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| 0 | Normalize keeping your hormones to yourself and your partner, nobody cares how lusty you are. | -Siptah | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/08/21 03:01 PM |
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| 1 | The debate about age gaps in relationships reveals the double standard of blue pillers.Is it because that age gap specifically is one that can mirror a parent and child? 43 v 25 is 18 years so I can understand why you’d find it creepy. I agree as well. Along with your points with a 25 year old basically starting full fledged adulthood. I think maybe a 32 and 50 year old have a better pairing in comparison. Or a 42 year old and a 60 year old if the age gap was to be 18 years specifically. Because at that point the younger person is technically a full fledged adult. Counterpoint, ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 05:20 PM |
| – | I don’t want to give him “that satisfaction” is one of the most overlooked power dynamics in dating.Many women claim to not like the patriarchy as a whole. But the parts that benefit them they aren’t going to give up. Logically it makes sense because why would you give up the best card you have? Especially considering the fact that women were under man for a millennia? It’s funny though, because women making the first move would benefit them greatly IMO. They’d have a higher chance of meeting someone genuine because if they made the first move it’s less likely to be purely about the man’s lust… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 02:24 PM |
| – | The mockery of "unselected" men is a proxy victory. Women celebrate their loneliness because they are powerless against the elite men who actually exploit them. The target at low hanging fruit to make themselves feel better.Careful now. You can’t go against the narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:57 AM |
| 0 | Men Love Objectification, When it Benefits ThemSo, it’s not possible for a man to like fancy Cars if women aren’t involved? Explain car meets then. Or basically any male dominated hobby where women aren’t typically around. I can see your point and I agree to a certain extent , but it falls apart when women aren’t around and said guys are still showing off. The reality is guys flaunt things in general to show everyone- men and women alike that they got it like that. Personal enjoyment fills the rest. It’s not in absolutes. Meaning it’s not so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 12:24 AM |
| 0 | Most men here don't just have dating problem, they're severely under-socialized in general.THIS!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 10:20 PM |
| – | Men who claim that women are the most attractive from 18 to 25, what stops you from finding 17 year old girls attractive?Legally the lowest border is what the age of consent is- but morally it’s whatever you feel is too young- which often is older than that, at least for me. Attraction alone isn’t a good enough measure to consider age. Sure you can weed out if they’re in college or in a club but fake Id’s exist, and early high school graduates exist as well. Out in the wild there’s no way to tell other than her telling you. But even then younger women will can still lie. As I get older the youngest age I’m willing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 12:05 PM |
| 2 | To be an exception, you have to actually be exceptional.The reality is majority of people aren’t special. Finding someone you’re compatible with is the key difference. Men and Women alike. None of us deserve companionship just because we feel we deserve it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 11:04 AM |
| 3 | How do you expect women to prioritize relationships when guys in their age range aren’t thinking about stability?How do you expect men to prioritize relationships when women in their age range are only looking for beta providers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 04:00 PM |
| 1 | A friend of mine had a monitoring device on his girlfriends phone for almost 3 months.Don’t kid yourselves, if she ever finds out about his monitoring device she will be gone. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/20 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Would men rather be wanted or needed?Wanted. Needing someone reeks of codependency. The only people that should ever need you in life are your children. I don’t even know how I’d even handle a woman “ needing me”. Even a woman “wanting me” these days seems far fetched because it’s usually short lived. Plus the fact of the matter is “ to need” something or someone means you literally can’t survive without them. Two grown adults “ needing” each other is a recipe for disaster IMO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Has your sex and romantic life improved as you've gotten older?Sure is. The problem though for me although not unique is that I truly believe the juice isn’t worth the squeeze. And it has left me truly lost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/20 02:28 AM |
| 7 | Has your sex and romantic life improved as you've gotten older?I’m 23M, and it hasn’t improved. Not even close. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Women are not divorcing good and hard-working husbandsSo because you’ve never seen it that means it doesn’t happen? r/okGod | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/20 05:21 PM |
| 2 | CycleMarriage is a piece of paper. And it could be the reason why you date, but ultimately it’s the relationship in itself that matters to me. Marriage puts it into law legally binding you to a woman and vise Versa. There’s too many liabilities at play if the marriage were to fail. In other words there’s too much to lose. In an ideal world I would get married. Unfortunately marriage in itself is a business, and divorce is another business. It’s just money spent for the same exact bond. Nothing change… | /r/MGTOW2 | 24/10/20 04:29 PM |
| 3 | CycleAlthough I never really intended to get married, I realized simply dating women has had the same effect on me. Marriage would be a death sentence. | /r/MGTOW2 | 24/10/20 03:18 PM |
| 8 | Why would a woman lie about their n-count to her partner if "insecure", "misogynistic" men are the only ones who, in her view, would care about a high n count in the first place?Because they’re insecure themselves. They know the consequences that come with having high n counts. They lie to avoid it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/20 04:34 AM |
| 8 | The pedestalization of virgins, low n count women, and young women contradicts AWALTIf she’s a virgin,young, or her n count is low chances of infidelity are perceived to be lower, it doesn’t eliminate it all together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/20 11:38 PM |
| 0 | I don't care anymore about other men disrespecting me.Disrespect turns into violation if you aren’t checking them. That’s the difference, and that’s why we shouldn’t allow it. | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/10/20 04:33 PM |
| 1 | I don't care anymore about other men disrespecting me.Disrespect is not thing. Violation is another. My mistake was allowing people to violate me, never again. | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/10/20 02:24 PM |
| 2 | stop being fatI WALKED TO THE KITCHEN THIS MORNING HOW GODDAMN DARE YOU | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 05:33 PM |
| 11 | Would you rather not have children?Hell no. | /r/MGTOW2 | 15/10/20 03:27 PM |
| 7 | How Was She Supposed To Date You In Her Youth If She Didn't Know You Yet?It’s not that there isn’t a grey area, it’s that the grey area is rare to come by. People are predictable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 02:46 PM |
| 6 | Am I the only person who is seriously concerned about how onlyfans will affect society?Personally I don’t give a shit. Let it crash and burn. | /r/MGTOW2 | 06/09/20 11:56 PM |
| 6 | Date bills should always be split equallyWho gives a shit, do what the fuck you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 02:34 PM |
| 1 | My gf hit meIf the genders were flipped this wouldn’t be a debate, it would be over. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/20 03:17 AM |
| 0 | Do RP men want marriage/LTRs or ONS? Pick one, fellas!It doesn’t matter what most RP men want, because in reality we can’t get what we want from most women. The ideal women is essentially a unicorn. The idea of spinning plates is always having options and living in abundance and never fully committing yourself to her because she’ll always have options as well, even if she doesn’t realize it. What does N count have to do with it? The pattern of women with higher n counts being more unstable down the line. But having a high or low n count doesn’t gua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Living a bluepilled life of ignorance is better than living with the harsh reality of RedPill truthsAll I know is, I rather live the uncomfortable truth than to live in a comfortable lie. Remaining ignorant is exactly how you’ll be taken advantage of. People, women especially can’t take advantage of you if you’re fully aware of where you stand and you hold yourself accountable for your shit. They’ll continue to try to play you, but it won’t work. I rather be miserable knowing the truth because for me, the truth is more comfortable in the long run. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/20 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a man/woman who has cheated in a past relationship? Would their past sexual history change how you feel about it?Hell no, no exceptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/20 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How much do you care about Chemistry?If the chemistry is shit then the only thing shes good for sex, nothing more. I also believe it’s extremely rare to have genuinely good chemistry with women in the long run. Most relationships inevitably go south. That’s the way of life because nothing lasts forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/20 02:29 PM |
| 3 | What's your opinion on condon use?I don’t want kids, and I certainly don’t wants kids now. So I wrap it up. It’s that simple. Why take the gamble? Nevermind STD’s because that’s a given, and in regards to children why would I take the risk of bringing a child into this world when I have no intention of being a parent? That’s stupidly at its finest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/20 02:22 PM |
| 4 | Q4M Would you be bothered if you found out that your SO was not that physically attracted to you, but just like you for your personality?This happened with my ex and I fell for it. So yeah I’d dump her immediately. Nothing good will ever come with someone being with you that isn’t physically attracted to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/20 02:18 PM |
| 0 | How Many Of You Would Ban Casual Sex if You Could?Banning casual sex? Is this China? Men are against being deceived, not casual sex. A small of women have shown that they are incapable of holding themselves accountable for their actions and above all telling the truth. Why do you think they’re against men asking for DNA tests when it comes to their pregnancy? The same reason why the mf may never find out otherwise. They live in a perfect world where they believe they are incapable of doing any wrong, and any man that questions their logic is an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/20 02:33 PM |
| 2 | How Many Of You Would Ban Casual Sex if You Could?Ah yes, when you don’t agree with someone they’re automatically in incel, love it. Here’s 20 points for you sir. The ladies are swimming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/20 02:25 PM |
| 1 | I don't feel like it - life, girls and everythingAnd some people already tried the methods that are suggested to them. It’s the same song and dance. You never thought maybe he tried all of that already? If you have a problem and everyone tells you the same exact thing and you’re well aware it’s not working you’re not going to be all positive about it either. The mistake everyone in this thread is making js trying to solve his issues. None of you are going to solve anything, only he can. If people would stop treating men that open up as helples… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 08:05 PM |
| 2 | I don't feel like it - life, girls and everythingAfter reading some of the comments here it’s no wonder why some men feel they have no outlet to vent their frustrations. While I agree this sub isn’t the place to do it the comments shitting on OP are doing absolutely nothing to help either. I get some guys need to feel like alphas by shitting on others to feel better about themselves. Women aren’t here, there’s no one here to impress so cut the bullshit. That shit is not red pilled behavior. To OP. Continue to vent your feelings. Don’t let any … | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 04:43 PM |
| 1 | I don't feel like it - life, girls and everythingSo, why comment? | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 04:31 PM |
| 1 | I don't feel like it - life, girls and everythingResponses like these certainly don’t help either. Misery loves company. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 04:30 PM |
| 1 | I don't feel like it - life, girls and everythingI do all of the above ( minus the gym because I work out at home) when I personally feel like it. It helps when you do these things on your own accords. Doing these things for the sake of doing them in itself is mindless and unfulfilling. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 04:29 PM |
| 18 | Why are girls so bad at replying? Is it me?Women pick and choose who’s deserving of getting fasts responses. They initiate and respond quick to chads. They make betas and guys who aren’t worthy wait. With this in mind once I get the sense I’m playing cat and mouse, I jump ship. There’s no point in chasing them. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 04:15 PM |
| 2 | What was your harshest experience of "She's not yours,it's just your turn"?I added her on fake accounts via Snapchat. Then on Instagram she posted his page in her bio so that was when I found out who he was. I didn’t know him. He didn’t know me so I figured what better way to get payback then to put doubt in his head. It went along the lines of me expressing to him that it was simply his turn instead. That he doesn’t know her etc. I ended up fabricating a fake conversation between me and her as an attempt to get him to break up with her. Which resulted in the restraini… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 10:26 AM |
| 2 | 100 approaches and still nothingI love it. Because he didn’t score successfully he’s automatically the problem. So now he has to change something about himself to appease everyone else. Brilliant. | /r/seduction | 19/07/20 03:14 PM |
| -2 | What was your harshest experience of "She's not yours,it's just your turn"?My most recent ex, she always snooped through my messages, she knew everything about everyone I ever talked to in and out of my life. Meanwhile I let her convince me the only person she had was her mother. She also routinely “played on my phone” snooped through my messages, would question me about certain people particularly any woman I’ve ever talked to and I’d tell her what was up every single time . When tables flipped I knew very little besides her relationship with her mother/family. When i… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/20 12:20 PM |
| 1 | If a woman is subjectively physically unattractive to you (i.e. a 3/10 or lower), are there any redeeming qualities that she can have that would make up for her looks and what are they?Personally speaking, no. This is mainly due to the fact that I’ve been in an LTR someone who wasn’t immediately attracted to me but became attracted to me over time as well. She told me this on more than one occasion and her actions matched. If she was attracted to me from the jump I wouldn’t have had to put in as much effort to sustain the relationship as I did. People who aren’t immediately attractive have to put in twice the effort to get the same results as an immediately attractive person. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/20 04:16 PM |
| 1 | If a woman is subjectively physically unattractive to you (i.e. a 3/10 or lower), are there any redeeming qualities that she can have that would make up for her looks and what are they?Is she a 3/10 to me personally? Or a 3/10 to everyone around her? That certainly plays a factor. Realistically speaking I don’t think I can get into a serious relationship with anyone I don’t find attractive. The same goes for the opposite. I don’t want anyone to date me that isn’t attracted to me from the jump either. If it’s a casual hookup or even a basic friendship then I’m open to it. If she’s pleasant to be around then that alone is enough for me. It won’t be enough for long term commitmen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/20 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Does the language you use to describe women dehumanise them?No, I prefer to them as they are, women.Also many RP’s myself included are convinced that majority of women have an ulterior motive, she’s not yours it’s just your turn. That she’ll use her looks to get what she wants out of you. That she’s incapable of ever truly caring about you. The 2 main ways to deal with this is by playing the game by manipulating them back. Or deciding that you have enough self worth by going your own way instead. As for the subject of calling women by different names, I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/20 02:43 PM |
| 4 | How do you guys fight emotional investment?By not getting emotionally invested in the first place. Recognizing that a woman will never truly be capable of loving you unconditionally, the way your mother does. Their love goes as far as long as you’re providing them with something. Rather it’s attention, money, your lifestyle the list goes on. It can be any reason in her head, but it will never be you for who you truly are. It’s simply your turn. So enjoy it while it lasts. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 02:20 PM |
| 1 | If men magically turned into women for a day, they'd do the same thing as us and deny casual sexYou never stated it’s your opinion. You stated it’s insecurity and left it at that as if you were speaking facts. You also gave nothing to back up your claim. You stated people that do that don’t want their partners to experience anything. Meanwhile I never stated that. Because if that’s what was implied I would have stated “that’s why I prefer woman with 0 n counts” because they’ve been with no one. Since you misunderstood I’m glad we’ve cleared it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 02:55 PM |
| 1 | If men magically turned into women for a day, they'd do the same thing as us and deny casual sexWhat’s ironic? Like I said I only stated my opinion of the matter. Nothing of what I’ve said is remote fact, It’s assumptions. I said you’re projecting because you seem to be assuming people that do that are insecure as if that’s a fact. When in reality that’s your opinion as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 02:48 PM |
| 1 | If men magically turned into women for a day, they'd do the same thing as us and deny casual sexYou’re projecting. Some people don’t want to deal with the potential hassle of being with someone with unrealistic expectations. High n counts just so happen to be asssociated with unrealistic expectations because they’ve had more partners . Regardless Everyone is allowed to be with/ date whomever they want to date. The same way some men/ women don’t want someone that’s been with a lot of partner. The opposite effect is someone not wanting to be with someone with no experience at all. Perfect ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 02:42 PM |
| 2 | If men magically turned into women for a day, they'd do the same thing as us and deny casual sexThis is why it’s better to have our own standards to what defines as a high n count. There is no set number to classify something as “high”. But the way I see it, and this is only my opinion. If your partners n count doubles yours, that’s high. Either if you have 2 and they have 4, you have 10 they have 20. You have 1 they have 2. Or if you have 0 and they have 1 at all. Typically it’s assumed people with higher n counts aren’t going to be the best off partners because you’ll have more to measur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Pregnant women are more likely to die from murder by partner than anything else.It really is sad really. Women are easy targets because like children they can’t physically defend themselves, along with the mindset of them being our property, which in turn puts very little value to their lives. The main difference with today is harming women and children comes with harsh consequences. Despite this it’s still done which is why I believe these same men don’t value themselves to begin with. This is all the result of a man not being able to deal with his emotions and struggles p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/20 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Pregnant women are more likely to die from murder by partner than anything else.No, I don’t think we value our lives either. We either exist with a purpose we ourselves can justify or we waste and swallow away. There’s no in between. And killing is killing no matter what, the only difference is if it can be justified. Killing women and children especially can almost never be. And this goes hand to hand to who we view as innocent such as women and children. They’re protected, while we’re the protectors. Or atleast were supposed to be. When a man commits a violent act against… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/20 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Pregnant women are more likely to die from murder by partner than anything else.You say men are bad but if it weren’t for all of the violence we wouldn’t have the civilization we have today. It’s a necessary evil in that regard. Also viewing one gender worst than the other isn’t doing anyone a favor. I can sit here and complain about women all day but what is that accomplishing? Not a damn thing. There’s a reason why men have a significantly higher suicide rate as well. If men don’t value their own life, they won’t value anyone’s regardless of the circumstances. That is the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/20 03:00 PM |
| 3 | Pregnant women are more likely to die from murder by partner than anything else.Except it does. How would men value women if men don’t value themselves in the first place? Look all throughout history, when you have on gender fighting in wars/ committing violent acts all throughout history in little regard of even their own life, of course it will carry over to modern day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/20 02:55 PM |
| 6 | Pregnant women are more likely to die from murder by partner than anything else.Men also kill more men and themselves In direct comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/20 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Pregnant women are more likely to die from murder by partner than anything else.Personally I don’t think we value any life, not even our own when it comes down to it. We only value those we perceive as innocent and pure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/20 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever get approached sexually?Only with my most recent ex while in a LTR with her. There were some occasions where I genuinely wasn’t in the mood so I turned her down a handful of times. She didn’t like that of course. That’s the only time I can recall being approached sexually. I’m not counting sexting or anything that’s not in person either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/20 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Do you think this is good reason to hard next Fiancee?Next that bitch. Anyone who shows you they don’t give a fuck about you doesn’t give a fuck about you. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Women prefer men that know nothing about women for relationshipsYou made valid points until the last paragraph. So you’re assuming that a man can only be kind, or the best version of himself only if he was raised by mostly woman? He couldn’t possibly take after his father? Or better yet learn to be kind on his own? Are you assuming men are naturally mean? Or that we don’t have the capacity to be nice on our own? Why is it up to the women in our lives and not our own judgment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/20 02:09 PM |
| 8 | What’s the most beta shit you’ve ever done/said to a girl?My relationship with my most recent ex, When I was 18/19. Not sure what lead to the conversation but it was about what we would do if we were to ever cheat. If I cheated she’d leave, no compromise, but if she cheated I’d make an exception depending on the circumstances. I don’t think you can get any more BETA than that. That is the sole definition of putting a woman on a pedestal. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 09:58 PM |
| 4 | Girl texted me months after out of the blue, did I handle this correctly?I’ve had something similar happen. She said “ wow I didn’t know we used to talk” then I said “ I don’t remember”. She probably took offense that I had forgotten. Because how could anyone forget such an amazing woman? People that are self absorbed only seek validation. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 11:08 AM |
| 2 | The recent chain of posts reinforces how apathetic women are to men's emotions.Oh. And I’d say it’s pretty accurate. It also depends on the severity as well. Take depression for example . Someone who experiences seasonal depression won’t be as mentally draining as dealing with someone who is cynically depressed because it’s ongoing. This may be a bad example but my point is the severity of ones mental health condition means they’ll have to work harder to maintain a healthy relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/20 06:14 PM |
| 3 | The recent chain of posts reinforces how apathetic women are to men's emotions.You can also route all of this down to being accountable for your own actions. The unfortunate thing is, it’s nearly impossible to be accountable for yourself, and to call out others of their own faults at the same time. Humans are hard wired to blame someone, something and for some obscure reason everyone can’t be equally at fault. There always has to be a bigger fish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/20 05:25 PM |
| 0 | The recent chain of posts reinforces how apathetic women are to men's emotions.Which is a shame because the vast majority of mental health disorders are a direct result from these three. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/20 05:20 PM |
| 8 | The recent chain of posts reinforces how apathetic women are to men's emotions.If it breaks the connection, it’s her loss. Not yours. I’m still convincing myself the same thing. There’s a difference between being a sensitive man, and a man who can’t control his emotions. A lot of women confuse the two. And a lot of men think it’s ok to lash out when they don’t get what they want, which is something people do when they can’t control their emotions. Granted everyone’s guilty of lashing out at someone one way or another, the key difference here is someone who is accountable f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/20 05:06 PM |
| 0 | I realized that most of the goals I made to improve myself were just there to impress those around me.The thing is, you can still help others despite them not seeing you in a positive light. You don’t need to be praised to be a better person. Do the right thing because it’s the right thing to do. That in itself should be its own reward. If people don’t appreciate your efforts forget about them. Keep it pushing because you know your purpose. And no one can tell you otherwise. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 11:19 AM |
| 6 | For men who are upset they can't express their dark emotions with women, why don't you channel those emotions into art instead?Women express that they care all the time but their behavior doesn’t match following that statement. At least if you’re honest with not giving a shit, there’s no room to doubt you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/20 06:28 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck am i supposed to do about my ass hair.It only hurts because you aren’t moisturizing after. I suppose everyone’s skin is different but that’s usually why I get pains whenever I shave anywhere on my body. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Do men of all ages prefer women from age 20-24?Being that I’m 22, 20-25 seems to be my age range. I’ve always went for women around my age though. But being that I have a younger sister (currently 20) dating women younger than her seemed awkward. Older women 25 and up typically show less interest being that at that point they want a man with an established career, and that’s not me being that I’m still in college with no clear direction. So naturally, going older isn’t feasible in my case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/20 03:28 PM |
| 6 | Has anyone else noticed porn subreddits are full of pathetic incels?Also my problem currently. The real key, like everything else in life is moderation. Yesterday I thought I could tune it all off completely but relapsed. Then I figured it’s more realistic for me to control it instead. So I made a 2nd account exclusively for that. Also did the same thing in regards to Instagram. There’s a time and place for everything. Just like Alcohol, or any other drug. Rather than cutting out completely, you can control how much you decide to indulge in it. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Had my first date in 3 months. Accidentally blew my load in a minute - Can this be salvaged?You should have tried going a second round, it would have surprised her. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 04:35 PM |
| 1 | “Men learn from their mistakes. Wise men learn from the mistakes of others.” Please share one of your mistakes the rest of us can learn fromYup | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 12:43 AM |
| 3 | “Men learn from their mistakes. Wise men learn from the mistakes of others.” Please share one of your mistakes the rest of us can learn fromNah, that bridge is dead. She was the one who ended up ghosting me at the end of the day. If I decide to initiate anything further with her at this point then I have learned nothing . It’s funny too though because my original plan when we first broke up was to go our separate ways, but I foolishly decided to stay friends and “work through it “ since I convinced myself going our separate ways was selfish . I won’t do that again for nobody. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 12:26 AM |
| -4 | “Men learn from their mistakes. Wise men learn from the mistakes of others.” Please share one of your mistakes the rest of us can learn fromI’m in the same boat, except she ended up filing an order of protection against me because I ended up harassing her new boyfriend as well . Lucky for me it ended up getting lowered to no contact for a year, it ended on April 29th. I haven’t made any contact since and I have no intentions of doing so now or ever. I also don’t plan on dating again anytime soon until I get my shit together between school/ work. Til then I’m not going to bother. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 08:06 PM |
| 1 | I'm a woman with a very high body count and I'm struggling with the potential consequences of my actionsYou can’t. Anymore questions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/20 01:19 PM |
| 1 | What would betas and omegas do without porn.Die | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/20 01:18 PM |
| 2 | What are some ideas that both sides can agree on?Deciding to focus on self improvement rather than waste time in meaningless relationships when you aren’t getting anywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 04:37 PM |
| 5 | What red flags have you ignored that came to bite you in the ass?She tried breaking up with me many times and I’d convince her to stay every single time . When we finally broke up, I let her convince me I should stick around and remain friends with the hope of one day getting back together. That was a lie of course. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/20 06:08 PM |
| 4 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanTrue RP men know that looks can be deceiving. It’s about her actions at the end of the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 04:12 PM |
| 4 | Do all women eventually settle?Not all, but some would rather die alone than to settle. I can respect that though. People settle due to desperation. And a desperate person is incapable of being a loyal one. People who settle do so because they are incapable of being alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Men are hypergamous, too.The thing is Hypergamy isn’t based on looks alone. Women go for men who are ‘better’ than them in every category once they feel like they deserve ( are entitled) to better. The typical example being going for men who make more than them. You make less than her? Good luck. Of course attraction & character traits play a role too. The key difference is men go for attraction not giving a damn how much or how little she makes In the end. With women on the other hand you need to satisfy her checklist,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/20 11:48 AM |
| 14 | Are men just not that attractive?It’s funny you say this considering the fact women have makeup to make themselves more attractive than they really are, but continue. Maybe it’s not that men are unattractive, maybe you’re too used to artificial attractiveness. But to each their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/20 01:04 PM |
| 5 | Why is transactional relationship is frowned upon?I’m a firm believer that you’ll only attract the ‘real’ when you’re broke, but even then they’ll eventually want more anyways. At least when you’re broke you know she’s not with you just so you can pamper her. Naturally it’s much easier for men to find a ‘partner’ when we’re financially situated, women are always going to pick the best man on paper. But the only way true companionship will work is if she’s sexually attracted to you to begin with, also assuming she’s no longer weighting in differ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/20 10:55 AM |
| 5 | All the RP anger about “being lied to” is a red herringYou also failed to realize that withholding/ not knowing the truth is the same as lying. It’s either it’s the truth or it isn’t. She’s either straight and upfront or she isn’t. She either knows exactly what she wants, or her wants and desires are fluid and ever changing which often come up as mixed signals. It’s the mind game charade RP’s and BP’s are tired of. The never ending ‘reading between the lines’ trying to figure out what ‘she’ wants because she can’t communicate that in the first place… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 01:56 PM |
| 3 | All the RP anger about “being lied to” is a red herringI just find it funny how you’ve managed to make up examples out of hearsay. Your entire premise is based off a what-if scenario because women don’t typically come out an explicitly say what they want. It rarely happens. Yet you can somehow predict how RP’s and BP’s will react? When it’s honesty they all want in the first place? That’s hysterical. I can make the same argument and say “ if men came out today and said they wanted a woman with a massive rack, is in shape& short” and ‘predict’ that w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 01:33 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop my retarded HB 9.5 GF from getting a boobjob???You don’t, you get rid of her. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 05:08 AM |
| 1 | My brother, uncle and dad are betas because of personality!This is exactly why it feels like we aren’t going anywhere. People refuse to listen to you until you ‘have your shit together’ so you don’t even ask for help in the first place. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 08:51 PM |
| 42 | A male coworker of mine just asked my girlfriend (friends) to go to a concert with him and didnt say anything to me. How can I handle this?From where I’m standing every action he does that revolves around her is hitting on her, that’s what Betas live for. If you have to question it then he is. Now it’s either she’s enabling him to do it or you’re enabling her by not putting your foot down. A guy can hit on your girl all he wants but if she’s not the one putting him in line he will continue to do it. I’m willing to bet she craves the extra attention. Otherwise why would it have gotten to this point? You two are exclusive? So why is … | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 06:41 PM |
| 55 | A male coworker of mine just asked my girlfriend (friends) to go to a concert with him and didnt say anything to me. How can I handle this?You’re enabling her by telling her things like that. It shows that you tolerate disrespect and you’re ok with being a doormat. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 06:22 PM |
| 1 | A male coworker of mine just asked my girlfriend (friends) to go to a concert with him and didnt say anything to me. How can I handle this?It honestly sounds like they’re both playing games. All 3 of you work together so there should be no reason why you’re out of the loop on this. You’re better off confronting them both directly about it at the same time. If you do it individually of course they’ll just tell you what you want to hear. If she’s the one that told you about him asking her and she didn’t verbalize her decision or even what she intends to do then this sounds like a disaster waiting to happen. Your girlfriend should hav… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 06:16 PM |
| 5 | A male coworker of mine just asked my girlfriend (friends) to go to a concert with him and didnt say anything to me. How can I handle this?I’m going to assume he asked her without your presence, is that correct? I’m also going to assume he knows you’re the boyfriend, he knows of your existence etc. With those two things in mind it’s pretty clear he doesn’t respect you. Even if he just so happen to get two tickets he could have asked literally anyone else, like a girl who isn’t in a relationship, which brings up my next question. What is your girlfriend going to do? | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 06:02 PM |
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