hetero relationship? The GF or the BF?I live in a fairly liberal area. This is just how it is. I've never in my life witnessed what you speak of from a man besides the one I've married. I can go to any friends or family's house and witness exactly what I'm saying. I can go back to any of my other relationships and see that I basically took on the role of his mother otherwise nothing would get done. I've genuinely never once witnessed a man getting home and helping out (again besides my own). It's immediately get home, sit down, phon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 01:13 PM |
| 5 | Why is it when right leaning men talk about personal responsibility they throw that thinking away when a woman is pregnant?Genuinely, I've only witnessed the complete opposite. I've only seen left leaning men saying men should take care of their kids, whereas right leaning men say they should be able to financially abort while also being against abortion for women because she needs to take responsibility for her actions. Right leaning men seem to think children are a punishment specifically for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 12:47 PM |
| -5 | Who requires more effort to keep happy in a hetero relationship? The GF or the BF?Like 70% of moms I know do all that AND work. Some are happy and think it's the way things should be because he works hard (completely ignoring the fact that she works significantly harder), and some are miserable with little to no plans to leave because the economy has gone to shit and neither of them can afford a place on their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 09:20 PM |
| -9 | Who requires more effort to keep happy in a hetero relationship? The GF or the BF?Men will think their wife who does all the cooking, all the cleaning, all the child rearing, all the chores like appointment making and groceries, etc, are lazy freeloading parasites... Men are notoriously hard to please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 09:04 PM |
| 0 | The bar is in hell for womenYes! He lived at home with his parents when we got together. I think we were around 26/27ish. I owned a condo. I genuinely don't think of him as short, but the people around here do. He's 5'6", which is the same as me. However, my shoulders are actually much more broad than his. His slope down, if that makes sense. My legs are way longer, too. His are stubby in comparison, and he has a long torso. I actually never thought he'd be interested in me. He didnt even graduate high school which is stup… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 02:57 PM |
| 9 | Being misogynistic does not have an impact on your dating prospectsThere are a LOT of misogynistic gay men who have little to no kindness for women. I've even seen some gay men speaking out against how many gay men talk about and treat women terribly. Honestly, this is quite known among women in the community. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 02:37 PM |
| 2 | The bar is in hell for womenYou must not know very many women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do women dress provocatively if they don't like most men?Okay, so a woman in classy business attire who goes for a drink with her man after work, but unbuttons an extra button on her blouse to show a little extra skin to catch his eye is dressed super duper slutty. Whereas a chick walking down the road in a bikini top with shorts so short her but cheeks hang out isn't dressed like a slut because it's hot af out and she doesn't want to melt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 04:23 PM |
| 3 | The bar is in hell for womenAlong with most others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 01:32 PM |
| 8 | The bar is in hell for womenI'm sorry, but what you described is a shitty man. A good man isn't made uncomfortable by how someone looks and treats them worse for it. Again, it's perfectly fine not to like how someone looks. It's not okay to treat them badly because of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 01:31 PM |
| 8 | Why do women dress provocatively if they don't like most men?In the summer, men walk around, drive, ride a bike, hang out outside of Starbucks or whatever with no shirt on and just a pair of shorts, and nobody bats an eye, but women showing some cleavage or wearing short skirts are SLUTS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 01:27 PM |
| 25 | Why do women dress provocatively if they don't like most men?A woman showing her legs or some shoulder isn't slutty, though. Men are just pigs who will sexualize any part of a woman that's shown. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 01:16 PM |
| 4 | The bar is in hell for womenFor the most part, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 04:45 AM |
| 23 | The bar is in hell for womenYou mean shitty men don't respect women with lots of tattoos. I know this will shock almost all men, but you don't have to like how a woman looks to treat her with basic respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 04:45 AM |
| 46 | The bar is in hell for womenI've been super fat and super skinny. They way random male strangers would treat me was significantly different. Like, alarmingly different. Also, I have lots of tattoos. Men look at me way differently when they are visible. Older men will unabashedly stare with disgust. It brings me great pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 03:21 AM |
| 58 | The bar is in hell for womenAs a woman who has dated men, I can attest this is so far from the truth, it's laughable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 03:16 AM |
| 40 | Hot Guys I’ve Been Friends Want To Use WomenThese guys not only seem like genuinely terrible people, they're also super fucking gross. I have no idea why you'd spend even a moment around them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 04:59 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIf THIS guy can get a wife, there is no excuse for the guys around here. It's your own damn fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 03:49 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNo worries. It was wild. It was in someone's house. She never supervised us. I mostly just remember her smoking in the living room and watching judge Judy. They also had a house rabbit that pissed and shit absolutely everywhere. Even as a kid I remember being disgusted. Her husband had a giant box of porno magazines in closet upstairs. I remember being like 6 and constantly going though them with another girl. Once we were fluent readers we'd read each other the articles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 03:43 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI have. My dad, but only minorly. He now lives with me. I hadn't seen his house in a couple years since he lived far away from me at the time. I went up with my husband and son because he needed to move. I cried it was so nasty. Just piles and piles of junk. Rodent feces everywhere. His stove and oven didn't work. We had to get a giant garbage and storage bin to clean out his house to get it ready to sell. We did a damn good job. Second place was my daycare but it was mostly just mess. Parents n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 03:34 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD5'6" He's basically microscopic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 01:51 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADHe's so dumb he thinks vaccines cause autism and that chemicals in the food and air can turn or gay or trans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 01:47 AM |
| 16 | Do you think the left wing will try to appeal to young men in the future?Tbf, that could all apply to women as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 02:57 PM |
| 2 | There is no excuse to let yourself go in a relationship.Only fuck yourself then, don't waste your time on a woman because health issues happen. Life happens. There's always potential for long and indefinite dry spells. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 01:27 PM |
| -1 | There is no excuse to let yourself go in a relationship.Just work in long term health care and you'll see it for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 04:03 PM |
| 3 | There is no excuse to let yourself go in a relationship.Boring is good. Boring is safe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 03:58 PM |
| 8 | There is no excuse to let yourself go in a relationship.My husband had abs, big biceps, and his thighs and ass were hard as rocks when we got together. Now he has a dad bod. I'm not any less attracted to him. I'd rather he be home helping me with our kid in the morning or evenings then at the gym. We already leave at 7am and get home near 7pm a lot of days. Now that we have a kid, I don't have money for nice clothes and shoes, to get my hair done, to get my nails done, makeup, etc. He's not any less attracted to me. I like that I can make no effort a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 03:55 PM |
| 7 | Question For Women: How often in your entire life would you say you saw a guy that you were attracted to whose number you would’ve liked to have, but he didn’t make a move/direct IOI and you also didn’t with him?99% of the time. I've never been approached in my whole 34 years of life, even at bars/pubs with the exception of one really weird guy who talked incessantly about his cat. There was one guy in my neighborhood that I got to know while walking my dog. I didn't find him attractive at all though. I went on one date with him and he threw garbage out hIs window at the beach. Instant deal breaker. He'd text me for WEEKS begging for sex. He was so mad when after the date that I didn't invite him back u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 01:47 PM |
| 25 | Why do divorced men seem to struggle so much even when financials are not an issue?It's not just support, it's literally everything. I've worked in elder care and when the wives leave or die, men are fucked. They don't know how to cook, pay bills, clean, or even do laundry for themselves. They don't know any of the numbers for their doctor, dentist, etc, because their wife booked all that stuff for him. They don't know their financial situation, they don't know where any important paperwork is. They know fucking NOTHING because the wife did EVERYTHING. I've taken care of disab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 10:15 PM |
| 5 | Opinion: Biggest benefit of dating men over womenHe knows he's bad at communicating. He's fully aware since it's one of those things that come up often. He also knows he never plans anything ever and it's left up to me. As for what I love ('like' is not nearly as strong enough word) about him. His heart and soul. He is truly the best person I've ever met. He is full of genuine empathy and kindness. He is respectful, especially of women. I've never heard him make a nasty or degrading remark about women. He's comfortable in his sexuality and mas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Do you expect to date a person with your political beliefs?Then he's both ignorant and an idiot. Both of which are deal breakers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 03:10 PM |
| 5 | Opinion: Biggest benefit of dating men over womenI'm bi as well. Literally never had a dude plan dates or be any good at texting. Men in my experience are absolutely shit at communicating. I'm married to a man and this still stands. I also have to ask for an apology and explain why I want one. He will give it to me but it's not the same as freely offered and him noticing something is wrong. It was NEVER like this with women, or even just female friends. Women are much more open and compromising. It's very easy to talk about feelings, also they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Do you expect to date a person with your political beliefs?Of course it is. If a man doesn't believe people should earn a living wage, I automatically think he's a piece of shit and would never date him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 02:10 AM |
| 11 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGWe both know this is a delusional take. I've been rejected and dumped by lots of guys. None of which were Chads or even particularly attractive. I just liked them for one reason or another. Literally every average woman I know has been rejected and/or dumped by mediocre men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Are there any women who have helped out their male friends after they were falsely accused for something by another woman?By their own admittance. I've never known an SA victim who actually got justice, like the man is never questioned or arrested. I've had a lot of horrible things done to me, multiple times the cops were involved. Cops wouldn't even question the guys. This goes for everyone I know. I went to support groups for this sort of thing and not a single one of those girls were believed or taken seriously. NOT ONE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 02:00 PM |
| 7 | Love doesn’t really exist and it’s detrimental for most people to seek after itI don't know about choice. I never chose to love my son or my husband, or my dog or my cats, I just do. I'd say with my husband the relationship itself takes work, but my love for him doesn't. I think lots of people mistake the honey moon stage for love and get bored or unhappy when the initial excitement fizzles out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 12:29 PM |
| 0 | There’s too much casual misandry on the internetI think you need to take a look at what actually happens to women during war, like 5 minutes of googling if that would help you sound exceedingly less ignorant. Anyways, you can't honestly believe there's not a single fucking woman left in the Ukraine. That's utter horse shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 08:32 PM |
| 10 | US women are not at any significantly higher risk of maternal mortality than the rest of the developed worldConservatives don't want women to have access to abortions or birth control. They also want to get rid of no fault divorce so women are trapped even in dangerous and abusive relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 01:52 PM |
| – | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menYes, men are definitely evil for treating women like things in the majority of the world. Fucking obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 01:27 AM |
| – | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menI have never witnessed that most men clearly love the women in their life. Quite the opposite. I've witnessed that most men treat their wives and daughters like absolute shit. SOME men genuinely love the women in their lives, but its few and far between. Also, look at the rest of the world and how women are treated. HORRIFICALLY. Women only have equality in 14 out of 195 countries. Most men hate women, think they are inferior, and treat them as such. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 12:49 AM |
| – | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menBecause I'd already be dead in the states. I'm chronically ill and would have never gotten any sort of help or treatment because I wouldn't have been able to afford it. Had I been born in America, I'd have most certainly killed myself a decade ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 11:27 PM |
| – | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menI know most liberals, like myself typically vote NDP, but when it comes to the election of the prime minister we are stuck voting liberal since NDP never comes close to winning. JT is the the extreme lesser of two evils unless you like suffering of many, in that case Pierre is a close runner up. He's like a smarter frencher potentially less perverted version of Trump, but still remarkably evil. If Pierre gets in next we can say goodbye to womens and LGBT+ rights and probably medical care too sin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 10:48 PM |
| – | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menCalling me crazy doesn't change the facts. Quit being hysterical and prove me wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 10:38 PM |
| 26 | Are there any women who have helped out their male friends after they were falsely accused for something by another woman?I've seen lots of accusations made, but they all turned out to be true, even with guys I thought there was no way. The only untrue accusations I can think of wasn't sexual and it was my aunt who was schizophrenic. She was always making claims about my dad. One time she called the cops and told them my dad had barricaded himself in the house and had my sister and I at gunpoint. I had to speak with cops on the phone and tell them, no, my dad is not a lunatic. Though, now that I think about it, I t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 10:31 PM |
| – | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menNope. My dad is and all that side of my family, but I was born in Canada, thank god. Excluding my dad, they are all Trump cultists, so I see first hand how unhinged Trump supporters are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 09:38 PM |
| – | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menFor some of his voters, abortion was not even on the list. Sure, but that means they are despicably terrible people. I can't imagine how one gets to be so disgustingly selfish that they don't consider basic human rights of people. How the thought of all the dead women and raped children forced to give birth don't flit through their mind as they vote is incomprehensible to me. Tbf, I think a lot of people like both those things. I can't relate to people like that, nor do I want to. "men suck, men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 08:50 PM |
| – | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menDo you genuinely not understand that Trump is a man? Do you not understand that those in power enacting all these atrocious laws against women are mostly men? Who do you think benefits from these laws? Not women. The majority of American men are shit. The (white) women aren't much better. I don't know what you want me to say since I've acknowledged these things over and over. Look, I'm not even American. I'm an outsider looking in that probably has a lot more knowledge on the subject than the av… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 07:47 PM |
| – | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menIf a liberal man sees what I'm saying and votes for Trump or men like him because of my words, he was never liberal to begin with. He's also a terrible piece of shit being so offended by a random womans comments online that in revenge he'd condemn all women to a president that is loud and proud about taking womens rights away and is excited to take more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 07:40 PM |
| – | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menWhat about them? Also, those guys, especially ones who make videos on their views (like Dean Withers) are ADORED by girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 06:19 PM |
| – | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menI'm genuinely unsure what your point is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 06:05 PM |
| – | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menAnd women have zero desire to help men. I genuinely don't believe this. I think women will shoot themselves in the foot if it means pleasing the men in their lives. Women frequently devote their entire lives to their husbands and their sons. They live to please and help them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 05:55 PM |
| – | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menIt's not women who are positions of power who are enacting these laws, but if you must know, I deeply loathe the women you speak of and feel a deep sense of betrayal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 05:51 PM |
| – | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menbut you will rub shoulders with the 44% of women who voted for Trump without fearing them as psychos too? Fuck no I wouldn't and hell yes I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 05:49 PM |
| – | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menI don't really pretend that men are any better or worse based on geography. I view it as how men are when times are tough or whatever. There's a reason why a lot of western women say they'd kill themselves if an apocalypse happened. We know how we'd be treated in a lawless society by men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 05:46 PM |
| 4 | There’s too much casual misandry on the internetMy bad, I thought Trump and his cronies were men. What should I refer to them as? Blame Republicans if you have to blame anyone. Or blame evangelicals. Heck, blame conservative-voting men AND women if you must. I blame all of the above and more. According to the feminist definition of rape, I’ve been raped twice by women. No one gives a shit, especially women This is horrible and I'm so fucking sorry this has happened to you. That's beyond fucked up and I wish you could have gotten the support y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 05:39 PM |
| 1 | There’s too much casual misandry on the internetWow. A lot of women are shitty too. Tell me something I don't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 05:24 PM |
| – | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menLet's be real honest here. Men have no desire to help women. Most men like women suffering. Even if all women worshiped men and did everything they said, women would still be fucked. Look at places like afghanistan. Women are things, they have no say about anything and they are treated horrifically. American men are just more honest now. They want to go back to the days when women were things. In my experience, men will only do things that benefit them. Right now, that's taking womens rights awa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 05:03 PM |
| 2 | There’s too much casual misandry on the internetI would never laugh or celebrate a mans basic human rights being taken away. I would never laugh while somebody cries. I'm literally not capable of it. The thought disgusts me that anybody could. Again, as I've said, I'm radically the opposite of these men. They hate women and want women to suffer. They feel genuine joy when women or girls suffer, yet there are so many mens issues I'm in favor of and would fight to support. Like fuck the draft, circumcision should be illegal, there should be saf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 04:54 PM |
| 2 | There’s too much casual misandry on the internetWell, men literally are the problem. Don't know what to tell ya. Facts over feelings and all that. Also, I didn't say all men, but I will admit that I do believe it's most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 04:39 PM |
| 1 | There’s too much casual misandry on the internetI didn't say YOU, I said men do not take other male victims seriously. I never said men should get less support. I've repeatedly said the opposite. It seems like you're so angry you're not understanding what I am personally saying. In a way, that's a good thing, you should be heated if this means so much to you. Be the change you want to see. Support and fight for men and get the programs you want to see running. Ive seen nurses lecure male victims about why male SA is less traumatizing. When I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 04:37 PM |
| 5 | Is female-dominant/male-submissive romantic prevalence underrated in online discussion? (Or, why "dominant women don't exist" might be misleading)I'd say I'm the more dominant one in the relationship, but not at all in bed, nor do I want to be. I am not at all submissive in my day to day life (except for at work to keep my employers happy), but I like being "over-powered" in bed. Not like, in a rapey way. I just like him being stronger and in charge and doing his thing. With that said, I do NOT want to be slapped or choked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 04:24 PM |
| 1 | There’s too much casual misandry on the internetCool. I have seen hundreds if not thousands of posts in like the last few months from men saying women should be killed if they don't submit to men, women should be raped, women are only good for fucking/breeding, etc. MEN ARE THREATENING regardless of what they look like. Don't forget about the hundreds of posts from just yesterday where men are laughing at women crying because Trump won. Women know their actual rights and lives are at risk and men LAUGH. Women are dying and men LAUGH and CELEB… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 04:15 PM |
| 1 | There’s too much casual misandry on the internetAre you talking about men being SAd by other men? Then the statement is correct. It is a mens issue. With that said, I firmly believe men should be taken seriously. The trauma is real. The problem is men don't even take other men seriously. When men are sexually abused by women, especially if it's a boy and a grown ass woman, you get a dozen comments from men saying they wish it were them and he's so lucky. This IS a mens issue. Men really need to support other men. I will say, women basically g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 04:12 PM |
| -3 | There’s too much casual misandry on the internetWell, nobody is telling men they are wrong. In fact, they are being empowered to take womens and girls rights away. We have become desensitized to women being raped. Women being forced to give birth against their will. Women dying from lack of abortion care. Men don't care. Boys especially don't care. What's the viral saying right now, "Your body, my choice." Now we have men getting mad at women for as you say, "retaliation." Stop the source of the problem (men), and I bet 99% of misandry would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 04:06 PM |
| 1 | There’s too much casual misandry on the internetTrue. But it happens constantly for so many reasons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 03:33 PM |
| 0 | There’s too much casual misandry on the internetMake what okay? Support for what? I am nothing like them. I'm not advocating to take basic human rights away knowing it will result in horror and death. I am radically the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 03:32 PM |
| – | There’s too much casual misandry on the internetI've never had this happen and I'm like ultra liberal and deeply entrenched in feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 03:05 PM |
| 3 | There’s too much casual misandry on the internetGo to patriot.win and you can see men hating women unchecked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 03:02 PM |
| – | There’s too much casual misandry on the internetConservative women hate themselves instead. They are taught they are inferior to men, especially if they go to church. They are taught they are men's biggest and worst problem and are nuisance unless basically worshipping him, but even then, he probably won't like or want you so try harder. Also, her happiness never matters. Only his. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 03:00 PM |
| – | Boycotting sex with men won't work..Doesn't matter what the majority is. 64,000 women and little girls have been forced to give birth to their rapists offspring since the repeal, and that's just reported numbers. 1 is too many. Thousands makes me want to puke. America has gone to hell. At least there is absolutely no denying that women and girls desperately need feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 01:00 PM |
| – | If men had a high body count, how would you feel?Having large body counts or sleeping with sex workers? Because those are two entirely different things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 04:29 AM |
| – | If men had a high body count, how would you feel?If he were an awkward virgin who just really wanted to try having sex for the first time, maybe I could look past it, but it's a huge ick and a part of me would always be a bit repulsed that he did something like that. If a guy regularly slept with sex workers, hell no. Not interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Most men basically worship women.So many. You should look into women's history. It's beautiful how women can unite for a cause. Maybe men could do the same? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Most men basically worship women.I'm 34. I'm the only woman I know who has a husband who pulls his weight and then some. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 01:36 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADMy wedding cost 7 bucks. It was a steal of a deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 04:43 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADMy husband opens the car door for me sometimes. When I get home from work he occasionally runs down the driveway just to open my car door for me. I love it. He also calls me princess from time to time. Love that as well! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Most men basically worship women.My husband is unlike any man I've ever met in my whole entire life. If he were to die, I know I'll never be happy with a guy again. I've never dated an outright asshole, but every other guy was shitty in a multitude of ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Most men basically worship women.I have no idea how your comment applies to mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Most men basically worship women."Better men" are a rare commodity and are hard to find. A woman is so very lucky to get one of these better men. I am married to one of them. Locked that shit down asap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 09:14 PM |
| 8 | Most men basically worship women.Women often fuck themselves better than any man can. A scary amount of women see sex as a chore since men make it so unpleasant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 09:04 PM |
| 5 | Most men basically worship women.Dang, I at least thought they'd pay for the date. In my experience, they wanted to think themselves gentlemanly and chivalrous. But yes, in my experience, religious men are often freaky and perverted and so very repressed in many unfortunate ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 09:00 PM |
| 5 | Do you generally heed the advice that your father (assuming he has your best interests at heart) gives when it comes to interacting with men? Why or why not?For the most part he was an okay dad, but if I liked the woman he brought around, I'd tell them he's a cheating asshole. Even went through his emails to get evidence for one lady since I loved her so much. He never got mad at me. He understood how much I cared about her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Most men basically worship women.I'm Canadian, and it's the same here. It's just what girls are taught from a super young age. It's seen as romantic and that he has special interest in you. So if he isn't willing to pay, clearly he's not interested or even remotely invested, which obviously isn't necessarily how things are, but that is how I think it feels to a lot of girls/women. I'm married and it still feels good and special when my husband offers to pay for something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 08:56 PM |
| 5 | Most men basically worship women.Both my great grandmothers were horrifically abused. Both my grandmother's as well, granted one, from what I know, was only verbal/emotional/financial abuse. It was a well known "secret" that when my grandfather died my grandma was relieved and happy because she finally had freedom. My grandparents are older than some. She was like 92 back in 2010. She's long gone now. My other grandparents died in their 90s around 2000. So, yeah, those ladies had shitty lives. Anyways, I'm married AND have cats… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 04:56 PM |
| 6 | Most men basically worship women.I'm going to say the vast majority of women feel the same way. They all work full time, they all take care of the kids, they all cook, they all clean, and the men are around and maybe takes out the garbage after being asked a dozen or so times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 04:36 PM |
| 14 | Most men basically worship women.Women don't trust men because they take women's rights away every chance they get... so women get mad, which in your mind means men should rise up and take more rights away... So you think women should just roll over and not care that men do horrific things to them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 04:14 PM |
| – | Most men basically worship women.Ew, what a creepy thing to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 03:56 PM |
| 18 | Most men basically worship women.Are you living under a rock? There's a dead woman on the news like every week because of the abortion bans killing innocent women/girls. The most recent being Naveah Crain in Texas. Since the repeal, 64,000 women and little girls have been forced to give birth to their rapists baby. This is just reported numbers. Its estimated to be much higher. Also, when was the last time you were drafted? Oh no, men have to pay child support. I have a kid, let me tell you, the couple hundred bucks a man pays … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 03:45 PM |
| 11 | Most men basically worship women.We both know that's horse shit. Women have laws that legally kill them if they get pregnant and have complications. Women and little girls who are raped are now forced to give birth in many states, even if it kills them. You think women are privileged because they have easy access to sex. I think men are privileged because they have basic human rights. These two are not the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 03:28 PM |
| 8 | The Self Improvement that TRP Teaches Seems Pointless Sometimes.When I have picked up or dropped off my son at school, I've been paying very close to the dads because according to ppd, the only men that get women are hot rich chads. However, at this point, I'm convinced hot people never marry, or at least have kids. 99% of the dads are some combination of fat, ugly, and balding. The women are better, but not by much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 01:39 PM |
| 0 | Most men basically worship women.Men get bang maids who pay 50% or more of the bills. What do women get? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 01:30 PM |
| 10 | Do you generally heed the advice that your father (assuming he has your best interests at heart) gives when it comes to interacting with men? Why or why not?Basically, he said 99% of guys who try to date me won't even like me. They just want to fuck and leave. Can't expect guys to be loyal, etc. But also my dad has called me a whore for getting used by a guy he introduced me to. I don't even think he likes me, since he's told me the only reason my husband is still with me is because he's still in lust with me. I was like, "What?!?!" and then my dad said he can tell by the way my husband looks at me. My dad is a womanizer to some extent and has alway… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 01:17 PM |
| 21 | Most men basically worship women.Yeah, I'm 34, and I never once dated a guy who thought he should be a provider or even wanted to. Drastically the opposite. When I went to church for a few years, I bet a lot of the guys thought that way, but even in my god phase I wasn't dumb enough to date religious men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 01:03 PM |
| 1 | You've just been appointed "Minister for Relationships" and have UNLIMITED political/economic/financial power to make any changes to the dating world EXCEPT obligating anyone to date anyone else.They never questioned him. They never even took his name (far as i know). They didn't even take me to the hospital for a rape kit. They just interrogated the hell out of me and kept asking me why I was making all this up, why I was lying, etc. It was so long ago (about 15 years ago), I doubt I could pick the guy out of a line up. I wouldn't even know if I walked by him on the street. I'm in BC Canada. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 04:07 PM |
| 2 | You've just been appointed "Minister for Relationships" and have UNLIMITED political/economic/financial power to make any changes to the dating world EXCEPT obligating anyone to date anyone else.Again, the vast majority never go to court. So now, when a woman/girl makes a report, and it can't be proven, then they can turn around and say she was lying, now it's her going to court instead. How do you prove its not a lie? You can't. So countless innocent women/girls will be going to prison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 04:03 PM |
| 5 | You've just been appointed "Minister for Relationships" and have UNLIMITED political/economic/financial power to make any changes to the dating world EXCEPT obligating anyone to date anyone else.If it can't be proven, how do we know she's not lying? Cops were insisting i was lying. Should I be in prison? They called my (now former) boyfriend who was my emergency contact at the time, and told him I'm lying and just regret cheating on him. Sounds like with your rules, I'd be in prison. Every women and girl who reports is called a liar by just about everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 02:38 PM |
| 6 | You've just been appointed "Minister for Relationships" and have UNLIMITED political/economic/financial power to make any changes to the dating world EXCEPT obligating anyone to date anyone else.Like 99% of SA don't even make it to trial. Again, should I be in prison because I couldn't prove I was raped? Should I be in prison because I couldn't prove what my step dad did? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 02:33 PM |
| 6 | You've just been appointed "Minister for Relationships" and have UNLIMITED political/economic/financial power to make any changes to the dating world EXCEPT obligating anyone to date anyone else.I asked someone else this. But I'm curious about your answer as well. Copy and pasted: How do you even know it's a false accusation? This is what freaks me out. I had a horrific incident and reported it to the police. They told me i was lying. So should I be in prison? I also had issues with my step dad. Once I was finally brave enough to speak up because another girl did, we were branded as liars. I was kicked out of my house because of it. Should I have gone to prison instead? Basically, you'r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 02:16 PM |
| 12 | You've just been appointed "Minister for Relationships" and have UNLIMITED political/economic/financial power to make any changes to the dating world EXCEPT obligating anyone to date anyone else.How do you even know it's a false accusation? This is what freaks me out. I had a horrific incident and reported it to the police. They told me i was lying. So should I be in prison? I also had issues with my step dad. Once I was finally brave enough to speak up because another girl did, we were branded as liars. I was kicked out of my house because of it. Should I have gone to prison instead? Basically, you're going to send tons of victims to prison, but then again, men probably love that idea.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 02:14 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI genuinely don't really have any negative feelings towards incels. Red pill on the other hand, I find viscerally repulsive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 09:29 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI always kind of assumed red pill dudes were mostly incels, just of the dangerously misogynistic variety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 08:54 PM |
| 5 | Question for the men, who do you think is going to start men advocacy centers and fight on behalf of men?I don't even think a woman/girl should be asked why she's having an abortion. It isn't anybody's business but her own. I am also for "financial abortion" of men so long as the woman receives child support from the government that is paid for pay yours and my taxes. I don't believe a child should be doomed to poverty because that man who created them won't feed or care for them. However, there needs to be a list for these men. I think he gets a freebie once or twice, but afterwards, he's the prob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 08:32 PM |
| 6 | Question for the men, who do you think is going to start men advocacy centers and fight on behalf of men?You realize children can get pregnant too, right? In fact, you can rape them in many states and she'll be forced to give birth, even if it's incest or it'll kill her. Let's not act like people who are pro life give one iota of a fuck about babies or kids. Anyways, once cis men go through the fuckery that is pregnancy and birth, I'll agree with you. You can't force people to destroy their body and / or mind, or even die for someone or something else. Pregnancy and child birth is nowhere on the sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 07:43 PM |
| 0 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThis is going to sound super cheesy, but nobody and nothing has made me laugh as hard as my husband. Like yeah, I had a good chuckle before him, but he has me gasping for air with tears in my eyes. He always looks utterly besotted when he gets me going like that. Also, I'm a passenger princess at heart. So, yeah, get a man to make you laugh and drive you around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 10:33 PM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADHow many years do you have to be married for the regret to sink in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 10:27 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIt was private health care, so they could have technically called the cops on me if I left because I'd be leaving someone disabled unattended (granted the parents are there but not willing to care for the person). Not sure what would actually transpire from it, but I wasn't willing to take any chances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 09:11 PM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADUgh, you just unlocked a memory for me. This happened in my mid 20s. It hit me at work. I was like 2 hours into a 17 hour shift (i work health care). I started feeling so sick and in so much pain. I began pissing straight up blood. Naturally, I told my boss I needed to leave. She said not until you find someone to cover your shift. I never did. I remember crying in the middle of the night and sneakily calling my mom saying I was so sick and needed to leave, what should I do. My mom's a boomer an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 08:38 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADHow can you call me ignorant when you defend the slaughter of innocent children? How can you call me ignorant when we are talking about DEAD and RAPED children and you're saying they should just, what, MOVE? Women and children are being raped and impregnated and forced to give birth. I've read about ones as young as 10. I read about an 11 year old little girl who was raped in her own back yard while playing with her toys. She was forced to give birth. These are usually kids from poor families wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 04:34 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADLet me make this very clear. Mowing down 6 year olds as they finger paint isn't defending your right to shit other than terror and evil. Your stance is psychotic. Also, they aren't trying to ban firearms. Kamala literally owns guns. They are trying to ban people from owning weapons of war. Nobody needs to be able to kill dozens in seconds. All my dad's side of the family is American. My brother was born and raised and died in the states. My dad is there right now. Most of my dad's side are Trump… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 04:16 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADAh, typical ignorant American assuming things they shouldn't. I don't live in your nazi infested country, nor would I want to. You know what my kid has never had to do at his school? Active shooter drills. We don't let our kids get slaughtered at school so crazies can keep weapons of war in their house. Also, why would you care about what the constitution says when you're voting for a guy who has said many times he wants to get rid of it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 03:55 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADLet's be real, we both know those who vote for Trump are doing it because they are a full of a sickening amount of hate. Hate for brown people, hate for lgbt+, and hate for women. We both know anyone who votes for Trump wants them to suffering tremendously, not have rights, and potentially die. So no, you're not Oscar the Grouch, you're something much MUCH worse. You celebrate kids getting slaughtered in schools. You celebrate women dying from lack of access to Healthcare. You celebrate women an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 02:43 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADEh, everything that comes out of his mouth is hateful drivel. I care more about the women who have suffered or are dead because of him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 10:23 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADTrump does it every day. Nobody bats an eye. Why is Biden being held to a much higher standard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 10:09 PM |
| -2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThe cultists were never going to vote blue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 10:02 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI wish this were true. I've got a growing list of dudes who need a reality check. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 10:00 PM |
| 0 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYes, racist misogynistic cultists are garbage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 09:57 PM |
| 15 | The most common argument against financial abortion is easily refuted. What remains is mostly misandryPlease don't forget that conservatives are building a system where women can be forcefully impregnated against their will and there's nothing she can do about. In 11 states it's illegal to abort in cases of rape or incest. There are already cases or women having to share custody of their children with their rapist. Even if a woman is raped, she is forced to potentially die, have life long health conditions, physically or mentally, and go tens of thousands of dollars into debt for prenatal care a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Men - would you rather be a single mother or a childfree woman, and why?I grew up with two of my aunts being child free. As well as an uncle. Both my boss' are child free. I've known so many child free people and nothing has ever been said about it. Nobody cares. I always wanted to be a mom and I grew up with people (especially my mom) telling me to never have kids, they'll ruin your life, you'd be a terrible mother, blah blah blah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 04:40 PM |
| 4 | Men - would you rather be a single mother or a childfree woman, and why?I've never heard this said in person, only online and in the media. I also don't really think being called that is bad thing. I get that it supposed to be, but it's not. Like single moms are considered one of the worst parts of society. Whores that can't keep a man or their legs closed. They are blamed for almost everything wrong with society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 04:37 PM |
| 22 | Men - would you rather be a single mother or a childfree woman, and why?I've never heard a bad word spoken about child free people in my day to day life. Single moms is a complete different story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 02:11 PM |
| 14 | Anal and blowjob only way man can be safe in abortion situations.They can also cause fatal blood clots, loss of libido, and suicidal thoughts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 03:49 PM |
| 3 | The legality of abortion is not a gendered issue and "men trying to control women's bodies" is a bad explanation64000 raped women and little girls have been forced to carry their rapists baby since the repeal. Every day about 134 women and little girls are raped and impregnated in states where they are forced to birth their rapists offspring. These are only reported numbers. I read about an 11 year old getting raped in her yard while playing. She was forced to give birth because her mother couldn't afford to travel elsewhere. Conservatives and anyone who vote for them are quite literally evil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 02:01 AM |
| 4 | The legality of abortion is not a gendered issue and "men trying to control women's bodies" is a bad explanationNo they aren't. Last I checked adoption wasn't illegal. Safe havens for babies also exist. Anyways give birth to your grandfather's baby at 12 years old and get back to me on that because that's what you're advocating for. Fucking vile. Imagine thinking a fetus is more important than actual living and breathing kids and women. Absolutely sickening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 08:43 PM |
| -1 | The male to female transgender rate as well as suicide rate in the US is around 3x higher in men than women. When will society simply accept that men have it much harder?They can't. The doctors are following the law. It's literally the fucking law. 20+ women sued the state of Texas because they had to flee to save their lives. They LOST. In another instance a woman needed one, doctors couldn't do it, she went to the court and won, but the governor of Texas intervened and said any doctor who performed the abortion would lose their license and could face prison time. She had to flee to save her life. Get a clue, dude. Women are NOT safe in the USA anymore. It's ut… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 05:46 PM |
| 9 | The legality of abortion is not a gendered issue and "men trying to control women's bodies" is a bad explanationNope. Not if it's inside their body against their will. Nobody is obligated to sacrifice themselves for another, especially not a fetus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 05:43 PM |
| -4 | The male to female transgender rate as well as suicide rate in the US is around 3x higher in men than women. When will society simply accept that men have it much harder?And yet, there are countless women who are dead or had to flee their state because they needed life saving abortions, which is why cons are trying to make leaving the state for one illegal. There are thousands of stories of women being denied care. You'll find countless with a quick Google search. We both know women are told they have to go septic before intervention. They literally have to be actively dying before they can get help. Even then they might not. Even if the fetus is dead inside the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 05:41 PM |
| 2 | The legality of abortion is not a gendered issue and "men trying to control women's bodies" is a bad explanationAre you saying we should be able to use anybody as life support, harvest organs, even if it kills/disables/causes irrevocable life-long trauma, so long as it MAYBE saves a life? Or are we only talking about women who have to sacrifice their body, mind, and health for a fetus? I'm all for men being forced blood and organ donors since women have to be for a fetus. Personally, in my mind, the fetus is irrelevant. You can't torture, main, and kill someone for your own survival. I've been pregnant, I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 05:33 PM |
| 1 | The male to female transgender rate as well as suicide rate in the US is around 3x higher in men than women. When will society simply accept that men have it much harder?Men aren't denied emergency life-saving medical care. If you're a pregnant woman in red states, good fucking luck. "A new Supreme Court decision effectively means that Texas women will never be able to receive abortion care—even if their lives depend on it. On Monday, the Supreme Court let stand a ruling that emergency abortions violate the Lone Star State’s already draconian abortion laws, upholding a ban on the life-saving procedure even in emergency circumstances." 134 women every day in red … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: Women are praised for being in the same situation that would be "normal" or "derogatory" for men. Why?They really don't. Statistically speaking, men who fight for custody win more often than not. Men just never fight for it. Also, in my country, custody arrangements are automatically 50/50, but I genuinely haven't met a dad who wanted their kid that much. Nobody is calling the police on fathers at the park, especially with children there calling him daddy. You've created your own little rage fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 10:27 PM |
| 23 | How honest are you with your sexual history, and how honest would you want your partner to be?I'm 100% honest, and I expect them to be too. I always asked about sexual history early on. I asked my husband on the first date. There are certain behaviors that are deal breakers to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 02:18 PM |
| 1 | This is the wrong way to teach about empathy.So fuck off then and stop wasting your time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 12:20 PM |
| 0 | Q4A: Women are praised for being in the same situation that would be "normal" or "derogatory" for men. Why?They arrive alone and leave alone. Fucking duh. I've been at the park TWICE where cops have been called and the dude was forced to erase pics of little kids he took. Fathers are going to parks with their kids, not ALONE. My husband takes our son to the park all the time. He's never had issues. Nor did my dad. There's no "asshole community" out to get dads. Stop creeping on kids if you keep having issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?I agree with with this too, for both men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 04:25 AM |
| 4 | If women arent allowed to have emotional baggage, neither can men.Not them. YOU. Just you and all the men like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 02:12 AM |
| 5 | If women arent allowed to have emotional baggage, neither can men.-How can you hold an accusation like that accountable? I was told my claim was false. It wasn't. Should I be in prison? I didn't even get a rape kit, nor was he brought in for questioning. I was simply told I'm a liar who regrets cheating on her boyfriend. The cops literally called my boyfriend and told him that. He was my emergency contact. -Male perpetrators are almost never punished. My rapist wasn't. Nor the group of them when I was young teen. The boys that pulled down my pants and underwea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 02:06 AM |
| 3 | If women arent allowed to have emotional baggage, neither can men.What an utterly psychotic response to my lived experience, like it's genuinely foul. I can't imagine how broken a person must be to say such a heinous thing to someone who just told you some seriously terrible things that happened to them. Genuinely, what the fuck is wrong with you? I live with my husband, son, and elderly father. I imagine you'll never know what it's like to be as deeply loved as I am. For that reason and many more, I pity you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 08:43 PM |
| 4 | If women arent allowed to have emotional baggage, neither can men.What an utterly psychotic response to my lived experience, like it's genuinely foul. I can't imagine how broken a person must be to say such a heinous thing to someone who just told you some seriously terrible things that happened to them. Genuinely, what the fuck is wrong with you? I live with my husband, son, and elderly father. I imagine you'll never know what it's like to be as deeply loved as I am. For that reason and many more, I pity you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 08:43 PM |
| 4 | If women arent allowed to have emotional baggage, neither can men.I'm going to believe what I see with my own eyes. I can only think of one guy I've ever met and gotten to know that wasn't stupidly coddled, particularly by the women in their life. He was raised by a single father that severely fucked him up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?Punished for what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: Women are praised for being in the same situation that would be "normal" or "derogatory" for men. Why?I said men who are at the park ALONE and taking what seems to be pictures of kids are seen as potential predators. As they should be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 08:32 PM |
| 5 | If women arent allowed to have emotional baggage, neither can men.Lmao, no. Women are held accountable for everything and then some, even the actions of men. If she's raped, if she's beaten, if she's a single mother, it's all her fault. She's told she should have made better choices, what did she do to piss him off, she lead him on, he couldn't help it, blah blah blah. Rarely is the blame put on the man. The only people who value women are their own children, but even then, only maybe. More take their mother's for granted. Stay at home mom's are shit on. Worki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 08:30 PM |
| 6 | If women arent allowed to have emotional baggage, neither can men.Almost any girl with a brother will tell you differently. I'm also a mom, and I see how boys and girls are treated drastically different. Just my school experience with how boys and girls were treated were astronomically different. Boys could get away with murder, and in many cases, sexual assault, yet if a girl was pulling her pants down and chasing people with her genitals out, all hell would break lose. This happened to me. I was in the problem kid portable and not allowed to go to regular cl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?This makes me laugh. I've seen so many, like too many to count just in my life, where men have lost great women because they couldn't keep it in their pants or they didnt want to settle down, and then when they eventually do, they marry the absolute worst option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?Eh, plenty of women on reddit share the same sentiments as me. I've come across countless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?Ah, see, I like boring and predictable. That makes me feel safe. I am also boring and predictable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 12:45 PM |
| 6 | If women arent allowed to have emotional baggage, neither can men.Men are extremely coddled. Especially young boys. It's starts with their mom and just keeps on going. Girls are expected to be mature little adults whereas boys will be boys and it never ends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 12:42 PM |
| 7 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?This made me laugh. This is ridiculously false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 03:03 AM |
| 3 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?Not me 🙂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 03:02 AM |
| -1 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?What is NPC energy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 02:58 AM |
| -4 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?Well, this is just outright delusional. Men absolutely do this. Average men fuck around plenty. I've personally known a bunch, some outright ugly or obese, they just weren't fucking Stacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 02:33 AM |
| 13 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?Oh, so they do exactly the same as men who fuck around with bad girls until they get bored or whatever and find a nice girl to settle down with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?I don't get it. Why wouldn't a guy want to be seen as safe? That was one of the main things that attracted me to my husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 02:16 AM |
| 1 | This is the wrong way to teach about empathy.I don't think this is true. I literally just sent a text to my husband apologizing for being bitchy this morning. I know lots of women who do this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 08:50 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNope, like 1/3 of pregnancies end in miscarriage. All pregnancies are inherently dangerous. We both know red states don't make exceptions for dying women. That's why there's so many women that have ended up dead when it could have been easily prevented. It's even illegal in texas to save a woman. They both must die. "A new Supreme Court decision effectively means that Texas women will never be able to receive abortion care—even if their lives depend on it. On Monday, the Supreme Court let stand … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 03:26 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYes it is. They have whole entire hospitals for sick kids. You can never guarantee a healthy child. Men should definitely have to die and suffer for their children if women have to. If we can murder women to birth children, we should murder men to save them. Also, parents are never prosecuted for not being able to feed or shelter their kids. They get government assistance, low income housing, or worst case scenario the kids go into foster care. Now, if a parent purposefully starves their kid or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 02:03 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADDoes that mean if a child needs a transplant we should harvest organs from fathers even if they are unwilling and/or it could kill him or leave him permanently disabled? I'm assuming we can't weigh the man's discomfort into the decision since he's responsible for that child's existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 01:14 AM |
| 6 | Ladies, how would you feel/react to a situation like this?That's fine, but if I get hints that he's stingy, I won't like him. My husband and I have never even eaten at restaurant together. Not our thing. The most we've splurged on is drinks at starbucks. I've never bought my own. I can't even remember the last time I bought my own gas. I like that kind of thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 07:07 PM |
| 15 | Ladies, how would you feel/react to a situation like this?I'd get the ick if he said that. I'd be super turned off and kind of assume he didn't like me since he isn't even willing to spend a few bucks on our date. Ultimately, I'd say sure, and pay, but my feelings would definitely dampen. I would likely still go on another date, but if he did it AGAIN, I don't know. I want to feel special and at least worth a couple bucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen"I'm not talking about small dicks. I'm talking about men being shamed for liking tight Vs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 04:53 PM |
| 26 | Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen"I've quite literally never seen or read or heard guys being shamed for saying they like tight v's. I've seen countless women/girls be called loose. It was like the main insult in middle/high school. I can't even count how many guys have said it to me because I've pissed them off or just existed around them. Does online count? Because dozens, literally dozens of variations of being called loose when I've annoyed some pathetic man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 02:42 PM |
| 14 | Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen"Since when? Where? Show me the proof. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 02:10 PM |
| 10 | Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen"Are you saying guys who like tight v's have extremely small dicks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Q4A: Women are praised for being in the same situation that would be "normal" or "derogatory" for men. Why?This doesn't happen where I live unless he's alone and taking pictures near the kids. Then mom's go feral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 01:00 PM |
| 7 | Q4A: Women are praised for being in the same situation that would be "normal" or "derogatory" for men. Why?It's mostly older folks. When my son was born my relatives praised the hell out of my husband for being so involved. They'd say I'm so lucky. I won the lottery. My dad even said it. I was taking care of the baby all night and about 10 hours a day, but he'd give the baby attention in the evening and holy moly change his diaper! What an angel of a man! I got zero praise because I was doing what was expected. I always needed to do better. I was criticized for every little thing. It was really defea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 12:59 PM |
| 22 | Women have an advantage over men in the ability to earn by sex workMen can easily choose sex work. However, they more than likely will have to cater to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 12:31 PM |
| 1 | "males prefer debt-free virgins without tattoos" is a damaging messageI don't know. Most "trophy wives" I've seen look quite trashy. You know, like a bimbo. I'd rather have meaningful and colorful art all over me than look like a dumb gold digging slut. Anyways, the best thing about my husband is that he is NOTHING like other men. That's why I fell in love with him and I married him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Would you be with someone after your partner sacrifice their life for you?He knows I can't function by myself. He will understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 10:48 PM |
| -1 | If men could get pregnant abortion would be outlawedConsidering a lot of these complications could be prevented, but it's now illegal to help. I would say women are seen as disposable. When women have to flee states to get health care, that's pretty scary stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 10:15 PM |
| 1 | If men could get pregnant abortion would be outlawedCan you literally not read? Abortion is perfectly legal in my country. Doesn't mean you'll be able to find a place that does them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 06:38 PM |
| 1 | If men could get pregnant abortion would be outlawedI'll copy and paste as well: Women can't simply abort. Women no longer have bodily autonomy in America. I'm in Canada and access is limited in conservative provinces. It's impossible to find in smaller or rural towns. Abortion is perfectly legal in my country. Doesn't mean you'll be able to find a place that does them. Which is why I stated: In a perfect country where every woman had easy access to abortion, then MAYBE I'd consider financial abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 06:27 PM |
| 1 | If men could get pregnant abortion would be outlawedWomen can't simply abort. Women no longer have bodily autonomy in America. I'm in Canada and access is limited in conservative provinces. It's impossible to find in smaller or rural towns. In a perfect country where every woman had easy access to abortion, then MAYBE I'd consider financial abortion. However, her income still needs to be supplemented somehow. Tax payers will have to pick up the burden of the man. Children shouldn't be punished for the shitty actions of their father. A dead beat s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 06:10 PM |
| 3 | If men could get pregnant abortion would be outlawedAwesome. We agree. Money is lifeblood. Children need money to survive. The father has to pay. If not, I suppose we can do state/province child support provided by the government and tax payers can pay. You and I can pay his child support. Is that better? My friend took her baby daddy to court for child support. He was ordered to pay $15 a month. You can't even buy a tin of formula or a pack of diapers with that. You'll never convince me that's crippling for a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 04:37 PM |
| 2 | If men could get pregnant abortion would be outlawedWOMEN ARE DYING. This is a fact. Women are being tortured and denied life saving abortions. This is a fact. Women are fleeing their home state to save their life. This is a fact. A ten year old little girl who was raped fled her state to get an abortion. This is a fact. Republicans went after her and the doctor that did it. This is a fact. Republicans want to make it illegal for pregnant women/girls to leave their state for abortion care. This is also a fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 04:26 PM |
| 13 | If men could get pregnant abortion would be outlawed"A new Supreme Court decision effectively means that Texas women will never be able to receive abortion care—even if their lives depend on it. On Monday, the Supreme Court let stand a ruling that emergency abortions violate the Lone Star State’s already draconian abortion laws, upholding a ban on the life-saving procedure even in emergency circumstances." Women are literally dying because they can't access abortions even in life-saving circumstances. Maybe we should treat dead beat dads like old… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 03:36 PM |
| 0 | "males prefer debt-free virgins without tattoos" is a damaging messageWay to state the obvious. You're old af, no man going after looks or youth is going to be with you. Most men won't want to be with you, period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 02:23 PM |
| 0 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit itI didn't say men don't experience it. I know a whole bunch do. It's just known that women experience it in drastically higher numbers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit itdo you think men have bodily autonomy Western Bodily autonomy: Yes and no. I don't think men are going to die waiting for life saving health care like pregnant women/girls now do in red states. However, I am extremely against circumcision and the draft. While the draft hasn't happened in ages, there's always the looming possibility. I've always told my husband I'd break both his knees before the take him away from me. Luckily, he approves. As for circumcision, I think it's beyond fucked and shou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit itI don't trust men because of their actions as a whole. As whole, like worldwide, women are treated beyond horrifically by men. Women only have equality in 14 countries. There's 195. I genuinely don't believe most men believe in womens rights. I don't believe men believe women are equal or even should be. I genuinely believe if men knew they could get away with it that most would commit crimes against women, and frightening amount against children. The list goes on and on. I don't see men as subh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit itMen are literally trained from birth in the US that feelings are weak unless they come when it's convenient. JFC, this is misogyny!!! Like blatant misogyny. Feelings are girly. Being emotional is girly. There is nothing worse a man can be than GIRLY. Men are trained from birth to be nothing like women since that's literally the worst thing they could be!!! In the US, men are often here just to be used for emotional trauma dumping, money, property, status, etc. And now in the US women are used as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 09:39 PM |
| 0 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit itGenuinely? Very hard for me to say. Here's the definition: Misandry is the hatred of, contempt for, or prejudice against men or boys. I would say I have some of those feelings towards men (young boys, not at all, teenagers is when things get iffy, and my side eye starts happening). On a whole, I feel a lot of distrust, and I guess contempt for the actions of men. The only man in my life who hasn't said or done something absolutely fucked up is my husband. My son is 5 and I feel nothing but love … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit itAnd you'd say shit to a woman who was abused as a kid, that's equally fucked up. Guess we're equal, would you look at that! Finally, some equality around here! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 09:04 PM |
| -2 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit itI didn't claim to be anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 09:00 PM |
| 0 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit iteducation in 2024 is a woman's world. Is it? Because I'm a millennial woman living in the west, and school was a fucking shit show for me. Horrifically bullied. The worst time was when a group of boys pulled down my pants and underwear to mock my genitals (they would continue to mock my "muff" for years). They were caught. A male teacher saw it happen. Wanna bet who got in trouble and sent home? It wasn't them. My parents were never even contacted. I also could never do math or that sort of thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit itAt no point have I said male victims don't exist. I'm simply stating it ain't misandry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit itThen where is the political campaign to stop it? I don't know if it's political enough for you or not. Where I live we have a whole month dedicated to men, it's been dubbed "Movember." All the dude's grow mustaches and everyone posts and talks about all sorts of mens issues. Otherwise, don't wait for a woman to do something you're perfectly capable of doing yourself. If something is so important to you, be the difference you want to see. Patriarchies are, by nature, intrinsically misandristic. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 08:48 PM |
| 0 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit itIf that's the case, women's vile rhetoric encouraging the offing of men should be treated just as vilely. You mean they should be president! They should have hordes of idiots at their beck and call and willing to storm the capital! Trump is the reason women have lost their most basic human right. He's the reason women are dying preventable deaths and tortured through unviable and life threatening pregnancies. He's the reason 64,000 women and little girls have be forced to give birth to their rap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 08:28 PM |
| -2 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit itIf you know anything about healthcare, it's ALL based on men. From seat belts to medications, it's all designed for the male body. You're fucked if your a woman if your diagnosis is slightly obscure. I've have numerous health issues. Before I was diagnosed I had to see COUNTLESS doctors. Fucking countless. All men. All said it was anxiety, psychosomatic, all in my head, etc. I genuinely urge you to look up how women are treated in health care. Hell, it's ILLEGAL to give women life saving health … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 07:14 PM |
| 0 | "males prefer debt-free virgins without tattoos" is a damaging messageI've literally seen countless posts here saying younger = hotter. Every guy wants a young virginal innocent girl... blah blah blah. This whole subreddit could be used as proof for my husband's theory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 06:55 PM |
| -4 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit itMen die by suicide at 4x the rate of women and die of preventable workplace accidents 20x the rate of women, and nothing is done to change these statistics because of institutional and cultural misandry. Who is grieving those men? Women do NOT want this. This isn't misandry. What you're describing is the result of patriarchy. It's not misandry telling men they need to be tougher and stronger. It's not misandry telling men to grow some balls and bottle up their feelings. It isn't misandry telling… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 06:41 PM |
| -1 | "males prefer debt-free virgins without tattoos" is a damaging messageNo one is calling someone crazy or clingy for simply asking them on a date. Something else is going on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 06:16 PM |
| 0 | "males prefer debt-free virgins without tattoos" is a damaging messageGenuinely curious, do you ask guys out? I found my man by asking him out. He's perfect for me. I was terrified and thought he was way out of my league (I think this about 99% of guys), but I just went for it. He's shy, especially when it comes to dating women (no problem making friends), and likely would have never made a move, but the feelings were absolutely mutual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 05:31 PM |
| 1 | "males prefer debt-free virgins without tattoos" is a damaging messageIf you knew anything about tattoos, especially large ones, it's quite the opposite of impulsivity. You think about it for months and months, sometimes years, then you have to find just the right artist, make an appointment for a consultation, which could be months in advance, and have a long conversation about it. Then you wait weeks or months for them to draw it up. Then you see it and decide if you like it or not. Sometimes the process starts all over again. Anyways, I have a whole bunch, whic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 05:21 PM |
| -3 | "males prefer debt-free virgins without tattoos" is a damaging messageWorth less to who? You? Why is your opinion the end all be all? I have a bunch of tattoos. My husband is way more attracted to me with tattoos than without. The more I get, the hotter I am in his eyes. Plenty of guys like this. My husband has told me the reason why a lot of men hate tattoos is because is they can't pretend those kind of women are innocent children. It takes away their youthful innocent look. Needless to say, it actually makes me grateful I have tattoos and don't appeal to those … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 05:14 PM |
| 0 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit itFeminists dehumanize men. The vast majority don't. The vast majority love the men in their lives and would die in a fire for them. They reduce men to mere statistics. I would agree that a lot of them reduce mens behavior to statistics. they tried to take away presumption of innocence of men They wanted women to be BELIEVED. Guess what, we aren't. You win. Feminist's unconditional support for Amber Heard, Is this a thing? I'm a feminist and I followed this case closely. I couldn't look away from … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 05:04 PM |
| – | The way women behave with men they’re genuinely attracted to is very different compared to the way they behave with men that have merely grown on themSome fit guys have very boyish bodies that look kinda small, especially if they are hairless. I'd 100% prefer a hairy dad bod over a guy that looked like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 04:40 PM |
| – | The way women behave with men they’re genuinely attracted to is very different compared to the way they behave with men that have merely grown on themI don't think you understand how a lot of women are viscerally repulsed by men like the first one. Look at the QUALITY of the women that are chasing after rich pervy fuck boys--absolutely abysmal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 04:34 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYou must have replied to the wrong comment. It has nothing to do with mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 04:32 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADPoor dude HAD to look at the crack of the butt of christian women because of low rise jeans. I want to hear a sermon about plumbers and their cracks and them being tantalizing whores. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 03:43 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI'm confused, do you think those women have the power to say no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 03:38 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNormal people can't "turn off" their feelings. All it would do is cause misery, grief, and heartbreak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 02:33 PM |
| 5 | What advice would you give to women outearning their partners?I genuinely believe it's because women are forced to be the primary caregiver and men get a free pass to do fuck all. If men did as much or more of the care, there would be bonding going on and connections being made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 03:19 PM |
| 1 | CMV: In the wake of finding out he’s not the father, anything a paternity fraud victim does (short of physical violence towards others) is the fault of the mother.Yeah, she's a shit person. Obviously. He's an equally shit person for abandoning an innocent kid that loves and adores him and calls him daddy. He's fucking that kid up for life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 01:55 PM |
| – | do your friends admit to you that they don't find their husbands physically attractive?I have one friend who said she is repulsed by her husband. She hasn't slept with him since she was pregnant 5 years ago. However, he cheated on her while she was pregnant. She says she's never been able to look at him the same and is disgusted by him. Before that, she was extremely attracted to him. I had another friend leave her husband because he became obese and disgusted her. The only way they could fuck was doggy style. He'd have to lift the hanging fat of his stomach that covered his schlo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 12:23 PM |
| – | Barring disability, short straight men play the dating game on the hardest difficultyYeah, I'm old. 34. But even growing up nobody really talked about height. But I hear there's been a culture shift about it. I've dated lots of short dudes. So for me, at least, it's never been an issue. I've never even found a tall dude worth more than one or two dates! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 12:52 AM |
| – | Barring disability, short straight men play the dating game on the hardest difficultyI'm talking about height specifically. You've got two negatives going for you. Some guys, even short ones, can rock a bald head. Can't be said for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 12:50 AM |
| – | Barring disability, short straight men play the dating game on the hardest difficultyDepends on the context. When it comes to hookups, no, men will do strange things when horny. When it comes long term relationships, again depends on the group. I think the vast majority good looking guys are shallow af. I think there's a lot of a hot shallow women, but I don't think it's nearly as many as men since I see hot women marry average dudes all the time. Same can't be said for hot guys. It's a rarity. Some average girls are utterly delusional, but I think most know what they bring to t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 12:48 AM |
| – | Barring disability, short straight men play the dating game on the hardest difficultyI genuinely don't know any woman who prioritizes height. I didn't. None of my friends have. I'm sure some shallow women do, but why do you want a shallow woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 12:33 AM |
| 0 | CMV: In the wake of finding out he’s not the father, anything a paternity fraud victim does (short of physical violence towards others) is the fault of the mother.Yes they will. I have plenty of memories under 5. My son is 5. He still has memories from when he was 2. We moved over two years ago and he will still point out our old building when we occasionally drive by it. Kids aren't dumb. I'd say anything under 2, theyll probably forget you but they might scream and cry for you for a good year or more, so I think it'll still fuck them up royally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 03:55 PM |
| -1 | CMV: In the wake of finding out he’s not the father, anything a paternity fraud victim does (short of physical violence towards others) is the fault of the mother.Unfortunately, no, it's not when it comes to children. Imo, if you abandon an innocent child that loves you and thinks you're their parent, you're a monster. Kids don't give a shit about DNA. You'll be fucking that kid up for life if you abandon them. Nobody with a heart or soul would be able to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 09:55 PM |
| 0 | CMV: In the wake of finding out he’s not the father, anything a paternity fraud victim does (short of physical violence towards others) is the fault of the mother.No. I'd be horrified, but it wouldn't change how I feel. I'm too attached to my husband, I'd simply perish, I'd wither and die without my husband, I'd cease to exist... so, if we were long-lost siblings, we'd be running away to live where nobody knew us. Sweet home Alabama here I come. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 09:03 PM |
| -1 | CMV: In the wake of finding out he’s not the father, anything a paternity fraud victim does (short of physical violence towards others) is the fault of the mother.My husband and I have had silly conversations about our son and what we'd do if we found out he was switched at birth or something. We would not want to trade. If we were forced, we would literally run away with our son to keep him. Why? We created a bond. We love him. It's something you can't undo. If a parent finds out their kid isn't there's after years of raising them and then just abandons them, I don't believe that parent ever loved or cared about the kid to begin with. Like yeah, I'd be h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 07:49 PM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]School isn't designed for females either. It's designed to churn out the best worker bees possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 08:36 PM |
| 3 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyWell, imo, one shouldn't strive to be an asshole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 10:22 PM |
| -2 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyWtf. Hell no. I refuse to believe you're a woman. If so, you are severely unwell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 07:21 PM |
| 5 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyI think this is true for toxic women. If you want a toxic woman, be an asshole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 07:20 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADOh wtf, so he's just being mean :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 09:33 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADHorrible. A lot of resentment. He still says really out of pocket things. Sometimes really hurtful, but I don't think he means it that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 09:31 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYou are incredibly lucky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 09:28 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADLike he wasn't hitting me. He was just taking out his anger on things, or the dog :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 09:26 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNah, I just want someone in my life who thinks I'm worth protecting. Gender is irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 09:25 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADHe just genuinely isn't and that's okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 09:23 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADVery easy for you to say... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 09:22 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADMy sister is the golden child too. My mother dotes on her. Like they have all their holidays together, xmas, thanksgiving, etc, but I'm not invited because my step dad is there. I'm 34. This has been going on since I was 17. My dad does his own things with his friends. Luckily, once I met my husband I wasn't alone on holidays anymore! One of the times I wanted protection most was from my shitty boyfriend when I was 15. I was a super fucked kid, but I had a super fucked up childhood. It's no wond… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 09:22 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADAnger and resentment. We fought A LOT about it for a few years. I just couldn't get over it for the longest time. However, I eventually came to accept that's just how he is. He will never be that kind of guy. I still love him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 09:01 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNot at all, sorry! What does it mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 08:59 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI know exactly that feeling! Luckily my husband almost never yells. However, he can talk loudly and I find even THAT triggers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 08:58 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADSorry, for clarity, who are we talking about? I mention both my dad and husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 08:57 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADGuess that makes me the provider. My dad is 80 now and lives with me because he can't afford to live on his own. Doesn't pay bills. Sometimes he will buy his own food. He does pay for his own meds and vehicle. Also, my husband lived at home with his family when we met. I owned a condo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 08:56 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADExact same. I remember making this ceramic sculpture thing in brownies. I was SOOO proud of it and thought he'd love it. He smashed it when he was mad it me. He would throw things around and break things. I was lucky because the violence was never directed too much at me, but it was still overwhelming. Just the sound of men yelling/screaming makes me feel sick. I can't handle it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 08:52 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADStill don't get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 08:49 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADPlease do explain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 08:39 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD??? I don't understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 08:38 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADConservatives literally voted against doing anything about the border. Dems tried, cons denied. Also, Harris is vocally pro second amendment. She's even talked about owning guns and how she'd shoot an intruder in her home. So, I'm confused about your stance, especially since Trump has talked about wanting to get rid of the constitution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 08:38 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI don't believe men are inherently protectors or providers. In my experience, always the opposite. Like, even though I'm a grown ass woman, I wish I could look back and see how protective my father was of me, buuut, he was always the opposite and blamed me for the shitty things people would do to me. I remember him screaming at me that I'm a whore because I was dumb enough to fall for all the lies a guy told me and slept with him, then was promptly ghosted. I wish he was the type of man to direc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 08:31 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADSame! That's why I would never vote conservative. Why would I want to make my life so much worse by voting conservative? I'm Canadian, so cons want to privatize health care, ban abortion, take away rights of the lgbt+ etc.. It's so fucking evil. I see whats going on in the states and how women are now dying because of bans, how raped women and little girls are forced to birth a monster's baby, how trans folk are treated in places like Florida. It's absolute horror. I just can't imagine voting th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 08:06 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI've never been to university. Nor has my husband. He hasn't even graduated high school. Yet, we are bleeding heart liberals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 07:57 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI certainly didn't grow up privileged. Our furnace was a woodstove in the basement. I could see my breath in my room in the winter. My window was broken and covered with plastic the whole time I lived there. We didn't even have a shower. Just an old rusty tub. One xmas our house was broken into while at grandmas. EVERYTHING was gone, even my shitty dollar store toys, yet I'm still liberal af. I chalk it up to having a conscience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 07:55 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADEver notice how the shittiest and poorest places are often conservative? Also, the more educated one is, the more liberal one tends to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 07:21 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWhy would you demand something you aren't even capable of giving? Seems incredibly hypocritical. Also, it doesn't make sense for a virgin woman to want you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 02:04 AM |
| 0 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI'm assuming you're also a virgin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 11:54 PM |
| 3 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIt's gotta be a fetish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 11:54 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADDidn't disappear at all. I've always struggled with suicidal ideation. I got a dog at 19 and this really helped with depression/anxiety. However, around 20ish I got so incredibly sick and was in such agonizing pain that I desperately wanted to die. I would have definitely ended it all if I hadn't had my dog. The guy I was with left me for someone else and I was too sick to work, so I had to move in with my dad who lived in an entirely different city where I knew no one. My dad traveled a lot and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 02:46 PM |
| 4 | Question for men. If you could fix men's biggest issuesHuh, maybe it's true that dudes in trades are really stupid... I very clearly stated the people working on a water main outside my house are 25% women. Maybe learn to read before making "crackhead tier whacky claims." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 04:01 AM |
| 5 | Question for men. If you could fix men's biggest issuesWomen aren't a monolith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 12:13 AM |
| 7 | Question for men. If you could fix men's biggest issuesAgain, are you blind? I'm not seeing 0% Also, ask any woman who has tried entering these feilds how they are treated by men... It's horrifically, btw. Remember how men treated the first women who entered the air force by sabotaging their planes, ending in some deaths. It's not really any different nowadays. It's genuinely unsafe for women to join male dominated fields. It takes a certain kind of woman to be willing to put up with all the abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 11:22 PM |
| 16 | Question for men. If you could fix men's biggest issuesI feel like maybe you're just blind? Women literally do all that. Maybe not in similar numbers because of the outrageous amount of harassment from men, but they ARE there. I've had a female plumber show up. They are working in a water main off my road, like 25% of the people are women. There's a lady who drives a dump truck and she's got long ass nails. The list goes on and on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 09:14 PM |
| 4 | If there was a test that could confirm cheating, would you make your man take it?No. I don't feel the need to. I trust him. If I didn't trust him, we'd have much bigger issues going on. If I felt like I had to ask him to take the test, I imagine our relationship was already pretty much over and I just needed to confirm my suspicions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 09:19 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.They don't want women to vote, they don't want women to have control of their body, they don't women to have access to birth control, etc. If this isn't hate, then I don't want to know what you think love is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 08:58 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.Nope. Both were solidly middle class. I'm in a lot of moms groups, so it's actually posted about rather frequently. I live in a very liberal area. Most men are liberal. They look like regular men. My husband is liberal. I'd never date anyone who isn't, let alone marry. Like I said, conservatives are repulsive. They aren't masculine, they usually are ultra sensitive and whine and throw tantrums about everything. They are the ones punching holes in walls and shooting up schools. They don't know ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 03:51 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.Why do you think trans women, a lot of which you can't distinguish from cis women and even have vaginas, should use the men's washroom? Do you genuinely believe this lady should be using the men's washroom? In my mind, there's no way in hell she should step foot in a men's washroom. It wouldn't be safe. <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 03:42 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.I don't think this is the case at all. I know women who have literally divorced their husband's because those men went down the conservative maga-like pipeline. I think conservative women want conservative men. I do believe most liberal women will find conservative men repulsive. Most liberal women don't want to date a guy who believes she's dramatically inferior and shouldn't have basic human rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Paternity Test vs. Escape FundIf she's working full time. I'd side eye her for sure. If she's a stay at home mom, she NEEDS an emergency fund. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Paternity Test vs. Escape FundStay at home moms have emergency funds because they are placing their life in the hands of another. If he drops dead, then what? Could be months until she gets access to the money. Where I live it would also be taxed. Not only that, what if he gets a brain tumor and abandons her? What if he gets early onset dementia and drains all the accounts because of a scam? What if he gets a TBI and becomes erratic and gambles away everything or THEN becomes abusive? None of those things are his fault or ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 08:07 PM |
| – | Many redpill men are incapable of a lifelong healthy monogamous sexual relationship.Just gotta find one that likes 'em older. My husband does, so I get hotter as I age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you hold your female friends accountable for how they treat good men in a relationship?She absolutely did, haha! It had been bothering her for a long time and she needed someone to talk about it with. I don't even like the guy, but I don't think he deserved to be cheated on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 02:33 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: Do you hold your female friends accountable for how they treat good men in a relationship?Do you know what an apron belly is? He had one of those and it hung over his junk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you hold your female friends accountable for how they treat good men in a relationship?He did lose most of the weight. But it's not like she cheated on him with someone hotter. New guy was skinny and short, broke and balding, but super nice and sweet. I genuinely think he's a way better match for her than the asshole, and I would have actually supported her had she done things the right way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 02:28 PM |
| -1 | Would you prefer your son to be a genuinely good person who can't get a date, or a sexually irresistible asshole?I don't know any Calebs because I don't spend my time around shit people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 02:56 AM |
| -1 | Would you prefer your son to be a genuinely good person who can't get a date, or a sexually irresistible asshole?I genuinely have never met a woman other that crazies and junkies who would pick Caleb. I'm a 34 year old married woman with a kid. I don't know any woman with a husband that even slightly resembles Caleb. I've never been into hook up culture, so maybe in that context, but even then I can't imagine any sane person hooking up with someone knowing they have a dozen kids he doesn't give a shit about and is likely riddled with disease. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 01:36 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADWhat do you consider really good-looking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 12:04 AM |
| 12 | Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth?The idea behind it is that anyone can be persuaded to do something they might initially oppose if offered enough incentive, be it money, power, or something else of value. YOU can be persuaded, not everybody. It's perfectly fine if you're incredibly weak and can be persuaded by frivolous things to backstab those you're supposed to protect and care about, but don't lump everybody else in there with you. There are plenty of men and women who are loyal to the bone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 12:03 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADMy husband is significantly smarter than me (in most ways). It's super hot when he teaches me things. Sometimes I even pretend to be stupid just so he can explain things to me. He is always so capable and can do anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 11:47 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI'll remind my husband of this. He best be careful or hes outta here and I'll be coming for those checks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 11:41 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADDepends on the man, I guess. My husband still lived at home with his parents when we got together. We were in our mid 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 11:39 PM |
| 22 | Q4W: Do you hold your female friends accountable for how they treat good men in a relationship?I've dropped a few friends who treated their men shit, granted most of them had equally shit men, but still. One was a really good dad. I hated him since he was a bully and a scummy pos, but a good dad, and I could see he loved his daughters. My friend cheated on him and left him for another dude. Completely destroyed their family. My friend lost her attraction to him because he gained so much weight the only way they could fuck was doggy style and he had to lift his stomach up and put it on her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 11:37 PM |
| -1 | Paternity Test vs. Escape FundDepends how he goes about it. I absolutely understand, which is why I keep asking the same question over and over. Why is he with someone he doesn't trust to not commit horrifically immoral acts? Why is he making a baby with someone who he thinks is also making babies with other dudes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 11:24 PM |
| -1 | Paternity Test vs. Escape FundOf course, but we aren't talking about those men. We are talking about men CHOOSING to be with women they distrust and believe are capable of horrifically immoral acts. Men who trust do not feel the need to ask for a paternity test. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 11:02 PM |
| 0 | Paternity Test vs. Escape FundIf you have to get a paternity test it means you do NOT trust her. It means you think your partner is capable of horrific things. Why would you be with someone that you think could easily do something like sleep around and pawn a kid off on you? If she can do that with zero remorse, what else is she capable of? So, again, I ask, why be with her in the first place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Paternity Test vs. Escape FundLike honestly, I'm an anxious person, so I kinda get it, but the way guys go about it around here is a bit fucked. However, I also have to wonder if you dont trust your girl to NOT raw dog fuck boys behind your back and pawn off the bastard babies on you, WHY oh WHY are you with her?!?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Paternity Test vs. Escape FundI'm not saying he should. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 09:45 PM |
| 5 | Paternity Test vs. Escape FundI'm sorry your wife is a whore and you're angry about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 09:21 PM |
| 5 | Paternity Test vs. Escape FundI mean, with the paternity test you COULD lose half of everything and then have to pay child support every month. Why would a woman stay with a man who thinks she's not only a cheater, but a manipulative POS trying to pass some other dude's kid off as his? Like, there's no coming back from that accusation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 08:58 PM |
| 5 | Paternity Test vs. Escape FundWhen does my secret bank account show up? I could use the cash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Paternity Test vs. Escape FundWhy would you be with, let alone marry someone, you so deeply distrust? Doesn't sound like a functional adult if you think she's letting dudes raw dog her left, right, and center. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 08:54 PM |
| -1 | Paternity Test vs. Escape FundDon't tell your partner if you don't want to break up. Problem solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 08:52 PM |
| -4 | Would you prefer your son to be a genuinely good person who can't get a date, or a sexually irresistible asshole?I have no idea what you're saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Would you prefer your son to be a genuinely good person who can't get a date, or a sexually irresistible asshole?What the fuck are you even talking about about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 06:29 PM |
| -1 | Would you prefer your son to be a genuinely good person who can't get a date, or a sexually irresistible asshole?what does it matter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 04:05 PM |
| 7 | Would you prefer your son to be a genuinely good person who can't get a date, or a sexually irresistible asshole?I'm the opposite! There's no why my husband and I could produce a degenerate loser that does nothing but harm society and ruin the lives of their own children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 02:32 PM |
| 0 | Would you prefer your son to be a genuinely good person who can't get a date, or a sexually irresistible asshole?He doesn't seem capable at all. He's quite the opposite. His a nasty dead beat loser that can't keep it in his pants. He's literally make society worse for generations to come. The world is significantly worse for having him in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 02:30 PM |
| -4 | Would you prefer your son to be a genuinely good person who can't get a date, or a sexually irresistible asshole?No woman in their right mind would pick Caleb. He's going to be knocking up a bunch of loser brainless women and creating a whole bunch of burdens to society. This is literally a nightmare scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 02:24 PM |
| -1 | Would you prefer your son to be a genuinely good person who can't get a date, or a sexually irresistible asshole?So, I'm a mother to a son. I don't want my son to ever be happy at the expense of others. That is evil and horrible. I don't want my son to be happy using women, ruining families, and creating who knows how many children that will suffer and have miserable lives. Those children are also partly my responsibility. I am their grandmother, I will love them. How am I suppose to support countless unhappy miserable children who's father couldn't give less of a shit about them? How am I suppose to suppo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Would you prefer your son to be a genuinely good person who can't get a date, or a sexually irresistible asshole?It's obvious to want to have a child that positively impacts the world over one that makes it an infinitely worse place. Like thr one dude genuinely sounds like a monster. Sane people don't want an evil monster for a kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 01:20 PM |
| 10 | To the female losers here, why won't you date a male loser?are you pretty unique in this regard? I genuinely don't know. It's not really something I talk about with people in person. If you want a needy/clingy girl, we definitely exist. I know lots of girls/women scare guys off by moving to quick to soon. Like, one date with my husband and I desperately wanted him to be the man I married. Our second date was terrible (we went for a walk but it was freezing, so he took me home after like 30 min together). I took this as rejection and sent him a big long … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 05:10 PM |
| 14 | To the female losers here, why won't you date a male loser?I'm a loser who has almost strictly dated other losers. I'm introverted. Friendships never last. Chronically ill. Etc. My husband is the first guy I dated that I was attracted to. Before you think this means something or that I left all the other relationships because I wasn't attracted to them, they almost always left me. Most of the time for someone else. Honestly, I had a lot of the same feelings as you. I was desperate and was so lonely and just wanted to be loved. Because of that desperatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 12:47 PM |
| 29 | To the female losers here, why won't you date a male loser?Depends on the loser. I've always been one. I've always done the approaching, otherwise I'd never have dated anyone (besides those I met online). With that said, I was constantly rejected, and sometimes terribly. So, it's not like it was easy. I think guys would be surprised how often I was rejected by other losers (I never approached anyone who i actually thought was good looking or socially high up because I assumed it would be an automatic no since even loser dudes hated me) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 12:04 PM |
| 11 | Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids?Oh my gosh, my heart goes out to you. I genuinely don't know how I didn't end up hospitalized. I went to countless doctors begging for help. Told them l felt crazy. That i was scared by how badly I was getting the urge to kill myself. But the final question would always be, "do you have thoughts of hurting your baby?" My answer was always no. That was true. They'd be like, GREAT!! You're fine, it's normal, you're free to go! The amount of times I was told the only thing that matters is that my b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 03:27 PM |
| 23 | Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids?I have a son and have zero regrets, however pregnancy/birth/postpartum was beyond hell. It was genuinely torturous. I went from being on the fence about abortion to being vehemently for it. I can't imagine a woman/girl doing any of that against her will. I remember thinking the first few years of my son's life that if I accidentally got pregnant I would 100% abort and if that option was taken from me, I'd kill myself, like no hesitation. I couldn't do it again. Not mentally, not physically. I wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 01:53 PM |
| 17 | Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids?Where i live it's automatic 50/50. Even being a homeless junkie won't take that right away as long as you've got a couch to surf on when it's your day to have the kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 01:38 PM |
| 50 | Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids?Pregnancy/childbirth is inherently harmful to women, but men couldn't give less of a fuck about that. No reason for women or girls to give an iota of a damn about society, especially if their only value in it is being breeding stock and having multiple holes men can fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 01:33 PM |
| 6 | Positivity Time! Say something nice about the opposite sex, or say something you feel bad the opposite sex has to deal with!You do realize in a lot of states where abortions are banned, this includes cases of rape and incest, right?Small children are having to flee their states so they don't have to give birth to their grandfather's baby at 10 years old. The poor ones are forced to potentially die. An 11 year old was raped in her yard while playing in it. She was forced to give birth. He mom was too poor to travel to another state. It's estimated in texas alone, since the abortion ban, there's been 64,000 cases of ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Do men still prefer to be the main breadwinner? And what would the ideal wife be in this scenario?For the right woman, none of that matters. The right woman will think the son shines out your ass and you can do no wrong. My husband was still living with his parents when we got together in our mid 20s. He's a warehouse manager. He wouldn't be able to afford rent by himself nowadays. He's average in looks but I think he's hot af. Compare him to any of the hottest richest celebrities and I'd still pick him every day of the week. They simply aren't him. No amount of money or good looks will chan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 03:10 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI mean, that makes sense. Don't men commit like 99% of violent crime? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 01:43 AM |
| 1 | You're on a date & everything is going well, then they tell you they were falsely accused in the past...British Columbia, Canada. It's all illegal here, or so they say. I even had my pants and underwear pulled down in middle school by a group of boys. A teacher saw. I was the one that got in trouble and sent home for the day. Those boys would harass me for years making fun of my "muff." Just recently there was a girl in the news who had a group of boys forcibly penetrate her with their fingers on a playground. When she told her parents they obviously went to the cops, but they said they couldn't d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 08:03 PM |
| 5 | Inexperienced men should not be very forthcoming about their sexual historySex isn't difficult if you're okay being super shit at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 02:01 AM |
| 6 | You're on a date & everything is going well, then they tell you they were falsely accused in the past...Because it almost never happens. I've had two instances of sexual assault. Both pretty brutal. The group of guys were labeled heroes/my guardian angels because they didnt leave me to die, and the second time I was labeled a liar that regretted cheating on her bf. The rapist was never even questioned. The cops simply didn't believe me despite being pretty beaten up. They didn't take me to the hospital either. No rape kit was done. They questioned me for a few hours asking why I'm lying over and o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 08:25 PM |
| 5 | Do you think physical intimacy is kind of a given in dating and romantic relationships?Is this a serious question? Yes, obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Do you think physical intimacy is kind of a given in dating and romantic relationships?I'm married, and because of health issues, we've gone a year+ without PIV before. He didn't whine, he didn't complain... actually he never even mentioned the lack of sex. Want to know why? Because my health was more important. A man who puts sex before anything else would have either cheated or left me for someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 12:50 AM |
| 0 | Do you think physical intimacy is kind of a given in dating and romantic relationships?What's your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Do you think physical intimacy is kind of a given in dating and romantic relationships?Not at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 12:48 AM |
| -2 | Do you think physical intimacy is kind of a given in dating and romantic relationships?Dating for sex is gross. I don't want to be used. I don't want my purpose and value to be placed on how many orgasms my vagina can provide. I want to be loved, valued, and cherished for reasons far beyond that. I only want a man who is dating to find a life partner with sex being a bonus. Guys who value sex beyond all else will be disloyal and never truly love their partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 12:16 AM |
| 4 | Expecting your partner to pay a larger portion of expenses just because they earn more is parasiticCan't say I understand. Why live in a bachelor pad or with other room mates when one could afford to make their life better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 12:06 AM |
| 6 | Expecting your partner to pay a larger portion of expenses just because they earn more is parasiticIf your partner is making minimum wage but you make significantly more, but want them to go 50/50, then you need to live like you're also making minimum wage. Expecting them to go broke or in debt to finance you when you already have the funds is selfishly insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 11:27 PM |
| -2 | CMV: SAHMs should always have an exit planYikes. If you took a moment to breathe instead of going into hateful and misogynistic rage, you'd have noticed by my wording in previous sentences to the one you quoted that I'm specifically talking from personal experience. I only know one woman who has cheated, but they weren't married and we did not remain friends because I try not to associate with immoral degenerate losers. The amount of men I've known who have cheated is basically all of them (besides my husband🤞 and a few older family mem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 01:27 PM |
| 3 | q4w: who was your first Biggest crush?Kovu from Lion King 2 was IT for me. <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 04:10 PM |
| 7 | CMV: SAHMs should always have an exit planI don't know why men never stop to think WHY women initiate divorce. I'm 34 and a mom. So I've seen it a lot, and know tons of women thinking about it. Half the time is because he's a cheater. The other half is because he's turned into another one of her children. She's stuck doing everything, usually also working full time, but he comes home and puts his feet up while she takes care of the kids, helps with homework and baths, makes dinner, cleans up dinner, packs lunches, does bedtime stories a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 04:03 PM |
| 0 | Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friendsI'm genuinely confused why anybody would be uncomfortable with obese people... ...but, he did have to get an obese lady fired because she stank so bad. He repeatedly had to tell her she stank. He even sent her home a few times to shower. She came back still stinking. She was fired. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 06:05 AM |
| -2 | Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friendsPolice his speech? Just today, he was talking about politics. He's super opinionated about everything and loves to share. Trump was brought up and how my boss believes he's better than Harris. I mentioned Trump openly admitting to being sexually attracted to his own daughter and wishing he could date her. Wanna know his response? He quite literally said ALL men are sexually attracted to their daughters. He said a man can't help but fall in love with his daughter since she's a younger prettier ve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 06:01 AM |
| 3 | The normalization of "Homie head" is wrong and should be stoppedIf anything, you've convinced me that "home head" must become the new norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 04:28 AM |
| 3 | The normalization of "Homie head" is wrong and should be stoppedNotice how you didn't say dads, brothers, or sons? Women are shamed for embracing their sexuality and seen as lesser than if they engage in sexual activities, especially if it's just for fun. That is a bigger problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friendsI'm sure there are gross women who like gross men and they produce more degenerates the world doesn't need. I would argue it takes more balls to stand up for what's right than it does to roll over and pretend he's one of those losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 12:58 AM |
| 3 | The normalization of "Homie head" is wrong and should be stoppedHow is having the occasional fwb not conducive to a happy, healthy, well-functioning society? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friendsDefinitely just shit men. He has no problem making friends and they are usually really great guys. I mean, yeah, usually women find respectful men that aren't gross sacks of shit attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 11:43 PM |
| -4 | Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friendsYou mean nasty men wouldn't want to be around him because he won't put up with their shit. He's also a manager, so he's not going to allow someone to potentially make others uncomfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 09:04 PM |
| 18 | The normalization of "Homie head" is wrong and should be stoppedI can't even pretend to care. As long as it's consensual and everyone is happy, what's the problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 03:42 PM |
| -2 | Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friendsMy husband says it's very true. He's had to distance himself from people because of it. He's even reported guys to HR that have gone too far. Also, I've heard my boss talk to guys when he thinks I can't overhear. Literally talked about how overweight women should be shot. Yeah, this isn't funny. It's just fucked up. I went from dressing nice at work to sweatpants every damn day because even though I'm not overweight, I know he judges every woman sexually. If she isn't sexually attractive. She's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 12:18 PM |
| -1 | Do you think women are more bigoted then men?Do you need a tissue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 03:56 PM |
| -1 | Do you think women are more bigoted then men?I had empathy for men... until I started talking to them. I used to be all about men's rights and was a pick me to boot. Then I got involved in those things and was absolutely horrified. Took time, but I came to my senses and did an absolute 180. I don't believe 99% of men are even capable of empathy. It's why most of them are monsters (most because only 14 out of 195 countries do women have equal rights). It's why whole countries revolve around treating women like objects. There are countries w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 03:54 PM |
| -6 | Do you think women are more bigoted then men?What in the horse shit is this? So you saying there are laws saying men aren't allowed to graduate from school? There are laws saying men aren't allowed to earn above a certain wage? There are laws saying men have to kill themselves? There are laws that men have to be homeless? No? Then your point is moot. There are laws formed to literally torture women and you basically are stating men are super fucking lazy, so they are oppressed. Jfc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 01:29 AM |
| -6 | Do you think women are more bigoted then men?If this is true why are women and little girls getting their rights viciously stripped? Why are women now forced to carry rape and incest babies in many states? Why is there talk of registries to track pregnant women so they can't cross state borders and get an abortion, even if it were life saving? Why is there talk of the death sentences for women and little girls who get abortions? Why are women forced to go septic and carry dead fetuses or ones incompatible with life? In texas you can rape a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 08:28 PM |
| 1 | What is the best way for autistic men to apply the red pill without falling into its overwhelming toxicity and mentally damaging themselves???Well, if you genuinely want a female friend. I'd be happy to chat. I'm a pretty open book. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 12:38 AM |
| 6 | If you claim men are angry at women because women treat them badly, why is it hard to accept that the opposite is also true?Where? How? Give me the details. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 11:07 PM |
| 7 | If you claim men are angry at women because women treat them badly, why is it hard to accept that the opposite is also true?Wait, so if I just quit my job my bills will magically be paid? When is it my turn to be pampered, spoiled, and indulged? I'm more than ready. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 08:33 PM |
| 1 | The most recent season of “The Bachelorette” is a perfect example of why “women should just pick better men” is terrible adviceDon't even bother. I've had horrific things done to me by men that I never saw coming, but men around here will only ever blame the woman. It's not his fault for being a disgusting piece of shit, it's hers because if she really wanted to avoid a bad man she'd have become psychic and chosen better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 08:23 PM |
| 1 | What is the best way for autistic men to apply the red pill without falling into its overwhelming toxicity and mentally damaging themselves???Just personally, I've never seen this. Alt guys don't tend to like alt ladies. It's a thing. Every alt lady I know is with a nerdy shy guy with no piercings, no tattoos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 08:11 PM |
| -1 | What is the best way for autistic men to apply the red pill without falling into its overwhelming toxicity and mentally damaging themselves???I feel like 80% of the men in my family are autistic. Or they are just weird af, but they had no trouble finding ladies. But they aren't misogynistic pigs either. I feel like lots of alt girls LOVE autistics guys, but that's just been my personal experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Do you choose your s/o according to her SMV?"The ONLY reason he is with you instead of Dave is because he's not gay, and he can have sex with you." "It is the ONE THING you are there for in the relationship.. it is your core purpose." How would you interpret it? Seems crystal clear to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you choose your s/o according to her SMV?He quite literally said a woman's only purpose is to provide orgasms. That is repulsive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 02:06 PM |
| 0 | Do you choose your s/o according to her SMV?If he isn't at least bi-sexual, why would he even be comparing her to Dave, like Dave more, etc? He wants Dave! So be with Dave! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Do you choose your s/o according to her SMV?It's been stated multiple times that he loves absolutely everything about Dave, that he's better than the woman in every way. That Dave is the competition and he would rather have Dave as company... Yeah, he's gay. Be with Dave!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 03:28 AM |
| 2 | Do you choose your s/o according to her SMV?He sounds really REALLY gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Do you choose your s/o according to her SMV?Again, he is clearly gay and should be with Dave. It's 2024. Time to get out of the closet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 02:43 AM |
| 10 | Every man should live the fuckboy lifestyle if they can at some point100% the opposite if she has any self-respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 02:16 AM |
| 0 | Do you choose your s/o according to her SMV?His friend Dave is funnier than you, stronger than you, can protect him better than you, can afford better gifts for him than you, and likely when the chips are down is more loyal than you. Sounds like he and Dave should just be together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Do you choose your s/o according to her SMV?Some people have horrible lives. And it would be astronomically worse with man with this horrible mindset in her life. Because all other options available are worse. If all options are worse (I highly doubt it), it's better to remain alone. I'd certainly rather be single than in a miserable loveless relationship where my only value is the orgasms I provide. That sounds like utter hell. Just a human that can't compete with Dave Sounds like her boyfriend is gay and she should dump him. In no world… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 02:07 AM |
| -3 | Do you choose your s/o according to her SMV?So basically you want a whore? That's my understanding. A prostitute that lives with you? How so? Good men don't think at all like this. My husband certainly doesn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 12:02 AM |
| -1 | Do you choose your s/o according to her SMV?This is super sad and, like a said, an incredibly repulsive way to think. I'm still unsure WHY a woman would want you. Guaranteed her friends treat her better, respect her, make her laugh harder, and don't view her as an animated flesh light. Lots of them would probably even get that dream house with her, maybe even raise kids with her. Anyways, my husband is my best friend. He'd say the same about me. I've never felt a connection like ours with anybody else. If soul mates exist, he's mine. He f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 12:00 AM |
| 0 | Do you choose your s/o according to her SMV?Genuinely curious. Since the way think is utterly repulsive (at least to me and I suspect most other women), why would one want to be with you? What do you have to offer?... obviously not money. Also, if she's with a good guy (not you), none of what you said is applicable. So WHY would any woman in her right mind pick you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 11:23 PM |
| 1 | In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against menIf your opinions are against basic human rights... yeah, they shouldn't matter, because they are terribly fucking evil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 10:26 PM |
| 1 | In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against menYou? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 02:17 PM |
| 1 | In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against menI'm calling them what they are, as everyone should. Good people don't torture innocent little girls and women. If you vote for that, you are quite literally the scum of the earth. Again, let's be real. Conservatism is all about taking women's rights, lgbt+ rights, etc, nowadays. There is simply no denying it. They say the words out loud. If you vote against basic human rights, you are no better than a nazi and are genuinely evil. No ifs, ands, or buts about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 02:16 PM |
| 5 | In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against menWho cares what those nazis think? It's irrelevant. The point is it's happening, and they knew it would happen when they voted for these laws. Everybody was told this would happen, and those evil cretins didn't care. Let's be real, countless politicians have been saying no exceptions for a while now. They are still being voted for. They also want to outlaw birth control. They don't even want women to be able to protect themselves from these scenarios. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 11:58 PM |
| 2 | In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against menMen have bodily autonomy. Women do not. In what states and which laws have been put specifically in place for men so they have to wait to be on the brink of death to get treatment/surgery. Women are also now being denied medications they desperately need because they have the potential to get pregnant. Women are denied cancer treatment because they are pregnant. Personally, if I got pregnant and then found out I had cancer, I'd abort and get treatment. They won't do treatment while pregnant beca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 09:53 PM |
| 9 | In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against menI mean, it obviously does. Imagine men were having a medical emergency, like a dead rotting fetus inside them, and they're like, nah, you have to wait to go septic before we can help. Go wait in the parking lot if you don't want to die when you do... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 07:46 PM |
| 10 | In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against menHow is forcing little 10 year old girls raped by their grandpa to potentially die giving birth, not discrimination? How is forcing little raped children to flee their state to get an abortion not discrimination? How is forcing raped girls or women to give birth to their rape baby not discrimination in general? Like I can't imagine the horror. It's unbelievable. How is forcing women to keep dead fetuses inside them until they go septic, not discrimination? How is forcing women with ectopic pregna… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 07:39 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADMy husband is 5'6" His height never ever crossed my mind until I started reading things online and hearing men talk about it. I still don't think of him as short. Nobody has ever called him short. He doesn't think of himself as short. He's kind, compassionate, I like that he's a little chivalrous. He opens doors for me, cooks for me, etc. I've never paid for my own gas (granted I've bought both our cars), but I like that he goes out of his way to fill up my tank. He calls me princess, haha. He c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 05:10 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI feel depressed after reading this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 04:56 PM |
| – | I think women aren't really attracted to guys in their leagueWe both know this is incredibly untrue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 12:10 PM |
| 7 | Men are shamed for basically having sexual desiresAbout 5000 girls/women are honor killed a year. Some of these girls/women are killed by their male family members for simply talking to a man, or worse, being raped by one. Acting like 5000 innocent girls/women killed a year is nothing is pretty fucked up. 170,000 innocent girls/women have been killed by the men that were supposed to love and protect them just in my lifetime. That's horrific. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 08:27 PM |
| 4 | For women, how does it feel when your dating a guy who's statistically is also dating/sleeping other women.I would never filter by looks. I was the type to thoroughly read the profile. If I thought we had nothing in common or wouldn't get along, even if he was good looking, I wouldn't bother. I've gone on lots of dates with unattractive guys because I liked their profile and pictures. I would never go on dates with a guy who I thought could potentially be sleeping around. I've never done that and would never want that in a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 03:01 PM |
| – | Do you at least recognize being told you're dangerous just because you're a man is wrong?I'm going to be honest, I'm not entirely sure what your point is. "How many are a way to cover up their cheating?" Less than you'd probably expect. That's what the cops told me I was doing. They even called my bf (my emergency contact at the time) and told him that I'm liar and just regret cheating on him. I had 3 cops interrogating me like I was the bad guy, repeatedly asking me why I'm lying. The guy was never even brought in for questioning. I was never brought to the hospital. No rape kit wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Is it Beta/Weak for a Woman to ‘change’ a Man?Sounds like they deserve each other. Match made in hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Is it Beta/Weak for a Woman to ‘change’ a Man?Let's be realistic, they probably never will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 10:40 PM |
| – | Do you at least recognize being told you're dangerous just because you're a man is wrong?It's literally a well known fact. Do an ounce of research on the topic. Hell, I reported mine and you know where it went, fucking nowhere. If anything, I added to the false accusation statistics, which I now firmly believe are inflated because of shit cops. I just got told over and over I was a liar, and why am I lying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Is it Beta/Weak for a Woman to ‘change’ a Man?The men you describe sound like betas. Weak and pitiful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 10:16 PM |
| – | Do you at least recognize being told you're dangerous just because you're a man is wrong?None of what you said negates anything I said. You also have to remember, the vast majority of rapes aren't reported or talked about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 09:35 PM |
| – | Do you at least recognize being told you're dangerous just because you're a man is wrong?There have been 413 school shootings in the USA since Columbine. I think there's been like maybe 15 in my country since like the 1900s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 09:33 PM |
| – | Do you at least recognize being told you're dangerous just because you're a man is wrong?If it's such a small percentage of men, how have 1 in 6 women American women been victims of attempted or completed rape? Seems like a lot to me. Old stat, but still noteworthy: As of 1998, an estimated 17.7 million American women had been victims of attempted or completed rape (2.78 million men in the U.S. had been victims of attempted or completed rape). That means there are MILLIONS of rapists just casually walking around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Do you really believe men were happier in their romantic relationships in the past, according to current standards?Definitely can't get valium or xanax (legally) where I live. I get panic attacks and deal with intense anxiety... and can fall into terrible pits of depression. I asked for ativan and my doctor looked at me like I was some sort of crazed junkie. Best I've ever been offered is wellbutrin :( Another part of the mythology women have built up around housewives Nah, my boss was talking about how she did them herself too (when she was young and for fun). Then my boss man (her husband) chimed in and sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 08:17 PM |
| – | Do you at least recognize being told you're dangerous just because you're a man is wrong?No I don't. The only thing I really worry about is drunk drivers. Mass shooting dont actually happen that often Do you live under a rock? I'm not even American and I know they are scarily common in the states. Quick google search: This is a list of mass shootings that took place in the United States in 2024. Mass shootings are incidents in which several people are injured or killed due to firearm-related violence, specifically for the purposes of this article, a total of four or more victims. As… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 08:10 PM |
| – | Do you at least recognize being told you're dangerous just because you're a man is wrong?On the bright side, my son starts kindy next week and I don't have to worry about him being mowed down by madman while finger painting. I'm pretty sure in the USA guns are the leading cause of death in children. I'm gonna google! Yes! In 2020 and 2021, firearms contributed to the deaths of more children ages 1-17 years in the U.S. than any other type of injury or illness. That's beyond fucked up. I can't imagine living somewhere so backwards that normalizes this! Not only that, people fight for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 07:31 PM |
| – | Do you at least recognize being told you're dangerous just because you're a man is wrong?In my country, if someone were to use a gun to protect themselves, they'd go to jail, even if someone broke into their home. You CANNOT use a weapon or anything that could be deemed as a weapon to protect yourself. Carrying mace or knife is also illegal. So if you were attacked and hurt the person with either of those things and they were worse off than yourself, you'd be charged. Very backwards and I hate it because you can't protect yourself outside your home or even in it. My dad's dog had to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 07:16 PM |
| 6 | Is it Beta/Weak for a Woman to ‘change’ a Man?Men always cry about women not taking responsibility for their actions, yet in the same vein never hold men accountable. They just blame women for the shit ways of men. So hypocritical. I'm 34, btw. Almost all the "hoes" my age were married to the deadbeat dad at some point before he split or was kicked out for cheating. Also, in my teens my best friend was a guy. Like we had countless sleep overs. We were inseparable. He practically lived at my house since his home life sucked. I genuinely thou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 05:00 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsI've been to Edmonton because once upon a time I thought about living there. I just could never. I don't care if it's weak or whatever, but I know my mental health would plummet to abysmal levels with those kind of winters as well. I have a bladder disease, if I feel cold, my bladder for some reasons feels like its gonna explode. I think it's because I get so tense. I don't know. It's the same reason I can't swim in pools or lakes, too dang cold and it makes my bladder scream. So, in Edmonton, I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 04:44 PM |
| 0 | Do you really believe men were happier in their romantic relationships in the past, according to current standards?Wow, I can see that you are extremely triggered and feeling very emotional. I know that when someone is having such big emotions it can be hard to concentrate and be rational, so I don't fault you for your reply. However, I never claimed there was an equal amount of women, just that there wasn't none. Perhaps you need to excuse yourself so you can take some deep breaths and then you can come back and reread my comments with a cleared head :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 04:18 PM |
| 7 | Is it Beta/Weak for a Woman to ‘change’ a Man?Who would've thunk that an epidemic of dead beat dads would cause kids to be fucked up. Sounds like men NEED to take advice, at least from someone, since they are so shit at being dads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 04:12 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsSounds like you're pretty old. Times have changed. My parents would say it was no problem raising kids where im from (vancouver island). My mom bought her house for only 100,000. She was a secretary. It would sell now for over a mil. No secretaries will ever buy that house on their own, if ever. My dad bought his old place for 130,000, if he didn't sell it years ago, it would be worth over 1.4 mil. It was a 2 bed 1 bath house on half an acre. Now he lives with me because he fucked up financially… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 04:09 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsNone of that is applicable to where I live. People making good wages really struggle here. I'm in canada. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 03:32 PM |
| 11 | Is it Beta/Weak for a Woman to ‘change’ a Man?It takes strength and determination to change yourself for the better. Only weak men disregard good advice, especially if it's from a woman. How fragile a man do you have to be to disregard a woman's advice simply because she's a woman? Pathetic behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 03:27 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsFor one kid in my area, day care costs like 1400 a month. That alone is horrifically expensive. I know if you're super poor, you can get a subsidy and they'll take like $200 off. Also, the average cost of renting a room in someones apartment is like 1200 or more. You'd need a whole apartment if you have a kid, so that will be close to $3000. Costs dramatically increase when you have a kid. I just have one. I always dreamed of a big family. Financially, though, it's impossible. I'll probably only… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 03:11 PM |
| – | Do you at least recognize being told you're dangerous just because you're a man is wrong?I was a teenager boy once, I know what they are like My dad has quite literally said this multiple times when I was a teen and I thought a boy might love me and not just want sex. Spoiler alert, my dad was always right. Also, when I travel any sort of distance (I used to frequently drive about 2hrs away for appointments), my husband told me to text him each time I stop (I have bladder issues and need to use the restroom frequently) and tell him which rest stop I'm at and then also text him when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Do you really believe men were happier in their romantic relationships in the past, according to current standards?Okay, well there is significantly more men who do that. Glad to know they are dipshits and it doesn't matter what happens to them since we don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Do you really believe men were happier in their romantic relationships in the past, according to current standards?Nah, today has got nothing on the drugs they had the pleasure of using back then. I want them to bring back the good stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you really believe men were happier in their romantic relationships in the past, according to current standards?I've dated multiple short men. This has never been the case for them. Not saying it doesn't happen, but I don't think it's nearly as frequent as you think. Also, growing up, it was almost never girls who made comments about guys looks, it was always other guys. Almost all my bullies were guys. All the guys that got picked on at school were by other guys, and maybe some girls would laugh. Not saying that's how it always is. That's just my lived experience. Also, when I've dated ugly guys it was N… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Do you really believe men were happier in their romantic relationships in the past, according to current standards?My preferred policy is for all women to be forced to fight and all men to be sheltered and subsidized if/when they want to leave. For the next 150 years or so, then we can re-evaluate the policy. LMFAO!!!!! Omg. I can't take this seriously at all. If we use your logic, men should be enslaved for thousands of years first for their treatment and abuse of women since basically the dawn of time. Look what's happening to women in places like Afghanistan. Men are worse than monsters. Nowhere in histor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 02:27 AM |
| 3 | How often do women prioritize chemistry over money and status?Tbf, he said that when I was feeling down on myself. I think he was trying to make me feel better. He's not very good at that, but he makes up for it in other ways :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 01:09 AM |
| 3 | How often do women prioritize chemistry over money and status?Well, my husband has quite literally said he's shallow and would never marry an ugly woman, but personally, I think that's debatable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 01:03 AM |
| 3 | Do you really believe men were happier in their romantic relationships in the past, according to current standards?Genuinely curious, if all the women were also sent to war alongside the men. Who is taking care of the children and the old folk? If they sent just women and kept the men at home. How is that going to turn out for the country? I think we both know. Like, I'm a bleeding heart liberal, I don't think anybody should be sent to war against their will. I don't think wars should even happen, but in this specific situation, men seem to foam at the mouth and get angry at women because men are being sent … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 01:00 AM |
| 3 | I think there's a simple way to get people to understand why men shouldn't risk their lives for strangers.I don't know, man. You do you. I just wouldn't be able to do nothing in these situations. Like if it were a child, I'm going down. I can't fight for shit, but you best believe I'm giving it my best shot. Maybe the kid would be able to run away while I get shanked in their place. How would the women here feel about their husband or boyfriend being killed or jailed because he risked his life over a stranger? I've already told him he's never allowed to play hero. I'm replaceable. I'm parasite. He i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 12:53 AM |
| 2 | How often do women prioritize chemistry over money and status?Why do you ask? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 12:41 AM |
| 3 | Do you really believe men were happier in their romantic relationships in the past, according to current standards?After a quick google, it's 15.6% Over 900 women held senior command positions, including 109 platoon commanders and 12 company commanders. Do these women simply not exist to you since there is more men? Are there lives not equally valued? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 12:39 AM |
| 5 | Do you really believe men were happier in their romantic relationships in the past, according to current standards?First of all, we're all just collectively going to agree that whatever anecdote someone tells on here needs to be accepted as truth? Have you never talked to anyone older, like ever? My mom is 70. She tells me fucked up shit all the time. She knows women, who were girls at the time, who got pregnant. The only choice back then was to have the baby, but it was so shameful that these girls are shipped off to distant relatives who live far away so nobody will know. Once they give birth the baby is t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 12:35 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI like her and find her honesty both refreshing and relatable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 11:29 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThese women are probably talking about long term relationships. Guys will secretly fuck Shrek's grandma, but he sure as shit won't introduce her to his friends or family. He's taking it to the grave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 11:25 PM |
| 0 | How often do women prioritize chemistry over money and status?100% chemistry, at least for me. My husband was broke af and still living with his parents when we met. Literally every guy I've ever dated was better off financially than him. They aren't who I married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 11:18 PM |
| 6 | Do you really believe men were happier in their romantic relationships in the past, according to current standards?Just more of this endless female dehumanization of men Did you miss the part where it's my father who lived in the time you're speaking about, has helped solidify my beliefs. He gets nothing out telling me women were treated like shit back in the day. It's just a simple fact. It's his lived experience. All the while these monsters are dying the most horrible deaths imaginable in Ukraine right now, in literally hundreds of thousands, to defend their women and children Protect them from who? Is it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 11:13 PM |
| 10 | Do you really believe men were happier in their romantic relationships in the past, according to current standards?My boss grew up on the Pennsylvania mainline. From my understanding, these are wealthy people. She's talked about growing up with a black servant/butler person. She's said every husband cheated. Like every single one. It was normal. The wives had to turn a blind eye and pretend not to care. Also housewives took a certain kind of drug since they were all so miserable. I can't for the life of me remember what it was called. But it sounded great and I wish it were still a thing. But my dad who is 8… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 10:26 PM |
| 2 | If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phoneWe both know that's not the part I'm talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 05:04 PM |
| 3 | If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phoneThis seems really crazy. I'd be so repulsed by a man like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 04:59 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADWhere are you from? Its the norm in Canada and the US | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 02:47 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADDespite what men want to believe, looks aren't everything. Some ugly men won't struggle at all with dating because they have an amazing personality. Some good looking dudes will struggle because their attitude is shit or they have anti social tendencies, shy, anxious, etc. So many factors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 02:00 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThis isn't true at all. They tried to take mine multiple times and i basically had to yell at them to fuck off and stop trying to take the baby. Also, so many women in mom groups will suggest having the nurse take the baby to the baby room or whatever so you can rest and sleep. It still happens all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 01:56 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNow you're just wasting time. I could never wait that long. I'd never get those years back. Also, it doesn't take that long to know if you want to marry someone. You should know pretty quickly. If they are still unsure by a year, like they genuinely don't know if they'd marry you one day, dump them and move on. They'll never be sure and might just end up settling for you or leaving you for someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 01:51 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI think it all depends. Definitely raises red flags, but sometimes you know this is it. That's how I felt with my husband. I would've eloped like 2 weeks in had he asked. He proposed on our 1 year anniversary. We didn't bother to wait after that. We got married like a month later. We've been married 6 and half years now. No regrets! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 01:47 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI actually think he's quite handsome. His glasses, hair, and sullen face just aren't helping things. I'd give him a 7, but I think if he really tried he'd be an 8. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 01:34 PM |
| 2 | How does a bad mother effect a person when they reach adulthood ?(Sorry this is so long, please just bear with me and read it. If you don't have the time, just skip to the last two paragraphs) My first abuser was a woman as well. She physically, sexually, and emotionally abused me for the first 10 years of my life. She was my day care lady (one of the main reasons I'd rather die than send my kid to day care). I never knew it was wrong. I told my mom when I was 12 and no longer going there when it all finally clicked. I went to school with the day care lady's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 01:25 PM |
| 5 | How does a bad mother effect a person when they reach adulthood ?I think the problem here is that men commit crimes at astronomically higher rates than women. So you think women aren't getting the same negative attention, when really it's just not nearly as many women doing awful shit. Males constituted 98.9% of those arrested for forcible rape • Males constituted 87.9% of those arrested for robbery • Males constituted 85.0% of those arrested for burglary • Males constituted 83.0% of those arrested for arson, • Males constituted 81.7% of those arrested for va… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 04:26 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADSome days, like today, I wish I used all that female privilege to marry a rich man. Instead, I married for love, and now I'll work until the day I die😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 01:44 AM |
| 14 | How does a bad mother effect a person when they reach adulthood ?We see them all the time. I can think of so many off the top of my head: Carrie's mother, from the book/movie. Norma Bates Matilda's mother Mother gothel from Tangled. Precious's mother Cercei Lannister Smurf from animal kingdom (one of my favorite shows) Zira from the lion King 2 Do evil step mothers count because those are a dime a dozen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 01:39 AM |
| – | It is worth sacrificing a marriage for a paternity test.Sometimes they'll come out looking like your spitting image. My son didn't come out looking like the typical chubby baby that all look the same. He was a clone of his father. Had there been any doubt, his looks would have cleared everything up. There was no mistaking who his father was. I pray you have the same experience! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 09:28 PM |
| – | It is worth sacrificing a marriage for a paternity test.I wonder how receptive women would be if you asked for a paternity test long before ever conceiving. Frame it as anxiety. I don't know. It's just that it always implies that you dont trust and think they are cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 08:54 PM |
| 3 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.you would see him as an animal for just having the desire to sleep with other women. No. I would see him as an animal if he acted on those urges. there is not much of an incentive to share it with you You don't even know me, lmao. You know nothing about my relationship. All you're doing is making wild assumptions. He is not shy with me, nor I with him. If he felt a certain way, he'd tell me. He doesn't hide sexual stuff from me. I know his exact type. I know what kind of porn he consumes and wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 04:12 PM |
| 3 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.I mean it wouldn't be disloyal if you allowed it. Yes it would. I could turn a blind eye but I'd still feel betrayed and hurt. It would destroy the feelings I have for him. He wouldn't be the good man I thought he was. if he has a desire of sleeping with someone he would clearly keep it to himself False. We are very open and candid with each other and talk sexually very frequently. When we watch trash shows we ask each other who we think is hot and if we'd bang, etc. I even talked to him about t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 02:40 PM |
| 4 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.It isn't a matter of not letting him, he simply doesn't want to. I don't think he's even capable of doing something like that. If he was, or I thought so, I wouldn't love him, I wouldn't like him, and I'd be severely repulsed by him. I think men who are disloyal like that are the lowest of the low. Literally no better than a dog that humps whatever it wants. They are basically animals with no sense of loyalty. When we got together at 26, he'd only slept with 2 people, not because he couldn't get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 02:13 PM |
| 7 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.No! I never did. They just threw all the antibiotics at me and eventually it shifted to whatever it was to a yeast infection which took, again, freaking months to get rid of!! I went to my GP after the other two doctors took a look and were appalled. I'd taken weeks and weeks of antibiotics and I could tell I now had a yeast infection, but the over the counter meds were doing squat. He didn't believe me, said it was impossible, and asked who the other doctors were. He said he knew one of them an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 09:55 PM |
| 4 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.I have no idea what you're talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do we men have to lie about loving the way she is?So men aren't actually capable of love. They only really like how a woman looks, and if that's gone, so is she. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 07:02 PM |
| 6 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAnd then they cry about women only wanting Chads. I'm convinced red pill is just a whole lot of projection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 06:52 PM |
| 9 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.You can revert to my previous comment. You're basically asking the same questions. You're describing a terrible person. Terrible men with no morals and the inability to actually love their wife are beyond low value men. You might actually be describing a psychopath. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 06:48 PM |
| 15 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.Why would I break up with someone who I love and adore? Why would I break up with my husband and the father of my child when I don't want to? Why would I destroy our family when it would make both of us miserable? He married me knowing my health issues. He CHOSE me when he had infinite options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 06:44 PM |
| 12 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.A HVM would never cheat, it wouldn't even cross his mind. A HVM can control himself, btw. A HVM isn't a slave to his sexual urges. A HVM would also prioritize his wife's health and his marriage over an orgasm. What you're describing is an extremely low value man and a pathetically insecure woman who enables him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 06:41 PM |
| 7 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.Eh, I have a bladder disease that primarily effects women. It makes sex painful for most and causes a host of other issues, like living on the toilet and pissing a fiery droplet every 5 minutes. It feels like your bladder is going to burst even when there's nothing in there. I'm in a few groups for it. The men always get extremely angry with these women. The whole, "if you really loved me you'd let me fuck you even if the pain makes you scream" is a dime a dozen. They also frequently cheat on th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 06:36 PM |
| 11 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.Nope, because I was in agony. I was either pregnant af and couldn't move without horrible pain, or I was postpartum and had an infection that went on for MONTHS, which absolutely fucked another health issue I had that caused nothing but pain. I was struggling to walk. Also, I got an infection in my breasts from my fucky milk production, so my boobs were a nightmare as well. On top of this I was taking care of a newborn. I only slept when my husband got home from work and before he went to bed. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 06:30 PM |
| 10 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability.I had lots of health issues during and after pregnancy that prevented sex. My husband went well over a year without. Wanna know what he didn't do? Cheat, because he's not a despicable piece of shit, which all cheaters are. There is simply no excuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 05:20 PM |
| – | Question for “traditional” men: Do you recognize that traditional gender roles put women at a disadvantage? If so, does this bother you? Or conversely, do you like the power imbalance?this is a laugh. Men don't care about feeding, housing, or clothing themselves? So men who aren't interested in either of those things are mostly homeless, starving and naked? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 05:17 PM |
| – | Question for “traditional” men: Do you recognize that traditional gender roles put women at a disadvantage? If so, does this bother you? Or conversely, do you like the power imbalance?This isn't realistic at all. Almost every single stay at home mom I know stays home because it's cheaper than sending a kid to daycare. It's part of the reason I stayed home. If you have 2 kids, you're looking at nearly 3 grand a month in daycare in my area. So many people rent nowadays too. For the average woman, best case scenario she gets a few hundred bucks a month after the divorce in child support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 05:12 PM |
| – | Question for “traditional” men: Do you recognize that traditional gender roles put women at a disadvantage? If so, does this bother you? Or conversely, do you like the power imbalance?The median home price in my area is around a mil. My dump of house (a fixer upper) cost 675K (3 bed 1 bath) and it's out in the boonies (25 min drive to the nearest gas station) and has a terribly steep driveway. You have to park on an incline. It was the cheapest house I'd seen in years. Still is, lmao. Town houses are closer to 959k or more in my area because they are in town. I am not. Average cost of a duplex is 897k I'm NOT anywhere near a major city. Town house in a major city would be wel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 05:07 PM |
| – | Question for “traditional” men: Do you recognize that traditional gender roles put women at a disadvantage? If so, does this bother you? Or conversely, do you like the power imbalance?In my province it would pretty much buy nothing. Wouldn't even be a down payment on a house unless you're a high earner. Even with trailers you'd still have a mortgage, plus pad rent for the trailer is like $1000+ a month on top of a mortgage. So it's basically a rip off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 04:52 PM |
| – | Question for “traditional” men: Do you recognize that traditional gender roles put women at a disadvantage? If so, does this bother you? Or conversely, do you like the power imbalance?Are you saying men who don't have family's don't work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADOnly someone extremely insecure would think this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 12:00 AM |
| 2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI didn't say he was over sensitive, and I still don't have a damn clue why he'd be upset in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 11:47 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI genuinely have no clue why he's upset in the first place. He seems over sensitive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 11:43 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI genuinely don't see the problem with him being a 6. He needs to be realistic. Seems stupid to leave her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 11:35 PM |
| -2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI'm confused. Why does he want to leave his gf because she thinks he's a 6? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 06:06 PM |
| 12 | Debate: Men are forced to support women other than the ones that love them; the opposite is not true.So I just looked up the statistics. For 2023: the unemployment rate for the male labor force in the United States stood at 3.8 percent. The unemployment rate among the female labor force in the United States stood at 3.5 percent Women are literally contributing more than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 02:13 PM |
| 2 | How come introverted men seem less attractive to women than extroverted men?It was extremely difficult. We met when I was 17. I didn't ask him out until I was almost 27, and I only had the courage to do that because he told a mutual friend of ours that I had pretty eyes. I spent the next month angsting over what he said before I had the guts to ask our mutual friend to give him my number. Had he never told her my eyes were pretty, I'd have never made a move. He texted me almost right away. On our third date, he told me he thought I was way out of his league and he was s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 06:41 PM |
| -2 | How come introverted men seem less attractive to women than extroverted men?I don't know. Genuinely. I look in the mirror and see a hideous face. My husband, imo, is attractive. He's an average guy. He tells me he's shallow and would not have married an ugly woman, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 07:10 AM |
| 12 | How come introverted men seem less attractive to women than extroverted men?I'm a shy awkward woman who has quite literally never been asked out. So, I'm just going to have to respectfully disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 12:57 AM |
| 5 | How come introverted men seem less attractive to women than extroverted men?I'm an introvert who is mostly repulsed by extroverts, at least sexually. I've only briefly dated one extrovert and it was exhausting. My husband is quite introverted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 11:27 PM |
| 13 | How come introverted men seem less attractive to women than extroverted men?Shy awkward women are cute IF they are cute. Same can be said for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 11:25 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADTbf, statistically and factually woman are. To deny it, is to deny reality, which just means you're delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 09:26 PM |
| – | Do you actually only find a tiny fraction of men attractive?I notice ALL men. My mental acknowledgement of them vary depending on what I like/dislike about them. My brain just goes non-stop, so if I see something (someone), I have thoughts about it/them. When it comes to men, they are often sexual. I'm also attracted to certain women. My thoughts are rarely sexual about women though since I'm INCREDIBLY picky in that regard, but it can happen for the right ones. I think about the random guy I drive by. The guy at the bus stop. The guy walking into the ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 03:00 AM |
| – | Do you actually only find a tiny fraction of men attractive?I have no idea. It's just how I've always been. I'm 34 if it matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 10:54 PM |
| – | Do you actually only find a tiny fraction of men attractive?I must be an outlier, because I'd say most men are attractive in some way. I am not particularly picky. I would say I look at men like how men look at women. Very sexually, haha! Like I check out almost ALL men and make some sort of assessment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 09:51 PM |
| 1 | You have heard about "Not like other Girls". Can we talk about "Not Like other boys"?I'm not American. Anyways, I got deeply into religion in my late teens and did the whole church thing for awhile. Spent most my time around religious folk. My "beliefs" are from experience. It's one of the main reasons I can't stand religion, especially religious men (of pretty much any religion). So I will reiterate, those men are perverts. They practically salivated over their daughters and other girls. I 100% believe purity isn't for the benefit of women/girls. It's a kink for men who want to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 04:25 PM |
| 1 | You have heard about "Not like other Girls". Can we talk about "Not Like other boys"?People, particularly men, are definitely perverts if they obsess over their daughters' virginity. Especially when it comes to purity culture. Think purity rings and purity balls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 04:04 PM |
| 1 | You have heard about "Not like other Girls". Can we talk about "Not Like other boys"?You can be against premarital sex without pushing your beliefs onto others. I'm sure my father wouldn't wanted me to have sex as much as I did when I was younger, but he gave me the facts, explained the dangers, showed my all the kinds of protection there are, and that is that. That's what you do when you aren't a creepy pervert. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 01:40 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI'm kinda like that. I can't help it. Open book at all. Just falls out. After my first date with my husband, I'm pretty sure he knew my entire life story. Also, I think it's part insecurity. I tell someone all the awful things about me first, so that way they'll leave me now instead of later when I'm attached. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 10:18 PM |
| 2 | You have heard about "Not like other Girls". Can we talk about "Not Like other boys"?Fathers who worry about their daughter's sexual experiences are "perverts" I didn't say anything of the sort. I said men who safeguard their daughter's virginity and are desperate to protect her "virtue" are perverts who want it for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 06:25 PM |
| 3 | You have heard about "Not like other Girls". Can we talk about "Not Like other boys"?I said nothing about her getting filmed. I said I'd worry like I'd worry about literally everything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 12:29 AM |
| 8 | You have heard about "Not like other Girls". Can we talk about "Not Like other boys"?I don't think you read a single word I wrote. Try again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 12:07 AM |
| 4 | You have heard about "Not like other Girls". Can we talk about "Not Like other boys"?I'd be worried if she became a flagger (someone who directs traffic around construction). I'd be worried if she wanted to be cop or a firefighter. I'd worry if she volunteered to help homeless people. I'd worry when she starts driving or goes on her first date. I'd worry about the people she dates not treating her proper. I'd worry about the people at her work not treating her proper. I'd worry about the kids at school not treating her proper. I'll worry about her first day of kindergarten and i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 11:57 PM |
| 7 | You have heard about "Not like other Girls". Can we talk about "Not Like other boys"?As a minor, hell no. As an adult, I'd have zero say. I'd worry a lot and voice my concern, but I can't tell her what to do. I also wouldn't want to push her away. I'd want her to feel safe coming to me should anything go wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 11:35 PM |
| 4 | You have heard about "Not like other Girls". Can we talk about "Not Like other boys"?I feel like my husband genuinely wouldn't care about his daughter's n count because he's not pervert that would focus on that sort of thing. I can't even imagine it crossing his mind. I genuinely believe father's who try to protect their daughters' virginity/virtue want it for themselves, plain and simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 11:31 PM |
| 0 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI'm not talking about males. I'm talking about trans women, obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 08:32 PM |
| 0 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADSo even if she has a vagina, he slept with a man? Kinda seems like nonsense to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 08:29 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThese men sound absolutely insane and dangerous. Commit them all. Problem solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 03:37 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADHave you not been around many children? They are almost all like that to some degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 03:35 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI have a son that is 5 and half. This is such nonsense, lmao! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 03:33 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADWell, factually speaking, there aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 10:53 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADStatistically, I don't give a shit what statistics say. One child is too many. It should NEVER be able to happen, period, end of story. The fact that you're okay with it because "federal blah blah blah" is appalling. It's genuinely morbid and twisted. You know what I do? Not live in the states that ban what I want. Again, I'm not talking about women. I'm talking about children. you have it made in the USA I don't live in the usa and never would, doesn't mean I won't speak out for the women and c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 10:52 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADBetter than being weak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 09:52 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADSay all that again, but while looking in the mirror. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 09:47 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI genuinely have no clue what you're going on about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 09:46 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADLol, no. That's basically meaningless. That's on men for being weak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 09:35 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNah, he was one of my best friends in high school. I actually never saw this coming. He did NOT want anything to do with this kid because the mom was, in his mind, really ugly. Have you seen Ed from 90 day fiance? She has whatever he has i think. She's super short, skinny twig legs, big round body and no neck. So she was fine to bang, but not to have a family with. It disgusted me. I even asked him to imagine if it were me (we'd slept together a few times and dated for awhile), would you have do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 09:34 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD98% of abortions are not because of rape. That you know of. We know the vast majority of rapes, like 80% are unreported. Hell, I tried to report mine and they called me a liar, I was 19. Another time they called the guys heroes and angels since they called 911 when they noticed I was dying. I ended up in the ICU. Nothing happened to them. Nobody cared. I was 14. Anyways who the fuck cares why somebody is having abortion? It's nobodies business. I do think rape is the only exception. Then you'd t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 09:25 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADLMAO, what? There are countries where women are raped so much its common for them to have fistulas in their vagina. I guess women are just mentally stronger since men have it so easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 09:16 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADHow do you suppose a 10 year old moves states by herself? I think a lot of people forget CHILDREN are getting abortions, as they mostly should. Except now they can't, even if they are raped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 09:04 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADMen don't have to take responsibility for their kids at all. Occasionally they are told to pay child support. My friend's baby daddy was court ordered to pay $15 a month in child support. Fifteen fucking dollars. It's insulting. Cant even buy diapers or formula with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 09:03 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThere are 195 countries. In only 14 women have equality. So I'm going to have to assume women aren't the insane ones here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 09:01 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI'm genuinely not seeing the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 07:29 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI don't. I'm introverted and almost strictly attracted to other introverts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 07:26 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYou've never been in a moms group have you? Women challenge each other constantly. I've gotten in multiple arguments just today with a few! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 07:24 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI just googled this. I'm not familiar with it really. Apparently mine is 20. I'll be sure to let my husband know that should he be feeling a little down, or not particularly confident, that he should just think of my BMI and all his problems will disappear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 07:21 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADHow was society rebuilt? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 07:11 PM |
| 11 | quick poll: would you date and/or have sex with a virgin man that is middle aged?Honestly, I'd probably prefer it. I feel like I could rock his world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Would you date someone who is bisexual?I'm bi and I genuinely wish my husband was as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 09:40 PM |
| 1 | The Issue is MenHis best friend is a younger pretty boy with a nose piercing. He's kinda flamboyant. I thought he was gay. So did my husband until he got to know him. The guy is like 5'5 and drowns in women. Otherwise, most of his friends are women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 08:37 PM |
| 2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADbody proportions/level of fitness wouldnt change yet a bunch of women wouldnt be with the man if he lost some height I completely disagree. Short stocky guys look WAY different than tall muscular guys. They are in the same category, but their bodies just look dramatically different. Shrink those tall dudes and I think they could look wildly different, even if still incredibly built. I'm 5'6" as well. In most shoes I'm taller than my husband. I don't care. I've never thought about it, just like I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 08:32 PM |
| 4 | CMV: women aren't empathetic caring individualsTbf, women are more empathetic and nurturing than men. I don't believe most men are capable of either, but then again, a lot of women fit into that category as well... just not quite as many. However, plenty of men will stand on a podium and claim women are the loving, nurturing, empathetic ones and need to stay home and take care of their kids/man, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 07:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Your wife is not your mommy. Wives should stop enabling husbands.Just yesterday I watched a video of a stay at home dad that was overwhelmed and in tears. I wish I could find it. He was talking about how it wasn't easy or fun, and so many women were empathizing with his grief in the comments. Men need to see it. Maybe if they heard it from other men they'd finally believe that it ain't easy or fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 07:35 PM |
| 8 | CMV: women aren't empathetic caring individualsChange the title to "People in General," then I'd agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 07:28 PM |
| 0 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADJust like a lot of women wouldn't find love. I used to be fat. My husband has said if he met me then he wouldn't have been attracted to me and we wouldn't have happened. He's 5'6" btw, I've never thought of him as short. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 07:23 PM |
| 0 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADLove and sexual attraction are not mutually exclusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 07:18 PM |
| 1 | The Issue is MenI wonder if location matters because my husband feels none of these things. He's never felt pressured in any kind of way to be a certain kind of man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 06:52 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI have quite literally never thought about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 06:39 PM |
| – | CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women.Literally EVERY man I've dated long term (besides my husband) has commented on my labia. One even suggested surgery to make them smaller. ALL of them hated the color (it isn't a pretty pink). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Is having an income greater than minimum wage a prerequisite to dating past age 22? Or even past age 23?Not a thing where I live. Low income housing is like an 8 year wait for homeless single parents. You'll never get in as a person without kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Many women who complain that men only ever want one thing don't seem to offer much elseYou do realize ugly guys do this too, right? You're hopelessly naive if you don't think certain people aren't convincing liars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 07:56 PM |
| 2 | AMALTIt's great with my husband. All the other guys were absolute shit, yes. Not jaded. Just honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 12:05 AM |
| 2 | AMALTI've never slept with tall/attractive men. My husband is literally the tallest man I've been with. He's 5'6". He's also the first guy to genuinely try to get me off. Anyways, you speak about hive minds while parroting one. How typical. I can only speak for myself and the countless women I've talked to on the subject. Take it or leave it, I genuinely don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 12:04 AM |
| 1 | AMALTMen in general couldn't give less of a fuck about women orgasming. 99% of men, ugly or otherwise will NOT bother to try and get a woman off. He may fake effort, but he gets angry and bored, and will complain if she doesn't get off quickly. Women, in my experience, are taught from the get go that our pleasure is irrelevant and worthless. The only thing that matters is his pleasure. If he's not happy he will cheat and/or leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 07:35 PM |
| 5 | The overwhelming majority of people bitching about or even paying attention to “age gap” relationships are undesirable women and virtue signaling menSpent any time around 18 year olds? My husband works with lots. He refers to them as children because that's how they think and behave. I genuinely think you have to be a pervert of some sort to be an adult and attracted to them sexually, especially once you get to know them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 08:29 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNope. Not once. I've heard of "defund the police." That's about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 10:34 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADOh, that's still illegal here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 10:32 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADWhere I live, drugs aren't technically legal, but they are decriminalized under a certain amount. It doesn't really make sense sending a junkie to prison. How does that help them? What will a record do to help them get sober and a good job? Fuck all. Honestly, if there was like a nice and comfy facility for detox/rehabilitation, I wouldn't protest against that as an alternative to prison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 10:23 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI'm super left leaning and have quite literally never heard anyone make those talking points, only that the police and prison systems need major reform. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 10:18 PM |
| 15 | Calling men who you disagree with "Weird" is A Toxic FemininityI've been called weird countless times in my life. Oftentimes, I take a good hard look at who's calling me weird, and I wonder would I want to be like them? The answer is always a resounding no. I'd rather be weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 10:11 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI did at one point when I talked to a doctor about it like a decade ago. I remember one slice of my bread being 50 cal, which I do believe is the same for each rice cake or maybe it's 50 for two. I know like a table spoon of my almond butter is like 100 I believe. But I haven't really looked into it lately. For my work days, I'm on my feet for almost 8 hours except for my 30 min break. When i was pregnant I went from 112 to 160. That's because I ate two fullish meals. No snacks. After my son was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 10:02 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADWhat are her bad choices exactly? Because if i ate 3 meals a day, I'd be around this weight. I used to only eat breakfast (1 piece of toast) and dinner. Chicken breast, spinach and some yam. I weighed 117. I've been feeling like shit since I want to be skinny, but it also means starving. physically, i feel like death. So I've been eating lunch, rice cakes and almond butter and banana. Sometimes, I have some graham crackers if I'm craving sweet. If I'm hungry enough, they kinda taste like oreos. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 08:51 PM |
| – | Have you witnessed the 80/20 thing for women IRL?I've never wanted to go to those kinds of parties. I'm also repulsed by the kinds of guys and franly a lot of the girls who go to them. I'm extra repulsed by extroverted guys. I find them exhausting and fake, even if maybe they're not. I genuinely can't stand them I dated an extrovert once. He was short and fat, but I didn't care. What bothered me was all the trips, traveling, and the millions of friends and activities. I couldn't do it. I just want to stay home with my one person and be quiet t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 01:30 PM |
| – | Have you witnessed the 80/20 thing for women IRL?See, I was never invited to those parties. I was a 'loser' who hung out with similar people. Even the ugly awkward geeks had ugly awkward girlfriends. There was one kid, a fat baby faced ginger that all the guys made fun of. He still had girlfriends. He was married long before me. I remember kissing him once in front of his mom to make him blush. He'd turn tomato red and we all thought it was funny. Oh god. I just had a memory. We had this guy in our friend group. Super dorky. Acne. Super gay an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 03:28 PM |
| – | Double StandardI think we are looks matched, but I have a lot of health issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 03:16 PM |
| 6 | Double StandardIf I had to guess, they don't know how or why he puts up with me. That I'm lucky. They don't understand why he's with me or why he chose me. That he could do better. My mom has said those things to my face. My dad like a month a go told me he can tell my husband is still in lust with me. I asked how he knew. His answer: because he's still with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 01:32 AM |
| 3 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADMy husband is 5'6" he's never felt short or been told he's short. I've never thought of him as short. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 01:11 AM |
| 14 | Double StandardI like to spoil my husband. He was 26 and still living with his parents when we met. I owned my own condo, etc. Literally no one has ever said anything of the sort to me. Everyone acts like he settled and I'm so lucky he tolerates me. Including my family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Where Does the Notion that "Men are More Romantic" Come From?Like a linked bank account? No. Average. Dad bod, 5'6". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Where Does the Notion that "Men are More Romantic" Come From?I didn't settle. He just doesn't do these things. It's not his nature. If I did nothing for him, he wouldn't care. He even tells me to do nothing so things aren't inequal. I can't remember the last time I cooked dinner or did laundry. So I guess it works out, lol. He knows I hate both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 08:13 PM |
| 4 | Where Does the Notion that "Men are More Romantic" Come From?No man has done any of that for me or anyone I know. Like, I'm married, he's amazing and I love him, but there isn't a romantic bone in his body. I'm super romantic, but it fizzles out if it's not reciprocated. In every relationship, I'd plan dates, get gifts, hide little love notes, etc, but it's NEVER been reciprocated. I also love texts throughout the day, letting me know he's thinking of me, especially if I'm having a bad day/hard time. Naturally, this has never happened for me. I'm also the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Women of PPD. If you are in a happy LTR, did your "fall in love at first sight" or did you fall in love over time? If so, what made that happen? Also, did any of you initially dislike / hate your husband / BF only to fall enough with him later? If so, how did it happen?Not to my knowledge. Between the two of us, he's the "normal" one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD. If you are in a happy LTR, did your "fall in love at first sight" or did you fall in love over time? If so, what made that happen? Also, did any of you initially dislike / hate your husband / BF only to fall enough with him later? If so, how did it happen?I haven't! I don't know if I'm talented enough for that. I might one day give it a go. Since you like it, I'll tell you more. When i was 17, the first time we met was actually kind of funny. He'd just started working with that mutual friend. She had such a huge crush on him. She had me meet her after work one day and come with her to see if he wanted to hang out. She didn't have the guts to ask by herself. So we found him stocking shelves. He was super cute. Kinda nerdy at the time. She introduc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 02:50 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: To those who think men and women are equal, why have women's leagues, women's bathrooms, women's clothes, why even call yourselves "women"?My husband is insecure about how he looks. He swims in a t-shirt at the lake. Anyways, lots of men have insecurities. Are you saying any man that doesn't fit your idea of masculinity is a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 12:23 AM |
| 8 | Q4W: To those who think men and women are equal, why have women's leagues, women's bathrooms, women's clothes, why even call yourselves "women"?Only women care about when men think. Today I learned that my husband is a woman because he oftentimes cares about what his peers think of him. I guess that means my dad is a woman. Oh, and literally every gym bro I've ever met is also now a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 11:39 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: To those who think men and women are equal, why have women's leagues, women's bathrooms, women's clothes, why even call yourselves "women"?WHY do you wear women's clothes? Because they fit me properly. men don't care about this Men do care. They are quite literally the reason why I won't wear certain things or go topless. Men will say horrifically cruel things. I've had them said to me too many times to count. They are the reason I lack confidence to begin with. They are why I haven't worn a bathing suit or shorts in over a decade. Too many said nasty things about how I look. Granted they weren't strangers, but it lets me know what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 11:16 PM |
| 9 | Women of PPD. If you are in a happy LTR, did your "fall in love at first sight" or did you fall in love over time? If so, what made that happen? Also, did any of you initially dislike / hate your husband / BF only to fall enough with him later? If so, how did it happen?I was 17 when I first met my husband. I thought he was hot as hell. I also thought he was a stone cold asshole and didn't like him in the slightest. We were in the same sort of social group. I'd see him occasionally and he was practically best friends with my best friend at the time. In my 20s, I remember even badmouthing him to my mother. He just really rubbed me the wrong way. I started seeing him around more, and god, I just thought he was so fucking hot. It made me angry at myself that I was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 11:07 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: To those who think men and women are equal, why have women's leagues, women's bathrooms, women's clothes, why even call yourselves "women"?why use the women's bathroom? Single bathrooms are fair game. Whichever one is empty I use. For larger bathrooms, lots of places have family restrooms where I live. I usually use those since I often have my son with me. When I'm alone, I use the womens bathroom because I don't want to make a spectacle of myself or make men/boys uncomfortable if I were to walk in. Why do you wear "women's" clothes if you think you are equal? I wear both. My husband complains about it all the time since he can nev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?I mean, there's no good reason for not liking someone who casually smokes weed other than it being a simple preference, which fair enough, to each their own. We both know weed is significantly safer than alcohol, which almost nobody seems to bat an eye at. I know as a mom, I wouldn't worry too much if my teen were smoking weed. Worst case scenario, they get the munchies and eat too much. However, I'd be scared shitless if I found out they were drinking since way too much can go wrong. I'd also w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?Where I live, BC westcoast, weed stores are everywhere. Almost nobody cares if you smoke weed. Personally, I'd prefer someone who casually smokes weed over someone who casually drinks, 100%. Could never be with a cigarette smoker, though. Can't stand the smell or the phlegmy coughs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 03:45 PM |
| -2 | I've found that, contrary to what women say, one's ability to be friends with women and one's ability to be romantic with them are unrelatedMy husband is an average dude and lots of women like him. He doesn't talk to anybody differently from what I can tell. We met through one of his groups of friends, which were women. A couple were interested but he turned them down. I don't even see a difference between how he talks to his mom compared to his buddies. He can't flirt and has zero game. It's very cringy if he tries. He's one of those guys where 'just be yourself' holds true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Why Do Women Demand Equality But Then Want Men Who Are Superior to them?Women/childreb are literally dying and being denied life saving abortions, and that's your response? That MEN choose to circumsize their sons. Men could just, you know, NOT circumcise their sons, but for some perverted reason they always say they want their boy to look like daddy. Name me one life saving hospital procedure that is now frequently and legally denied to men and now they are fleeing to other states to survive and get said procedure. Also, post multiple articles where men are left wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 10:00 PM |
| – | Why Do Women Demand Equality But Then Want Men Who Are Superior to them?You're joking, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many guys have a seething hatred for single moms?All average dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many guys have a seething hatred for single moms?I'm a mom who knows tons of moms. I've never once seen this (might be my age, I'm 34). Closest I can say is long term, seemingly nice bf, always said he wants kids, blah blah blah, just ups and ditches once she's preggo or shortly after the baby is born. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 06:41 PM |
| 1 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?Hernan drago, Tom, and Brad are all hideous. Henry Cavil is handsome, but nothing like he once was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Question for Red Pillars: If looks & money + status were all that mattered, how do you explain Ariana Grande's romance with Ethan Slater? Ari is mega-famous + conventionally pretty. And while Slater has had some fame on Broadway & a voice artist, he's not some Hollywood heartthrob or millionaireOnly 55% of men out earn their wives. Give it another 10-20 years and I'd be willing to bet it'll be significantly less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 07:25 PM |
| – | Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last.Nah. They cheat when they get bored too. Things can be great at home but some chick shows him the slightest bit of interest and he'll throw his whole family away. Tale as old as time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 02:21 AM |
| – | Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last.Same for guys! I think it's astronomically more. I personally think the vast majority of men are willing and wanting to cheat, though not all get a chance. I believe most men do cheat. As for women, I think it's more than 15% but less than half. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 02:18 AM |
| – | Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last.So you're telling me men abandon their wives and kids for someone they think is worse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 09:59 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADAssume he finds me repulsive and look the other way so we don't make awkward eye contact. I am undeserving of his affection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 06:02 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: If you're part of the 70% of women who never orgasmed from PIV, are you okay dying without ever experiencing it?Why do you want to know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 02:25 PM |
| – | Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last.I assume hypergamy is leaving/cheating your partner for someone you perceive is better. Men are obviously notorious for this. Women not so much. Anyways, it's something like 56% of military cheat on their spouses. Google is at your fingertips. It's free. Also look up rape/SA for the military. It's scarily prevalent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 02:22 PM |
| – | Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last.10-15% of women cheat. 20-25% of men cheat. If anything, it's men who have hypergamy. Men have been using prostitutes despite having wives since the dawn of time. Men have been abandoning their wives and kids, often for a younger woman, since the dawn of time. My dad was in the military. He was married. He told me when men sleep around overseas, it doesn't count as cheating. A disgusting amount of military men share this sentiment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:34 PM |
| – | Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last.Who did it work for? Not women. Not LGBT+ people. Not brown, black, or Asian people. You mean it worked for cis hetero white men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 12:15 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: If you're part of the 70% of women who never orgasmed from PIV, are you okay dying without ever experiencing it?Yeah, no way would I ever subject myself to that. Also, NO, it wouldn't have been okay. I know my own body, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 03:35 AM |
| 9 | Q4W: If you're part of the 70% of women who never orgasmed from PIV, are you okay dying without ever experiencing it?No amount of preparation would have allowed me to painlessly fuck that guy. No way no how. I struggle with my husband who is an average guy. I also want to be able to have quickies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 02:28 AM |
| 8 | Q4W: If you're part of the 70% of women who never orgasmed from PIV, are you okay dying without ever experiencing it?I dated a really awesome dude once. Checked all my boxes. Same goals and morals. I thought he could potentially be the "one." Then we slept together. His dick was by far the biggest dick I've ever seen. Most men would be jealous. We only slept together once. It was the most painful sex I've ever had in my life (excluding my postpartum phase). I knew within the first few pumps that I would have to dump this guy because there is no way I'd subject myself to a lifetime of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 02:19 AM |
| 11 | Q4W: If you're part of the 70% of women who never orgasmed from PIV, are you okay dying without ever experiencing it?You should believe it. The guys I slept with prior to my husband definitely knew. I'd try to direct them. I'd tell them exactly what to do, but they'd complain it took to long, it's boring, their hand hurt, their mouth hurt, every damn excuse in the book. Didn't help that I felt extreme pressure to get off as quickly as possible because I knew they didn't even want to bother. Naturally, it never happened. My husband is my only enthusiastic partner. I know it turns him on to get me off, whereas t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:49 AM |
| 24 | Q4W: If you're part of the 70% of women who never orgasmed from PIV, are you okay dying without ever experiencing it?My husband is the only sexual partner that's made me orgasm. Not PIV though. I'm fine dying without it. I'm under the impression that most men can't or don't want to get women off, period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:08 AM |
| 20 | Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last.I work in health care. Old folks home often get STI outbreaks because old people are freaky and don't use condoms. It's actually a big problem. Give it a google. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:32 PM |
| 26 | Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last.only the top 5-10% of men even get enough attention from women to cheat around. We both know this is unequivocally false. Most men get married. Most men are average. Stop living chronically online and visit your local walmart. You'll see plenty of ugly men with wives and kids. Those men sometimes cheat. 20-25% of married men cheat (10-15% for women). No offense to my dad, but he's always been a chronic cheater. He was even cheating on a great woman when he was in his 70s. He hobbles around like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:24 PM |
| 0 | Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality womenMy husband has never had much money and still lived with his parents when we met (mid-20s). It's true I desire stability, but he is stable in other ways. I know he's a gebuinely kind and loyal man, and those things matter most to me. I'd rather be poor with him than rich without him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:06 PM |
| 32 | Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last.the simple truth is that women have not evolved to be monogamous Neither have men since they cheat and sleep around more. Are you saying women have to behave better than men? we live in world where polygamy is socially acceptable outside of marriage No we don't. The increase in single motherhood will bring every kind of social ill You mean the lack of a father figure will bring every kind of social ill. You don't need to be married and living with a woman to be a good and present dad, yet an exo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 08:52 PM |
| – | Are women really wary of men?Lots of unattractive men are seen as gentle teddy bears, little brothers, best friends, etc. Unattractive guys can still have friendly faces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 04:49 PM |
| – | Are women really wary of men?My husband and I are the same height. 5'6". He doesn't work out. I even have broader shoulders. It's shocking how much stronger he is than me. Like we simply do not compare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 04:46 PM |
| 0 | Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality womenI'm not understanding what your point is. You're going to have to make it more clear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 04:43 PM |
| 0 | Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality womenThrough a mutual friend. He was pretty close friends with her at the time and so was I. She'd have occasional parties (nerdy game nights) and he'd sometimes be there. I had her give him my number since I was too nervous and shy. He texted me almost right after she gave him my number. I think he was practically living with me within a month or two. Honestly, I couldn't get enough of him. He proposed on our year anniversary. We skipped the whole wedding thing and just got married in our home with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality womenI can say with confidence that had my husband acted like this, he would NOT be my husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 02:15 AM |
| – | True or False: A man with a high OR low body count (relative to age) is generally seen as more unattractiveI've always been viscerally repulsed by men with a high body count. They lack self control/discipline. I find it gross and unevolved when guys only care about one thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 09:45 PM |
| 8 | What would you describe as a man repellent outfit, hair or makeup look?More gamer nerd. Ones that would be down to cosplay if their girlfriend dressed them up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 01:40 PM |
| 17 | What would you describe as a man repellent outfit, hair or makeup look?I have a lot of tattoos. It's kind of a joke amongst tattooed women that guys like that don't want us. They chase after the "good girl". Tattooed ladies get the gentle nerd with zero tattoos/piercings. True in my case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Men see women as partners/companions; women see men as disposable accessories.I'm 34 and a mom, so I'm around a lot of couples. It's basically the opposite where I live. I'd say the majority are looks matched. Then the rest are mostly women better looking than their man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 07:59 PM |
| 4 | Men see women as partners/companions; women see men as disposable accessories.I've never actually witnessed a woman dating up. I'm curious where this happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 01:47 PM |
| 7 | Men who are in deadbedrooms are there because they are not willing to have sex with other women. That makes them less attractive.100% the opposite. He was one of those guys who said she can't expect him to be a monk. That he has needs🤮 No therapy was ever involved. I guess he's a monk now. No young lady would want him. He's fat, poor, and married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 01:34 PM |
| 9 | Men who are in deadbedrooms are there because they are not willing to have sex with other women. That makes them less attractive.In what world? Not reality. My best friends husband cheated on her when she was pregnant (she was high risk, bedridden and hospitalized the last few months). She's been repulsed by him ever since. She felt betrayed at her most vulnerable. They haven't had sex in over 5 years. They seem to stay together because neither could afford rent on their own. I've been cheated on by a few guys. Attraction immediately died upon finding out. They seem disgusting and repulsive afterward, both physically and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality isI'm just going off what people who have been to prison have said. I personally know a guy who had a really rough time, and this was a Canadian prison and he certainly isn't a pedo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality isNo, but I bet a lot of them are from the USA, which isn't one of the 14 countries that have equality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 03:07 PM |
| 5 | Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality isBelgium, Canada, Denmark, France, Greece, Iceland, Ireland, Latvia, Luxembourg, Portugal, Spain and Sweden as well as Germany and the Netherlands were the nations offering full equal rights for men and women, at least from a legal perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 02:48 PM |
| 5 | Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality isMen, for the most part, are. Why do you think out of 195 countries, women only have equality in 14? Women are treated horrifically in most of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality isI didn't say anything about killing. I just want them gone for good. Ideally, if you rape a kid (or anyone imo, but especially kids), you're never let out of prison. No chance for parole. I don't believe those are the kind of criminals who can be reformed. Where I live, they get a slap on the wrist, if that, and are free to go about their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality isExactly, men left to their own devices will dominate women and treat them horrifically. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 01:24 PM |
| 5 | Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality isJust Google worst countries for women. Central African Republic TERRIFIES me. 61% of girls between 14-18 are forced to marry and violence against them is astronomical. Out of 195 countries, women have only achieved equality in 14 of them. People really need to sit on that fact and think about what it means and how women are treated in most of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 01:17 PM |
| 4 | Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality isYou can't claim you're better than a rapist while actively raping them. With that said, I think preying on children is one of the worst crimes a person can commit and I don't understand why society doesn't just rid ourselves of these people (if there's irrefutable proof shown in a court of law). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 01:03 PM |
| 4 | Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality isThis really only applies to Western countries, and even then, a lot of people have been assaulted/raped by men. I have two horror stories. A group of older boys did awful things to me when I was 15. Another similar thing happened when i was 19. Cops couldn't have given less if a shit. My step dad is also a perv who creeped on me as a kid. Nobody believed me. Not even my dad. I was also molested by an older cousin when I was quite small. I've talked to countless women/girls who have been through … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 12:54 PM |
| -2 | Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality isMy grandfather absolutely was. My father, questionable. Step dad, 100%. Uncles, a few of them, absolutely. I think about countries where men are left to their own devices and this is what happens. Men do heinous things during war as well and blame trauma on the dozens of innocent women they raped and killed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 12:44 PM |
| 12 | Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality isIsn't prison one of the worst examples you can give? "I hate pedos!" Claims inmate while violently raping said inmate, proving he's not really any better than a pedo. I remember watching a documentary about what you're talking about. From what i recall, it's about power/superiority. Most of them don't actually really care the guy is pedo. A lot of them like beating/raping/killing, so now they have target where most people, particularly the people on the outside, will praise them for doing just t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 12:34 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADTo be fair, most guys don't like neediness. I'd consider myself needy and 99% of guys couldn't meet my needy needs. I like needy guys, but not when it's thrown at me before we meet or on the first date. It has to grow with feelings. It's off putting when feelings aren't there, but validating when they are. I know lots of ladies that would prefer clingy, and lots who would be repulsed. It really all depends on the gal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 03:44 PM |
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