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Oh no. Some insecure little boy who can't attract confident women thinks I'm irrelevant. What ever will I do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:30 AM
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Nobody cares what you think
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:28 AM
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My boy, I attract confident women because I'm confident. Rest of y'all faking it, the men and the women!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:25 AM
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There's plenty of these in Alaska
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:17 PM
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It doesn't matter if he's not Chad /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:08 PM
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You mean I have to put in the slightest bit of effort to be above average?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:05 PM
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Also, women are more likely to claim they're in a relationship than men are. That guy she's been seeing for two months? Probably more likely to call that her boyfriend than the guy is to call him his girlfriend. And are relationships really the goal for most young men still getting their lives together? The goal was just getting experience when I was still figuring out my future
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:21 AM
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When I was growing up, hookup culture was probably at it's peak in the 90s/2000s. Even the ugly mfs were getting laid. Something about Gen Z culture is making people very antisocial. Those same people who can't get laid also usually have no friends. But let's not pretend this is a new thing, most men in human history didn't pass on their genes, we've always had the winners and the losers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:17 AM
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"These women aren't into me so they must all be secretly gay"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:26 AM
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I have never been called a "creep" or accused of harassment by anyone I've approached. I mean you have to go about it respectfully and accept when the other person doesn't wish to engage further. I would never go up to any woman with "Hey nice tits, want a drink?" then push on when they decline. Mfs need to learn the art of warm approaches
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:30 PM
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Also, manosphere influencers never shut up about how valuable they are and how they deserve a traditional, submissive woman because they're "protectors." I would protect anyone I love and expect they also protect me because that's just what people do when they care about somebody. If you don't, yes you're a pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:15 PM
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Bro thinks porn is real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:14 PM
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Speak for yourself. I don't want a meek partner in bed. Give me those confident women who knows what she wants
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:49 PM
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Why are y'all obsessed with comparing yourself to other men? Just be with who you like and do what you like
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:45 AM
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Mfs making up scenarios in their head that every woman we sleep with is going to tell us in great detail about their entire sexual history to rub it in our faces
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:55 AM
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Because I said you were either a Gen Z or the loser who couldn't get laid at the peak of the hookup era. And people getting married had to first be desirable enough to date. The pilled act like having sex is the most rare precious metal or something, more people have one night stands than get married
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:45 PM
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Ah the semantics game. My bad, "mose men." I was around in the 2000s and hookup culture was at its peak. People were hooking up. Getting married is a lot more work than having a one night stand, you guys make it sound impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:35 PM
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Most men? Either you're Gen Z and none of your peers are fucking or you're the exception of older generations that didn't hook up a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:27 PM
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I was just in another thread asking why men expect their partners to do things they've done with someone else before even if they don't like it and the comment section was just a bunch of pillers denying it. Then there's you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:49 AM
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If the shoe fits dawg
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:05 AM
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"Damn women aren't wrecking their reputation to have mediocre sex with my unappealing ass. Surely they're lying it's not about reputation"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:02 AM
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Yeah I'm sure fucking the non sexually appealing guy is great for women's reputation..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:49 AM
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Damn bro, almost like you need to be sexually appealing for someone to find you sexually appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:03 PM
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I feel like online dating was always a shitty avenue for men so I never bothered with them. First of all, it's a sausage fest with the majority of users being male. And many of the female users are bots, guys pretending to be women to scam other men and OF advertisement accounts. The rest of the women on there probably get bombarded by horny guys trying to fuck them causing them to be more choosy what guys they'll even engage with to make it worth the headache. And you can only really showcase y…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:03 AM
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Ladies cum first
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:12 AM
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People confuse it for confidence a lot. Men and women alike. I doubt women prefer arrogance, just mistaking it for confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:54 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:37 PM
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Nah. Arrogance and insecurity go hand in hand. Some of you really can't tell the difference between actual confidence and someone being arrogant because they're insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:30 PM
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Bro, like 90% of discourse in this sub is a variation of different reasons you all think men suck or women suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:43 PM
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You don't have to imagine bro. That happens here all the time. Gender wars in full swing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 10:03 AM
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Well then quit giving a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 10:02 AM
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No I'm saying you guys focus on women you shouldn't want and use that as an excuse to be assholes thinking that gets you more women. I always did fine and got along with women without having to be a fucking prick
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:45 PM
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I think you all don't understand that many women have dark triad traits themselves. Or very low self esteem and self worth. They're getting the women you don't want, focus on women who aren't like that, they aren't going for these assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:28 PM
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I couldn't tell you. I like mine very much human.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 05:06 AM
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Yes, that traduces are held in contempt by their husbands. And the paper even lists out why, that it was an "easy out." Let's see them say that about their wife who also has a career and works just as many hours while also doing all the housework
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:22 AM
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Nope, never claimed anyone else was held in higher regard. Just the submissive trad wives with no careers have their manosphere husband's contempt
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:16 AM
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Here you go https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/03616843261433199
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:09 AM
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Bullshit. Where's the study? Insecure people, no matter what they look like, are the most insufferable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:40 AM
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But every trad wife has to be a pick me or she's out. You said husbands respect wives like this, they really don't
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:53 AM
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A study was published recently that showed men hold trad wives in contempt more than career women. You know, the stay at home pick mes? Y'all just making shit up, nobody respects a pushover
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:35 AM
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I got women just fine at these ages. And I clown mfs who expect women to approach them because that's clown shit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:03 AM
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Tylenol Americans
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:21 AM
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Isn't this what they're trying to do already? The issue is they aren't attracting these flings, not that they aren't trying
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:00 AM
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Post a photo. Bet you your abdomen is twice her size. You're the odd one out for not liking curves on women my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:58 AM
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You aren't a celebrity bro. Have you seen celebrity wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:18 AM
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I mean, women are beautiful so can you blame people for thinking women are beautiful?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:15 AM
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Slim waist, thick thighs and some big ol titties isn't fat, that's what straight men are wired to be attracted to fym
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:01 AM
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Don't forget the President of the United States married a former prostitute and had her represent our country at the UN. Everything Myron Gaines said about his dynamics with his girlfriend was a lie, she kept posting thirst traps while with him and she said he was a different person off camera, "the sweetest guy." Can't recall another manosphere influencer's name but he's married to a single mom while he tells other men to never deal with single moms. So does Tate. None of these clowns practice …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:59 AM
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Eh. Meg can have almost any celebrity male of her choosing. See if Klay can land a higher earning, sexier celebrity that will put up with his game season tantrums
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:49 AM
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A former prostitute married the President of the United States and represented our country at the UN. Follow your dreams hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:47 AM
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OP's claims that women are aroused by female bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:39 PM
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I think we're socialized that way. Hang out with any group of boys growing up and they measure your manhood by how many women or how quality the women you can get are. So here you have a bunch of boys thinking they need women to get respect socially, and even boys who don't like women are gonna center women around their entire self worth
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:37 PM
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I've never actually seen a straight woman say she was aroused by women online. But here you are proving me wrong. Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:31 PM
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Yeah that crosses the line. And I'm a pretty confident guy. Someone the other day said a "little flirting" is fine. No it's not fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:33 AM
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I want my future daughters to be able to earn for themselves without having to depend on a man and I want my future sons to be able to have basic life skills without having to depend on a woman. But that's crazy talk in MAGAstan
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:20 AM
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Love is conditional, except your kids. Except maybe if you were a deadbeat son who never provided anything of benefit to your parent's lives and made their lives a lot harder. Gotta be of benefit to people for people to appreciate having you in their lives, there's no love without appreciation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:21 AM
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Simple. People with no social skills good. People with social skills bad. In pilled land anyway. In real life though? The antisocial ones are actually the worst of us
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:33 PM
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Been the case since 2021 dawg
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:32 PM
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57% of young adults (18-25) are overweight and 33% are obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:17 PM
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Building human connections with people? Sounds kind of woke
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:03 PM
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You guys really think you're competing with other men that look much better than you when you're actually competing with her life alone vs her life with you in it. Do you make her life better? Or do you just bring more stress? Chad isn't in your way bro it's you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:33 AM
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It would if he wasn't wealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:45 PM
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Top 1% commenter constantly complaining about women has a great income and has a comparable bf% to me? I don't buy it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:21 PM
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The average man is overweight. The average woman is overweight. And the average American is living paycheck to paycheck. Any non overweight person with $200 in disposable income to waste on whatever is above average. The skinny girl you like isn't average, why should she date average?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:12 PM
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Hate to break it to you but that's all manosphere grifters. They don't care about you, their advice won't help you. They're just getting paid. In fact, Tate would constantly brag about scamming other men out of their life savings pretending to be a woman behind the keyboard
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:53 PM
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Tate is one chopped looking mf. Let's be real, it's not his looks that get him laid
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:47 PM
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Trends aren't infinite. Women's won't lower to 0% and men's won't rise to 100%. That's not how they work
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:38 PM
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Thinking beauty standards for men will become higher than beauty standards for women is delusional. Not even in South Korea or the Phillipines where beauty standards are really high for men are they higher than women's
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:14 AM
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Self improvement bad because competition will be harder for OP
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:11 AM
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Doubt. People will just further isolate and cope by watching porn and being insufferable online
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:09 AM
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Nobody in my life has ever told me to "listen to women no matter what." But when it comes to dealing with women, I'm gonna listen to my fiancée for what she wants over some miserable maidenless dude online
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:48 AM
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People who actually get laid have higher standards than just getting laid. I sleep with her and she wants to take care of me and have my kids, I'll take her over a one night stand
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:23 AM
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Idk man. I've slept around and never felt more desired than my fiancée wanting to be part of my life, sleep with me daily and wanting to have my kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:05 AM
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I thought red pilled women were the opposite of pick mes? Like, they have strategies that exploit men and teach women "men's nature" just like red pilled men do to women. The genders are just flipped. Am I wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:53 AM
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Want to know the real answer to dating? The answer is there's no one size fits all. You figure out what kind of women you like and figure out their personal preferences for what they want in a man. What they prefer could turn off other women and trying to impress all women could turn the women you like off. There's no final solution or secret to attract every woman. But the men approaching women are always going to get more women than those who don't. That's the real secret
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:45 AM
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Women aren't to speak for your own preferences. Gotta let us make them for you /s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:42 AM
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I doubt the vast majority of men approaching women are polite gentlemen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:40 AM
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Have you been online? It's just common in online manosphere spaces to disregard everything women say and have men speak for women. Because women emotional or something
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:01 AM
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"Why am I still single?" -These mfs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:59 AM
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I'm gonna listen to my fiancée over some miserable maidenless person online.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:57 AM
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It is. When both parents fight for sole or joint custody, that's the preferred split
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:16 AM
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50/50 is preferred by the court when both parents fight for custody. 90% of custody cases are agreed on without involving the court. Fathers ask for primary physical custody in a small minority of cases, in about 4% to 10% of divorces. Fathers often accept less than 50/50 time, though they are successful in obtaining joint or sole custody at high rates (70%–90%) when they actively fight for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:03 AM
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It's also cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:27 PM
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I spend a lot on clothes and dress for my physique. Harsh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:15 PM
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They do in countries that have high beauty standards for men. Like South Korea and the Phillipines
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:11 PM
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What in the blackpilled take is going on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:08 PM
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You're one guy, you aren't all men. Same as women claiming they aren't dating anymore, who cares? It's one person and I lose nothing. I wasn't going to date her anyway. She's only affecting her own life, not mine
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:17 AM
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Really dude? Having standards for your date's character makes you not straight? Would you date a woman who hates men and treats us poorly? If not then you're gay, by your own standards
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:12 AM
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They don't care if you exit because they don't even know you. You leaving doesn't affect them, you're only affecting yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:05 AM
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The bird who seeks the worm gets the worm
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 10:46 PM
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Promiscuous people with sex appeal having sex with other promiscuous people who have sex appeal? Mindblowing mystery..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 10:44 PM
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The little mushroom barely counts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 08:30 AM
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Not really. Go to other countries and your average ass is way below average over there. It actually takes work to be above average in other countries. Filipinos and South Koreans have high beauty standards, almost as high as their women's beauty standards. You can be a butt ugly man in America and still get money, attention, respect, women, fame and power and people will tell you how handsome/manly you are. cough Donald cough
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 07:45 AM
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Speak for yourself. You get plenty of attention from gay men if you have a gym physique
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 07:42 AM
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They optimize their strategy to deal with and attract toxic women. Thus, they attract toxic women and it's a whole self fulfilling prophecy where they think all women must like this kind of behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 07:32 AM
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In America at least, the average person is overweight, lives paycheck to paycheck and has no sex appeal. Just being fit, having a few friends and having a couple hundred in the bank to spend makes you above average, really doesn't take much
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 07:27 AM
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Plenty of you in this sub are toxic and you're still single. Plenty of decent people are in relationships with decent people. You guys seem to optimize your whole dating strategy to deal with toxic women and to attract toxic women then wonder why there's no decent women to date. Hey maybe decent women aren't attracted to your toxicity. Meanwhile you're online trying to convince people that all women want some toxic loser, then you argue with women who say that's a turn off because some asshole y…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 07:22 AM
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You learned the hard way. You don't treat random people who aren't yours and don't want you like a queen. That's a spot reserved for your wife who gives you the same treatment. It's not called "simping" if she loves you and reciprocates.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 04:45 AM
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Experience is also underrated. If you're confident in yourself of course
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 07:41 AM
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Look at it through the lens of "mfs want to be special without having to put in the work to be special" and it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 07:39 AM
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Don't you want a woman who wants you and desires you rather than a woman who's just dealing with you because she needs you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:35 PM
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Idk, I think that was more about the lack of birth control than the frequency of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:33 PM
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Can you blame people for wanting better partners? What do most people provide besides an income? Women provide as well in this day and age, does that entitle them to having a partner who also works, takes care of all the housework, raises the children, does all the cooking and cleans up after them? Not a chance in hell. But pillers feel entitled to all that for some reason when all they bring to a relationship is a paycheck, even if their partner also works
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:28 PM
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Answer me this. Why do y'all focus on dating strategies to deal with those women specifically rather than good women? Is it because deep down you like women like that? Because basing your whole strategy on those women is probably going to turn off other women, becoming a self fulfilling prophecy. I get the jest of red pilled strategy but you're optimizing your strategy to deal with the wrong type of women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:02 AM
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Is that adjusted for custodial parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 10:48 AM
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Hear me out. Everyone would have it less shitty in dating if they only focused on what the people they're specifically attracted to like in a potential partner rather than thinking there's some one size fits all solution to attracting everyone. Do you want a good woman who's attractive, confident, capable, has high standards for herself and her partner? She's not going to be into fuckboys, criminals, assholes, abusers and losers. Want someone with baggage, trauma, no standards, desperation, life…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:42 PM
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Well you guys don't have friends either. Sucks for you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:23 PM
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Mfs have no idea what a warm approach is and are shocked women respond to that better than asking a stranger for sex mmediately after matching. You already kind of know each other if you're following each other. It's not some random girl
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:20 PM
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No. Facebook is all real life friends and friends of friends. That should give my age away. Friends of friends was always how humans have met mates in free societies. But that requires you having friends.. You say "ew" as you hit total strangers up pestering them for sex on a dating app lol. Lmao even
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:10 PM
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Why are you only using OLD? There's way less women than men on those apps, it's a sausage fest. And of the women on there, a bunch of them are bots and OF creators who don't actually want you but want your money. And of the real women left on there, they're probably bitter about the experience of having to filter through so much and all their matches making it sexual instantly. I've met plenty of women fine irl or through social media. Dating apps aren't real life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:57 PM
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Because their gender wars must go on
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:53 PM
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I think a lot of men just think women's attraction works the same way as ours. I know I like someone and want more with her just because I think she's pretty. I don't have to know anything else about her in that moment to want to approach her. People assume women also operate this way but are holding yourselves back from approaching for some reason when men aren't even options to you until a man has shown interest. It's a whole biological difference in how our attractions work
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 11:07 PM
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Yeah it's wild people here act like it's normal to grill people about their exes and body counts. I've never asked a single woman about those things. And people here act like women they aren't even dating are telling them this information lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:15 PM
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The new Drake album lol. Ouch
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:02 AM
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No fault divorce exists. What's keeping you stuck in this marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:22 PM
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What if they're unsatisfied when they do have sex with you? What if that's the reason they don't want to have sex with you? in what world are they satisfied?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:20 PM
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The logical thing to do here is divorce. Why are y'all staying if you need to cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:14 PM
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Just divorce then damn
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:13 PM
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Same twin. And these guys will tell you your advice is worthless because we have it on "easy mode" and they'd rather get advice from some dude who has never landed a chick instead
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:55 AM
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The most successful man with women are the men that are around women and approach them. Everyone else is invisible, even the tall guys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:53 AM
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Very Elliot Rogeresque
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 03:07 AM
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Can confirm. The women who approached me first were women I wasn't attracted to enough to approach first.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 02:36 AM
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People assume women's attraction is like ours. Either there's not enough sexy men or women just don't really have spontaneous desire just by looking at someone. It's more reactive desire when he shows interest and he has qualities she deems attractive to her. Which is why women approaching first would never happen
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 02:31 AM
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In my experience with women, it's not really passive, it's more reactive. But it isn't spontaneous which is why you don't desire most men by just looking at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 02:22 AM
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Your post just proves this isn't about men vs. women. It's about normal people and billionaires. Women aren't your enemy, they aren't the reason you have nothing, billionaires are. So gender wars are fucking pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 07:18 PM
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The fuck does this have to do with gay sex acceptance and rewarding it on TV? And how are men who appeal to women gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:56 PM
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Thor and Captain America aren't gay and they definitely weren't fucking dudes on camera.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:48 PM
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How old are you? When I grew up, every damn teen movie was over sexified and there were plenty of women on women action while men on men was taboo. Oh wait, people still lose their shit over men just holding hands in a video game. Woke, predatory, "forcing gay couples" on us, harming our children, etc. funny to see people argue gays in media are more accepted than lesbians for the sake of gender wars
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:39 PM
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People are getting rewarded for watching gay sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 05:48 PM
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Maybe this gives it away that I'm a millennial but when I was growing up in the early 2000s, those were insults everyone used and no one batted an eye. We called everyone those things except actually gay people, but we were cool with actually gay people. Still see the "Ha, gaaaaaay" meme on the regular and no one is getting called out for it. Saying "fruity" is a different thing from actually being hostile to gay people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 05:40 PM
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Any able bodied human adult should provide something to society, to themselves, to their partner and to their family. The idea that it's only the man's job to provide is some bs rooted in our country's history, when women weren't legally allowed to work, own a bank account or own property. Those days are gone, the average household needs 2 incomes to live comfortably now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 12:03 PM
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We're talking about physical attraction yes? Look around and you know what you said is bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:57 PM
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Pete Hegseth installed a whole makeup and hair studio at the Pentagon and Trump and DeSantis wear lifted shoes. Anyone can improve their looks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:14 PM
1

I'm saying the redpilled are hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:13 PM
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Therein lies the issue. Undesirable men want desirable women to desire them and would never date their equals. So it's a problem that desirable women want desirable men. Therefore women are unrealistic with their standards for dating equals rather than ignoring them to downgrade and be with some entitled loser
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:08 PM
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Listen to yourself bro. You're describing an undesirable man. Undesirable women are in his own league. But who do those undesirable guys want? The top % of desirable women, who desire attractive mates themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:04 PM
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You have to think of it through the lens that manosphere types want top % ladies. Everyone wants the hottest woman in their class. But who do those women go for? Someone in their own league.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:00 PM
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How did he get his fame and millions? Charisma
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:23 PM
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Dave Chapelle is one chopped looking mf. But why does he get ladies? He's charismatic as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:12 PM
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Bro there's more to life than fucking someone new every night. Clubs are for dancing and alcohol and drugs and shooting pool with the boys, if you get laid then it's a plus
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 03:58 PM
1

What's you with this Elliot Rodgers "women should approach" bs lately
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 03:11 AM
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I met most women at parties. And on social media. Friends of friends. But that requires having friends
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:47 PM
1

Why are you acting like niceness and confidence are opposites?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:04 AM
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You didn't have to say it, you're implying people are saying woman must always want the right qualities in a man when shitty women who want shitty things exist. As you've stated, women want shitty qualities, I'm saying if you want shitty women then that's the case. I have a feeling most pilled guys don't want confident women because you lot aren't confident yourselves. This advice doesn't help you because you want insecure women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:52 AM
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I'm getting married in September and I'm excited to start a family. Sorry to disappoint the forever alone in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:42 AM
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See you're still operating on the notion that all women are wonderful. Plenty of women are arrogant and have moral failings themselves and those women see it that way. Do you want an arrogant woman? If not, why are you concerned with what those women want when there are confident women who like confident men and want nothing to do with arrogant men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:22 AM
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You guys always mix up arrogance and confidence for some reason when they're actually the opposite of each other. Arrogant people are actually very insecure, always need validation, have something to prove and think being an asshole makes them powerful. Confident people are secure in themselves and don't need to have this performative nature to prove themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:45 AM
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I mean a lot of posts here are pretty toxic and feelings based from pilled dudes. Then they wonder why nobody likes them. If you're not attractive enough to get women with your looks alone, you need some positive quality my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:37 AM
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Ok dad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:22 AM
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But you wanted a discussion? I said my opinion. What are expecting here?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:09 AM
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Were the rest of us supposed to stop dating/break up with our partner or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:02 AM
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Then don't date
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:00 AM
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So we should keep that option for abortion open yeah? Quit looking at it like a gender wars issue. If a mother and father don't want a kid, they should have access to safe and legal abortion yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:50 AM
1

What is SW?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 11:25 PM
1

The old "all good looking people have horrible personalities and unattractive people have the best personalities" trope
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 11:19 PM
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Jesus Christ I've been saying you lot should have higher standards than "she's fuckable." Everyone should have higher standards and put effort into being a better option themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 11:16 PM
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Touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:04 PM
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You trying to date women or other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 05:23 AM
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We all want to feel desired by our partner, even those 300lbs and balding. But if women were fixated on looks only, most people wouldn't even be having sex. Most people aren't that sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:28 PM
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Sure bro
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:39 PM
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Is it women in real life or clips your dating guru grifter of choice shared with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:41 PM
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Do people really ask their dates for body counts these days? I think that's a good way for y'all to know they're into these grifting dating gurus and insecure about their own lack of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:38 PM
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There wasn't a mass male casualty during this period so what caused this? It's likely that a few men owned everything and shared nothing with other men so other men owned nothing. A monopoly of the very resource people need to survive. So who is fighting to get back to those days? It's not women pushing for more income equality. That's Wall Street and all their paid for politicians, yes even your favorite conservative politicians. They get the worm and you get nothing, that's what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:58 PM
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Guess what else came with agriculture? A Y chromosome bottleneck where 1 man was passing on their genes to every 17 women. And it remained that way for thousands of years, hence most of human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:41 PM
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Right, human history started in the 1950s US apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:30 PM
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For most of human history, only 33% of men reproduced. For "most" men to pass on their genes, that would require greater than 50%. And that's not even the bottleneck periods where significantly more women passed on their genes than men. Swear to god you lonely mfs think the modern day West invented everything to keep you from fucking Stacies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:20 PM
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Look man, I've been around here long enough to know you lot hold women accountable for staying with shitty men rather than holding the shitty dude accountable for being shitty. How about you all hold shitty people accountable for being shitty regardless of gender and hold the people who pursue them accountable for pursuing them, regardless of gender? That will never happen though because you're all more interested in gender wars than you are actually solving shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:08 AM
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How about we hold shitty women accountable for being shitty and hold men who pursue them accountable for pursuing shitty women? We should also hold shitty men accountable for being shitty and hold women accountable for being with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:04 AM
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There was a guy the other day saying women can only mess up a date by some colossal fuck up. The irony of him calling me a simp after I called him out for being desperate because he's the one willing to stay and deal with any woman as long as she's not colossaly fucking up. Have some fucking standard for yourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:50 AM
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Modern heterosexual dating? It was always like this my guy. Most men in history didn't pass on their genes as proven by genealogy. We know we're attracted to someone and want more with them just by looking at them while women are biologically geared towards a more reactive attraction. Shit isn't new
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:47 AM
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In my ideal world, everyone would have higher standards
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:29 PM
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It isn't simping if it's for a woman who loves you and reciprocates, but you wouldn't know how that feels would you? You're the one going on dates with women who aren't trying to act right and you'll stay unless it's a colossal fuck up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 07:02 PM
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Your desperation is showing bro
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:33 AM
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You're more worried about her exes and past than how she makes you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:32 AM
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I guess you know what people feel better than they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:25 AM
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You prove you were raped by pulling out your phone and recording the rape as it happens duh. And yell "I do not consent!" whole time so they hear you clearly on video. In fact start recording before it takes place to make sure the law knows you didn't consent in the beginning, to be on the safe side. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:57 PM
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I agree but not in the way you're assuming. Women are good to me and I'm good to women. Ugly people are likely treated worse so they're bitter and have an outlook that the world is unfair, therefore fuck treating people well. It's the same shit with women, people assume beautiful women are entitled and have poor personalities when my experiences tell me different, and unattractive and insecure women behave just as insufferable as insecure men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:26 PM
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Your issue is men with integrity vs. men with no integrity, the options don't matter. If you have money, it stops being something you have to think about while people without money think about it all the time. Same thing if you have options. Those here who put out the narrative that attractive men are horrible partners are projecting hard because that's exactly what they would do if they were attractive. And a lot of cope, they want you to think they'll treat you better than attractive men will …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:19 PM
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Mfs think giving up our agency to approach who we're attracted to and instead waiting around is somehow beneficial to us. Approaching is part of the fun clown
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 09:23 PM
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Benefit for who? Women who have approached me first weren't women I was attracted enough to approach first. Unattractive guys aren't going to get that from women, let alone attractive women. You keep waiting for that unicorn though. I don't see this being of any benefit for women either. How many times are people going to propose this dumbass idea? Like Stacey is just holding back all that attraction she has for you and waiting for this Reddit post to tell her to go ahead
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 09:10 PM
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I don't think anyone expects clownish acts from you bro
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 09:00 PM
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John Hinckley Jr. attempted to assasinate Reagan because he thought that would impress Jodie Foster. Mfs will do anything but talk to women to get women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:44 AM
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I don't think you understand the mindset of people like this. They're obsessed with power dynamics because they have none. They'd love to date a broke girl because women their own wage can only be that desperate over much richer men. Notice how those of us doing good financially and are secure in ourselves aren't the ones complaining about gold diggers. We don't need desperate women like they do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 05:38 PM
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Here goes this sub with the "Good looking men treat people like trash" and "Good looking women are delusional for wanting good looking men instead of me" bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:19 PM
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Nobody said he was looking to fuck PPD users. It's normal to have a negative reaction (being turned off) to complaining. I could get on here and complain to a bunch of strangers about how much I dislike living through winter weather in Alaska but what would that get me but indifference or apathy? Validate me guys
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:53 PM
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It's a valid thing to desire. Wanting sex isn't invalid. But complaining? My boy, you realize this turns people off right? "I love when people complain" said no one ever
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:28 PM
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Do you enjoy people who complain about economics?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:21 PM
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Maybe the sexless can complain to you then
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:53 PM
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What's the point then? To make people feel bad? Then expect them to accept it and validate you or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:45 PM
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Complaining isn't an "approved" behavior no matter what the complaint is about. Especially if that complaint is weaponized to make groups of people feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:40 PM
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Bro, people have plenty of shit to complain about. People lack a lot of things. Is it some stranger's business? Usually not. How can they help you? What are you expecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:31 PM
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Redditors discovering that having a social life helps your dating prospects
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 09:43 PM
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The transactional relationships redpill loves. Don't be a good partner, make money and lead relationships with that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:25 AM
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Don't let your facts get in the way of people's feelings in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:24 AM
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What is af/bb? I touch too much grass to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 05:59 AM
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I think it's the individual goals of each man that imposes who we look up to as a male figure. I always wanted what my parents had and my father was a great role model for that. Some people don't want a happy and healthy marriage so their role models wouldn't be men like my dad. Or if they do, not everyone's parents were even a great role model for that. Some people didn't even have a dad around so they need an internet daddy to teach them how to be men. And some people want to be like Tate so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:57 PM
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What a piece of shit dad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:46 AM
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Then you can't claim accountability as a group or preach it if y'all don't actually give a fuck about taking accountability. It's just a tool y'all use to blame others for their bad experiences when you don't even expect it of yourselves. "Everyone else is doing it so I won't take accountability" headass
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:18 PM
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I'm not the one that needs to be told to take accountability, even my ADHD ass is more accountable than most of these dudes claiming RP. Redpillers on any social media platform are always blaming someone else. I remember when that wouldn't fly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:14 PM
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If only redpill was actually about that, we wouldn't have so many struggling with dating here while being redpilled. I almost went down that rabbit hole back when it was about self improvement and accountability for yourself. But I didn't need RP for that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:10 PM
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I was joking. Thought the ridiculous expectation coupled with the /s made that obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 10:01 PM
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We want every woman to be attracted to us and no one else, nothing too crazy /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 09:57 PM
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Calm down ChatGPT
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:14 PM
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What don't you understand about being confident? There's many ways to be confident, not one specific way. They say 54% of people read at a 6th grade or below level and I see proof of that every time I open the internet. You guys think there's one magical solution to get all women when there isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:45 PM
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Aside from saving an animal, yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:01 AM
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I haven't used OLD so I wouldn't know what happens there but from my own experience, women don't compliment us very often. I think I'm a pretty attractive guy and the only woman to consistently give me compliments is my fiancée and the occasional older ladies. It's nice to have that reciprocated
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 03:27 AM
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Yeah, but you all might as well because people assume you do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:00 AM
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Doesn't matter how masculine you present, taking dick is emasculating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 01:49 AM
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Homophobia is largely due to religious reasons or the aversion to men being emasculated and feminine because being feminine is seen as inferior
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:53 AM
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Hearing things you like about us is pretty nice. I could get used to this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:49 AM
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I get off to women desiring me as much or more so I can't relate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:41 AM
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Isn't that most women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:19 AM
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Women who are attracted to other women aren't straight. Now that's different from admitting someone looks attractive, even if you aren't sexually/romantically attracted to them. Our boy Jason Momoa is an attractive mf, but am I attracted to him? No. Not even Momoa can make me sexually attracted to someone other than biological women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:06 AM
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I appreciate more experienced women, maybe because I'm experienced myself. I believe a lot of modern dating discourse stems from people's insecurities. Someone who struggles to get experience themselves are going to be intemidated at the thought of the power imbalance if they partner with someone who has experience. And every Larry, Moe and Curly wants to feel like Chad, even if they aren't Chad. Everyone wants to be special
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:09 AM
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Nordic countries take up top ranks on the happiness index. But there's a reason for it. Great economy, worker's rights, top ranks on the democracy index, top ranks for education, top ranks for equality, top ranks for social safety nets and workplace democracy. Nordic societies are the opposite of conservative, red pilled and ultra capitalist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 11:53 PM
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I see women on my social media feeds post things like "Love men in private, loving men is embarrassing." Idk, seems kind of antagonistic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 11:46 PM
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Jordan Peterson catching strays over this socially anxious OP lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:12 AM
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I wanted to say OP is either neurodivergent or has social anxiety because this isn't normal behavior. But the question wasn't for me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:01 AM
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Bro I have tried giving advice to help struggling mfs here with their intrapersonal skills. Apparently men who can get women are unqualified for giving advice on getting women. Only mfs who have never pulled women are qualified to give other hopeless mfs advice on getting women. "Don't copy off the kid who has a B, copy off the kid who has an F because the one with a B has it easy" ass logic. Yeah no shit dating is easier when you aren't a shitass, that's the point clown
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:46 AM
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When did anyone on Reddit claim they were here to help incels? Those mfs don't even want to help themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:39 AM
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Bro this is your father's job. Not some random on Reddit, not some grifter, not anyone on your social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:34 AM
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1 in 4 men and 1 in 3 women experience IPV in their relationship. It's a huge problem for both sexes. Studies in Western countries consistently indicate that only about 1–4% of men are not the biological father of the children they are raising. If you have a reason to suspect cheating then you should be concerned. But humans are humans, everyone gets offended when people accuse them of something they didn't do
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:10 PM
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Everyone should be cautious yeah? A lot of people suck. And everyone gets offended when people are cautious of them when they've done nothing to deserve it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:02 PM
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You're admitting it's a lot harder for men to commit paternity fraud. So what are you proposing to make it more fair? More men committing paternity fraud?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:58 PM
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You know women have to have an operation to make use of donor sperm right? You can't just inject that into her pussy. Parents (or fraud parents) mix up babies in the hospital on purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:44 PM
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How does a man even commit paternity fraud? What would that entail? Knowing it's not his and getting fake paternity test results to take custody of someone else's child?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:25 PM
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Take away no fault divorce and those numbers would skyrocket
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:25 PM
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One disparity between male and female victims of violence is men are significantly more likely to be victims to strangers and women significantly more likely to be victims to someone they know. It makes since that men are more threatened by not getting closer access to people while women are more cautious about getting close to the wrong people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:21 PM
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Always some sizing up going on amongst each other. I really think smaller men feel pressure and have their masculinity put into question a lot more by other men in daily life than they do women in the dating game. I'm a big guy and I still have to push back on this dumb shit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:00 PM
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Who said we were born with knowledge? Life experience and being socially aware takes you far bro. I didn't need redpill to teach me shit being around women teaches you. I'm actually glad women are this way as my fiancée isn't out here desiring every half decent man that walks by. Women could have harems if they had the wide nets of attraction we have
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:50 PM
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I'm not talking about fucking. Just gender relations in general. I think men would have less of a struggle dating if they knew women don't see them as an option or even non option before he gets involved with her. Women don't think about background men at all. He only becomes an option or non option through familiarity, being in her vicinity a lot or through status/looks. This is why people expecting women to approach would never work. You can't be a background man and expect women to approach y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 10:45 PM
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Are there people out there really walking through life this unaware? It baffles me. I really thought this was was widely understood, it's a simple concept
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:55 AM
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No you're supposed to feel sympathy for all their past suffering and take it all on as your own, let them take it all out on you, let them destroy your self esteem and sympathy fuck them whenever they want or you’re the problem /s Jesus Christ not even I can tolerate those miserable cunts and I'm a pretty prosocial person. Women can be like that too for no reason, just miserable and insecure so they try to make everyone around them feel the same. Would be great if they all dated each other, stay…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:27 AM
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Yeah I've been trying to explain to my sister. The ones chasing tail are going to be out here approaching everyone they can. The ones not chasing tail aren't approaching very many. Which is why it looks like to her that all men just want to hookup when that isn't the case
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:13 AM
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Huh. Very enlightening comment. Thanks for giving me something to think about. Always down to learn more about gender relations
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:09 AM
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The made up scenarios people use for their gender wars material
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:41 PM
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If your partner proposes an open relationship, it's time to leave bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:39 PM
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8/10 men are attractive yeah? You said they're out here spinning plates and committing to no one because why would they? Let me drop some knowledge. When you can't get something, it's the most desirable thing in the world. If you have access to casual sex, it loses it's charm and you realize there's more to life to aspire to than having different pussy every week. When you don't have access though, that seems like the highest aspiration in life. A 5/10 man is still a man yeah? His lack of desira…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:22 AM
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Ah here it goes again. Attractive men are all womanizers, abusive and shitty partners and parents according to this sub. Meanwhile insecure mfs are actually the ones predisposed to being shitty in all these aspects
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:06 AM
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Men were actually less likely to pass on their genes throughout human history than they are today. As for hunting, it wasn't a gender specific task in many tribes according to recent archaeological findings, with grandmothers and grandfathers being some of the best hunters in the tribe. The thing about hunting is we have tools and sleds so strength wasn't really necessary, just mastery of your weapons and tools, patience, environmental knowledge and experience which the elderly have a lot of
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 12:17 AM
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According to the data, most men in the history of humankind didn't pass on their genes. Around 4000-8000 years ago there was a significant bottleneck where 1 man passed on their genes to every 17 women. Maybe it fluctuates due to significant societal/resource/war time/political factors but men have always passed on their genes less than women have. We have it pretty good today all things considered, no matter how much doomerism there is online
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 11:57 PM
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Okay post a study where broke violent criminals get more women than the average man. Sorry bud, your personal feelings aren't a credible source. And a study that shows mentally well and desirable women are the ones going for them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:20 PM
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Are you around women at all? Security is huge for women. But don't believe only every study out there or any woman in your life because feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:16 PM
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How many platonic women do you have in your life? Mothers, sisters, aunties, cousins, nieces, friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:04 PM
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Yeah almost like those guys have resources and dudes making money off street shit can provide for offspring or something. There's been studies on this dawg, resources are security for women. Scratch that, resources are security for us all. And wouldn't you know, women aren't all wonderful and the type of women who go for those dudes are wretched and have some screws loose themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:54 PM
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From my experience, the romantic and non romantic women in my life aren't out here looking for hookups so their criteria is different from just "fuckable." I mean it makes sense to me, they have more risk and lower reward as they're the one risking pregnancy, reputation and higher susceptibility to STDs on top of the orgasm gap. Women are more vulnerable here. How does she know the 5/10 guy she isn't attracted to is gonna make her finish and support her after the deed if anything were to go wron…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:47 PM
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I thought women watched lesbian porn because straight porn caters to men? You're telling me they're actually lesbian/bi?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:26 PM
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Dang I was about to ask you what my fiancée wants for Valentines Day
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:24 PM
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Like everything else in redpill, it's just his feelings man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:09 PM
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I thought it was pretty clear. Very hard concept to understand I know..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:30 PM
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I feel like that would drop the percentage of naturally attractive people because people can't pass on their plastic surgery to their kids. Baby comes out looking like Shrek
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:40 PM
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But most women want commitment. So does your attraction do anything for her if you don't like her enough to commit?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:35 PM
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Porn stars and sex workers are also attractive. Y’all marrying anyone you find attractive now?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:29 PM
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Do they actually find this woman attractive or is it the perceived power dynamic over her they want? I doubt any homeless woman out there is getting treated well
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:25 PM
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In the US maybe. There's parts of Europe, Africa, the Middle East and Asia where men are dressed to the nines as casual wear and take their looks seriously. The average American man seems to have an aversion to looking good because it's seen as feminine or gay to do so. Everything is about being more masculine than the next man around here and they confuse caring for your looks with being feminine. Swear to god the most chopped mf will think he's more fit to be with women than any attractive man…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:16 PM
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Should have been more handsome bro /s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:12 PM
10

In my ideal world, everyone would have higher standards. In an indirect way, that would make people less entitled because everyone they deal with also has higher standards and won't suffer assholes who think they're worth more than they are
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:34 PM
2

Bro seriously, I avoided becoming a dad after getting around half my life. Mfs act like we have absolutely no control over sleeping with women we don't like and nutting raw inside the only place in the universe that turns our jizz into babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 05:25 AM
0

Sounds like your own personal problem
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:50 AM
12

No trust me, obviously you're all attracted to him and just holding yourselves back from approaching him. If women started approaching then he'd get all the women. Right ladies?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:39 AM
1

She isn't that into you bro. That simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:32 AM
1

Bro cut the shit. You're trying to make it so these women you imagine in your head should be against men being more emotionally intelligent with your imaginary reasons that it's bad for them and insinuating people are more emotionally intelligent now and have this imaginary enlightenment. Lol modern society is fucking cooked
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:23 AM
1

Do you really need it explained to you how you framing this as a men vs women issue and claiming emotional intelligence is backfiring is more made up culture wars bs? Are you slow or just disingenuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:18 AM
1

You think more culture wars ideology is a sign of "emotional intelligence" lil bro
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:14 AM
1

We regressed as a whole in that department dawg, "most" isn't even the argument here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:12 AM
4

I don't think anyone is more emotionally intelligent today than when I was a kid. Look at the emotional wreck we have in office, writing letters to other countries threatening to not be "peaceful" because he thought he was snubbed for the Nobel Peace Prize. With senators and news anchors who aren't much better and a voting base who makes every decision based on their personal feelings and their entire wellbeing is tied to their made up culture wars
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:07 AM
8

Do you treat your partner exceptionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:09 AM
7

Are you exceptional to your partner? Or do you just expect that treatment from them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:06 AM
0

Idk about you but I don't expect strangers to help, especially bitchmade Americans. My partner though? Woman if you leave me for dead and didn't try to get help, you are human trash. It's beyond cowardice at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:19 AM
15

Everyone wants to be exceptional don't they
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:23 AM
1

Wasn't it feminists that fought to even have women serve in the military in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 09:04 AM
6

I'm sure they were all heartbroken
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:23 PM
11

Who approached who? That's the more interested party. It's not on the less interested party to make the other more interested in them when they're already interested. That's not how life works lil bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:17 AM
1

Here they go again. The maidenless thinking they're experts at getting maidens when they have none and calling people who actually get women clueless and out of touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:01 PM
1

Bro I got around in my teens and twenties and now have a fiancée. They call my advice irrelevant because I have it on "easy mode" and they'd rather get advice from a forever alone loser who has never got a date in his life, stg. I mean it's your life bro, I couldn't really care less if you want to follow clowns who get none
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:12 PM
1

I don't agree with you either bro. Most of us have people we care for and would see fit to help if they were in danger. Tired of pillers acting like selfishness and cowardice is some kind of virtue
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:52 PM
4

He could have yelled out or flagged others down for help but he just hid and did absolute shit. Forget about genders, that's a fucking vile way to treat someone you supposedly care for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:40 PM
4

4 other men jumped in to help her. Total strangers. I'd be embarrassed as hell if some other men had to help my girl. Watching those heroic Australians during that recent shooting really opened my eyes to how bitchmade American men are
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:29 PM
5

His sex doesn't matter. Cowardly and useless as hell to do absolutely nothing when someone you're supposed to care about is in danger. Idc if that's your friend, mom, dad, girlfriend, boyfriend or kid. I'd expect my fiancée to at the very least call for help and not just fucking hide while I'm getting attacked. I bet his girlfriend had to ask if he was okay after she got attacked lmao pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:22 PM
1

Are you conceptually illiterate or are you being disingenuous? The guy I'm having a discussion with is claiming men want love, romance and relationships. That's the only point I'm disputing. Are you claiming love is instant and lust defines love or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:30 PM
2

Bro, when I try to give other men advice on building relationships in this sub, they often don't accept it because it doesn't instantly drop panties and make women desire them like they're Jason Momoa. I often wonder if people in this sub actually like women or they just desperately want the social validation sleeping with women gets them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 12:29 PM
9

Ava can't go do errands with me. Ava can't cook. Ava can't provide a human connection. Ava can't raise kids with me. I can't take Ava to meet my parents and hang with my friends. I can't make love to Ava. Go ahead y’all, I like my fiancée better
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 12:20 PM
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All this moral superiority grandstanding over a fetus when y’all are out here complaining about social safety nets for children that are already born and living in poverty with their dumbass parents who decided to have them without being able to support them. Quit using children and embryos as a political prop you claim to care for when all right wing policies go against actually caring for these kids. Your real aim is to control and punish, y’all don't give a fuck about no kids
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 03:03 AM
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I hate that they turned this into another gender war thing. As if couples and men aren't also affected by abortion bans. Yes, women should have autonomy but there are couples out here who decide together they don't want any (or any more) children and they should have the option to do what they think is best for them. They frame it like all men are against abortion when we aren't, but I also can't stand the dummies who make it about themselves and think they should be the spokesperson on abortion…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:57 AM
1

You need better friends homie
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:10 AM
2

Dating apps also do this. If the people who used them actually got into a successful relationship, they wouldn't need to come back and pay for their services. Which is why they make it so you're less successful using their services so you stay single and keep coming back
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:58 PM
3

Having standards is prostitution /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:55 PM
2

Almost like they're just grifting off the desperation of young men and giving them advice that keeps them single and coming back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:53 PM
2

Andrew Wilson says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:50 PM
3

If you have a job then she's a prostitute. Lose your job, only then can you date for love bro /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:48 PM
15

"Date only broke men with nothing to offer or you're a prostitute ladies"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:44 PM
5

You said you have a better shot with someone who isn't the most attractive. You can pretend that doesn't imply attractive people are less likely to have the qualities you listed, but it does. And that's the general take of many complaints on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:06 PM
3

Did you read your own comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:00 PM
5

The Red Pill messed up when they started allowing grifters and maidenless whiners into their ranks. Now that's part of your pill, it isn't the days of self improvement and personal accountability anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:46 PM
7

I love how this sub pretends every attractive person is a piece of shit when in my experience, the rejects and insecure ones are the worst partners to have
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:44 PM
1

Misogynists call other men bitches for competing with women? I thought that was your idea of masculine men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:56 AM
2

Nah ro it's rocket science, obviously nobody could tell the difference between confidence and insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:14 AM
3

Can you repeat that in English?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:35 AM
1

My father is nothing like Tate, he's the most masculine man I know. That's my point dumbass, Tate is just an insecure grifter scamming lonely boys with no father figures out of their money with his performative masculinity. That shit isn't masculine and is nothing for boys to aspire to
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:27 PM
1

No it isn't clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:23 PM
0

You're the one writing "toxic/hypermasculine" and describing Tate as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:21 PM
-1

Why do y’all confuse being hypermasculine with being toxic? Just ignoring all the good qualities that come with being a masculine man. You're confusing these performative masculinity weirdos for being masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:18 PM
-1

You mean good women with integrity aren't lining up to be with scummy mfs?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:16 PM
5

Not imagining shit. Y’all obsess over power in relationships on here then wonder why there's no women in your house. Competing with women like a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:08 PM
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How about the other side? Would y’all really want to date as a woman? Everyone is allergic to empathy and accountability but expects it from everyone else stg
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:31 PM
5

I promise you'll have better relationships with most people if you quit thinking of everything as a power play and just connect with people. Especially your partner, who the hell wants to come home from competing out in the world all day then competing over power with your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:23 PM
5

A lot of people just don't know the difference between confidence and arrogance. And being a leader or a dictator. They're not similar at all, arrogance and controlling behavior stem from insecurity, not confidence. The line is on the opposite side my boy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:19 PM
0

We still have Goggins. That mf might be cringe but he lives what he preaches and owns it all. Whatever happened to accountability? It's a trait every good leader has to embody
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:11 PM
-1

Get off the apps and go talk to women in real life damn
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:02 PM
1

Something red pill made up and treats it like the bible
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:58 AM
2

High IQ people are the most lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:57 AM
2

Then quit depending on apps to meet people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:43 AM
1

Man I would never be with anybody who couldn't satisfy me sexually. Is it really out of line for women to have that same expectation of their sexual partner? Who wants to have sex with someone who can't satisfy you sexually? Bro I'd rather rub one out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:33 AM
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Bro I just think it's a lot of projection. For many, looks are top priority when it comes to finding mates. People tend to think everyone thinks like they do so they assume women also put looks above all else
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:18 AM
3

Because they're two different things fool
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:58 AM
10

How many of those dating hogs are hogs themselves? Or does Shrek deserve Rihanna otherwise dating is oppressive to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:45 AM
2

How many percent of those is through social media rather than dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:43 AM
0

I'm 31, every woman I've been with was someone I met in real life. You Gen Z are just antisocial as hell and only socialize online, approach prone weird and blame them for thinking you're creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:42 AM
1

Because we know incels are masters at conversations with women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:06 AM
1

Your grandfather was a good leader then. You're confusing a leader with a dictator
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 06:52 AM
1

You're either an asshole or a submissive cuck in this sub, stop with all that nuance, thinking is gay
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 08:38 PM
0

I don't know why you think this is new, men have always wanted to lead and women have always wanted to be led. This is apparent when women would rather have men initiate and plan and propose and take care of the financial stuff and drive and all that other stuff. But you ladies need to practice discernment, not everyone is fit to be a leader. You need a man with actual leadership qualities. Someone who takes initiative, responsibility and accountability, has competence, stands on what he believe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:26 PM
1

You need standards my man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:51 AM
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Nearly 50#% of gamers these days are women. Red pill needs to make up something else women hate to feel oppressed over
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:39 AM
1

I'm not telling you to take my advice, I'm disqualified because I actually get bitches. Listen to the bitchless instead bro
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:07 AM
1

Yeah take advice from incels instead, their advice works for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:01 AM
4

A fellow gender wars oppose. My man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:53 PM
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It's funny they call it "easy mode" when you know how to socialize with women and have a successful dating/relationship life, therefore you can't give advice on getting women and instead they listen to the bitchless incels
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:50 PM
1

LTR with my fiancée. And fuck pills
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:47 PM
1

Asking the wrong person bro. Aren't the bitchless pillers the actual pros at getting women? I have a fiancée, automatically disqualified from giving advice because I can't possibly know how to get women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:21 PM
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I think we can all agree not to get advice off emotional men though. So many feefees
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:58 PM
-2

"Don't copy homework off the kid with straight As, copy off the kid with Fs instead" Says a mf that wants others to fail so he has no competition
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:54 PM
0

You're supposed to read his mind and give psychology major level interpersonal advice for free otherwise you're just oppressing a brother and keeping him down
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:26 PM
-1

Yeah don't get advice from those of us who get women, get advice from someone who has never been successful with women instead hurr durr
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:22 PM
1

There's bad men and bad women. There's good men and there's good women. I agree with you but I also think women overestimate the number of good women as well. Humans are selfish by nature, it's a survival mechanic. By what metric is someone considered "good" to you? My definition is someone of integrity, takes accountability, doesn't take advantage of those under them, stands on his beliefs and fights for what he thinks is right, contributes to society and those less privileged than him but will…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:04 AM
4

Bro you're on a comment thread where me and this lady are clowning you weirdos who would rather take advice from losers who get none
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:18 AM
3

I try to help brothers out as well and someone said my advice doesn't work because I "don’t even have to try," I'm tall so anything will work apparently. Only the bitchless who suck at dating can give good advice apparently. Like copying homework off the kid who gets Fs rather than As
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:04 AM
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Got around in my teens and twenties. Now I have a beautiful fiancée I want to build a family with. Meanwhile the weirdos here preach being a useless POS will get you women while you're still bitchless
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:52 PM
3

I always lived by "Speak softly and carry a big stick" - Theodore Roosevelt And "Are you a calm and reasonable person? - Thor
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 09:53 AM
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Believe it or not, therapy helps me with my own issues. I don't go to therapy for women, I go to therapy because I want to learn to manage my executive dysfunction and other ADHD induced issues. Sure I had women in my time but now I have a great job, 2 properties, a fiancée I want to build a family with, money to blow and I could fly my family out to spend holidays with us. Those who are happy to be bare minimum can stay bare minimum and watch the world and opportunities pass you by. Gonna be a …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 09:44 AM
1

I resemble this remark
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 09:38 AM
5

Robbing your own joy in life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 07:44 AM
0

Your whole paragraph was explaining insecurity my guy. Quit comparing and just enjoy what you have
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 07:10 AM
2

Right because women are either virgins or have 50 bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:51 AM
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Yeah watching someone you love in pain because of you isn't pleasurable at all. Neither of us enjoyed it. Some people actually fantasize about that. Twisted world
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:07 AM
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Hot and a virgin is rare. And they definitely aren't going for mid partners
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:04 AM
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I'm confident in my love making skills and have experience myself so I always preferred more experienced women. I think it's just virgins or insecure people hung up on having a virgin girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:01 AM
1

Anything that gives you cheap dopamine will affect your motivation for other things. Watching reels, food, porn, drugs, alcohol, social media
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 08:56 AM
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God I hate these gender war posts
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:30 PM
1

Good thing you aren't a scientist
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:54 PM
13

Okay what relationship traits are women filtering? What good relationship traits does OP have that I don't? And don't be disingenuous, most of you here talk about attractive men like they're all abusive fuck boys that lack everything good you think you offer
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 12:54 PM
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Filtered out good relationship traits OP's undesirable ass good for things that sexually excite them Attractive men bad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 12:41 PM
1

By that logic, people who obsess about disparaging high body counts love hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:26 AM
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Lil bro, it's on you to sell something people want. It's not on others to lower their standards to find what you're selling appealing. Men also have standards and go for what we find appealing, unless you have no standards yourself and just date any willing body
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:43 AM
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Notice again how they also insinuate that attractive men bad. Men who get women = bad according to people who can't get anybody. Maybe sell something people actually want if you want to be bought OP. I doubt OP buys things they don't want out of the goodness of their heart
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:38 AM
2

Never tried a dating app in my life. Dated dozens of women that I met irl or social media. Everything I hear about dating apps is trash
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:22 AM
0

"Everyone uses it now" Only half of people have even tried online dating. Wonder how many percent of those even use OLD as their primary way to meet people? Social media isn't like OLD, if you're too shook to talk to people irl then slide in some DMS of people you know. OLD is designed to keep you unsuccessful so you keep coming back, and many of them on there are bots and scammers pretending to be women and people advertising their OF
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:14 AM
0

I'm just lucky I grew up around sisters, aunts, girl cousins and always had non related women in my circles. Some people don't grow up with any girls around and get all their exposure to women through movies, online spaces and porn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:24 PM
-1

Lust, love, whatever you want to call it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:12 PM
-2

Love at first sight is a fairytale my guy. Y’all want fairytales
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 11:55 AM
-2

Yet you look around and plenty of average looking, average wage, fat dudes have good looking girlfriends. The bird who seeks out the worms gets the worm while the rest are sitting at their perch expecting the worm to come to them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 11:47 AM
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I feel like a lot of people on this sub have just never been in long term relationships. Every woman I have ever been in a relationship with desired me, it just wasn't instantaneous. I like to think I have attractive qualities but most women aren't going to be in love at first sight and feel turned on just by looking at me. We have to understand that the average woman isn't just out here looking for fuckable men, it takes more investment than just looking good for most of them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 11:33 AM
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Y’all are still looking at this as if it's a man vs. woman issue when it should be us all against these dumbass gender wars posts and bad faith arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:15 PM
2

Especially Gen Z
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:10 PM
1

Did you guys have a control group of people? Or were they just randoms on the internet you couldn't prove are the same people? You'd make a shitty scientist
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:01 PM
-2

Post it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:57 PM
0

I swear people don't even want improve their dating prospects, they're just here to stoke on the gender wars arguing over stupid made up scenarios like this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:40 PM
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One man might prefer white women and another man might prefer black women. Is this lies, rigged and playing games or is this individuals having individual preferences? I know you can comprehend this concept bro, it's very basic and pretending it's complex might be a you problem
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:36 PM
0

Something I realized from people in this sub. We have to ask other men about what women want or ask a woman for what an entirely different woman wants. We can't ask the specific woman what she wants because apparently women can't speak for yourselves because people need someone else to speak for you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:31 PM
-1

Source them. Let's see it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:26 PM
2

We're a social species, everyone cares what other people think. But not everyone needs constant external validation to feel okay with themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:40 PM
1

There's big differences between how a confident person and arrogant person carries themselves. Confidence is quiet self-assurance from competence and self-acceptance, focusing on personal growth and collaboration, while arrogance is loud insecurity, an inflated ego needing external validation, belittling others, and resisting feedback to hide perceived flaws<
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:06 PM
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I find a lot of arrogant people think they're confident but really they're insecure, feel like they constantly need to compete with everyone around them and need loads of validation, hence the arrogance. Couldn't be further from confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:55 PM
1

Everyone seems to confuse confidence with arrogance for some reason. Really, they're quite opposite, arrogance is actually rooted more in a need for validation like insecure people. Confident people have nothing to prove. Confident people don't have to compete with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:52 PM
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Balding isn't a reliable guage of testosterone. There's men who aren't genetically predisposed to having their hair fall out with an abundance of dihydrotestosteron in their body. And dihydrotestosterone isn't the same as testosterone, it's a byproduct of testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:16 AM
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Gengis Khan did have multiple wives but he didn't have relations with most women he impregnated. He's the most famous mass rapist in human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:00 AM
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Sex is very important to me, I just have standards for what my dick touches. My girl can get it multiple times a day. As for monogamy, that not only benefits the child and the mother but it really benefits the average straight man the most. If we were a polygamist society, every man struggling to get women now would struggle even more if those at the top of the heirarchy all had their harems. The population is roughly 50% women and 50% men so unless women also had their harems of men then the su…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:36 AM
-1

Ah yes, marriage rates. We know conservatives marry young and rush to marry the first pussy that comes into their lives. No correlation with being more successful in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:25 AM
-2

"Like 13 total conservatives on Reddit" Yeah, very solid and objective data
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:21 AM
-1

Oh so "just trust me bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:18 AM
0

Conservative men have no problem coupling up? Isn't most of the red pill and incel community one of y’all? Isn't it conservatives complaining women care about their political beliefs? Elon should be the most desirable bachelor around with that bank account, social influence and wanting to make a bunch of babies yet look at him, utterly hopeless in romance and doesn't have a single genuine friend. Women would jump on that just for the child support but he's so repulsive nobody is lining up for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:50 AM
1

Everyone is operating under this yet many people are able to still get dates. There are factors outside your control that make it harder but it's always been this way, most men in human history didn't even pass on their genes. If you take individual responsibility out of this, you just get incels and femcels blaming everything but themselves when they're making themselves even more repulsive to the opposite sex and not doing anything to improve their own chances. This woah is me bs is unattracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:43 AM
0

They're protecting her because she's a Christian, not because she owns a vagina or has a boyfriend. Weirdos
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:24 AM
0

Put a man in there, mfs are still gonna do the most feeling like their dumbass religion is being persecuted
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:20 AM
1

It's funny you think Republicans are defending her because she has a "boyfriend and a snatch" rather than because Christians are addicted to having a victim complex over their religion and are anti LGBTQ
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:18 AM
22

You can do that. Nobody is stopping you from making your own choices
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:13 PM
-1

Deleted comments? You have me mistaken for someone else? Post the stats
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:49 PM
0

Post these stats. Never seen a worldwide study on people "obsessed with money"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:46 PM
5

So you care about money? What a gold digger
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:28 PM
7

You people really think you're morally superior or something pretending to not like money. Send me your check then, I need to pay off my loan for my property extension
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:21 PM
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We all love money bro. Some people bullshit and claim they don't see value in money because they have none. If you want to live a stress free life, have fun or provide for offspring, you need money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:50 PM
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Of the 192k female inmates in the US, how many of them were in a relationship when they got sentenced? Having a partner automatically makes them unable to fail apparently so all female inmates must be single right? Works just like a Disney movie, white knight male hero comes into her life and she's now unable to fail the rest of her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 11:29 AM
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"Your honor, I'm in a relationship and I own a vagina so drop the charges" "You can't fire me boss, I have a pussy and a boyfriend" "You can't fail me professor, I have a boyfriend and a snatch"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:39 AM
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Ah yes, AI, more reputable than the CDC. Might as well go ask Grok if Republicans are happier in marriage when they rush to get married young.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:21 AM
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CDC glazing Republicans under this administration? Look at the divorce rate by state dawg. It's in there. Funny the CDC removed the actual divorce rate by political affiliation and had to Fallout 76 it by state because it didn't fit with their narrative. Like they removed a bunch of pro ethnic shit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:10 AM
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Reputable source vs. AI
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:06 AM
1

Republicans are more likely to divorce than Democrats, so nah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:58 AM
1

I think it also works the other way. Men who approach women and are pleasant and fun to women do like women and get women. The other end is incels. Who do you think is more likely to get married? Men who've been around aren't insecure about their partner's past prospects, she chose me, other men are irrelevant. Meanwhile someone who gets none are the ones loudest about not liking a desirable woman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:46 AM
0

Are middle class people going to the hood and making advances on these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:23 AM
1

Did the shy, antisocial guy even approach her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:21 AM
1

Unless you're in Japan. It's so normalized there that people don't consider it cheating, whether it's a man or woman paying for those services.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:18 AM
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People who live by incel ideology are incels. Language evolves. Incel ideology is antisocial in nature and repels others, paying for poon doesn't change that. You’re also assuming incels even have money to spend on anyone, a lot of them are incels because they can't even manage themselves or their finances and have nothing of value to offer. Bros crash out online over having to pay for a $7 coffee date and not automatically dropping panties for it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:07 AM
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This was always a thing, even before dating apps. Most men throughout human history didn't pass on their genetics according to studies. The issue is the imbalance of attraction in the beginning. The average women isn't even looking at you, she feels neutral about you. You approached because you were already attracted to her. It's not on the other party to want to attract you when you're already attracted
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:46 AM
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Yeah same. Knowing many online don't even approach women, let alone have ever socialized with women then get rejected once and spend the rest of their life blaming some non existent system that opresses them rather than growing from the experience is crazy to me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:31 AM
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I mean it doesn't feel good not to be chosen. But people operate too much on their feelings and ignore the logical aspects of why they weren't chosen
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:17 AM
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Notice how it's always the ones who provide nothing of benefit to society that claim other people's contributions, struggles and achievements. White people with nothing to offer claim other white people's achievements as their own, as do men and women of little benefit claim other men's and women's achievements and sacrifices
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:39 AM
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The average relationship: dating benefits women most, boyfriend/girlfriend benefits both most, marriage benefits men most and divorce benefits women most. Even though men and women want to deny the privilege they have on their end of these stages.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:34 AM
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Shrek is a parody of Disney tropes. Because most Disney love interests aren't even a prince, they're a beast or a nobody that gets the princess in the castle
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:34 PM
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The brainrot of society today. People can't comprehend morals and think everything is an us vs. them thing. Can't comprehend that we see the act itself as bad rather than basing it off who is involved
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 01:43 PM
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Hey now we have to look for any speck of reason to blame on feminism and all women in order to argue feminism bad for women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 01:40 PM
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Ah yes, Shrek is a very handsome prince and feminine princesses are the actual lowlifes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 11:41 AM
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Everyone wants to be treated like they're a leader, meanwhile very few actually possess leadership qualities. Who's gonna trust a train wreck to lead?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 11:36 AM
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You want a fairytale bro. These older generations weren't together for romance, they were together out of financial need. Boomers have the highest divorce rates and those that are together make their whole personality about hating their wives. You want romance? Gotta be romantic yourself. You aren't just a paycheck anymore brother
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 11:32 AM
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And that's why women who want something longterm need to see who's actually invested in them before seeing you as an option. They know we'll sleep with someone we don't want longterm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 11:09 PM
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The imbalance during dating is biological. We know who we want to invest in not long after seeing her, women don't operate like that. They need another incentive. You're just another guy she doesn't see as an option unless you show her you're an option. You guys think the attraction is equal in the beginning when it's not. It's on the more attracted party to make yourself more attractive to them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 11:04 PM
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All creatures have an innate built in desire to keep their species alive. There's outliers like antinatalists and people like you but your aren't the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 11:02 PM
2

Social conditioning is crazy. Women did used to feel that way when I was growing up, but it's a different world today. Women are enjoying single life in this era, no pressure to get married or have kids and they say being in relationships or claiming their partner is embarrassing while men are now the ones preferring women they can marry and have kids with to being single. I feel like women benefit more from dating than being locked down since there's no financial incentive anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:53 PM
2

Social skills are huge for a man's dating prospects
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:49 PM
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In my experience, many women have similar libidos. There's a few I dealt with that had an even higher sex drive than me. The issue is, women's sexual attraction tends to be more reactive. I mean even if looks are a big part of it, most men just aren't sexually appealing so they need something else to get them going. They could want sex with one man and have no desire at all for most other men, and people confuse this with women not wanting sex at all
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:46 PM
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Ever been in a longterm relationship? Every woman I've been with put in more effort when we get to the commitment phase. Married women work and still do the majority of the homemaking and raising the kids. 50/50 won't change women's biological need to know a man is invested in her before she even sees us as a longterm option. The attraction isn't equal in the beginning, the more attracted party is the one who initiates otherwise it won't happen in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:03 AM
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Speak for yourself. Fuck sake have some standards. Dating wouldn't be so trash for everybody if people quit coming at them desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:50 PM
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Women were always passive in finding mates throughout human history. Only today will you hear mfs complain they have to approach women. Here's the deal fellas, we know pretty quick upon seeing a woman if we want to invest in her longterm or not, women don't operate that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:48 PM
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I was just saying in another thread, I feel this way too and I'd rather not be in a relationship with a woman if we both aren't happy and benefiting each other. What's the point? Makes your own life harder with more responsibilities and no reward for it. Crazy there's people out here who would rather be in a shitty relationship than single
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:41 PM
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I'm this way too because if we aren't a benefit to each other's life then why are we even together? Other women aren't relevant in that decision at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:14 PM
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Everyone should have high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 07:01 PM
1

Everyone should have high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 07:01 PM
3

Swimmers have great lats. As a wrestler, the only more athletic physique to me was swimmers and their V shaped upper body.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 02:39 PM
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Everyday? Really should be giving your body rest days for full muscle recovery. Unless you're on gear
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 02:31 PM
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Leave my terrible sports teams out of this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:40 PM
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Men enter slowly? I remember reading this study once that showed men fell in love first. Then I started noticing every relationship my friends had, my boys fell in love first and were rushing past the getting to know each other phase. Go online and y’all are complaining women aren't initiating, sleeping with you on the first date or putting any effort in instantly like y’all would
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:34 PM
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A woman who can do shit for herself is gonna be a better mother than one who can't. And a good man doesn't want a replacement mother to wipe his ass and be his slavemaid while he struggles to raise a family on one income
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:28 PM
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Bro OP is talking about minors. Fucking minors bro
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:39 AM
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Sharing common core morals and values, otherwise someone is gonna feel resentment eventually. If you're the type to have accountability, you need a partner that also takes accountability. If integrity is important to you then you need a partner with integrity. If you think fairness in a relationship is important, you need a partner that thinks fairness in a relationship is important. If you're a driven person, you need a driven partner. Otherwise you get dragged down. If you aren't any of those,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:57 AM
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It's funny how these chick are female redpill doing the same tactics redpill is doing, except dealing with men. I think y’all deserve each other being the leaders of this gender wars bs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:21 AM
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That might just be your algorithm bro, following OF chicks and red pilled content will do this to a mf's algo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:19 AM
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Yeah I'm raising my future daughters to be people who contribute to society and can do shit for themselves, not someone's unpaid and dependent homemaker. Fym, I want my daughters to have a good life and find a good man to build with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:16 AM
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If you need to groom girls to be in a healthy relationship, the problem might just be you my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:14 AM
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Being in relationships is how I got good in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:29 PM
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Afghanistan social system is much older than "liberal western culture." That was created due to their religion, not due to fucking liberals lol. Bro who wrote that "women aren't beautiful" bit just sounds like he's in the closet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:44 PM
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I don't know man. Most men didn't pass on their genes throughout most of human history according to genetic analysis
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:14 AM
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Shoot can't find the thread but I think it was in the vent sub. Some lady was venting about her dead bedroom and this guy came in to brag about how much better jerking off is compared to sleeping with women. I said I don't understand because much of the pleasure for me is working for the reward, feeling someone's raw desire for me, wanting to please my partner and wanting to perform. Then he went on a rant about how wanting to perform is shit people want to do on American Idol lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:07 AM
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An older man really lectured me on here when I said I enjoyed pleasing my partners and wanting to perform well in bed. Pleasing your partner bad I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 01:09 AM
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Finally y’all are admitting this has to do with retroactive jealousy. Quit comparing, life is happier when everything isn't a competition. I always preferred more experienced women myself as someone with experience and virgins lecture me as if I'm the one that's wrong for my preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 01:03 AM
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Alaska. The most trailer trash, unpretty place in the nation. I can tell you rn most men around the globe groom and dress better than the average American, so you're lucky "most places aren't like America". We don't live like the fucking movies out here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:05 AM
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I grew up in rural areas in the US lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:00 AM
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Because some of you have irredeemable ass personalities for real. Bitter and hateful and insecure and moping on the internet all day, geez I wonder why nobody wants to party with you? We all have issues bro, we don't need more from others who feel entitled to the world bending to their will because they can't get shit on their own with that shitty personality
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:51 AM
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Then dress in basic shit to look best for your body type goddamn
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:48 AM
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So you're saying not every style is gonna look best on you? Yeah no shit. Dress in a way that does. Or don't, you can look ridiculous bro idgaf
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:36 AM
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Type of makeup doesn't matter. Go subtle or don't. Or don't wear it at all. I doubt anyone actually gives AF bro, saw plenty of straight kids in guyliner when I was in school and see plenty of straight TikTok guys in makeup and filters today, seems normalized as hell. If someone actually gives you shit, fuck em, it's for the ladies anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:07 AM
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Sure we can. Hagseth, JD Vance, our president, many congress men and every last male entertainer we have has a hair and makeup team. Average men wear makeup too, you don't have to do a full glam bro
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:59 AM
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There's always a "best way" to dress for your body type. Or you can give up before you even start and look ridiculous in clothes for the rest of your life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:56 AM
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Yeah damn those baddies for wanting a hot boyfriend in their league and not some mid like y'all. These women's standards are too high if I can't just get the hottest girl kissing my feet by looking at her
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:54 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:27 PM
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Interesting stuff. How do y’all sign up for such procedures?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:24 PM
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I'm in family starting mode right now so there's no use for it for me right now. Maybe when I was younger but I also got around in a state that takes top rank in the nation for STDs and it was probably better to wrap up anyway. Idk, maybe for young, exclusive couples who don't want kids
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:21 PM
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Republicans have higher divorce rates than Democrats. Perhaps they should care more about their prospect's personality. Republicans do bond more over shared enemies while Democrats bond more over common core values so their dating habits don't surprise me, plus announcing their political stances isn't gonna gain them very many matches with most women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:53 PM
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You saying right wingers have no personality? Therfore personality = progressive pot smokers?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:47 PM
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I'm engaged and a 31 year old man but okay. Mad you can't influence your partner or what? If you can't do it, it must be 100% bad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:12 PM
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Raised by Gen X. Funny seeing Boomer 2.0 mentioning boomers though. The two most miserable generations of modern day America
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:07 PM
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I never said it was good. Personality nor influence isn't correlated to being "good" or "bad" exclusively. Gotta be Gen Z, y’all love arguing points nobody ever said and think it makes your dumbass smart
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:50 PM
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Does it stop being part on one's personality depending on how it's used? tf even is your point? Social standing bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:30 PM
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Why does everyone in this sub confuse "personality" with being a good person or being progressive? And why does being shy and boring and uninteresting get confused for being a good person? Charisma, confidence, being fun/funny and the ability to influence others is part of personality, good luck attracting mates without any of these qualities. Why are autistic/shy/timid men struggling so much? Because they don't have a digestible personality and none of that even makes them good people like y’al…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:55 AM
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Men like me fym, I'm a catch. Respectfully
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:45 PM
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I'm not a feminist and I think gender wars are fucking stupid, but I have my own reasons to be against "paper abortions" while I support parent's rights to actual abortions if they see fit. If a child is born, that child still needs resources, this is up to its parents to provide. "Paper abortions" would mean that child is no longer provided for by one of it's parents and now likely has to get support from the government with taxpayer funded programs. My issue is why the fuck should us taxpayers…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 09:09 PM
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Y’all really dating women that just sit there and do nothing? Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:20 AM
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The hell kind of women y'all dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:20 AM
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Perhaps why women initiate 70% of divorces
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:00 PM
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Love isn't something you achieve, love is something you build.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:08 PM
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The most important question a man can ask is if he's that women's type. If he's not he's in for a world of pain down the road imo< Couldn't have said it better myself brother. For men ourselves it's simple, if I'm attracted to you and you make me feel good then I'm all in taking care of you for life. Not so simple gaging if someone else is attracted to you the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 02:29 AM
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It's gender wars, the losers are just the loudest
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 10:40 PM
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What was the final straw?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 10:39 PM
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It's funny to see this discourse. You guys complain women only care about looks, but complain when they like you for something other than your looks. If looks were all that mattered to women, most of us would be utterly fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 07:10 PM
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You mean every woman is different? You don't say
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:27 PM
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I mean you're comparing dating someone boring and staying in a relationship with someone you already have feelings for. I doubt anyone beating up their date on the first date gets a second date
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:33 PM
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Personally it would be for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:30 PM
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Everyone has their own opinion on what "evil" even is. Just look at the left and right in America
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:26 PM
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Being boring should absolutely be a disqualifier. People want to enjoy their time and are wired to like charismatic people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:56 PM
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Yeah but not with 90% of us just by looking at us. Gotta offer more than looks to have most women want you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:12 PM
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Women have something we want, which is sex and companionship. You also have to have something they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:59 AM
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Nah you guys need to stay and be the reasonable discourse this sub needs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:47 AM
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I can see some people being desperate and sleeping with who they can. But a whole relationship, let alone marrying someone you aren't attracted to? I want to know who is doing this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:36 AM
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Me too man. I think my fiance is the better half and she thinks I'm the better half. Looking forward to starting our family, I'm happy here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:18 PM
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I've noticed a pattern here from men that don't get picked painting men who get picked as abusive users. Jealousy is a hell of a drug
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:56 PM
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I got called feminist once for calling out a pedo in my town. Like damn can we just make this place safe and happy for everyone and call out those who threaten that. If that was a woman, she would get called out too, fuck them all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 02:18 AM
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You described MAGA honestly. Never logical, everything based on their personal feelings. The problem is, those people think their feelings are logical and anyone stating facts is operating on feelings. Everyone thinks their own personal opinion is the logical one and everyone else is emotional these days
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 02:14 AM
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A man fights for what he believes is right even if it doesn't gain you fanfare. You're alright bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 02:09 AM
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It's funny they call westerners gold diggers then go to a country where they're only dug for their gold
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:59 AM
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Nah just losers who can't hack it back home and need to beta buxx some woman from an undeveloped country
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:58 AM
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That's not unconditional love, that's being dependent on something he provides in her life and having no self value. Men do this too over some trash women. Which is exactly why people should have conditions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:20 AM
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Romantic love should never be unconditional. Everyone should have standards and boundaries, otherwise you set yourself up to be treated like shit and used. You are with them on the condition they treat you well and are a net positive part of your life, as should they, as it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:14 AM
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Are women preventing you from having friends or pursuing other women or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:00 AM
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I knew maybe one dude who posted about how he'd French kiss his son to teach him how to do it. Shit was weird. Teaching your kid this stuff is weird as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:37 AM
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I mean parents are our main role models in interpersonal connections. If your parents are losers who don't have friends and don't have a good relationship with each other, you're likely to be a loser socially as well. Social competence definitely factors into romantic success. So in a way, your parents do affect this aspect indirectly. As for teaching them directly how to get laid? I never heard anyone complain about this but I'll take your word for it. I think that's weird as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:34 AM
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Dating app shill lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:05 AM
1

Rizz is just short for charisma. Charisma definitely affects how attractive you come off. Met plenty of homely ladies I admired more after their charismatic personality came through. Definitely liked them more than the baddies without it. Dave Chappell is charismatic as hell. Without that, he's just a skinny, weird looking dude with a funny voice. All our most beloved entertainers are charismatic. Wild there's still people who think charisma doesn't matter to attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:55 AM
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People who wanted their kids are gonna be better parents than people who got knocked up accidentally and didn't really want the kid. Having sex with someone doesn't determine how great of a parent you'll be
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:37 AM
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Yes but your social life suffers. As a man, your peers judge your masculinity on the quantity and quality of women you can attract. And women definitely prefer men who can attract other women. Although I don't think the government or women can solve this issue when it's straight male culture inflicting this on us
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 01:06 AM
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We need more third spaces for men and women to socialize. But even if they were around, would most of you even utilize them? A lot of people socialize online only and never leave the house even if these third spaces exist nearby. This epidemic is a problem. I have tried giving advice to some of you to maintain friend groups and have women in your circles and it's met with disregard every time. People just want some magic, effortless, one size fits all solution to getting laid instantly when that…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:53 AM
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If red pill was actually successful, y'all wouldn't be out here bitter and hating women and looking for strategies to manipulate people into getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:43 AM
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Antisocial? You mean like the people who are lonely now? Antisocial people have always struggled making friends and finding romantic partners, they aren't the ones out here getting laid recklessly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:38 AM
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Nah this is wild. STDs and unplanned pregnancies would go up, people aren't going to stop having sex. The reason our birthrates are dropping is teen pregnancies are happening less due to contraception, teen pregnancies going up isn't beneficial to society. More mouths to feed with our tax dollars, more kids growing up in poverty, more crime. And in the end, I don't think people who don't choose you now will choose you any more then
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:32 AM
2

Just talk to a woman besides you and tell them not to go to the bar the guys are going to and say only 6s go there
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:40 AM
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Based username for a redpiller
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:27 AM
1

Yeah not being starved for social validation is a pretty big antidote to being lonely. Also, the more socially successful you are, the more you’re attractive to potential mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:07 PM
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Emotional stability doesn't mean never having feelings or bonding emotionally with your partner though. Studies show relationships with emotional connection are happiest. But these posts want you to believe emotional connection bad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 09:04 PM
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What emotional quality is it then that all women want? I've been treating them all as individuals and that works well for me. What some toxic chick likes that I don't even like doesn't even come into consideration for me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 08:36 PM
2

It really is. Nobody wants to be around a grouchy negative Nancy, someone who can't manage their emotions or is an emotional wreck. There's a healthy medium between sociopath and emotional wreck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:14 PM
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I think everyone is like this. As a social species, we need emotional connection to love someone. Studies show those relationships with emotional connection are happiest. And any mentally healthy person wants a partner that's a healthy mix of masculine and feminine. But I think it's silly that having basic human feelings is labeled feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:34 PM
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Figure out the type of woman you want and ask yourself what this woman wants. There is no one size fits all solution
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:30 PM
0

A very nuanced take from a red piller.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:29 PM
7

At the core of their "Women want top 10% men" is the women they want are top percenters and they're mad those women want other top percenters. All these Disney and teen movies we grew up with really has people believing the antisocial dork can become the hero and win over the hottest girl around
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:12 PM
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There is a very small middle class now. The average person lives paycheck to paycheck. If you're able to save money, you're already above average
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:08 PM
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No but you see, fat men don't want fat women. His weight doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:04 PM
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Sure everything has outliers, they don't define the whole. It's either conmen or those who fall for conmen over there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 04:48 PM
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Because the only two kind of people in the world are either Hikaru or Donald supporters..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 04:44 PM
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You're mixing up validation and being understood. Understanding there's a problem that needs to be solved is the first step.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:31 AM
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I value being understood. Not everyone will try to understand you, and worse, willfully misunderstand you. Being with someone who doesn't attempt to understand you sounds miserable as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:29 AM
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Everyone would have higher standards in my ideal world. And intellectuals would breed more than remedials
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 08:46 AM
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Google it idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:44 AM
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I mean this is what young people in general should do. General life advice. You should find out what you like and don't like before getting married, it's not gender specific advice. Or else you end up in marriages where you hate each other like boomers did
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:41 AM
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Look despite what anyone tells you, we lose interest when the girl chases in any way. Let him initiate, let him invest, a man who actually like you will oblige. It's part of the fun for us with casual hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:43 AM
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The only app I ever used was called "real life"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:19 AM
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Not exaggerated at all. Some unemployed short king can get poon and you can't, I'd be mad too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:18 AM
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Feelings and hate/rage bait releases more dopamine than actually finding solutions. Social media users and the wider American audience is addicted to complaining, hate and rage. Nobody actually wants logic brother
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:02 AM
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Facebook, X, Instagram and YouTube also do that. Controversial content gets the most engagement so they push it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:57 AM
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Plenty of 5'6" bums and stay at home dads in Alaska. Yet everyone gets around and we lead the nation for STDs and children born out of wedlock. Maybe y’all need to move
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:51 AM
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I assume it's frustrating for everybody. The onus is on you to prove a claim, frankly I don't even care. Weird agenda comment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:34 PM
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Personality gives you the means to connect with people and have some social success. Social success is a huge factor in what people (especially women) find attractive in a potential mate. Someone with charisma is going to attract people more than someone with a boring ass personality. We're a social species, someone who's hard to connect with isn't going to make many friends or attract many mates. Dave Chapelle is one charismatic mf, take that away and he's just a skinny, weird looking dude. His…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:47 PM
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You have sources for this claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:53 AM
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I have never seen a woman cry and took it to be consent to touch her pussy. What the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:44 AM
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Sexist ass take. The men you're dealing with don't actually like you if that's what you're dealing with. Those are the men you chose
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 01:34 AM
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A man is the master of himself. His actions are dictated by rational thought, not impulse.< My dad raised me the same way. Too many men are raised without a healthy example of what it means to be a man, then we wonder why they turn to internet daddies and alpha male gurus to teach them how to be men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:13 PM
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Man this is bleak. The desire to love and be loved is human. One of our strongest motivators. The reason any of us are here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:58 PM
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One of the greatest joys in life is having attraction to someone and having it reciprocated. I'll pass
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:56 PM
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I wouldn't recommend this. My desire to get off was still there but my meat was numb and unable to provide any stimulation at all, got off that so fast. Then another antidepressant actually killed my libido, but my desire for any pleasure in life also went with it. Took months to recover from both of these and my relationships suffered
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:51 PM
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"Dating down" financially is quite rare. Like I said, most people marry in their respective class. You usually aren't going to be around people in a higher class or lower class than you, you live and socialize among your own. The wealthy? Royals? Bums? Entertainers? They marry amongst each other
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:43 PM
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Not being a bum is a pretty big social pressure my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:52 PM
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Plenty of pressures exist. The pressure to provide for yourself. The pressure for financial security. The pressure of not being a bum. The pressure to be happy in life. I didn't get my job for women, I got it for me. Having income is bare minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:29 PM
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Half the workforce is women. The vast majority of people marry in their tax bracket. These are the people in their vicinity. In my generation (millennials), women own the most homes. Maybe stop saying a woman's career has no bearing on her dating value if you aren't trying to be with someone who has to depend on you financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:23 PM
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I'm with you buddy. These made up gender roles didn't exist for most of human history, people really think 1930s US is how all of human history was for some reason. And argue this is biologically innate in us due to that. But today, do people really have a choice? The average household requires 2 incomes to live comfortably. The average man and the average woman has no choice but to take on "masculine" roles. The problem is, women are still expected to take on "feminine" roles on their own after…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:10 PM
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Incels have always existed all throughout human history. According to archaeological data, the majority of men didn't even pass on their genes. Modern day Incels struggle with any successful social life but have their community online to fortify their backwards ideas and world view
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:06 PM
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Is everything you do in life solely to get women to want you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:01 PM
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Not at my company's rec. I'll put my shirt on for you next time for you though hunny 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 05:41 AM
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A commercial gym is a gym like Planet Fitness. Rec centers have a gym area. Yes it's a gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 05:36 AM
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Bro we spar shirtless, we play skins and shirts and lift free weights shirtless. This is a rec center, not a commercial gym
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 05:25 AM
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My gym does if you aren't at the bench.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 05:01 AM
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No bare asses sitting on the bench and I'm fine. Nobody wants ass crack juice on their workout equipment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:04 PM
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Yeah women can't go shirtless at my gym when I can. I think they should be allowed, America has a weird thing with nudity
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:02 PM
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I make fun of this double standard by censoring my nipples when I send my girl shirtless pics. Makes her laugh so that makes me happy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:01 PM
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A fellow leg day enjoyer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 08:59 PM
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I'm shirtless and wear short shorts at the gym. No complaints. Don't hate me because I'm beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 08:59 PM
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Happy to oblige. I'm shirtless everyday after work hours
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 03:41 PM
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No but that's different. Women are supposed to do all this for us, men shouldn't have to do any of this /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:26 AM
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You know traits like determination, intellect and drive are also influenced genetically right? Don't you want successful children? Not to mention, y’all the type to complain about child support and alimony when you chose a broke woman. Guess I'm gay for wanting a competent wife
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:33 PM
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Option 1 all day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:28 PM
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Idk, losers get bitter, hateful and resentful with their lack of satisfaction in life. Which ideology are they more likely to follow?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:26 AM
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It's not that redpill makes people losers, it's that losers are attracted to redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:18 AM
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Classic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:31 AM
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Why does it matter? She wants you now, spoiling your own enjoyment imagining hot men she fucked. Why do you want your buddies to compare? Shitty thing to do mate, let people be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:30 AM
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Those people deserve each other
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 05:44 PM
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Ah yes, growing up. Women need to grow up and just take advances from someone they're not attracted to. Very immature of them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 12:25 PM
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Man I'm neurodivergent, don't blame us. This dude is just an antisocial weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 12:20 PM
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When did I say any of that? And why is it on me to fix someone else's problems? I'll tell you what though, you don't fix your problems being hateful online, you're hurting your own chances further
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 01:11 PM
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You mean just normal dudes then who just haven't gotten laid? What am I supposed to do for them? Call up 5 of my exes and send them over? Demand the government to mandate them pussy? Not fuck women myself in protest? Be their unpaid therapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 01:01 PM
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Not if they behaved like your average incel no. Nothing else is relevant but their attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:57 PM
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Not everyone resorts to being hateful and bitter and blaming everyone else for their personal grievances. Not everyone wants to see the world and everyone in it burn because you aren't getting what you feel entitled to. That's not mentally healthy behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:53 PM
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As a guy who enjoys sex, yes we want sex. I don't think that's the issue bro, it's the attitude, the entitlement and how some people go about it. Incels hate on men who get sex then wonder why we don't like them. Hate on women online then wonder why women don't like them. Some guys are just disappointed with how little opportunity they have, but they aren't the ones people call incels let's be for real
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 08:40 AM
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We all have traumas from childhood that weren't our fault but follows us into adulthood. It's not our fault we went through that. But it's also baggage and no one else is obligated to want to take on that baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:50 PM
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I mean people get therapy for many different reasons. I'm in therapy now for my working memory issues and general executive dysfunction. Maybe it's not the therapy that's the issue, it's your history. Think about it, would you give a chance to an ex prostitute who quit that life and now wants to start a family? That's not the same as some chick going through therapy to learn coping skills for quitting her alcohol addiction. People can change but are you just gonna trust strangers to never go bac…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:39 PM
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Quit simping bro, Zuck isn't gonna fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:26 AM
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Yes, to amaze people, you kind of need amazing qualities. Definition don't change for your personal feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:14 AM
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You can network all you want, you aren't gonna become a billionaire without daddy's money
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:13 AM
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Y'all look at Elon, Besoz, Gates and Donald and see charisma?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:03 AM
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You guys sound like women insecure about their breast size and trying to get validation from men for it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:29 AM
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Are they the same women? You're aware women are individuals with different tastes and preferences right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:24 AM
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Wasn't making claims about you lol, I'm saying if someone lacks those, they suffer. Doesn't matter what you personally value or consider amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:03 AM
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Y'all are charismatic? You come off as bitter and resentful to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:56 PM
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Nobody claimed the lack of physical attraction but here you are arguing shit nobody even said. Narcissists can be very charismatic and good at inducing bonding brain chemicals and getting people to like being around them. No shit they have more dating success than you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:46 PM
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Liking being around someone is a key part of attraction. Are you out here dating people you hate being around or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:59 PM
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People want to be around others they enjoy being around. Are you fun? Do you induce good feelings and feel good brain chemicals in others? Then you should have no issue getting women to want to be around you. Think about it, do you want to be around people who lack those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:40 PM
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Self improvement is part of being an "amazing person."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:37 PM
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Being a good person and being an amazing person are different things. Amazing people have talents, charisma and are socially successful. You lack those and your dating prospects suffer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:34 PM
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Financial contributions are just one aspect. I don't need my partner to be the breadwinner. I feel like I'm dating up, she feels like she's dating up, nobody feels settled for here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:24 AM
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Of course they can be! It's weird how people associate being smart with being unattractive. Perhaps because our wealthiest executives are all ugly as hell, except Rihanna. Rocky winning at life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:48 AM
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More people should care about the intellectual traits of their partner. You pass those genetics onto your children. The world wouldn't be cooked if intellectuals had more children and remedials weren't breeding like rabbits
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:39 AM
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Some people aren't dating due to indifference. Some people because hate. Those two groups of people really do hate the opposite gender and view each other as evil
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:48 AM
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"This kind of misandry is really ruining my chances with women, men are being oppressed"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:35 PM
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The thorn in the neck of human evolution. Intelligent people in general have less children and are less likely to even be romantically involved with anyone while the remedial breed like rabbits.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 11:45 PM
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Men want women a lot doesnt mean we need them. A lot of men die without even having women.< K.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:59 AM
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I'm not the one denying men and women need each other
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:05 AM
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Isn't it y’all calling sex a need and basing your entire worth around getting sex? That requires a woman if you're a straight man no?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 01:12 AM
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You literally said he's a stay at home slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:41 AM
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Who said to quit his job and stay at home? The house still needs taken care of when you both work, Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:40 AM
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They both work, she just makes more. There is no one "staying at home" here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:39 AM
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Make up for it by taking on other roles. Help around the house, take on some mental load, cook some food. I bet "I love to cook" would be well received on dating profiles
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 10:43 PM
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Yes you are. You're both providing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 10:05 PM
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If you have a job, you're providing. The average household today requires 2 incomes to live comfortably, you're both providing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 10:04 PM
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Why do people assume the manufactured gender roles of pre WWII America is how it was throughout human history? Men also nurtured their children and cared for the weak and women also hunted and provided throughout human history. We look for signs of fertility in mates while women look for stability. Is her life better with you in it or without? Would potential children have a decent life? Resources are only one aspect of that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 10:00 PM
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Yeah a buddy of mine was just on Facebook asking why women deal with drug users and alcoholics. My boy, those women are also fighting their own demons, they're probably on drugs or alcoholics themselves and he has something they need. It's not moral, sober, family oriented women dealing with those dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:48 PM
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My boy, exposure to women. Be around women. Talk to women. Ask women on dates. That's what these guys are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:40 PM
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I was diagnosed with ADHD in seventh grade and there's some social challenges there but I make up for it by just being someone people enjoy being around. I have to be mindful of not impulsively saying stuff and I use humor a lot to compensate. I think women are drawn to socially successful men because it's a life of certain struggle otherwise, and that's an area many NDs struggle with. But like anything else, you put energy and work into it and that area of your life improves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 02:28 AM
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Yeah but people on this sub want to be desired like Chad. That's why they hate advice that doesn't revolve around their looks and complain how they're average height
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:59 PM
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Yes. But do you see waves of people berating these "fuckboys" on social media like people do to promiscuous women? Are dating gurus that shit on promiscuous men mainstream? Does a fuckboy's reputation get hit like a whore's? If I meet someone I don't wish to associate with, I just move on. That seems to be the approach women take when they come across a fuckboy they don't want. It's normalized to shit on any woman seen as promiscuous though, whether you want them or not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 06:40 PM
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Why do people have this belief that equity and self determination takes happiness from men? American men definitely aren't happier than men in Scandinavian countries. Those countries consistently take up top ranks on the happiness index. They have more equity and self determination all around, men there wouldn't be happier if these were actually bad for men. Meanwhile men in Asia have the highest suicide rates, you'd think they'd be happier if living in very patriarchal societies was beneficial …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 06:17 PM
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The idea of gender roles wasn't how we imagine it throughout human history. Our manufactured gender roles from right before modern day America isn't how it was throughout human history at all, but we pretend these were the gender roles we always had. Whether you look at hunter gatherer societies or some advanced ancient civilizations, gender roles didn't influence individual roles all that much. There were men who were just as involved with their children and caring for the sick while there were…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 06:03 PM
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I feel like any manufactured heirarchy holds us back. If you put people at the top just because they're a certain race, religion, gender or creed, you make it so those below them who are just as capable, if not moreso, can't do anything and society is worse for the majority. I remember that Korean Airlines plane crash that could have been prevented if the copilot spoke up and told the pilot what he was doing wrong. But in their society, you don't speak up to seniority, that's a grave offense to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:46 PM
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These are outdated beliefs. Strict gender roles weren't part of hunter gatherer societies. Archaeologists find hunting tools buried with women and men were just as involved with their children. As a hunter myself, strength isn't even relevant. You go out and sit at the blinds waiting for game for most of it, then you use your hunting tools, butcher the usable meat, pack it onto your sled and take it home with your group. You need patience, skill with your tools and knowledge from those before yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:34 PM
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As a man with experience, I always preferred women with experience. But there's a reason people are subconsciously wary of investing in promiscuous options. Studies show promiscuous people have an impaired ability to pair bond. Women are also wary of investing feelings in promiscuous men right? No matter how much men claim it's different, the same impaired pair bonding affects promiscuous men just as they affect promiscuous women. Maybe women just aren't as vocal about their distaste for promisc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:21 PM
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I grew up in a nuclear family. Nuclear family isn't synonymous with conservative. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:14 PM
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What do house seats have to do with this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:09 PM
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Conservative woman ≠ housewife. Many housewives were oppressed when they didn't have the choice yes. Almost as if one's choice and self determination is what frees one from oppression
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:35 PM
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Things did change though. It got worse. For everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:56 PM
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Not sure what any of that has to do with this but I actually had this discussion with a woman before. That was exactly her take, that feminists fought for women to have the choice. They fought for their right to seek employment or be a house wife. They didn't fight against housewives lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:53 PM
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"I can't get laid so let's burn it all down for everybody including me. Winning so hard rn"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:45 AM
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How does Roe v. Wade being overturned or Trump being in office help anyone get laid? If anything, banning abortion will make women less likely to open their legs. The economy is trash, culture wars are ramping up, more people live at home with their parents, Medicaid and Social Security cuts, school budget cuts, doubling the national debt, healthcare research funding cut, domestic terrorism on the rise. You think people are in the mood to make babies right now? Congrats, you played yourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:21 AM
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Ah yes. Let's shame the romantically and sexually successful men so we redistribute attraction to losers instead
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 05:25 PM
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That's how I view tradwives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 11:12 AM
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From my understanding, feminists advocate for choice. If you want to be a tradwife then be a tradwife, if you want 50/50 then do 50/50. Doesn't matter as long as it's their own choice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 11:10 AM
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Depends on the relationship really. My dad was deployed twice when I was young, that's a big sacrifice. But my mom had to raise us all alone while he was gone and her job paid better than the military also. As for the average couple, married men don't usually work longer hours than the single man. But modern wives are often in charge of more housework than single women, on top of having a job and kids to raise. I remember seeing studies about this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 08:34 AM
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Dating gurus and influencers really have people treating relationships as transactional
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:34 AM
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According to his history, the female preferences he finds problematic are women who don't prefer bi men, toxic men, misogynistic men, incel men or otherwise antisocial men. Seems like reasonable preferences to me. I couldn't find anything about his own preferences though because he only speaks positively about anime chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:31 AM
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Charisma isn't game, it's your personality my guy. Neither is being social conscious
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:51 PM
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I always thought people who play games to win people over are making up for their lack of being able to attract people otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:50 PM
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Get rid of religion then, causing the most sexual repression in humans since their very inception
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:39 PM
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Sexless people really believe sex is the solution to all their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:37 PM
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We show empathy for men for different reasons than women. If he isn't financially stable? Tough man, but that's your responsibility. We are more empathetic to the ladies for that. But if a woman isn't an involved parent, a good partner or doesn't caretake for her family? She gets no pass when a man would. We have different expectations for men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:46 PM
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Everyone has the same type: Someone who makes you feel good and can get your hormones flowing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:59 PM
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Because it's a problem many men face. You see them online everyday telling women to approach and make the first move
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:04 AM
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Who claimed that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:52 PM
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The OP literally gave these two countries as examples for what governments can do to help this issue lol. Bad examples indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:50 PM
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I read them and I don't think any of these would make any meaningful difference. The DV registry for both men and women is a good idea but that itself isn't helping anyone failing to get dates now get dates
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:49 PM
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The men have always initiated these negotiations for commitment. Now dudes online expect women to do it then wonder why shit isn't going anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:46 PM
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The South Korean and Japanese governments are doing a lot to raise birthrates and helping men with dating but how is that working out? The birthrates there are getting even worse, there's hundreds of thousands of frustrated men spending money on channels that abuse females like the Nth rooms and the 2B movements are getting more widespread. But hey, now the taxpayers get to pay for AI automated dating app accounts for men and it's just turning more women away from these apps. I'm open to hearing…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:21 PM
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Most women just won't lead the relationship along even if they want it to progress. Men have always had to do this. And men today still want to lead but expect women to lead the relationship along for some reason. So a bunch of these relationships end up nowhere with both parties just waiting for something
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:11 PM
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The problem these guys have is they probably don't have very many friends and don't have a great relationship with their family so they likely aren't meeting people through them. These are likely chronologically online guys that don't have experience with real life women to begin with and are scared to approach. OLD is their only bet and they're getting even more blackpilled over it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:13 AM
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Yeah throughout human history, according to studies, most men didn't even procreate. People think this is some new problem only men today face but the undesirables were never as successful in casual sex as men with social value. Men have always met potential mates primarily through friends or family, it's still the same today, loners just have the facade of options on dating apps now on top of that. Some people get lucky but most people's expectations for these apps is too high. Looking for a go…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 06:30 AM
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Be for real, you would have casual sex with the hottest chick around over some mid if you had endless options willing to sleep with you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:46 AM
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Another day, another hate campaign towards Chad. Y'all know losers are more likely to have dark triad traits than Chad right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 05:26 AM
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Except y’all don't just not date them. You drag them online as if they're beneath you when they weren't looking your way to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:45 AM
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It's nobody's fault but your own if women don't want you casually. Judging others for being more successful than you at the thing you want most is hater shit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:30 AM
2

Disney fairytales and teen romance movies really got nerds thinking they could get the most desirable woman around
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:13 AM
1

Hey. We do want to feel desirable to our partners, that's not the problem. Doesn't everyone want to be desired by their partner? Some people are just lost in the sauce and want to be the only one their partner ever desired. They want to be the exception when they aren't exceptional. But that isn't all of us
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:11 AM
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Be for real, y’all love women who give you casual sex. It's only wrong when it's someone else. Everyone wants to be special and everyone wants to be Chad without putting in the work
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:07 AM
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Women would understand these types of guys better if they knew these guys just want to be uncontrollably and carnally desired for their looks like they're a Chad. They don't want women to actually like them for their personality, they want women to like them in spite of it because they want women to be that smitten with his looks. This is why they think having good qualities outside looks is worthless and why they say women's standards for looks are too high, because women aren't smitten this wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:02 AM
1

I never got the appeal of Sweeney personally. She had a nice rack but that's it. I'm not really into East Asian women so it's neither of these women for me. These women are for chronically online western men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 03:55 AM
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An unsuccessful man on here once argued successful men are the worst people to get advice from because they think women just fall at our feet and we don't have to try if we're tall. Unsuccessful men are effing delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:25 PM
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In western society for sure. But my father spent more time teaching us than our mother did, whether it was sports or working on the vehicles or going out hunting/fishing/camping, cooking and family outdoor time. Unfortunately those skills are mostly useless if you live in the city so a dad's utility is limited. Those fathers need to pick up mama's slack if they aren't doing these activities with their kid
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:27 PM
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I feel like good men aren't out here chasing tail and sliding in DMs so those who slide are the ones with the worst intentions. Gotta meet good dudes organically
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:01 PM
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Aren't western women too masculine for you? I've never heard straight men complain that western women are too feminine. Here's the deal bro, any normal person with a healthy mindset is a mix of masculine and feminine qualities, either extreme is toxic and turn most people off
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:52 AM
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Muscle mommies aren't hated on by women, they're hated on by insecure dudes who don't go to the gym. Say you like muscular women anywhere and some skinny loner will come and question your straightness. Someone once asked me "Do you enjoy getting pegged?" when I said athletic women are my type as a gym goer myself
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:43 AM
3

The biphobia straight women have isn't even relevant to the discussion, that's a different topic completely lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:43 AM
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So the ultra performative masculine standards men put on each other has nothing to do with straight men and their homophobia?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:40 AM
1

Such a sad way to live man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:38 AM
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You don't have to be bi to show affection to your boys bro. In South Korea, straight boys have this think called skinship and they hug each other, sit on each other's laps and hold each other's hands. In fact it's the gay ones who don’t do this with their friends. The gayphobia in the West and being scared as hell to appear gay is why so many men feel deprived of affection outside of their relationship. And affection is sexualized for no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:32 AM
1

And you're using that logic to shift the responsibility of your own lack of appeal on someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 11:27 AM
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It's your own responsibility to be appealing to the opposite sex, not their responsibility to find you appealing no matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 11:20 AM
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But now not every game released has GG boobs, a size -5 stomach, hips 5x the size of her abdomen and a baby face, you're oppressing his sexuality /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:54 AM
2

The average married couple has more sex than any of these clowns, but they're convinced you're the loser here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:51 AM
2

People who take not wanting to be fat seriously will eat right and workout. The complacent stay fat. The vast majority of you aren't overweight due to genetics, such a cop out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:57 AM
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If you're really down bad I guess. It would do nothing for me though because I like women who have genuine desire for me and not getting paid to pretend they do. Life has higher aspirations than just sex bro
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:43 AM
2

Man don't lump us ADHD brothers in with the maidenless weirdos in this sub lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:40 AM
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See this is why I call out bad behavior, they make us all look bad. Now we have raging gender wars being made worse by dating gurus training men to be the worst of us. The internet was a mistake, now all these antisocial weirdos have a platform
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:24 AM
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Any of you preferring characters and AI to real human interaction are cooked
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:39 AM
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I think it's the confidence and not being desperate for validation, plus being social and exposing yourself to more people. They attention I get irl have changed much from my 20s and I was never flooded with attention but people like being around you when you're fun and confident anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:22 AM
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I actually treat hot women harsher than average looking women in my daily life, I don't know, everytime I see a hot woman, I immediately am on edge< Who even made you some kind of authority lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:40 AM
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I'm unable to secure my cock and restrain my lust? Because I'm not treating attractive people worse than unattractive people? You're the one treating people differently based on your lust or lack thereof.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:25 AM
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The short guy with no social market value being harsh to hot people and thinking he's doing the world a service. Classic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:03 AM
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Yeah it's fucked up how people cope by trying to make others believe you're inherently a bad person if you're able to have success with women. It's not confident people treating others like shit, it's the insecure people that do. It's a bunch of projection
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:50 AM
4

Sounds like insecurities and negging
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:47 AM
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More like you don't mind being kissed by someone you're attracted to. No shit, why would anyone want to kiss someone they're aren't attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:45 AM
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Someone you’re attracted to can get more from you? Huh, mind blown
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:43 AM
1

Anti intellectualism back at it again. "Don’t listen to the experts, listen to me instead, the loser who can't form bonds with anyone"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:32 AM
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Someone can't get approaches even with top 5% people in your company
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:02 PM
0

Ok top 5% man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:01 PM
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I'm sure top 5% men and their friends are on Reddit complaining nobody ever approaches them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:23 PM
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I'm sure you are bud
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:04 AM
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If you don't follow bro code, you can't be the bro. Y’all weird as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 09:24 AM
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This is a lie unsuccessful and insecure people use to cope. The idea that beautiful people are selfish and uncaring in nature while charming, confident people are manipulative and untrustworthy by nature is a lie told by insecure people, whether or not they realize it. Insecure people are more manipulative, abusive and dangerous and plenty of unattractive people are entitled and selfish as hell. Insecure people hurt people and drag people down. You guys aren't more prosocial at all, less so in f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 09:20 AM
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Women approaching more doesn't mean they'll approach you. They aren't going to magically be attracted to you now that they're doing the approaching. You guys assume women are holding back all this attraction for you waiting for you to approach when they likely don't even notice you or see you as an option at all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 08:43 AM
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I don't even think this is a gendered issue. If a girl I was talking to as a potential date was talking to my boys the same way, she isn't for me. And I'll never get romantically/sexually involved with anyone my boys were involved with in any capacity. Who really wants that girl the whole squad is involved with? Be for real
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:18 AM
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More like fixing the dating world for someone else. If I'm doing well already, why would I give it up just so some antisocial loser is better off? Sounds like dating socialism to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:14 AM
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I feel like these dating coaches give advice that keeps their viewers coming back rather than actually being successful. Because what man is gonna buy courses and watch this content if we're actually successful? Another layer is it thins competition. Less men participating in the dating pool means more for the rest of us. These dummies like OP don't realize they're shooting themselves in their own foot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:12 AM
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For all of human history, men were the initiators. Those who didn't didn't pass on their genes. The problem isn't men initiating, it's who you’re initiating. Have some fucking standards
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:09 AM
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Delusional lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 01:11 AM
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You okay with women shaming your lack of experience and insecurity around sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:01 AM
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Only men with no experience want women with no experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:41 AM
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Hey you know better than the experts. Don't let these studies get in the way of your personal opinions. Perhaps you can define it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:35 PM
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You don't know what it means but you argue, against studies, that it's not a meaningful factor?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:34 PM
1

Speaking about yourself bro? Your take on open borders is delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:21 PM
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Doesn't matter what your affiliation is, open borders is a buzzword from those right wing sources no matter who repeats it. We never had open borders. The masses aren't being told they're good for us, let alone by any "clergy of media". The masses don't want open borders. No politician or anyone with actual political power over the masses is advocating for open borders. One party advocating against it doesn't mean the other party or the masses are advocating for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 05:37 PM
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The fuck are you talking about? "Open borders" is a buzzword used by right wing "clergy of media," influencers, politicians and all their little followers online who can't think for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 05:33 PM
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You said clergy of media advocating this shit to the masses. You heard those buzzwords from your own clergy of media fearmongering against these manufactured fears.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 05:18 PM
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No it isn't. Most men in the history of human kind didn't pass on their genes. Their chances were improved in western religious societies by forcing women to depend on men financially. They're once again no longer forced and things are equalizing back to how they were throughout all the rest of our history. This isn't new, losers have always struggled. But now losers can have the illusion of being socially successful with their online echochambers and the illusion of sexual success with the avai…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 05:10 PM
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Your society is, unique. You have a shortage of women to begin with and a lot of your men will never have a mate. You have caste systems already. A country that segregates girls and boys and stunts your social development that's needed to interact with the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 05:05 PM
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Nobody advocates for open borders, you're confused
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 05:00 PM
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You mean the hot mic women got mad at? I don't see women lining up to be in a harem for Donald
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:57 PM
1

I don't think you understand what positive social interest means my boy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:04 PM
1

Beauty premium is a different topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:18 PM
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Source? Because they're both major factors according to the study
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:16 PM
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I argue with people here every week who are convinced social skills are completely irrelevant and blame their lack of success of their height when they don't even have friends bro
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:11 PM
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Yes. Physically attractive people are attractive to others. But why do people dismiss the other major factor to being attractive? Positive social interest
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:05 PM
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Negative qualities and being a bad person aren't the same thing. My neurodivergence is a challenge and a negative quality in my relationships but I'm also very willing to understand others, connect with others and contribute to society. This is called having positive social interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:01 PM
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Have you guys considered that a lack of positive social interest (willingness to form bonds and contribute to society) is another huge factor here? Because studies say women favor positive social interest and an attractive face, to nobody's surprise. Plenty of you aren't even repulsive looking
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:57 PM
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Study just came out that women favor attractive faces and positive social interest in men. Positive social interest meaning willingness to form connections and contribute to society. Social ineptness is a huge factor but so many involuntarily single people dismiss this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:52 PM
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Whatever takes blame off you and puts it on others amirite
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:36 AM
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Stay to yourself arguing on Reddit then, I'm sure you'll meet plenty of single women your age this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:34 AM
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Throughout human history, those who weren't socially competent didn't procreate. Same shit now. Except now people are whining about it. Perhaps work on your social skills mate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 01:05 AM
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What you're looking for is black pill content bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:35 PM
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If laws are the only thing keeping you a good person, you aren't a good person
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:45 PM
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God damn bro I hate these gender wars so much
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:43 PM
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Many married people have affairs with coworkers dawg. HR has rules for a reason. This isn't personal opinion here, almost like men and women being together 8 hours a day sparks interest in each other or something
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:34 PM
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Maybe your coworkers don't want to hookup with you specifically. But why do you think they would come tell you if they were fucking? If you bang a coworker, you keep it to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:43 AM
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There is no dating hack bro. There is no one size fits all solution to get every last woman on Earth to like you. But forgoing basic human decency around someone you like will turn them off more often than not. "Being good company won't instantly get every woman in bed so I might as well be as entertaining as cardboard and be shitty company" is only hurting your own chances bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:37 AM
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Why is it gendered?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:26 AM
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You don't expect potential partners to treat you this way? I expect women who like me to treat me this way in kind because I also treat them this way. If any of this basic human decency feels like they're asking for too much from you, perhaps you just don't like them bro
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:20 AM
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Exactly. I read that and thought that just comes naturally for someone you care about. You mean be a decent human being to someone you like so they won't dislike you? Asking too damn much
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:16 AM
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Not getting picked over other men being compared to people seeing you as subhuman is crazy work
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:13 AM
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Everything in life takes work, you just choose what is worth that work at the end of the day. Getting fit? Work. Making money to live? Work. Eating enough? Work. Meeting and building a relationship with someone? Work. Having and raising kids? Work. Maintaining relationships with everyone in your life? Work. Keeping a clean home and good hygiene? Work
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:11 AM
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No shit it's more complicated than showing up. That was never my argument. Earlier you were asking what establishments are eager to include you. What do you want these establishments to do to make you feel more included?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:40 AM
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You expect others to do the work. What do you expect out of these establishments to cater to you specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:25 PM
0

I'd imagine New Yorkers see a Donald costume as a clown suit. They hate him there
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:34 PM
0

If I were a woman, I'd skat on Odell Beckham Jr. just for the stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:31 PM
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So today we figured out attractive people attract people. Mind blown..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:22 PM
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I see hot people get harassed more than anyone because the dumbass genderwars made negging a mainstream thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:04 PM
1

You only date women who chase you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:38 PM
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I remember my sister telling me that average women have fans. She's right, people on social media will really fan over average women doing average things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:38 PM
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Bunch of haters
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:23 AM
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Stay home and do that then, don't complain if you don't get Chad results
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:19 AM
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OP never claimed it was easy to make friends. If you have none, maybe self reflect and see what needs work in order to have some kind of social life. Throughout human history, those who weren't socially successful had their lineage die off, same shit today
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:00 AM
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If a Chad stayed at home and never went out to meet anyone, how tf is he gonna get dates? You think women are built with a Chad radar and break into your house to ask you on a date or something? Even Chad has to go outside and approach people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:14 PM
0

You want special treatment for being a loner?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:08 PM
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No. But I'm not the type to go to establishments like this to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:00 PM
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Man I could hear the complaining already if they started putting tall, juiced up shirtless guys with chiseled jawlines in everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:15 PM
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I really think it's because of the heirarchies some people want to stick to. A woman who's desirable to a lot of men and makes more than you likely won't put herself below you in the heirarchy. While men who make more than her and look good don't have to feel insecure about his place with a woman like that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:57 AM
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Most of these women flaunting their figure likely make more money than you bro
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:51 AM
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Most of y’all would marry Rihanna over some average looking modest church girl if you felt good enough for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:46 AM
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Then you have guys like me who don't subscribe to pills but has experience with women and prefers these experienced women over the modest ones. Look at the kind of women successful men marry. It's not the timid, conservatively dressed, stay at home traditional wives that red pill loves to idealize. Then you look at the wealthiest men and they marry wealthy women in a high tax bracket like themselves. I don't know why middle and working class men want traditional women when you can't even afford …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:36 AM
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That also means every hot, fit chick on there would no longer show up in your algorithm
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:21 AM
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All throughout human history, people met their partner either through their family or social group. If your social group is non existent and your family sucks, you had a hard time meeting people. It's still the same except now you have OLD that wants you to pay for their services and keep you coming back with false hope, they don't want you to actually find your ideal match because you won't need them anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:13 AM
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I always found it amusing how some women I know are convinced every woman wants their man and their man is just unemployed, middle aged Joe Shmo with a dad bod. They're attracted to their partner and think everyone else is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:05 AM
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There's some traits that are universally attractive. Facial symmetry, being healthy, being fit, undiseased, capable, having social skills. But beyond that tastes are subjective. Some like ethnic features, others like European features, some like little button noses, others like prominent noses, some like skinny folk, others like muscular or curvy folk, some like blond hair, others like dark hair, some curly, some straight. What type of women are you attracted to? All that matters is what she per…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:49 AM
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I feel like those who don't have the know how to turn women on for hookups put too much value in hookups. This is the end all be all desire for them. Those of us who've had hookups know they really aren't the peak of life and there's much higher aspirations beyond a one night stand
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:50 AM
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OP doesn't speak for all of us but I can sympathize. Don't you want to feel desired by your partner? Don't we all?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:17 AM
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Same bro. All that matters in my mind is feeling desired by her. But damn why you prodding at their insecurities when they're already in an insecure place? Cold blooded
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:13 AM
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I was just saying, I have experience so I prefer women with experience myself. That's not the issue, I just want to feel desired by my partner
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:09 AM
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I don't think "feel cucked" is the correct description. More like she had feral desire for someone else that she didn't have for me. We all want to feel desired by our partner ladies. But yeah, it comes from an insecure place. I don't mind a woman with history as I have a bunch myself, but if I don't feel desired then what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:06 AM
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If only y’all did this rather than giving grifters your time and money
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:39 AM
2

And this is why those grifters do well. Easy to separate a desperate person from their money. And this is why those grifters give you advice that keeps you coming back and never actually finding success with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:00 AM
1

Are you planning dates? I used to get ghosted when things stagnate and I don't push things forward. Either that or the friendzone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:55 AM
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You seem like a good dude. People hate that here, don't take it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:53 AM
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Y’all gonna blame being 5'7 when 5'3 guys up here have multiple baby mamas. And give up everything else because apparently a good job, owning a home and being charismatic are useless if you're below 5'9
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 11:34 PM
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Or maybe I've seen bums and short men in Alaska get around more than any of you because they have other traits women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 11:14 PM
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People on this sub mix up 'what men think is manly in other men' with 'what women want in men' all the time. Projection
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 11:08 PM
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Tough shit. Git gud
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 11:03 PM
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The way I read it is don't be the worst at anything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:01 PM
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There's a certain value we hold as men if people know we could mess around, but have no interest in pursuing it. I mean which one do you respect more? The dude who makes it his whole life mission to get with as many women as he can including some unattractive women or the one that could if he wanted to but isn't desperate enough for it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:44 PM
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Men here seem to confuse 'what other men think is cool' with 'what women want.' Other men validate your manhood if you treat women like trash, so in some people's minds, women must want men like that. Maturing is realizing manhood isn't something you need others to validate, it's a part of you regardless what the loser next door thinks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:24 PM
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That's my argument. It matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:42 AM
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If you live on a military base, pipeline site or mining site maybe. We have regular ass towns with men and women up here. Anchorage is probably the most diverse of cities in the US. Just wrap up because everyone gets around and the dating scene is the opposite of what lower 48 dudes complain about
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:09 AM
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Plenty of them in Alaska bro. Your competition is short guys, bums, abusers and drug users
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:05 AM
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Keep getting it from people who haven't been on a first date in their life then. That's your problem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:29 PM
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The younger generations are gonna have to come to terms with not being sufficient if an income is all they offer. Most single homeowners in my generation are women. Half the workforce is women. Having a job being men's work was a social construct of western religious societies the last couple hundred years. Go back to our hunter gatherer history and ancient civilizations like ancient Egypt and everyone had work, everyone had an income and everyone had an education. Those aren't masculine things,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:12 PM
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Successful people should be the ones giving advice and debate. Not the social rejects. Want a woman like her? Maybe look at the man beside her and the qualities he possesses
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:05 PM
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Most single home owners my generation and under are women. Gone are the days where the average man is providing the majority of expenses or qualify as "traditional."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:04 PM
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You sympathize hard for incels for someone claiming they're a Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:28 AM
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And you're still not getting any. Tough
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:25 AM
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You sound like how women view men on dating sites
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:22 AM
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Not me. But I also don't think abused women should escape through being a hobosexual on Tinder. You aren't going to get matches who actually care about your wellbeing or want to make your life better, you're going to get weirdos who want to control you sexually in exchange for shelter. Basically prostitution except you're getting a much shittier deal and living with the person who thinks they own you. Whoever said that gave shitty advice and nobody should do this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:45 AM
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But some people actually think porn depicts real life. The hot pool boy comes over and the woman just can't control herself and they smash. They really think Chadlites are dropping panties just by existing and they're mad they can't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:32 AM
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Do you agree that gay men shouldn't be shamed either for wanting sex with who they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:16 AM
4

Lizzo got the same treatment. The internet constantly dragged her for wearing sexy outfits while fat
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:06 AM
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Human condition man. Nobody is attracted to negative feelings in others except narcs who get off to it. But we're also a social species that bond through vulnerability and intimacy. I don't think people expect you to cry when they say they want openness. But why do you think people love these entertainers so much? Because they're masters at expressing or evoking emotion, that's how we bond. Expressing emotion is something you have to work at, a lot of people don't do that in a healthy manner
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 06:43 AM
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We all have trauma bro. Life isn't fair to anyone. My bad for saving my empathy for people that didn't deserve tough shit like losing their kid in that Texas flood on July 4th rather than some hateful scumbags that make us all look bad and can't get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 06:32 AM
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Traumatized after an abusive relationship? Take accountability, choose better. Traumatized because someone doesn't want to sleep with you? Real shit. The whole world should care
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 06:25 AM
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He's not saying we shouldn't have insecurities, he's saying the hatred and advice comes from an insecure place
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 06:20 AM
1

Which part makes you unhealthy and unhappy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:23 PM
1

You get this from women or red pillers?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:04 PM
1

What advice you getting?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:47 AM
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Gotta have a social life and social skills. Charisma gives extra points but just basic social skills will do. Also, be around women, socialize with them and ensure they enjoyed your company. Take the lead and escalate to the next step when it feels like they'll reciprocate. That's how I got every woman I've ever been with. And those I didn't end up with still gave me experience and this approach gives minimum blow when rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:38 PM
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I said this once and some incel came to tell me my advice is irrelevant because I can get women regardless. Incels have the best advice for other incels for getting women apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:30 PM
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I mean as a man I see that as a bare minimum thing, not a "type" I like. Feels like a given that we all want someone who isn't unhealthy and unhappy. But I don't say "I want someone healthy and happy" when people ask me my type. It also just seems like common sense that people would want happy and healthy partners, does anyone actually like unhealthy and unhappy partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:24 PM
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Quit over correcting. One extreme or the other isn't attractive to most people. You can go to the gym and not revolve your entire personality around it. Life is full of nuances and individuals with different tastes. Figure out what type of women you like and make yourself attractive to them. Everyone wants a one size fits all solution that attracts every woman when it doesn't work like that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:20 PM
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People having your IVF babies doesn't make you charismatic or likable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 05:44 AM
1

Artificial insemenation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:46 AM
1

Nurses get around more than the general population lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:16 AM
1

Having wealth doesn't automatically give you social skills. Look at Elon, he has no charisma or ability to get people to like him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:13 AM
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Trump's women had even more work done and were even more bimboesque lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:07 AM
2

Kevin Samuals? You mean the guy who had a paid sex worker in his room when he died?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:00 AM
1

Thank God
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:51 AM
4

Gooners whine endlessly when any game with a female character in it isn't pornified to hell. Feels like 90% of gamers are gooners
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:49 AM
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I noticed a pattern. Look at who young celebrity dudes and people new to money get into relationships with. It's thirst trap influencers, high end escorts, strippers, pornstars and actresses and artists who got clout off their sex appeal. Wealthy men on the other hand who were born into wealth don't marry for sex appeal, they marry upper class women who often lack sex appeal. The average dude can't attract either type of the above women so they reject those options who weren't even options to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:34 AM
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Depends on the type and quality of the work. Betty White looked phenomenal for her age. She probably got some subtle work done. I will never get those who want to look like bimbos though, never got the craze for Baywatch when I was a kid either, those implants looked horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:31 AM
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But a fat guy in another thread said fat women and fat men aren't equivalents because women like fat men so his overweight status is a good thing apparently and that puts him above dating overweight women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:26 AM
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The reality pill is a hard pill to swallow
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:23 AM
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Yeah no shit. Ladies, men want women who make us feel wanted and respected. Fellas you too, women want men who make her feel wanted and respected. Such a simple concept yet many fail to grasp it and some even argue the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:20 AM
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You don't want those women to have sex. Who's having sex with them? Men are. You expect men not to have sex with them but you refuse to refuse sex with them yourself. As always, everyone should change but you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:27 AM
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You want other men not to have sex with them but won't stop yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:15 AM
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You assume women don't mind, get to work
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:14 AM
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Don't have sex with them then
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:12 AM
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You'd think people were smart enough to make the distinction between a living being and AI that was programmed to kiss their ass but people are desperate for it to be real and they'll take it that way. I always thought it was cringe because empty praise feels disgusting to me. But you see news reports of people doing stuff they shouldn't after AI sparked their manic grandiosity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:39 AM
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Fellas, ask yourself, are you attracted to women who whine about men online? No? Perhaps then you'll see why women aren't attracted to men who whine online either. Empathy can help you my boy, it's not just beneficial to others
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:27 AM
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AI is a bootlicking yes man as of now. This will make people's entitlement and overvaluing of their worth in the marketplace even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:24 AM
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"Let's abolish women's rights" "Geez, why don't women like me? Gotta be because I'm 5'8"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:15 AM
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Nobody likes hate and blame for your personal grievances being constantly spewed at them. Guess that means all emotions bad now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:08 AM
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Idk man, Donald is the whiniest mf I've ever known and he has more power than any president in the history of the United States and is above checks and balances and the law. Maybe you're whining wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:05 AM
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The male equivalent to a fat woman is a fat man, not a short man. More men in America are overweight than women in America. You all have work to do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:02 AM
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The average American is overweight. Being chubby in America is normal. For both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:01 AM
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"Take women's rights away so I don't have to pay for dates"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:17 PM
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Oof.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:05 PM
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Some people just like inventing stuff in their head to be mad at
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:40 AM
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You're the prize bro..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:47 AM
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Maybe this changes when science allows for men to carry pregnancies and do the child rearing and raising while women go off to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:13 AM
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I agree but that's exactly the issue some guys have with this. They want to be physically wanted at first sight rather than having a woman want them for other things. They see Chads get this treatment in porn and aspire to be like these made up Chads in porn while they themselves couldn't even get into a gym to improve their physique. Then blame women for not treating them like a pornstar
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:56 AM
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Comparing being an initiator to rape and harmful behavior is wild. Who said you or anyone else had to be the sole initiators or initiate at all? You can play Princess Peach into giving yourself a Darwin Award and nobody would care, that's your own choice. But expecting someone else to initiate with you when you yourself refuse and acting like it's going to be someone you’re actually interested in is kind of delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:24 AM
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My brother in Christ, it's possible to initiate without simping or chasing. For all of mankind's history, we understood we had to initiate in order to get the women we want. Men get to choose who to initiate with and who to invest in. It's a perk. Only now do people have a problem with this and think we're all just going to change our biological drives and see this as some kind of problem to fix. You play or you lose, those are your options
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:00 AM
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"Never listen to women when she tells you what she wants" is the whole reason y’all are shitty in bed. You just want to blame it on your dick
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:01 AM
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This lack of effort from men is due to porn. Why do all that when you can get instant dopamine through your screen without putting yourself on the line? People don't want to admit they're sexless because of porn but that's exactly why many are, it's just easier to blame someone else over the thing that makes you feel good
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:24 AM
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Humans also understood this throughout human history. Only in modern times do you see men online complain about this dynamic because they were lied to by gurus that they're the prize. That some princess charming will come to save them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 05:05 AM
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Can't simp for your girlfriend or wife. Simps put their dignity aside to appease women who won't even have them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 05:01 AM
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It's not that women have less interest than men or are less attracted, they just have different criteria for it than we do in general. Ours are more spontaneous, theirs are more reactive, perhaps a leftover of earlier human biology to insure their potential partners will stay and help if they have children because otherwise they would struggle to survive with added responsibilities and no help
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:58 AM
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You're the one using black men as an example. Then calling other people racist
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:54 PM
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You're the one arguing women should have an aversion to black men. Black men get plenty of women of other races
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:47 PM
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I mean it's backed up by data. I only date straight women for the same reason
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:46 PM
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Does that include bisexual women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:40 PM
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Having dating preferences isn't racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:38 PM
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That's not the same as calling them out for being unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:36 PM
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So do you call those guys unreasonable when they push that rhetoric?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:33 PM
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Doesn't change how most men feel
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:27 PM
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I only date straight women myself. Maybe I'm unfairly bias that they'd have more options to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:27 PM
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So both men and women who've had some dick turn off potential partners of the opposite sex. Do you think it's unreasonable for most men to be turned off by women having other dick before them? Or is it only unreasonable when women do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:25 PM
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I don't see it as a double standard. Both men's and women's value drops when they've had some dick
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:12 PM
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Idk man, other men instinctively respect the tallest, biggest guy in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:52 AM
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Beautifully articulated bro
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:47 AM
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They tell you that's why they reject you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:43 AM
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In my own experiences, the women I've dealt with don't want to be dominated. They want someone who is competent, initiates and has leadership qualities. Leadership qualities don't mean dominating. A few have sub kinks but that isn't the norm at all. Women value their agency just like we do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:38 AM
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I submit to my mother and my father, no one else is in that heirarchy above me but many are next to me and nobody is below me. Except assholes who deserve a taste of their own medicine
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:32 AM
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A lot of my casual sex encounters as a young man were older women. People don't seem to realize older women's hormones boost their libido
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:23 AM
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Your flair made me laugh. I hated taking Wellbutrin
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:16 AM
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Don't most people already do this though? Men sleep around casually in our 20s and are more ready to settle down in our 30s. This aligns with your claim that women are starting families in their 30s. What's the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:09 AM
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Younger women within 5 years of you. Women your age. Older women. Why are you hung up on 22 year olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:03 AM
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Someone I was debating here a while ago said I knew nothing about attracting women because I'm successful with attracting women, by his logic that meant I didn't have to try so I was the clueless one. But apparently he had it all figured out when he can't attract a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:47 AM
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I knew older women preferred younger men when I was in my 20s. Cougars loved me and I loved cougars. Our hormones make us both near our peak in libido
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:43 AM
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I love fit, sturdy women myself. Nobody cares except other dudes who think I'm emasculating my manhood wanting badass women. Meanwhile all us guys who lift have muscular women next to us
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:37 AM
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Psychology and philosophy are my greatest interests personally, I actually minored in psychology. Which is why I enjoy these shows as well. But I'm a dude so all the male viewers don't count I guess and it's only wrong when women do it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:10 AM
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I watch WWI and WWII documentaries a lot and took a special interest in it since elementary history class. As do many other men. If we're fucked up for wanting to learn more about this stuff, why don't history buffs have a higher rate of shit like psychopathy? You have a weird mind
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:22 AM
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Men who commit true crime are given more grace than women who watch true crime in certain circles. Are you aware men also watch true crime? And why do you assume people watch these to get some kind of sick joy out of other people's tragedies? Seems like projection to me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:12 AM
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Tate told you your value was zero huh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:59 AM
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Also nobody read the study. The group who had the most partners by far were sex focused men who got more than three times the average sex partner count than the misogynistic men's group. This group scored low to moderate on traditional masculinity and hostility towards women. Committing IPV, using controlling behaviors with partners, or perpetrating sexual assault was low in this group. Sexual sensation seeking levels were high. Sex-Focused men reported low desirability of a traditionally mascul…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 08:40 PM
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The study put misogynistic men and sex seeking men in different categories. This comment sums it up The "sex-focused" had more then THREE TIMES the average sex partner count than the misogynistic men's group. With an average of 52 (compared to 15 of the misogynistic group) sex partners at an average age of 21.8 years old. The men in this group were described as sex focused. These men’s endorsement of traditional masculinity ideology and their hostility toward women were low to moderate, similar …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 08:30 PM
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Exactly bro. I had plenty of sex partners because I was seeking sex all throughout my 20s. Try to tell people you have to pursue women if you want a bunch of women and they're still trying to get women to chase their below average ass instead. Just Darwin awarding themselves for the sake of their fear of rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 08:24 PM
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Go after the women who fuck guys like Fresh & Fit and Andrew Tate then. Not these women who want nothing to do with those kinds of assholes. Punishing women for something other women did is why you make ovaries dry, take some accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 08:16 PM
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Some other woman decided to have sex with someone that was pushy for sex. Guess now we punish all women including the ones who don't have sex with sex pests
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 08:12 PM
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You mean you aren't taking accountability for men's actions you don't even know? Why do you hate men so much? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 08:11 PM
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These guys are always out on the hunt chasing new tail. Of course they're gonna get more opportunities to have sex than some dude waiting at home for some woman to break into his door to give him some pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 08:08 PM
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The chronically online think just being tall gets us instant pussy the second we walk out the door
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:31 AM
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Revenge fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:28 AM
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I've been saying for years bro. Start thinking with the right head
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:16 AM
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You mean women want to enjoy themselves around their partner just like we do? Mind blown..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:53 PM
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My state ranks top spot for STDs and children out of wedlock because everyone gets around. Judging by online discourse, you'd think my state also had the tallest men when in reality, Alaskan men are some of the shortest in the nation. Height preferences are relative, not a fixed number
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:41 PM
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We get people like you refusing to self improve and being mad at the world because you enjoy hating on those of us that are successful with women instead
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:18 PM
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What are the incels excuse when those types can get women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:14 PM
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You're gonna go far kid. Good head on your shoulders
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:12 PM
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Yeah nobody could ever get that information off me if I was ever desperate enough to do that. Makes one look like an undesirable trick
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 01:31 PM
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Yeah no shit. We all look for indicators of fitness and health in our potential mates. But the blackpilled exaggerate tf out of this and endlessly whine because they're 5'9 and have a shitty attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 08:58 AM
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You don't mind that your partner doesn't trust you? The fuck kind of shallow relationships are you having?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:33 AM
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You gonna let your girl go through your phone whenever?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:19 AM
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I remember reading a comment here once claiming the US is wasting it's military power by not invading developing countries to kidnap their women and traffic them here for the use of mediocre Americans who can't get none otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 08:43 PM
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You said most men experience this treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:00 PM
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Most men aren't even unattractive dawg.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:57 PM
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Sounds like you only follow thirstbait and assume all women are like that because that's all you see
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:55 PM
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Self inflicted by being disingenuous in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:52 PM
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Who made you the spokesperson for all men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:51 PM
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Those who complain about the friendzone just feel entitled to drop panties by holding a door open for a lady because they think that's what Chad wants and they want to be Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:49 PM
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90s and early 00s media was wild. From Disney to Teen Movies and adult films, they pushed the narrative that beautiful and virtuous women love ugly beasts, orgres, frogs, nerds and nice guys. Made the average lad think he could get the most beautiful girl with persistence and being "nice"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:10 PM
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Some people just want to complain. Or feel better about themselves by dragging others down. And some people just feel entitled to control what others do and feel entitled for everyone else to revolve their lives around trying to appease them personally. People are just broken man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:10 AM
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Maybe change your target audience to gay men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:06 AM
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Men who would do this already do this. Except they scam other men out of their money online while pretending to be women. If you're wondering how that works, check out what Tate did with women while he was behind that keyboard scamming men out their money. Most men aren't Tate level though so they use AI women for this and fleece other men better than any woman ever could.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:51 AM
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I'd probably still be me if I were a woman. Slept around in my 20s. Have a bunch of friends and a good career. Start a family someday. I wouldn't be happy about going through pregnancy or having monthly periods though. And I'd probably have a harder time getting my position in my field
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:48 AM
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Then you'd be the target of irl men and online men's hate because you're "taking advantage" of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:46 AM
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Doesn't matter if they're just casual sex bro. That's my point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:27 AM
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Some I liked, some I lusted, some I didn't. Almost like meaningless sex doesn't do shit for you on a deeper level
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:25 AM
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Then they aren't one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:23 AM
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I don't expect one night stands to give girlfriend benefits. They don't know me, how can they possibly provide a meaningful connection outside the bedroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:16 PM
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It's like one of those things that are better off a fantasy goal than actually doing it. Like beach sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:16 PM
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I slept around in my 20s. Brought no meaning or fulfillment to my life at all. In fact I felt most lonely when I was sleeping around. It's the meaningful connections you make and the goals you work towards that give your life meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:15 PM
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Take accountability for you allowing yourself to be a doormat. That's your issue, not a systemic issue
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:07 AM
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Grade school prepares you for college. College is where you start specializing your education. Y'all keep cutting the public education budget but expect a whole mandatory trade school program for kids. Delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:44 PM
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There's trade school for all that. Not everyone wants to be blue collar, not very "practical" to learn a specific trade if you aren't looking at a career in that trade
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:33 PM
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You want shit like riding bikes and solving Rubik's Cubes added to the curriculum? How would that help boys through school? Which current subjects do you have a problem with? English, math, social studies, science, PE, art or computers? These are subjects that have been in the curriculum forever. What practical skills do you expect the school to teach your kid when you won't put in the time to teach them? Maybe pay for a private education for your own kid if you want a curriculum more to your pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:27 AM
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We aren't "intellectually inclined?" Sounds like self projection and misandry to me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:35 AM
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"Carry all my babies, work a full time job, cook, clean and raise the kids or else marriage isn't worth it to me"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:17 AM
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Don't play dumb. You're the one claiming this shit is widespread. Weirdos bro
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:32 PM
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Y’all are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:19 PM
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Y'all are sad bro
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:02 PM
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Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one here who thinks human connection and intimacy can't be replaced by a play pretend robot. It's just an expensive way to jerk off
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:56 PM
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You mean one person online isn't the spokesperson for every single person of their gender? Sounds crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 03:02 AM
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Not all those guys are online being hateful pain in the ass like you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:32 PM
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Be an antisocial hateful prick and you get the same energy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:29 PM
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And you wonder why women won't touch you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:25 PM
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People who lack empathy aren't entitled to it dipshit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:19 PM
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You're fighting ghosts in your head bro. Either you're working those jobs and complaining about it like you're forced to work them or you're stealing valor for someone else's work. Tough shit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:00 PM
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You aren't forced to work those jobs. You can change your career like anyone else. I have respect for people who don't complain about the job they took, whatever the profession. You were the one complaining about them jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:50 PM
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Calling incels victims is fucking funny
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:11 PM
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Imagine flexing simping for incels. You'll figure out how much they hate you too because you're successful with women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:07 PM
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Those are jobs for unskilled, uneducated people. Maybe go back to school and get a degree
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:04 PM
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I don't date men bro, nor racist women either. Preaching to the choir
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:37 PM
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Don't be racist if y’all don't wanna be called out for being racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:07 PM
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People gotta quit pretending that redpill isn't rife with this kind of incel rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:40 PM
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Git gud at foreplay and fingerplay and you're already above the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:35 AM
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I don't vibe with Jordan Peterson's conservative views but he's indeed not as off the rails as other manosphere influencers. He used to be a respectable figure to me before he went to Russia for his detox, he hasn't been the same since. He's a pretty decent advocate for young men and their issues without making it yet again another gender war "women bad" take
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:31 AM
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Reality pilled take bro
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:23 AM
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I have rejection sensitive dysphoria so I'm always conscious about how I'm performing in bed. Apparently, this doesn't happen a lot with others my partners have been with, blew my mind. Just putting effort into her enjoyment puts you above others
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:15 AM
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Yes bro highly advanced. Truly a man of the future. A gentleman and a scholar.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:25 PM
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"Evolved" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 09:07 PM
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Y’all always leave out the one ingredient needed for true attraction man. Charisma. Gotta actually enjoy the company you have if you actually want to be happy around them man wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 07:41 PM
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I'm not the one who made these laws. That's the reason they gave for raising the drinking age to 21. It reduced traffic accidents a considerable amount
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:43 AM
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Imagine flexing a sex machine. Human kind was a mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:36 AM
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Sounds fucking dystopian. Just a sausage fest. I love my bros but I love women too, we need each other
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:32 AM
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Because we're a car centric country with poor public transport options so teenagers were driving under the influence a lot here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:44 PM
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Someone call you a predator? I never been called that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:40 PM
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Bringing our manufacturing to China was a late stage capitalism move that appeased our corporations
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:23 AM
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Conservative been holding us back since 1776
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:21 AM
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Trump isn't about identity politics? That's his entire platform lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:02 AM
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Masculinity isn't about things only men can do. It's just the characteristics of being a man. Handsome, strong, driven, virile, manly, bold, being assertive. Women can definitely be those things but we have gender roles and expectations to encompass all these things as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:30 PM
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Nah masculinity is a real thing, but I agree the appearance of it is more important to society. That's why you see so much performative masculinity out there. Performative masculinity is just the act of appearing masculine, it's a separate thing from masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:23 PM
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You're ignoring the positives that come with being a man. Women do better in some areas and so do men. I'd you want to live longer, married men in general live longer than their single and divorced counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:14 PM
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The rape fantasies in here are insane
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:44 PM
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You're the one using absolutes here weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:34 PM
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Yes getting blasted as an unloyal clown degrades your social standing. Anyone worth a shit won’t respect you. FOH
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:18 PM
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Having options to cheat means nothing to a non cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:33 AM
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"Let me purposely degrade my value to try and impress mentally unwell huzz"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:31 AM
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You said "genuinely good guy." Where are all these genuinely good incel folks?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:44 AM
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Link them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:43 AM
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Incel is a term associated with a mostly online subculture of male heterosexual people who define themselves as unable to find a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one, and who may blame, objectify and denigrate women and girls as a result.< Link to me where all these very nice incels are
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:39 AM
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The movement isn't "nice guys who can't get laid." It's bitter assholes who have no friends and hate Chad and women. Don't play dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:32 AM
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Incels are some of the most antisocial and toxic group of internet warriors online lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:20 AM
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Because they want to be the one to treat you like shit. They're just mad other people get to do that and not them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:31 AM
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"Nice guy" and incel in the same sentence. Nasty work
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:31 AM
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Green flag: Being understanding with me Red flag: Not being understanding with me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:56 AM
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I'm trying to understand but have no idea what you're saying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:47 AM
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When you have options, men also do number 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:31 PM
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Isn't improving yourself and decentering women a redpill thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:28 PM
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If they're posting hateful shit online, yes they're antisocial losers
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:12 PM
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They're losers because of their antisocial behavior, hateful rhetoric and blaming everyone else for their self inflicted issues
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:05 PM
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Anyone who spews incel ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 04:32 PM
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Because those losers tend to write hateful shit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 04:28 PM
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Why would I need to leave the US for that when so many immigrants from those countries live right here in the states? A culture compatible with my own and similar world views is a pretty important aspect of any serious relationship to me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:53 AM
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People diagnosing you as autistic over a joke. Wild
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:50 AM
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Some men here think a connection or communication is irrelevant to getting women. They'd probably live in bliss never having to talk to their bangmaid wife who's stuck with him
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:47 AM
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Thicc is chubby fym
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 10:03 AM
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You realize "thicc" and "curvy" OP was describing aren't obese right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 10:01 AM
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Look at most men in relationships, they have dad bods and nobody gives af
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:50 AM
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Y'all are tripping if you actually think women like Lizzo don't get shit for their weight. Always done victim Olympics in here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:47 AM
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You sound like a fat guy jealous of fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:54 AM
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I don't know why Red Pill tries to make this stuff out to be so complicated. Then turn around and say women are complicated. Almost like different women want different things
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:22 AM
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Autism isn't a mental disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:01 PM
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Ah so you're armchair diagnosing prisoners you don't even personally know as autistic because feelings. And your estimate is better than a professional's estimate. Assuming most criminals are autistic is crazy work
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:39 PM
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Your own source says nothing about autism. Most prisoners aren't autistic, estimates are 1%-4.4%. And autism isn't even a mental health issue, mental health issues are irrelevant to the topic. Don't be disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:29 PM
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Source for "most prisoners are autistic"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:20 PM
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That wasn't the point, you're being disingenuous. Your opinion is literally worthless. Opinion dismissed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:19 PM
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82,000 karma from not entertaining butthurt dummies, get it right
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:16 PM
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I don't entertain people who play dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:11 PM
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I'm not your buddy, pal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:29 PM
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The point is he wants an excuse to be an asshole and tell women that's what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:01 AM
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You sound like RFK Jr
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:51 AM
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Has this hypothetical autist you’re talking about even tried approaching those women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:50 AM
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Bro, inmates have all day to rizz up their lady on the outside over the phone. They have nothing better to do in there. They aren't cheating with other women in there and they can promise marriage just to get a woman to put money on his books. Meanwhile, autists are socially akward and probably haven't even approached these women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:48 AM
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Men have 3XL+. The group of men they don't makes clothes for are taller men that aren't obese. 3XL isn't longer, just wider
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:38 AM
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Women have monthly hormonal cycles. Men have daily hormonal cycles. The idea that men can't be hormonal is just sexist garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:29 AM
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Incel revenge fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:39 AM
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Speak for yourself. I enjoy my buddies and it's not for the prospect of sex. You have more needs in life than just getting your dick wet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:10 AM
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Everyone goes through heartache bro, in a relationship or not. That's life. Maybe autistic or ADHD diagnosed women could be more compatible as neurodivergents are more comfortable unmasking around other neurodivergents and we have more understanding for each other
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:05 AM
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Interesting. Thank you for the well thought out answer. With literacy above 6th grade level being so low in the US and many people not even reading books, kind of surprised to see it's that high
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 06:47 AM
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Feminism fought for women's right to choose what her own roles can be in a marriage, not for every woman to be non traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 06:31 AM
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Most men would bang almost any woman if those women made it convenient. On the other hand, I doubt most women want to bang randoms. Hence men are the initiators and women are the choosers. Not a hard concept to grasp
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 06:28 AM
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Hey bro, if you guys actually looked at studies about female attraction and listened to what women say, you'd know women build attraction reactively. By nature, women have more to lose by choosing the wrong mate so a man showing interest is necessary for women to even consider him relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 06:24 AM
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Do women read smut as much as people watch porn? Is it wide spread and read at a frequency similar to porn? Because I've never personally known of anyone who does read smut. I always thought that was a niche audience but OP frames it like it's a mainstream thing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:52 AM
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Idk, you guys are in here constantly complaining about not being picked but fail to take accountability for your own role in that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:38 AM
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If red pill was right about why you're lonely and helped you fix the issue, why are y’all still lonely and complaining about being lonely?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:08 AM
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That one's a classic. Wanting to claim the accomplishments of all men as if they are our own. Funny how it's usually people who aren't accomplished themselves that want the accolades for things they never earned themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:43 AM
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Yeah men think they want women to approach them but those of us who have been approached by women know how frivolous and unattractive it can be. Something about it just makes them less attractive to me when they approach me first
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:39 AM
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Bro sounds like when Akademics crashed out and started shouting "I'm the prize!" These are feminine ass men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:36 AM
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This is what any sane man does. Cool approaching or any stupid pickup line doesn't work as well as this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:29 AM
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Maybe because those less attractive dudes are doing power plays rather than tweeting to make her feel good about him finding her attractive. Women aren't as obsessed with making power plays and actually compliment you. How you compliment someone makes a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:25 AM
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Looks don’t keep a woman. Things like compatibility, charisma, being an asset and sharing core values does.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:52 PM
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Maybe date someone your own age bro
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:44 PM
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"Nice guys" like you who cheated on your wife and she divorced you huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:44 AM
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"Excuse me ma'am but if you don't let me use you for sex then you must be miserable because you're single" headass
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:41 AM
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You mean women don't like being treated like trash like so many here claim? Mind blown
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:18 AM
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Funny because research shows people who are socially rejected and isolated are more likely to develop dark triad traits. Doesn't make sense that socially and romantically successful people would be more antisocial than antisocial losers and rejects
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:13 AM
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I've been saying! Jesus Christ the amount of dudes who who try to make "Chad" look bad here and hate us almost as much as they hate the women who choose Chad is insane. The rejects are the dangerous ones, not us
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:09 AM
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You sound like you're coping with your fragility
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:55 PM
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You sound fragile
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:43 PM
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I'm proposing to her this fall. If I only got with women who chased me, I wouldn't have gotten her to begin with. You're the one ignoring your own biology and getting sucked into conspiratorial rabbit holes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:42 PM
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The 5 whole low quality women who chased you isn't the flex you think it is dude
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:37 PM
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Real men don't play Princess Peach
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:33 PM
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I have a great catch, doesn't require luck like sitting around waiting on someone to ignore their biology to chase you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:27 PM
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Taking any initiative or doing any approaching is chasing my guy. You read too much into conspiracy theory territory
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:14 PM
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Men who are too afraid to initiate end up in the friendzone and come here to complain about it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:04 PM
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Throughout all of human history, men took risks, took the initiative, chose who they want and enjoyed the challenge of getting the girl. The modern day manosphere really got y’all wanting to be Princess Peach instead. I was never into the women who approached me first, an easy catch is easy for everybody
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 11:58 AM
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