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-SADGIRL-/r/MGTOW17/05/18 01:46 PM
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Oh! Good point!
/r/seduction24/05/18 02:44 PM
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Don’t look to the net for validation right now, it brings out the negativity in people ‘cause the world is strained. I think you look interesting in both photos. The one you got leaning sideways looks more cool but, your face is super red so you look stressed. All the photos are really grainy. Generally, I can tell you’re having a hard time with emotions. But that’s okay everyone got emotions they carry. But accept yours and find its beauty... it’ll help you shoulder its weight without getting t…
/r/seduction24/05/18 01:52 PM
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Why do you need my validation? It’s unflattering to yourself. Be self-satisfied in your body image. Do you like the picture? If so then it’s good. If not then. Idk. As I got healthier I looked better and liked it. As I faced my anxiety I felt more comfortable and liked it. As my look got more consistent I started to recognize myself in the mirror and feel existent. As all that happened I started to like my looks. I still have disapproval but it’s so much better. Idk what to say but I’m sapphic —…
/r/seduction24/05/18 01:23 PM
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Lol. Think wiser my friend - if you go in every time aiming for fucking, you’ll put a lot of girls off cause it’s creepy. You’ll get desperate and act poorly and put a lotta girls off cause of it. And you’ll go away frustrated and resentful and hurt and self-negative every time you fail because you set yourself up to be dependent on getting a lay to be satisfied. Plan deeper - if you want to learn how to seduce people, you gotta understand its whole picture - the seductive lover. Aim to become t…
/r/seduction24/05/18 01:10 PM
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😎 honest I discovered a lot about myself writing that out lol
/r/seduction24/05/18 12:55 PM
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You seem to think so.
/r/seduction24/05/18 12:55 PM
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Nah not ugly.
/r/seduction24/05/18 10:37 AM
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Okay 👌
/r/seduction24/05/18 10:37 AM
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No you look same/unflattering. Duh. Make that decision for yourself. Let others mold you and you become an empty shell.
/r/seduction24/05/18 09:02 AM
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... hm. So I was in a sexually unhealthy relationship. It sucked I suffered wah me. But what I realized? Because I was not attracted to her enough, it was intrinsically abuse of our relationship to let it become sexual at all. And unfortunately for me, fortunately for her, my abuse of our relationship led to her abuse of my body. So it goes. I cried over her and died inside but whatevs I’m here now. The point is, I wouldn’t chase for someone if they didn’t meet my expectations. It would’nt be he…
/r/seduction24/05/18 07:51 AM
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How to avoid looking desperate?stop being desperate ;)
/r/seduction24/05/18 07:45 AM
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Pickup is hookups. But generally pickup community has a lot of personal development, and people leave the pickup community to learn from other ways of life, and from there find themselves even more, and find partnership along the way. If you want to go for partnership now, pickup isn’t quite your cup of tea. But I’m here because I ain’t in touch with my sexuality and wanna learn the game lol. I’m following many communities and learning from all of them. So if you like what people teach here no n…
/r/seduction24/05/18 07:44 AM
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Has it been longer than a week? If it’s been more than a week and she ain’t jumping on arranging a date. She ain’t interested enough. Don’t matter how busy I am, if I want to see someone I’ll put time aside to see em. And someone who doesn’t live that rule, isn’t going to be available often enough. They just don’t value it or don’t recognize its value.
/r/seduction24/05/18 07:36 AM
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Good, take a break. Self improvement is self improvement, not puppet mastery. When you’re ready for more guidance the sub will still be here. But you ain’t learning if you’re not applying yourself solo to that learning process at all.
/r/seduction24/05/18 07:35 AM
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So stop trying to figure her game. You don’t need to solve her. You don’t need to understand her this week. Go with the flow and observe, be yourself, enjoy life around you, not just her. You want the lay but, the win is never the lay. The win is the experience however it is, and the win is learning and exploring the world around you.
/r/seduction24/05/18 07:27 AM
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I’m like half ace so I might misunderstand the question but here’s my experience with my being a validation whore You feel lonely without her and then that loneliness depresses you. you try to compete with other peers for her attention and resent them You try to text her and text her and you’re replying immediate while she takes ten to fifty minutes. Or worse, you only bother with girls who need you and text you constantly. she acts evasively and this only drives you to need her to like you so y…
/r/seduction24/05/18 05:50 AM
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Wait - are you sure? It sounds like you are living with something similar to learned helpless ness lol but rather, after so many betrayals you lose trust in it being worth doing. Which, fuck, those betrayals suck, and I'm really sorry. But if you like girls and think about them, well that's just plain attraction and that's it. But oh - but sure, you also just want validation too. But not just, cause you can't really turn off attraction, no matter how much it gets repressed. Honest me, I'm trying…
/r/seduction24/05/18 12:04 AM
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Careful. Internet and news are very good at painting as negative a picture as possible.
/r/MensRights22/05/18 10:03 PM
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Spooky
/r/MensRights22/05/18 10:01 PM
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Seriously! Most people who talked about it said they valued working with their partner. Haha, it's almost like it's a scary story that drives people to learn how to be a healthy cooperative relationship lol! A whisper-down-the-lane bard's tale.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/05/18 09:13 PM
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It’s entirely possibles that people learn backwards and fucked up ideas from those who raised them. It certainly happened to me. But to be so absolute about it is dangerous. You said everything try saying not everything. Throw everything out the window one at a time and make your own opinion from zero. Do challenge everything you learn if you so want but to blindly just say “the reverse is necessarily true” is going to fuck you up as bad as where you began from. It’s very difficult and confusing…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 07:29 PM
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I honestly don’t know sorry. Never made sense to me either.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/05/18 07:17 PM
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I understand how bathroom availability is frustrating but not how it’s about rights. Am I missing something? In college there were floors without men’s bathrooms and floors without women’s bathrooms. Granted they were in unisex dorm floors most (but not all) the time, but even so.... it was annoying but it was as it was. Lately states are starting to regulate that a handicap accessible stall is available in all bathrooms, and I think even some that a single person restroom is available. Like, fo…
/r/MensRights19/05/18 06:50 PM
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Really? But I’m not... why do you say? Sorry to ask... My currently limited google skills only returned abstract info. But I suspect you have something in mind?
/r/MGTOW18/05/18 11:16 AM
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👋
/r/MGTOW17/05/18 11:40 PM
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Omg lol 😂
/r/MensRights17/05/18 01:55 PM
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You’re fine. The date is what matters. Texting can strain relationships — if you can call or save it for in person, do so. Use texting for short exchanges and insert flirting there - what you did was fine and you’ll get a better sense as you go forward. Be authentic, yourself, and try not to obsess about saying “the right” things. Your honest personalities and interests and interest in her are what is the right thing 🙂
/r/seduction17/05/18 01:30 AM
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It’s a different type of rationality. It is true that emotions blind them. Women support each other by speaking words of the rationality you’re familiar with. If you speak that rationality and fail, you didn’t speak it from an earnest perspective or not from an empathy perspective. But that’s not blame or shame or nothing - it is true that men and women think differently on average. But the successful social men and women learn to accept and learn about what they don’t understand, while those wh…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 12:51 AM
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Omg emotions are so yummy 😋
/r/seduction16/05/18 10:39 PM
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So you see a pattern and run an experiment you expect to support the pattern and it supports the pattern? That’s not the scientific method my friend. That’s a bona fide self fulfilling prophecy a one-man show of an echo chamber :P I bet I made you angry. It should be obvious why. You think your “test” is so special? Then thank me for my advice 👍 Or at least downvote and hate at me and watch yourself fall for the same trap that whatever community you “tested” fell for.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 10:11 PM
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If it helps I don’t think you guys are wrong. We don’t see eye to eye, sure, and there’ll be times when I ask questions from that but, I go my own way and you go your own way and that’s solid trust if I ever seen it, absolute respect. But idk if that means much because politically/etc I identify as independent so I literally only represent me. But hopefully I’m no lone wolf in acknowledging that y’all deserve the life you live. Naysayers just be jealous 😉 I certainly get backlash myself I have w…
/r/MGTOW16/05/18 02:45 PM
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Maybe we’re all reading too much into it.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/05/18 10:10 AM
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God I wish more people understood this. Lol I struggle with it too, but I’m trying to understand it to the core of me: If someone doesn’t trust your theories, let them distrust em, let them go their own way. Speak up as you please but don’t harass people for being different people lmao! Don’t expect people to just blindly believe what you said, or blindly follow it, they’ll make of it what they will. If they retreat from your advice, so let them. Tho the thing I don’t know is, the timing of spea…
/r/MGTOW15/05/18 11:54 PM
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Gotta love how the girls’ first reactions are to turn away from the onslaught and cover their head. It’s as if they know they are powerless Yes that’s a sign of past abuse I believe... they have been struck enough times that before they’re conscious of the attack their body already is moving to reduce damage from it. For me I don’t remember the assaults I received, they happened all before I was ten, I suspect between bullies at school and my mother. But I have only two memories of actual events…
/r/PussyPassDenied15/05/18 11:38 PM
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Yes and no. It’s both. At least for me. That, I miss the person, and to me, interacting with the person is what I want. So, I wanna reach out to them - both to share with them that I miss them, but also to hear back from them, their attention. For me, I miss someone when I crave their attention. But it can definitely be toxic! For sure! - to myself and to my friend. I learned to only be like that with people who also enjoy it. But this is just me, I try to not speak for others.
/r/MGTOW15/05/18 03:00 PM
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Yes my thoughts too
/r/MGTOW15/05/18 01:27 PM
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Right! I knew she was bad just looking at her! Her cold eyes, her glee to mock her enemies. “Just think of the children” coming from her was the creepiest shit.
/r/MGTOW15/05/18 01:24 PM
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It comes from suffering - bitterness- perhaps anger or fear, and from resentment It comes from distrust and disrespect - a need to control others as if they’re puppets. These are stressful and self-destructive for a person to make into their habit. And it also pushes the community away, leaving only others who distrust and fight for control as your social circle. Even if it doesn’t push a certain person away, it can easily stress them until they too become so negative towards the manipulator. Bu…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 11:33 AM
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Didn’t you answer your own question? If a person chases someone they can’t have but only see with other people... it’s basically a pg13 version of watching a SO screw someone else.
/r/MGTOW14/05/18 02:00 AM
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Weird, sorry. Autocorrect seemed to have really screwed up what I was saying, and I’m not sure how to edit it now. I apologize for my hasty posting. I think the overall post was: “Oh, I understand now! Oh, living life for the sake of living it — that’s what it’s about. It’s about being happy/satisfied/wholesome with one’s lifestyle.”
/r/MGTOW13/05/18 08:13 PM
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I’m not trying to show any one up. I’m coming from a past of being manipulative without realizing it, and trying to improve. That’s why I said anything at all - I noticed some red flags in his languages that I myself am seeing in my own thoughts, and personally trying to change in myself.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 08:03 PM
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Omg grimes! Omg! Omg grimes! Omg I love grimes!
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 11:42 AM
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I totally have a crush on Elon oops. But moreover I want him to be happy. I know he’d be better with a straight chick than a lesbian who’s just biromantic. Not that I’d be on his radar in the first place lol I’m just nobody But I would just cuddle him all night and listen to his sorrows. I’d kiss his cheek when there’s a long silent moment, to say something so it’s not so lonely. Agh I probably shouldn’t post this lol, embarrassing. I say it cause I’m healing from chronic depression. Never knew …
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 11:35 AM
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Why not both? :D let your bitter become drive to be better!
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 11:23 AM
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In my experience, desire to feel like shit comes from wounds, not from authentic self.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 11:22 AM
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You sound super manipulative.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 11:12 AM
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I compare myself to others to. I don’t really know what to say about that specifically. Because, we can learn so much from other people. I guess, we want to avoid judging ourselves against others? But, what makes that different from comparing ourselves to them without the judgement? How is the judgement not intrinsic? I don’t get it really..., I definitely judge myself. I want to figure out how to forgive myself, let go...
/r/seduction13/05/18 02:31 AM
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If the water boils and you remove it from the heat it boils agin when you return the heat. If the water doesn’t boil and you remove it from the heat it still won’t boil when you return it. Of course people who have a hard time finding or keeping a relationship will tend to keep having a hard time. But, eventually they’ll figure it out, or get a good match, or etc. Generally, improve your self, love yourself, find your happiness independent of others. As you move in that direction, you’ll find pe…
/r/seduction13/05/18 01:06 AM
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Online brings out peoples anger and insecurities. Desperation breeds bold posts. But, people being cool humans worth knowing - historically would not be as popular as ridiculous things. Lately tho Reddit tends to have humor be the more popular. You tube tends to have personality be the selling point. So, it’s improving
/r/MGTOW13/05/18 12:51 AM
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Wait did you just say that your sex/romantic life is fulfilled with your aunt grandmother and mother? Okay but what do you need a partner for,,, oh, nothing. No need. If someone wants a partner cool. Someone doesn’t, cool.
/r/MGTOW13/05/18 12:28 AM
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Or in the shower or changing or sleeping or wanting to show off without fucking or wanting skin to skin cuddling without fucking ... or other things I’m sure... Honestly I don’t get this at all. Women say they aren’t begging to be raped. How is that a toxic message? How is the picture ridiculous? Why are we all focusing on the nude one? The message IS simple as has been mentioned. Women do not ask for sex based on their style.
/r/MGTOW13/05/18 12:19 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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