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| 3 | Why are 80% of women late for dates?Last time I waited 5 minutes, then left and went to do something else (window shopping). When she called me and asked where i was I told her exactly what I wrote here. I think thats the best approach. After 15 minutes just bail, if she calls ill go back. I always choose a place near me first date to avoid wasting time and resources. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 04:43 AM |
| 1 | She has a boyfriend, but wants to lose her virginity to me.This girl is cray. She could say you raped her if anyone finds out. Be careful | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Finally found abundance and self resepctIm gonna be real here and for me, this sort of behaviour was only the tip of the iceberg of what is now a titanic struggle that ive been having against myself for a year and ongoing with professional help, in orded to change the way i think and perceive things Do you think in black and white? Do you sometimes feel like your girlfriend is the best in the world or sometimes, the devil herself? It turned out, to sum it up shortly, that these issues stemmed back right to my childhood.. neglectful pa… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 02:15 AM |
| 1 | I'm [M23] dating a girl [F22] from over seas, but theirs a catch...My last ex was like that. Did stuff like said she doesnt like anal. Never had much sex. She also liked a lot of sex, like 5 times a day. I felt pressured to keep up. Once I literally smashed up her pussy so bad (she came and was into it) it literally put her pussy out of commission, and i felt relieved. Then turns around. Now my asshole, better than nothing. Dick slid in so easily. Umm wtf.. I still dont know what she was really like but after that day i had a bad feeling | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Haven't had sex in 3 years. Am I gonna suck?Im really stuck in the rut you described:( im avoiding sexual contact and jacking off like crazy now. Especially recently. Feels like shit. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Finally found abundance and self resepctSounds like theres a lot more going on than what was in the post. This sounds like a "straw that broke the camels back" scenario.. am I right? If thats the case, you need to learn to not let it get that far until you are literally exploding with rage that you do something. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 12:36 AM |
| 1 | After making great strides in my development, with a naked woman in front of me for the first time, I couldn’t keep it up and do the deed. How do I get past this?This helps even after a dry spell or a really nasty event that has put you out of the mood for sex for so long that its like being a virgin all over again. I find massage parlours nice because you get to relax and de-stress with a massage before a HJ or the deed. Also happy endings can be covid safe with masks and disposable cover on the massage table | /r/askTRP | 28/08/20 06:23 PM |
| 1 | I'm [M23] dating a girl [F22] from over seas, but theirs a catch...Can you explain the dead giveaways? This is something I really suck at. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/20 03:30 PM |
| 2 | girls have guy friends vs guys having girl friendsNot really just a friend if you fuck them. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/20 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Girl I simped for in university wants to visit me and hang out on my sailboat. Yay or nay?Im 26 but probably a bit underdeveloped socially. Im also super sensitive. My dad and siblings used to belittle me a lot growing up and im hyper sensitive to criticism. Working on it. My inner game sucks. I never thought of it as a shit test. I can see your point tho. If she was in the same city maybe I'd go for it but shed have to make a whole trip for me and idk if it would be worth the hassle. I was also in East Africa for a few months and yeah girls would cross the street for me. I never got… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/20 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Any tips on being more dominant in the bedroom, and giving PIV orgasms?Great comment. And remember people, rape fantasy =/= wanting real rape. There is no such thing as a true rape fantasy except maybe in the rarest and most unstable minds. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/20 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Do 10%-20% of guys really sleep with 80% of the girls?Do you find those guys who get a lot to be internally fucked up? My "chad" friends all succumbed to depression, alcoholism, or one even had such a bad identity crisis he went on estrogen and cut his dick off. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/20 02:41 PM |
| 14 | Do 10%-20% of guys really sleep with 80% of the girls?Yes. I have a lot of male friends and it goes like this. Tho its probably more like 5% of the guys are fucking 60% of the women. So most of my friends its the same thing... struggles mostly with girls, scores once in a while. Then i ask my chad friend(s) and its more like this Me: "How many chicks have you gotten on Tinder?" Him: "um not much lately.. maybe 3 or 5 girls" Me: "same since ive started tinder. When did you start" Him: "No I meant this week" They will also mention stuff like getting … | /r/askTRP | 27/08/20 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Girl I simped for in university wants to visit me and hang out on my sailboat. Yay or nay?Im wondering how much you truly interacted with them because while they are funny and charming, they are just PRETENDING to be unicorns and where they cant make up for it they lie (a lot) and are incredibly unreliable. Very common for cultures that place unrealistic expectations on women, they grow up to be manipulative liars, basically damaged by it. Anyway yeah we video called (she lives two hours away) she was very flirty and kept pressing me if I was single and what-not (this time i learned … | /r/askTRP | 26/08/20 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Are women from dating apps LTR material?Almost every girl i met who was quality had been on the app for very little time. They either get sick of it and delete it or get scooped up real quick. You can notice if they are new to dating apps because they write back to you like a normal human with manners while the girls who are regulars reply like they have the attention span of a 4 year old. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 09:12 PM |
| 1 | How to get out of a severe drought??Escort, happy ending massage parlour | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Is Prince Harry a beta?What has MM done to ruin his rep? Genuinely curious as to what you mean. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 03:18 PM |
| 4 | Girl I simped for in university wants to visit me and hang out on my sailboat. Yay or nay?So the reason for that is I have diagnosed PTSD. My last girlfriend suddenly snapped and had a psychotic break and almost got us killed. She was the most calm and sweet person up until that point so I have serious issues being alone and isolated with anyone who shows signs of mental problems who I dont know well. It seriously limits me. Ive made lots of progress, just a few months ago I'd still hide all the sharp objects in the house and pre cut any food ingredients before i had a girl over to c… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Girl I simped for in university wants to visit me and hang out on my sailboat. Yay or nay?You are right. Im quite the white collar shark. Everyone at works thinks I must get laid all the time. People who know me in my personal life can hardly believe I'm a fit for my job. Ive never been able to translate that tenaciousness to my love life. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 06:26 AM |
| 3 | Girl I simped for in university wants to visit me and hang out on my sailboat. Yay or nay?E was definitrly not flirting she sounded legit angry. All of em were fucking strange. Id rather fuck a girl who can communicate like an adult and not worry they are gonna take my kidney after. Edit: girl A was a problem because she refused to verify herself through a snap before i went. Not going straight from the app to someone's house without identity vetting. I dont want a honey trap. . Girl D not gonna lie she just wasn't attractive enough for the hassle. Girl B also was fatter than her pic… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 06:13 AM |
| 19 | Girl I simped for in university wants to visit me and hang out on my sailboat. Yay or nay?Everybody is this thread is invited. In fact im buying you all a sailboat. Thanks bros.😎 | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Girl I simped for in university wants to visit me and hang out on my sailboat. Yay or nay?Haha thank you sir. Unfortunately I live quite far away from there. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 05:08 AM |
| 6 | Girl I simped for in university wants to visit me and hang out on my sailboat. Yay or nay?Girl A. Demanding I come over that very night, or else she'd ghost me Girl B: volunteered to come on the boat.. ended up drunk calling me once angrily asking why I hadn't done it yet, accusing me of lying that I even had a boat at all Girl C: just bizarre in general. Sent me random snaps of her expressionless face, no context. Called me at 4:30 AM. Didnt answer Girl D: instantly offered to come on. Idk just had a feeling she'd be like girl B and stopped talking to her Girl E: took her out on a d… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 04:57 AM |
| -2 | Girl I simped for in university wants to visit me and hang out on my sailboat. Yay or nay?Cunty comment tbh | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 04:40 AM |
| 4 | Girl I simped for in university wants to visit me and hang out on my sailboat. Yay or nay?I dont value her friendship. I have female friends like this, she will not be one of them. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Girl I simped for in university wants to visit me and hang out on my sailboat. Yay or nay?Growing up incredibly blue pilled means you build your whole life around acquiring resources. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 02:54 AM |
| 4 | Girl I simped for in university wants to visit me and hang out on my sailboat. Yay or nay?Good points and the last sentence really sticks. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Girl I simped for in university wants to visit me and hang out on my sailboat. Yay or nay?I have literally been catcalled by girls and its not uncommon to see girls smiling at me as I walk by. In fact I get anxious when I don't get some form of attention, that's how used I've gotten to it. But my pics. Holy shit I look like 15 years older and kind of dumb. I have a unique complexion that comes out as sickly on cameras. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 01:17 AM |
| 6 | Girl I simped for in university wants to visit me and hang out on my sailboat. Yay or nay?I think you're right. Im idealizing what could happen and im just going to ruin my confidence | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 01:07 AM |
| 6 | Girl I simped for in university wants to visit me and hang out on my sailboat. Yay or nay?I dont have good pics of myself. I've been bugging a photographer friend to help me but my results have been about as pathetic as my current pics. I get a lot of attention IRL but I'm really un photogenic somehow. Covid has been a bit of a nightmare for this reason its been so hard to meet girls. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 01:03 AM |
| 3 | Girl I simped for in university wants to visit me and hang out on my sailboat. Yay or nay?We've never been touchy flirty. I've always felt like she has a crush on me but for one reason or another pushes me away. Its worth mentioning that im white and shes from a conservative black background and ive noticed shes always put physical distance when around me and other black (west african) men. I suspect she doesnt want to be seen with a white man but maybe has a thing for me. However I've noticed that shes really put that stuff behind her recently as she moved to a big cosmopolitan city… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 12:58 AM |
| 25 | Girl I simped for in university wants to visit me and hang out on my sailboat. Yay or nay?Girls on tinder are always mental cases in my experience and I deleted all the apps because some of the girls were seriously a little aggressive. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 12:46 AM |
| -5 | Girl I simped for in university wants to visit me and hang out on my sailboat. Yay or nay?Im pretty sure i did block her but i forgot the whole incident and changed numbers and she reached out on LinkedIn. I totally ignored her until honestly I had a dream I had sex with her and went from there and then remembered why I don't talk to her lol. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 12:45 AM |
| 77 | Girl I simped for in university wants to visit me and hang out on my sailboat. Yay or nay?I would 1000x times prefer to have a bro on the boat than a ho at this point. You'd be surprised how many guys are pussies and don't understand the appeal of one though. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 12:42 AM |
| 3 | Flirty text examples?Gold | /r/askTRP | 19/08/20 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Friend embarrassed me infront of girl I was talking to.You simped by your reaction You immediately bottled up your emotions and then damage controled framing it around the girl. You shoulda done what you wanted to do. Get angry as fuck and yell at your "friend" or worse and not care about what the girl thinks. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/20 09:15 PM |
| 2 | After getting with multiple 'unicorns', I've noticed that no matter what, when you get to truly know their personalities, they are literally all the same.... so how do some guys stay with an LTR for so long, don't you get bored?If you like to fuck crazy that much, you are probably crazy too. Speaking from experience.. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/20 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Catfish ruined my energyI felt very much in the way that OP is feeling and from now on told myself i will never bring a girl home unless im 100% into it. No hookups for sake of hookups. But yes they are. So fucking entitled. They all want to fuck chads and break down in tears and tantrums if they are confronted with the reality that they are not attractive yet all the same they only go for fit guys despite preaching fat acceptance. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/20 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Catfish ruined my energySimilar experience... as soon as she whipped off her shirt it smelled like rotten milk (her armpits im guessing)... like wtf.... i told her right there im done and she became hysterical, crying and insulting me. Called me a little virgin bitch as i was calling her an uber. She insulted me for so long she missed her uber even. I let her insult me because i feel like if i didnt let her do that and the next thing id hear about was a false rape accusation. At least this way she felt like she got her… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/20 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Other than lifting and reading, what are some other hobbies for people with a lot of free time?Its so politicized that you can find "definite facts" for either sides. Personally for those reasons im not going to get into it. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 04:13 AM |
| 3 | Do you kiss girls after blowjob and after you came in her mouth?I feel you.. must have been horrible tbh. I dont know how women can handle having a load blown in their mouth. My ex was into spit exchange (im not) and once after 3 weeks of not cumming (we were apart) I blew my load in her mouth. Then she comes up for a kiss with puffed cheeks looking expectantly... Uhh no. Sorry can't do it. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/20 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Is being able to live in your own place a gamechanger?Yes and no. It helps once you close but if you can't close it wont help. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Do women actually care about your morals?In your experience do those women actually seem neglected by their husband's or has the relationship high just worn off? | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Should I focus on self improvement instead of girls for a while ?Yeah same until now. Im unironically a much happier and more interesting person since covid because I developed a bunch of cool passions and hobbies. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 03:17 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with mainstream forms of cuckholdry when someone brings it up?Ah, seems youre right. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 02:12 AM |
| 3 | How do you deal with mainstream forms of cuckholdry when someone brings it up?No, by arguing, you are coming off as weak. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 10:06 PM |
| 3 | How do you deal with mainstream forms of cuckholdry when someone brings it up?By getting angry and arguing you are falling right into their trap. They will actually just get turned on by it. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 10:00 PM |
| 0 | How do you deal with mainstream forms of cuckholdry when someone brings it up?There are many such novels with that title. Who is the author? | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 08:37 PM |
| 5 | Why Are Ugly Girls So Entitled Whereas Many Hot Girls Are Cool?Thats fair. I almost never approach | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 12:45 PM |
| 6 | Why Are Ugly Girls So Entitled Whereas Many Hot Girls Are Cool?I have this rule too actually. I barely fuck. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Broke up with LTR and she's begging to take mr back. What should I do?Personally I'd give it a try, because it sounds like you want to. Dont put too much stock into what you read for advice like this. You'll just get a bunch of "dump her bro" but as long as she agrees to therapy if its really that bad.. go for it.. you can always end it again and idk. People can change if they want it for themselves. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 08:01 AM |
| 1 | 19yr, good looking, getting girls but can’t fuck. I feel like my whole world is crushing. What next?Honestly? You need professional help at this point. Nothing else will substitute for it. Edit: its important to learn self love. Only masturbate with condoms inside a flashlight if possible. Feels like but you can get used to it it will feel pretty good. Sex is just sex. Mixing up the rest of your emotions into it during a hookup is recipe for disaster. If you can't do that stay away from hookups unless you're really feeling it. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 02:38 PM |
| 3 | 19yr, good looking, getting girls but can’t fuck. I feel like my whole world is crushing. What next?That is totally how i got through it dude. Hookup girls will dispose of you at the first sign of trouble and it will only make your issues worse. The shocking ruthlessness of women outside relationships is amazing, and very natural to them. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 02:08 PM |
| 2 | 19yr, good looking, getting girls but can’t fuck. I feel like my whole world is crushing. What next?I had all the problems OP described. I even got a viagra prescription and it did nothinh. That was 5 years ago. Im far better off now. Still struggle with hookup sex but no issues in LTRs at all. Once i got in an LTR i could literally fuck 3 times in a row, up to 6 times a day. OP does watch too much porn probably.. a habit ive only been able to mostly shake recently. I also suffered from largely unattainable fetishes. I had a lot of emotional issues that cropped up during sex. Becoming an emoti… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Father died, girlfriend left me shortly afterThis is weird to me? I have full on ugly cried in front of my girlfriends and if anything it only made our relationships better at the time. Plenty of sex kept coming too. Wtf are you guys doing to end up with women like this. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 02:43 AM |
| 35 | Guy at my LTRs job is trying fuck herIt honestly sounds like shes covertly asking if she can fuck him "well... he said his girlfriend is okay with it.." umm | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 02:22 AM |
| 1 | waves of having good erections...then notI find stress is ruinous. Even a couple of bad stress days can ruin my erections for a few more days than that if not trigger a full on 2 weeks of bad erections. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Just got dumped minutes ago by LTR. How to respond?Im not even going to reply to all that. You can come up with as much cultural pseudoscience as you want.. i doubt it will work out for you in the end and I hope you realize the only thing you can control is your own quality as a male. Shopping somewhere else wont change your value forever. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Just got dumped minutes ago by LTR. How to respond?Holy shit. Spitting truth here. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Just got dumped minutes ago by LTR. How to respond?You are delusional man. Slavic women are massive whores. Other cultures you mentioned not much better. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 07:06 PM |
| 2 | What is a, 75-100 pounds overweight with shinsplints, exercise plan? Assuming we can't even sustain a mile of running.First if all that's amazing. Props for turning your life around, but... Bro you shouldn't be eating that much tuna.. haven't you heard of mercury poisoning? | /r/askTRP | 11/04/20 04:24 PM |
| 7 | How to find a quality gf in 2020? Notice half of relationship_advice posts are about beta bucks finding out about gf sex past.I've made some terrible decisions by taking the advice from that sub in the past. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/20 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Johnny Depp and Amber Heard situationI feel like you are wondering how someone at Depps status could get wrapped up in this. It has to do with childhood issues. Men who have unstable childhoods have a way higher tolerance, if not preference, for crazy behaviour. This is covered in No More Mr Nice Guy tangentially. It's not about how status doesnt protect you from crazy, it's about how status doesnt protect you from childhood trauma and relational dysfunction. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 06:58 AM |
| 2 | Johnny Depp and Amber Heard situationRight wing can be very beta too. Traditional values is basically just a framework to protect beta providers. Most religions are pretty beta. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 06:53 AM |
| 2 | What is the best advice you got from a natural?I disagree. Hiding anger is very beta and a people pleasing move, especially if you've been wronged. Getting anger for feelings of powerlessness however is beta. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 04:05 PM |
| 1 | NoFap and the Cure to CoronavirusThey were my girlfriends. So when couldn't see them for a week or two I'd practice nofap. At first they think it's stupid but then they'd track my progress when they were gone lol | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/20 03:35 PM |
| 5 | NoFap and the Cure to CoronavirusYup once I explained to girls how nofap works and what it does to me they love it. At first they dont get it, but once they are around and I've been doing nofap for a while.. they love the animalistic desire side of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/20 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Is adoption beta?It's absolutely beta to adopt. I get insulted at the idea of it. Doubly so if you are adopting from those people who pop out 8 kids a decade and let them starve in the streets.. they dont give a shit about them, why is it your job to clean up after their broken culture and society? By adopting you are just enabling broken behaviours. If a girl wants you to adopt and not have your kid, subconsciously on some level she doesnt think you're a worthy father. And probably shes just giving in to cultur… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 06:13 AM |
| 0 | Lonely WomanShe could be something like bipolar. I met a girl like that without the dogs and turned out she was manically bipolar. She could also just be a loner or something else. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Should I next this girl? Approached me, she's "Damaged", 3rd date still nothing, knows about "trp"Bruh I think you should go for if you like her. Yeah shes damaged goods but shes conscious of it which is 70% of the battle. She seems to really like you and being a male who suffered from trauma I can tell you shes not faking it because she has the real signs. She probably does want to fuck you badly but trauma is like petting a dog after being mauled by one. It takes more time to build trust. Be very careful. Do not cut your balls off for her and also if shes acting unamenable you can always w… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Most girls are sad and attentation / validation whoring so much because of quarantine?My friend was furiously asking why his gf was doing similar stuff on her insta stories and when I tried to explain the concept of women who need constant validation and the quarantine making it worse I got shut down for being sexist. Called my ex fwb and she flat out said "I need atteeeeeentiiiooooon so bad omg" | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Why is there such an emphasis on men to have sex?Solid advice, but I feel I'm at that point already. Just need to nofap once the quarantine is done | /r/askTRP | 26/03/20 08:23 AM |
| 1 | If a woman tried to shame you in public what is the best way to act?That's pretty funny lel | /r/askTRP | 25/03/20 08:54 PM |
| 4 | What effect would legalized, widespread, and normalized prostitution have on the sexual dating market?Oof that's fucking sad actually | /r/askTRP | 25/03/20 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Do male musturbators improve sensitivity? Like a flesh lightYeah. This is what I use to practice with different style condoms. I have a really bad circumcision and a really thick dick and those 2 things combined made it extremely hard for me to get a condom I could ejaculate in. I used a pink lady fleshlight (the widest one) to practice ejaculation with a condom and they have really improved my ability to get hard and recover from death grip. If I'm dating a girl or spinning a plate in theory I'd quit masturbation and only use fleshlight plus condom to p… | /r/askTRP | 25/03/20 05:51 AM |
| 1 | How to increase matches on tinder if you're not ripped yet?This makes me so depressed I've been on tinder for years and only fucked one girl from it.. god damn I have work to do. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/20 05:45 AM |
| 3 | Why is there such an emphasis on men to have sex?Fuck I grew up in a family totally dominated by women and this rings true to me in a way I couldn't verbalize. I still catch myself acting randomly feminine with girls because I was raised that masculinity is evil. Even 1 week back with my family can severely pussify me. Any reading to suggest? | /r/askTRP | 25/03/20 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Fucked up by being honestFuck, raising another man's child is my nightmare. Cant believe so many dudes do it | /r/askTRP | 15/03/20 09:24 PM |
| 3 | Gym Closed. Wtf do I do ?Cucked by bat soup | /r/askTRP | 15/03/20 09:12 PM |
| 5 | Why do betas stop at nothing to try to cockblock me?What the fuck are you doing man, just learn how to cook delicious italian or french food and have good wine, nice looking place. A great meal is good enough to build sexual tension, and an energy boost which helps horniness. You are cucking yourself bringing her in public before you fuck. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/20 09:08 PM |
| 1 | How to Ask a Girl about her Sexual Fantasies without Seeming Supplicating?It's not really that but if I feel like a girl doesnt actually have feelings for me (or me for her) I dont even get turned on. My only plate I got really rock hard for eventually admitted her feelings for me. Maybe i should make another thread | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 12:45 AM |
| 1 | How to Ask a Girl about her Sexual Fantasies without Seeming Supplicating?When you started spinning plates did you have trouble sexually connecting with them? I feel like it's a learning curve. I had 2 LTRs without sexual problems but honestly I'm shit at getting aroused for plates. Maybe I should make my own thread. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 09:32 PM |
| 1 | How to Ask a Girl about her Sexual Fantasies without Seeming Supplicating?Can you give some examples of being stung? Now do you get to know their kinks before getting attached to them? | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 06:36 PM |
| 1 | How to Ask a Girl about her Sexual Fantasies without Seeming Supplicating?Do you really give them those crazy orgasms? I can give girls screaming shaking orgasms.. have twice now at least.. but I'm really scared to do it outside an LTR because I'm afraid theyll get obsessed or addicted. Has that happened to you? I'm also afraid that very kinky girls are usually mentally ill.. Also do you buy it when girls say stuff like "yeah I watch threesome/gangbang porn, but trust me! I would never actually do it. It's just porn." For me I've been disqualifying girls as LTR materi… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Plate having sex with roommate to get under my skin: What to do?Be very careful. These are some cluster B personality disorder moves shes pulling. Personally, dont blame your roommate. Let go of your pride on that one. I get it though.. sort of been there .. but I really think you should move on from that but if you cant, tell him you dont like it and leave it at that. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Any way to recover from this?Why not? Who cares if they sleep over. What's to lose? Lots of girls wont even come over if they know theyll have to commute all the way back right after sex. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 03:55 PM |
| 0 | Any way to recover from this?You would only perceive it that way if you are insecure. It's relevant to the story because it explains her eagerness but not his reaction. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 03:53 PM |
| 1 | GF wants me to take Mayer Briggs personality test. Is this a trap?It's a meme personality test that no good psychologist uses. Its basically a bunch of bullshit | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 04:56 AM |
| 2 | M(20) Dumped Asian LTR (22)Asian women can be manipulative as fuck. They try to gaslight and control you more than other cultures do. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Anybody have success in auditing their Cortisol levels? (For more effective testosterone)I'm really thinking the cortisol thing is true. The youtube ad? He did mention studies. I had very high T just six months ago and then I got PTSD. I have the classic low T skinny fat body now and my sex drive has plummeted. That video woke me up to how much I've slipped. I noticed the same thing happen to my cousin. Used to be very alpha and after a tour in Afghanistan he got PTSD. Sorry to say but hes very soy now to the point that he let's others fuck his gf and he doesnt get much. Trauma turn… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Any Indian TRP thread present?A part of canada that didn't have POC until recently. Also ruined stuff like co ed drop in sports. Women would stop showing up because swarms of POC dudes (never any women) would come to hit on the white girls and all but the most attention deprived would stop coming. If female POC would have come the men would probably flip out and trash these women in private. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/20 10:11 PM |
| 12 | How to deal with a girl who says "are you always this quiet ? "This doesnt work. Shell eventually think you're a pussy if you can't express yourself. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/20 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with a fanatic plateI'm sorry man. The missile has locked on. Damage control is your only tool in the box now. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 02:49 PM |
| 9 | What makes some men Magnetic/Gang LeadersThe ability to inspire men and lead by example. Julius Caesar had an almost cult like following from his legions and it basically boiled down to his amazing strategic and leadership skills, but also his ability to inspire, keep them fed and paid, and a fraternal love for them such as mounting huge expeditions to save a few dozen soldiers at all costs. Every soldier felt special serving Caesar and saw a future with him as a better version of themselves (riches and plunder, masters of a new world … | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Any Indian TRP thread present?They have an inferiority complex to white people and their only source of self esteem is to try and lay any white girls. Also why they hit the gym 16 times a week. A lot of POC base their entire identity around trying to get laid with white girls and proving their worth or trying to humiliate white society. Also why POC go into sports and music so much. They are drawn to social power due to inferiority sentiments. So many Indian and black guys always make a point to try and emasculate me by clai… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Any Indian TRP thread present?This is my experience as well. I rarely go clubbing anymore because POC ruined the vibe | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 01:56 AM |
| 1 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?She was majorly into that too. I'm so glad I posted to this sub because that's a big revelation that she was using sex to have power over me. That's a game changer. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 07:12 PM |
| 1 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?Yeah stuff like this would happen. She got mad once at christmas when I wouldn't go to the bathroom at my families house and film myself cumming. I got about halfway and was like fuck this and she whined about it not being fair to her. She wouldn't really flip out or anything but got seriously pouty when I didn't give in to her hypersexual demands. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 05:21 PM |
| 1 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?Thanks man. That waa very sobering. Thanks for sharing your story. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 05:18 PM |
| 1 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?Yeah read it thanks. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 05:09 PM |
| 1 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?Even if she didn't do that we should have still broken up. She was kind of a loser and wasnt going anywhere in life and by her own words wanted to stay poor and travel the world. Our objectives didn't like up. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 05:07 PM |
| 2 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?I've know people with BPD quite closely and she only showed some BPD tendencies. She was quite sweet, never raised her voice or anything. But she was also quite manipulative and lying came easy to her, if only to avoid disagreements. There was like a 3 week period that she just got more and more crazy everyday it was the fastest mental spiral I've ever seen. I don't doubt that she has some cluster B type thing but what was shocking is that I was already familiar with those traits glaringly. Cant… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 05:04 PM |
| 1 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 04:56 PM |
| 3 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?It may be. I cant be sure. But I'm taking it as a sign. It could be my brain trying to make a monster out of her so I stay away from her too. Either way it makes no difference. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 04:52 PM |
| 2 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?That's exactly how I felt while in the relationship too. But even at that it was still better to break up. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 04:50 PM |
| 1 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?That is what my psych is saying. That I'm craving connection. But she doesnt understand that the contrast of great sex and OK sex is a big part of the pit I feel. To be fair I'm not exactly eager to tell her just how much I sexualized my ex. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 04:47 PM |
| 1 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?Not full blown but I'd say most men have some subtle cuck tendencies these days without noticing it. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 04:45 PM |
| 2 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?Thanks you are the first person ITT who praised me for my action to save her and myself. Appreciate it. The rest of your advice is also really good. Cheers. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 03:02 PM |
| 2 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?I dont watch porn. I've always avoided it even as a kid cause watching other people fuck each other will make a voyeur cuck out of you eventually. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 02:54 PM |
| 1 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?This is rock fucking solid. This is exactly it. What I was looking for. Thanks for writing that up. I'm saving it. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 02:45 PM |
| 1 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?Sorry look at my edit. Cheers have a good night. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 06:56 AM |
| 0 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?Yeah. Gonna have to say this. Fuck you, you judgemental piece of shit. Yes. I am in the same boat as you. Knew plenty of people who committed suicide. Saved some, others no. Sometimes theres nothing you can do. There were signs. And I asked her. She assured me I was worrying over nothing and she'd never do that. I'm not giving you the details because you'll just find some other way to judge me. Trust me. I did my job as best as anyone could. I dumped her for HER well being and mine. A concept th… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 06:49 AM |
| 1 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?you're blaming me for her attempted suicide and being a shitty partner? Yeesh you probably would have went for a piss and pass out while she did it and not notice til you rolled out of bed. The rest of your points perhaps stand though. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 06:10 AM |
| 0 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?It isn't truly a question of getting back with her or not. It's about finding that sexual connection again that rivaled what we had before. With someone else. And my frustration that it isn't nearly happening. As another said. It was probably only that good because I was in love with her. The reason its not as good with other girls is because I was not in love with them. I realize now that what I'm craving is a connection and the great sex that comes with it. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 05:25 AM |
| 5 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?Thanks for sharing. I appreciate it. This thread is really driving it home that I must not get back with her. You are right. I got drunk last night and thought of messaging her and then passed out. I had the worse nightmare yet. Like a Japanese horror movie. It was years later and we got back together, she said she got a good job and was doing well for herself, said she had her own house. We called back and forth for months, and I flew over to spend time in her house. The house was abandoned, li… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 05:08 AM |
| 0 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?yeah fuck that. Thats just telling her that next time she has to go right for the jugular. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 04:52 AM |
| -1 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?honestly im just being over the top on purpose with that verbiage. Also PTSD is a spectrum. I never said I have the same kind of PTSD as a war vet that is just you pushing your pre-conceived notions of the illness onto my situation. For everything else honestly you are just projecting here buddy. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 04:50 AM |
| 0 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?Thanks. Luckily I have a chad tier job and am using some of the best psychological services in the country. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 03:09 AM |
| 2 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?she didnt overpower me whatsoever. Doesn't mean it wasn't assault. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 03:08 AM |
| 5 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?Are you actually suggesting getting back with her? Yikes, I almost went to prison for murder dude. I also make far more money than her and she could divorce rape me. There were other problems than the suicide episode. She also physically assaulted me when I refused to let her kill herself. You're right. My PTSD isn't that bad as a soldiers. It's still PTSD though. She was also showing some possible signs of being a whore but our relationship didn't go as far for me to find out. I have thought of… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 02:52 AM |
| 11 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?Yeah OK, thats true when I think about it, I've been getting far better at getting over her these past 6 months. It's just that at 6 I still hate that I miss it but maybe you're right just give it a bit more time and maintain no contact. She was a thoroughly nutty woman tbh. My PTSD was a bulwark in forcing me not to contact her but it's dissipating now and has caused a fresh wave of longing for those experiences we had. But your words are true, I will just have to continue a grieving process th… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 02:47 AM |
| 17 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?Did it bother you as much as it does for me? Do you just cope with having not so good sex now? | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 02:37 AM |
| 17 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?I can't keep my high SMV plates in line. I have one high SMV plate but she's like kind of awkward or something and not really sex driven. Just doesn't have a sexy personality. Had another very kinky and high SMV one and things were going well but she suddenly ghosted me The PTSD also makes it hard to meet women. I have to go more slowly. Harder to make a sexual bond too. Working on it and its going well enough though. Luckily my own SMV is very high but unfortunately it seems that once your SMV … | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 02:35 AM |
| 3 | Women never stick around long enough to ask for exclusivity. Am I just low SMV?You didnt take her out much, suck at communication, ghosted her for 10 days without even telling her why... Jesus dude. No wonder she moved on. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Sex in publicBe careful. Yeah my ex brought me to a spot in the woods that all these cars were driving by and could see us fuck (i didnt do it because, kids in those cars!), I also pushed her up against windows naked and would fuck her too things like that But she was nuts. Girls like this may come from traumatic backgrounds of childhood sexual abuse. Ended up getting violent with me and nearly killing herself suddenly | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 02:36 AM |
| 1 | It happened again, girl I started seeing doesn’t want anything serious, what’s my issue?Idk. With interracial dating you want to avoid anyone at all who has racial preferences. Its not a popular opinion people with racial preferences have a lack of judgment and are not to be trusted. She wants a hot Indian guy? Hates white guys? She will drop you when she finds a better one. You always lose with people who cant see past race. And usually racial preferences are a phase and she'll phase you once she gets over it | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 01:50 AM |
| 1 | How do you get over the insecurities/jealousy from orbiters that come along with a hot girlThis, my ex LTR was fuckin 10/10 and it drove me nuts. However I think OP should dump his gf because shes a waitress amd sounds like an instragram ho and probably dresses provocatively. Shes inundating herself in this kind of attention cause shes a validation thot. My ex was hot but didnt post any body shots on instagram and didnt do thotty jobs like waitressing. She had all sorts of insane problems but i would have dropped her if she started seeking validation. I dumped her for something else. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 01:22 AM |
| 3 | It happened again, girl I started seeing doesn’t want anything serious, what’s my issue?It could be because your Indian. Lots of white people hook up with people of darker races but not consider them as LTR material. For your own sanity avoid anyone who fetishizes your race specifically except for busting your nut. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Do your women cum often?Yeah thats good advice. My problem is that whenever they start really spluttering and moaning when Im doing freaky shit to them and they visibly start losing their mind and I cum before they do.. But im guessing thats just practice. I haven't been fucking for long. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 05:53 PM |
| 5 | Walked out on a girl, was this handled appropriately?Dont listen to these dudes, they don't get it. You did the right thing. You acted on a gut feeling and she flipped out and got nearly violent and crazy and these weaksauce dudes are blaming YOU for it. Her reaction was not at all appriopriate. Imagine what would happen in a real argument... In a years long relationship or marriage. Youd have a knife in your back. Dont look back! Forget about her Edit: this "giving" behaviour was probably her buying "good girlfriend" tokens to excuse other irrede… | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 05:01 AM |
| 5 | Do your women cum often?Are you making a point of stimulating the clit to get them off? Or banging them hard and rough? In my experience I've only been able to get a girl to cum once with penetration.. But stimulating the clit seems the way to go and its backed by statistics (90% of women claim they dont cum from penetration) I have a hard time believing the dudes who say they make em cum several times with their dick. That seems to be a rare kind of girl rather then the skill of the guy. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 10:44 PM |
| 1 | So basically her having a boyfriend means absolutely nothing?So I would say its far more likely for a woman dating/married to a doctor to cheat.. For the reason that they really are married to career. Same with lawyer or maybe even business exec. Too many hours at the office. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?Its not true, not every hot girl is a club going thot. It sounds like you like the hiphop thots. Lots of hot girls are goals driven too | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?They congregate in areas that arent degenerate. I found high quality classy women at work events (im done uni) or in co-ed sports environments. There are also more up class bars and clubs that attract better people. Community clubs or young professional clubs too. Rock climbing clubs are popular now too. Hang out somewhere where people go to escape and let loose? Youll find degenerates.. Hang out somewhere where self improvment is the objective? Thats where youll find your people. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?You just arent associating with "your" people. Join a toastmasters club at your uni. I hear you dude, I felt the same in uni but maybe could still let loose a little more than you, but not often. It does get better, but you have to make steps to associate with the kind of people you want to be around. There are plenty of girls who hate hip hop and degeneracy, dont kid yourself, but it does seem hard to conceive when you're around it so often. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?Stop going to those kinds of clubs, period. I started going to a club that doesnt play that degenerate shit and its so easy for me to get high quality women there because they go there to escape degenerates. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?I had the same problem. The trick is to stop associating with people who value degeneracy | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 08:16 PM |
| 8 | LTR. Is it worth it?Fundamentaly it benefits women more than men. Open LTRs are for betas or people who are damaged goods and cant connect with others but still need security. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Dreaded too hard? STFU too much? Did I fuck up?Yeah thats kind of a rookie way of expressing yourself but I think its important you took a first step. A better way would be to express yourself all the way through your interactions. Youll get there with help How to get over her? By realizing that you were chasing an illusion in the first place. Infatuation comes from a place of avoidance of internal pain. If we get rid of the internal pain to begin with, we wont get as infatuated or dependant on others. Its not bad to get a little dependent b… | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 09:41 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to another guy asking your ltr to dance?I know.. Thats why I said mixed feelings. You raised good points. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 09:38 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to another guy asking your ltr to dance?Because you could potentially just be teaching her how to act around you but shes her real self without you. Its not the case everytime but I did that in my last relationship and now Id rather girls just be themselves and then ill make a decision about them | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 09:03 PM |
| 2 | How do you respond to another guy asking your ltr to dance?We arent talking about the same thing, but i essentially agree with you on many points. Im talking about being in situations with a high smv LTR being brought to these events. These guys whove internalized bachata and reggaeton from young ages hardly have good intentions and can basically have sex on the dancefloor. They can swoop up your gf, push some boundaries while you start off with the bottom of the barrell and some pity dances. I would never start off green with an LTR in these places. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 06:54 PM |
| 2 | How do you respond to another guy asking your ltr to dance?Hm ok. I have mixed feelings on this approach tho. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 06:11 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to another guy asking your ltr to dance?It will reduce their attraction to you on a subconscious level, trust me. Its a net negative that you have to compensate for otherwise. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 06:05 PM |
| 2 | How do you respond to another guy asking your ltr to dance?You've just reminded me to continue attending dance lessons while Im still single.. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 06:04 PM |
| 12 | How do you respond to another guy asking your ltr to dance?Muslim mateguarding makes your women the biggest whores after their leash is off. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 01:43 PM |
| 9 | How do you respond to another guy asking your ltr to dance?Your advice only works if you are good at social dancing. It can be a nightmare of pseudo cuckery if you're not all that good and still learning and the best dudes there are dancing bachata with your high smv gf. One of the worst aspects of being a gringo and dating a latina for sure. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Dreaded too hard? STFU too much? Did I fuck up?Idk. I wasn't there so its hard for me to say. Its likely that you learning to be open emotionally will take possibly psychological help and a long time to really do effectively. So you could but even if she took you back you might still face significant challenges. I would say go for it if you have nothing to lose but you've already lost outcome independence so you are operating at a significant disadvantage. Its likely that if you are this broken up about it that you are facing significant per… | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Dreaded too hard? STFU too much? Did I fuck up?A lot of the instructions on this sub are exaggerated to hammer to point down.. But actually following them to a T would make you a caricature of yourself. A lot of people in this sub don't know shit and come here and act all tough to make up for their shortcomings.. So a lot of advice in this sub is kinda bullshit. Follow your gut instinct next time.. Open up if you feel like you should open up. Being emotionally mature and intelligent takes skill and a huge amount of understanding of yourself … | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 12:41 PM |
| 1 | From beta to natural alpha to beta.There is a happy medium OP. It sounds like you were with the wrong girl. You can be open with your emotions but you also need a handle on them. I would say start off by being your true self with your next woman and showing your emotions. You can be both emotionally available and not a little bitch. . You were just with a ho man but you maybe also went too far with the jealousy.. But also hos are hos. Moderation jn everything dood. Sounds like your either a stone wall or looking for a new mommy. … | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Dreaded too hard? STFU too much? Did I fuck up?Everyone is evaluating your actions but her grievance was your lack of open communication - which you both attest to. If you really were keeping things brief and trying to be a mystery well.. Thats not how you do an LTR. Typically LTRs fail due to poor communication.. Dont listen to the guys here who say that girls will drop you as soon as you open up. Maybe shallow plates will, but a true partnership requires open communication. There's nothing beta or supplicant about that, in fact, its a sign… | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls like it when you have your fingers in there mouth whilst fucking them?I got this vibe too from my ex. She couldn't enjoy sex without my fingers jammed down her throat. It was a big insecurity of mine that she maybe wanted DP. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/19 03:32 AM |
| 4 | Why do girls like it when you have your fingers in there mouth whilst fucking them?What kind of signal are you sending when you do this? Seems like you're heading towards Pandoras box and eventually she'll ask for real DP. Thoughts? Would you be comfortable with an LTR who was into that? | /r/askTRP | 31/10/19 03:30 AM |
| 1 | I'm humbled, you guys were right. This chick really tried to turn me into an orbiter and an emotional tampon for her relationship bullshit. Looks like it's time to close that chapter.This hasnt been an issue for me genuinely... Wonder where you guys find these soulless butches. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/19 01:26 AM |
| 1 | No experience = no confidence, and no confidence = no experienceWhat are hot girl issues? Curious because I only go out with hot girls and wondering if we suffer the same issues.. | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 02:03 PM |
| 1 | New to "plates", got friendzoned at the last second, but feel like the girl was tempted and almost did it. Where did I go wrong? Is this salvageable or should I hard next?So, surprisingly this girl came back and basically volunteered to be my plate after a bit of seduction.. Wew At the end of the day one of her main concerns was that she revealed she was incredibly submissive in bed and didn't think I'd be up to the task.. She was wrong :) | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Girl i've been fucking does a 180 degree turn in her attitude?You are trying to force an image of her that isn't the reality - you have to accept her behaviour as part of her. The good and the bad. "But before blah blah...." But before you just didn't know it yet. Expect to deal with it a lot more now that she knows youll put up with it. Anything less than a full apology and a credible reason+action plan INITIATED BY HER would be grounds for a breakup in my books. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Cant forget LTRIt sounds a bit like you never learned proper coping mechanisms and that you lack for ability to process your emotions and put them to rest. At this point you may need therapy. I had a traumatic breakup and what helped me what writing down whatever came to mind about her. Writing really helps to process emotions for me. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Cousin's wife freaks out after successful night at the bar, what should I do?No idea what you mean | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 02:20 PM |
| 0 | Girl i've been fucking does a 180 degree turn in her attitude?You sound like a rapist twat. She didn't want sex and was bleeding out.. Fuck can you take no for an answer? World will be better when people like you get the rope treatment. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Girl i've been fucking does a 180 degree turn in her attitude?She might be seriously mentally ill. I had a similar situation and she was hiding that she was ill.. I went back with a bad gut feeling and it ended with her going totally scarily berserk. Be careful. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 12:46 PM |
| 3 | Cousin's wife freaks out after successful night at the bar, what should I do?To be fair, you fondled her vag in public.. I know I know.. Been there too (consensually ofcourse) but this is incredibly shocking to a huge amount of people. Also maybe you didn't really properly get a read on this social situation.. Its not always the right kind of night to fondle a woman's vag. Ofc as the man you are more responsible than the woman who also wanted it... But thats the way she goes. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Are there girls who just can not come multiple times?I agree. It seems highly unlikely a dude could make any significant proportion of women cum just with penetration... It also goes against the science on the subject. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Permanently damaged ego because i couldn't please a girl..Peepee poopoo | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 06:41 AM |
| 2 | Slut TellsOh boy. I RP'd with my ex about her being a big useless bimbo slut (my slut).. Which was fun.. Until one day it was clear she wanted it to get kind of cucky ("I like showing my boobs, I showed my boobs to people today") yeah... She said it was just so that I would get mad and punish her harder but im not sure.. She also wanted me to fuck her and humiliate her in public. Tbh it was all hot as fuck except the exhibition shit. She also wanted nipple piercings "cause they look good" (for who??) She … | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 03:13 AM |
| 2 | I survived a car crash, but not my manhood.Ah so what you're experiencing is traumatic stress. You need professional help or it will only get worse and get more complex as time goes on. Seriously.. Dont fuck around with this. Get a psychologist. I'm also going through traumatic stress so I get how youre feeling. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 09:36 AM |
| 1 | New to "plates", got friendzoned at the last second, but feel like the girl was tempted and almost did it. Where did I go wrong? Is this salvageable or should I hard next?I don't think it was lip service, she really wanted to keep hanging out and kept saying it over and over again. Next day and I'm feeling over her romantically. It's not a huge city and well likely be bumping into each other regularly+we are both professionals in a related field so it would be a good contact anyway. I'm gonna try it out but ask her not to bluntly set me up, maybe just invite me to parties and go from there. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 06:13 PM |
| 1 | New to "plates", got friendzoned at the last second, but feel like the girl was tempted and almost did it. Where did I go wrong? Is this salvageable or should I hard next?about 10 minutes, true bruh coulda banged 5 plates in the meantime | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 05:18 AM |
| 1 | New to "plates", got friendzoned at the last second, but feel like the girl was tempted and almost did it. Where did I go wrong? Is this salvageable or should I hard next?thanks, cheered me up a bit. Will do | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 04:12 AM |
| 1 | New to "plates", got friendzoned at the last second, but feel like the girl was tempted and almost did it. Where did I go wrong? Is this salvageable or should I hard next?Good points, thank you. This is night is kind of a big blow to my confidence though. What do you think I should improve here? My ability to build sexual tension? Idk Also what do you think about accepting her friendzone to meet her friends? May or may not work.. depending if she's cringy about it. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 03:50 AM |
| 1 | New to "plates", got friendzoned at the last second, but feel like the girl was tempted and almost did it. Where did I go wrong? Is this salvageable or should I hard next?Shes said she had a lot of young friends she could introduce me to, maybe I should swallow my pride and take her up on that? She seemed like she really meant it. As long as it's not cringy, like she justs invites me to a party or something. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 03:25 AM |
| 2 | At what point do you let gut over take RP mindset?I think its your call, the best way to determine what you should do is think about what will make you feel better. If she died tomorrow, would you feel like an ass for not at least trying to reach out? Lots of dudes here play tough with the WAHMEN ARE HOS here but really I think this is a good opportunity to be human. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 10:14 PM |
| 6 | Girl tells me she was ready to have sex on the first date but I waited until the third date just to play it safe! Are women really that much of whores these days?Bata mel | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 01:56 PM |
| 3 | Girl tells me she was ready to have sex on the first date but I waited until the third date just to play it safe! Are women really that much of whores these days?Fucking retards here man Yes girls like sex Yes there will be girls who want to fuck right away. Lots of them. Fucking incel moron asshats in this sub. How can you not know girls like sex? Hurr durr only men should enjoy sex! Not women! Pathetic. No wonder you all get cheated on. PS the girls who pretend to be angels usually have the highest sex drive. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 01:55 PM |
| 1 | What if I don't like casual sex? Lots of abundance and girls are dtf but I don't like casual sex and don't know what to do with myself but find myself too bitter for LTRs... and I also want to travel to fuck a girl I met online and have been chatting with for 6 months? Is this bluepill behaviour?I agree as well I have a lot more respect and I agree it is super important to build and maintain masculine energy to an extent, however, it is only one piece of the puzzle, or even just a tool in the toolkit. I have put on 20 pounds of muscle and changed my previously childish mannerisms and have had a big difference in the way I'm treated however it's hardly the answer to life's questions. The truth is only visible if viewed from multiple angles, therefor looking at life's questions from only … | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 08:37 AM |
| 3 | What if I don't like casual sex? Lots of abundance and girls are dtf but I don't like casual sex and don't know what to do with myself but find myself too bitter for LTRs... and I also want to travel to fuck a girl I met online and have been chatting with for 6 months? Is this bluepill behaviour?Yeah i hear you.. And i agree with you. Ive decided this as well. TRP is just a strategy for sleeping with the biggest skanks and nothing else. That doesnt bring me any sort of fulfillment and ive spoken with her and said my concerns, all is cool and she is simply a joy to talk to so i will likely go see her finances permitted. I think we all gotta make ourselves vulnerable to experience life. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 03:59 AM |
| 1 | What if I don't like casual sex? Lots of abundance and girls are dtf but I don't like casual sex and don't know what to do with myself but find myself too bitter for LTRs... and I also want to travel to fuck a girl I met online and have been chatting with for 6 months? Is this bluepill behaviour?Bc she doesnt have the means, plain and simple. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 03:55 AM |
| 1 | What if I don't like casual sex? Lots of abundance and girls are dtf but I don't like casual sex and don't know what to do with myself but find myself too bitter for LTRs... and I also want to travel to fuck a girl I met online and have been chatting with for 6 months? Is this bluepill behaviour?This is fucking gold, thank you. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 08:42 PM |
| 1 | What if I don't like casual sex? Lots of abundance and girls are dtf but I don't like casual sex and don't know what to do with myself but find myself too bitter for LTRs... and I also want to travel to fuck a girl I met online and have been chatting with for 6 months? Is this bluepill behaviour?we video call and she has a rockin bod and enjoys watching me jackoff before she goes to sleep. She could be a LOT of fun tho and maybe what I need? On the other hand I can see how bad this all is, idk I'm torn. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 01:50 AM |
| 2 | What if I don't like casual sex? Lots of abundance and girls are dtf but I don't like casual sex and don't know what to do with myself but find myself too bitter for LTRs... and I also want to travel to fuck a girl I met online and have been chatting with for 6 months? Is this bluepill behaviour?but when I tried just spinning plates and casual sex I didn't like doing it.. so wtf do I do with myself. How do you make yourself enjoy it? idk.. it's just a chore to fuck without connection.. I cannot separate sex from romantic feelings. I feel hopeless tbh. I've read the sidebar, fucking multiple women doesn't make me go "oh great, I've won at life now" or anything. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Can you fuck Muslim/very religious girls?a lot of them do fuck, in fact muslim girls can be the biggest perverts however, you REALLY need to know what you are doing.. it's really complicated and only practice makes perfect. Be knowledgeably about islam, but make fun of it in a tasteful way that shows you have no respect for it. idk this sort of works for me. I never sleep with them but I have gotten many muslim girls to talk with me about sex and that they don't actually believe, etc. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 01:07 AM |
| 2 | "Why Do Girls Dump Their Boyfriends?" An introduction to Generation-Z and whats to comeThey wont reproduce for the most part. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/18 03:26 AM |
| 3 | Accepting TRP Will Make You Unhappy: Your Choice if That's PermanentYou mean start my own country and society? Okay sure, should be easy. Otherwise I already live life on my own terms | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/18 06:44 PM |
| 15 | Accepting TRP Will Make You Unhappy: Your Choice if That's PermanentI want it to be more. I want humanity to be something else than a vapid circlejerk of chasing the unsustainable consumerist fantasy. The only alternative to this thinking is a bunch of shitty religions that are equally shortsighted and philosophically anemic. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/18 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Netflix is a joke. What is this shit?Lentils and beans is how gladiators got swole | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me or......Im saying you might need to marry into immigrants for traditional values | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 10:12 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Make Money?This. Naukrigulf, oil job websites.. Look online OP? You have special skills. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Any experience with vibrators?Thats hot. Shiet. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 03:38 PM |
| 3 | Is it just me or......Bizarre comment/10 | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 01:42 PM |
| 0 | Is it just me or......Unfortunately you have to give up on white girls usually. It can happen tho. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Girl says "she's too awkward for a date" and wants to hang out with me and my friends?Can you build up on its a common shit test? And how to pass it? God damn this exactly happened to me and I just furrowed my brow and changed the subject but this girl was all over me practically stalker tier until that. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Why do women (including women who wouldn't consider themselves feminists) generally despise of the teachings of TRP?I like fucking women as much as the next but this sub pretends that were not ALL animals. Taking women off a pedestal and throwing then in the dumpster. Neither is necessary. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Why do women (including women who wouldn't consider themselves feminists) generally despise of the teachings of TRP?Because while this sub has valid points a lot of the member base actually promotes hatred towards women. Most posters here are just angry betas. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Girl I matched with on Tinder asked for dickpic, I asked for one of her in return. She refused, I then refused to send my dickpic.Meh I have never found it hard to tell genuine from fakes. Even the elaborates ones but I admit I sort of have a gift for this. But real girls definitely do ask for dick pics sometimes! | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Girl I matched with on Tinder asked for dickpic, I asked for one of her in return. She refused, I then refused to send my dickpic.If you are technologically literate you can always tell. Been sending dickpics to girls I dont know for years. And I usually get nudes back and just ask for more. Its a great tool to get girls "addicted" to you if you know what you're doing. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 02:42 AM |
| 1 | For those of you who actually have a job. What do you guys do with your weekends to make life more fulfilling?Tonnes of sports and working out. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 02:40 AM |
| 1 | How in the world do redpilled guys even pretend to be interested enough to hold something resembling a prolonged conversation with 90% of women?Spectrum girls are awesome.. Probably spectrum myself but they are more dynamic and free thinking. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 02:31 AM |
| 3 | Picking up women should be easy for youThank you. Its just not possible to "game" in some places especially clannish/tribalist places. I moved to a big city for this reason. I saw several TRP esque people and promiscuous women completely crash and burn within months of moving to where im from originally. Oh and Im white. Its not just the 3rd world thats like this. Id have dry spells for years only to wheel girls as soon as I was gone for a week travelling, studying abroad or a foreign girl came into town. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/18 05:45 PM |
| 2 | My First Threesome (Her roommate was hiding in her room!)90% of people or more live unoriginal lives... As soon as youve seen anything that would he hard to make up no one believes you unfortunately | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/18 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Co-Worker/buddy sold his car and motorcycle to buy a more expensive car for his wifeAs an ex banker I laughed out loud | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/18 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Girls say I’m good looking but what I say ruins everything. Need advice.In the same situation and might be literally high functioning autist. Im doing nofap and lifting to otherwise increase my smv | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 05:32 PM |
| 1 | She wants to feel smallToo big a size difference and its scary for them in my experience. Very short girls tend to like guys who are skinny. Big muscly tall guys will scare them.. Just from what Ive seen. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/18 09:44 PM |
| 3 | The truth about circumcisionYou probably have a circumcision that isnt severe. I have scarring until halfway down my shaft and all the nerves scraped away. I only learned to ejaculate at age 17 and I have never been able to cum in a woman. It really makes my head spin and reading about it easily tumbles me into a depressed mood for weeks .. Gotta go... But please stop ... Because I can virtually guarantee they didnt scrape away as much as they did for me.. And getting complements from women about it.... Not a good enough r… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/18 02:50 PM |
| 12 | Indicators Of Interest Suck - This Is The Real Way To Tell If A Girl Likes YouI learned this when, during our relationship, I turned my ultra religious ex into a cock goblin. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/18 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Starting A New Life in 35 Days: Help Me.Theres nothing wrong with how you feel. Its your body and mind telling you that just being a doctor isnt enough. Your body is depriving you of happiness until you get what it wants most.. Youve lived an unbalanced lifestyle and this is the result. But dont lose hope. It can be turned around in whatever way you please. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/18 02:35 AM |
| 6 | Stop researching, Start livingDid you have any journeys with nofap in tandem? Im doing nofap and TRP at the same time, with results. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/18 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Basic Finances for The Young ManHe just means he was pre approved for less. I worked in a bank and thats totally possible. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/18 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Experiments at a nightclubTrust me. Being a spy is not something that would let you pick up women. Its a big reason why I stayed away from it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/18 04:27 AM |
| 1 | [Advice] Looking to cure undue oneitis tendencies (multiple women all life long)Hey. I already acknowledged that I probably have a mental illness and I put myself out there. I can sorta get behind blocking my ex. Ill take that advice . but frankly going "monk mode" right now is awful advice. Ive been a sort of shut in most of my life and now I need to learn by getting myself out there. My feelings of oneitis have passed thanks to bantering women on tinder all night after I posted this. Hopefully ill get to meetup with one. This wasnt a post about long term goals. I have the… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | [Advice] Looking to cure undue oneitis tendencies (multiple women all life long)I guess so. I've been lurking for such a long time, I thought this would be easier in practice. And look, some soft cunt downvoted me probably so his new post gets seen first. Ugh. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 02:55 AM |
| 2 | I'm the biggest retard that has ever read TRP. I know I fucked up and there's no recovering.Getting professional medical help.. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 02:44 AM |
| 4 | Came out of awful LDR, the disney illusion is now shatteredI had a similar situation: fell head over heels for a mexican girl at my uni and moved in with her and we fucked like rabbits. I was a total virgin before that at 23 years old. She didn't like it here and left and never looked back... but we stayed in touch trying to make things work (no LDR though just trying to find a place to live together again.. either in Mexico or here) . I feel like she lead me on tho, fruitless attempts of meeting her ended with her backing out when it could have really … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/18 02:33 AM |
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