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| 0 | i got turned down for the first time | -colors | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 11:38 AM |
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| 3 | At 23, I've just been handed my first breakup. I fucked up alot and I'm still in the shock stage. Can you guys recommend some things to me?doo i hope you're right. i just got a degree and job and on my first day it went well and my gf just decided somethin didn't feel right and wanted to end it. like best day i had in almost a year after so much unemployment and then turned to the worst day. holy roller coaster. | /r/seduction | 15/04/14 04:05 AM |
| 1 | At 23, I've just been handed my first breakup. I fucked up alot and I'm still in the shock stage. Can you guys recommend some things to me?This just happened to me tonight. FML. It doesn't sound beta man just sounds like you're a true human being and that's normal and healthy and beautiful. no homo lolz. | /r/seduction | 15/04/14 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Get her to want me.hey come watch xxxxxx with me. hey you want some wine, i like to wind down with a couple glasses. hey lemme just kiss you rite quick. | /r/seduction | 30/01/14 07:11 AM |
| 3 | [FR]co-worker madnesssorry i didn't mean that to come off as a shot to your morals. i just know some people in the world don't have any. i would say she was obviously clearly interested if she came back with you and was in your bed and stuff. but i think if she legitimately passed out she must not have been that keen on hooking up / not been that excited. maybe your foreplay could use a little more spice? i guess i'm just confused on how you go from tits n vag touching to belly rubs and asleep. i assumed you were ma… | /r/seduction | 28/12/13 06:55 PM |
| 7 | [FR]co-worker madnessi mean if she passed out while in bed with you she was probably too drunk to morally fuck. at least for my morals. | /r/seduction | 28/12/13 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Billy's Guide to Learning PickupWhen you go out alone, what do you say when people ask where your friends are, or why you are by yourself? | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 04:32 AM |
| 1 | What are you doing before you make out?yeah it is short for kinesthetics (i think), which means something along the lines of physical activity. the 'pua masters' use the shortened version kino for the act of physically touching the other person. whether it's just a high five, or a hand shake, thumb war, hand on the back, hand on the leg, playful touching, etc... just touching that escalates attraction and when done right can help you gauge her interest. | /r/seduction | 15/04/13 06:27 AM |
| 2 | What are you doing before you make out?this inspires me to make a novelty account named fade2black, or fadetoblack, where all my comments end up soundin lyke i b livin in da geto | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 04:45 PM |
| 1 | What are you doing before you make out?you totally nailed it, i would say something like, "ay gurl, yo couch be lookin stoopid foine tonight if yaknawmsayin?" then smile and laugh and tell her you would love to take her to dinner the next day. | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 08:39 AM |
| 291 | What are you doing before you make out?i drink a lot of alcohol and before i know it our tongues are touching. but seriously kino. kino is what makes shit not awkward when you try to escalate. also, can slowly move in closer to her face like you are going to whisper something in her ear, and gauge her reaction to you getting closer / near her face, if she is creeped out she will sort of move to the side and you can still whisper your shit, if she is down for a kiss she will sort of play "kiss chicken" with you and not move at all, at… | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 02:54 PM |
| 2 | How often do you run into rude or unfriendly people?smile, people have a really hard time being a bitch to someone who is smiling. | /r/seduction | 09/04/13 10:49 PM |
| -1 | Pickup Principle: The Signal of Opportunity (with a mini FR)About a month ago I started going to the gym about 4 days a week and see many attractive women and try to make eye contact with them so they recognize my face. I can't wait for the day when I see one out of the gym setting and we recognize each other and strike up a conversation. semi-related because i do mostly running. | /r/seduction | 21/02/13 08:27 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Seddit saved me from depression. AFC that finally achieved something.my favorite story that this reminded me of i was once at a house party talking to a guy i met and he seemed a little awkward and i was trying to get him to dance with some ladies, i said to him "watch how easy it is" ... i spotted this hb8 talking with some dude ACROSS the basement and waved her over to come talk to me instead. She came i didn't say anything just took her arm and had her grind on me while i was continuing my conversation with this dude. i was like 19 at the time and felt like a … | /r/seduction | 21/02/13 01:39 AM |
| 6 | Feeling a little down and out. Can you guys propose to me a challenge?no don't make it a point. just approach until you get rejected 20 times. If you don't get rejected just excuse yourself and approach a different girl. | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 10:36 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First time outlol talking about touching some side boob just makes this sound a little creepy. | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 09:51 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First time outYeah typically I slide my hands over their body as a sort of way to let them know I am finding them and what they are doing attractive, if my boner poking them in the ass hasn't tipped them off already. If they are into it and I get good body language I sometimes cruise over the breasts / side boob areas to make it a little more erotic. Another thing I love to do is take their hands and sort of playfully hold them up in the air and move them to the beat. Typically it would be my hand over the to… | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Fun Personality Test to give girlsI hate this kind of shit so much that trying to use it is near impossible. I couldn't sit there with a straight face while trying to explain what each one means. I guess it would take some practice or sincere research. | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 08:02 PM |
| 5 | The Snowball Effect: How Seemingly Small Insignificant Decisions Led to Massive Results and New Discoveries Last Nightmy best guess is to just interrupt her in the middle of it and say 'i'm joking' and walk away like it was no big deal. or make a joke of how she looks like a flake somehow. | /r/seduction | 28/01/13 07:27 AM |
| 11 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Well you can put a toy in her butt, and then Indiana Jones your dick in place. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 03:00 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)How do you isolate one girl in a set of two without a wingman? | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 01:57 AM |
| 7 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Build lots of trust. After you have been seeing her for a long time, you can ask if she is interested in that. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 01:56 AM |
| 14 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)"Wow my hands are so cold, feel this!" Then grab her hand. Cold hands is almost a perfect excuse for kino. If she's got any sense she will want to warm them up for you. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 01:54 AM |
| 7 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)In terms of leg behavior: Use your legs as if you have a huge dick. Obviously you can cross your legs very tight with a small or large dick, but thigh on thigh leg crossing is very feminine and I never understand why some men do it. (And it's just way uncomfortable.) A typical male will sit with with crossed legs so that the ankle of one foot is resting on the knee of the other leg. This gives an idea to onlooking girls that you have some serious junk in need of it's own space. (Whether she cons… | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 01:52 AM |
| 7 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Some PUA talks about never asking for numbers, and more focusing on building enough attraction that the girl will make a point of giving you her number. This is how you know you have built enough attraction to actually have a good shot at bedding this chick. Obviously almost no one relies completely on this, and they often ask for numbers. The problem with that is you can do almost nothing and if the girl is nice enough she will give you a number. The lack of responses is most likely due to not … | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 01:43 AM |
| 14 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)you never have to see any of these people again so do whatever the fuck you want. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 01:32 AM |
| 6 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Body language. If dancing facing each other, just keep your face close to hers while staring into her eyes, if she doesn't move back, you can get closer and closer and blam. Maybe you feel more comfortable just moving your face next to hers so your cheeks are touching or something. If she doesn't pull out from that you're probably good for a kiss too. It's all about the body language. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 01:32 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/14/13 (please upvote - zero karma)read seddit thread w/ attraction information. i am currently learning also, i am terrible at flirting and constantly afraid of being viewed as a creep. | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 12:18 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/14/13 (please upvote - zero karma)"[girls name] are you trying to get me to ask you out? (big smile)" | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 12:17 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/14/13 (please upvote - zero karma)yeah at this point you have to be more attractive (not physically looks wise) and charismatic than your friends. I have this same problem. I somehow have friends who are fucking incredibly good looking. I am going to combat this problem by building muscle and making up for a less than perfect face with a perfect body, and wear clothes that show it off. In the mean time, being the 'alpha male' of your friends could help. Introduce her to your friends right away to show you are not intimidated by … | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 12:14 AM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/14/13 (please upvote - zero karma)it's from not building attraction. you need to learn how to flirt | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 12:00 AM |
| 0 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/14/13 (please upvote - zero karma)There is a girl I consistently run into and she has the mad hots for me and I would like to bang. Everytime I see her out she is with a friend who isn't really attractive enough for any of my friends to wing her for the night. How do you get separation when it's just a girl and her ugly friend? | /r/seduction | 14/01/13 11:53 PM |
| 1 | i got turned down for the first timehaha yeah sorry. i remembered posting it this morning and was like, whoops. | /r/seduction | 11/01/13 01:57 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/4/2013 (please upvote - zero karma)exactly! I am computer engineering and talk about how insane hardware is and you can do all kinds of shit with it. | /r/seduction | 05/01/13 02:01 AM |
| 1 | How do I keep a friendly relationship with girls?G, as in G PG PG-13 R NC17 XXX He can't remain platonic. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Forgetting a girl you like without hurting her?Could explain you just want to be friends. Or just drift away / cut contact. You don't owe anyone an explanation. The last girl I had to stop seeing was because I had one-itis for her, and I wasn't going to let myself go through that shit again. I made the mistake of explaining I had feelings for her and I couldn't do this. This just made it 1000 times harder than it had to be, and also made me look like a bitch at the same time. What's is different between our situations is your explanation wil… | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 09:40 PM |
| 4 | Beginner TIP: be aware of your posture & facial expression!Do you have any tips for correcting a slouch via exercise? I have horrible natural posture and often forget about it. I blame it on having man boobs when i was younger and leaning forward to try to hide them and also years of computer games. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 09:35 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Danceclub K-Close first time going out after starting to read r/seddit!Totally Rad, doesn't it seem to come so natural once your in state and headed down the right path? It feels like you build up a lot of momentum and are a steamroller who cannot be stopped! I'll bet before you even got into the club you would have put money on the k close. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 09:33 PM |
| 5 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/4/2013 (please upvote - zero karma)if you could give examples of how programming could be higher value when talking about it it would help. passionately discuss how you can create popular android or iOs apps for the world to purchase, that's always impressive. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 09:25 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Is it creepy for me to walk up to girls who are hanging out by themselves and just try to talk to them?Making some banter while waiting in line would be a possible good idea. But mainly if they noticed you walking the other direction, and then turn around and start following them, that's like creeper 101. The sooner you start a conversation after seeing them the less creepy it is. Even on the street when you first saw them would be a good place to open. It is probably an easier place to open once they are all situated and not moving around so much, which was an advantage, but then also lifts the … | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 09:26 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Big Man's NYE kiss and a number close.this is awesome! fuck yeah! | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 05:34 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Is it creepy for me to walk up to girls who are hanging out by themselves and just try to talk to them?seems like a shitty approach, but good game afterwards. walking behind them, putting stuff in your coffee while slowly peeking at them, probably creeped them out which is why they were so hesitant. the wink was good though. when she asked, do we know you, your answer was perfect. I even laughed. I would have explained after that you just transferred so you are making friends tonight. good luck i hope you get a good social circle going | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 05:29 AM |
| 4 | So there's a girl that I want to ask out...first things first, we can teach you how to approach many women, typically do not care for one woman. first mistake is being focused on this girl, seems like she is already on the pedestal. you can tease her about not being able to drive yet, you can flirt with her friends to get her to notice you, you can ask her on a date. at your age im pretty sure just saying "hey you're pretty cute want to go get some juice boxes on friday after school?" would work. btw this girl will not exist in 3 years, … | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 05:24 AM |
| -2 | Researchers put PUA material to peer review. Turns out it's all pretty much based on solid research and scientific evidence!anyone else just thinking 'no shit sherlock?' | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 05:19 AM |
| 1 | [FR] "If i didn't have a boyfriend i would have sex with you right here on the dancefloor"this. guys should be glad someone else fucked there girlfriend, now they know and can move on. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 05:10 AM |
| 0 | [FR] "If i didn't have a boyfriend i would have sex with you right here on the dancefloor"you recognize that, and then don't start a relationship with her. you fuck her, enjoy it, and never date her, maybe you fuck her again, but don't start a relationship. if he tries to fuck the girl in a relationship, and he succeeds, he knows she is not relationship material, and he has just fucked her, high five. if he fails he knows she has some sort of honor to her and if she ever becomes single may pursue again. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Where am I going wrong? Trouble picking up at loud clubs/bars...This is because girls not old enough for bar scenes are socially de-calibrated / don't know how hot they are and hook up with anything for confidence boosts. Now girls old enough for bars have much more options and understand they can hook up with most any guy there. Seems you must not be setting yourself apart. Some specific examples / field reports would be more helpful when determining where you are going wrong. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Delete/deactivate your Facebook! + [FR]show it via body language and social interaction, not by carrying a wallet of photos around with you... | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Delete/deactivate your Facebook! + [FR]I feel like facebook definitely mind fucks kids. I deactivated mine over lent and then some (40 + days for people who don't know). Some clarification, people can't see your profile while it's deactivated... I felt a lot better without it while it didn't instantly turn me into a ladies man. I wasn't really focused on pua / meeting new people when I did it but it would certainly help if i was. Things I legitimately missed were instant messaging, and getting invited to events since most people use … | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Make intentions known without putting her on the pedestal?I feel like kino is a way of showing your interest while letting her secretly reciprocate it. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Edh2GQHZmtI watch all 10 parts of the video, he gives good examples of intimately and appropriately expressing interest and allowing her a simple way of reciprocating. It's a clever way to gauge her interest. Show interest with actions not words and it tends to keep them off the pedestal. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 03:52 AM |
| 3 | Every time I get this girl to go out, I gotta jump through all these verbal hoops. How do you handle it?just take your phone out and pretend to text, and make sure to say "well now I have to tell jessica we're back on for friday" and maybe she just has shitty banter and can't think of any other way to flirt with you, and you should break it off and find other girls less boring. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 03:41 AM |
| 3 | SashaPUA on "Social Freedom" = Must Read!this needs a tl;dr of the following. tl;dr: Troll other people to get over social anxiety / approach anxiety. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 03:38 AM |
| 4 | [FR] RESEDDIT IS BACK, with a FR on why you can't be an asshole to women who you don't succeed with.ahhahahahahah this is awesome! op is pitbull | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 03:27 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First proper application of kino and state - k-close and more"so, shall we get this over with" haha clever. i feel like this is a little crutch statement that you will eventually not need, and can make the kiss more seductive rather than comical. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 03:22 AM |
| 1 | [Field Report] Started off the New Years with a bangResponding with the exact same school / major/ year... genius! I was almost worried this was going to end with you pissing her off too much and her giving up. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 03:18 AM |
| 1 | A single rose is better for the first date than a dozen roses.well i was going way over the top for this date intentionally so we could have a good laugh about it, i was going to be waiting near my car in the 'got a little captain in you' pose with a rose in between my teeth, except she ran out to the car so damn fast when I got there I had no time for it. I think she thought I was trying to be way too romantic, and she didn't really get the idea that I was going to make it a little joke thing. w.e didn't effect much anyway I was already in the friend zone… | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 03:07 AM |
| 2 | I have so much AA nowadays it's embarrassing. Out of long-term relationship, trying to get back in the game.After you say, would you like to dance? you have that whole awkward okay now lets go dance ... making our way to the dance location.... what kind of dancing are we going to do ... is he going to suck at dancing... etc. When you use appropriate body language and dancing ability you pretty much eliminate that whole awkward phase and have settled any worries she had before they even arose. And when girls say they would rather be asked first, they are lying and are being modest and giving an answer … | /r/seduction | 31/12/12 10:46 AM |
| 0 | Been lurking this subreddit a while and wanted to share a recent experience that might help you guys out and get some more input on how to continue this type of thing.Sounds like an awesome fucking time. Props to you, maybe you can start things with more girls at the same time! | /r/seduction | 31/12/12 09:57 AM |
| 2 | Just had one of the BEST nights of my life, not a single girl involvedGood for you, best nights are when your looking for fun. I always find it awkward though when taking down a dudes digits lol. | /r/seduction | 31/12/12 09:49 AM |
| 4 | I need game plan tonight for k-close.Any suggestions?my favorite are the almost insta kiss close at bars, i think they are the most impressive, and probably the easiest ones. | /r/seduction | 31/12/12 09:46 AM |
| 1 | A question about the 3-second ruleAsk her where the flapjacks are | /r/seduction | 31/12/12 06:37 AM |
| 5 | Golden Rules of using text. These rules you will use for life.I think he's trying to say if you have more to say than just 1 line, you should give them a phone call instead. | /r/seduction | 31/12/12 06:22 AM |
| -1 | Evolve your entitlement w/ hot girlsi enjoyed the video. | /r/seduction | 31/12/12 06:21 AM |
| 2 | How do I adapt my flirtatiousness texting to the date?get out of your head and let your sexual wit take over? | /r/seduction | 31/12/12 06:20 AM |
| 1 | A single rose is better for the first date than a dozen roses.I've got a girl a rose once, and it was kind of a joke. | /r/seduction | 31/12/12 06:18 AM |
| 31 | Been thinking about this for a while: Is approach anxiety just the biggest shit-test in the world?It's Darwin's shit test. | /r/seduction | 31/12/12 05:11 AM |
| -6 | [FR] Dinner Date Night-college style, Part III am a senior computer engineering student. Writing is stoopid easy which is why I don't do it. I don't think I have gotten less than an A on a paper, and have actually won awards for my writing / was suggested to submit a paper to a writing contest etc... I never understand how people struggle with it. I'm glad you're good at it. TL;DR I just wanted to toot my own horn for a minute. | /r/seduction | 30/12/12 03:15 AM |
| -1 | Could use some help improving my club gameI took a hip hop dance class! One of the best decisions of my life. Be warned though, not many people are good after one class, I consider myself to have some natural ability. Also, don't be ashamed to practice in your room, its fun, good exercise, and your friends will be like woah whered you learn that!?! And there are an unlimited number of dance videos on youtube. | /r/seduction | 22/12/12 10:00 PM |
| 5 | Could use some help improving my club gameHaha I had a simliar experience last night. We went to what was essentially a raging house party, but in a bar, where everyone is dancing to like electronic / trap style music. Dance floor is so packed you essentially can only dance w/ your arms, however i did get a little shuffling and shit it. When your are one of the most energetic people on the dance floor and don't give a fuck then you will attract lots of attention. I always had girls dancing in my proximity and putting themselves within i… | /r/seduction | 22/12/12 09:39 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Starting this again. Baby steps.am i the only one thinking the fuq did i just read? | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 10:15 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Two approaches, two dates, two k-closes, making real progress. (long, but lots of lessons learned)read it all, seems legit. only thing is if that one girl's sister was in a bad mood from a recent break up, why treat her like a little brat? Why not offer some kind words of advice? | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 02:28 AM |
| 5 | How old are you?22, known about seduction for about 3 years, still too weeny to do things by myself and all my friends think it's dumb lol agh i gotta get grown | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 02:15 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Community Poll: What should our BestOf2012 contest be?Best hometown short notice PUA workshop? Make a video out of it and show if you get any successful participants. | /r/seduction | 20/12/12 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Any sedditors in Milwaukee, WI?3. | /r/seduction | 18/12/12 09:17 AM |
| 2 | Holiday Pickup - ME IN SANTA COSTUME PICKING UP HOT GIRLS (VIDEO)My favorite lines is when you qualify with things like I have a big sack I have a lot of milk I've got lots of cookies Favorite introduction was "Have you seen my reindeer?" | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 10:46 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Girl from class"I could have said something like "You can meet them after""... that would have died real fast. She would probably be hesitant to go to lunch with you right then if she didn't already have plans, much less ditch someone to go with you. I think you going to lunch with her could have been an awesome idea. If you were better in social situations you could have social proofed yourself up the wazoo and really impressed, but since most of them did the talking I don't think you really helped yourself t… | /r/seduction | 14/12/12 11:35 PM |
| 4 | How to disqualify a male acquaintance in front of your girlI think this is the best answer. Acting like they earned your approval means your are the one to impress and say who is ok and who is not. A pat on the back saying 'good job buddy' will make you look more alpha while seeming like a nice guy. | /r/seduction | 14/12/12 02:20 AM |
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