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| 12 | WhyI have no issue with FDS. | -StayFrostypeople | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 12:25 AM | |
| 8 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea? | -StayFrostypeople | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 07:15 PM |
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| 17 | Q4W: "If he doesn't want me, I don't want him." Just why?Every guy should acknowledge how difficult it is to live with/ be married to a guy. Women are the way they are, I don’t want to date dudes so I don’t want women to be like men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Bald/balding single men: how did going bald change your sex / dating life?Number 1? I’d struggle to believe the number 1 reason for incels is hypergamy I don’t even think many of them get the chance to worry about what that is. Hypergamy is solely related to women anyway. You cannot say hypergamy is the number 1 reason, you’re passing the blame over to women. This is the fucking problem, guys are struggling, looking for help, and you say the burden of this problem is woman related, their behaviour??? I fucking despair for this world, true incense don’t blame hypergamy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 11:44 PM |
| 0 | Bald/balding single men: how did going bald change your sex / dating life?Is assortive mating not focusing on reproducing within your own race etc more than is considered ‘normal’? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Bald/balding single men: how did going bald change your sex / dating life?I think the brain can adapt massively to change while in the key stages of adolescence. I would be interested to hear experiences from autisic people that bloomed massively superficially ( looks), and see if this had a positive effect. I have never seen a person with model tier looks be diagnosed as autistic. I am sure there will be outliers. Prob sound like a dick here but.... I have never heard of a very very attractive person being autistic. I don’t think anyone could name me one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Bald/balding single men: how did going bald change your sex / dating life?What I’m saying though, if this person was very attractive, would they be incapable of human interactions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Bald/balding single men: how did going bald change your sex / dating life?Autism is frequently cited as an issue with the 15-25 age group now massively. Is is that is it more diagnosed? Older parents procreating than previous generations? I have no data or anything to back this up but I believe a lot of autism as a reason is self-diagnosed. I think people believe they must be autistic because they’ve been starved of positive interaction to a point that they believe they are the problem, not the society around them. It’s sad to see a lot of young great minds wasted ove… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Bald/balding single men: how did going bald change your sex / dating life?Bitterness about what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Bald/balding single men: how did going bald change your sex / dating life?I thought you were same poster.my error, apologies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 09:25 PM |
| 3 | Bald/balding single men: how did going bald change your sex / dating life?“Looks aren’t condemning anyone to inceldom” “Combined with below average looks” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Bald/balding single men: how did going bald change your sex / dating life?What do you think is the #1 major factor for people becoming incels? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Bald/balding single men: how did going bald change your sex / dating life?It’s hard for women to be honest on their preference for men with hair. You’re going to get blasted either way. Say you don’t care? -Liar. Say you do care? -superficial. You’re never going to win. Someone is always insulted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Bald/balding single men: how did going bald change your sex / dating life?Good decision. Even if it’s just for the mental relaxation of knowing you are doing something about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Bald/balding single men: how did going bald change your sex / dating life?Look up ‘Steve Jones, E4 presenter’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 08:22 PM |
| 17 | Bald/balding single men: how did going bald change your sex / dating life?Losing hair can be coped with, and accepted, it is NEVER going to be a look that would be first choice for anyone. Hair gives a frame for the face. If you see a picture in an art gallery without a frame, it seems off. Not bad, or uninteresting, the picture itself could be of outstanding quality, but our brains are always looking for that frame, the features of the person are lost. The best example I can point to is cancer patients. One of the main worries, male or female, is losing their hair. Y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 08:04 PM |
| 7 | WhyI have no issue with FDS.Well my claim is that there isn’t any to provide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 03:07 AM |
| 8 | WhyI have no issue with FDS.My best friend growing up( who is still my best friend now) had 2 sisters and they were both cool as fuck. They were smart, driven, and just cool to be around. My mate was their older brother and they used to talk about how much they loved him and they were proud of him and they would always trust him. Just a really cool, honest moment. Always been a little jealous since then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 02:50 AM |
| 6 | WhyI have no issue with FDS.Do you fall for propeganda? Honestly? Or do you base your decisions on verified science, your own life experience and logic? I am saying that both sexes do this. Not one is better than the other. But things like FDS are making a lot of women think better of themselves. You only need one good, objective post to turn your life around. RP has these posts So does FDS. Why the hate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 02:41 AM |
| 7 | WhyI have no issue with FDS.Lol, point me to one post where they are calling for 1.Violence against men 2.taking rights away from men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 02:31 AM |
| 13 | WhyI have no issue with FDS.This is exactly what I’m after. I’ve no problem with people disagreeing with my OP but I thought I’d be hit with lots of evidence as to why I’m wrong. Not much so far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 02:26 AM |
| 8 | WhyI have no issue with FDS.I just don’t think it’s a sub that is going to distort your entire personality. Anyone who’s smart will be able to figure out where the little bits of gold are, they are in there. Women don’t fall for hateful propaganda, I wish we’d just trust them to go through the sub and sort out the facts from the rest of the garbage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 02:18 AM |
| 4 | WhyI have no issue with FDS.Probably safe though, wouldn’t stand for any physical or mental intimidation. I know guys divorced three times, I don’t judge them, they good people. Made bad choices, same as a lot of women will do. I feel like some people claim to be blackpill and edgy on here without realising that both men and women behave like fucking idiots 99% of their dating life. True Blackpill is understanding that being a weapon is not related in any way to your sex. You wouldn’t even care if my sister was divorced 7 … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 01:53 AM |
| 2 | WhyI have no issue with FDS.Lol mate, where is ‘changlet’ originated from? It just rolls off the tongue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 01:44 AM |
| 0 | WhyI have no issue with FDS.Do you think all women will come away from that subreddit feeling that though? That they only want things their way with no room for compromise? At all? I’m just not seeing much stuff advocating for that. About being selfish and not having to put any effort in. Where are these posts man, help me out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 01:41 AM |
| 1 | WhyI have no issue with FDS.What the fuck is a fake straw argument? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 01:31 AM |
| 9 | WhyI have no issue with FDS.Women’s honesty is brutal. But it’s still honesty.When guys do it, it’s ‘noble’ or some shit. Women do it, they’re a ‘bitch’. Men complaining makes us look like the Karen meme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 01:22 AM |
| 3 | WhyI have no issue with FDS.Do you honestly think this is the main thing that women take away from that sub? Hating men? And if some of them do, so what? They don’t call for violence, against taking rights away. Men are rightly allowed to go their own way. Why are women not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 01:13 AM |
| 2 | WhyI have no issue with FDS.I asked you what you what, you described measurements, body count etc. That’s cool but that means you belong on these boards, like a lot of us. Normal bloops would answer my question with ‘sense of humour’ PPD and FDS are nothing you can feel superior about. If you post here, you can’t look down on FDS as something where only ‘wierd’ women post. We all fucking wierd here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 01:09 AM |
| 6 | WhyI have no issue with FDS.What I’m saying is, everything you listed, ( apart from the sock shit haha) is the exact advice I would give to my sister if I had one. I think guys look at women differently as a dating prospect than if they would if they were a close relative, or a valued friend. And to your big list above, I would be surprised if you can provide recent popular posts. Honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 01:01 AM |
| 1 | WhyI have no issue with FDS.What do you want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 12:54 AM |
| 6 | WhyI have no issue with FDS.I agree, every subreddit has a degree of circle jerking, it’s part of reddit, even in the wholesome ones with parakeets and shit. When you can’t fault the ideologies as you said above, then we on the same page. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 12:53 AM |
| 9 | WhyI have no issue with FDS.There’s no hate there. It’s all pretty tame stuff. There is no major material for women to hate on guys.We usually fucking revel in our stupidity. It’s a badge of honour. There is no hate posts on the top stuff in that sub, I mean genuine hate stuff. Guys have no shame, we are hard to insult. Going to have to say some people have real thin skin when it comes to what they’ll take in a fucking meme on a women’s subreddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 12:50 AM |
| 6 | WhyI have no issue with FDS.We’re all here on these same boards yo. No difference between posting on here or posting on FDS. Be honest, ain’t no shame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 12:42 AM |
| 0 | WhyI have no issue with FDS.As I said in my post, it was set up to be about dating and finding love, but it has a more worthwhile effect of women banding together. And not for dating, just making them stronger in life, more assertive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 12:39 AM |
| 5 | WhyI have no issue with FDS.I mean, ok that’s what you think, but why? What toxic ideas are they trying to spread? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Do you think there's a stigma against men being feminine?I think the problem with fake posts is that people always think that no one else commenting realises its fake as well. They will comment knowing that they can say some shit that will get a reaction because there’s no point making a thoughtful sensible comment on a shit post. The best comments to read are on relationship posts where it’s obviously real because it’s so fucking boring and normal( cheating etc)But seeing people’s honest responses to these is where the harsh truths are. If this homel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 10:52 PM |
| 15 | Do you think there's a stigma against men being feminine?Holy shit, this is dead on. David Bowie is the most perfect example of how to do it. He didn’t give a fuck and so glad he didn’t. There is a stigma against feminine men. Of course there is. I want people to be whatever the fuck they want to be, as long as they are not causing harm to others, then people should be celebrated for being who they are. People like what is safe and what they deem ‘normal’ But if you were to ask me if I wished people in power thought like me through history? I honestly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 10:31 PM |
| 15 | The “patriarchy” is little more than the projection of women’s desire for power and they subvert responsibility for this by unjustly placing it on men.Women were given the shit end of the deal for a long time. Why are people losing their minds because women are not happy about it. I would say that now in 2021 there is remnants of patriarchy, but we don’t live in a society defined by it. I don’t give a fuck if women now get their turn. They should. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 09:38 PM |
| 5 | Both genders are NOT HYPERGAMOUS , only women are, men are OPPORTUNISTSMen will cheat more, stupidly, because of the attention. Attention from women to many guys is something that they cannot ignore, it’s a rare thing, so they take it. Fuck these guys. People who cheat have an ability to focus just on themselves, and themselves alone when it comes to emotional damage. What a fucking useless ability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 09:25 PM |
| 11 | Both genders are NOT HYPERGAMOUS , only women are, men are OPPORTUNISTSDo you think life is like this for the average woman? Do you have sisters similar age etc? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Both genders are NOT HYPERGAMOUS , only women are, men are OPPORTUNISTSCool, we agree yo. Men get less shit for saying the same stuff women do. Especially on here. Guys ( most) have a life of having to constantly improve, because we have to, because of the competition. This can be good, and bad. Girls improve because they want to, not because they have to. And this is why women should realise that the best thing you can do, for yourself and your relationships, is be honest. A woman who uses every other attribute other than looks to describe herself when you ask her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Both genders are NOT HYPERGAMOUS , only women are, men are OPPORTUNISTSThis is what I mean though, you are justifying to me why you want what you want, and you don’t have to. If someone asked me what I want from a partner I wouldn’t care what they thought of the answer, I wouldn’t go around announcing it but if someone asks me my opinion, I would happily give it, with no censorship. I just think women get more shit for being honest than men do on here and I’d rather hear their true thoughts. Without giving a fuck about how you are perceived. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 08:55 PM |
| 48 | CMV: It's absolutely possible for older (40+) men to bang younger (<25) women, but the only ones doing so are guys who have always been sexually successful since their teens/early 20sThe optimum advice for any guy getting older is. 1.friendship circle- this is the most important, if you have good friends now, keep them. It is worth the effort. Having friends as you get older gives you the most opportunity to meet people. It takes work to make friendships last, but worth it. After that -Lift -Skin( moisturise your shit daily. But OP is right, don’t focus on this future nirvana where you are a great looking 44 year old still sleeping with 19 year olds. You have no idea what yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Both genders are NOT HYPERGAMOUS , only women are, men are OPPORTUNISTSYou should care. Status and money are not worthless, I guess by their distinction they are the exact opposite of worthless. While I’m not saying you are censoring yourself, I would be surprised if you wouldn’t value status and money as important attributes. I wish women would be more honest on this sub, I get that you will receive lots of blowback, but fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Are men able to describe the behaviors they're exhibiting when they say "being an asshole" worked for them when attracting women?The same characteristics that are attractive to women with assholes is the same thing men are attracted to, just in a different way, Look at all the famous men through history who had these characteristics, and are held up as heroes by guys. Being an asshole works very well for a lot of people around the world everyday, I don’t now why people try and say it’s something only women are attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 11:10 PM |
| 3 | Men are approaching way less than people here thinkBecause I’m a realist I guess, and I don’t take things personal. I would prefer it if people were judged just on their abilities, and who they are as a person, but that isn’t the case. Men have had a metric shit ton of advantages when it comes to relationships/marriage since forever. We now have difficulty, I don’t mind difficulty. I treat all women as individual weirdos, the same way as I treat dudes. People are weird and quirky and interesting. I enjoy it because everyone is fucked up, and I e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Why Shouldn’t Women Be Hypergamous?It just doesn’t seem like you are going to obtain much. It would wear me the fuck out trying to constantly be searching around for something new, it takes time and effort to get to know someone. To answer your question, women should be hypergamous. Biologically it will benefit you and economically as well if you search right. If these are the main things you want from a partner then cool. If you want to lose yourself properly with someone then you wont get that through Hypergamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 10:18 PM |
| 5 | Men are approaching way less than people here thinkTinder is well known, easy to download, minimal effort for profile. It’s easy, I get it. Tinder is fun , just a laugh. I think people are more embarrassed to say they are on a site that involves a different approach, makes them different, because all their friends are on tinder. But that’s why they’re not getting anywhere, because all their friends are on Tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 09:53 PM |
| 0 | A lot of the perspective differences between bluepillers and redpillers are simply due to varying SMVs. Red pill truths are real and useful for men to learn, even if they're not as relevant to women who don't go for alphas or who date high-enough-SMV men that alphaness doesn't matter.Yes they do, all around the world, everyday. Whether you think it has any merit to it or not is irrelevant, this is why humans have not progressed to their potential, because they judge people like this. I think it’s bullshit but it’s disingenuous at best to degrade it to the “manosphere”. It happens, be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 09:48 PM |
| 8 | Men are approaching way less than people here thinkI’m surprised after seeing the stats on users that most men count on tinder as being useful. The ratio of men to women is insane, there is hardly any women on there. When guys get annoyed at no matches I’m not sure logically what they expect, The math alone should make people try actual dating sites, but this takes more effort , so usually ain’t gong to happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Men are approaching way less than people here thinkThis is near enough how I feel. It’s also easy to notice that at no point in this post is there any blame placed on either sex. People now think being in a constant depressive state is an aspect of your personality. Look at any post on instragam or Twitter with anything relating to relationships, the comments mainly consist of “to the streets”, “you guys have girlfriends? Etc. Either combative or self-despreciating stuff all day, no middle ground, either an argument or a rant about how unfairly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Men are approaching way less than people here thinkSocial circle is key. If you have managed to keep a close group of friends then you will have much more opportunity to meet single people and also have your friends backing you up, bigging you up, and there if it goes wrong. Maintaining friendships is the best advice i would give anyone, you are the most confident when you are out with people you can trust who have your back. I always kind of liked the weird stages of approaching, i would prefer if we got to do something cool, like collect shiny… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 09:08 PM |
| 1 | How much do you value opposite-sex attention?About 2 years ago my brother called me drunk and went on a 20 min speech about how much he loved me and was glad I was his bro and he was proud of me. Listed all the things he loved. This was prob the best I’ve ever felt in my life, so it turned out that it wasn’t as important as I thought. Up until then it was very high on my list | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 06:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP and FDS preselect for women and men who are fundamentally not healthy for a LTRI look at the ideal RP man as being 100% faithful, honest and committed to one person, and the goal is to find that other person who feels the same. Isn’t the ultimate goal to be with someone that no one else can ever turn their head? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 12:18 AM |
| 1 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?But you seem to place a lot of emphasis on being an alpha so if you are then I don’t know why it would feel weird? If that’s what you admire/want to be then why feel weird about saying it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 03:26 AM |
| 1 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?Do you ever think of yourself as an ‘alpha’? I mean as if I asked you to list your qualities as a Person, would alpha be one of the things on the list? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 03:16 AM |
| 1 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?To be honest even the acronym irritates me. Even just seeing it, same with AMALT/scrotes or whatever. I just don’t think it’s true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 03:12 AM |
| 1 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?How do you make a woman desire you indefinitely though? Is this possible? Does this not take it out of you? I thought the whole point of RP was not to give a fuck and be the best version of yourself? If she liked you when she started seeing you then imagine how she’ll be looking at you when you become that person. I have the mindset to think as you do, honestly. I like the way I look, I have no hang ups, it would be easy. But empty. I just don’t know if this would be a good thing for me, but I’m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 02:47 AM |
| 1 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?Aren’t they the polar opposites of each other? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 02:36 AM |
| 1 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?I think you were trying to give me advice from a good place,like a hard taping the head , I appreciate it but desire is not the issue. I’ve lived my life out in the world, I’mI Not so naive as to think that desire is worth anything. What is hard is getting someone who you both cannot imagine not being with, this takes a lot, and may not ever happen for most people Desire is a great feeling, I’ve felt it, I’ve had it felt towards me, again you can’t fake it. But that isn’t enough, desire is desig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 02:33 AM |
| 1 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?I can’t argue with logic. The ideal outcome for Everyman/ woman is getting what they want. This just sounds too easy to me, it’s not a hard goal. You see something you want, you focus on this, and that’s you. Done easy, 1 dimensional. I just feel like all the people I admire in life didn’t get what they wanted, they had to think of other people before themselves. ( not saying you are selfish as a Person, just a comment on your worldview) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 02:03 AM |
| 1 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?Virgil was a special dude though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 01:52 AM |
| 1 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?You did seperate them reading back, I missed that , that’s on me. Is “ getting what you want” the ideal outcome for you? I think it’s easy as fuck to get whatever you want from a girl if she’s into you, but how is this satisfying? A girl can do the same to a guy that’s really into her, she will have free reign to do whatever she wants. Getting what I want is easy. You just have to be a dick to everyone without them knowing, I see it everyday, these people don’t look or behave like happy people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 01:49 AM |
| 1 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?Do you believe NAWALT? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 01:32 AM |
| 3 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?Is it true that hard RPillers are most sexually successful? They may kill it with randoms, and do it a lot. Clinical, no risk, honest, straight no-strings sex. Ok cool. I don’t think that’s being sexually successful. I can’t honestly believe that a guy would rather sleep with 10 different girls than have 1 that you are massively into and she is the same, this is the best sex no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 01:28 AM |
| 2 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?It’s tough right? We all know there’s no way of going back completely to how we thought, that would be great, but not practical. I’m still holding onto parts of the BP Mindset, just because I think there’s too much of my character and ethics that I assign to it. It’s naive and will no doubt do me over at some point but it’s helped me a lot so far. ( The BP mindset) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 01:11 AM |
| 1 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?I agree, and the prisoners dilemma actually fits great in what I was trying to get at. When did we start looking at relationships this way though? It seems to strip away all the exciting mysteries and cool moments of a relationship and make it a game that has to be won. People with Personality disorders( genuine ones) are probably going to end up alone, if you avoid them you’re just doing what everyone else is doing as well. These are the people that actually need genuine engagement from others,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 12:05 AM |
| 1 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?Hopefully we get to a point in Human evolution where judging people on their character instead of their sex, which is something they never had a choice in choosing. This is a pipe dream though and the ultimate BP which I know won’t happen but I hope it will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 11:31 PM |
| 1 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?Of course, but I’d say there are a few BP ideas that would be universal? NAWALT would be an example, but not the only one . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 11:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you expect women to prioritize relationships when guys in their age range aren’t thinking about stability?I’d say please set this guy free. If you say you’re an “FDS woman” which in itself is weird to assign your ethics and ideology to a subreddit, then this won’t work. The only description of this guy from the post is that he is a “good guy” nothing else. No other good points listed about him,of how he makes you feel, what is great about him, nothing. You are ambitious and you should be, go out and get everything you feel you deserve, but don’t drag this guy along. It won’t work and if he’s really … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 10:54 PM |
| 2 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?The trifecta of champions yo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 10:21 PM |
| 1 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?I do always fucking forget that people using the term may have more to relate to it than I do. It annoys me when people censor my speech in real life so I’ve no idea why I’m doing it. Sorry. Individualism is what I cling to I guess, the BP thinking that you can’t know who a person is until you actually get to know them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 10:20 PM |
| 1 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?This is what I mean though, I was never brought up to think that effort and optimism should be rewarded. It was just a given that these are what makes a good person a good person. People should see it, not thank you or congratulate you for it. I was raised that people are like this, guys are like this, women are like this. It’s not a personality trait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 10:14 PM |
| 1 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?I mean that Full RP guys would tell you they thought the same as you at 21 but now they’ve evolved into this supreme shit-testing, terminator that they wish they’d been at 21. I don’t want you to change btw. You seem at the sweet spot, but even you must admit that you’ve got a big stretch to go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 10:09 PM |
| 0 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?I always see this ‘spergy’ used as an insult in relation to people looking at things analytically. This is what I mean about holding on to blue pill stuff. It just sounds fucking weird to me and nothing you’d ever say in real life to someone. I know that it’s in widespread use, but if I’d used that word growing up, or even I’m my social group it would be seen as strange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 10:00 PM |
| 2 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?I think the problem is, if girls feel isolated and ignored then the problem is theirs and they deal with it however they can, ( drugs,self harming, destructive behaviour etc) With guys, you have all the above, but I think people underestimate the shit a guy can do if he feels this way. Men in the ages 18-30 who have no help/assistance/ emotional outlet, can do a lot of damage, to themselves and society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 09:54 PM |
| 1 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?Cool to hear, refreshing, although you will hear the argument that at 21 there are a lot things that will happen that may make you change this. I suppose it’s about how much you are willing to critique yourself as well for relationships that go south. Not to place full external blame on someone else I guess, seems lazy. You sound like you got it right at the moment.i hope that doesn’t change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 09:45 PM |
| 1 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?That’s exactly what I’m getting at, the optimism of the BP. Of course RP has optimism but it is more clinical. I’m not smart enough to describe the difference between the two but the BP optimism hits different. Naive yes, but more satisfying, Warmer I guess? Sounds fucking stupid reading it back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 09:36 PM |
| 1 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?Do you believe AWALT? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 09:32 PM |
| 1 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?How old are you mate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 09:28 PM |
| 0 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?The problem with labelling it as “basement dweller nerd sex ideology” is that it is mainstream now,. Trying to shame guys who want to follow RP by using this definition doesn’t really work anymore, guys can see that it’s just an insult, not a critique of the idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 09:27 PM |
| 1 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?So, if the answer is inbetween then you have hold on to these BP ideals, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 09:20 PM |
| 1 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?Do you think this is a good thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 09:14 PM |
| 3 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?That sounds like hell for a kid to be honest, no offence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 09:13 PM |
| 1 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?I think the real world is more likely to RP or BP you more than the internet though. What positive ideas of men do you keep but don’t think they’re true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 09:10 PM |
| 3 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?Ego has no advantages to me, I have never heard the word used in a positive context so it never bothered me. I dont hold on to the idea that NAWALT, this is my main hurdle, I cannot cement in my head the idea that every woman has these Machiavellian personalities that the RP promotes. I’m fully able to admit that my life may be harder thinking like this though, but I think the advantages out way the disadvantages | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 09:06 PM |
| 1 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?Has your life proved that the things you were taught growing up were wrong though? I wouldn’t have liked to have been brought up RP but I feel like I would have had a head start on a lot of things if I did. I equate it growing up in a dangerous area and developing street smarts that you didn’t wish you had to know, but you’re glad you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 08:56 PM |
| 3 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?I would disagree, but the question was more about yourself you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 08:48 PM |
| 2 | [Q4all]Is Rejecting the Blue Pill such a good idea?If I had been brought up RP I feel that I would be better career wise, but my social life would have suffered. I’m happy for the trade off. An Egalitarian society is my ideal to be honest, but No way I’m smart enough to figure out the logistics of how to make it work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 08:46 PM |
| -14 | I moved a curl behind his earWhat does your boyfriend think? | /r/seduction | 22/07/20 02:50 PM |
| 1 | I moved a curl behind his earFake | /r/seduction | 22/07/20 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Getting attractive men as a women is not nearly as easy as some guys on here make it out to be.Sex is massively different for hookups for girls than it is for guys. Whilst it must be great to have the validation of the attention, I definitely don’t feel jealous of the options women have for hookups. Most of these will be disappointing no doubt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Why do European men care more about their appearance than American men?We ain’t wearing cargo shorts and polos in England apart from about 15-20 mins in June. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/20 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Are women romantic? Are men more romantic?Everyone has their own definition of what is romantic to them. What I find romantic has been different to every person I have been in a relationship with. Spend 30 mins on YouTube and make me an origami dinosaur and I’ll be smiling all week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/20 12:05 PM |
| 1 | What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them?Well flies tend to be attracted to certain things sometimes I guess. I’m sure you’ll manage to swat them all away eventually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/20 02:38 AM |
| 1 | What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them?Then why not just live your life in this assigned league you’ve decided to place yourself in? It does seem easy to be fair. And easy for some people is enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/20 02:13 AM |
| 1 | What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them?If your life is too easy and you are still having problems then somethings up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/20 01:25 AM |
| 0 | What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them?We’re all in the same place. Once you stop looking down on people this stuff gets easier you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/20 12:55 AM |
| 0 | What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them?What don’t you appreciate about it? I see guys doing what they are expected to do, approach. This whole measuring people in ‘leagues’ is why we’re so fucked up at the minute.Sometimes people want to you know, try and step outside their assigned position, and are critised for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/20 12:37 AM |
| 5 | What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them?Casual sex is reserved for the top 20% of men. That’s just the way it is. What people call Blackpill just seems like basic knowledge to me. I’ve always known that no matter what they may say, an attractive guy will elicit a stronger response from women. What’s the confusion? What are we blaming people for? Being honest? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/20 12:11 AM |
| 0 | What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them?It’s easy to get comfortable as a guy. If you don’t have someone to g you up.Also never forget how much of a good feeling it is to help one of your friends or family with something important, if you don’t have that network you lose out on that rush. Surely you can see how approaching is not easy, it’s basic human nature to feel the weight when you are putting yourself out on the line. You have to develop a confidence that might not be anything like you are in everyday life, I do wish that more g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/20 12:07 AM |
| 5 | There are many attractive alpha looking men who are 'bluepill' and will never have to take or even comprehend the redpillNon trashy girls chase guys all the time. Asserting yourself and showing that you don’t give two fucks about outdated approach rules is a great character trait, for both genders. I don’t know when people started giving a fuck about perpetuating these stereotypes, maybe it’s just my location/ group? But we don’t care about that here. Like someone? Tell them. Be prepared to get rejected, it’s rarely personal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/20 10:04 PM |
| 13 | There are many attractive alpha looking men who are 'bluepill' and will never have to take or even comprehend the redpillI can’t shake my blue pill. I need it to remain a socially functioning Human being. The most attractive guys know that the world is harsh and brutal, I have two Chad mates who have no illusions about why they get attention. They are two of the most empathetic guys I have ever met. The red pill is everywhere now, it’s just how each person manages the harsh truths. The best guys use it to enhance what’s already there, they don’t make it their personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/20 09:56 PM |
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