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| 1 | Men in their 30s, how often have you hooked up with women older than you?The fact you think aging for males has to do with anti-aging routines tells me you're a woman and a clueless one. Men appear to age slower because they lose less collagen and have more muscle mass, both of which decrease with women faster. Women also lose estrogen amounts significantly during menopause. Men have no such corollary event. Here's a dumbed-down article that explains why women age faster and it goes into depth on the collagen issue: https://www.livescience.com/1054-woman-skin-ages-fa… | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Men in their 30s, how often have you hooked up with women older than you?Nope. Where the fuck did I mention anything about my money, you twat? I never mentioned my personal income in my post nor has that ever been a focus in any relationship. Lol. You sound like you belong in r/FemaleDatingStrategy, you sad, bitter person. And while Male reproduction may "decline" (aka reduce over time), it never goes away. There are PLENTY of 70 and 80+ year old fathers. There are no women that old having children and anyone over 50 is a medical rarity. Enjoy your cats. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 06:28 PM |
| 6 | I tried shooting my shot and It didn’t work - now I feel worthless.Instagram is a terrible way to genuinely connect with someone... and you should understand that the people who do well on it have everything down to science and it's all filtered. Just like you wouldn't walk up to your romantic interest wearing old jeans and a stained up tee, you shouldn't try to slide into someone's DMs if you dont have a great IG. Just saying, unless you have a curated IG, it's a terrible way to try to generate interest. If you're going to try this approach, you may want to ha… | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 04:45 AM |
| 4 | Men in their 30s, how often have you hooked up with women older than you?That's entirely my point: value curve reversal. Women peak biologically around 20 and stay there until their early 30s. In terms of social value, a woman's value is almost always tied to physical appearance, so their perceived social value stays roughly the same as their biological appearance. Men dont peak physically until approximately 30 and socially around 45-50, because men's value has always been based on what they accomplish and can provide. Men become established in their careers in thei… | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Men in their 30s, how often have you hooked up with women older than you?Most married people that chase 24 year olds tend to get divorced. Not sure why that's surprising to you. | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 05:43 PM |
| 6 | Men in their 30s, how often have you hooked up with women older than you?Not sure why you're being downvoted for speaking the truth. If women were consistently "amazingly attractive" in their 30s and 40s, this thread wouldn't exist. They're not (women age in physical appearance about 15 years faster than men), so a woman that still looks good by mid-30s isnt exactly super common. It's a definite rarity by their 40s. Many women cant handle that reality and start getting desperate when they start showing signs of aging. Not all or most, but a LOT. | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 04:34 PM |
| 8 | Men in their 30s, how often have you hooked up with women older than you?Statistically this isn't true and in the cases that it IS true, then the man is either extremely successful at life (for whatever reason) or the women he pursues tend to be just as immature as him. Hate the game all you want, but biological value curve reversals are real. | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 04:30 PM |
| 4 | How to keep a girl interested in sex without getting into relationshipYou're asking this question because you're not a fuckboy. You're likely a decent-value guy and the girls you're attracting are coming to you because they see the possibility of a relationship with you. The fact that your relationships implode when they want to get (more) serious means that you're misleading them early on when you meet/match with them and that is resulting in your current dilemma. The reason women are coming to you now is because you * seem * like you want a relationship, because… | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 12:58 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Value curve reversal. The answer is no... but the problem is that time is linear and progressive. By the time most Western women genuinely start looking a high value man, they're running down on the biological clock. Women age, appearance-wise and on average, about 15-20 years earlier than men. Sexist and feminist arguments aside, a woman's primary PERCEIVED value (what others note as her obvious value) comes from her beauty. For men? Their value comes from maturity, stability, career, income, e… | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 03:43 AM |
| 1 | I think my HS teacher likes me or is out to get me..Read through his posts. Dude is 19 years old and is giving parenting advice. Hasnt even graduated college and is debating philosophy and stoicism. The fucktard still lives with parents and is telling other parents how to treat their kids. While he literally does fucking drugs. Lol. There's a reason every one of his posts is being downvoted to hell. | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 08:30 AM |
| 0 | I think my HS teacher likes me or is out to get me..I already answered it. Perhaps you don't understand English? | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 02:47 PM |
| 1 | I think my HS teacher likes me or is out to get me..Says the whack-job who just assumed the gender of the OP without one single mention of it anywhere in the original post or in their posting history. You have a massive problem with processing and separating facts from opinions. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | I think my HS teacher likes me or is out to get me..Staring and tapping someone on the shoulder when they need their attention? Theres absolutely nothing wrong with that. There is so much projection in your post that you cant see how absurd your angle is. It's not even "weird" unless there's no reason for it. I'd have no issue with it, provided that was the extent of it. The OP never said they were female either. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 02:32 PM |
| 6 | I think my HS teacher likes me or is out to get me..Attraction is natural and biological and cannot be controlled, action is what matters. Your physique and pheromones dont magically change the day you turn 18. If there is attraction, there is attraction. Physically and sexually, someone who is 17 is the same as someone who 18, except in the most extreme of examples of pubescent development. The only arbitrary difference is legality. The teacher has done nothing wrong at this point. You should try using logic and critical thinking instead of tryi… | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 02:16 PM |
| 10 | My dates feel too platonic, any advice?Two possibilities: As u/JacobMoogberg69 above said, you could be acting like a nice guy. You're suppressing your sexuality. I used to do this. The other possibility is that you simply know what you want and you just aren't into them. I now run into this problem a lot. It's not even really a problem because I don't care, but it does confuse the fuck out of women when I realize 20 minutes into meeting someone that they're just not my type. I'm nice and funny and can hold a great conversation, I'm … | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 10:53 AM |
| 7 | At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women?I believe it's because of the power curve reversals that happen between 30 and 40 for both men and women. Women that are your age, put simply, begin to show signs of aging. Biologically, they begin to realize they're beginning to age. Women also age physically about 15-20 years sooner then men, in terms of physical appearance (there are biological reasons for this that feminists hate and claim are myths, but that doesnt change reality). Meanwhile, men become established and mature. Their incomes… | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 04:44 AM |
| 10 | At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women?30s to 40s is when you peak. I'm living it now. Was married for several years, got divorced and back into the dating scene. If you asked me, I thought I was mildly attractive when I was young, yet I never really had any consistent interest from women. Now? It's fairly easy to find women and dates, so much so that I lost interest because its soooo predictable for the most part. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 01:50 AM |
| 3 | Very awkward date1) She thinks higher of herself than she should 2) She already expects things from you 3) She sees you as a source of resources, not as a person Personally, I'd just ghost someone like this, even if I worked with them. Act like the date never even happened if you have to interact with them. | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 05:24 PM |
| 1 | An unusual story and what I've learned about attraction and confidence5'10", closer to 5'11" if that matters (I've never met anyone that cared about height). I also like long walks on the beach. | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 03:05 AM |
| 2 | An unusual story and what I've learned about attraction and confidenceJokes aside, there's a big part of relationship dynamics where that's needed. Too many people try to do too much and end up losing attention they would have otherwise had. | /r/seduction | 03/07/21 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Please stop with this “be yourself” bullshit.You have to understand why women have it on easy mode - sex and beauty. Statistically, over the age of 40, the valuations for men and women change (they actually reverse) and it's MUCH easier for men to get dates than women. In fact, single men have more social value at 45+ than women do at the same age and it shows. I'd honestly be curious to hear from "average" women that are 40+ how their dating encounters are. I presume it would be the same, if not worse, than it is for the average guy in hi… | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 04:19 PM |
| 22 | [22M] Just graduated university a kissless virgin. Absolutely devastated and have 0 hope. What now?Soooo... best advice, given your state, would be to post a photo of yourself. Do it under another throwaway name if you must. Get feedback on your appearance, because that COULD be the problem. That said, your attitude and demeanor here lends me to believe that you're relatively in a victimized state of mind, which never helps in any relationship capacity. Even if you were ugly, that's the minor issue here. Your bigger issue is your state of mind. You clearly have self-identity issues. Sure, you… | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 10:07 PM |
| 4 | Tinder hookups ?It works well if you use a logical approach. Firstly, sign up for Premium or whatever they call it. Secondly, write a good bio and BE HONEST about yourself. You know, talk yourself up a bit, but be realistic. Third, close the app and wait for notifications. Don't start swiping. With the Tinder subscription, you'll get notifications when women like you. That already puts you 50% ahead. You won't spend hours swiping and everyone you'll interact with at least has a partial interest in you. Now, las… | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 04:57 PM |
| 1 | As a man are low body counts attractive to you?Meh. Went out on a date with this girl once, mostly just to try to have a casual, friendly relationship. She seemed chill. Then she asked me about sex and I played it like I was indifferent. Asked her how many people she had slept with. Her response: 60-80. Chick wasn't even really attractive, more like a 5-6 out of 10. I nope'd outta there. Anyways, what I realized was that the count wasn't what bothered me so much as it was the fact that she clearly was just "giving it away." To me, that impli… | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 02:16 PM |
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