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It looks like he's just not interested. Also since you guys only slept like 2 times together, I wouldn't see that as leading you on. It's actually the opposite, it looks like he's been very clear in not wanting anything serious and keeping it as a secret. Unfortunately we cannot "convince" or "make" people fall in love with us. I'm sorry OP but you should just get over it, I would recommend distancing you from him until the crush goes away.
/r/seduction02/07/22 04:53 PM
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There is not a perfect amount of times you should text someone. It all depends on the relationship you have with that person and how often each of you text/call other people. Don't listen to people saying "never text her in three weeks" or "text her everyday". You just have to find a natural balance, usually some days you will be the one texting/calling and other days it will be her. Sometimes the conversations will be longer and other times they'll be short. If it's only one person initiating t…
/r/seduction02/07/22 01:58 PM
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Doesn't mean anything, many people have everyone but their family members in their close friends list. This way they can choose what their family sees.
/r/seduction30/06/22 03:00 PM
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She just said she liked a normal sized penis, then OP starting asking about her experience lol. She just answered his question.
/r/seduction29/06/22 10:41 PM
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Lol I can't believe this sub thinks that women that had some fun in college "are for the streets". Could you be more hypocritical? This sub is literally for learning to get laid but somehow you don't like women that actually get laid. Bit of an incel mentality if you ask me.
/r/seduction29/06/22 10:04 PM
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Yes maybe esp since you don't know her in real life. But welp that's the best you can do in this situation, reach out say that you'd love to meet her and try to have a more sober date!
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:33 PM
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Also regarding the """blowing an opportunity""", if you are into this girl message her explaining that you'd love to see her, but didn't want to meet her that night because she was too drunk. She should appreciate that you're a decent human being. If she doesn't and reacts badly for some reason then yep, you did dodge a bullet.
/r/seduction18/06/22 11:49 AM
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Please always err on the side of caution with these things. If you think that someone might not be able to consent, then don't do anything! It's as simple as that. You did the right thing OP 👍
/r/seduction18/06/22 11:44 AM
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I made a quick list for you OP: - Chop trees with an axe - Fart unapologetically - Repress your feelings and never talk about them
/r/seduction14/06/22 11:48 PM
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Yep, specially for some people. It's not only the light that lets you see better their face, but also the way they dress during the day vs night, make-up, how they carry themselves, the fact that you're not tipsy anymore, etc.
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:41 AM
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It could be anything, but the most likely issue for you is probably Communication. I've seen many long-term couples fail in bed and it's clearly because a lack of understanding between them. Ignore seduction tips (they're mainly built for ONS and starting relationships) and focus on the human part of your wife. Maybe she's low key pissed at you because "you don't get what she feels"? Or idk she doesn't feel there's a connection anymore because you don't talk about things that interest her? Regar…
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:33 AM
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Not here to judge your approaches, but I had to comment on this: ​ Phen is a legal "supplement/nootropic" that is really an anti-anxiety drug (...) It is basically a healthier alternative to drinking ​ Welp it's not clear that it's "healthier" than drinking. One could argue that low-mild doses of alcohol have less side effects than low-mild doses of phen. Also overall there is way less safety data for phen compared to the data available for alcohol. Specially regarding long-term use. ​ My very f…
/r/seduction16/05/22 12:33 PM
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Hey Reddit my boyfriend has all of these red flags: - Follows underage girls on social medial - Manipulative - History of cheating What do you think of him?? ​ Well I think he's a walking red flag. This is not normal behavior if that's the reason you were asking this.
/r/seduction12/05/22 09:38 AM
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Hahahahah I know many people don't follow these laws, but I doubt casual sex is more common in these countries than in US/Europe 🙃
/r/seduction14/04/22 02:03 PM
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Lol a limiting belief?? I know the example of Morocco where the law says: Sexual contact between unmarried people is prohibited, under Article 490 of the Moroccan penal code. And as such, it is technically illegal for unmarried couples to share a hotel room. Dunno if those are the ideal conditions for women in these countries to "fuck more than westerns".
/r/seduction14/04/22 01:56 PM
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Are you really asking us if opening a sweatshop is ethical? English is not my first language, so I had to look up the definition in Wikipedia: A sweatshop or sweat factory is a crowded workplace with very poor, socially unacceptable or illegal working conditions. Some illegal working conditions include poor ventilation, little to no breaks, inadequate work space, insufficient lighting, or uncomfortably/dangerously high or low temperatures. If this is what you have in mind, why are you surprised …
/r/seduction14/04/22 12:57 PM
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Nice good luck OP✨✨
/r/seduction13/04/22 10:32 PM
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Some of the answers are pretty harsh, I don't think you look boring or should lose the glasses, you look fun and the glasses are nice! Honestly I would say 4/10-5/10 and literally only for a bit of extra weight. You have a super cute face and if you manage to lose that extra weight it could be easily an 8/10. I'm curious about your future experience, will you post within a few months to update us if you changed anything and how things went for you? Would love to know more!
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:04 PM
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Lol sure it can happen! Not only with family members but also friends, etc. If you haven't had anything with this guy other than friendship I don't think there should be a problem about trying to hit on his brother.
/r/seduction08/04/22 12:49 PM
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Wow these are 13 years old level """"pranks"""". The equivalent of throwing eggs to people walking in the street and laughing at it. Hope one day you grow up and realize this kind of things can ruin someone's day. Please grow up OP.
/r/seduction31/03/22 11:21 AM
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I sent so many girls into the middle of nowhere or to some dead end bus stop like this. Wow you are a disgusting person. she will literally wait like 40 minutes in the cold for Chad to show up. Yes when you try to meet someone they wait for you to arrive. What an amazing discovery you made, please report it to the NASA or something. I really hope you are trolling and none of this stuff happened in real life.
/r/seduction31/03/22 10:27 AM
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"there has been no real issue, no cheating, no arguments nothing" As other have said, this is probably a compatibility issue. Maybe both of you were not looking for the same thing in a relationship. There does not need to be fights or cheating for a relationship to not work out. Also this is not about "seduction" or anything like that. It's probably just a matter of compatibility.
/r/seduction26/03/22 05:13 PM
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I don't think this subreddit applies in this situation. In serious relationships you just need to communicate. If you are concerned about something, talk and figure it out like adults. There's no need to play guessing games in a relationship.
/r/seduction25/03/22 06:07 PM
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She sounds like a bad person, and she didn't treat you well. I don't like the comments downplaying this situation. It's normal for you to feel a bit down about this experience. I would not only feel a bit down, but I would also be quite angry with her and probably never talking to that person ever again.
/r/seduction14/03/22 10:27 PM
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I know many examples of "ugly" people (just looks-wise) that have hot partners. They manage to do this regardless of their looks, because they have a great personality. So I just think about them 👍
/r/seduction09/01/22 02:05 AM
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M'lady
/r/seduction13/10/21 11:40 AM
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Holy moly I was reading this thread thinking it was "Bertrand Russell" all the time. I didn't expect him to be a seduction role model hahahahah
/r/seduction12/10/21 07:07 PM
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I think you're doing it right! Don't try to rush anything, just keep building intimacy with her and spending time together. Once you feel that she is invested, and both of you are comfortable with each other you can bring up the relationship topic.
/r/seduction31/08/21 10:39 PM
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Amen my friend
/r/seduction01/08/21 11:00 AM
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Lol shows a lack of self control? OP let's be honest, you're just being judgemental about the age gap. They were two consenting adults having fun together. They were doing nothing wrong.
/r/seduction01/08/21 09:02 AM
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Not cool posting it here tho, with all the info you said about her and your profile... People might be able to find her name.
/r/seduction20/07/21 02:27 PM
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If you don't know her you can just leave her on read. If you know her just give very short answers to all her messages. Like if she asks, how are you? You can say "all good thanks 😊". If she says "happy birthday!", you can just give a like to her message and not reply. It's very easy, if you don't feel like messaging with someone just keep it very short and try to leave politely. Just like you do in real life with normal conversations you want to end.
/r/seduction18/07/21 11:41 AM
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Ok yes I fully agree with this correction 👆
/r/seduction18/04/21 03:25 PM
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It's not guys, she's just saying that she wants to open their relationship. But maybe she's OK with keeping it closed. I'm like this myself, I like open relationships but if my SO doesn't want to it's fine. It's not a deal-breaker for me. They just need to talk and find out if they want the same thing.
/r/seduction18/04/21 01:53 PM
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OP your feelings are valid. It's OK to not want your partner to have sex with someone else. However, her feelings are also valid, it's OK if she likes the idea of having an open relationship. If this is making you feel insecure about your relationship, you should have a serious conversation with her and find out if having a "closed" relationship (like the one you want) would be a deal-breaker for her. If she's OK with not seeing other people, then you can happily continue your relationship. If s…
/r/seduction18/04/21 01:48 PM
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Best of luck OP, hope that you can find a nice balance in your life! 🙌🏼 I can't wait until things go back to normal either hahah
/r/seduction10/04/21 11:18 PM
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Yes now it's hard mode because of covid... But being social is just another skill you can practice and learn! If covid doesn't allow you to go out maybe you can start planning how you're going to improve your social life. Idk go for things you like: joining a cooking course, learning a new language, sports, etc. There are even Facebook groups for people who are bored and want to hang out. Or apps like meet-up. You can start planning all of that 😊
/r/seduction10/04/21 11:11 PM
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I don't know what's your personal situation, but maybe you should spend more time being socially active? Not just meeting women but hanging out with your friends, etc. It's important to keep improving everyday, but it's also important to enjoy life. Spending years and years just working on yourself but not having fun doesn't sound healthy IMO.
/r/seduction10/04/21 10:44 PM
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good mod⬆️
/r/seduction06/04/21 07:15 PM
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Hahahah I agree with that, peace!
/r/seduction14/03/21 11:24 PM
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Lol do you know that not all lesbians use strap ons right? Dude I do have experience, and I'm pretty sure you can meet someone's sexual needs without using your penis.
/r/seduction14/03/21 07:29 PM
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Man I hope you're not serious. Like Bennifred said, the important thing is being a good lover and enjoying each other. You know lesbians don't have penises, but they still have fulfilling sexual relationships. And they do stick around when they find someone they enjoy spending time with. Also I'm sure they "plow each other's pussy" for good too.
/r/seduction14/03/21 12:28 PM
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Man then you're good, you only need to give yourself time to change your mindset. You really don't need your penis for enjoying sex. The fact that you were taking cialis shows that you still haven't fully acknowledged this. Just keep going and taking it easy. I'm sure that in a few weeks you'll be able to post your success here hahaha Best of luck OP😊
/r/seduction14/03/21 02:19 AM
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Sorry if I'm asking too much, but did you give her an orgasm? I really think she wouldn't mind about your erections if she's having fun. I swear there will be no elephant in the room if you're having fun - even without using your penis.
/r/seduction14/03/21 01:31 AM
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Hey OP, everyone's suggesting you to do exercise, stop watching porn, take it easy, etc. but it looks like you've checked those boxes already. I think that the key here is to stop thinking that an erection is necessary for having a fulfilling sexual relationship. Man your penis is not necessary to enjoy sex. Focus on giving massages, kissing all her body, performing oral sex, etc. Enjoy the process, even if you don't get a boner you'll be able to give her an orgasm, and both of you will be happi…
/r/seduction14/03/21 01:22 AM
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