-Mhysa- Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	What I’ve been saying! Exactly. Gender doesn’t matter, looks don’t matter, literally nothing matters to me, but I just cannot bring myself to get physically close to anyone without a very deep bond. The thought repulses me... I’ve never been attracted to someone I don’t have a bond with. I’ve never seen someone in a bookstore or on the street and thought “yes, I like that. That’s what I want.” It makes me feel really fucking crazy... I don’t understand what everyone else is doing, but it seems so easy for them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 08:33 PM
3	What I’ve been saying! Do you realize that you’re arguing with yourself?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 08:27 PM
2	What I’ve been saying! Amen sister. Thanks for the warm welcome. :) 🙏	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 05:01 PM
8	What I’ve been saying! I think that it started that way... they wanted to blend in and be what society says is a liberated woman, but these women are in their 30’s and 40’s by now... I’ve never considered this before but I honestly can’t figure out if they adapted to what they think they’re supposed to be, or if they just genuinely love sex that much. These girls go bonkers if they haven’t gotten laid in a week, meanwhile I’ve been single for 6 years and therefore haven’t been intimate for 6 years, but I am more than …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 04:58 PM
3	What I’ve been saying! Right??? Do you remember when last year the sapiosexual meme started going around? That one really got under my skin. Psychologists keep making up labels in order to be inclusive. Most of the reading I just did explains: “Demisexuals are considered part of the asexual community because for the most part, they don't feel sexual attraction” and are therefor part of the LGBTQ community. It’s hard for me to agree with that, but I truly don’t know enough about asexuality to make an informed decision.…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 04:39 PM
15	What I’ve been saying! Okay. Edit: I’m sorry, I just can’t let this sit. Your experience with “the average person” is different than mine. I never stated that my experience needs a label, though I did state that I had felt abnormal (which is shitty but true). I legit googled a word and identified with the meaning of it... I’m not sure how that translates into trying to “buy into queer culture”... That’s fucking nonsense. I specifically left out nearly every detail of my personal life, so these assumptions are ridiculo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 02:01 PM
25	What I’ve been saying! I totally understand that. Several articles refer to demisexuallity as a sexual orientation, however I personally don’t agree (or maybe I just know better). I do appreciate your comment though. It is absolutely important to highlight the fact that it is not a sexual orientation. however I will say that needing an emotional connection in order to feel sexual attraction isn’t always typical. It seems to me that the “average person” is able to have sexual desire for others much more easily than I h…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 01:17 PM
74	What I’ve been saying! Holy crap. I just had to google this term, but now I feel way less abnormal than I did a few minutes ago. I always thought there was something wrong with me... I didn’t understand why other people could instantly want to sleep with someone, while I have never had that experience. My mind is blown. Thank you so much.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 07:27 AM
9	Man realizing what the majority of women go through everyday My mother worked in a high demand pastry kitchen in her 30’s and said it was by far the most difficult job she had ever had. I can’t imagine physically being able to do that job for more than a few years, but then again I am very small, weak, and not physically fit. 🤷‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/20 10:33 PM
9	Listen up Buttercup why don't they all start behaving this way? Because they aren’t all good men. People in general are narcissistic. Women have more empathy and compassion so we are able to put others first. It just simply doesn’t occur to them. Generally (from my experience) the only time a man goes out of his way for a woman is when he personally gains something from it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/20 12:24 PM