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it used to be a hookup app but I've met so many people who went there to find a LTR and they found it. There's a section for "stable relationship"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 02:15 AM
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💖
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 12:51 AM
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fine, I won't
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 12:42 AM
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I want to complain about Tinder When you start using any OLD app, it shows you first all the Chads. Then after swiping for a while it starts showing the real men. For the life of me I can't get to those men. I've been swiping for a while. I even showed it to my friends. My friend "oh you are right they all look the same" It pisses me off so fucking much I also don't understand who tf cares that much about astrological signs that it's right there but you have to scroll like 4 miles to see if they…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 12:41 AM
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Like someone else mentioned under the bot, in the madonna/whore complex, a man doesn't want to commit to the "whore" and doesn't want to have wild kinky sex with a woman he'll commit to You need to find a type of man a woman just wants to have sex but doesn't want to commit. In your example the woman doesn't want to have sex or commit to the "nice guy". So I don't think it's a good example. And so many women want to commit to the guy that treats them like shit I don't know if there's a female ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 12:28 AM
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And that cultural alignment is precisely bonding over how cis hetero men are mysogynistic and homophobic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 10:34 PM
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double EW
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 08:47 PM
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there's no difference between you and farm animals I see
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 06:35 PM
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ew
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 06:34 PM
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that's the only thing I like about remote working. If I'm on a slow day I keep thinking "I could be cleanig the wardrobe right now"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 06:34 PM
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so by that logic I could say all men are rapists pedophiles "actually why would they confess their deep thoughts?" well, I'm not a mind reader neither are you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 05:50 PM
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They are, we are all at the same rallies, literally also you clearly don't consume any feminist/lgbtq content. All feminist podcasts and radio shows are full of gay people and openly support each other. There's plenty of gay people talking shit about hetero men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 05:06 PM
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yes, because you are trying to avoid the core of the discussion (the original topic) which is who is more homophobic men or women I already told you several times that there's no such thing as "different types of homophobia" homophobia is just homophobia
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 05:04 PM
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again, the day lgbtq people ally hetero men we'll talk we are talking about global movements, not your friend
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 04:58 PM
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what if the incel finds a gf and has kids? isn't it the same as a childfree woman changing her mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 04:56 PM
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you are arguing in bad faith. This thread is obviously comparing homophobia in men and in women "no but actually in women is different, not more, not less, different" no it's not different. It's just less.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 04:49 PM
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the day lgbtq people choose hetero men over hetero women we'll talk the argument "women are more homophobic I just can't prove it because it's subtle" is not an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 04:36 PM
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"it's growing" is not an argument we are talking about the present. The day lgbtq people ally hetero men we'll talk
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 04:34 PM
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we are all arguing the same shit I just proved you wrong and you don't like it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 04:26 PM
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this conversation is about who is more homophobic. Of course my answer is "men are worst"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 04:25 PM
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even with some women saying those things in the comments (conservative homophobic women exist, this is nothing new) still lgbtq people prefer hetero women over hetero men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 04:24 PM
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his initial comment said "Women are just more homophobic than men." I just proved you wrong. If women were more homophobic than men, then feminism and lgbtq wouldn't be allies and lgbtq people wouldn't prefer hetero women's company over hetero male
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 04:22 PM
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still "Women are just more homophobic than men." is absolutely completely false proven by the obvious fact that lgbtq people prefer hetero women to befriend and hang out. Also feminism and lgbtq movements have always been allies
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 04:15 PM
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Because historically women's purpose in life was to find a nice husband, get married and have children. Women needed to have that male support, more than a man needs a woman Romance novels are romatization of that situation
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 04:01 PM
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men use it waaaaaay more and also lgbtq people prefer to hang out with hetero women than hetero men. Feminism and lgbtw movements are allies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 03:56 PM
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I'm looking at the answers and they are not agreeing this is not a "deep down" thing, the comments are right there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 03:55 PM
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lgbtq people prefer hetero women, in general feminism and lgbtq movements are allies "women are as homophobic than men only they don't show it, happens deep down, nobody talks about it" seems like you are making up stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 03:35 PM
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then explain why gay men choose hetero women over hetero men to befriend and hang out
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 03:12 PM
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no that was men asking women for one week and women answering like some kind of gotcha The moment men stopped posting, women stopped answering. Men here, who do not care about gay men or lgbtq rights, they only care about hating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 02:58 PM
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men definitely use "gay" as insult way more than women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 02:31 PM
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no it's not. Childless women are taxed the same % as childless men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 01:34 PM
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women are not agreeing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 01:25 PM
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people don't have babies to avoid paying taxes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 01:23 PM
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This is obviously bait because you failed to explain why childfree women would be extent from taxes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 01:20 PM
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In the vagina 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 03:32 PM
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wingman!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 02:25 PM
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what do you mean it's not normal? People go silent from time to time???? what??? I can't even shut up during yoga
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 02:16 PM
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Just in case any of you was wondering how Louis Theroux looks without a shirt after a lipo <image> what a man 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 02:12 PM
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oh no the daily is not pinned
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 10:25 PM
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I'm like her. It's about the body movements and the fantasy This type of porn rarely has any close ups, it's usually wide angle continuous shot The shittier the camera quality the better Usually amateur
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 07:39 PM
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does the porn you watch happen to feature bigger guys? Actually no I like when the dick is hidden because it looks more real
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 07:35 PM
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Interesting There's no difference between male and female virginity loss Yet somehow women's first time gets romanticized even though men probably have a better time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 07:30 PM
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Do they? I feel like there's some people who live in easy mode but maybe the grass is greener. Like my friend. He has a group that does stuff for him But on the other hand he's unable to flirt with women because he's too shy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 07:27 PM
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Honestly no. I hate "front page" porn. I always have to search for specific niche roleplay stuff that focus on other things than hardcore pounding For example I find Johnny sins very attractive but I can't watch him doing porn. It doesn't turn me on at all. I call it "hetero man porn"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 05:34 PM
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Yeah absolutely. He pisses be off because he's me but worst. Why I'm never the one that can sit back and have people invite me to things. If I don't move things don't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 05:31 PM
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I have too low self esteem for that role 😔😔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 02:44 PM
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I do of course but I can't be the only one because it makes me feel unwanted if I'm the only one trying to organize stuff to do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 02:30 PM
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My group of friends (3) is dissolving because one of them has a girlfriend. She's cool but obviously they just met and do stuff together all the time Meanwhile my other friend is too passive and is one of those people who just sits around and waits to get invited to do stuff For some reason I'm more angry at passive guy. If he was normal we could keep the friend group afloat together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 02:15 PM
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That was a post from yesterday lol it's not a straw man, it's right there Today we have another guy quoting Andrew Tate like a wise man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 01:38 PM
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Op cites the lamest influencer men and expects to be taken seriously lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 01:33 PM
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OP: "women are awful dumb sluts" OP: "Hey!! why are you downvoting me?? you are hurting my feelings!!" some of you really struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 08:42 PM
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once she's in love he'll go "oh btw honey I don't have a penis" and it's going to be too late for her she's already trapped by emotions or "my penis has an eating disorder, sorry bb"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 08:37 PM
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That's what I thought How is an eating disorder related to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 08:36 PM
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you are right, that's literally the definition of patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 08:26 PM
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when the rage bait is too much it gets closer to kink posting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 08:24 PM
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they are harming you in a civil way but you don't like it... huh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 08:23 PM
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It's exaggerating a very common scenario where men act like little fragile whiny babies Their pain is always the worst pain
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 05:43 PM
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So if a man is not involved then she shouldn't have a kid? Does this a apply to situations where the man left the family?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 05:42 PM
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Expecting people on this sub to know about normal dating behavior was my mistake Imagine asking a guy on a third date to open his patient portal for lab results
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 05:40 PM
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Lol I guess you'll never know
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 05:37 PM
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this is such a good analogy old ai is very dream/nightmare like
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 03:02 AM
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hahah that's true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 02:12 AM
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I just realized I never ever had a dream about eating I've dreamed about food (specially if I go to sleep hungry) but not the actual act of eating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 02:10 AM
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accept this 🥇on behalf of mra's!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 02:09 AM
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men's rights activists are give better content though 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 01:59 AM
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Yeah obviously, I was making fun of the idea of leaving all contraception responsibility to men. It could work in a LTR but will absolutely not work when you are meeting someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 01:58 AM
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I just wrote the same In my local sub there was a woman complaining none of her classmates say hi to her. All comments were blaming feminism. "what if I say hi and then they accuse me of abuse". I kid you not. They blame feminism for their own lack of social skills, it's so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 01:57 AM
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the lamest excuse I see online is incels blaming feminism for their social anxiety
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 01:54 AM
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They complain about being settled for, then I see these sorts of posts Let's say this woman gets married, has a kid in a shitty relationship then she gets a divorce. They are not going to like that either And they also don't like single mothers in the dating pool Then they complain about birth rates All this type of man cares about is owning a woman to have sex with. The rest is just excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 01:51 AM
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So the alternative for this congresswoman is to have a kid in a shitty marriage only to get a divorce when the kid is 3? She chose to not go through that route. You do. Who cares about that woman's life, that kid's life or that dad's life, right? as long as she brings people to the world! talk about objectification....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 01:45 AM
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no matter what women do, they'll dismiss it remember the man flu is worst than giving birth
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 01:35 AM
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You know what makes women run away from men? all the shit you are saying in this thread lol just fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 01:34 AM
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you mean muscly guy? Every day strength has nothing to do with gym muscles. The strongest guy I dated was extremely skinny. He practiced aikido since he was a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 01:25 AM
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I have lucid dreams where I can fly and have sex with random people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 01:23 AM
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That's weird because it's been a long time since I don't express my frustraron in words on the main sub. Mods don't like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 11:50 PM
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I never said that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 06:06 PM
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they could be fake they could be old. Or you are going to tell me that normal people do a std screening every 3 months? As a general rule it's not a good idea to trust men you barely know so you should always wear a condom anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 06:05 PM
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I love that regular unhinged ppd is back, I got scared 2 weeks ago when there were so few crazy posts too weird or fetish posts are boring too rational are boring too It's a delicate balance
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:52 PM
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There's no incentive for a guy to temper a condom. There is incentive for a guy to try to not use a condom because it feels nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 03:51 PM
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but pregnancies in steady relationships aren't the problem here baby trapping is statistically very unlikely the problem are casual relationships or first dates if the man doesn't want to have kids, deffinitely should do something about it but it'll never make a woman relax and not take her own precautions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 03:38 PM
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it still doesn't change the early stages of dating or casual sex, where most unwanted pregnancies happen are you trolling? because I can't imagine that calling the clinic with your ons is a real possibility to you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 03:29 PM
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the risk is too much it will never be a smart thing to do to trust a man's word after only 3 dates
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:37 PM
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it will never be a smart choice to trust a man's word after only 3 dates
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:37 PM
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what
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:27 PM
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call the clinic? lmao patients information is private you can't just ask for lab results for random people also you'd have to ask during business hours sorry this is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:13 PM
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Reddit will make you believe this is something normal people do it's not people have sex with a condom to avoid STDs and also women maybe take also BC to avoid pregnancy because condoms could fail. You are proposing that people have sex without a condom from a third date? that's literally insane and irresponsible. Even if the guy shows all the paperwork (stds and fertility) nobody ever should trust a man you've met only 3 times. So you still need a condom anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:07 PM
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exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:36 PM
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Nobody asks for std tests before having sex on a third date and it's extremely easy to fake There's still a risk of stds, so we'd still have sex with a condom
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:36 PM
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that's great baby 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:25 PM
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He has to carry them around and casually bring them on a third date? Or we postpone sex until marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:23 PM
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yes, this is the best advice socialize as much as you can
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:15 PM
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"yeah baby I'm totally not fertile, I'd never lie to you, now can we have sex without a condom?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 12:53 PM
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ugh I took BC for heavy periods too. And after taking them for 5 years I got that issue fixed to the point where now my period lasts 3 days and I only need to wear everyday pads. Maybe give it more time? or switch brands? My BC didn't affect my libido. It kind of helped me in everything, cramps, depression and headaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:52 PM
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2 of my best friends are bi But the men arguing here aren't bi or are defending lgbtq rights, they just like accusing women of stuff this sub has always been very heteronormative
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:48 PM
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you should monetize your mind reading skills 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:38 PM
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You are obviously indifferent in the context of public transport, you are a liar lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:19 PM
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there's a difference between having money in mind while planning a family and valuing men for money people date and marry within their social class, poor people have the most kids, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:17 PM
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Do you feel DISGUST for all the people you wouldn't date? you are at a public transport. There's a pregnant woman, ther's an old lady, there's a 30 year old man. you don't want to date those people do you feel DISGUST towards them? lol isn't it a little bit dramatic?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 05:39 PM
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Do we really need money to feel worthy of being loved? no we don't It's not a common thing to value men for their money outside the manosphere
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 05:16 PM
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There's women posting about how bi men are disgusting? out of the blue? I don't believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:07 PM
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I already answered TWICE lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:05 PM
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I can tell you don't know what to answer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:44 PM
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There's a big difference though Men write posts shaming high ncount women. An unprompted hate. Nobody asked them, they just decided to write shitty things about sluts. There was a post on my local sub featuring a very hot singer's OF page. One of the men commented "she's too used for me". Why do men feel the need to shame women? On the other hand you'll never see women commenting or writting posts about how bi men are disgusting. That just doesn't happen. I do agree both are rooted in the same t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:40 PM
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that doesn't make sense, you are being obtuse because you need to make up things to hate women it's impossible you don't understand the difference between disgust and indiference
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:25 PM
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no they are not there's the whole catholic church shaming women for having sex freely
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:19 PM
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you say it like it's exclusive to men "Prince Charming" + kdramas
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:16 PM
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I already told you indiference
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 02:42 PM
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maybe you should monetize those mind reading skills
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 02:11 PM
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how? mind reading? it's just your imagination
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 02:10 PM
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again, that's your imagination
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 01:55 PM
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But, contrary to popular ppd belief, it's not that hard to have casual sex, to cheat, if your standards are low enough. So by that logic hot hetero men would be in the same category as bi men idk I've been cheated on by the ugliest mf lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 01:54 PM
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this reminds me of when incels here say they are victims of abuse when they only thing that's happening is that they are being ignored being ignored is not disgust and it's not abuse you are imagining how women feel but that's just your imagination
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 01:41 PM
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exactly. Women say they wouldn't date them not that they feel disgust
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 01:33 PM
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Once we were on vacation and had one of these flying against the light. We got attached because it was so huge and beautiful. After a few days we found it dead on the ground. That was sad until I realized it didn't have a head So, we were happy it had had sex and got to fulfill it's life purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 01:17 PM
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no that's not true bi people are more discriminated in lgbtq communities
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 12:58 PM
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So I can't support lesbians because I wouldn't date a lesbian?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 12:56 PM
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The bisexual men are raging at straight women for not considering them and it’s exhausting to read I don't even think this comes from bi men. It smells like it comes from incels accusing women of something. The same way they protest against women not liking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 12:51 PM
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my bisexual friend says every bisexual person needs to be in an open relationship because one gender doesn't satisfy them That sounds scary to me. Dating a bi guy only for him to suggest a non monogamous relationship But she's probably wrong and applying her way of thinking and lifestyle to everyone. By that logic nobody is ever fully fulfilled by the person they are with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 12:49 PM
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they look so beautiful and delicious (this gave me the idea of making some during the weekend)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 12:44 PM
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100% agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 12:30 PM
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"our farm" actually sounds better than "my farm"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 12:30 PM
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then why do you keep replying? I think you do care what other's think
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 12:28 PM
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Sounds like you are not really a feminist. "I'm a feminist but I think women are fully respected like men" "I'm a vegan but I eat eggs"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 01:50 AM
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Then why do you argue that assertive women are considered bossy bitches when that's feminism 1.0? again, something doesn't add up you say you are a feminist, that you admire women yet you don't agree with one of the most basic things feminism says?? mmmm it's such a classic, that's why I said "this tells me everything I need to know"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 10:16 PM
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If you admired women you'd be a feminist or at least respect the feminist fight no? And what feminism talks about constantly is the patriarchy, which is exactly accepting that competitive, assetive women, are considered bitches something just doesn't add up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 09:59 PM
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who are you to say that having a job, going to the gym and eating protein is masculine? Let me remind you women started going to the gym, doing crazy diets, having all sorts of body image issues men are copying women Women have always had jobs btw Imagine thinking having a job is masculine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 09:48 PM
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Women invended eating disorders now men are copying us!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 09:45 PM
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Also, as a man who admires women… this tells me everything I need to know m'lady
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 09:27 PM
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They are all the same and you can even see the same people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 08:29 PM
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yeah but you are bi lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 08:28 PM
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mushroom guy is going to be so happy Also who tf can support 2 people??????
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 08:28 PM
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you can accuse a person of lying but if you think the whole world is lying to you that's weird. How come most people don't feel like they've been lied to?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 06:11 PM
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Not everyone's fault red pillers struggle understanding the world
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 05:58 PM
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Maybe being in a relationship doesn't equal happiness It's not dangerous to refuse to live up to men's standards
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 05:39 PM
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but it's not like there's women who want to ask a man out but don't do it because of gender stereotypes (maybe there are some) In general I think it's difference in sex drive And there's really nothing you can do about it This is why I'm saying that the standard is men's libido. "Women are wrong for not being as horny"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 04:44 PM
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I know how bumble works I'm annoyed at men here who complain all the time that women aren't like men they sure love Biology and gender stereotypes arguments except when it comes to asking someone out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 04:28 PM
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Then why can't you accept that women aren't like men and shouldn't be like men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 04:26 PM
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many women don’t see them as things to strive for because they’re considered “masculine” this is absolutely completely false. That's your bias working under Patriarchy. A woman that's assertive and confident is annoying to men. Women who fight for her rights are annoying and "hysterical". Men don't admire women, and this is easily proven by asking men who their heroes are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 03:52 PM
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should've told him you were pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 03:14 PM
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so if women criticize violent men you feel the need to defend them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 03:13 PM
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wouldn't have phrase it as "better education and career opportunities" as if that was a problem it's very tempting for neardental men to just go "well, maybe women shouldn't study then"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 03:12 PM
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why everything has to be to men's standards? women aren't that horny, that's it, that's why men make the first move
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 03:10 PM
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you know it does 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 12:59 AM
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<image> "intelligence or personality" = social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 12:58 AM
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They'd stop posting if validation was the only incentive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 12:55 AM
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they are not seeking validation because nobody looks at their 15 daily stories except maybe the kid's grandparents
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 12:47 AM
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I always drink wine with coke! I didn't even know it had a name. It's delicious
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 12:46 AM
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Cheetos Ketchup
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 12:41 AM
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it tells you something: they don't have kids once they have kids: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 12:40 AM
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No I'm saying they are both equally brave
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 11:26 PM
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No, that's crazy. Kids interact with the environment, school, THE FATHER, media, relatives, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 10:19 PM
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But anyway I think OLD is flawed. It appeals to men but not women. Tinder tells me nothing I care about in men. And maybe that's why there's no women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 09:52 PM
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In order for men to be more of something, women need to be less No, this is wrong. We share traits. Bravery in men can be expressed in a different way than bravery in women. But both are brave. I think "masculinity" is defined only by aesthetics. Trans people use this language to present themselves as men, women or nonbinary. I don't think genders are tied to personality traits. Of course patriarchal people will tell you men are "brave" and women are "nurturing" but they are wrong. Gendered pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 09:40 PM
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fine, replace "only" with "most commonly used" my point still stands you can define healthy masculinity without the assumption that men are more commonly described as brave (I'm using "brave" as an example) Because you are implying that "brave" describes men better than it describes women. There's as many brave women as there's men. That implication is toxic and the exact opposite of a healthy mindset. You are not supposed to bring others down to describe yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 08:19 PM
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You don't need adjectives that only apply to men to define Healthy Masculinity. You can express your healthy masculinity by being brave, without "brave" being only exclusive to men. Just be a man and be brave and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:26 PM
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“I don't dislike feminine men; I just want someone confident, independent, emotionally stable, assertive, sexually forward, competent, capable of standing up for himself, etc. Those aren't masculine traits. They're just attractive human traits.” It's not my fault men don't care about confidemce, independence, emotional stability, assertiveness, being sexually forward, competence, capable of standing up for himself, etc The fact that men don't care about those attributes doesn't make those attrib…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:22 PM
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my god LOL 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:11 PM
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we were talking about short bald guys in relationships then you switched to "looks"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:34 PM
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Bad Personality = lack social skills this is the real meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:33 PM
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you changed the goal post but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:26 PM
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I can't argue with flat earthers and anti vaxxers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 05:59 PM
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I have a friend who is into kink stuff and she seems fine. She always talks to guys about boundaries before meeting up. She actively seeks partners who are into the same as her (bdsm). She could be a victim of abuse if any of the guys decides to break the rules but that could happen to any of us tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 05:56 PM
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Your title doesn't match the body of the text. I thought this was about the importance of sex in a relationship, not about women accepting other women's kinks. Pretty sure it's men who are all about ncounts and women not being able to do casual sex for the sake of sex (they always want a relationship). It's always men and conservative women passing judgement on women's sexuality Being sex positives more a woman thing than a man thing unless they are conservatives obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 05:53 PM
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so then you should have your eyes and bias checked it's impossible to ignore all the ugly couples outside you are too deep into this conspiracy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 05:48 PM
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Just go outside man quit this emotional thinking you sound like a conspiracy theorist from facebook
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 05:20 PM
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oh right, the conspiracy that there's millions of short bald men hiding in their houses. They don't go to the supermarket, use public transport, or have friends etc Only the short bald men who have a partner go outside, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 05:04 PM
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or maybe blackpillers are just dramatic men who need to touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 04:51 PM
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not height or baldness
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 04:40 PM
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I'd have 50% permanently removed with laser regarding length I don't think there's other option but trim it. Hair clippers with adjustable length settings could be helpful. Just put it in maximum length and it should be fine fuck your friends and family if they laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 04:39 PM
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that all the dramatic blackpill conversations are pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 04:33 PM
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The problem is the feminist fight is, in itself, to be respected by men. The patriarchy raises men and women thinking that women are emotional, shallow and less intelligent. So a man that's already convinced women aren't as cool as he is isn't going to be convinced by academia or by anything a woman says. His hate is innate and there's likely nothing anyone can do about him. Boomers die and new more progressive generations are born. Feminists call out all the time when companies use the movement…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 02:51 PM
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the whole who pays argument sounds so petty I've been paying either 50/50 for dates or full. But if a guy tells me upfront he wants to go 50/50 I wouldn't' continue to see him
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:24 PM
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<image> oh my god
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:22 PM
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Of course every popular movement has it's hardcore followers and it's superficial followers. 'Look! They clearly represent the entirety of feminism as an ideology and they are bad because they are inconsistent in their logic. Feminists are your enemy!'. And people actually buy it. If someone picks a random chick from tiktok and says "Look! She represents feminism!" it's more likely they already hate feminism and was just looking for a scapegoat. I'm not responsible for people's stupidity. Femini…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:18 PM
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I don't even want to join the discord
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:15 AM
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you are great tool for powerful people Because the people earning money from that rivalry isn't you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 09:46 PM
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no, my culture has been victim of propaganda and I see how things work now. Not that I'm immune but whenever certain countries or cultures become glorified or demonized you have to at least question it. And here it's plain obvious that Trump's agenda was to demonize China like he's been doing since forever. It's like when people think certain cultures are evil, then all of the sudden there's oil in their lands, so it's somehow justified to bomb them. What a coincidence!!! People don't think 2 se…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 09:03 PM
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You think it's a coincidence that one of USA's worst economic enemies is China just so happens to be responsible for a whole pandemic? China having nasty ass wet markets where super viruses come from is worse and also true. There's literally nasty places like this everywhere in the world. But you believed the propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 08:44 PM
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you fell for it too? it's just so easy to convince people of the craziest shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 08:38 PM
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Powerful people took the advantage to spread a strong anti China propaganda and people ate it up without questioning it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 08:34 PM
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G and C
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:50 PM
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I'm not angry, it's funny to me that you think this is a flex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:30 PM
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"when?"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:12 PM
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you are saying you are like an animal? Thank god most men are able to control their sexuality, although, unfortunately, some do behave like animals I think you should be ashamed of not being able to control your sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:09 PM
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maybe you live in a very conservative place, I don't know women around me don't value bravery. They value the same stuff they value in their friends like loyalty, intelligence, humor, not being toxic etc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:04 PM
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Them liking a man that's brave doesn't mean "braveness" is a masculine trait anyone can be brave
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:38 PM
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again, maybe if they are conservatives I don't know I don't surround myself with conservatives I've never met a single woman who'd say stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:29 PM
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Maybe in a conservative world idk Gender stereotypes are silly in progressive spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 05:54 PM
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I find it so silly to classify traits as masculine and feminine, since there's plenty of examples of both I don't care some women think this too, there's plenty of conservative women with conservative ideas I don't agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 05:51 PM
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no it's not wisdom has no gender
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 04:00 PM
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Men made up a "masculine" archetype. That archetype is a brave courageous competitive man Being scared of aproaching doesn't fit that archetype Also I've never heard any woman evaluate how masculine a man is. In any case they say "he's a coward". Being a coward is bad regardless the gender
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:17 PM
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who decided the very language we speak? men.. that's completely false. Language is a social construct created by everyone Of course men have always had more power than women so obviously that's reflected in language. No, monks didn't decide language
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:15 PM
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yeah I feel like men took all the cool adjectives like "ambitious" "brave" "competitive" "leadership" as a synonym of masculinity Of course it's ridiculous, and that's why I don't subscribe to "masculinity" or "femininity" traits
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:13 PM
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I'd only be a little weirded out if it was a real size doll that looks like a child or dog or something extremely weird like that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:34 PM
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It's more likely men here assume all women they see saying the most random shit are feminists Because they can't understand the fact that not all women think the same
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:25 PM
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Manosphere men make up stuff to justify their innate hate towards women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:50 PM
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I bet you've never read a single book, listened to a single radio show or podcast about feminism You just saw some rage bait reel from some women and assumed she's a feminist AWalt, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:14 PM
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I'm so soft I wouldn't have survived ancient times like medieval times Last week I saw a dead dog by the tracks and the image has been stuck with me. Today I want to go to the same place and I'm scared. Of course the dog won't be there because I assume someone must've picked it up. Then I remember there's nurses, firefighters, police, doctors who see so much worst things in their every day lives. And I'm here having PTSD over a cadaver I glanced for 2 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 04:51 PM
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It makes me angry for no reason when I see 47 y/o men who "might want to have kids", dude you don't know yet? In my country conservatives don't say it because they know most women aren't. That's why I only swipe on men who explicitly say they are leftists
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:33 AM
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I'm sorry but being a competent adult is not "masculine"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 01:29 AM
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I think I already posted this but I'm not sure. I feel like Tinder asks the most unimportant things. I don't give a shit weather a man likes to run or climb, or prefers tea over coffe I want to know if they are relationship oriented, (monogamous?) if they want to have kids and most importantly political affiliation. No wonder OLD is a pain in the ass
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 01:27 AM
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no, not matrilineal, I meant collective. you said The concept of monogamy made sense prior to farming, even if it didn't predominate to the same degree as it did after agriculture. I think people just lived together and some took care of the kids and the elderly and some provided. I don't think "provider" and "monogamy" were tied together before agriculture
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 01:19 AM
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Hahaha Yes! They are all back! PPd went back to normal. I was scared for a while, I didn't know what to do at work!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:32 AM
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Are you new here? There's all sorts of men who will tell women to their face that "if women don't do (whatever) men will rebel" Or are angry just because the women they consider low value still don't pick them to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:29 AM
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OP again with this topic? I hope you finally find a rich woman who will take you as a stay at home bf
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:10 AM
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oh absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:07 AM
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you don't know what happened there you just saw an edit of them running together for 4 seconds
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:07 AM
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have fun touching grass!! (I assume)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:04 AM
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Most redpillers share an unique way of understanding the world that's almost comical to normies. So for example there's redpillers saying unhinged stuff like "all chads want to have kids" or "I want all women to apologize for...." or "asking for a paternity test has nothing to do with cheating" ETC I'm sorry but someone has to let you people know it's weird to say stuff like that. It's better you find out here than HR at your job. Also some red pillers here are little fragile crystals and get of…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:01 AM
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you can be seriously into fitness and also meet someone special it's called multitasking There's also all sorts of groups, I personally hate groups that take exercise too seriously, I want to have fun, talk to people. The only thing I want to achieve is not dying at 70
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 11:50 PM
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I think people relied on a community to raise kids and get food. I think the idea that 1 man provided for 1 woman is a modern idea. Not so long ago people used to live in multi generational houses, in fact I know some families who still do this. Some work, some have a pension, some take care of others, some are being taken care of, and, of course, some take advantage of the situation and don't move a finger.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 11:44 PM
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then what? what's this apology for misandrist statements you are talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 11:37 PM
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Because patriarchal power structures are oppressive. People can't choose under patriarchy. A man cannot cry because it's not manly to cry. People who benefit from this system are the quietest, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 11:36 PM
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should I apologize for all women? are you apologizing for all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 09:50 PM
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and I'd say having to take care of a kid alone is a form of punishment since it's not an easy task but that's not enough we never know what rp men want, a public apology on twitter? who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 09:47 PM
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destroy gender norms that's literally freedom of choice. Do whatever your want regardless your gender. The idea that feminism wants to "destroy masculinity" or "destroy femininity" is just a lame misinterpretation weaponized by conservatives who can't stand women choosing a career over being stay at home moms. You can still have your nuclear family, it's just that women work now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 06:07 PM
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and those philosophy fields (communication, philosophy, semiology, rhetoric of the image, etc) they came up with a clear definition of the word And really really really wanting something to be true is objective, it's not within that definition Yes, this is semantics, this is what I'm arguing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 05:22 PM
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Lol you don't know how men operate no, he didn't sit around 5 years not dating anyone unless maybe he's obsessed and needs therapy and meds nobody does that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 04:20 PM
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So many words can be answered with a simple: Feminism is about freedom of choice If a man wants to be a provider and a woman wants to be a stay at home mom they can. Feminism stands against conservatives wanting EVERY man to be a provider and EVERY woman to be a stay at home mom. If a man wants to cry, he can cry and the point of feminism is not shaming that man for crying. Yes, women are people with different ideas. I don't know why this is such a hard concept to understand give than there's so…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 04:17 PM
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Maybe he was also busy screwing other women. It's not like men sit and wait until 1 woman gives them the time of day. They usually date around and continue trying with several women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 03:39 PM
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Bad Bunny (tall version)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 03:19 PM
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very cute guy, too bad the hairline looks weird
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 03:09 PM
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no becuause words have definitions that are above what me or a religious person really really really really really believes in
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:33 AM
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even if they really really really really really believe in something, that doesn't make it objective
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:25 AM
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morals are never objective, not for atheists, not for religious people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:23 AM
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6th!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:08 AM
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I think before the Kardashians it was Jennifer Lopez breaking the skinny butt trend
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 08:27 PM
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Before big butts, the trend was big tits and small butts (Britney Spears, Pamela Anderson). It's all about trends. Before cargo pants and oversize, people wore skinny jeans, before skinny jeans it was cargo pants, oxford pants and jnco pants. I don't think the role in fashion has changed during this trends. Some clothes are obviously designed to appeal sexually, some aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 08:26 PM
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then you have never really experienced it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 05:18 PM
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yes, it's worst because you are adding extra paranoia and rage to your natural depression
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 05:03 PM
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Functional strength is actually useful for life 250 @ 5% is just aesthetics. That you are not going to be able to enjoy because of the side effects of anabolics. also women don't like bulky roid rage men you are going to make gay guys happy though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 04:52 PM
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you said The only resolution is to address that fundamental conflict and it's premises. and the only way of doing that is by talking/communicating. Addressing a conflic is the same as saying "talking about a conflict"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 04:50 PM
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communication is talking, is having a conversation "this bothers me" that's what people mean by communication. "letting the other person know what bothers you"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 04:27 PM
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That's even worst. If you are generally chill you are probably going to realize at some point that your feelings are produced by medicine. Like when women realize their sadness is just PMS. There's a relief in knowing that if you are naturally anxious you are not going to be able to differentiate that you are feeling extra anxious and that it's not real.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 04:26 PM
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That's what "communication" means sorry you don't like word definitions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 04:09 PM
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Because B told them. .....and that's what "communication" means I rest my case
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 04:05 PM
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Then A needs to stop leaving their shoes why would they? none told them it can be annoying HOW???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 03:29 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/shorts/A4LP54sXo_E the dark side of anabolic use What if gymbro manosphere guys are extra anxious because of their anabolic use? And they take it out on women because they are frustrated. I don't understand guys who take this. On one hand you get to have the body that you want but you are not going to be able to enjoy it because of rage and anxiety. Imagine not being able to appreciate a nice landscape
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 03:26 PM
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communication a fancy for talking you don't reach a solution (that solution being compromising or breaking up) without talking
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 02:48 PM
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Dating problems don't stem from a lack of information. They stem from contradictions so lets say person A leaves their shoes lying around. Person B doesn't like that. Then what? in your head people just pack up their things and leave without exchanging words? Or maybe Person B shuts up and builds resentment? Person A never finds out leaving the shoes in the middle of the living room pissed Person B. Even breaking up is communication since people don't just leave without talking Someone is convin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 02:44 PM
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There is a fundamental, irreconcilable conflict here that cannot be solved through communication. The only resolution is to address that fundamental conflict and it's premises. what do you think communication is? communication is addressing the conflict until you reach an understanding, either you break up or someone compromises How do you think "changing your mind" works? What do you think communication is?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 02:20 PM
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you fell for some stupid rage bait vid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:16 AM
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you are taking that statement too literally (which is also a very common issue on this sub)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:16 AM
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completely agree, there's million other ways of being intimate that doesn't involve sex but you know what men here think....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:14 AM
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of course, men have always ridiculed women , so it's nothing new
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:13 AM
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It's always funny how men here think women "deny intimacy" as a manipulation tactic. "I'm not going to have sex with you until you do the dishes" nobody says that seriously. If a woman is horny she'll want to have sex. If she's not, she's not going to. There's no middle instance where she wants to but is repressing herself. "deny" is a bad word I think. I'd say "she doesn't want to" instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 09:39 PM
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I find it tacky. I never liked when people show their underwear, men or women. I don't like how men look in slips or thongs. Also pretty sure thongs are gay coded. If he's wearing that outside I'd think he's trying to attract men. If he wore that inside that's a different thing,
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 09:29 PM
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We already know the top people, the people who run the world are men that's what Patriarchy is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 08:56 PM
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That doesn't make sense. This kinds of conversations happen online And if you had a conversation about this with a woman you dated that's anecdotal and not really revelant
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:26 PM
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That doesn't make sense You made a statement that you can't prove, that's it. Being child-free is not related to looks or status. I can prove that you are wrong by showing you the amount of kids ugly poor people have Vs how many kids "high status" people have. Very basic statistic btw. we all know low class people tend to have more kids. Your argument stands on cherry picking a few celebrities that have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:20 PM
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So your source is "vibes" As far as I know low income people in general have more children than high status people. And low income people tend to be uglier because they don't have money for healthy food and medical/plastic surgery procedures. If you at least had a logical reasoning connecting low income with less children or uglier people having less children.... but you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:11 PM
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I've never seen that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:07 PM
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Are there any statistics backing this up or this is just how you feel? Of course the dating pool of people in general in their 30s is going to have more people who want kids. Men and women. Then when you are 40 it's harder to find people who want to have kids, for obvious reasons. It doesn't make any logical sense that wanting kids is related to looks. If your point is that an ugly guy will settle for any woman and would give up his dream of having kids just because the only woman that paid atte…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:43 PM
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me to ai: can you please make it less porn looking? thanks, appreciate it ai: absolutely not, I'm going to make everyone uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:21 PM
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"women are so stupid" ha ha ha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:20 PM
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Someone recognized my avatar here. He told me "hey! I've seen you in our local town sub" it felt weird
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:02 PM
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it's always been about equal amount of hours, not income you don't put a price on your hours in a marriage, that's weird
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:01 PM
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Getting AI to do exactly what you want (product fidelity) is one of the most stressful tasks ever like JESUS CHRIS WHY IS THERE LETTUCE WHEN THE REFERENCE IMAGE DOESN'T HAVE LETTUCE fuck you ai
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 05:31 PM
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Then don't do it 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 02:46 AM
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Fine, don't do it 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 02:45 AM
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report them to the mods oh you mean irl? then I don't know, call their parents
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 01:41 AM
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Both of your links show societal problems Feminism is about women's rights, the movement has nothing to do with, for example, men going to war You guys are never going to achieve anything until you dare facing the real enemy, but I guess it's easier to blame everything on women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 01:27 AM
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Just because someone is shy, doesn't make them a more of a victim. Don't take rejection personally, it's not that bad. On the contrary, the more you expose yourself to difficult situations, the more you learn how to deal with it. You might actually learn how to respond to someone talking you down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:59 AM
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"if men struggle with dating it's because they are picky assholes" I don't particularly like that kind of posts because it's just your word vs my word arguments. "this one man say something nasty therefore all men are the same" nah, this is boring I'm talking about the crazy posts, the Handmaids tale posts, the "all hetero women are lesbians", the af/bb, the "if she had anal with ex you are entitled to anal", even the dick size posts
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:49 PM
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remember the all hetero women are lesbians guy? I wonder what he's doing rn
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:47 PM
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That line being asking someone out? I get it that it's scary and rejection feels bad, but it's not that serious. There's not much at risk when you ask someone out. If they say no you move on, that's it. Last week I wanted to include a guy in a group of people he already knows but he's kind of an outsider (with the intention of flirting obviously). He didn't even reply to my text LOL. Maybe it's because he's shy or maybe he wants nothing to do with me, who cares. I'm glad I tried. My point with s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:42 PM
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healthy bmi guy but that's the point, you shouldn't leave your partner if they get unhealthy you are supposed to help them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:22 PM
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bring back paternity tests posts! bring back muh divorce rape posts!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:46 PM
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I miss "unselected men" poster I feel like sure, those passport bros posts have been discussed to death but I need entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:45 PM
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I always found "women are more beautiful" so strange. I don't think a hetero person can judge beauty because they are attracted to one gender but not the other. It's like comparing chocolate to pizza. We can say women take more care of their looks, but that doesn't make them "more beautiful" I think
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:31 PM
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What's happening on this sub? I miss the unhinged posts about "if women don't date incels we are going to take their rights" or "women are secretly evil and communists"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:29 PM
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"on tik tok" 🤙
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:54 PM
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where?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:52 PM
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what even is serial marriage, where people sign up to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:17 PM
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"unless she gets fat"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:16 PM
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makes you wonder how people don't realize they are being baited with fake ass posts
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:15 PM
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yes, absolutely. Some people make up problems or complains that literally don't exist, to use it as rage bait. It's like when influencers say "many of you have asked where I got this shirt" (none asked) "feminists need to stop advising other women to murder men"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:14 PM
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<image> this one!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:11 PM
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sure
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:47 PM
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I'm not whining I'm complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:41 PM
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then become attractive and stop whining
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:39 PM
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marriage is for safety, not for economic reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:37 PM
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<image> Has anyone seen this netflix documentary? It's really cool. It doesn't help this poor woman's case that she has wide crazy eyes blinking 100 times per second.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:36 PM
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childish behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:33 PM
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there is a reason to be responsible towards society and the reason is you are enjoying a cushioned privileged life thanks to other people's responsability towards society "why can't I litter? I don't care if the city is clean or not" while enjoying a clean public place you sound like a teenager rebelling against who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:05 PM
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Same as spending time fighting for gay rights, hungry children, animal cruelty, etc. It's not men's responsibility. There's plenty of feminist men who don't struggle with any of the issues you are mentioning so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:53 PM
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The problem with shy men is that they don't reach out. I get the woman has to make the first move, but then the conversation should flow and, in my experience, it just doesn't. I have plenty of shy friends who just don't answer back. Once we went through my very shy friend's OLD inbox, and he had many women messaging him. But he's frozen with anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:50 PM
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Of course, why would they care if inappropriate behavior doesn't directly affect them? In fact men benefit from not saying anything. Men don't like feminists who call them out. literally describing the patriarchy I don't know about that specific show but women are calling out men all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:45 PM
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no, "middle class" refers to money
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:40 PM
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I agree Men don't call out other men when they behave inappropriately or make inappropriate jokes It's always women calling out such behavior. Men don't like it when women call out on other men, they call them "crazy feminists". There's an implicit camaraderie between men. It's even worst when those men then call themselves feminists, when they don't dare to risk their reputation by confronting other men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:44 PM
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OP always posts about this topic. He wants to be a stay at home nanny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:33 PM
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you wouldn't be middle class if you can
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:32 PM
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Well I can see how anyone with an average middle class job wouldn't consider financially supporting another adult and a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:10 AM
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I've never in my life seen feminists give such advice I've only seen it when the woman doesn't find anyone by the age of 40 and they really really want to have a baby. Like a last resort to be a mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:23 AM
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and those just happen to be poorly paid and usually undermined and underestimated what a luxury
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:21 AM
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A) deffinitely B) Guess who won't be getting visited in the nursing home? C) I can understand a power trip
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:18 AM
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sounds like a win win
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:15 AM
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or he's not thinking that ahead and you are both horny. I'm saying "both horny" because nobody tries to get laid without some indication, although that could happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:15 AM
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no it's the other way around! she has to mog him. I've seen it happen many times. Many years ago I met my friend's sister's and bf, and he was like a 2 and her was a 8 or 9. Even my bf made a remark on the disparity. I thought it was so funny. My friend didn't find it funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:13 AM
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not life, just casual sex boring
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:07 AM
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It is true that having too many options makes people freeze I want to go on a hiking trip with random people and IG knows it. So I've been offered all sorts of companies and experiences, prices, etc. From hiking a cool mountain a few miles from here to a trip to Island. I'm having such a first world problem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 07:40 PM
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Why don't all men grow a beard?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 07:36 PM
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haahahahahah love it but you have to include the word autism somewhere, I feel that's key, more than gay
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:12 PM
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male harassment happens from the age of 10, 11, 12 women don't know a world where they aren't harassed by men. So of course a party or a club is not an exception
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:10 PM
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"women are too confident, we should fix that" Why not frame it as "we should help men" instead of trying to put women down? Clubbing/dancing has always been like that. People go to meet people, so you are obviously going to have men trying to hookup with women. Now and always. Men ask women to dance since literally forever. Men trying to have sex with women is as old as time so it's not a variable in women being able to access education.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:11 PM
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The problem is 1) you don't date men or browse as a woman on old 2) you probably don't have friends that share the office gossip. I realized everyone was having casual sex when a coworker started telling me about all the workplace affairs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:46 PM
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The difference between a LTR profile and an ONS profile is slutty pics He's not selling himself as someone fun and sexy. He's showing his hobbies, which would imply he wants to meet someone he can join him in his hobbies. This has nothing to do with looks, there's very ugly men doing this, "look at my body/looking for short term").
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:42 PM
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those guys are such losers I feel their audience is 14 year olds and boomers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:25 PM
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haha what did you miss all the women drooling over soccer players during the world cup?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:02 PM
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It's not subconscious, it's reasonable and logical to like someone because they able to love and take care of a pet It shows good character
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 10:34 PM
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He's chat gpt
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:15 AM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:10 AM
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The word describes a feeling Feelings happen in your head
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:08 AM
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still more valuable than myron
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 01:09 AM
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Yes, very sad scene tbh, what a loser
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 12:25 AM
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I saw the Louis Theroux documentary and felt really sad for him and his wife
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 12:22 AM
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Please respect retarded people and clowns They are more valuable than this asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 12:22 AM
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Oh dear lord, spinning classes are so intense I have to wait like 2 hours before eating Highly recommend it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 12:21 AM
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He looks like the guy from Scrubs!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 11:26 PM
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You are underestimating how progressive countries like Mexico are And you are overestimating how progressive the USA is
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 08:32 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 08:31 PM
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That bastard, loving women and poor, turning the other cheek, forgiving people for their sins what a terrible person
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 07:58 PM
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you can answer angrily without raising your voice
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 05:14 PM
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OP This People have different personalities and needs for example some people like chat all day, some people find that annoying some people like to be the ones planning activities, some want the other person to plan them, some want to stay inside all day and don't want to be bothered, etc some people like to argue, some people find that annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:26 PM
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stay a while and you'll know which buttons to push there's a fine line between spicy and banned Also most of the arguments are incredibly basic and have been repeated to death. It's almost like a script. Sometimes I think some people here are bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:22 AM
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ED is involuntary
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:10 AM
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You have your timeline wrong. At 40 men and women have the same libido. Hormonal changes start happening when you are almost 50, being 51 the average age where women hit menopause. Do you think 50 year old men are in physical condition to raise a child? The child will be fatherless when the kid barely over 30 years old, that's sad. Do you think a 50 year old man doesn't have erectile dysfunction issues? Let's say the 20 year old woman marries a 40 year old guy. They have 10 years of sex, then sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:05 AM
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You have your timeline wrong. At 40 men and women have the same libido. Hormonal changes start happening when you are almost 50, being 51 the average age where women hit menopause. Do you think 50 year old men are in physical condition to raise a child? The child will be fatherless when the kid barely over 30 years old, that's sad. Do you think a 50 year old man doesn't have erectile dysfunction issues? Let's say the 20 year old woman marries a 40 year old guy. They have 10 years of sex, then sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:00 AM
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I will never understand why people get so angry at how others perceive themselves, like it's any of your business. Do you think you are convincing anyone with your "argument"? You are not even arguing, you just want to complain that others don't share your ideas. How does a non binary person affect you personally to the point where you think you need to go online and throw hate? Can't you accept that others have different ideas?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:59 PM
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I think mentally we are probably the same men just make it happen
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:55 PM
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you just want to smash your head against a wall. *their
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:04 PM
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you too!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:30 PM
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"Cis women only" it's the same sure, you choose your audience 🤷‍♀️ I have no problem being rejected by a guy who gets offended because I have "no X political party" on my profile
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:20 PM
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they are definitely more appealing to women and I still can't explain why
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:18 PM
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because they've always tried to appeal to men....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:08 PM
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I was talking about the general message you are giving, regardless my personal preference. by putting "no transwomen" you are probably leaving out a group of cis women who will think that maybe op is a transphobe
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:03 PM
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and they'd be able to add a female audience if they made some characters appealing to women but men don't share toys
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:00 PM
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Everyone is sexualized in MK but for some reason that sexualization appeals to the male audience. I can't explain how muscle video game men aren't sexy to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 02:36 PM
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but that's the underlying message you are giving, not talking about logic or objectivity I don't think anyone gets enough matches from transwomen to justify adding a filter exactly because of this For me the only acceptable reason to say "NO...." is when we talk about politics. "NO conservatives" or "NO feminists" but that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 02:05 PM
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that sounds transphobic though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:38 PM
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when I get downvoted or hated here I need to remind myself this is the type of person that doesn't agree with me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:26 PM
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you want to argue so bad though but sorry, this is 2026, there's some conversations that are outdated
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:24 AM
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http://www.rhm.uni-koeln.de/128/Devine.pdf There is considerable evidence to show that Roman society in the late Republic and early Empire was afflicted by a low birthrate. Augustus in 18 B.C. found it necessary to pass the lex Iulia de maritandis ordinibus in the hope of raising the birth-rate by penalizing the unmarried and the childless. https://www.vindolanda.com/blog/roman-women-and-children-part-1 Given these grim figures it is no surprise that the state was concerned about population. Rom…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:21 AM
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"there's only 2 genders" I'm not arguing this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 12:16 AM
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I wish I could be like some of my friends where they just sit and wait for others to organize hang outs. I feel like the moment I stop trying, everything falls apart and just sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 12:16 AM
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Thanks, it's fine anyway, tomorrow I'll feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 12:12 AM
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Doesn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 12:10 AM
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that's not what personal means but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:07 PM
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yeppp it's been like this for me for years but I'm trying!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:04 PM
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no it's not, I've rejected a million guys over anxiety
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:00 PM
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forever
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:56 PM
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yeah probably
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:42 PM
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Venting: There's a guy from my circle that's not in the inner circle, more like in the outside circle. I had never noticed him because I thought he was so young but as it turns out he's my age. He's also cute and extremely shy. We had a nice conversation, he said he's lost in life, I told him same, etc So my plan was to personally invite him the next time we hang out with the group I texted him this morning to see if he was joining us on Saturday no response He had told me he's somewhat isolated…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:19 PM
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Heterosexuality could be described as: "I am gender A, and I'm into gender B, which I'm not." We could all live in harmony if people didn't try to impose their sexuality into others. That's not a part of being hetero because we should all be able to coexist with gender C, gender D, preference A, B, C or D
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:59 PM
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The birthrates conversation is more than a hundred years old btw, with an exception during the 90s where the narrative was "we are overpopulating the planet", and now we are back to "birth rates are going to be the end of humanity" Meanwhile population continues to grow and we continue to adapt
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:46 PM
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6-8 hoursss??? how?? lol You run out of porn after a year lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:24 PM
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but after sleeping, gooning and eating you still have like 10 hours a day to fill I can see why it can drive people to anxiety and agoraphobia
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:34 PM
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if black dog would've been able to take the price and finish the race that'd been hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:32 PM
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blue pilled thinkers dont understand our kind I don't understand your kind. What do you do all day? Like seriously this is something I always wonder about people. What do people do when they have nothing to do? Because I'm physically unable to do nothing, I'm always either creating art, or walking or something like that My biggest fear of loosing my job isn't the money but the free time that would definitely make me fall in depression
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:56 PM
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omg this is so extremely cute I'd watch dog olympic games like this also so cute when Colombo arrived that all tails started wagging so incredibly cute
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:48 PM
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sure
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:43 PM
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what are you even talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:04 PM
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it's common sense to not expect someone to fix a problem they don't have
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:41 PM
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But that's what you are saying. aspr0ulx told you she's fine with her social circle that's why she wouldn't expand it and you said she was being hypocritical it just doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:05 PM
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if they don't have that problem why should they follow the advice that they gave for that specific problem? "you should buy a car to go to your school that's 5 miles away" "would you buy a car?" "no, I don't need one my school is 5 blocks away" "that's hypocritical!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:41 PM
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If you see a gay man and you feel internal disgust but you don't show it are you being homophobic? of course you are. Homophobia isn't about actions, it's about biases and feelings like phobia. I don't know why you are talking about explaining stuff to others
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:31 PM
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if women don't have a problem with their social circle or relationships why should they?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:04 PM
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I think it's both. A guy that wants to lash out because a woman rejected him is entitled. If he gets angry internally because she rejected him, he's also entitled. If a guy blames women for his dating misfortunes, that's entitlement too I don't think it matters if he expresses them or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:48 PM
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it's just a drink in front of the camera for clicks 🙄 he's exposing her
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:56 AM
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I thought the same lol he's a man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:49 PM
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literally everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:48 PM
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cheat codes (red pill terminology) = "dating advice" for bluepillers calling them cheat codes instead of dating advice is kind of autistic lol that's exactly my point. The red pill rebranded dating advice with new terminology for people who struggle understanding reality
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:48 PM
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could but don't because when a woman accuses a man of rape her credibility is at stake. There's not that many false accusations compared to men inflicting violence
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:41 PM
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yes you can I really don't care if this is your way of thinking you are right. It's pretty obvious to me and everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:41 PM
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you, on your own post Literally a study showed between 132 young adults, 65 women and 67 men, study shows that women feel more negative emotions and feelings when being rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:40 PM
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I'm using OP's words
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:39 PM
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no, OP did On the one hand, red pill men who date no/blue pill women know the "cheat codes" to a system
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:31 PM
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calling it "cheat code" is weird to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:26 PM
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he probably made another rude remark and that's what made her pour the drink
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:10 PM
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he said he would pay for the bill if she slept with him see? there's always a reason nobody just wastes a drink for fun
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:05 PM
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that makes more sense, it's not that "The worst she can say is no" he was rude and got what he deserved
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:59 PM
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no, you don't need that, it's common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:53 PM
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but what started it? he invited him to go on a date with that woman for views is known for poor behaviour so they provoked her for clicks? It still doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:44 PM
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which is still an incredible small % compared to men who get physically violent
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:31 PM
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shifting the goal posts no? Does this include sexual abuse? I'm pretty sure men with that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:30 PM
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this is ridiculous, This has nothing to do with the post, it's just "but women are baaad" Just shows that you don't have an argument This is a ridiculous statistic btw. You can easily explain it by the amount of women who are single mothers and amount of men who are single fathers. Men usually leave their families. If there were as many single fathers as single mothers that number would be waaaaay different.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:29 PM
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when people say that men don't take rejection well they are talking about physical violence, not about feelings what's the point of your post? "women, your fears are ridiculous, don't take precautions"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:25 PM
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I think it's a common myth probably because I think women behave different with random men than with their partner. When men and women are hooking up or in a relationship I think they are both equally horny or that's been my experience so far
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:16 PM
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I feel like we are missing a part of the story. What prompted her to throw a drink at him? None just throws drinks at every guy who approaches, drinks are expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:49 PM
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Sure, I agree men are somewhat used to rejection because sadly their role is to approach. The problem is when a man gets agry the consequences can be way more serious than when women get angry. If I was bigger and stronger than a man I was dating I wouldn't be afraid of telling him "I don't want to date you anymore", but as a woman I'm more vulnerable. The general discussion is not about "feeling negative emotions", it's about going out with a random guy who might act crazy if you tell him "no".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:41 PM
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"just be yourself" means relax, don't be anxious, don't lie, don't try any weird gimmick, etc most people know this, don't need to be told what it actually means
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:14 PM
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I just told you "just be yourself" doesn't mean you can fart anywhere or "it will happen when you least expect it" doesn't mean stay home and someone will knock on your door
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:48 PM
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what red pillers aren't able to grasp is what's obvious to everyone: "just be yourself" doesn't mean you can fart anywhere or "it will happen when you least expect it" doesn't mean stay home and someone will knock on your door
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:45 PM
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oh I had a similar conversation! I told him the same, that's it's very unlikely he's going to find a woman who will support him staying at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:17 PM
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but you are saying "this happens to me, so this happens to everyone" many users: "no, this doesn't happen to me" "I don't believe that" it's your personal experience Vs other people's personal experiences. And you are too stubborn to see other people's POV. Why even bother posting?? Also I have no idea why you are bringing Lilith here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 01:44 PM
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sadly the post is deleted Laughing at the fact that single women existing (and that's a bad thing) is part of a men's rights conversation "I have the right to want a dating pool without single mothers, why can't people understand men's rights????"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:37 AM
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If feminism is "traditionalism on crack, I don't know where you got this from but it's not. Feminism is about freedom to do what you want, not being imposed any gender norm like Red Pill guys want. Also your writing style is overcomplicated for no reason, just wanted to point that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:32 AM
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I’m not convinced by the “I don’t do it.” LOL so basically none can argue against your point. Me, and so many people on this post, should be enough proof to say that "hey, maybe not everyone is like me".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:28 AM
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Switch "dating" with "being in a relationship" or "having occasional sex" or "talking to" whatever. That was not the point of my comment. The point is some people have backups and some don't. You are saying most people keep backups, and that's just wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:29 AM
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know the "cheat codes" LOL, those "cheat codes" is basic bluepill stuff. The difference is that red pill guys had to study them from some influencer bro, while the rest of us just knows them from birth. Redpill guys are mostly conservative. They are looking to fulfill traditional gender roles. So why on earth is good advice to tell conservative guys to date progressive women who do not want to fulfill those roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:22 AM
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I don't know what any of that means My point is some people keep options, like you, meaning the person didn't really die in your mind, they are still there as a backup. Others, like me, just closes the door and it doesn't matter if you still see them every day, the feeling is dead. There's no such thing as "backup people" To have backup people you need to keep them alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:08 AM
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That's you. I personally don't date zombies, once they are dead they are not coming back. It's like my switch going on in my mind, the door closes forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 01:37 AM
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I don't think this is true though. I understand it might look like this from the outside when someone doesn't block ex's. But what you are missing is how this person deals with them in their mind. I personally don't block or delete anyone because once my mind switches to a new person, the rest is dead to me. That's why I just leave them on my social media, I never interact or think about them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 01:21 AM
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"women are like turds" "heyy" "it's just an analogy!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 01:09 AM
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I don't know, I have a friend who is average more on the handsome side and there was a time he got really desperate because he didn't get any matches. Until he paid for Tinder and that helped Now he's in a relationship I think people underestimate how hard it is to actually meet someone meaningful on OLD. People think they are one date away from meeting the love of their life when it actually takes 100 first dates, a million swipes, 4 different apps and $$ for a "premium subscription", to meet s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 12:30 AM
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Lets not give this hypothetical man any ideas lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 12:22 AM
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"better men" is 100% subjective for me the "better men" are the ones with a similar ncount as me. I'm not a virgin. Less than me it's weird, more than me is also weird. The only ncount that I care about is cheating. the point was the lingo, not so much the opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:11 PM
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yeah makes sense, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:00 PM
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bias means that if a man makes excuses (like one of my male best friend does) you are going to dismiss it, or you are not even going to register
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:22 PM
1

that's such a cute dog! I took care of my sister's puppy and she'd snuggle with me in bed. Now she went back to her family and I miss her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:47 PM
1

yeah you are probably right low self esteem is never attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:44 PM
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you are completely biased
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:44 PM
1

him realizing "oh, I didn't know I was hot, I could do better"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:09 PM
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ahhh "the hot one" sounds better, doesn't make me look as someone with low self esteem, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:05 PM
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hmmmmm idk, seems risky unless he has low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:58 PM
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well obviously, it takes some time to get to know someone's personality "personality" aren't some opinions or likes on an OLD profile
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:22 PM
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I let my friends use my phone all the time, no problem. I assume it's the same for a LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:18 PM
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hypothetical question: is it a good move to tell a guy "you are hotter than me"? would make him go after someone hotter than me or it's just a compliment? Or he's going to think I have low self esteem?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:16 PM
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women baaaad 👎👎👎
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:10 PM
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I love it specially when they are not even putting any effort "I'm a woman and I don't want to raise my ncounts because then my SMV decreases and I'll never find a man that respects me" at least they should try to change the words, not use all the manosphere lingo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:10 PM
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air fryers are like a secret cult or idk everyone that has one becomes fan and they cook literally everything there to me they are too big I don't have space in my counter top, but they are probably a good purchase
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:45 PM
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I like people who are exceptional (in general) doesn't matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:19 PM
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I absolutely hate myself for not being able to ask a guy out or let a guy know I'm interested
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:37 AM
1

same. I'd scream GET A DIVORCE PLEASE!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:31 AM
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and this is why I think it was a crappy movie If we are going to talk about consent it has to be very clear that she had no interest in him. But the director made it really vague, and at first you end up wondering if maybe she did actually like him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:27 AM
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you need to move! walk, bicycle, dance, anything
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:22 AM
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the USA is not going to get invaded even though they surely love invading other countries but anyway, either all go to war or none goes preferably none goes unfortunately for you this isn't feminist decision, it's a military (male) decision
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:07 AM
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their soul maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:21 PM
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it was a question not a very hard question btw
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:55 PM
1

robbing what? candy? attention from other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:34 PM
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I thought second column was bros loving bros
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:18 PM
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yesssss
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:39 PM
1

robbing what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:38 PM
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ew
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:34 PM
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LOL so young and innocent
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:36 PM
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Of course not, I don't like pedo defenders or people who are too a celebrity
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:34 PM
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and let's not look at all the rape porn men have always watched
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:25 PM
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after I've already given a detailed, multifaceted answer you think you did but the other person is telling you you didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:23 PM
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TLDR: "I don't like women" there's really nothing to argue here, this is OP's opinion, he's not even trying a CMV some men hate women, what are we supposed to do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 02:48 PM
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ah! they are boiled/steamed? they don't go in the oven? nice I like that they are sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:48 PM
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exactly ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:33 PM
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twitter is more of a govt psyop. They tweak the algorithm according to their own agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:33 PM
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1) congratulations! 2) no condom ever???? that's retarded, sorry 3) not everyone is super regular. My period can vary from 30 to 20 days
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:32 PM
1

this looks so cool, is it like cherry empanadas?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:29 PM
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😭😭😭 it barely has any influence irl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:58 PM
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If you could nuke one social media platform, which would it be? For me is Twitter
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:53 PM
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also first dates are a perfect scene to be x150 more socially awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:32 PM
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and the redditor is fat, broke and neurodivergent Also I don't think being thin is a requirement, there's plenty of guys who have a thing for fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:56 PM
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the guy commenting she's fat: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:38 PM
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if any of that fails a okcupid blogpost from 20 years ago will suffice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:10 PM
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oh my god BYE
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:24 PM
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dumb question the answer is in this thread, we already went through this bye bye
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:24 PM
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I'm done with your extremely dumb questions sorry you lost the argument bye bye 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:23 PM
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I’m saying why don’t women lead the charge in putting money into female sport teams? that's literally what feminist movements are doing by asking this question you are admitting there's male privilege, there's patriarchy. Otherwise you'd just say "no, that's not true" LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:21 PM
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this comment literally made me laugh what are you even talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:18 PM
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I have no idea who that is LOL nobody outside the USA knows who she is. Proving my point besides we are talking generalities, not a particular athlete that just happens to be a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:16 PM
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I like that you admitted this is male privilege. (men + women) is more people than just women I'm a feminist, I'm doing my part. But until men don't take women seriously they'll always be privileged. Do women not take other women seriously by your logic? some don't. Conservative women, for example, don't. What men do is serious and important and women aren't taken seriously. You can't turn around it anymore, it's just the world we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:14 PM
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They don’t get paid enough because people don’t watch them. men don't watch women because they don't take women seriously like that other guy said. This is male privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:56 PM
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"men don't give a shit about women" "that's male privilege" "whaaaaaaaat? no way shut up woman!" I guess it's my fault to expect anything coherent coming from men on this sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:55 PM
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everyone watches male sports, men and women. That's why they are more popular Men don't watch female sports because they don't take them seriously. Even if all women watched female sports it'd still have less audience than male sports. So if you play sports as a man, by default, you have an advantage over women. We call this "male privilege"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:47 PM
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yeah but I never heard people needing a definition
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:16 PM
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what lilith means is that a man expressing emotions might break something, might punch someone, might murder someone. Creating a problem for other people While a woman saying “I need a man that can handle me” is nobody's problem. She just says that and that's it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:14 PM
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men don't watch women playing sports because they don't respect them if you are born male, you get advantage over women in sports. That advantage is "male privilege"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:12 PM
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as far as I know fans don't have anything at stake and they were all crying, fighting, this is normal soccer fan behavior. They are all men. then what? ah, yes, male sports being more important than female sports is 10000% male provilege
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:10 PM
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I said soccer because I think it's a sport that's particularly emotional. And their fans are, I think, the most emotional people on earth. Fans trash places around the world because their team lost. A team they are not even a part of. That's trivial. You don't see tennis fans trashing a bar because Nadal lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:01 PM
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male soccer fans are not a minority, not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:29 PM
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I'm talking about the bawling when the game ends. Win, loose, they all cry. I totally get it, emotions are good and healthy. my point is how can you say women are more emotional after such outbursts of emotion
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:28 PM
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be everyone's problem. this is so true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:25 PM
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agree, and they are trained to not get overrun by emotions and yet.... There was a French player that headbutted another player, I can't remember when. That got him expelled, France lost. If that's not irrational idk what is yeah, male fans crying over their team loosing is super emotional behavior. No that emotional behavior is bad, it's fine, it's healthy. My main point is the assumption that women are more emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:19 PM
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oh yeah there's nothing gayer than hetero bro love
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:08 PM
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the problem is saying women are more emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:07 PM
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gay men have so much better taste than hetero men how dare you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:04 PM
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There's some men here who are convinced men are rational and have a harder time expressing emotions Did your opinion change after seeing so many soccer players punching, insulting, bawling their eyes out during the world cup? Imagine punching someone over a game and then saying women are emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:59 PM
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nvm
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:54 PM
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you are right, the comments! I don't believe anything that's said online anymore honestly besides elon musk trucks exist and I still can't believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:51 PM
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you are a teen? that explains it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:38 PM
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you are welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:55 PM
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the problem is men inflict more damage. You can't argue this. It's not like there's hidden male murder victims and secret female killers. That's too cospiracy. The consequences of domestic violence is worst for women. By saying "oh but she slaps him too! she's also violent!! they are both victims" That is downplaying women's issues because clearly the person getting punched or murdered has it worst than being slapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:42 PM
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nah man, learn how to summarize your ideas I'm not reading all that pick one, you are all over the place
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:32 PM
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totally I love pearl clutching jealous men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:56 PM
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It's like those small dick posts where the poster talks extensively about short dick problems to end up saying "not me, my dick is 8 inches, this is for a friend" LOL SURE
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:49 PM
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yeah 100% a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:48 PM
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probably 😂😂😂🤦‍♀️ also op did the classic "it's for a friend, not me"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:47 PM
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LOL thanks for proving me right
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:28 PM
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this post is weirdly aggressive so there could be some weird kink shit going on here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:27 PM
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where? I feel like you are making up problems to get mad at
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:24 PM
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bait post when people talk about mental load they are talking about couples where they both work but one of them, the woman, has to keep track of the groceries and the taking care of the home part "mental load" is not referred to the tasks that are your responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:23 PM
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source of men being more violent than women? nah you can google that yourself, it's too obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:03 PM
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if you are fighting against feminism then you are not fighting for men's rights men's rights shouldn't affect women's rights but what usually happens is that many men's rights activists are misogynists who take the opportunity to shit on women, and then act like victims
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:03 PM
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we are not talking about being defensive, we are talking about men hitting/murdering women "she started a fight so I murdered her" lol which is extensively recorded around the world that men inflict more violence than women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:52 AM
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I don't know why you keep repeating the same It's been extensively documented around the world that men inflict more damage than women by a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:50 AM
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This is like when kids say "but moooooom she started it" what matters are the violent actions and we have plenty of proof that most of that violence is perpetuated by men hitting someone is a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:46 AM
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I know this is a lame attempt of victim blaming but it doesn't matter who, why or how they initiate what matters are the violent actions and we have plenty of proof that most of that violence is perpetuated by men hitting someone is a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:43 AM
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there are literal conflicts of interests between men's advocates and feminists where?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:01 PM
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men's advocacy often has conflict of interests with feminism yeah because so many if not most men's right activists are just misogynistic losers who are obsessed with feminism. that's when they clash. They also use it to feel victimized. If they could manage to shut the fuck up about women, and fight for what they want to fight then nobody would be against them. The men's rights sub is full of posts about women who are criminals. How does that help their cause?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:31 PM
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bye bye
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:10 PM
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this post is about violence who, men or women, inflict more violence. so HOW they initiate that DV is key here. WHO starts the fight is a separate category, a different discussion. Because if she starts yelling and she receives a punch for it, then he's still more violent. Even if she starts the DV 100% of the times, if he responds with more violence, then he's more violent than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:09 PM
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And my point is that nobody is in favor or against a movement that doesn't exist outside niche subredits. you say that you don't need approval yet every time this topic comes up there's a many men saying "why aren't women supporting men's rights". That's right you don't need approval. Saying that men are being silenced by feminism is an excuse to not do the hard work. They are just not loud enough to be a part of a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:05 PM
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I'm dogsitting a puppy. She's on my lap sleeping. I can feel her dreaming, she's so cute. My legs hurt because she's not so little (22 lb) The problem is I can't leave her alone, not even to go to the bathroom, she starts crying and scratching the door. I know this is a consequence of her being abused in the past but makes it very difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:56 PM
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Do feminists maintain the same level of deference with regards to men's rights? no because nobody even knows what "men's rights" are
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:51 PM
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maybe it's not bias, it's not some weird agenda maybe the red pill is just wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:39 PM
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no, that's misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:35 PM
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nobody even knows what "men's rights" are so obviously people don't support them. you still have a looooot of work to do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:16 PM
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This was my first comment. "Initiating" in this context clearly means something lesser than actual violence > sure, those are still 2 different categories. Initiating Vs Perpetuating > Perpetuating violence is still objectively more violent than starting a fight I think I already explained my position a million times you are just trying too hard to twist it into victim blaming. It's not working. bye bye
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:07 PM
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never said that I said that punching is more violent and should receive a harsher sentence than yelling or "starting a fight"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:00 PM
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he's doing the punching, he's not a victim, he's the perpetrator the person that receives the punch is the victim
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:55 PM
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and that's already contemplated in the law like "self defense"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:54 PM
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you are not making any sense I don't even know how to answer
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:50 PM
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He chose to commit violence instead of leaving 🤷‍♀️ if his lawyer can prove he couldn't possibly leave and instead he had no choice but being violent then he could get a lesser sentence. This is something that already happens btw
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:49 PM
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you are saying they are both equally violent because you are victim blaming "she yelled at him knowing perfectly well he was going to punch her so she obviously gets some blame" But that's not how the world works because yelling is not as violent as punching. We don't regard men as animals, punching is a choice that should be punished harsher than yelling
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:39 PM
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very misandrist of you to think that men are animals that can't control themselves it's a choice to punch someone. They could walk away from the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:37 PM
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classic old victim blaming actions are violence and punching is OBJECTIVELY more violent than yelling
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:32 PM
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this has nothing to do with sexes, it's about the consequences of our actions also very misandrist of you to argue that men are just animals that can't help but being violent, when most men just aren't violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:26 PM
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"starting a fight" is not the same as "threatening with a gun" "self defense" is well known already people get less sentences if they kill in self defense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:24 PM
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the question is what's more violent starting a fight or punching someone in the face I know you are not going to admit something that's so obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:13 PM
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but a harsher sentence or a lesser sentence doesn't reflect on the violence of the crime because there's a million other factors involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:11 PM
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nah that doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:10 PM
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I can go to my partner and tell him "I told you a million times to clean up after yourself" we fight, nothing else happens not every fight leads to violence, that's crazy I can go to my partner and punch him in the face Who is more violent? who gets charged?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:09 PM
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you have to pick one is it that women are more violent than we think or is it that they receive less harsher sentences they are 2 separate topics
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:04 PM
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common sense and logic starting a fight leaves no injury while actually slapping, murdering, pushing, punching, even insulting, does
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:03 PM
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People are charged for the consequences of their actions. This is just how it is and it makes more sense than your crazy idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:00 PM
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we punish the consequences of our actions. Not just the actions. You can't punish with the same severity a slap that made someone fall down a building and a slap that just left sore itchy skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:57 PM
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sure, those are still 2 different categories. Initiating Vs Perpetuating Perpetuating violence is still objectively more violent than starting a fight
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:54 PM
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sure but that doesn't happen the report is a slap, not a "falling and hitting the head"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:49 PM
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a slap will never be equally violent as murder, regardless who does it or the physical strength of whoever does it any adult could kill cats, babies, toddlers, dogs, and old people. Yet we don't, even being stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:41 PM
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I think you are arguing 2 different things a) women are more violent than we think b) women get less sentences for the same crime. A lesser sentence doesn't mean the record doesn't show she did a violent crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:27 PM
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where? All reports show that more women die or get severely injured to domestic violence than men. We could redefine "domestic violence" to include "verbal insults" and "slaps", but serious injuries and murder are still objectively more violent than verbal violence. And those are mostly perpetrated by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:14 PM
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This all smells very "conspiracy-y" "It's not that men are more violent than women, it's that we can't see, measure, notice or report women's violence." Sure, let's say we can't. But then you still need to show that there's actual violence being hidden. Because maybe, we can't report it because it's just not there. If you continue to say "oh it's there I just can't show it" then this post is just your opinion, not an actual argument. Social media and smartphones would've reported women's violenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:03 PM
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Depends what and how they are complaining "I feel lonely, I want a gf" = I feel empathy "women's standards are too high" = "his standards are too high"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:24 PM
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women are in front of feminists movements. After centuries of being just women, men started following. men don't even have a movement. You guys are still behind. You need to build a movement so that women can follow. Expecting women to be there from the start and expecting women to do the work is lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:22 PM
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it's men's job to fight for men's rights, it's men's job to raise funds and build shelters and it's men's jobs to recruit other men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:28 PM
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we are talking about rights and you care about still being able to seduce women maybe this fight isn't for you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:23 PM
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men fought alongside feminists to get them to where they are now absolutely not the first feminists were literally burned and tortured. Others shunned from society, labeled as lesbians, crazy, "too argumentative". Feminists make men uncomfortable Only after hundreds of years of standing that, only then some men joined.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:08 PM
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if males rights issues don't oppose feminist goals then there shouldn't be an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:00 PM
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if people automatically agreed then that means you are not really fighting when people say "fight for social issues" it means exactly that. You speak up, people don't like it, and you instead of acting offended you fight back until you convince everyone you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 12:59 PM
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For sharing links? That's not true
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:32 PM
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your whole posts stands over something 100% fabricated
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:20 PM
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If men criticize older men for dating younger women, the response is often that the woman "knows what she wants," that "women naturally prefer older men," or that "young men have nothing to offer." nobody says that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:16 PM
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why is it that all manosphere influencer bros wear bursting cleavage that's just feminine behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:20 PM
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Who stays after your partner's presence stops being enjoyable? I feel like you are describing normal behavior in a complicated way for no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:28 PM
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yeah and scared of Louis Theroux not very Chad behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:22 PM
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I saw the Louis Theroux Manosphere documentary on Netflix (most of it I fell asleep in the middle) There was not one single second where I thought "what a hot man". None. Manosphere influencers are only appealing to OF girls. No wonder they think "all women" are after money. "all women" = OF girls
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 09:02 PM
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On one hand I feel like a wasted opportunity and on the other hand I congratulate myself for trying
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:50 PM
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Once I went to an Airbnb with that type of countertop and it felt really unsanitary. If you cut directly on it, it not only leaves a mark but also there's all sorts of bacteria in the cracks The owner told us she really regretted buying them I hope that's not your case
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:42 PM
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you went off topic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:38 PM
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I've seen this before "don't give dating advice if you are in a relationship" "don't give dating advice if you are +35 (even if ou are using the exact same apps as anyone else" "don't give dating advice if you are a woman" "don't give dating advice if you are a Chad, I'm short so it doesn't work" Who are you taking advice from then? an incel? Also maybe some advice doesn't fit you but it might be useful for someone else. Why don't you just take the advice that suits you and just ignore the rest?…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:36 PM
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Living in the USA (a first world country) is a privilege in itself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:22 PM
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After a break up I don't see the point in telling anyone "you should've picked better". That's just antisocial behavior. If any of them hurt the other, the person who is the perpetrator is to blame. But now you are talking about blame, not about "picking better"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:21 PM
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you are angry for no reason have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:35 PM
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yeah bad analogy, agree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:30 PM
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Oh you're just functionally illiterate and lack critical skills I only told you you have the wrong definition, that it's perfectly ok to just say "I want a girlfriend". Then you got mad, insulted me and somehow made yourself a victim reported for incivility
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:29 PM
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having such freedom is privilege that means you have a car, you can pay for gas, you don't need to be near relatives who need your help, you don't need to be near kid's school, etc if you thought that buying a house in a rural areal is not a privilege I don't know what to tell you, sounds like a first world privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:26 PM
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you said I was hating. Hating is bad no? I'm not hating since I don't think saying that you want a relationship/sex is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:11 PM
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I don't think it's bad to say that you want to have sex or you want to be in a relationship that's you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:01 PM
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Loneliness is cured by human company, that's the definition of the word. If human company doesn't cure what you are feeling then you are using the wrong name for such feeling. If your """lonelines""" is only cured with sex, or a romantic relationship, then you suffer from lack of sex or lack of relationships It's not me saying it, it's you. You are saying men's problem isn't loneliness but lack of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:42 PM
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Women don’t date men who earn less yes they do, all the time. People date within the same social class and also nobody discusses salaries on the first dates so...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:36 PM
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cancer is not sentient, so it's a bad analogy, sorry about that I only realized later you were talking about blame
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:35 PM
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of course you were talking about blame and not decisions. you title should've been "When is it ok to blame women?" "if a man hurt you, you should've picked better" like it's her fault
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:27 PM
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Then that's a "lack of sex" problem not a loneliness problem. Different words.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:19 PM
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I'd say never. You don't go to someone who has cancer "you should've smoked less" (you can but you are an asshole of you do that). What's done is done. The person already knows, you don't need to point it out to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:15 PM
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I remember! He had his face in his pfp, he was so unhinged I bet he thought ppd was going to be an easy audience lol everyone came at him it was so much fun
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:13 PM
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women don't "demand" anything. Usually people date within their social class. If men could date rich women they would because, you know, having money is nice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:31 PM
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that's if you are privileged middle and low class they both work full time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:17 PM
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Women absolutely count those things and, like you, you are both "hiring" a partner And also in the real low/middle class world everyone has to work, so good luck on ascending the social ladder
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:38 PM
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no of course not, a hot Chad is naturally dominant it's every TRP man's wet dream
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:07 PM
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" you'd say yes to a Hot Chad<sup>TM</sup> "
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:00 PM
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I think the definition is pretty clear there's no need to twist it. You can ask someone out in an assertive way "would you go out with me?" or you can ask a woman out in a dominant way "we are going out tonight" Men need to be assertive? yes, of course, we all do Are men naturally assertive? no, it's an acquired personality trait
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:54 PM
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People don't count hours, don't compare salaries, don't put a price on working hours, that's not normal. Because there's so much more than money in a relationship. You are not HIRING a wife so that she has to take care of the kids while you work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:51 PM
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Assertive: expressing your needs, opinions, or boundaries clearly and confidently, while respecting other people. Dominant: seeking to control, lead, or have influence over other people or a situation, sometimes regardless of others' preferences. The red pill and conservative people talk about men leading, men being dominant, in Andrew Tate's words "women are property" Of course being assertive is a good thing, that's a bluepill take. Men aren't either naturally dominant or naturally assertive. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:46 PM
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if you are counting the hours worked and putting a price on those domestic working hours, again, you are confused with business partners
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:38 PM
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yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:35 PM
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is everyone on discord?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:34 PM
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Assertiveness is not the same as dominant. Shy is not the same as submissive. Don't change goal posts. Red pill talks about men being dominant. "I want pizza tonight". "Assertiveness" is a good quality to have but it's not something males are naturally born with like legs or ears. It's a personality trait women also have. Here, at the workplace for example, men and women are equally assertive. I've never had a man tell me "today we are having pizza". maybe you live in a more traditional culture …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:33 PM
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and yet there's plenty of non dominant men who are in relationships. In fact I'd say the average man isn't "dominant" or "protective", they are normal. Sometimes they speak up, sometimes they don't. There's a difference between being dominant, passive and normal I think the red pill confuses "natural" with "I want this so bad to be true"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:09 PM
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equal partners financially? no, you are right, nobody is financially equal unless you work at the same position at the same workplace but being partnered isn't 100% about money you got confused with bussiness partnerships
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:02 PM
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Some men here get horny taking about raping women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:27 PM
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Then how come we don't see it in women who take hormonal bc?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:06 PM
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We'd see it in women taking hormonal bc Women don't change political affiliations. There's plenty of mild women who don't change political affiliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:10 AM
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If testosterone had a real influence they wouldn't be able to control it. Nobody can override hormones with reason. By that logic all women could avoid PMS by just thinking about happy stuff. That's not how hormones work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:14 AM
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why ae you placing chicken and chopping stuff directly on the counter? don't you use a cutting board?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:21 AM
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I bought a spicy sauce but now I have to season with exactly 1 molecule to not burn myself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:19 AM
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Bluepillers are just normal people, of course there's a consensus, we call that "common sense" It's what black and red pillers are too detached to grasp
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:17 AM
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some other reason like conservative ideologies are not appealing to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:20 AM
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how am I supposed to know though?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:10 AM
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people who claim girls screaming their heads off are "faking" are wrong, you think porn actresses are not faking their screams? they are actresses Also once I was in a motel and there was a couple next door. I've never heard a more fake scream, we started laughing. She was most likely a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:04 AM
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it's seagull noises for me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:01 AM
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100% this It's like doing anything just because your partner likes it Also thanks to porn there's an expectation of a certain performance
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:01 AM
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if people really turned conservative with TRT we'd already seen it in the trans community around the world that's why 136 men is not enough
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:43 AM
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"a friend will help can help deal with loneliness or other issues" SEE WOMAN? TERRIBLE ADVICE HOW DARE YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:17 AM
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Sometimes casual relationships just develop into situationships because you enjoy each other company but you don't want to be in a relationship. Sure sometimes one of them wants more but not necessarily. That's why the post is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:30 AM
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Eeeeeewwwwwwwww I hope you reported them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:19 PM
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It works between some gay men maybe, who knows Guys who send unsolicited dick pics get a kick out of showing their junk. They don't do it to flirt. It's like men flashing their penis in public. They don't expect anyone to like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:04 PM
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chat gpt: A situationship is a romantic or sexual relationship that exists without a clear definition or commitment. I think the tweet is wrong. I don't think "situationship" implies there's someone who wants more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:21 PM
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I don't think in every situationship one is pushing for more. I think it's just a synonym of "friends with benefits" or "casual relationship + extras" but I could be wrong Some people push for more, sometimes it develops into a relationship, sometimes it doesn't. Some people are happy with the sex, even if they want it to be something more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:04 PM
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My ceramics teacher's dog died yesterday. He was a genetically fucked up English Bulldog. She had to constantly take him to the vet. The last time I saw him he got up and said hi to me, I didn't know it was going to be the last time 💔. He died of heart/lungs/kidney failure. I hate what some people do to dogs. There's some breeds that should be illegal. rest in peace little guy 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:19 PM
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pfp is accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:11 PM
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that was funny and accurate 💀 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:10 PM
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I barely skimmed your post and the first thing I though was "nah they are going to say they want to stick their dicks into something someone"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:07 PM
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objectification happens when you don't care that there's a person behind that pic. Commenting "hot" or "sexy" or whatever under a pic that's intentionally hot and sexy is not objectification imo. Sending her dick pics knowing perfectly well that they are not going to be well received, that's objectification. Commenting rude violent things is objectification because you don't care how the person might feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:57 PM
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I think men get more triggered when you try to help them than when you are a misandrist The moment you suggest "having friends is nice" they are like "NOOOOO HOW DARE YOU STOP INSULTING MEEEE" People here don't want solutions or answers, they just want to argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:51 PM
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there's very masculine gay men ("bears") who are definitely not conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:46 PM
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136 healthy males Just because there's something published on that site, doesn't mean it's 100% valid. 136 males is not a representative number of all men. Also we'd have trans men turn conservative the moment they start TRT. And that just doesn't happen. I used to have higher testosterone I had to take BC to make it normal, my political ideas never changed I've always been a lefty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:41 PM
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There seems to be a huge confusion in this sub regarding the difference between social studies and hard sciences. There's no other way but surveying women to know what they want. "Bias" is basically preferences. Preferences are always going to be biased because they are intertwined with culture. Even if you could scan the brain, you are still going to get biased answers. You can ask 5000 Chinese women / 5000 American women and you'll get wildely different answers and they are both going to be ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:26 PM
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There's no other way of learning what women want other than surveys
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:16 PM
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There's also crazy stuff going on with hormones and cravings during pregnancy. Evolution wise it makes sense. During PMS I also crave fatty high calorie food. I think it's pretty common. I can't relate to the broccoli but it's 100% possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:15 PM
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you can't study humans like chemistry. Humans are biased, so you can't remove bias like you can remove bias in a lab
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:09 PM
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omg quit the chit chat and send links
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:22 PM
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If you are unable to show examples of what you are saying (it should be easier if it's so common like you said) then I you loose the argument that's how debates work
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:14 PM
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I don't see anything that suggest to your point. And it's not my job to prove your point and all this aggressive talk instead of actually showing proof of your point suggests you don't have a point, you are making stuff up. Literally never insulted you. so, whenever you are ready to show examples, I'm here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:07 PM
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I'm asking for links that support your point, I'm looking at the sub and I'm seeing normal kink posting where's the dom women treating men badly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:42 PM
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I'm asking for links, if it's that common it should be easy to find. Where did you see dom women show disdain for sub men? I don't want to go through nsfw posts to prove your porint, that's your job
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:50 PM
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This isn't a silent European movie full of hints. There's no hints, there's no shots or faces that speak like words. Not a single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:12 PM
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links?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:40 PM
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The guy is obsessed with her in the sense that he let's her do all sorts of crazy demon things like: "I told you to not cook my cat and feed it to me, bad bad girl" like dude, run tf away. II think that's the point of the movie, how incredibly long it takes him to realize he's fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:39 PM
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oh noooo don't bother, it's very bad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:14 PM
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✨ come argue with incels, misogynists and misandrists ✨ like a tourism brochure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:25 PM
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not true, specially in the kink community
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:51 PM
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oh me too! that's how I met my first boyfriend when I was 17
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:42 PM
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I would use it, yes. But in a different way than classic OLD. I'd talk to a few men for, maybe, months and only then I'd ask for a pic and then go on a blind date. That's how I met my first boyfriend. We met online, talked for a year, and we didn't exchange pics until we were about to meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:41 PM
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what plot twist? I could predict every second of the movie. From the moment the lady in the magic shop says "don't come back complaining" it was pretty obvious the wish was going to backfire
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:34 PM
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Don't do the note
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:25 PM
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24-28 is a perfectly reasonable age gap don't worry about it she might not be gay. Today the classic "lesbian look" is very similar to genz fashion You should somehow exchange whatever social media you both use (ig? tiktok?) and build from there replying to her stories, striking up casual conversation. Once you regularly talk then you ask her out. good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:24 PM
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Humanity is doomed because that was a shitty 1 layered movie that didn't really do a good job expressing the complexities of objectifying people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:27 PM
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a well deserved punishment for objectifying a woman but I didn't see it as a political movie. I interpreted more like the Simpsons episode. A wish that backfires tremendously. If they wanted to make a political movie there's a lot of dialogue missing, and instead to get to see his dumb face doing nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:21 PM
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no, you are shifting the argument. You were talking about restricting freedom from women, and now you are changing it to "no, by freedom I mean money" sure buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:03 PM
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that's not the freedom you were talking about. "Long term it's going to bounce back to less freedom for women." doesn't mean "let's take money away from women" you were talking more of a "let's take women's rights" you saw all the downvotes and now you are trying to change your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:02 PM
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poor people know how shitty this world is better than middle or high class, mainly because they are having a tougher time I don't know what makes you think poor people are having a great time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:00 PM
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yeah that's what I thought. Is she obsessed with him or is he obsessed with her? that's why a perfect ending would've been both of them obsessed with each other in a creepy magical way. But it ended in the most predictable way possible. sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:57 PM
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how dare you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:38 PM
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I saw Obsession what a terrible movie, I want my 2 hours back. It's literally this simpsons episode. I hate that the guy is so much prettier than her, I hate all the irrational decisions they make. "Oh my girlfriend cooked my cat that's very normal" The ending was good until he dies, it'd been hilarious if they lived obsessed with each other forever. Missed that non predictable ending. What they did, though, you could predict it from the moment he makes the wish. Also don't forget to show tits a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:37 PM
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That's my point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:56 AM
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oh I was talking about men rage baiting women here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:03 AM
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that's not what the phrase means
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:03 AM
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I just saw Obsession what a terrible movie, I want my 2 hours back. !It's literally this simpsons episode. I hate that the guy is so much prettier than her, I hate all the irrational decisions they make. "Oh my girlfriend cooked my cat that's very normal"!< !The ending was good until he dies, it'd been hilarious if they lived obsessed with each other forever. Missed that non predictable ending. What they did, though, you could predict it from the moment he makes the wish. !< !Also don't forget t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:01 AM
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you don't make very spicy hateful takes though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:56 AM
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this comment gives me "let them eat cake" vibes you also chose to ignore the rest of the comment. The food was just an example of how paternity tests are a non priority when you have people suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:11 AM
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and yet somehow it's always the same teams in the round of 16 and the quarterfinals
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:07 AM
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No no un talking about online rage bait Specifically men here who post misogynistic shit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:58 PM
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and some men seem to get horny from that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:05 PM
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the question doesn't make sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:42 PM
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fiction villains don't exist in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:36 PM
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but it's SENEGAL
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:35 PM
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Either change yourself or change the world Accepting that you can't change the world is being mature
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:29 PM
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You said that because you thought Belgium was not good. If France had scored 3 goals in the last 20 minutes it would've been entertaining but not surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:28 PM
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First that's an ignorant take. Poor people spend the few bucks they have in inexpensive, calorie-dense foods that are filling but nutritionally poor. If you don't receive enough nutrients you have health issues. If you have health issues you spend money on medicine, and have less money and time to buy and cook nutritious food. High BMI is a result of the American food industry. But also I could name a million other issues that are more tax paying worth than paternity tests like education, housin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:25 PM
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The world is cruel and unfair and therapy won't change that. In front of a terrible situation someone might be really affected by it and some other people might not be that affected. The point of therapy isn't changing the world but helping you find the tools so that you don't care that much. In this particular example, a therapist might make you see how a second surgery, a third one or a fifth one won't fix the "I think I'm ugly" issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:10 PM
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Some men get horny by making women angry. Is there a name for this kink?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:01 PM
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They are all liars. Of course the ultimate success is a loving relationship. They just say "pump and dump" out of bitterness. "see women? I want to use you!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:52 PM
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Remember when you said you were surprised that Belgium beat Senegal and I told you Belgium is really good? When I saw how they beat the shit out of the USA I remembered that conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:51 PM
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but the cuck kink is role play. Guys ask their wives to have sex with another man in front of them, they are still in control of the situation. It's very different than the feeling of being cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:44 PM
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can't understand the male fear of cuckoldry cuckoldry is basically feeling insecure from other people being "better". Anyone who has been cheated on can understand this feeling. There's also a million songs and movies about this. There's no equivalent to the "nice guy" the male equivalent would be being teased on I think. A nice guy is someone who lies to get something. So the equivalent would be a woman lying to get something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:42 PM
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because you are unable to open up to the possibility that it might help you seriously think there's a massive conspiracy going on? everyone is inferior. People recovering thanks to AA meetings are all lying. People finding comfort in group therapy, they are all lying. Institutions, universities, patients around the world, they are all lying. You only know the truth. Does this make sense to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:29 PM
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I thought France was the favorite, I'm surprised by this result
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:23 PM
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I knew you weren't "honestly asking" You seem to have a very strict preconceived idea of what happens in therapy. This rigid form of thinking is incompatible with therapy. So maybe therapy isn't for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:18 PM
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yes of course, interacting here doesn't mean anything other than maybe being interested in weird interactions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:16 PM
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you've been here for YEARS lol You were here before me No, paternity tests are a completely different procedure that costs money. Also if it's mandatory you also need to pay a bunch of people to audit and a whole bunch of people to punish people who refuse to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:06 PM
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yes, therapy can help dealing with all of those problems. Therapy can't solve society but if you don't care or can move away from racism or bullying you can live a happy life. Why not try to solve the root of body dysmorphia? What was body positivity for? Body dysmorphia is an unsatiable unhappiness about how you look. Surgery can't fix it. Yes body positivity is exactly how you cure body dysmorphia. It's a very weird question to ask. Usually people understand that venting helps with bad feeling…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:37 PM
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It's always the libertarians asking for government mandated girlfriends. I always found this so amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:11 PM
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Especially the top 1%, go outside, talk to people. you've been here for years though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:10 PM
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Let me guess, you’re a libertarian? I hope not. Don't libertarians advocate for minimal government intervention? A libertarian wouldn't be begging the government to spend millions and millions of dollars in mandatory paternity testing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:09 PM
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Imagine having poor people not being able to buy food and the government choosing to spend that money on insecure men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:06 PM
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"wdym I'm not allowed to disrespect my partner???"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:02 PM
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That's how people cure problems that can't be dealt with medicine, by talking about them. There's several studies backing this up. Also if people didn't find relief in talking about their problems, spaces like AA meetings, support groups or hotlines wouldn't exist. Regarding body dysmorphia there's special treatments and specialists equiped to deal with this particular issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:56 PM
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They probably get hired for events like any other male or female promoter
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:35 PM
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if they get paid for doing than then yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:41 PM
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Why not send women who get boobjobs to therapy too? Is it different? We do that already. Famous women get constant comments about eating disorders, body dysmorphia. See Ariana Grande. or any ozempic celebrity. Most comments are "nough is enough, she looks too thin, she needs therapy"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:37 PM
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Men in general don't understand that body dysmorphia can affect them too. It's not just women with bulimia or anorexia, it's also gym freaks or extreme surgery for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:32 PM
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I saw that documentary! I felt sorry for that guy because clearly has body dysmorphia. I wish it would be mandatory to have patients be evaluated by a professional before getting a second or third surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:29 PM
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This is what I told my mother when I was a teenager living in her house Now that I'm an adult I know my mom was right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:24 PM
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poor people have more kids regardless the amount of freedom they have
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:14 PM
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very ignorant bait people having more kids is related to poverty, lack of education and vulnerability, not freedom you can see this in every third world country
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:13 PM
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needs to stop correlating the capacity of men to get sex with their overall worth on this planet. these influencers could do exactly that, fight incel shaming. Someone has to do it..... or what's the plan? people magically changing? How do you think change happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:15 PM
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these influencers could fight incel shaming, that's the point You are expecting people to shut up on their own or....?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:11 PM
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you started talking about MGTOW why are you switching to Twox? Twox's point isn't helping single women not be hateful. Perfect "whataboutism"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:09 PM
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🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:37 AM
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I'm here because of the unhinged interactions like you being so convinced all women as as desperate as men. I find this amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:34 AM
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Maybe this could be a healthy next step for the online male community. I mean have a bunch of male influencers tell other men that they can join hobbies and life doesn't end in sex or relationships. Help them find themselves outside that need.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:13 AM
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Women say the same thing online and offline. I've never heard a woman say the terrible things men say online, and I've heard misandry "all men are trash" "there's no good men" etc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:10 AM
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that's a ppd classic QFW "what is your favorite color?" Women: .... ppd men: THAT'S WRONG YOU HYPERGAMOUS WOMAN
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:30 AM
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Sure. I can tell you I want a partner but I'm not doing anything to meet anyone and I'm also not bothered by lack of partner. I believe this is how women feel about being single, in general As opposed to men who are more desperate and depressed over lack of sex or relationships we are not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:25 AM
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Same with men if they are eternally single the market has decided their value
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:18 AM
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MRAs=
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:56 PM
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"here son, let me show you how women are hypergamous and stupid" human extinction is a collective effort 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:45 PM
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but it's women who encourage other women to not date abusive men. We just can't physically control others. Contrary to popular ppd belief we are not a hivemind
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:57 PM
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no, him being rude to lift and me for not assuming previous posts were part of his thread, and calling me stupid. Why are you defending that? I don't care that he's a woman, a man or a lizard
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:48 PM
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I've shared a million screens showing that he made a different post Why do you keep defending people who are this rude over a mistake they've made. sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:17 PM
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yes and if he wanted people to follow the thread he should've posted on the same thread, not post it as a new comment on the daily. I'm not sure why you are wasting your time defending that guy who just made a mistake and was very rude about it saying stuff like "you don't know how to read" but you do you Lift didn't know what was he talking about either and he was insulting him too maybe you are his alt, who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:44 PM
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so you are going to enforce by law that all women who aren't using protection to take pregnancy tests? it doesn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:29 PM
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you can't just post something in the forst person and then claim "oh no, it's a quote from someone else, you just forgot to read my mind since I didn't even bother to put quotes" I mean, you can obviously but that's not how forums work
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:24 PM
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if she doesn't know she's pregnant, which is very common, that's outside of her control. There is no way of controlling that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:16 PM
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<image> I love that I'm the only one showing proof that you are lying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:00 PM
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<image> are you joking? do none of you know how to interact in a forum? I don't care if you wrote a comment yesterday on the daily, people are supposed to reply to a thread. Besides I've seen him switch from man to woman and back to man in the main sub so.....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:58 PM
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<image> no they are not stop the lies
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:56 PM
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This would never work because you are not taking into account what happens if she finds out she's pregnant. It's not fair that she and the kid get to be punished for something outside their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:38 PM
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This would never work because you are not taking into account what happens if she finds out she's pregnant. It's not fair that she and the kid get to be punished for something outside their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:37 PM
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stupid girl is this a personal attack? are you mad that you forgot how reddit works? or you are mad that we got a confirmation you are larping as a woman? that's too bad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:19 PM
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sure blackpill man what's next? we should reply to your facebook posts even if they are not here?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:06 PM
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hahaha you bought a comment from somewhere else 🤦‍♀️ do you not know how forums work blackpill man?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:04 PM
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I don't know where those comments are or why you think we were supposed to read them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:00 PM
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<image> lmao what a lame attempt to save yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:52 PM
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no you didn't <image> you know we can see the comment, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:51 PM
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I wish I could get a military girl to love me, It would be awesome so date someone who is protecting me always . where? lol I saw you say you are a woman and then say you are a man previously in other posts you are not fooling anyone blackpill man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:35 PM
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that's what military men think about men in general
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:21 PM
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glad we agree then, misandry isn't real
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:10 PM
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you just showed us an example of misandry not being real lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:06 PM
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from a previous comment: I am a conservative woman so you are a lesbian conservative woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:05 PM
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dress promiscuously lmao, you mean a party dress. You sound like religious nut that gets triggered by bikinis at the beach of course public transport men behave differently than the men going to a fancy party have you never been on public transport?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:56 PM
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lmao imagine thinking clothes to go out to a party are only fans clothes clutch those pearls girl! squeeze them harder!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:03 PM
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Is this new? I've been putting on a baggy shirt over my party clothes because of creepy men in public transport since forever
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:02 PM
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women have been (and will always be) friends with each other since forever I don't know why you are making up that women suck at friends
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:45 PM
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Red pillers are red pillers because they struggle understanding the world so obviously they are not equipped to have a normal friendship with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:45 PM
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It's dumb to start a relationship with someone expecting them to change
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:07 AM
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So you want to shoot people irl? That's not normal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 08:09 PM
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You have to be really pearl clutching conservative to think that it's unnerving to have regular beach pictures posted online. It's just vacation pics that any horny man could find exciting. The ai argument doesn't make sense since grok is able to undress anyone without beach pics references. By that logic you should be erasing ever single pic of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:20 PM
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This is not the gotcha you think it is, it's a dumb question I'm saying to each their own, what would I do in a made up scenario is the exact opposite of what I'm saying You are uncomfortable with your partner sitting on someone else's lap, you should break up. You are not uncomfortable with your partner having sex with another person, you should not break up. That's up to you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:57 PM
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So if you go to the beach on vacation you cannot post pictures of yourself at the beach because that will tempt men to like your picture?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:53 PM
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What about cheating? Again there's no such thing as break up police. If you are uncomfortable with your partner sitting on someone else's lap you should break up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:49 PM
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Then find yourself a male therapist, easy I've been to both, male and female therapists btw
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:37 PM
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That's because men and women agree that wars and shootings are bad. There's whole political parties that promise the end of war in their political campaigns. Wars are not a male issue. Violence against women is a women's issue Let's not pretend fighting against way doesn't have political connotations
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:34 PM
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This should be question for man. Why don't men leave if they are uncomfortable with her way of dressing? With the fact that she likes to go out with friends? With her posting sexy pics? I think it's extremely dump to leave someone for those reasons but there's no break up police and everyone should do whatever they want
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:32 PM
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She provoked the man by existing attractively /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:28 PM
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Trying to approach is not disregarding women's concerns. You can try, she might want to engage or not. Trying to approach when there's clear signs that she doesn't want to engage that is disregarding women's concerns and it doesn't work. This is what women talk about online. It's shitty advice regardless what internet women say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:24 PM
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are you sure men or people in general don't complain about wars, crime or shootings?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:19 AM
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When men play videogames where they shoot people and then don't want to get shot irl, Isn't it the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:47 AM
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Sure, we all believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:43 PM
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haha good luck in your deadbedrooms expecting men to read your mind you are not fooling anyone with that tag btw
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:06 PM
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your baits a re so boring
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:59 PM
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so you don't know what you are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:52 PM
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Literally everyone knows this Men lie to get sex. It's specially funny when incels (not that this is you) repeat this like it's some kind of revenge they are enjoying on behalf of other men. haaa haaa woman! the men having sex are going to use you!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:50 PM
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of course it's difficult to you if you refuse to listen to your partner this is fascinating how you are so sure of something that's so wrong again, literally explaining dead bedrooms, bad sex and orgasm gap In a bdsm relationship whoever is sub asks to be sub, Then the sex happens where the dom is in control. And those relationships work. Truly fascinating, honestly. Saving it for later use
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:32 PM
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I never said she has to be in control, just instructions "a little to the left" "I don't like this" "I like this" The way you are answering explains the orgasm gap and explains why women fake their orgasms. I wish more people could see it. If you can't handle talking about sex, you probably deserve a dead bedroom situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:55 PM
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Agree. It's a general problem of lack of socialization, isolation, social media bringing the worst in people. My friend is now in a relationship but he had to be very insistent because she treated him with apathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:29 PM
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This sounds like an excuse for being bad in bed "it's not that I wasn't able to follow instructions to make her orgasm" "it's not that I didn't even notice that she wasn't having a good time" nono, it's her lying to get married, evil evil woman. Which doesn't make sense btw. If she was faking she wouldn't stop in marriage. What's there to gain? Most people marry people from their same economic class. This sounds like deep fear of being lied to with something that men are very sensitive about whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:24 PM
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I know I know, I assumed The problem is advising other men to "disregard women's concerns" because that could be interpreted as "ask her multiple times, disregarding her body language". And that could backfire horribly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:57 PM
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Outside interacting with people, not with the intent of hooking up. Approaching is level 100 of social cues. The advice of disregarding women's concerns is the worst advice one can give
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:54 PM
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requires a man to disregard women's concerns Why are social cues such a difficult concept? I'm able to strike conversation with anyone. Obviously some people don't want to talk, that's fine. Striking a small conversation is not disregarding women's concerns. Talking to someone and having them tell you they are not going to give you their number isn't disregard women's concerns Disregarding women's concerns would be trying to talk to someone who looks scared and visibly doesn't want to engage. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:10 PM
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We are on a row, first it's "why women like money" now it's "why men like boobs" Life is full of mystery
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:25 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:57 AM
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Everyone had unserious relationships in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:15 AM
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that's why people who want a serious long term relationship are only compatible with other people who are not afraid of saying they want a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:14 AM
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you have to press the award button on the comment you want to award and sometimes (like right now) there's some free awards, you don't have to buy anything
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:56 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:04 AM
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there's hard sciences like chemistry, physics, astronomy, etc you study those at the lab with a scientific method Social science disciplines study human society, culture, and behavior. These core fields examine how people interact with each other, form groups, and make decisions in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:01 AM
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The patriarchy is not a scientific concept, it's a social studies concept
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:28 PM
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Sorry you are not getting an angry answer from me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:27 PM
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Ah so you don't want to do it, you just want to provoke by saying something dumb like all men should leave the country Everyone is free to do what they want I don't understand why you need people's opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:14 PM
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We were talking about social studies you are not even reading Don't waste my time troll bye bye
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:59 PM
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Just do it bro, nothing is stopping you Do you need permission or are you trying to rage bait people? Are you trying to organize a group trip?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:53 PM
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That's not the point and you are clearly trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:49 PM
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This is such an American centric pov You talked about amateur porn, now you are moving to "how American women behave". You are saying American women behave worst in real life than how they behave in porn? American porn is mainstream. It's not like a big secret. I watch that and I can tell you there's no difference between American porn and non American porn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:19 PM
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I'm literally someone from one of those "trad" country you are talking about. And I watch porn. There's literally none more qualified to talk about this. I guess it's painful to burst your bubble
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:24 PM
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Yes I do, and I'm not American, that's why I'm explaining to you how porn sites work outside America Yes there's people of all colors filming themselves while having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:07 PM
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why? what happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:42 PM
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yes, amateur, studio, any form of porn you like from any country. I can't believe I'm explaining porn to a man. Pornhub, Xvideos and other big porn sites will show you on your frontpage amateur porn from the place you live in, that doesn't mean other countries don't have their own local amateur porn. You thought the whole world only watches American amateur porn? really?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:42 PM
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Did the daily title change?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:33 PM
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I'm sorry this is too funny Literally go to any porn site of any country and you'll find plenty of local non western porn Also there's a gazillion hours of creepy Japanese porn, like how did you even miss that popular category?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:25 PM
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well actually it is, if you made a post that doesn't make sense, it is actually your job to explain yourself just say you are lost or you don't understand the difference between social media and what actually happens in therapy you could even rewrite the post to talk about therapy from the pov of social media
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:22 PM
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what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:17 PM
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"look younger than me" she's talking about women dressing up as literal children lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:17 PM
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as predicted, you don't know what you are talking about you keep bringing up social media or, worst "I heard 2 people talking about it at work" wtf is this argument Do you understand the difference between social media and what happens in therapy? apparently not you are failing to explain what you are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:15 PM
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Oh really? Then why are there hardly any videos of it on the internet? what do you mean? there's millions videos of non western women talking about their dating casual sex experiences. There's series, there's movies. You sound very lazy, like you've never bothered to do a very simple research. You think they don't have casual sex in Africa? In India? Philippines? Korea? Latin America?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:12 PM
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you need to come up with an explanation explaining that we live in a different system. Have you ever read anything in social studies? It's usually "Guy A says X" then "Guy B says Guy A is wrong because of Y and Z" then people side with Guy A or Guy B and write a bunch of papers about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:06 PM
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So you don't know and you can't answer the question. Probably don't know how therapy works. You just described that you saw a video. I'm asking how does this come up in therapy, not how this topic comes up in social media. You asked "What do you think about the patriarchy theory being used in therapy?" So I'm asking how is it used in therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:03 PM
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you are right
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:58 PM
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sure, nothing is sexier than a extra horny guy who doesn't masturbate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:56 PM
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You seriously think non western women don't have casual sex? where? Maybe in extremely trad cultures like, idk, the middle east, where she might be stoned to death. Maybe there women have less casual sex (I don't know though, honestly, I'm repeating an exaggerated view of that culture, it's probably not like that) But the rest? Has any of you actually had a conversation with non western person? Or seen a movie/series? Because it doesn't sound like it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:54 PM
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can you answer the question? do you understand the difference between social studies and hard sciences? I don't think you do If your argument is that "it's false because we can't scientifically prove it" then you have to apply that like of reasoning to every other social problem like racism. You don't get to cherry pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:49 PM
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Women discriminated against = patriarchy Men discriminated against = somehow also patriarchy She gave you a through answer that you clearly didn't bother to try to understand. And yet answer with such confidence. She said a million times that the patriarchy is a framework, a system and you are still saying "somehow also patriarchy" well, yes, that's what "system" means
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:44 PM
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This post sounds like it was written by someone who's never been to therapy. Reminds me of when conservative people complain about sex ed forcing children become trans How does "patriarchy" even come up in therapy? I've been doing therapy since forever and the only times we discussed patriarchy things was when I brought it up. No therapist will bring it up themselves because it's usually not relevant to our every day problems. That's not how therapy works
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:38 PM
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Average people date average people everywhere in the world what is this nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:34 PM
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this killed me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:09 PM
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I wish I could go back 15 seconds ago before I clicked the spoiler
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:06 PM
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this is the male version of Live Love Laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:04 PM
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In this particular example "all women want is a masculine man" is factually false since there's plenty of women who like, for example, kpop guys in crop tops, soft voices and full on glitter make up. So, there's 2 options, either all people around them believe "all women want is a masculine man" (trad culture) or they have some sort of cognitive issue where they are unable to understand reality I pick the first choice because not only it makes more sense but also refuse to believe someone can be…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:11 AM
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If someone says something that's very specific to a certain culture, it's ok to bring up that their environment looks like that. It's true to them, it's not true for people outside that culture
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:56 AM
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where did I say this part: Its ok to assume that anyone who disagrees with you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:50 AM
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where did I say that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:46 AM
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but blue pillers tend to place more blame on the individual regardless of the effort put in *accountability fify
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:24 AM
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evidence-based dating advice. That's just nonsensical. Dating can't be studied like you study atoms or chemistry. At most it's social studies. This is how you get grifters. They convince you their advice is as solid as chemistry and that's a lie. They feed on desperation, they feed on people who are too desperate to get an ultimate definite solution, when reality is nuanced. What's closest to "evidence-based dating advice" is cognitive therapy, that is, somewhat based on a collection of results.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:21 AM
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This is true. I was thinking about contra points, FD Signifier, chad chad, Vaush, Destiny?, Hasan? And there's like 4 others I used to watch I can't remember the names. Ah and there's also Ethan Klein & CO (my sister is a die hard fan) And this is the American Breadtube, every country has it's own local progressive or feminist celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:17 AM
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Sometimes I think it's relevant to keep in mind where the comment comes from. So for example if someone here says "all women want a masculine man" it's ok to tell them "that's because you come from a trad background". To them it's real all women like masculine men, but to someone who grew up more in a lefty spaces that's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:23 AM
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but that's the fun part lol the wild generalizations
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:12 AM
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I'm not speaking for all women, this is a persona question
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:10 AM
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This is true, you are right and it's something I think often. But also there's a middle ground. The guys that have been really shitty were the ones who were really insisting. The good guys I've been with did make the first move but waited for me to make a second move. Now I consider a guy who insists to be a red flag and I'm trying to not be scared of expressing my feelings to guys who don't want to ask blindly for a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:09 AM
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yeah I know, not arguing with that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:02 PM
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I feel like those are very intuitive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:41 PM
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wdym? you got lost? read the thread
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:25 PM
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This is a personal question so you saying "you are wrong" is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:22 PM
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I don't want to go into a competition. You asked a question I answered. You don't like that answer? that's not my pronblem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:17 PM
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I guess then dating men sucks either way then Going back to the question of this post, I'm jealous of men because women aren't that desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:16 PM
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This post is question for women "What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of?" If you want to start the victim olympics you can make a different post and we'll discuss
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:12 PM
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When you meet a guy for the first time you don't know if he's going to be creepy. You get into his car and he starts talking about something weird like killing cats or having sex with your dog. Sure he could be a weirdo but he could also be a murderer. That's a shitty situation men don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:04 PM
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again, you asked. That's really not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:57 PM
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rephrasing then: I'd rather pay a hundred dinners than having sex with a guy who thinks I'm "meh" (but doesn't show it)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:53 PM
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sure, but also every time a man says a woman has "natural beauty" when she's had everything done also enforces this idea The day men start praising ugly women I'll believe it's just a woman thing that's why it's a societal expectation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:52 PM
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Men here say over and over and over that they are more desperate than women. Now that I'm saying it it's "no, not like that". So what is it? You have no understanding of female sexuality if you think having painful sex for a woman is comparable to having your dick scratched. Men learn sex from porn and for some reason think being rough is sexy. And some get very angry if you tell them you are not having a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:32 PM
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I'd much rather pay for a hundred dinners than being tricked into sex for the wrong reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:26 PM
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sure, but also every time a man says a woman has "natural beauty" when she's had everything done also enforces this idea The day men start praising ugly women I'll believe it's just a woman thing that's why it's a societal expectation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:19 PM
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You asked what aspects of dating I'm jealous of, so I answered "I don't like them"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:17 PM
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I could say the same. Men being more desperate for sex isn't an advantage when you are looking for a real connection. Women aren't that desperate, if a woman says yes, it's most likely safe to assume she's interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:15 PM
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It's a social expectation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:14 PM
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So why the hell would that change regardless of who's approaching? because women in general are less desperate and are fine being single. Remember that phrase repeated to death on social media? "You're not competing against other men. You're competing against the comfort of her single life." something like that. So if a woman says yes, it's more likely she likes you But you are able to date without giving her gifts and paying for expensive stuff (to avoid gold diggers). Also if you are middle cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:13 PM
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Only someone who’s never actually been told no on a consistent level would say something like this if my grandma has wheels she'd been a bike It's been proven a million times that men don't notice make up or procedures. "a naturally beautiful woman" is a woman who has a million procedures and a thick coat of naturally looking make up. Maybe she even has a wig. Men do care about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:57 PM
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you don't but people do. We have a regular ncounts megathread for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:47 PM
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But a guy who is desperate will happily go to that dinner, even if he thinks she's "meh" I don't want to go to a dinner with a guy who thinks I'm "meh"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:46 PM
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There's a perfect solution for this problem, why don't you stop slut shaming? I mean a campaign, I mean men (and women) getting together to stop slut shaming? I totally get that if a woman meets a guy who is only for sex, she doesn't care if he thinks she's a hoe. It's just sex. But when you are interested in how he thinks it's pretty important to see if he slut shames or not. And one way of doing that is not having sex with him right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:45 PM
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because men get next to No attention anyway. But this is a problem too. He might be so desperate that he'll say yes to anything. I want to be liked for who I am, I'm not just "anything". Stop texting the guy if he's implying he only wants to meet up for sex. The guys who imply that only want sex are usually guys who will also say it. The problem is men who think "oh, a woman approaching me! I'll say yes but she's "meh". During early stages of dating there's no difference between a guy that's int…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:33 PM
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the biggest problem with the aproaching isn't the stigma but the fake yes. If he thought I was a hoe and he says no, then that's fine, that's the best scenario if I meet a guy who is more conservative The problem if he says yes and fakes that he likes me, while thinking I'm a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:27 PM
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forgot about this one, the preparation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:08 PM
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That they are supposed to pursue while women are supposed to wait for a guy to approach her Not only there's still a stigma around women pursuing men ("they are hoes"). But there's another problem. A man will most likely say yes to a woman approaching. That doesn't mean he really likes her, it's just an opportunity for sex. When a guy pursues a woman and she says yes, it's more likely she's really interested. I'd much rather be told no than a fake yes 2) sex. Bad sex for women is painful. Bad se…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:00 PM
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I demand evidence when it makes sense to demand evidence you use it as an excuse lol "oh no evidence of you loving your husband, then it's not real"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:30 PM
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"how do you express that love?" "I make sure he feels loved by hugging him a lot" "proof? oh you don't have proof? that means you don't love him" yeah I ask for links when the comment is referencing specific data, because they got that very specific % from somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:20 PM
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see, you guys are not ready to open your eyes to reality
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:01 PM
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you remind me if another user here who thinks asking for impossible proof is some kind of gotcha, when it's actually pretty lame argument "I love my husband" "proof? oh you don't have proof? that means you don't love him"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:00 PM
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and this is another excuse because I obviously won't share pics and private chats of my friends, you know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:35 PM
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key aspect here is that the women this guy targeted were also short and ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:26 PM
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I had LICE can you believe it? I'm too old and childless to have LICE I probably got them from one of my mom friends. They are gone now (I hope) but I'm still a little freaked out. I thought stugma was gone but it's not. I still feel ashamed like when I was 8
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:25 PM
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what's the point? you are going to come up with an excuse to dismiss reality
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:23 PM
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I've seen very ugly short men do this with women but ppd isn't ready for this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:18 PM
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I see you've never met moms lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:33 PM
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but it's a debate sub, you want us to ignore their debates too?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:02 PM
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If you are chatting with a friend starting wth "how are you" and expecting an answer is ok because you actually care for your friend but if it's a coworker I think you shouldn't wait too much time between the "how are you" and "I wanted to ask you....." the rest of the comment. Because you don't care how are them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:43 PM
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there's a producer at my job that writes on the group work chat "Hi, how are you?" and expects people to answer of course none answers drives me crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:14 PM
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science is the study of nature science is not nature design isn't science or nature
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:08 PM
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I know you don't want to share it because it'll show that women buy a lot of stuff that's for the house like pet food, they do laundry, food it's not all make up and clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:04 PM
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no, that's not what science is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:03 PM
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😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:46 PM
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how? when? you don't even know what you are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:40 PM
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"design" is not science
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:39 PM
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no, I mean real links the study you are looking at
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:22 PM
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they don't
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:15 AM
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he's talking about women in general he's not even talking about emotional intelligence, he's complaining about very specific stuff women do that he doesn't like: You might forget to clean up after you shave, but she never cleans out the shower drain. She might judge you for not knowing something she never actually told you, but also turn around and tell her friends something you said to her in confidence. She might yell at you for following a celebrity on Instagram, but say nothing about staying…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:15 AM
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It's the opposite. A man complaining is default, so it's ok. Or you are going to tell me you've never heard a man being rude to a waiter, complain about politics, complain about traffic, complain about whatever at the line in a supermarket? If you are generally annoyed by women, you are going to notice women's complains more It's all about bias Look at this sub, it's basically men complaining about stuff lol, you too, You are complaining about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:10 AM
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no, Tankfarm is right. That's the definition of emotional intelligence. Doesn't matter if you have dumb things to complain about (who are you to say those are dumb but anyway...). Being emotionally intelligent is the ability to express them to process them, instead of lashing out and turn it into bitterness or ass cancer (lol but true, bottled up stress can lead to diseases)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:03 AM
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"designed for" so you are saying I'm right, women taking care of kids is the default
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:49 PM
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so what do they spend it in? make up? that's unreal do you have any links?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:47 PM
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women spend 80% because they are in charge of grocery shopping. Proving that women work outside their 9to5 job
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:59 PM
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you are wrong, the woman taking care of the kids is the default you absolutely never ever see a man being the primary carer of a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:46 PM
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exactly. They change the definition of "work" so that it fits better their own narrative "oh actually taking care of others is not work so it doesn't count"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:25 PM
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both people working "rarely happens"? if you are low class or middle class you have to work, regardless your gender
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:23 PM
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oh poor you, completely disproven you are saved by the sub rules
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:13 PM
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watch out for the no blackpill content rule, I didn't want to set up a trap lol I thought we were allowed to talk about this here
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:07 PM
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I assume they can't defend it in a serious way, but I'm not sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:04 PM
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you just don't want to admit it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:56 PM
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This is making fun of blackpillers, not blackpill content
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:55 PM
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he was like "I don't know what a red card is but I saw the video and it didn't look like a red card (acording to what peopole explained to me) so I asked them to revise it" This isn't a reality show, it's a tournament and people care a lot about fair game. If Messi/Haaland/Ronaldo/Neymar got a red card, everyone would be fine with them not playing. If the USA wins nobody is going to believe it was fair
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:53 PM
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Yes it is, because Namjoon is uglier than Cavil by a lot. He doesn't have "pretty boy" face, he looks like a regular korean (if this was Jimmin or any other kpop guy, sure). But fans think he's prettier because they like him better, not because he's hotter. Thus proving the blackpill wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:43 PM
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<image> explain this blackpillers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:41 PM
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unpopular opinion: In none of 2 situations they were actually used (or we don't have proof that they were used). How can you differentiate a regular "it didn't work" from "I'm going to sleep with her even though I don't want anything serious" "I'm going to have this guy pay for my concert ticket even though I don't actually like him"? Sometimes things just don't work out, doesn't mean one person was used. I absolutely get that it feels like you were used though, no argument there And it's not ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:52 PM
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poor men, they always win the suffering olympics
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:46 PM
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I think putting your heart out and getting it broken is a universal feeling. It always feels like you've been used, or are somehow "less", even if it's just a normal break up where things just didn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:45 PM
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I'm not talking about the joke, in taking about everything else in your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:39 AM
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I see you picked mind reading. You also bought up Jesus, which tells me your arguments are based on magical thinking, not rational thinking. I can't argue against magic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:53 AM
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and you are a mind reader? or are you going to give me the "it's biology" (without sources) argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:09 AM
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"humble" don't worry, guys who brag are usually deeply insecure, that's why OP is here instead of asking this in a more suitable sub
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:49 AM
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I am appealing to men, I'm saying I'm not going to change to be more appealing. For example, I could dress more sexy, more cleavage, more tight clothes, but those are uncomfortable and I don't think it's worth it. It's not who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:08 AM
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yeah because only the rich fans are able to see the WC. Local soccer is a whole other level of violence and mafia. I remember traveling through Europe and there was police carrying assault rifles escorting a bunch of soccer fans like people chill, it's just a game you are not even playing, you are just watching it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:28 AM
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this is blackpill content everyone picking the masculine face isn't going to prove anything other than beauty standards. You shoud've picked 2 men (fem/masc) that are actually hot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:26 AM
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I think I know what men like but I don't want to change how I am to appeal to them (it's not sustainable long term), and I don't want to be appealing to the majority of men either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:02 AM
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I saw them being super disrespectful to other teams! but I think soccer fans, in general, are shit people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:57 AM
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oh shit 2 goals in 2 minutes England 2 - Mexico 0 edit: England 2 - Mexico 1
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:40 AM
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nobody is talking about choices, these 2 groups of women exist are they the same or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:58 AM
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People have stuff happening in their lives and don't have this "strict" routine of going out to the same places every weekend, they go out, travel, do different things That's the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:53 AM
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they don't even want to acknowledge it's a branch of psychology, even thought it's in the name.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:50 AM
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ah so a +30 fat ugly single mother is as datable as a 21 year old thin virgin woman? Men think they are the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:46 AM
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lmao I just posted about npcs I don't care about self love though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:44 AM
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Every weekend I have a strong urge to walk around a certain part of my city that's very pretty. I've been doing this for +10 years. Also my life is very uneventful This is how I know I'm an NPC. They need me on someone else's background Anyway, happy Sunday everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:43 AM
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the moment there's a difference between trad women and progressive women (or trad household/states/cultures and progressive households/states/cultures) you can't lump all women into the same category
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:23 AM
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First world problems: I want to have food delivered but the place is 1 block away from my house so I should just go and pick it up myself. It's raining.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:59 PM
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because it sounds like you want a slave, not a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:57 PM
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not true for me, most of my friend's husbands are good people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:57 PM
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we are this close to "women shouldn't vote" thanks for giving feminism a reason to exist
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:55 PM
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this is a disguised ncounts post
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:41 PM
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Them your argument doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:04 PM
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You've been explained this a million times and still refuse to read and learn
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:54 PM
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You are so convinced men and women aren't the same in this area
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:51 PM
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No, she's still responsible for her actions The problem is you think terms like "patriarchy" and "toxic masculinity" are a personal attack to masculinity That's why when it's directed to men or sounds, yo you, like an attack
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:45 PM
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They sound the same
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:38 PM
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"lying to get sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:38 PM
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Pump and dump = one night stand Repeated pumping = fuck buddies, situationship Everyone is telling you this, why do you keep repeating yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:37 PM
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What would "holding them accountable" sound to you? Because feminism literally say the same to men, that they are perpetuating patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:35 PM
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"pump and dump" isn't the act of lying to the other person, it's just a one night stand. It has nothing to do with how she feels for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:32 PM
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Like others pointed out, a repeated pumping is called a fuck buddy, situationship, all under the casual relationship label. That's the label we put on such relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:30 PM
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Pump and dump it's the same as saying casual sex, only more offensive People have no problem understanding this concept. If you start casual then fall in love and end up getting married you are not "pumping and dumpling" even if that was the original goal. If you don't do the dumping part, you are not "pumping and dumpling"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:19 PM
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Of course It'd take you 5 minutes of listening to any feminist podcast, radio show, youtuber, book, whatever to know that feminists hold other women accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:32 PM
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why do you keep talking about individuals (like a scene at an airport) when this has nothing to do with individual actions but stuff said online?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:15 PM
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You are saying that just because fewer percentage of woman follow through with their death threats, it should be treated as noise and tone universally? yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:58 PM
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Actions speak louder than words
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:50 PM
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This is the best place to ask for dating advice, since everyone is so sane and in touch with the outside world
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:47 PM
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as long as nobody finds out you can eat your own turd at your friends house if you want to that doesn't make it any less weird
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:43 PM
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no, I'm saying it's fine to joke about a group of people stealing as long as such group doesn't actually steal. "kill all men" is not something to be taken as a serious threat. "kill all women" is something to be taken as a threat because men kill women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:40 PM
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I hate it when users decide to reply on an 3 day old post and don't even bother reading the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:32 PM
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ah so you think people who disagree with you are less intelligent? ironic no?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:31 PM
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Porn does not exist in a vacuum. Exactly. it's men projecting their sexuality into women. It's men (some obv) who would fuck anyone but restrain themselves because of social constrains. This is why porn plots work. They want women to feel the same desire for them. But (most obv) women aren't like that. Sexuality is different. So you believe that a womans sexual desires are all fulfilled by her ideal man? Yes, I believe a woman can be 100% happy with her sex life with the right man. But this ques…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:30 PM
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I thought about porn OP is describing literally 90% of porn plots. A woman who secretly wants to fuck a forbidden man (plumber, pizza delivery guy, teacher, stepson, step whatever, etc). In porn she gives in to her desires, which is something she can't do irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:25 PM
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Your post feels very porn influenced. Most porn plots are about a woman giving in on her most forbidden desires like fucking her teacher, stepbrother, stepson, plumber, etc etc etc Of course that's male fantasy that doesn't track to real life. You want to think women are like that but we aren't. Or most of us arent. Of course if you were born conservative this is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:21 PM
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having different perspectives doesn't mean they didn't understand the post you are praising that user because she answered what you want all women to answer
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:18 PM
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What about the man that you actually want? that's contradictory. I'd never actually want a man who judges women's past. That alone makes me not like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:13 PM
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Each couple should decide when it's the right time to get married if they want to get married at all. Marriage can mean many things for different people. To some it's an act of love for others it's a legal contract, for others is both. For example if you are having kids, marriage protects them if divorce happens. If you buy a house together, if you need some sort of protection for when things go south, that's when the legal aspect of marriage is useful. Getting married just because of a potentia…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:07 PM
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it's not about being able to inflict more harm, it's actually inflicting more harm. If multiple statistics around the world supporting this point makes you feel like you don't have any counter argument, that means you are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:56 PM
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oh nooo yeah that sounds cool
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:09 PM
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I've been on both sides that's why I find the deadbedroom sub so fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:57 PM
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I just fell on the street so instead of hurting my wrist I did a parkour where I rolled over my back in a very non athletic way, very Michael Scott It's so weird to feel embarrassment over falling down literally this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:47 PM
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this is how you learn to cook like you did that chicken
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:44 PM
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intoxicated by soup what I've seen psych0ticmonk years ago, idk if he has other alts
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:42 PM
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omg perfection looks so creamy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:41 PM
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if you grill the sandwich then it becomes breakfast food, otherwise I agree it could be considered lunch food. I don't make the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:39 PM
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people make fun of Leo because all his girlfriends are 25, not just 1 The age gap argument is just another feminist tool to control and manipulate mens sexuality then explain why fathers also don't like grown men around their daughters
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:21 PM
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the "as a person" kills me 😭 but I guess that's a translation thing It's not that weird of a question but I think it's pointless to ask that. Just answer something generic like "loyalty" "a partner" "someone I can share special moments"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:15 PM
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it's the swipe/likes ratio and also who you are swiping on if you are getting matches from hot women, you are probably hot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:28 PM
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so weird, I did it a few times and never got in trouble. I've also seen other people do it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:23 AM
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I love seeing old people's handwritting, it's so beautiful and precise. I think cursive is a lost art 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:22 AM
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It's amazing to see new users start friendly and become aggressive with time... then become friendly again. The cycle of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:20 AM
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Once we were having dinner at my house and my friend went to the bathroom and I didn't hear the sink running. The mf didn't wash his hands and we were having dinner. I told him GO WASH YOUR HANDS like a mom, it was disgusting. This is not an age thing, my friend is young.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:19 AM
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she's going to wake up to the fact that ugly guys also use women, specially if she's hotter than them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:17 AM
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that carpet is not a good choice for a murder scene
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:15 AM
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again, it's completely valid that you find sluts disgusting, it's not ok to say it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:13 AM
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you can link to comments or you can print screen and cross out the names
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:12 AM
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link?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:42 PM
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all of the pills issue can be boiled down to a section of men that don't fit in society and don't understand why. So, to internet men, there's nothing wrong with stuff like "women are hypergamous". So they are surprised when society reacts negatively It's like the whole standards conversation. "sluts are disgusting" "hey, that's not nice!" "OH SO NOW I CAN'T HAVE PREFERENCES" They just don't understand that saying "sluts are disgusting" is not a nice thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:41 PM
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because of patriarchy and outdated gender expectations not because of benevolent misogyny, or because women aren't able to handle feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:37 PM
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<image> is this the first time this guy uses a pen what is that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:04 PM
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no, that's your plain old misogyny the world doesn't work that way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:02 PM
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no, that's just misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:42 PM
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because men actually inflict violence on women, physical, verbal, etc women's "kill all men" is just a stupid phrase women say on social media, but it's not reflected in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:23 PM
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but then call men who ghost them rapists this never happened
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:16 PM
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not the same men really hate women, they don't just say it like women do. You are not understanding women's tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:05 PM
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maybe if they opened up more.....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:51 PM
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https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america here's your statistics anyway no, people have the conversation "what are we" it's so detached from reality to think that all women are delulu We'd have a million posts about this topic and we don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:49 PM
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I said I was being hyperbolic you do you, just don't make extreme generalizations. Most men absolutely know what's ok to say and what isnt'
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:02 PM
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And some men enjoy the attention they get when they open up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:01 PM
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they do, men cheat more, like I said not enough to explain the difference in % all women delude themselves? from all age brackets? right it doesn't make sense lol that's just misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:00 PM
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why are you going to the extremes? why is it either constantly dumping all the trauma or not opening up at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:58 PM
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then why are they dumping their trauma after I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:44 PM
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Depends on the man Some men feel more judgement coming from other men, and they feel more comfortable in less competitive environments like female friends or a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:43 PM
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it is socially acceptable to open up about SA you made up an example that doesn't exist in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:28 PM
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you don't need a list most people know what is socially acceptable and what isn't. It's the difference between being ND or NT
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:00 PM
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we all react the same way, normal, I don't know how to describe it, we listen to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:58 PM
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Because those sorts of hateful arguments are the ones who are criticized. Not just "opening up" (I'm being hyperbolic of course)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:28 PM
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it's not that you can't open up you can but there's social rules and you can't say shitty things just because you are opening up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:09 PM
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Why don't women open up less instead? because opening up is healthy. You can choose to not relate to women that share their feelings but you can't police what women talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:39 PM
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yeah I had plenty of very deep intimate conversations with my male friends. I trauma dump a lot too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:37 PM
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do you think arguing here is good to fight dementia? I can see myself in a geriatric home arguing on Reddit about paternity tests
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:29 PM
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"open up" doesn't mean you can say you want to rape all women, be racist, be hateful, without consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:24 PM
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"Not like that! of course "open up" doesn't mean you can say "i want to rape women" without consequences (this is a hyperbole)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:20 PM
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This doesn't make sense to me. I've never seen it happen irl or online. If as much as 50% of women were defining their casual relationship as a relationship (and vice versa) we'd have a million posts about it, but we don't. Maybe this happens in first stages of dating, but not after meeting parents or moving in together. It makes no sense that this many amount of women and men are this confused about their labels I say the answer is in how the study is conducted, what kind of questions they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:15 PM
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women literally die of eating disorders and bad plastic surgeries
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:11 PM
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if you are in a soft harem without knowing it you are being cheated on. We have data on cheating (men cheat more) but it's not enough to explain such differences The term "relationship" doesn't describe a casual relationship, that's why people came up with the term "situationship". The existence of the new term "situationship" proof that people are not saying their casual relationship is a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:10 PM
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If you don't understand the difference between beauty standards and racism this is a pointless conversation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:49 PM
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this discrepancy is a mystery that none's been able to explain in a way that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:44 PM
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"soft harem" you mean people who are in situationships. Those people don't say they are in a relationship. Men cheating makes more sense because in that case women do say they are in a relationship Unless the question is "are you having sex?" and somehow got wrongly translated to "are you in a relationship?" That could be a more rational explanation but still doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:38 PM
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I've never seen this happen though People do define relationships differently but the differences are between different generations. So for boomers they are in a relationship from date 3. Millennials have to have the conversation "what are we" before saying they are in a relationship. since most people are hetero it doesn't make much sense that that many couples didn't agree on the title of the relationship. Certainly doesn't happen in the 30-40 y/o bracket
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:31 PM
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mmm I need a rational explanation for this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:04 PM
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dressing less casually is the bare minimum for women. We are talking extreme diets, clothes that are uncomfortable, surgeries, eating disorders a natural looking woman is a woman with facial hair, armpit hair, pimples, no make up, no hair, nothing. You all think make up is "natural" you are complaining abouthaving to dress less casually
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:06 PM
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No, women's beauty standards are so much higher we all just assume "women are more beautiful" The moment you ask a man to take a shower he'll say his beauty standards are higher Beauty standards have nothing to do with the ability to have sex. That's 2 different concepts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:32 PM
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Nigeria rarely gets past the group stage; Belgium usually does. They were 3rd in 2018, they eliminated Brazil, England of all countries. It doesn't require Nostradamus skills to know they were going to win
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:32 AM
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but historically Belgium has always been way superior than Senegal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:53 AM
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That's the closest circle, you should have many circles: from childhood friends to coworkers (you won't see them again when you change jobs)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:41 AM
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what in the world made you think that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:39 AM
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I just heard in a podcast "The feminist victory isn't freeing women from beauty standards (because women still need beauty standards for status), it's extending them to men."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:26 AM
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It’s not so much they look for it- that’s actually really offensive to victims to project that on to them, it’s that it’s been normalized or them and so they are more prone to accepting it and of course self esteem plays a big role. yes, absolutely. I chose words poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:51 AM
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I don't care about what people would answer in a an abstract hyppthetical scenario but that's what you are doing. Literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:55 PM
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that's why I said "if roles were reversed" it's the same. It'd be her telling him "I unconsciously think you are ugly" you are forgetting this key part that will not make people side with her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:43 PM
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you made up a scenario in your head where someone posted this same scenario but with the genders reversed and people called op "childish" "you only care about sex" You are comparing 2 posts but one of them is in your head
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:45 PM
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Whenever a man here says some unhinged misogynistic shit and another man calls him out I think it's reasonable and a relief. There's no way for me to know if he's lying to put him down or if he's successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:34 PM
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but the "difference in response" is hypothetical, it's in your head
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:24 PM
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"I unconsciously think you are fat" 🤡 lmao girl leave his ass, he doesn't even have the balls to say he's not attracted anymore "if roles were reversed" it's the same. It'd be her telling him "I unconsciously think you are ugly"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:11 PM
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no, it doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:06 PM
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fertility has nothing to do with attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:56 PM
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that's a red flag for people who do not want to have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:43 PM
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🆗
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:35 PM
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only if they want to have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:28 PM
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no it's not you are not even going to be able to justify anything you say so why even bother
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:27 PM
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There's plenty of psychologists explaining this phenomena. This happens when you grew up in abusive households. A child understands that the way their abusive parents treated them is what "love" is supposed to be. So they look for that same abusive treatment in a partner. They will not be attracted to a non abusive person because their behavior seems foreign. It's a really hard thing to do to break that pattern but some people are able to do it. Also this is not a gendered thing, this happens to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:08 PM
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both men and women can suffer deathrgrip because they trained their bodies to the feel of the hand or the toys masturbation isn't the problem, it's how you do it that's so different from real life stop masturbating and save that libido for intimacy with another person and you'll solve the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:42 PM
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what's the reasoning behind that? what proof do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:24 PM
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Ah so you don't know how they look like You can't know if someone is manipulative from an old profile. It's literally impossible The people who went on mediocre or good dates don't write about them online, that's why you only see the ones that went really bad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:05 PM
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But do you see the pics of them or you just assume the men are hotter?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:44 PM
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yeah but then you don't have access to a backup stock (your partner's)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:30 PM
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confirming redpill delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:30 PM
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I told you, having a fwb is not the same as having a partner Imagine telling the guy you fuck once a month "partner" LOL how delulu how can you confuse this 2 concepts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:50 PM
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it's even worst, they don't realize they are being shitty people and it gives them a reason to feel victims
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:45 PM
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drug users refusing to date other drug users? doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:43 PM
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men shorter than me don't exist, I'm too short your blackpill doesn't work with me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:41 PM
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idk he was a bit taller than me, I'm not as obsessed with men's heights like you are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:13 AM
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bad blackpiller! bad! "having a partner" and "having a fwb" are 2 different things. When you have a partner you are not single, when you have a fwb you are still single you want to know if they are having sex or not, not their relationship status
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:09 AM
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I met a "long term fwb". He cold approached me but tbf I gave him all the signs so that he would approach
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:13 AM
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fun fact! feminists don't give a fuck about cold approaching the soft approach conversation comes when men here complain about cold approaching and OLD being the only ways of meeting people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:07 AM
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says he hasn’t been on a date in a year so I’m going to assume he is just being careful in his vetting yes, this is probably it! tell us how it goes!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:40 AM
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Heated Rivalry
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:11 AM
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you can record it with your phone and listen to it in the morning
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:08 AM
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Maybe he's playing safe and doesn't want to take you to vegan Buddhist restaurant on a first date. Maybe he had a million first dates that's why he isn't putting in too much effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:07 AM
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oh noooo It'd be so cool to be part of a jury
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:06 AM
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total mental illness low self esteem issues can make you make up a whole parallel reality
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:04 AM
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As someone living in a extremely hot and humid city it's also about being used to the heat. I bought my first AC when I was 30. My grandmother didn't have AC and she lived with a small fan. She was used to the heat. She lived until 99 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:38 PM
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😭😭😭😭 such a ligma moment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:24 PM
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there's a new rule to avoid posts written with ai
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:23 PM
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bannin AI maybe wasn't such a bad idea, I can't understand anything you are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:03 PM
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right now there's a fight going on in my building's whatsapp group. One of the ladies send an audio "IF YOU DON?T LIKE MY WORK YOU CAN STICK THE BUILDING UP YOUR ASS" and the other guy called her "you look like a MAN" 🍿🍿🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:42 PM
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yeah in my local subs they ban you for having a different political opinion. Not because they are insulting, or mean. They just won't let you post anything that's against out current govt
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:25 PM
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