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This hits on what has been a big takeaway for me with FDS- while it is true that people typically date within their leagues, and for sure a HVW deserves a HVM, but no one deserves a NVM. You can deserve good things, but no one deserves a tragedy. It makes sense that a HVM would desire a relationship with a HVW, as presumably they would be in the same league, and he would value the traits that make her a high value woman. If you don't feel as though you have reached your high value status yet, do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 03:28 PM
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This was my experience as well, all the way from kindergarten to high school! Thankfully, the schools I attended were very small, so I never had any truly awful/dangerous kids to put up with. As a kid I remember secretly bemoaning the fact that I never got paired with any 'good' partners (be it for projects or seatmates), meaning I was always placed with the kids who were struggling academically or behavior-wise. I had a really tough time socially, and I really think being consistently put in th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 11:22 AM
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I'm really liking this discussion because I've been thinking a lot about class lately (Canadian). I realized that I wasn't actually middle class growing up, but actually working class, just in a lower class area. Things were very stagnant, and because I had it better than a lot of people around me (for example, all my clothes were second hand, but I never received actual charitable donations. We had a lot of social capital so we got hand-me-downs from older friends, and could buy our own at valu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 06:17 PM
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This is exactly how I feel as well! I lurked for a long time too, and had generally believed that I would never be in a relationship because I don't want to compromise my life for a guy. I saw dating as a demeaning act, because 99% of men are shit and make it demeaning. But now I feel a lot more confident in saying that I am allowed to want relationships while still maintaining high standards that filter out most men. I thought seeking a relationship would mean I would be forced to minimize my l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:26 AM
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I have a strong 'rivals-to-lovers' theme to my romantic fantasies. I know it's partially because it feels demeaning to me to actually try to seek out a man and admit I want someone in my life, and then try to get to know all these strangers from such a perceived vulnerable position. But I also know I would want to know someone for a while before I would be attracted to them. So this narrative of having a common goal/arena gives me an excuse to interact with the mystery man without committing to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:29 AM
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I also find it's really useful to give an alternative glimpse of what she is looking for in stripping, for example I moved from a small village to a big city, and I invited my relative out for a little getaway where we hit a bunch of cool nightlife things (pre covid!) and casually showed some opportunities to get involved in the live music scene. And I basically showed her an alternative source of the glamour and vibes she wanted, and made it easier for her to get them in a healthy way. I don't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:49 PM
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I also would like to volunteer to review e-books! I don't think I could handle watching YouTubers, listening to podcasts, or trawling forums but I am super ready to analyze some books.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:32 PM
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I'm not very well versed on religious matters, but do you know if these types of guidelines truly reflected in the lives of the women in the religion? I just read the linked article, but it seems like pretty progressive system. I also have heard of a line in the bible where Jesus tells a man to remove his eyes if he cannot stop looking at a woman, and I'm curious about how these rather feminist teachings were included. Was it an aspirational inclusion, or truly the attitude of the time? (Or mayb…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:25 PM
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I don't have any examples, but I think an effective format would be 'what you think stripping is' vs 'what it actually is' and show things like the Betty poledance scene in Riverdale contrasted with a grimy dingy disgusting strip joint. Plus the idea that you'll be rolling in cash, contrasted with the reality of paying floor fees and tipping out the security/dj. Also the idea that you will be dancing for a faceless crowd, or hot bachelor parties, and the reality of the sweaty fat old men your da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:02 PM
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I'm glad you appreciate it! I only recently made an alt for FDS, but I've been lurking here since before all the gendercrit subs were banned. This community has been such a haven for me, and I love the podcast. Thank you so much 💗 I also can't wait for the response episode, because this one really showed me what a sore spot I still have about childhood gender roles, and I am loving reading all this discourse. I feel you on having so many ideas and derailing, because it's such a tough topic becau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:26 AM
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I think it's damaging to show these types of perspectives as the norm, rather than the exception to the rule. I (thankfully) have never had to strip, but I have considered it and have had a lot of friends in university have to resort to it. I can't speak to my own experiences, but I can describe what it was like watching and listening to them. If your club has been voted the best in New Zealand (a country which I feel like we can agree is generally a good country for women, and thus pretty good …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:42 PM
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This episode made me feel really uncomfortable, not necessarily because it was bad, but it reminded me how traumatic gender roles were for me as a young child. I am from a large family, and have older brother. I didn't attend a daycare or anything, and I remember feeling like our upbringing was kind of pack-like, kind of like we were a pack of puppies, but also kind of feral. We play fought a lot, and I was always the strongest, even though I was smaller and younger than my older brother. All of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 05:39 PM
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I agree, what I took away from this is that it is important to teach young boys to look outside themselves and take care of others, but I think the methods you described do a better job teaching that and don't put the girls in a position where they are learning to look to a boy to be taken care of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:20 PM
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