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| – | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menI never said anything about lying. My point is that it's a good idea to be mysterious at first and ask questions instead of infodumping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 03:18 PM |
| – | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menMost people put their best foot forward on a first date. Why would any woman pick someone who's excessively vulnerable off the bat? You'll only attract ones with tons of emotional trauma, who feel like they can relate to you. And they'll dump you when they feel better, because that was your entire appeal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:22 PM |
| – | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menYou don't have to lie. Just don't say too much unless it's needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 01:39 PM |
| 1 | What could someone with 2/10 social skills do to make himself 5/10 ?Embrace your weirdness and be confident in whatever you say or do. Try to connect with people and ask them about themselves. I think masking your quirks can make you more anxious and very rigid/boring in conversations. Just accept the fact that you're going to say out of pocket shit sometimes and be able to laugh about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:51 PM |
| 3 | CMV : if you do not maximise your looks potential close to the limit you should not complain about datingI think the way you present yourself is part of who you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:39 PM |
| – | [20 M] Is it delusional to deliberately chase after an "ideal" partner, or do I have a good mindset?Lower your standards and date around a bit to see what you like and build up your social skills. Then once you're more confident and you know what you want, start looking for something serious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Guys. Would you date someone who is boring, timid, and not funny? Ladies, how about you?Probably not, I'm very talkative and love saying weird shit and having conversations that bounce all over the place. I want a partner that I can be myself around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Dual mating strategy and why censored forums and Internet media will be further on the bluebill than real life.They are, they just don't advertise it. Men are worse with subtext. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Society handicaps men where women are trained to be independent.No self-respecting man wants to hear complaints of "men, amirite?" as the source of their friends' frustrations every single day. People in the spaces you described are pushing away regular men by just being generally insufferable, even if their ideas aren't necessarily bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Society handicaps men where women are trained to be independent.Feminism makes men inoffensive. I don't think this is inherently a bad thing, but a lot of feminists act as if what women are looking for is this ideal of the emotionally aware, supportive man. Unfortunately, the reality is that these traits strongly correlate with being unattractive to the majority of women. Moreover, men who turn to feminism are usually those who seek to exploit a niche, as they are unlikely to find sexual success elsewhere. This adds to the growing number of incels disillusio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Why would the most attractive guys consistently go for a normal girl?I mostly date based on personality and interests. There's a baseline of physical attractiveness I look for in a girl, but going further above that yields diminishing returns in my eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Is raw confidence only an aphrodisiac if there's already a fair level of attraction?From my experience: There's a threshold of attraction that you have to meet, which obviously varies from woman to woman. As long as you're above that, confidence will help you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Do you think people can have meaningful relationships with AI?you strongly overestimate people's desire to improve themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 09:22 AM |
| 2 | Do you think people can have meaningful relationships with AI?this is extremely grim TBH once these relationship bots become commonplace, the amount of men with absolutely no social skills will skyrocket | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 03:16 AM |
| 6 | StepdadismMy mom's second husband is significantly more attractive than my dad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 12:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV: You should take rejection personally, because it's 100% personalMost men are able to improve their physical traits to a baseline (6/10) where a lot of women will at least give them a chance. Obviously it will still be more difficult for you than someone who is naturally attractive, but the process of self improvement also builds character and resillience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 11:59 AM |
| 3 | Do you feel like sex is a need? If not then why?Anecdotal evidence is not representative, especially in a thread where people holding your point of view are more likely to comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 03:00 PM |
| 5 | Do you feel like sex is a need? If not then why?most people don't have a sex drive as low as yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Porn is the epitome of cuck culture.I mean, I felt like that after my first time. But I got over it in like 4 days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Porn is the epitome of cuck culture.A lot of men swipe right on everyone on dating apps, doesn't necessarily mean they'll feel particularly aroused by that person or want to pursue a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 10:04 PM |
| 0 | Porn is the epitome of cuck culture.None, it's anecdotal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 10:02 PM |
| 4 | Porn is the epitome of cuck culture.I actually think text porn is much healthier. Professional porn videos eventually desensitise you from finding real women attractive, and can lead you down a path of seeking weird fetishes once they stop arousing you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 09:27 AM |
| 27 | Porn is the epitome of cuck culture.For women, the rejection just comes after sex. And they're generally more mentally fragile, so feeling used takes more of a toll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 09:19 AM |
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