-chosenjuan- Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Hooked up with a girl at a festival last night Just be honest, if you had a great time then tell her and say you would like to meet up again for a fun casual date. If unsure, busy yourself with improving yourself or dating other people. If your question was to play it cool afterwards? Then think about how yesterday ended. Who has the most power in the relationship? If the answer is you, then reach out to her first in a moderate amount of time. Remember morning texts are needy tbh. Also do you want to hook up or are you looking for a relation…	/r/seduction	13/02/22 01:38 PM
1	[deleted by user] If you want a real Latina, learn Spanish and get immersed in the culture. American latinas (talking about 2nd generational + latinas) aren’t real latinas(cultural wise). But if interested in nothing else but a fling, go for whichever. Which I think is what you are looking for	/r/seduction	23/01/22 03:02 PM
4	[deleted by user] I’ve had something like this happen before. Don’t let her play with your emotions or feelings. I think it’s best to ignore her for a month or two at least for now. Just say you’re busy and have other things going on. They always come back. But set your standards and conditions if they do decide to back	/r/seduction	23/01/22 04:00 AM
1	[deleted by user] Tell her “it only smells”	/r/seduction	25/11/21 04:12 PM
1	Don’t ever sweat the low body count. 23 and my count is 5. Lost my virginity at 20 and I regret not being more patient. I basically just wanted to get it over with tbh because of the peer pressure.	/r/seduction	17/10/21 01:22 PM
1	Had one of the worst first date scenarios ever, but saved it by staying composed and in control Good job man, you got the job done and that is what matters. One for you for being bold in a strenuous situation	/r/seduction	12/07/21 04:18 PM
2	To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college): The best time is now always, it took me a whole 18 years to realize this. Taking risks, giving it your all, pushing through the pain, overcoming. It’s just not girls. It’s a lifestyle that be applied in any point of life	/r/seduction	05/07/21 10:22 PM
1	[CMV] Red Pill is an elaborate ritual to gain self esteem but ultimately a placebo TRP is a bit childish in that aspect, I think a truly mature individual or someone with a peace of mind eventually comes to terms with the dating market. I came to the acceptance of these truths. Yet I never held contempt toward any female from the generalizations of TRP	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/21 02:18 PM
1	[CMV] Red Pill is an elaborate ritual to gain self esteem but ultimately a placebo Also, self esteem is really something way too complex to understand and trp cannot fully teach confidence. Actually, confidence can’t be taught. It’s something that’s earned and given through life experience. Anybody who thinks otherwise is a fool. Trp, feminism, or any other philosophy cannot give confidence. And I say that with certainty. No one can teach confidence. But courage can lead us to the illusion of the created construct we call self esteem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 03:58 PM
3	[CMV] Red Pill is an elaborate ritual to gain self esteem but ultimately a placebo I think the biggest misconception one has of the red pill is that one has to the women before even subscribing to this philosophy. No, one has to love themselves more to finally give be open to accepting some of the ideas of TRP as true. And it all fluctuates, maybe 100 years there will be more corrections and improvements with some red pill concepts. In all honestly, I don’t really think everyone uses trp as strict guide. It’s best understood by getting perspective/insight	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 03:53 PM
2	[CMV] Red Pill is an elaborate ritual to gain self esteem but ultimately a placebo PUA= Dark triad/fake confidence Red Pill= Choosing the hard thing to do and the right thing to do for yourself. This is looking for a higher version of oneself. I’m going back to Aristotle, when acting virtuous as one can be could lead us to intense feelings of living. Maybe this human being Platos scholar athlete? Neitzsche’s Uberman or kierkegards knight of faith? In summary red pill is not something new at all, this is a example of when someone or a movement attempted to generalize a human be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 03:35 PM
7	Get up and get after it It all starts with the little things and it’s starts with consistently enforcing the standards of ones own philosophy	/r/seduction	03/06/21 02:57 PM
3	Has the dating scene always been like this? Yeah it’s like this, few get lucky with online dating. But I believe finding groups with similar interests really makes it easy to find someone	/r/seduction	18/05/21 10:37 PM
0	Female Perspective On Online Dating This is true, I’ve been doing online dating my whole adolescence. The times I was the happiest was when I had 0 dating apps and was talking to girls face to face. In general my dating life has been a mess. Going from naive and stupid with relationships in general to hard lessons learned and disappointment after disappointment. Thankfully I found someone who is very caring and understanding through online dating by the end of last year and it happened unexpectedly. (Was forced to switch back to o…	/r/seduction	28/04/21 04:06 PM
3	NOT ALL DATING ADVICE FROM ONLINE IS HELPFUL (including from me) It really is, honestly when I was 18 I probably would of took advice from here to heart. The only advice that actually stuck to my brain and helped me was the advice learned from living life and having experiences. That will never fail to teach a young man, but it all starts with taking risks. Not just with woman, but with yourself and taking that challenge to become who you were meant to be. That’s the hardest part about this “game” which just doesn’t deal with women. It’s everywhere.	/r/seduction	12/03/21 11:07 PM