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| 1 | Would you support your boyfriend/husband for the rest of your relationship?Yes of course but not long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 07:38 PM |
| – | If its men's fault for not being able to get a date, then its women's fault for getting "used"It’s a touch grass situation icl. Some men get used, some women can’t get dates. That is actually natural and realistic, men aren’t a monolith who always want sex, and some women aren’t desired by the men they want to date. Also being a man isn’t sad, if you feel that way you might be dealing with gender dysmophia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 10:14 PM |
| – | If its men's fault for not being able to get a date, then its women's fault for getting "used"This is a very negative, sad, and inexperienced outlook on sex and men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Lack of maturity is women's biggest problem in relationshipsWait you put me on the history books you read. I wanna hear about the male suffragette movement 😭😭😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 07:48 PM |
| 0 | Lack of maturity is women's biggest problem in relationshipsShould have used a question mark then. I was trying to give you a benefit of a doubt, and clearly you can’t attack me argument either. Have a good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 05:36 PM |
| 0 | Lack of maturity is women's biggest problem in relationshipsIt’s not really a case of self reporting if it’s ingrained in the culture is it. Maybe you’re trying too hard to use fancy words that don’t apply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Lack of maturity is women's biggest problem in relationshipsMad, cause stereotypes of “boys will be boys” and the smarter mum and silly dad etc haven’t been around for ages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 07:16 AM |
| 2 | How should women “take accountability”?So do you believe chads can’t be loyal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 10:39 PM |
| – | RP women's desire to spoil men?We interpreted what op said in diff ways. I’m thinking about immediate gratification, but long term my partner more than reciprocates and that’s why I like spoiling him. I agree no one should be a doormat for any loser who treats them trash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 09:19 AM |
| – | RP women's desire to spoil men?I’m more left leaning (I think) but isn’t this normal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 07:46 PM |
| 0 | GenZ women's "icks" are just a manifestation of their innate preference for rigid gender roles and archetypes.My mates have said more backwards and bigoted things than “I don’t like this man because his tea was too milky” or whatever icks are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 07:56 AM |
| 5 | GenZ women's "icks" are just a manifestation of their innate preference for rigid gender roles and archetypes.Omg rlly, why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 10:19 PM |
| 14 | GenZ women's "icks" are just a manifestation of their innate preference for rigid gender roles and archetypes.I don’t any girls who have “icks” or talks about icks, I’ve only seen it online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 06:26 PM |
| 1 | If it was about women being consistent with their sexual behavior, then it would make more sense for men to pursue women who makes everyone wait for sex.Girl spend more time reading than responding, cause I literally said ‘investing time and noting lies’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 01:44 PM |
| 1 | If it was about women being consistent with their sexual behavior, then it would make more sense for men to pursue women who makes everyone wait for sex.There’s not a list at all, if it was so simple we wouldn’t have these issues. It’s about investing time, and noting lies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 11:56 AM |
| 1 | If it was about women being consistent with their sexual behavior, then it would make more sense for men to pursue women who makes everyone wait for sex.I agree with the first, I think that’s why women get labelled “reserved” and they assume she’s not promiscuous on shallow reasons. Then as the relationship progresses, unless they hear otherwise, men often think a woman is taking her clothes off for him cause he’s special. Then they don’t question if she’s that quick to start sex with every man she meets, because they underestimate her sex drive, and think it’s about the connection. I think women are assumed to be in relationships for pure reaso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 07:46 PM |
| 1 | If it was about women being consistent with their sexual behavior, then it would make more sense for men to pursue women who makes everyone wait for sex.Reserved socially. And it’s interesting to me, and probably others, because I disagree with it especially, everything else is valid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 06:41 PM |
| 1 | If it was about women being consistent with their sexual behavior, then it would make more sense for men to pursue women who makes everyone wait for sex.“This statement is far more misspelt than yours” is much more accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 08:48 AM |
| 3 | If it was about women being consistent with their sexual behavior, then it would make more sense for men to pursue women who makes everyone wait for sex.I think what you said is true, depending on what “hoe” means. I think OP is wrong cause there isn’t a bunch of discernible traits to tell if a woman is a “hoe”. Even a man, my boyfriend lied to me to make it seem like he was just as picky as me, because he knew I wanted someone who didn’t date out of desperation. It genuinely takes time to be 100% sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 08:45 AM |
| 2 | If it was about women being consistent with their sexual behavior, then it would make more sense for men to pursue women who makes everyone wait for sex.I think your description about how a woman looks does not align with how likely she’ll sleep with someone quickly. A lot of my friends are the well styled pretty girls who are only with one man and have been. Whereas those who are more reserved and nerdy have been promiscuous. I think it’s because insecurity breeds the want for male validation, and that’s not cohesive with a girls appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 08:40 AM |
| 3 | Do women really sleep with the “hot guys” first and marry the average ones later?I don’t think this is true. The girls I know who sleep around often do it by mistake, not thinking that the man will leave them and trying to get a long term relationship. Relationships, sex and validation gets mixed up in their brains. I don’t know many people who would compare their husband, who should be the height of their love, to a fuckboy. In my case, I’m very lucky that my first boyfriend means the world to me, and will be my husband. So take my inexperience with a pinch of salt, because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 02:13 PM |
| 9 | Women set standards based on men they’ve never met.That’s even? Bro I haven’t met one women who’s ever said that to me 😭😭😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Have you or a female friend of you actually actively pursuit there (now) Partner?Yepppp, best decision of my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the "good guy" vs "former hoe" relationship tropeFairs mate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on the "good guy" vs "former hoe" relationship trope“Not like the divorce rates are a reliable indicator or anything” vs your own source is hypocritical. You are ironic since you have been putting words in my mouth this whole time - like me saying that these people are lying. People with less experience in life are generally more naive and less educated. Therefore ignorance can change their perception of what “happiness” is. I would trust someone who has had 50 relationships to know that they have a good partner, versus someone who is in their fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on the "good guy" vs "former hoe" relationship tropeTo quote the source YOU just cited “marital happiness and divorce are not always as intertwined as they seem.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 05:01 PM |
| -3 | Thoughts on the "good guy" vs "former hoe" relationship trope“They report” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 04:44 PM |
| 13 | Thoughts on the "good guy" vs "former hoe" relationship tropeSo why are women (“former hoes”) demonised for wanting the same thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 03:49 PM |
| 7 | Thoughts on the "good guy" vs "former hoe" relationship tropeThe question is if that experience allows them to leave abusive marriages more etc and stand up for themselves. Just because they’re less likely to divorce doesn’t mean they have a quality marriage, they might just be too scared/inexperienced to leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 03:48 PM |
| – | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionThat’s fair enough, and I think you are right, but I think that’s normal for both genders. People look for help from similar people, and looking at support from the opposite sex can be misinterpreted as romantic. For example a cuddle. I don’t know, I think the term compassion is very vague. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 02:18 PM |
| – | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionDon’t men withhold compassion from other men too? Is this not an issue with the patriarchy that men are held to the standard to not be empathised with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 12:29 PM |
| -1 | The average woman would fail at dating as a MenGirl, what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 01:31 PM |
| -1 | The average woman would fail at dating as a MenIn my history I don’t have any trouble approaching men, the first one I approached is the love of my life. So reading this is all bullshit, hope you find the ladies reading this you’re thinking of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Do men actually prefer if their girlfriend is a virgin?As I said, you are right, but the risk is lower for women. You can say the same thing for maternity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Do men actually prefer if their girlfriend is a virgin?To me it’s not more rational for a man to have casual sex, because you can’t control the outcome. If a woman gets pregnant it’s her body her choice, at least in my country. As a man you are forfeiting control to a stranger and taking a chance, when you could have a wank. Which could be seen as weak. Equally why would I blame someone for enjoying causal sex and choosing to take that risk? That’s their business, and I take risks in life all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 08:58 AM |
| 5 | Most High Value Men will cheat, and if your Husband doesnt cheat, hes most likely not High Value, and u claiming he is doesnt change the fact that he isnt.Because men who cheat are of low value to women. High value men that cheat are only high value in men’s eyes. As a partner, no one wants someone who’s fucking around and getting randoms pregnant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 10:04 PM |
| – | Are sex and birth control harmless ?She meant the clitoris which isn’t stimulated directly in PIV. But also I agree, women in general enjoy and desire sex - I love it more than anything else even if it’s just cause it’s more emotionally satisfying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:04 PM |
| 1 | The best way to lose your virginity is to drop all your standards entirely and move up the scale from the bottom.It’s sad that you think you were in love when she ghosted you, very sad. And you’re right it is luck, but it is also about searching and having the right headspace. I am lucky I’ve found someone I love and who loves me, but I also made the effort to approach him as a stranger walking to the same gym. And I had been rejected before that. A relationship where both partners have unequal amounts of love and care is unhealthy, would you want to be in a relationship where you fall deeper into love wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 06:00 PM |
| 2 | The best way to lose your virginity is to drop all your standards entirely and move up the scale from the bottom.I understand your point, I’m also a distrusting person. I’m not going to go into a long explanation about very personal things so that I can prove to you it’s true because that’s silly. I hope the best for you, true honest love is achievable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 04:58 PM |
| 1 | The best way to lose your virginity is to drop all your standards entirely and move up the scale from the bottom.Both your choices matter. A great part of love is feeling chosen. That is how life goes, liking someone is usually unrequited, and sometimes not. If you liked her and didn’t date her then the person you rlly liked was an idea anyway. You’re sad about an idea. And yeah it is magical, to choose to be with someone properly is a massive and wonderful thing. But you’re focusing on being rejected by 1-12, rather than feeling chosen by 13. You have a choice and reject others too, otherwise you wouldn’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 02:24 PM |
| 1 | The best way to lose your virginity is to drop all your standards entirely and move up the scale from the bottom.Nah he would have, idk about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 02:13 PM |
| 1 | The best way to lose your virginity is to drop all your standards entirely and move up the scale from the bottom.Wait can you tell me the truth about Mike 🥺 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 07:11 AM |
| 1 | The best way to lose your virginity is to drop all your standards entirely and move up the scale from the bottom.If she rejected you she obviously wasn’t the right person. And also, it’s not about true love or yada yada yada, it’s just about what’s right for you. Again if sex matters to you so much then you can have it. And also you’re being close minded, like the other guy said you’re young and you don’t know what can happen. Also you don’t know him or his life up till then, i know a few boys who were having sex at 13. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 07:10 AM |
| 0 | The best way to lose your virginity is to drop all your standards entirely and move up the scale from the bottom.You’re sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 08:47 PM |
| 2 | The best way to lose your virginity is to drop all your standards entirely and move up the scale from the bottom.You can lie, but I think if you are in a truly intimate good relationship it will backfire. If sex matters that much to you and it’s weighing you down surely go get with whoever cause your happiness is worth it, and the right partner for you would respect that. As long as your safe is it rlly that deep? The problem isn’t not having sex tho, it’s the fact you think you need it, which is a social thing. And also yes, we were both 17 so we weren’t that old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 08:46 PM |
| 2 | The best way to lose your virginity is to drop all your standards entirely and move up the scale from the bottom.If having sex matters that much to you then yeah I guess. I’m glad my boyfriend waited for the right person cause I would have rated him less 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 06:44 PM |
| – | Has there become a larger divide between "good and bad girls"?They are not unicorns, there’s loads, but then again I’m in university and educated spaces are left leaning. And yeah, a lot of men lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Men should embrace “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn”Yeah, I remember in the bible it was the women who had multiple mistresses and wives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 08:14 AM |
| 1 | It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault.You’re talking about the radical feminism ideology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 07:59 AM |
| 0 | Being called "sweet", "nice" or "gentleman" means they are not attracted to youI have a feeling he’s being satire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 09:34 PM |
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