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I meant that if she was the same age as your sister you would feel more like peers vs her being closer in age to your mother, but I have to say it’s an unusual situation when your mothers had you guys at such different ages. I am 7 years older than my partner and there’s 25 years between myself and his sister but the fact his mother and my mother were just about born in the same decade makes it less weird even if we both had teen mothers.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 01:46 PM
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Nothing wrong with dude having a man cave, especially if she does what she like with the rest of the house. We only have two rooms and the house is 500 sq ft so just a tv takes up 1/3 of our bedroom wall and the dog crate takes up an entire corridor but if we had a bigger house I would absolutely let him has a man cave and fill it with gadgets
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 11:31 AM
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Doesn’t it make it less weird if she’s closer in age to your sister than your mother if you don’t your age gap with your sister weird? My brother is 9 years younger than me but he made it weird by wanting to fuck me but that’s another story
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 11:24 AM
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Having lived in both the western world and the third world, the answer is that women want warmth, love and companionship from the opposite sex as much as men say they do. In the case of my current partner it wasn’t really my choice. I am disabled and housebound now after too much manual labour finally crippled me and my next door neighbour decided that his roommate was moving in with me after he kicked him out. I was only told of this after they made the decision between them. I do still wonder …
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 10:41 AM
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You guys think YOU need protecting lol Women do the bulk of emotional labour and have to put up with being beaten and sexually assaulted to top it all off. When it comes to dating or even just casual sex, women can find more willing participants but the overwhelming likelihood When they encounter a man is that they will come me off worse for it benit lowered social status or risk of unwanted pregnancy or STDs or degrading, uncomfortable painful sex where she doesn’t even get to cum (look up the …
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 11:21 PM
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I hope you’re a better dad than mine. Sounds like it. My mother did everything - paid the bills, took us to medical appointments, did all the decorations, plastering, plumbing, landscaping and other DIY around the house whereas all my dad ever did was batter her and psychologically torture us for over 20 years. She divorced him and left him the house and everything so she didn’t get accused of being the bitch that took the house and the kids. And for some reason she defends him. She still makes …
/r/ExRedPill22/09/22 12:02 PM
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At least women are willing to do more emotional labour, but I guess that means it a greater loss when a woman leaves you
/r/ExRedPill19/09/22 02:29 PM
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You ever thought maybe we don’t want to be that, because there’s more risk than reward for us
/r/ExRedPill17/09/22 08:52 PM
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Hey you, you need to see this. Look at these fucking dorks See what a fucking dumbass this dude looks like with his crazy dance moves shaggy beard and intense stare. He’s fucking vibing. This bitch sees him across the room and decides she wants of piece of that. Look at them. They’re having the time of their fucking lives. Because they don’t give two shits about all the other people in the room and possibly looking silly. I bet he banged the shit out her all night. You will not find a kindred sp…
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 11:57 AM
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Women like me will make do with the bare minimum. Because we’re just so sick of being treated like shit…. That said I’ve been with obese nerdy comic book nerds I’ve been with dudes with literal neckbeard and inverted nipples because I fell hard and still been fucking ditched on Valentine’s Day.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 11:03 AM
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Why are you assuming that some women won’t like you just the way you are? You take care of yourself and aren’t an arrogant dickhead. I’m autistic. I’m introverted, so I wouldn’t be interested in a guy who goes out to bars every night and stuff Also redpill/women stuff aside, there’s nothing wrong with you being you in your own right? It’s ok to like yourself for yourself. You don’t need to stand out, you’re already unique by virtue of existing. Nobody in the world has exactly the same makeup as …
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 12:36 AM
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You automatically assume that’s a good thing because you can only see things from your tiny perspective. All those men don’t give two shots about the woman, any fucking woman will do because they use the same redpill tactics and game on engine because it’s statistically likely they will get at least one response. The woman herself is completely worthless to most of these men who will want to use her, push her as far as they possibly can until they get bored and she knows it.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 03:46 PM
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But if you were actually the woman in that situation you’d realise slot of the attention is unwanted becaus it leaked you feel uncomfortable, threatened and like a piece of meat. They all want to fuck you but the money they do you are worthless trash, you’re a stuck up cunt if you say no and you’re a fucking thot if you say yes, you don’t get much out of the exchange, no emotional benefit, no security, just incredibly likely the sex will be mediocre at best and painful at worst for the woman bec…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 03:43 PM
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The issue is that you think all we care about is dick.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 03:39 PM
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My ex of 6 years dumped me 6 weeks after I quit my job to move for him because I started using a walking stick and didn’t find a new job right away. I paid rent in advance on that place before I even moved in and sent him money to pay his parents rent (which he didn’t tell them came from me) before that because he didn’t want to dip into his inheritance money or his own wages complaining how poor he was on double my salary
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 06:38 PM
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Men don’t want to do emotional labour. The amount of men who tell me ‘I don’t want to have to think about x’ is ridiculous, whether that’s what they say, how they treat others, how they treat sexual partners and the impact of their actions and presence or lack thereof on their kids. It’s just too hard. So women have to do it all then complain that women are too emotional all the time. That said I am aware of the societal pressure on men to appear masculine and for some reason that means not givi…
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 04:13 PM
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My boyfriend was a porn addict and a virgin at 24 when I met him. All he ever did was complain about how he never ‘got anything from women and slut shaming them. Gave him a chance and then he decided he didn’t want to have sex with me and go back to porn for 6 years Wven called me slutty for trying to wear lingerie for HIM. . I was miserable.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 01:04 PM
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But they said their measurements are under what is considered ideal even at that weight
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 12:45 PM
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My BMI is usually pretty high being barely 5ft tall and up to 145lbs and can’t even look at food without gaining weight/bulk with extremely low TDEE but it’s worse the more I exercise despite the metabolism benefits because this is what I look like having never been to the gym- I just build muscle quick. Have been told to lose weight by a doctor (which triggered an eating disorder relapse) but my measurement are 34 25 39 and this is what I looked like at the time of the appointment. I’ve also be…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 12:44 PM
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Yeah it has literally happened twice with my current partner we’ve been together a year and a half and one of those times I was doing the touch. I never ever leave a man unsatisfied though And yeah there is just so much more risk associated with us having sex with a guy under any circumstances let alone cheating m, but not saying it doesn’t happen because obviously it does (but don’t worry that cheating woman will probably get murdered or something)
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 12:01 PM
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I used to be really popular on a certain forum. I was sort of an E girl before E girls were a thing. I exchanged photos and chatted with a lot of guys, but one in particular made me think ‘holy shit glad I didn’t hit on him in the past..’ he had neckbeard and a huge double chin. but out of all of them the one I actually ended up meeting up with in person was the guy whose picture made me go yikes and I was with him for 6 years because he actually seemed really sweet underneath all the trolling h…
/r/ExRedPill24/07/22 09:41 PM
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No there shouldn’t be spark initially I don’t think. If a guy starts talking to me as a means to get into my pants when he knows not a single thing about me is a red flag I’ll be left with nothing but a higher body count when he’s pumped and dumped me Meanwhile I crushed on the same prematurely balding skinny with a beer guy at 25 guy for 7 years. What is wrong with me
/r/ExRedPill24/07/22 09:31 PM
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To be fair they already said they realised not everything is the woman’s fault and the reply said ‘first off, not everything is the woman’s fault’
/r/ExRedPill24/07/22 12:49 PM
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I’m going to nope out of this thread before I have an actual aneurism
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 09:58 PM
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You are lying to yourself because you’ve convinced yourself it’s a massive conspiracy and all women are fucking these guys instead of you when it isn’t fucking true because that’s easier to believe than you having any individual responsibility. You’ve already made up your damn mind how all women think and act so of course you’ve dug yourself a hole where you’ll never be shown otherwise because a woman who can think for herself even an iota would be horrified by your ideology. I’ve fucked 5’4” mo…
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 09:58 PM
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My 6’5” ex was a virgin until he met me at 24. Because he was secretly a raging douchebag, a covert narcissist and fake nice guy with a Madonna whore complex. Height on its own means fuck all. I don’t even find height attractive even if everything else about a man is.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 09:48 PM
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Stop talking shit
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 09:47 PM
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I am not joking I have serious atlantoaxial instability due to hypermobility and I have spent years being in excruciating pain bending my neck for my partner who was 6’5” but I had no idea until we met two years into talking online because I never thought to ask about height. He turned out to be a huge sexist, racist, classist douche over the next 6 years. I had no idea his family came from money and most of them were terrible terrible human beings.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 09:46 PM
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That’s generally true, but you’re going on the assumption that I give a flying fuck about conceiving and you’re conflating a woman wanting to hook up with a woman wanting a relationship and a woman wanting to bear children by the same guy which are all totally different scenarios.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 09:40 PM
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Stop spouting your bullshit. I’m 5ft tall and breaking my neck and having to find a phonebook to stand on if I want to kiss my partner isn’t as fun as you think it is
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 09:39 PM
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If you genuinely think that you sound like a fucking rapist. To make such an assertive assumption that if a 6’6 guy and a woman are in a room she is going to accept his advances just because of his physical attributes. You’ve made up that it’s a forgone conclusion in that scenario in your head. What the hell are you like in real life. I’d run so fast from a man like you
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 09:38 PM
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You’re a fucking idiot. I’m a woman. We don’t all think the same. You’ve resigned yourself to thinking that criteria is universal so you don’t have to accept any fault for not attracting a partner because you’re supposedly a 4/10. Cope harder, that’s a cop out. You think it’s all out of your hands because of your ‘feminine’ face. Jesus Christ dude don’t act like there aren’t women whose exact type is just that. How many woman want to fuck Legolas from LOTR. A lot. Also stop thinking we only care…
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 09:35 PM
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Better than a 35 year old with no job? I basically pay for everything for myself and my partner on less than one person’s minimum wage salary. You’ll want to make sure you still spend time together though. I worked 80+ hours a week for less than minimum wage before and all my unemployed ex did was moan that I woke him up at 4:30 am and didn’t cook dinner when I got back at 10:30pm. He also complained my arms got too ‘masculine’ from manual labour… Nerds are sexy, look at Dr Mike or that scientis…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 09:48 PM
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Why do you care? Why would you then want to sleep with or start a relationship with someone with the attention span of a gnat? I’d rather a guy who has interests than someone who I can only talk about the weather and has zero hobbies
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 09:44 PM
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I think it’s great when a guy has something he really cares about and he’s put a lot of thought and research into his special interest.. but hen again I am literally autistic.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 09:42 PM
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No. Nerds are my type. I can’t stand to be around unintelligent people without curiosity about the world or without the context of most of human history in the back of their minds. If you want to find a girlfriend who likes nerds and won’t have massive expectations of you socially, just date an autist like me. I used to read the dictionary for fun. Plenty of us also like to play video games.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 09:41 PM
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Sounds like she felt guilty for not being happy with you as you are but felt like she couldn’t try to change you or dictate how you behave or start a fight over it so just broke up with you instead. I constantly feel let down by my partner and in some really serious ways but I’d Berber leave them. But we have no idea what it is that you supposedly did or didn’t do.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/22 06:17 PM
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I’ve never used Tinder and I don’t care how tall a man is
/r/ExRedPill18/07/22 06:05 PM
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Because I care about him
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 09:46 AM
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A lot of redpillers don’t understand that rape is suffering; as far as they’re concerned, ‘…but women can have sex any time they want?’ I have argued with them about it and they don’t get it
/r/ExRedPill14/07/22 09:56 PM
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I am 29 and have to pay for everything for myself and my partner and 11 pets out of my disability money. He had no job no car and no where to live when we met. No one even asked me about him moving in, he lived next door and his rooomate texted him saying he needs to move to my house by Monday on a Friday night and then the guy showed me the text. I hadn’t spoken to him for 2 weeks for doing something fucked up to me in bed and refusing to spend time with me or making me wait 7 hours for him to …
/r/ExRedPill14/07/22 09:47 AM
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Actually redpill tells you to do the opposite of Disney and treat women like shit
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 09:53 PM
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I pay the rent, I pay the bills, I make all the major purchases, I pay for all gifts including gifts for HIS parents and siblings at Christmas so he isn’t embarrassed, I do the laundry, I cook, I clean, I take the trash out; he plays video games, washes up and occasionally walks the dog. He also gets paid to be my ‘carer’… My dad did nothing but mooch off of my mother and beat her up for over 20 years and she left with nothing. Everything isn’t hat house was bought by her, decorated by her. She …
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 08:06 PM
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Did I mention I am a medical cannabis patient and despite growing for years before I met him had me pay for all the weed and then just helped himself whenever he liked (using twice as much as me along with drinking every night and smoking cigarettes) but I had to ask permission to charge my fucking phone. Grew up in a really privileged family, daddy is a lawyer. I had no idea he came from money and it made him a racist, sexist, classist pig (I cannot repeat some of the fucked up shit he’s said t…
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 11:46 AM
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Thank you, I know it’s been 4 years since we broke up and I need to get the fuck over it but I gave that dude a decade of my life total. I tried to make a 24 year old virgin happy and he refused to even sleep with me after 3 years because it was too much work and went back to porn! If that isn’t a reason to cut down on porn consumption I don’t know what is lol
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 03:05 PM
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My ex was intimidated by me being physically strong. I’m 5ft tall and he was 6’ 5. He would whine and complain that I got up at 4:30 am in winter, came home from working on a farm at around 8-9pm then did coursework until 1-2 am 7 to 9 days in a row before my day off because I wouldn’t have time to do all the cooking and cleaning even though I did his laundry, paid for my own food and paid him$400 a month just to stay there 2-3 nights a week. I had to take a suitcase on my commute to work most d…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 10:31 AM
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You hit the nail on the head
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 09:58 AM
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I’m not saying start creeping on them as a means to an end with the preconceived notion of completing the ‘acquire girlfriend’ objective, but I wouldn’t give up hope that perhaps at least one of them has thought about potentially dating you before and you haven’t noticed. I’ve had a lot of guys not get the message even after I’ve poured my heart out and sent them pictures etc though saying that I’m glad you have females who like and feel safe being around you. If they are single and spend lots o…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 04:45 PM
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As a female with autism, you are certainly not alone. It’s even worse for us because women are expected to be social butterflies, pleasant, easy going, know how to provide the correct emotional response whereas whe it comes to men they are allowed to just.. not care. And not feel bad about it either. People just sigh and shrug their shoulders when a dude is being insensitive on not very conscientious because that’s what we’ve come to expect and women tend to get ripped up for not smiling enough …
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 04:41 PM
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Find another woman who is socially awkward and introverted then. Really isn’t that complicated lol. I don’t go outside, neither did my upstairs neighbour. We banged during lockdown after staying up watching anime. He lives here now
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 04:36 PM
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An awful lot of girls are into rock climbing these days, too
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 04:34 PM
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I’ve been told any woman over 100lbs of the age of 25 is worthless
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 02:53 PM
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Truth and facts, they created this rod for their own backs and now some women are really enjoying having a go with it too
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 02:49 PM
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I’m telling you now as a female that’s fucking bollocks and use your common sense, why the fuck would you want to be with a woman who thinks your height is the be all and end all anyway? Just speak to women who don’t care. A lot of us really do not fucking care but if you bring up ‘will my height be problem’ they might just roll their eyes and refuse to keep speaking to you for assuming they’re that shallow and empty headed.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 02:48 PM
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I had no idea this was a thing until relatively recently. I don’t understand it myself. I’m 5ft tall so any height will do. My ex was about 6’ 4” and while the hugs were nice I had to seriously strain my neck to kiss him, all kinds of sexual positions were impossible and he constantly belittled me because I’m disabled and use a walking stick that I couldn’t keep up with his walking speed…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 02:47 PM
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Yeah if I see my partner crying it just makes me want to swoop in and cuddle them and want them to let me know what’s going on in their head
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 12:11 PM
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I met a guy who had a legitimate fetish for women crying >_>
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 12:09 PM
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If you think women are lucky for being able to ‘get sex’ easily you should read about the pleasure gap (especially how pain, coercion and fear during sex are just normalised for women now) and sexual assault statistics.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 11:04 PM
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Personally, I would like to be aware. And it would make me feel less like it’s all me that’s the problem should he appear to act jealous from time to time because I’d understand it came from real experience and not completely imagined paranoia, but every woman is different.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/22 10:36 PM
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You seem to have made up your mind you’re too ugly. As a woman who has spent years of her life sending really obvious signals, bending over backwards and going out of my way for mediocre looking, overweight unemployed guys (even with full neckbeard, inverted nipples, starting to bald etc) who seemed oblivious or even actively pushed me away (whilst complaining to me that women don’t spend time with them, we get ‘friend zoned’ too) I am willing for be there have been at least some women intereste…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/22 09:26 PM
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The Madonna/whore dichotomy is a strong one, but you’ll soon realise women can be many things and all sorts of shades of grey in between rather than just one extreme or the other
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 11:15 PM
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And the best thing about feeling less weird about girls wanting to have sex is that they could potentially feel more inclined to have sex with you too You’re not saying this from a perspective of ‘what do I gain’ though… you’re realised this from a perspective of respecting a woman’s autonomy and personal choice m, especially when we can get saddles with so many negative consequences (sexual violence, the pleasure gap/not actually getting to orgasm/feeling afraid in pain during sex, emotional tr…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 11:13 PM
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A lot of it is current partner. I just bought him a new wardrobe and he’s assembling it in front of me right now. He just broke part of it. I’m not saying anything to him about it because I care about him. I put up with all this shit because I care about him at the end of the day and I am flawed myself. Love can be hard.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 01:45 PM
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You don’t seriously think that the ere are I men with depression with girlfriend in the entire world. It’s a kick in the teeth when it’s so much. Lee common that women stick around with completely deadbeat boyfriend and partners because they’re d conditioned to be more caring and nurturing. I’m disabled with multiple conditions including a connective tissue disorder and still run around doing everything for my boyfriend who would ignore me for weeks at a time playing video games until 5 in the m…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 01:31 PM
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Just find an autistic female. We do exist.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/22 02:44 PM
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As a woman I 100% agree with you. We can get a roused on sight and be just as ‘visual’ as men, even if we have other reasons to be cautious/selective and ultimately might decide whether or not to act on that initial attraction based donnother factors like how you treat us, or we might be aroused in a very base sort of way but our logical brain might not necessarily validate the idea of actually sleeping with some random guy you know nothing about and have built no chemistry with just because the…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/22 05:51 PM
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You can’t predict what another human being will do like that, women are autonomous beings, they aren’t all robots and it would be entirely done to your specific situation.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/22 05:46 PM
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I hate that you’re talkie about women like throngs you have to acquire like a pair of sneakers or something and you don’t even care about them as individuals any hot bitch will do just as long as I get one before they’re all sold out. The fact ai know any guy approaching me in the street only has one thing on his mind and is playing the game of chatting up as girls as possible that day (probably saying the exact same chat up lines) before me turns me off before they even open their mouth. Guys a…
/r/ExRedPill18/06/22 08:12 AM
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I like books and video games so I like to share that with my partner
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 11:06 AM
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You are conflating totally different things here. You’ve made a massive stretch to justify redpill mentality And I believe men have the right to be emotionally vulnerable for the record
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 08:48 PM
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I’m sorry, telling a man to not convince himself that he is undateable makes all women users and cheaters. What a leap to make. Fucking hell, dude if your mind works like that, it’s the thing holding you back, not how attractive you are or how much money you make.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 08:47 PM
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As a woman, lol yes. OP sounds like he has it figured out and I would probably date him
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 05:10 PM
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You got it dude. You hit the nail on the head!
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 05:09 PM
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That’s how you get accused of have borderline personality disorder or NPD. A therapist would say that’s devaluing and discarding someone the minute they say something about you that you don’t like as a response to past trauma
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 06:04 PM
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I hope that was cathartic for you. Excellently articulated testimonial and should give redpill leavers something got think about, the actual knock,on effect of the manipulation tactics used and how they won’t make a woman love you, it’ll just break her.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 06:01 PM
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I used to get up at 4 am and work 80 hours a week. My boyfriend whined and complained that I disturbed him and brought dirt in on my feet when. I came home. Then he made me quit my job and move then made me homeless when I didn’t have a new part time job in 6 weeks. If anything men whine and complain that women aren’t cooking their favourite food enough or folding their underwear for them or packing their lunch like their fucking mother as well as going out and working full time. You know who ha…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 10:34 AM
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My boyfriend didn’t have a job or a home when he moved in with me. You’re talking about women plural as if you want them for one thing. Don’t expect them to stick around if you’re after the kind of women that want one thing, too. That’s stupid. You want a woman to love you you have to actually not be a piece of shit human being. The simple fact you think you can buy someone’s affection is enough of a turn off to a decent woman in itself. You must realise that it comes off like you think we’re al…
/r/ExRedPill07/06/22 03:42 PM
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Do you really think she’s that emotionally shallow? I’ll tell you what women’s cervixes aren’t as deep down as you might think. My ex was the same length and a narcissistic asshole. My thoughts of straying had nothing to do with his penis believe me. Statistically few men are likely to be bigger than you anyway. Just don’t be an asshole.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 04:58 PM
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Yeah I feel people have been frighteningly easily polarised one way and then to the opposite extreme. They are getting swept up up and losing all objectivity. Amber is a nasty piece of work and a shitty liar, we all know that, but at the same time the bandwagoning, blind worship of Johnny because everyone ‘switched sides’ is worrying. It is so easy to flip the script and get people to think in black and white about the situation.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 12:33 PM
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I’m so happy for you that you figured that out and also congrats on the modelling offer. I hope now you feel more at peace with yourself and after realising you’ve sabotaged yourself in the past you can take a woman up on her offer next time if you also like her, but actually taking the plunge is really scary, I get that.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/22 03:27 PM
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Everyone thinks they have nothing in common with anyone. Get out of that belief, that’s bullshit. I had a guy on here the other day insisting he was involuntarily celibate and would always be because no woman in the universe was interested in metal detecting therefore he decided he was going to be a virgin forever which is a massive crock of shit. I’m saying this as a female with autism and a personality disorder, who hasn’t been able to socialise with other people consistently for years. I’m we…
/r/ExRedPill24/05/22 01:20 PM
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Yeah there’s no point trying to ‘get’ a hot woman only to complain there’s nothing interesting about her and you have nothing in common afterwards
/r/ExRedPill24/05/22 12:30 PM
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I never saw him again. He never told me who he gave him to. He was 15 yeas old and so confused from the 6 months process it took me to move him from London to the countryside in stages whilst I was homeless (had to leave my my dad’s due to abuse and hadn’t yet finished my notice period at work/ moved into the apartment I was paying for with my ex). It was so much disruption staying with random people before getting there and 6 weeks after moving in we’re thrown out. All I ever wanted for him was…
/r/ExRedPill23/05/22 06:50 PM
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This man already had a ‘high value woman’ and everything he had acquired through his own charm and sincerity he is now losing through his own megalomania. The position of privilege he already enjoyed was not enough and the sad thing is he will probably only attract a bunch of mindless, airheaded brainwashed or otherwise vulnerable woman following this relationship seeing as OP is clearly too cognitively sophisticated to let that patriarchal shit fly. It’s so frustrating to watch the opposite of …
/r/ExRedPill23/05/22 05:02 PM
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It’s so sweet that you really want to empathise with women. A lot of posts here seem more annoyed about being taught ineffective methods and are just on a mission to fake being nice to get girls not really thinking of them as people. When it comes to sex and relationships there’s so many risks and downsides for the woman the more you learn about it the more you understand why we have to be selective. The fact you are so open and willing to learn is promising. Of course not every woman out there …
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 09:04 PM
1

I was with a guys for 6 years then on and off for 3 years after we split up. In that entire period I paid for all his weed. We went out on a ‘date’ maybe 4 times and I paid every single time. He would make me pay for hotel rooms so he could come to London and spend hundreds on luxury products for himself and I just got dragged around the store. He would occasionally tell me I could pick out one thing in a store then tell me it was too expensive at $7 and I should t spend money on dumb shitZ He w…
/r/ExRedPill20/05/22 10:39 AM
8

Ugh was with the son of a raging narcissist vicar who had a literal Madonna whore complex
/r/ExRedPill19/05/22 08:46 PM
3

I have autism and borderline personality disorder so I identify with ‘can I take this at face value?’ a lot. Sometime there is no objective truth and you just have to go with your truth. You feel good about yourself, we’ve not seen your nudes and for every person who might think you could be deluded there’s probably a bunch who would absolutely go to town with you. I’m sorry to hear you’re starting to spiral especially when you sounded so confident and sure of yourself (but without asshole vibes…
/r/ExRedPill19/05/22 10:41 AM
1

We’re here for your self esteem bro 👍
/r/ExRedPill19/05/22 10:30 AM
2

Do you have a social media account? You can post nudes, lewds or just you regular outfits there and I’m sure you’ll start your own personal fan club soon. I think it’s healthy that you’re not desperate to go out and get sex out of some bitterness toward women or anything but you want to feel sexy and attractive, just because. Because it makes you feel good. You still know you feel attractive without other people’s opinions so you are not entirely defined by them but you also like to hear some po…
/r/ExRedPill19/05/22 10:29 AM
1

Believe me women care less about looks than you’ve been lead to believe and the minority of women who genuinely won’t date under 6ft or have whatever silly looks requirement, you don’t want them anyway. I would rather an average or below average looking guy who meets my emotional and sexual needs than someone with looks and money but doesn’t make me happy/don’t genuinely enjoy being around. Once again best of luck OP, it sounds like she picked you for a reason.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 02:42 PM
1

Best of luck OP, I really want everything to work out for you
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 10:51 PM
8

I’m really glad you were able to talk this out with your partner
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 10:47 PM
1

Well would you look at that. I’m 1/4 Irish although I would like to argue that furries aren’t quite the same thing 😅 I was a weird kid… And funnily enough my ex (a virgin until meeting me at 24 mind you) complained my arms were too ‘masculine’ from me working on a farm. My younger brother however admired that trait and decided to start lifting to get as swole as me. My current partner’s biceps arms are tiny, he is pretty skinny so I feel huge next to him, but he doesn’t seem to think I am which …
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 09:55 PM
1

I’m really glad to hear that makes you feel even just a little bit better. I get good guy vibes from you Oh trust me, women know guys watch porn. We feel all kinds of insecure about our boobs being too small, whether our stomachs look big when we’re on top, about making too much noise (I’ve been told to be quiet before) about not making enough noise (making him feel insecure because we know what that’s like), about whether our vagina is the right shape/feels tight (I feel like I have to clamp th…
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 07:45 PM
2

Porn and masturbation are two different things, you’re not understanding this. I’m glad you don’t want to get a girlfriend to use purely for sexual release but you don’t need porn just because you don’t have a girlfriend? What do you actually want in life? Companionship? Someone you can share emotions with? Or do you just want to get off?
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 06:48 PM
7

That made me laugh out loud, you sound charming. I grew up in a conservative Christian household too so being brave enough to say what I like and don’t like with a male partner is absolutely mortifying and terrifying for me too, because usually we never get asked or it’s just about the guy cumming and then sex is over, but if you actively care about the woman’s pleasure like that and bring it up I hope your lady friend will be pleasantly surprised and open up (figuratively and literally lol)
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 06:46 PM
5

It’s so reassuring to read comments like this honestly
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 06:42 PM
6

I’ve been with men who couldn’t get off AT ALLunless they they seriously hurt and degraded their partner and tried to groom me with extreme porn, they literally wanted to tattoo my genitals and write words like bitch and slit all over me in magic marker and do slave role play and was overly into ‘consensual’ non consent and ‘rescuing’ homeless desperate women making them into sex slaves convinced he’s doing right by them
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 06:42 PM
1

Most of those women are being raped abused and exploited, there’s so many women out there with videos of them underaged or drugged they can’t get taken down
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 06:39 PM
3

You don’t need porn to get off. I repeat you do not need porn you guys have no idea how much easier it is for you to get an orgasm
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 06:38 PM
3

My mother was so scared of being stereotyped as this evil woman out to get a man who got a girl 8 years younger than him knocked up at 19. He battered her and terrorised us for over 20 years, she left with just her personal savings (under 10k) and the clothes on her back, let him keep the house and the kids, only we didn’t want to stay with him and we didn’t want to leave the country to be with her either. My brother and I literally hid in the attic intil our dad left the house to come downstair…
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 10:57 AM
15

No being raised by my father made my little brother snap absolutely lose his mind and he ended up killing someone.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/22 01:32 PM
2

You are so right, and so many of them walk down that path with the notion that they won’t be like the others yet turn into the very thing they swore up and down they would never become. And I fully admit to such a deficiency. I was raised by narcissists and later a borderline step parent who wanted to kill me. We’re very similar; I need validation from other people to function, but at least I don’t turn homicidal when I don’t get it lol
/r/ExRedPill16/05/22 12:38 PM
2

Pierre is an influencer and musician and Richard Grannon is an author/life coach. They talk a lot about the weird world of celebrity, ego, paradoxical relationship, the human experience etc but they’re aware they’re not immune to the same pitfalls they discuss to a degree. Pierre is a younger man making sense of the world and Richard is more middle aged. You might have fun analysing them analysing others.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/22 10:36 PM
3

You’re so right. Do you watch PierreXO or TentacleCroissant by any chance.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/22 09:12 PM
2

I feel like you should as well. How interesting and how often do you wish you could go back and see how certain situations would play out or how people would respond to you if you were in one of your ‘past lives’, how many people’s perspectives have you flipped once you’ve told them about your experiences subject to a different gaze and observing the world with a different one yourself I wonder
/r/ExRedPill15/05/22 09:10 PM
2

I like this idea a discussion feels more open, dialogue goes both ways and it’s a more organic way of sharing experiences. I do watch a few couples podcast occasionally where they talk about different aspects of sex and relationships from the man and woman’s perspective and ask eachother lots of questions
/r/ExRedPill15/05/22 09:06 PM
1

Sex is not more important than the trauma it causes to people when you put sex above everything else you are not getting it at all
/r/ExRedPill14/05/22 06:40 PM
0

The fucking point is you want sex at all costs even if it is at the expense of someone abused exploited disadvantaged and maligned, you’re not a victim because you can’t get sex on demand
/r/ExRedPill14/05/22 03:17 PM
-2

I hope you find a girl who appreciates you and well done for your self restraint it’s not worth getting in trouble over a girl being a bitch to you anyway. Any lots of girls like big, cuddly guys btw
/r/ExRedPill13/05/22 12:46 PM
3

Well done for recognising g this is a toxic mindset and the possibility that people can indeed have meaningful friendships with women, however I also want to say I’m really sorry for what you went through as a kid. I was relentlessly bullied for being weird and a nerd (I’m autistic and was in gifted classes, had zero friends). Children can be really cruel. Also, it makes you feel any better I’ve been with fat guys. Actually one of the guys I got most emotionally hung up on was a fat comic book n…
/r/ExRedPill13/05/22 12:44 PM
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It’s not a weird loophole I just don’t want to feel targeted with the end goal of sexually conquering me by a total stranger who is only speaking to me as a means to an end. How about make friends with women first. Maybe through a mutual activity.
/r/ExRedPill11/05/22 07:02 PM
6

As, that’s a shame there were only old dudes there. Maybe forums are better because there’s a larger member base. And maybe whilst there are less girls who actually go out there do detecting I’m sure there are lots that are into ancient history, Egyptology, archeology etc, especially ones who are into nature or more new agey. If you do find someone I think maybe a visit to a museum would be a good place to go on a date. Full of interesting stuff to spark conversation, in public so she feels safe…
/r/ExRedPill11/05/22 06:44 PM
10

Oh my god I thought you said you had weird hobbies I’ve been playing FIFA and owned a metal detector since 1999 and used to regularly go mudlarking, which is where you comb the banks of the river Thames and foreshore at low tide to find Tudor pins, medieval shoes, Victorian medicine bottles, Bellarmine jars used for witchcraft, pottery, sometimes WW2 artillery shells, megaladon teeth and all kinds of shit. A lot of people take a metal detector along as well though it’s more fun visually scanning…
/r/ExRedPill11/05/22 05:21 PM
3

So what ARE your hobbies then because I guarantee 1000% I have hobbies that are weirder and more niche than yours lol. I was a very, very weird kid (I am autistic) Talking to yourself doesn’t count as a hobby but plenty of people do it. Actors, public speakers or just people using themselves as a sounding board for ideas, talking themselves through a difficult conversation they might be going have or just entertaining oneself. I actually used to monologue to myself a lot and kid of wish I record…
/r/ExRedPill11/05/22 05:14 PM
1

You think you’re the one in an vulnerable position. You don’t understand the amount of risk women are at doing sex work. Women often sell themselves in a world that has commodified them because they have abused, are desperate etc. not all of them, but a lot. To a lot of women hiring an escort is a signal that you see women as things not people and you’d rather pay her to satisfy you in any way you choose with no obligation on your part to reciprocate physically emotionally or put effort into get…
/r/ExRedPill10/05/22 05:22 PM
8

It wasn’t that. And he also told me he wanted a leggy blond with big tits but got me instead. (I am black, 5ft tall and pretty small Chested). And said my arms were ‘masculine’ from working on a farm. He said you get to lay there and I do all the work.. he was usually drunk and pretty oblivious
/r/ExRedPill10/05/22 12:38 AM
3

You just want to hear what you want to hear so what’s the point
/r/ExRedPill09/05/22 11:44 AM
17

I had an ex with a 8.5 inch penis. He was virgin at 24 before he met me and the first 3 years of our sex life was me secretly bleeding and crying on the bathroom floor after having pelvic floor spasms and then the last 3 he said sex was was too much hard work, can’t I just give him blow jobs and let him watch porn instead. Trash.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/22 11:43 AM
1

I’m not dating conventionally good looking men I’m talking about morbidly obese guys or lanky guys with 0 muscle, literal neckbeard, inverted nipples, backne, mouth breathers etc. The bottom line is you can’t help who you fall for.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 06:10 PM
7

No, no that’s not how that works and it was my jobless, homeless boyfriend that moved into MY house
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 06:50 AM
4

Good question. On one hand I bake, sew and know how to take care of farm animals but you can get fucked if you try to tell me I belong in the kitchen.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/22 04:09 PM
5

Yes. Don't care. I am 5ft tall. I've dated men over 6ft not knowing their height before meeting them in person 9never came up in conersation0 I couldn't even reach their face to kiss them without putting my back out/straining my neck or standing on something. Besides do you honestly think we're all so shallow as to completely dismiss a guy who is otherwise perfect JUST because of his height. That is a turn off in itself.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/22 06:39 PM
2

What guys need to realise is that their ‘safe space is actually toxic to THEM as well as being built on a foundation that actively harms women physically and psychologically. You have to come out of your hugbox and realise that men are generally worried about their ego being bruised and women are generally worried about being raped and murdered. And the guys posting here are also very clearly still in the redpill mindset and it’s clear even from the terminology they’re using. If you want to leav…
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 05:53 PM
3

No, a guy in my DMs probably only talking to me because he likes how I look and has probably DM’d 100 other women the same shit. On a forum however it’s probably more likely That he’s engaged with my posts and has an idea of what I’m like as a person rather than seeing me as just another face in a catalogue of random women. And knowing those men see me as just one factor in a statistics game is an Instant turn off.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 01:11 AM
3

No, no, that is not how that works or the problem at all
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 09:55 PM
18

It’s easy for a random woman to instantly have sex with a random man, but it is far, far more likely to come out advantageously for the man and dangerously or disadvantageously for the woman. Disregarding people’s habit of murdering sex worker or just female intimate partners in general there is thing called the pleasure gap and when you realise the depth of it you will ask yourself why in the hell women subject themselves to the amount of vulnerability and risk sex poses to them vs the reward i…
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 08:39 PM
2

There are women out there who like big chubby guys. They are often cuddler types. One guy I don’t think I’ll ever get out of my mind was about your size and had inverted nipples.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 07:51 PM
3

You talk about women like acquisitions. Getting a girlfriend is the goal, even a temporary on e will do like a stick on tattoo or something…Doesn’t matter who the fuck she is, just another item to collect, another achievement to unlock like an object. Is it a relationship with another person or a status symbol that you want? Do you just want a girlfriend for the sake of having one because thinking your are disposable or interchangeable with anyone else with a vagina is very offputting to women a…
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 07:41 PM
3

You just assuming women aren’t interested in the things you like and all women only want men who go to the gym is off putting in itself. You know a lot of women hate gymbro culture so typical of redpill.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 07:38 PM
2

Again you are making all these assumptions. I’m black and only ever slept with white guys.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 07:37 PM
2

So are you speaking to women in the spaces facilitating the things you are into or are they excluded from such zones
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 07:35 PM
1

Yeah my ex and current partner were just like you when I fell out of the sky. Plenty of other women with low self esteem too but you probably want someone perfect.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 07:34 PM
2

Why don’t you find a woman who plays video games with you. My issue is my boyfriend would rather play video games with the boys 12 hours a day and is on pc rather than console
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 07:32 PM
4

That’s in your head. My ex was just like you. Quiet, boring, 24 year old virgin. I thought he was just misunderstood, no turns out he was actually a massive asshole and fake nice guy and even though I offered to do anything under the sun for him sexually and am attractive (Kim K proportions, all natural) after all that complaining to me about how he never ‘got anything’ from women before me, he got bored of sex and went back to watching porn. You throw yourself at the quiet nerd guys who tell yo…
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 07:30 PM
7

But red pill isn’t improving social skills, it’s using manipulation tactics on the assumption that all women are stupid, shallow and formulaic methods are going to bag them before they catch on to your shit. And for the last fucking time stop telling women what they actually think is nonsense then wondering why we think you think we’re brainless and all liars. We are not. Yes many of us would actually prefer to fuck someone overweight, broke, not congenitally attractive etc if they don’t treat u…
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 02:46 PM
5

But you don’t. Plenty of women have zero standards for looks at all because they’ll settle for anyone as long as they’re a decent human being and don’t make them feel unsafe. Plenty of very attentive women who will fuck or go out with a dude with a beer get, neck beard, overweight etc
/r/ExRedPill30/04/22 12:31 PM
5

All I want is a man who wont sexually assault me and will actually care about my comfort/orgasm.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/22 03:16 AM
3

I am 29. It was 2012 when I started dating. I had sex with them because I liked them and all I heard from men constantly was how all women are judgemental, golddigging cunts with unrealistic expectations. And to be fair it’s not like there aren’t overweight guys who aren’t also cute or charismatic. Lots of girls don’t mind ‘big cuddly bear’ type bodies. It just seems shallow to totally disqualify someone from being your partner and not having any feelings for them purely because of what they loo…
/r/ExRedPill25/04/22 02:34 PM
3

How ancient do you you think I am lol. Obviously yes. Why the fuck would I want to be with someone who makes me miserable just because they look nice. I want someone to watch anime and play video games and get high with.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/22 01:22 PM
4

I’ve chosen obese comic book nerds with neck beard and inverted nipples barely taller than myself at 5ft over more conventionally attractive people who were assholes.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/22 03:53 AM
12

You’re literally just making things up to be contrarian now. What study did you do to determine that women don’t like blonde hair and blue eyes, bitches love Chris Hemsworth…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 01:36 AM
3

Dude, effeminate guys with long hair are absolutely a lot of women’s types. Think Legolas or that model Lithunium Snow, he’s a complete derp but we think he’s adorable.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 01:29 AM
1

I got with my next door neighbour when he didn’t have a job or ever leave the house.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 11:02 AM
1

I appreciate the sentiment but I never said it was good. I was raped every day for 8 months when I was homeless and taken advantage of by people who let me pour my heart out to them made me feel like they were the victim because women don’t fuck them and tricked me into sending all this custom context full of all these specific demands promising to help me then if they ever did send any money they reversed the charges and kept both the money and the shit I had stayed up for 72 hours to produce a…
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 04:41 AM
5

I am extremely attracted the quiet ‘nice’ guys who have no friends. Sometimes they are genuinely nice and just need someone to give them a chance and sometimes they turn out to be really nasty, misogynistic, narcissistic, have some really twisted fantasies… one I think was an actual sociopath. But I am immediately drawn to the guy who is off in a corner, not trying to attract attention to himself with fake machismo much, but maybe that’s because I’m weird myself.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 05:42 PM
-5

You’ve never been on KIK? You can even pay a woman for nudes then reverse the CashApp transaction afterwards.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 08:50 PM
-6

You can easily get a woman through an app on your phone. Lots of desperate attractive homeless emotionally broken women out there to take advantage of.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 07:36 PM
2

You are literally my current boyfriend. He lived next door until his roommate kicked him out and in 48 hours, 6 months after I first laid eyes on him the first time, he moved in. My ex was a 24 year old virgin when we met.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 01:30 PM
1

I completely agree with this but Inthink it is a combination of this and societal patriarchal influence on men combined that las to such misogyny. When women experience this neglect they usually go out of their way to appeal to mean more (become hyper sexual, fixated on their appearance, extreme people pleasing and placating behaviour etc) though of course you have the odd exception that decided to go full Gone Girl.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 01:26 PM
1

I once unironically asked a guy on Instagram to show me his duck picks I had a bit of a crush on a coworker on a farm who wore a tweed flat cap and everything. I used to look after Scottish Soay, Ryeland and Southdowns. Be a shepherd for your mental health and a woman will fall out of the sky. Bitches love sheep.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 05:06 AM
1

But some people don’t experience sexual desire because of just looks. I’m not being funny but I’m not unattractive and have been with obese guys with neckbeard and inverted nipples because we had chemistry anyhow.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/22 02:02 AM
1

Because that’s not true. There’s no point being with someone attractive if they make me miserable and aren’t at least a decent person.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/22 12:49 AM
2

I’m too scared to leave my house and talk to actual men anymore, probably best I shut the door here too then
/r/ExRedPill07/04/22 01:14 PM
2

It’s hard to call it a male space when the redpoll ideology is all about the treatment of and attitudes towards women. In those spaces you sit and talk about how women think and what they want all day long so here at least you get the odd actual living breathing female to chime in.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/22 09:15 AM
2

You’re welcome, sending big hugs dude
/r/ExRedPill02/04/22 01:55 PM
2

I’m really sorry that happened to you, what a nasty thing to do/say. I mean yeah it’s nice if girls are attracted to you but explicitly letting you know that you are basically nothing to them besides a sex toy is dehumanising and you don’t just go grabbing people like that.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/22 12:05 PM
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