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Yup. For instance, we statistically have less access to firearms. And yet whenever someone brings up that women attempt more (not to derail but just to point out it’s an issue), men respond that women do it for attention and don’t really “mean it.” It’s clear those guys never really cared about mental health issues at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:56 PM
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I don’t even understand this. Girls tell guys all the time it hurts when they leer at other girls (celebs or not) and when they like random girls’ pics and are told they’re being overdramatic. They can only accept that it’s normal to be upset when it’s their POV
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:20 AM
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Men live longer, experience less depression and addiction, and are shown to be happier when they’re married vs. unmarried. The exact opposite of all the above is true of women. Yet there are a dozen negative stereotypes about unmarried women (lonely/sad/crazy cat lady, cold and unlovable career woman, washed up single mom, etc.) while unmarried men are portrayed as cool bachelors. It’s all projection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:10 PM
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2-4x more. No one talks about it though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 09:28 AM
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Genuinely wondering, how would this be antifeminist? This is caused by gender norms saying that men always want sex, men are the stronger sex and should just shut up and take it, women are the weaker sex and thus aren't seen as a threat/dangerous, etc. Feminism is against gender roles
/r/AntiFeminists17/02/21 03:52 PM
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I’m so sorry that your wife dying of something like cancer would be so hard for your dick. Totally justifies the vows you made to love her in sickness and health and to leave her to die alone. Your poor dick ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:59 AM
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Here’s another source! This study actually says women are 7x more likely to be left
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:56 AM
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Here’s a source if you want to read about it. This study actually says women are 7x more likely to be left
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:55 AM
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Okay, but she should be celebrated even if she weren’t beautiful and even if she didn’t “age well.” Can we stop perpetuating the idea that a woman’s appearance is what makes her valuable? She is an acting legend. Can we stop acting like aging, the most natural thing of all, is a terrible thing for women to do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:52 AM
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It’s honestly so embarrassing. How does it feel to have to lie and manipulate to get laid? To know that no one genuinely wants to sleep with the real you? And yet they brag about it lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:16 PM
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Or something like “she’s cheating on you bro” or “she’s still gonna leave you” like no, when you actually treat a good woman right, she’ll return that energy. But they’ll never know what it’s like to treat women right or to attract good women in the first place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 03:33 AM
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This. They mean fuck buddies but FWB sounds better, even though it’s not the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:50 AM
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They clearly don’t even know what they’re talking about because we don’t hate men — just shitty men. Look how we praised the HVM who was exposing the illegal and exploitative ways of the porn industry and Reddit just yesterday. These are the same men who say all women go for Chads and “bad boys” when we’re specifically condemning bad boys lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:26 PM
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Studies literally showed that the happiest demographic is single, never married women while the unhappiest is single, never married men. Married men live longer. The cope is hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 10:33 PM
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Why is “freaky” a compliment? Why is it acceptable for men to say they want freaky girls or girls with daddy issues (trauma from other shitty men)? (Before any men attack, it’s okay to be freaky, but it’s clear that there’s a cultural expectation for girls to be, and it’s disgusting)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 04:24 PM
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The way she looks really excuses taking advantage of her and wanting to fuck a child. They’ll say anything to excuse themselves and genuinely believe it lmao. They like the way their bodies look, so who cares if they scar them for life, am I right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 10:11 AM
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The guys who say this are always the guys who expect on-demand blowjobs lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:15 PM
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Before any men screenshot and call us monsters for hating on people with addictions, we’re not hating on them, but we have every right to not be in a relationship with them and bring negativity into our lives. Coming from a former addict
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:09 PM
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“Lemme blame my depravity on you simply existing and me objectifying you for it” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:05 PM
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They can’t get it through their heads that legality =/= morality. 16 and 18 are arbitrary numbers. There are countries where 13 is the age of consent. Does that make it okay for people of any age to fuck 13 y/os? No person magically turns mature and suddenly becomes ready for sex the moment they turn a certain age. Not to mention that the brain doesn’t stop developing until one is in their 20s, which is why teens make impulsive decisions so often, why car insurance is higher for teens, etc. Peop…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:01 PM
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Given the blatant misogyny of guys on Reddit, it’s not even surprising that they don’t emphasize with us and the disgust we feel, but to not emphasize with literal, innocent children who are victims of a terrible crime that will likely scar them for life? This should not be a controversial post. I guess I shouldn’t be surprised that so many Redditors are/support pedophiles, but holy shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:45 AM
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It’s because aging doesn’t actually matter and it’s the insecure LVM who try to use it as a weapon to lower our self-esteem. I commented this below already, but - Men use women aging as an excuse to get back at us for having options/being sought after, as well as because older women are smarter and take less shit, and to make us feel like we’re less worthy, deserving of poor treatment, and like we should settle when our “looks fade” (again, all BS - I honestly love the way so many older women lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:35 AM
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It feeds their egos? They’re insecure and externalize it all the time? I’ve given up trying to rationalize male behavior, honestly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:23 AM
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Women have always wanted the option to have their own freedom and have always known about the ways of the vast, vast majority of men. Even a lot of pickmes realize it in time when they’re stuck in miserable relationships (if you can call them that). The difference is that older generations didn’t have autonomy or any means to survive without men. When men tell you that there are no more good women or that you should be like older generations of women, they’re telling you they wish they could con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 06:53 AM
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I posted here once about how studies show men are 7x more likely to leave their seriously sick gfs/wives than women are to leave their seriously sick bfs/husbands. The vast majority of men really do not seem to care about women they’re supposed to love at all and intentionally hurt them when they’re most vulnerable and miserable. But nah, FDSers are in the wrong for pointing out the science-backed facts 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 06:44 AM
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This is the kind of guy men say we’re missing out on because of our “high standards” lol. I don’t know much about Selena’s music or acting roles, but I’ve always admired her so much for growing up in the spotlight, especially with bipolar disorder, depression, anxiety, and lupus. And being constantly attacked by Justin stans. For a child star to go through all that and then be selfless and give back (pledging $100 million to mental health awareness and creating products for those with arthritis …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 06:40 AM
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The thing is, even those who don’t “age well” are still worthy of love and respect. Men use women aging as an excuse to get back at us for having options/being sought after, as well as because older women are smarter and take less shit, and to make us feel like we’re less worthy and deserve to be treated poorly when our “looks fade” (again, all BS - I honestly love the way so many older women look). But our value isn’t based on our looks, as much as they want us to believe it is. But yeah, even …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 06:35 AM
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They’re literally getting mad that we’re trying to take down child pornography. Yet everyone thinks we’re monsters? What kind of logic lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:04 AM
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Until the pickmes who “aren’t like other girls” inevitably show that they are like other girls in some way (since women aren’t an anomaly), usually by having their own opinions or standing up for themselves once the LVM behavior becomes too much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:42 PM
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I can’t believe there are people lurking here downvoting this 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:28 PM
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He skipped his son’s first Christmas to go to a release party (during a pandemic) for his trash new album with the mistress he cheated on Iggy with during her entire pregnancy. 🤦‍♀️ NVM gonna NVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 02:58 PM
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People are defending him and calling her a liar/Amber Heard when he literally admitted to it and when he’s admitted to murdering stray dogs to help with his acting and when he’s abused multiple women in the past. Even the people who believe her are sympathetic to him because he admitted it and has mental health issues. As if being self-aware of how shit you are is a substitute for change and justice. People will give mentally ill men a hundred chances and then some. And these are the same people…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:39 AM
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People are defending him and calling her a liar/Amber Heard when he literally admitted to it and when he’s admitted to murdering stray dogs to help with his acting and has abused multiple women in the past. Even the people who believe her are sympathetic to him because he admitted it (in the most self-victimizing way ever) and has mental health issues. As if being self-aware of how shit you are is a substitute for change and justice. People will give mentally ill men a hundred chances and then s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:39 AM
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The thing is, even if Laura does speak up for herself, a lot of people—not just men, unfortunately—won’t take her seriously and/or will think she’s being bossy, bitchy, etc. Male allies who are actually allies can help women in these kinds of situations because they receive a kind of professional respect women very often don’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 11:27 PM
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LVM will use biology and biological desires to excuse body shaming, sexual harassment, and even assault and rape ("It's natural for men to have urges! What do you expect?") but can’t understand that women can simply have a PREFERENCE largely because of biology, and they think it’s the worst, most shallow thing in the world even though women aren’t putting anyone in danger with this preference like men have with the “biological desire” to assault and rape. I’m personally short, so height’s never …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 02:40 AM
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Sadly not the first time Ariana has tried to play down misogynistic songs with “empowering” videos. She tried to make it seem like “break up with your girlfriend, i’m bored” was about her going after the girl, when she’s straight and when the song is clearly about pitting women against each other for the sake of men. Pretty pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 02:44 AM
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You asked what she said that made him do that, and she responded that she didn’t say anything to make him do anything because she didn’t need to. It’s that simple lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:58 PM
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I remember seeing stretch marks for the first time in a piece of art on Tumblr (was on the internet way too young lol) and being compared to lightning. Thought they looked so cool and wanted them really badly. There’s really nothing inherently unattractive or bad about them, and they’re had by many, if not most, women. It’s the prevalence of photoshop, porn, etc. that makes them seem out of the norm, so women are constantly told that normal bodies are bad bodies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:27 PM
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He really profited off being a hypocrite and calling out “other” men so no one would point fingers at him. I’ve literally seen people call him woke and a feminist ally, when he was just describing himself and his own predatory behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:12 PM
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Yeah that guy has definitely cheated on (at best), raped, robbed, or abused a partner in the past. Can’t think of a less serious reason why he would think someone would both track down and reach out to a complete stranger to warn them about him. This is why we should be careful and end things without feeling bad or feeling the need to give more chances. Because dangerous men we literally need to be warned about are unbelievably common. Good on you for leaving
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:08 PM
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I think it really depends on how they acknowledge it, as well as whether they reflect on their own behavior. I remember venting to my LV ex about traumatic experiences with men, and he went, “Of course they were assholes; they’re men,” and would just continue to dismiss me. That gross “boys will be boys” shit and the idea that women should lower their expectations and standards instead of asking asshole men to acknowledge their wrongdoings and at least try to improve. He ended up never taking re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 08:00 AM
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And then when we aren’t cautious, we get blamed too. Because a girl getting raped after hanging out in a male friend’s room, wearing something revealing around men, or getting drunk with male friends would be the girl’s fault, right? What could she be thinking; she was obviously asking for it! (I’ve actually heard so many people, men and pickmes, say this about rape cases) But if she had said she doesn’t feel comfortable wearing revealing clothing around men or told her male friends she couldn’t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 07:50 AM
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I don’t think it’s something that can be determined by just one statement but by observing their actions. How do they treat you, knowing you’re nice? Do they take advantage of it or even come close to doing so, testing the waters with shitty treatment to see how much shittiness you’ll accept? People make mistakes, but how shitty was the mistake? Do they intentionally hurt you? Do they change their actions after apologizing or do they apologize to manipulate? A HVM isn’t high value by his words a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 07:33 AM
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Every time I see Drake, I have to mention how he felt up and hit on a 17 y/o onstage in his late 20s after she told him she’s 17. There’s footage but no one gives a fuck, and it just confirms that his texting Billie and Millie was indeed probably creepy. He’s honestly talentless: can’t write his music, dance, sing (even though most of his successful songs involve singing - watch him perform live), and hasn’t made decent music since 2015. Not that he can be credited for that music anyway, since h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:17 PM
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Men love to blame women who have been abused and mistreated by saying we have bad taste, asked for it, are shallow and only attracted to asshole “Chads,” etc, but they fail to realize how many shitty, abusive men manipulate women into thinking they’re one of the good ones. Obviously, there are pickmes and women who are attracted to shitty men (but because of trauma/mental health/conditioning...no normal person wants to be treated like shit), but it’s much more common that the women are manipulat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 12:20 AM
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Misused.* It originally had an actual, legitimate meaning and was about the kind of rudeness/entitledness/often racism and classism that honestly defines the same misogynistic men who misuse it as an attack on any woman they don’t like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:18 PM
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And before all the male fans (if you’re following and/or constantly lurking, you’re a fan ¯_(ツ)_/¯) come in and say single moms aren’t necessarily good, the post is talking about the plenty of men (edit: not just men tbh) who will vilify/hate on single moms for no other reason than that they’re single moms, not because they’re bad moms. Single dads are never treated the same way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:31 PM
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Aside from the objectification, this is just a stupid ass analogy because cars get worse with mileage, whereas people in general get better at sex with more experience. But I hear men parroting this shit all the time. LVM are imbeciles lol seriously not worth our/anyone’s time or energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 01:57 AM
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I personally partake in smoking, which helps my mental health, but I hate it when men post it everywhere, talk about it all the time, or act like it gives them a personality. Totally get why it would be a dealbreaker for some
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:36 PM
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I know what you’re trying to say in that they really don’t understand women’s social cues, but as someone with ASD, let’s not throw autistic people under the bus. These men violate our privacy and peace not because they’re neurodivergent and struggle to understand social cues despite trying but because they don’t respect women, care about our feelings, or try to understand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 01:46 PM
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They’re 7x more likely to leave a woman than a woman is to leave a man, and while sickness makes men more likely to leave, it makes women more likely to stay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:57 PM
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Can you imagine if a female celebrity had children with eight different men? She’d be torn to shreds with slutshaming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 11:33 PM
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Oh my God, I’m sorry that he displayed such blatant apathy. Could he not even try to be compassionate when you were having and recovering from emergency surgery? Holy shit. My one other post is about how women and our pain aren’t taken seriously in healthcare (/lack of research for women), and this reminded me of the comments with horrific tales that often nearly ended in death, with some actually ending in paralysis, organ damage, etc. It’s absolutely wild how our concerns are dismissed by so m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:15 AM
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She’s fucking missing and could be anywhere, dead or alive, in terrible conditions, and this was what he thought to say? He really thought this, typed it out, and decided to publish it? Her family is probably worried sick. Hearing that people want to kidnap their young girl is the exact fucking opposite of comforting. What a scumbag. LVMs don’t seem to feel empathy or understand human decency
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:41 AM
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The emotional intelligence is so low FTFY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:42 PM
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Not to mention how many don't report their rapes and assaults because they know they will be called attention-seeking liars or told that they were asking for it and should have been more careful. (Even though women who are careful and try to protect themselves are told that they're misandrists because they supposedly think all men are rapists who they need to guard against, when they're really just being cautious - you can't fucking win.) There have been AMAs by rapists (terrible fucking idea bt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:41 PM
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As someone who was a TA, emails from female students would contain a thousand sorries and thank yous when they asked for something incredibly basic and did nothing wrong. Emails from male students often didn’t even have greetings or signatures. Many weren’t even in complete sentences lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:38 PM
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Thinking about this study in which 35% of men admitted to raping animals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:22 AM
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Found some stats for you! “10 percent of fathers-to-be cheat on their partners during pregnancy . . . The risk of men cheating on their wives grows along with the fetus.” (Link) One of the thousands of reasons to vet men thoroughly and avoid LVM without exception
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:16 AM
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These men seriously don’t realize there’s a world outside of their own experiences and perspectives. Not to mention how people are prone to confirmation bias and are far more likely to notice things that affect them than ones that don’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:28 AM
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I agree that there are (rare) HVM, and I'm sure the OP of the thread does as well, given that it's a part of FDS. I think the point of the comment is that women are socialized to romanticize relationships and crave romance (or at least told that we should crave it), and men aren't and are instead told to "get" chicks, which places women in the position of objects to acquire who provide services (sex, looking hot, cooking, cleaning). Look at all the posts here about the amount of men who clearly …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 10:26 PM
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Haha no worries. I think nearly every woman develops some sense of internalized misogyny at some point in their lives. Hard not to seeing how women are portrayed, treated, and perceived and how we're all pit against one another constantly, so we feel like we have to be "not like other girls," and that'll somehow make us better. Won't lie, some of the MRA posts almost persuaded me until I did research and found actual facts that showed how their claims were false or deliberately misleading. Beyon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 10:08 PM
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Watch how lurkers will take this seriously and say we want all men to die while ignoring the whole subreddit seriously dedicated to porn about killing women lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:56 PM
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LVM seriously get so offended when something isn’t about them. It’s why they hate feminism so much (despite overgeneralizing it and failing to actually understand it) and why you’ll see derailing and “but men have problem xyz” under any post talking about female issues. It’s not a fucking competition
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:50 PM
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Glad to hear she got out of that relationship. And yeah, LVM who get married usually are mixed bags. Not talking about your father specifically, but they often do just enough to guilt you into staying and to have a defense and a way to gaslight when you call them out on shitty behavior. As if a single good deed makes up for bad ones. All the best to your mom and you and your siblings ❤️ I hope you’re all able to recover and move on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:48 PM
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I don’t know why so many men seem incapable of seeing their partners/women as human beings deserving of compassion, even if they can for other people. My dad didn’t say a single word to my mom for the entire nine months she was pregnant with me, but he bends over backward to help his dad with any task. I’m so sorry that your own husband has shown no compassion for you, and while I don’t have the authority or anything to tell you to leave him, you absolutely deserve someone who cares for you and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:42 PM
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You indeed are awesome, and—no offense since I know you still love him—your dad sounds like a fucking dick. I can’t fathom how someone could have the audacity to leave their wife and two children at such a low point and then basically rob her of her money. And then to be in debt to your child and not even be apologetic or try to pay it back? Every story I see here is so fucking infuriating, but these things are so common. You said your mom said “husband” and not “ex-husband” - idk your situation…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:08 PM
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r/exredpill has a lot of stories from ex-Red Pill men who explain how it ruined their lives, led them to be abusive and shitty, preyed on vulnerable and susceptible young men, and how its views were so far from the truth (lots of Red Pill trolls too though). But despite the firsthand experience and knowledge the ex-RPers have, LVM will still refuse to admit there’s anything wrong with the Red Pill
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:51 PM
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Haha my comments and post are being downvoted too. Like, what are you disagreeing with, science? Does it make you mad when you see facts that disagree with your mindset? Sorry your views conflict with reality. Maybe you should be willing to actually grow and learn instead of refusing to consider you could be wrong. What is it that shitstain LVM said? Facts don’t care about your feelings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:27 PM
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Being treated well when one's sick is normal -- if you're a man. Can you imagine if this were reversed and women were 7 times more likely to leave their sick husbands and partners? Dudes would lose their fucking minds over how selfish and shallow women are. I'm glad you have a HVM as your dad. It's still sad that your mom had to worry about your dad leaving on top of worrying about cancer, but it happens so often to women and is just accepted, so it's not surprising
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:40 PM
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I was honestly speechless for minutes after reading this. LVM really do just see us as toys to own and play with and to discard and replace once we show any "defects" (aka being human). Absolute fucking scum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:34 PM
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And to all the men who will try to reverse this and say their experiences with shitty women must mean all women are shitty then - it's not only based on personal experience but actual facts and the experiences of women as a whole. Facts are facts, and men are statistically more likely to be murderers (serial and otherwise), rapists, abusers, etc. Within a year, thousands more women are murdered by their partners than members of the military are killed. No one would think all dogs are killers or …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:12 PM
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I haven't found statistics for those, but some of the linked articles do talk about cheating, and it's not at all uncommon for men to cheat on sick wives/girlfriends. To be honest, I didn't even want to look into abuse because the thought of someone beating and otherwise abusing their partner whom they promised to love and who has a serious illness like cancer is so fucking infuriating, but there are definitely men who would take advantage of and abuse sick women, especially seeing as they don't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:48 PM
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Yup, some of the articles mention how many men cheat on their sick partners in addition to or instead of leaving them. Before I gave up on OLD, I came across more than one man saying he's married to a sick wife who can't satisfy him. One said he "knows he's a piece of shit," but that didn't stop him at all. LVM will seriously never realize how depraved they are or try to grow. Men say women have ridiculously high standards, but these women are just asking for men they love and thought they were …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:35 PM
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Yup, and it should. There are some articles that dive into personal stories that are just so heartbreaking. Countless women have been abandoned and/or cheated on during their most helpless, miserable moments, and they often end up going through treatment and even dying alone. Men are far more likely to leave their partners even when the couple was happy before she got sick, so it doesn't matter how much you care for him or make him happy - chances are, he'll leave you when it matters the most. Y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:30 PM
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I'm glad that you said potential, because it's important to keep in mind that someone doing a few good things doesn't make them high value. It's about consistency and being respectful in every way, not just with big gestures and gifts. But with that being said, this is really sweet! It's a great way to show he cares and put in effort without even spending money (for all the angry, strawmanning dudes who say FDS doesn't want poor guys to date or that women are only impressed by money - it's about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:18 PM
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LVM definitely are lazy and selfish. Just wasn't sure whether it had been communicated before, but if it has, and he ignored you, let that man go...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:03 PM
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Also, I just noticed the unevenness in the title of wives/girlfriends vs boyfriends/husbands - sorry to anyone else annoyed by details like that haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:01 PM
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Why is this not discussed more? Why do those who insist misogyny doesn't exist and say women are "loved unconditionally" ignore all the facts? Seriously, 21% of sick women being divorced and 3% of sick men. The numbers don't lie. The idea that women end up more miserable when they’re single is a lie. What would be the point in marrying someone who is so likely to abandon me at my most vulnerable moment? The minute we can’t maintain our looks, be maids, or have sex (all because we’re seriously il…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:59 PM
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All this man is saying is that he thinks the only point of dating/women is sex. He’s not even trying to hide that he sees women as just sex objects. Women want men to pay because it’s a sign (although not a guarantee) of effort and respect, especially seeing as how men will manipulate and lie to fuck us, so we can’t use what they say as signs. But keep trying to shame women for having standards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:16 PM
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Male suicide is definitely an issue and shouldn’t be overlooked, but I hate that so many Redditors use it as a way to say women have no problems at all and misogyny doesn’t exist anymore. Suicide in young women has risen 94% in the past few years, and women commit the majority of suicide attempts, but when men hear this, instead of acknowledging that mental health is a problem overall, they’ll say women attempt suicide for attention (when studies show it’s because women care more about traumatiz…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:12 PM
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Talk to him if you haven’t about how you want to go out on dates and how that upsets you. If he cares about you and sees that this is an issue for you, he should at least try to put in some effort and address your concerns
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:08 PM
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Good riddance. The fact that he tried to make you believe the problem was you having “high” standards and not him failing to put in any effort says it all. An inability to admit one’s faults, blaming others and asking them to accept disrespect, not being able to do the bare minimum = red flags
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:52 AM
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Compare MGTOW and WGTOW lmao. The difference is clear. For example, WGTOW isn’t associated with white supremacy, hasn’t been named a hate group, and hasn’t had a known terrorist as a member like MGTOW is, officially has, and did/probably still does
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:47 AM
39

Wow, I can’t believe I didn’t notice that. What the actual fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:24 AM
16

Not to sound like a libfem, and I know what you mean by low value, but I also want to clarify that while sex work isn’t something to aspire to do and is often dangerous and degrading, those who do it shouldn’t be thought of as bad people for it (not saying you said that but LV has negative connotations especially given the shittiness of so many LVM). I feel for those who have to and honestly don’t think it takes away from their character. I’ve read about women who work multiple jobs but still ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:58 AM
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LVM are so threatened by women who aren’t insecure and have standards. It’s why they hate FDS. Imagine telling your fucking WIFE that you don’t “love her as much anymore” because she’s in a happier, more confident place, and then backing it up when she tells you how miserable she was before. It’s clear he never loved her in the first place if he hates her being mentally healthy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:45 AM
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Imagine fucking duct taping your young daughters’ mouths shut (edit: and tying them up) to make this misogynistic ass post saying women should be silenced and controlled. They’re going to be raised to hate themselves, and the son will be raised to be a misogynistic asshole like his dad. Pickmes and LVM honestly should not have children. They’re seriously a danger to them society
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:41 AM
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She went live and literally said this sexual harassment hurts her feelings and looked so sad, and men are still posting this shit. If you haven’t seen, there were hundreds of men sending and commenting “milkers” “milk mommy” and other disgusting shit. Fucking scum for real. They went after her little sister too 🤢 Not to mention how this is hurting her career - AT&T had to turn off the comments on any picture of her, and people are using the ads and posts to focus on sexually harassing her now in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:29 AM
9

Not to mention women in general only orgasm 30% of the time they have intercourse. Or things like how men have consistently been more likely to cheat for decades and are 7x more likely to leave their sick wife than a wife is to leave their sick husband (there have been so many articles and studies confirming this). Seriously, what good would dick or a bf/husband bring into my life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:32 PM
3

They love to compare us to misogynistic communities, many of which have been officially declared to be actual hate groups, without actually being able to provide any evidence as to how we are anywhere near as bad. When has any member of FDS been motivated by the sub’s views to commit mass murder or to become a terrorist? Because I can name examples of incels and MGTOW, and people in their communities actually cheered them on and saw murderers as heroes. When have we told our members to treat the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:23 PM
3

I know what you mean, but being compared to the red pill still makes me gag. They endorse abusive tactics (ex. dread game) and say AWALT (all women are like that). FDS recognizes there are good men. We literally just have self-respect and standards the similarity is not there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:18 PM
9

They always throw out the ad hominems when they realize they don’t actually have any valid argument lol. And not that it would matter to the argument, but there have been multiple studies showing unmarried women are the happiest demographic. But unmarried men, the unhappiest demographic, are somehow seen as bachelors living the life. I’ve said it before, but it’s clear who benefits from spreading the lie that single women are necessarily unhappy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:13 PM
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It’s actually wild how differently I get treated with obviously female profiles vs obviously male or even ambiguous profiles on Reddit and elsewise. Debated a guy once online, and he seriously told me that if I were a “female,” we wouldn’t have been able to have that discussion because women aren’t logical. 💀 (His argument was what lacked logic, ironically)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:34 AM
23

A guy I know straightup posted that he will never wear a mask, because “it’s not his fault that some people are weak” and he literally said the weak could die for all he cares because it’s natural selection, and his male friends were actually agreeing. Imagine being this much of a selfish dick and having no sense of empathy or human decency at all. He was so quick to say it wasn’t his fault that people are immunocompromised, but it’s somehow the immunocompromised people’s fault, since you’re pun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:52 AM
10

You’re honestly so inspiring. I’m glad you’re in a much better place now. Sorry you had to go through all that though. Your exes are scum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:36 AM
1

What the fuck is wrong with these men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:03 AM
32

“It’s so rebellious and innovative to maintain the status quo!!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:27 AM
1

I think it rests on the word “equate.” Childbirth is a form of contribution, but I wouldn’t say it equals it, because by the commutative property, that would mean contribution equals childbirth, which it doesn’t necessarily
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:19 AM
9

Yup, I have ADHD as well (wrote a post about ASD and ADHD in women/how women aren’t taken seriously by medical professionals and the comments expressed many of our sentiments), and it’s definitely misunderstood, especially in women. Sending hugs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:07 AM
4

Yeah, that’s definitely possible and shows why vetting is so important. Scary to think how shitty men might be able to fake their way past vetting though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:27 PM
21

Hope you’re doing better now ❤️ Undiagnosed ADHD and ASD can cause so much damage to one’s life, and they’re both critically underdiagnosed in women. I’ve definitely noticed a pattern of women like us being lost, taken advantage of, and manipulated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:16 PM
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She’s definitely a pickme. She’s an accomplished doctor who could have her choice of men, and this is her choice? I don’t think anyone would marry this man if they didn’t hate themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:09 AM
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Well, I was only explaining why you were being downvoted specifically in this sub, since I saw that you had commented about that. I honestly don’t have the energy to explain all my issues with his policies and administration, and I don’t expect to change your mind, but with that being said, outside of his depravity against women (Which, tbh, I don’t think should be ignored. Combined with his other behavior, it’s no surprise that alt-right, white supremacist, and/or misogynistic hate groups have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:57 AM
13

It’s just yet another excuse for guys to pressure women into settling down, putting off their careers (cool if you want to, but don’t do it for factually wrong reasons), and/or staying with them before it’s “too late.” Using the fact that some women want children to scare them into submission. Sort of like aging - force older women into thinking they’re useless (because our only purpose is having kids and marrying, am I right?) so they settle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:39 AM
10

I actually agree with the image in that I’m all for male mental health and men expressing sadness (and other emotions ofc but it seems that men are encouraged to be angry a lot and that clearly leads to a lot of problems), but it baffles me that the same men who repeatedly cite male mental health as a reason why men are oppressed deny the existence of gender roles and toxic masculinity (a term literally made by MRAs to address male issues, but when women began using it in the same way, it sudden…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:34 AM
2

And many of those communities have, without exaggeration, led to mass shootings, terrorism, violence, and abuse. But men like the one who wrote the original tweet will conveniently ignore all that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:11 AM
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I mean, with all due respect, this is a sub that supports women, and Trump is, to say the least, far from that. Not trying to attack you, but I’m explaining why you’re being downvoted and why most FDSers won’t like him. One thing that comes to mind is how he defended himself against sexual assault allegations by saying the woman was too ugly to assault...don’t think I need to explain how horrible that is or how damaging that is to women who are sexually assaulted and aren’t conventionally attrac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:03 AM
38

Thinking of how AOC got more hate for being angry when she was called a “fucking bitch” by another politician than that politician did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 12:56 AM
2

Damn, I would’ve guessed a lot longer. Best of luck selling/on your art journey :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 12:53 AM
2

No one said anything negative about mothers, just that women don’t have to be mothers to be able to contribute or have a purpose
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 12:48 AM
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MGTOW got shut down because its community had and encouraged literal terrorists, it’s been deemed a hate group that’s on watch, and is associated with white supremacy. The Red Pill literally advocates for mental and emotional abuse against women (ex. dread game - insulting and negging your gf/wife, hitting on other women in front of them, generally treating them like shit then gaslighting them and saying you don’t know what they’re talking about when they bring it up so that they feel so insecur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 12:45 AM
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And there lies one of the biggest problems with pickmes. They perpetuate their toxic, misogynistic way of thinking in others and especially their kids or otherwise allow the father of their kids to, leading to more enabled, shitty men and more insecure, internally misogynistic women. It’s a cycle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 12:26 AM
2

Your artwork looks amazing! Would’ve thought you sell your pieces already if you hadn’t said you didn’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 12:24 AM
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So many women go through this/similar phases (and for some, it’s not a phase at all) because we’re 1) conditioned to think male attention is critical and necessary (even lesbians experience this) to have when it’s not at all and 2) bombarded by messages that attractive/sexy is the best thing a woman can be and at least a prerequisite for women to be anything else because women will be scrutinized and/or sexualized (often both somehow! how fun) for their appearance no matter who they are or what …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:59 PM
34

Forreal women get so much hate for making their own decisions and—god forbid—saying no to men. As if they’re entitled to women and can pick us out and choose us like a toy whether we want it or not. Just admit you don’t want women to have autonomy lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:45 PM
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Honestly, I wish this were true, but so many women have internalized misogyny. There are definitely plenty of moms out there who would only see it as the woman’s fault for sending nudes in the first place, even though it was the guy who broke her trust and basic decency and even if the guy had begged and pressured her into doing it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:41 PM
10

“He didn’t realize that I wanted him to stop.” Oh, he realized. That’s what turned him on, and that’s why he didn’t stop. This poor girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:06 PM
10

So many men will complain that OLD shows how women are so shallow and men have it so hard because they never get matched and use that dumbass debunked 80/20 study while not realizing how many male profiles have shit like this 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:04 PM
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Chris Brown and Tory Lanez are both in the Billboard 100 top ten songs right now. Abuse apologists and misogynists will go, “Rihanna provoked Chris, and it was so long ago - he’s clearly sorry!” and ignore his long pattern of abuse allegations and crime after beating Rihanna, as well as the fact that he has a fucking tattoo of Rihanna’s beaten face (which he would have covered up by now if he were sorry/not a piece of shit)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:02 PM
6

It’s funny how when women bring up that their s/o is addicted to porn, they get called jealous and controlling instead of legitimately concerned, but when men bring it up, commenters say it’s a real issue, OP is so brave for talking about it, and it’s all about the poor addicted men who have no choice but to turn to porn because irl women all reject them. (I empathize with addicts, but I’ve actually seen people blame male porn addiction entirely on women as a whole, and it’d be hilarious if it w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 09:57 PM
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He literally has a tattoo of Rihanna’s beaten face and had a Billboard 100 top ten song last week. Not to mention Tory Lanez featured on a top five song after shooting Megan Thee Stallion. Female celebrities get more scrutiny for dating multiple people or wearing the wrong outfit than male ones do for being abusers and rapists. Shout out to Drake, who felt up and hit on a 17 y/o onstage (there’s footage) after she said she’s 17 in his 20s and then went on to become one of the biggest artists of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 09:49 PM
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When women only orgasm 30% of the time they have sex with men and when multiple studies have confirmed that unmarried women are the happiest demographic and unmarried men are the unhappiest... Gee I wonder who would benefit from spreading the lie that single women are miserable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 09:42 PM
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