| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 35 | Huddle up now | -The_Credible_Hulk | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 08:02 AM |
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| 3 | What are the best/worst aspects of life post-divorce? What has helped you rise again?Also? Just general uncluttered space… especially in the bathroom. My girl hoarded makeup, face washes, specialty q-tips… like…? You know you won’t use any of this. We’ve moved 4 times and it’s in the same friggin box… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/24 08:38 AM |
| 2 | What are the best/worst aspects of life post-divorce? What has helped you rise again?Aww hell yeah! On almost everything. I will say that getting yourself laid to remember and remind yourself that you’re desirable? If you’re not opposed to a one night stand or a quick fling? Not the worst thing. I do agree that you should not allow yourself to be drawn back into a relationship or let yourself get too emotionally invested about it. I hope I haven’t upset you by offering a different perspective. I appreciate yours. Have a good one bud. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/24 08:34 AM |
| 7 | So it's been six monthsFuck yeah, my guy. It only gets easier, then harder, then easier from here. It makes me truly happy you’re on your way out of it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/24 08:28 AM |
| 2 | Huddle up nowBuddy… I could have written this myself. Edit: with the very real difference? I don’t want to get back together. If she asked? I would laugh. A lot. Then I would calmly explain that my drinking may have played a part in the first part? But there’s no drug on hell or earth that would excuse her actions. But I’ll eat it when I cooked it; I was not great. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 06:26 PM |
| 0 | Huddle up nowYou bring up neck stabbing and I’m violent? Sweet Baby Baldur you think you’re the first person to come up with a straw man argument? Or projection? Get fucked. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 05:23 PM |
| -1 | Huddle up nowBuddy… I truly feel for you. I really do. I don’t know what you’re going through. I can tell you that generalized and unfocused hate? Is poison. I’m not telling you where to put it. I’m not trying to tell you where or who it belongs to. I’m telling you it will eat you up inside and you’ll end up hating everyone. Men? Women? Everyone… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 05:08 PM |
| -2 | Huddle up nowJust so I’m not saying anything I don’t mean: What you’re asking for is the permission to paint all women as _____. Because some of them have done you wrong? Just say what you mean dude. Because you’re about to hear the difference between me being nice and not. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 05:05 PM |
| 0 | Huddle up nowI’m not sure I’m entirely getting you. Is my saying “don’t shit talk half the population because (worst case scenario) 6 of them in your life were monsters” somehow offensive? Is that your stance? Maybe I’m dense? I’m just trying to nail it down here because… you’re not being super clear. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 05:03 PM |
| 0 | Huddle up nowNo no!!! I’m not saying don’t call em how you see em… I feel like you’re getting me wrong and I’m defending all women here. I am fucking…. Not. Some are fucking monsters and they belong in the prison grounds next to the wife-beaters they should have been paired off with! For every man who will throw his woman around? There is a girl who will falsely cry rape or take advantage of the fact that no one will take her husband seriously if he has a black eye! You’ve mistaken me entirely. And I appreci… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Huddle up nowHey… same team. Deep breath. I am not attacking you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 03:56 PM |
| – | Huddle up nowHave I attacked someone? You need to chill my dude. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Huddle up nowStanding up for yourself? Not tolerating abuse? Is not being an incel. Ask yourself this, if you spoke to a woman the way your girl spoke to you? Could you reasonably get your ass kicked? If so? It’s probably abuse. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Huddle up now“Truths” are rarely cross compatible and situations are situational. If you want stats? Sure we can extrapolate and make some gross estimates. But this whole “every woman who” and “any girl over”? Is just flat out wrong, unfunny, unhealthy, and unhelpful. Maybe your broad was a cunt? Doesn’t mean they all are. Maybe the first 50 you talked to after getting out of marriage were dogshit? I assure you, they all aren’t. What the fuck happened? How can anyone know that who’s not in your shoes? If you… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Huddle up nowDon’t give in to hate in a general sense. Focus that hate on self improvement! Hate can be a motivator or a destructive force that serves no one any good. Dont be the kid that starts ruining everyone else’s sand castle because someone kicked yours over. Be the one that builds a better one! And this time make a big ass moat to trap your enemies! | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Tough day todayDidn’t figure my man. I hear ya. Just couldn’t imagine for a second I’d get a downvote for that one. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Tough day todayYou ever need to talk bud? I’m right here for you. Will do my best not to make it weird. I’m proud of ya. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 08:14 AM |
| 0 | Tough day todayAnd bro… I cry every time I hear a song that gets me… I’ve seen friends with battle wounds. I’ve cried when songs hit me just right and remind me of some shit… that doesn’t make you less a man. Edit: I’m going to assume the downvote was a mistake. If not, you’ve got some shit you need to work through. Not saying you should let your broad see it? But if you think my crying over a brother I served with isn’t okay? We’re not okay and I’ll drop gloves and see it for real. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Tough day todayFuck yeah boys let’s hear it now! Fuck yeah! Thank buddy for showing a bit of yourself. Shit ain’t easy. But hey! You ever need to talk I’m right here for you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 08:06 AM |
| 4 | Tough day todayYou are exactly the person I’m telling. We’ve all fucked up at some point… you making excuses? Because I’m not trying to… We’ve all been dealt a shit hand! If you need to cry? I’m here for you. But at a certain point, it’s time to fight. You there yet?!? Come on now fellas! Can’t do it without ya! Let’s fucking do this together. Pick each other up now! Let’s fucking… GO! | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 06:59 AM |
| 9 | Tough day todayAw buddy… you’re killing yourself over an idea that doesn’t exist. At least not anymore. I don’t have any clue what she did… what you did… or external factors. But you’ve got to take a breath. Remember that reality does not care how you feel. Wake up, shake off the dream you were having, start by getting dressed… and just start. You’re not starting over because you’re not the same person. You have experience. You have knowledge. You’re harder and tougher than before because of it. Come on man. I… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Did you ex change her name back and if so did that bother you? Because it did for me.I truly do not care. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/24 08:07 PM |
| 1 | A heads up to you older fellas wanting to dip your toes in the online dating poolLol okay bud. I’d drop gloves with you I guarantee. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/24 09:54 PM |
| 1 | A heads up to you older fellas wanting to dip your toes in the online dating poolI’ll likely have days I need someone to say to me, “dude she’s a fuckin cunt” But we don’t need to generalize. Each of us came out of a woman and, presumably, we all like em deep down. Even if you don’t see it right now. But if someone said some shit like this about your sister? I bet you pop em. And if you wouldn’t you must have a shit sister, you’re lying, or you’re shit dude. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/24 09:53 PM |
| – | A heads up to you older fellas wanting to dip your toes in the online dating poolSometimes I forget this is a place for commiseration… I apologize for that. I’m just… I’m just real fuckin sad the way this thread has turned out. You wanna feel bad about yourselves? Fine. But start talking shit about women in general, we’ll have a problem about it. I was raised by a single mom and I won’t have it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/24 09:47 PM |
| – | A heads up to you older fellas wanting to dip your toes in the online dating poolCould we stop using “damaged” because it implies that: You’re a fucking robot without the capabilities to fix yourself OR people don’t heal if they do the PT. They can’t both be right and I refuse to believe it. I blew out my ankle. Am I damaged?! No. I might have to deal with scar tissue but, fuck. Put in the fucking effort and compensate. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/24 09:41 PM |
| 1 | A heads up to you older fellas wanting to dip your toes in the online dating poolNo need to criticize while using shit generalizing. Come on now fellas… let’s get it going and be better about it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/24 09:35 PM |
| 4 | A heads up to you older fellas wanting to dip your toes in the online dating poolFuck yeah boys! Lotta positivity. Need a little positivity in this thread. Let’s hear it now… come on! Edit: this is in no way facetious. I’m dead serious. This thread is two posts from going off the rails. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/24 06:57 PM |
| 22 | A heads up to you older fellas wanting to dip your toes in the online dating poolFellas, I’m just gonna throw it out here? This thread is venturing into a territory I’m not entirely comfortable being a part of. I understand commiserating? And yeah… we’re all probably a bit angry… But let’s not devolve into hating women, in general. Okay to hate one of them? But we are teetering right now on an edge I won’t fall off with you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/24 06:55 PM |
| 2 | A heads up to you older fellas wanting to dip your toes in the online dating poolIt’s a different skill set. There’s some overlap but it’s just really not the same thing | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/24 10:17 AM |
| 14 | A heads up to you older fellas wanting to dip your toes in the online dating poolIt sounds like you guys are kind of shit at filtering. No offense intended. You’re not adequately prepared to say, “been fun but”… This is a classic example of guys not being prepared or used to sorting through a mile and a half of shit to find something worth having. Ignoring my metaphor being a metaphor, how many women would do well at that? Probably not many… Before dating apps, they had to do a similar thing but to find a partner. They’re fucking good at it. So this particular tool is one th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/24 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on being divorced at 25 without kids?You’re ah… the same as someone who got out of a long relationship. You’re still drafting in the first round. Learn from it. Move on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/24 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Flamboyant Ignorance?My ex committed a felony by moving and taking my daughter out of state… she still thinks she’s going to gain full custody. You can’t reason with unreasonable people. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/24 10:16 AM |
| 0 | Flamboyant Ignorance?Belly-breaths, my man. Remember that you’re all you can control. Don’t ever talk shit about mom to the kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/24 10:13 AM |
| 2 | Should I stop going to the gym where my wife had her affair?This… isn’t the best way to accomplish anything other than opening yourself up to look foolish. If it’s the only decent gym? Keep going. If you’re going to do that? Be better than this. What this guy is suggesting is child-like behavior and you’re a grown man… Smile. Make them wonder why you’re happy. Edit: are we doing real suggestions or revenge fantasies? If we’re disregarding reality, I can make up something else you “should” do. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/24 12:11 AM |
| 7 | How can I cope with it not being my decision?No such thing as “perfect”. Get that the hell out of your head. If she’s making a mistake? Nothing you can do. You can only control yourself. I could rail, raise hell, try to explain that no one else would put up with half the shit I tolerated…? No sense in it. Nothing to do but wash hands, accept that you’re the only thing you can control, and regain a lotus of control within yourself. Take your time. Cry. Then realize that you’re not going to find “perfect” and if she was? She ain’t anymore. E… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/24 08:56 PM |
| 1 | QuestionnaireShe used a sexual assault I suffered as a child to alienate 90% of my family. I’ll let you know if I ever recover from it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/24 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Tomorrow I will go to court to defend myself against a ROAs prior military who was raised in WV, that was the hardest thing for me to do. Everything was sir or ma’am for 30+ years. I think I said “… ma’a… er Your Honor” about a dozen times. She was very nice about it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/24 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Men over 40 should NEVER get marriedlol, sorry but this is the reality of the situation. Marriage is the most commonly signed bad business contract a man can sign. And I say that as a man who’s been divorced twice and still believes in true and long lasting love… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/24 06:25 AM |
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