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I can only hide the fact that I'm retarded for so long. Sooner or later people will find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:17 PM
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🧉!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:40 PM
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I've been drinking more Yerba Matè instead of coffee as of late. I like it. Tea feels fancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:39 PM
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Fine, you can be him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:11 PM
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The dating scene for a guy is like being in Mad Max: Fury Road. Except you're not even Max in this scenario. Chad is Mad Max, he's Tom Hardy. And you're one of the War Boys chasing him while he stows away with 6 modelesque women. You're not even one of the cool War Boys who plays the electric guitar, you're the one who gets headshotted by the elderly women riding motorcycles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 11:23 PM
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Alrighty boys, what do you think about what she has to say: https://www.tiktok.com/@paulisingermany/video/7203772456916552966?_r=1&_t=8a9owx2XAqp
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:54 PM
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Only a woman would say something like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:09 PM
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My Korean coworker showed me the finger heart thing, and now I can't stop doing it. How very anime of me 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:26 PM
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They think their dating woes will disappear once they're older. It probably won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:22 AM
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Lemme hook you up with one of my boys who's about to become of age, u/Bandit174
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:19 AM
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There is an epidemic of 30 year old men grooming 24 year old teenagers. They need to be stopped, I'm trying to find a wife ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:57 PM
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Ehh I'm in the middle. I think AMALT but let's also be real here. Being part of the club scene for a bit, most women don't want to be sober when they have random hookups. Most women come into the night knowing they wouldn't dance let alone hookup with anyone unless they were drunk. I'm responsible for how I behave when I'm drunk just as you're responsible for wanting what you want at the moment it happens. You make it sound like women have no agency and that men don't have drunken hookups that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:36 PM
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I wish I was extroverted like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:30 PM
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No I really appreciate long well thought out responses. It's interesting to get a glimpse into other people's work/home life. I was curious about hybrid especially because it means very different thing depending on the role. My first newgrad job was technically hybrid but I only needed to be in the office a few weeks out of the year so I was practically wfh full time. And I get what you mean. I was living with my parents at the time and I was going crazy. I usually did my work in a cafe and that…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:28 PM
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Yeah you talked about your side business before. I don't know where you find the energy, how are you managing your hours and avoiding burnout?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:19 PM
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Do you enjoy interacting with the clients?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:18 PM
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Same but it'd mean switching roles, a paycut, and not seeing my coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:17 PM
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so I can travel and buy some land in the sticks. Nice hope to see some cottagecore content from you in a couple years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:17 PM
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You're stronger than me. I don't want to hear anything about her past. I don't even like to talk about my own tbh. Maybe as time goes by, I'll change stance but it's just painful for me idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 03:54 PM
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How are you liking WFH full time vs hybrid? Also how long and how frequent was your commute when you worked hybrid?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 03:51 PM
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I agree with 90% of the comments you post but this is such a reach. The guy is having intrusive thoughts and he's getting the ick. I get the same way. I realize it for what it is and it's not a barrier to seeing women as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 03:49 PM
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Q4A: Do you WFH? I'm curious to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 03:42 PM
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You misunderstand. Guys who ask for honesty are aware they're gonna get pissed off if they hear something they don't like. The nonjudgmental attitude they put on at first in order for you to open up. TRP even endorses this. It's like a reverse shit test.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 03:38 PM
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He's reflecting what the average guy thinks about this, we just don't express it outright because it makes us sound insecure. Why would you think we want to hear about your sexual past, it's disgusting to think about how another man had you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 03:33 PM
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If that's what it takes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:33 PM
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trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:33 PM
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open sesame
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:33 PM
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Q4RP: Is betabuxx the norm for any guy who doesn't have conventionally masculine traits or features? I would guess that most guys who are with their looksmatch or below don't really have to lean too hard one way or another with the AF/BB dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:02 PM
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It's not just guys. Whenever anyone ugly tries to do anything, it's just so off-putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:00 PM
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Your virginity. Give it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:49 AM
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WOW
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:40 AM
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If you don't lose it by 30, can I have it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:30 AM
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If you think each relationship has winners and losers, I don't know what to say to you. And this is coming from someone who thinks there is such things as winners and losers in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:20 PM
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Life is rarely a zero sum game.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:16 PM
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It's true. Divorce rates would indeed be low if every women were as financially dependent on their husbands as they were in the 1950s. On top of the social stigma that divorcees receive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:11 PM
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Going back in time is a fantasy, yes. You can't be Chad in this generation so you wish you can go back to the days when women lived in complete financial dependence on their husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:07 PM
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This seems like a revenge fantasy of yours. You want people locked down when they're barely adults so you can have yourself a pure virginal wife ig. No one feels sorry for you dude. If you wanted a virgin you should've made your moves while you were still in highschool.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:01 PM
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It all depends I guess. It wasn't a typical protestant church. It was in a very rich liberal area and we had a pretty mixed group of white, Asian, and Indian people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:00 PM
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This was a comment I posted a while back According to Mark Regnerus, a sociologist at the University of Texas, nearly three-quarters of white evangelical teens disapprove of premarital sex, as opposed to half of mainline Protestants and a quarter of Jews... Despite that, evangelicals are the most sexually active of those groups. They lose their virginity younger, at an average age of sixteen, and are less likely to protect against pregnancy or disease... - Peggy Orenstein, Girls & Sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 10:51 PM
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What are you talking about. Its been this way forever. There will always be more guys pursuing girls at any stage in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 10:47 PM
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Most Mormons that I knew married real young. My church was situated in a well-to-do area in NJ and fortunately, they emphasized practical stuff like career and education before dating/marriage. That had the knock-on effect of a lot of girls dating outside the church once they were in late-hs/college but most of the guys remained socially insulated thinking all that stuff was for 'later in life'.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 10:44 PM
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I grew up in a Protestant environment. Most of the guys will be virgins but the girls won't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 10:23 PM
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4th person to tell me that. FINE you women win. You cyberbullied me out of it, you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:24 PM
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Nothing, I'm American. The US can wage war against several countries at once without significant disruption to its citizens.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:25 PM
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The reason women's sports don't do well commercially is because of our deep-seated respect for them as full human beings. Us men refuse to see them as mere sports objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:14 PM
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You worded it perfectly. It's like being in a friend group where you're not all that liked - you paradoxically feel lonelier than you would've if you had no friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:07 PM
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Being in a relationship where there's no desire is mentally and emotionally draining.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:05 PM
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This comment has me crying 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:31 AM
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It's a good book, it belongs in the same genre of old timey self development as How to Win Friends. I'm just ribbing you because HWF is such an anachronistic reference amidst all the pill talk you see on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:02 AM
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How about you, do you perhaps exemplify the qualities found in the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:46 PM
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Prepare yourself female for my rizz is about to enter inside your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:02 AM
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You're not the one asking for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:01 AM
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You're a woman :|
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:53 PM
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You got this 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:16 PM
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I'm not joking. People underestimate the importance of making friends in this industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:15 PM
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I'm a third-rate programmer but at least I provide first-rate banter. Like the definition of a personality hire. All of the inside jokes at work have all come from me. This company would fall apart if I ever left.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:09 PM
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bffr s nbd
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:08 PM
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My first thought would be them wanting someone just as educated as them but that doesn't make sense, there are more women with advanced degrees than men. Yeah that's interesting. Just that credential alone is enough to get most women's attention. Do they live in a city with a high male: female ratio maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:14 PM
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What is GSB?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:03 PM
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Naw I usually agree with you Lillith but this is such a woman-centric take. Guys especially need to be proactive and take steps to make themselves more attractive. Flirting, courting, and the decorum around dating is its own skill. A reason why so many of the dudes here are bitter in the first place is because they ruminate on why relationships don't fall into their laps the way it does for attractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:01 PM
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What can I say, I like em a little older 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:29 AM
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I keep seeing stuff for blue apron I might just have to try it out. I'm 24 and I don't know how to cook. It is a bit embarassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:41 AM
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Depends. Hugging and compliments infrequently but it definitely happens. Crying, no. I have no clue what circumstance would take place to see any of us crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:35 AM
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That's platonic and normal socialization. Where is all this coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:30 AM
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I need me an older woman yessir. Despite 18 year olds being much more physically attractive, 21 year olds have the life experience and maturity that more than makes up for being past their prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:29 AM
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A feminist has never prevented me from doing what I've wanted to do in life. I never understood the fixation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:25 AM
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when you’re single, starving is pretty not fun. Don't remind me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:23 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:22 AM
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Men slap each others' butts in sporting events. There's nothing gay about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:20 AM
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That doesn't mean anything. The best people at anything are going to be men - even at being women, men do a better job. Femboys do it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:19 AM
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I can do basic pasta and chicken recipes but idk how to actually cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:17 AM
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Cooking is a feminine activity. I refuse to learn how to cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:12 AM
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You're the third person to call my memoji cringe. It's a sign. I'm going back to Michael Scarn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:15 PM
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Nice try but wearing a hijab isn't gonna stop me from sexualizing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:57 PM
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Yeah my job is pretty chill rn so I wouldn't mind taking on more responsibilities. I'm also young with no girlfriend no kids so that definitely plays into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:35 PM
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Having the same average would be impossible assuming the rates of moving out follow a normal distribution. But you're right, we can have an economic windfall that allows gen Z to move out and catch up to other generations somehow. But right now, all signs point to successive generations hitting developmental milestones much later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:19 PM
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Maybe I didn't explain it that well in my comment but the reasoning is logically sound. If more people from the previous generation had accomplished that milestone earlier, that means more people from this & later generations reach that milestone later.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:24 PM
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They look at their developmental milestones along the way. They ask how many 20 something year olds still live with their parents, examine survey results and compare how many people moved out by that age in the previous generation, see that it's a smaller percentage --> Headline: Gen Z moving out of their parents house later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:52 PM
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That may have been late for your cohort but each successive generation has their stages of development being pushed back. For gen Z, it's much more common to lose their virginity in college/early adulthood, get their license later or not at all, move out of their parent's house later, and marry later in life. If you're interested in learning more, the book iGen by Jean Twenge is a good read.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:00 PM
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That's a bit of a reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:28 PM
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Yeah show us your beta buxx 😠 https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRtHUdw1/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:37 PM
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Everyone start posting cringe Valentine's stories. When I was in junior year high school, one of my buddies bought a teddy bear and flowers for his crush with a note: "From your secret admirer <3". I was tasked to leave it at her seat because we sat next to each other in science. She kept bugging me to tell her who it was from. Was it Andrew? Tell me if it was Andrew. I know it's Andrew, you're just not telling me. Andrew was the guy she was crushing on. Andrew wasn't the guy who sent it 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:34 PM
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And that's why I love you 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:23 PM
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You weren't supposed to see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:22 PM
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You weren't supposed to see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:22 PM
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Wrong person my dude, I'm animorph's simp. u/animorph_fan34 explain yourself, not that there's much to explain. She did say some, it wasn't a universal claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:29 PM
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It's a guy who posts frequently. Also, Lillith will you be my Valentine 👉👈💖🥺?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:23 PM
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There's always someone who comes along with a bigger infinity though, I'm sure you could mog that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:12 PM
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23.5
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:11 PM
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Who's going to tell Johnny Autism that it's probably because of the autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:09 PM
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AWOoOohhh!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:29 AM
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There's three wolves inside every man: The Alpha, The Beta, and The Sigma. Which one shall he be in life? The one he chooses to feed 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:15 AM
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Girls think of me as this nice guy but there's this alpha wolf inside of me just waiting to be unleashed. Don't make me angry. You'll regret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:08 AM
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Sorry 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:08 PM
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All things considered that's not that bad. It's been a while since I used public radio but 97.1 plays trap music where they talk about popping percs and running their opps. Problematic lyrics are fine so long as the track is banger. Anyone remember Paper Planes by M.I.A.?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 10:51 PM
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We like her, and we like her too 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 10:44 PM
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I'll admit that I can't think of an example, I'm game for most things. The closest I can think of is I can do with less going down on her and going slow but I still enjoy those things regardless. Wax play wasn't a turn on but I still found it fun because she was enjoying herself. I'd be willing to put in the same effort for anyone I'm seeing tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 10:08 PM
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I'd give you the world Eulen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:51 PM
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White cheddar - I like them in popcorn form or popcorners especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:50 PM
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do something that doesn’t turn her on? Because it's for me. That's why. Do you know how many things I've been willing to do for my past girlfriends that didn't turn me on. I did them anyway because that's what good boyfriends do, and that's how the world works. But that doesn't occur to most women because they can get a new guy with a few swipes on an app. That's the 'bare minimum' or so I've been told.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:49 PM
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I think I get what you're saying. To be on equal standings with her ex, if the ex hurt her than that means I have to hurt her also? I don't know about that scenario, it feels contrived. Obviously if pain or discomfort is a worry than I wouldn't go through with it. That sounds more like trauma tbh. I think a more realistic situation is that she says she's tried it before, and she's not a fan. I know how selfish this sounds but I would sort of expect her to give it a go with me just because. I sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:38 PM
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Obviously it's her choice but we're def gonna argue about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:27 PM
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Just once so you can have peace of mind. Do you keep going if it hurts her? No wtf kind of question is that Slip.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:25 PM
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Here's what I said on it before and my opinion remains the same: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wc6pg6/comment/iie8npu/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 I know this isn't in the bounds of your question but women should really do everything in their power to keep their sexual history a secret even if it means lying so they can avoid scenarios like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:23 PM
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We're doing anal (or whatever it is in that scenario) I've had this argument before on PPD when I posted an Andrew Shulz clip talking about this exact scenario and the women tried to drag me on this but they just don't understand the man's perspective. You have to feel like #1 in her mind. You feel like less of a man if she's willing to do things for other guys that she won't do for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:09 PM
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I always told my fellow beta males that we should sponsor a reverse 80/20 plan where the bottom 80% of us guys pool our resources together in order to attract communal girlfriends consisting of the bottom 20% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:05 PM
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Man, I love women. I wish I could have sex with every woman in the world. Except if they're fat. Or ugly. Or old.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:57 PM
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I'm glad that you're taking it in stride in a healthy way. It's just one of those things. But that's... Literally not unconditional... Yep. I think they convince themselves because those emotions spring up unprompted and with such frequency especially when we're younger that it really does feel like some magnetic intrinsic value is imbued in women to make us feel this way so often.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:55 PM
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We process it different though. It's kind of a stress response but it's also exciting. It's a visceral response that happens randomly. Feels very real and 'genuine'. This is a related point but when you see incels bring up weird talking points about valuing, liking, or even loving women 'unconditionally', it's most likely runaway sexual attraction and halo effect. This weird feeling of longing towards an attractive stranger comes up unprompted and way more frequently for men. It leads us to beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:42 PM
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How you feel about this 'safe' person is how we feel about the attractive stranger who works the cashier at Wendy's.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:28 PM
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Define covered in tattoos, is it just sleeves or are they visible past the wrist and shirt collars? If they can be hidden in a long sleeve dress shirt, I would just trust him to make a good impression with your parents personality-wise and then drop the fact that he's tatted up later.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:23 PM
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I love Kristin Bell, she's so charming. They seem to have a good relationship but he just rubs me the wrong way. I've tried giving his podcast Armchair Expert a few chances but I couldn't do it. They bring on experts to discuss interesting topics but he constantly interrupts them in conversation, goes on unrelated tangents, and monologues to his guests in an attempt to flex his own knowledge towards literal world experts in their field (I get that he's the 'armchair expert' but it doesn't come a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:16 PM
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Dude this is perfect. Know your place monster man 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:57 PM
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All ugly people are icky. All icky people in an age gap relationship are predators. Bob is ugly. Therefore Bob is a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:51 PM
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Dax Sheperd
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:45 PM
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If both of them are conventionally attractive. Not predatory. If only Sally is conventionally attractive. Predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:41 PM
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IIRC it's >99% once you get to 50 people. yep lol I just posted a new thread on that, blows my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:26 PM
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Assuming any day of the year is equally likely to be someone's birthday (1/365), if there's 40 people in a room, there's a 90% chance that two of them will share a birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:24 PM
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It's such a specific and fascinating way of looking at the world. I minored in statistics and I'll die on this hill that applied probability was harder than any CS course that I took. Here's a counterintuitive probability question. Assuming that a birthday on any day of the year is equally common, how many people do we need to have in a room before there's at least a 50% chance of two people sharing a birthday? !The answer is 23.!<
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:18 PM
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I see through China's plan to bankrupt the US by forcing us to deploy F22s and launching million dollar missiles every time we see a balloon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:58 PM
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I get that you're joking but this took way too much brain power for me to process.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:47 PM
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username and flair lines up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:45 PM
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For reddit women, it's a guy who washes his ass. In general, it's understood to be a man with a successful career, vibrant social circle, and conventionally attractive traits (tall, good shoulder-waist ratio, symmetrical face, strong jawline etc). I don't think it's an ambiguous term.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:41 PM
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Rip the bandaid off but for the love of god, do not start off with the words,"hey can I tell you something?" you're going to unlock the primordial dread let loose on her by every other chump. Be upfront - I think you're cool let's go on a date. I don't think it makes much of a difference if it's in person or text tbh. Plan for it going either way. She says no don't even react, tell her you appreciate her honesty and don't let her see the tears streaming down your face. If she says yes have a dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:36 PM
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CMV: A lot of gold diggers are misclassified party girls. Party girls want new people as much as they want new experiences. They're naturally going to be attracted to rich guys who can let them party on their boat. Gold diggers on the other hand are strategic. Not only do they want fun experiences, they want to climb socially and want you to pay for the accoutrements of their inflated lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:26 PM
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Female EEs are rare but BME, chemical, civ, and environmental they're not too uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:21 PM
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I thought of the movie A Beautiful Mind and for a second I thought you wanted a paranoid schizophrenic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:19 PM
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1 mil = year and half 5 mil = 2 years 10 mill = 2.5 years I'm trying to reflect the marginal returns of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:30 PM
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They never allowed me to think about money. They would've made any sacrifice for their kids. I feel the same way towards them. Money is not an object, and I'm grateful for being born to the parents that I have. Sorry that you don't feel the same way about yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:27 PM
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Your worldview feels like a balance sheet. Every opportunity in life was afforded to me by my parents so of course I'd do anything for them. If they want a kidney from me, I wouldn't think twice. The visceral reaction you had to the idea of helping your parents is telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:04 PM
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I don’t only mean poor countries when I say a culture not based around consumerism. I mean literally most countries outside of the United States Passport bros are not going to the developed world to find partners. It's automatically implied they're going to poorer countries. Even middle income countries like Mexico, Brazil, Russia, and Romania are considered poor by Western standards. ​ Also most the examples you listed happen in America as well and they’re not uncommon either such as large wedd…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:41 PM
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Not from my experience. My friends and I play matchmaker all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:05 PM
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I’d rather marry a woman who’s culture isn’t based around consumerism This is a misconception around poor countries. Traditional and conservative cultures emphasize gift-giving and the materialistic aspects of a relationship far more than the West. Weddings are grand affairs even in poor countries. The guest lists are giant. A third world wedding is most likely to cost more as a percentage of yearly income within that country than it would in the West. Also - in poor countries, you are expected …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:55 PM
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I'm messing with you. I'm glad to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:44 PM
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My best friend is dating a really attractive Ukrainian girl he met off Tinder. Wishing that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:20 PM
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Me when I lie:
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:18 PM
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The guys who say they want a tradwife SAHM are most likely young men who've never paid bills in their life. The chances they make enough to have a single income household is low. That being said, I've never thought much about the job of the people I'm dating so long as their head is above water. I don't like talking about my job, it's boring, and I expect your job to be boring as well. I will say that I've dated across tax brackets though, more money is always better. Don't let people tell you o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:13 AM
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I don’t think you would say that if you cared about your vows I agree with that. knew your hot friend would be a terrible sex/romantic partner. In regards to having sex, I disagree with that big time. That's a projection of women's sexuality on to men. Just the novelty of it is enough to make it worth it. Every guy at the minimum, fantasizes about what his attractive female friends look like naked or what it would be like to feel them up. For romantic partners - I half agree with you. Sometimes …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:15 AM
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Somewhere in between those two.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:08 AM
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I have male friends who are physically attractive but I'm not willing to have sex with them. The same cannot be said about my attractive female friends. I'm not interested in anything romantic but if they called me rn to have sex, I'll be there. That's a different category of relationship in my brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:43 AM
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You're in your own category... all things considered. Also I'm finally watching Akira this weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:36 AM
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Is that really just a friendship then. It's threatening to both of your SOs and I'd be thinking in the back of my head if my relationship doesn't work out, it's gonna be her I go after.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:34 AM
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The only time a guy can be truly platonic friends with a woman is if she's ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:05 AM
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Death is hereditary.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:23 PM
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Back when Vice actually had hard-hitting pieces, they toured around Afghanistan to show the tribes that the US allied with were often worse than the Taliban. The reporter asked a village elder why they routinely molested underage boys, and the guy looked at him like he asked a preposterous question. Recalling from memory, he was like, look around (broadly gestures at the desert) who else are we gonna fuck? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ja5Q75hf6QI
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:10 PM
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Me a couple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:57 PM
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That's what I thought but when I saw this in the morning, the videos with her fiancé were at 150-200 likes a piece but the latest post she had showing her ass was at 5K likes 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:42 PM
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https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRt19mEX/ Uhhm lady were you born yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:41 PM
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What do men claim to be honest about specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 01:09 PM
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Unmarried: https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/unmarried-childbearing.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:23 PM
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That makes so much sense. Thanks for writing that out. Now I'm thinking of all my mixed race friends and that rings true for all of them. The mom pretty much sets the cultural context for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 01:24 AM
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Mormon woman who grew up as 1 of 7 kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 01:12 AM
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Hey welcome back
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 01:06 AM
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Kinkeeping the act of maintaining and strengthening familial ties. It is a form of emotional labor done both out of a sense of obligation and because of emotional attachment There's a tiktok that went viral talking about the notion of kinkeeping especially in the form of domestic labor traditionally performed by women; the creator claims that it goes unappreciated by most men. https://www.tiktok.com/@thought_dumpy/video/7183168131706178858 Q4A: To what extent do you do kinkeeping and how much do…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:59 AM
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During my track days we use to take this supplement called ZMA that did the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:51 AM
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I buy those prepackaged fudge brownies with walnuts in them at whole foods. It's the perfect mix of crunchiness with the chewiness of the brownie.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:30 AM
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Oh of course. Reading my comment back, I made it sound like a value judgement, and that's not the case. You're right just the logistics of it is enough to deter people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:28 AM
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This is a balanced take. A lot of it I do think is to make their partner happy, and they're genuinely trying to be that person for them but something about it always felt off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:41 PM
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Good point, a 30+ yr old switching up on a dime is not a good look.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:40 PM
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We've all been there
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:39 PM
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Basically what happened to my dad. He was a non-practicing roman catholic and he couldn't care less about any religion. My mom is a devout protestant though so he had to do the whole song and dance with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:31 PM
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Most guys are invisible to women, that's the norm. you're above dating fat single moms Those are very unattractive traits. I'm not saying this weird incel vitriol against single moms is justified but being overweight and having kids from a previous relationship is a terrible combo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:23 PM
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Q4ALL: What do you think about guys who switch up a major stance once they start dating someone? I'm talking about switching religions or politics, how genuine do you think he is?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:18 PM
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A lot of the core beliefs mirror that of women in major metropolitan areas but it's nowhere near the same level of intensity or severity. The upvote and dogpile system probably accounts for the difference though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:12 PM
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Both of my parents work in healthcare and there is a major push by private corporations like Hackensack Meridian and RWJ to consolidate all the hospitals and treatment centers in New Jersey. The aging population is pushing demand for healthcare workers but what these companies have started doing instead of raising salaries and hiring more skilled workers is they hire more CNAs and other auxiliary staff to cut costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:58 AM
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Lillith's comments on nice guys got me thinking what a bizarre expectation it is for guys to have that somehow being nice leads to sex. Like in an alternate universe where being nice has as much sex appeal as being rich or handsome - what do we even do to stand out. I imagine us racing to the door to hold it open for a woman who still hasn't left her car. Sounds like a hellscape. related
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:56 AM
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Always the loser. Her mate value drops with each sexual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:46 AM
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Don't listen to these women. There are winners and losers to this. The winner is the one that got her. The loser is you who's writing a reddit comment about why that shouldn't be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:32 AM
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Eh it's fine for guys to want the tradcon housewife. I only take an issue with it when guys think they can have their cake and eat it. If you want that kind of wife, you have to be a man's man yourself. The same guys who complain about having the masculine expectations of never showing emotion, being strong, having to make more money, and paying for everything are ironically the ones demanding traditionalism from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:59 PM
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You should check out the Andrew Huberman podcast. He popularized ashwaganda as a supplement and that's where the hype started. Personally I supplement with vitamin d3 and magnesium because most US adults are deficient in those. I also take creatine and fish oil if that counts. Also check out: https://examine.com/ to learn more about what you're taking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:42 PM
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r/regretfulparents is a guilty pleasure of mine
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:05 PM
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It's impressive that you can pull this off on first dates. How often do you go on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:11 PM
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It's comments like these that convince me you guys live in an alternate dimension where women don't go to school, work jobs, or pay for groceries.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:10 PM
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Watching Ed, Edd, & Eddy as a kid imbued me with Machiavellian traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:58 PM
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How are you able to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:58 PM
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r/dontyouknowwhoiam is a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:37 AM
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Best to keep an open mind. There's truth in pain, and there's a lot of hurt people here. Not saying it's being expressed productively though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:46 AM
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Where do you stand on all of this? Do you agree with any of the pill rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:18 AM
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That voicemail is ancient. It spans back to the old PUA days.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:16 AM
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Monterro by Lil Nas X is a great song.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:39 AM
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So how'd you find out about pill spaces?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:35 AM
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You jest but it's important for both partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:07 AM
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Like I would even want you smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:04 AM
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Are you warmed up? Because I'm ready to approach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:04 AM
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Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:03 AM
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New Balance is in rn, shows how much you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:01 AM
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Where's the lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:00 AM
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They can't all be hits okay,
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:58 AM
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Exactly how I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:58 AM
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Put yourself in our shoes. The reason we even approached you in the first place was because of your looks. Can you not sympathize with how betrayed we feel to see you lose your youth and beauty over time?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:09 AM
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I was raised UMC but even middle class school systems have most people going into community college after graduation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:27 PM
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Too many people go in for a 4 year degree when they should really go in for 2 years at a community college (junior college depending on where you are) before transferring and committing to a career path. The statistics bear out that college is one of the best investments you can make for yourself financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:25 PM
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Did you guys know that only 40% of US adults hold a college degree? I would've thought it was at least 60% for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:13 PM
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It's too complicated to say how big of a factor that plays but even ancient historians knew the most deleterious cohort to society are single young men who are unemployed and unmarried. Civil wars, violent revolts, and crime waves are spearheaded almost unanimously by this cohort. It was a deliberate strategy in the past to offload young men into wars, expeditions, forced labor, and religious obligation in order to reduce internal risks. And just as a matter of practicality, having a wife and ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:20 PM
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There's a theory called cultural evolution that states institutions adapt beliefs and practices that allow for its own self-preservation. While men could create the doctrines to be fully self-serving, they can't overdo it and destabilize the religion. One of the most interesting things to come out of this is the normalization of monogamy. Polygyny was the norm in our evolved history. Why would religious leaders codify preventing high status men from having multiple wives? Presumably religious le…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:34 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/antiwork/comments/10vctjm/whats_the_endgame/ Anti work consists of 16 year olds who larp as grown adults. The hundreds of people calling themselves serfs in the comments 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:20 PM
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Just make a post show discussion comment on the daily thread. People are doing that for The Last of Us. Let everyone chime in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:58 AM
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I feel like it's a must for him to have multiple love interests now to up the ante 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:54 AM
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These things are never shot in sequence. All the filming is probably done but things can drag in post due to creative changes. Membership churn is probably most likely though given all the layoffs, hiring freezes, and pay cuts over at Netflix. I'm in the same boat as you. I want to see him on screen again before I decide if I like the new look.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:44 AM
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I don't know if it's the reason for this particular case but they've done staggered releases in the past for other shows citing needing extra time to work in post production as the reason. What do you think about Joe's beard. Do you like that look?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:30 AM
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celebrities, they don’t care about any of this stupid shit Yes they do. No matter your lot in life. Bringing kids from a previous marriage is always going to be a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:26 AM
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It's only a month wait between each parts. I'm excited for it as well. A little worried I'm not going to find any of the love interests to be as charismatic as Love though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:21 AM
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Surely you don't actually mean that Eulen. Idk I thought maybe you'd find my honesty to be charming in a weird way🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:28 PM
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men would rather push for inequality between the sexes if means a certain amount of sexual success I never thought of it that way but that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:02 PM
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cosplay idea for you and your man. slightly nsfw. https://i.redd.it/wv5misahipo61.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:06 AM
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Daddy daughter dynamic. Hot. ​ this millionaire 30-something had a 19-year-old girlfriend. She requested quesadillas for most of her meals, while the millionaire was eating molecular gastronomy. Me when I turn 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:03 AM
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hit me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 02:53 AM
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I ship Joel and Ellie idc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:34 AM
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Ideally moderate liberal, went to college, good family, no strong religious affiliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:02 AM
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She’s in PPD purgatory atm, what’d you wanna ask her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:59 PM
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I get that but I feel like all the discussions here get lost in the sauce with Chads, passportmaxxing, looksmaxxing, alphas and betas, that they forget that their arena, for the most part, is just their small social circle. It doesn't even have to be a calculated operation to make more friends, even acquaintances will suffice because you never know who will pass information to who and help you out with opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:29 PM
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Social proof and having a large social network you can rely on isn't one and the same. And it has everything to do with finding an attractive partner. The dating pool of attractive people in NYC is larger than what I can find in my hometown. Changing nothing about myself or even the size of my own network (since the networks of the respective people you know will be much larger), the likelihood of finding someone attractive who likes me back in NYC is much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:22 PM
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I'm sure none of you want to hear a blue pill take but a lot of your dating options and success simply come from the sheer size of your social network. One of the reasons why the PUA movement was a head fake was because people aren't hooking up and getting into relationships with randoms they cold approached. Think about how many relationships actually start that way - very few. The majority of people are getting with friends, coworkers, classmates, acquaintances, and people from their church an…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:05 PM
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It's something that has consequences on the dating market so it's worth talking about in a gender dynamics sub. Besides that, older woman love to tell men that they only date much younger because they can't attract someone their age bracket. Younger women are more attractive. We don't need to automatically assume manipulation is in the mix. Even young guys understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:55 PM
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It's also a very tangible phenomena. There is palpable forwardness (in a good way) when you date a woman who's in her late 20s. My best friend once went on a first date with a 29 year old where she gave him time table of when she'd like to be proposed to if they were to enter into a relationship. So it's very real and worth talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:47 PM
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politics, religion, the usual stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:35 PM
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Just a reminder that autism is a mental illness. There's a reason why it's a de facto insult in this sub. The way some dudes here say they're attracted to that, worries me. I'm speaking from experience here. If you spoke to an autistic woman having zero preconceptions or notions of autism, you'd think she was just dropped on the head as a kid. Forget the labels, would you tolerate any conversation partner giving you one word answers or paragraph long answers to everything - with no inbetween? Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:02 AM
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I think Adobe should acquire a lot of the AI art companies. I was playing around with midjourney and there is a lot of tags and options to have the ai make everything to your liking. I see a lot of potential in having artists use their own work as generative prompts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:13 PM
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Most couples are cool with looking through each other's phones in my experience but there is some decorum to it. When she asks if she can look something up or order something on my phone, it's implied she's also looking through my dms and imessages.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 07:15 PM
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I'm old gen z (24) and I learned of that word playing Overwatch in highschool. Certain characters were overpowered so we were forced to play them in order to win, they'd say in the chat, "stick to meta". It's also a Blizzard game so perhaps the fanbase was repurposing the word over the years. Even the word meta drops new metas. Whoa very meta.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 07:04 PM
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Gimme.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:55 PM
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Depends on how they use it. If they reference breaking the fourth wall or living in the matrix, it's short hand for meta-awareness or metacognition. But if you're talking about how gen z uses it, they're using the gaming version of the word. The 'meta' is another way of saying the standard or the norm when it comes to best options and best practices. Whenever game devs drop new patches that balance a game, it alters the meta i.e. what everyone uses. Kids lifted the word to have it apply to real …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:53 PM
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Q4A: What age does it stop being cool to wear your college sweatshirt as an alumni?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:43 PM
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Only if they have the right opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:40 PM
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So what exactly is your opinion on the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:51 PM
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It's not a matter of opinion. A patriarchy is a society in which the leadership positions are held by men. We objectively live in one of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:27 PM
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You can't have sex with men and call yourself a feminist. You're literally allowing the rod of the patriarchy to enter inside of you. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 01:40 PM
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God knows I love a fixer-upper. Shame that we're so far apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 01:23 PM
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New Jersey. But tell me about your sister. What's wrong with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 01:19 PM
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🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 01:18 PM
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I haven't cheated. All I'm saying is I would definitely cheat if I ever become rich and famous (which you have to admit I would've earned the right to cheat if I ever pull that off). And you're a red piller with porn-fried brain I'm not red pilled in the way you guys would describe. I sympathize with everybody because I've seen it all tbh. It just depends on the person and the circumstance. And I don't really watch porn like that but I have a porn brain pre-installed that's why I think porn is b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:11 AM
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They are. All men will let you down in the end. The only choice you have is how you'll be disappointed. At least I'll be fun option for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:37 AM
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That's like saying you don't like guys who obey the laws of gravity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:35 AM
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How. Unlike most of the dudes on here, I actually like and respect women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:30 AM
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You never know 🤷‍♂️ Do you have any sisters or friends you can hook me up with in the meantime?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:26 AM
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You're just mad that you're not getting a taste of my world class rizz.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:16 AM
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Why are you so rude to me Eulen. That's no way to talk to your second husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:15 AM
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You should be honored that I'm in your DMs. You're about to experience a masterclass in The Art of Seduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:37 AM
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It was inappropriate and unprofessional to say out loud, sure, but it certainly wasn't depriving her of her autonomy or personhood 😭 All I'm getting from this is - don't express those thoughts around women. Which is what I argued originally - that all this language serves to do is make male sexuality more digestible for female audiences. Like I have eyes too. I also thought she was hot. Next up you're going to say I was objectifying her too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 01:29 AM
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You've gotta be kidding me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 12:46 AM
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Objectification is literally viewing a person as an object who lacks autonomy and personhood When I read something like this, it seems awful. When you violate someone's personhood and autonomy, I'm thinking of a guy who sexually assaults women. But that's not the circumstance in which women use that word ever. One of my male coworkers made a comment about one of the speakers at a conference looking hot in her dress, and another coworker said that was objectifying her. Any and all expressions of …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 12:28 AM
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Women use the word objectification as a platitude when men are expressing sexual attraction. Don't give me the 7 core tenets of objectification from Stanford and pretend like you said something. What does a guy who's objectifying a woman do exactly? Be precise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 12:03 AM
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No stop it Stingray you're beautiful just the way you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:56 PM
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Can you tell me what a guy who is objectifying woman is actually thinking and doing. Please be specific. No platitudes about him not viewing her as full person. No, tell me exactly which behavior, which words he's saying, and what thoughts you think are running through his head. Your reading comprehension hasn't been great today. \^ You should recall I consider some level of objectification as necessary in a relationship. Women start out as an object of desire. Devoid of any personal information…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:52 PM
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There’s a major difference between seeing someone as lacking interior motivation and seeing someone as an individual with agency and self-direction. Can you tell me what a guy who is objectifying woman is actually thinking and doing. Please be specific. No platitudes about him not viewing her as full person. No, tell me exactly which behavior, which words he's saying, and what thoughts you think are running through his head.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:30 PM
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Men fall in love with women all the time. That's not what I'm arguing. I'm saying it's sexual attraction comes first and foremost. Men don't fall in love with women they don't want to fuck. And more likely than not those men would want to fuck that woman even if she was a complete stranger. Women just don't know this because guys spoonfeed you the impressions and narratives you want to hear. And many men I’ve known don’t ever want sex with strangers and only did it with women they liked as peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:26 PM
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You can like your partner and have sex with me as well. Both things can be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:04 PM
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Objectification and finding someone sexually attractive are not the same thing. It's the same thing. It's a distinction only made by women to make men more palatable in how they present their sexuality. Men's sexuality is tunnel vision. We see you as an object of desire when we're horny. That's it. Whether you're a stranger or whether you're our partner for life. We're not making love to your personality no matter how hard you try to tell yourselves that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:01 PM
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This is where women lose the script with us. This entanglement between emotional depth, agency, and sexual attraction just doesn't make any sense to us. Like zero clue what you mean because our sexuality is compartmentalized. If your body makes us hard, we want to have sex with you. That's it. Women can't relate to the idea that men can fuck someone they absolutely hate or find annoying, and that's probably why. It makes sense to decry that as viewing women as sexual objects but what yall can't …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:57 PM
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Good. I want you to love me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:41 PM
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May I interest you in sex with me instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:40 PM
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You know what that's totally fair. The lines are definitely blurred when it comes to this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:37 PM
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Objectification is not the same as finding someone sexually attractive You're wrong. It is. The difference in language reflects how women wish male sexuality would behave; it's a projection. If I see someone hot during my commute. I'm thinking yeah she has a nice ass. I wonder what she looks like naked or how good it would feel to run my hands along her waist. That's what women would call objectification. She's a stranger and I'm eye-fucking her. The point I'm trying to describe is that women pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:35 PM
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I think I understand what you're trying to say but can you explain a little bit more. Like it's okay to objectify at first if I intend to go talk to that person and get to know them but it's not okay if I objectify haphazardly the people I don't have any intention of getting to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:28 PM
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Did you actually think for a second that that's how I navigated the world. No, I'm talking about people you're interested in (sexually, if I have to point that out too).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:19 PM
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I thought it was obvious that I was talking about people you were interested in sexually/romantically but I guess not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:14 PM
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That's not my point at all. I'm not saying the only reason guys want to talk to women is for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:06 PM
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Women miss the mark completely when they talk about objectification on here. Objectification is necessary. Why would a guy want to talk to you in the first place if he didn't sexualize you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:46 PM
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The post you linked is a joke. It's ripped from 4chan so that's why I'm choosing to ignore it. And no one on Earth, including guys with 'yellow fever' are in a relationship just because of that person's race. If that were true then then any old, ugly, and obese asian women would do the trick. I'm telling you right now that levels of objectification are necessary for any relationship. If a guy wants to be in a relatioonship with an asian woman because he thinks that pussy is tight, she's petite, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:37 PM
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I'm just telling you that this line that you draw between preference and fetish is arbitrary, women weaponize those terms to make themselves appear more virtuous with their own sexual and romantic inclinations. It's always shrouded in flowery language. She has a type or that she grew up liking them or they have a look or a vibe that really gets her going. Jesus Christ. Just say it. Say what you actually mean. Guys can talk like that too but we don't. That's not how we communicate. That's why yal…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:26 PM
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I'll give you examples, and I want you to tell me if they're fetishization or simply preferences. I know a black girl I went to college with who's dead-set on marrying a white guy. She straight up said she doesn't want her kids to have dark skin. Half of the asian women I know have only dated white guys. There's this running joke that in Brooklyn, there are more white guys dating asian girls than there are white guys dating white girls. Meanwhile I've only met a couple asian guys who've dated ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:55 PM
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You don't even have to be married to feel like this. I was in a relationship for 2 years during college when I was just hitting my stride. I could've doubled my body count during that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:46 PM
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Ahem neotenous features akshuallly 🤓 And I never claimed that's why they liked them. I'm saying in general it's such a stupid way to make women appear more virtuous by having nice neat stories for liking who they like but men are bad somehow because they're just being honest. And mind you, I don't think objectification and fetishization is an entirely bad thing. If your bfs or husbands stop objectifying you, the relationship is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:41 PM
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There's this great quote, people don't want more options, they want more confidence in the options they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:29 PM
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The ghost white makeup makes me uncomfy but honestly, women have a problem when men fetishize asian women but are completely fine fetishizing k-pop boys. It's somehow never a fetish for women, just a ✨preference✨
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:25 PM
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Yeah, you got a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:25 PM
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Not surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:25 PM
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What do you mean by that. Shouldn't that motivate him to be finding someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:18 PM
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Same with fiberglass insulation. Cotton candy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:17 PM
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My rejection stories have been tame thank God. There might have been a few where they brought up a fictitious boyfriend but it's nbd. The worst one I've seen from another person though was back in highschool, my friend was hyping up his crush for months. It took our entire friend group to convince him to ask her out. He did and he got rejected (politely). Later that day a mutual friend of ours, who she didn't know was friends with all of us, got to talking with her. She was complaining about how…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:38 PM
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If you're not getting laid, it's because you haven't read enough books. Watched enough youtube videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:28 PM
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It is though. Intraspecies violence in the mammalian world is predominantly committed by males. If you want to be even more specific, it's committed by the sex competes for the scarcer reproductive resource - in this case females with eggs. The hormonal profile of males tends us towards aggression, competition, and risk taking. This isn't a controversial take btw. People only clutch their pearls when they hear this because they're afraid people will use it as an excuse for violence. That's the n…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:25 PM
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I'm giving women the benefit of the doubt though because they don't get to see inside male friend groups. There's like two dudes doing all the fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:58 AM
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Become a server or bartender. You can also do what I did in college and do stand up comedy. None of us were funny. It taught some valuable life skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:18 AM
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I apologize Eulen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:55 AM
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Incels rejoice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:44 AM
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Did you mean to respond to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:44 AM
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My 2023 resolution is to stop apologizing even if I know I’m wrong. It’s a very feminine trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:42 AM
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Sure but it just so happens you become unattracted to men lacking in these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:34 AM
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whatever you say fatty
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:06 AM
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Thank you 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:55 PM
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Is this a Katy Perry lyric.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:50 PM
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Well so was mine haha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:32 PM
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I'm telling you it's a bad question.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:13 PM
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Not intentionally. I'm not a sociopath. When the stakes are small I play it off like ahh you got me I'm a terrible liar. But when it's something serious and I just want there to be peace, I have to play the cards right. It's for you as much as it is for me tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:13 PM
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Women aren't men. Women are attracted to men who can get what they want out of life: friends, money, respect, status, and of course other women. You also have to remember that dudes have higher looks standards for their wife than they do for anyone else. His wife is a reflection of himself. So most women will think they're the ones who were able to pull him out of his party boy phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:08 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/10rjhv2/comment/j6z76ne/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 I'm about to do some charity work for you women. My favorite move to pull is when I have the opportunity to say a white lie - I do a break in the middle of it, look down, smile and say, "I can't even lie to you with a straight face," and just tell the truth. It's important that it's for something innocuous, that way when there's something important you need to lie about like wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:59 PM
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I'll have her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:54 PM
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Once he cheats on you, I'm right there as a rebound Eulen. The sexual tension between is crazy 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:53 PM
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Ahh I see xo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:49 PM
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impossible https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MPJ0AB12h1I
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:48 PM
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All the more reason she should be craving someone new.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:45 PM
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The long con. Your husband is a hall of famer if he has you thinking that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:44 PM
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I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:40 PM
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I had her share her biometrics from her apple watch. Why is your heart rate at 140 BPM? wyd
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:40 PM
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Letting another man take what's mine. I think not 🤬
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:38 PM
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I feel that. Planting airtags in her car is my love language.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:37 PM
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You have to sleep at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:33 PM
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Don't most places start a tab with your credit card not your ID?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:27 PM
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PSA for the people who say they 'know' their partner is being faithful - say instead that you trust them not to cheat. You're not auditing their behaviors. You don't actually know if they're cheating on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:25 PM
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Ever since Kanye went full anti-Semitic mode, it's kinda tough to listen to his music) How I feel about all of R Kelly and the entire ASTROWORLD album by Travis Scott.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:43 PM
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If you wanna sound even fancier, use the technical term supernormal stimulus. And yeah anything hyper arousing is going to push your baseline - and that includes erotic fiction. Gotta put it into context though. Most women probably touch themselves once every 2-3 weeks to erotica at most. It's probably not enough to condition themselves in any meaningful way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:40 PM
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If you can't point to anything specific he probably just reminded you of someone terrible but you couldn't remember who. Either that or you just felt anxious that day and you associated it with him. They've run studies on this where they manipulated people's stress hormones in controlled scenarios. Participants almost always attributed the source of their emotions on the people around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:29 PM
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Lana Del Rey - Norman Fucking Rockwell 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:20 PM
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Read the book The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:17 PM
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J Cole - Forest Hills Drive Tame Impala - Currents Glass Animals - Dreamland Black Eyed Peas - The Beginning Juice WRLD - Legends Never Die
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:15 PM
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Naw she has so much going against her. Wide set jaw, chubby cheeks, large nose large head size. She also hasn't shown her body, but I think she is slightly overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 05:37 PM
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It feels mean even posting these accounts but it's still a good perspective to hear from unattractive women who are blackpilled. @bittertobetter @thisisanhle They talk about red pill stuff like with online dating but most of the topics center around lookism/pretty privilege. u/HazyMemory7
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:14 AM
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what
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:58 AM
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Not when you're surrounded by old people 🤬
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:02 AM
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Right this way lull
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:01 AM
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I've actually seen the other side of the spectrum - old and ugly women being totally accepting of a lot of redpill/blackpill material. I'll post their links in thread when I get a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:15 AM
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I saw a tiktok saying there are clubs in Korea that don't allow anyone in their 30s or older to enter into the club. Can we please start doing that in the US. I get second hand embarrassment seeing 30+ yr olds out clubbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:10 AM
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🥴 Thanks alt. I needed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:27 AM
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Keep going, I'm so close.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:03 AM
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That single mom should've vetted her mechanic better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:56 AM
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Yes m'am 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:52 AM
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Why are you giving her permission. You're not a mod 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:38 AM
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It's okay Kat you can be sexy in ways other than your looks 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:36 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/10qm427/comment/j6szvwb/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 I was the one who posted that tiktok earlier. I even mentioned that you should keep in mind that she sells a service. She has to ham it up even for the ugly and fat girls. Make them think that they can get 5 star treatment from a man the same way that male dating coaches have to convince short balding guys that they can land dimes just by having game.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:30 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/10qm427/comment/j6szvwb/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:26 AM
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Yes, most guys have embarrassing stories of the lengths they've gone through to impress someone hot. There's no way you can get that level of effort out of us if you don't make our dick hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:33 PM
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Guys have the same learning curve but for hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:20 PM
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All the cool kids are freezing bagels 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:19 PM
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https://www.tiktok.com/@datingwithaly/video/7195029241212210478?_t=8ZWJ6RO94sl&_r=1 Kinda refreshing to see after hearing Reddit women say that every other guy they date has skid marks on his underwear and mold growing in his car. I will say though that only attractive women have attractive options. It's not just a matter of high standards and saying thank you, next. But that's to be expected, she is a dating coach - she wants these bitches to think that most guys are out there freezing bagels, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:02 PM
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I think the people saying that are young like highschool or early college age. They feel like PIV is more of a commitment and reserved for relationships that are more serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:58 PM
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He was but all the convos I've had with him are normal so I didn't really think much about it. I am more mindful of seemingly innocuous information though because people can piece together a lot just by comment history.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:36 PM
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The more I think about it, the more this would probably apply to my older sibling. She's been to so many countries for work that she jumbles up people, places, and dates all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:59 AM
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I now understand why you only have 24 ig followers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:48 AM
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If you've been through a lot of dudes, anything is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:37 AM
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I thought that also but a bunch of women on PPD have said that they often forget entire relationships if they haven't thought about them in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:29 AM
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Several people have been doxxed on this sub. Somebody found my linkedin by searching my [job] [city] [college] luckily the guy wasn't weird about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:24 AM
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https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRsgtxbH/ imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:20 AM
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This applies to a myriad of things not just the topics you and I argue about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:11 AM
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Me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:10 AM
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He had a date. It's not that hard to get a date 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:48 AM
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It's funny that you guys think that feminism or religion can stop men from being men. Like trying to dam up a river with paper maché.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:18 AM
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same energy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uEKMkz1xiGw
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:15 AM
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I go to Vegas twice a year for conferences. We go to the clubs every time but we're boys so YMMV 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:36 PM
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Can you explain a little more, I looked at pictures of a double cowlick, it doesn't look like it has to do with hairlines.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:24 PM
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He's a larp. It's a deeply religious country. There is no hookup culture. He's claiming to be having sex early and often on dates with educated well-adjusted women 😐 And just read his comment history. Guy wants to make a show of how sociopathic he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:13 PM
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The country is inequal like you wouldn't believe. There isn't a middle class the way you would describe it here in the states. Greenwood Village (idk if that name is right I'm recalling from memory) in Makati where we stayed look like any downtown of a rich Western country but it's only 20 minute drive from shanty towns. The country also has no semblance of sex education. It's a taboo subject. Even the young liberal cohort in metro Manila are split on issues of birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:08 PM
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Tell CanOfBullshit to unblock me. I spent a month vacationing in the Philippines. I can tell you right now that he's a larp. On demand sex from normal educated women he's dating 😂 Inside a conservative country that barely uses birth control. Alright bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:42 AM
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You've been on PPD longer than me. You're asking questions you know the answer to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:32 AM
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Another thing is, most of them will have sex on demand, a lot of them want the sex more than me even. It's amazing what hookers can convince you of.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:31 AM
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It doesn't matter the country, the stereotype of going to a poorer country to find a woman is the same: the women are thinner, more pleasant, submissive, and traditional. What these guys don't want to say out loud also is that they also think these women are stupid. Like actual toddler levels of intelligence. They can't comprehend these women having motives and personal agency. They think that being white and from a developed country will immediately have these dimwitted women enamored by them 🙄…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:19 AM
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There was a post yesterday asking if men would prefer an average virgin woman or a 10/10 promiscuous woman. 90% of the men said they wanted the virgin. Ridiculous. In real life, if they were hanging out with both women, the attractive one would monopolize their attention. This shouldn't even be up for debate. Edit: lmao that's the same thread that's linked nvm
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:24 AM
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I say OF is akin to a get rich quick scheme because most entrants underestimate the work needed to get the financial returns they're looking for - not even mentioning the cost to their privacy and future career prospects. The low barrier to entry and sensational headlines make it appear that the 6/7 figure lifestyle is attainable for most creators. For regular studio porn, the porn stars you know of don't amass wealth through contracted studio work. They have no ownership in what they produce. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:18 PM
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Might have to try that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:30 PM
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It's not the worst case scenario, it's the base case. You don't enter into that industry being sound of mind. Dig into their past. They have troubled home lives, sexual trauma, and drug abuse. I'm sure that some women leave and re-enter the industry because they're lazy and stupid like you seem to suggest but for those who want to make a dignified living for themselves, again, they're not afforded any normalcy or human decency because they're branded by their past. If a former pornstar entered i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:27 PM
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Anyone bringing up the possibility of unconditional love is a retard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:47 PM
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Pretty much all pornstars struggled with sexual or substance abuse prior to entering into the industry. I forget which one but a pornstar did a very candid AMA once where she talked about being raped by her dad and that setting her up to feel numb towards any and all sexual exploitation. When they try to leave the industry, they struggle to retain normal jobs. Their employers are flooded with calls and emails demanding termination. Their coworkers ostracize them. It's not a normal circumstance. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:44 PM
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Honestly yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:15 PM
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Update on trying to get our friends to fall in love with each other. The outing went okay. Getting drunk was the highlight of the day. Everybody had fun but they didn't hit it off as much as we'd like tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:04 PM
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The dudes here are talking out of their ass. They would go for the second woman if they sensed an inkling of a chance with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:30 AM
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Way too many buttons
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:30 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vx-Si9gbijA
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:24 PM
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I've heard of this before, it sounds interesting. I'll forward him the video.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:02 AM
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Tomorrow my friend and I are enacting our plan to make our two mutual friends fall in love with each other. Itinerary so far: coffee/brunch, art museum, ice skating, dinner and a bar. My friend wants to get them high before going to the museum but idk about that idea. Open to suggestions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:23 AM
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I think they mostly view it as a fun city and a good place for jobs. It's probably best for them to date in markets with more men than women like the Bay Area or Seattle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:26 PM
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Correct but those are functionally identical outcomes though. You gained status simply from surviving. Being able to provide for yourself/others and surviving the violence of life was its own social/sexual currency. Our brains were adapted with this inequality in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:10 PM
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I'm trying to tread water with this one because whenever I bring this up someone in the thread always gets temp banned. Not even most blackpillers know this fun fact but the majority of males of a lot of species never successfully reproduce within their lifetime. Even species with high male reproductive success - still only a minority of males account for the majority of the offspring. It's the same pattern for humans. The majority of human males to ever exist died before having offspring. The n…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:57 PM
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How so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:14 PM
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All the redpill talking points about career driven women being masculinized and not being able to lock down a man hasn't been playing out from what I've seen. In the NYC metro, the girlboss capital of the world, most women I know are getting engaged by the time they're 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:02 PM
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And he’s clearly blue-pilled. For now 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:39 PM
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Reminds me of this song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FLGCGc7sAUw
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:15 PM
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Of course. I'm in talks with our product team about this. More to come.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:05 PM
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In Q1 of this year I'll be launching my startup CircumCycle. Our firm aims to provide affordable circumcisions for all adult males. We then repurpose the removed foreskin to be able to be reattached to other users penises using our patented CircumSeal technology. With CircumCycle, you can swap between different foreskins like you would a phone case. We're in talks with Peter Thiel and Sequoia Capital for Series A funding.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:54 PM
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How do you decide which words to capitalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:35 PM
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That would be a sick band name. Maybe shorten it to OP n' Jannies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:26 PM
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I think the manic posters should form a villain group. I'm not sure what the group should be called though 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:35 PM
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Only those of you who have brain rot and went on 4chan as kids would probably remember but do you guys remember vocaroo? That shit was fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:28 AM
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Was he a CS major? 80% chance he's a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:16 AM
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On a serious note, if you're in your early 20s, read the book The Defining Decade by Meg Jay. I read it as an undergrad, a lot of its lessons stuck with me. Take your life seriously. Set yourself up for future wins because career growth, emotional well being, and strong social networks take years to develop.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:56 PM
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No True Scotsman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:38 AM
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they can have anyone Some professional athletes took that statement literally so you have your answer right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:17 AM
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I'm glad you understand 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:15 AM
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would not be as chill as the bf in the video. As he should. Guys can't afford to look like a bitch in this scenario. I don't think I've ever seen one this bad though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:01 AM
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What's on your mind bro
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:48 AM
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This will eventually happen at some point if you ever go clubbing. The responses are interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:47 AM
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I see what you're saying. I agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:43 AM
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Whenever I bring dates home, I eat food off the bathroom floor to make a show of how clean I keep my living space.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:21 AM
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This idea that modern necessities like having a job is a 'male' responsibility is crazy to me. My mom makes over triple my dad's salary and she still did most of the housework when she came home.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:13 AM
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Do women not have careers where you're from.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:57 PM
1

...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:35 PM
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The lining of their uterus spills out every so often. I think I'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:27 PM
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This is a good question, you should turn it into a formal post so more people can answer. For me, and this goes for everybody not just partners, there's something that makes me uncomfy about unplanned outings or meetups. I like schedules and itineraries. It's not OCD or anything and I don't mind deviating if something interesting comes up but saying we'll find out when we get there or we'll see where the night takes us feels immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:05 PM
1

Were you on adderall?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:50 PM
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I was just saying on the thread yesterday that the people I know who've managed to pull a 180 in their lives did so by moving to a new environment socially or physically. If there ever is an opportunity to not be yourself, it's now. Don't waste it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:49 PM
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So cruel Eulen 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:37 PM
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Naw videogames are cancer. I know two people who have dropped out of college in part due to videogame addiction. League of Legends if anyone was curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:06 AM
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Weird that you're asking guys. I'd be more interested to hear what women think. I do it because it's fun. It's free and it has the chance of making her feel good. But recently I'm questioning it because the label lovebombing is trending, and idk if it would be classified as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:42 AM
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This one is already shaping up to be one of my favorite novelty accounts on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:31 AM
1

I'm not the best judge since I'm a guy. He could stand to lose 10 or so pounds but he's 6'1 and has a okay face.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:13 AM
1

They are. She's the one that's trying to make both of them happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:20 AM
1

These are good ideas, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:13 AM
1

Reposting for the new megathread. This weekend, it's me, my guy friend, and our two female friends. This whole thing was set up so that my guy friend can get to know one of the girls. Me and the other girl are gonna be his wingman & wingwoman. It's gonna be a whole day thing. First is brunch, then we're going to a museum, but the rest is open ended. Question for yall - what activities can we do to make them fall in love? Any wingman, wingwoman tips?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:02 AM
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This weekend, it's me, my guy friend, and our two female friends. This whole thing was set up so that my guy friend can get to know one of the girls. Me and the other girl are gonna be his wingman & wingwoman. It's gonna be a whole day thing. First is brunch, then we're going to a museum, but the rest is open ended. Question for yall - what activities can we do to make them fall in love? Any wingman, wingwoman tips?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:58 PM
3

From my experience, there is no predictive indicators for a person who cheats. It's its own thing. Guys you will never expect, happy relationships or otherwise will cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:06 PM
2

We haven't argued about cheating in a while, you wanna have another go?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:04 PM
3

I sometimes wonder if you're account is a CIA experiment looking for ways to counter the rise of subversive blackpill ideologies in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:51 PM
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Leverage plays a role in it for sure. Even though most of the discussions on this sub is about men competing with one another - women compete with each other as well. They don't want to feel like they have to compete with pickmes, pornstars, or foreigners for the men they want. But I also believe women when they say these are real preferences. They don't want to find out that their husband once visited Thailand on a boys trip or hear that what their boyfriend wants the most in life is a quiet su…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:49 PM
3

Why not. You shared us your pics before, you're a handsome guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:14 PM
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Sorry, my TV is broken but we can watch Netflix on my laptop... in my bedroom. I'm gonna bend you over now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:13 PM
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you only need to score once This right here. Life is long and complicated. Even if the chances of something is 1 in a million, most people will be that 1 at some point in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:12 PM
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The only people I know who've pulled a 180 in their lives did so by either changing friend groups or entering new environments (moved away somewhere, started a new job, etc). Kinda shows how dependent your behaviors are on social contexts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:13 AM
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This'll sound like a joke but that's literally my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:48 PM
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If she's chronically online and hates men, she's wife material. Speaking of which, Lillith are you single?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:38 PM
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Thanks for helping me out with my application Alt 🙏 You're the best in the biz.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:16 PM
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Yes, the catcalling started around ages 14/15.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:01 PM
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Does it matter? It was by grown men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:57 PM
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Why is that a bad thing. People make assumptions about your intentions. People can be wrong about their assumptions. It's not the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:55 PM
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For me it was my sisters. Seeing how much they were catcalled as teenagers was infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:50 PM
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Just about to say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:41 PM
2

This whole thread is lost on you. I can't help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:34 PM
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You're proving u/gofigure62's point bud. Good men doing good things: That's us. Bad men doing bad things: There are bad men out there but they don't represent men as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:27 PM
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My personal favorite is when dudes here try to take credit for the Ukrainians in the front lines. See, men are protectors. Just casually ignoring that it's also men who are invading, looting, and raping women in that country.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:08 PM
3

I actually can't tell if that DENNIS system post is satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:08 PM
2

So only those of you in major cities will probably have seen this, but what do you guys think about the Toast system in restaurants? I'm talking about the full implementation where there's an ipad on the table and it practically replaces having to interact with your waiter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:04 AM
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Yeah that's not a real response from him 🫤
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:31 AM
1

Overall he doesn't sound interested but this part is weird: I’m working on something this week you’ll enjoy What do you think he meant by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:35 PM
1

What're you into right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:28 PM
3

Mystery Lady by Masego & Don Toliver 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:52 PM
1

When she's asexual 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:26 PM
1

The first season of Promised Neverland is a masterpiece. Don't watch the second season, it's disastrously bad. I'm on the latest season of Attack on Titan. My recent favorites have been Jujutsu Kaisen and Vivy Flourite Eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:18 PM
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Attack on Titan is probably on top of everyone's list. Bleach is back if you enjoyed the old series back in the day. Mob Psycho just had its last season which was amazing. An underappreciated pick is Vivy Flourite Eyes. It's the plot of Terminator but it's a Kpop robot. Super cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 09:36 PM
1

I don't know too many people in my life who watch anime so it always felt juvenile. Like a guilty pleasure sorta.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 09:28 PM
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It scratches a really specific itch for me. I always enjoyed animation to begin with but the mix of over the top drama, violence, and humor you see in anime is a vibe you can't find anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 09:26 PM
1

I was watching the new Bleach and I looked up old clips to remind myself what happened. Huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 09:23 PM
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I thought I'd stop liking anime as an adult the same way I stopped playing video games. But the opposite happened. I watch it more than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 09:03 PM
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Anime fans will never be free from oppression 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:38 PM
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🫠 Yeah that's rough that that was your first dating experience. I'm being so serious rn if you're anywhere near my state let's go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:42 AM
1

That's so sad. What happened if you don't mind sharing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:28 AM
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It's like venture capital. I know most dates won't lead to sex but the ones that do - make up for all the failed investments. Animorph would you like to go on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:25 AM
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She also had a pre-mixed vodka drink with her on a Monday night I would judge if I didn't have a case of vodka soda and twisted teas in my car at all times 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:09 AM
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I'm curious how was she a train wreck? In my case, she was a coworker. She would compliment me on the weirdest things and would bring me coffee even though I kept telling her to stop doing that. She finally just asked me out upfront and let her down. I wish she just asked me out in the beginning instead of making it awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:39 AM
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When she doesn't have any friends 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:33 AM
1

Naw everyone has a risk/reward they're willing to tolerate. Any partner has the risk of being unfaithful no matter how attractive they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:42 AM
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I'll qualify what you're saying. Women are attracted to guys who can get what they want out of life. Whether it's money, status, and other women. Ideally women want a man who can easily cheat on her but doesn't because that makes her feel seen and 'chosen'.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:31 AM
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Don't take it personally. He'd like to fuck A LOT more women than just one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:20 AM
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I'm making a distinction between a proactive cheater vs a regular guy. Proactive cheaters will cheat no matter what. A regular guy would not even be tempted to cheat because he knows it's too much effort for an uncertain outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:18 AM
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I'm sure there's truth to that but the instances where it happens probably aren't fitting most guys' ideal cheating scenario. The chances their affair partner is going to be attractive enough to take the risk for is low. And the chances that their affair partner will be discrete and behave the way he wants is also low. That's why I think guys can resist the temptation for the most part unless he truly has it in him to be proactive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:11 AM
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Another epiphany I had. This makes me understand women so much better. A while ago I posted a comment why it's not as great as you think for women to make the first move. I've been asked out twice - both uncomfortable experiences because they weren't my type. I was reminiscing on it, and I realized that even though I was asked out, I was thinking to myself that I had no options at the time and that no girls liked me 😐 Then it hit me. I never viewed those girls as an option in the first place. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:08 AM
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I always knew women benefitted from the fact that men chased after them more than the other way around, but I realized something after arguing with some of you. Women are especially lucky that other women are relatively asexual compared to men. Like seriously, what are the chances someone younger and hotter is going to chase after your boyfriend or husband? Close to zero. Most men are straight up unattractive to women. Hot girls are drowning in attention. Zero reason for them to be going after y…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 11:59 PM
1

Just like any billionaire or professional athlete. Or literally any guy if they're given that lot in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:39 AM
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Ahh that's good. Well rest assured we do have good schools going for us though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:55 AM
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If your username is an indicator that you're raising your kids in New Jersey, your pockets are definitely hurting from the property taxes on top of all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:49 AM
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You can even take a guess how pushy most guys are by reading between the lines in some of the PPD comments. They get hurt and humiliated when they feel like they're not getting sex soon enough or as often as they'd like from the person they're with. And there's a few regular users on here who have stated that it's okay to rape your wife. So there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:48 AM
1

I'd give you a 10 but that's my personal taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:37 AM
1

I saw a Mark Cuban YT video in 2016/17 hyping up ETH and I put in all $600 saved up from my part time job on it. Some time after that a grad student who worked on Walmart's private blockchains sat me down telling me all the drawbacks to the technology. I sold all of my crypto for ~$1200. If I had held on until 2020 that crypto would've been worth $35k. At first I was mad for selling early but I ran across this concept called outcome bias. We falsely judge the quality of a decision by its outcome…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:14 PM
2

Yes! The same video that talked about NFT wash trades said that this was common in the art world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:08 PM
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Male and yes. I wouldn't change anything except maybe being taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 10:52 PM
2

Learned today that 80% of NFT trade volume in January were suspected to be wash trades. A wash trade is when one party conspires to be both the buyer and the seller of the same asset, inflating its price before dumping it on an unsuspecting party. I've thankfully avoided all the crypto/NFT hype because that whole space always felt suspect. I feel validated by this information.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 10:48 PM
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My lord and savior Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 10:40 PM
2

My personal 10, Clairo was rated at an average score of 6 on PPD. Kinda gives me optimism though. 6 is attainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 10:39 PM
1

I'm just messing with you. Live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:20 PM
2

okay pick me 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:01 PM
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Before moving to the city, I didn't know that dating and talking were the same thing. To be bf/gf you have to say the words to lock it in. Always so weird to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:27 PM
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when it comes to feminist causes (which, as a father of girls, I mostly support - even to my own detriment at times) Now how could feminist causes that support your daughters come at a cost to you exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:16 PM
2

But first place in my heart 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:15 PM
1

Fr it costs $50k/yr to keep a prisoner locked up. They might as well generate some value.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:01 PM
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When she says things that aren't true 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:32 PM
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But, they can let him record in jail. I can't tell if you're joking but if this is true. He's dropping the hottest album of 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:30 PM
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Yep I've heard it recently described as a winner take most system. No doubt a minority of guys get to have the majority of hookups. I just wanted to convey that a lot of the selective barriers go away once guys are out there in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:48 AM
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jesus and that probably includes the OF and Snap boosters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:35 AM
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I agree and it's also the fact that most women don't need apps. They can just go about being social and guys will take the lead. Guys should use everything available. My last date was a girl I met through tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:31 AM
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I think the whole 80/20 thing comes from the okcupid study and the book Dataclysm. We should narrow what those findings mean though. It depicts online behavior, not how humans navigate real life. ​ The women I know prefer instagram for hookups. It's a mix of things. There is a pipeline where you meet them through tinder or tiktok then moving it to IG then facetime/imessage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:25 AM
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Either that, scammers, or women peddling onlyfans and premium snap.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:20 AM
1

yeah why not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:11 AM
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Women are sex objects Eulen. No matter how hard you try to convince me otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 12:38 AM
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I've been wondering a lot about the guys who have never been/struggle to get into relationships and say they would treat a woman much better than Chad could. On the surface level I believe that to be somewhat true. Guys can easily dishonor what they take for granted but I think the issue with guys who've never been in a relationship before is that they don't know what they don't know. NRE can drop off like a cliff. Who you thought was God's gift to Earth turns out to be a regular ass person who …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 12:11 AM
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Wouldn't be enthused but it's not worth making a big deal out of as long as she's faithful and ignores/blocks any guys who make a pass at her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 12:01 AM
1

Same with both of my parents but it's a detriment to me for now since I look much younger than I actually am.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 12:00 AM
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That's what I keep telling these women but they won't listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:56 PM
1

That's so interesting. A lot of women here report getting much hornier in their 30s but never full on intrusive thoughts about having a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:20 PM
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Hmm be specific. There's a big difference between bikini pics on IG vs having an OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:14 PM
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The guy is 5'4 he would struggle to make it out of any friendzones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:45 PM
2

Yep I didn't see your comment but I wrote something along the same lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:41 PM
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Women are attracted to traditional masculinity despite what anyone says. That being said, I think Waymond did display masculine traits all throughout the movie. He was both protector and provider. The universe where he's a rich exec was him getting that get back yes sir. The only reason you see him as an atypical masculine role is because he's a short asian guy with glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:39 PM
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You'd marry his personality. I'm guessing you'd want someone like him but who's hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:37 PM
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My perception is probably skewed because my older sibling managed recruitment and social media for her sorrority. The stuff I got to hear was pretty intense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:33 PM
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Her mom is Thandie Newton, I'm trying to get with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:25 PM
2

Say what you will about PPD women but a lot of them would make great starter wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:22 PM
2

I'd say it's about Even Steven but I know of two instances where the first happened. They kept it a secret for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:12 PM
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Yeah and no. Saying there are an equal number of men and women implies everyone is pairing of 1 to 1. Most women fall along a normal distribution of partners. For men it's bimodal. You either see a little or a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:23 AM
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Pretty much. I would say age/beauty ranks higher but most women accept that more readily because they use that metric against other women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:21 AM
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I'm aware of how terrible it sounds. It's just one of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:41 AM
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It was random. Her ex was an acquaintance of mine, and I just imagined him being inside of her. I felt like throwing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:45 AM
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I think it's along a spectrum probably. I've only gotten vivid pictures in my head once with my ex and I couldn't look at her the entire day it was that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:38 AM
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There's a reason why the n count debate is so pervasive. It's probably the most polarizing opinion between the sexes. My comment about finding past partners disgusting started out at 6 upvotes and now it's back to 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:34 AM
1

Looks like you found a HVM
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:15 AM
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I was just talking about this in a thread earlier. I think all guys experience this to some degree. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/10fcei0/comment/j4wmsvc/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:39 AM
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In my own toxic way I feel you bro. They don't get it. Knowing she has more bodies than you makes you feel some kinda way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:38 AM
1

That real real
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:09 AM
1

Drake the type of guy to suck on each of his fingers after having a delicious meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:01 AM
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Quick start a Drake chain. Drake the type of guy to dip his toe in the pool before entering.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:30 AM
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IG is for people I know in real life. On tiktok I follow all the thots though. Especially the hot cosplayer ones. Killjoyy, milkhater05, cinnannoe, hotblockchain, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:24 AM
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u/-michael-skarn- First one's free
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:56 PM
2

There's a lot but... most 😬 idk about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:54 PM
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I doubt that. As an income group asian men out earn white men. You could argue that white men are seen as higher social status overall though just because of beauty standards, media, and representation. But then that would just go back to fetishization of physical features. I think colorism is the more apt word. I know a mixed black girl who wants to marry a white man because she doesn't want her kid to have dark skin. In the asian community, wasians are a vaunted beauty standard. Mind you I act…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 09:35 PM
1

Idk I've never been.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:22 PM
1

k
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:21 PM
2

You'd be prettier if you smiled more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:12 PM
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I agree with that. It brings up an interesting point, does shaming consist of the words we use or the emotions we feel towards those people. ​ “Women should do what they want with their bodies; I just would prefer a low n person for myself.” The guy saying that can be thinking this: “Women who sleep around are used, gross, broken, etc.” When you say you want to stop slut shaming. Do you want people to stop verbalizing what they think about sluts or do you want people to stop thinking of sluts th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:10 PM
2

I want to be Thanos.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:02 PM
2

Aptly put. I know those feelings are just intrusive thoughts and that I'm better than that. I just want above all else what feels like a new start for both myself and the person I'm dating. That's why I avoid talking about the past dating history unless it's directly relevant to an issue that springs up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:01 PM
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Do I even wanna know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:54 PM
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I've always been dead center on the n count debates. My policy has always been don't ask, don't tell. I know PPD is anonymous but there is a certain showmanship when people present their opinions here. People present things as they want it to be, knowing full well they switch it up in real life. I know logically, intellectually that who you've slept with doesn't change your value as a woman but I can't shake this deep seated feeling of disgust knowing that other men have been inside of you. Guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:46 PM
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You and I both accept that people can have any standard whatsoever when it comes to people choosing who they want to fuck. If a guy refuses a woman who's promiscuous because she's more likely to cheat, have STDs, and it's emasculating to run into people who've fucked your gf/wife - I think that's just a guy being practical and honest. Same deal, it's on you if you feel ashamed about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:34 PM
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You've been on here saying women shouldn't hook up with virgins. Virgins feel ashamed about that fact. How should making women feel less than for who they've slept with be any different than making men feel less than for a lack of women who want to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:17 PM
1

Investors have the responsibility to do due diligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:13 PM
2

Cmon women not feeling guilt is crazy even by PPD standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:03 PM
1

I like group fights. Jujutsu High vs Hanami JJK, and Scars vs Shimazaki.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:44 PM
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Apparently OPM season 1 was low budget for a project of that size. It's insane that this is considered low budget: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=km2OPUctni4
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:40 PM
1

Of course. I'd go crazy without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:14 PM
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It's funny how whenever this racial preference graph shows up every week, everyone is quick to point out all the men's asian fetish but ignore how women go after white men. For men it's a fetish. For women it's a ✨preference✨ I know black and asian girls who have never dated within their race. The reason is always I have a type, that's just how it ended up, or that's just who was available.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:55 PM
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Tysm for the update! That's my cue I'll give it a go.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:17 AM
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Oh I see that didn't register at all first time reading it 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:27 AM
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Lesbians can have kids without getting pregnant themselves. Interesting I thought at least one person usually took the burden of being pregnant so the kid can be 'theirs'.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:12 AM
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As an adult virgin I can tell you right now that my favorite sex position is the triple deluxe inverted spinneroni with a heaping scoop of throat fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:09 AM
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true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:08 AM
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It is. If PPD is an indicator, more guys are worried about getting pepper sprayed than trying to keep their side chicks at bay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:06 AM
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They get what they want at the stage of life they want it at. My jealousy cannot be contained. I mean that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:04 AM
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significant amount There isn't. Maybe 1 out of 100. Pussy makes you lose all reason. It's our downfall as guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:01 AM
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I'll qualify that it's not about cheating. It's about men wanting lots of sex with a lot (I mean A LOT) of different partners. Cheating only comes into play because more often than not women want the sex to happen within the confines of a relationship. If we had the choice, straight men would act exactly like gay men. Rack up huge body counts and then choose to commit much later in life. Guys who disagree with that notion are the ones who are thinking practically. They just envision all the hoop…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:47 AM
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Gay men have body counts in the triple digits. Even when they marry, 1/3 are in open relationships. These boys are living the dream. Eulen I'd be giving you a shoulder rub right now instead of arguing if it weren't for your defective female sexuality smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:38 AM
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Most men will never cheat. What I'm saying is that most men will abandon commitment and monogamy until much later in life were it not for women cramping our style.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:29 AM
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Yeah, I'm part of that statistic. Never claimed otherwise. I don't have the urge to cheat because I live in reality. I wouldn't throw away a good relationship that's hard to replace, and most importantly attractive women aren't constantly hitting me up. There is no temptation for me to cheat. If I think of cheating, all I can think about is the hassle of dealing with another women and having to keep everything a secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:27 AM
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I'm getting PTSD from when I wrote college style essays arguing about this topic with u/EulenWatcher. But long story short. Few guys are proactive cheaters but most if not all, will cheat or forego commitment if it was easy for them to do. I'm not talking about a Chad who can go to a bar and score an easy hookup, that's still him being proactive. I'm talking about the level of status as a professional athlete or a celebrity where women are chasing after him. If attractive women are constantly ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:18 AM
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Wym I'm speaking facts. If I become a billionaire or an NBA player, you think any of you can hold me down? I think not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:35 AM
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Anyone watch The Last of Us series premiere? Is it worth a watch?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:29 AM
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Not really. It's weird coming from me because I'm on the record for saying that most guys will cheat if given the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:20 AM
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Of course she's taken. All the good ones are 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:04 AM
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Aubrey Plaza's character afraid of being a starter wife. Theo James's character being an actual cuck raising kids he thinks are his own. Will Sharpe's character going full sperg saying the reason he gets dogged on is because of mimetic desire. The college kid being an emasculated nice guy and resorting to fucking a prostitute who rinses him. One of us definitely wrote that script.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:52 PM
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Like the average American consumed twice as much porn as the next runner up or are we talking total amounts as a country?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:31 PM
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Idk which user I was talking about it with but he and I were both convinced that the writer is definitely a PPD regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:27 PM
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naw
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:26 PM
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you single?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:25 PM
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Where do you live where those numbers make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:22 PM
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It's good that you're cognizant of how you might come across but if she's uncomfortable with a situation - she will let you know. You can just tell. She'll try to put distance between you two. She's looking around like she's busy to be somewhere else. She'll use a certain placating tone of voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:22 PM
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I've never been to therapy but I have found reading material from ACT and CBT to be helpful. I've never recommended for anyone to go to therapy nor do I think it should be used as blanket advice to go to therapy but I do think you're making an unfair presentation. You're assuming that therapy is a replacement for male social bonding. It's not, and it's not advertised as such. You're saying that no therapist can understand men's problems. You can just go to a male therapist. Women visit female he…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:00 PM
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Everything was invented by men. Including women. You're made out of our ribs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:52 PM
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You're the one that got away 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:40 PM
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You were 20 years old working at a topless bar. Sorry if this sounds mean but it doesn't take much to be a successful guy in your world. At 20, I thought any guy making 6 figures was minted. I know better now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:38 PM
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Damn. Why would you tell me this now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:31 PM
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Definitely. Same with Joe Rogan but he's polarizing so I didn't really mention him. And Joe isn't really nuanced so much as he is neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:33 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:26 AM
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Wait what I thought her fans started dropping her because she was starting to go against tradwife rhetoric. All that stuff you just said is news to me, what happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:36 AM
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Yup redpill does borrow a lot of the salesmanship of the get rich quick courses side of youtube, and it works. ​ That said pearly comes off as kind of disingenuous in the way her arguments are so overly simplistic. Bro thank you for bringing this up. I didn't quite understand it at first. I thought she was intentionally presenting herself like that to appear plain and humble but you might be right. She might just be lacking in anything interesting to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:24 AM
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That's good to hear. She always left a bad taste in my mouth because she was one of 4chan's darlings, and I would get a bunch of feminists rekt by facts and logic videos recommended to me after watching her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:18 AM
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Yeah exactly. It's not a winning strategy though. Female pickme influencers get devoured alive by their own fanbase. Lauren Southern comes to mind. The other pickmes took notes. Don't deviate from the script. There isn't any nuance in tradwife content or the pickmesphere. Candace Owens, justpearlythings, and Shoe0nhead come to mind. If you watch just 10 minutes of their content, you know their stance on pretty much anything. Not great in real life either. All the women that display pickme behavi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:47 AM
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I want to say she's just a pick me but I start labelling her a grifter whenever she refuses to introduce any nuance to her discussion. No person on Earth can be as one-sided as she is on men's issues. She's hamming it up for the boys. That's why I liked Andrew Tate better. Sure hustler's university and the war room were money grab schemes but nevertheless I like Tate's wit and intelligence. He is more nuanced than people give him credit for, and he doesn't side with men on everything just becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:38 AM
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Those creators have mainstream audiences with mainstream sponsors/revenue streams. If you want to hear nuanced criticism of the manosphere listen to Chris Williamson, John Sonmez, or even Andrew Schulz because they're always engaging in red pill type topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:31 AM
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I'm just at the cut off for gen Z but my read of the room is that it's a girl who always sides with the boys ideologically on whatever the issue is. Not necessarily a girl who tries to be liked by boys through other means such as her looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:28 AM
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Was born white UMC with no major struggles in life. I am his weakest soldier.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:06 PM
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Remember that Lord Jesus gives the hardest battles only to his strongest soldiers 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:02 PM
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I remember finding her video when I used the search term 'ugly' to look for people that fit the bill. Idk I like her, she seems introspective and charming: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2js063a1Suk
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:35 PM
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You're right. That's more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:26 PM
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The tiktok algorithm has also got people self-diagnosing themselves with a plethora of mental illnesses: https://www.nytimes.com/2022/10/29/well/mind/tiktok-mental-illness-diagnosis.html
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:25 PM
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That's fair. When you know, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:59 PM
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I know. There was an article a few months back detailing the algorithm's preference for prettier faces. I wanted to quantify it, and I was surprised with the results on paper. I got three 9s in a row. Tiktok is a slot machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:58 PM
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Guys who have tiktoks, do this experiment I just ran with my coworkers. Scroll through your fyp and for the first 10 tiktoks that have women in them give those women a rating ouf of 10. Find the average. I had the highest average with an 8.4 and so far here's the tallly: 7.6, 7.3, 7.3, 8.0, and 8.1
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:51 PM
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Q4W: Would you go on a second date with a guy you weren't sure you were all that attracted to after the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:43 PM
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I was elected by the UN as the spokesperson for all men, and I gotta tell you. Those were fantasies only because there was no chance it was happening, not because we didn't actually want it to happen. And yeah, as an adult virgin, I wouldn't mind a 10 year gap. I'm 24 so 34 year old women are still very attractive to me. Kind of a silly question tbh. Men want to be objectified and fetishized. The issue most men have in the sex/dating world is being invisible and undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:34 PM
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Most guys have fantasized about having sex with one of their teachers, and the age gaps for that can be as high as 20 years sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:21 PM
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Santa Monica Dream by Angus & Julia Stone: about a breakup and ruining a dream where they start a family together. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kVdWqHtTPkE Breezeblocks by Alt J: about a husband regretfully killing his wife. Banger of a song though. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rVeMiVU77wo Jocelyn Flores by XXXTentacion: might be a bit too gen z for you but it's a classic sad boy song. It's about his friend who committed suicide. Jocelyn Flores was New Jersey native. I had friends that kne…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:22 AM
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I see. I remember my first dinky looking personal wordpress site with a headshot and link to my github and linkedin page 😂 The tools available these days like Bootstrap can have you making professional looking sites in half the time. Keep at it. Check out freecodecamp or some udemy courses if you wanted resources. I walked away with an internship after my first hackathon due to pure luck so be sure to socialize not only with you peers but there are usually company liaisons whose linkedins and em…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:00 AM
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Both guys seem very cool and very normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:20 AM
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Are they MLH events? And no worries if your project doesn't turn out as planned. It's all about the experience and the company swag :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:19 AM
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Oh there were limited spots, that's different. It was always open enrollment at my college and there was always spots to spare.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:12 AM
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I'm not watching a single minute of Miss Universe until they introduce a micro bikini twerk off as one of the segments.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:07 AM
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I've volunteered at every hackathon during my college years including the women's hackathons. There were always a few guys but they were collaborating on group projects. They weren't trying to intrude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:47 AM
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A warrior class is something completely different from what you're thinking of. A warrior class is its own sociopolitical strata. Most developed societies these days stratify along socioeconomic, religious, and ethnic lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:39 AM
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I don't think there is such a thing as a warrior class anymore. Those days have passed. The military is a jobs program. Wars used to be a tool for powerful men to achieve their ambitions while doubling up as a means to cull young males and 'make a man' out of whoever survives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:11 AM
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Do you mean today? The military is a job like any other. Historically, men usually had little choice in the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:17 AM
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After WWII, almost a third of working age men in Russia were dead. There were reports of soldiers coming back to their villages and the ratio of men to women were 1:6
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:01 AM
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Most casualties of war are low status young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:57 PM
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I'm not trying to present it that crudely. Thinking more along the lines of- a loving partner, friends, family, and decent career prospects put you in a mode where you want to invest in your future. It also makes you cognizant about how your actions affect the broader community. A guy who has no feasible tethers to his community is more likely to be selfish, unproductive, and hateful. In don't think that means he's going to be violent though. I might have implied that with my original comment, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:52 PM
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Wars were gauntlets where many incels died. That's my point. Those that survived and gained status through their exploits got to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:40 PM
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It's a confluence of poverty, low social status, lack of stable parental figures etc. - it's a lack of everything really. For anyone to make their way out of all those headwinds somehow is impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:28 PM
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On paper there should be no shame in being a virgin but in real life, any guy above the age of 21 should lie about it. This isn't a controversial take. The majority of women will think there's something wrong with you because no woman has wanted you in the past. And women struggle just as much as men but for completely different reasons. Women are attracted to significantly fewer men than the other way around. Regardless of what you say in conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:18 PM
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It's weird to say out loud but incels have a hallowed history. Even ancient philosophers and historians were aware that the most dangerous cohort in society were young, unmarried, and underemployed men. Usually born to the lower echelons of society or second sons with no guaranteed birthrights. Powerful men had to send them off to wars, expeditions, foreign colonies, or remote monasteries to prevent them from starting some shit. Low status men have always sought to make a name for themselves or …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:49 PM
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60% of men have recently been in a sexually intimate relationship. So yes, if you're single and on the lookout, that is a very particular situation that requires explanation I get it I'm a loser who can't get laid. And I don't think you're an outlier. Women find so few of us to be physically attractive in the first place and even when you do, you still need the entire song and dance routine to even consider us. I sympathize with the issues you've had but they don't contradict what I'm saying. Me…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:30 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:56 PM
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Ehh there's a few. They're not on the daily often though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:52 PM
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happy cake day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:36 PM
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Women on here literally say they can go three months without seeing a single attractive person. A person who's both attractive and willing to talk to me is an opportunity I'm not letting slip past. I shouldn't need to explain that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:36 PM
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It's impossible to shop at Costco without spending more than $150. There's 5 things in my cart. Makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:26 PM
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Nah I'm just playing a bit 😂 I just say this stuff on PPD to rile people. I'm not like that in real life. I appreciate anyone who has the confidence to strike up a conversation in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:18 PM
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Self-report on what? Attractive people are attractive. I don't know how this is news to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:10 PM
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The fact that there are so many women that I find attractive yet it's only unattractive people going after me kinda ruins my confidence. It makes me think that's my looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:07 PM
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I have a different outlook. I'll always have time for a stranger no matter the context so long as she's attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:03 PM
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I think women should make the first move so long as they're attractive. If she's ugly and makes a move on me I'm gonna find that personally offensive. It will ruin my whole week if not my whole year.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:00 PM
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I don't think anyone has done anything that made me outright lose attraction for them but I definitely lost a girl's interest after she saw me getting smoked at the 200m in highschool track. Embarassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:55 PM
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This is true. PPD is surprisingly sophisticated when it comes to certain talking points and this is one of them. Once you notice male bimodality in all aspects of life, it's impossible to unsee it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:09 PM
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Nawr Dr. Chad will still date and marry Dr. Stacy but it doesn't matter as much to him that she's a doctor than it matters to her that he's a doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:06 PM
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No. You love it. Don't lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:42 PM
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Let it be known though that in developing countries where entire governments and civil sectors are just a handful of family members running embezzlement schemes, violent revolts might necessary. But even then it's hit or miss. Just changing hands. Developed countries are better off implementing reforms the slow and boring way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:42 PM
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I stuff her lacy panties into her mouth as she moans. So hot. Now do the same for me. Take my stinky, sweaty, skid marked, doo doo stained underwear and shove it in my mouth. God it's so hot the way my eyes are welling up with tears from the smell. I might just throw up actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:37 PM
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It sounds great on paper but only an extremely low trust society would ever endorse something like that from scratch today. Keep in mind the context in which the constitution was written. They had no concept of federal institutions. A power grab and a reinstatement of monarchy was a genuine concern of theirs. The practical implications of gun ownership as a way of keeping the government 'honest' is ridiculous. Any crazy person can rile up a mob and convince them government change can only come t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:25 PM
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In defense of our founding fathers. The right to bear arms was put in place when muskets were the weapon of choice. They would've never envisioned a future where you can hide something twice as powerful in your pant sleeve.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:29 PM
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You ever thought of going with an e reader?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 07:46 PM
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That sounds crazy but more power to you that you're making it work. It's the first I've heard of anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 06:37 PM
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geyges, do all redditors go to heaven?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:57 PM
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I'm curious how far into the relationship were you when you talked about getting married?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:59 PM
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This reminds me of a question on here yesterday asking if women would ever date/marry a guy who paid for sex. Women said they wouldn't, but truth is, a lot of them are. They just don't know it. The secrecy and shame around sex work is men trying to placate women's romantic sensibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:27 PM
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That's quite nice actually. I'm wishing the both of yall the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:59 AM
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A lot of maintenance, and I prefer the flexibility and freedom for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:01 AM
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Why is that a goal of yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:00 AM
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Damn, I kinda liked Exciting Nebula. She was cool. Why'd you guys have to scare her off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:00 AM
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Lol I was trying to frame it as would he rather go north or south of the city.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:29 PM
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Like right now or down the line? I'm in my mid 20s, the idea of owning a big home sounds like a giant headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:25 PM
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What's most attractive to you about buying a home?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:20 PM
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Follow up question, if you had to move to a suburb, would you rather be in upstate NY or somewhere like central Jersey?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:18 PM
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Q4 younger people (35 and below) how much do you desire owning your own home if at all one day?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:08 PM
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If you rack up the maintenance cost, tax burden, opportunity cost of other investments, and less flexibility in life - owning your own home isn't all that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:06 PM
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Nursing programs aren't easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:55 PM
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Oh cool that's what I majored in. I remember taking applied probability as an elective. We got to choose between doing the projects in R or Python. It was fun. You liking the course?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:44 PM
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I'm against watching porn but even I haven't gone that long without it. That's impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:11 PM
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attending my probability lecture Are you majoring in statistics?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:04 PM
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She wanted to move for grad school. I wanted her to stay with me in the city. Among other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:58 AM
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That makes sense. I guess we'd still have to find something for those boys to do while they wait before entering into school. Thanks for your detailed response. I appreciate hearing your thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:37 AM
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Well I would think that this might cut poor behavior no? Giving boys more time to mature might improve test scores I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:17 AM
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Thanks for the comprehensive response. The video really spoke to me because I had a lot of male teachers and professors who were positive influences in my life. They were a big part of why I had the goals and trajectory that I had. I wasn't sure how the year gap would practically be implemented. I was almost a year older than my peers due to how the school year cuts off around my birthday. That may have made academics easier for me but I'm not sure to what extent. Anyways thanks for sharing and …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:15 AM
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I hear you. I was fortunate enough to be in a township with a lot of male teachers that I looked up to, and a lot of that had to do with being in a well paying school district. I've heard of feminization of teaching leading to lower salaries. The opposite happens when males enter a field. Computer programming was traditionally done by women, and salaries increased once men started entering the field. What do you think about the suggestions put forth in the video though specifically waiting a yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:54 AM
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u/saraimarsena u/liefelijk Curious about your thoughts on this as teachers: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DBG1Wgg32Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:39 AM
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I wonder what pill ideology they'll adopt 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:12 AM
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Oh my god what if we all have kids and they become the next generation of users who log on to PPD to argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:04 AM
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Vibemaxxing is real tyvm. Look at Danny Devito, not knowing who he is I wouldn't let him near children. Knowing who he is, I'd let him direct Matilda.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:25 PM
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I throw tuning forks at women until they submit to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:06 PM
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We differentiate looks and personality to facilitate discussions and arguments on here but in real life, both modulate one another to create what the kids call - a vibe💅 Women themselves can't describe what exactly gives a certain guy an attractive aura but they know it when they feel it. And they add on to that experience by trying to discover more about that person. So when guys talk about women's preferences, they're technically correct. Women want someone tall, rich, and handsome but it has …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:42 PM
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Women are corny.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:03 PM
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I wasn't sure what that is so here's a reference for anyone who was also curious. https://imgur.com/a/70w9u46
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:41 PM
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Local man understandably knowledgeable about the age of consent laws in our country.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:35 PM
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A thread below reminded me of an Onion headline I once read: Local man suspiciously knowledgeable about the age of consent laws in other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:08 PM
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Consulting is cool, what kind did you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:21 PM
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SWE for an insurance provider. 90% of our shop's clients are government agencies and defense contractors so we all have security clearances hence why I can't leave the country even if I do go remote.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:06 PM
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Click on automod's history to find out just how much of reddit is actually just porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:38 PM
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Most women also don't have aspirational careers, any disposable income, or supportive and loving social networks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:30 PM
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Planning on going back in a month to work from some ski resorts with some friends. My sister doing just that rn 😂 It makes me so jealous to see her stories. My time will come though. I'd be taking a steep paycut to go remote rn and I wouldn't even be allowed to leave the country. ​ instead of being so desperate to get into any relationship but I understand it’s a lot easier said than done Yeah I was in a two year relationship with the person I thought I was going to marry. I had to learn this th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:28 PM
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You're leaving out the context she gave you. She literally told you that fulfilling relationships is something that women would ideally want. They're out their chasing relationships, but it's just that the relative value drops if they have other fulfilling pursuits. I would go as far as adjusting her scale to: good relationship > single > mediocre relationship > bad relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:52 PM
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Over the holidays, I went out with my older sibling and her friends and it hit me how little of a need there is for a relationship if a woman has good things going for them. They were all around 26/27, they worked remote, constantly travelling to cool places, and all made or are about to make 6 figures. A guy would really need to offer a lot to be able to enhance a lifestyle that's already quite nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:45 PM
1

I was gonna say that's crazy he was unemployed but that 25 year age gap takes the cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:36 PM
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My favorite quote to say on here is where I stand is determined by where I sit. I'm just conventionally attractive enough to avoid the anxiety that looms over people who worry they might never meet their crush's physical standards. Only after reading some stuff on here did I realize just how good of a position that is to be in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:37 AM
1

Q4A: would you be happy or sad to see your ex get with someone significantly uglier than you after your breakup?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:49 AM
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I'm a hyper woke type and I can tell you the depression is from carrying the weight of all the world's injustice on my shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:48 AM
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There's 8 bodies on there and she ranked them too. #1 is her college tennis coach.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:45 AM
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I guess I could do worse than the armpit woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:43 AM
1

Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:43 AM
2

While you've been waiting for her to text you back, I've already hacked her icloud account.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:05 AM
2

Serial Experiments was ahead of its time. It was also one of the primary inspirations for The Matrix franchise. It's scary to think about how kids are growing up in front of iPads. Technology is becoming their primary means of socialization. Unlike most people, I think the world is headed in the right direction but the way we've all grown disaffect through the means of technology makes me sad. Thanks for writing this out. It's really insightful, and a good reminder of one of the coolest animes. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:03 AM
1

PPD, what do the voices in your head tell you to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:05 PM
1

Who. Let me know so I can uhhh avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 10:15 PM
1

I always knew Lillith was a babe
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 10:14 PM
1

Yeah this is probably the best way to put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 09:02 PM
2

u/stjohnswyrt found herself a Chad so now I have to look for a new PPD crush. Any suggestions? The only requirement is she can't have a boyfriend. If she's posting on the daily thread about how she likes to ride her man, I think I would cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 09:00 PM
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The more I think about the topics being presented on PPD and elsewhere, the more I lean towards biology being the explanation for everything. Culture and society can press the scales either which way but it can never replace it altogether. A group of young hunter gatherer men in East Africa are sitting in a circle right now complaining about clan chieftain Chad getting first dibs on fertile women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:34 PM
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I did just that and the first 4 posts were women talking about their experience being sexually assaulted. Some of them multiple times by different men. When I searched "I hate women", It looks to be an assortment of memes. I don't think we really see a lot of cogent I hate women posts because we're all in understanding here. No matter how much you truly hate women, you will lust after them and desire them as you're biology programmed you to. It's not society. It's our dicks getting hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:06 PM
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I'm agreeing with you. The arse cheeks. They haunt me. I cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:23 AM
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You don't have to be having a ton of casual unprotected sex to have an unwanted pregnancy. You can be within a long term committed relationship with the only person you've ever had sex with, take every precaution under the sun and STILL end up with an unwanted pregnancy. The fact that guys here emphasize the former over the latter kinda hints at the source of their beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:22 AM
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But that's true story. I did see my dad naked. It scarred me for life just like seeing those arse cheeks out did to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:15 AM
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Those that engage in those behaviours are absolutely disgusting and should be heavily fined and/or locked up The temptation got the better of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:09 AM
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Those that engage in those behaviours are absolutely disgusting and should be heavily fined and/or locked up That's why I show up to those rallies. Knowing they make you mad. I love it. I live for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:56 AM
1

If you were born then, you would've cried about that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:46 AM
2

Muslim women are very empowered by their households, by their culture, and by their religion. The presence of muslim women in Pride are emblematic of Islam's acceptance of all gender identities and sexualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:30 AM
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You want a woman to give birth to a whole ass child for which she has no financial means to support and whose father will most likely abandon it? Yet you also don't want the government to assist women for a choice you wish to force on them? Make up your mind. I'd have more respect for pro life guys if they just admitted it's a revenge fantasy against women who have sex without a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:27 AM
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I'm out of the loop. Are hijabs basically slutty cross necklaces but for muslim girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:13 AM
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No not the kids!!! I once saw my dad naked when I was 5, and now I need therapy on a biweekly basis. People don't know how hard it is to live as a snowflake.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:11 AM
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It always smelled a bit chemical-y and I dislike how it's so common. It was the same one my mom used so when I catch a whiff of it at a club or a bar 😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:07 AM
1

No don't show me a picture! I will start crying, screaming!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:02 AM
1

You're on the internet. Use all tools available to bypass the paywall.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:01 AM
1

I'm curious, what do you think about Chanel No. 5?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:00 AM
1

It is a calculated push to turn all Western metropolitan areas into Sodom and Gomorrah. I love it. So should you. Soon there will be no straights left, as God intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 12:58 AM
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I use Dior Sauvage EDP. Do you have a favorite scent on a guy? Letting women in on a secret here. Try stripper perfume. It's not a specific fragrance but they layer it in with a Bath & Body lotion before spraying their perfume. It makes for a sweet powdery smell.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 12:53 AM
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None but seeing people in getups that leave little to the imagination. Countless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 12:49 AM
1

NYTimes said it best. By trying to avoid controversy, they sparked a national debate with their university at the center.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 12:41 AM
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Let's light some fires. PPD has been getting stale. As the resident woke person on this sub, I've attended my fair share of Pride rallies. I fux heavy with the LGBTQ community ✊ ...And the funniest thing I see when I go to these events are the number of girls who are in hijabs 😂 The irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 12:39 AM
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Y'all may have seen this already on the reddit front page but an adjunct prof lost her job for showing the image of the prophet Muhammad to her students. https://www.nytimes.com/2023/01/08/us/hamline-university-islam-prophet-muhammad.html It should be known that she gave ample warning to her muslim students that she will be showing these images and that they should contact her if they had any concerns. Ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 12:27 AM
5

Submitting a petition to call poor people economic incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:54 PM
1

Alexa, play Wish You Will Well by Brent Faiyaz
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:14 PM
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I hate that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:07 PM
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The racket continues as adults. The girls in the city who have 'model' on their IG profile aren't making ends meet with modelling. Most payouts are $1000-3000 pre tax with 20% going to their agent. The largest contract I've ever heard was only $7000, and the most sought after bookings like luxury fashion and touring contracts go to the girls with the most industry connections. Very few people make an actual living with modelling. I start laughing when I get recommended tiktok videos of 'day in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:22 PM
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Thanks for putting that together. I gave a few of them a read. I see what you're saying now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:55 AM
1

Can you clarify this rule. Are we never allowed to question the validity of another person's story? Guy says he got rejected and the she says that she would marry him? I'm trusting what my instincts tell me on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:32 AM
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Can you find something online or give me an example from your own life where women use husband material in that context. You've heard it a thousand times apparently so I'm curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:19 AM
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Good guy and nice guy are consolation prizes for happy go lucky ugly dudes. You're thinking of that. Again, I've only heard someone being described as husband material by someone who was already dating the guy. When I hear husband material - I think she wants to have your kids. You guys just think giving a woman commitment is emasculating - which I don't fully disagree with btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:58 AM
2

Always so embarrassing when you hear someone talk shit about their ex and then they get back together again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:40 AM
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That's how they stay so skinny 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:33 AM
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She doesn't say yes even to a single date, but then she goes around and tells you that she would marry you... I think you're making this story up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:31 AM
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I've only heard it being used once in real life when a girl I knew was in the NRE stage of dating someone new so I have an opposite view of it. I wish you guys would just come out and say that you think being a husband is synonymous with being a cuck. We get it, you want to fuck a lot of hot bitches without paying for a single date. That's not going to be the reality for 99% of us. The fattest black pill isn't that women aren't gonna be willing to fuck you, it's that most of us are going to marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:15 AM
1

I'll be going alone in the first showing high on ketamine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:00 AM
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✍️✍️✍️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:57 AM
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Blocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:55 AM
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The richest dude I know who's around my age has gone thrifting with me a couple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:23 AM
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Q4M: How hyped are you about Ryan Gosling's new movie this summer? I'm in the gc planning with the boys. Help me plan. What outfits? Where should we eat before and after? We have until July 21st, will that be enough time to get our body fat percentage down to 7% to get ready for the movie?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:18 AM
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You're right that it's not some elite group of men who are raising the standard for every man. To women, that's just the standard. What I'm trying to say is that a disinterest in the average man is functionally equivalent to a preference for an above average man. If you're saying that women are content to be single in favor of dating an average guy. It's the same as me saying it will take a Chad for her get into a relationship. Identical statements, hence the identical outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:09 AM
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Does it matter if it's Chad or women's general disinterest in the average guy? Either way the outcomes are the same. If she does want to engage in the dating market, she's not gonna be interested in the average schmuck - again what value is he going to add to an otherwise disinterested woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:51 AM
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Most recent I remember was Pills & Automobiles. It was popular in frat parties but that was 5 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:11 PM
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I think music tastes do give you information on a person's vibe and personality, but the issue is that hip hop is so universal especially in the younger crowd that it's like a girl asking what does it tell me about this guy if he plays violent video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:04 PM
2

You'd have better luck using tarot cards if you're trying to get a read on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 01:52 PM
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Since you're using sex as the only metric of value here, you don't seem to understand that you'll be having more sex as a husband than a fwb.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 01:40 PM
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even with non "Chads" occasionally I believe in hypergamy and all that but this happens way more than guys on this sub care to admit, especially in gender skewed environments like college.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:29 AM
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I'm biased. I've been asked out twice before. Both very uncomfortable experiences. Ironically, the half a dozen times I've been flirted with/propositioned by gay men have been far more pleasant than women asking me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:22 AM
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It's not just for ugly girls. I would argue that beautiful women are more invested in how looks affect their relationship dynamics. They have more to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:04 AM
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I get downvoted whenever I try to bring up pink pill talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:01 AM
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Pink pill is the heavyweight champ of all pills. I can't go a day without seeing evidence for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:06 AM
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Yeah, I just assumed you already knew I'm all talk on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:04 AM
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ikr I don't know where she finds the strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:02 AM
1

That's low key what I wish that guy in the video would do. Everything about it is painful to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:39 AM
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I guess it's different since you're already married. If it were me, I'd have flown home from Mexico by myself and pretend like nothing ever happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:38 AM
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I was thinking along the same lines. If we were married I would stay but I'm still young, and I can't imagine loving anyone I'm dating enough to be their caregiver.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:33 AM
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Reminds me of this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=adccBN1y3E0
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:11 AM
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Q4A: Be honest, would you want to leave your partner if this happened? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=adccBN1y3E0
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:08 AM
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Pulled out of rotation or the friendzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:04 AM
1

You ever think those relationships where the girl pulls the dude out of the bench ever works out? In my head it's kind of like a soft af/bb.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:54 PM
1

You're pink pilled too?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:50 PM
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Wdym this is one of the most self aware takes I've ever seen. Most guys would be so lucky to have someone who knows what she wants like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:49 PM
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CMV that average guy will go as far as marrying someone just because she's sexy and other guys respect him more for being able to pull that. Basically a trophy wife but the guy is average.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:08 PM
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I never considered how common it might be for women because I rarely hear about it but I guess that makes more sense considering how rare it is for yall to be even attracted to someone in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:07 PM
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It does the trick most of the time but you get in situations where your sexual attraction makes durable positive impressions on everything about that person. This might be my most extreme opinion on here but I think the average guy will go as far as marrying someone just out of sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:45 PM
1

I've always wondered does the clarity hit you immediately after sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:43 PM
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Women aren't ready to hear this but sometimes when a guy wants to fuck someone so badly, it starts to feel like a deep longing similar to how they feel when they're in love. Everything about that person makes them seem like the best person on Earth. Worst part is you can't think your way out of it. You just have to get rinsed once or twice or five times to learn your lesson as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:20 PM
1

Do you have a favorite art piece from college?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:51 PM
1

and 5 hours just passes by before I know it. That's when the problem flips and you become too focused. I'll literally be in the shower or talking to friends and I'm still thinking about work lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:48 PM
2

how do people study all day seriously can someone tell me Short answer is they don't. When I was in college, half the people in the library were just on their phones and took the occasional break to study. You might like the book Deep Work by Cal Newport. I'm of the opinion that you can only get 3-4 hours of quality work/study time in a day before everything degrades.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:45 PM
1

twin 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:40 PM
3

CNC and freeuse
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:15 PM
1

Naked Economics by Charles Wheelan: reading that at a young age made me a neoliberal Better Angels of Our Nature by Steven Pinker: made me more optimistic about people Factfulness by Hans Rosling: made me optimistic about humanity's future Unsettled by Steven Koonin: made me skeptical about climate change, or at least the most extreme claims surrounding it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:11 PM
1

What is FTO?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:49 PM
1

I feel you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f9gfqGoPGaU
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:32 PM
1

Bro and I've been telling the guys here who want a low-n to join a church or something 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:27 PM
4

Being aroused is a specific hormonal and neurochemical profile in the brain and body. Saying you're only your true self in that state is a bit odd. It's like saying you're only your true self when you're elated or angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:13 PM
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I prefer you to be weak and codependent though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:05 PM
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According to Mark Regnerus, a sociologist at the University of Texas, nearly three-quarters of white evangelical teens disapprove of premarital sex, as opposed to half of mainline Protestants and a quarter of Jews... Despite that, evangelicals are the most sexually active of those groups. They lose their virginity younger, at an average age of sixteen, and are less likely to protect against pregnancy or disease... - Peggy Orenstein, Girls & Sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:30 PM
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Yeah in part and no I'm not downvoting. Hand to God the only user I've ever downvoted in this sub is biggestuzifan.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:14 PM
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I'm a fan of Tate's but it's impossible to defend him at this point. Regardless of what the courts find on his sexual assault and human trafficking charges, he's definitely guilty of employing the 'lover boy' tactics mentioned in the article. I'm certain of this because he describes doing exactly that in one of his videos. He bragged about how the first 6 women in his UK camming business were convinced that he was their boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:03 AM
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Just speaking broadly since you argue that the domain of war is that of men, then it has to be true that it's men who also do the invading, the looting, and the raping in any war. If you look for any inherent virtues in war then you readily accept the inherent atrocities. * If it came down to the free will of any man - I think they would choose to have no war at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:16 AM
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Your boss is so lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:56 AM
1

This is all I can think about when I think of Jordan Peterson: https://youtu.be/BIEIBv3MOIw?t=41 Ohh you don't like your table? 😂 Edit: I found another one. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IJUu3ChZlyk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:24 AM
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You don't have to fight a war to be a protector. The logical extension of your analogy would be that men must also be attackers and destroyers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:18 AM
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You'd already have me beat by just having 1
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:34 AM
1

I wonder if high-end gyms like Equinox have better attendance simply because people would feel bad about wasting all that money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:54 AM
3

Hi what's your n-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:50 AM
2

I had the same idea but for office environments. They can be the 'work wife'. They wouldn't dress slutty but more flirty and they tell you what a great job that you're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:37 AM
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In terms of trade partners, not a single country is of significant strategic importance for the US. You can argue Taiwan is one but there are steps being taken to address that. I say the US is especially privileged because not only do we have prime working age college grads moving in from poor countries, we have people from every country trying to move here. There is no industry save for a few where American firms aren't the best capitalized, most productive, and more importantly the best-paying…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:40 PM
1

Whatever makes you comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:05 PM
2

I think that demographic implosion is going to be the biggest problem in humanity's future. More so than climate change or war or anything of that sort. The US is in a privileged position because we can brain drain other countries at a moment's notice so I don't think we'll be materially impacted in the near future.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:03 PM
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Here's hoping 🤞
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 09:53 PM
1

It has nothing to do with actual looks or age You can't sit there and pretend that men don't have a biological preference for younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 09:50 PM
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Dude we're the same person. I'm 24 and I look 19. I have a younger sister that's also 19 lol It's honestly been rough for me. The first thing that women ask me is what's my age, and they seem surprised by the answer. Yeah I understand your struggle even if it is coming from the opposite direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 09:46 PM
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That's what I'm sitting here wondering. If he isn't lying the only way he's able to afford it is by showing up to the blade. If that's the case the guy is a retard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 09:10 PM
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I'm 24 and I've been with 150 different people(trans women and cis women). I'll say 99% of them are escorts. It started when I was around 21. Unless he has some generational wealth going for him this is such cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 09:00 PM
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Just saying that it's common.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:42 PM
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Most girls my age have made out and grinded on other girls but yeah most would not identify as bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:13 PM
1

Climbing, spin classes, yoga, and gaming come to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:30 PM
1

You're right. I shouldn't let my immediate emotional responses guide my cognitive reasoning abilities. How true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:06 PM
1

British words... oooohhh I'm so scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:03 PM
2

Great. I never thought I'd be put in the position of having to explain why extrajudicial killings are problematic. I'm just going to lump you in with the room temp crowd and move on with my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:54 PM
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If you want tribal justice, move to Somalia or Afghanistan. Reasonable people somehow want due process until the primal instinct to get even with a spectacular display of violence sets in. What the father did was understandable but it wasn't right. Laws and institutions, although flawed, exist to stop aggrieved individuals to take it upon themselves to play judge, jury, and executioner. But the room temp IQ crowd can't think longer than 10 seconds before they start celebrating how cool it was to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:44 PM
1

Reddit muppets are at it again: https://www.reddit.com/r/Damnthatsinteresting/comments/104xqal/in_1984_gary_plauche_tracked_down_the_kidnapper/ All the comments are further proof that most people let their immediate emotional response guide their views on any matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:22 PM
1

I'm with you. It's a nice problem to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:47 PM
1

He already has kids. One that we know of. He definitely has more he's keeping secret. The one that we know of is with a retired pornstar. All I'm saying is that he can't just have sex indiscriminately without them taking something for him. Models have men like Drake hitting them up all the time. Assuming they're not just high end escorts - Drake still has to fly them out, party, and show them a good time before he gets to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:35 PM
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You're not getting me here. Drake is worried about scandals and women trying to entrap him in some shit he doesn't want to be a part of. They want to use him for clout as badly as he wants to get off to them. You're assuming the women in these scenarios are braindead. They know he'll pump and dump them as easily he would a random street hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:23 PM
2

Drake also has to pour hot sauce on condoms so he doesn't lose half his assets in child custody court.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:13 PM
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I'm pretty sure Genghis Khan had the most access because uhhh they didn't do much respecting of consent back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:10 PM
1

We should standardize the scales we use when we talk about rating men's looks vs women's. For women it's easy. A woman rated a 5 can be accurately called average. Half of women would be rated above her and the other half below. The average man, on the other hand, is typically rated as a 3 or a 4. I'm assuming that when you guys rate a guy a 3, that you just mean he's closer to being ugly than he is pretty, not that he would literally fall in the bottom 30th percentile of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:53 PM
1

That's it for the most part. Don't believe the women on here who say that ugly guys get with pretty girls all the time. The few cases where the guy is punching well above his league lookswise, he's compensating for it in terms of the lifestyle he provides her or there are circumstances he proves himself above average in other selection criteria. For example, when I was part of the church you would see non-looksmatched couples because the selection criteria often involved familial input. A man's …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:28 PM
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It's deeper than that I think. Men are biologically wired for greater status-seeking and risk-taking. This is great when it's pointed in the right direction but it's kerosene for anyone with ill-intent. So even though morality is gender neutral, testosterone pretty much ensures the destructive potential of an immoral man has on the rest of society is going to be greater than that of a woman's.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:00 AM
1

What should our trio be called
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:59 PM
4

For the most part, those posts aren't along the lines of wishing their kids never existed, it's the dread they experience when they realize how ill-equipped they are for the challenges of parenthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:58 PM
1

I was good kid but an awful teenager. Something switched on in my brain around 19 and I finally got it somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:55 PM
5

I'm still reading a bunch of the posts but the read of the room is that a lot of them still love their children but they deeply regret how little they thought through their decisions. i.e. consulted more parents, they should have waited, focused on their career a bit more, only have one child instead of two or three, or picked a better spouse to have kids with etc. Give some of them a read. The desperation in some of those posts are palpable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:51 PM
1

Were you a good kid growing up?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:45 PM
2

Which sucks for him though because 20 year olds are poor. There's pain in either direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:44 PM
3

Guys should advertise that on their Tinder bio. "93% chance I won't rape you."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:43 PM
7

I just found out about the sub r/regretfulparents and I've been spending the past hour reading it. That sub is the probably the best conversion therapy for anyone who's pro-life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:41 PM
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No disagreements. I'm a guy, I can't help but feel that way either but some self-awareness goes a long way. If just the mere thought that she might be fucking other dudes who put in less effort than you causes you to be pushy - then of course it's something women are going to be wary of before they go on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:38 PM
7

I think the statistics leave out full picture that almost all women will be in the uncomfortable position of being pressured to do something they don't want to do in order to placate a guy. Just look at how guys on here talk. They feel emasculated at the mere thought of Chad fucking earlier than they get to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:20 PM
1

Yeah basically. That's an apt way to put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:51 PM
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I remember back in highschool there was this girl I had the biggest crush on. The problem was that she never fidgeted in her seat. She was always still - laser focused. Now I don't know why I thought this but I was convinced she could never love someone like me because I couldn't even sit still for longer than 30 seconds. She would've been dating down. That's why I never shot my shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 09:05 PM
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The demographics for redpill nowadays is highschool and college students. That aside, the youtube algo isn't going to incentivize academic rigor. Remember that the alt right pipeline runs in parallel to red pill spaces so think of the videos being suggested. "Feminist SJWs gets rekt by facts and logic" "The entitlement of modern women is ASTOUNDING" These guys aren't watching stuff like this to learn, they log on to feel something - usually vitriol against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:53 PM
2

Stop asking questions you know the answer to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:37 PM
1

That you like to flex your vagina muscles get a better grip on the dick. A weird, joking, way to say that you'd be good in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:36 PM
1

I don't have a good answer but I believe in every country we have height preference data for, women preferred the men to be ideally a single standard deviation above their country's average. I'm of the opinion that culture can modulate biological preferences, not negate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:16 PM
1

My club penguin username was Chris_Redfield12. Club penguin was where I learned how to flirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:12 PM
1

I've yet to see a ginger guy in real life who is above a 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:41 PM
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It might sound dumb but having a stupid opener is more likely to get a response than hey how are you doing. It's better to be polarizing. And yeah I always had a feeling that you were grippy animorph, but the grippiest of PPD is definitely u/EulenWatcher
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:24 PM
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Used to think like that until you find out most reported cases have material impact on their daily life. Usually highschool kids spreading hate about people they personally know on social media. A notable case growing up was this kid whose college roommate filmed him having sex with another guy and leaked it online. Guy killed himself shortly after. Another one I remember was a teenage girl who attempted to kill herself by drinking bleach, and a bunch of people from her school made memes about t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:31 PM
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There's so many pretty women who live in my apartment complex that I worry creepy guys might try to do something to them. That's why I always go around trying to open their doors at night to make sure they remembered to lock it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:29 AM
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...fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:37 AM
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Even with all the brainrot that I have, I'm still functional enough to make sick anime edits. So take that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:32 AM
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If her page is dedicated to creating parasocial relationships with her fans, it would definitely hurt but idk what percentage of OF girls go that route. I'm guessing most subscribers would want to see some sort of PIV sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:10 AM
2

facts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:24 AM
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If she's trying to curate an insta following and be an influencer, she's prolly keeping him off on purpose. Posting boyfriend pics is a known way to lose male followers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:05 AM
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touch grass is what I'm telling you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:47 PM
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You are mistaken. Her midriff is showing and she's outside at night. She is what we call in this biz - a dumb whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:07 PM
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Thanks punk and thank you Bandit for the shout out 😤 Had a lot of fun making them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:05 PM
5

You def watch these videos all day thinking you learned something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:02 PM
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I'm early 20s. I used to tag when I was 17 but the idea of me doing that today is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:12 AM
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Don't read too hard into it. The most active users are either joshing around or mentally ill or both. Try to think of this place as a playground where a person makes a cogent point one second and another person flings feces in your face the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:09 AM
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ty ty! 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:47 AM
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So I thought the purge would last a whole week and I had a bunch of video edit ideas earmarked that I was planning on doing. Oh well. I was close to finishing this matilda edit before the purge ended. The texts were originally supposed to be purge topics like race pill and fembots but I switched it to regular ppd topics. Hope yall enjoy: https://www.kapwing.com/videos/63b4e2ed6b9f33001e7e02ba
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:33 AM
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I've shared this story before but there's this brunch place down the street from me and the owner always hypes me up when I bring a girl with me. This mf will start making up lies about how so and so waitress misses me and how she's not gonna be happy to see me with a girl 😂 Dude is awesome, pretty much guaranteed my business so long as I'm here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:32 AM
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I think this is widely denied by women esp WOC If you've been paying attention to the racepill posts this week, black women unequivocally disagree with that. But you know what I actually agree with you for the most part especially for asians and latinas. Women have nice neat stories they have for themselves about their preferences. I've heard women of every race say something along the lines of, I don't date [x race] because [generalization assuming that race of men is a monolith]. Kinda like ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:32 PM
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Eyy gaston, I gave you a shout on one of my posts: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/101jrcq/the_dirty_work_of_moderating_ppd/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:12 PM
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The reason is it's seen as punching up, and making fun of minorities is seen as punching down. This is not a justification btw, it's still wrong to do no matter what. Same reason why I always make fun of old people on this sub (anyone who's ages 30+). I'm poking fun at people who have more cushioning for those blows. I know what I'm doing is ageist, ableist, and discriminatory but I want them to clap back so I never saw it as unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:10 PM
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I have a theory that since male sexuality is more aggressive and sporadic that our brains begin to attach sexual cues to all manners of asexual and sometimes even disgusting stimuli. There aren't hundreds of different fetish subs for women like there are for men so I think you're on to something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:12 PM
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Objectifying women is the male brain's default state. Guys should learn to keep their thoughts to themselves but telling a guy to stop fetishizing or objectifying a woman is akin to telling a guy to stop seeing the world using his eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:46 PM
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You can check for yourself. https://ourworldindata.org/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:38 PM
2

Whore. Not like I even wanted you anyway 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:27 PM
2

This was really well written. Keep us updated. I'm invested in your life now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:24 PM
1

No chance I make it through your secretary, I'll give you the elevator pitch. I'm 24 but I look like a highschool senior. I work at an insurance company. I drive a 2019 lexus. My penis is average. My personality is stellar. I don't have a TV but we can watch Netflix on my laptop - in my bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:19 PM
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This is so comprehensive. Bandit they really should make you a mod IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:10 PM
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What is there to say though? Racepill is just an offshoot of blackpill. No one is doubting certain races face headwinds in dating but it's your responsibility to get what you want out of life in spite of the cards you're dealt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:09 PM
2

I drink iced americanos and diet coke all day. Yes I shit like a monster but it's a small price to pay to live a high performance lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:05 PM
1

I volunteer to be pumped and dumped by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:04 PM
2

The Count of Monte Cristo by Alexandre Dumas. Michael Lewis is my favorite author. Favorite genre is nonfiction especially if it has to do with corporate fraud. Bad Blood, The Big Short, The Smartest Guys in The Room come to mind. Something about how people get caught up in ego and greed and having it spiral out of control beyond them is so interesting to me. Like a modern tragedy. Michael Lewis is currently writing a book about the FTX collapse and I'm so excited for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:57 AM
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You're lucky it wasn't covid. My mind was so foggy when I had covid that I couldn't even pay attention to anything longer than a few minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:07 AM
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The book was Tender is The Flesh by Augustina Bazterrica. It's about a dystopian future where humans are cannibals. I like sci-fi with horror elements in it. The book was originally in Spanish I believe so a few of the scenes didn't really land as well as it could have but it was still cool. Haven't interacted with you in a bit btw. How's college, how were your finals?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:05 AM
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You may have the flu like u/MuchMethod7039 My day was good. It was a productive day of shitposting and reading a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:51 AM
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I agree with that actually. It's easy to tell if someone is sexually open but I think a lot of guys here conflate being sexually open with being high n. A woman who loves sex may only be doing it in the confines of a LTR. On the flip side, a woman who seems introverted can have her fair share of hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:45 AM
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The way you guys claim that you can figure out someone's n count by watching their behavior is hilarious to me. How much of someone's behavior do you actually have access to? Very little. My friends and the people I party with probably think that my n count is much higher than it actually is. My family and my colleagues would probably guess much lower. And the truth is that I've never actually had sex before so everyone's assumption about me would be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:22 AM
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Either way I'm glad you saw it. Disheartening to see reposted 4chan memes get more attention on here than an edit that took me all afternoon to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:02 PM
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It's not a particular one. I'm saying over the years. I've seen it all. Men will spend their money on the unlikeliest of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:17 PM
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I would like to be worshipped in a relationship. It's a small price to pay for a woman's hypergamous ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:05 PM
11

I made it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:02 PM
1

Monkey killed his friends :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:02 PM
1

I rarely do double takes on PPD comments but this one... https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/100ywpy/comment/j2o03be/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:58 PM
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I like going to strip clubs, and there's more body types there than you'd expect. Guys are making it rain on chubby girls, girls who are missing teeth, girls whose bodies are covered in cellulite and acne scars. I get that looks underlie a lot of a woman's social status in general but seeing what I've seen, there so many guys who will worship whatever physical features you have. It's one of the few nice things about having a male brain, that we find so many of you to be attractive despite what y…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:44 PM
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It started out in Kapwing but I moved it to DaVinci Resolve to get those text tracking shots.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:59 PM
3

No drama. These were just people I know of that were banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:57 PM
4

idk I just needed a name.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:56 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:39 PM
2

I say some wild shit sometimes and people don't know I'm joking. It also hurts that I no longer have a post history people can look at so it's harder to tell what me being serious looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:34 PM
5

😌 Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:27 PM
5

Not sure if they'll get past mod approval because of the gore but here's what I wanted to show the class: https://www.kapwing.com/videos/63b0efb8f5c0c90066f04565 https://www.kapwing.com/videos/63b3240485454e011e0ef277
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:44 PM
1

Does anyone know when purge ends? I'm working on making a few cringey edits that are taking me a while, and I wanna know how long I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:41 PM
2

Are you a single mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:21 AM
2

It's not even 24 hours into the new year. What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:18 AM
2

Looks still matter but yeah for women, a man's physical attractiveness is modulated heavily by his social status, personal values, and personality. ​ that’s why men have a much easier time dating in social environments Relative to less social men, yeah. Relative to women in general, absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:12 AM
1

Why do you guys keep calling people who use alts cowards? Some of us are just persecuted and rely on alts because our mains are constantly banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:01 AM
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100% I'm just trying to tell you that this phenomena you're speaking of where the majority of women rate the majority of men as being unattractive - that's existed for as long as humans have existed. Hypergamy works on relative scales. If you raise the floor, you raise the ceiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:45 AM
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I've never heard anyone in this sub actually discuss the fattest, blackest, most hard to swallow pill in existence - the fact that nature never intended for most men to get laid and reproduce. Porn, videogames, shit food, and sedentary behavior is doing numbers on male virginity but don't be confused - the majority of men will be unattractive to women regardless. That's how hypergamy works.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:36 AM
1

It's just how this meme format goes. Some of my favorite iterations have been "Bathroom companies after inventing genders," and "Gospel of wealth preachers after inventing God".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:13 AM
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I don't claim to be a relationship expert or anything but in all 3 of my LTRs, I was able to significantly extend the length of those relationships by threatening to kill myself whenever they tried to break up with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:07 AM
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This one didn't take that long, I'm working on a couple edits right now that's legit taking me hours and yeah I feel like a clown for doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:51 AM
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Atlas, Liv, and gimpgirl are the three most mentioned. Shame that I missed that era. Sounded fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:53 PM
3

9anime
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:55 PM
1

Can you guys name some memorable users who have been banned from PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:40 PM
1

There's a running joke that strippers are the first to know when a recession is coming. I'd imagine the hoe market tracks closely to the level of disposable income available to the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:58 PM
2

Hey how do I get my posts past automod purgatory? I need to share my art with the world 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:51 PM
2

The few asian man x black woman couples I do see are actually really cute. Underrated combo in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:49 PM
1

jackedsoon 😂 He's one of the exceptions. He's definitely dicking around. I'm about to do the same once the automod stops stonewalling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:20 PM
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I can believe it if she's an avid surfer or backpacker. Especially if she has genetic variants that make her more susceptible to sun damage. I know a guy from highschool that works outside all day in construction and he looks worse than this. He also smokes cigarettes so YMMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:11 PM
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This is my first time seeing purge week and I agree. It's not even just incel stuff. There's that one account Narchi something that's posting around the clock and the level of vitriol is reaching levels of mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:03 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:41 PM
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Automod is still popping me for shitposts. Anywho, here's what I wanted to show the class: https://www.kapwing.com/videos/63b056ddfd36d00017e61181 Hope you guys enjoyed Naruto as a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:31 PM
1

Last night we had steak. This morning I had leftover steak :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:29 PM
1

It is inherent nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:20 PM
3

2023 will be the year I find my trophy wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:52 AM
1

Lmao, you're not very bright. I'll let you figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:04 PM
1

Reddit is... anonymous. How can one be brave on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:55 PM
1

I could give you Reddit gold if you care about that. DM me your guess though. Don't wanna air out my laundry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:50 PM
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I'm guessing my account needs to be older than a day before I can post because the automod is catching me for 'shitposts' even though it's purge week.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:29 PM
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How large is your sample size No clue but it's large enough for me to notice. More than half of my coworkers and close friends are Asian. Even my college major was predominantly Asian people. ​ Why are you including indians? Because they're also Asian, no? My hometown was situated next to an Indian diaspora. I saw the same thing. A lot Indian girls dated outside their race but I only knew one Indian guy who dated someone white.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:28 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/zzeq94/finally_allowed_because_of_the_purge_racial/ Okay there's one thing I don't understand. Half of my social network is Asian (including SEA people and Indians), and all of the Asian guys I know except one or two, are dating Asian girls, but half of the Asian girls I know are dating white guys. So if most of the Asian guys I know are in relationships somehow even though a lot of Asian girls aren't dating Asian guys, how do the logistics work…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:12 PM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:03 PM
1

Nah alts are a way of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:28 PM
1

Got a fresh alt and it's purge week. Jesse... it's time to cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:21 PM
2

This is what God intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:49 AM
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