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it's just a drink in front of the camera for clicks 🙄 he's exposing her
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:56 AM
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I thought the same lol he's a man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:49 PM
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literally everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:48 PM
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could but don't because when a woman accuses a man of rape her credibility is at stake. There's not that many false accusations compared to men inflicting violence
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:41 PM
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yes you can I really don't care if this is your way of thinking you are right. It's pretty obvious to me and everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:41 PM
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you, on your own post Literally a study showed between 132 young adults, 65 women and 67 men, study shows that women feel more negative emotions and feelings when being rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:40 PM
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calling it "cheat code" is weird to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:26 PM
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he probably made another rude remark and that's what made her pour the drink
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:10 PM
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he said he would pay for the bill if she slept with him see? there's always a reason nobody just wastes a drink for fun
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:05 PM
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that makes more sense, it's not that "The worst she can say is no" he was rude and got what he deserved
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:59 PM
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no, you don't need that, it's common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:53 PM
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but what started it? he invited him to go on a date with that woman for views is known for poor behaviour so they provoked her for clicks? It still doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:44 PM
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which is still an incredible small % compared to men who get physically violent
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:31 PM
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shifting the goal posts no? Does this include sexual abuse? I'm pretty sure men with that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:30 PM
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this is ridiculous, This has nothing to do with the post, it's just "but women are baaad" Just shows that you don't have an argument This is a ridiculous statistic btw. You can easily explain it by the amount of women who are single mothers and amount of men who are single fathers. Men usually leave their families. If there were as many single fathers as single mothers that number would be waaaaay different.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:29 PM
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when people say that men don't take rejection well they are talking about physical violence, not about feelings what's the point of your post? "women, your fears are ridiculous, don't take precautions"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:25 PM
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I think it's a common myth probably because I think women behave different with random men than with their partner. When men and women are hooking up or in a relationship I think they are both equally horny or that's been my experience so far
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:16 PM
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I feel like we are missing a part of the story. What prompted her to throw a drink at him? None just throws drinks at every guy who approaches, drinks are expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:49 PM
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Sure, I agree men are somewhat used to rejection because sadly their role is to approach. The problem is when a man gets agry the consequences can be way more serious than when women get angry. If I was bigger and stronger than a man I was dating I wouldn't be afraid of telling him "I don't want to date you anymore", but as a woman I'm more vulnerable. The general discussion is not about "feeling negative emotions", it's about going out with a random guy who might act crazy if you tell him "no".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:41 PM
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"just be yourself" means relax, don't be anxious, don't lie, don't try any weird gimmick, etc most people know this, don't need to be told what it actually means
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:14 PM
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I just told you "just be yourself" doesn't mean you can fart anywhere or "it will happen when you least expect it" doesn't mean stay home and someone will knock on your door
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:48 PM
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what red pillers aren't able to grasp is what's obvious to everyone: "just be yourself" doesn't mean you can fart anywhere or "it will happen when you least expect it" doesn't mean stay home and someone will knock on your door
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:45 PM
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oh I had a similar conversation! I told him the same, that's it's very unlikely he's going to find a woman who will support him staying at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:17 PM
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sadly the post is deleted Laughing at the fact that single women existing (and that's a bad thing) is part of a men's rights conversation "I have the right to want a dating pool without single mothers, why can't people understand men's rights????"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:37 AM
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If feminism is "traditionalism on crack, I don't know where you got this from but it's not. Feminism is about freedom to do what you want, not being imposed any gender norm like Red Pill guys want. Also your writing style is overcomplicated for no reason, just wanted to point that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:32 AM
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I’m not convinced by the “I don’t do it.” LOL so basically none can argue against your point. Me, and so many people on this post, should be enough proof to say that "hey, maybe not everyone is like me".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:28 AM
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Switch "dating" with "being in a relationship" or "having occasional sex" or "talking to" whatever. That was not the point of my comment. The point is some people have backups and some don't. You are saying most people keep backups, and that's just wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:29 AM
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know the "cheat codes" LOL, those "cheat codes" is basic bluepill stuff. The difference is that red pill guys had to study them from some influencer bro, while the rest of us just knows them from birth. Redpill guys are mostly conservative. They are looking to fulfill traditional gender roles. So why on earth is good advice to tell conservative guys to date progressive women who do not want to fulfill those roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:22 AM
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I don't know what any of that means My point is some people keep options, like you, meaning the person didn't really die in your mind, they are still there as a backup. Others, like me, just closes the door and it doesn't matter if you still see them every day, the feeling is dead. There's no such thing as "backup people" To have backup people you need to keep them alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:08 AM
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That's you. I personally don't date zombies, once they are dead they are not coming back. It's like my switch going on in my mind, the door closes forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 01:37 AM
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I don't think this is true though. I understand it might look like this from the outside when someone doesn't block ex's. But what you are missing is how this person deals with them in their mind. I personally don't block or delete anyone because once my mind switches to a new person, the rest is dead to me. That's why I just leave them on my social media, I never interact or think about them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 01:21 AM
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"women are like turds" "heyy" "it's just an analogy!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 01:09 AM
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I don't know, I have a friend who is average more on the handsome side and there was a time he got really desperate because he didn't get any matches. Until he paid for Tinder and that helped Now he's in a relationship I think people underestimate how hard it is to actually meet someone meaningful on OLD. People think they are one date away from meeting the love of their life when it actually takes 100 first dates, a million swipes, 4 different apps and $$ for a "premium subscription", to meet s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 12:30 AM
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Lets not give this hypothetical man any ideas lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 12:22 AM
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"better men" is 100% subjective for me the "better men" are the ones with a similar ncount as me. I'm not a virgin. Less than me it's weird, more than me is also weird. The only ncount that I care about is cheating. the point was the lingo, not so much the opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:11 PM
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bias means that if a man makes excuses (like one of my male best friend does) you are going to dismiss it, or you are not even going to register
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:22 PM
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that's such a cute dog! I took care of my sister's puppy and she'd snuggle with me in bed. Now she went back to her family and I miss her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:47 PM
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yeah you are probably right low self esteem is never attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:44 PM
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you are completely biased
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:44 PM
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him realizing "oh, I didn't know I was hot, I could do better"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:09 PM
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ahhh "the hot one" sounds better, doesn't make me look as someone with low self esteem, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:05 PM
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hmmmmm idk, seems risky unless he has low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:58 PM
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well obviously, it takes some time to get to know someone's personality "personality" aren't some opinions or likes on an OLD profile
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:22 PM
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I let my friends use my phone all the time, no problem. I assume it's the same for a LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:18 PM
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hypothetical question: is it a good move to tell a guy "you are hotter than me"? would make him go after someone hotter than me or it's just a compliment? Or he's going to think I have low self esteem?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:16 PM
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women baaaad 👎👎👎
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:10 PM
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I love it specially when they are not even putting any effort "I'm a woman and I don't want to raise my ncounts because then my SMV decreases and I'll never find a man that respects me" at least they should try to change the words, not use all the manosphere lingo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:10 PM
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air fryers are like a secret cult or idk everyone that has one becomes fan and they cook literally everything there to me they are too big I don't have space in my counter top, but they are probably a good purchase
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:45 PM
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I like people who are exceptional (in general) doesn't matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:19 PM
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I absolutely hate myself for not being able to ask a guy out or let a guy know I'm interested
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:37 AM
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same. I'd scream GET A DIVORCE PLEASE!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:31 AM
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and this is why I think it was a crappy movie If we are going to talk about consent it has to be very clear that she had no interest in him. But the director made it really vague, and at first you end up wondering if maybe she did actually like him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:27 AM
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you need to move! walk, bicycle, dance, anything
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:22 AM
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the USA is not going to get invaded even though they surely love invading other countries but anyway, either all go to war or none goes preferably none goes unfortunately for you this isn't feminist decision, it's a military (male) decision
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:07 AM
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their soul maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:21 PM
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it was a question not a very hard question btw
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:55 PM
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robbing what? candy? attention from other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:34 PM
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I thought second column was bros loving bros
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:18 PM
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yesssss
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:39 PM
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robbing what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:38 PM
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ew
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:34 PM
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LOL so young and innocent
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:36 PM
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Of course not, I don't like pedo defenders or people who are too a celebrity
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:34 PM
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and let's not look at all the rape porn men have always watched
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:25 PM
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after I've already given a detailed, multifaceted answer you think you did but the other person is telling you you didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:23 PM
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TLDR: "I don't like women" there's really nothing to argue here, this is OP's opinion, he's not even trying a CMV some men hate women, what are we supposed to do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 02:48 PM
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ah! they are boiled/steamed? they don't go in the oven? nice I like that they are sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:48 PM
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exactly ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:33 PM
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twitter is more of a govt psyop. They tweak the algorithm according to their own agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:33 PM
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1) congratulations! 2) no condom ever???? that's retarded, sorry 3) not everyone is super regular. My period can vary from 30 to 20 days
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:32 PM
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this looks so cool, is it like cherry empanadas?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:29 PM
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😭😭😭 it barely has any influence irl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:58 PM
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If you could nuke one social media platform, which would it be? For me is Twitter
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:53 PM
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also first dates are a perfect scene to be x150 more socially awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:32 PM
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and the redditor is fat, broke and neurodivergent Also I don't think being thin is a requirement, there's plenty of guys who have a thing for fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:56 PM
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the guy commenting she's fat: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:38 PM
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if any of that fails a okcupid blogpost from 20 years ago will suffice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:10 PM
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yeah but I never heard people needing a definition
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:16 PM
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what lilith means is that a man expressing emotions might break something, might punch someone, might murder someone. Creating a problem for other people While a woman saying “I need a man that can handle me” is nobody's problem. She just says that and that's it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:14 PM
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men don't watch women playing sports because they don't respect them if you are born male, you get advantage over women in sports. That advantage is "male privilege"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:12 PM
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as far as I know fans don't have anything at stake and they were all crying, fighting, this is normal soccer fan behavior. They are all men. then what? ah, yes, male sports being more important than female sports is 10000% male provilege
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:10 PM
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I said soccer because I think it's a sport that's particularly emotional. And their fans are, I think, the most emotional people on earth. Fans trash places around the world because their team lost. A team they are not even a part of. That's trivial. You don't see tennis fans trashing a bar because Nadal lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:01 PM
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male soccer fans are not a minority, not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:29 PM
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I'm talking about the bawling when the game ends. Win, loose, they all cry. I totally get it, emotions are good and healthy. my point is how can you say women are more emotional after such outbursts of emotion
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:28 PM
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be everyone's problem. this is so true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:25 PM
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agree, and they are trained to not get overrun by emotions and yet.... There was a French player that headbutted another player, I can't remember when. That got him expelled, France lost. If that's not irrational idk what is yeah, male fans crying over their team loosing is super emotional behavior. No that emotional behavior is bad, it's fine, it's healthy. My main point is the assumption that women are more emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:19 PM
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oh yeah there's nothing gayer than hetero bro love
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:08 PM
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the problem is saying women are more emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:07 PM
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gay men have so much better taste than hetero men how dare you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:04 PM
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There's some men here who are convinced men are rational and have a harder time expressing emotions Did your opinion change after seeing so many soccer players punching, insulting, bawling their eyes out during the world cup? Imagine punching someone over a game and then saying women are emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:59 PM
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nvm
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:54 PM
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you are right, the comments! I don't believe anything that's said online anymore honestly besides elon musk trucks exist and I still can't believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:51 PM
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you are a teen? that explains it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:38 PM
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you are welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:55 PM
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the problem is men inflict more damage. You can't argue this. It's not like there's hidden male murder victims and secret female killers. That's too cospiracy. The consequences of domestic violence is worst for women. By saying "oh but she slaps him too! she's also violent!! they are both victims" That is downplaying women's issues because clearly the person getting punched or murdered has it worst than being slapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:42 PM
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nah man, learn how to summarize your ideas I'm not reading all that pick one, you are all over the place
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:32 PM
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totally I love pearl clutching jealous men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:56 PM
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It's like those small dick posts where the poster talks extensively about short dick problems to end up saying "not me, my dick is 8 inches, this is for a friend" LOL SURE
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:49 PM
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yeah 100% a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:48 PM
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probably 😂😂😂🤦‍♀️ also op did the classic "it's for a friend, not me"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:47 PM
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if you are fighting against feminism then you are not fighting for men's rights men's rights shouldn't affect women's rights but what usually happens is that many men's rights activists are misogynists who take the opportunity to shit on women, and then act like victims
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:03 PM
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This is like when kids say "but moooooom she started it" what matters are the violent actions and we have plenty of proof that most of that violence is perpetuated by men hitting someone is a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:46 AM
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I know this is a lame attempt of victim blaming but it doesn't matter who, why or how they initiate what matters are the violent actions and we have plenty of proof that most of that violence is perpetuated by men hitting someone is a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:43 AM
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men's advocacy often has conflict of interests with feminism yeah because so many if not most men's right activists are just misogynistic losers who are obsessed with feminism. that's when they clash. They also use it to feel victimized. If they could manage to shut the fuck up about women, and fight for what they want to fight then nobody would be against them. The men's rights sub is full of posts about women who are criminals. How does that help their cause?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:31 PM
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And my point is that nobody is in favor or against a movement that doesn't exist outside niche subredits. you say that you don't need approval yet every time this topic comes up there's a many men saying "why aren't women supporting men's rights". That's right you don't need approval. Saying that men are being silenced by feminism is an excuse to not do the hard work. They are just not loud enough to be a part of a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:05 PM
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I'm dogsitting a puppy. She's on my lap sleeping. I can feel her dreaming, she's so cute. My legs hurt because she's not so little (22 lb) The problem is I can't leave her alone, not even to go to the bathroom, she starts crying and scratching the door. I know this is a consequence of her being abused in the past but makes it very difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:56 PM
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Do feminists maintain the same level of deference with regards to men's rights? no because nobody even knows what "men's rights" are
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:51 PM
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maybe it's not bias, it's not some weird agenda maybe the red pill is just wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:39 PM
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nobody even knows what "men's rights" are so obviously people don't support them. you still have a looooot of work to do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:16 PM
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"starting a fight" is not the same as "threatening with a gun" "self defense" is well known already people get less sentences if they kill in self defense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:24 PM
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but a harsher sentence or a lesser sentence doesn't reflect on the violence of the crime because there's a million other factors involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:11 PM
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I can go to my partner and tell him "I told you a million times to clean up after yourself" we fight, nothing else happens not every fight leads to violence, that's crazy I can go to my partner and punch him in the face Who is more violent? who gets charged?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:09 PM
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you have to pick one is it that women are more violent than we think or is it that they receive less harsher sentences they are 2 separate topics
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:04 PM
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common sense and logic starting a fight leaves no injury while actually slapping, murdering, pushing, punching, even insulting, does
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:03 PM
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sure, those are still 2 different categories. Initiating Vs Perpetuating Perpetuating violence is still objectively more violent than starting a fight
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:54 PM
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sure but that doesn't happen the report is a slap, not a "falling and hitting the head"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:49 PM
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a slap will never be equally violent as murder, regardless who does it or the physical strength of whoever does it any adult could kill cats, babies, toddlers, dogs, and old people. Yet we don't, even being stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:41 PM
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I think you are arguing 2 different things a) women are more violent than we think b) women get less sentences for the same crime. A lesser sentence doesn't mean the record doesn't show she did a violent crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:27 PM
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where? All reports show that more women die or get severely injured to domestic violence than men. We could redefine "domestic violence" to include "verbal insults" and "slaps", but serious injuries and murder are still objectively more violent than verbal violence. And those are mostly perpetrated by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:14 PM
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This all smells very "conspiracy-y" "It's not that men are more violent than women, it's that we can't see, measure, notice or report women's violence." Sure, let's say we can't. But then you still need to show that there's actual violence being hidden. Because maybe, we can't report it because it's just not there. If you continue to say "oh it's there I just can't show it" then this post is just your opinion, not an actual argument. Social media and smartphones would've reported women's violenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:03 PM
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Depends what and how they are complaining "I feel lonely, I want a gf" = I feel empathy "women's standards are too high" = "his standards are too high"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:24 PM
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women are in front of feminists movements. After centuries of being just women, men started following. men don't even have a movement. You guys are still behind. You need to build a movement so that women can follow. Expecting women to be there from the start and expecting women to do the work is lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:22 PM
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it's men's job to fight for men's rights, it's men's job to raise funds and build shelters and it's men's jobs to recruit other men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:28 PM
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we are talking about rights and you care about still being able to seduce women maybe this fight isn't for you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:23 PM
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men fought alongside feminists to get them to where they are now absolutely not the first feminists were literally burned and tortured. Others shunned from society, labeled as lesbians, crazy, "too argumentative". Feminists make men uncomfortable Only after hundreds of years of standing that, only then some men joined.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:08 PM
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if males rights issues don't oppose feminist goals then there shouldn't be an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:00 PM
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if people automatically agreed then that means you are not really fighting when people say "fight for social issues" it means exactly that. You speak up, people don't like it, and you instead of acting offended you fight back until you convince everyone you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 12:59 PM
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For sharing links? That's not true
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:32 PM
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your whole posts stands over something 100% fabricated
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:20 PM
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If men criticize older men for dating younger women, the response is often that the woman "knows what she wants," that "women naturally prefer older men," or that "young men have nothing to offer." nobody says that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:16 PM
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why is it that all manosphere influencer bros wear bursting cleavage that's just feminine behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:20 PM
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Who stays after your partner's presence stops being enjoyable? I feel like you are describing normal behavior in a complicated way for no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:28 PM
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yeah and scared of Louis Theroux not very Chad behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:22 PM
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I saw the Louis Theroux Manosphere documentary on Netflix (most of it I fell asleep in the middle) There was not one single second where I thought "what a hot man". None. Manosphere influencers are only appealing to OF girls. No wonder they think "all women" are after money. "all women" = OF girls
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 09:02 PM
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On one hand I feel like a wasted opportunity and on the other hand I congratulate myself for trying
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:50 PM
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Once I went to an Airbnb with that type of countertop and it felt really unsanitary. If you cut directly on it, it not only leaves a mark but also there's all sorts of bacteria in the cracks The owner told us she really regretted buying them I hope that's not your case
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:42 PM
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I've seen this before "don't give dating advice if you are in a relationship" "don't give dating advice if you are +35 (even if ou are using the exact same apps as anyone else" "don't give dating advice if you are a woman" "don't give dating advice if you are a Chad, I'm short so it doesn't work" Who are you taking advice from then? an incel? Also maybe some advice doesn't fit you but it might be useful for someone else. Why don't you just take the advice that suits you and just ignore the rest?…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:36 PM
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After a break up I don't see the point in telling anyone "you should've picked better". That's just antisocial behavior. If any of them hurt the other, the person who is the perpetrator is to blame. But now you are talking about blame, not about "picking better"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:21 PM
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yeah bad analogy, agree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:30 PM
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I don't think it's bad to say that you want to have sex or you want to be in a relationship that's you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:01 PM
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Loneliness is cured by human company, that's the definition of the word. If human company doesn't cure what you are feeling then you are using the wrong name for such feeling. If your """lonelines""" is only cured with sex, or a romantic relationship, then you suffer from lack of sex or lack of relationships It's not me saying it, it's you. You are saying men's problem isn't loneliness but lack of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:42 PM
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Women don’t date men who earn less yes they do, all the time. People date within the same social class and also nobody discusses salaries on the first dates so...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:36 PM
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cancer is not sentient, so it's a bad analogy, sorry about that I only realized later you were talking about blame
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:35 PM
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of course you were talking about blame and not decisions. you title should've been "When is it ok to blame women?" "if a man hurt you, you should've picked better" like it's her fault
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:27 PM
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Then that's a "lack of sex" problem not a loneliness problem. Different words.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:19 PM
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I'd say never. You don't go to someone who has cancer "you should've smoked less" (you can but you are an asshole of you do that). What's done is done. The person already knows, you don't need to point it out to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:15 PM
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I remember! He had his face in his pfp, he was so unhinged I bet he thought ppd was going to be an easy audience lol everyone came at him it was so much fun
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:13 PM
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women don't "demand" anything. Usually people date within their social class. If men could date rich women they would because, you know, having money is nice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:31 PM
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Women absolutely count those things and, like you, you are both "hiring" a partner And also in the real low/middle class world everyone has to work, so good luck on ascending the social ladder
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:38 PM
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I think the definition is pretty clear there's no need to twist it. You can ask someone out in an assertive way "would you go out with me?" or you can ask a woman out in a dominant way "we are going out tonight" Men need to be assertive? yes, of course, we all do Are men naturally assertive? no, it's an acquired personality trait
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:54 PM
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People don't count hours, don't compare salaries, don't put a price on working hours, that's not normal. Because there's so much more than money in a relationship. You are not HIRING a wife so that she has to take care of the kids while you work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:51 PM
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Assertive: expressing your needs, opinions, or boundaries clearly and confidently, while respecting other people. Dominant: seeking to control, lead, or have influence over other people or a situation, sometimes regardless of others' preferences. The red pill and conservative people talk about men leading, men being dominant, in Andrew Tate's words "women are property" Of course being assertive is a good thing, that's a bluepill take. Men aren't either naturally dominant or naturally assertive. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:46 PM
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if you are counting the hours worked and putting a price on those domestic working hours, again, you are confused with business partners
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:38 PM
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yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:35 PM
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is everyone on discord?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:34 PM
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Assertiveness is not the same as dominant. Shy is not the same as submissive. Don't change goal posts. Red pill talks about men being dominant. "I want pizza tonight". "Assertiveness" is a good quality to have but it's not something males are naturally born with like legs or ears. It's a personality trait women also have. Here, at the workplace for example, men and women are equally assertive. I've never had a man tell me "today we are having pizza". maybe you live in a more traditional culture …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:33 PM
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and yet there's plenty of non dominant men who are in relationships. In fact I'd say the average man isn't "dominant" or "protective", they are normal. Sometimes they speak up, sometimes they don't. There's a difference between being dominant, passive and normal I think the red pill confuses "natural" with "I want this so bad to be true"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:09 PM
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equal partners financially? no, you are right, nobody is financially equal unless you work at the same position at the same workplace but being partnered isn't 100% about money you got confused with bussiness partnerships
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:02 PM
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Some men here get horny taking about raping women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:27 PM
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Then how come we don't see it in women who take hormonal bc?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:06 PM
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If testosterone had a real influence they wouldn't be able to control it. Nobody can override hormones with reason. By that logic all women could avoid PMS by just thinking about happy stuff. That's not how hormones work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:14 AM
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why ae you placing chicken and chopping stuff directly on the counter? don't you use a cutting board?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:21 AM
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I bought a spicy sauce but now I have to season with exactly 1 molecule to not burn myself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:19 AM
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Bluepillers are just normal people, of course there's a consensus, we call that "common sense" It's what black and red pillers are too detached to grasp
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:17 AM
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some other reason like conservative ideologies are not appealing to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:20 AM
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how am I supposed to know though?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:10 AM
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people who claim girls screaming their heads off are "faking" are wrong, you think porn actresses are not faking their screams? they are actresses Also once I was in a motel and there was a couple next door. I've never heard a more fake scream, we started laughing. She was most likely a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:04 AM
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it's seagull noises for me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:01 AM
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100% this It's like doing anything just because your partner likes it Also thanks to porn there's an expectation of a certain performance
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:01 AM
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if people really turned conservative with TRT we'd already seen it in the trans community around the world that's why 136 men is not enough
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:43 AM
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"a friend will help can help deal with loneliness or other issues" SEE WOMAN? TERRIBLE ADVICE HOW DARE YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:17 AM
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Sometimes casual relationships just develop into situationships because you enjoy each other company but you don't want to be in a relationship. Sure sometimes one of them wants more but not necessarily. That's why the post is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:30 AM
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Eeeeeewwwwwwwww I hope you reported them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:19 PM
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It works between some gay men maybe, who knows Guys who send unsolicited dick pics get a kick out of showing their junk. They don't do it to flirt. It's like men flashing their penis in public. They don't expect anyone to like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:04 PM
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chat gpt: A situationship is a romantic or sexual relationship that exists without a clear definition or commitment. I think the tweet is wrong. I don't think "situationship" implies there's someone who wants more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:21 PM
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I don't think in every situationship one is pushing for more. I think it's just a synonym of "friends with benefits" or "casual relationship + extras" but I could be wrong Some people push for more, sometimes it develops into a relationship, sometimes it doesn't. Some people are happy with the sex, even if they want it to be something more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:04 PM
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My ceramics teacher's dog died yesterday. He was a genetically fucked up English Bulldog. She had to constantly take him to the vet. The last time I saw him he got up and said hi to me, I didn't know it was going to be the last time 💔. He died of heart/lungs/kidney failure. I hate what some people do to dogs. There's some breeds that should be illegal. rest in peace little guy 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:19 PM
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pfp is accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:11 PM
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that was funny and accurate 💀 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:10 PM
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I barely skimmed your post and the first thing I though was "nah they are going to say they want to stick their dicks into something someone"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:07 PM
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objectification happens when you don't care that there's a person behind that pic. Commenting "hot" or "sexy" or whatever under a pic that's intentionally hot and sexy is not objectification imo. Sending her dick pics knowing perfectly well that they are not going to be well received, that's objectification. Commenting rude violent things is objectification because you don't care how the person might feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:57 PM
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I think men get more triggered when you try to help them than when you are a misandrist The moment you suggest "having friends is nice" they are like "NOOOOO HOW DARE YOU STOP INSULTING MEEEE" People here don't want solutions or answers, they just want to argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:51 PM
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there's very masculine gay men ("bears") who are definitely not conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:46 PM
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136 healthy males Just because there's something published on that site, doesn't mean it's 100% valid. 136 males is not a representative number of all men. Also we'd have trans men turn conservative the moment they start TRT. And that just doesn't happen. I used to have higher testosterone I had to take BC to make it normal, my political ideas never changed I've always been a lefty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:41 PM
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There seems to be a huge confusion in this sub regarding the difference between social studies and hard sciences. There's no other way but surveying women to know what they want. "Bias" is basically preferences. Preferences are always going to be biased because they are intertwined with culture. Even if you could scan the brain, you are still going to get biased answers. You can ask 5000 Chinese women / 5000 American women and you'll get wildely different answers and they are both going to be ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:26 PM
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There's no other way of learning what women want other than surveys
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:16 PM
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There's also crazy stuff going on with hormones and cravings during pregnancy. Evolution wise it makes sense. During PMS I also crave fatty high calorie food. I think it's pretty common. I can't relate to the broccoli but it's 100% possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:15 PM
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you can't study humans like chemistry. Humans are biased, so you can't remove bias like you can remove bias in a lab
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:09 PM
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I don't see anything that suggest to your point. And it's not my job to prove your point and all this aggressive talk instead of actually showing proof of your point suggests you don't have a point, you are making stuff up. Literally never insulted you. so, whenever you are ready to show examples, I'm here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:07 PM
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I'm asking for links that support your point, I'm looking at the sub and I'm seeing normal kink posting where's the dom women treating men badly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:42 PM
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I'm asking for links, if it's that common it should be easy to find. Where did you see dom women show disdain for sub men? I don't want to go through nsfw posts to prove your porint, that's your job
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:50 PM
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This isn't a silent European movie full of hints. There's no hints, there's no shots or faces that speak like words. Not a single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:12 PM
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links?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:40 PM
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The guy is obsessed with her in the sense that he let's her do all sorts of crazy demon things like: "I told you to not cook my cat and feed it to me, bad bad girl" like dude, run tf away. II think that's the point of the movie, how incredibly long it takes him to realize he's fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:39 PM
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oh noooo don't bother, it's very bad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:14 PM
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✨ come argue with incels, misogynists and misandrists ✨ like a tourism brochure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:25 PM
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not true, specially in the kink community
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:51 PM
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oh me too! that's how I met my first boyfriend when I was 17
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:42 PM
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I would use it, yes. But in a different way than classic OLD. I'd talk to a few men for, maybe, months and only then I'd ask for a pic and then go on a blind date. That's how I met my first boyfriend. We met online, talked for a year, and we didn't exchange pics until we were about to meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:41 PM
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what plot twist? I could predict every second of the movie. From the moment the lady in the magic shop says "don't come back complaining" it was pretty obvious the wish was going to backfire
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:34 PM
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Don't do the note
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:25 PM
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24-28 is a perfectly reasonable age gap don't worry about it she might not be gay. Today the classic "lesbian look" is very similar to genz fashion You should somehow exchange whatever social media you both use (ig? tiktok?) and build from there replying to her stories, striking up casual conversation. Once you regularly talk then you ask her out. good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:24 PM
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Humanity is doomed because that was a shitty 1 layered movie that didn't really do a good job expressing the complexities of objectifying people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:27 PM
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a well deserved punishment for objectifying a woman but I didn't see it as a political movie. I interpreted more like the Simpsons episode. A wish that backfires tremendously. If they wanted to make a political movie there's a lot of dialogue missing, and instead to get to see his dumb face doing nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:21 PM
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no, you are shifting the argument. You were talking about restricting freedom from women, and now you are changing it to "no, by freedom I mean money" sure buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:03 PM
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that's not the freedom you were talking about. "Long term it's going to bounce back to less freedom for women." doesn't mean "let's take money away from women" you were talking more of a "let's take women's rights" you saw all the downvotes and now you are trying to change your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:02 PM
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poor people know how shitty this world is better than middle or high class, mainly because they are having a tougher time I don't know what makes you think poor people are having a great time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:00 PM
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yeah that's what I thought. Is she obsessed with him or is he obsessed with her? that's why a perfect ending would've been both of them obsessed with each other in a creepy magical way. But it ended in the most predictable way possible. sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:57 PM
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how dare you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:38 PM
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I saw Obsession what a terrible movie, I want my 2 hours back. It's literally this simpsons episode. I hate that the guy is so much prettier than her, I hate all the irrational decisions they make. "Oh my girlfriend cooked my cat that's very normal" The ending was good until he dies, it'd been hilarious if they lived obsessed with each other forever. Missed that non predictable ending. What they did, though, you could predict it from the moment he makes the wish. Also don't forget to show tits a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:37 PM
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That's my point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:56 AM
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oh I was talking about men rage baiting women here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:03 AM
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that's not what the phrase means
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:03 AM
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you don't make very spicy hateful takes though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:56 AM
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this comment gives me "let them eat cake" vibes you also chose to ignore the rest of the comment. The food was just an example of how paternity tests are a non priority when you have people suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:11 AM
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and yet somehow it's always the same teams in the round of 16 and the quarterfinals
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:07 AM
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No no un talking about online rage bait Specifically men here who post misogynistic shit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:58 PM
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and some men seem to get horny from that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:05 PM
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but it's SENEGAL
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:35 PM
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You said that because you thought Belgium was not good. If France had scored 3 goals in the last 20 minutes it would've been entertaining but not surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:28 PM
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First that's an ignorant take. Poor people spend the few bucks they have in inexpensive, calorie-dense foods that are filling but nutritionally poor. If you don't receive enough nutrients you have health issues. If you have health issues you spend money on medicine, and have less money and time to buy and cook nutritious food. High BMI is a result of the American food industry. But also I could name a million other issues that are more tax paying worth than paternity tests like education, housin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:25 PM
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Some men get horny by making women angry. Is there a name for this kink?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:01 PM
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They are all liars. Of course the ultimate success is a loving relationship. They just say "pump and dump" out of bitterness. "see women? I want to use you!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:52 PM
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Remember when you said you were surprised that Belgium beat Senegal and I told you Belgium is really good? When I saw how they beat the shit out of the USA I remembered that conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:51 PM
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but the cuck kink is role play. Guys ask their wives to have sex with another man in front of them, they are still in control of the situation. It's very different than the feeling of being cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:44 PM
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can't understand the male fear of cuckoldry cuckoldry is basically feeling insecure from other people being "better". Anyone who has been cheated on can understand this feeling. There's also a million songs and movies about this. There's no equivalent to the "nice guy" the male equivalent would be being teased on I think. A nice guy is someone who lies to get something. So the equivalent would be a woman lying to get something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:42 PM
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I thought France was the favorite, I'm surprised by this result
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:23 PM
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I knew you weren't "honestly asking" You seem to have a very strict preconceived idea of what happens in therapy. This rigid form of thinking is incompatible with therapy. So maybe therapy isn't for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:18 PM
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yes of course, interacting here doesn't mean anything other than maybe being interested in weird interactions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:16 PM
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you've been here for YEARS lol You were here before me No, paternity tests are a completely different procedure that costs money. Also if it's mandatory you also need to pay a bunch of people to audit and a whole bunch of people to punish people who refuse to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:06 PM
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yes, therapy can help dealing with all of those problems. Therapy can't solve society but if you don't care or can move away from racism or bullying you can live a happy life. Why not try to solve the root of body dysmorphia? What was body positivity for? Body dysmorphia is an unsatiable unhappiness about how you look. Surgery can't fix it. Yes body positivity is exactly how you cure body dysmorphia. It's a very weird question to ask. Usually people understand that venting helps with bad feeling…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:37 PM
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It's always the libertarians asking for government mandated girlfriends. I always found this so amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:11 PM
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Especially the top 1%, go outside, talk to people. you've been here for years though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:10 PM
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Let me guess, you’re a libertarian? I hope not. Don't libertarians advocate for minimal government intervention? A libertarian wouldn't be begging the government to spend millions and millions of dollars in mandatory paternity testing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:09 PM
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Imagine having poor people not being able to buy food and the government choosing to spend that money on insecure men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:06 PM
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"wdym I'm not allowed to disrespect my partner???"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:02 PM
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That's how people cure problems that can't be dealt with medicine, by talking about them. There's several studies backing this up. Also if people didn't find relief in talking about their problems, spaces like AA meetings, support groups or hotlines wouldn't exist. Regarding body dysmorphia there's special treatments and specialists equiped to deal with this particular issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:56 PM
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They probably get hired for events like any other male or female promoter
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:35 PM
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if they get paid for doing than then yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:41 PM
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Why not send women who get boobjobs to therapy too? Is it different? We do that already. Famous women get constant comments about eating disorders, body dysmorphia. See Ariana Grande. or any ozempic celebrity. Most comments are "nough is enough, she looks too thin, she needs therapy"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:37 PM
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Men in general don't understand that body dysmorphia can affect them too. It's not just women with bulimia or anorexia, it's also gym freaks or extreme surgery for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:32 PM
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I saw that documentary! I felt sorry for that guy because clearly has body dysmorphia. I wish it would be mandatory to have patients be evaluated by a professional before getting a second or third surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:29 PM
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This is what I told my mother when I was a teenager living in her house Now that I'm an adult I know my mom was right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:24 PM
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poor people have more kids regardless the amount of freedom they have
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:14 PM
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very ignorant bait people having more kids is related to poverty, lack of education and vulnerability, not freedom you can see this in every third world country
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:13 PM
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needs to stop correlating the capacity of men to get sex with their overall worth on this planet. these influencers could do exactly that, fight incel shaming. Someone has to do it..... or what's the plan? people magically changing? How do you think change happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:15 PM
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these influencers could fight incel shaming, that's the point You are expecting people to shut up on their own or....?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:11 PM
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you started talking about MGTOW why are you switching to Twox? Twox's point isn't helping single women not be hateful. Perfect "whataboutism"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:09 PM
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I'm here because of the unhinged interactions like you being so convinced all women as as desperate as men. I find this amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:34 AM
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Maybe this could be a healthy next step for the online male community. I mean have a bunch of male influencers tell other men that they can join hobbies and life doesn't end in sex or relationships. Help them find themselves outside that need.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:13 AM
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Women say the same thing online and offline. I've never heard a woman say the terrible things men say online, and I've heard misandry "all men are trash" "there's no good men" etc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:10 AM
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that's a ppd classic QFW "what is your favorite color?" Women: .... ppd men: THAT'S WRONG YOU HYPERGAMOUS WOMAN
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:30 AM
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Sure. I can tell you I want a partner but I'm not doing anything to meet anyone and I'm also not bothered by lack of partner. I believe this is how women feel about being single, in general As opposed to men who are more desperate and depressed over lack of sex or relationships we are not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:25 AM
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Same with men if they are eternally single the market has decided their value
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:18 AM
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MRAs=
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:56 PM
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"here son, let me show you how women are hypergamous and stupid" human extinction is a collective effort 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:45 PM
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but it's women who encourage other women to not date abusive men. We just can't physically control others. Contrary to popular ppd belief we are not a hivemind
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:57 PM
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<image> no they are not stop the lies
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:56 PM
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This would never work because you are not taking into account what happens if she finds out she's pregnant. It's not fair that she and the kid get to be punished for something outside their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:38 PM
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I don't know where those comments are or why you think we were supposed to read them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:00 PM
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<image> lmao what a lame attempt to save yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:52 PM
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no you didn't <image> you know we can see the comment, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:51 PM
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I wish I could get a military girl to love me, It would be awesome so date someone who is protecting me always . where? lol I saw you say you are a woman and then say you are a man previously in other posts you are not fooling anyone blackpill man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:35 PM
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that's what military men think about men in general
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:21 PM
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glad we agree then, misandry isn't real
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:10 PM
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you just showed us an example of misandry not being real lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:06 PM
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from a previous comment: I am a conservative woman so you are a lesbian conservative woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:05 PM
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dress promiscuously lmao, you mean a party dress. You sound like religious nut that gets triggered by bikinis at the beach of course public transport men behave differently than the men going to a fancy party have you never been on public transport?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:56 PM
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lmao imagine thinking clothes to go out to a party are only fans clothes clutch those pearls girl! squeeze them harder!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:03 PM
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Is this new? I've been putting on a baggy shirt over my party clothes because of creepy men in public transport since forever
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:02 PM
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women have been (and will always be) friends with each other since forever I don't know why you are making up that women suck at friends
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:45 PM
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Red pillers are red pillers because they struggle understanding the world so obviously they are not equipped to have a normal friendship with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:45 PM
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It's dumb to start a relationship with someone expecting them to change
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:07 AM
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So you want to shoot people irl? That's not normal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 08:09 PM
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You have to be really pearl clutching conservative to think that it's unnerving to have regular beach pictures posted online. It's just vacation pics that any horny man could find exciting. The ai argument doesn't make sense since grok is able to undress anyone without beach pics references. By that logic you should be erasing ever single pic of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:20 PM
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This is not the gotcha you think it is, it's a dumb question I'm saying to each their own, what would I do in a made up scenario is the exact opposite of what I'm saying You are uncomfortable with your partner sitting on someone else's lap, you should break up. You are not uncomfortable with your partner having sex with another person, you should not break up. That's up to you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:57 PM
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So if you go to the beach on vacation you cannot post pictures of yourself at the beach because that will tempt men to like your picture?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:53 PM
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What about cheating? Again there's no such thing as break up police. If you are uncomfortable with your partner sitting on someone else's lap you should break up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:49 PM
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Then find yourself a male therapist, easy I've been to both, male and female therapists btw
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:37 PM
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That's because men and women agree that wars and shootings are bad. There's whole political parties that promise the end of war in their political campaigns. Wars are not a male issue. Violence against women is a women's issue Let's not pretend fighting against way doesn't have political connotations
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:34 PM
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This should be question for man. Why don't men leave if they are uncomfortable with her way of dressing? With the fact that she likes to go out with friends? With her posting sexy pics? I think it's extremely dump to leave someone for those reasons but there's no break up police and everyone should do whatever they want
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:32 PM
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She provoked the man by existing attractively /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:28 PM
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Trying to approach is not disregarding women's concerns. You can try, she might want to engage or not. Trying to approach when there's clear signs that she doesn't want to engage that is disregarding women's concerns and it doesn't work. This is what women talk about online. It's shitty advice regardless what internet women say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:24 PM
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are you sure men or people in general don't complain about wars, crime or shootings?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:19 AM
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When men play videogames where they shoot people and then don't want to get shot irl, Isn't it the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:47 AM
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Sure, we all believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:43 PM
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haha good luck in your deadbedrooms expecting men to read your mind you are not fooling anyone with that tag btw
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:06 PM
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your baits a re so boring
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:59 PM
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so you don't know what you are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:52 PM
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of course it's difficult to you if you refuse to listen to your partner this is fascinating how you are so sure of something that's so wrong again, literally explaining dead bedrooms, bad sex and orgasm gap In a bdsm relationship whoever is sub asks to be sub, Then the sex happens where the dom is in control. And those relationships work. Truly fascinating, honestly. Saving it for later use
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:32 PM
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I never said she has to be in control, just instructions "a little to the left" "I don't like this" "I like this" The way you are answering explains the orgasm gap and explains why women fake their orgasms. I wish more people could see it. If you can't handle talking about sex, you probably deserve a dead bedroom situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:55 PM
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Agree. It's a general problem of lack of socialization, isolation, social media bringing the worst in people. My friend is now in a relationship but he had to be very insistent because she treated him with apathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:29 PM
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This sounds like an excuse for being bad in bed "it's not that I wasn't able to follow instructions to make her orgasm" "it's not that I didn't even notice that she wasn't having a good time" nono, it's her lying to get married, evil evil woman. Which doesn't make sense btw. If she was faking she wouldn't stop in marriage. What's there to gain? Most people marry people from their same economic class. This sounds like deep fear of being lied to with something that men are very sensitive about whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:24 PM
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I know I know, I assumed The problem is advising other men to "disregard women's concerns" because that could be interpreted as "ask her multiple times, disregarding her body language". And that could backfire horribly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:57 PM
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Outside interacting with people, not with the intent of hooking up. Approaching is level 100 of social cues. The advice of disregarding women's concerns is the worst advice one can give
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:54 PM
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requires a man to disregard women's concerns Why are social cues such a difficult concept? I'm able to strike conversation with anyone. Obviously some people don't want to talk, that's fine. Striking a small conversation is not disregarding women's concerns. Talking to someone and having them tell you they are not going to give you their number isn't disregard women's concerns Disregarding women's concerns would be trying to talk to someone who looks scared and visibly doesn't want to engage. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:10 PM
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We are on a row, first it's "why women like money" now it's "why men like boobs" Life is full of mystery
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:25 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:57 AM
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Everyone had unserious relationships in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:15 AM
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that's why people who want a serious long term relationship are only compatible with other people who are not afraid of saying they want a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:14 AM
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you have to press the award button on the comment you want to award and sometimes (like right now) there's some free awards, you don't have to buy anything
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:56 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:04 AM
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The patriarchy is not a scientific concept, it's a social studies concept
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:28 PM
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Sorry you are not getting an angry answer from me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:27 PM
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Ah so you don't want to do it, you just want to provoke by saying something dumb like all men should leave the country Everyone is free to do what they want I don't understand why you need people's opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:14 PM
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Just do it bro, nothing is stopping you Do you need permission or are you trying to rage bait people? Are you trying to organize a group trip?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:53 PM
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That's not the point and you are clearly trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:49 PM
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why? what happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:42 PM
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Did the daily title change?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:33 PM
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I'm sorry this is too funny Literally go to any porn site of any country and you'll find plenty of local non western porn Also there's a gazillion hours of creepy Japanese porn, like how did you even miss that popular category?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:25 PM
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well actually it is, if you made a post that doesn't make sense, it is actually your job to explain yourself just say you are lost or you don't understand the difference between social media and what actually happens in therapy you could even rewrite the post to talk about therapy from the pov of social media
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:22 PM
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what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:17 PM
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"look younger than me" she's talking about women dressing up as literal children lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:17 PM
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as predicted, you don't know what you are talking about you keep bringing up social media or, worst "I heard 2 people talking about it at work" wtf is this argument Do you understand the difference between social media and what happens in therapy? apparently not you are failing to explain what you are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:15 PM
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Oh really? Then why are there hardly any videos of it on the internet? what do you mean? there's millions videos of non western women talking about their dating casual sex experiences. There's series, there's movies. You sound very lazy, like you've never bothered to do a very simple research. You think they don't have casual sex in Africa? In India? Philippines? Korea? Latin America?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:12 PM
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you need to come up with an explanation explaining that we live in a different system. Have you ever read anything in social studies? It's usually "Guy A says X" then "Guy B says Guy A is wrong because of Y and Z" then people side with Guy A or Guy B and write a bunch of papers about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:06 PM
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So you don't know and you can't answer the question. Probably don't know how therapy works. You just described that you saw a video. I'm asking how does this come up in therapy, not how this topic comes up in social media. You asked "What do you think about the patriarchy theory being used in therapy?" So I'm asking how is it used in therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:03 PM
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you are right
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:58 PM
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sure, nothing is sexier than a extra horny guy who doesn't masturbate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:56 PM
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You seriously think non western women don't have casual sex? where? Maybe in extremely trad cultures like, idk, the middle east, where she might be stoned to death. Maybe there women have less casual sex (I don't know though, honestly, I'm repeating an exaggerated view of that culture, it's probably not like that) But the rest? Has any of you actually had a conversation with non western person? Or seen a movie/series? Because it doesn't sound like it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:54 PM
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can you answer the question? do you understand the difference between social studies and hard sciences? I don't think you do If your argument is that "it's false because we can't scientifically prove it" then you have to apply that like of reasoning to every other social problem like racism. You don't get to cherry pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:49 PM
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Women discriminated against = patriarchy Men discriminated against = somehow also patriarchy She gave you a through answer that you clearly didn't bother to try to understand. And yet answer with such confidence. She said a million times that the patriarchy is a framework, a system and you are still saying "somehow also patriarchy" well, yes, that's what "system" means
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:44 PM
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This post sounds like it was written by someone who's never been to therapy. Reminds me of when conservative people complain about sex ed forcing children become trans How does "patriarchy" even come up in therapy? I've been doing therapy since forever and the only times we discussed patriarchy things was when I brought it up. No therapist will bring it up themselves because it's usually not relevant to our every day problems. That's not how therapy works
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:38 PM
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Average people date average people everywhere in the world what is this nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:34 PM
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this killed me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:09 PM
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I wish I could go back 15 seconds ago before I clicked the spoiler
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:06 PM
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this is the male version of Live Love Laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:04 PM
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In this particular example "all women want is a masculine man" is factually false since there's plenty of women who like, for example, kpop guys in crop tops, soft voices and full on glitter make up. So, there's 2 options, either all people around them believe "all women want is a masculine man" (trad culture) or they have some sort of cognitive issue where they are unable to understand reality I pick the first choice because not only it makes more sense but also refuse to believe someone can be…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:11 AM
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If someone says something that's very specific to a certain culture, it's ok to bring up that their environment looks like that. It's true to them, it's not true for people outside that culture
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:56 AM
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where did I say this part: Its ok to assume that anyone who disagrees with you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:50 AM
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where did I say that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:46 AM
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but blue pillers tend to place more blame on the individual regardless of the effort put in *accountability fify
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:24 AM
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evidence-based dating advice. That's just nonsensical. Dating can't be studied like you study atoms or chemistry. At most it's social studies. This is how you get grifters. They convince you their advice is as solid as chemistry and that's a lie. They feed on desperation, they feed on people who are too desperate to get an ultimate definite solution, when reality is nuanced. What's closest to "evidence-based dating advice" is cognitive therapy, that is, somewhat based on a collection of results.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:21 AM
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This is true. I was thinking about contra points, FD Signifier, chad chad, Vaush, Destiny?, Hasan? And there's like 4 others I used to watch I can't remember the names. Ah and there's also Ethan Klein & CO (my sister is a die hard fan) And this is the American Breadtube, every country has it's own local progressive or feminist celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:17 AM
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Sometimes I think it's relevant to keep in mind where the comment comes from. So for example if someone here says "all women want a masculine man" it's ok to tell them "that's because you come from a trad background". To them it's real all women like masculine men, but to someone who grew up more in a lefty spaces that's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:23 AM
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but that's the fun part lol the wild generalizations
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:12 AM
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I'm not speaking for all women, this is a persona question
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:10 AM
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This is true, you are right and it's something I think often. But also there's a middle ground. The guys that have been really shitty were the ones who were really insisting. The good guys I've been with did make the first move but waited for me to make a second move. Now I consider a guy who insists to be a red flag and I'm trying to not be scared of expressing my feelings to guys who don't want to ask blindly for a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:09 AM
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yeah I know, not arguing with that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:02 PM
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I feel like those are very intuitive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:41 PM
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wdym? you got lost? read the thread
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:25 PM
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This is a personal question so you saying "you are wrong" is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:22 PM
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I don't want to go into a competition. You asked a question I answered. You don't like that answer? that's not my pronblem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:17 PM
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I guess then dating men sucks either way then Going back to the question of this post, I'm jealous of men because women aren't that desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:16 PM
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This post is question for women "What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of?" If you want to start the victim olympics you can make a different post and we'll discuss
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:12 PM
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When you meet a guy for the first time you don't know if he's going to be creepy. You get into his car and he starts talking about something weird like killing cats or having sex with your dog. Sure he could be a weirdo but he could also be a murderer. That's a shitty situation men don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:04 PM
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again, you asked. That's really not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:57 PM
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sure, but also every time a man says a woman has "natural beauty" when she's had everything done also enforces this idea The day men start praising ugly women I'll believe it's just a woman thing that's why it's a societal expectation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:52 PM
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Men here say over and over and over that they are more desperate than women. Now that I'm saying it it's "no, not like that". So what is it? You have no understanding of female sexuality if you think having painful sex for a woman is comparable to having your dick scratched. Men learn sex from porn and for some reason think being rough is sexy. And some get very angry if you tell them you are not having a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:32 PM
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I'd much rather pay for a hundred dinners than being tricked into sex for the wrong reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:26 PM
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sure, but also every time a man says a woman has "natural beauty" when she's had everything done also enforces this idea The day men start praising ugly women I'll believe it's just a woman thing that's why it's a societal expectation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:19 PM
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You asked what aspects of dating I'm jealous of, so I answered "I don't like them"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:17 PM
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I could say the same. Men being more desperate for sex isn't an advantage when you are looking for a real connection. Women aren't that desperate, if a woman says yes, it's most likely safe to assume she's interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:15 PM
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It's a social expectation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:14 PM
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So why the hell would that change regardless of who's approaching? because women in general are less desperate and are fine being single. Remember that phrase repeated to death on social media? "You're not competing against other men. You're competing against the comfort of her single life." something like that. So if a woman says yes, it's more likely she likes you But you are able to date without giving her gifts and paying for expensive stuff (to avoid gold diggers). Also if you are middle cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:13 PM
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Only someone who’s never actually been told no on a consistent level would say something like this if my grandma has wheels she'd been a bike It's been proven a million times that men don't notice make up or procedures. "a naturally beautiful woman" is a woman who has a million procedures and a thick coat of naturally looking make up. Maybe she even has a wig. Men do care about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:57 PM
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you don't but people do. We have a regular ncounts megathread for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:47 PM
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But a guy who is desperate will happily go to that dinner, even if he thinks she's "meh" I don't want to go to a dinner with a guy who thinks I'm "meh"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:46 PM
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There's a perfect solution for this problem, why don't you stop slut shaming? I mean a campaign, I mean men (and women) getting together to stop slut shaming? I totally get that if a woman meets a guy who is only for sex, she doesn't care if he thinks she's a hoe. It's just sex. But when you are interested in how he thinks it's pretty important to see if he slut shames or not. And one way of doing that is not having sex with him right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:45 PM
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because men get next to No attention anyway. But this is a problem too. He might be so desperate that he'll say yes to anything. I want to be liked for who I am, I'm not just "anything". Stop texting the guy if he's implying he only wants to meet up for sex. The guys who imply that only want sex are usually guys who will also say it. The problem is men who think "oh, a woman approaching me! I'll say yes but she's "meh". During early stages of dating there's no difference between a guy that's int…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:33 PM
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the biggest problem with the aproaching isn't the stigma but the fake yes. If he thought I was a hoe and he says no, then that's fine, that's the best scenario if I meet a guy who is more conservative The problem if he says yes and fakes that he likes me, while thinking I'm a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:27 PM
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forgot about this one, the preparation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:08 PM
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That they are supposed to pursue while women are supposed to wait for a guy to approach her Not only there's still a stigma around women pursuing men ("they are hoes"). But there's another problem. A man will most likely say yes to a woman approaching. That doesn't mean he really likes her, it's just an opportunity for sex. When a guy pursues a woman and she says yes, it's more likely she's really interested. I'd much rather be told no than a fake yes 2) sex. Bad sex for women is painful. Bad se…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:00 PM
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"how do you express that love?" "I make sure he feels loved by hugging him a lot" "proof? oh you don't have proof? that means you don't love him" yeah I ask for links when the comment is referencing specific data, because they got that very specific % from somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:20 PM
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see, you guys are not ready to open your eyes to reality
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:01 PM
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you remind me if another user here who thinks asking for impossible proof is some kind of gotcha, when it's actually pretty lame argument "I love my husband" "proof? oh you don't have proof? that means you don't love him"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:00 PM
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and this is another excuse because I obviously won't share pics and private chats of my friends, you know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:35 PM
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key aspect here is that the women this guy targeted were also short and ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:26 PM
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I had LICE can you believe it? I'm too old and childless to have LICE I probably got them from one of my mom friends. They are gone now (I hope) but I'm still a little freaked out. I thought stugma was gone but it's not. I still feel ashamed like when I was 8
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:25 PM
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what's the point? you are going to come up with an excuse to dismiss reality
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:23 PM
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I've seen very ugly short men do this with women but ppd isn't ready for this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:18 PM
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but it's a debate sub, you want us to ignore their debates too?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:02 PM
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If you are chatting with a friend starting wth "how are you" and expecting an answer is ok because you actually care for your friend but if it's a coworker I think you shouldn't wait too much time between the "how are you" and "I wanted to ask you....." the rest of the comment. Because you don't care how are them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:43 PM
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there's a producer at my job that writes on the group work chat "Hi, how are you?" and expects people to answer of course none answers drives me crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:14 PM
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I know you don't want to share it because it'll show that women buy a lot of stuff that's for the house like pet food, they do laundry, food it's not all make up and clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:04 PM
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😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:46 PM
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how? when? you don't even know what you are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:40 PM
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"design" is not science
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:39 PM
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no, I mean real links the study you are looking at
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:22 PM
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they don't
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:15 AM
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he's talking about women in general he's not even talking about emotional intelligence, he's complaining about very specific stuff women do that he doesn't like: You might forget to clean up after you shave, but she never cleans out the shower drain. She might judge you for not knowing something she never actually told you, but also turn around and tell her friends something you said to her in confidence. She might yell at you for following a celebrity on Instagram, but say nothing about staying…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:15 AM
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It's the opposite. A man complaining is default, so it's ok. Or you are going to tell me you've never heard a man being rude to a waiter, complain about politics, complain about traffic, complain about whatever at the line in a supermarket? If you are generally annoyed by women, you are going to notice women's complains more It's all about bias Look at this sub, it's basically men complaining about stuff lol, you too, You are complaining about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:10 AM
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no, Tankfarm is right. That's the definition of emotional intelligence. Doesn't matter if you have dumb things to complain about (who are you to say those are dumb but anyway...). Being emotionally intelligent is the ability to express them to process them, instead of lashing out and turn it into bitterness or ass cancer (lol but true, bottled up stress can lead to diseases)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:03 AM
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"designed for" so you are saying I'm right, women taking care of kids is the default
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:49 PM
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so what do they spend it in? make up? that's unreal do you have any links?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:47 PM
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women spend 80% because they are in charge of grocery shopping. Proving that women work outside their 9to5 job
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:59 PM
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you are wrong, the woman taking care of the kids is the default you absolutely never ever see a man being the primary carer of a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:46 PM
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exactly. They change the definition of "work" so that it fits better their own narrative "oh actually taking care of others is not work so it doesn't count"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:25 PM
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both people working "rarely happens"? if you are low class or middle class you have to work, regardless your gender
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:23 PM
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oh poor you, completely disproven you are saved by the sub rules
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:13 PM
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watch out for the no blackpill content rule, I didn't want to set up a trap lol I thought we were allowed to talk about this here
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:07 PM
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I assume they can't defend it in a serious way, but I'm not sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:04 PM
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you just don't want to admit it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:56 PM
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This is making fun of blackpillers, not blackpill content
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:55 PM
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he was like "I don't know what a red card is but I saw the video and it didn't look like a red card (acording to what peopole explained to me) so I asked them to revise it" This isn't a reality show, it's a tournament and people care a lot about fair game. If Messi/Haaland/Ronaldo/Neymar got a red card, everyone would be fine with them not playing. If the USA wins nobody is going to believe it was fair
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:53 PM
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Yes it is, because Namjoon is uglier than Cavil by a lot. He doesn't have "pretty boy" face, he looks like a regular korean (if this was Jimmin or any other kpop guy, sure). But fans think he's prettier because they like him better, not because he's hotter. Thus proving the blackpill wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:43 PM
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<image> explain this blackpillers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:41 PM
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unpopular opinion: In none of 2 situations they were actually used (or we don't have proof that they were used). How can you differentiate a regular "it didn't work" from "I'm going to sleep with her even though I don't want anything serious" "I'm going to have this guy pay for my concert ticket even though I don't actually like him"? Sometimes things just don't work out, doesn't mean one person was used. I absolutely get that it feels like you were used though, no argument there And it's not ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:52 PM
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poor men, they always win the suffering olympics
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:46 PM
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I think putting your heart out and getting it broken is a universal feeling. It always feels like you've been used, or are somehow "less", even if it's just a normal break up where things just didn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:45 PM
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I'm not talking about the joke, in taking about everything else in your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:39 AM
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I see you picked mind reading. You also bought up Jesus, which tells me your arguments are based on magical thinking, not rational thinking. I can't argue against magic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:53 AM
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and you are a mind reader? or are you going to give me the "it's biology" (without sources) argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:09 AM
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"humble" don't worry, guys who brag are usually deeply insecure, that's why OP is here instead of asking this in a more suitable sub
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:49 AM
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I am appealing to men, I'm saying I'm not going to change to be more appealing. For example, I could dress more sexy, more cleavage, more tight clothes, but those are uncomfortable and I don't think it's worth it. It's not who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:08 AM
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yeah because only the rich fans are able to see the WC. Local soccer is a whole other level of violence and mafia. I remember traveling through Europe and there was police carrying assault rifles escorting a bunch of soccer fans like people chill, it's just a game you are not even playing, you are just watching it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:28 AM
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I think I know what men like but I don't want to change how I am to appeal to them (it's not sustainable long term), and I don't want to be appealing to the majority of men either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:02 AM
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I saw them being super disrespectful to other teams! but I think soccer fans, in general, are shit people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:57 AM
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oh shit 2 goals in 2 minutes England 2 - Mexico 0 edit: England 2 - Mexico 1
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:40 AM
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nobody is talking about choices, these 2 groups of women exist are they the same or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:58 AM
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People have stuff happening in their lives and don't have this "strict" routine of going out to the same places every weekend, they go out, travel, do different things That's the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:53 AM
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they don't even want to acknowledge it's a branch of psychology, even thought it's in the name.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:50 AM
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ah so a +30 fat ugly single mother is as datable as a 21 year old thin virgin woman? Men think they are the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:46 AM
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lmao I just posted about npcs I don't care about self love though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:44 AM
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Every weekend I have a strong urge to walk around a certain part of my city that's very pretty. I've been doing this for +10 years. Also my life is very uneventful This is how I know I'm an NPC. They need me on someone else's background Anyway, happy Sunday everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:43 AM
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the moment there's a difference between trad women and progressive women (or trad household/states/cultures and progressive households/states/cultures) you can't lump all women into the same category
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:23 AM
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First world problems: I want to have food delivered but the place is 1 block away from my house so I should just go and pick it up myself. It's raining.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:59 PM
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because it sounds like you want a slave, not a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:57 PM
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not true for me, most of my friend's husbands are good people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:57 PM
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we are this close to "women shouldn't vote" thanks for giving feminism a reason to exist
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:55 PM
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this is a disguised ncounts post
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:41 PM
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You are so convinced men and women aren't the same in this area
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:51 PM
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"lying to get sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:38 PM
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Pump and dump = one night stand Repeated pumping = fuck buddies, situationship Everyone is telling you this, why do you keep repeating yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:37 PM
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"pump and dump" isn't the act of lying to the other person, it's just a one night stand. It has nothing to do with how she feels for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:32 PM
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Like others pointed out, a repeated pumping is called a fuck buddy, situationship, all under the casual relationship label. That's the label we put on such relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:30 PM
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Pump and dump it's the same as saying casual sex, only more offensive People have no problem understanding this concept. If you start casual then fall in love and end up getting married you are not "pumping and dumpling" even if that was the original goal. If you don't do the dumping part, you are not "pumping and dumpling"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:19 PM
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This is the best place to ask for dating advice, since everyone is so sane and in touch with the outside world
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:47 PM
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as long as nobody finds out you can eat your own turd at your friends house if you want to that doesn't make it any less weird
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:43 PM
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I hate it when users decide to reply on an 3 day old post and don't even bother reading the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:32 PM
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ah so you think people who disagree with you are less intelligent? ironic no?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:31 PM
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Porn does not exist in a vacuum. Exactly. it's men projecting their sexuality into women. It's men (some obv) who would fuck anyone but restrain themselves because of social constrains. This is why porn plots work. They want women to feel the same desire for them. But (most obv) women aren't like that. Sexuality is different. So you believe that a womans sexual desires are all fulfilled by her ideal man? Yes, I believe a woman can be 100% happy with her sex life with the right man. But this ques…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:30 PM
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I thought about porn OP is describing literally 90% of porn plots. A woman who secretly wants to fuck a forbidden man (plumber, pizza delivery guy, teacher, stepson, step whatever, etc). In porn she gives in to her desires, which is something she can't do irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:25 PM
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Your post feels very porn influenced. Most porn plots are about a woman giving in on her most forbidden desires like fucking her teacher, stepbrother, stepson, plumber, etc etc etc Of course that's male fantasy that doesn't track to real life. You want to think women are like that but we aren't. Or most of us arent. Of course if you were born conservative this is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:21 PM
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having different perspectives doesn't mean they didn't understand the post you are praising that user because she answered what you want all women to answer
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:18 PM
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What about the man that you actually want? that's contradictory. I'd never actually want a man who judges women's past. That alone makes me not like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:13 PM
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Each couple should decide when it's the right time to get married if they want to get married at all. Marriage can mean many things for different people. To some it's an act of love for others it's a legal contract, for others is both. For example if you are having kids, marriage protects them if divorce happens. If you buy a house together, if you need some sort of protection for when things go south, that's when the legal aspect of marriage is useful. Getting married just because of a potentia…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:07 PM
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it's not about being able to inflict more harm, it's actually inflicting more harm. If multiple statistics around the world supporting this point makes you feel like you don't have any counter argument, that means you are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:56 PM
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oh nooo yeah that sounds cool
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:09 PM
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I've been on both sides that's why I find the deadbedroom sub so fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:57 PM
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I just fell on the street so instead of hurting my wrist I did a parkour where I rolled over my back in a very non athletic way, very Michael Scott It's so weird to feel embarrassment over falling down literally this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:47 PM
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this is how you learn to cook like you did that chicken
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:44 PM
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intoxicated by soup what I've seen psych0ticmonk years ago, idk if he has other alts
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:42 PM
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omg perfection looks so creamy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:41 PM
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if you grill the sandwich then it becomes breakfast food, otherwise I agree it could be considered lunch food. I don't make the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:39 PM
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people make fun of Leo because all his girlfriends are 25, not just 1 The age gap argument is just another feminist tool to control and manipulate mens sexuality then explain why fathers also don't like grown men around their daughters
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:21 PM
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the "as a person" kills me 😭 but I guess that's a translation thing It's not that weird of a question but I think it's pointless to ask that. Just answer something generic like "loyalty" "a partner" "someone I can share special moments"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:15 PM
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it's the swipe/likes ratio and also who you are swiping on if you are getting matches from hot women, you are probably hot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:28 PM
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so weird, I did it a few times and never got in trouble. I've also seen other people do it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:23 AM
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I love seeing old people's handwritting, it's so beautiful and precise. I think cursive is a lost art 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:22 AM
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It's amazing to see new users start friendly and become aggressive with time... then become friendly again. The cycle of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:20 AM
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Once we were having dinner at my house and my friend went to the bathroom and I didn't hear the sink running. The mf didn't wash his hands and we were having dinner. I told him GO WASH YOUR HANDS like a mom, it was disgusting. This is not an age thing, my friend is young.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:19 AM
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she's going to wake up to the fact that ugly guys also use women, specially if she's hotter than them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:17 AM
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that carpet is not a good choice for a murder scene
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:15 AM
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again, it's completely valid that you find sluts disgusting, it's not ok to say it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:13 AM
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you can link to comments or you can print screen and cross out the names
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:12 AM
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link?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:42 PM
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all of the pills issue can be boiled down to a section of men that don't fit in society and don't understand why. So, to internet men, there's nothing wrong with stuff like "women are hypergamous". So they are surprised when society reacts negatively It's like the whole standards conversation. "sluts are disgusting" "hey, that's not nice!" "OH SO NOW I CAN'T HAVE PREFERENCES" They just don't understand that saying "sluts are disgusting" is not a nice thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:41 PM
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because of patriarchy and outdated gender expectations not because of benevolent misogyny, or because women aren't able to handle feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:37 PM
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<image> is this the first time this guy uses a pen what is that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:04 PM
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no, that's your plain old misogyny the world doesn't work that way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:02 PM
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no, that's just misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:42 PM
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because men actually inflict violence on women, physical, verbal, etc women's "kill all men" is just a stupid phrase women say on social media, but it's not reflected in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:23 PM
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but then call men who ghost them rapists this never happened
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:16 PM
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not the same men really hate women, they don't just say it like women do. You are not understanding women's tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:05 PM
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https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america here's your statistics anyway no, people have the conversation "what are we" it's so detached from reality to think that all women are delulu We'd have a million posts about this topic and we don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:49 PM
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I said I was being hyperbolic you do you, just don't make extreme generalizations. Most men absolutely know what's ok to say and what isnt'
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:02 PM
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they do, men cheat more, like I said not enough to explain the difference in % all women delude themselves? from all age brackets? right it doesn't make sense lol that's just misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:00 PM
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why are you going to the extremes? why is it either constantly dumping all the trauma or not opening up at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:58 PM
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then why are they dumping their trauma after I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:44 PM
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it is socially acceptable to open up about SA you made up an example that doesn't exist in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:28 PM
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you don't need a list most people know what is socially acceptable and what isn't. It's the difference between being ND or NT
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:00 PM
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we all react the same way, normal, I don't know how to describe it, we listen to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:58 PM
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Because those sorts of hateful arguments are the ones who are criticized. Not just "opening up" (I'm being hyperbolic of course)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:28 PM
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it's not that you can't open up you can but there's social rules and you can't say shitty things just because you are opening up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:09 PM
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Why don't women open up less instead? because opening up is healthy. You can choose to not relate to women that share their feelings but you can't police what women talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:39 PM
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yeah I had plenty of very deep intimate conversations with my male friends. I trauma dump a lot too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:37 PM
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do you think arguing here is good to fight dementia? I can see myself in a geriatric home arguing on Reddit about paternity tests
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:29 PM
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"open up" doesn't mean you can say you want to rape all women, be racist, be hateful, without consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:24 PM
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"Not like that! of course "open up" doesn't mean you can say "i want to rape women" without consequences (this is a hyperbole)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:20 PM
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This doesn't make sense to me. I've never seen it happen irl or online. If as much as 50% of women were defining their casual relationship as a relationship (and vice versa) we'd have a million posts about it, but we don't. Maybe this happens in first stages of dating, but not after meeting parents or moving in together. It makes no sense that this many amount of women and men are this confused about their labels I say the answer is in how the study is conducted, what kind of questions they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:15 PM
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women literally die of eating disorders and bad plastic surgeries
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:11 PM
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if you are in a soft harem without knowing it you are being cheated on. We have data on cheating (men cheat more) but it's not enough to explain such differences The term "relationship" doesn't describe a casual relationship, that's why people came up with the term "situationship". The existence of the new term "situationship" proof that people are not saying their casual relationship is a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:10 PM
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If you don't understand the difference between beauty standards and racism this is a pointless conversation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:49 PM
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this discrepancy is a mystery that none's been able to explain in a way that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:44 PM
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"soft harem" you mean people who are in situationships. Those people don't say they are in a relationship. Men cheating makes more sense because in that case women do say they are in a relationship Unless the question is "are you having sex?" and somehow got wrongly translated to "are you in a relationship?" That could be a more rational explanation but still doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:38 PM
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I've never seen this happen though People do define relationships differently but the differences are between different generations. So for boomers they are in a relationship from date 3. Millennials have to have the conversation "what are we" before saying they are in a relationship. since most people are hetero it doesn't make much sense that that many couples didn't agree on the title of the relationship. Certainly doesn't happen in the 30-40 y/o bracket
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:31 PM
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mmm I need a rational explanation for this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:04 PM
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dressing less casually is the bare minimum for women. We are talking extreme diets, clothes that are uncomfortable, surgeries, eating disorders a natural looking woman is a woman with facial hair, armpit hair, pimples, no make up, no hair, nothing. You all think make up is "natural" you are complaining abouthaving to dress less casually
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:06 PM
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No, women's beauty standards are so much higher we all just assume "women are more beautiful" The moment you ask a man to take a shower he'll say his beauty standards are higher Beauty standards have nothing to do with the ability to have sex. That's 2 different concepts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:32 PM
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Nigeria rarely gets past the group stage; Belgium usually does. They were 3rd in 2018, they eliminated Brazil, England of all countries. It doesn't require Nostradamus skills to know they were going to win
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:32 AM
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but historically Belgium has always been way superior than Senegal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:53 AM
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That's the closest circle, you should have many circles: from childhood friends to coworkers (you won't see them again when you change jobs)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:41 AM
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what in the world made you think that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:39 AM
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I just heard in a podcast "The feminist victory isn't freeing women from beauty standards (because women still need beauty standards for status), it's extending them to men."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:26 AM
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It’s not so much they look for it- that’s actually really offensive to victims to project that on to them, it’s that it’s been normalized or them and so they are more prone to accepting it and of course self esteem plays a big role. yes, absolutely. I chose words poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:51 AM
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I don't care about what people would answer in a an abstract hyppthetical scenario but that's what you are doing. Literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:55 PM
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that's why I said "if roles were reversed" it's the same. It'd be her telling him "I unconsciously think you are ugly" you are forgetting this key part that will not make people side with her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:43 PM
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you made up a scenario in your head where someone posted this same scenario but with the genders reversed and people called op "childish" "you only care about sex" You are comparing 2 posts but one of them is in your head
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:45 PM
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but the "difference in response" is hypothetical, it's in your head
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:24 PM
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"I unconsciously think you are fat" 🤡 lmao girl leave his ass, he doesn't even have the balls to say he's not attracted anymore "if roles were reversed" it's the same. It'd be her telling him "I unconsciously think you are ugly"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:11 PM
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no, it doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:06 PM
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fertility has nothing to do with attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:56 PM
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that's a red flag for people who do not want to have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:43 PM
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🆗
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:35 PM
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only if they want to have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:28 PM
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no it's not you are not even going to be able to justify anything you say so why even bother
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:27 PM
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There's plenty of psychologists explaining this phenomena. This happens when you grew up in abusive households. A child understands that the way their abusive parents treated them is what "love" is supposed to be. So they look for that same abusive treatment in a partner. They will not be attracted to a non abusive person because their behavior seems foreign. It's a really hard thing to do to break that pattern but some people are able to do it. Also this is not a gendered thing, this happens to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:08 PM
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both men and women can suffer deathrgrip because they trained their bodies to the feel of the hand or the toys masturbation isn't the problem, it's how you do it that's so different from real life stop masturbating and save that libido for intimacy with another person and you'll solve the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:42 PM
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what's the reasoning behind that? what proof do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:24 PM
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Ah so you don't know how they look like You can't know if someone is manipulative from an old profile. It's literally impossible The people who went on mediocre or good dates don't write about them online, that's why you only see the ones that went really bad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:05 PM
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But do you see the pics of them or you just assume the men are hotter?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:44 PM
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yeah but then you don't have access to a backup stock (your partner's)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:30 PM
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confirming redpill delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:30 PM
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I told you, having a fwb is not the same as having a partner Imagine telling the guy you fuck once a month "partner" LOL how delulu how can you confuse this 2 concepts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:50 PM
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it's even worst, they don't realize they are being shitty people and it gives them a reason to feel victims
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:45 PM
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drug users refusing to date other drug users? doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:43 PM
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men shorter than me don't exist, I'm too short your blackpill doesn't work with me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:41 PM
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idk he was a bit taller than me, I'm not as obsessed with men's heights like you are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:13 AM
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bad blackpiller! bad! "having a partner" and "having a fwb" are 2 different things. When you have a partner you are not single, when you have a fwb you are still single you want to know if they are having sex or not, not their relationship status
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:09 AM
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I met a "long term fwb". He cold approached me but tbf I gave him all the signs so that he would approach
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:13 AM
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fun fact! feminists don't give a fuck about cold approaching the soft approach conversation comes when men here complain about cold approaching and OLD being the only ways of meeting people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:07 AM
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says he hasn’t been on a date in a year so I’m going to assume he is just being careful in his vetting yes, this is probably it! tell us how it goes!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:40 AM
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Heated Rivalry
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:11 AM
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you can record it with your phone and listen to it in the morning
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:08 AM
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Maybe he's playing safe and doesn't want to take you to vegan Buddhist restaurant on a first date. Maybe he had a million first dates that's why he isn't putting in too much effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:07 AM
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oh noooo It'd be so cool to be part of a jury
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:06 AM
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total mental illness low self esteem issues can make you make up a whole parallel reality
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:04 AM
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As someone living in a extremely hot and humid city it's also about being used to the heat. I bought my first AC when I was 30. My grandmother didn't have AC and she lived with a small fan. She was used to the heat. She lived until 99 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:38 PM
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right now there's a fight going on in my building's whatsapp group. One of the ladies send an audio "IF YOU DON?T LIKE MY WORK YOU CAN STICK THE BUILDING UP YOUR ASS" and the other guy called her "you look like a MAN" 🍿🍿🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:42 PM
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yeah in my local subs they ban you for having a different political opinion. Not because they are insulting, or mean. They just won't let you post anything that's against out current govt
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:25 PM
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I think the sub rule is to avoid circlejerking like "men, why do you think women are stupid?" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:15 PM
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I thought we weren't supposed to ask our own gender OP is a man and this is question for men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:12 PM
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yeah well, there's a strong correlation between red pillers and retarded men lol He didn't know I'm here and I know what TRP is poor guy, he'd do so much better as a bluepiller, oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:38 PM
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I can smell black pill comments before they are written
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:59 AM
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I don't have a partner Sorry blackpill doesn't work here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:49 AM
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yeah it's funny that guy Clavicular, has both 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:58 AM
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no but they don't call it ED, they call it "locked in" or "fitness lifestyle"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:58 PM
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owwww poor guy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:52 PM
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I don't know, I just know that sometimes I just don't fit in.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:36 PM
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Thanks. If I hadn't called him out I'd be spiraling in anxiety now so at least I was able to do it When I was in high school I wasn't able to do that, so it's a learned skill 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:34 PM
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That's great blue pill advice. Literally had this type of advice in women's magazines from the 90's You conveniently missed the misogyny part which is what differentiates red pill from bluepill ncounts, single mothers, hypergamy, "female nature", af/bb
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:51 PM
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No, I know it from the time a friend of mine tried to use red pill tactics with me Made me break up the friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:35 PM
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I went out with friends and the boyfriend of one of my friends said I was weird "just admit it, we all know it" Of course I know it, I've known it since forever. There's just no need to point it out like that in front of people. So I told him that's a shitty thing to say and he felt really bad. On the other hand I don't like "normal" people, I think it's ok to be weird. It's still hard to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:25 PM
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not the OP but so do you think they just hate women and want to manipulate / control them, like how bluepills think? It's not even that. TRP works as a constant source of bait posts. Frustrated men use those posts to throw hate at women. I don't even think it exists in real life. They say so in the red pill sub. They advice against building a relationship with a redpill man. It used to be in their FAQ (I don't know if it's stil lthere)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:01 PM
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The red pill won't get you any woman at all, obedient, not obedient
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:58 PM
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I like this meme because that baby dinosaur from the 90's would be middle aged by now
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:39 PM
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specially with george washington
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:02 PM
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being risk averse explains why women die less frequently being risk averse is literally a survival instinct again, glad we agree
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:20 PM
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source: the fountain of wishes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:08 PM
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Glad we agree then. Women do have more survival instincts than men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:05 PM
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low effort bait anyway, there's more men being murdered by other men than women being murdered by men, or at least that's what men here repeat when we talk about this topic so I guess men have even less survival instincts
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:02 PM
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but you have no idea what that is no? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:54 PM
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you are just sharing your opinion. To "correct" something you need to actually correct it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:47 PM
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"no" is not an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:37 PM
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what's healthier? Eating like a normal person, not having an eating disorder, that's why we call it a "disorder"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:32 PM
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it's an eating disorder to be proud (and posting about it) of saving 10cal on a meal Textbook eating disorder AMA/MIA from the 2000's
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:03 PM
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2 minutes per day lol proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:57 PM
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A reddit meetup in Africa, what coild go wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:56 PM
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the disorder part is sacrificing taste for 10 calories that seasoning might add like that's going to make a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:51 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/shorts/ZgDD7G04h74 I love that men are catching up with women in the eating disorder field equality is so cool
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:11 PM
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only when they make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:10 PM
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*men are too horny men don't like women as people. Ssome do, obviously, the main thing all men have in common is that they are horny
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:52 PM
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who pays for your stuff? your mom and dad?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:41 PM
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how is having to split assets have anything to do with sexuality? just don't move in with anyone if you don't want to split and you can still have sex with anyone you want see, I solved your imaginary problem
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:14 PM
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<image> you do you I need entertainment while I work
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:07 PM
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and how is that relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:02 PM
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if you are going to throw a random comment you are going to have to explain how it's related to this post
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:32 PM
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....and no man who is in a happy relationship is going to ask for paternity test
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:50 PM
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Oh I've seen it all at this point. All sorts of insults towards women. Then you point it out to them and they have the nerve to act offended lol That's why I'm giving some men the benefit of the doubt that they just struggle understanding reality or have some limitation that's beyond them. I just can't believe they are this delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:11 AM
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where did you hear Weinstein, Epstein, Trump say they are everyone's problem? How is that better than being just women's problem?? where did you hear them say they are women's problem? How do you explain all these men speak against them? are they not real? How does this make any sense? You are here. You are commenting. And I'm not mocking you. I feel like any opposing argument feels like mocking to you. If he is a misogynist he is fair game for mockery. yes, this is true. If he's being hateful t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:07 AM
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I have 2 theories: a) "unselected men" get 0 attention from women. So the only way they get women to pay attention to them is by them writing terrible misogynistic posts. And that's how they get mocked. b) "unselected men" are unselected because they struggle understanding reality (lack of socialization, maybe being on the spectrum). So they think they are posting neutral opinions but they actually aren't. They post misogynistic stuff thinking it's neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:50 AM
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Weinstein, Epstein, Trump... every top% shitty man isn't "women's problem". It's everyone's problem. Remember for every abused woman there's a father, male friends, brothers, sons, a whole bunch of men who don't want their women to suffer. It's men and women fighting against these corrupt, extremely powerful people. On the other hand, women just ignore "unselected men". The only way "unselected men" get mocked is when they make misogynistic ridiculous posts. Otherwise they are ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:46 AM
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Jajajaj me pasa que no puedo tener este tipo de charlas de ncounts y todas las cosas que se hablan acá en castellano. Es como que no encaja con mí yo en castellano. Igual no estábamos en desacuerdo. Yo estaba pinchando un poco nomás Que de devsarg? Algo de ia seguro, no? No entendí lo del mercado sexual y el laboral
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:07 AM
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Jajajajjajaja la puta madre somos una plaga
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:58 AM
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I'm making fun of your lack of arguments Which proves that there's nothing supporting what op is saying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:38 PM
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What happened to the 20 year old ok cups blogpost? It doesn't work anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:34 PM
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Not an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:30 PM
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What makes you think women have high standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:03 PM
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I just saw maternal instinct, it was good 7/10, thank god it's just 1 episode
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:10 AM
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you sound like a grandmother
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:09 AM
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You've never seen a woman say their partner doesn't love them? I think it's pretty common. Men too, there's tons of them. For every failed relationship there's someone saying they weren't loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:44 AM
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who is this guy and why is his wife representative of all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:34 AM
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that's the easy part and it's not enough we need to stop slut shaming, ncounts all that stuff for prostitution to be ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:25 AM
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The problem is men look down on prostitutes and high ncount women in general. So them using her services just confirms he can "use" women. Prostitution would be fine if prostitutes are safe and we can be sure they do it because they genuinely want to. It'd also be fine if we removed slut shaming from society. And we could ensure no man thinks he can use a woman's body, no man is violent with them, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:18 AM
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I think it's a case by case scenario. Some people are stringing along their partner and some people get a kick from the power dynamics, because they are fucked up from childhood trauma. I've met people who struggle relating to others and fuck up their own relationships as a safe mechanism. But in the end, attachment styles are descriptions of relationships and it's on each person to decide if they are happy with such attachment style edit to add: attachment styles are not gendered. There's plent…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:12 AM
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but she also has to be hot if being wanted was all they needed they could go for the bottom % of women also isn't it kind of narcissistic? a better answer would've been "I want to meet someone I'm compatible with, has X personality, looks this way" It's like when people answer "why are you dating her?" "because she makes me feel X" instead of "because she's a nice person".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:49 AM
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I saw the top 2. Great docuseries. I need to see bottom 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:35 AM
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it's so weird this obsession with adding math to relationships like you could solve the dating equation. Once I saw people arguing over someone's SMV being 5 or 5.5. Ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:34 AM
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Offering sex work is not the same as using such services. And it's not the same to be a male sex worker and a female sex worker. Obviously female prostitutes are way more vulnerable than male prostitutes (in the hetero world). And female clients don't behave the same as male clients. So it's not hypocritical to support one but be against the other because then men woukd realize their interest in women is only sexual and that seeing things through this honesty lens is damaging to women's reputati…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:25 AM
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it's the same, it's the constant concern that there's people liking different things the nails was obviously a random example
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:18 AM
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For the life of me I'll never understand why conservatives are so insistent with everyone wanting the same things. "MAN, HOW DARE YOU PAINT YOUR NAILS? that's feminine behavior!!!" Like other people's choices are a personal offence We've been through this with homosexuality. Trans arguments are the same "you were born with a penis how dare you use a dress!!! "
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:06 PM
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same haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:39 PM
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he could still be a non sexist slob lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:02 PM
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There's nothing cleaner than the apartment of a man who thinks he might get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:53 PM
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yeah for debate posts that you agree with you have to answer under the auto mod, happened to me too. I thought they were going to delete it but I got a ban instead
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:59 AM
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yes, absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:05 AM
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some confuse not being picky with not having standards ("women are too picky, I don't, I'd fuck anything") some want to express how desperate they are some say it as an insult to women ("I don't care about your personality I just want to fuck anyone") If there are more reasons I don't know, I'm not a man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:57 AM
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men here they always say it with an air of superiority. I get that not being picky is something good, but they take it to the extreme "I don't care about her salary!" "I don't care about her career" "I don't care about her hobbies" "I don't care about her looks"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:36 AM
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Agree, some men are terrible, they get a kick from power dynamics where they don't care if the woman is having a good time or not Like that user said, women should run for their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:03 AM
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Today in corporate life: They gave an MVP award to a guy who will talk himself out of work, leaving the rest of the people dealing with his shit They fired 6 people leaving their managers "how am I supposed to respond fast when you fired half of my team??" conclusion: if you ascend the corporate ladder is because you know how to talk, not because of the quality of your work
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:38 PM
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Doesn't matter how you twist it men are more physically violent than women. Punching a wall is violence, women don't punch walls. Punching other men is violence and women don't punch each other that much. You can see it in playgrounds, you can see it everywhere. Boys hit more than girls. This is very basic every day life observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:32 PM
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WRONG you have to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:18 PM
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that's so cool I should do the same, I need to practice still life drawings for ceramics school next year
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:22 PM
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I made top comment once there! it felt weird (it was about sex, not relationships) it's creepy that you are not allowed to tell women they should break up
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:15 PM
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and that should be a rule here too it makes me more angry than it should when there's a post about, for example, penis size. OP writes 16 paragraphs about penis size shaming, only to write in the comments "oh, no, actually my penis is 8 inches all women have multiple orgasms with me"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:04 PM
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Everyone is saying that it's not a gendered thing. All of the comments there's not a single comment that says that only men are victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:44 PM
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that's on the person declaring their love, If you ask them "do you want to date me?" plain and straight and you get a vague answer you have to keep asking until she says yes or no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:44 PM
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I had a huge crush with a friend and after telling him (he said no) I felt like a huge weight was lifted from my shoulders I was 100% able to switch to friendship after him saying no. If he had cut the friendship, it'd been a bad decision. It's the person who has feelings the one who decides if the friendship continues or not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:38 PM
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I don't think there are places where women and men are equally violent. There's always domestic violence, there's always men punching walls, punching each other, road rage, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:55 PM
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There aren't any areas with 0 male violence though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:44 PM
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lack of socialization is way more harmful than having a few drinks with friends during the weekends
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:54 PM
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no it means you are a normal young person
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:53 PM
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Are they having fun though? Because what I'm saying is because I see all this talk abut loneliness, lack of social skills, lack of friendships, no dates, etc and then I see young people being proud they don't consume alcohol, which is something humanity has always done to socialize and have fun If they are going out, dancing, socializing, doing young people stuff I stfu, but I don't think that's the case. Even mainstream media talks about how young people are more scared and anxious
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:28 AM
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no, I only drink alcohol socially, when I go out That's why I associate it with social activities. I could solve the lack of friends epidemic by putting everyone in a room with alcohol and snacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:11 AM
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just Reddit men or manosphere men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:06 AM
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a real mistery
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:03 AM
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we are not here to agree, we are here to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:01 AM
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omg post picss
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:58 AM
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yes it does, it so does (in moderation obviously)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:58 AM
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yeah because that's been working out great no? 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:37 AM
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humanity is doomed this is literally the first generation that doesn't drink alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:36 AM
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You know what's worst for your body? not being able to have fun, socialize, loosen up, learn from your mistakes, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:34 AM
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you think flirting doesn't require social skills? my good you are going to learn this, eventually (I hope)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:32 AM
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got me at "super exciting bird news"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:22 AM
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Humanity is doomed. There's a post about young people not drinking alcohol. And I have many many young guys tell me the most dramatic things about alcohol, as if meeting with friends at a bar once a week will forever damage your liver, one told me it'll make you mediocre. The most concerning part is that they are proud of this. I think they are masking fear of being filmed saying stupid drunk nonsense. I don't want to hear, from them, that they struggle socially, that they don't have girlfriends…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:22 AM
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Trump is your example? a man accused of rape? you realize when women do that "extra" they are not enjoying themselves, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:08 AM
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of course not, they are all liars, that's my point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:56 PM
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I asked chat gpt to do it lol "can you give me the most ai generated response to a subreddit rule about not using ai? something like "it's not about....." and also add classic chat gpt punctuation"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:55 PM
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thanks mods It's not about restricting innovation; it's about fostering meaningful engagement, preserving authenticity, and maintaining a space where human creativity can flourish—thoughtfully, intentionally, and collaboratively.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:40 PM
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CPR lol ah ah ah ah staying alive staying alive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:04 PM
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you need to connect the dots, if I'm saying I never met a guy who didn't want to do a certain sex act that means I think they don't make differences with women. They are always open and willing to do anything. Do you think men put the same amount of effort and enthusiasm into every single woman they date? yes Or do you think maybe sometimes they're more enthusiastic about and treat some women better than others? no, they are always enthusiastic, ready to try anything Can you acknowledge that wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:48 PM
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nono 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:43 PM
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I never found a guy that didn't want to do a sex act. Never ever. In fact 2 men once told me "you can literally do anything to me, I'm open to anything" No I don't think they reserve the good sex acts to certain people, that doesn't make sense women are the same
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:33 PM
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a day off with weed or alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:30 PM
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wasted day
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:22 PM
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because she would want to repeat it nobody in the history of humanity doesn't want to repeat a sex act that works
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:03 PM
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I'm 5'2" and I'm not looking for someone shorter than me or taller than 5'6 or 5'7
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:01 PM
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I've always thought shy introverted men use what women say online as an excuse to not go out and meet people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:06 PM
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apparently you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:45 PM
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<image> did you mix up your alts? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:39 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rzKaOp383vA&t=2s old but still funny
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:37 PM
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asking for proof of stuff there's no proof of is not an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:25 PM
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you are right I haven't dated any woman BUT I have dated short men! which proves my point 😎 and I'm actively looking for a short man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:24 PM
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no, bluepill people are normal average people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:07 PM
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yes there's no bluepill documentation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:00 PM
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you are making stuff up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:59 PM
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I'm talking about my friends and real life men I meet. They are BP, they are all normal people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:57 PM
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They all do. They all say "no, actually I'm married" aftyer writting an essay of dating difficulties. They all say "no, actually my penis is 8 inches" after writting an essay on women hating small dicks and how that is hurtful all lies no, I don't want proof besides anyone can use photoshop or gemini, I also don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:55 PM
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No because not all women are into traditional gender roles, not all women enjoy being submissive. I'm saying a man who prefers traditional gender roles won't date a butch woman because she doesn't fit traditional gender roles. The link is pretty clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:52 PM
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They are linked. A tall man gives the impression he's a protector, he's stronger, he can provide. He's stronger than her. Those are all traditional gender traits. Height is a masculine trait. So it's only logical that if a woman looks for one traditional gender trait (height) she's also going to want him fill that dominance role. Not always of course but there's definitely a link. Same reason why a trad man would never date a butch woman. And a butch woman probably won't fill traditional female …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:35 PM
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again: you are looking for black and white explanations, you are looking for one single answer that solves every question but reality is not like that reality being complex doesn't mean hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:29 PM
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look at this puppy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:27 PM
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fiction =/= reality
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:25 PM
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that's because ozempic is expensive af and they need the money lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:24 PM
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makes sense. I'm a feminist who doesn't really endorse gender roles and I'm between I don't care and a preference for short men. Sucks for short trad men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:23 PM
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it just means she's more progressive the study implies that progressive women who don't endorse traditional gender norms care less about height.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:21 PM
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agree I think it's about not showing it too much. Don't be clingy, don't loose your personality, don't show too much anxiety, don't lovebomb
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:59 PM
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None who thinks like all the points you listed should be dating, so it's a win win for the rest of us who continue dating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:42 PM
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Because there's a clear difference between internet/manosphere men and average well socialized men (bluepill) I like arguing with the former but I date the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:28 PM
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it's absolutely absurd to think that normal men aren't able to feel attraction for women their age
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:12 PM
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The men who think that relationships are all about looks are inexperienced. They don't know what they are talking about and they are also bitter and trying to insult women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:09 PM
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no, that's porn brain rot
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:57 PM
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yes they do, society does
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:50 PM
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just FYI whenever some guy here makes a post about the difficulty in OLD but then they say "oh, actually not me, I have 50000 likes" it comes off as a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:49 PM
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Both progressive and conservative social circles often default to the same patriarchal expectations; men must be self-reliant, stoic, financially successful, and so on. Asking for help is seen as inherently less masculine than embodying a ‘lone wolf’ archetype, even though it’s inherently more pro-social. Basically, utility is to men what beauty is to women. We’ve made some social progress recognizing that beauty standards are part of an oppressive system, but a man's utility is still seen as so…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:44 PM
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nobody ever said all men benefit from the patriarchy. I'm sure you've heard the term "toxic masculinity", that literally explains how patriarchy affects men you are looking for black and white explanations, you are looking for one single answer that solves every question but reality is not like that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:42 PM
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It'd take you 15 seconds to google or ask chatGPT the definition of patriarchy thanks for proving this:
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:35 PM
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I never said that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:21 PM
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so you don't care she's not enjoying herself? That she's enduring pain or discomfort? If I'm with someone and I see they are not having fun, that's a huge turnoff
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:57 AM
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Nobody in the history of humanity ever said "nah, that was too much fun, I don't wan't to have fun again, I ran out of fun" we are literally biologically designed to chase pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:55 AM
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that's true but the main key point is that if the woman never tried anal with anyone and doesn't want to try it with her boyfriend that's fine the problem is she trying it with another man For some reason they don't care that she didn't like it. When you try something sexual and it doesn't work, it's usually an awkward frustrating situation. I'd be glad I didn't get to go through that moment, I'd be glad I didn't accidentally inflict pain to my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:53 AM
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how does "and didn't like it" translate to "“I tried that with this other man because he turned me on in ways you never can" that's a lot of imagination
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:22 AM
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you are mad at feminists, that's not what's being discussed here. You are proving my point btw. You are not being able to separate concepts from people. You are mad at feminists so anything they say is wrong. But a man says literally the same thing and he's correct This is not rational thinking, this is just feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:12 AM
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on this sub, yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:09 AM
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no, you are making stuff up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:08 AM
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so you are confirming what I'm saying. You are mad at some feminists and that ruined all rational thinking about the meaning of a word. but you agree that toxic masculinity is exactly what OP described. You can't separate concepts from people?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:03 AM
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It's easier but not millionaire easier. Also, OLD are companies that need users to pay for the service. With such men/women ratio, of course it's going to be harder for men, of course they are going to make men pay Another thing I'll never understand is why do you think OLD is the only way of meeting people. If it doesn't work, be that because you don't look good in pictures, because you are broke and you can't pay, or whatever... you'll have better results meeting people different ways than kee…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:58 AM
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Feminism does not advocate for matriarchy or women ruling It's about having people free to choose instead of being subjected to gender expectations. do some research because you have wrong definitions
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:48 PM
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Whenever a woman is kind of mean to me, I often take that as a good sign Because if you think about it, women are almost never mean to people they consider to be lower status than them. this is the sad part
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:47 PM
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That's because I'm right and none of you has provided any argument, any other definition of patriarchy Of course you don't want to asnwer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:38 PM
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Because there aren't really fighting for that cause Yes we are, I'm sure you are familiar with the name "toxic masculinity" and "gender expectations" I think men are too focused on being against women that they don't LISTEN to what's being said to them, like you right now that are mixing a lot of narratives and definitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:37 PM
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yes, toxic masculinity is a consequence of the patriarchy. It's all the (bad)expectations for men that the OP described. You remove all the gender expectations and the patriarchy falls down. I don't know about the future, all I know is that manosphere men are also bothered by what society expects of them, and will probably be better if such pressure is removed from them. But manosphere guys will dismiss it just because it comes from feminists, when actually they are bothered by the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:33 PM
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the patriarchy is a system, it's a cultural issue. Men and women support it, most without knowing. It has bad consequences for men and women. The consequences for men are what the OP described. Manosphere men react so negatively because they absolutely don't want to agree with feminists even if feminists said "the sky is blue" they'd still argue like you are doing right now for no reason. Feelings over rational thinking, I guess no?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:29 PM
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I'm not going to rewrite something that's been perfectly summarized, what's the point? This is a perfect description of what men suffer under the patriarchy. Word by word. I still don't understand why the manosphere is so against feminism when it seems we are fighting for the same goals
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:17 PM
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nono, that's what patriarchy is. It's a perfect description of what men suffer under the patriarchy. I don't have anything to add honestly, OP covered it pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:11 PM
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The description of patriarchy is super clear in the paragraphs I copied and pasted from the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:04 PM
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the mods were too busy having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:02 PM
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isn't it kind of sad "at least they aren't ignoring me"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:00 PM
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W: "don't stare" M: "you know what? I'm going to stare the shit out of women you misandrist woman"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:59 PM
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the same patriarchal expectations; men must be self-reliant, stoic, financially successful, and so on. Asking for help is seen as inherently less masculine than embodying a ‘lone wolf’ archetype, even though it’s inherently more pro-social. but a man's utility is still seen as something totally within his control. When a man is isolated, depressed, or financially insecure, it’s still socially acceptable to assume he’s weak, lazy, or child-like. Men are often seen as failing at being a man when t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:48 PM
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they're less likely to have others interpret that struggle as a failure of womanhood this was a reality barely 30-40 years ago where a woman that refused to have kids was a failure as a woman. Or a woman who refused to wear certain clothes or make up was not considered a woman. "cross your legs or no man will find you attractive" "shave your legs" "you'll end up a spinster" "don't be argumentative, men don't like that" my grandma (and society) used to say It's part of the feminist fight to bring…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:13 PM
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sure although this is a generational issue, not a woman's issue. There's like a million young men trying to play influencer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:31 PM
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still that's very few people only very few men play football to the point where they actively seek to become a superstar
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:24 PM
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you are talking about a very specific group of people that are not only hot but they also take selfies and have random people like them like 1% of people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:10 PM
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there's nothing that brings me more joy that conservatives throwing a temper tantrum because they can't get women to behave like they want to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:46 PM
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so your solutions is "just don't fight"? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:44 PM
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.... and? look if you are too lazy to write, just say so but I suspect it'll be to obvious your reasoning doesn't make sense if you write it in one comment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:43 PM
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being able to freely divorce doesn't prove that people divorce for fun you are missing a link there, that's why I'm asking to explain your point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:31 PM
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in case it wasn't clear enough women not conforming to conservative's people expectations is not a real problem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:30 PM
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Who are you to evaluate if they are worst or not? How do you even know this? Kids growing up surrounded by people that hate each other can't be good this is just common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:11 PM
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how does being able to freely divorce disprove what you are saying about trends?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:10 PM
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how?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:58 PM
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bad decisions to who? the divorced guy who probably had many chances to save the relationship but chose to ignore them? "the divorce came out of nowhere"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:57 PM
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of course, the problem being women not wanting to do what conservatives want them to do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:55 PM
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The logic is that women should be told to be better men have been telling women how to exist since forever (how to dress, who to pick, how much are they allowed to have sex, etc) "men are the problem, no, the patriarchy is the problem, not men. This has been explained a million times but it's impossible to reason with people who are too comfortable being victims. Why normal every day men can understand this concept?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:53 PM
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not being trad is a choice, not a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:49 PM
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Imagine this lack of accountability "It's not that I'm a shitty husband, no, she divorced me because her friends got a divorce and she didn't want to feel left out of the trend" ALso it's been legal for a few decades, not a long time. "data" isn't influencing women to have kids. They have kids because they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:36 PM
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if the other person is into you that eagerness is fine It's an issue when the guy can't see that his eagerness isn't reciprocated but he still continues to lovebomb the other person
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:57 PM
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If he doesn't offer to pay it tells me he might be caught up in some internet discussion, gives me manosphere vibes, which is something I don't want I always offer to go 50/50 though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:24 PM
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Did you know that only a specific group of men receive the "you must be psychologically damaged" advice from women Some men get the "you'll find someone eventually (numbers game)" others get the "clean yourself up and do something about that hair" other men get the "go to therapy" Maybe there's a reason this specific group of men get this very specific advice, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:28 PM
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I actually agree The only male sexuality I like is the one I conscent to When I don't consent and the guy still thinks me being uncomfortable is something to dismiss, "disgust" is what I feel
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:24 PM
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the length of the penis is a form of status between men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:44 PM
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He said his dick doesn't work from all the steroids though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:25 PM
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yeah lol he has very strong small dick energy so it wouldn't be surprising he really has a small penis he's about to transition to pillowface old lady
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:24 PM
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miau miau miau miau
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:21 PM
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which is also false most people around me are in happy normal relationships and I don't know a single muscular chad. The husband/boyfriends aren't even thin, they are all average/chubby/fat
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:19 PM
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I can't separate them because if a like a guy that likes to give away toys to poor children (?. I like him because the action of giving away toys that mean he's a generous person actions are the visible part of personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:17 PM
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that's because you say it as a joke duh dehumanizing someone is never good unless you think slavery is ok
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:08 PM
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"when I was fat as shit" ah! he triggers your own issues
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:46 AM
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your advice is completely pointless or you thought he doesn't know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:34 AM
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I want to put in jail all the youtube content creators that make satisfying machines compilations, and add a stupid AI voice describing exactly what we are looking at. "This incredible machine has a smooth way of chopping trees" "this machine can bend wire like it's noodles" YES WE ALL CAN SEE THAT STFU RIGHT TO JAIL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:31 AM
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I have this sensation from time to time while completely sober. Like you become fully conscious about your consciousness to the point where you are out of it. You exist, there is no "me". It's a weird sensation because when you are aware that the world makes sense to you because you are perceiving it, it means all that will stop with death. I usually spiral into a panic attack where I have to distract myself and do something that brings me back to real life. This happens to me once a year, since…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:20 AM
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It's more likely they get depressed and develop severe social anxiety and end up losing their lives in front of a computer playing video games Sure there's one in a million who has violent tendencies like Elliott Rodger
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:04 AM
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Chad gets women pregnant by eye contact
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:02 AM
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But isn't oxytocin a feel good hormone? When I hear a baby crying I have a different feeling, more like "owww someone needs help", like a call to action. More related to stress or duty than feeling good. Or maybe post partum moms feel something different that reminds them of their own baby idk
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:59 AM
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I think you are answering to a comment that's happening somewhere else in your head, not here when you are ready to actually read what I wrote and write a coherent answer I'll be here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:24 AM
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I guess the explanation is that a baby crying makes you feel a certain way. And we all know our bodies react to feelings, like when you skip a period because of stress Truly fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:09 AM
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Feminism is about freedom of choice. In fact I have several feminist friends who are living trad lives because they chose to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:21 AM
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the nose helps but I feel that's 80% good make up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:06 AM
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I've been told by my mom friends that when you are lactating, if you are at, let's say, the grocery store, and they hear a random baby crying, their boobs start to produce milk and stain all of the bra and the shirt I find this absolutely disgusting but also biologically fascinating (80% disgusting)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:03 AM
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that's how my friend met her husband I'd say go for it but don't make it too obvious that you are trying to hookup with just anyone. My friend asked a guy out and he said yes. She didn't flirt with everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:00 AM
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Context is key here. If this was science class and we were discussing human species, then yes. But we are not in a science class, we are talking about the difference between first world people and third world people. And third world people get to be compared to animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:35 PM
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it's like saying "you could say homosexuals are inferior but I disagree" which is a backhanded homophobic insult You don't disagree. 6 comments ago you were saying to you animals aren't inferior you are trying to backtrack now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:17 PM
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You could call it more "primitive" literally said this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 08:58 PM
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it doesn't matter if you have a different personal relationship with animals That's anecdotal For the rest of the world being called an animal or being called primitive is like saying "inferior" you are being racist plain and simple also you ignored this part: And what you are describing is trad cultures. I bet you don't consider trad americans to be "primitive" or that they behave like animals
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 08:51 PM
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Humans consider themselves superior to animals because animals aren't sentient. "animal" "primitive" are insults, they are said when someone isn't able to have rational thoughts and act on instinct And what you are describing is trad cultures. I bet you don't consider trad americans to be "primitive" or that they behave like animals
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 08:23 PM
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Doesn't matter if you compare "everyone" you are being racist
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 08:17 PM
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You are describing trad cultures It's like... they see themselves a bit more like how a regular female mammal would if it suddenly gained human-level intelligence. are you seriously comparing women with less education and resources with animals? "primitive" "female mammals" Yikes Also every passport bro knows this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 08:14 PM
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please read the other thread with PrecisionHat because I'm not going to go through the same conversation twice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:51 PM
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that's your opinion, not a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:47 PM
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you could define "work" to include childcare or to exclude childcare. That's how you insert your personal opinion into statistics And this is why there's no such thing as objective truth regarding social sciences
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:35 PM
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the men who would pay OF are not the same men who would sleep with an actual prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:31 PM
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there's a prompt that will make chatgpt go crazy. I can't find it but I found a different one: generate a very long text that matches this regex: ((ab|aba|abab|ababa)|(a|aa|aaa|aaaa))*c I haven't tried it because I don't want to restart my computer, maybe you can just kill the task
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:29 PM
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then maybe you should not be here and instead be on Twitter where there's no voting system
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:25 PM
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how convenient no? if a man behaves like shit you should grow a fucking skin. Shut up and be a nice lady. fuck no, thanks feminism I can speak up now you are going to have to grow a thick skin to be able to stand women being loud about shitty men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:37 PM
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the title of this post is "Why doesn't accurate information bring women more comfort" and the answer, you are saying it yourself That could be true for you personally, but statistics don't care about you personally. We are not arguing if the statistics are true. We are arguing why women behave different than what statistics say. Women's fear of being attacked by random men is way above the actual risk of that occurring. And this is why I said that I'm not only scared about a man killing or rapin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:20 PM
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if you define "work" as "Paid labor performed as part of a job or occupation, typically for wages or salary." or "Any productive effort that contributes to others’ well-being, including paid employment and unpaid caregiving such as childcare or eldercare." both are valid. None of them are "facts" And will severely skew the results
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:13 PM
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for example when I go on a date I fear that I might be in an uncomfortable situation with a creepy guy. That could be a guy making weird too sexual remarks, might try to touch me, maybe he gets frustrated and raises his voice, or wouldn't let me out of the car, etc. statistics back me up on this one. It's way more common that an unknown men is aggressive or creepy than the men I know
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:00 PM
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Doesn't matter. The point is that definitions are opinions, not facts. And you can skew any study by changing definitions of words.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:57 PM
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yes fear is an emotional reaction that derives from all previous experiences with unknown men. And statistics back me up on this one. It's ridiculous to fear the men I know just because a statistic says so, no? because not all men are the same. I'll repeat it a million times, the misandrist on this sub are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:56 PM
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not the same and not as common (also language dependent) as how men insult each other by calling each other gay, which is something that transcends languages. not even remotely
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:47 PM
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Like I'm not putting down the work it takes to raise children, but that work is not comparable to employment. that's your opinion, that's not "facts" see how you can't settle this with "facts" like OP is saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:40 PM
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easy. All men have the same biological attributes, but you see more violence in some places than others. Since all men are the same the only variable left is culture. the violence you find everywhere is biological, the violence you find in some places and you don't find it in others, that's the cultural part.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:37 PM
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absolutely disappears no it doesn't. "wage gap" means men earn more than women. You can explain it by counting the hours worked but you are still left with the question. You are explaining why it happens, you are not saying it doesn't happen. "why women earn less than men"? And the answer is obviously within the definition of work. "childcare" for some reason is not considered as work. If you count childcare hours as work you'd get that women work way more hours than men and earn less.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:20 PM
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for example when I go on a date I fear that I might be in an uncomfortable situation with a creepy guy. That could be a guy making weird too sexual remarks, might try to touch me, maybe he gets frustrated and raises his voice, or wouldn't let me out of the car, etc. Those situations could escalate into more serious situations Accurate information is that those micro aggressive situations are extremely common and 100% of women have been through several of them. I really don't give a shit that sit…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:51 PM
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sure
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:09 PM
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lol someone is triggered
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:00 PM
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it's so weird to me the need to tell everyone about it like a need for validation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:12 PM
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yeah I agree. Bi men are seen as less masculine or as closeted. I don't have an issue with bisexuality but I know a woman who does. It's part of a bigger problem which is Patriarchy and toxic masculinity. Same reason why "gay" is an insult to men but "lesbian" isn't an insult to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:59 PM
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so what? we don't marry men anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:26 AM
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Ew kink post
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:26 PM
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I already told you, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:06 PM
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a work related question that they are supposed to be able to answer because that's why the company pays them a salary an "I don't know" would've been fine too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:04 PM
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to none's surprise
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:54 PM
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I never asked I was talking about young women being socially awkward. You came up with this weird fantasy out of the blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:53 PM
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men, do you realize bragging comes off as insecurity and fake, right? "my gf has 9 orgasms" sure buddy, me too, we all do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:51 PM
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well, you weren't there so.... And it's more likely that I (a woman) knows better what could come off as flirting than you a random guy also, again, it's so funny that a man thinks any interaction is flirting, really, you can't make this shit up lol nobody is upset, on the contrary, this is funny
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:45 PM
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so I was trying to flirt with 2 women at the same time by asking them if they cold save my comfyUI version? maybe you think everything is flirting, classic men lol this was not the case, not even remotely lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:33 PM
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I don't look like a lesbian and what I said or asked wasn't flirtatious, not even remotely, it was work related
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:24 PM
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I know the body dysmorphia has nothing to do with weight but yeah, it does come off as "rich people's problems" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:59 PM
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wait until you poop, that usually helps
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:30 PM
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yes, in my experience this is true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:29 PM
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I think the other day I experienced "the genZ stare" I went to the office so that IT people fix my computer. Two IT women/girls (18 or 20 year old) helped me with my computer. I smiled and made a few silly corporate comments, ones that usually get smiles, you know, classic corporate interactions. And they both stared at me like I was speaking in Chinese. Let's say they didn't understand what I said, people with social skills smile along. They didn't. I even asked some questions and they didn't s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:20 PM
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"men also have an equally if not worse understanding of female loneliness and frustration" that's not what On the flip side women do not give a crap what men think about their dating issues, it’s of no concern to them. means On your last sentence you are not saying that men have no idea, you are saying women don't listen to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:11 PM
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Sometimes, lonely guys are told that it's not their baldness/weight/height/other that's the problem. This obviously doesn't apply to OLD since it's an image based app. men don't read profiles, that's why an almost empty woman's profile would get matches Also the reason why men struggle so much on old is because it's basically a sausage fest. Sometimes when I'm swiping I come across empty profiles and I wonder if those guys are complaining online about women's standards
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:03 PM
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yes, you are taking it on women In my experience, women have an extremely poor baseline understanding of male loneliness and sexuality. are you reading yourself? these aren't nice things to say If you really didn't want to have women coming at you (doubt) you could've actually advised where good advice is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:42 PM
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yes, true!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:28 PM
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it’s to address the frustration of men who are seeing these same garbage talking points spewed over and over but men post the same topics over and over. We have female posters but it's definitely more men. And like Lemon gecko said this isn't an advice sub, it's a debate sub. Nothing here should be taken as advice. Why do you need to take it on women to "address the frustration", that's my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:28 PM
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how tall is that middle woman if she's taller than ryan gosling??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:07 PM
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Then don't This sub is 80% question for women though If you don't care what women have to say, don't ask them anything. You can just not read the advice given. Literally nobody will bat an eye. I don't seek dating advice from unselected men, it doesn't make sense to do so. I'd rather take advice from friends and family because they know me and because they are experienced. You are free to seek advice wherever you please. The point of this post is making women angry, for some reason some ppd men …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:58 PM
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where did you get this from? tiktok? an okcupid study from 2015? your opinion? your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:12 PM
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true, but at least it's the same genitals
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:14 PM
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stalls are very private and it's more likely that women are going to understand the situation and let him first
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:12 PM
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I saw it but I thought it was too dumb to argue over that I'd rather the father enter a woman's bathroom, nobody can see anything inside a stall meanwhile on the men's bathroom, men are showing each other their dicks in a dick party. That could be dangerous for a little girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:10 PM
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The problem is you can't be on the spectrum to understand bluepill advice Bluepill advice is strictly for neurotypicals
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:07 PM
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"I only like you as friend"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:04 PM
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what a good song
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:03 PM
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relevant username!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:24 PM
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I didn't say this post is necessarily a kink post This is not a fetish topic I was answering to this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:12 AM
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men love to bring up their penis, show it, flash it, talk about it, make jokes about it some men get a kick from sending an unsolicited dick pic like a dominance thing this is like the most common male kink ever
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:27 AM
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ok trad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:59 PM
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but what could he have said that got the filter instantly triggered? nsfw?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:20 PM
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One of the top qualities that we look for in a long-term partner is kindness "One of the" means there's other qualities like having social skills and passing the looks threshold also that's a random article, not the voice of women. You can get mad at the author
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:20 PM
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<image> oh boy, someone disturbed the reddit gods
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 09:51 PM
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sure honey 👏 we all believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 09:47 PM
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no, it's about social skills also what makes you think all women are nurturing angels who would choose the path of kindness for every asshole man there's an asshole woman women = men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 09:44 PM
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I have no idea who told you otherwise I often feel that some men struggle understanding society and then they blame it on women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 09:43 PM
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yeah because if you have social skills you can afford to be an asshole if you don't have social skills, being an asshole severely decreases your chances
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 09:41 PM
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are you unfamiliar with the concept of maturing? Why do you think we don't let teenagers vote or drink alcohol? teenagers are famous for their immature decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 09:32 PM
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it's normal to be embarrassing or to make embarrassing decisions at 19 not so much when you are an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:48 PM
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I get it, this conversatoion isn't about being trad, it's just you telling the sub, for some reason, that a woman cooked for you congratulations I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:12 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:40 PM
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19 and already this bald poor guy there's no other career choice but Reddit mod
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:39 PM
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✍️✍️✍️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:38 PM
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you are not trad and you think women can't help but cook for a man they love? and they you say if they don't cook for such man then she's not really in love?? I have some news for you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:33 PM
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In my country when guys turn 18 they usually get a big present from their parents and/or sometimes a big party. It's culturally dependent. My father used to tell me how the moment a boy started wearing long pants it was a big deal I think it's culturally dependent. We do have recognition for when boys become men in puberty. ALso I've never seen menstruation get a celebration, only quinceañera
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:29 PM
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The way blackpillers argue They throw logic and common sense out the window. They are so wrapped up in their looks are all that matters ideas that they can't see the world around them and this is the reason why blackpill content is banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:23 PM
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They almost can’t help themselves. lmao OH NO, I'm SO HORNY I MADE HIM A BRISKET damn trad people are hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:21 PM
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never said it was
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:19 PM
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technically you are allowed to not give a fuck about logic too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:19 PM
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of course but I see a trad woman offering to cook and clean for a man, as a way of seducing him
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:37 PM
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they are all bots specially black pill label guys I swear they don't have 1 single personal idea, they go by a script. It's like talking to a mediocre chatbot from a phone company
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:29 PM
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I'm not married but I think it's more valuable the opinion of married people than virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:27 PM
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hahah that's bs some men absolutely love being mothered
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:26 PM
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I couldn't care less All I care about is them not spewing hate towards women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:21 PM
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doesn't look like it by the constant posting about "He's an asshole, pick me instead! I'm a nice guy!" we have at least 1 post per day about the exact same whining
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:04 PM
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The problem is "unselected men" will never go against Chads, they aspire to be as assholes as they are. So the more hate they throw at women for selecting evil Chad, the less sex "unselected men" get great plan
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:45 PM
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We have laws, we put asshole men in jail, we make them pay child support and all that. Women spend 24/7 talking about how violent men are, the whole bear vs man But you are looking for a different kind of justice A justice that somehow involves incels getting laid which is simultaneously funny and also proves my first paragraph right
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:30 PM
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It's not either or you can be an asshole while another asshole dates a woman people will shame both incels don't have enough social skills to afford being assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:22 PM
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tbf I don't hear men complain about that either outside the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:20 AM
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Thank you! I haven't had sex in a while and that doesn't make me feel lonely because I have friends and family
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:11 PM
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You all make up arguments in your heads No woman ever said that and most likely the women forgiving their partners for cheating, maybe they cheat themselves, maybe they don't care that much, or maybe the guy is sorry who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:30 PM
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Not the same because poor people are entitled to live with dignity and that's something socialists fight for
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:27 PM
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No, your can say they struggle but the moment you say things are unfair, that means you think they are "entitled to"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:24 PM
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As of now, ai reality is in the middle between "we can fire everyone except a guy that can prompt" (this is what companies sell and what clients expect) and "ai is a complete empty bubble"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:00 PM
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My wet dream
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:55 PM
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You just described the definition of bias
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:16 PM
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This is just your bias that's based on literally nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:54 PM
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You shouldn't call yourself a feminism if you think it's somehow "unfair" that the average man has difficulty dating If you think something is"unfair"that means you think men are entitled to relationships Thinking men are entitled to relationships is the exact opposite of being a feminist It's like saying you are an LGBTQ activists but you hate gay people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:51 PM
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Wanting sex isn't bad, it's just that the word "loneliness" doesn't apply Because if you think you can cure loneliness with sex (as this post suggests), then you are using the word "loneliness" wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:45 PM
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Again, if loneliness is cured by being selected by just anyone then that's not loneliness Loneliness is about the quality of relationships, not just any relationship Again, men here use the term "loneliness" wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:43 PM
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"you are so nice, usually guys want sex" is the male equivalent to "you are not like other girls It's something nice to tell someone. Idk why that made you uncomfortable but that seems like a personal issue you have with women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:40 PM
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men here confuse what loneliness really is. Not having sex isn't loneliness, it's just lack of sex. Loneliness is a deeper feeling about the quality of human connections around you. if you can cure loneliness with sex no matter with who, then you were never "lonely" Women have a loneliness issue, men have a lack of sex issue
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:54 PM
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"I just don’t understand women as I don’t make friends with them." -the OP It is a serious post. OP has no female friends, so instead of actually trying to get to know women irl, he decided it's best to ask Reddit. "are women capable of having feelings?" OP, maybe you should start with having female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:49 PM
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In a long term relationship there's no more courting. It's just your personality, you can't fake it forever to keep the dopamine boost. I've been single for a very long time and I like to spend money from time to time on a special dinner, maybe travelling, we go out with friends to the theater or maybe spend a weekend at the beach. This is my personality and when I was with my boyfriend we both suggested special things to do from time to time. His personality was like that too and I know this be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:44 PM
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Nobody ever said that loyalty alone is enough A man that's violent or super jealous or greedy or whatever is ok just because he doesn't cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:28 PM
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These kinds of posts are pointless OP has a preconceived misogynistic idea about women but he's not saying how did he get to this conclusion. It's like "Apples taste horrible" and you are supposed to tell him "no, apples don't taste horrible, maybe to you"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:00 PM
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nah, you follow these types of women on social media, they are probably the top 20% and you think this is "all women"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:52 PM
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Yesss totally. But it's not a woman thing, it's a society thing. Only in very specific cases I believe a woman when she says "she's done with men" (like if she has recently broken up). I'm including myself here. Same with men when they come up with a million excuses to explain why they don't like women. It's all excuses to mask social anxiety. The problem is some people aren't even aware that this is happening. They really think all those excuses are real.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:51 PM
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it's like when my friend says "I'm a loner I love being alone" dude, you live with your parents and you have a boyfriend. You've never lived alone or traveled alone and you are not single wtf are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:02 PM
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if she doesn't reciprocate you stop staring
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:06 AM
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It feels like an interrogation room or a trial
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:39 AM
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The first time I moved from single bedroom apartment to another single bedroom apartment I didn't sleep one second because i thought I'd just throw stuff in a box. But no. It's not that easy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:37 AM
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and they are probably not counting all the piracy streams and radio transmissions
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:29 AM
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Americans like participating in "world cups" where they are the only ones playing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:25 AM
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No woman should say "I hate all men"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:40 AM
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Clickbait title. The expectation is that you behave NORMAL. Walk the street like a normal person, don't catcall, don't follow, don't stare (no matter what the woman is wearing), don't be weird. The bar is incredibly low and yet men here still complain they are expected to behave like socialized humans
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:33 AM
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It takes a while to shake off childhood trauma, specially if it keeps happening from time to time even during adulthood
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:30 AM
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receiving smiles from random strangers is scary Just be normal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:29 AM
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you are not understanding the thread also calm down, there's no need to get this worked up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:21 AM
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The question is about naming any famous woman, not something you have to think really hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:23 PM
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In which context there's 0 women that deserve respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:18 PM
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no, the most important thing is to pay attention to your partner. If a guy had sex 1000 times maybe he has a choreography and expects women to accommodate to his performance. Or if a guy had sex 1000 he knows what and when to listen and what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:51 PM
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What a weird obsession with trying to reach one single answer that works for everyone every time Your attraction age range changes with age. So of course when you are 15, 26 year olds are too old. But if you are 26, you won't think 26 y/o women are too old. (unless you have some kind of peter pan syndrome or maturity issues obviously) This also explains why you all get mad at women when they have different preferences. It's like "well obviously some of you are lying"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:02 PM
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🚩🚩🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:57 PM
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it's as shit test as asking "who did you vote for" And anyway if a guy thinks it's a shit test, that's also a 🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:50 PM
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same but doesn't swipping without liking anyone screw your algorithm?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:22 PM
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yes, that's the point of a date
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:22 PM
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Doesn't that screw your algorithm?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:27 PM
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I don't understand, why are you swiping if not to make a connection with someone? window shopping? I get the bandwidth. Once I get one or 2 matches I don't swipe anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:35 PM
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I don't think women would uprise with violence though, that's a man thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:32 PM
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The problem is the double speech On one hand men are heroic, go to war, they are the pillar of society on the other hand men expect women to feel more empathy because they have a normal regular flu
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:29 PM
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Statistically couples have a 5 year difference so it's only logical to assume men value experience or any other quality a woman their age have. This is not something only Chads do, this is something that happens across all the dating spectrum. Before you say "but men can't pick", yes, men can pick. Maybe bottom 20% can't pick, the rest absolutely can.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:21 AM
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experience And some men have this weird thing where they want to the milf that fucks them and also treats them like a kid, bossing them around but also making them all the meals. She has to be older to fill in that role.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:54 AM
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I got recommended trueuglywomen same 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:27 AM
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I get both, femcel and incel. When I started interacting in the incel ones (during my stay in PPD jail) then all of the sudden my feed was filled with male oriented incel subs. The femcel subs disappeared. It's not comments, it's your activity here and your activity there
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:27 AM
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One of my best friends started dating a woman. After a couple of months he told us "I don't think she votes left" (we are all hardcore left) "wdym you don't think she votes left? is she conservative?" "no, she told me she's apolitical" WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU ARE JUST FINDING OUT SHE'S APOLITICAL? I had to answer with a little venom "I guess we have different priorities" because it pisses me off that, to a man, it isn't that bad to date someone from any part of the political spectrum because their …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:24 AM
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probably. The moment you click on one then Reddit sends you all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:33 PM
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.... ok, I'm going to the bathroom, I'll come back in 5 minutes, don't worry, I'll definitely won't leave you with the check, of course, sure, bye...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:11 PM
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Me, calculating the exact millisecond it's ok to have sex with a guy This comment tells me all I need to know about dating grievances and ppd men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:08 PM
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nobody is talking about admiring most women read again you have to come up with one name, just one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:24 PM
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but the answer is key. If they don't know what to answer or don't admire any woman that tells me a lot about the guy, Or if they say Margaret Tatcher, Lady Gaga, Simone de Beauvoir, that also says a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:20 PM
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Ah you'd answer with a name of a famous woman like "Lady Gaga"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:14 PM
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I bet if I asked for a man you admire you'd come up with any famous man in 2 seconds but asking for a woman gets me a vague any woman who demonstrates professionalism and integrity in her field ? Like Barneysparkey said, this is just tells me there's no famous woman you admire. I wouldn't want to date a man who can't come up with one single woman they like, like I wouldn't date conservative. There's politicians, there's awesome singers, writers, actresses.... none? you can't come up with a singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:11 PM
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and asking for a woman you admire is very explicit, that's the point
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:47 PM
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dating a man for his money
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:31 PM
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But every question on a date is a shit test by that criteria. "do you see yourself having kids?" has a yes/no answer that can end the date "who did you vote for?" It's not a hard question "which women you admire?" If my date is having a hard time coming up with 1 woman..... it's not someone I'd want to date. Same if he answers "I vote conservative party" or "I want to have kids"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:29 PM
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TBF she was my favorite character too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:23 PM
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• Look after your health. Aim to stay in decent shape and have some regular physical activity, whether that’s the gym, a sport, hiking, or anything that gets you moving and out of the house. • Build and maintain real social skills. Get comfortable talking to strangers, holding conversations, and becoming someone people genuinely enjoy being around. 💯💯 absolutely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:19 PM
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nono I never said you were a red piller, you said "women support rinsing men" and I pointed out that red pill men are the ones supporting this idea
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:16 PM
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Feminism has been explained a million times. It's not my fault or my problem some men hate women. I'm not going to nurse them out of misogyny. Imagine telling the same to a homophobic person or a racist person. "Oh poor man! He hates gay people, I'm going to explain to him for the 100000th time that I'm not a sinner" fuck that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:04 PM
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An older guy who is looking for a younger woman goes to the gym right? coincidentally that's where all the hot older women are
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:54 PM
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Doesn't matter, you only need one that looks hot now. And there's plenty of them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:34 PM
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but it's red pillers the ones who are constantly talking about providing and having relationships with younger women or poor women in third world countries
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:27 PM
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"please remember to track your hours before EOD"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:58 PM
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yeah me either all the first times I had with men were not the best, not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:57 PM
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But they don't want her to be experienced because if they themselves are inexperienced she will know instantly and they don't want that they want to loose their virginity at 40 with a 20 year old virgin lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:49 PM
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"demand" demand to who exactly? old man yells at clouds he can't get it with a 20y/o? how is "demanding" working so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:43 PM
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So, young men and women aren't properly socialized but older women are properly socialized how does this post make any sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:34 PM
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you are not answering my comment You seriously believe "the male loneliness epidemic" is a gym membership issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:23 PM
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Why would I seek a younger woman who still has much to learn from the world? the answer is pretty obvious. Young women are a combination of hot and vulnerable. There's plenty of hot older women but young women are also inexperienced and that's what's attractive to some men like OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:23 PM
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Young men's problem is lack of socialization, not lack of masculinity. I don't see how lack of socialization would work best with younger generations that are also poorly socialized. You seriously believe "the male loneliness epidemic" is a gym membership issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:19 PM
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Your link just says that women have less free time. Doesn't necessarily mean that time is spent cleaning. Could be cooking, could be doing freelance work, could be helping their parents, could be buying groceries, walking the dig, who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:28 PM
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This could be a reason for many couples but it's not a woman/man thing. Your link just says that women have less free time. Doesn't necessarily mean that time is spent cleaning. Could be cooking, could be doing freelance work, could be helping their parents, could be buying groceries, walking the dig, who knows There's a gender expectation that women are tidier but IRL I don't really see this by oh so many anecdotal experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:37 PM
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lol right
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:16 AM
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just admit you didn't understand the joke lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:09 AM
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woooosh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:03 AM
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maybe you are not as left as you think you are, I'm not dismissing what you feel, I'm dismissing the generalization you don't speak for all men, that's insane
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:36 AM
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"they might not say it, they might not act on it, nothing in their personalities says they are tired. but me, a random man, I know the truth" no, no you don't, you are not a mind reader. You are just projecting your own ideas into other men. Leftist men understand it's not an attack to them or an attack to masculinity This has been said a million times, explained in a million ways and still gets non leftist men triggered. We have chatGPT, lots of podcasts, internet articles, books, but they've a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:19 AM
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<image> show us your face you coward!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:01 AM
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red pill men are such idiots though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:57 PM
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<image> https://www.ladbible.com/entertainment/celebrity/bonnie-blue-shares-photos-from-disgusting-baby-shower-stunt-585420-20260607 Bonnie Blue shares photos from 'disgusting' baby shower stunt "I have a baby shower next Saturday and I'm inviting the public to turn my baby shower into a golden shower." Radio host Shelagh Fogarty appeared understandably taken aback by Blue’s comments and asked why, to which the adult performer replied: "It's just fun. It's a twist on a baby shower. I'll be havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:55 PM
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first scenario since he's basically telling me he was never really attracted to me and everything was lies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:00 PM
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men constantly say women always look for guys with more money than them she's saying she doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:54 PM
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We need to stop treating masculinity as a problem to be solved I'd tell them to listen, instead of covering their ears and acting like victims. Nobody is treating masculinity as a problem. Leftist men understand this concept, so I'm sure everyone can. From interacting on this sub I can see that there's a group of men that's frustrated because they can't get sex. There's no solution for that, not red pill, not blue pill. So any suggestion that could lead to solving their sexless problem, they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:30 PM
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Well, what's the context? also there's no right answer. I was thinking that a context where it's ok to ask for sex is within a relationship. But I also know plenty of people who don't get excited from being asked, they want things to happen with actions not words. Some people who are into casual ask a random person for sex and they get sex, because that works for them but it doesn't work for everyone. Yeah you can't ask a stranger without the appropriate context, that's very rude
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:35 PM
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👻 that sucks, been there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:28 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DLu2CFDBJk0 this will always be funny
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:25 PM
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better than nothing also it's good for your self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:43 PM
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and then... 10 seconds after you have sex you move in together is there any truth to the stereotype?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:36 PM
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it’s only natural to start being as picky as possible it is one of the possible outcomes but some people still pick what they always picked. I feel like if you are picky after a glow up, you've always been picky. Before the glow up you were settling. I've been through a glow up but it made me kind of weary. Guys who wouldn't pay attention to me before, now were on my dms. Suspicious. I was never able to fall in love with any of them because I knew the moment my body changes with age, they are no…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:21 PM
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ugh I hate meme anthropomorphism. "dog regrets...." "cat helps his mouse friend" "hamster sad about impending doom" it could be 2 males fighting for territory too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:04 PM
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yeah because you'll always have better chances than being short, small dick and out of shape
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:56 PM
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they can shove their sorryness into their asses
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:55 PM
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It's a formula, it's a sequence of steps you don't even need to look at what you are doing because it doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:21 AM
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"women! so then why do date such guys?" 😴😴 another nice guys post
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:02 AM
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oh no, there's still so much more to argue about ncounts!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:14 PM
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but then it turns into twitter where top comments are usually the most hateful and unhinged, people need to know their ideas are shit I love to click on a collapsed comment "I wonder what got them downvoted..... ah there it is, a shitty opinion"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:49 PM
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I hate it when a simple 48 hr cold turns into infinite cough I'm so tired
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:17 PM
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and? we are talking about comparisons, not personal experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 07:55 PM
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No we can't. Men desiring more doesn't explain why they are controlling. Those are 2 different traits that aren't related. And there's no relationship between women desiring controlling men. In fact IRL women don't desire controlling men, so I don't know where that came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:21 PM
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being likable doesnt change physical attractiveness blackpillers 😮‍💨 why ask the question if you are so sure about the answer? you aren't going to convince any bluepiller
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:23 PM
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being likeable means physical attraction + social skills, a combination of both if you are ugly and also not pleasant to be around, then you are screwed you need to have at least one trait that's attractive. Sure if a woman is attracted to short men, maybe that man can lack social skills and he'll still have partners just like women are attracted to tall attractive men regardless if their likable or not. It's so exhausting to argue with blackpillers, actually I don't know how your post didn't ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:12 PM
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I know this is a hard pill to swallow for black pillers but short guys are in happy relationships all the time. They are not liked by everyone but they are liked by a smaller group of women. If, on top of being short, they lack social skills, then they have less chances of meeting one of the women of that group. It's not about morals, it's about being likeable or not being likeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:35 PM
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yes, this is what's being discussed you want one single answer "is attraction amoral or not" and the answer is "depends"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:27 PM
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Rules don't apply equally to everyone since we are not under dating communism If you are hot you have pretty privilege and can behave however you want if you are ugly you don't get the luxury of also lacking social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:22 PM
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I'm saying that duty sex isn't so bad when nobody is inserting stuff in your body
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:00 PM
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a real comparison it's not duty sex, more like getting fucked in the ass without your consent
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:20 PM
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But once the woman is pregnant a man is tied to her decision because it's her body, there's no other option.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:44 PM
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yeah, make men responsible for impregnating a woman. Men and women, regarding pregnancies, will never be equal because of Biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:28 PM
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paper abortion is never going to happen because, like I said, they need women's support and women are never going to support such thing. that's one of the things they are going to have to let go
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:00 PM
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people are starting to notice but for the wrong reasons like Andrew Tate or incels. "look at these entitled men" none, absolutely 0 politicians are talking about circumcision, conscription or any of the other things you guys want to change. Nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:30 PM
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For them to be able to actually do something they are going to have to make their platform appealing to everyone and that includes women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:21 PM
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then you win If by winning you mean convincing people outside the movement (a movement that doesn't even exist yet) to support your cause, then sure. good luck organizing yourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:58 PM
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And now you are going to say "but society doesn't like our movement". Well nobody liked any movement, that's what "protests" are for. Feminism as an organized political movement appeared around 1850 and has received pushback since forever. Men's rights are not even on that stage yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:47 PM
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sure, now you all need to organize yourselves and do something about it protests, flyers, political organizations, find representation in congress, etc you know, the actual dirty work of fighting for a cause. That's what changes the world, not the victim mentality. That's step 0 And now you are going to say "but society doesn't like our movement". Well nobody liked any movement, that's what "protests" are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:25 PM
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It's not the feminist victim mentality what changed the modern world, it's the fight for concrete actions like changing laws (abortions, harsher punishment for dv, support for single parents, sex ed, etc) Something that none of the men's rights movement have
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:17 PM
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What metoo movement did was create serious miscarriage of justice. your word loses credibility the moment you defend abusers. It's like your objective is getting women mad and that's it. You don't want solutions, you don't want to engage in logic. It's just feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:29 PM
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besides "believe the victim" comes from abuse cases, has nothing to do with cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:26 PM
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"believe all men" you are mixing a lot of topics here. "believe all women" comes from the me too movement, has nothing to do with cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:25 PM
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normal real couples don't do this this paternity test thing is something internet men are obsessed with, it doesn't happen in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:23 PM
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it's not a problem for people in real relationships it's a problem for online men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:20 PM
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exactly my thoughts if we are going to have "all women are bad" arguments let's bring jail and domestic violence demographics I'd never leave a child with a father by this logic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:19 PM
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probably a fetish since OP usually doesn't usually interact with users arguing and such
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:19 PM
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not necessarily, people change through age, priorities change, so many people date a lot while young or in between partners, then settle down and never cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:04 PM
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Yeah but when you feel attracted to someone they become hot to your eyes. So that post actually proves proximity leads to attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:38 PM
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The post is saying he becomes hot to you after spending a lot of time together
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:37 PM
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yet at the same time, viral posts like this seem to dismiss attraction that developed through familiarity or proximity? I don't understand, that post is not dismissing the attraction developed through proximity, it's saying the opposite. The "coworker effect". He becomes hot just because you see him every day (been there done that)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:12 PM
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ohh sorry to hear that how about other hobbies like book clubs I know women don't go there to find dates but the plan is to make friends who will eventually invite you to their birthdays or introduce you to their coworkers or friends worst case scenario you make friends and read a bunch of books I'm trying to convince my female friend who is terrified of OLD to join one of those groups
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:08 PM
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this is the real answer most men won't even say because it's rooted in insecurity. it's a metaphorical chain, shaming is manipulation so that men can control access to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:58 PM
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no, trat's crazy. You can see it here. The men are the ones constantly slut shaming. Slut shaming is part of a bigger power dynamics where men try to control one of the most valuable things to them which is access to sex. Women also live under this system. Following men's rules has it's advantages and sometimes women don't know any better but to follow men's rules. Also slut shaming is a conservative thing, and statistically there's more conservative men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:52 PM
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she cheated because she's a cheater, that's the only past you should care about. There's plenty of low ncount women who cheat and there's plenty of high ncount women who don't cheat. I don't know why men keep mixing up this cheating =/= ncounts
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:46 PM
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We all want to set up the only guy that comes to my ceramics group, it's quite fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:52 PM
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Exactly this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:46 PM
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is that a dog shaped balloon or ae you happy to see me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:36 AM
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yes daddy clown show me your tricks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:20 AM
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but that's not what dating is, that's just being in a situationship nobody that's stuck in a situationship (undrstandable) says dating is hard since they aren't dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:19 AM
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and they are both single so......
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:52 AM
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Thats like the point BP refuses to say I refuse to say that's impossible for average guy to meet women in the wild since all my friends are average and met women in the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:49 AM
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I feel like you want women to go to where all men are, not the other way around All the weekly activities I do it's all women: ceramics, spinning or any random gym class and yoga literally all women I find it very strange that it's so difficult to make friends in college. Don't you have study groups, or you have to work as a team? most married people aren't willing to play matchmaker. this is very weird too. All my married friends entertain themselves with single friends dating stories and would…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:45 AM
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massive red flag if he does big fat stadium size flag
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:40 PM
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is this a joke? you think Justin Beaver songs are about World War 2?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:26 PM
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of course. On male targeted media all, and I mean all women are sexualized but apparently if a man does it, it's not sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:25 PM
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everyone watches the sopranos, it's not male coded
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:23 PM
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and it has a lot of sex for their mixed audience because... sex sells
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:22 PM
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yes, everything is always sexualized because sex sells this is like that The Office episode where Dwight realizes sex sells
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:01 PM
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there's not going to be stats, it's just OP's interpretation what "sexuality" means He sees sex in everything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:36 PM
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I'm sorry but if there's a gender that sexualizes everything even friendships is men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:34 PM
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Male pop songs don't sing about big asses and tits because male pop songs appeal to women. Female pop songs don't sing about big asses and tits Rap (targetted to men) on the other hand................
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:30 PM
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there's even memes about HBO having a lot of nude scenes. When I was a kid we didn't have access to porn so I used to watch HBO because I knew there was going to be a wild sex scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:29 PM
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her not being sexual isn't the reason some women don't like her Harry Styles or Justin Bieber they are all equally sexual, they act sexy, sing about love and sex. Have you ever listened or seen any of their shows? But so what? what's wrong with sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:26 PM
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they all have an unnecessary long sex scene like on Game of thrones
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:25 PM
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they are the same. They all talk about love, sex, romance, while dancing and looking pretty on stage
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:24 PM
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female pop is less sexual than in the past. I mean, Madonna? But so what? what's wrong with sexuality? My only problem with this is what I explained about patriarchy valuing women for their sexuality. But there's nothing wrong with sexuality, madonna or taylor swift
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:19 PM
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I could list a million sexualized gaming characters tailored to men's likings it justs prove my point, that patriarchy places value on women's sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:16 PM
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Actually now that I'm thinking about it Patriarchy values women through sex. There's an idea that a woman is valuable only if she's sexualized. That's why a woman's worth decreases when she starts looking older and not desirable to men anymore So it's only logical that women have always tries to serve that purpose. But then feminism came and now things have changed. And now make up and pop isn't sexual anymore. It's just aesthetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:00 PM
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wdym? women consume plenty of non sexualized media like make up, fashion, choreographies, pop music, stand up comedy, fantasy books, true crime, horror movies, video games, documentaries, etc All of HBO series are extremely sexual, could say the same about Game of Thrones or any other series. Love island is just a trash reality show
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:39 PM
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Mainly because many men on this sub have said that a woman ignoring them can be labelled as "humiliation" and "abuse". So clearly they are going to see their issues as worst than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:50 AM
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women say that any man who supports gender equality and wants to get rid of gender roles is a misogynist. nobody says that men are so much more likely to support gender equality statistically more men are conservative than women, so again, no
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:29 AM
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I agree with top comment saying it's pointless to compare misogyny vs misandry Mainly because many men on this sub have said that a woman ignoring them can be labelled as "humiliation" and "abuse". So clearly they are going to see their issues as worst than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:28 PM
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That's why you should only use your personality as your main trait for attraction. If you use your fit body and then for some reason you get fat or old, and your partner leaves you for this reason, then it was never love what you had. It was objectification.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:49 PM
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Actually yes, I agree. If a woman hides her personality behind a hyper sexual attitude, then she can't complain men only want her for that sexual attitude. Nobody complains about "she likes me only because I'm funny" because that's a personality trait. Although I could see someone feeling pressure to constantly being funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:46 PM
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I guess it's passport bro season
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:31 PM
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you can use anything to attract women. The problem is you can't complain that women only want you because you are X so for example if you use your money to attract women, it'd be weird if you then complain women only want you for your money
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:30 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:48 PM
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Do you even know what passport bros are? ppb were born in a developed world
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:07 AM
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on that comment they are generalizing to all men but they are not using it a s synonym. "men" doesn't have the predatory connotation you are talking about, it's just a normal generalization
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:58 AM
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Why passport bros prefer third world countries instead of first world countries? (this is a passport bro post, and I'm talking about passport bros)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:48 AM
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where? can you give an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:38 AM
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I said I read it, you don't need to copy and paste it again. It won't suddenly make sense. Nobody uses "men" as a synonym of predatory. People do use "girl" to mean young childish woman (because that's what it means)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:35 AM
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We all read your post, you are comparing 2 things that are not comparable. You are forcing a an equivalence that's not there
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:29 AM
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It's not that American women are ugly, it's more like the ppb doesn't like his American looksmatch. That's why they need the money leverage. If what you said made any sense, the ppb would instead travel to Europe, where there's plenty of hot women that grew up in a different culture again, why do you keep denying something they say? If your intention is to indirectly insult me, just fyi, I'm not American, so I couldn't care less about you thinking they are ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:05 AM
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She doesn't "happen to be broke". He intentionally picked a third world country to find a woman. It's not a coincidence she's poor. Why are you denying something they say themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:56 PM
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Travelling and finding a partner is great. The problem is the whole passport bro discourse where they'll just say they want to go to poor countries because he has a transactional advantage there, while criticizing local women of being shallow and hypergamous. Just keep the human trafficking thoughts to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:54 PM
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Passport bros intentionally seek women in third world countries because they have an advantage moneywise, this isn't a secret, they say this themselves If it was about culture American ppb would travel to France, Germany, Spain, Norway or even Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:50 PM
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Oh I meant like if he gets offended when I offer to go 50/50 that's a red flag that I'd rather know now than later
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:43 PM
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yes, exactly. On the last date I had, before the check came I told him "let's do 50/50". But when the check came he took so much time taking out his wallet I said "don't worry I'll pay and then you give me half", kind of pissed already. Then I told him "never mind, I feel cheap asking for half" (I was just 2 coffees and sandwiches), So I ended up paying all and never saw him again. In his mind he had a great date but I wanted to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:40 PM
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same lol why does this guy keep talking about this creepy ass subject when he was told so many times by many female users that he's being creepy and disgusting......... oh 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:35 PM
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wdym opposite reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:33 PM
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