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| 1 | Apparently I'm a hot nerd...How do I make this work for me?Find girls into hot nerds duh. Youll know when you meet one | /r/seduction | 12/11/25 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Guys who find it easy to get sex on the first date -how?I dont know whats your idea of a drunk girl, but at my age its someone who can fully consent and has all of her motor skills active normally. When you do a banter at the bar my advice about food is pretty good as alcohol can make you hungry. Anyway, projecting in this context means that you see my comment and criticize because to you it feels out of your reach so you criticize and being sarcastic to me calling me casanova. I dont bring a girl home every weekend, not even every month, however eve… | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 05:59 AM |
| 3 | Guys who find it easy to get sex on the first date -how?Wanna try? | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Guys who find it easy to get sex on the first date -how?Thats your projection bro. I never said that. Cant a man do both? Dont be insecure, its something the average dude like me should be able to pull off. And its true, most of the actual dates ive had ended up with sex in the first date, but ive also picked up girls too. I dont see the problem here | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Guys who find it easy to get sex on the first date -how?They want attention you as a confident man know when to give attention. By focusing on something that is intended FOR her, doesn’t come across as rude but puts her as a second and first priority at the same time. She cant complain but wants your attention. A friend of mine who did this trick to a girl who he brought home after a nights out, she stood up on her own and literally kissed him herself. | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 08:01 PM |
| 30 | Guys who find it easy to get sex on the first date -how?"wanna watch a movie" is the general thing i throw around but my new favourite is when i pick up drunk girls is "I can cook some amazing pasta (or whataver), do you wanna come try some?" u obviously throw this line after you build a hella rapport and you both obv like eachother and shed be comfortable coming. Make sure during cooking the pasta you dont pay attention to her, you dont talk to her and you dont engage with her- thank me later. | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 03:53 PM |
| 77 | Guys who find it easy to get sex on the first date -how?Most of my first dates in the past two years ended up with sex. Dont chase sex but surely do invite them home and make them feel at home. Girls understand why ud call them over. I remember this girl first date at my place, she turned and said i hope u dont expect sex on the first date. I said nah we are watching a movie as i pulled her closer. After a bit she was the one asking to come to my room Edit: be a gentleman but show enough confidence that they know its not out of fear. Have confidence.… | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 01:47 PM |
| 1 | I’m a loser in high school and no girls like meIt is what it is bro | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 04:51 AM |
| 2 | How To Get Good At Sex (Aside From Having It)?Eat it like ur starved | /r/seduction | 06/11/25 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Do women expect you to try to kiss them on the first date?This is an extremely subjective matter. Depends heavily on a lot of factors so at the end of the day if you feel theres a spark go for it | /r/seduction | 03/11/25 11:05 PM |
| 124 | Why it is hard for short guys in datingIt is what it is bro | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 01:29 PM |
| 31 | been thinking about moving to thailand and making one night stands part of my daily routineCan confirm. Got 100 matches on tinder in less than a week but 60% were lady boys 10% were lady boys not stating that on their profile and 20% were actual dudes 10% were actual women and maybe 1% out of that were okay to go out with | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 08:21 PM |
| 4 | Difference between a "nice guy" and a "good guy" is based on how attractive he is.Because i see more and more posts from young or inexperienced guys blaming women for their own misfortune. Yes girls dont like “nice” guys but when the average woman gets approached in a sneaky way masked as “nice” she sees right through it in seconds and that puts her off. Its simple. On the other hand if you do a nice gesture expecting nothing in return, trust me at some point it will be seen | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 05:45 PM |
| 17 | Difference between a "nice guy" and a "good guy" is based on how attractive he is.This subreddit is starting to incelify. No. The nice guy is not necessarily a good guy. He just does things because he sees benefit in being nice. Theres whole books about it. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 01:03 PM |
| 3 | The Best Book You Have Read About SeductionThe translation would be “never alone again” and goes through literally everything i needed to know to understand women in such a direct and easy to understand way | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 04:27 PM |
| 1 | He said he would wingman but he fucked her instead?100% brother. Youre not supposed to be taking this seriously. A random girl you just met? Its whoever gets her attention. Goal is to have fun n get the girl | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 04:26 PM |
| 6 | He said he would wingman but he fucked her instead?Thats what im trying to say to OP | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 07:34 AM |
| -4 | He said he would wingman but he fucked her instead?You got bitter over this instead of cheering for your friend? When you go out to score, the girl decides. Shes not an object. Clearly she wasnt interested in you | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 07:32 AM |
| 1 | He said he would wingman but he fucked her instead?Maybe he has a different type of thinking. In my friend group we do it all the time cuz random women at the bar are far below our friendship and the end goal is to get game & have fun. If i were with my friends out and this happened to any of us we would be genuinely happy for our mate scoring. Its not like he wanted her for himself necessarily nor it implies hes a bad friend. What you are describing in this post happened a week ago to me. Friend was eyeing a blond who came close to the bar next… | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 07:29 AM |
| -1 | He said he would wingman but he fucked her instead?I want to go opposite to the flow in the comments and say that I dont have enough info to my up my mind if he is indeed a bad friend or not. His initial intention was to help you out and pointed you to a girl that seemed approachable- so far so good. Did he ask you to buy drinks for them or insinuated u should do that? What if the girl showed clear signs that shes interested in him? What would you do in his shoes? Decline the girls approach ? I say that because when i go out with my wingmans, it… | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 05:35 AM |
| -2 | The Best Book You Have Read About SeductionGreek | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 05:25 AM |
| -2 | The Best Book You Have Read About SeductionIve read a few but the best one unfortunately it is not in english. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 05:04 AM |
| 3 | Where to look for a sex casual friend?Casual sex usually is not always exactly planned, but comes along the way because you and the girl just cant be together for various reasons, even better if you agree on those reasons. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 02:59 PM |
| 8 | Where to look for a sex casual friend?Have u tried talking to women at a casual bar with dance music? Although girls your age are probably more difficult. You can try tinder if you have some very decent pictures. Aside from that, you can start becoming more social and meeting new people through common friends etc. thats all we do. Theres no magic formula. Just go out and go for it man | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 02:58 PM |
| 1 | How do YOU hookup at clubs?U just have to be good with small talk mate. If she likes you, shell chat back. I prefer bars where you can also dance because the music is low enough for a chat but lough enough to dance and enjoy. Never think about what to say. Just approach say hey and in the first 20 seconds youll know if she enjoys talking with you or not. | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 11:11 PM |
| 2 | The whole dating system penalises men so much. My god!!!Well dont date then. Also never had to invest months or years to grow her feelings. Be focused on your goals, dont revolve around women and their affection will grow eventually and if not thats fine we move on. And women go through similar emotions too, it not much easier for women. All of the women i know had to go through rejection, and pain through their lives. We all fight our own battles. The truth is this: “Broke men and ugly women know the reality of this world” | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 04:17 PM |
| 33 | Your Dating Life Will Be Less Painful When You Accept ThisInformative. I very much agree but sadly theres a lot of people living in that imaginary fairy tale | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Sent me a paragraph wishing me a happy birthday 3 weeks after she rejected me. What did she want?More than sufficient indeed | /r/seduction | 18/07/25 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you can bypass women’s standard with game/personalityNailed it. Well said | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 09:19 PM |
| -2 | 28M How to give her orgasm if you get finished earlier ?I might receive a lot of hate by saying this but how are you 28 and not know? Genuinely my friend- if you finish first and you want her to finish as well, then youve got to play with her a bit more. Eat her out, finger her, use a toy depends whatever feels most effective as every woman and occasion is vastly different. You can clone one girl and make one cum and the other will keep saying “harder” or “higher” or whatever. It doesnt guarantee she will finish but trust me she will let you know whe… | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 01:32 AM |
| 1 | What to do when you get disrespected?Youre overthinking this my guy. Its time to move on. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Shit tests, fail or not ? : )Gotta agree with the folks. A majority of the shit tests is often done in a way that shes unaware of doing them so they come in too many shapes or forms. The best thing u can do is just observe her actions than words. A girl that likes you cant help it but give you the chance you need | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 04:01 PM |
| 3 | How do you start conversation with a girl at the gym?Just saying hi to people you see often at a certain place surely helps with approaches | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 10:52 AM |
| 2 | How do I become badboyBeing confident in yourself will get you 10x more chicks than acting as a badboy. | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 01:50 PM |
| 2 | What tattoos attract women the mostThis subreddit is getting very unserious sadly | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 08:28 PM |
| 5 | She said she was off limits to meNo brother. 1/3 of the chicks i slept with a 5-7 years ago would say that they see me as a friend and still sleep with me. You dont bail- you observe her actions. Example. Was on a date with a girl, showed interest but she said that she seems me as a friend. Ok later i ask for another date- not a hang out. We go out- this time i kiss her . Slept with her on the same day. Why did i kiss her? She showed signs she wants to be seduced. Body language, even just by going out with me knowing full well … | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 06:03 PM |
| 21 | She said she was off limits to meYeh the classic “off limits” “ i see you as a friend”, “ im not that kind of girl” and other bullshit tests women will throw at you😆 it matters what she does not what she says . | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 05:00 PM |
| 6 | how do i crack sum for the first time?Just get exposure in talking to women first. Go out and meet girls either from common friends, outside. Before talking to the girls u should also “warm up your social skills” by talking to strangers like the barista that makes ur coffee whatever. You cant just go out there with little to no experience and just hope for it to happen magically. You build it but meeting lots of women and interacting with them often statistically will get you laid eventually as long as you try to improve yourself to… | /r/seduction | 23/06/25 05:57 AM |
| 13 | Girl lost interest after I asked for a kissMy two cents are: she was looking for something more casual and you being mr nice guy asking for cheek kisses wasnt on her agenda. Or maybe she just didnt feel like it or even someone else came along. Doesnt matter- move on. Next time if things are going really well dont ask for a kiss. 95% of women dont want to be asked; they want to be lead. Dont be afraid to go for it. SO MANY times the girl was not really interested in me but because i actually did a nice preparation and went for it with con… | /r/seduction | 14/06/25 03:13 AM |
| 46 | Wake up call. Your wife can cheat on you, even if she is not a cheater.Stay single= problem solved. Other guys will have to worry about u sleeping with their wives not the other way around | /r/seduction | 10/06/25 09:10 PM |
| 1 | I can’t tell if my colleague likes me or notReal | /r/seduction | 09/06/25 03:56 PM |
| 30 | Thought I had a date locked in- girl flaked without a word after showing major interestMy bro don’t overthink it. It happens way too often and you can end up being on the other end too. Dont sweat it. I remember i was talking to a chick recently she showed so much interest, good mornings, good nights and everything but dipped last hour. Its fine it happens you move on | /r/seduction | 08/06/25 08:22 PM |
| 17 | “If she likes you she’ll make it easy” isnt always true is it?Nothing is really true. Every “rule” can be broken. | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 05:19 PM |
| 9 | How many men actually have control on their dating life and what “special” about them?I think what OP meant regarding the “dice” analogy is that the average man relies on luck and thus are not in control . Meanwhile other people chose who they date relying less on chances due to charm or skill | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 08:40 AM |
| 7 | “I don’t sleep with guys on the first date” *proceeds to sleep with me on the first date*Bro almost every girl or woman is like this. I had a hookup with a girl who had over 60 bodies by the age of 19 . When we hooked up she said the exact same shit | /r/seduction | 30/05/25 12:45 AM |
| 19 | “I don’t sleep with guys on the first date” *proceeds to sleep with me on the first date*Almost EVERY girl ive had a ONS with or hooked up on the same day said this. Dont believe any of that. Just carry on doing whatever is it that youre doing and its working | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 11:03 PM |
| 0 | To all the dating gurus How to show a intrest in a girl without looking creepyYou dont need to be a guru for that haha just show genuine interest. Be lighthearted, funny and confident around her . Enjoy the process | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 11:24 AM |
| 15 | Single men, what drastically improved your sex life?I second that | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 01:04 PM |
| 198 | She's Hot, She's Broken, She'll Ruin You(unless you're him and how to be him)Good read. I agree to those points. My ex was testing a lot and because i liked her a lot i was biting her bait. When i became the mountain, setting hard boundaries and showing her i really dont care about walking away the moment shes crosses her boundaries she became nice and loving . Suddenly the “youre way too nice to me i dont like it” turned into “why youre not sweet anymore” and “i love you so much” .but its not worth fellas. Its never worth it. Inner peace > crazy bitch with good sex | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 04:28 AM |
| 4 | 3 levers that skyrocketed me to the next levelFor real bro what the hell ever chick i ever had would go ballistic when id wear gray sweatpants. When i asked one said it looks good plus it kinda hits out on the d. So its like female camel toe basically Lol | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 01:25 PM |
| 3 | Is it a red flag a woman, you're not in relationship with, is still in contact or hangs out with an ex?Red flag | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Should I just make peace with it?Hello friend. Heres my two cents: 1)The dating scene for indians in EU is looking tough. Ive heard a lot of girls in the past stating that they wouldnt go for indian 2) every eu country is vastly different. If youre in northern part of EU girls would prefer someone above 175-180. Guys above 180 have lots of chances and are very successful in dating. Spain, Greece, Italy they are ok with 175+ 3) dont give up. Look for foreign girls this tip will increase your chances by a lot | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Best way to probe about past experiences?If body count matters to then assume she has a bigger body count than you from the way you word it | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 04:06 PM |
| 2 | I have a very close female friend but, I really want us to have a casual sexual relationship.If you want to keep the friendship long term dont do it. Casual always causes problems in a friendship down the road. Although not always. I have friends in was in a fwb status before but im also super friendly. Idk remember tho- the grass is not always greener- if you get what you want you wont have your mind your blown away as you might think. See for yourself but be honest with her | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 02:37 AM |
| 2 | How to make a insecure girl with daddy issues fall in love?If she “acts” hard to get then double down. If shes interested she will give in | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 04:53 PM |
| 1 | How to make a insecure girl with daddy issues fall in love?If i were you i would just find confidence and just ask her out. Break the contact barrier and if shes comfortable enough the rest will fall into place | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 04:59 AM |
| 1 | How to make a insecure girl with daddy issues fall in love?OP asked, i answered | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 04:58 AM |
| 4 | How to make a insecure girl with daddy issues fall in love?Dont be available, dont give her compliments, fuel her insecurities a little bit but in a very indirect way | /r/seduction | 27/04/25 10:14 PM |
| 1 | How to stop telling myself I’ll approach today then I end up walking around for 2-3 hours ?Try cocain | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Help! I got her IG. Now what?Now stroke it to her stories | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 02:40 AM |
| 4 | What else can i [24M] do to blow my gf’s [26F] mind away during sex?Gun works | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 07:23 PM |
| 13 | Most promiscuous city you've been to?We definitely need a vote system here | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Why Waiting for Women to Come to You Never WorksAsk ur friend about her and try to meet her in person with ur friend Or just double down and follow her and this time message her - which i dont advice. Chances are always better in person | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 10:09 AM |
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