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Pretty much. I was so focused on getting lean last year that i got the aesthetics of a teenager with a six pack. I'm finally getting to a good ratio after two bulks this year.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 03:40 PM
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Plus if you are skinny fat and try to cut all that extra bf before getting some decent muscle size you're going to feel like a kid with a six pack. I'm finally getting to my ideal ratio after my second bulk this year.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 03:36 PM
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I'm sorry for your pain. Indeed it's a huge hit on the ego, but now the truth sets you free. Be your own man, go ahead and fuck 10 bitches and don't take shit from anyone. Good luck to you my brother.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 06:12 PM
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It always amuses me seeing the rage people feel after reading a GLO post. The reason he speaks in such absolutist terms isn't because "muh misogyny". Get this on your thick skulls: Unless you already are a successful man who reads people perfectly, achieves whatever the fuck he wants without trouble and doesn't take shit from anyone, there is no nuance for you. No unicorn hunting. No "not every woman is like that!". Of course people are different, circumstances need calibration. But unless you a…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 06:01 PM
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90% (or more) of the laws are situational
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 11:23 PM
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Art of seduction is a great book for newbies. I wish he went deeper on gender differences, but his archetypes are pretty on point. I've read it before finding TRP and re-read it after, definitely useful information.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 11:12 AM
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Remember the reversals. No law is set in stone.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 07:34 PM
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Good post OP. Nice summary of why i prefer TRP over other communities. PUAs, MGTOWs, MRAs might have valid reasons and goals, but here we are leaving the blame and victimizing behind. The cheap tricks and quick fixes too. TRP teaches there is only one "enemy" you have to deal with; Yourself. Defeat your old habits, thoughts and beta programming and you don't have to worry about how fucked up women, people in general are. Conquer yourself and you can achieve anything and survive any adversity the…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 12:25 PM
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Dread got weaker and weaker without me making money. Limited social life hinders a men more than looks or game. She probably started to see me as harmless and felt the need to cheat.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 05:50 PM
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Did you stumble upon TRP looking for answer on how to deal with this girl? Actually i found TRP after learning about MRAs and MGTOW when my father passed away. The reason i got interested in all this was because when i lost my job and knew i would be evicted from the house, my half-sister and mother-in-law both got pensions from my fathers salary as he was in the military. 3k each. And i was denied support because i was a male over 18. Both of them are over 40 and have work, house and cars paid …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 03:30 PM
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Thanks for the feedback man, i appreciate your angle. All throughout the relation i've being pretty self-aware about my actions and how it influenced her, 2 years in and found TRP i could see clearly in retrospection the ups and downs. I became better with frame and how to handle her shittests, she always acted with high effort to please, treated me like her prize. Even thou i got fucked by the circumstances i always made everything within my limited power to game her and keep the interest high.…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 04:49 AM
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Amazing comeback man. That was something straight out of 48 laws of power. You should read the book if you haven't already.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 01:01 AM
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You hit the nail in the head with the BPD observation. Thing is, the day i found TRP that was the first thing i read that made me seriously think i could get fucked staying with her. Terrible relations with her family, party girl prior to meeting me, loved male attention way too much, talked about abusive ex. Red flags were there since the beginning, but i was already 2 years in when the manosphere started opening my eyes. She was useful and treated me better than most BPD examples i've read. My…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 08:40 PM
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Absolutely nothing changed man, that's what fucked my head the most. She even was excited that i was moving closer to her. The dude said it started by the end of february. I was evicted march 3rd. She cheated days prior to me losing my apartment. I have no evidence from other guys, but after my gut instincts proving i was right all this time... I just know she did this more than once.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 08:13 PM
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Pretty much.. The only reason i didn't leave before was because i felt i needed EVIDENCE. The thing is, the constant small lies are a dead giveaway. Pay attention to what she does, always. Stay ahead of the game brothers.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 02:27 PM
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Thanks for the reply man. She was definitely a wild card before we started dating, what big city good looking young girl won't be riding the cc hard? I didn't screen her at all, haven't learned about the manosphere before i was on the mindset of "fuck her past, she's with me now". Never had this discussion really, but i know it was high no doubt. She was taking dancing classes. Told me it was great for her to stay in shape... Yeah i knew one of those "gay" guys she mentioned would dick her on th…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 02:24 PM
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I'm no stranger to that feeling myself. Each fucked up thing that happens to me makes me enjoy the pain more nowadays, because that pain signals the growth that is coming soon afterwards. There is no reason to ease the pain with drugs and alcohol either, it's here for me to never forget this lesson.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 01:39 AM
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So true. The first two years before finding TRP i did make a lot of sacrifices for her. I thought i was impressing with my morality. After reading so much i corrected my views on the status on monogamy. I don't necessarily agree with lying and cheating, but if there are no consequences for this shit, you might as well have some before it all goes to hell. Fuck the bubble, i want out. I will take the pain with me as a badge of honor.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 01:29 AM
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Hey, let me address that. I have no proof she cheated other times. But i caught her lying since the very beginning, she always gaslighted the shit out of me and made herself look like a saint. The thing is this year i tried breaking off with her at least twice and she would beg me to stay everytime. She was fucking this guy on the side yet beg me and call everyday for two weeks until i agreed to talk to her. After finding about this shit, it puts every past act of her in a new light and i really…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 01:19 AM
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It's over man, after getting busted she couldn't handle dealing with me anymore out of embarrassment. I have a feeling that after some time if i contact her again she would feel indebted, but that's for another day. I need to fix my shit, get plates and maybe get her as a side fucktoy. Or don't and just move on without her. Either way she needs to feel what is like to lose my presence for a long time.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 11:33 PM
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I will, brother. Today i may be on my knees but it's only the beginning.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 11:25 PM
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Thanks man. The red flags where there since the beginning, i just ignored every single one out of oneitis. A girl can be sweet, high sex drive and pleasing to you, but if she has issues with herself she will destroy even the most incredible relation she ever had. I consider her highly narcissistic and hedonistic. She was getting a rush out of doing this behind my back, she craved other males attention and that guy was there at the right time. She might have cheated with others too. It really fuc…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 11:22 PM
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Just my opinion on this, The problem itself is not the lie. Is that you caught her lying, she apologized and later what she did? Lied again. I should have ghosted her way before shit went down like this. But i guess the pain is useful because i won't forget this ever. Have principles, and live by them.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 11:16 PM
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Believe me man, my workouts have being a blessing in this situation. I was already working hard before shit went down, currently am in my best physical shape. Crushed my training today even though i barely slept. Anger is one hell of a stimulant drug. One day at a time, thanks for the support.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 11:10 PM
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You are on point man. I just meant it in a way that she isn't the worst person who crossed my path. She did help me immensely when i truly needed. I'm definitely going to focus on fixing my life first and i will start spinning plates. Being single for the first time since finding TRP is a blessing in disguise. I need to break free from this serial monogamy that plagued my life so much. And yep, i'm a huge fan of the series haha. Thanks for the feedback brother.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 10:31 PM
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Yeah it sucks, but this sub has showed me hundreds of men who got burned way more seriously than me. I am so grateful for getting away scratch free. My ego and self steem took a huge hit, but i can live with that.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 10:20 PM
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Thanks for asking, man. I don't regret not trying to mate-guard her. The reason is even though pretty much all people can/will cheat given the right circumstances, trying to force someone to respect you usually backfires, you live in constant stress looking for clues of what she's doing wrong. It's a sad place to be. The more controlling a guy is, the better she becomes at hiding it. Ironically because she was so unused to having to lie to me as i simply didn't ask, she tripped and exposed her i…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 06:54 PM
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Thank you man, i will keep laser focus on all these things. The main issue is money right now, but thankfully i know i'm way more prepared to achieve success now because of better habits i developed over the years.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 06:22 PM
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I totally agree with you. Just to make it clear, as i didn't state this before: i did pass her comfort tests, treated her better than any woman before her. Was always by her side, making plans and letting her know i was only hers. Sometimes it isn't enough. I don't demonize her for what she did. She wasn't trying to hurt me, she was only putting her own pleasure first.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 06:14 PM
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Powerful words. I always disagreed with the folks who posted "be alpha and she will never cheat". It doesn't happen like that. Im taking every reply at heart here. There is a long way to go and i'm just at the beginning of my life. I feel blessed right now.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 04:10 PM
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You simplified it perfectly. I was deeply invested before finding TRP, and i didn't get my shit together after TRP either. I've learned my lesson. And i don't blame anyone really, it its a huge blow to my ego but i know it happens with men much better than me. Fuck my ego. I have to make things happen for my mission right now, so i can be proud of myself for the goals i attained. No woman in this world is worth being a goal or make yourself proud of having her company.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 04:03 PM
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Yeah, i used the term lightly. I know stoic isn't about being a passive guy. My previous relations always ended with me going crazy insecure about everything. It left a sour taste in my mouth, i just can't make myself start doing that again, feels like i just lose it the moment i suspect about something.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 03:38 PM
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Thanks for the feedback man. Yes it hits you hard to care for someone and believe their lies, just to find about everything later. Liars will gaslight you, make you feel like an insecure and paranoid boyfriend. I'm just so fucking grateful that it happened after i found this sub and read everything on the manosphere. We all have one of the greatest tools to taking control of our lives back and it's here for any man to read and apply. No woman will ever take from us what we learned.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 03:18 PM
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I know man, i feel lucky from having learned firsthand that getting your needs met in a relation is possible. Getting my balls smashed by being a complete beta in the past teached me a lot. I understand that dropping the LTR status and plating her is an option, bitch management guide is one of my favorite posts in the sub. But i invested emotionally in this girl, 2 years of oneitis before finding TRP did the damage on me. I need to focus on fixing my life right now, my business, getting to where…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 03:10 PM
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Thank you for the words man. Basically, she was lying about not going out with the girlfriends. Not even clubbing/partying or something serious like that. Everytime i suspected something she would do the classic gaslighting to make herself look innocent. Other small stuff too that really only shows how much she was used to lying. Maybe i would have discovered this way before if i was as paranoid and insecure as i used to be on my bluest days. The most important thing i take from all this is that…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 02:56 PM
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You're words were harsh but i agree with what you said. Yes i wasn't even in the game at all. I let her illusion of perfect girl cloud my judgement even after years of reading the manosphere. I let her game me. You can't opt out of the game, you're either a player or a pawn.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 02:41 PM
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I agree with you. I was already deep in this relationship when i found the manosphere and decided to keep working on it just because she was "perfect". There are no perfect partners, people will eventually fuck things up. My life/mission is the only thing worth investing emotionally.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 02:36 PM
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You're right. And i know it could be so much worse. In fact, i'm grateful for this experience opening my eyes. The day i learned about redpill and decided to stay with her because everything was smooth and i was "alfa" i knew deep down that some shit would eventually happen. I embrace this and will use it as fuel to fix my life.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 02:34 PM
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While i agree with your suggestion, to be honest OP is just stating anecdotes that don't really hold up when compared to the rest of the country, only his city (Sao Paulo). Brazil is huge man, every region is completely different on demographics etc. His statements on racism is pretty biased to be honest.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 09:05 AM
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To be fair, he apparently lives in a city where the demographic is +70% white. On average, whites are a minority in the country (40%) Also a lot of what he said about racism seems straight from the bullshit identity politics spamming every news outlet on western countries. Racism in Brazil isn't worse than anywhere else you see this being discussed.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 08:59 AM
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A lot of what he said about racism seems straight from the bullshit identity politics spamming every news outlet on western countries. Racism in Brazil isn't worse than anywhere else you see this being discussed.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 08:57 AM
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To be fair, he apparently lives in a city where the demographic is +70% white. On average, whites are a minority in the country (40%) Also a lot of what he said about racism seems straight from the bullshit identity politics spamming every news outlet on western countries. Racism in Brazil isn't worse than anywhere else you see this being discussed.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 08:55 AM
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The thing is, there are good looking black girls at other events too. You don't have to go dumpster diving at favelas. Sure the demographics change a lot depending on city but the entire argument of "it's impossible to day/night game them" is a lazy fallacy, just go out a lot more. Don't expect beautiful black girls at expensive EDM parties and rock concerts. Go to bars, socialize and open new doors to meet them.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 08:42 AM
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Damn TW i had to save this post. You not only killed the male hamster, you obliterated the sneaky fucker.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 07:50 AM
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Even worse if she's into psychology or social studies. Sure sweetie, you understand it all!
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:15 AM
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Way too many replies of passive agressive dudes mad at you for being with a "great girl" and feeling like that. Is this what this sub has come to? Its perfectly ok to feel like that OP. Everything in life is temporary, the truth is that eventually either you or her will fuck it up. It doesn't matter how many TRP spergies here yell at how you should be happy and appreciate the great unicorn you have, do whatever the fuck you want to. Just because she seems perfect doesn't mean its wrong to get ti…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 05:32 AM
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Thank you for this. I actually really needed it.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 06:46 AM
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Must be like gambling. If you only lose, you're never hooked. If you win the first 10 games, then you're willing to lose for life Great insight. Makes it incredibly hard for guys to throw away their old tools (blue pill "game") and easier to rationalize every AWALT that comes their way with "she's broken, the next one surely will be the right one" And so the cycle repeats itself.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 06:22 AM
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It is a fallacy to think all those naturals will end miserable, but indeed even the most blessed people have to work on themselves at some point or they can get fucked. We all have that blue pill Chad friend who got some slut pregnant or got fucked financially/physically. TL/DR - Don't drop the ball in the life game or you can and will get fucked
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 04:02 AM
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Dude, my sides hurt lol #dreambig
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 04:20 AM
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I may be the only one, but i think The Manipulated Man is too polarizing for a noob. They always take it too literally and either their anger phase intensifies or they believe the author is bitter as fuck. No More Mr Nice Guy is the perfect introduction to TRP, positive masculinity, self-improvement and establishing frame for new guys.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 10:14 AM
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Underrated post. Sure it's great to read big success stories that motivate you to achieving those high end goals. Yet we are specially prone to outcome dependence, maybe a feature from our evolutionary traits trying to secure the best of the best for our genes. We need to let go some times and focus only on the path. Forget for a second that Chad and company are out there slaying pussy and getting millions. Just focus on what you want to do, deep down. Along the path it's inevitable to compare t…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 01:04 AM
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Gonna quote the Rational Male here: Hypergamy isn’t going to change, so if a moralist or a feminist wants to minimize or maximize hypergamy to their benefit, social and psychological schemas need to develop around what serves either the best. This is exactly why white knight beta chumps seek to define what the essence of Alpha should be in terms that best describes themselves. They seek to control hypergamy by redefining hypergamy’s ideal to fit their own description – likewise fem-centrism will…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 06:31 AM
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By now he may be a controversial figure, sure. But even if you ignored everything in that book (which you shouldn't) and just accepted one, it would be the part about a male's sex drive. It is such a strong primal energy that ALL great men learn to harvest this for profit/achievement In fact, TRP is the natural extension to this idea.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 04:59 AM
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Solid Post. You mirror my transition very similarly. When you are at the worst possible spot you have so little to lose and so much to gain that in fact just new friends who respect and motivate, a new job or new books who challenge your old paradigms will make a significant impact. It compounds exponentially later, if you keep the improvement treadmill going up.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 04:36 AM
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Not only society conditioned you this way, remember we all double down on the blue pill at first. Our own body doesn't give a fuck if what we're doing is harmful to our minds. It only cares about its habits and routines, and its imperative is only about spreading your genes and surviving. You don't just want to survive. You must Thrive in this world if you actually want something worth a fuck. That's why you pound your body like a madman at the gym. To dominate it. You do the same with your mind…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 04:16 AM
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Now's not the time for me to give up. I have to keep pressing forward with my goals and ambitions regardless of the attention and treatment that I'm getting from her (or other women for that matter). It's going to be an endless cycle of improvement, and that's what TRP is all about. Thank you. Brother, first of all let me tell you right here: you got this shit. We all can relate to catching a girl who is deeply attracted by showing alpha traits (pre- or post-trp), only to later get blindsided by…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 03:57 AM
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Also related, the fall of Sparta. After conquering their greatest rival, Athens - the riches flowed into the city state, corruption and hedonism took place in the hearts of men who lived their whole lives as disciplined warriors. There is no safe end goal. Always Adapt or succumb.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 05:09 AM
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Ok, time for my 2c. Even if she's miserable with her mediocre BB, the end game will be cash in 50% of his assets in a soul crushing divorce. If she is still fuckable, she WILL have her AF at this point, even if she has to pay for male escorts. If she looks hideous after divorce and doesn't have any options, she will get out of the SMP. Playing her hand well, she will get to die rich and still have her kids. Maybe still pay for sex. After my father died, my stepmother who is undateable got to liv…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 03:55 AM
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As most young guys do. When they eventually land an hb8-10 with blue pill "game" it comes with instant oneitis, endless chasing, humiliation and heartache.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 03:45 AM
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Not gonna lie, this was pretty hard to read.. but anyways lol She said this because clearly she is also watching mine she said I guess you are very good at sending snapchats to people and not include me This is a classic case of gaslighting right here. Don't argue, just withdraw attention and soft-next her. If you're in a LTR obsessing about social media... You're in for a rough ride buddy. Being there, done that.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 03:32 AM
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This isn't even TRP related, just common sense. Be more positive in general. You'll be miserable if you enter every relationship with the thought "well it's gonna end with her cheating anyway". I don't think thats the message of Auvergnat. Its not about entering every LTR saying "she will cheat", its about focusing on yourself and becoming the better man.. FOR YOU. We can enjoy monogamy and love, just don't believe for a second that a girl is not capable of cheating, no matter how sweet and in l…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 08:17 PM
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My first LTR cheated her boyfriend to date me. That's ALWAYS a Red Flag. Even if she doesn't cheat again, she will eventually reveal exactly why you should next her.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 12:34 AM
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Yep. Everytime i'm in a LTR and slipping back in the old blue ways of thinking, i re-read the "Dirty Sheets" post. A good reminder.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 12:25 AM
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You guys should read the "Dirty Sheets" field report. Seriously, coming from experience as well: there is NOTHING you could do to prevent cheating on her part, it can come with many red flags, just as it can happen with no reasoning whatsover. Therefore you can (and should) keep your options open. Never overinvest in a single pussy.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 01:56 AM
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The confrontation part is pure gold. THIS is where we reshape ourselves closer to our goals. When you've being blue for more than 20 years and a deep sense of inferiority lingers in every social situation you partake you need to start getting out there and feeding your brain with the feedback that you are ACTING. I've being with sales rep for some time, cold approaching business owners and teaching myself how to maintain frame, even doing it as a job the positive loop gets you going on the right…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 03:37 AM
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BPD girls can get scary man.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 01:47 AM
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He is in save-a-ho mode. Was there myself at my first 2-3 LTRs. Just let him live and if (more like 'when') he gets burned, be there for him indirectly introducing RP ideas and going out for drinks with the boys.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 05:16 AM
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Two things could possibly happen - 1. She might be the type (not very common) of girl who can "share an alpha" while ONLY fucking him. Happened to me once in a open (on my side) relationship and it is possible. BUT.. 2. She might be the type (pretty common tbh) of girl who will say and do whatever she needs to try to "control" her high value male eventually. This means its possible at some point that things go sour and she cheats on you or try to get even somehow. It happened to me too. Whatever…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 03:23 AM
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Totally agree. AWALT just means they ALL have the potential for hypergamy, Rollo even said that. You just gotta be prepared and focus on yourself; if she cheats, Next. Never think of her like shes your soulmate because she IS NOT.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 02:20 AM
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Hey man, you can have BOTH: abundance in your social/sex life AND love, happiness. Just ask the older more sucessful guys here, these are not mutually exclusive things.. The reason most guys are here anyway is because they are not/were not happy with themselves. They want to acomplish something, even if that at first is getting pussy. Eventually when you start becoming the man you want to be, you start living and loving better. Im talking about true self actualization. Not the bitter-cynic red p…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 01:25 AM
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