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"Quit showing me your ass you attention whore!" Yeah, sounds like a good idea. Call them out on it.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 07:07 PM
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LTR's = better sex, better emotional bond, a feeling of fulfillment and someone to share things with. Sure, it's not for everyone but I enjoy it.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:31 PM
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No, my girl is pretty great luckily. I was just looking for outsider opinions.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:30 PM
1

This could be for a few reasons though. Down here in Florida it's hot as hell in the summer and I've been out with my girl dancing before and she gets super sweaty. I would probably need a few other things to happen before I jumped straight to thinking she was cheating.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:07 PM
1

Good luck finding any sort of account/fund that returns 8%.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 04:30 PM
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Change jobs. You aren't going to get a 60k promotion staying at the same company. I'm interviewing with multiple companies right now that are offering me almost double my salary. You need to switch companies bro. Do it once every two years or so and your salary will skyrocket.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 04:19 PM
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We've been seeing each other for 11 months. You're already in one.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:41 PM
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You need to factor those shots into your daily calorie budget even if you're trying to gain weight. 500 calories of chicken is much better for you than 500 calories of Jack Daniels. But if you want to gain fat instead of muscle, then go with the Jack. And yes, drinking later in the day will still have an effect if you're on creatine. You need to take creatine daily because it needs to be in your system constantly in order to keep your muscles saturated with water. If you take creatine one day th…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 04:14 AM
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Therefore, ive dedicated 3 days a week working out (bench, squats, deadlift, t-row, overhead press) and 3 nights a week going out. Good start. Keep it up, add accessory lifts if you don't do them already, and when you're ready add a 4th day. MT/Rest/TF/Weekend Off is good. On to the creatine. If you take creatine while drinking you can do some real damage. You need to stay hydrated and alcohol is a diuretic (it dehydrates you) so taking it while drinking a lot isn't a good idea. While you should…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:56 AM
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This isn't a great mindset to have if you're serious about fitness or your health. But it depends on what OP does when he goes out. Does he have 3 drinks and call it a night? Or does he drink 6-10 and fuck up his energy for the next day? Imo, you need a balance, and going out is pretty much unavoidable in college. But when it comes to balancing the gym with going out, you will make more gains if you cut down on late nights and alcohol. Whether that's worth it is up to OP.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:49 AM
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These comments suck dick. Style is easy. Get a haircut every month. Groom yourself - eyebrows, nose hair, beard trimmed and maintained, etc. Get a basic wardrobe. V-necks are great. Basic colors. Get black, gray, and white. Get a nice fucking pair of shoes. They don't have to be expensive or comfy. Just make sure they look good. Get two pairs - black and white. Put some shit on your wrist. Amazon sells cheap wrist bracelets. Wear those or buy a nice (black) watch and wear that. Cologne. Buy some…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 04:52 AM
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Regardless of what this guy says, finance is actually one of the more useful degrees. Lots of applications, whether it be accounting, analytics, or working for a major retailer as an auditor.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 12:45 AM
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Money
/r/askTRP22/10/17 12:41 AM
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Do help her move her furniture when he moves? But that's part of being a friend. You can do shit for people and not expect sex in return. Then they do shit for you and they don't expect sex. I wouldn't exactly call helping someone move an "orbiter" activity. My girlfriend's friend gave me a weight set for free, so I'm going to take an entire Saturday to help her move. That's just a basic exchange of goods for services. I get what you're saying though, or what you're trying to say. But there are …
/r/askTRP21/10/17 08:16 PM
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Mentally? No drugs. No alcohol. Exercise daily. Physically? Exercise daily. Spiritually? I don't believe in spiritual shit so I can't really comment. Reading helps develop a greater sense of knowledge though so I guess reading history books/books on the early evolutionary period of man.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 03:09 AM
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You don't need to respond right away. Generally waiting is better, but not after the first time you hook up with her. At the very least, text her the next day and say something along the lines of "I had a fun time last night". Now, if she's taking forever to respond, like a day, then she's not that interested. But by waiting 5 days you risk making her feel used, which is what I think happened in your case. A normal guy isn't going to wait 5 days after hooking up to text. There's a time and place…
/r/askTRP12/10/17 03:05 AM
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First of all, she's not a plate. She's some girl you had a ONS with. Second of all, quit playing the waiting game with girls. If you want to text them 10 minutes after you leave then text them. 5 days is a long ass time dude... she probably thought you just wanted to pump n' dump. 3rd of all, let it go. Don't contact her. If she's interested she'll contact you. When she does (she will if you were decent in bed) set up another date. edit: Nevermind. I see you deleted her number. You're an idiot d…
/r/askTRP12/10/17 02:46 AM
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So I'm curious what RP tactic is he accidentally dropping and how could he clean it up a bit so I dont have an insane female around me when he is working. That's simple. Move out.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 02:44 AM
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Silence and ignore.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 02:42 AM
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And how many women get cheated on and never find out? Plenty. People are sexual beings. I'm in a relationship and I would never consider cheating on my girl. She says she feels the same way and would never cheat. Does that mean she'll never cheat on me? How the fuck should I know? She might... but I'm not going to live my life worrying about what she's doing every second of the day. That's not healthy for anyone. You set boundaries in a relationship, spoken and unspoken. But you can't have that …
/r/askTRP11/10/17 03:22 AM
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Almost every girl you date will have guy friends. Some will be gay, some will be straight, some will want her, etc. If you're a catch then she won't even be thinking about anyone else but you. That's the mindset you need to have. If she cheats, so be it. Find another one.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 03:14 AM
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Does your health matter to you? If it does, then cheating should matter. If she does cheat and the guy happens to have an STD, it can affect you for the rest of your life. With that said, you can't have the mindset that she's cheating on you because it will drive you nuts. If you see signs that she's acting weird (hiding her phone from you, lying about things that don't make sense, hanging out with a new guy "friend" all the time, etc) then you need to keep an eye out. But in the end you need to…
/r/askTRP10/10/17 03:52 PM
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Switched to vaping.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 08:11 PM
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We spend Friday night, all of Saturday and all of Sunday together usually. I might see her once or twice Mon-Thursday, but that's only because our schedules don't really match up. She gets up for work at 3am so she has to go to bed early. 2 times per week is ok in my opinion. Sounds like you're both pretty busy.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 04:38 AM
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Never said how old I was. And I find younger girls too immature.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 07:32 PM
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I just pull out
/r/askTRP05/10/17 04:39 PM
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Also, how do i get girls in person at college? Talk to them. I only do online game (tinder or facebook) no idea how to get girls in college Read above. Nvm thats a lie i got a 7 at collehe once but we banged twice and it was a disaster So what? Move on. Anyways what do i do ti get girls in college Talk to them.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 04:39 PM
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Maybe I'm in the minority, but I don't give a shit about my girl's past. All I really care about is how she acts right now. If she blew 30 dudes before she met me then imo then all it means is she's had a lot of practice, which explains why she gives such good BJ's. The past is in the past.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 02:26 PM
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You don't need that much. 0.8g/pound of bodyweight is enough. So for you that's like 100g. Drink 1 protein shake, have some chicken or steak and eat some nuts.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 10:52 PM
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Maybe she figured out your game. Or you're getting fat.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 09:32 PM
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Who told you to stay away from milk and dairy? If you want to bulk then you need calories. If you want to do a clean bulk then you need to be slightly over your TDEE every day by 200-500 calories. But it sounds like you want to gain weight faster. To do that you should be around 800-1000 calories over your TDEE and, as long as you're getting enough protein, Milk and peanut butter are calorie-dense foods and they contain protein so they're generally recommended for people who want to bulk quickly…
/r/askTRP02/10/17 09:31 PM
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I don't know what to say... you stayed in a LTR with a girl who "sexted two of her exes". If you guys haven't committed to an open relationship then you don't have self respect dude. I would have dropped her the second I found out. If I go no contact with my girl while I'm at work she'll call me to see if I'm dead or something lol.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 09:21 PM
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You list one source and act like everybody uses it. Want the secret? Milk, protein powder, oats and peanut butter. Make shakes. And start working out, dumbass. Why are you trying to bulk if you're not lifting? That's called getting fat.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 09:17 PM
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Sounds like you are the plate, bud.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 09:15 PM
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Welp. Leaving this sub for a while. Some of you guys are seriously fucked in the head.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 07:52 PM
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She has already cut contact. She feels like she should tell me when he calls so that I don't think anything is going on between them. I told her I really don't care and that if she wants to console him she can go ahead with that. The guy is pathetic so I'm not worried about anything happening. And if anything did I would just drop her.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 03:28 PM
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Or going to meals and then her saying "I'll just put this on your tab" Dude, this is not ok. She's using you. Do you have any self-respect? If you want to salvage this shitty relationship then you need to talk to her and tell her this shit isn't ok. She'll blow up because she's a bitch. But you need to bring it up. Honestly I wouldn't pay her anything. Just cut your losses and move on.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 12:25 PM
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You're acting like a little bitch. A "tab"???? Wtf dude. She doesn't respect you. She wants reimbursement for coming to see you? What a cunt! You don't need that shit dude. Do not move closer. You have two options... Dump her Withdraw attention. Apply dread game. I would go with #1
/r/askTRP25/09/17 12:21 PM
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You need to get rid of this ultimatum you've set up. Are you insecure? If so, you need to address that. If you can't handle your girl going out alone then that's a problem. Girls like to go out, dance, get attention, etc. You need to be confident that she's not going to cheat on you. If she does, then so what? Just dump her. You can't live life being paranoid when your girl's not around.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 12:16 PM
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You got some good friends bro. Don't worry about it. The great things about friends is they can see you at your worst and they don't give a shit about it.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 01:09 AM
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Some guys are pathetic. My girlfriend's ex pulled the same "suicide" threat. He came and started banging on her door one morning while we were in bed and I just told her to ignore it. The dude won't give up lol. Just ignore it and don't get upset over it.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 08:59 PM
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2-3 hours a day is a lot. Do you lift? I go to work, come home and go to the gym in my building, cook dinner, and it's already 9 oclock. I used to game a lot but you'll reach a point where you barely have time to play. Weekends are better spend going outside and seeing new places, hiking, biking, stuff like that. There's nothing wrong with playing now and then, but if you think you're going to be spending more than an hour a day on it then you should just leave it. But tell her you're taking som…
/r/askTRP22/09/17 03:20 AM
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You have to be confident that she's into you. If she flakes then you wait for her to contact you again and set up another date. If she flakes again then you quit responding.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 03:12 AM
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I'll give a quick rundown on my story, which I consider to be a success. Lost my virginity at 20 in a ONS. After that I fell into a downward spiral of drugs and drink, gained 70 lbs over the next 4 years and didn't get laid once. One day I decided I was disgusted with myself and started working out. Over the next year I lost 60 lbs, then another 10, then another 10 until I was down to 190. I'm 6'3'' btw. Suddenly I found myself way more confident. Then I bought some new clothes that fit, started…
/r/askTRP21/09/17 11:09 PM
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Not a bad idea
/r/askTRP21/09/17 10:59 PM
2

I've already slapped her. Not really into pissing or spitting
/r/askTRP21/09/17 10:57 PM
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Lol
/r/askTRP21/09/17 09:33 PM
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Withdraw attention. Don't text her for anything other than logistics. Keep escalating. Pass the shit tests by agreeing and amplifying, poking fun at her, or ignoring them. Don't let her have an effect on you. And don't blame it all on the pill. It's got to do with how you're acting too. My girlfriend is on the pill and she doesn't do shit like that.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 09:31 PM
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I mean, if you only have 15-30 minutes a day to lift then I highly doubt you would even stick with this program. You can find time, it's just a matter of if you want to.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 06:18 PM
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Not really. If you superset bench press and squat, or bench with hanging leg raises, stuff like that, it'll cut down on your time by a lot.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 05:58 PM
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I don't care about the points lol. I think that post is just using coffee as an example. If you drink coffee past 1pm then it might affect your sleep, yeah, but there's nothing terrible about drinking coffee dude. It's just a beverage. It's like asking TRP's opinion on redbull.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 04:19 PM
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No shoulders or back? Why not just a typical bro-split of Chest/Tri's, Back/Bi's, Shoulders/Legs?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 04:07 PM
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I thought it was serious because there are so many retards on here that would write that and be 100% behind it. I know lol
/r/askTRP21/09/17 04:00 PM
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My bad, I should have put a "/s" for the autistic dudes in here.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 03:55 PM
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I think coffee has nothing to do with TRP and the person who downvoted my original post needs to get a sense of humor.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 03:54 PM
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Lol. You "Endorsed" guys are some of the most insecure dudes on this sub. Always saying shit like "You're expendable" which is imo just putting women on a pedestal. She's expendable too. I was fine before being with her and if we break up I will be fine.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 03:53 PM
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You think cavemen complained about not having coffee? Nah dude.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 03:49 PM
1

Eat healthy, work out, sleep enough.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 03:40 PM
1

Supersets, bro. Superset everything you can.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 03:40 PM
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Only betas drink coffee
/r/askTRP21/09/17 03:35 PM
1

I'll look into SGM. I just need to find the pdf. We're not living together right now but she brings it up all the time. 6 months in is way too soon imo.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 01:41 PM
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Well that's why you don't get married. If you find the right girl they don't give a shit about marriage. Of course a small part of them wants that but luckily my girl doesn't push the issue. I can always drop her if she fucks up, but she hasn't, and overall I like having that deep personal connection with someone. Fuck buddies aren't friends. They're just living, breathing sex toys. At least that's how plates felt to me, and I don't want that. Some guys are cool with that and it's fine. It's jus…
/r/askTRP21/09/17 04:05 AM
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Hey dude. I read it all. Honestly, you sound like you have depression. Here's what I would recommend. Start exercising regularly. Lifting, cardio, walks, hiking... whatever gets you out and moving. Lifting will give you more self confidence but you need to stick with it. Cardio will relieve anxiety if you have it, which I'm guessing you do if you have trouble in social situations. Beyond that, see a doctor and tell them this stuff. They might put you on meds, yeah. But you don't always have to s…
/r/askTRP21/09/17 03:59 AM
1

If you can't afford two drinks at the bar then you got no business being with a girl. I always offer to buy the first round, then if she doesn't offer to buy the 2nd the night is over.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 03:29 AM
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Get your drinking under control Don't smoke so much pot. Moderation is the key. If you can't do that then don't do it at all. Work out more. No junk food. Eat healthy. Take college seriously. Go to every class. Utilize the professor's office hours and build relationships with intelligent people. Save your money. Don't waste it on electronics, car stuff, etc. Quit playing so many god damn video games. Get a hobby that you can have something to show for. Don't be afraid to go after what you want. …
/r/askTRP21/09/17 03:22 AM
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Plates are a lot of work. More work than an LTR if you have several. Like OP, I've been there and it's just not for me. With that said, if your LTR is making your life more difficult then you should break up with her. LTRs should be easy.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 03:08 AM
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You're afraid to lose easy access to pussy.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 03:07 AM
3

WTF. You gave her the money? You should have told her to fuck off.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 03:05 AM
1

Not a big deal man. You'll look back at this in a few years and laugh.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 11:50 PM
1

"Sexy"
/r/askTRP19/09/17 11:47 PM
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You don't. You be yourself. He's confident, so do shit to give yourself more confidence. Don't try to be another person or you'll just end up looking fake.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 11:46 PM
2

Replace them with another addiction. For example, exercise. Whenever you feel like you're craving them go for a run or go to the gym and lift. Do this for a week and you'll be a little better off. Do it for two weeks and it starts to become a habit. Drugs are a waste of time and money, plus they're unhealthy. But you already know that, otherwise you wouldn't be asking this question.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 11:45 PM
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No, you don't say anything. Withdraw attention from her, game other girls, and see her now and then but only for sex or if you're already doing something and you want a girl to tag along. This girl has so many red flags dude... I'm guessing you're young because any guy older than 22-24 wouldn't take this chick seriously at all.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 02:42 AM
9

Demote to plate
/r/askTRP19/09/17 01:27 AM
2

With my girl it's much easier if she's drunk. She doesn't really like anal though and I prefer the other holes to be honest. I don't get TRP's obsession with this.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 11:18 PM
2

Quit watching porn. Get in good shape if you aren't already. Maybe you have low testosterone... or maybe these girls are just fugly and you're not attracted to them.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 04:55 PM
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Not a good sign. Personally I wouldn't be with someone who never initiated, let alone flat out refused, oral. You have to ask yourself if you can go years without getting a bj. If not then you should break up with her and tell her you have different expectations for your sex life and you're incompatible.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 04:52 PM
2

Well that's up to you. If you're bored then you're bored. I don't get bored of my girl. If you do then maybe she isn't the one for you.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 04:06 AM
1

As a kid whose dad abandoned him at right around your daughter's age, I would suggest a few things. Be there. It sounds simple but just be a part of her life. If she has a thing at school, go to it. If she's in sports, go to her games. Be visible and show her you care. Take her out for normal kid stuff. Take her for ice cream or a movie. Make it about her and have fun. Show her some security. If you drink a lot or whatever, stop it. Be responsible. Never be angry at her. You're her security blan…
/r/askTRP18/09/17 03:53 AM
1

So it sounds like you two have different views on the relationship. She thinks you're her boyfriend and you're insecure because you think she's fucking other dudes even though she says she's not. Do you want this girl, dude? If you do then you should stop fucking around on her. This chick sounds like your girlfriend...
/r/askTRP18/09/17 03:45 AM
2

Never send a dick pic unless you're dating the girl. You look desperate at best and you look like a creep at the worst. Be a little classy... She likes you. If you want to "hook up" with her then make a move. If you're not comfortable with it then take it slow with her. You're a kid dude. I know you don't want to hear that but you're young and you shouldn't rush stuff like sex just to get it over with. Ignore your friends who say she's a "thot" or whatever. She's a girl who likes you. Maybe she …
/r/askTRP18/09/17 03:40 AM
1

First of all, you provide very little info regarding your goals with lifting or the equipment you have available. You want to get "big"? Ok. You need to go to the gym consistently, eat protein, and get some rest so you can continue gaining strength. Before I get into things, I have no idea what an ectomorph is and I'm not going to look it up so I hope that's not crucial... it sounds like something out of Alien or Predator though and that's pretty fucking tight. Anyway, I'm just going to respond …
/r/askTRP18/09/17 03:25 AM
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You're her orbiter. Find a single girl dude... If a girl will cheat on her boyfriend with you then she'll cheat on you with another guy. That's why I would never even consider hooking up with a girl who's in a relationship. That's a low quality ho.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 03:01 AM
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Her friends like hanging out with her. You take her away from them. Thus, they will naturally get a little jealous because they're selfish. It's human nature. I would suggest hanging out with those friends more and buttering them up. Throw them some compliments, shit like that. NEVER confront them because you'll look even worse.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 02:40 AM
2

Drinks at a bar. You can pay for a fucking drink dude. If she doesn't offer to pay for the second one then she's not worth your time.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 02:37 AM
1

Yep. Dread is the biggest tool you have in an LTR. Be a little distant, improve yourself, lift, flirt with other girls and you'll get more pussy from her than you can handle.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 02:36 AM
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My girlfriend does this now and then. Make a big deal out of it and you're just going to make it worse. Believe me, I've done it. There's a few reasons why they do it. She might actually just be tired. She could be stressed. She might not be in the mood. She might think you "just want her for sex" (I've got that one a few times because I didn't give her enough comfort). She might not be attracted to you at the moment because of something you've said or done. The list goes on. My girl was working…
/r/askTRP18/09/17 02:26 AM
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Congrats man! Your last paragraph is something the frustrated guys need to read. Having sex isn't a big deal. It's only a big deal when you're a virgin, and even then it's only a big deal to you. There are way more important things in life.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 08:31 PM
2

Flirting is fine with coworkers. Fucking is not. Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 10:00 PM
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It's called being human. You loved that person. You can't get over that right away.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 11:58 PM
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You need to find new girls. Nothing else will get rid of that feeling. I do miss them sometimes but that goes away when I'm with my GF.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 11:29 PM
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It happens dude. I still think about girls I was with previously and I have a GF. You can't really stop it.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 11:06 PM
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Do you think I took it too far by giving her that ultimatum? I really just don't want to deal with the drama but I love her so I worry about having to breakup if she does... I know that's a bitch way to think but we've been together for a while and I only want her. I almost want to take it back but I know that'll just show her I don't have conviction.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 11:02 PM
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They went back and forth for like a week about the vacuum. She told him she would drop it off at his work front desk and he made an excuse up saying that she couldn't. Then he said drop it off at his house and she told him no. So eventually he was eating lunch somewhere during work and she dropped it off there. But while she was there she had some of his food too so they obviously talked. After that he sent her a message saying it was "bittersweet" seeing her and she sent something saying "Yes. …
/r/askTRP13/09/17 10:16 PM
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Help her with some exercises. "Correct" her form with your hands and make sure she squeezes her chest. Tell her she looks good. Etc.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 06:20 PM
1

He said she doesn't lift. Learn to read.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 06:20 PM
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The big problem is the meeting without telling you. That's not acceptable. The rest is fine. Yep. I'm going to talk to her about it. All these dudes suggesting she's cheating are kind of jumping the gun imo. In the past few weeks she has introduced me to all her friends that I didn't know, sent pictures of me and her to them telling them she's in love, stuff like that. She stayed with me the past three days while we rode out hurricane irma and we had sex six times. The ex shit isn't cool with me…
/r/askTRP13/09/17 06:17 PM
1

The hurricane dude
/r/askTRP13/09/17 06:02 PM
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Honestly it's not a big deal. It's a form of exercise that's different. My GF does crossfit and even though there are jacked dudes there I really don't give a fuck. You gotta be confident in yourself.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 05:23 PM
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It depends on what you're looking for. If you're looking for a LTR you need to tread carefully with that shit. If you just want to play games and make her jealous then by all means keep it up. Personally I don't like to play with people's emotions.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 05:20 PM
1

Work out more. 2 times a week isn't enough. You should be in the gym 5 days a week minimum, even if 2 of those days are just cardio. Loneliness sucks man, but it's better than getting your heart shit on. Keep looking for girls, go to the gym more and stop giving a fuck about rejection if that happens often.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 05:18 PM
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Dread game is for relationships. Not plates. You might have fucked up with her.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 05:16 PM
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She is worth it. But lately she's been distant... she has denied me for sex when normally she would never do that. I still push for it and we have sex but I feel like I have to work for it harder than I had to in the past. She's also working a lot more than usual and it all seems like red flags to me but we are in south florida and her job requires extra hours because of Irma's impact. Still, I feel like something's off.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 05:15 PM
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He was her most recent ex. The other guy was her ex-fiance and messaged her to stay safe because we're in the hurricane zone for Irma. She told me that he texted her without me even knowing. She also tried to drop the vacuum off at his work's front desk but he kept making excuses to try to meet up with her. The dude obviously still wants her. All her texts to him were one word answers pretty much and she rejected him multiple times in the ones I saw.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 01:00 PM
1

You're right. I'll tell her this. I want to ask her if she cheated on me but I'm sure that would come off looking weak too.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 12:56 PM
0

I asked her to stop talking to him months ago and she said she would. They lived together though so she still had some of his stuff and she's saying she had to give it back. But he was sending her random texts that she was replying to as well.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 12:43 PM
2

That's retarded. Yet shit like this gets upvoted constantly. What happened to the bro code? Any decent friend knows that you don't touch your buddy's ex.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 03:26 PM
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Sounds like you have a good friend. Ex's are off limits imo. The guys who swing in and snatch them up aren't worth being friends with.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 03:24 PM
1

It will drive you insane. My girlfriend went on a vacation without me that she had planned before we met and I felt pretty jealous. It was hard for me to trust that she wouldn't cheat. Then I realized all those insecurities were in my mind and completely unfounded. Now imagine feeling like that every time you're not with your girl. It would drive you to be a crazy person. Personally I don't want to live like that. That's why I trust my girl. And she's shown time and time again that she deserves …
/r/askTRP20/08/17 03:22 PM
1

Should I call the cops and point it towards her? Are you a fucking psychopath? You fucked up dude. I can't believe you would even think of doing that. And I can't believe the comments in here. OWN. YOUR. SHIT. You took your SON'S drugs. Set a horrible fucking example for what a parent should be, and hit your wife. That's not normal behavior for anyone, drugs or not. You need to re-evaluate your life. You sound like a piece of shit and if she files charges on you I hope you serve time. Your wife …
/r/askTRP20/08/17 04:57 AM
1

There's definitely fear of women's options in this sub. A lot of guys here only found this place because they got shit on by some woman along the way. You're talking to a biased audience.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 04:51 AM
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Man that is such complete bullshit and it's a shame this gets upvoted on this sub. If you don't trust your girl you become a controlling, jealous ass of a dude. If you wanna be that guy then go ahead and never trust a girl. I prefer to trust someone until they give me a reason not to. If your girl shows signs of cheating, or she actually cheats and you find out then well fuck that's a bullet dodged and you leave without a second thought. Remove everything about her from your life and move on. Bu…
/r/askTRP20/08/17 01:54 AM
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Because they're good in bed
/r/askTRP18/08/17 10:31 PM
1

Yes. My LTR is on birth control and I do, but I still pull out. It's risky though.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 06:27 PM
16

Go to every single class. Utilize your professors' office hours and make sure they recognize you and know your name after a few weeks. Study hard and don't get into drugs. You're paying for this education so get the most out of it.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 06:25 PM
4

It doesn't hurt to send a text now and then.
/r/askTRP16/08/17 07:37 PM
10

Break up. You're young and you're insecure. If you can't trust your girl then you shouldn't be with her.
/r/askTRP13/08/17 02:22 PM
7

Don't listen to these guys who don't have girlfriends. Talk to your girl. LDR's generally don't work but depending on your age it might not be a big deal. If she's 22 she's a lot more likely to "fall" on some dick then if she's 30.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 03:40 PM
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Imo if you want to cheat you should break up. I have no desire to cheat on my GF. If I did that would tell me something's wrong in the relationship and it should end.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 03:37 PM
4

When you lose muscle you can gain it back very easily in a shorter amount of time. It's called muscle memory. I personally go to the gym to look good and to feel better. After a hard workout I feel amazing and like I've accomplished something. You don't want to be that guy who's fat as hell at 50 years old and unable to do normal activities.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 12:28 PM
2

Time heals all wounds. Give it a bit man. Most of us have been there. You'll get over it. Yeah, it sucks now but you won't feel like this forever.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 12:37 AM
1

Well I'm not. If you want to cheat then you should break up. But your dumbass went and got married. Nice job
/r/askTRP10/08/17 11:12 PM
3

The only reward your ltr should get is your dick and time/attention. If she behaves in a displeasing way you withhold those things until she behaves accordingly. Dumbass
/r/askTRP10/08/17 09:10 PM
1

This sub makes me cringe sometimes. Why the fuck would you withhold sex? That's what women do. Are you a woman?
/r/askTRP10/08/17 08:54 PM
2

You're a piece of shit cheater and you're an idiot on top of it. Congrats
/r/askTRP10/08/17 07:43 PM
4

Go for a hike. Go swimming. Go to a restaurant. Go for a picnic. Grab food and cook together then watch a movie. Go bowling. Go to a bar. Go to a driving range and hit some golf balls. Go to a museum. Go to a state park. There's plenty of stuff you can do that's cheap.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 07:41 PM
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There are absolutely different degrees. If my girl was going on a vacation alone with an ex or a single guy I would first talk to her about it and explain how it was crossing a boundary, then if she didn't cancel it I would dump her. Some people might think that's harsh but that's just something you don't do in a relationship.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 12:47 PM
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I don't know your situation but the fact is there's no point in worrying about something that's out of your control. If it comes to light that she cheated then you cut ties. But you're not even with this girl from the sound of things so I'm not sure why you care.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 02:43 AM
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There's a lot of insecure guys on here. One of the things TRP preaches is stoicism, yet most of these guys are the complete opposite of stoic. My girlfriend is on vacation right now. Has been for a little under two weeks. She planned it before we met. So what could I have done? Tell her if she goes we're done? Nah, that's immature as fuck and controlling. What did I do instead? Told her to have a great time. She's been texting me constantly, sending pictures, calling me on whatsapp video. Overal…
/r/askTRP10/08/17 02:26 AM
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