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| 5 | How to seduce a girl that knows that she is smoking hot, desired and has turned down multiple guys."...so when she comes back I can have an actual chance?" What would be most beneficial is to ensure you aren't putting this girl on a pedestal. It's alright to admit she's gorgeous and acknowledge that she knows how to take advantage of that, but remember that she's just a woman, why shouldn't she be attracted to you? Always assume attraction. If you can't, then you're literally telling yourself you aren't worth her. If you treat her as an equal (instead of this amazing girl that will not likely… | /r/seduction | 17/12/13 08:16 AM |
| 1 | 21 year old virgin here, getting rejected during escalation from lack of experience.It seems to me that one way in which guys can be off-putting to girls in sexual scenarios is by over-thinking; "Shit, how is this for her", "I hope/wonder if she's enjoying this", "I really want to do x but I am unsure if she wants to or not..." Does this sound familiar? Is it what you think about when you're making out with a girl? One of the greatest aspects of sexuality is that you inherently and biologically want to experience it with another person. Emphasis: you want. I'm sure you're famil… | /r/seduction | 11/12/13 12:31 PM |
| 1 | A question to ask yourself.Note: this is off-topic yet regarding the story you presented. You described yourself as an introvert. I'm currently developing a theory as to why people associate with the terms introvert and extrovert, and I thought you might find some of these ideas I'm about to present interesting. Perhaps you could assess them and let me know what you think? Either way, I hope you find them interesting. Essentially, I think that some people are better at interacting with others (for whatever reasons) giving… | /r/seduction | 11/12/13 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Convince me I'm wrong. Please. I need to hear it.This is very well worded. To "But being good with women is a skill", I want to add that being good with people is a skill. If you can befriend a guy easily, you should be just as able to seduce a woman. I also second the Models recommendation. /u/TracerBullet_11 , read it! I guarantee you'd love it, because it is one of the only books commonly discussed in the seduction community which endorses being genuine to attract women, while also rejecting "selling yourself out" or just plainly trying to … | /r/seduction | 11/12/13 11:20 AM |
| 1 | How do I build attraction with girls in online convo/text?Generally, you don't. It's best to create attraction and get sexual conversations going in person. Once that is established, a minimalist approach to texting seems appealing to a great deal of this community because the more you invest in texting, the easier it becomes for her to flake. You should use texting as a means to hang out so that you can do all of this in person (which is way more fun and intimate, anyway). In the case that "we just met and they're not that attracted to me": if you've … | /r/seduction | 11/12/13 11:09 AM |
| 2 | In 4 words, describe the traits needed to be a PUA. Go.Loving yourself --> Sharing yourself | /r/seduction | 11/12/13 10:31 AM |
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