-Enmity- Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	Theory Friday - No Stupid Questions Thread I expect your accomplishments aren't as impressive as you think. What did you feel as you read that? There is no value in caring so much what other people's reactions are to your achievements. The joy you feel at these accomplishments should come from within. This extroversion might be causing you to come off as a tryhard. Another point: everything you do in an interaction should lead you to an eventual goal. Does bragging do that? Maybe at first, as a DHV, but continuously talking about yoursel…	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/16 03:36 PM
8	Theory Friday - No Stupid Questions Thread This is a good question that is difficult to answer. I have a few suggestions. Ask good questions: Do your own research before looking for others' opinions. This will be easier for some subject matter, with established, proven knowledge. Nutrition is one of the more difficult topics, for example. Know what you're asking, and ask specific questions. Put it to the test: This is how hypotheses become fact. If it is worth the risk, experiment with the information you are given. Be wary of being too …	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/16 02:29 AM
29	Theory Friday - No Stupid Questions Thread You have a good problem: you're an interesting person. The solution is to be legitimately interested in other people. Ask them questions. It's ok to use your own experiences to relate to them, just give them an opportunity to pick things back up by pausing at appropriate moments. Something you say could have jogged their mind/memory, so give them a chance to interject.	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/16 02:18 AM
4	Theory Friday - No Stupid Questions Thread I can only offer basic advice, but a lot of people forget to do these things. 1) Breathing and posture. Read up on diaphragmatic breathing. Be cognizant of how quickly youre breathing and slow it down. 2) Do the same with your speech. Don't ramble, it's ok to pause for a second, organize your thoughts, and deliver a well crafted response. 3) Potassium helps. It will reduce the shakiness you get from nerves, which will help your speech, and it also helps with hydration IIRC. 4) Relax, physically.…	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/16 02:13 AM
28	Theory Friday - No Stupid Questions Thread There is no magic bullet here. Your problem is twofold. 1) You're content with the validation. In some way, you need to attribute failure to a lack of escalation. Gamify it if you like, keep score of all the women you interact with. -1 point for not escalating past what you've been doing so far, +1 point if you do. 2) Your fear is controlling you. There is approach anxiety and then there is fear of rejection. You may have learned to deal with approach anxiety, but you're afraid you will be rejec…	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/16 02:04 AM
2	Theory Friday - No Stupid Questions Thread There's no reason to wait. You don't need to explain your living situation. If asked you have several options. You can ignore, deflect, tell part-truths, or lie. I do have to ask, what's stopping you from getting your own place? If it's cost, you can find a roommate/housemate.	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/16 01:56 AM
5	[Mod] Announcing a new platform: www.TRP.red /u/redpillschool put a lot of work into making sure it works well on mobile.	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/16 05:04 PM
11	RP Philosophy: On why MGTOW, MRA, and anti-feminism are ultimately a bullshit waste of time The irony of all of this is that by basing your whole ideology against feminism, you will never be in control. You are letting feminism influence your actions from the get go. This is why it's so important to stop wasting time reading "RP/BP Examples" or asking "Why would a woman do xyz?"	/r/TheRedPill	02/10/15 03:47 AM