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1	Why hasnt the fear of STDs and its untreatable mutations led to women treating high n count men and those who participate in casual sex as harshly as men treat high n count women? I think obsessing over "n count" and STDs gets in the way of understanding why there are double-standards and what it means for men and women to have a high number of sexual partners. Men who have high body counts have them for a reason-- they have been actively pursuing sex and had a lot of success in doing so. This requires learning how to build attraction, rapport, and escalate. It can also mean having qualities which are highly desirable-- i.e. fame, success, strong networks. Usually it is a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/20 08:23 PM
2	Why do women like to be degraded? They don't. Or at least, most do not. Even those that talk about how they enjoy being degraded are, for the most part, not communicating the actual content of what it is that is attractive. The near universal feminine fantasy is to be with a high status man or a man who they perceive as more socially valuable than they are-- this can be a more attractive man, a more powerful man, a more famous man, a more desirable man-- whatever. Value is relative. People determine their own value by how others…	/r/seduction	17/07/19 05:35 AM
1	Girl here - how can I gauge if a guy I like dates women of color without asking outright? Well, the thing is, I did not date a black chick until I dated a black chick. Even if a guy has not in the past dated a woman of color, it does not mean he is closed to the idea, it usually just means that he has not had the opportunity. I think when it comes to women, regardless of ethnicity, most men are either going to be attracted to them or they are not. Men go through this filtering process almost immediately. You can go through standard flirting and you'll be fine. Smile. Playfully Touch.…	/r/seduction	12/07/19 09:56 PM
2	Tips on getting back in the game after a hiatus I think this is the case of priorities. It does not sound like your life is yet completely together. Logistics matter enormously when it comes to successful hookups and your logistics mean you will only get laid if you go near her place. That's not a great situation. So focus on getting your career in order, get your finances right, and once you have your own place, this will be much easier. I also think you're putting a bit too much of an emphasis on going for a one night stand. In college, the…	/r/seduction	12/07/19 09:47 PM
3	Girl I went on a date with texts me this, what’s best way to respond? She’s early 20’s. I think you should develop the friendship while understanding that you have to view her as just a friend. You can form great friendships with women. More importantly for your dating life, if she is attractive the odds are she has attractive friends. Getting into a new network of attractive women and being introduced by her with proof is good. Make sure that you do not put date-like efforts into hanging out with her and that your activities are things that you just want to do. My response would b…	/r/seduction	12/07/19 09:36 PM
-1	Lady friend reinforces negative body image perception. Should I cut her out of my life? Yeah. You have to cut this off. You also need to stop befriending women that you are attracted to-- and stop making internet friends. Get off the video games or whatever it is that you are doing. Start going to the gym, google "fierce five" and just follow that work out. Get your diet right. Meet people you can fuck, not those you can't. Also, you are especially vulnerable to "developing feelings" for any woman who comes into contact with you, due to your own isolation. You have to end your enti…	/r/seduction	07/11/18 07:09 PM
1	I actually did it Awesome. Welcome to the big leagues.	/r/seduction	21/09/18 10:52 PM
5	Been dating for 2 months, she's 10 years younger, takes forever to respond to texts, how do I fix? Dude, you're banging a college chick. You are being needy. Who cares how much she's texting you. Are you sure you're exclusive even? Start getting some on the side and focus more on your interests, you're thinking about her too much.	/r/seduction	13/09/18 07:22 PM
2	Thoughts about RSD? Scam or not Anyone who is trying to sell a bootcamp or a system or anything over the cost of $30 is overcharging and should not be trusted. The best advice can be had for under that amount. The money and time is much better spent doing the following: Going to the gym. Eating healthier. Reading books. Doing approaches. Traveling Improving your career. Just doing a lot of approaches and improving your value is going to work way better than faking value or running routines. Read basic books from your library o…	/r/seduction	13/09/18 07:02 PM
0	Why has the PUA world kind of died off? Anyone who puts serious and studied effort into getting laid should have no trouble getting a notch-count in the hundreds. The thing about online dating is that it makes maintaining and replenishing a pipeline much easier. In 2009 if I lost one of my FWBs, I would have to go out for weeks to find a suitable replacement. Now, it is easier than ever before to pursue options in parallel. The thing about online is that it makes approaching infinitely easier. In a night at a bar, you can probably mak…	/r/seduction	14/08/18 02:22 AM
2	Why has the PUA world kind of died off? There are a few reasons. The stigma associated with the term PUA. That information regarding PUA tactics is readily available to women due to the internet. Image based culture emphasizes looks or social proof more than game. Getting laid is not nearly as hard anymore. The most important one is probably our change to image culture. Every time a person swipes left or right on tinder, they are subconsciously reaffirming many things-- the importance of appearance is chief among them. Each swipe is a…	/r/seduction	13/08/18 10:25 PM
1	The idea of changing who you are So, there is a mix of advice I have here. "Be Yourself" is the single shittiest piece of advice I have ever heard. It adopts this attitude of surrender and the idea that you cannot improve. Your goal should be "Be The Best Version of Yourself". This involves changing your habits, lifestyle and the way you interact with others. Imagine if you were told as a baby that it was fine to just "be yourself", that you didn't have to learn how to talk, or how to stop shitting yourself. That is what "Be Yo…	/r/seduction	06/08/18 06:37 PM
1	Can you give me your advice about which youtube channels are the best for advice and in field footage? The best advice I can give you is to stop watching these channels and do not follow them regularly. You will learn more by going out. You will achieve more by going out. The more time you spend following these guys, the less you gain and the more you lose. The information of value is stuff you probably have already heard.	/r/seduction	06/08/18 06:25 PM