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Red Pill Theory-Lupe/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 03:07 PM
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-Lupe/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 01:26 AM
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The thing is, and what causes a lot of guys anger here, is that because this is all so opportunistic on her part we percieve it as being calculated. Like OP said: Lmao classic. The guy has been Mr backup since day one. What an opportune time now that you're pregnant and without a father to "have feelings for him" as well. But thing is, she likely did develop feelings for him. It's not conniving or calculated, it's just that emotions are a neurobiological tool used to move animals towards and awa…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 01:43 AM
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If you haven't already then read Sex God Method, and if you have then reread it. I also had troubles with dirty talk to start, so you have to start lightly and he covers this in the book. You can start with moaning more, then throw in a simple "Do you like that baby?" or describing what you are going to do to her next, over time move into simple more descriptive terms, start using pussy, little, wet etc. , then move onto ownership "You love it when I take your pussy", "whos little pussy is it?" …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 01:09 AM
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It basically outlines hypergamy. Relationships are transactional to women, in that emotions prompt them towards and away from men whose value they will benefit most from in exchange for sexual association. Previous benefits from a relationship do not mollify a woman's constant search for future benefits and are no guarantee that a sexual association will continue. In a nutshell, if you aren't her best option expect her to branch swing, or if she's a classy lady expect her to drop you. It's not c…
/r/askTRP11/05/15 08:50 AM
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Yeah I wouldn't read too much into it. But do keep in mind that Dan mentions something like this at some point in the book (from memory, been years since I read it). He says something about women want to feel like they are pleasing you as much as you please them, even though you are the one doing all the work you should act as though it's a mutual thing, like she contributes just as much as you to your rocking sex life (even though she doesn't). She wants to know she's satisfying your needs sexu…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 12:40 AM
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Feelings don't think beyond what is good for the body agenda. Feelings are neurotransmitters that reinforce a biological agenda to survive and reproduce. Feelings are basal and primal, they're what makes a lion stalk it's prey the way it does or an alligator know when to strike. Feelings are not what make us human, they're what make us animals. Feelings have no spiritual basis and no mystical element, science has revealed them for what they are: immediate neurochemical balances that prompt immed…
/r/askTRP11/05/15 12:19 AM
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My favourite lesson from Pook, and the one that changed my life forever: The goal is to unite your dream and your day! Both the player and the nice guy pedestalize pussy to equal degrees, often nice guys become players but never realize they haven't ended the cycle of pedestalizing pussy because their focus is still firmly on women. Their life choices, their daily habits, their very personality, is one carefully constructed based on what women want, not what he wants for himself. An entire life …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 12:31 PM
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She didn't come across as rude, she is rude and seriously lacking class. Next. Don't reply.
/r/askTRP10/05/15 01:09 AM
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Now stop to consider that it was written 15 years ago before Niel Strauss's "The Game". Pook wrote those posts before Mystery Method took over PUA, when "game" was a garble of thousands of different and opposing philosophies. Doc Love and Ross Jeffries were the two most respected gurus in the PUA scene at the time FFS. Only now 15 years later are people starting to see testosterone as the underlying element, shit tests are T tests etc, when Pook was saying it 15 years ago! That should give you a…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 09:09 PM
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You don't go to the Philippines for a sex vacation, it's a deeply religious country where divorce is illegal, virgin brides are expected and knife dueling is still a thing. You go to the Philippines to retire from a career of cunt destroying.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 02:47 PM
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Oh youth. Next. Text is for logistics, and you aren't flying to the Philippines to have a sex vacation, not at your age, so you have no logistics to organize. Dude, down under is the natural habitat of the sloot. You should be hitting the gym, making some coin and smashing some club sluts box off at your age. Literally easiest girls in the world once you're top 10%. Go practice your game lad!
/r/askTRP06/05/15 02:39 PM
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Sexual shame 101 brother. I used to get exactly this, and it does go away with time, effort and introspection work. It's more common than you'd think, so chill, don't go thinking you're broken or anything. 1) Monk mode for the moment and read NMMNG and practice what the author preaches. Especially the section on sexual shame. Hell, get a therapist if you need to and really focus on digging up all dat nitty gritty sexual shame tucked away in your soul and cleaning it out. You are worthy of sex. Y…
/r/askTRP06/05/15 02:20 PM
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Meditate. Start with 15 minutes each morning and add 5 minutes each week until you are meditating for 45 minutes each morning. Make it a daily practice and after 3-6 months your frame will become indestructible. Impregnable, undeniable, illimitable frame. For as long as you continue to meditate daily that is. Meditate and lift. Seriously though, meditate. Fucking meditate already!
/r/askTRP05/05/15 12:44 AM
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A misbehaving woman isn't worth the time is takes to tell her she isn't worth your time. Just Next. DGAF.
/r/askTRP04/05/15 10:13 PM
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Male invader. IMO, if there is one thing I could highlight that you single girls are getting wrong in the SMP right now it's that you always seem to focus on the person, not the relationship. I hear girls all the time talking about what kind of man they want, but rarely talking about what kind of relationship they want. Focussing on how hot a guy can make them, instead of focussing on how happy they are with their lives. So when Mr Studly comes along you swoon and give it up to him because he's …
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/15 01:05 AM
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The thing is though, women perpetuate both of those paradigms. Dad's don't specifically raise their little angels to grow up and become a slut. An entire generation of men didn't rise up and shake society into conditioning girls into becoming little sluts and boys into becoming nice guys in order to maxify their own biological imperatives; feminists did that. No one set these girls up to be fuck dolls for alphas, they're having copious amounts of casual sex with men outside of their "commitment …
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 10:06 AM
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Best of luck dude. There is really nothing like martial arts for building your confidence. It's a powerful limbic value trigger. Getting hit is just as important as hitting too, something a lot of people don't talk about. Kyokushin tournaments are open weight and I've gone toe to toe and banged with, been knocked out by and knocked out, guys that are 100kg + of muscle. I no longer fear standing up for myself in social situations, that's for sure. So yeah. get stuck into it dude!
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 02:10 AM
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No but I want to get into it eventually, that or catch wrestling. I train Kyokushin and I'm starting boxing once I find a trainer I feel can complement my karate base. I already compete in Kyokushin, will likely get some kickboxing under my belt once I improve my hands and head movement, then I want to do at least one MMA fight. All for fun of course. You?
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 01:54 AM
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Now, I've never been married, let me just put the following into perspective. I have had a 6 year relationship though, with a natural RPW who ended it because I got too beta, got overweight, got bored at work etc. etc. Again, just to put it into perspective, most of my experience is spinning plates. So I look at things from a plate spinning viewpoint. Now with that said: Both times she has needed a place to spin up her hamster she has left for hours without taking her phone, presumably so that y…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/15 01:06 AM
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Glad I could help mate. I will elaborate one day, I have a lot of shit bouncing through my head though so I tend to spend time following threads while they're there rather than shackling myself to one thing at a time. On top of my frame article I'm working on one on confidence, one on testosterone, one on meditation and one on hard limbic value triggers (innate S&R value). That's without taking into account work, gym and dojo time. But again, doing this to help myself understand TRP concepts on …
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 12:28 AM
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If you had high enough SMV and she was tingling hard enough for you she would have been enraged at her "friend" hitting on her the same way women are enraged when beta's have the balls to approach. At the VERY least she should have recognized this "friend" was not respecting her relationship with you and been enraged for this. She wasn't enraged at all. She's either priming herself for cheating, did cheat, or has weak enough boundaries that she is a strong candidate for infidelity. In any case, …
/r/askTRP02/05/15 01:03 PM
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Exactly correct. Chaste girls get commitment like confident guys get coitus. Incidentally, fake chastity is just as abhorrent to us as fake confidence is to you.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 03:49 AM
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Yet he’s still the one for whom we would happily trade all the booty calls, hookups and swiping right. He’s still the one we hope, against all odds, might be The One. So she's being plated by this "shy" (read: emotionally detached) boy, while fucking around at the same time, and wondering why this "shy" (read: emotionally detached) boy won't commit to her? Idiot. Fucking idiot. Are women really so clueless they actually think men are okay with them being sluts? Speaking as a male invader, there …
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 03:15 AM
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You're always going to shit-test, no point feeling bad about it, just don't overdo it is all. If my guard is always up around a woman she's never earning access to the only place I let my guard down.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 12:32 AM
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Ha, I'm not American and I've no intention of visiting the place again. That post was only supposed to be the first line long, then I added a second and it started to get a bit ranty. I wasn't pointing fingers, just venting. Don't shit test too much though, a big reason I refuse to settle down is because I don't want to deal with shit tests when I come home. I have competitive hobbies, I have a competitive job, I am constantly proving and improving myself. Home is the place I come to rest, refle…
/r/askTRP29/04/15 02:23 PM
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In my country fat shaming will get you absolutely lambasted. Period. Same with slut shaming. Same with cold-approaching unless you're fit, handsome and dressed to the nines. It isn't uncommon for boys in school to be given detention or put on behaviour management programs for "perving", AKA looking at girls because he just hit puberty. Social workers and nurses are quickly becoming one of the most overpaid professions, so more men are heading into those fields and that's now a topic of public de…
/r/askTRP29/04/15 12:39 PM
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Are they just deleting anything that serves as RP examples now? Fucking ludicrous, but on the other hand it shows their fear. They wouldn't fear us if they had no reason to. Glhf to them. The truth is self evident in the long run.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 11:44 PM
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Fucking. Meditate. FUCKING! MEDITATE! Wake up. Meditate. Work. Lift. Work. Train full contact martial arts. Sleep. Repeat. But seriously, just fucking meditate already.
/r/becomeaman28/04/15 11:53 AM
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Well, that's enough of a question to prompt several academic papers. But simply, it should be self evident the evolutionary benefit of having a disposable gender. If a mans love causes him to sacrifice his life for his woman, his genes live on provided she is with child. If a woman sacrifices her life for her man, what benefit is gained? Her genes are lost, his genes are lost (if she is with child). It's a pointless sacrifice. Also, there is the fact that women are essentially useless in primita…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 10:45 PM
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Don't pursue such a foolish endeavor. Accept your situation and work towards improving it. It's dangerous to go alone, here take this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 10:19 PM
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Poor darling, but I thought you were happily single?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 10:13 PM
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Were they in love with you? We aren't talking about whether men are selfish, of course they can be, what we are talking about is the behaviour that results from a man being in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 10:02 PM
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A mans love is sacrificial by it's very nature. Whether it's deemed "good" or not is irrelevant, it's how men love. In Brene Brown's book on vulnerability, I love two parts. The book was written for women, so I imagine a lot of people haven't read it, but the two parts are: 1) Her and her husband are watching their daughter play, and she says to her husband, what I would give to have someone love me like I love her, where no matter how vulnerable I become they will accept me and adore me all the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 09:52 PM
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You're correct to an extent. There is a lot of defensiveness to a lot of what is said at TRP because there are a lot of guys there who's loyal and sacrificial nature has been taken advantage of previously, due to the aforementioned conditioning. TRP exists to lead men to the truth, ego be damned, thus we aren't above criticism and that is a valid criticism. The point that is worth understanding though, that these guys spent their entire lives wanting to do nothing but find a good women and reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 09:41 PM
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This is where things can get messy. To be clear, I was referencing humanities universal inclination towards argument/rationalization, not commenting on our ability to perceive truth. It wasn't epistemological in nature so much as highlighting that the pre-frontal functions when left to their own devices (rather than tempered through an external systemic process, such as scientific enquiry or mathematical modelling), do not serve as a way to know reality, as if that were the case inter-cultural "…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 03:47 AM
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Be careful! It's littered with RP truths, but there is plenty of blue pill crap in there as well. Mark himself once admitted to previously holding onto some Red Pill beliefs, but says his opinions changed as he read more feminist material, so you have to be cautious. It was an important turning point in PUA history though. Mark essentially "did a Pook" on the PUA community, ditching lines and routines and focusing on self improvement to pickup women. Still a must read in my, and many terper's op…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 03:54 AM
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Excellent question. To me, stubbornness is about being ego invested into your opinions. Frame is about being confident in your perceptions of reality. To use my argument with my friend as an example: when he called me a psychopath, had I been being stubborn I would have argued with him. I'm not a psychopath and that's a kinda offensive insinuation, undermining my character like that just because I didn't fall into his idea of behaving however I should have been. Frame, instead, is like a pure in…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 11:21 PM
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Thanks mate. Slightly revise over on the main. Will lay out my full theory one day.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 03:34 PM
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I just want to mention something about frame. Frame was a really hard concept for me to get a handle on at first, but then two things I read cause me to think deeply on it for some time and come to a solid conclusion. Firstly, I reread Rollo's article on frame over and over again, how he talks about it being something we intuit, but can't really define. He says it's about "who's reality we are operating in". Then I re-read Mark Manson's models for the third time, and his definition of true confi…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 02:56 PM
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Add The Book of Pook to your reading list ASAP. The single most influential Red Pill text ever penned, written almost 15 years ago by a legendary PUA over at sosuave, long before PUA was common. Pivotal text. In The Book of Pook, Pook touches on how shyness can be beneficial as long as it isn't cowardice or caused by pedestalization of pussy. If you're shy the first thing to know is that that's fine. I personally was a very shy guy and I put myself under a lot of pressure to "get over it", but I…
/r/askTRP23/04/15 11:20 PM
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If that sweetheart fails shit tests then he's still fucked.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 01:21 AM
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Okay, except what women are physically attracted to changes based on where they are in their menstrual cycle. During ovulation they are attracted to high testosterone alpha features (defined brow, strong chaw/chin, thinner eyes) and during her less fertile stages she is more attracted to low testosterone beta features (round eyes, softer jaw). It's not that she is more interested in beta providers in her less fertile stage, she actually physiologically primes for sex in response to beta qualitie…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 11:42 PM
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Now we're really heading into foreign territory for me, so I can't really comment much. But I'm sure I read somewhere that sex preference in progeny is influenced heavily by current resources. Perhaps it's mentioned in 'The Red Queen' by Matt Ridley? I'm sure I've read it somewhere, but I can't remember exactly what it was. I'll PM if it comes to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 05:48 AM
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That's okay, I just didn't know what you were thinking and it kind of felt like you were making a socratic argument that I couldn't determine. Where the "for the good of society" most people would argue comes from is more primal and instinctual emotional drive. At the end of the day a womb is far more valuable than semen in terms of reproductive efficiency, so it makes sense for the males to take on the sacrificial risk taking role, "for the good of the tribe". These days, if a comet was about t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 12:58 AM
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Infanticide in ancient Carthage, provided what we think we know is accurate (though that is still up for debate, there is evidence that infanticide practices were Roman propaganda and that carthaginians cremated stillborns), I would say is analogous to the male disposability we speak of. But other famous "infanticide" cultures, such as China, it becomes more muddled. Firstly, it is not as institutionalized as some would suggest, it's just an outrageous act so it is particularly emphasized, but u…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/15 10:51 PM
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It's a tough ask to reasonably establish that such a society exists, but if you wish to try, go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/15 09:58 PM
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The generally accepted definition is one of an informal understanding that governs behaviour within a society. Why do you ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/15 09:44 PM
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Although I'm skeptical as to whether there is data to back up the claim that males are more likely to be aborted, I really think it's a separate issue. It's comparing a personal decision to a biologically induced societal norm, there are too many variables at play to make a direct comparison I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/15 08:59 PM
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Are you asserting that some cultures believe infants to be disposable? What's your reasoning there? I mean, do you have any data comparable to say, war's listed by their casualty rates? If the world all of a sudden committed roughly 40 million infants to death over a period of less than a decade, as we did with men in WW2, I'd see your argument as stronger. Let alone that these casualties are of a single war and don't account for the persistence of male disposability over the course of history. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/15 12:23 PM
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I at least want to see it!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/15 01:42 AM
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Yep, I thought he touched on this in the article, but I could be mistaken as it's been a long time since I read it.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/15 09:55 PM
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This, right fucking here, is why I am on my third red pill throwaway. This is why I keep coming back. It never ceases to amaze me how well many members here react to criticism. Also, it wasn't just a token suggestion, I really do think meditation is the single best thing one can do for developing frame. I personally have developed a trigger that I use for situations where my frame may be a little rattled. Basically after holding zero point for a while, and while fully relaxed, before ending each…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 07:37 AM
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I see a lot of people giving you kudos for... well I don't really know what for... You got off easy. Hooray for you. But dude, you hit a fucking woman. I don't care what a woman does, you don't fucking hit them. Period. If I came on here talking about punching a kid in the face cause he was throwing a tantrum would people be patting me on the back? I certainly hope not, no matter how "aw shucks I lost frame guys" I decided to spin it. It's poor form for any man to beat a child in anger. Women ar…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 05:52 AM
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"Women are to be celebrated, loved, respected, honoured and revered." ~ Michael Buble Way to pedestalize the pussy, pussy. EDIT: I don't know why people downvoted this. Men carrying sentiments like that are exactly what landed us in this mess. When have you ever heard someone say: "Men are to be celebrated, loved, respected, honoured and revered."? A statement like that would get you called sexist in todays culture, but it's fine for women. Buble didn't "take a stand" at all, he pussed out just …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 04:47 AM
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I just want to touch on one thing quickly, I've noticed assertiveness is often used as a cushy term to ease "nice guys" into displays of dominance, but make no mistake, the human brain is wired for dominance. Serotonin (the respect hormone) did not evolve with equality in mind. Of course I'm not urging you to become an asshole, a true alpha protects his tribe, but don't poison the well you're drinking from either. You are learning to be dominant, not equal, dominant. You're becoming a benevolent…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 01:50 AM
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Male invader. It's fine if you had poor experiences in the past, we all do. What isn't fine is playing the victim, as you said, you chose those relationships. There is a post on the sidebar here called "Time to take responsibility for our failed relationships", and that pretty well hits the nail on the head for me. Nothing screams plate louder to me than a woman who is always a victim, and a short term plate at that. There's a line between your vulnerability being appealing to us (which it is, h…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/15 10:36 PM
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It's why the sub exists mate. Always here for a reality check when you need us.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 12:30 PM
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If my girlfriend was texting an ex consistently and getting all giggly and giddy whilst doing so, then she would no longer be my girlfriend. I'd be honest about why I was dumping her and try to do it easily if possible, but if a woman start's entertaining another man's attention I check out emotionally and it isn't fair on either of us to continue the relationship once that happens. I don't flirt with my ex's, I expect the same in return. There's a difference between staying in contact and flirt…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/15 12:29 PM
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Not only do you claim you continued to date a girl after you'd begun to suspect she'd made a false rape accusation, but now you're bragging about plating her knowing that she did? "edit:LTR again" ~ OP, 2015 You're either a trolling tumblrina or your stupid enough to pass as one. Congratulations. Noobies, don't be OP.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 10:11 AM
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There's a stark difference between saying "You're cute" vs "I want you to be my girlfriend". One expresses romantic interest, one expresses interest in commitment. Men pursue sex, women pursue commitment. A bird who willingly flies into a cage isn't much of a prize cock, is he now? OP could have easily plated this girl up just by hitting her up to hang out again and pushing for the f-close. Then it's on her to push for the commitment. Give your commitment away cheaply/readily and you may as well…
/r/askTRP10/04/15 08:04 AM
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It's not even "I won't stick around if you do" it's "I'm not sticking around to see if you do". It's like a gf suggesting an open relationship, you don't offer an ultimatum, she already revealed her intentions and it's time to walk.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 10:56 AM
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Every piece of sex I ever had, including with taken women, started with harmless flirting. Flirting is foreplay. My women don't flirt with other men. I don't think I've once told a gf not to, it just works that way. I only elevate decent women beyond plates and only when they are sending out serious alpha tells. Sometimes they start to get comfortable, and I've nexted several girlfriends for flirting, I never really feel too bad about it, because flirting is foreplay. If she's gonna start the se…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 01:03 PM
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This is true, but only when there is obviously nothing there and the hamster is spinning it on. Because it undermines our commitment, our one greatest asset. If I'm with someone and an ex-gf/fwb/plate starts behaving inappropriately I will cut her out of my life quick smart, and permanently no matter what happens with the current. The ex won't even get an explanation. My current doesn't need to express any insecurity for me to do this, it's a matter of personal offence to me that someone feels m…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/15 12:14 PM
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If you give a fuck you give a fuck, denying yourself that only denies you getting what you actually desire. Don't moderate your desires for a woman. She either fulfills them and earns a place in your life, or she doesn't and doesn't. What she's done is unacceptable behavior in any committed relationship as far as I'm concerned, and I know I would definitely give a fuck. I would hard next her and start spinning plates immediately. No need to be butt-hurt, she just can't give you what you're looki…
/r/askTRP08/04/15 05:43 AM
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This is my go to since swallowing. If a woman triggers my mate guarding instincts then she is getting downgraded and nexted. I don't have time to worry about this kind of menial bullshit anymore. Hell, I don't care if it's a woman harmlessly flirting with another guy in front of me, she's never getting my commitment, let alone go's on play-dates with other guys. Every single bit of sex I ever had started with "harmless" flirting. If she's accepting another man's adoration, it's only fair you acc…
/r/askTRP08/04/15 04:38 AM
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Ahoy brother! Welcome back. You have most certainly done the right thing. Here's a guide to help you make sense of what's happening in your mind. Just know that you're emotionally addicted to this girl right now, so your hamster is going to be looking for reasons for you to get a fix, including thinking you've made a mistake. Do not listen to your hamster! Acknowledge the oneitis and let it play out, but do not feed it. Just because it could be different doesn't mean it ever will be. She is gone…
/r/askTRP03/04/15 09:18 AM
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