| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 106 | Own your HVW Status 👑 | QUEEN SH*T | -emilia | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 02:08 AM |
| 22 | Girls like this feed the LVM | NAH, SIS | -emilia | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 12:15 AM |
| 1 | The situationship that made me a Pickmeisha. Took me so long to get over but also taught me a lot of lessons. | NICE FOR WHAT? | -emilia | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 11:26 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Making a man wait for sex is an AWFUL strategy that ENCOURAGES him to pump and dump you and see sex as an END GOALIf the true value of pussy is not that much, why do you put in so much time and effort to get it? Seems like a waste of energy if that’s your standpoint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Men, what do you think women gain from being in a relationship? Women, what do you think men gain from being in a relationship?Men with higher incomes are deemed more attractive because it shows they can provide stability in a relationship. If you’re going to sacrifice your body and pay to have a child, a woman is going to want to know that the father can provide for that family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 10:27 PM |
| – | How many of the men complaining about the dating scene are actually worthy of dating?Sounds like he has to make opportunities then. He doesn’t have any hobbies where he can go out and meet women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Why are both men and women flakey these days? Also do flakey people realize they burn bridges by being flakey?I agree and disagree. There have been plenty of times that I scheduled a date with a guy and I had to suggest a date and time / place to meet / activities to do because he couldn’t make a decision. Previously men exclusively drove those items, but since I’ve had to arrange them I wouldn’t say that all men are doing more and more, if anything they aren’t even doing half. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 03:38 PM |
| 7 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)If FDS advocates to filter guys out who can’t hold a stable job, manage their finances, take initiative on dates, look after themselves with proper exercise/diet/hygiene, etc., how exactly are those the most appealing men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 07:48 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The more high value the man is , the more likely he is to want a woman with a good jobThanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 04:53 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The more high value the man is , the more likely he is to want a woman with a good jobWhat’s MC / UMC? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 04:32 AM |
| 35 | Reminder: LVM say anything to get what they want.I really hope no girl is dumb enough to fall for this... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 04:46 PM |
| 13 | Not all “HVM” are of high value to YOU.Same. It was a roller coaster of emotions (on my part) and it was such a struggle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 03:11 AM |
| 14 | If you expect less, don't be surprised to receive less - EVIDENCEGlad you’re doing better now 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 05:20 PM |
| 53 | If you expect less, don't be surprised to receive less - EVIDENCEWow... that doesn’t even make sense. Why would you take on the burden of them not being able to handle their work life. Just sounds like they were alcoholics and she was fed this lie so she wouldn’t question it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 03:13 PM |
| 121 | I saw this and thought of you lovely ladies!!That’s....absolutely disgusting. I have no other words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 09:14 PM |
| 23 | LVM - Pickmeisha Marriage in a NutshellYikes.... not a shred of dignity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 05:33 AM |
| 8 | BREAKING NEWS: Being single is better than being with MOST MENI replied to a comment on a post where a guy said “it’s completely okay to ask which one is the vagina” during sex. I said, no it’s not, why do guys think their penis is at the epicentre is sex but when it comes to women’s genitals, it’s a guessing game. I can only assume I got downvoted by guys who don’t know where the vagina is, but the sad thing is there are plenty of women out there who agree with the joke of that comment and are willing to accept subpar sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 01:12 AM |
| 57 | Sad this has to be broadcasted, here’s to hoping it wakes some people up...The worst post was people defending a cheating fiancé who slept with a stripper on his bachelor party 🙄 cheating is cheating, regardless it’s at a bachelor party or not and good for her for leaving him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Just deleted all the chats/numbers of guys I used to date/still can’t forget and I feel like a weight has been liftedI did the same and when I deleted one particular guys thread, I got this pop-up from Apple telling me to report the trash 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 09:48 PM |
| 28 | They are so predictable..All the guys I dated last year sent me a “how’s life? Hope things are well” text this year. They always come crawling back but sorry, I’m not here to entertain you anymore 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 03:59 AM |
| 6 | so over these low effort low value men!! If I wanted to make the first move I would be on bumble 🙄A guy liked my profile so I responded back saying I liked his ski jacket. He asked if I’ve gone skating this year and I said no but want to soon, and he said we should go out in the New Year and to add him on Instagram. I ignored the prompt cause we barely talked so I’m not sure if I want him on Instagram. He responded and again suggested that I add him on Instagram. I added him and he added me back, I messaged on the app asking what his start up company was and after 3 days of no response but o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 09:00 PM |
| 3 | Involuntary Celibates are an ‘emerging domestic terrorism threat’: Texas warns of an ‘Incel Rebellion’I’ll ask her for more info! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Involuntary Celibates are an ‘emerging domestic terrorism threat’: Texas warns of an ‘Incel Rebellion’I’ll ask her for more info! Coincidentally I’m sending her stuff I find on this sub and others to help her with her research. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 06:02 PM |
| 18 | Involuntary Celibates are an ‘emerging domestic terrorism threat’: Texas warns of an ‘Incel Rebellion’My friend is doing her thesis on this! A lot of it happens online through forums like 4chan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 10:02 PM |
| 119 | Take the psychoanalysis and sign reading to another sub. It’s simple!Hard to swallow pill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 09:38 PM |
| 2 | This woman’s response to a backhanded OLD compliment is solid.I’d say 101% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 01:29 AM |
| 22 | Pursuing men makes you an opportunity, not a love interest.Yup this happened to me :/ destroyed my self esteem thinking I wasn’t good enough... the one and only time I’ve left myself be a pickmeisha, I just wanted it to work so bad but I know better now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 01:08 AM |
| 3 | We've been talking for five minutes and he's already asking for nudes. Should have been way more harsh with this guy, but hey, I'm learning.“Quintessential asshat” because I won’t share nude photos of my body with a stranger. Right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 06:16 PM |
| 9 | HVM are interested in the amazing woman you are, LVM are interested in what you can do for themAgreed. I dated a guy that would be a HVM on paper, but he wasn’t interested in me and his expression of commitment came in waves. He has a new gf now and I’m sure he’s a HVM to her. I wish I knew of FDS when I was dating him cause I needed to recognize that he would never be my HVM and to quit wasting my time and leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 06:34 AM |
| 3 | We’re not safe on LinkedIn evenThat’s awful, not sure why you’d even need a hot stuff feature when you’re just trying to give an objective opinion on food/service. I stopped using the site a while ago due to reviews going on and on about trivial things but it’s good to know to avoid this domain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 09:42 PM |
| 2 | We’re not safe on LinkedIn evenThat, or cat calling. Does a girl ever respond to that? What kind of woman does it take to respond to that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 09:36 PM |
| 30 | We’re not safe on LinkedIn evenWhat a strange platform to hit on someone... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 02:37 AM |
| 28 | Went and bought this gift for myself thanks to the recommendations from you all ❤️!I would be HUMILIATED if my husband named my child Wide Set Vagina. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 06:40 AM |
| 16 | Love the replies 😂😩 I felt this 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 08:53 PM |
| 82 | Not sure who needs to hear this today...Got a series of texts on Sunday from the guy I was in a situationship with, saying that he just “wanted to say hi and hope things are well.” I knew that if I responded, he would know he still has control over me or that I still care. There’s nothing to gain from the conversation cause the past is done and he has a new gf now. He probably just sent the texts to make himself feel better about the way he treated me. No response is the best response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 08:43 PM |
| 2 | PSA Don't give him the satisfaction of seeing you in his IG viewed-my-story list. Reciprocate energy back to fuckboys. Low-effort gets ZERO attention.Click on the story to the right of theirs, then hold and kind of “hold” and drag slightly to the right while holding and you should be able to see what their story is about (just the first). You can try googling it, sometimes it suggests the story to the left as well but I find that there are always ads when you go forwards rather than backwards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 05:19 AM |
| 6 | Happy Holidays! 😂Reminds me of this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/achoyx/aita_for_very_rarelyalmost_never_wanting_to_go_to/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 08:10 PM |
| 5 | PSA Don't give him the satisfaction of seeing you in his IG viewed-my-story list. Reciprocate energy back to fuckboys. Low-effort gets ZERO attention.I discovered you can “preview” stories on Instagram without actually viewing them so you can peek without showing up on the list. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 07:47 PM |
| 17 | LVM verbally and emotionally abuses gf as retaliation for not paying enough attention to him and his dick. She was planning him a surprise party.Or the comment about her speaking to his brother through him.... controlling AF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 05:24 AM |
| 22 | Husband gets wife a vacuum for Christmas in 2019 and doesn’t understand why she’s mad.No, he’ll have the Roomba to clean for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 07:20 PM |
| 4 | It’s holiday time ladies.I nick name them by area code 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 04:43 AM |
| 35 | The type of men who won't pay for dinnerBefore I found this sub I went on a date with a guy who seemed decent. We texted for an entire week and he never said anything sexual (which was surprising to me). The date was good, conversation went well and such but I can’t say I was crazy about seeing him again. When the bill came I offered to split out of courtesy (typically the men I’ve dated say no) but this was the first guy to say yes, so I split the bill and we parted ways. Initially I was surprised cause he spent the whole date talkin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 04:26 AM |
| 12 | We all make mistakes. Don't be so hard on yourself for not knowing better.Last year I dated a guy who I thought was a HVM that I deserved after being single for some time. He really was an amazing guy and taught me so much, but he led me on for so long knowing he wouldn’t ask for commitment. I thought he just needed time, because I met his family, friends, expressed feelings and were basically a couple but it was a situationship and it hurt. I’m disappointed that I would do so much for him and I knew he wouldn’t do the same. I definitely hit some low points but I lear… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Black Friday is coming up and I'm stocking up on perfume - what perfumes get you guys the most compliments & smell super sexy?Black Opium by YSL Viva La Juicy Noir by Juicy Couture Flowerbomb by Viktor & Rolf, Good Girl by Carolina Herrera and Dolce Peony by Dolce and Gabbana for a daytime sexy scent | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 03:45 AM |
| 8 | Pick me logic through the roofWhat exactly is a “pick me”? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 05:41 PM |
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