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2	Is confidence really tied to dick size? Life isn’t fair man. I don’t operate in should, could, would, what if etc. I operate on what IS. Reality is women want what they want just like we do. Don’t complain or try to change them. Just level up all your stats that you can control. You seem to be the type to overthink and over analyze. Don’t over plan in life. Take action and plan later. Good luck brother.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 03:38 PM
1	Is confidence really tied to dick size? Like 6.5”. Just by reading your comments I know you’re focused on all the wrong things. Women don’t care if you’re 5 inches or 7. They are emotionally and socially superior and will weed out people that worry about this stuff. They just want a leader who’s experienced, ambitious, and confident who takes care of his hygiene. As a man you just need to focus on 3 pillars: 1) Wealth - Create impact either through grinding up a 100k+ salary or building a business. 2) Health - Lift weights, be in good…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/22 07:50 PM
1	Is confidence really tied to dick size? Totally agree on there being others that are successful and not confident. But most will be at least more confident after. Exceptions don’t make the rule.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/22 07:43 PM
1	Is confidence really tied to dick size? 1) 50% of it I’d say is because I dropped out of high school and college and climbed up to 150k salary in big tech in 10 years. I basically tripled my income in the last 3 years. I think that’s the biggest validation for me in terms of status and accomplishments. That’s 50% of it. I figured out I wasn’t a dumbass. 2) another 30% I have been lifting weights for a decade+ (I’m 31). I also have done martial arts, rock climbing etc for 5+ years. These challenges bring an insane amount of validation …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/22 07:40 PM
37	Is confidence really tied to dick size? I’m above average but that doesn’t factor much at all in my confidence. Confidence comes from competence which comes from accomplishments Being successful in my career, having years of validation for all my inputs and outputs and being fit are the main factors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 05:16 AM
4	If men are the problem in western dating then why aren't women leaving the country to find other men? No one asked about male privilege. Thanks for inserting your opinion though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 09:06 PM
7	If men are the problem in western dating then why aren't women leaving the country to find other men? OP said privileges and decided to change wording to rights. I addressed privileges.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 08:35 PM
-1	If men are the problem in western dating then why aren't women leaving the country to find other men? I never said any of the above is a bad thing, which you’ve assumed. I just answered a question. Women have privileges, men have privileges. it’s just reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 06:54 PM
1	Looksmaxxing vs Money/status, which is more efficient I personally don’t do clubs but whatever works for you I guess	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 06:36 PM
9	If men are the problem in western dating then why aren't women leaving the country to find other men? Affirmative action aka equality of outcome, not opportunity, free club entry, monopolize dating apps with infinite options. Can easily use men for free dinners/drinks, you aren’t subject to most violent crimes like men, Lesser prison sentencing, can hit a man and receive typically no consequence. Female teachers can molest 15 yr old boys and get out of jail free. Lastly, men have to create their sexual value through self improvement, career, finances, lifting, etc etc while women are born with s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 06:34 PM
1	Looksmaxxing vs Money/status, which is more efficient It shouldn’t be bullshit, it should be truly what you aim for and you should be passionate about reaching those successes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 06:28 PM
1	Looksmaxxing vs Money/status, which is more efficient I’d say work on getting to six figures asap, keeping only 4-5 close guys as friends who are pushing success just as hard as you, build a decent network, get a v taper from the gym, work on charisma, confidence, and you’ll be solid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 06:27 PM
1	Looksmaxxing vs Money/status, which is more efficient When i was early 20s I pulled hot women because of confidence and ambition. I didn’t have money yet but ambition substitutes for money early on because I was studying to be an engineer. Ambition was just as good. They want to know you have potential of being successful later on. I also worked out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 06:23 PM
1	Looksmaxxing vs Money/status, which is more efficient I’m 31, confident, decently charismatic, good looking, make 6 figures, lift and am fit, do martial arts, average height (5’9) I guess I’m somewhat “old” and I think it’s a bad idea to dump your stats into one or two things. You need to be well rounded. Money/status is harder to do by far so I would chase this because looks maxing is easy. Just go lift with compound exercises 3x a week for an hour and have a v taper and be lean. Money/status takes years of grinding and just gets you a shot with a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 06:04 PM
1	Looksmaxxing vs Money/status, which is more efficient Efficient for what? Hook ups or long term	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 05:46 PM
2	A rich man might fuck broke hot young women but he'd never wife them up Rich men usually marry a loyal “ride or die” type girl that is okay with them spinning young plates. Reality is, some will 100% marry young and beautiful women regardless of any other factors often, because men are simple in terms of attraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 02:52 PM
17	What are tell tale signs of a beta male? Never leads, doesn’t work out, is too much of a pussy to do martial arts, doesn’t take ownership and makes excuses often, low ambition, low testosterone, low sex drive (usually because of lack of the above), gives into leftist woke culture and doesnt say what he truly feels.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/02/22 10:02 PM
4	How do you know your value as a woman, RPW? What is the ideal woman? Yeah definitely don’t expect too much from a early 20s guy he’s still hopefully working on himself and grinding his career, working out etc. Even though he’s still very early in his value curve, there should be signs he exhibits showing you ambition and potential though that he will be high value around 30-35. Usually if he works hard in a decent career space that has potential for good money later on, good STEM/finance degree. Works out, does martial arts, is into self improvement, has successf…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/02/22 06:49 PM
4	How do you know your value as a woman, RPW? What is the ideal woman? Awesome well you sound pretty marketable. Don’t overthink the competitive part, video games and fun competition isn’t what I meant. I mean just having trouble when someone knows more than you and you always feel the need to make a devils advocate argument over everything. Creating mountains out of mole hill type of thing. It comes more with the “boss bitch” type personality where they have trouble letting their SO lead and always have to critique and argue over everything. And remember not all m…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/02/22 06:24 PM
10	How do you know your value as a woman, RPW? What is the ideal woman? 1) attractive/works out, not a single mom, not a feminist 2) agreeable, non competitive (don’t want to constantly battle a contrarian after tough day at work) and respects masculinity/leaders due to a strong father growing up 3) pleasant, doesn’t nag 4) can cook 5) loyal 6) supportive and is good with children	/r/RedPillWomen	15/02/22 05:34 PM
4	For men, lowering your standards is a much better dating strategy than self improvement. Literally all women want the top 20% of men. Including 2s and 3s. You can make as many excuses as you want to avoid self improvement though. Good luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 02:43 PM
0	would all or most men rape if given the chance ? CNN source lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/22 08:35 PM
0	[CMV]Women who don't have LOOKS are low value You want hot but not too hot. I went for the hottest in my early 20s and ended up with multiple 9s that were hella insecure, physically abusive, alcoholic, or cheated. Gotta get a 7 that has good communication, maturity and mental stability. Also doesn’t have slutty, drama thirsty narcissistic friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 04:20 PM
11	Kids & Marriage No.. you’re not fully developed until 25. You’re fresh out of highschool. You’re still a child that knows nothing of the world. Slow down unless you want to risk being a single mom at 25 and lose a lot of chances with high value men in the future if you and your guy don’t work out.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/02/22 04:51 AM
5	There’s a lot to unpack here. Epiphany phase at 19? She’s definitely moved fast.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	08/02/22 04:49 AM
7	Im (24f) in a happy relationship, but I feel like I've met my soulmate? Relationships pretty much never work the 2nd time around. Keep that in mind.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/02/22 03:36 PM
-1	Both the Redpill and FDS seem to be primarily Low Socioeconomic Status inidividuals As someone who makes 6 figures+ in big tech, I’m in an LTR with a hot bartender. She does have a degree, no debt, a Roth IRA, speaks multiple languages and is intelligent. Those are all bonuses, hot being the main reason. I find the PhD/highly educated, doctors, etc are very disagreeable people and it gets annoying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/22 01:26 AM
5	With one 1 requirement, she has filtered out 85% of the population. Never mind anything else like his emotional status, income, looks, physical and mental health, d size, career or anything else. One stipulation and 85% are out. And women think they are reasonable? Crimson chin	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	06/02/22 08:34 PM
5	What are your thoughts on FDS? Are men over reacting or are they actual toxic? Obese femininazi	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/22 07:01 PM
0	Why do you think men are more right wing than women? I used to be liberal back in like 2010 when it was all about science. Now it’s all wokeness and victim culture. Also once you get older like 25+ and start earning good money and have more experience you understand conservatism more imo	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 04:12 PM
5	What do you think of straight guys who go to gay clubs to get chicks? Who cares get off your moral high ground. They could care less lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 03:14 AM
32	What do you think of straight guys who go to gay clubs to get chicks? All the blue haired avatar feminists are fuming	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 12:32 AM
1	If you could describe what sexually turns you on in one short sentence. What would it be? Fair	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/22 11:43 PM
9	If you're broke you don't deserve women I mean correlation doesn’t equal causation but…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	04/02/22 11:42 PM
-1	If you could describe what sexually turns you on in one short sentence. What would it be? I’m not speaking for outliers. Just the majority	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/22 10:12 PM
1	If you could describe what sexually turns you on in one short sentence. What would it be? Men don’t care about six packs on women. We want a tight round ass (squats/hip thrusts) and a nice set of tits (natural is best but if not pay for a nice job) and a overall fit body meaning low body fat and a little muscle underneath. Run/lift weights 3-5x a week basically and eat healthy Whole Foods. And if you think your boyfriend just loves your body for what it is, and doesn’t want the above, your wrong and he’s lying to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/22 10:08 PM
1	If you could describe what sexually turns you on in one short sentence. What would it be? They should, but someone who is primarily turned on by someone having an innate “needing” their body should probably be very fit. If not it’s very entitled to expect anyone to even want let alone need your body.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/22 09:27 PM
2	If you could describe what sexually turns you on in one short sentence. What would it be? So youre obese is what you’re saying. You want someone to “need” your body and that’s your primary turn on, yet don’t you don’t prioritize self care/diet/gym.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/22 09:25 PM
18	If you're broke you don't deserve women “boss bitch” that’s highly disagreeable, unpleasant and naggy. Got it	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	04/02/22 07:44 PM
0	If you could describe what sexually turns you on in one short sentence. What would it be? I hope you’re very fit	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/22 07:41 PM
5	Am I impatient or is this normal pacing? Clarity: clarity means you will not spend time quarreling or fighting about who’s right, but you will go to the source of the issue like two adults (and BTW: if you spend time verbally quarreling, women are better and will get under his skin most of the time) - Reliability: express herself constructively, avoiding tantrums, covert aggression, and passive-aggressiveness - Inquisitiveness: this is the curiosity and drive to understand what’s going on, set aside the need to be right, and focus on s…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/22 08:43 PM
21	Am I impatient or is this normal pacing? He’s still vetting you for bright triad qualities. Clarity, maturity, stability.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/22 04:59 AM
2	Are LTR's with high levels of attraction even possible anymore? Cohabitation slowly kills desire, that’s for sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/22 11:59 PM
2	What average man can do to become attractive ? I identified as a women when I wrote it	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/22 03:08 PM
1	According to TRP, every successful person is beta Way over simplified	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/22 05:29 AM
1	According to TRP, every successful person is beta Are you just repeating the same quotes from fresh and fit in every post? Get some original view points son. You’re simping over a con artist	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/22 04:57 AM
0	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman You have a low SMV probably 5-6 when you could get to 10. Work on self care and game	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 09:15 PM
6	If the women on here are right and they love all kinds of men and there are loving rrlationships everywhere....why are you here? And why do you think men are here? Congrats you just described every 12 year old key board warrior and shit talker on online video games	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/22 06:29 PM
11	If the women on here are right and they love all kinds of men and there are loving rrlationships everywhere....why are you here? And why do you think men are here? Why not try yoga or something lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/22 06:28 PM
1	What do women truly want? And please gentlemen refrain from the disrespect. I’m literally trying to save us lol You wanna get dicked down good too. Why leave that out?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 10:51 PM
7	Preselection and female mate-choice copying FTW Girls would rather share a Chad than have their own dedicated beta Eugene	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 04:49 PM
1	women on reddit: wOMEN do noT tHINK 80% OF Men ARe uNATtRACTIve, tHAt'S a myTh PeRpetuatEd By INceLs ON REddit". also women on reddit: More for me ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 04:48 AM
5	How true is this? No one cares about outliers in statistics though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 03:24 AM
5	How true is this? No attractive women*	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 03:22 AM
31	How true is this? Those skinny guys are also tall. It’s a type. No girls like short and skinny guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 06:02 PM
–	The male vs the female gaze 1 for sexual attraction is v taper. Think swimmers body. Do pressing, lateral raises and chin ups. Also stop crying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 05:10 PM
–	Muh "PeRsOnAlItY" Tbh I’ve always wondered how much I’ve gotten away with from being so fucking dashingly handsome	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 04:55 PM
1	CMV: Women don't desire sex nearly as much as men It’s called testosterone.. put a women on TRT and see how horny she gets.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 04:35 PM
1	This one's for all the Redpillers out there When you’re 5’5 you look really jacked tbh short limbs	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 02:48 PM
8	This one's for all the Redpillers out there He’s actually natural but yeah he’s got the dark eye sacks. I noticed that too	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 04:29 AM
13	This one's for all the Redpillers out there Different demographic. Idk who left guy is but right guy is a 5’5 bodybuilder who definitely has 99% male demographic for body building I assume left guy is a Instagram model or something and is definitely superior in height and face	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 04:27 AM
3	Most women in the West are undateable You’re describing humans in America bro	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/22 06:03 PM
2	Women and men can't be friends This is true in my experience. 18-25 all my female friends that were woman I would hook up with either in between boyfriends or a few while having boyfriend etc. if you’re good looking anything and everything is always flirting/sexual with your female “friends” at some point. Especially when alcohol is involved. even my best female friend we hooked up here and there over like 6 year period.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/22 04:19 PM
1	Most Onlyfans girls have Borderline, which is the real reason no sane person should have a relationship with them. It's a psychological red flag If you’re not a certified clinician why are you diagnosing people? Let alone from a generalization?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/21 02:18 AM
1	Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive trait You better off getting a v taper / getting fit and chasing your purpose which is typically a business or your career status. If you don’t have one yet at least be aiming for it and you will have similar success. Women just want a fit man that is chasing excellence	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/21 10:44 PM
3	How do you feel about men who “upgrade” to better girlfriends once they become successful and leave the old one? Leo does that in real life too. Dude has never dated over 27, legend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/21 09:37 PM
1	Everyone talks about what makes a man low value, but what exactly makes a woman low value? Single moms	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/21 09:34 PM
1	Hook-Ups I’m like 5’9. Prolly 5’8 and and a half tbh	/r/seduction	26/07/21 05:50 PM
2	Hook-Ups Sounds like you got some other issues besides your height man tbh. Why you so insecure about it? Imagine yourself as a RPG character where you have dozens of attributes. If you aren’t tall, max out your other attributes you can actually manipulate like career, salary, lift weights, investments, charisma, humor, confidence, empathy, fashion, social skills, skin care, skills, hobbies, haircut, knowledge, lots of other self development attributes.. Please for the love of god don’t sit on Reddit and…	/r/seduction	26/07/21 03:53 PM
1	How to be likeable/attractive from the very start? No.. just no. Just because you feel like you are attractive does not make you attractive. That is not how the world works unfortunately.	/r/seduction	25/07/21 08:16 PM
1	How to be likeable/attractive from the very start? 1) exercise and eat well 2) be independent and focus on self development 3) be able to suck chrome off a bumper	/r/seduction	25/07/21 05:48 PM
-1	How to be likeable/attractive from the very start? I hate this toxic positivity	/r/seduction	25/07/21 05:47 PM
-4	[deleted by user] U ugly	/r/seduction	22/07/21 01:50 PM
1	I keep getting “maybe” replies when I ask if/when she wants to meet up. Next step? Instant next	/r/seduction	14/07/21 03:48 AM
1	Update on the grocery store cutie! Ya try to keep the texts minimal / arrangement and focus all the talking on the date	/r/seduction	09/07/21 01:50 AM
1	Successful guys; what hobbies or interests do you have? Primary: Rock climbing (chicks dig it and it takes you outdoors and super technical/athletic, community, problem solving, full body awareness, also an insane amount of hot fit women at indoor rock climbing gyms) Secondary: Lifting (obvious reasons) I play a lot of Overwatch on PC (doesn’t help you with women :)) Tertiary: BJJ (confidence to where I have somewhat of an idea of what to expect in an altercation and what people are capable of, technical, similar to climbing in the hip movements and …	/r/seduction	30/06/21 10:05 PM
3	Ugh. Girl curious about my size. So that’s why in cowgirl women like to sit there in full depth and rotate..	/r/seduction	30/06/21 09:59 PM
1	Ugh. Girl curious about my size. Tell her its micro status and you can only impress her after that	/r/seduction	30/06/21 09:54 PM
-3	How to stop pedestalizing women. Chadpill war initiated	/r/seduction	11/06/21 02:23 PM
6	I think I’ve found a cheat code for getting girls out on dates Random keyboard warrior throwing out edgy words a month later.	/r/seduction	08/06/21 01:47 PM
1	How to know if my boyfriend likes boobs more or ass ? Check his browsing history. You may find out it’s neither.. tentacles	/r/seduction	31/05/21 04:19 AM
1	Good social hobbies to meet people? Indoor bouldering/rock climbing	/r/seduction	31/05/21 04:18 AM
1	Skincare for men is underrated Yeah I do medium fade 0 with 2-3 inches on top, come over or whatever. My hair is more wavy so I don’t need any pomade really	/r/seduction	30/05/21 04:36 AM
1	Skincare for men is underrated Agree 100%. Another not that obvious thing, that is genetic, but still interesting is hair thickness Growing up I hated how “fro-y” and thick my hair was. I couldn’t really style it with what was in. Chili bowl looked like shit. Skater long hair was so helmety, Bieber hair looked weird, etc. It’s wavy, but insanely thick and friends would make fun of it and call me helmet head kinda Now that I’m 30 and have learned to style it properly I almost always get compliments from both women and men imme…	/r/seduction	29/05/21 07:35 PM
4	The number one trait you need to get laid. Calm down buddy you’re scaring the kids	/r/seduction	21/05/21 05:27 PM
0	I think I’ve found a cheat code for getting girls out on dates Tldr	/r/seduction	12/05/21 03:41 PM
7	I think I’ve found a cheat code for getting girls out on dates You’ve brought up more irrelevant points about assuming my gender and sex etc. I never said my precious hypothetical Chad had no charisma or wasn’t ambitious. I also dont think couch surfing mean he doesn’t have self care and lives in filth. Assume all of those things I didn’t mention being average, not bottom of the barrel at the skillset. Why can’t he take you on a decent date? What if, he, you know, does that thing where you save a portion of your income? We all know he beats poor little Tim …	/r/seduction	12/05/21 02:41 PM
4	I think I’ve found a cheat code for getting girls out on dates That’s entirely besides the point. We’re talking about the success and being 3% of fuckable guys from this video above. You won’t know he has herpes until later.	/r/seduction	11/05/21 08:09 PM
20	I think I’ve found a cheat code for getting girls out on dates For you, sure. For most women, statistically, no. Physical attraction will trump all in most scenarios regardless. 6’4 attractive Chad with great hair who couch surfs making 13/hr at discount tire with average charisma is going to win 9/10 times against 5’5 Tim who’s got a below average face, male pattern baldness, makes 100k, has great charisma, ambition and confidence with a clean apartment. It’s just evolution.	/r/seduction	11/05/21 07:16 PM
19	I think I’ve found a cheat code for getting girls out on dates This will not put you in the top 3% whatsoever unless you’re attractive.	/r/seduction	11/05/21 03:17 AM
2	Just found condoms in my LTR purse. WE DON’T USE CONDOMS. Calmly bring this to her attention then report back.	/r/askTRP	14/04/21 06:27 PM
2	I’m now too jacked Try not to get too wide on the shoulders. When you’re short you’ll look odd. Same with super bulky legs, makes legs look shorter	/r/askTRP	14/04/21 03:58 AM
1	Does it REALLY get better as you get older? Woke	/r/askTRP	14/04/21 03:50 AM
2	LTR got asked out by her classmate while next to me 1) she shouldn’t have given out her number in the first place 2) she should have proudly stated she has a boyfriend	/r/askTRP	12/04/21 10:56 PM
1	Does it REALLY get better as you get older? Okay, Nostradamus. You watched one Andrei Jikh YouTube video and you think your word is gospel	/r/askTRP	12/04/21 02:57 PM
1	Does it REALLY get better as you get older? Agree. I worked 8 years to get to the point of working smart not hard. I get more done in my 4 hour workday from home than 90% of people working 8.	/r/askTRP	12/04/21 04:41 AM
2	Does it REALLY get better as you get older? Don’t listen to this. Invest in passive index funds. Crypto maybe 1-5% as gambling budget.	/r/askTRP	12/04/21 04:39 AM
3	Nostalgia Hitting Hard In order to avoid reveling in the past and worry of the future you need to be present. My personal prescription for this is 20-30 min mediation daily, indoor rock climbing and Brazilian jiu jitsu. The last two require mental and physical prowess and keep you fully engaged in the present. They also bring you two new communities of people.	/r/askTRP	11/04/21 03:52 PM
3	What Degree should I go to school for? I shoot shit for an hour a week with companies like Tesla, at&t, and Clorox helping them deploy Microsoft cloud security stack while mentoring junior engineers. I love it.	/r/askTRP	27/03/21 04:04 AM
1	What Degree should I go to school for? I consult cyber security for 6 figures and it’s dope. I agree that or finance	/r/askTRP	26/03/21 09:38 PM
5	Nuclear ego hit First off why do you know that about her?	/r/askTRP	25/03/21 12:35 AM
1	Has anyone achieved "top 10 percent of men/high-value man" success after years of mediocrity AFTER the age of 35? If so, HOW did you climb up from rock-bottom? Would appreciate specific examples and I agree with the no guarantee of six figures. That’s insane. There’s so much up and down emotion and instability in your post I would be concerned that you’re describing mania when you grind out all these brilliant work in a week then slump into months of depression. That is incredibly inconsistent and terrible long term. Everything important in life is a like a marathon. Small progress everyday like muscle building, investing, learning new skills, self development etc. Most of the days aren’t f…	/r/askTRP	25/03/21 12:23 AM
1	What's the beta habit you had the hardest time giving up? I’m in the cyber security field	/r/askTRP	22/03/21 05:31 AM
15	How beta is it living at home at 26+? Yeah I have a buddy who is 29 and lives at home, works in manual labor and slays more than anyone I’ve ever seen. He’s 6’2, half white half Puerto Rican and good looking. Most important success trait behind those components is that his main cornerstone is he doesn’t give a fuck.	/r/askTRP	19/03/21 11:09 PM
14	What's the beta habit you had the hardest time giving up? I give to much detail to people I don’t know in simple conversations. I honestly think it’s because I’m an engineer and details matter in my work so it transfers over and I have try hard to simplify. Was that too much detail?	/r/askTRP	19/03/21 10:45 PM
2	How do you relax in monk mode Meditation.	/r/askTRP	18/03/21 04:35 PM
3	I am completely lost financially. Looking for advice. 1) check out the 2 checking account system. There’s a YouTube video on this. High level is you have 1 account for automated bills and 1 for fun spending. The bills has a full extra paycheck of cushion just in case. Get a savings account for emergencies. 1k to start, add 6 months after you tackle debt. This helps to let you see how many fixed expenses you have and will help you start to cut on subscriptions, get rid of car payments, change internet/phone etc because it gives you more money to sav…	/r/askTRP	17/03/21 05:16 PM
2	How do you form the willpower to wake up in the morning and go to the gym when you're supposed to? I hate morning workouts. I meditate in the tub when I get up and then clean to get my mind present. Go in the evening or lunch break. Or lay out your clothes next to the bed and try again.	/r/askTRP	15/03/21 01:46 PM
0	Why is not having social media looked down upon as if you're weird? The only response in person I’ve heard is “oh wow impressive I need to do that!” Stop hanging out with low quality women. I also met my ltr in person at a bar, and she had no social media either. I have zero data on match losses on tinder for no social media so I can’t speak on it in a objective way. I really think you not wasting time on that bullshit and focusing on sharpening other skills out weighs any pros of having it by a landslide.	/r/askTRP	13/03/21 02:17 PM
5	Why is not having social media looked down upon as if you're weird? Not really. Being 30, we’ve had social media since we were about 12. Xanga > MySpace > FB in that order.	/r/askTRP	12/03/21 10:48 PM
5	Feelings of Inadequacy due to Salary It’s not about salary it’s about savings rate brotha. I’ve seen dentists spend 95% of their income on lifestyle inflation bs with nothing to show and teachers become millionaires by investing 50% of their 50k income or ~20k+ per year. Cut your expenses and try to invest half your income and stop worrying about what the girls think.	/r/askTRP	08/03/21 04:27 PM
5	No passion, need advice Hahaha. 17. At that age I was skipping biology to go into the nearby ditch to play Pokémon ruby and playing WoW until 2am. I’m 30 now and have polished up real nicely over the last decade and most of those kids I looked up to at your age are broke and lost themselves. You’ve got plenty of time. Relax. Stop comparing yourself to others and embark on your self development journey today. The biggest mistake you can make is feeling guilty and regretful of the past and worrying of variables in future…	/r/askTRP	08/03/21 06:00 AM
1	Do you take a rest day after heavy legs? The secret for me was no more “leg day” where I blast volume and 6 exercises. I did 2-3 sets of high intensity front squats in 6-10 rep range a couple times a week before my other lifts in my 20s with progressive overload. E.g front squats, weighted chin-up, weighted dip, face Pull etc. full body usually. With that being said, you really should give 48 hours to recover not just your muscles but neural systems since they get blasted from squats and deadlifts. Focus on strength and you won’t need …	/r/askTRP	03/03/21 04:28 PM
2	This is the only subreddit that can help me - need advice... If it wasn’t for climbing and BJJ, I’d lose my friends too. Go find a hobby and put yourself in a new community. You’ll make friends.	/r/askTRP	03/03/21 04:04 AM
5	How to make your voice more manly? You’ve failed the test and allowed her to devalue you. Not only that, you’ve believed it and now you’re insecure asking us. Your voice is the least of your concerns. You have some self development to do.	/r/askTRP	02/03/21 01:03 AM
1	What advice would you give your 22 year self? Stop spending mindlessly on coffee, bars, travel and restaurants. Pay off debt faster so I can invest earlier and get more value out of compound interest. Don’t give a shit about what people think of me and focus on the mission.	/r/askTRP	26/02/21 04:16 PM
3	Do I need to be a “woke” millennial to have a successful relationship with a girl in today’s time? Agreed. My ltr is alongside my journey. rock climbs, lifts, has played Skyrim w me. Lots of cool shit. Just make sure to keep space and independence as well	/r/askTRP	25/02/21 10:20 PM
137	What sacrifices have you made to be where you are today? I learned to say no a lot. No to “friends” that were just drinking friends and phased them out. No to eating at restaurants all the time. No to lots of other shit that take away my time I could spend development of myself/hobbies. Stick to your mission no matter what the costs. My main focus was financial independence and saving half my income as well as getting to 6 figure income. Also rock climbing. Turns out saying no loses a lot of friends and family. I have about 5 core friends that’s it. A…	/r/askTRP	23/02/21 10:55 PM
7	When did you realise that AWALT? Dude I’ve literally heard a female friend say this almost exact. This really weird guy at this party and I were talking and we didn’t even kiss or anything he just jacked off on me. He was super weird.”	/r/askTRP	23/02/21 02:40 AM
6	[Serious] What is the most underrated thing that can help one ace a corporate job interview? Even the most technical interviews (big tech company) I look for confidence and the ability to speak slow, methodical and concise. People who are unprepared and insecure speak fast and with lots of fluff. I want to hear you slow down and show me your thought process and how your brain solves problems. Another big one is the ability to be honest and tell me you don’t know the answer. Ask me proactive questions at the end about the day to day. Figure out what you’ll be doing. Show me that you need…	/r/askTRP	10/02/21 05:21 AM
0	Do you feel natural after a while ? Check out mindfulness practice. Helps engage with being present.	/r/askTRP	05/02/21 10:18 PM
1	How to feel less scared of physical altercations? Yeah lifting isn’t going to safe you from anyone who has 6months or more training. Even if you think you’re bigger or stronger.	/r/askTRP	03/02/21 07:38 PM
2	How to feel less scared of physical altercations? 160lb lightweight checking in.. 1 year into BJJ and can agree. I see potential threats in a different light since things are a little more predictable after so many sessions with new folks in the gym.	/r/askTRP	03/02/21 05:35 PM
1	What is required to have the DGAF attitude? Goals every year that you’ve smashed, good career, savings and some martial arts training	/r/askTRP	23/12/20 04:28 PM
1	Natty lifters who are lean but still have strong compound lifts, what does your diet look like? 5'9 160lb Incline DB bench 85 x 5, +90 x 3 weighted chin up, 70lb DB shoulder press and 225 front squat 8am - chug Greens powder + lemon juice and water Coffee after Noon - Veggie protein bar + apple to break my fast 2-3pm - Big ass salad with all my favorite shit like feta, olives, macadamia nuts, artichoke hearts, kimchi with lemon juice and avocado oil etc. Add chicken sometimes. Or an omelette with potatoes. 7-8pm - Big dinner. Usually frozen potatoes or sweet potatos cooked in air fryer wit…	/r/askTRP	29/11/20 07:29 AM
2	Are bench press and barbell curls enough? Add squat and weighted chin up you'll be good	/r/askTRP	26/11/20 01:34 AM
3	Dad wont let me lift weights Master bodyweight exercises. Weighted chin ups are amazing. Dips on random places in the house. Push ups. Split squats. When you're 18 you can do whatever you want. Till then you're gonna have to listen to your dad since he pays the bills. Or just do it anyways.	/r/askTRP	09/11/20 11:53 PM
2	I discovered that i interrupt a lot It's all over man. GG	/r/askTRP	09/11/20 10:23 PM
2	Red Pillers who are 30+ if you were in your 20's what would you do differently? Turning 30 in january. -have a growth mindset and look for small progress in everything you do -pick a good career. You dont always need college. Areas like tech field eg. cyber security or dev work. High pay and certs can get you in with help desk experience and some grinding and discipline -lift heavy more than you did last time -learn a martial art -avoid debt at all costs and pay cash for anything you want. Your income is your greatest investment. -dont be sensitive. Shoot shit. -visit your …	/r/askTRP	23/10/20 04:10 AM
2	Talking trash when you’re an easy target If I were you, yeah I'd say spend the next 6m-year dropping to 250 with intermittent fasting in a decent deficit. Theres some good programs out there check our kinobodys aggressive fat loss or warrior shred. Focuses on fasting and eating great satiating meals later in the day and still staying in a deficit. It Doesnt do any of the elimination stuff and is actually sustainable. you can eat good carbs, steak, veggies etc dark chocolate and others within reason. Its calories in calories out. Stay i…	/r/askTRP	22/10/20 04:27 AM
7	Talking trash when you’re an easy target Start Brazilian jiu jitsu. Weight loss + self defense + self confidence because you are no longer anxious of what you would do in a fight or howd you pair up etc (the learning curve is so heavy that 6 months of training will make untrained people in big trouble against you) + super technical and engaging + cool community.	/r/askTRP	21/10/20 11:14 PM
2	Depression Check out the power of now by eckard tolle. You may be stuck living in the past and future and need to teach yourself to be more present to enjoy your life as the present is all there is. Your mind and ego is what makes you think you cant just sit on a bench outside and enjoy yourself. Why is it wasted time if you're at peace doing it? Try out a martial arts. I do brazilian jiu jitsu because its physical and technical. When you're trying to survive in a spar being drown by another man you wont b…	/r/askTRP	21/10/20 05:10 PM
2	Depression I'd recommend grabbing some mouth tape from amazon. Works wonders. If your nose sucks breathe right strips help hold your nostrils open while sleeping too. Both in combination gets me god tier sleep now	/r/askTRP	20/10/20 09:03 PM
4	Depression Sleep - causes snoring and sleep apnea which contributes to fatigue and anxiety/depression Dental - fucks your teeth nd gums because your dry mouth doesnt have the saliva to fight bacteria Face - alters face structures. Look up long face. Overtime causes chin to recede and nose to protrude. Overall breathing efficiency - 20% more efficient with oxygen when nasal breathing and helps balance your carbon dioxide ratio in lungs as it prevents shitty overbreathing which is super common and causes anx…	/r/askTRP	20/10/20 07:36 PM
2	Depression Get blood tested if you havent already. Were all chemicals and you may be low on magnesium or vitamin D. This can lead to depression. Also do you mouth breath?	/r/askTRP	20/10/20 02:12 PM
0	I always go too far on Dark Triad Alpha game. Need for advice. Grow up.	/r/askTRP	13/10/20 07:33 PM
1	How to improve my fashion game? Kino clothing has good stuff. Comfortable bamboo material and designed for fit physiques. Show off shoulders, huge waist etc	/r/askTRP	09/10/20 06:32 PM
1	Lifting Yes. Ive found it's best for naturals for strength and size. Many programs follow this. Muscle can recover in 48 hours usually but You need 3-5 days for nervous system recovery if your going heavy enough and progressing every workout. Maybe alternate upper lower ABA. Next week BAB. MWF or TTHSa. Theres a ton of programs. I've been using kinobodys for a couple years and have had great progress.	/r/askTRP	09/10/20 02:26 PM
1	Lifting Incline bench (upper chest) OHP Weighted pull ups/chins Squats Deadlifts Curls Skull crushers Lateral raises with DB Face pull or bent over fly with DB These are my favorite key exercises. All can be done with a power rack, bench and weight. maybe a couple DB or cables for the bottom 2 exercises for shoulder isolation Go heavy 3x a week and focus on lifting heavier than last time.	/r/askTRP	09/10/20 01:37 PM
6	What instantly indicates a man is low value? Yeah that's nonsense	/r/askTRP	09/10/20 01:28 PM
1	What instantly indicates a man is low value? No mission	/r/askTRP	09/10/20 01:27 PM
4	Having to eat insane amounts of food to build muscle Do you track your workouts and go up at least 1 rep or 2.5/5lbs for progressive overload? As someone who's been lifting naturally for 10 years and tried everything, I've learned I cant handle the volume the fitness industry is rampant with. It's better to keep it lower volume and higher intensity while focusing on a handful of compounds and just 1 or 2 exercises per muscle with higher intensity 3 days per week. 5-6 days a week with 5 exercises per muscle multiple times per week didnt allow me to…	/r/askTRP	09/10/20 01:19 PM
1	How can a man develop masculinity/inner man. Checkout James Nestor and his book Breathe. Essentially mouth breathing is much less efficient and causes your face and nasal pathways to change for the worse. Your nose is evolved to specifically heat and filter air before it gets to your lungs. Affects hormones, stress, blood pressure etc. Helped me a ton with anxiety when I started. I realized my sleep was shit and I was doing rapid mouth breathing often. Nasal helps slow down breathing to get bigger breaths. You get much less oxygen and it c…	/r/askTRP	07/10/20 03:10 PM
10	How can a man develop masculinity/inner man. Have a mission that you are passionate about and run full speed at it. -Best option is your career. Pick something lucrative and hone that trade -Set multiple goals per year in different facets like career, finances, hobbies -Lifting weights -Brazilian jiu jitsu for me, any martial art really. I just like how it subdues your ego, its technical and physical -Learn to be more disagreeable and selfish. Stop being so nice you're not doing anyone favors -Role models like Jordan peterson, jocko willin…	/r/askTRP	07/10/20 04:06 AM
1	5’9 and 185lbs why’d I still feel skinny ? Yeah that's where we are going to differ. I dont bulk or cut really. I think it's more intelligent to stay around 10% bf year round and slowly add strength and muscle throughout the years. Being lean is really where you want to be rather than eating too much up to 20% bodyfat and then try to cut and lose muscle and strength along the way.	/r/askTRP	07/10/20 03:26 AM
4	Guys that have achieved financial success... Be careful making money like that so early. Might not be stable. Assume you wont be making that for long and save it. You're still a kid and your brain isnt fully developed until about 25. I would relax a bit and enjoy yourself.	/r/askTRP	06/10/20 08:30 PM
1	5’9 and 185lbs why’d I still feel skinny ? 5'9 185 is pretty fucking big.. What's your body fat? How much do you press? Weighted chin up? If you're 8-12% bodyfat than you're pretty huge at that weight and height. Also, why is your goal to be a weight? If you get to 200 at 5'9 you're either holding quite a bit of fat (20%+) or on gear to build that kind of muscle while having 8-12% bf	/r/askTRP	06/10/20 07:07 PM
3	Is glancing at a girl validation? Monk mode doing what? You literally have no responsibilities at 17.	/r/askTRP	01/10/20 05:03 PM
2	What is the very first thing you do when you start your day? Meditate in the tub. Nothing better to start the day	/r/askTRP	01/10/20 05:01 PM
0	Not making progress in the gym and need some advice Check out kinobody warrior shred prog	/r/askTRP	27/09/20 07:21 PM
8	What crucial parts of trp did you ignore way too long? Calories and micronutrients. Macros dont matter. Good job finding that out	/r/askTRP	23/09/20 08:57 PM
2	Opinion on my beard Yo those bedroom eyes. You single?	/r/askTRP	13/09/20 03:22 AM
1	A lot of guys hit on my girl with texts and interactions, what should I do? The fact you let that get to you is a problem. You want to show your girl youre insecure enough to react to that? If you actually werent worried about it youd continue with your mission and not give it any thought. If she goes back it's out of your control. Continue the mission with or without her.	/r/askTRP	10/09/20 04:11 PM
3	How do you even handle this? Pwned	/r/askTRP	06/09/20 03:38 AM
1	How to attract above average women as an Asian male? Check out kinobody. Great workout/diet program (4 or so key lifts you progress in strength on and intermittent fasting) focused on greek god golden ratio. His clothing line fits better than any clothes I've ever worn as well.	/r/askTRP	06/09/20 03:30 AM
1	Overcoming Complacency I've been in same boat. I found every time I wasn't on a mission I felt that way. I find mini missions keep me happy. get uncomfortable often. Struggle more. Getting strangled in BJJ will make you forget all about complacency. Youll want to get better at it and focus on survival. Take ice cold showers. Sit in a sauna for 20 minutes. Or get into bouldering, when you're problem solving the wall you wont remember you're complacent. Practice meditation. Go to thailand for a few weeks. Hell travel to…	/r/askTRP	02/09/20 02:19 PM
1	Why even be in a LTR ? Teen ankst	/r/askTRP	26/08/20 12:39 PM
1	Breaking a vicious cycle and getting my shit together once and for all Find the closest BJJ gym and go tomorrow. Thank me later.	/r/askTRP	24/08/20 11:08 PM
10	How did you come to decide what your career was going to be? I was serving at olive garden in college and a friend asked me if I was interested in some help desk work. Didnt know shit but learned the job on the fly. I kinda hated it but was better than olive garden. Users needing stuff unplugged and plugged back in a lot, rebooting etc. Almost quit many times. 10 yrs of good decisions, grinding, and taking some risk later ended up at Microsoft doing cyber security and I love it	/r/askTRP	22/08/20 05:14 PM
2	Why bald or balding guys doesn't seem more attractive to woman? In my experience, women want thick hair themselves so they marvel at it on a man too. When they see thick healthy hair they see someone they want their kids genes to come from. They want their kids to have what they want and think is attractive and healthy too	/r/askTRP	15/08/20 03:13 PM
-1	Share a typical daily schedule/ routine of a purposeful man. Yeah I used to play a lot more a few years ago, which is what led me here eventually. Grew up a lazy gamer and I've slowly edged my way into discipline and other physical hobbies. Interesting you took the time out of your day to research me. Do you think maybe its because my progress is a harsh reminder of your guilt and failures? Dont be a crab in a bucket. Good luck	/r/askTRP	14/08/20 04:18 AM
2	Share a typical daily schedule/ routine of a purposeful man. I'm a consultant for microsoft threat protection so I specifically work with helping protect enterprise customers environments. Its blue team. Aka onboarding and configuring it with best practices, proof of concept on in incident response, a little hunting. Day to day is 3-4 one hour meetings with customers doing the above. Shooting shit a lot of the time too. I've worked with some for a year and have good relationships with the engineer/admins. Spend a few hrs a day during work reading up on pr…	/r/askTRP	13/08/20 05:11 PM
5	Share a typical daily schedule/ routine of a purposeful man. I'm not rigid about it, I change things here and there depending on my body being sore or wanting to grab dinner with a friend on a weekday. That's my typical baseline. Weekends are typically climbing and lifting early sat with friends followed by chillin by the pool or playing overwatch. Sunday I full rest and do cleaning / laundry. Every day has a purpose and I always have some tasks to do whether it's a big mission with a lot of tasks or a smaller mission day, always stay on the war path	/r/askTRP	13/08/20 05:04 PM
14	Share a typical daily schedule/ routine of a purposeful man. Purpose [responsibility = meaning = happiness] Sleep 8hrs wake up at 7-8am and meditate for 20m. review my mission for the day while in a hot bath with epson salt (outlook calendar for work, activities after work etc) cold shower review finances and goals (right now career related as I have a promotion interview later in the month) coffee + 20m of cleaning (empty dishes etc) work from home (cyber security) 9-5 in 1 hour blocks with multiple breaks in between to break 18-6 fast and eat a clean me…	/r/askTRP	13/08/20 01:55 PM
2	Stuck in an endless cycle of dead end jobs (due to my own stupidity) and I fucking hate it. I don't want to just survive anymore, I want to start living. Looking for advice. I see a lot of wasted energy here. You need discipline and ownership to combat your laziness and lack of confidence. Check out Jocko Willinks books and learn to get after it. Stop wallowing in self despair, regrets and crying about your past failures. None of it matters. Time to come up with solutions with some short term / long term goals and chase them at all costs. No more "want" or "try". Figure out what you want to do and DO it. No friends? Join a bouldering/rock climbing gym or Jui Jitsu. …	/r/askTRP	28/07/20 05:07 PM