-LocalAlien Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Don’t Listen You make an interesting point. I however think that being nice is just something every person should do, in any relationship. It's what makes people want to be around you, because you are kind. You are right about the "nice guys" though, I think they suck because they use "being nice" as a dating strategy and therefore think that if they are nice to a girl that the girl owes them something. But the thing about kindness is, it's free. Nobody owes you anything for giving it, but it makes the world…	/r/MensRights	19/12/21 08:36 PM
0	Don’t Listen We both have a best friend too, it's just that we are each others best friend. How is that a red flag haha	/r/MensRights	19/12/21 08:21 PM
3	Don’t Listen Same here, but the other way around. I was way worse in isolation	/r/MensRights	18/12/21 02:18 AM
3	Don’t Listen Yes there is.	/r/MensRights	18/12/21 01:48 AM
5	Don’t Listen I hope you find some help	/r/MensRights	18/12/21 01:46 AM
8	Don’t Listen Ok. Seems like someone hurt you so bad that you distrust all women to their core. it's an overgeneralization, a phallacy, but i can see how that grew over time. I'm sorry that happened, I hope at some point you can heal from that, and move on. I hope it doesn't keep you from trusting women in the future, and I hope you find the tools to recover from your trauma. This doesn't have to be the end for you. DM me if you need to talk about anything, but I won't bother to convince you anymore.	/r/MensRights	18/12/21 12:49 AM
3	Don’t Listen What makes you so sure that she didn't care about him as a person. Might I add that for a long time, I was a huge burden to my wife? I had no job, i was depressed and anxious and I couldn't be there for her, was actually pretty terrible to live with. She worked and worked and then came home to take care of me. Why?	/r/MensRights	18/12/21 12:18 AM
2	Don’t Listen That's avoiding the question, she is being accused of lying, so the burden of proof is on the accuser. Debating 101.	/r/MensRights	18/12/21 12:14 AM
6	Don’t Listen "object of affection" the woman grieved terribly for over a year...and still is Maybe see it this way, if you're right, then so many couples are happy in blissful ignorance. Which is not the worst. But if you are wrong... Well, then you will spend your life believing in a lie, and hateful loneliness. If I were you I would choose the other one	/r/MensRights	18/12/21 12:11 AM
2	Don’t Listen You should have seen my grandmother after my grandfather died.. you would swallow your words	/r/MensRights	18/12/21 12:02 AM
3	Don’t Listen Why don't you believe that my wife just loves me for me	/r/MensRights	17/12/21 11:59 PM
4	Don’t Listen She actually goes to a therapist herself, and she doesn't need validation. She's a very strong woman!	/r/MensRights	17/12/21 11:49 PM
3	Don’t Listen Ok give me an example of what she can "get" from me.	/r/MensRights	17/12/21 11:23 PM
3	Don’t Listen I literally quoted her directly.. why would she lie?	/r/MensRights	17/12/21 11:18 PM
2	Don’t Listen Read my other comment	/r/MensRights	17/12/21 11:15 PM
3	Don’t Listen I'll ask my wife what her conditions are, and I'll quote directly: "Don't commit any heinous crimes, be faithful, honest, and be decent, respectful and friendly, but none of these conditions are necessary zero tolerance." I also asked some other things: like "would you leave me if I had mental health issues?" Her "..no..you already do have mental health problems and I support you" Me "How about if I lose my job" Her "I already make more money than you, and for a while I was the only breadwinner"…	/r/MensRights	17/12/21 11:07 PM
2	Don’t Listen You don't believe that my wife loves me?	/r/MensRights	17/12/21 10:19 PM
2	What is more excusable, cheating or beating? If the question is a: serious physical abuse or b: adultery than I would rather be cheated on. I say this as someone who is physically capable to overcome their partner and married. If it would just be “getting hit” I wouldn’t care as much, but if it was as threatening to me as it would be for my wife, it’s scary enough to opt for adultery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/20 01:40 AM