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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	how do I control my neediness	Fundamentals	-Tea-Bee-	/r/seduction	05/06/22 03:12 PM

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3	Two things EVERY girl I've been with told me she loved about me: Honesty and Vulnerability. Don't get me wrong, I crave being vulnerable with people, but most of the time it'll end up badly.	/r/seduction	10/07/22 06:05 PM
1	Some lessons from my fuck up Since you're giving advice from your fuck up lemme also share mine: I went to a dinner for the exchange students and met a girl there, she was super cute and I invited her to a dance night, she agreed. During the night everything went well and the same week we were at party and kissed. The following night I wanted to take some distance to not be overly pushy, but I ended up meeting her in a club, there I tried repeatedly to dance with her but it was obvious that she wanted to dance and make out …	/r/seduction	10/07/22 05:59 PM
7	Two things EVERY girl I've been with told me she loved about me: Honesty and Vulnerability. I do not agree, from personal experience showing vulnerability always fucked things up for me, I would only be vulnerability with someone I've been dating for a while	/r/seduction	10/07/22 05:51 PM
3	How do YOU dance? I can relate to this, I was also new to partying and I discovered that it's not about dance moves, these are just extra. When I started partying I was always the awkward one left out of the dance floor, so I decided to take dancing lessons for almost a year: were they useful? Yes, very but not for clubbing, for Latin nights and such. Surely you'll feel more comfortable on the dance floor if you know Salsa or batchata for example, but in my opinion what really makes you comfortable is to know the…	/r/seduction	10/07/22 05:49 PM
1	If a date with a girl is not for another week, should I text to keep attraction? The definition differs from person to person but the feel is the same. If you feel like you two are enjoying the convo and it's easy to keep it going then keep it going. If not then stop texting so you won't blow it up.	/r/seduction	10/07/22 05:43 PM
4	How to stop obsessing over one girl? Neil Strauss talked about this and called it a "Oneitis". I had the same issue in the past and I followed his advice and it worked for me. It was to meet as much women as I can. I may also add to get some distance from her and overload yourself with work and activities, always good to have a distraction.	/r/seduction	06/06/22 08:04 AM
1	how do I control my neediness Thank you, if I want to elaborate more I'd say it's always when I text or when I wanna ask her out. When I'm texting I find myself either being too dry or being too needy, for example when I'm texting angirl and she does not reply quickly enough, it always end up with me thinking of it all the time and constantly checking my phone for her replies. It might be just now cz I'm stuck in my room studying for an important incoming exam and things might change when I'm back to the outside world.	/r/seduction	05/06/22 04:34 PM
3	If a girl is interested she’ll make time Imo "want you to invest a bit" is not what I would call an excuse. If you really have value to yourself you wouldn't be okay with her experimenting on you. We're men, not labrats.	/r/seduction	05/06/22 09:31 AM
10	How do I cold approach women older than myself ? The moment you think that you're a lost cause is the moment you become one. Things with older women is that they crave youth and want to feel young again with a man. In order to do so you must have contagious confidence. Some ways to boost that is to be good at your job, hit the gym for that hot bod, do some activities that are associated with young people (for me it was scuba diving, but the options are endless). But keep in mind that picking on older women won't get you anywhere serious, they …	/r/seduction	05/06/22 09:25 AM